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This week Jamie is joined by Sarah from CYBEX (one of our incredible sponsors) to discuss an often overwhelming topic— car seats & car seat safety!

Sarah offers insight, as mom of 2 and certified child passenger safety technician with 15 years experience on the following topics:

- Car seat confusion & overwhelm
- Things to consider when deciding on a car seat
- Car seat safety checks & regulatory standards
- Why CYBEX?— above and beyond testing (for all crashes)
- What features to look for in a carseat
- City vs. Suburbs
- Strollers
- Age & Stages (transitions)
- Booster seats
- Traveling with kids
- How to check your carseat

As a reminder— research shows that a parent who buckles themselves are most likely to remember to buckle their child.

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After two heavy episodes, the women behind NAPS switch gears to discuss a much lighter topic.  Jamie and Emily reconvene to talk about the parallels between running a business partnership and their home lives.

When Jamie and Emily started this business in 2011, they were loving the “side hustle” of NAPS, enjoying their new dogs, living “kid-free”, and splitting all the work 50/50. Just like everything else, things change.

In 2015, Jamie and Emily decided to pursue their true passion and make the business full time. They each had 2 girls, all under the age of 3…  all in diapers. While juggling pregnancies, delivery/recovery, family emergencies and life in general, there was now a full time business that demanded time, effort and a significant amount of energy.  They quickly learned that you cannot be everything, to everyone, all at once.

On this episode, Jamie and Emily discuss ditching the unrealistic expectation of perfection, listening and attending to things that are demanding your attention. This means changing the conversation to manage realistic expectations and, therefore, giving necessary support.

As a reminder, these aspects of life change day to day, week to week, and even moment to moment. Running on empty is not sustainable and we are here to support you and offer help in any way we can.

You can find us @nurturebynaps on IG

In this episode, Jamie starts a new recurring series where a client calls in to talk through a topic - 'Real (Mom) Talk'. Submit your question on our site - https://www.nurturebynaps.com if you’re interested!

Today, Jamie tackles Starting Solids!  Often times when there is a LOT of overwhelming information out there about a certain topic…it means there’s no right way, there’s many right ways.  You aren’t going to mess this up.

To help get you started…here are some questions / topics that are addressed during the podcast:

- What are the readiness signs for starting solids?
- Purees vs. Solids
- Common myths
- Allergen exposure - how often and when?  What time of day?
- How quickly can allergic reactions come on and at what point in exposure?
- What’s the right plan for you AND your baby?
- What IS baby led weaning actually? Is it a range of options?
- What’s different about a baby’s gag reflex?  Is it a good thing?
- What does this mean for breastfed babies in terms of iron?
- What is the palmer reflex?  What size food is good during this stage?
- When babies can pinch, how big and soft should the food be?
- Should my nanny / daycare provider take on some meals?
- What does this mean for formula or breastmilk schedule?
- Do I need to wait 3 days between exposures?
- How long until a baby likes something they originally disliked?
- What’s the best way to plan this into my day?
- When can I feed my baby table foods we are eating already?
- Can a baby over eat?

Also, check out a cool company helping you with allergen exposures, Lil Mixins - https://www.lilmixins.com/

We hope you join us for our webinar on Starting Solids on Dec 2, 2021 - https://www.nurturebynaps.com/live-webinars

Happy feeding / eating!

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As a follow up on allergies and starting solids, Emily is joined by Meenal Lele— owner and founder of Lil Mixins. Lil Mixins was founded with the purpose (and significant clinical research) to stop food allergies before they start, while making the process simple!

Meenal shares her story and what inspired her to prevent food allergies. Also discussed on this episode:
-signs to look for with food allergies
-allergy testing
-asthma
-eczema
-early allergen introduction
-food timeline
-top allergens
-peanuts/tree nuts
-eggs
-allergy prevention
-how and when to introduce “high risk” foods
-treatment vs prevention

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In this podcast episode, Emily Oster, a professor of economics at Brown University and author of books like Expecting Better, Crib Sheet, and The Family Firm, discusses her work and upcoming book, "The Unexpected." As the creator of the Parent Data newsletter and corresponding parentdata.org website, she focuses on bringing evidence-based decision-making to parents and pregnant individuals.

Jamie and Emily pop the champagne for Emily Oster, who just hit 200,000 subscribers for Parent Data. The trio dives into "The Unexpected," which addresses pregnancy-related concerns and questions, particularly those related to the likelihood of recurring conditions from a previous pregnancy.

Oster shares insights into her decision-making process, emphasizing the role of data in providing numerical perspectives on risks and benefits.

The conversation takes a hilarious detour into the world of judgment—because who doesn't love unsolicited opinions on parenting, right? Oster advocates for creating a list of trusted advisors or "your people" to turn to for sound parenting advice. They also dissect the four-step decision-making process from Emily's book, "The Family Firm”: frame the question, fact-find, land on a final decision, and follow up. Plan for the sequel folks, Jamie and Emily also coined a fifth step. 

The episode concludes with an impromptu live round of Ask a NAPS nurse Q&A. Oster steals the show as she delivers expert insights on how to approach the decision-making process for parents.

This podcast is proudly brought to you by our fabulous sponsors:

Feast & Fettle: Use code NAPS for $30 off your first order

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This week Jamie is joined by fellow mom and incredible instagram follow, Caitlin Murray (@bigtimeadulting). Caitlin shares her story and discusses her sons cancer diagnosis, growing up with anxiety, and what got her to where she is today.

During their conversations, Jamie and Caitlin talk about anxiety overload and the stories we make up in our heads that are heightened with sleep deprivation and lack of control. Let’s face it—loss of control is one of the most challenging things, yet our kids constantly remind us there is no such thing as perfect “control”. Sometimes the things our kids do make us question if we should laugh or cry… or both.

As always, it ok to talk about the hard days, it doesn’t mean that you are not grateful. We are here for you.

This episode is brought to you by Fidelity 529.

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Be sure to follow @nurturebynaps and @bigtimeadulting on IG for many laughs and parenting support.

This week Emily is joined by Kendra E. Kearney, APMA®, of the Rise Private Wealth Management team. Kendra joins NAPS to discuss wealth management and financial family planning.

FREE FAMILY FINANCIAL CHECKLIST:  https://lps.nurturebynaps.com/rise

Discussed in this episode:
-Expenses
-Family finances
-Childcare
-College Savings
-Family planning
-Retirement
-Financial goals
-Financial management
-Working mom
-Emergency planning
-Wealth management

Contact Kendra: https://www.ameripriseadvisors.com/kendra.kearney/

Be sure to follow us on instagram @nurturebynaps

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Emily is joined by Danni Ward, NAPS mom and career and leadership coach. Danni also holds the deserving title of mom to “The Hardest NAPS Baby to Date”. Emily and Danni discuss the challenging weeks and months that led Danni to seek out support from her community and how the birth of her daughter changed her life.

Discussed in this episode:
-Colic
-Gas
-Reflux
-Elimination diet
-Breast refusal
-Bottle refusal
-Postpartum struggles
-PPD
-PPA
-Nursing strike
-Maternity leave
-Returning to work
-Self compassion
-Mental health
-Therapy
-Parental Support

Contact Danni:
https://www.dwcoachingandconsulting.com
Email: danni@dwcoach.com

Mentioned in this episode: Mom’s Support Groups
https://www.nurturebynaps.com/moms-survival-guide
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This podcast episode is brought to you by MEFA. Go to https://www.mefa.org/save/u-fund-college-investing-plan to learn more about how to start saving for your child’s future.

In respect to National Bullying Prevention Month, this week’s podcast’s theme is Mom on Mom Bullying. Jamie and Emily discuss the challenges, comparisons, and complexities of being a parents and offer tactics for improving how we talk to ourselves and offer compassion to others.

Mentioned in this episode:
-Mom bullying
-Mom shame
-Judgment
-Inclusion
-Self blame
-Rejection
-Social media
-Exclusion
-Gossip
-Internet bullying
-Positive feedback
-Positive reinforcement
-Supporting others
-Women supporting women
-Nurturing oneself
-Challenging behaviors
-Bullying prevention

For more, follow us on IG @nurturebyNAPS

Emily is currently 36 weeks pregnant and anxiously awaiting her due date.  Emily cannot wait to deliver and has been putting an early delivery out in the universe for a while now (lol ask Jamie).

As of late, Emily has been reminiscing of her time postpartum with her two oldest daughters and thinking about her goals this time around. Major goal: being able to enjoy the newborn phase, to embrace the struggle, and not take things so seriously.  With Jamie’s blessing, Emily discusses her five goals (and plan for success) this time around.

We say it all the time, but the newborn phase goes by so quickly, we want you to feel supported enough to soak it in and enjoy this precious (and difficult time) because after all, it is temporary. Stay tuned— we will be checking back in to see how Emily did with her plan.

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When NAPS was established many years ago, one of the main goals was to create a special space where women could feel completely comfortable and well supported. A place where women could share their stories, talk about “taboo” topics without judgement, bond, and feel heard. Side note… there are not many off limit topics at NAPS.  

When Jamie’s oldest was 6 months old, she got the ultimate surprise. Pregnant with twins. Yes, that math is correct-- 3 children under 14 months old. Cue the feelings of anger, stress, disbelief and being VERY overwhelmed. Fast forward to Jamie’s 12 week ultrasound, where she found out she has miscarried both babies. Cue the feelings of shame, guilt, and more anger.

Trigger warning: In this 2 part series, Emily and Jamie are sharing their personal stories of experiencing loss with miscarriage. Jamie and Emily offer their unique perspectives on the complicated feelings and roller coaster of emotions that accompany miscarriage and loss.

As always, we are here to open the doors to the difficult conversations that so many of us experience, yet so few of us talk about.

You can find us @nurturebynaps on IG

Jamie is joined by Juliana Galante PT, DPT, PCES, to discuss exercise in the pregnancy and postpartum period. Juliana focuses on supporting birthing parents and their goals to feel like their best selves through physical therapy, strength, and conditioning.

Mentioned in this episode:
-Postpartum exercise
-Postbaby workouts
-Exercise in pregnancy
-Physical therapy
-Enjoying exercise
-Injury prevention
-Corrective exercise

How to connect/work with Juliana:
Back bay health (724) 554-2795
Instagram @pacer_physicaltherapy
https://www.pacerphysicaltherapy.com/
Stroller bootcamp: Wednesday this Spring-Summer at 10:30 am, in the Boston Commons
12 week PP course: https://www.pacerphysicaltherapy.com/MovinMomCourse

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This podcast episode is brought to you by MEFA. Go to https://www.mefa.org/save/u-fund-college-investing-plan to learn more about how to start saving for your child’s future.

This week, Emily discusses the evolution (over the last 7 years) of sleep/sleep training for her oldest daughter Grace. Grace recently celebrated her 7th birthday and turned the corner in the sleep department. Emily brings light to her trials and tribulations of all things sleep.

Discussed in this episode:
-Naps
-Daytime naps
-wake windows
-sleep training
-the chair method
-Bringing home baby
-Challenging toddler behaviors
-Sleep studies

Follow us on IG for a trip down memory lane regarding all things Grace & sleep @nurturebyNAPS.

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Jamie is joined by NAPS mom, Jamie, to offer advice and a plan for sleep and sleep training. On this episode, Jamie gets into all the questions and concerns regarding sleep training.

Discussed in this episode:
-Sleep struggles (reflux, soothing, wake ups)
-Short daytime naps
-Daily schedule
-Betime
-Sleep training timeline
-Day time sleep vs. nighttime sleep
-Earlier bedtimes
-Time check ins
-Sleep expectations
-Overnight feeds

If you like this content— please like/comment/ subscribe. Follow us on IG @nurturebynaps.

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Jamie kicks this episode off by sharing her thoughts on the importance of estate planning for parents, not only financially but also the care and values that parents would like their children to have. She discusses her recent experience with The Parents Estate Planning Law Firm in Massachusetts, and highlights an upcoming free workshop on this topic as well as the option for listeners to book a call with the firm to learn more. Jamie introduces the guests for this episode,   Dr. Cory Whelan and Dr. Kara LaCroix, co-founders of Seasons Behavioral Services, who provide valuable insights and resources for families supporting individuals with autism.

Dr. Whelan and Dr. LaCroix chat with Emily, sharing their journey in founding their organization and explain the process and importance of early intervention and support for families navigating autism diagnoses.The conversation delves into the intricacies of Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA) services, highlighting its role in helping children and adults with developmental disabilities and autism. They discuss the importance of early diagnosis and intervention to improve outcomes and emphasize the significance of parental support and community resources to navigate the complexities of raising a child with autism.

In this week’s Q&A, Jamie addresses a parent's concern about their four-month-old waking up frequently at night, explaining the concept of the four-month sleep regression. Jamie also mentions Nurture’s sleep consultation services for personalized support. 

Workshop with Jamie O’Day and Parents Estate Planning 

Book a call with Parents Estate Planning Law Firm 

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This week Jamie and Emily take “Moment for Mom” to the podcast in honor of surpassing their 100th episode production. In this episode you can expect real life advice from real life questions from fellow NAPS parents (like potty training, bottle feeding, sleep, and more).

Discussed in this episode:
-Potty training
-Toddler sleep
-Picky eaters
-Parenting
-Sibling prep
-Discipline
-Sleep training
-Bottle feeding
-Postpartum
-Formula feeding

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Live Webinars & Events
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Other podcasts mentioned in this episode:
Referenced in this episode:
Breastfeeding- Episode 10
Picky eating- Episode 36& 55
Real mom talk & sleep- Episode 44
Postpartum / formula- Episode 46

Be sure to follow us on instagram to ask your Moment for Mom question on Monday nights!

A recent hot topic in the NAPS office, and amongst clients, has been sibling prep (hi baby Silver 3.0). On this week’s episode, Emily takes the wheel to discuss the complexities of transitioning to life at home with a newborn, in addition to the rest of your family. Adjusting to being a family of 4 or more is difficult because we have nothing to truly compare it to (and this is before you factor in your baby's temperament/personality). A new family member brings along new experiences and requires resetting your expectations.

Jamie and Emily share their experiences, tips, tricks, and validate the fact that transitioning as a growing family is hard for everyone that is involved. As a reminder, this transition is only temporary and also really difficult.

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Hot topic alert: THE PACIFIER. Do we introduce a paci? When is the right time to give a paci vs take away the paci? What are the implications? What does the AAP (American Academy of Pediatrics) guidance mean?

This week, Emily and Jamie discuss everything paci’s— from personal experiences, dental insight, the overnight pacifier dance, to weaning from the pacifier and more.  

We want to be clear that there is no judgment around your family’s pacifier preferences and use. As always we are here for you and happy ta talk all things pacifiers!

Our personal favorite pacifiers:
Philips Avent Soothie and WubbaNub.  

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Jamie and Emily recount stories from their time working together as labor and delivery nurses and the start of their friendship.

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In this episode, Emily and Jamie discuss the upcoming daylight saving time change, but not before sharing a humorous story about Eloise's park birthday party and an unexpected piñata mishap. 

They humorously reflect on the inconveniences of losing an hour of sleep. Both share their personal experiences and practical tips for preparing children for the time change. Jamie advises gradually shifting meal and nap times later leading up to the event, while Emily advocates for a day-of adjustment by extending wake-up times and gently pushing bedtime back. They acknowledge that the transition period after the time change might be challenging, regardless of preparation, but reassure parents that it will eventually resolve itself. 

The hosts encourage listeners to stick to awake windows and sleep cycles while navigating the transition. The episode concludes with a reminder that everyone is in the same boat and encourages listeners to tag them on social media, sharing their early morning wake-up stories (@nurturebynaps). 

In this week’s Live Ask a NAPS Nurse, Jamie and Emily tackle the common challenge of kids being afraid to poop on the potty. Drawing from personal experiences, they normalize this fear, emphasizing that not all children learn to poop on the potty right away. They share insights on what's considered normal in terms of bowel movements and provide practical tips, including dietary suggestions and the use of over-the-counter laxatives if needed. 

Enjoying the podcast? Dive into Jamie and Emily's candid stories and parenting tips with our weekly Nappenings email. Subscribe here for an extra dose of insights straight to your inbox!

This podcast is proudly brought to you by our fabulous sponsors:

Feast & Fettle: Use code NAPS for $30 off your first order

The Turning Points podcast is back with a new season: Navigating Mental Health (Boston Globe Media in partnership with Point32Health)

SilverPost: Use code NAPSFAMILY for $5 off any plan

Mission MightyMe: Use code UNSWADDLED20 for 20% off all first-time orders

Jamie and Emily kick off this episode by sharing what they did over Memorial Day Weekend before discussing this week’s episode on summer travel, highlighting their different perspectives when it comes to traveling with their families 

Jamie and Emily share personal experiences and practical tips for traveling with children. They discuss their contrasting travel preferences and how these have evolved over time, talking about sleep environments and adjusting childrens’ routines. They also highlight the benefits of having a babysitter while on vacation to balance family time with time for personal relaxation, before diving into the logistics of traveling as a family. Emily draws from her experience flying with small children and gives her advice around managing luggage, car seats, and kids in airports. Jamie and Emily also cover important safety tips for travel, focusing on pools, the beach, and crowds. 

In this week’s Q&A, Jamie and Emily give their tips about flying while pregnant. 

This podcast is proudly brought to you by our fabulous sponsors:

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We love family vacations-- especially, the stories/lessons that family vacations return. On this episode, Emily shares about her recent family vacation to Maine and shares a story that sent her spiraling to think of the worst case scenario— something we frequently do as parents. Everyone has a story (or a few) where something happens and before we know it, we are thinking WORST case scenario. We worry, we research, we panic, and worry more.

Are we worrying too much? Are these overwhelming thoughts a common occurrence? How do we prevent this cycle?

Emily and Jamie talk about the practice of mindfulness, when and how to seek help, and helpful tips and tricks on how to slow down, focus on the facts, and how to prevent irrational overthinking.

By the way, we get it— it happens to all of us.

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Jamie and Emily introduce this episode as they sip their coffees and discuss their recent day of filming for the Nurture by NAPS community, excited to share their plans for releasing new video content.  

In this episode, Jamie and Emily discuss decision-making, as a parent. They emphasize the importance of thoughtful decision-making and how it impacts not only a child but also the parents' well-being. They explore the intricacies of decision-making in parenting using the B.R.A.I.N.S framework: Beliefs, Research, Avoid Outside Influence, Initiate a Plan, No Guilt, and Set a Time to Revisit the Choice. 

Jamie and Emily delve into the B.R.A.I.N.S framework, providing personal anecdotes and practical examples. From navigating conflicting beliefs to conducting thorough research, they highlight the significance of understanding one's values and gathering relevant information before making decisions.

They also discuss the challenges of avoiding outside influence and the necessity of having a supportive network of people who understand and respect individual circumstances. They stress the importance of setting realistic timelines for decision evaluation and the need to acknowledge and celebrate the efforts put into making informed choices, regardless of the outcome. Through candid conversations and relatable experiences, Jamie and Emily offer valuable insights into parenting decision-making processes, empowering listeners to approach challenges with clarity, confidence, and compassion. 

In this Ask a Nurse segment, Jamie & Emily answer when to drop the dream feed. They explain the dream feed can usually be dropped as early as four and by six months. Dropping it cold turkey is often recommended, as it tends to lead to either uninterrupted sleep or the need for some sleep training techniques.

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SHE’S BACK!! Emily is back from maternity leave. Get ready for lots of stories and lessons learned from her sweet baby #3, Miss Eloise.

To recap, Emily left us with 5 maternity leave goals:

1. Sleep
2. Not obsessing about sleep
3. Ask for help (in a way of anticipation not desperation)
4. Not stress about breastfeeding or feeding the baby
5. Enjoy it

On this episode, Emily revisits these goals and talks anxiety, sleep deprivation, returning to work, relationship changes and the realities of bringing home a new baby.

P.S. The best time to set yourself up for success is before baby arrives. Don’t let it take baby #3 for you to master it.

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Often parenting seems like a never ending series of transitions and changes— but why does the 1 year old transition feel so overwhelming?

Your kid’s first birthday comes with major celebration…and major angst. Right when you feel like you’ve got schedule “just right”, everything changes (i.e. feeding, sleeping, behaviors). Jamie and Emily give you the run down (and the DO’s and DON’T’s) on the two hottest topics, bottles and diary, pertaining to this milestone and also share the best advice they received as mom’s from their pediatrician.

In fact, the ladies of NAPS have gotten so many questions about the 1 year old transition that they have created a course available on Nurture to help guide you. Trust yourself. Trust your kid. Things get better.

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This podcast episode is brought to you by MEFA. Go to https://www.mefa.org/save/u-fund-college-investing-plan to learn more about how to start saving for your child’s future.

It is that time of year again— back to school! As you are your family gear up for back to school, Jamie and Emily offer advice about these transitions and tell a few stories along the way.

Discussed in this episode:
Transitions
School drop off
Morning routine
Back to school
School drop off
Routine
Preparation
Consistency
Summer routine

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In this podcast episode, Jamie engages in a lively and informative chat with Dr. Sara Reardon, affectionately known as The Vagina Whisperer (thevagwhisperer.com), a certified expert in pelvic health physical therapy. Their discussion revolves around the vital role of pelvic health, with a primary focus on pregnancy and postpartum care. As always, the seriousness of the topic is lifted by their humor and engaging conversation.

Dr. Sara makes sure we understand just how incredible the pelvic floor muscles are in supporting our internal organs and multitasking like pros. The conversation takes us through the quirks of pregnancy, with a lighthearted approach that highlights the importance of early action, education, and prevention in managing pelvic health. Dr. Sara is all about taking a proactive stance, breaking down the walls of stigma, and empowering everyone with knowledge.

Moving beyond pregnancy, the chat dives into the often-dismissed or simplified concerns of postpartum life, from awkward moments during intimacy to surprise leaks, and even abdominal issues. The talk also stresses the need for comprehensive insurance coverage for preventive care, making it clear that healthcare providers should actively steer patients toward pelvic health physical therapists.

The real hero here is pelvic floor physical therapy, addressing postpartum issues with tailored treatments and personal attention. The big picture is an ideal healthcare approach that's all about keeping new mothers informed, offering extensive support, and providing comprehensive education. This model seamlessly combines in-person and virtual care, giving new moms the tools and confidence to advocate for their well-being. Let's break the taboo and start talking openly about pelvic health! 

You can find Dr. Sara on Instagram @the.vagina.whisperer

In this week’s Live Ask a NAPS Nurse, Jamie and Emily discuss when to transition to a larger nipple size for bottle fed babies. They clarify that the size impacts milk flow rate based on the number of holes. Typically, newborns use preemie or size one nipples, but around three to five months, a larger size may be needed if feedings take too long or babies become fussy and distracted. They dispel the breastfeeding nipple confusion myth and suggest switching if needed. 

For all insights on what to expect when expecting - from pelvic floor to feeding plans, join our two-day virtual Pre-Baby Bootcamp experienced registered nurses guide expecting parents through an interactive, fun, and comprehensive prenatal and early parenting class, offering essential knowledge and a supportive community.

Enjoying the podcast? Dive into Jamie and Emily's candid stories and parenting tips with our weekly Nappenings email. Subscribe here for an extra dose of insights straight to your inbox!

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On the last few episodes, Jamie and Emily talked about resetting expectations and keeping cool throughout the summer… but what happens when $h*t hits the fan and you are in the middle of the ocean. Welcome to Jamie’s family vacation featuring the “critter cruise”.

Jamie and Emily sit down to recall the events that unfolded in the middle of the Atlantic, when Jamie’s planned family excursion turned into deep sea fishing, on rocky seas. Jamie talks about what really went down during those 2 hours at sea, that seemed like forever, and the lessons learned along the way.

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Emily and Jamie introduce this week’s episode with Emily’s recent snowboarding experience after a year-long hiatus after a fall lead to a concussion. The duo discuss the challenges of returning to the slopes and Emily's newfound cautiousness. 

Emily is then joined by Laura Jacobs (Instagram @laurathematchmaker), celebrity matchmaker and mom to two sets of twins! Emily and Laura engage in a candid conversation about the distinct challenges of pregnancy, particularly when expecting twins for the second time. Laura shares the joys and unexpected trials of having 15-month-old twins while anticipating the arrival of her second set. The episode offers a glimpse into Laura's life as a celebrity matchmaker, highlighting the delicate balance required when navigating the demands of a high-profile career alongside family life.

The discussion takes a poignant turn as Laura reflects on her experience with hyperemesis during both pregnancies. Emily explores the challenges of finding empathy and understanding from others, shedding light on the rarity of hyperemesis and the lack of priority in research to find a cure. The duo also delves into the topic of returning to work early after having a baby, particularly dealing with the demands of a high-intensity job, pumping, and navigating societal expectations around breastfeeding, revealing the lack of support for postpartum mothers in the workplace.

Laura emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries, self-care, and unapologetically prioritizing one's well-being in the face of societal expectations. Laura offers advice to expecting parents, encouraging them to focus on the positives of twins and highlighting the benefits as they grow older. The discussion concludes with insights into Laura's approach to social media, where she maintains a dedicated space for matchmaking and dating advice, keeping her family life private due to concerns about online safety.

In this Ask a NAPS Nurse segment Emily and Jamie answer a listener's question about the ideal timing for taking prenatal classes during pregnancy. They discuss their upcoming Pre-Baby Bootcamp, an interactive prenatal education event, and they highlight the benefits of the Nurture by NAPS annual membership, offering flexibility and access to various prenatal resources. The sweet spot for taking classes, such as Pre-Baby Bootcamp, is between 24 and 34 weeks of pregnancy, though it can be done a bit earlier or later. 

This podcast is proudly brought to you by our fabulous sponsors:

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Jamie and Emily discuss CPR: all you need to know. This is a must listen for all— parents, caregivers, and anyone who is around other human beings! Make this the year that everyone learns CPR. This episode prepares you for what to do until help arrives on scene and how to save a life.

Discussed in this episode:
-CPR
-Cardio Pulmonary Resuscitation
-Infant and Child CPR
-Safety
-Life saving skills
-Compressions
-Rescue Breaths
-Calling 911
-Emergency Response
-Life saving skills
-Brain damage
-Heart and lungs
-Unresponsive
-Not breathing

Resources:
Book a virtual or private CPR class with NAPS:
https://www.nurturebynaps.com/infant-child-cpr

American Heart Association Certification:
https://www.redcross.org/take-a-class?scode=PSG00000E017&ds_rl=1289062cid=generator&med=cpc&source=google&gclid=CjwKCAiA2fmdBhBpEiwA4CcHzWnQBHrcPMxWMqvXyhCmSI66nUfZKsuDQxfOhsZ9TUc4a4O74OOgNhoCShQQAvD_BwE&gclsrc=aw.ds

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Emily is joined by NAPS parent, Christine Lawson, to discuss her personal experience and recovery from perinatal anxiety and depression.

Discussed in this episode:
-Perinatal mood disorders
-Postpartum anxiety
-Postpartum depression
-Anger and irritability
-Obsessive thoughts
-Intrusive thoughts
-Peer support
-Therapy
-Medication
-Living with anxiety
-Seeking help

If you are struggling with a perinatal mood disorder(pregnancy and beyond), we are here for you. Please find us @nurturebynaps. Email hello@nurturebynaps.com or call (857) 496-5095.

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Perinatal Helpline (24 hours): Postpartum Support International You are not alone and you are not to blame. Help is available. You will get better. HelpLine (call or text): 1.800.944.4773

TW: Infant loss. This week Emily is joined by Amanda Lauren--interior design expert, writer, podcaster, and momma to be! Amanda opens up about her fertility struggles, experience with infant loss and navigating her pregnancy.

Discussed in this episode:
-Miscarriage
-Terminal pregnancy
-Infertility
-Ivf
-Infertility as a medical condition
-lgbtq+ conception
-Insurance limitations
-Fertility medications
-Basal body temp
-Natural cycles
-Fertility challenges
-Hormones
-Injections
-Egg health
-Finding the right provider
-Switching providers
-1 in 4
-Reaching out for help
-Mental health support

For Nursery design articles and more interior expertise, be sure to check out Amanda on Instagram @itsamandalauren.

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If you know Jamie and Emily, you know that they LOVE their pediatrician…so much so that she is the newest full-time addition to the NAPS & Nurture by NAPS team. Ellen is the standard of relationships families should have with their pediatrician— yet, we understand that this is not the case for everyone.

In your child’s first year of life, they have 9 well-child visits (this means 9 doctor’s appointments not including weight checks, illness, feeding support, etc..). You should look forward to those visits because of the relationship you have with your pediatrician. This relationship is so important because it is reflective of the relationship that your child will later have with that individual.

On this episode, Jamie and Emily provide suggestions on how to look for a pediatrician, what questions to ask, how to know if your pediatrician is a good fit, and when to move on to another provider. Remember— picking your pediatrician is not an arranged marriage. We encourage you to love your pediatrician (and that may involved some shopping around)!

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Life really does come at you fast—especially when you are becoming a parent. In this episode, Jamie and Emily discuss what to prepare for beyond diaper changes and getting through the demands of labor.

There is a trend in society to put major emphasis on prepping for labor, and quite frankly, not much beyond that. Most parents practice their diapering/ swaddling techniques before birth and choose a planned method for feeding (remember, fed is best). All of a sudden, you have a gorgeous little one in your arms and you are awaiting discharge from the hospital. How can we be going home? Are we suitable parents? How are we going to know what to do? The truth is that parenting truly begins after labor and delivery. That doesn’t mean neglecting to prepare for labor and delivery, or breastfeeding-- but give equal, if not more time, to prepare for parenting and the changes in family dynamic, sleep, and managing the feelings of being overwhelmed and/or anxious.

Not to fret, this episode is filled with client feedback, personal experience, tools to prepare for baby and real-life advice. At NAPS, we want to give you the proper tools to prepare for your baby without the expectation that things are going to be easy. We are here to fully support you in the total life adjustment that parenting is and to watch you succeed.

You can find us @nurturebynaps on IG

In this hilarious podcast segment, we dive into the quirks and challenges of parenting, with a focus on how partners can navigate the journey together. Jamie and Emily reflect on their experiences and the shortcomings of traditional prenatal classes that often sideline partners. They reminisce about teaching their early classes in hospital settings, where the curriculum seemed exclusively tailored to birthing moms, leaving partners feeling like awkward passengers on the parenting ride.

Jamie emphasizes the need for equality in parenting roles and suggests practical ways to include partners. They stress the importance of setting the tone early on by discussing and deciding how to handle various aspects of parenting, such as pediatrician appointments, managing sick kids and sharing responsibilities during the night.

Amidst the laughter, they delve into the broader implications of such decisions, emphasizing the need for partners to share the load and experience the on-the-job training that comes with parenting. They highlight the importance of communication, teamwork, and setting the stage for an equal and supportive partnership in the chaotic world of parenting.

If you enjoyed this episode and want more laughs and insights, be sure to check out Episode 107, where we previously delved into the truth about first-time expecting parents. 

Be sure to join us for our next Pre-Baby Bootcamp, the prenatal class you don't want to miss! Whether you're a first-time parent or adding a new member to your growing family, our bootcamps are designed to provide valuable insights, tips, and a supportive community to help you navigate the exciting journey of parenthood. 

In our Live Ask a NAPS Nurse Q&A Emily addresses a question on gassy babies and spit-up issues. Drawing from personal experiences, Emily distinguishes between normal spit-up and abnormal signs, emphasizing the importance of contacting a pediatrician for severe cases. She provides research-backed strategies, such as using probiotics and incorporating practices like tummy time and leg exercises to ease gas and spit-up troubles.

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A pregnancy/labor episode for ALL. Jamie and Emily encourage all birthing parents to listen and prepare for c-section births (whether it is scheduled or unplanned).

Discussed in this episode:
-Scheduled C section
-Cesarian birth
-Preparing for you labor
-Vaginal delivery
-C section
-Natural birth
-Pain management
-Birth scenarios
-Common c-section scenarios
-Breech babies
-C section recovery
-Pelvic floor PT
-C-section scar message
-Incontinence
-Leaking urine
-Postpartum sex
-Asking for help
-Preparing for help
-Scheduled and unplanned c section
-Skin to skin
-Postpartum poops

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Jamie and Emily celebrate their last podcast episode before their summer break by discussing a highly requested topic- their daily routines! They emphasize both the similarities and the differences in their parenting styles, and how this plays out in their day to day schedules. Emily starts out by discussing her mornings and the challenges of dealing with an early-rising toddler, while Jamie talks about her more relaxed mornings and the benefits of having older, more independent children. They delve into mealtimes, and the strategies of ordering out and letting kids watch TV during meals vs eating together as a family. Emily and Jamie then discuss their bedtime routines, highlighting the different routes they each take with their children, from quick good nights to more involved nighttime rituals. They reflect on the flexibility and challenges of parenting, emphasizing the importance of adapting routines to individual family needs and doing what works best for the family as a whole. 

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Emily is joined by Katie Thompson from WCVB, the Eye Opener. Katie is a NAPS parent, news anchor, reporter, and badass working mom. Emily and Katie talk about their experience as working parents and navigating the first year of her daughter’s life.

Discussed in this episode:
-One year old transitions
-Toddler schedules
-Comparing your kids
-Milestones
-Development
-First birthday
-Working moms
-Childcare
-Wake Windows
-Dr. Google
-Dropping naps
-Schedule
-Routine
-Navigating childcare
-Parent to parent
-Navigating the first year of life

For more be sure to follow us on instagram @nurturebynaps. Find Katie @katiee_t.

Join our New Mom Support group: https://www.nurturebynaps.com/moms-survival-guide

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After a recent instagram post that got a lot of love, it was apparent that this topic resonated with many. As women, need to stop waiting to feel good and start taking care of ourselves. It could mean a mani/pedi, a blowout, a full night of sleep, a workout, new clothes, or taking a nap and having time to yourself. Taking care of yourself is not a reward, it is essential for you, but also the wellbeing of your family. Taking care of yourself is going to mean something different for everyone but, it does not need to be complicated or a huge investment.

Jamie and Emily talk about the lessons they have learned throughout pregnancy and continue to learn in motherhood. Remember, how much you sacrifice yourself as a mother does not determine your worth. You deserve to feel like you and you deserve to feel GOOD.

You can find us on IG @NurturebyNAPS

This week, Emily is joined by our very own NAPS Pediatric Nurse Practitioner, Ellen McCue. Ellen is our in house pediatric specialist, sleep expert, potty training expert, and sounding board for all things baby/children/family. In the episode, Emily and Ellen discuss her role at NAPS and all she can offer to support your family, in whatever way best fits your family’s needs.

Discussed in this episode:
-Pediatric providers
-Sleep consulting
-Sleep expert
-Newborn sleep
-Toddler sleep
-Pediatric support
-Clinical assessments
-Healthy babies
-High acuity babies
-Safe sleep training
-Specific sleep training
-Daytime sleep
-Daycare sleep
-Ellen’s pearls of wisdom

Be sure to follow us on IG @nurturebynaps.

If you are interested in the NAPS membership— be sure to check out our monthly and annual options.
https://www.nurturebynaps.com/

Time really does fly! Unswaddled is officially 1 year old and we cannot thank you enough for your continued support in allowing us to do what we love. Jamie and Emily recap the changes that have happened over the course of the year in life, business, and parenting, as well as reflect on (many) lessons learned.

Topics include:
- Starting a business
- Building a business
- The parallels between business and parenting
- Acknowledging mistakes and MOVING on
- No longer making excuses for mistakes
- Learning to say sorry
- Parenting struggles
- School drop off/ routines
- Changing perspectives
- Taking action

Like and share this episode! Follow us on IG @nurturebynaps.

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With return to school and winter quickly approaching… ’tis this season of illness. Jamie and Emily share their lessons learned & advice for cold and flu season, as well as planning for staying home from school/ work.

Discussed in this episode:
-Sick season
-Childcare
-RSV
-Flu
-HFM
-Hand foot and mouth disease
-Staying home from work
-Staying home from school
-Stay home
-Liquid Medication
-Children medication
-Chewable medication
-Newborns
-Visitors
-Sick toddlers
-Asking for help
-Sick visits

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This week, Jamie is joined by Dr. Peter L. Steinberg, NAPS parent and Urologist to discuss all things circumcision.

Discussed in this episode:
-Circumcision care
-Circumcision risk
-Circumcisions vs no circumcision
-Penile infections
-Circumcision recovery
-Newborn circumcisions
-Adult circumcisions
-Pain
-Pain management
-Circumcision methods
-Circumcision FAQ
-Complications after surgery

Resources from medical resources recommended by Dr. Steinberg:
AUA (Urology) -- https://www.auanet.org//about-us/policy-and-position-statements/circumcision

AAP (Pediatrics) -- https://publications.aap.org/pediatrics/article/130/3/585/30235/Circumcision-Policy-Statement

CDC position statement -- focused largely on STI and UTI prevention --
https://stacks.cdc.gov/view/cdc/58456

AAFP (Family physicians) -- https://www.aafp.org/about/policies/all/neonatal-circumcision.html

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Welcome guest, Sarah Harmon, (back) to the podcast! Sarah is a fellow girl mom, Licensed Mental Health Therapist, founder of The School of Mom and Postpartum Wellness Group, and invaluable resource regarding mental health and well being.

Discussed in this episode:
-Parenting oneself
-Mindfullness
-Self compassionate
-Self doubt
-Parenting
-Mom guilt
-Self shame
-Mental Health

School of Mom Program:
https://www.theschoolofmom.com/momprogram22
** If you are interested in seeing an experienced mental health clinician (who is also a mom), please reach out to
hello@postartumwellnessgroup.com

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Emily and Jamie introduce this episode by sharing humorous anecdotes about parenting, including a time when Jamie peed her pants after a parenting struggle. They discuss their experiences with kids' electronic devices and set the stage for their conversation with dedicated NAPS clients, Alyssa and Eric Scruggs. The couple has utilized various NAPS services throughout their parenting journey. The episode covers their parenting struggles and successes, getting support from NAPS programs, and how they navigate toddler issues while expecting their second child. 

Eric and Alyssa provide insights into the unpredictable nature of parenting, stressing the importance of adaptability in handling unforeseen situations. Emily touches on societal expectations surrounding parenting roles, acknowledging the contributions of both partners. The couple appreciates NAPS’s emphasis on preparing both parents for the challenges ahead, fostering teamwork, and mutual support and treating fathers as active participants in parenting rather than mere observers.

The conversation covers various aspects of parenting, with a focus on recognizing the challenges of feeding and exploring diverse feeding options. Particularly Alyssa’s experience exclusively pumping after breastfeeding difficulties. Emily acknowledges the emotional toll feeding challenges can take on parents and underscores the significance of seeking professional help, including lactation consultants. The discussion concludes with the couple expressing gratitude for the community and resources provided by NAPS, which have played a vital role in their parenting journey.

In the "Live Ask a NAPS Nurse" segment, Emily and Jamie respond to a question from a parent with a two-and-a-half-month-old baby who sleeps for long stretches at night and wonders if they should wake the baby to feed. The hosts agree that there's no need to wake the baby and explain why. For those who do not have a newborn sleeping like this overnight, they suggest checking out the Nurture webinar How to Get Your Newborn to Sleep Longer Stretches Overnight

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Summer means a lot of excitement. School is out, and warmer weather amounts to endless activities and opportunities for fun. Sometimes saying “no” is the easy option because a “yes” requires flexibility (cue the later bedtimes and necessary adjustments for the next day). Parenting takes flexibility and it is important to reset our expectations for given circumstances like the summer bbq, fireworks, travel, etc…

Jamie and Emily talk about the lessons they have learned from losing their $h*t and recognizing (and managing) the triggers that make them feel upset. Both ladies talk strategies for resisting the urge to yell and scream and resetting the expectations to create memories and enjoy this wonderful time of year.

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Emily is joined by Meredith Silversmith, licensed marriage and family therapist, co-founder of Nassau Wellness, and and NAPS mom to talk relationships after baby.

Discussed on this episode:

-Partner communication
-Relationship changes
-Difficult conversations
-Delegation
-Asking for help
-Partner needs
-Counseling
-Making time for your partner
-Partner bonding
-Quality time
-Relationship building

Referenced in this episode/ how to reach Meredith:
Website: nassauwellness.com/meredith
Email: meredith@nassauwellness.com
Instagram: @happymarriage.coach

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If you know NAPS, you know Sarah Harmon. Sarah is a NAPS parent, licensed mental health therapist, yoga/mindfulness teacher, corporate wellness expert and founder of The School of MOM and Parent Wellness Group. This week, Sarah puts Emily in the hot seat to talk about her current overload and high expectations of herself.

Discussed in this episode:
Postpartum Anxiety
Parenting
Expectations
High and lows of parenting
Mental health
Working parents

Contact Sarah:
The School of Mom
https://www.theschoolofmom.com/
The Parent Wellness Group
https://www.parentwellnessgroup.com/

Nurture Membership:
https://boston-naps.teachable.com/

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Jamie sits down with second time mom, Rachel (and her 4 week old baby, Maeve), who Jamie was first introduced to in her Mom’s Survival Guide (support group). Rachel approached Jamie with a few questions involving transitioning from 1 kid to 2, and the accompanying challenging toddler behaviors. We figured many of you are in the same boat— so why not turn these questions into an episode?

Discussed in this episode:
-Bringing home baby
-Sibling transitions
-Transitioning from 1 to 2 kids (vs. becoming a parent for the first time)
-Toddler transitions
-Toddler bedtime
-Toddler feelings
-Logistics of parenting more than one child
-The comparison game
-Creating personal boundaries
-Making time for yourself, your partner, and your kids
-Discipline approaches
-Pushing boundaries
-Dealing with daycare
-Attention seeking behavior

***If you are an experienced mom looking to learn about your developing newborn and meet other moms balancing new babies with older children, be check out our virtual Veteran’s Mom Survival Guide. Sign up here!

https://www.nurturebynaps.com/veterans-moms-survival-guide

If you like this content— please like/comment/ subscribe. Follow us on IG @nurturebynaps.

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Referenced in this episode:

The Whole Brain Child by Daniel J. Siegel MD

https://www.amazon.com/s?k=whole+brain+child&gclid=Cj0KCQiAw9qOBhC-ARIsAG-rdn7dLmYlHUa1xAC69e_8xJ0BTF3LeAcOI1FTV43H4V6ofBlgyTPfGGgaAhU-EALw_wcB&hvadid=409971158828&hvdev=c&hvlocphy=9002028&hvnetw=g&hvqmt=e&hvrand=3749862405728978703&hvtargid=kwd-27010564507&hydadcr=22536_11318350&tag=googhydr-20&ref=pd_sl_6g6mske05i_e

1-2-3 Magic by Thomas W. Phelan, PhD

https://www.amazon.com/1-2-3-Magic-Discipline-Effective-Parenting/dp/149262988X/ref=asc_df_149262988X/?tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=312177564685&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=2574673933501163725&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9002028&hvtargid=pla-435999936633&psc=1&tag=&ref=&adgrpid=60258870697&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvadid=312177564685&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=2574673933501163725&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9002028&hvtargid=pla-435999936633

Happy Father’s Day! It only seems right to release a podcast on Father’s Day about the unsung heroes—dads!

On this episode, Jamie and Emily give us a close look into their households and all that their partners do. Although both husbands (hi JC and AJ) have two letter names, their roles are very different in each household. The ladies of NAPS talk about meeting their partner, growing with them, starting a family, and how roles have changed during the pandemic. As much as we love to hype all the mommas up, today is for you, dad. Thank your spouse and thank them for all that they do. On behalf of NAPS, Happy Father’s Day!!

You can find us on IG @NurturebyNAPS.

As a continuation of the last podcast episode, where Jamie opens up about her miscarriage, Emily takes the floor and shares her miscarriage experience. Like Jamie, Emily’s experience is filled with many emotions and complicated feelings but is very different.

Who is the person you call in a moment of panic? For Jamie, it’s Emily. For Emily, it’s Jamie.

In the middle of her shift as a labor and delivery nurse, Emily calls Jamie... from the hospital bathroom, nonetheless. Through tears, Emily tells Jamie that she is  pregnant. If you know Emily, from the moment she is pregnant, she is SICK. At this point Emily's mind is spiralling.

Emily talks about everything from anxiety, anxiety meds, hyperemesis, and the misconceptions surrounding the stigma of medication during pregnancy. Emily discusses hitting rock bottom without anxiety medication and the battle of trying to go off/on the meds based on the shame she felt for being on such medication. Emily highlights the importance of prioritizing taking care of yourself prior to taking care of others.

Trigger warning: In part 2 of this 2 part series, Emily and Jamie are sharing their personal stories of experiencing loss with miscarriage. Jamie and Emily offer their unique perspectives on the complicated feelings and roller coaster of emotions that accompany miscarriage and loss.

As always, we are here to open the doors to the difficult conversations that so many of us experience, yet so few of us talk about. You are not alone and we are here for you.

You can find us @nurturebynaps on IG

Welcome guest, Sarah Harmon, to the podcast! Sarah is a fellow girl mom, licensed Mental Health Therapist, founder of The School of Mom, and invaluable resource when it comes to mental health and wellbeing.

Jamie and Sarah discuss “self- care” and the complexities of the term. What does self-care mean as a mom? When is there time? How do I start? This term often feels like a dagger, especially as a mom. You are not alone. Jamie and Sarah talk about their experiences and demonstrate that self-care is not one-size fits all. Follow us on IG @Nurturebynaps. Referenced in this episode: School of Mom (@the.schoolofmom)

https://www.theschoolofmom.com/mom-practice-club-self-care-membership

Jamie and Emily welcome guest, Dr. Aishwarya Weaver (https://www.draishwaryaweaver.com/) , a psychologist specializing in grief, pregnancy, prenatal, postpartum and infertility. They delve into Aishwarya's background and her journey into focusing on women in the perinatal period, discussing themes of grief, identity, and expectations surrounding pregnancy and postpartum experiences. The conversation sheds light on the gap between expectations and reality. Specifically when looking at support from parents and in-laws, during the transition to parenthood. They emphasize the importance of setting realistic expectations, having open conversations with family members, and embracing the concept of "good enough" parenting.

The conversation turns tactical, as they discuss strategies for setting and maintaining boundaries. Aishwarya emphasizes the importance of understanding individual needs and advocating for oneself. Self-awareness and effective communication are highlighted as essential tools for articulating needs with family members, partners, or friends.

Jamie and Aishwarya express optimism about the potential for growth and connection through honest dialogue and boundary-setting. They affirm the value of seeking support and resources, both professionally and personally, to navigate the complexities of parenthood and relationships with authenticity and compassion. The episode serves as a guide for listeners to embrace flexibility and adaptability in nurturing healthy relationships amidst life's changes and challenges.

In this week’s Ask a NAPS Nurse segment, Jamie and Emily answer a question about activities for a two-year-old child while the parent is pregnant with their second child. They share personal experiences and suggestions for keeping toddlers entertained like bringing the water tables indoors!! They also discuss outsourcing child care to family members, friends, or babysitters for some relief. They make note of the practicality of utilizing screens like television or iPads during times of pregnancy discomfort, and suggest considering options like hiring a mother's helper if available. 

This podcast is proudly brought to you by our fabulous sponsors:

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Let’s kick this second installment of Real (Mom) Talk off with our client who gets INTO the postpartum things…all the things…with Jamie.

From broken postpartum baby hairs / bangs you may sprout to changed relationships with yourself and others - we get into a lot.

Join us to talk about:

-Potential TMI on nipples and breast shapes
-How we talk to ourselves in the mirror (hot tip - you don’t have to say you LOVE your body, but there are other words we can use)
-Strength as a person pre and post kids
-Delayed bonding and PPD
-Maternity leave during covid
-Accepting fear and feeling alone to normalize talking about all of this!
-Vacation away from kids and ideal timing
-Pandemic grief and parent grief

What can you control? What can you not control?  How is your self talk?  Let’s talk about it. Without criticism. Without judgement.  Let’s TALK.

Find your people - whether that’s us via Nurture membership - or your best friend who meets you where you’re at.  

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On this week’s episode, Emily is joined by NAPS mom, Christina Cartwright. Christina discusses her medical trauma, being a woman of color in the healthcare system, and her difficult journey to motherhood. Now she views motherhood as her superpower and is on a mission to change how the world views motherhood.

Discussed in this episode:

-Life changing moments
-Identity evolution
-Trauma before motherhood
-Medical trauma
-Women of color in the healthcare system
-Healthcare injustice
-Chronic pain
-Fibroid tumors
-Self advocation
-Dermoid cyst
-Real motherhood
-Parenting support
-Parenting resources
-Support behind motherhood
-Health care disparity 
-SAHM
-Education
-Shedding a new light on motherhood
-Preparing for parenting
-Rebranding motherhood

Here’s to always keeping it real. Follow us on IG @nurturebynaps & @mommy_cartwright

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As of late, we have frequently been asked about bottle refusals. We are seeing a significant amount of babies who have taken a bottle in their early life and who are now refusing, as well as babies who have never taken a bottle before…ever! Do not fret— we are here for you with the tips & tricks!!

Mentioned in this episode:
-Introducing a bottle
-Bottle refusals
-When to introduce a bottle
-How to introduce a bottle
-Formula
-Pumping
-Return to work
-Exclusive breastfeeding
-Nipple confusion
-Favorite bottles for a picky baby
-Daycare
-Childcare
-Bottle consults
-Bottle refusal course

To book a bottle consult or purchase the bottle refusal course, check out our website linked below:

https://www.nurturebynaps.com/

IG @ nurturebynaps

In honor of October being Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month, Emily is joined by Juliet Keeler Lebien, LCSW-R & LICSW, clinical with over 10 years (almost 20 years) of experience, and specialist in pregnancy and infant loss to discuss complicated grieving.

Discussed in this episode:
-Infant loss
-Conceptualizing loss
-Community
-Uncomfortable topics
-Maternal health
-Bereavement services
-What you shouldn’t say to people who have experienced loss
-Shame
-Defining your story
-Navigating loss
-Comforting words
-Spiritual beliefs
-Being there for the bereaved
-Bereaved parents
-Trauma informed care
-Living through grief
-Lacking resources
-Resources through grief
-1 in 4 women

Resources mentioned in this episode:
Juliet’s email: juliet@lebienpsych.com
Juliet’s website: https://lebienpsych.com/

Return to Zero

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In this festive episode, Jamie reflects on the chaos of holiday-themed attire, advocating for simplified, accessible themes for events like School Spirit Week. 

This episode honors those providing invaluable support during the parenthood transition, offering a heartwarming perspective for the holiday season. If you haven’t listened to our Visitors Versus Helpers podcast, do that before diving in HERE. 

Colleen, a seasoned NAPS mom, joins Emily along with her mother, Margaret. Colleen shares her evolving approach to seeking help, emphasizing the shift from passive acceptance to actively seeking assistance. The discussion explores Colleen's participation in NAPS' Grandparent Bootcamp, highlighting insights into improving her son's sleep.

Margaret, a seasoned grandmother of six, contributes by discussing the changing parenting landscape and stressing the importance of an open-minded village approach. The conversation delves into grandparent support dynamics, focusing on communication and understanding.

Valuable tips are shared, emphasizing the importance of clear communication when accepting help and staying informed about modern parenting practices. The discussion concludes with a reminder to find joy in the parenting journey, fostering positive intergenerational relationships.

Emily encourages listeners to explore NAPS programs, including New Mom and Veteran Mom Support Groups. The episode also features a live Ask A NAPS nurse segment addressing postpartum pain with sex. Jamie extends holiday wishes and teases the upcoming episode to wrap up 2023. Don't miss the next grandparent bootcamp, and stay tuned for more insightful episodes next year!

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Maternity leave: expectation vs. reality.

On this episode, Jamie and Emily dig deep into maternity leave and the false perceptions we have surrounding maternity leave. What we see on social media is wrong, and total BS. Moms, 5 days postpartum, and out and about in their pre-preggo jeans, blown out hair, and cute baby carrier. This is NOT reality.  The blowouts (not the kind from DryBar), the tears, unfolding/ fumbling the stroller—that IS reality. Listen for a laugh, dose of reality and, most importantly, a shift in resetting those expectations (as nurses, moms, and friends who have been there before).

Keeping a tiny human alive, and trying to fulfill your most basic human needs, is not for the faint of heart. The days seem to fly by while dragging on. All of a sudden, it is 5pm and your partner gets home from work, makes friendly conversation, and all of a sudden it’s a personal attack (sees the laundry piles, dirty dishes. etc..). How do we help ourselves with communication? How can we get recognition for the invisible work we are doing through the day (aka the countless feedings, diaper changes, pumping sessions, tepid coffee we have yet to enjoy from 6am)?

Throughout the episode, Jamie and Emily give strategies on how to tackle maternity leave and reset the expectation from their personal experiences, struggles, and expertise. Remember mama, you are killing it and deserve a gold star!

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In honor of the holiday season, and the stress and pressure that often accompanies this time of year, Emily and Jamie discuss what it means to “let it go”. Let the things that do not matter to you GO! If it matters to you, then you find a way…. if not, let it go. Wishing you a happy and healthy holiday season!

Discussed in this episode:
-Picking your battles
-Outsourcing
-Christmas cards
-School outfits
-What matters to you
-What does not matter to you
-Things you try to control
-Stress
-Approaching the holidays
-Parenting

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Naps co-founders Jamie and Emily tackle parenting chaos, reshaping homework woes. They highlight the flexibility parents have in making beneficial changes. 

Transitioning to the main topic, Jamie, speaks with guest Linda McGurk, to explore diverse parenting philosophies and the benefits of outdoor play. Linda, author of "There's No Such Thing as Bad Weather," shares her Scandinavian perspective, emphasizing the importance of nature in children's development. The episode touches on cultural influences, societal attitudes, and challenges faced in American parenting. Linda advocates for play-based learning and a balanced, child-centric approach, encouraging parents to trust their intuition. 

Linda emphasizes the importance of allowing children to take risks for skill development, critiquing the US's risk-averse culture. The conversation covers over-scheduling, safety obsessions, and the inhibitions hindering children's free play. Linda encourages parents to find nearby green spaces, promoting even short, regular outdoor play for child development, including city dwellers.

You can find Linda by signing up for her newsletter on rainorshinemamma.com and Instagram. 

In this live Ask A NAPS nurse, Emily and Jamie address a viewer's query on plagiocephaly and the use of helmets for a child's flat head. They highlight severity as key, noting research showing positive outcomes for severe cases but minimal differences in mild to moderate instances. Emily, opting against a helmet for her child, advocates consulting a pediatrician and exploring non-invasive interventions like pediatric PT or OT initially.

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In this lively podcast episode, Jamie and Emily share humorous anecdotes about the challenges of getting their kids to embrace flu shots. Transitioning to the main topic, Jamie and Emily embark on a nostalgic exploration of the "village" concept and its transformation over time. Emily reminisces about her time on a military base, where the village was basically a daily block party with beach chairs, highlighting the sense of community and support among families.

They explore the traditional village model, emphasizing the role of family and neighbors in providing support. The conversation delves into the impact of societal changes, including more women working and moving away from family, leading to the perception that the village no longer exists. Jamie and Emily challenge this notion, emphasizing the importance of building a support system, whether virtual or local. They share personal anecdotes about their evolving villages and encourage listeners to embrace various forms of support. Jamie and Emily stress the importance of finding your people, whether it's the neighbor down the street or a virtual support group. The episode ends with a sneak peek into the next one—boundaries, or as Emily puts it, "how not to suffocate when your family's always around, promising valuable insights into maintaining healthy relationships with family and friends.”

In this week’s Live Ask a NAPS Nurse, Jamie and Emily featured the NAPS hat. For those interested, hit up hello@naps.com. This question delves into when to call the pediatrician, especially with cold and flu season approaching. Jamie and Emily, along with their pediatric nurse practitioner Ellen, discuss the typical duration of viruses in kids—up to three weeks. During cold and flu season, expect seven to 12 viruses. The hosts emphasize reading the child, not just the temperature, when dealing with fevers. If the child is drinking, producing wet diapers, and lacks respiratory issues, things are likely okay. Feeling lost? Call your pediatrician. 

For the 2023 Holiday Gift Guide, to enter, dm @NurturebyNaps: #giftguide for the ultimate parent gift list. With every email for download we receive, NAPS will make a $1 donation to Toys for Tots.

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Emily shares her recent experience with end-of-school-year activities at her kids’ school before introducing their guest on this week’s episode, Marika Frumes. Marika is the cofounder of Mysha Pods, and both Emily and Jamie have witnessed her talents in community building and facilitating meaningful connections firsthand. 

In their conversation, they discuss Marika’s journey through motherhood and community building. Marika shares her transition from a career in hospitality to creating a global women's community called "Her" (@her.usa) and later founding Mysha Pods (@myshapods), a supportive space for moms to form intimate connections with one another. They delve into the importance of genuine connections and fostering inclusive environments where women can share their experiences and support one another. Marika discusses the delicate and challenging first six months of motherhood, emphasizing the importance of virtual support during this period. She shares her journey of creating a supportive community for new moms through WhatsApp groups, which evolved into the formalized support system of Mysha Pods. Marika highlights the significance of forming connections and building community, encouraging listeners to engage and reach out to others in their everyday environments.

In this week’s Q&A, Emily and Jamie answer a mom’s question about going into labor prior to a scheduled c-section. 

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As back to school is around the corner and many are returning to work— Jamie and Emily join forces to discuss childcare options… and each of their pros/cons.

Discussed in this episode:
-Daycare
-Nanny
-Nanny share
-Au pairs
-Family
-Private daycare
-Finding childcare
-Illness
-Cost
-Socialization

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Emily and Jamie kick off this week’s episode by discussing Jamie’s recent experience with training her dog. Switching gears, they introduce their guest for this week, Nicole Fox. Nicole is a familiar face on the Nurture platform, providing virtual and in-person support and education for parents. As a registered nurse, dietician, and lactation consultant, Nicole brings a wealth of knowledge to the table, addressing common parental questions about infant formula and feeding.

In their discussion, Nicole acknowledges the overwhelming variety of infant formulas and the key factors to consider when choosing a formula, such as accessibility, cost, and specific dietary needs. Nicole shares her expertise on the importance of gut health in infants, explaining the differences between standard and hypoallergenic formulas, and the common misconceptions about lactose intolerance versus milk protein allergies. In their discussion, Emily, Jamie, and Nicole’s discussion also underscores the crucial role of proper education and support for parents, particularly regarding elimination diets in breastfeeding mothers, and emphasizes consulting with dietitians to ensure nutritional adequacy and manage dietary changes effectively. 

In this week’s Q&A, Emily and Jamie discuss the transition from formula and bottles at the one year mark. 

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Postpartum care — the way it should be. Jamie and Emily discuss what is missing from postpartum care, their mission at NAPS and share the postpartum care they envision for families. Be sure to check out our in home day of discharge service:
https://www.nurturebynaps.com/day-of-discharge

Mentioned in this episode:
-Incision check
-Postpartum recovery
-Home health care
-Support
-Visiting nurse
-Internatal postpartum support
-Incision check
-Postpartum recovery
-Support
-Nursing care
-Education
-Continuity of care
-Pain management
-Hospital transiitons
-Sick kids
-Wellness visits
-Lactation consults
-Mom support
-Lactation support
-Peer support
-Sleep support
-Optimal health outcomes

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This week, Unswaddled is joined by Ellen McCue— our pediatric Nurse Practitioner, girl mom of 2, sleep expert, and full time NAPS favorite. In her 14+ years of pediatric experience, Ellen has weighed a LOT of babies and discussed growth charts thousands of times. Pediatricians are not the enemy, it’s the growth chart!

Emily and Ellen discuss what the growth chart means, why it is used, where it is flawed, and when it is important (and not important).

Discussed in this episode:
-low percentiles
-high percentiles
-falling off a growth curve
-genetics
-head growth, height, and weight
-breastfeeding
-bottle feeding
-questions to ask your provider
-CDC growth chart
-WHO growth chart

Referenced in this article:
1. Link NY Times Article: The Trouble with Growth Charts
https://www.nytimes.com/2020/04/17/parenting/growth-chart-accuracy.html
2. 30 nursing consult
https://www.nurturebynaps.com/phone-consult
3. Lactation support
https://www.nurturebynaps.com/lactation-consult

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This week, Emily is joined by Julia Hale, NAPS mom, LICSW (licensed independent clinical social worker), owner and founder of Soultality Center for Psychotherapy. The focus of their conversation is on perinatal mental health and intrusive thoughts. Intrusive thoughts are something that we all have, but majorly stigmatized, and rarely discussed.

Other topics include:
-engaging with intrusive thoughts
-shame
-thought vs action
-postpartum OCD
-exposure therapy
-postpartum anxiety
-postpartum OCD
-postpartum depression
-avoidance
-rituals/ mental rituals
-seeking out what a thought means
-when to seek help
-compulsion
-therapy
-heading

Intrusive thoughts thrive in secrecy. You are not alone.

Referenced in this episode & additional resources:
Find a therapist trained in 'exposure and response prevention' (ERP) on www.IOCDF.org or www.treatmyocd.com

Emily is joined by NAPS dads, Ben and Scott, and their sweet baby Knox.

On this episode, we discuss:
-6 month changes
-Sleep schedule
-Schedule
-Feeding
-Traveling with a newborn
-Vacation
-Safety proofing
-Naps
-Short naps
-Distracted feeders
-Starting solids
-Allergies
-Early bedtime
-Bedtime
-Developmental milestones
-Dropping naps

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Emily is joined by NAPS parent, Alesandra, to recount her experience with seeking lactation support. Alesandra and Emily emphasize that there does not need to be an apparent “problem” to utilize lactation professionals.

Discussed in this episode:
-Open and honest conversation with healthcare providers
-Patient advocacy
-Breastfeeding & bottle feeding
-Combination feeding
-Low milk supply
-Feeding options
-Evidence based care
-Hospital birth
-Postpartum recovery
-Conflicting information
-Preventative care
-Lactation support & reassurance
-CLC/ IBCLC

Lactation intake form: We provide both in person (MA) and virtual support (nationally).
https://www.nurturebynaps.com/lactation-consult

Be sure to follow us on IG @nurturebynaps

Just as you find your feeding groove, it is time for solids! Jamie and Emily debunk many of the feeding myths and address what starting solids can look like.

Addressed in this episode:
-Overwhelm of starting solids
-Feeding schedule
-Breastfeeding
-Bottle feeding
-Formula feeding
-Baby led weaning
-Purees
-Common allergens
-Overeating
-Intuitive eating
-Gagging
-Iron rich foods
-Choking vs gagging
-Picky eaters

Additional resources:
Join our (FREE!) live & recorded baby led weaning course:
https://www.nurturebynaps.com/live-webinars

Follow us on IG @nurturebynaps.

Join Jamie while she speaks with Katie Pedrick, MAOM, Licensed Acupuncturist & Herbalist, Doctor of Acupuncture (RI).  

Katie runs her acupuncture and wellness practice, Vibe Wellness in Charlestown https://vibe-wellness.com and created an acupressure app with her business partner that has absolutely taken off - Point Acupressure https://apps.apple.com/us/app/point-acupressure/id1528501360 Hot tip - follow them on TikTok too @PointAcupressure.

Get the low down on…well, a lot! Western-informed Eastern Medicine…women’s health and holistic looks at body systems…fertility use cases…birth control usage…periods…hormonal balancing…the stress epidemic…pregnancy, labor, and postpartum symptom and pain management…food as medicine...filling your physical and emotional depletions...impactful sleep...c-section scars and pain...Ok, we'll stop listing and let you listen.  

Getting into Point Acupressure's brilliance - have you tried to meditate?  This is almost like a guided meditation, but in acupressure form (no needles necessary. After your personalized question series, the app customizes acupressure guides based on your daily needs and long-term wellness goals.  Bonus use case - your labor support person could learn how to help you reduce pain during the big day!

We can optimize our health before there are problems, symptoms, and sickness.  Learn more about it with us!

Listen, save, and follow us on social media @NurtureByNAPS, @Vibe.wellness, @vibeacupuncture, @pointacupressure

Finally, suggested reading: The Body Keeps Score

https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/18693771-the-body-keeps-the-score

Feel well!

In this Father’s Day episode, Emily and Jamie sit down with Max Kirchoff, a father of two and facilitator of Nurture’s Dad Support Group, to explore the multifaceted journey of fatherhood. Max shares his insights on being a father, friend, and partner, highlighting the distinct ways men and women approach relationships and parenting. The conversation delves into the challenges men face in forming meaningful friendships and the importance of intentionality building lasting bonds. They discuss how societal expectations shape men's roles in work, family, and personal relationships. Max shares how he stays intentional and present when spending time with his kids, and emphasizes the value of building relationships and having a “third place” outside of work and home to foster meaningful connections and a sense of community.

In this week’s Q&A segment, Emily and Jamie discuss a question asking whether an infant can receive tylenol or motrin labeled as “Children’s.” 

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Emily is joined by NAPS mom, turned Mom Survival Guide leader, Meg Saxelby. Meg is an emotional intelligence coach and educator, working mom, and total bad*ss.

She joins our podcast to talk about her recent blog post, which is a topic near and dear to our heart: the change of self with pregnancy & motherhood.

Meg talks about:
- Lack of resources on how to manage the emotional shift of becoming a mom.
- Experiencing a loss during pregnancy or postpartum.
- The socialization of women (the expectation that they are held to)
- Physical and emotional transitions of pregnancy and motherhood
- Feeling your feelings
- Lack of control of your body
- Pregnancy during cover
- Feelings of loss/grief/anguish
- Guilt vs. shame
- Conflicting emotions

Mentioned in this episode:
Meg’s blog: https://medium.com/@megansaxelby/its-ok-to-miss-who-you-were-2cf7e9278dea

NAPS MSG:
https://www.nurturebynaps.com/moms-survival-guide

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Dive headfirst into the world of dog ownership with Jamie and Emily in this rollicking episode. From Jamie's daring escape from a glass coffee table disaster to musings on life's unpredictability and year-end resolutions, the duo offers a rollercoaster ride of humor and wisdom.

In the initial podcast segment, Jamie and Emily candidly tackle the hurdles of parenting when plans go awry. Eloise's struggle with RSV and pneumonia unfolds, recounting the emotional upheaval of hospital visits, restless nights, and the anxiety of witnessing a child's respiratory distress. Jamie and Emily advocate for decoding a child's cues beyond temperatures, humorously navigating the intricacies of the healthcare system and the superhero skill of advocating for optimal child care.

As the episode unfolds, Jamie and Emily express gratitude for supportive medical professionals, infusing humor amid chaos and stressing the importance of the "long game" in parenting. The segment concludes with Eloise's resilient recovery, a testament to navigating unexpected challenges.

In the second half, Jamie and Emily shift gears to reflect on mental shifts, support systems, and community in trying times. Balancing work and personal life, the hosts stress self-care and share personal anecdotes of panic and prioritizing well-being. The conversation expands to highlight the significance of community support, with gratitude for friends, family, and listeners who choose to be part of the collective journey.

The episode takes an emotional turn as Jamie tears up during an estate planning process's "legacy interview." With anticipation for the upcoming year, heartfelt thanks are extended to the NAPS community, accompanied by wishes for a joyous and, if possible, healthy new year. The episode wraps up with a teaser for next year's parenting escapades. 

In this week’s "Live Ask a NAPS Nurse" segment, Jamie and Emily bring humor to the common challenge of surviving cold and flu season with a toddler. From running humidifiers round-the-clock to turning the bathroom into a steamy haven, the hosts share practical tips for managing symptoms sans medications. Normalizing the endurance test of a two to three-week cold, they sign off with a promise of more parenting adventures in the next episode.

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On this episode, Jamie and Emily discuss maternal gatekeeping. This is a concept that addresses a mother’s protective beliefs regarding their partner’s involvement in their children’s life (especially in infancy)— more specifically, the behaviors between parents that support or restrict co-parenting. Jamie and Emily relive their dos and don’ts of maternal gatekeeping with personal stories.

Link to book a nursing consult:

https://www.nurturebynaps.com/phone-consult

Referenced in this episode:

How Not to Hate Your Husband After Kids
https://www.amazon.com/Hate-Your-Husband-After-Kids/dp/1784754773/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1647360371&sr=1-1

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Jamie and Emily emerge from their summer of bike trailer crashes, island hopping, and questionable encounters at a Chris Stapelton concert. Brace yourselves because this dynamic duo is ready to unleash a podcast season that's wilder than ever before.

In this episode, our hosts address the fact that the shared parenting experience is f!cking HARD, and there is no one right way to get through it.

Get ready to tune in and laugh out loud as they also cover:

Finding parenting solutions by asking questions first (as Registered Nurses do)
Seeking out different parenting perspectives through global experts
Building a virtual village of parents

Be sure to tune into our Live Ask a NAPS Nurse at the end of the episode, where we answer YOUR parenting questions.

And if you thought that was all, think again! Get ready for a barrage of hilarious stories that will resonate with every parent, but spun in that signature Jamie and Emily style that'll leave you laughing at the absurdity that is parenthood.

This podcast is proudly brought to you by our fabulous sponsors:

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The Turning Points podcast is back with a new season: Navigating Mental Health (Boston Globe Media in partnership with Point32Health

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This week Emily is joined by wellness coach, mom, certified Fair Play facilitator, and yoga instructor, Julia Ludwig. The Fair Play Method is a communication system that helps to rebalance the invisible labor within the home with the goals of reducing the chaos of daily life, strengthening one’s partnership with their spouse, and creating space for individual pursuits.

Discussed in this episode:
- Fair Play in marriage
- Investing in your family
- Investing in your marriage
- Household responsibilities
- Helping moms
- Connection
- Avoiding resentment
- Correcting resentment
- Bonding with family
- Supporting your family
- Gender roles
- Division of labor
- Time sensitive matters
- Mental load
- Daily tasks
- CPE
- Conception, planning, execution
- Letting go
- Tools for wellness
- Equity
- Couple coaching
- Maternal gatekeeping
- Fair Play facilitator
- Household labor
- Motherhood
- SAHM
- equitable - NOT equal

Resources mentioned in this episode:
FairPlaylife.com
Documentary: FairPlay
Instagram: @FairPlaylife
Julia’s website: https://www.julialudwigwellness.com/

Instagram:@julia_ludwig_

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Comparing is a dangerous and vicious cycle, yet we all do it. It is as if social media exists to encourage us to compare our lives to the polished squares that are posted on instagram. We compare ourselves as women, as moms, and as partners. We compare our babies/kids with everything from feeding, to milestones, to sleep, and so on. It is not just moms who compare, it is all parents.The list goes on and the limit does not exist (iykyk).

In this episode, Jamie and Emily take a deep dive into their personal lives and experiences in their line of work regarding comparison. The ladies of NAPS discuss the common areas of comparison (i.e, development milestones, sleep, etc..) and how to address these concerns, when and how to stop cycle of comparison and the self doubt, worry, and guilt that accompany it. Jamie and Emily help you identify how to catch yourself in this nasty game and how to stop it in its tracks.

The bottom line is that parenting is tough, and that it is never what is seems. Know that we think you are great, even in your most difficult moments, and we are always proud of you.

This week’s episode features Alison, a mom of two and a NAPS client. She shares her journey of having two children in the NICU, in hopes that her story will help other parents who are navigating medical challenges with their own children. Alison joins Emily to share how she navigated the NICU with her two children, Abby and Caleb. Alison discusses staying in the hospital while pregnant to the emotional and medical hurdles of having premature and medically complex infants. She goes on to talk about her determination to breastfeed Caleb after not being able to do so with her daughter, the difficulties they faced, and the eventual decision to prioritize bottle and tube feeding in order to ensure Caleb’s health and bring him home from the hospital. Alison further explains the process of being discharged with a baby with a feeding tube and the unexpected obstacles that accompanied it. Emily and Alison touch upon resources available to parents with children in the NICU, emphasizing the importance of seeking support from therapists, as well as connecting to parents in similar situations through social media groups and organizations like Feeding Matters. 

In this week’s Q&A, Jamie and Emily discuss ways to support someone whose child is in the NICU, using responses gathered from parents who have had this experience. 

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Emily is joined by NAPS parent, Vinita. Together they talk all things pregnancy, health, motherhood, and the difficulties life can throw our way.

Discussed in this episode:
-Low milk supply
-Postpartum recovery
-Prepping for postpartum
-Triple feeding
-Lactation struggles
-Breastfeeding
-Supplementation
-Mom support groups
-Hypothyroid
-IUGR
-Formula
-Early induction
-C-section
-Formula shortage
-Birth education

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To book a lactation visit please, follow this page: https://www.nurturebynaps.com/lactation-consult

In this week's podcast episode, Jamie is joined by Kerri McGrath, a mom who bravely opens up about the heartbreak of losing her son, Colin. The conversation explores the profound complexities of grief, offering insights into strategies for supporting those in mourning and the unexpected challenges that come with welcoming a new child after such a loss. Kerri reflects on how grief has completely shifted her perspective and approach to parenting.

The narrative takes a poignant turn as Kerri shares the intricate aspects of managing multiple roles while grieving—parent of a grieving child, spouse, and mother. The discussion delves into the unique challenges of parenting amid grief, emphasizing the daily struggles, particularly when caring for a surviving child.

Kerri unfolds the inspiring story of Colin's Joy Project, born out of community support after a tragic event. What started with building playgrounds has evolved into creating programs that bring joy to families.

The conversation concludes with practical tips on supporting someone in grief, ranging from coordinating meal deliveries to simply being there and offering help. The discussion extends to the experience of parenting a child after losing another, highlighting the need for improved support and resources for parents who've undergone similar situations. Kerri advocates for increased resources and specialized support, sharing her own journey.

In sharing her heartfelt journey, including multiple miscarriages, Kerri's narrative is both relatable and touching. The NAPS team is genuinely honored to have Kerri share and eloquently articulate her story of loss and resilience.

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This podcast is proudly brought to you by our fabulous sponsors:

Feast & Fettle: Use code NAPS for $30 off your first order

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Kicking off this episode, Emily and Jamie banter about their weekend antics and signature dance moves before segueing into this week’s podcast episode, featuring Lydia Thibodeau, founder of Sommet Nannies (@sommet_nannies). Sommet Nannies is a nanny placement agency that specializes in connecting families with college-educated, professional caregivers. The episode is particularly timely as it coincides with International Nanny Training Day, an event taking place in Boston this year where both NAPS and Sommet Nannies will be in attendance to share their knowledge and services. 

Jamie and Lydia’s discussion explores the nuances of selecting a childcare provider. Lydia emphasizes the importance of trusting one's instincts when choosing a provider and advises a decisive "hell yes" or "no" approach to candidates. She encourages consideration of the candidate’s ability to meet a family’s logistical needs and to inquire about their background and experience, particularly recommending unconventional candidates with diverse childcare experiences, not just those with traditional nanny roles. They discuss the importance of in-home meetings, as they provide an opportunity for observation and interaction, with references being crucial in cases where direct interaction with the child isn't possible (ie, when you’re expecting). The discussion covers essential reference check questions, communication strategies, and the differentiation between nanny and housekeeper roles. Lydia further emphasizes the importance of proactive communication and outlines the unique recruitment process and services offered by Sommet Nannies, including nationwide placements of not only nannies, but also house managers and chefs. Lydia concludes by sharing how interested parties can connect with Sommet Nannies through their website to start their own nanny search.

In this week’s Q&A segment, Jamie and Emily address concerns about a 10 month old not having teeth yet. They draw from their nursing expertise and personal experience to discuss the expected timeline for developing teeth and tips for parents who may be worried about their own child’s tooth development. 

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It has been a long time coming— Jamie and Emily are here to talk about the building of Nurture by NAPS, it's original launch and now it's relaunch! Mark your calendars, big things are coming on April 18th, 2023 (finally!!).

Parenting is hard enough, we want to make it easier to find the answers and support that you are looking for from trusted parents & medical professionals.

Check out our membership options: https://boston-naps.teachable.com/

Mentioned in this episode:
-Customized parenting
-Peer support
-Personalized parenting
-Postpartum resources
-Pregnancy resources
-Sleep consulting
-Newborn Sleep

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This week, Emily is joined by real NAPS parent, Delia, to go over all things toddler and welcoming a new sibling (from the toddler’s perspective).

Discussed in this episode:
-Potty training
-Moving out of the crib
-Weaning from a pacifier
-Pandemic baby
-2 year old transitions
-Independent toddlers
-Sibling prep
-Biting
-Toddler behavior
-Daycare
-Routine
-Extra help
-Bedtime routine
-Crib transitions
-Bringing home baby
-Bedtime

Be sure to follow us on IG @nurturebynaps and check out the Nature Membership to access webinars like “Sibling Prep” and “Potty Training”.

Breastfeeding… what a loaded topic. During this episode, Jamie and Emily talk about the heavily stigmatized topic of feeding. What it means from a medical perspective, a family perspective and more importantly what YOU are making it mean to you.

As IBCLC’s and business owners working in the space of newborn care and women’s health, Jamie and Emily frequently encounter these strong emotions and feelings towards the choice of feeding, more specifically breastfeeding, when things are not going as expected. Breastfeeding is hard (I.e.  trouble with supply, weight gain, nipple pain, diet changes and all the unknowns).

There is one question that you must ask yourself: What are you making breastfeeding mean? The answer 10/10 times is that not being able to breastfeed means that you have convinced yourself that you are failing as a mom. This is FALSE.

Jamie and Emily talk about the importance of making a plan that is sustainable, short term, and realistic.

Lastly, in case you were wondering ALL of Jamie and Emily kids have had formula… and we promise you baby #6 will too. They didn’t do it all, they didn’t figure it all out and they do this for a living!!! It doesn’t have to be all or nothing.

The bottom line is that the choice that is right for you, is the right choice for you and your family.

Referenced in this podcast: Crib Sheet by Emily Oster.

You can find us on IG @nurturebynaps.

Jamie is joined by Lenora Edward, Speech Language Pathologist (SLP), to discuss language development, speech, listening, and warning signs. As an SLP, Lenora describes her self as a specialist that works “above the neck”—think feeding, socialization, listening, talking, communicating, etc…

Discussed in this episode:
-Feeding
-Eating
-Speech
-Language
-Communicating with your child
-Cognitive skills
-Swallowing
-Understanding language
-Expressing language
-Language development
-Nonverbal communication
-Pandemic
-Mask wearing
-Facial expressions
-Warning signs
-Growth and development
-Face to face interaction
-American Speech and Language Board
-Early intervention

Speech Resources:
Find a professional: https://www.betterspeech.com/

Book a free consultation with Better Speech: https://www.betterspeech.com/free-consultation

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This week Jamie is joined by Sujata Martin—
Pelvic floor OT, licensed doula, breastfeeding specialist, and sex therapist.

Discussed on this podcast:
-Better pregnancy
-Better birth
-Better postpartum
-Physical aspects of pregnancy, labor and postpartum
-Bridging education from different sources
-Labor logistics
-Labor prep
-Communication with your provider
-Integrative care
-Pelvic floor pt
-Prepping for labor
-Preventative care
-Feelings about birth
-Real life advice
-Understanding what your body in pregnancy & postpartum

Find Sujata @pelvic.soul on instagram and follow us @nurturebynaps.

Similar to Jamie and Emiliy’s path of growing their families and the NAPS businesses in tandem…Danielle Tanguay and Victoria Peake found themselves growing their business, BabyMatters OT, as they combined their experiences as mothers with their medical work background. You know Jamie loves talking to women entrepreneurs. Just add in sensory talk and developmental milestones -- she’s into it!

Danielle and Victoria took their realities as moms, workers, and wives into consideration and asked themselves - how realistic is our advice we give at hospitals and offices? How individualized is it? How can we roll our pediatric OT services seamlessly into the lives of parents like us?

Many times the word ‘therapy’ comes along with the thought that you are fixing or addressing a problem or issue. That is not the case. Therapy is based in wellness and prevention in many cases (or at least it should be more).

What does a pediatric Occupational Therapist do? How is a OT different from a PT? How can we view our kids’ health from the top down, holistically? Should I know what to ask my pediatrician? Should my pediatrician be talking to me more? When should I introduce utensils? Is this toy developmentally appropriate that I bought? Is my worry about my kid an actual problem? So many questions swimming in our parent brains! :)

Join Jamie (as a fellow forward-thinking parent) as she learns about prevention, optimization, and treatment in all things OT - whether that is based in sensory, cognitive, and/or motor function realms. Feeding even gets rolled into OT territory - along with it issues like colic, gassiness, reflux, etc. We can better understand what is a sensory reaction vs. what is a behavioral reaction.


Beyond milestones like rolling, walking, etc. there is a whole world of development to understand and foster for your baby or toddler. We can have purposeful ways to interact with our babies and toddlers.


As always, click, share, and subscribe please! Book a video session (coming soon) or appointment with BabyMatters OT on their website: https://www.babymattersot.com/


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Why are we having an episode devoted to diapers?  The average kid is in diapers for 2.5 years.  That’s 6,000-7,000 diapers. Baby bums are in a diaper for a long time, so we want to know what what we’re working with!

After Amrita Saigal and Jim Keighley worked together at P&G, their paths diverged to sanitary pad innovation in India and pioneering diaper engineering in the US. Retirement is not one of Jim’s strong suits, so he joined Amrita’s mission to disrupt the diaper industry with Kudos.

Have questions about up-the-back blow-outs? Wonder if overnight diapers are scams? Do you know what the four causes of diaper rash are? Do you know if your current diapers have plastic or cotton touching your baby’s bum? Is your diaper biodegradable? What should you truly look for when considering a diaper? Beyond these questions on the brains of many parents, Jamie digs into fascinating concepts concerning diapers.  

After a brief history of diapers (yes, at one point they were huge and yes they tried to do male vs. female diapers), join Jamie in learning about:

-Environmental impacts associated with all types of diaper materials (diapers are the third largest contributor to landfill waste!)
-Plastic vs. Bamboo
-Lingo like gasketing, no-motion zones, and super absorbers

Jim created diapers as we know them today since 1976.  With Amrita and the Kudos team he is pioneering a sustainable, eco-friendly, and BUM-FRIENDLY diaper one day at a time. 

Keep a watch out for Kudos to launch pull-ups and be sure to use our discount code (noted in episode) to try at https://mykudos.com We are so happy to shine light on a product that we actually love and are using ourselves… baby Eloise’s bum is happy at home with Emily on maternity leave.

As always, thank you to our sponsors.  This episode is brought to you by Fidelity 529.  

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Keep your diaper questions coming @KudosToBaby and @NurtureByNAPS

Emily had her baby, Eloise Baylin...what is Jamie to do? Go in solo on her favorite topic these days...real talk about sleep training. Remember our 'Do Nothing" episode for the 0-3 months sleep conversation? Check back to that episode if you're in that stage.

Jamie tackles the ideal timing of sleep training (around 5-8 months), the definition of a full night's sleep, three common methods available, new skill training philosophy (i.e. math homework analogy, yay!), and much more. Try a little adult self-soothing by listening to this episode to give yourself an informed basis for sleep training decision making.

Don't forget to share this MOSTLY with your partner - same page is key! But also with friends who would find this episode beneficial.

Follow us on IG @Nurturebynaps and reach out via our website nurturebynaps.com. Happy sleeping!

Jamie is joined by Sarah Harmon, licensed mental health counselor, mindfulness instructor, mother, and founder of Postpartum Wellness Group (and The School of Mom) to talk…Perinatal Wellness.  

What is the perinatal stage?  It’s the time from conception to one year after birth (although Sarah and Jamie have longer timing in their heads at times). Hormones, sleep disturbances, etc. - it all does not all of a sudden regulate and become “normal” again past the one year mark.  Also, let’s not forget our pre-conception friends on a fertility journey that have a story here too.

One day this baby comes.  This day creates the biggest changes in your life. These changes are physical, biological, social, emotional, practical, spiritual, etc. It should not be a surprise when people struggle through these common mental issues - we just don't bring this to light in our society often (yet).  

1 in 5 moms experiences significant symptoms of anxiety and/or depression during the perinatal stage.  Partners do too…1 in 10 dads experience mental health issues during this time.  Sarah and Jamie get into what “significant symptoms” mean.

Listen in and learn about PMAD (Perinatal Mood and Anxiety Disorders) and so much more.

Please share this with a friend.  We are in this with you and know support is crucial!  We knew Sarah was knowledgeable and good at what she does…but, wow.  This is an exceptional episode, if we do say so ourselves.

And if you are local to MA and looking for a therapist, Sarah's private practice, Postpartum Wellness Group, is accepting new clients. Please email: hello@postpartumwellnessgroup.com. 

As always, don't forget to follow along with us on IG @nurturebynaps 

Jamie and Emily join forces to talk summer plans, summer tips, and summer favorites. We are taking a summer break from the podcast and will be back with weekly episodes, come fall. Please let us know what you would like to hear more of. Wishing you all a fun summer!

Product favorites mentioned in this episode:
4moms pack and play
Cool cabanas
Blue lizard sunscreen
Think baby sunscreen
Hush sound machine
Snapper rock long sleeve bathing suit
Bogg bag
Summer infant beach tent
Evenflo wagon

Be sure to follow us on instagram for summer updates @nurturebynaps.

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The co-founders behind NAPS & Nurture by NAPS, Emily Silver (Family Nurse Practitioner, IBCLC, and mom of 2), and Jamie O’Day (Registered Nurse, IBCLC, and mom of 3) get right into the good stuff and discuss one of their hottest topics--SLEEP. Whether it is pre-baby or post-baby, everyone is desperate to know all things about baby sleep… or if their baby will ever sleep. Not to worry, they will!

In this episode, Jamie and Emily talk about realistic, simple, quick, and easy ways to get longer stretches of sleep with your newborn to ultimately get you more sleep/ more efficient sleep as parents. Hint: It requires doing less work—actually NOTHING.

Jamie and Emily bring in real life experience with their girls like avoiding proactive intervention, frequent feedings, diaper changes, swaddle adjustments, etc…to explain that less intervention overnight will help your newborn get longer stretches of sleep. This includes when to start, how to start, and when you have the ‘greenlight’ to let your baby be your alarm clock.

These simple adjustments can be implemented in the initial weeks home from the hospital and make you feel better from a physical and mental perspective! Afterall, who doesn’t love their sleep?

You can find us @nurturebynaps on IG

This week Emily is joined by guest, Samantha McCord, Founder and CEO of Conscious Diapers. Conscious Diapers is a price matched, subscription diaper service that helps parents find the right diapers for their baby by auditing each brand based on Ingredients, Environmental Impact, Animal Cruelty, human rights, and performance. Conscious diapers makes the overwhelming world of diapers, a lot more simple.. and convenient!

Discussed in this episode:
-Diapers
-Diaper subscription service
-Animal cruelty
-Performance diapers
-Eco friendly diapers
-Newborn diapers
-Diapering
-Diaper sizing
-Diapers for sensitive skin
-Diaper rash
-Parents choice
-Delivery schedule
-Animal testing
-Skin conditions
-newborns
-toddlers
-potty training

Conscious Diapers Resources:
https://www.consciousdiapers.com/

https://www.consciousdiapers.com/pages/wtf

Instagram @consciousdiapers

Be sure to follow us on instagram @nurturebynaps

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Maybe yes, maybe no….

After a recent play date where all five, soon to be six, of the O’day and Silver girls got together and found all the paint and glitter (every homeowners worst enemy) Jamie and Emily thought about why we frequently default to saying “no” to the kids.

Jamie and Emily take a deep dive into why we are conditioned to respond with a “no” and how to work through making decisions for our kids… even if it involves a messy cleanup or altering your plans.

Sometimes, saying “no” is about teaching a lesson or setting a boundary but saying yes has significant meaning too.

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Emily and Jamie introduce this week’s episode sharing their family dynamics of dividing and conquering the weekends with their six kids. They then introduce their guest, Kelsey Kerkhove, Au.D., CCC-A, pediatric audiologist from California. Emily and Kelsey discuss the role of a pediatric audiologist, emphasizing the importance of early identification and intervention for hearing loss in infants. Kelsey explains the routine nature of the newborn hearing screening, a requirement before babies leave the hospital, and stresses its significance in identifying congenital hearing loss. Kelsey dispels misconceptions about deafness and underscores the positive outcomes facilitated by the newborn hearing screening process.

The duo discuss the two types of tests involved in newborn hearing screening: Otoacoustic Emissions (OAE) and Automatic Auditory Brainstem Response (AABR) and explain what these non-invasive tests aim to identify and address. Kelsey emphasizes the importance of follow-up appointments and the need for parents to inquire about the type of follow-up and action plan if their baby doesn't pass the initial screening. The conversation delves into the potential causes of hearing loss, specifically mentioning cytomegalovirus (CMV) and advocating for its testing in newborns within the first 21 days of life to rule out any related complications. She addresses common experiences during the hearing tests and the need for parents to be aware of potential risk factors.

Kelsey encourages parents to advocate for their babies' hearing health by asking for tests if they have concerns. She also mentions that early detection of hearing issues is crucial, and she provides information on developmental milestones related to hearing.

The conversation touches on the emotional aspects of receiving a diagnosis of hearing loss for a child and the importance of support and information. Kelsey offers resources on her Instagram page @KelseyKerkhove_AUD, where she provides blogs, guides, and one-on-one consulting for parents navigating their child's hearing journey. 

In the  "Live Ask a Nurse" segment, Emily and Jamie respond to a listener's question about losing their mucus plug, explaining its role in pregnancy, debunking misconceptions, and reassuring that it doesn't necessarily indicate an imminent labor, while providing some light-hearted encouragement and information about the process.

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Jamie and Emily are joined by Bridgitte Mallinson (Instagram @bridgittemalli), MS, RDN, founder and CEO of GutPersonal, a company focusing on personalized gut health solutions (Instagram @gut.personal). They reminisce about Bridgitte's journey through pregnancy and labor, noting the presence of NAPS nurses during her childbirth. Bridgitte recounts her health struggles, leading her to found Gut Personal, and discuss the significance of gut health for overall well-being, particularly for women. 

The conversation covers how hormones and other bodily functions are influenced by gut health and the importance of a personalized approach. Emily reflects on her own health challenges and the significance of addressing root causes rather than symptoms. Bridgette emphasized the personalized approach Gut Personal takes in assessing gut health and recommending supplements tailored to individual needs.

They discuss the root causes of common health issues like infertility, morning sickness, and low energy levels in women, particularly during pregnancy and postpartum. Bridgette shares personalized supplements recommendations based on individual needs. She also highlights the importance of quality supplements and the need for education on their use, noting the gap of knowledge among some traditional healthcare providers. She encourages listeners to seek out reliable sources for information and offers personalized coaching and testing services through GutPersonal. 

In this week’s Ask a NAPS Nurse, Jamie and Emily help out those new parents! They talk about newborn bedtimes, explaining that newborns typically don't have a set bedtime and often settle for the night around 10 PM or later due to their natural activity patterns. They also mention that most infants develop an earlier bedtime by around 12 weeks, typically between 6 and 8 PM, but variations exist, and families can adjust based on what works best for them.

This podcast is proudly brought to you by our fabulous sponsors:

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Emily is joined by Catherine Mitchell Jaxon. Catherine is a working mom of 3, with her oldest daughter being allergic to most nuts.  Prior to founding Mission MightyMe, Catherine was an award-winning journalist with CNN and is still an avid researcher and a journalist at heart.

Discussed in this episode:
-Introducing allergens
-Working parents
-Parenting in the workspace
-Food allergy prevention
-Top allergens
-Food allergy parents

Be sure to follow us on instagram @nurturebynaps

Proactive Puffs from Mission MightyMe make it deliciously simple to feed your little one peanuts AND tree nuts  - and big kids love them too! Visit http://missionmightyme.com/ to learn more and use UNSWADDLED20 for 20% off your first order.

The Silver Post (perfect gift for grandparents and loved ones):
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