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Dr. Evan Goldstein (@drevangoldstein) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss the best bottoming practices for first timers or those who may be looking to better their skills. Dr. Goldstein is the founder of Bespoke surgical (@bespokesurgical), an elite surgical and sexual wellness practice for today's male. Jeff & Dr. Goldstein share advice from positions to douching and what you can do from home to heighten your experience. Whether you're a top or bottom, everyone can learn something from this episode. The last 15 minutes this duo sits down and answers some of your bottoming questions so grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!

Jeff Perla (@TheTravelinBum) is joined by 2019 Mr Gay World South Africa, Charl-jaquairdo van Helsdingen (@charlieboy23) to share his experience with testicular cancer. How did he first find out? What are some ways you can check your testicles from home? Does testicular cancer lead to the removal of your testicles and reproductive organs? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!

If you want to follow the Charlie from this episode;

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Jeff Perla (@Jeffperlaa) is joined by life coach Alex Alberti (@albertidevelopment) to talk about the joys and sorrows of turning 30? Why is turning 30 known as gay death? Learn how to age like a bad b*tch! Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!

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Join Jeff and Spencer on this Valentines Day episode!

Igee Okafor (@Igeeokafor) joins host, Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) as they discuss what it was like growing up in Nigeria and moving to America? How do you explain to your parents that you are gay? Is it easier to come out once you don't live home anymore? Have you ever experienced racism within the LGBTQ community? Was being shipped off the boarding school like living your best Zoey 101 experience? 

Jeff Perla is joined by Tony Morrison, the senior communications director at GLAAD. What people and brands should we be supporting and who needs to be dumped.

Daniel Cusimano (@Daniel_Cusimano) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss his Virginity, Gay Culture, and his time on The Circle. Has Daniel had his first kiss now? Why is he holding on to his virginity for so long? Who was his best friend and not so favorite person from the show?  Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!

Daniel Koludrovich (@Koludro) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to debate gay stereotypes between the West coast vs East coast. The boys share their perceptions on what the differences are like from the dating scene to going out. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!

Anthony Velez (@Antnyvlz) & David Leatherwood (@Realbrokebackpatriot) join host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss the current political climate in the United States. These boys dive into 3 issues in particular; LGBTQ rights, the Black Lives Matter (BLM) Movement alongside police brutality, and also the system and voting in general. Is it a moral obligation for gay men to vote democrat? Is it wrong to be republican and be gay? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!

Jeff Perla & Garrett Swann discuss the Sugar Baby / Sugar Daddy life. From personal experiences, Jeff opens up on how he originally found a Sugar Daddy and Garrett shares his feelings on age in the gay community. Is Garrett Swann Jeff Perla's sugar daddy? Find out on Behind The Bum?

Dr. Evan Goldstein(@DrEvanGoldstein) owner of @BespokeSurgical & @TheFutureMethod joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to talk all things related to your behind. What is the best products and ways to wipe for men? Is douching with water harming your insides? Is there really such thing as the second wall? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!

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Jeff Perla is joined by Alex Van Gurp (@AlexVanGurp) to discuss their relationship pending the show. You all submitted questions you wanted to know. What was it like transitioning back into the real world? When did we tell our friends? What was it like filming the bedroom scene on camera?

The second half of this podcast Jeff is joined by Gabe, (@GabrielBoyers) to share his experience battling Monkey Pox. What does Gabe wish he knew prior to getting it? What's it feel like? The boys discuss everything from where he got it to treatment. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!

For more information on Monkey Pox or to book your vaccine in NYC click here

Enrico (@justasoccerboi) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss what life is like in the gay community here in Sydney. You can hear all about Enrico’s first time bottoming, Only Fans, as well as Jeff and Enrico’s awkward encounters during their time together. At 16:52 you can hear about why Enrico started his Only Fans account and at 26:56 you can hear all about his sexual Bread encounter. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!

Jeff Perla is joined by Josh Van Sant (@JoshVanSant) "an older gay" who is notorious for offering advice to younger gays. Most famously for his videos on TikTok, the 2 get personal on what they think they need to work on about themselves and what they think they've got all figured out. What are your top 3 attributes you're seeking in a partner? If any of those are physical, you'll be in an unhappy relationship. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!

You can follow Josh on Instagram Here

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JC Dombrowski (@JC.Dombrowski) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss the annoying habits of being a Gen Z'er. JC and Jeff share their thoughts on Tik Tok vs Instagram, LPSG.com, & trying to make gay friends. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!

Jeff Perla is joined by good friend Chris Pitsicalis to catch up and fill you in on some life updates

Jeff Perla (@Jeffperlaa) is joined his streaming bestie Connor Shennan (@ShennanConnor) to laugh about their experiences on a dating show. Do you think you can force a relationship? Have you ever felt fucked up that you knew someone liked you and they were a good fit for you but you just couldn't get there? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!

You can follow Connor Here

Welll there’s a lot to unbox in this episode as Jeff Perla is joined by Daniel Milstein to discuss dating in your 30’s, celebrity real estate, and why you shouldn’t wear designer items out. Tune into this episode of Lost Nuggs!

Insta-Triplets with Jeff Perla from (@thetravelinbum), Michael & Zach Zakar (@zakartwins) talk about how they first met. They give their best attempt at giving you a serious conversation about where they see their lives going. Do Jeff and Michael see themselves being married? Will Michael and Zach move to NYC? Who slashed their ex boyfriends tires? Find out on this episode of Behind The Bum!

Jeff Perla (@Jeffperlaa) is joined by drag artists Britney Banks (@thebritneybanks) & Justine Van De Blair (@justinequeenqueen) to share everything that is going on with the new legislation that just passed in Tennessee. Jeff explains what you can expect in this new "Gays in the Wild" journey! 

Jeff Perla is joined by Vlad Radoi (@RadoiVlad) a Biochemist with a PHD in Medical Science. The boys discuss how your sex drive works and the difference between your libido and hormones. Just because your testosterone levels decrease does that mean your sex drive should decrease? Well guess again. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!

Hey guys I'm your host Jeff Perla, founder and creator of The Travelin Bum on Instagram. It's time to take my bum to new tops or new heights and get deep into some of these bottoms. I am here to give you the inside scoop from your favorite influencers, reality tv stars, trailblazers and iconic gays in our community. So what are you waiting for grab a condom and get ready for an episode of behind the bum.  

Jeff Perla and Elliott Norris are joined by Courtney Revolution, reality TV guru to reminisce on iconic shows from the past and bash the ones they were on. Jeff & Courtney may have overshared, but lets see how this goes!

Jeff Perla and Elliott Norris are joined by Noah Davis for a gay journey. The boys share their goals and how being sexual on the internet has made them successful. Should Jeff, Elliott, and Noah drop a Christmas song?

Jeff Perla and Elliott Norris are joined by Roy Tomko, psychic medium in hopes of getting a look into their future. Roy shares what is in store for Jeff & Elliott this next year. Elliott is joined by a spirit looking for closure.. Listen to this episode to hear this in real time!

Jeff Perla is joined by Pedro (@_________pedro________) to play a game sharing their wild stories abroad! Pedro is studying to be a urologist so the conversations naturally revolved around... well ya know, dicks. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum! 

Boyfriends Justin & Shae (@justshaemless) join host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss gay relationships, Fire Island, & play a very intense game of never have I ever. What happened when Shae walked in on Jeff having sex? Wait what?! Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!

Jeff Perla (@TheTravelinBum) is joined by Dr. Greg Cason (@DontAskGreg) a psychologist for over 20 years with an expertise in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy.  The boys go through behavioral patterns of gays traveling to Mexico for New Years Eve. Why did men travel for New Years? If they think people know it is wrong why are they still posting about it? Do people partying during a pandemic have a mental illness? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!

If you would like to see more of Dr. Greg Cason you can follow him below!

Website: www.drgreg.com

Youtube: youtube.com/drgreg

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dontaskgreg/

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Jeff Perla (@TheTravelinBum) invites on Eddie (@eddiebeiler), Fernando (@fernandodc), & Jon (@jonjondotcom) to discuss life as a sober gay male. At what age did you guys first start experiencing drugs and alcohol? Have you ever had a problem with drugs or alcohol? Do you find it difficult to build friendships and find a safe gay space without the use of drugs or alcohol? Keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!

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Jimmy (@JimmyPezzino) & Jessa (@TheeJessa) join host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss their new douche @discover_DU. How often do you douche? Is it just me or do you view douching as like arghhh I'm a hungry bottom lets fuck...  Here's the Du's and Dunt's on douching. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!

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Jeff Perla (@TheTravelinBum) is joined by his good friend Jimmy Pezzino (@JimmyPezzino) to share why they motivated one another to make an Only Fans.  What's the craziest request they've received so far? What made Jeff finally pull the trigger? How pissed did Jeff get when he saw his pictures leaked? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!

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Ty Talley (@TyTalleyOfficial) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to  discuss what life was like growing up in what they felt was homophobic towns. Does it feel like you need to leave your home town to be accepted for your sexuality? What have you gained from leaving where you grew up? What advice would you give to anyone who is feeling uncomfortable or stuck in a small town? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!

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Host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) went to Mykonos with his best friends Reed Buggie (@Reedbuggie), Max Rutcofsky (@Maxrut), and Anthony Guerrieri (@Asguerrieri). If you watched their Instagram stories you may have noticed they were kicked out of their hotel, never slept and lets be honest we have a lot of questions! On this episode Reed joins Jeff to discuss why they were kicked out of the hotel and who won't be allowed to rent an ATV ever again. On the second half of this episode Max and Anthony join Jeff to discuss the Catamaran day, Max's firsts from this trip, and a lot of things none of us ever needed to know. Check out this episode of Behind The Bum!

Todd Masterson (@GayFatFriend) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to share what it's like being the Gay Fat Friend. Have you ever felt fetishized for being chubby? Do you think gay men notoriously hangout with people who look like themselves? If you could give advice to anyone insecure in their own body, what would you say?  Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!

Follow Todd at https://www.instagram.com/gayfatfriend/?hl=en

Jeff Perla (@Jeffperlaa) is joined by casting agent Mike Rose (@MikeRoseLA) giving you the tips and tricks to make it on TV. How do you audition? What are casting directors looking for? If someone in a position of power makes a move on you for a gig what do you do?!

Host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) organizes a group of men 50+ to share their journeys of coming out. Who was married with children? What was it like trying to explore your sexual identity in the midst of the AIDS epidemic in the 80's? Can you find true love after 50?  Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! I want to give a shoutout to Liam, Edwin, & Michael for sharing their personal journeys with me, it means a lot. Give them a follow. Liam: https://www.instagram.com/liamboston/ Edwin: https://www.instagram.com/edwindouglass/?hl=en Michael: https://www.instagram.com/gagnonmt/?hl=en

Andres Simon (@andressimon_) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss the struggles of coming out as Bisexual. Jeff and Andres chemistry sparks as sexual tension builds. Later on Jeff is joined by Ellie Shiovitz (@ellieshiovitz) & Wesley Boyett (@Wesleyboyett) as they discuss what life is like for them fitting into the LGBTQ community. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!

Jeff explores his past with 4 different guys who entered his life at various stages. Some of the men left on good terms, others did not. This was extremely eye opening for Jeff and lessons were learned. Special thanks to Mike Hasenaur, Kyle Macchi, Eduardo Figuero, and Chase for joining. Would you ask Jeff out on a date after listening to this? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!

Joey Gentile (@Joey.Gentile) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to talk about Truvada, Descovy, & Pep. What's the difference between Truvada and Descovy? How many people actually take Prep? Do you need insurance to get Prep? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!

I think my most asked question is "How can I get Prep with or without insurance"? You can checkout Mistr here. 

Jeff Perla is joined by Yuhua Hamasaki from Rupaul’s Drag Race. From straight fetishes to hookup culture amongst the queens this episode gives it all.

Jimmy Pezzino (@Jimmypezzino) joins host Jeff Perla (@Thetravelinbum) to discuss life after pride and 4th of July. Jeff and Jimmy share a story about what it was like doing their first photo shoot together which took a turn for the worst. Between Fire Island, Instagram, Modeling, and a little bit about chicken nuggets listen up on this episode of Behind The Bum!

You guys ask a lot of questions and I can't send lengthy responses so I let Alex VanGurp (@AlexVanGurp) pick out 15 of your questions that I was forced to answer. Not going to give any hints to what these were but I think you'll like it. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!

Jeff Perla is joined by Psychotherapist Joe Nucci. Is it just in our DNA to have a type? Does our type have to do with our first time or does your type from trauma!

Gay Boy Problem AF with Jeff Perla (@TheTravelinBum) & Peter Pagan (@GayBoyProblems.AF) discuss the meme era we are living in? Where does Peter project it going? How can hopefully future memer's create their own content? Is there a secret society of memer's who all support each other? What are the struggles of being a late 20 year old approaching their 30's. Find out on Behind The Bum!

John Duff (@IAmJohnDuff) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss similar feelings that we all must be feeling during this time. You can hear how Jeff & John are both dealing with sexual deprivation and this quarantine lifestyle. The boys go in depth in what they are doing to occupy their time, things they miss, and a majority of off topic inappropriate questions along the way. Grab your glass of wine and tune into this episode of Behind The Bum!. 

Felipe Borras (@FollowFelipe) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss how photography grew in a world driven by social media. You can hear all about how Felipe got started in Photography, Instagram, and made a professional career out of it. Felipe dives into who if favorite influencers to work with are and who he hopes to never see again. What's the weirdest thing these 2 have done for money? Is a threesome in the future for these Jeff, Felipe, & Felipe's Boyfriend Andrew (@followandriy)? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!

James (@jj1993c) & Nico (@musically_nico) join host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to share what exactly a Power Bottom is. Is there one sole definition of a power bottom? Does a power bottom mean you can take any dick size? Is a power bottom a sexual position or a personality trait? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! You can follow the boys here: James: https://www.instagram.com/jj1993c/?hl=en Nico: https://www.instagram.com/musically_nico/?hl=en

Jeff Perla (@TheTravelinBum) is joined by 4 guests; Mike, Derek, Ryan, & Theo who have all been fetishized for their outter appearance. How does it feel when someone treats you like a fetish? Is there a difference between having a type and being a fetish? Is it wrong to be curious about how big a guy's dick is because of his race or what color his pubes are because of his hair color? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!

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Mike: https://www.instagram.com/mikemontiel/?hl=en

Ryan: https://www.instagram.com/ryan_sutton87/?hl=en

Theo: https://www.instagram.com/the_red_wizard.gr/?hl=en

Jeff Perla is joined by long time friend, Corey Rae, trans activist sharing her experience transitioning. From education, therapy, hormone blockers, we run through it all. Hopefully this helps answer some of your questions. If you are seeking further information please reach out to @imcoreyrae

Jeff Perla & DJ Mikey Pop (@DJMikeyPop) discuss Threesomes. Jeff shares his view points on threesomes and Mikey discusses how he manages being in a an open relationship. How does Jeff feel about having a threesome? Where is the craziest place Mikey has ever had a threesome? Will Jeff ever have one? Find out on Behind The Bum!

Jeff Perla (@Jeffperlaa) is joined by Devon Rouse (@Devon__Rouse) to share what it's like being the first Nascar driver to come out in 20 years!. Devon opens up about what his coming out journey has been like & how the Nascar community has responded. Did coming out effect his career? How many closet cases are in the Nascar community? Who just got an anal fissure?... Oh just kidding... Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!

You can follow Devon Here

Jeff Perla & Elliott Norris launch their new venture "Lost Nuggs" sharing their ins and outs navigating life behind the scenes. Catch up on their dating life. Is Elliott on Ozempic? Who has the higher body count between Jeff & Elliott? Well lets find out...

Jeff Perla & Elliott Norris are joined by Chris Pitsicalis. Who offended Jojo Siwa's bestie? Is it normal to ask someone if they are autistic on a date? Sounds Iike Jeff & Elliott have had a week..lets unpack this...

Traci Carson (@Traci_Carson) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to analyze Jeff's picky eating habits. How restrictive is Jeff's palate? What percentage of gay men actually have an eating disorder? Have you ever skipped a meal because you wanted to look skinnier? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!

Jeff Perla and Elliott Norris sit down with comedy queen Taylor Jackson. Are straight men more trash than gay men? When do men actually gain emotional intelligence? Enjoy the laughs on this episode of Lost Nuggs!

Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) invites Arielle Scarcella (@arielle_scarcella) & JC Dombrowki (@jc.dombrowski) to discuss their final thoughts before Election Day. Who is voting for Trump and who is voting for Biden? Is it possible for someone to vote for Trump if they are in the LGBTQ community? Can you be friends with someone who has opposing political views than you?  Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!

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Kevin (@Hoosagoodboy) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to share his thoughts on sex before marriage. What is it like to be 53 and never have had penetrative sex yet? Would you be scared to take a guys virginity?  Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!

Jeff Perla is joined by Ryan Fuller to share some important news. Ryan shares what his diagnosis means and the boys bond over a midlife crisis!

Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) Is joined by 3 guests, David, Josh, & Britt who are all men who were once married to women. At what point did they know they were gay? Why go through with a marriage if you knew you were gay? How one wife went through his phone and discovered ... well grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!

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Host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) is greeted by a surprise guest from his past Gabriel Valentin Clinaz (@Gabrielvalentinclinaz). Gabriel had a 5 hour layover in NYC and ran in quick to visit Jeff after not seeing each other in nearly 2 years. They reminisce on what sent Jeff to the hospital on Halloween 2017, what it's like to eat the "shell", and Gabriel tries very hard to get with Jeff. You can listen to all this and more on this episode of Behind The Bum.

Sion Walton Guest joins Jeff Perla to share their experience traveling the globe one social post at a time. After an 8 year online friendship, and one casual meetup in Mykonos, the boys catch up in NYC for this juicy episode!

Jeff Perla is joined by Zak Zakar @zakartwins to share what it’s like growing up in a religious household. Can you be gay and religious?

Jeff Perla (@TheTravelinBum) is joined by Instagram friends; Andres (@andrespalenciao), Steven (@smccutie) & Javier (@jv.rv) to share their experience as a Twink. At what age are you no longer considered a Twink? Do Twink's have a daddy fetish? Has anyone ever used the term Twink to negatively described someone? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!

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Host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) sought out the help of fans to hear about their most embarrassing sexual experiences. Magnus (@potgietermagnus) shares his not so hot experience in Qatar. Anthony (Anonymous) shares what it's like to be walked in on & Christopher (@chrisnemetz) shares what happens once you get catfished. Let's see how many of these stories you boys relate too. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!

Jeff is joined by Lamar Dawson host of Sirius XM Tik Tok Radio sharing their favorite and least favorite guests. 2 hosts in a room they might…

Jeff Perla and Elliott Norris overshare in this weeks episode with a lot of laughs. Hear about the real story behind Antarctica, Mardi Gras, and Elliott’s personal life.

Jeff Perla and Elliott Norris are joined by Luke Matthews, a "new" gay in the community. What does coming out look like for Gen z-ers, FMK Gaymer edition, Will Jeff and Luke date? Maybe Elliott and Luke have a better connection? Tune into this episode of Lost Nuggs!

Jeff Perla is joined by Rob Pugliese (@SouthTampaBob) & David Rumsey (@MusgraveMTNMan),2 men over the age of 60 sharing their life experiences in the gay community! What was it like coming out in the 80's? What does "Side mean"? Want to gain some great life advice as to why you shouldn't spend your time "checking a box"? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!

Jeff Perla and Elliott Norris catch up after their few weeks apart. From farting on the air to Camila Cabellos ratty blonde hair this episode will have you laughing from start to finish.

Jeff Perla is joined by Demetre Durham kicking off this episode ranking celebrities packages from online forums. A game of F*ck, Marry, Kill food edition and some personal information dropped in this episode of Lost Nuggs!

Jeff Perla is joined by Skye Walker, local NYC gaymer. The boys attempt to talk games in the queer community and derail..

Jeff Perla and Elliott Norris are joined by their travel bestie Alex Van Gurp! The boys discuss their week in Portugal, Jeff's crash and burn Euro relationship... Tune into this episode of Lost Nuggs!

Frank (@Franekskywalker) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to share what they think is the right or wrong way to use the bathroom. From toilet paper to bidets to going in a hole in the ground. These boys leave nothing to the imagination and share way more than they should have. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!

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Jeff Perla is joined by Daniel (@NKD_Dan) to laugh about the odd requests they've been receiving? What would you send out for money? What is something that just no amount of money can get? Who sent out their c*m rag for $200? Oh god... Enjoy

If you want to follow Dan @NKD_Dan

Jeff Perla is joined by Todd Masterson everyone’s gay fat friend to talk shit about you. What’s a gay fashion trend we’re sick of? From steroids to ozempic what’s the end game here? Enjoy the laughs on this episode of Lost Nuggs!

Jeff Perla and Elliott Norris are joined by Grant Gibbs, sharing hot takes from Disney Gays, Ireland, Chain Restaurants, and a game of F*uck, Marry, K*ll that didn't age well. Get ready for a laugh on this episode of Lost Nuggs!

Matt Bellassai (@Mattbellassai) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss gay culture to pop culture. From Queer Eye (sorry Bobby) to Big Little Lies, from vaginas to nugget porn? Wait what?! Nothing is off topic after 2 bottles of rosè. Grab a glass and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!

Jeff Perla is joined by fellow cast-mate Dylan Palladino (@DylanJpalladino) from The One That Got Away, now streaming on Prime Video. The boys reminisce on their experience filming the show and answer on going questions. Does Dylan's BDE match the reality? Who stirred the pot the most in the house? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!

You guys can follow Dylan Here

& be sure to stream The One That Got Away now on Prime Video!

Zak (@TallZT) & Brian (@yeatheycallmeb) join host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to share their experiences with straight men. Should you hook up with your straight friends? At what point should you start saying no to them?  Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!

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Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) Is joined by 2 guests, Casey & James who are fathers VIA adoption & surrogacy. What's easier adoption or surrogacy? Is it possible to jerk off into a cup and get a female pregnant turkey baster style? Listen as we hear how these men did it. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!

You can follow the guys below:

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Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) invites on 3 guests to discuss sex work. Guests include Peter Pagen (OheyPete), Jimmy Pezzino (@JimmyPezzino), & Kevin Mimms(@TheBlackWidowNYC).  Do you ever feel it is wrong to show off your body to make money? Has a relationship ever failed because of it? Do you think sex work has a negative stigma? How do you change the narrative to make it more socially acceptable?  Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!

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Dr. Jennifer DiLandro (@dolceaestheticsny) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss common aging signs among men. She offers advice  on how to combat the aging process for guys. She is also the Doctor behind Jeff's laser hair removal on his butt. Find out if getting Botox in your hole is a good idea! What typeof cosmetic surgery is considered the gateway drug? If you have ever been interested in learning about potential treatment options based on your age give this a listen. Grab your glass of wine and tune into this episode of Behind The Bum!.

Jeff Perla & Edgardo Riveros (@Gatosheko) discuss Only Fans. From personal experience, Gato shares how his photos and videos were leaked, what his family thinks of his new business, and how he manages to maintain a day job. Will Gato convince Jeff Perla to make an Only Fans account? Find out on Behind The Bum?

Anthony Guerrieri (@badboyantg) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss their experience hooking up with straight men. What't the appeal? How did it work out for Jeff & Anthony? The boys talk with 3 other anonymous guests who share how some have and some haven't gotten over their first love to a straight man. Jeff & Anthony try to leave the boys with some advice on how to navigate a curious straight male. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! https://www.instagram.com/badboyantg/

Logan (@Brogan_NYC) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss what they loved and miss most about their lives traveling. What are the essentials you need to bring to a hookup? Have you ever stolen anything from a hookups apartment? What city has the best gay nightlife? Which city has the friendliest LGBTQ community? Would they hookup with their exes? All that and more on this episode with Brogan. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!

Jeff Perla is joined by drag race favorite Plasma where they banter between their northern and southern upbringings

Couple Marco (@Msivio516) & Arial (@Arialw_) join host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to share if a 27 year age gap is a factor in their relationship. Later in the episode Jeff is joined by Andre, 21 (@_who_is_Andre) who shares his experience in an age gap relationship, and why it didn't work. Do you think you could be in an age gapped relationship? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!

Jeff Perla & Elliott Norris are joined by Austin Show. Why don't you wear your good underwear to the Cheesecake Factory? Who chills naked together? Between Austin, Jeff, & Elliott what is the obsession with twinks?

Jeff Perla and Elliott Norris are joined by Nick Norcia.

The boys play an array of games including over/ under where they make some confessions. What does clean cut actually mean? Can you be friends with someone who has different political views than you? Listen in on this episode of Lost Nuggs!

While Elliott is away Jeff Perla is joined by Taylor Stilson sharing his thoughts on hooking up with straight friends. Does an enlarged prostate make it more pleasurable? Take a shot every time Taylor asks Jeff to collab.

I'm sure you're all sick of our Puerto Rico content by now, yet here is our recap. Come join Elliot (@ElliottNorris), Spencer (@HoddSuspenders), Barry (@BarryBartlett_) and I (@JeffPerlaa) as we share our peak and pit, first impressions of one another, and all the inappropriate juicy questions you guys asked. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!

If you're planning a trip to Puerto Rico in the near future. I suggest Coqui Del Mar in San Juan as well as Casa de Amistad in Vieques. Salty Spirit was our tour guide for the duration of the trip who took us to incredible places from the black sand beach to snorkeling. Last but not least, a car is a necessity in Puerto Rico and we went Lesbian owned at Maritza's Car Rental. 

Jeff Perla invites on 2 above average men; Micah & Demetri to talk about the flaws of being well endowed. Everyone claims to want a big you know what, but what happens when you’re fetishized or it’s too much to take everyday?

Jeff Perla is joined by his 2 besties Alex Van Gurp and Max Rut as they look back at the highs and lows of 2024 and what’s to come in 2025. Between Alex’s attitude and Max’s silliness, here is your dose of comedic relief!

As we enter Pride Month, Jeff will be releasing 2 episodes per week. One with a fellow influencer in the gay community and another weekly episode featuring those closest to him. This special episode features 2 of Jeff's closest friends from 7th grade, Shanae Drew & Maria Murray. They discuss what life was like growing up in a private school, when they first learned about the word gay, and when they tried to get Jeff to come out in high school. The second half of this episode takes a weird turn when they share stories of Jeff & Maria's attempt of trying to make him hard & the girls offer advice to any straight ally. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!

Brent Everett (@BrentEverett_com) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss his career in the adult entertainment industry. What was his favorite scene? Has doing porn ever affected his relationships?  Do you think gay porn is a good way to educated gay men on sex? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!

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Jeff's back with his good friend Josh Oram (@ooshj) to catch you up on everything you missed? Why was the account disabled? What is The Travelin Bum allowed to post? Do you think "meta" is homophobic? There's a lot to unbox here so we hope this insight into Jeff's life the past month helps answer any of your pondering questions. 

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Jeff Perla and Corey Camperchioli (@coreycamp) discuss gender norms. Jeff shares his view point on the term "masc" and "femme". Corey shares his experiences growing up "femme" and how a word that tormented him his whole life has turned in to a light for his future. How do Jeff & Corey feel about hooking up with someone "femme" or "masc"? What journey are Jeff & Corey going to take on this summer? Find out on this episode of Behind The Bum!

Join Jeff Perla on a journey as he interviews a high end escort about the industry

Jeff Perla is joined by Christian Berry (@ChristianTBerry) to reminisce on their sugar daddies! What is the worst situation they've put themselves in with a daddy? How did Christian start on Twitter? What is the most awkward sex video to film of yourself? We talked about a lot more than we cared to share on this but hope you enjoy! If you want to follow Christian @ChristianTBerry on Instagram or @Seateabe 

Bernard Green M.Ed, Doctoral Candidate (@johnnybgood09) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to challenge him to have a conversation about race. Can white people be victims of racism? Is it ok to use the "N" word in songs? Is racism a power dynamic that is pushed upon others? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum!