WITH LOVE, DANIELLE (Danielle LaPorte)

Hello Loves…

I can be having a conversation about a friend’s dating life, or what we’re having for dinner and in the back of my heart-mind, I’m thinking about Israeli and Palestinian families. Guilt can accompany some of my daily happinesses… I’m planning a wedding while there’s a war. I pray more fiercely. I’m more tired than I should be. Whatever “should be” means in dark times like these.

I think about FAITH––what do we put Faith in when there’s atrocity? Or when our personal life is so challenging that we can’t even think about what's happening outside of ourselves?

And what should we be letting go of so that we can be more graceful in all the fractiousness? I am always wondering, What should I RENUNCIATE? 

Faith and renunciation are loaded words for some of us, and these are charged concepts in times like these. So… let’s go there.

WITH LOVE, DANIELLE, Eps #87 is a fresh round of spiritual definitions in under 30 minutes:

• Embodiment. A consistency in thoughts, speech and action.
• Faith. Knowing that the light exists, even when it’s dark. 
• Renunciation. Letting go of meaningless pursuits and things, that block your connection to your purpose. 
• The Lower Self and the Higher Self: the unhealed self (aka ego) and the Soul… your True Nature.

Remember: Your Soul is always calling the shots. Lean in to it.

With Love,

D

Mentioned in this episode: 

Check out my Spiritual Essentials course on Commune to do a self-help audit and lighten your load!

Catch up on more Spiritual Definitions here. 

This week’s Love Note is an invocation you can use to connect with your Higher Self through out the day.

Get on the list for my new (free) SACRED WEEKENDS here. Think girlfriend vibe meets deep.

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Can you imagine the kind of Love that’s all-encompassing, enveloping, embracing? Nothing is banished, condemned, or abandoned. Everything is in—all of your Light and all of your shadow. EVERYBODY else is IN. We just all… are… Loved. Perfectly.

Next question: can you imagine NOT attempting in any way to change yourself? Which is to say—pervasive self acceptance? And acceptance of others?

One more question…

Do you think you have to Love yourself first in order to Love somebody else properly? (I don’t think so. And I’m going to explain why.)

One more…

WHAT IS LOVE? REALLY? (And why do I often use the term “Divine Love” rather than “Love”?)

This episode (#56) of WITH LOVE, DANIELLE may be all I’ve ever needed to say, ever. Please bookmark this or come on over immediately and press LISTEN. Because love is the end all and be all and it feels pretty urgent right about now, don’t you think?

Always With Love, Love, LOVE!

Today, we’re diving into a weekly reflection exercise from my Heart Centered Planner. It’s all about reflecting on your week—what’s working, what’s not, and celebrating progress. I’m encouraging you to take a 360-degree look at your life—mind, body, relationships, work, and play.

I’ll guide you through questions to reflect on your highlights, lowlights, and the important question: What’s better than it was?

And remember—loving kindness is key. This is how we live reflectively instead of reactively.

PLUS... the 2025 Heart Centered Planner is here! Order by this Thursday, September 26, to get it by December. It’s mocha linen, spiral bound, and filled with tools like vision-building exercises, rituals, and more. You’ll also get access to workshops, meditations, and a live Vision Building Event for the Lunar New Year.

Mentioned in Episode 134:

❤︎ The 2025 Heart Centered Planner: Align your life with love and ease. Pre-order by September 26th to receive your planner by the holidays. Order now at daniellelaporte.com/plannerpod. Use code PODPLANNER10 for 10% off your planner purchase!

🧘‍♀️Weekly Reflection Practice: Take a sneak peek inside the Heart Centered Planner by downloading our Weekly Reflection Practice. Reflect on your week—what’s working, what’s not, and celebrating progress. I’m encouraging you to take a 360-degree look at your life—mind, body, relationships, work, and play.

🌙 Vision Builder Event: Join me for a special vision-building event on the Lunar New Year! Details included with the planner.

My Loves! Welcome to the inaugural podcast edition of SACRED WEEKENDS! I’m sooo excited about this. I’ve been wanting to do something like this for years.

Like…reco’s my friends and I text about. Conversations with my Higher Self. Think: chilling with your nervous system, cool music, Netflix that isn’t all about numbing out, and communing with the Infinite. 

SACRED WEEKENDS will drop 2 Fridays a month––in BOTH podcast + email-form!

Here’s what I’m jamming on in the pod edition of SACRED WEEKENDS:

• FRIDAY: Want to hear about the disastrous “Check in “ process that I created for my man and I? And how we turned it around into a conversation starter that is healing and productive?
• SATURDAY: My favourite online Yoga class, and a movie rec that might surprise you.  
• Sunday: Is about devotion. A rundown of Heart-Centered Altar Do’s and Don’ts. 

With Love, 

D

Here’s where you can subscribe to get SACRED WEEKENDS delivered to your inbox—it’s full of product links and love. 

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We don’t actually need a pep talk about our worthiness.

Because…We’re all “worthy.” And the “worthiness” questioning is, actually, absurd.

No one needs to quantify or qualify themselves for Love. Not one Soul, ever.

We don’t have to establish if we deserve more ease, happiness, or Loving Kindness.

Here it is: when we spend energy questioning and bidding to see if we’re valued or worthy…it distracts us from healing.

All that asking and validation seeking actually creates MORE confusion and perceived woundedness inside of us.

Episode 127 of WITH LOVE, DANIELLE is a BEST OF episode from last summer, one of our most popular episodes to date—Please Don’t Ask If You’re Worthy.

Here’s what we get into…

• What happens when we become more blind to our inherent, DIVINE WORTH? (We spin.)
• Why do we believe we need to earn our worth? And, 
• When we find ourselves asking ourselves or others (typically unconsciously) if we’re worthy or valuable, instead, let’s wonder, “Why did I ask that?” It’s a popcorn trail to your pain and power.
• Here’s a life shifting question to apply, DAILY: What does my unhealed self need right now? (aka, your Inner Child)

This episode includes a short visualization exercise that I guide and it’s simple enough to remember that you can take it with you. 

We have been in this worthy/unworthy dialogue for eons, it is part of the human dance––so we have some stuff to unpack.

With Love,

Danielle

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Creativity, crushing your gimmicks, the divine hand of timing, intuition… AND the launch of The 2025 Heart Centered Planner! 

“Bring efficiency and the spiritual path together in a beautiful way.” 

12 Theories for Creatives: The errors I will never make again, how I embrace ALL forms of customer feedback, and why The Desire Map was only the beginning.

“For anyone who wants to make anything.” 

The Desire Map grew up. A new question emerged. 

Eps 129 of WITH LOVE, DANIELLE is a story of success, failure, intuition + profit. Consciously design your creativity, and your life.

Make Love happen,

Danielle

MENTIONED IN EPISODE 129:

• New Planners launch this Sunday, Sept 8––with a powerful new framework that might see you through dark times, rebirths and daily gotta do’s.

  I’m printing in batches. To get your planners for December🎄you have to order by Sept 26. But! If you ORDER THIS SUNDAY, SEPT 8, you get bunches of extras for free. 🏆

  👯‍♀️ Please tell your besties because this is a for-real time sensitive sitch.

  Let your intuition make your plans,

  Danielle

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Personally, I never vibed with January 1 as a new year… 

I felt slightly slothy in comparison to everyone else starting Q1 objectives and “New Year New You” launches, while I was still in my fun bun reviewing my previous year and NOT hitting reply on anything. (Does that sound familiar for you too?)

In Episode 150 of With Love, Danielle we’ll dive into this and I’ll show you why and how to get in sync with natural rhythms and planetary cycles.

Because JANUARY 1 IS *NOT* THE NEW YEAR… not actually. Not seasonally, not energetically, not for thousands of years according to the LUNAR NEW YEAR. 

Keep your calendar pointed in the direction you want to go. 

With Love,
Danielle

MENTIONED IN EPISODE 150:

📖 Free + Clear Course is available here so you can continue the practice.

📝 What type of Vision Builder are you? Take this free quiz and find out in 2 minutes if you’re the 👩‍💼Focussed Architect, the 👩‍🔬Intuitive Engineer, or the 👩‍🎨Flowing Artist… and how to use that to create your dream future. 

🪩 January 1 is NOT the New Year. Save your seat at our LIVE Vision Builder Virtual Event with Danielle. See your future. Create it sooner.

Why do we do meditations on the Full Moon? What’s the “dark of the moon?” Does… it have anything to do with Pink Floyd? Is the moon “feminine” energy and the sun “masculine” energy? And why should we pay attention to this at all?

This is my pragmatic-as-possible perspective on the super woo and super misperceptions about our relationship to the sun + moon—and why we should be very mindful about those connections. I’m also talking about Heart Centered Altars and creating those sacred spaces in our homes.

My Heart Centered Altar Kit walks you through how to create a personal altar in accordance with nature and astrological alignments—that’s dedicated to the well-being of all. So beautiful. This practice comes as a bonus when you become a Heart Centered Member. Explore here: daniellelaporte.com/membership

Meditate with me on the Full Moon, or on the New Moon for a community practice—or, purchase and download any one of my meditation kits for your personal practice. Whenever, wherever works for you.

My podcast theme is I AM LOVE, by DJ Drez feat. Marti Nikko. Available on Spotify + iTunes. Please support independent, positive music. xo

The seeds of our desires get watered by… our focus!

But manifestation is a balancing act of intense focus and relaxed Faith.

We’re going a few layers deep about: 

• How to increase the INTENSITY of your focus––which directly correlates to your creative power and ability to make things happen. 
• The best use of free will––we get to choose the thoughts we believe, and the ones we refuse. 
• When we choose our thoughts more intentionally, we get more of what  things we want.
• What’s the difference between FOCUS and CONCENTRATION? Well, focus with me for the 35 minutes of this podcast and we’ll get into it!

Focus is a learned skill that we can strengthen. I’ll take you through a short meditative experience, then we end with a simple practice you can do daily to improve your concentration. And this episode includes  LOVE NOTE tucked into our ever-growing free love notes library!

Timestamps:

• 2:58: How positive and negative memories impact manifestation
• 6:14: How to focus, the benefits of concentration skills
• 9:32:  What it means to “focus on Love”
• 13:03: Why the intensity of our focus matters
• 15:08: Why we repeat the same lessons over again
• 18:18: Concentration is not about “narrowing your focus”
• 21:31: When we're focused on the end result, we’re able to foresee the steps to get us there
• 25:09: A simple concentration-building exercise for you

All for Love,

Danielle

P.S. October 12th’s episode will feature the playback of our recent OPEN HOUSE EVENT, a behind the scenes look at everything Heart Centered, from the Leadership at Team D! So many useful nuggets in here on creativity! And we unveil our new MASTERMIND.

If this is interesting to you, you’ll definitely want to be at my BUSINESS UNFURLED EVENT on Thursday, October 25. Please get on our notification list here: http://daniellelaporte.com/business

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To be seen, heard, felt, understood is a HUMAN REQUIREMENT. But there are healthy, more conscious ways to go about getting these essential needs met. 

Today’s episode is a highlight from our recent Life Workshop: ACTUALLY HEALTHY VALIDATION where we explore:

• When and why do you reach out for validation?
• What part of you is seeking validation?
• What part of you is giving validation?
• If you were more Heart Centered, how would that shift your relationship to validation?

This episode of WITH LOVE, DANIELLE (122) is for creating relationships that are resentment free…and healing.

Approach your relationships with respect rather than… lashing out. Curiosity rather than… projection. Appreciation rather than…resentment.

MENTIONED IN EPISODE 122

• The Heart Centered Membership is a support system for your body-mind-spirit…and your work in the world. A monthly workshop + audiobook series, with some self-help in the front and business in the back. Save your seat now, doors close TONIGHT, June 30 at midnight.

Have you ever consciously asked yourself WHERE your feelings come from? 

Something to consider: you are not your feelings. You are a “higher” energy being that is accommodating the “lower” energies of feelings. You’re the sky. The emotions are the clouds.

Which is not to say emotions are low vibe. They are a GPS system for our lives.
But… feeling more is not the aim of spiritual growth. It’s about feeling more accurately—perceiving everything with more Love. 

Emotions come from the subconscious—the past. There isn’t a new feeling under your hood. 

This may seem like good news or a super confusing consideration. But stay with me. Because it’s really liberating once you get it.

I’ve been wanting to do this breakdown for a long time. Feelings > the subconscious > and the power of particular thought forms. This episode of WITH LOVE, DANIELLE (#57) might have you think twice about what you choose to think about. 

I hope this liberates us from obsessive thoughts that don’t serve us, and opens our lives to LOVE.

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A prayer by Danielle which emphasizes deepening and expanding one's being to give and receive love, dissolving fear and grievances, and extending loving hearts to all relationships and offerings.

Real Love is a boundless energy. Sending Loving thoughts toward another human is never an energy drain. Ever.

Forget the notion that we could feel “too Loving.”

Remember: Love and Compassion look insane to the ego. Our modern culture itself is an egoic structure (us vs. them, gain vs. give). Everywhere we turn, we’re given the messaging that the more judgmental we are, the stronger we become. That is false.

May we all be full of Loving Kindness. May we all be so blessed.

MENTIONED IN EPISODE 155:

I Open My Heart: A Prayer – click here to download.

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There are times to go to the mat for what you believe in. And… in my experience… MOST of the time… disengaging from duking it out is a very very good idea. Maybe even the BEST idea. For your nervous system, for world peace.

And it’s the hardest move. Because the fear-mind really loves to prove who’s right or wrong and it loves to win in court—whether that court is an online chat about who should be canceled, or an argument about who left the toilet seat up.

This podcast began with a call from a friend who was in a litigious situation with a royal pain in the ass associate. My friend was sooooo clearly in the right and their opponent was so clearly… not cool.

“So what if you gave the conflict just zero more energy?” Zero. More. Energy.

“What if you loved yourself so much that you didn’t take the hook?” Loved… yourself so much…

And with that, I invite you to consider not taking the bait to fight. This is episode #45 of WITH LOVE, DANIELLE and I’m seriously rooting for your peace of mind.

Catch that subject line?

It’s not your relationship. It’s you. 

Slightly provocative? Yes. Likely true on the deepest level? Also yes. 

Almost everything that I’ve had to apologize for in a relationship––or that I’ve wanted an apology for, had to do with my nervous system being too jacked or too drained. 

The current human reality (you, me, the planet…)

1. We’re generally dysregulated, out of balance. We’re fried. Frayed. AND…
2. We are Love. We want to show up as Love. We want to receive Love. We want to give Love. 

And whether we’re conscious of it or not, we know on some level that our relationships are THE vehicle for healing, self-awareness, for getting closer to our Higher Self…

It ALL happens in relationships. 

Episode #91 of WITH LOVE, DANIELLE is the third in a 3 part conversation on nervous system regulation. It’s about learning how to meet our triggers (hello, Inner Child and everyone in the world who’s triggering my Inner Child.) And then processing those triggers more mindfully, often physically, so that we don’t have to owe––or demand more apologies.

In this session we explore:

• Why we keep trying to solve the wrong problems in our relationships
• The relational symptoms of nervous system imbalance (overstaying, bickering, the silent treatment and the blame game…)
• Simple ways to get centered in heated or heartbreaking interactions
• How to get OUT of the loop of unhealthy behaviors/situations and a dysregulated nervous system––so we can unwire lifelong default stress responses that hinder love, intimacy, expression, and intuition.

When the nervous system is strong, then our relating is strong. Less wigging, more loving. 

To less friction and more freedom.

ICYMI here’s:

• 4 Types of Stress Response––what’s yours?
• 9 Ways We Add Stress to Our Lives

Mentioned in this episode:

• This episode is a recording of the most popular class I’ve ever taught: From Friction to Freedom. When you register for the class, you get instant access to the entire replay AND $50 off my new program THE NOURISH SYSTEM! Here’s where you get! 
• Get my new (free) SACRED WEEKENDS email 2 Fridays/month SIGN UP HERE. Think: girlfriend vibe meets deep thinking.
• Connect with me on IG! I heart relationship Q’s! xo

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Mark is one of my favourite humans and this is one of the most open and thoughtful public conversations I’ve ever had. What’s virtue signaling got to do with our evolution? How to have actual REVERENCE for the parts of ourselves we try to push away. The heart breaking absurdity of cancel culture. My meta-theory on tyranny.

Mark and I get into it all… Come mine the thought-diamonds with us.

This is With Love, Danielle + Friends.

. . . . .

Every emotion is carrying a message and I’ve got the answer! Join for a 60-min LIVE class and Q+A with Danielle on Thursday, May 4 at 12pm PT | 3pm ET or take the experience Deeper and upgrade to The Circle.

10+ hours of sonic love for your road trip, morning walk, or self care Sunday. How To Be Loving Digital Bundles are here!

Craving more Mark Grove’s brilliance? Give him a follow here or check out the Mark Groves Podcast!

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Who needs a love story with a bunch of PRACTICAL cues for working through arguments, repairing, and building every kind of intimacy? I have one for you!

Today it’s WITH LOVE, DANIELLE… and WILL! Eps 113 is deeply personal and FUN AF!

We’re getting married soon and now I’m telling the how-we-met story, how guarded I was, and when I declared “I want to be your person!” 

Jump cut to managing our triggers, couples counseling, and our now legendary “Friday Check In Process”... that I super eff’d up early on but we’ve turned into an art.

For dating, friendship, repair, forgiveness and heart centered relating in ALL relationships… have we got a simple rom-com for you.

MENTIONED IN EPISODE 113:

• Read about our Friday Check-ins in Sacred Weekends Episode 1.
• Terry Real | Creator of Relational Life Therapy + author of Us: Getting Past You and Me to Build a More Loving Relationship
• Brian Dean Williams | Therapy, Workshops + Clinical Supervision
• The Nourish System is a holistic approach to regulating your nervous system and steadying your relationships.
• LIMITED SEATS! The  INNER CIRCLE Business Accelerator is open accepting applications until May 23 (or sooner if full). Mentorship for your quantum leaps—6 months to clarity + prosperity…with integrity.
• The Heart Centered Membership is a support system for your body-mind-spirit…and your work in the world. A monthly workshop + audiobook series, with some self-help in the front and business in the back. Get on the wait list for when doors open in June. 
• Sacred Weekends is my (always free) newsletter for devotion + lifestyl’ish. 220k subscribers are digging it! 2 Fridays a month.

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A question we all want the answer to: If we can’t rush the healing, how do we handle the pain?

Learning to not push away my pain—the physical and emotional, has been one of my greatest-hardest-most luminous learnings. It’s walking toward Acceptance––capital “A” Acceptance, the Soul Quality,  And it really has upleveled my LIFE.

Here’s a highlight from our HOW TO HEAL FOR REAL WORKSHOP. V.S., our metaphysical practitioner and I built out a teaching about resistance and dis-ease. This was my most highly attended and embraced class to date.

I’ll walk you through a powerful metaphor for how the mind spins pain into full blown suffering. And how we can keep our emotional waters cleaner, more stable and able to handle emotional and health storms.

Attachment plays a big role in our pain…and healing. WITH LOVE, DANIELLE (Eps 110) is ready for you… to heal.

What people are saying about HOW TO HEAL, FOR REAL Workshop:

• "Thank YOU for this powerful heart to heart. I feel really nourished and touched by the wisdom." — Nailia
• "I am reminded that I AM so powerful." — Nancy
• "Reminder I'm taking with me: that I have the healing within me already if I acknowledge my ego and resistance." — Jacinda

MENTIONED IN EPISODE 110

• The Nourish System is a holistic approach to regulating your nervous system and steadying your relationships.
• You’re not the wound, you’re the healer. Get instant access to the How To Heal, For Real workshop + audiobook to shift your relationship to pain and dis-ease.
• NEW! Are you a fighter, flighter or freezer? Take the Stress Reaction Quiz to find out the default survival strategy that throws you off centre… and counter-moves to get back you center.
• The Heart Centered Membership is a support system for your body-mind-spirit…and your work in the world. A monthly workshop + audiobook series, with some self-help in the front and business in the back. Come check it out. 
• Sacred Weekends is my (always free) newsletter for devotion + lifestyl’ish. 220k subscribers are digging it! 2 Fridays a month.

The seeds of our desires get watered by… our focus!

But manifestation is a balancing act of intense focus and relaxed Faith.

Episode 125 of WITH LOVE, DANIELLE is a BEST OF episode from last summer, one of our most popular episodes to date—How Focus Improves Your Manifesting

We’re going a few layers deep about:

• How to increase the INTENSITY of your focus––which directly correlates to your creative power and ability to make things happen. 
• The best use of free will––we get to choose the thoughts we believe, and the ones we refuse. 
• When we choose our thoughts more intentionally, we get more of what  things we want.
• What’s the difference between FOCUS and CONCENTRATION? Well, focus with me for the 35 minutes of this podcast and we’ll get into it!

Focus is a learned skill that we can strengthen. I’ll take you through a short meditative experience, then we end with a simple practice you can do daily to improve your concentration. 

All for Love,

Danielle

My last book was The Desire Map. Back then, my life was guided by the question, “How do I want to feel?” I built my career on that.

But I began to notice that even if I wasn’t experiencing my core desired feelings, I was still in touch with a greater purpose. Temporary unhappiness didn’t hold me back from helping a friend or feeling close to The Divine.

A new question emerged. “What do I want to embody?”
The answer was clear: Love. Love no matter what.

And it turns out that the path to being more Loving is through a Loving process itself. 

Here it is, a sneak peek of my new book, How To Be Loving! Heart centered, soul powered, and divinely timed. A place for nuance and Compassion, where Self Acceptance has room to grow.

As you listen in, I leave you with this… What if… 

• You could consistently choose higher quality thoughts?
• You stop talking yourself out of your natural inclination to Forgive?
• You started to create conditions for healing in your life?
• You aligned your personal ambitions to include the collective—because the days of self-centered bucket lists are over?
• Your ego—which is just an exaggerated sense of a separate self—began to calm down?

Spirituality is really the practice of thinking with Love. And we can effectively train ourselves to keep returning to Love via our thoughts over and over again.

Being Loving doesn’t necessarily mean feeling more. It means feeling everything with more Love.

It’s the ultimate inclusiveness. Because in your heart, it’s ALL IN—your light and your shadows—and everyone else’s. This is the non-dual place where complete Self Acceptance has room to grow.

This call for gentleness is counterculture. And it’s what we’re yearning for. We do not need to focus on “fixing” ourselves. As we focus on living from our heart center, anything that’s not in alignment with that Light falls away.

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The activities that we do most habitually create the deepest grooves in the mind. All that repetition gets us hooked on the behaviour––that could be a good thing, could be a bad thing. It depends on what the behaviour is.

Then there are the times in our lives when we bust out of habits and we do something new. What I’m interested in talking about is the motivation beneath the “new things” we try. Because sometimes it’s the ego pushing us to prove ourselves. And sometimes, it’s our Soul moving us toward real expansion.

In this episode, I’m talking about aversions + desire (they are mates.) And the drive to be a more conscious person by doing new things, versus, the ego’s compulsion to check off impressive sh*t on a bucket list.

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Celebrate the true New Year with Danielle as she delves into why January 1st doesn't resonate with your body or your soul. No matter what hemisphere you’re in, you’re likely not feeling new year, new you vibes on January 1. Instead of hacking it or crushing it, how about being the conscious creator while being fully supported by the energies of the planets and Mother Nature? 

In this episode, you’ll learn about: 

• The historical context of calendars, including the Gregorian calendar and its divergence from natural cycles. 
• Significance of the Lunar New Year and its alignment with planetary cycles.
• The Vision Builder practice, a holistic life planning, that is a non-neurotic approach to goal setting and manifesting.

Danielle also answers three questions from listeners and Heart Centered members—beautiful and juicy questions about her end of the year ritual and practices, mantras and nourishing thoughts, and how resistance is a sign of change. 

She ends the episode with the Metta Bhavana prayer since it’s an important component of the Vision Builder practice. It guides us to a place of Compassion and Loving Kindness so we can create a vibrant year.

00:00 Introduction and Lunar New Year
01:15 Vision Builder Details
03:54 Understanding Solar and Lunar Calendars
09:32 Personal Reflections and Practices
11:25 Q&A: Rituals and Practices for Ending and Starting the Year
15:37 Q&A: Mantras and Nourishing Thoughts
21:41 Q&A: Resistance and Change
27:32 Closing Thoughts and Metta Bhavana Prayer

MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:

📝 What type of Vision Builder are you? Take this free quiz and find out in 2 minutes if you’re the 👩‍💼Focussed Architect, the 👩‍🔬Intuitive Engineer, or the 👩‍🎨Flowing Artist… and how to use that to create your dream future. 

🪩 January 1 is NOT the New Year. Save your seat at our LIVE Vision Builder Virtual Event with Danielle. See your future. Create it sooner.

🎧 Free + Clear Course is available here.

📖 Desire Map ebook + audiobook is available here.

🙏🏼 Download the Metta Bhavana Prayer here.

The Heart Centered Membership doors are opening on February 2—I’m so in love with this community. I’m mapping out 6-months of classes on healing anger and all kinds of spiritual essentials.

💛 Get your Soul on the agenda with the weekly edition of the Heart Centered Planner.

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If you’ve ever felt the world pulling you down into the dark—this one’s for you.

In Episode 154 of With Love, Danielle, we’re talking discernment: why I have a “Good for Me/Bad for Me” list to help me stay grounded, expansive, and connected to my Higher Truth—and why you should too. 

Think of it as the spiritual version of an emergency room intake form—a check-in with your soul to help you fill up with Light in these dark times. 

✨ Here’s what we cover in this episode:

• Why discernment is a form of devotion—and a radical act of self-love.

• What’s on my “Good for Me” list (and what I did this week that I knew was “Bad for Me”)

• Why sensitivity isn’t a weakness—it’s a superpower when embraced with intention.

This is about listening deeply to what nourishes you, so you can show up more fully for the world.

We’ll close with the Shantideva Prayer: May we be a source of healing, comfort, protection and refuge for others.

Because when you dedicate yourself to supporting others, life magnetizes all the wellness, Compassion, and resources you need.

With Love,
Danielle

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For those of us who believe in the intelligence of love, roll call! This is for the deep-feelers. There are a thousand reasons to be highly concerned for the world, but by the end of this conversation I hope you feel less like a spiritual worrier and more like a spiritual warrior. I’m talking about fierce gentleness, self agency, and how we make choices from our resiliency. Courage, my love.

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My fellow grown up, let’s get you centered in your truth and prepped for family gatherings… so you don’t end up in the bathroom drunk-dialing your therapist, or your highschool sweetheart (who’s now married with 3 kids). 

You have the inner resources. Acceptance! Self respect! Compassion! And so much LOVE! I have some ideas for staying sane (and ideally: being your most loving self), even if you want to get the hell out of there: daniellelaporte.com/withlove

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This BONUS podcast episode is for all my Creative, Potentially Reluctant Marketer AND all the Gifted Writers and Project Managers:

🤔 Blocked? Do you feel stuck about what to post?

😴 Tired? Does it feel like it’s taking way too long to polish your copy?

🥴 Overwhelmed? It is tough to choose from ALL the options for creating?

🤨 Flustered? Are you working with people who don’t get your “voice?”

🤑 Wunnering? “Will this copy actually convert people?”

Baby! I have some SYSTEMIZED CLARITY for you. 

WITH LOVE, DANIELLE (Eps 119) is ready… with some guardrails for creating––courses, social media copy; books, even! Wooooo!.

Here’s a highlight from our recent Creative Strategy Session—a monthly offering exclusive to the Business Track of the Heart Centered Membership.

Bring your open mind, your ambitions, all of your confusion AND confidence. I’ve so got you!

Word UP!

What people are saying about the 14 GUIDELINES FOR CREATIVE INTEGRITY creative strategy session:

• “This is such freedom!!!! I love the idea of just being ok with a feed of substance that doesn't worry about all the fancy schmancy design!” - Stephanie W.
• “This is EXACTLY what i needed today/at this moment in my life/week/month/business. I’m relaxing and rejoycing inside.” - Beth C.
• “Thank you! This was incredibly valuable.” - Nancy D.

MENTIONED IN EPISODE 119:

• The Heart Centered Membership is a support system for your body-mind-spirit…and your work in the world. A monthly workshop + audiobook series, with some self-help in the front and business in the back. Save your seat now, doors close June 30 at midnight.

• NEW! Get instant access to our FREE Woo Woo Business That Works webinar, and resource guide. 

• Grab your FREE Heart Centered Business Bundle. MORE FLOW, LESS FORCE. This is the universe’s success blueprint—and now it can be yours too. The Heart Centered Business Bundle puts the same principals Team D uses into YOUR hands.

• Get instant access to the FREE Heart Opener Video Series: 4 Teachings for Courageous Intimacy––with Yourself and Pretty Much Everyone video series. You’ll receive 4 micro videos + questions to get you thinking-feeling-healing PLUS our bonus - a meditation for the Summer Solstice portal.

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Really deep questions + pleas for encouragement are the soundtrack of my life! 

AND... it's the vibe of this Q&A session. 

"Whatchya think about climate collapse, grandchildren, fertility, water?"

I have so many thoughts to share––many of them are OUT THERE.

"I get a lot of anxiety when I have something good on the horizon. Tools to deal with that?"

Let me explain why this is a natural (albeit annoying) human phenomenon.

Eps 123 of WITH LOVE, DANIELLE is a shadow-light conversation. Might be comforting, might be provocative. May it be healing.

MENTIONED IN EPISODE 123:

• Use code DANIELLE10 at checkout for 10% off Somavedic’s EMF-blocking harmony device. 
• Read Issue 8 of Sacred Weekends on the energetics of fabric. (And don’t forget to subscribe!)

Hey hey!

I’m back with another juicy episode! Last week, we explored what spiritual season we find ourselves in. 

With all the items on your daily spiritual checklist, you might be wondering, how do I know if this is really working? 

In fact, it’s been a guiding question of mine: How do you know if all you are doing to be well is helping you be well? 

Hint: It’s not about the green juice, or mala beads, or escaping to beautiful Bali (although, those are cool too)... 

YOU KNOW YOU'RE HEALING WHEN....

1. You make space to respond, not react… 

Drop the tit for tat, unplug from autopilot. Ask yourself, what is the highest response, for the good of all in this situation? 

2. Fixing other people's issues is not your primary concern…

of course Love and service all the way. But ya know... you can't rescue anyone, and when you try to... it's kind of disrespectful to them. Your ego doesn’t need to be their saviour. How about having faith in their strength?

The vibe: YOU CAN DO THIS. 

3. Loving on ALL parts of yourself is COMFORTING…

including those fiery, forbidden parts of you – the stuff you’ve likely been pushing away.  

4. Respecting the other person is as important as respecting yourself…

you extend dignity to all – you and them. No matter what. Love is a win-win scenario.

5. Leaning into pain points is what you do best.

Let your curiosity lead the way. You're noticing where it hurts and you're not turning away! Hint: this is your secret to great intimacy.

6. You GENTLY silence your inner critic.

Silencing a critic fades away like soft snow. Gentle gentle. Show them who’s loving (not who’s Boss).  

7. Loving your friends and family feels like your greatest gift.

Including the ones who drive you bonkers. Hello, dissolved resentments. They don't even need to totally get it or say thank you. You leave all these situations thinking "I got to Love!" Sacred usefulness.

8. Listening to your soul is your top priority…

and by that I mean, you do the work to tune in. Be receptive to the Wisdom of your soul. Stillness. Bask in it.

You’ve got the love AND the healing.

Grace be,

D

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A behind-the-scenes tour at how we do business, evolutionary leaps, and an invite to the Heart Centered Mastermind. 

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Loves,

I know when you’re in the middle of an argument or you want to curse out someone in your DMs, I know you pause a beat because you intend to do the kinder thing. We don't want to do harm. We really truly want to be the chill Buddha babe and breathe.

This works for me in arguments with my man. Deep breath, “Love my way through, love my way through.”

Bookmark this post and save this episode because it’s designed to be a tool to use on a regular basis

I’m giving you 5 RELATIONSHIP REFLECTION QUESTIONS––these are inside the Heart Centered Planner. They appear every three months and they might melt your heart, stop a fight from happening, or multiply your appreciation for all the love in your life and the world.

The 2025 Heart Centered Planner is a gratitude journal meets your actionables, with a side of relationship counseling. All in one gorgeous spiral bound book. Here’s your discount treat for the Planner: Use code PODPLANNER10 at checkout for 10% off.

And timing is divine. Order TODAY (like actually TODAY) so I can guarantee planners will be in your hands––and your giftee’s hands, by January!

With Love,

Danielle 

Mentioned in Episode 136:

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It’s THE SUMMER OF LOVE in the Heart Centered Membership!

Heart centered relating is the relief we’re looking for in therapy sessions, and from our friends-bosses-exes-families. It’s what every Soul in this hurting, beautiful world is meant to experience.

Take this summer to learn about your gorgeous, loving nature…
To let some relationsh*t go…
To get your needs met… with Love.

Today’s podcast episode is featuring my HEART OPENER: 4 Teachings for Courageous Intimacy––with Yourself and Pretty Much Everyone video series. I’ll get you thinking-feeling-healing about:

• Self Compassion Scripting
• Ego vs. Soul Relationships
• Accepting the Ebb + Flow
• The Side Effects of Manipulation

WITH LOVE, DANIELLE (Eps 120) is ready for you… to open your heart!

What people are saying about the 4-PART HEART OPENER SERIES:

• “This indeed helped me release deep pent up grief - what was surprising is that I could tap into compassion and what it would say to me and tears flowed and I cried…” – Dunja R.
• “Beautiful reminder of the need to be gentle with ourselves (as we are with others probably…need to turn that inward). Beautiful and timely . 🙏🏻💕” – Bobbi B.
• “I am definitely struggling with this exact thing for a while now. I have an event playing over-and-over in my mind but all I've been telling myself is that I "need to move on from it, just get over it," ect. I will find compassion and courage today to let myself feel it and feel through it. Be kinder.” – Lis M.
• “Brilliant! Thank you Danielle for this powerful 5 min. tincture of practicing active Love in relation to myself and everyone else. I’m gonna be listening to this over and over. The questions you pose here are exactly what I need. So much gratitude to you for being a way shower!!” – Margaret M.
• “Thanks for this powerful reminder. Fear vs love, wounded vs solutions - it is a journey that every time I think I am making some progress the universe checks me, lol. Growth...humbling growth. Thank you!!” – Bobbi B.

MENTIONED IN EPISODE 120

• The Heart Centered Membership is a support system for your body-mind-spirit…and your work in the world. A monthly workshop + audiobook series, with some self-help in the front and business in the back. Save your seat now, doors close June 30 at midnight.
• Save your seat for TODAY’S Membership Open House — Wednesday, June 26 at 1pm PT | 4pm ET (and get the replay if you can’t attend live.
• Get instant access to the FREE Heart Opener Video Series: 4 Teachings for Courageous Intimacy––with Yourself and Pretty Much Everyone video series. You’ll receive 4 micro videos + questions to get you thinking-feeling-healing PLUS our bonus - a meditation for the Summer Solstice portal.

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Have you ever felt stuck in judgment or conflict and wished for a way out? This episode of With Love, Danielle offers a simple yet profound practice to shift your perspective: "I've Done That Before."

Inspired by Danielle’s book, How To Be Loving, this practice invites you to reflect on your shared humanity. When someone’s actions hurt you, pause and consider: When have I done something similar? It’s a heart-opening moment that dissolves judgment and bridges the gap between blame and connection.

This approach works beautifully for most conflicts, helping you embody Compassion and Forgiving.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• How to move beyond judgment and into heart-centered understanding.
• A practical Compassion tool you can use daily.

MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:
📖 Explore Danielle’s book, How To Be Loving, available as an eBook or audiobook here.

What resonated with you the most? Share your reflections by tagging @DanielleLaPorte on social. And if this episode moved you, pass it along to someone who could use a little extra Compassion.

My loves, what if you could tap into your heart and embody the profound energy of unconditional, inclusive Love?

In Episode 147 of With Love, Danielle, we’ll explore what it truly means to say “I love you” and the meaning of Divine Love. And I’ll tell you who gave me the best hug of my life. 

I’m also sharing a guided visualization to help you connect with your heart center—where Divine Love resides and where the healing happens.

With love,
Danielle

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📚 The 2025 Heart Centered Planner: Order now for holiday delivery while supplies last! Use code PODPLANNER10 for 10% off at daniellelaporte.com/shop.

Today, I’ve got five perspectives to share with you that will help you live a more Heart Centered life. These insights have been my compass for healing, making better choices, and staying grounded in love—and I’m handing them to you! 

From embracing love as the highest intelligence, to prioritizing your nervous system, this episode is all about transformation.

PLUS… let’s talk about the 2025 Heart Centered Planner, designed to help you live these principles every day!

Eps 130 of WITH LOVE, DANIELLE is here to help you heal, grow, and thrive.

With Love,
Danielle

MENTIONED IN EPISODE 130:

❤ Shop the 2025 HEART CENTERED PLANNER collection: Pre-orders open TODAY, Sept 8, from 8 AM to 8 PM. Don’t miss out on the chance to get your planner by December with special bonuses.

📆Next Episode: We’re diving into the energetics of the days of the week. I’ll tell you why Monday meetings should be avoided, why Sunday is the true start of the week, and when you should show up or retreat.

Hello Loves, 

You’re bigger than your to-do list, and I knowwww, your to-do list is BIG. 

Does just the thought of slowing down make your palms sweat? It is possible to prioritize deeper rest without sacrificing momentum. And I’ve got just the woman (she’s an actual empress of rest) to teach about it. I asked my beloved friend, Tracee Stanley to guest in our Heart Centered Mastermind.  You’re about to hear the highlights…

Eps 96 of WITH LOVE, DANIELLE:

• What research tells us about rest––did you know sleep is not the same as rest?!
• How to spot your social conditioning around NOT resting.
• Tracee’s journey from ambition + hustle in Hollywood to prioritizing rest––and how it rocketed her productivity.
• Hustle culture and our addiction to being constantly relevant.
• The fundamentals of Yoga Nidra

Come on over to the sane side of productivity…

Mentioned in this episode:

• The Heart Centered Mastermind is our community for conscious business + careering support. Every month we do a live class with Danielle and a group coaching session with Team D. 

“There’s nothing else out there like this program––all the heart AND the business support smarts.” 

•  Steph Corker, Founder of The Corker Collective, a human capital consulting firm

• Tracee Stanley’s book: Radiant Rest: Yoga Nidra for Deep Relaxation & Awakened Clarity

• Get my (free) SACRED WEEKENDS email 2 Fridays/month SIGN UP HERE. Think: girlfriend vibe meets deep thinking.

• Connect with me on IG! I heart Q’s! xo

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Hello Loves, 

Why do we get sick? Like really?

My man and I decided to spend a month in Nicaragua to keep my lungs in prime conditions. Paradise on the cheap plus in-person time with my Team D wing woman Dana, who’s built a beautiful life there with her family. Perfection!

Within 48 hours of arriving… I got sicker than I’ve been in years. Have I not been meditating enough? Ingesting enough frankincense? Is this my way of burning karma? Am I a New Age loser? 

I could say it was the air freshener and bacteria and smoke and dust and burning rubber fumes and all the allergens that triggered my already sensitive respiratory system.

Or I could say:

It was my deep grief that I've been processing much of this lifetime, carried over from lifetimes, about the illusion we are separate, that I am alone in my sanity and longing for us all to get back to Love.

It's not allergies baby,

It's a cosmic home sickness

Eps 97 of WITH LOVE, DANIELLE, is personal and universal:

• The “outer” reasons for sickness vs the innerward reason. Hint: the outer circumstance trigger

the inner imbalance.

• The healing pivot that makes all the difference—from berating ourselves to compassion 
• The practice I use to saturate pain points with healing frequencies. 
• How karma is the opportunity for us to realize our true capacities as healers 

The cure is in the sickness––which is always a call to Compassion. 

And hey… catharsis ain’t a bad way to start the new year. 

Mentioned in this episode:

• Get my (free) SACRED WEEKENDS email 2 Fridays/month SIGN UP HERE. 222k readers are diggin’ it!
• The Heart Centered Membership: 2 live classes/month + conscious community. Access to our ever expanding library of meditations, daily rituals, guided audios, playlists. Every spiritual practice in my metaphysical toolbelt. Please come in and take refuge. 
• Tree Casa Resort in San Jaun del Sur, Nicaragua is a beautiful sanctuary. Kindest people. Ask for a room “at the top”... quiet, private, lovely.

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You know… I’ve felt like an outsider most of my life. Lil’ bit on the outside. And of course I’ve had my share of hard No’s and reeejection.

And… but… each rebuff and snub is taking us closer to our shadow territory, to the beautiful, unhealed stuff that’s waiting to be healed.

I recently taught a class on rejection in our Heart Centered Membership and it was a tender one. We’ve strung the diamonds for you:

In Eps 98 of WITH LOVE, DANIELLE I’m teaching on:

• The meta-function of rejection. Every spurn, every rebuff points to our inability to accept all parts of ourselves
• Exactly why rejection is an advance class in self-acceptance
• How we stand in our power to heal from rejection, without bypassing or bravado
• How to choose responsiveness and consciousness over numbing out and running away.

This is the work. This is how we transform our repetitive pain into deep esteem.

Mentioned in this episode:

• The Heart Centered Membership. A place you can come up for air. We meet LIVE 2xs/month. You have access to ALL of our classes, spiritual practices + rituals, meditations, playlists, mantras. Ready to go where the love is? Come in! ($25/month. Or drop into any class for $20)

• Eps 93: 10 Reasons We Isolate. Isolation has shadows and light. Fear driven or heart centered? Showing up imperfectly (please let go of perfectionism) is part of the isolation solution.

• Get my (free) SACRED WEEKENDS email 2 Fridays/month SIGN UP HERE. Think: girlfriend vibe meets deep thinking.

• Connect with me on IG! I heart Q’s! xo

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Hello Loves, 

I know there’s a lot of disappointment in spiritual teachers and public figures who are silent during these times. I hear it daily in my DMs. “Thank you for speaking up, I’m so disappointed in other people in this space.”

I understand. I relate. And… it makes me wince. I’m grateful for the resonance but I’m not cheering on the criticism of others. 

We don’t need to find additional reasons to battle each other about raging world battles. That's just division on top of division.  A house divided falls. This is exactly what corrupt puppeteers are trying to orchestrate. 

So today I’m offering a stained glass window of different ways to look at silence and activism, fear and bravery. Please take what you want and leave the rest. 

Let me be clear: I am not defending silence nor am I demanding for people to speak up. 

Eps 99 of WITH LOVE, DANIELLE explores why people sometimes choose silence in fractious situations. And I have some heart centered strategies on how the more “vocal” folks can cope with disappointment when silence bites––especially from the people we’ve admired.

We have to make space for all of our ways of being through these insane, dark times. 

Please tune in. I think this could be helpful for all kinds of situations and polarizations. 

With you all the way, my friends.

LINK LOVE:

The Heart Centered Membership: 2 live classes/month + conscious community. Access to our ever expanding library of meditations, daily rituals, guided audios, playlists. Every spiritual practice in my metaphysical toolbelt. Please come in and take refuge.

The Golden Light Body Visualization: connecting with your true nature, your luminous awareness—and deeply cleansing at the same time. This relieves your sensory system of extra baggage—and the renewal and relaxation is an extra bonus.

8 Signs That You’re Healing : Listen to Eps 82 here. 

Sign up to download your Eps 99 Love Note here (get full access to the Love Notes library of printables!)

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Welcome to Episode 100 of WITH LOVE, DANIELLE! Thanks for rollin’ deep with me times 100! I don’t take a single listen, click, share, or comment for granted. 

So…

Is your inner child choosing your relationships? Short answer: Ya. Totally.

Consciously or unconsciously. It’s not bleak, babe, it’s a good thing. Because your Inner Child is choosing the relationships that lead you to your power. 

We know a lot of our wounds from childhood stay with us. Jump cut to being grownups and those wounds may still be in the basement of our psyches. Until we choose to get proactive and have a clearing session.

In Eps 100 of WITH LOVE, DANIELLE we’re going to unpack:

• Why our Inner Child––our unhealed self––is going about choosing our relationships. (Don’t get too bummed out, it’s how we heal.)
• Why we connect/choose partners and people who match the energy of our wounds
• Why every trigger is an opportunity to show up better with our beloveds (and even the barista)
• 7 suggestions on how to REFRAME THE TRIGGERS
• An extra special shout out to the unconditional girlfriend love that ALL of our relationship could benefit from

Your triggers are power levers. I promise, promise. This reframe will change your LIFE.

Happy Valentine’s Day, my friends! As always, we’re going deep… but keeping it light.

Note: This episode contains adult language.

Mentioned in this episode:

The Heart Centered Membership : 2 live classes/month + conscious community. Access to our ever expanding library of meditations, daily rituals, guided audios, playlists. Every spiritual practice in my metaphysical toolbelt. Our community is deep and wise and generous and committed to heart centered living.

Love + Radiance Meditation Kit: Meditation meets visualization. There’s a magical throughline: you will bring your Inner Child into sacred space. Think: a landscape of pale pink cherry blossoms that radiate with golden light. Mmmhmm. I work with The Love + Radiance Meditation regularly and it’s one of our most popular practices. Life-changing. 

Love Notes: This episode’s love note is a love poem, You girlfriend, YOU. The things women friends do... print it out and give it to your bestie. Sign up here to get all access to the Love Notes library—we update it almost weekly!

Golden Light Body Visualization: connecting with your true nature, your luminous awareness—and deeply cleansing at the same time. This relieves your sensory system of extra baggage—and the renewal and relaxation is an extra bonus.

Terry Real, Creator of Relational Life Therapy: My man and I took his 6-week online course and we’re better for it.

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What part of you is saying your affirmations? Your fearful part, or your faithful self?

Who's doing the affirming?

I’ve been going off about the down-side of self help affirmations for yuh-earrs. But complaining is a kind of affirmation, inn’t? So… I’m shifting into solutions. But in order to get to that higher consciousness, we’ve got to unpack the unconscious stuff.

There’s a sequencing for creating healthier affirmations. I unpack each of these tenets/directives:

1. WE CREATE MORE OF WHAT WE THINK WE ARE 
2. RUNNING FROM THE PAIN CREATES MORE PAIN 
3. IDENTIFY AS LOVE TO OPEN POSSIBILITIES
4. CHOOSE HOW TO SEE

These theories require explanations. So be sure to tune in for the 30’ish minutes of this episode.

If you want to “manifest better” and by that I mean: Create more beautiful things in your life and for the collective, then Eps 101 of WITH LOVE, DANIELLE is … affirming your higher desire. 

I Love you and I’m so glad you’re here!

Mentioned in this episode:

Marie Forleo’s B-School: the gold-standard online training experience for entrepreneurs and values-driven creatives who want to build a meaningful, profitable business.

Spiritual Business Mastery Bundle: If you want to honour your calling and make this the year you step up with Heart Centered business’ing…Then I’ll match that with all of the tools and mentoring that I’ve got. 

The Heart Centered Leadership Program: Coaching tools + templates. Lifetime access to exercises, workshop outlines + business support for your work in the world.

The Heart Centered Mastermind: Business masterclasses with Danielle + guest experts each month. Community + business strategy huddles with Team Danielle leadership. Support for your business + career-ing.

The Heart Centered Membership : 2 live classes/month + conscious community. Access to our ever expanding library of meditations, daily rituals, guided audios, playlists. Every spiritual practice in my metaphysical toolbelt. Our community is deep and wise and generous and committed to heart centered living. Support for your body, mind + spirit.

Love Notes: This episode’s love note is a list of 4 new affirmations…print it out and give it to your bestie. Sign up here to get all access to the Love Notes library—we update it almost weekly!

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Our 4 part series on How To Heal with Anxiety starts here, with Love.

With some help from conventional sources, the metaphysical practitioner on our team, V.S., and my own experiences with anxiety and healing, I’m setting the stage for us to look at basic anxiety “disorders” and to move toward healing measures.

You will see yourself, and/or your loved ones and the world at large in this list of anxieties types.

NAMING struggles is an important part of healing, and… I’m encouraging us to NOT OVER-IDENTIFY WITH LABELS. Especially when we’re talking about anxiety disorders.

I prefer to say, “imbalances” over “disorders.” And “natural” over “normal”––because we could argue over what’s normal in a world that's flailing and waking up. But the heart and the nervous system know what’s natural.

This episode (number 102) is thorough. We’re covering a lot of ground and then the following 3 episodes will get lighter (kind of.) The foundation looks like:

• Types of anxiety disorders, as outlined by the National Institute of Mental Health.
• Physical, psychological AND metaphysical explanations of anxiety imbalances
• The relationship between your nervous system and anxiety healing
• The distinction between anxiety and panic. They are quiet different.
• Definitions of our energy bodies (Etheric Body, Astral Body, Mental Body.)
• 24 causes of anxiety that you’ll probably relate to.
• 6 ways to dissolve anxiety that are physical, simple and immediate.
• What IS the vagus nerve and why is loving on it so important to our wellness?
• Then we open the conversation to spiritual resilience and more meta-physical ways to heal with anxiety

SAVE THE DATE: This is all leading up to Thursday, April 4, 2024, at 12 PT | 3pm ET, for a live class, HOW TO HEAL FOR REAL. Mark it in your cal to attend live if you can.

Anxiety is stirring in our collective and individual psyches. We’re still recovering from the global health bootcamp that started four years ago, and with raging wars and buckling economies… we might be… frayed. Naturally. Anxiety and all of it’s presentations aren’t a permanent condition. It’s our unhealed content asking for attention. 

Anxiety is Resilience + Compassion training. Come step it up with me.

MENTIONED IN EPISODE 102:

• The Nourish System: reduce stress + restore your nervous system
• Spiritual Business Mastery Bundle:
• The Heart Centered Leadership Program: Coaching tools + templates.
• The Heart Centered Mastermind: Support for your business + career-ing.
• The Heart Centered Membership: A place you can come up for air.
• Get my (free) SACRED WEEKENDS email 2 Fridays/month SIGN UP HERE.

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Charlie Brown's famous words "My anxieties have anxieties!" is a reality for people with anxiety “disorders.” Anticipating, forecasting and predicting …worry, unease and nervousness. All of which create symptoms that create a fear that the symptoms will last forever.

This is part 2 in my 4 part series on Healing With Anxiety and I embed an anxiety quiz for you in this episode (#103). We’ll see which lifestyle areas have some anxiety chatter for you. 

• The What and WHY of anxiety… and how do you know how long it will last?
• What does it look like to have a healthy relationship with our thinking?
• How do we use appreciation as a psychological tool to diffuse anxious thought looping?
• I’m sharing a story about an intensive with my psychotherapist… at my wit’s end.
• What are your current “WHAT IFs” and fear scripts?
• 6 very practical ways to heal anxiety… it’s entirely and totally doable.

Anxiety is not a lifelong condition. It’s a way through to our personal and divine power. 

Healing happens, my friends. Please tune in for some proof and practicality.

With Love,

Danielle

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Hello Friends on the path…

I’ve known about the struggles of some of my favorite philosophers…Krishnamurti suffered from terrible migraines. Ram Dass had a massive stroke. Yogananda had crippling pain from apparently taking on the karma of his devotees. 

Anyone in a physical body suffers. Facts.

But the accounts I found most helpful were those of teachers who struggled with anxiety and panic. Teachers of mind mastery who had to face these kinds of inner hurdles struck me deeply. Two of whom helped me relax into deep self compassion: Adyashanti and Mingyur Rinpoche, and I’ve found a way to loop their teaching back to one of Audrey Lourdes’ pillars:

“Nothing I accept about myself can be used against me to diminish me.”

I’m sharing their enlightening humanness in today’s WITH LOVE, DANIELLE (Eps 104) as part of my 4 part series on Healing With Anxiety. 

It reminds me of the very simple Buddhist prayer, “May my suffering be of service.” Please tune in and… give yourself a break.

Your fellow aspiring human…

With Love,

Danielle

MENTIONED IN EPISODE 104:

• In Love With The World by Mingyur Rinpoche
• Adyashanti
• The Nourish System: reduce stress + restore your nervous system
• The Heart Centered Mastermind: Support for your business + career-ing. Business masterclasses with Danielle + guest experts each month. Community + business strategy huddles with Team Danielle leadership. 
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Oh hi, high achiever!

I know you can do ALL OF IT. You ALWAYS pull it OFF. 

But… at what cost? Crappy sleep, anxiety meds, cortisol levels whacked, extra pounds, skimmed savings, minimal alone time… too much alone time?

Let’s heart to heart this out. Because this is a collective story and we need to rewrite the script.

WITH LOVE, DANIELLE Eps 105 is for the polished, solid, achieving, doing, driven, types who are also actually the worrying, perpetually dissatisfied, unable to relax, fretting about what others think of you… types.

This is part 4 in my 4-part podcast series on Healing With Anxiety and I’ve got your number… because I myself have had these behaviors on speed dial for years.

Listen in, Love. I have a Lot of clarity and Compassion for you. And some solutions.

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Friends…

After 4 weeks of the Healing With Anxiety series, maybe we need a palate cleanser, yes?

Like so:

If you could do a “do over” what would it be?

Talk about starting over after divorce.

What’s in your bag?

What’s in your fridge?

Why do you think our peers aren't’ talking about… certain world issues? And how to shift?

Lite, deep, lite, lite, and way deep.

I’m so glad we’re in this together.

It’s Wednesday! So WITH LOVE, DANIELLE is ready for you and Episode 106 “Do overs + What’s in my bag? It’s Q+Awesome!” Lifestyle, heartbreak and always…healing. See you in there!

With Love,

Danielle

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I’m never contrarian for the sake of it. I’m good to go with the conventional flow. But not today, friends, not today! We have higher realms of consciousness to traverse. And those higher states are not in our guts. or lower chakras, or low vibe stories from our past.

Old adage: "Trust your gut.”

New way: Nah. 

Pay attention to your gut, but don’t let it make your plans.

There’s both spiritual and scientific sense to this. 

In WITH LOVE, DANIELLE Eps 107 I’m talking about decisions, intuition, direction, and how to figure out your next best move....and it’s NOT about “following your gut.”

Higher Love, babes,

Danielle

MENTIONED IN EPISODE 107:

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My Friends,

Inner battlefields (which are so painful.). Global battlefields (too many to count.) Bravado that’s cruisin’ for a Dark Night of The Soul. Adrenal fatigue and fried nervous systems. 

Look where hardlines and forcing ourselves to endure have gotten us.

Keep in mind: Antidotes are the OPPOSITE of the poison. So…

I’m building a strong case for softening. 

These 10 Ways That Being Softer Makes You More Powerful are not just about flexibility.

You’re going to see how apologies (the sincere kind) and self protection (without being brittle) and radical responsibility (KEY quality for being a heart centered leader) actually serve to make you a more gentle––and very powerful being.

I’m also suggesting that we compromise on some promises we made. And that we make holistic health and Self Compassion top priorities. 

We’re also going to refine our definition of “intimacy.”

A strong possibility: Power up your gentle qualities and you will have more energy to do what your SOUL wants you to do––because you won't be wasting your life force on the push-pull drain-train. The world needs you to make this counter culture move. There’s a much easier way to do life and work…it’s not forceful, it’s POWERFUL.

Episode 108 of WITH LOVE, DANIELLE is planting seeds for the new earth. Your heart intelligence is the fertile ground.

MENTIONED IN EPISODE 108

• The Heart Centered Membership is a support system for your body-mind-spirit…and your work in the world. A monthly workshop + audiobook series, with some self-help in the front and business in the back. Come check it out. 
• The Heart Centered Leadership Program coaching tools + templates. Lifetime access to exercises, workshop outlines + business support for your work in the world.
• Sacred Weekends is my (always free) newsletter for devotion + lifestyl’ish. 220k subscribers are digging it! 2 Fridays a month.
• The Nourish System is a holistic approach to regulating your nervous system and steadying your relationships

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Hi Friends,

I talk about this is consciousness circles AND business masterminds:

Are there metrics for enlightenment? 

Yes, yes there are! It’s like being spiritually cool…which comes with a heap less ego. You might not be saintly or levitating, but…like…

• You don't need to defend yourself after every argument. (Or do you? ☺️) 
• You don't have to go to everything you’re invited to. (Right?)
• You’re in touch with your nervous system. (It’s that internal network that controls your response to EVERYTHING.)

Come on over to WITH LOVE, DANIELLE (Episode 109) and I’ll affirm how truly rad you are––you monk amongst us, you, or… we can aim a bit higher. Together.

DO NOT LISTEN TO THIS EPISODE IF YOU’RE ENLIGHTENED. It’ll be a total waste of your time. Otherwise…

I’ve got 8 beautiful indications of spiritual maturity to roll through with you. We got this.

MENTIONED IN EPISODE 109 

• Has your self-help become self-criticism? White Hot Truth is a wise and often (hilariously) relatable exploration of the conflicts between spiritual aspiration and our compulsion to improve.
• The world––and your nervous system––needs you to make this counter-culture move…it’s not forceful, it’s POWERFUL. Download and listen into Episode 108 of WITH LOVE, DANIELLE—10 Ways That Being Softer Makes You More Powerful
• NEW! Are you a fighter, flighter or freezer? Take the Stress Reaction Quiz to find out the default survival strategy that throws you off centre… and counter-moves to get back you center.
• The Heart Centered Membership is a support system for your body-mind-spirit…and your work in the world. A monthly workshop + audiobook series, with some self-help in the front and business in the back. Come check it out. 

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You’d think that as empathetic humans, who are so attuned to our own feelings, we’d know immediately when someone has jacked into our own life force. But we just keep tolerating toxic dynamics in the name of compassion.

Here’s how to apply your compassion with DISCERNMENT when it comes to narcissists… daniellelaporte.com/withlove

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Loves,

Self love is easy when we’ve got our sh*t together. Courageous, outspoken, PRODUCTIVE. Check. Check. Check.

I’m more interested in what happens when we’re not at our “best.” I want us to love the unlovable parts––and mean it. Not “love” the gnarly bits so they’ll change. That's’ not self love. That self-deception.

I have some LOVE NOTE CUES for you. You can journal to these, or listen along and cry or laugh at your mortal coil. You don’t need to send them. But for sure, I bet these are LOVE NOTES you’ve never dreamed of writing to yourself or others.

BY THE WAY… this is an exercise that I’ve done with leadership teams in global firms––it’s not trite.

And BY THE WAY… this LOVE NOTE practice is part of the RELATIONSHIP REFLECTION that I’ve built into the 2025 Heart Centered Planner! Think: calendar meets self help revolution.

Here’s your discount treat for the Planner: Use code PODPLANNER10 at checkout for 10% off.

And timing is divine. Order TODAY (like actually TODAY) so I can guarantee planners will be in your hands––and your giftee’s hands, early December!

Steady Love,
Danielle

Mentioned in Episode 135:

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💌 Love Note Writing Exercise: This reflection is part of the Relationship Reflection section in the Heart Centered Planner, designed to help you build deeper connections with yourself and others.

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My Loves,

I was in NYC last week and the theme was EXPANSION! ANd more EXPANSION.

My Mr. proposed! Yes yes yes to life partnership. He is deep and beautiful and wise and I’ve been ALL IN since about month two of being with him. Knew it. We’re not sure if we’re going to get hitched at city hall in our jeans, or throw a festival. But we know it’s all ours to DEFINE.

I also joined a new literary agency family of philosophical go-getters (my favorite combination) and we are redefining what it means for me to write, record and create for the next decade and beyond. 

These big moves and mergers are happening because I’m very clear how I define success––which has taken a LOT of REDEFINING. I’ve let go of a lot of identities labels. I’ve learned what I value most. And My spiritual commitment has helped me be discerning.

And that brings me to another one of my favorite combinations: DISCERNMENT and the POWER OF WORDS.

In this week’s WITH LOVE, DANIELLE (Eps #86) I’m dissecting some of-misconstrued “spiritual” terms:

• Spirituality: It’s undefinable, actually. But I think it’s simply, “the practice of thinking with your heart.” This is not quite as simple as I make it sound. So please listen in for the break down.
• Spiritual Bypassing: Where you put a spiritual spin on a “negative” experience to avoid uncomfortable feelings. “Non spiritual” feelings… you know that trick? All seekers become pro’s at this until we see how it’s holding us back.
• Spiritual Glamor: When you mix a spiritual PoV with the ego’s need to be “special”. For example: when one regards their spiritual experience as a qualification for special treatment, or how some folks always find a way to insert their esoteric resume into the conversation… 
• Conscience: You’ve got one, everyone’s got one…  Light Guilt + Shadow Guilt. There’s useful guilt and drag-you-down guilt. How to tell when your conscience is guiding you or your ego is trippin’...
• And, Detachment: Less clinging. More trusting. I’m getting into the how-to’s of this spiritual art form.

Our definitions of spirituality and success define our LIVES. So more consciousness, truth-rooted definitions make for more conscious moves and mergers in our lives.

Let’s define and refine…

This episode’s LOVE NOTE (free prayers, printables, pointers) is the Dedication of Merit. Keep it on your phone.

P.S. Connect with me on IG ! I’d love to hear your thoughts on Spiritual Bypassing and Glamour…

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Do you want to be forceful or magnetic?

As a parent, boss, neighbor, leader of any kind…

Do you want to be a megawatt lightbulb, or do you want to be like the sun? Do you want to be ego-gripped or soul-infused? We're all here for the same reason. To lead from the heart. To lead like the sun.

Episode 144 of With Love, Danielle is bringing you thoughts on what it takes to lead from the heart and to be generous in how we govern.

With Love,
Danielle

MENTIONED IN EPISODE 144:

• Get our deepest discounts of the year… exclusive bundles OVER 50% OFF! Shop the Black Blessed Friday sale. 5 deals. 5 days. daniellelaporte.com/blessed-friday-sale 

• The 2025 Heart Centered Planner: Order by DECEMBER 1 for holiday delivery, while supplies last! Use code PODPLANNER10 for 10% off at daniellelaporte.com/shop. 

• The Heart Centered Membership is a support system for your body-mind-spirit…and your work in the world. A monthly workshop + audiobook series, with some self-help in the front and business in the back. Get on the wait list for when doors open in February.

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My Friends…

“Brain” and “mind” are not interchangeable terms. Your brain is the complex organ that controls thought, memory... every process that regulates your body. Your mind is the conduit of your CONSCIOUSNESS.

We talk a lot about rewiring neural pathways in the brain for wellness––and that’s essential and powerful work. But I think we should first focus on reorienting our minds. ENERGY FOLLOWS THOUGHT. 

Raising our consciousness raises the quality of our thoughts… which helps govern our gray matter.

Eps 111 of WITH LOVE, DANIELLE is ready for you. You’re going to get tips on re-wiring your real mother board. 

🥰My favourite how-to involves paying attention to the attitudes of the key 7 people in your life. You’re not going to hear that from a brain scientist, but it’s what the mystics know works.

🤩And I have a really cool “ENERGY FOLLOWS THOUGHT” exercise for you, with this life-lifting question, “What might happen if you allow this thought to continue?”

Free your mind and the rest will follow.

MENTIONED IN EPISODE 111

• Join me for the LAST publicly-available live workshop for the rest of the year. Use code POD111 to save your seat in my May 2 workshop BIG ENERGY: Inner Child Work That Will Change Your Life for just $25 USD.
• NEW! Are you a fighter, flighter or freezer? Take the Stressed to Blessed Quiz to find out the default survival strategy that throws you off centre… and counter-moves to get back you center.
• The Heart Centered Membership is a support system for your body-mind-spirit…and your work in the world. A monthly workshop + audiobook series, with some self-help in the front and business in the back. Get on the wait list for when doors open in June. 
• Sacred Weekends is my (always free) newsletter for devotion + lifestyl’ish. 220k subscribers are digging it! 2 Fridays a month.

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When we say, “We're going with the flow,” what we're really saying is that we’re riding The Creative Principle. The stuff of LIFE FORCE. Flow isn’t New Age chillaxin’—it is alert relaxation. Wide awake trust. When you’re in the flow, you're constantly responding to the subtle cues that Life is giving you.

Tango with the life force: daniellelaporte.com/withlove

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I’ve been thinking a LOT about the concept of mercy this year. My very basic definition: Mercy is when we just wish for someone to catch a break. That simple. 

Mercy is the bonus deal that comes from Compassion. 

Today I’m rolling through the spiritual and practical definition of COMPASSION.

What does it look like according to the mystics, and what does it look like in our emails and our self care?

Side note: I know we’re all extra full of emotions these days. And I know giving your full attention to a podcast can seem like another thing “to-do.”

I’d love your full attention but I have another invitation: just hit play and let me roll in the background. You don’t have to “learn” or take notes. Just let this energy be your sidekick as you do what you need to do. Your subconscious self will get what it needs to get. Your conscious self will remember what you need to remember. Just breathe.

Eps 137 of WITH LOVE, DANIELLE is here to help you be Compassionate with all of it.

MENTIONED IN EPISODE 137:

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My loves, what if processing emotions wasn’t so daunting? What if it could actually be... liberating? 

In Episode 143 of With Love, Danielle, we’re diving into the heart of it—those sharp, sticky, sometimes scary feelings we all face—and learning how to transform them with love and compassion. 

I’m sharing five super simple practices to help you release the heaviness, balance your nervous system, and invite in the happiness and ease that sits on the other side of processing those emotions.

Because the more we attend to the stuff in the basement of the psyche, the more conscious we become. The more luminous, the more robust, radiant, strong… the more regulated and balanced our nervous systems become. 

With love,
Danielle

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We have to choose our words with care—as if each phrase was a seed for a reality… because it is. Words incant, invoke, destroy, and create. When we speak with high intention, we live in Higher Love. I have an experiment for you that might prove it.

For when it’s hard to get going, and even harder to stop… press play on Sacred Word Sets. One track to lift you up (radiance without overreaching). One track for chilling out (deep healing, deep rest). Download the sonic love: daniellelaporte.com/sacredwords

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When I think about being loved by The Divine, protected, supported… I think about how I love my son. It’s my closest experience to being an Almighty Authority and oft’ disrespected Deity, but Ultimately Adored Creator 🥰 

I’m going to connect the dots to caring for kids and wondering if God has a plan for humanity. Stick with me, it’s a good trip.

Other Qs I attempted to answer are:

• How to heal yourself when you’re caregiving for someone else
• Dealing with angry, super annoying fools
• And why I have way fewer boundaries than I used to

Episode 124 of WITH LOVE, DANIELLE might heal some apocalyptic thinking (which used to be my specialty,) and help us to see the beauty in the hardships.

MENTIONED IN EPISODE 124:

• Ram Dass, Becoming Nobody documentary
• The Conscious Lab elevated event space in downtown Vancouver

We’ve got to be willing to hold a few paradoxes on our way to truth. In this episode, we’re celebrating the courage it takes to CHANGE YOUR BELIEFS, to question your teachers, and please, treasure your contradictions. Hold on and let’s transcend...

daniellelaporte.com/withlove

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The ego’s favourite hiding place is… You ready? In personal-development workshops!

Self-helpers and spiritual seekers really know how to strive, and striving is classic ego-ing.

Being on the path can appear to be anything but arrogant or self-serving. Philosophies of peace spoken softly. Self-sacrifice. And it all looks great in stretchy yoga pants. I’m body positive. I’m a meditator. I’m journaling daily. I’m fighting for peace.

All these actions and commitments can be sourced from one’s heart, a bona fide outpouring of dedication to Love. And… Virtuous actions can be puppeteered by a shadow self that’s telling you that you need to constantly burn your bad karma. 

Same spiritual practice, different motivations. 

You feel me? I know you do.

This episode of WITH LOVE, DANIELLE (#52) is for you, babe. And me. Because I’ve been there.

Zach Berman + Dean Morris, aka The Juice Truck Guys are a great duo—a wellness entrepreneur + a part time pastor. The three of us Canadians start off with the universal principle that everything is energy, then we get into the dynamics of church and conformity (and healing from that), and this all ends with me crying. Just the way I like it.

Give the gift of a little more Love… How To Be Loving is available now.

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The Q: “What’s your opinion on one-night stands when it’s ultimately not aligned with what you want in your forever partner? I know women who wait years of sexual deprivation because they’re holding out for The One.”

Where do I stand on one-night stands? Are they soul satisfying… or just a distraction in your pants? In this episode, I open up about holding out and putting out.

Let’s get... intimate: daniellelaporte.com/withlove

I started the Heart Centered Membership a bit begrudgingly and over-identified as an introvert 🤗. Now, it's the diamond of everything I do. I feel humbled, guided and honour-bound to our community. In love. Thursdays at 1pm are my favourite.

I’ve made heaps of cringey career mistakes. And… the ONE thing that I’ve done right, that’s fuelled so much growth, got down to a specific kind of courage. The courage to change in front of people. 

Episode 121 of WITH LOVE, DANIELLE is for Creatives, Leaders, Team Builders. Connectors. Teachers. Over-identified introverts and those of us who need to change up how we've been doing things. Most of us.

And through my growth story, I’m weaving in an unabashed invitation to get into the Heart Centered Membership. Registration week ends, Sunday, June 30, at midnight. Then we get cozy and I keep the audiobooks flowing forever more.

Crush your gimmicks. Let your heart lead.

MENTIONED IN EPISODE 121

• The Heart Centered Membership is a support system for your body-mind-spirit…and your work in the world. A monthly workshop + audiobook series, with some self-help in the front and business in the back. Save your seat now, doors close Sunday, June 30 at midnight.

We can all understand the importance of starting our day in an intentional way. But before we jump into new habits, we need to look into our psyche and examine what’s really up when we wake up. Each of us has a pre-existing relationship with “mornings”. And it matters.

Menus of morning habits are easy to come by (harder to practice). But habits are only bandaids unless we get beneath the surface of our behavior and relating. That’s what most productivity methods fail to ask. What were mornings like for you growing up? What does your ideal morning *feel* like? Welcome to Morning Therapy (but, like, not therapy) with Danielle!

I struggled with mornings for a long time. There was a kind of resistance to starting the day, even when there was the presence of joy. I decided to take a deeper, psychological look—and it shifted everything for me. With a little help from my psychotherapist, essentially I created my own therapeutic approach to mornings. 

Morning mindfulness is how you activate your superpowers. Your steadiness and strength. And your connection to the sacred—everything we need on the graceful and the challenging days.

So, how do we power up our pre-day? First, we go deeper.

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Mel Wells has been described as “giving a voice to the silent struggle millions of women know so well”. She’s trained in holistic sex, love and relationships, eating psychology, and holistic health. Mel is a beauty in every way.

Tune into this rich conversation from Mel’s podcast Love, Sex, + Magic, we’re giving pointers to navigate awakening:

• Spiritual bypassing, what it means and how to know if we’re doing it. 
• Unpacking the ego (and how the hardest experiences I've been through reminded me how strong my heart is.)
• How shaking up your identity structure is the access point to your Radiance.
• Why you should interrupt a lifetime of resisting your dark stuff?
• What the Inner Child really is. (It’s not your 8 year old little self…)
• And navigating what it means to be awake, as opposed to you know, woke.

When women gather… ohhhh baby, we rise. My friends, here’s Mel… and me.

Craving more of Mel’s Magic? Give her a follow here or check out her podcast Love, Sex, + Magic!

Get 10+ hours of sonic love for your road trip, morning walk, or self care Sunday. How To Be Loving Digital Bundles are here!

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Our podcast listeners have spoken! Your fave podcast of 2024 is…

… (insert drumroll)

11 Holistic Ways to Rewire Your Brain AND Mind!

Eps 149 of WITH LOVE, DANIELLE is a BEST OF 2024 episode—and I’m sharing 11 powerful tips to rewire your real motherboard.

Your brain controls everything. Your mind? It channels your CONSCIOUSNESS.

We talk a lot about rewiring your brain, but what if we start with the mind? Energy follows thought. Raise your consciousness, raise the quality of your thoughts, and that’ll govern the brain.

🧠 Tip: Pay attention to the attitudes of the 7 key people in your life. This isn’t brain science—it’s mystic wisdom.

💡 Plus, I’ve got an “ENERGY FOLLOWS THOUGHT” exercise for you. Ask yourself: What might happen if you allow this thought to continue?

Tune in and free your mind.

xo
Danielle

MENTIONED IN EPISODE 149:

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What if you could pause the holiday noise for just a few moments, and let Love guide you back to stillness?

Today, I’m sharing one of my favourite prayers: The Prayer of St. Therese de Lisieux. 

This prayer is a beautiful reminder of Love’s infinite power to transform, in all of its simplicity. 

It’s an invitation to pause, come into stillness, and rest—in whatever way that feels right for you today. 

So take this moment with me, and when you’re ready—press play.

It’s comfort. It’s healing. It’s Love.

xo
Danielle

MENTIONED IN EPISODE 148:

🙏🏼 The Prayer of St. Therese de Lisieux—click here to download.

In this episode, Danielle offers a guided practice to let go of 9 common limiting thoughts. 

With Danielle’s encouragement and gentle suggestion, this practice can help us heal the thoughts that hold us back—like feeling unworthy, being overly responsible for our failures, the need to do everything alone, and many more.

We start by getting Heart Centered together, then we bring our limiting thoughts to our heart space for transmutation and healing. And finally, they dissolve in the Loving space of our heart.

Letting go of limiting thoughts is an awakening—it feels like relief and Love.

For deeper inner healing, lean into the Soul Qualities of Forgiving and Compassion and welcome the expansion and freedom this practice can bring.

Mentioned in this Episode:

The Heart Centered Membership doors are opening on February 2—I’m so in love with this community. I’m mapping out 6-months of classes on healing anger and all kinds of spiritual essentials.

Ever wonder why we suffer? And if there’s a deeper purpose?

In Episode 140 of WITH LOVE, DANIELLE, we’ll unpack how our toughest moments can lead us back to our luminous selves. (Complete with a story from my own journey—a living death in the desert that led to profound insights about love, pain, and radiance.) 

Get ready for some real talk about the ego, the masks we wear, and how burning through them is essential for our evolution.

Radiance isn’t just about glowing; it’s about the gritty work of surrendering our pain and embracing our divinity. Come on in…

With Love,
Danielle

MENTIONED IN EPISODE 140:

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Here’s where I think we’re at: 

The past few years on the planet Earth have done a number on our nervous systems. A lot of us are experiencing adrenal fatigue, waves of anxiety, and difficulty sleeping. A general malaise of despair. And it turns out that all of this was a precursor to these last few weeks and months of warful insanity. 

And whether YOU’RE conscious of what the stress is doing to you––your NERVOUS SYSTEM is very aware. I think that...

If each of us focused on regulating our nervous system, it could change the entire world. 

It starts with knowing your default stress response. 

In this session of WITH LOVE, DANIELLE, I quiz you on your stress style––who wins for best stressed?! And then do my best to offer solutions.

• ARE YOU A FIGHTER? FLIGHTER? FREEZER or FAWNER? Once you’re clear on that, you can see the path to healing.
• I share 11 beliefs on healing––specifically for our nervous systems.
• There was a time when my cortisol levels were jacked and everything else was tanked. I’m giving you some very practical things I did that helped me heal.

A better you in a bonkers world depends on steady love and your nervous system. 

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This episode’s LOVE NOTE (free prayers, printables, pointers) is a simple before & after exercise to check in with your nervous system and plan for brighter days.

Mentioned in this episode:

• Come to my free class: FROM FRICTION TO FREEDOM: How your nervous system steers your relationships on Tuesday, November 14, 2023 @ 3pm PT | 6pm ET. Can you imagine way less stress relating to your boss, bestie, BF? Like… staying centered? Step up for this one, I’m going deep and offering a lot of healing tips. xo 
• Check out my free PRAYER SERIES on Instagram here. 
• Essential oils I work with are Young Living (an MLM, but hey, it’s the good stuff) and Living Libations. 
• My friend Terri Cole who’s doing healthy boundary work in the world.
• Get on the list for my new (free) SACRED WEEKENDS here. Think: girlfriend vibe meets depth.

Connect with me on IG! We want to hear what your default stress response is.

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 My loves, who's tired? 

Who's exhausted? Sleepy? Worn down? 

In Episode 152 of With Love, Danielle we're talking about reasons—eight of them, in fact—why you may be overtired. 

And this is not about the physical things, the medical things.  It's not about how much sleep you're getting at night… It's about energy.  

So let's make the connection from the emotional to the physical, and then let's heal it. Let's lift it, lighten it, and dissolve it... so we can all get to vibrant and peaceful and lit up and strong. Okay? 

Listen in.

With Love,
Danielle

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In the personal development realm, discussion around Forgiveness tends to focus on us Forgiving the other person for what they apparently did.

But what about asking for Forgiveness? And, if I may, I want to take that a step further and talk about asking for Forgiveness from the person you think owes YOU an apology.

In this episode of With Love, Danielle (#42), I’m going to tell you a personal story about digging deep for accountability––and the euphoria of fessing up.

I hope this sparks heaps of reconciliation across the whole wide world. And if it does, tell me all about it. Forgiveness stories are my favourite.

In this episode we’re talking about choosing to really be here. And a more joyful route to Soul expansion. Not easy. Not fast. But it’s got equal pleasure AND restraint. After years of wanting to ascend, I’m just really grateful to be here. I hope you can say the same.

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