Turns Out We’re Gay (Clem & Sarah)

In the final episode of Turns Out We're Gay's first season, Clem and Sarah delve into personal experiences, starting with Clem's first lesbian heartbreak. With their usual openness, they discuss the challenges and growth that has followed for Clem along with navigating heartbreak as a new couple.

They delve into the importance of open communication in their relationship, sharing insights on navigating difficult conversations with honesty and creating a safe space to have uncomfortable conversations.

As they close out the season, Clem and Sarah express heartfelt gratitude to their guests, recognising the impact each one has had on the podcast's success.

They bid farewell to season one and can't wait for what's to come in their journey into Season Two!

This week Clem & Sarah sit down with the funny, beautiful, and amazing Lexie Dyer!

Lexie's known for her honest and outgoing personality, which has earned her an incredible following on TikTok, YouTube, and Instagram. We dive into Lexie's journey, discussing her sexuality, coming out story, first lesbian heartbreak, and her experiences with OnlyFans.

Lexi talks about her experience, offering a relatable and real perspective on queer life and living openly as her authentic self. Tune in to listen to Lexie talk about embracing who you truly are, and you won't want to miss it! You can follow Lexie on:

Instagram: @lexiedyer_

TikTok: @lexdyerr

Youtube: @Lexdyer

In this episode, Clem and Sarah decided to lighten things up and dive into a fun conversation about queer moments in TV! They explore the TV shows and characters that played a pivotal role in helping them figure out their queer identities. From iconic scenes that might be a little cheeky to unforgettable moments that left a lasting impact, they provide great pointers for must-watch episodes and celebrate the representation that meant so much to them. Clem and Sarah highlight queer characters who have had a significant influence on their lives, discussing why these characters resonated with them and how they helped shape their understanding of themselves. They throw each other under the bus with who they would "smash" and the unrealistic threesome list! Listen along for a bit of fun, cheekiness, and laughs!

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In this exciting episode of "Turns Out We're Gay," hosts Clem and Sarah are joined by their first guest the fabulous Holly Langford, known from The Bachelorette and a passionate advocate for the LGBTQIA+ community. As a Lululemon ambassador and more, Holly brings her unique perspective to the table.

Together, they dive into Holly's personal journey of self-discovery, touching on topics like bisexuality, pansexuality, and the importance of embracing diverse identities within the LGBTQIA community. Throughout the episode, Clem, Sarah, and Holly keep the conversation real, discussing the dos and don'ts of supporting bi and pan individuals with empathy, inclusivity, and understanding.

Whether you're looking to learn something new or just enjoy some laughs, this episode promises to be both informative and entertaining. Get ready for a fun chat that celebrates diversity and encourages everyone to be their authentic selves.

Get ready for another hilarious and very open episode of "Turns Out We're Gay" as your hosts, Clem and Sarah, spill the tea on their own love story in the digital age! In this episode, the duo takes you on a journey through the wild world of social media romance.

Discover the behind-the-scenes details of Clem and Sarah's unconventional meeting on TikTok, where a scroll, a double-tap, and a comment turned into the ultimate modern-day queer love story. From navigating the ups and downs of being openly gay on social platforms to dealing with the audacity of some individuals, and setting clear boundaries, our hosts share their candid experiences.

So, whether you're a seasoned TikTok enthusiast or a skeptic of online romance, this episode is sure to, at the very least, be entreating to listen to. Get ready to laugh, relate, and maybe even reconsider your own social media approach to dating!

In this heartfelt episode, Sarah bravely concludes our mental health series by sharing her transformative journey. Trigger Warning: DV, PTSD, Stalking, Mental Health, Depression. If any of these topics, or conversations about mental health experiences, trigger you we recommend to listen to the next episode.

Sarah opens up about her experiences with being stalked, navigating tough relationships, and facing significant trauma—all while discovering her queer identity. She candidly discusses the challenges of living with PTSD and the moments that shaped her resilience.

Sarah's story dives into the intersections of identity and mental health, offering real insights into self-discovery and healing. Her journey highlights the importance of seeking support, speaking up, and finding community during tough times.

Resources:

For those seeking support related to DV, PTSD, Suicide, Depression, and online therapy services in Australia, here are some helpful resources:

• Domestic Violence:

  • 1800RESPECT (National Sexual Assault, Domestic Family Violence Counselling Service): 1800 737 732
  • Women's Safety Services South Australia: 1800 800 098

• PTSD and Mental Health:

  • Lifeline Australia: 13 11 14
  • Beyond Blue: 1300 22 4636
  • Black Dog Institute: Information on mental health conditions and treatment options

• Depression:

  • Depression Hotline (Beyond Blue): 1300 22 4636
  • Headspace: Mental health support for young people

• Online Therapists in Australia:

  • BetterHelp: Online counseling platform offering access to licensed therapists
  • MindSpot Clinic: Online and telephone assessment and treatment for anxiety and depression
  • The Online Psychologist: The Right Help, Anywhere | Online Psychologists Australia

Join us as Sarah reflects on her journey of resilience and self-discovery, offering hope and solidarity to listeners navigating their own paths toward healing and acceptance.

Spoiler Alert: We are talking all things "I Kissed a Girl" on BBC! If you haven't watched the show, go watch it now then listen to the episode x We dive into the much-anticipated season finale of BBC's new lesbian show "I Kissed a Girl." We recap the entire season, sharing our thoughts and reactions to the final episode and the jaw-dropping reunion special.

From unexpected breakups to sweet love stories, we talk about every dramatic moment and surprising twist. You won't believe which couples have stayed together and which ones have parted ways. Plus, the reunion brought shocking updates that left us speechless.

Tune in as we analyse the highs and lows of this amazing show. We are so excited for the Queer representation and can't wait for a new season! Whether you're a dedicated fan or just curious, this episode is packed with insights and our unfiltered opinions on "I Kissed a Girl."

It's an episode you won't want to miss!

In this episode, Clem and Sarah dive into two big topics in queer dating: U-Hauling and ghosting. They start by discussing the U-Haul phenomenon, where relationships quickly move to living together. Clem and Sarah share their own experiences and explore why this happens and what it means for LGBTQ+ relationships.

Then they chat about the infamous ghosting, talking about why it happens and how it feels to be ghosted. They also share their thoughts on how digital communication has changed dating and give advice on dealing with ghosting, whether you're the one ghosting or being ghosted.

Tune in for hilarious conversation about the ups and downs of modern queer dating!

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Disclaimer: 18+ ears this episode is about to get very detailed! In this anticipated episode of "Turns Out We're Gay," hosts Clem and Sarah spill the tea on queer intimacy, sharing personal stories and offering advice, they explore the ups and downs of first times with women, making listeners feel right at home in the women-loving-women community. From awkward mishaps to heartwarming moments, Clem and Sarah bring a relatable touch to their discussion, making it easy for listeners to laugh along and learn from their experiences. Whether you're curious about your own journey or simply love a good story, this is an episode you don't want to miss!

We're back! Clem and Sarah are back with the much-anticipated Season 2 of "Turns Out We're Gay"! After a refreshing break, we dive headfirst into the complex and often misunderstood topic of love bombing.

In this premiere episode, Clem faces a personal challenge of called out for love bombing behavior, prompting a candid and introspective discussion. Meanwhile, Sarah shares her intense experience of being love bombed, shedding light on the emotional and psychological impact.

Join us as we explore love bombing across various spectrums, its manipulative roots, and the different forms it can take. We discuss the warning signs, the psychological effects, and how to navigate and recover from such experiences.

Trigger Warning:

This episode includes discussions of PTSD, domestic violence, and love bombing manipulation. Listener discretion is advised.

Australian Mental Health Resources:

Lifeline Australia: 13 11 14 (24/7 crisis support and suicide prevention services)

Beyond Blue: 1300 22 4636 (Support for anxiety, depression, and suicide prevention)

1800RESPECT: 1800 737 732 (National sexual assault, domestic and family violence counselling service)

QLife: 1800 184 527 (LGBTQ+ support and referral)

Headspace: headspace.org.au (Mental health support for young people aged 12-25)

Black Dog Institute: blackdoginstitute.org.au (Information and support for mental health issues)

Tune in for an enlightening and supportive conversation that aims to educate and empower our listeners.

In the Season Two finale of Turns Out We're Gay, we're thrilled to welcome the incredible Milo Hartill! Known for her authenticity, vibrant personality, and undeniable talent as an actress, model, and show artist, Milo has captured hearts online for simply being herself.

In this episode, Milo joins us to chat about everything from sexuality and new relationships to body positivity and the performance arts. It's a fun and unfiltered conversation that perfectly wraps up an amazing season.

Before we dive in, we want to express our heartfelt thanks for all the love and support we've received throughout Season Two. It’s been such a joy to create, and we’re so excited for what’s coming next—not just Season Three, but something extra special we’ve been working on.

Make sure to follow us on Instagram, TikTok, and YouTube for updates and sneak peeks of what’s to come! We are so pumped to have Milo joining us, get ready for lots of laughs - it's a funny one! 

Milo can be found at her Instagram: @milohartill

In this exciting episode, we welcome Heath Thorpe to the podcast, an incredible Australian gymnast who's making waves both on and off the mat. Heath shares his coming out story and the ups and downs of being a queer athlete in a sport often tied to strict gender norms.

As a member of Australia’s national gymnastics team, Heath has represented our country at major international competitions, including the World Championships. He has won multiple gold medals at the Oceania Championships and recently hosted for Stan as the representative for Gymnastics at this year's 2024 Olympic Games. His efforts to challenge traditional gender roles in the sport—especially through advocating for more expressive, gender-fluid movements—are reshaping how gymnastics can be performed and seen.

Heath also talks about his love for the Vogue ballroom scene and how it has influenced his performance style. He highlights the importance of allies in supporting the LGBTQ+ community and creating spaces where wueer people like him can truly thrive.

Join us for a chat about Heath’s groundbreaking career, his vision for the future of gymnastics, and how he’s paving the way for the next generation of queer athletes.

In the first episode of Season Three of Turns Out We're Gay, we're back and ready to kick off an amazing new season! We start by wrapping up Season Two, sharing some of our favorite moments, and giving you a behind-the-scenes look at what we've been up to. We’ll also fill you in on what to expect in the coming weeks, including some incredible guests and topics we're really excited about. Plus, we’ve got a big announcement: we're launching a new project, which is all about fun, queer content made by the queer community. We can't wait to share all of this with you, so tune in and join us for an awesome start to the season!

n this episode of Turns Out We're Gay, we welcome back the brilliant Kendall Buckley, Clinical Sexologist, for an insightful discussion all about "baby queers." We explore the journey of discovering and embracing your queer identity, from the excitement and challenges of navigating newness to the importance of finding a supportive community. Kendall shares valuable tips on how to embrace your authentic self while working through identity, relationships, and self-awareness.

Kendall also highlights the essential role that QLife, Australia’s free support and referral service for LGBTQIA+ individuals, plays in providing guidance for those in need (1800 184 527). Plus, she recommends a few great reads to help deepen your understanding of queer history, attachment theory, and neurodiversity, including Rainbow History Class by Hannah McElhinney, No Modernism Without Lesbians by Diana Souhami, Attached by Dr. Amir Levine and Rachel S.F. Heller, and Unmasking Autism by Devon Price.

Join us for a fun conversation on the importance of belonging, navigating identity, and the power of community as you step into your queer journey!

This is such a special episode for the Turn's Out We're Gay fam! Clem sits down with our close friend Torz, who has recently come out as non-binary. Torz shares their personal journey of self-discovery, from grappling with their identity to the pivotal moments that led to their decision to come out. They discuss the reactions from friends and family, the challenges they faced along the way, and how they’ve navigated the complexities of gender identity. Torz also reflects on the support they’ve received and the growth they’ve experienced since embracing their non-binary identity. Join us for this very special episode as Torz sheds light on the process of finding and expressing one's true self.

Welcome to the first episode of our brand-new series Confessions, where we dive into juicy, real-life dilemmas and open up more about our life and talk about some hairy topics! In this episode, we’re bringing you a game that’ll make you question everything: “Is It Cheating?”

From emotional connections to innocent flirtations, we're breaking down what it really means to cross the line. Is texting your ex cheating? What about fantasising about someone else? We’ll share our personal allowing our listeners to get to know us a little bit better! 

Tune in for an honest (and sometimes messy) conversation about boundaries, trust, and the wild world of modern love. You won’t want to miss it!

In this special episode of Turns Out We’re Gay, we’re thrilled to host Sarah Wall, a celebrated non-binary hairstylist from Sydney. Sarah shares how they’ve created a salon space that goes beyond haircuts—it’s a refuge where queer individuals can feel safe, seen, and fully affirmed in their identities.

Sarah talks about how hair can serve as a powerful tool for gender expression and self-affirmation, especially for those within the LGBTQ+ community. They also open up about their personal struggles with mental health and how their career has helped them heal and find purpose. In this raw and moving conversation, Sarah discusses their own coming out story and the recent announcement of their transition.

Expect an episode full of laughter, vulnerability, and inspiration. Sarah’s journey, both personal and professional, offers hope, encouragement, and insight into what it means to create affirming spaces for queer individuals. Whether you’re here for the hair, the heart, or the humor, this episode will leave you feeling empowered and connected.

Join Clem and Sarah on this episode as they dive into the world of polyamory, relationship dynamics, and trust! Exploring topics like polycules, threesomes, dating, jealousy, and open communication, they shine a light on the complexities of non-traditional relationships, advocating for a space where everyone can learn and grow within their own relationship styles and boundaries.

Through personal insights, they discuss the importance of consent and mutual respect in navigating different lifestyles. They also tackle the challenges of jealousy and managing insecurities within different dynamics.

Throughout the conversation, Clem and Sarah advocate for acceptance and understanding, emphasising the value of diverse lifestyle choices without judgment. Tune in for an enlightening discussion on love, intimacy, and authenticity!

In this episode, hosts Clem and Sarah sit down with Kirra Dibb, a powerhouse figure in NRLW, co-captain of the Cowboys, and tireless advocate for LGBTQIA+ inclusion. Kirra's candid storytelling offers a rare glimpse into her personal coming-out journey, navigating both the triumphs and challenges with unwavering honesty and warmth. She reflects on the importance of representation and inclusivity in sports, highlighting the progress made and her advice to other people navigating their experience. Kirra leaves listeners with invaluable advice, reminding us all of the importance of authenticity and resilience. Grab some snacks and join us for another hilarious and heartfelt episode with Kirra!

On this week’s episode, Clem and Sarah welcome the incredible Taz and Alessia to the podcast!

Known for their genuine and passionate representation of the LGBTQIA+ community, Taz and Alessia have become one of Australia’s most beloved lesbian couples on social media. With nearly 1 million followers on TikTok, they captivate audiences by sharing their authentic selves and daily lives, fostering a supportive and engaged online community.

Taz and Alessia are the duo behind TANDA, where they have made significant contributions to charitable causes, particularly in mental health and LGBTQIA+ support.

In this special episode, they discuss a variety of topics, including their experiences with coming out, self-expression, the dynamics of working together in both their relationship and professionally, and the importance of representation. They also delve into their efforts to support and uplift the community, sharing insights into how they use their platform to make a positive impact. Join us for a this very special episode with Taz and Alessia!

Let's talk about Mental Health! We’re diving into some pretty eye-opening statistics about mental health issues within the LGBTQIA+ community in Australia.

We’ll talk about the startling numbers, unpack the challenges queer people face, and really get into why mental health is such a big deal in our community. We’re sharing our own thoughts and personal experiences, connecting the dots between the data and our lives.

From the impact of queer challenges and stigma to the higher rates of anxiety, depression, and suicidal thoughts in our community, we’ll explore why these issues are so prevalent and what they mean for all of us.

Whether you’re part of the LGBTQIA+ community or an ally, this episode is a must-listen to understand the challenges we face and how we can all help make things better.

That data in this episode can be found at: Statistics - Beyond Blue - Beyond Blue

LGBTQIA+ Specific Resources

Qlife

Website: qlife.org.au

Phone: 1800 184 527

Minus18

Website: minus18.org.au

Twenty10

Website: twenty10.org.au

Phone: (02) 8594 9555

Transcend Australia

Website: transcendaus.org

Lifeline

Website: lifeline.org.au

Phone: 13 11 14

Beyond Blue

Website: beyondblue.org.au

Phone: 1300 22 4636

Headspace

Website: headspace.org.au

Phone: 1800 650 890

SANE Australia

Website: sane.org

Phone: 1800 18 7263

Black Dog Institute

Website: blackdoginstitute.org.au

Kids Helpline

Website: kidshelpline.com.au

Phone: 1800 55 1800

In the debut episode of "Turns Out We're Gay," hosts Clem and Sarah dive deep into the intimate stories of their coming out journeys. Get ready for a rollercoaster of emotions as we spill the tea on aspects of our lives that have never been shared before.

We open up about the twists and turns of discovering our true selves later in life, sharing personal stories that will make you laugh, reflect, and maybe even relate to in your own journey. From the initial moments of self-realisation to the challenges of navigating newfound identities within the LGBTQ+ community, this episode is an insight into the highs and lows of coming out.

We talk about what motivated us to create a platform where open discussions about all things queer and visibility of the LGBTQ+ community! Learn about the inspiration behind "Turns Out We're Gay" and the meaningful conversations we aim to spark within the queer community. We may also give a sneak peek into the topics we're excited to explore.

Grab your snacks, pour yourself a cup of tea, and join us for a candid, heartwarming, and downright entertaining (if we do say so ourselves) journey through our coming out stories and the exciting path that lies ahead on "Turns Out We're Gay." It's time to celebrate the authenticity of self-discovery and the joy that comes with embracing who you truly are.

In a heartfelt episode of "Turns Out We're Gay," we continue our mental health series by chatting about Clem's personal journey with anxiety and social anxiety during her coming out process. Clem bravely opens up about her experiences, discussing the challenges she faced and the decision to start medication to manage her anxiety. She also shares the emotional complexities of leaving a long-term relationship while navigating her newfound identity as a lesbian.

Clem takes us through the raw and overwhelming moments of dealing with social anxiety, the pressure of her mind and expectations, and the internal battles she fought. She reflects on the impact of coming out later in life and the courage it took to embrace her true self amidst a storm of emotional turmoil.

This episode is a raw and honest portrayal of Clem's struggles, offering a relatable and inspiring story for anyone dealing with similar issues. Clem's vulnerability and strength shine through providing hope and understanding to those on their own mental health journeys!

LGBTQIA+ Specific Resources

Qlife

Website: ⁠qlife.org.au⁠

Phone: 1800 184 527

Minus18

Website: ⁠minus18.org.au⁠

Twenty10

Website: ⁠twenty10.org.au⁠

Phone: (02) 8594 9555

Transcend Australia

Website: ⁠transcendaus.org⁠

Lifeline

Website: ⁠lifeline.org.au⁠

Phone: 13 11 14

Beyond Blue

Website: ⁠beyondblue.org.au⁠

Phone: 1300 22 4636

Headspace

Website: ⁠headspace.org.au⁠

Phone: 1800 650 890

SANE Australia

Website: ⁠sane.org⁠

Phone: 1800 18 7263

Black Dog Institute

Website: ⁠blackdoginstitute.org.au⁠

Kids Helpline

Website: ⁠kidshelpline.com.au⁠

Phone: 1800 55 1800

Before we dive in, please note that this episode contains mature content intended for listeners aged 18 and above. We'll be discussing intimate topics related to queer sex, including kinks, sex toys, and explicit language. If you're under 18 or uncomfortable with such content, we recommend checking out our other episodes. For our adult listeners, get ready for an enlightening and candid conversation with Kendall Buckley, a seasoned sexologist and sapphic relationship therapist. Let's get started! 

This week on “Turn’s Out We’re Gay” we sit down with Kendall Buckley, a seasoned sexologist and sapphic relationship therapist, for spicy conversation about all things queer sex. With a background in Clinical Nursing, a Bachelor of Science in Nursing, and a Masters in Sexology, Kendall brings a unique blend of medical expertise and sexual wellness advocacy to the table.

In this episode, we engage Kendall in a frank discussion about queer sex, debunking misconceptions while highlighting the importance of sex health within LGBTQ+ relationships. We explore the realm of kinks, emphasising the crucial role of openness and communication when it comes to intimacy. Kendall shares insights on ethical pornography, the benefits of incorporating sex toys, and discusses the diversity of sexual experiences within queer communities.

 Throughout their conversation, Kendall talks about the transformative power of a healthy sex life, and its impact on overall well-being and relationship satisfaction. Listeners will gain practical advice on embracing their sexual identities authentically and nurturing fulfilling connections with partners and themselves.

We also share some personal insights into our own sex lives... Get ready for some juicy details!

For more insights from Kendall, visit her website at www.kendallbuckley.com and connect with her on Instagram @kendall.buckley.sexologist. Kendall has generously shared her masturbation exercises, available on her website via this link: https://www.kendallbuckley.com/resources/p/masturbation-exercises

As a special treat for all "Turn’s Out We’re Gay" podcast listeners, you can try this out for free using the code “TOWG” – don’t miss out!

We loved having Kendall on so get used to seeing her here on the “Turn’s Out We’re Gay” Podcast!

Clem and Sarah are back with a special episode, and they've brought along some familiar faces - Kirra and Holly! Join the squad for a lively chat about all things relationships, from their own love story to the joys, icks and more!

They dish on who made the first move in the DMs, share some hilarious stories, and maybe even offer a bit of advice along the way. It's a celebration of love, friendship, and the laughter that comes with being true to yourself.

Whether you're a longtime listener or new to the podcast, you won't want to miss this hilarious episode!