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This episode was recorded in 2019. It features an interview that I gave to my HighExistence teammate Mike Slavin on Stoic philosophy. If you enjoyed this episode, I recommend you subscribe to both The Highexistence Podcast and The Stoic Handbook Podcast for more.
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Most people have heard of Stoicism.
It’s a philosophy dense with practical wisdom.
But how many Stoics do you know?
I don’t mean people who have read Meditations or Letters from a Stoic, I mean actual Stoics…
Individuals who are comparable to the authors of these books in their tranquility, wisdom, self-discipline, and joy.
This was a question I kept asking myself as I embarked on my study of Stoicism 10 years ago.
One of my passions is learning, or more specifically learning through systems.
I’m the guy who measures every workout at the gym, keeps detailed spreadsheets for the progress of my martial art, and has pretty much every habit tracking app available on his phone. I believe technology if harnessed correctly, can be an incredible tool for wisdom.
This is why, when I first started getting into Stoicism, I was disappointed by most people's answer to “How do you ACTUALLY become a Stoic?”
Most of the time the answer was something like the following:
Read the original Stoic classics multiple times. Reflect on your day by journaling. Do a few visualizations throughout the day. Focus only on the things you can control.
It’s not a terrible answer, but it’s far from great. I needed a roadmap. I needed to know that I wasn’t going to be wasting my precious time focusing on the wrong things. I needed a system.
When I first started Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu two years ago I realized the deep value of embodied wisdom. You cannot watch technique videos and expect to beat opponents at grappling. So much of the learning comes when you are faced with challenges you must overcome.
With Stoicism, many people spend time filling their heads with ideas and not putting any of it into practice. This means the time spent reading about the Stoic principles acts more like a distraction from problems than an antidote to them.
So how do we get around this? How do we get actually bridge the gap and put theory into practice and stop wasting time in intellectual la-la-land??
That’s what we discuss on the podcast today. On this episode, I relinquished my usual role as podcast host so I could sit in the hot seat. Fellow collaborator at HighExistence, Mike Slavin wears the interviewer hat and together we explore topics such as:
How I used Stoicism to overcome my social anxiety
The exercises I developed for reducing intense fear
The right and wrong ways to learn Stoicism (and anything else)
In this episode, I talk about a recent tragedy I heard about close to home. I share some reflections on how I think about death, life, and gratitude in the midst of turmoil. I hope you find it useful.
In this episode, we explore Chapter 7 of the Enchiridion and learn about an analogy that can help us practice letting go of the things we enjoy in life when it is time to "return" back to our source.
In this episode, we explore Chapter 8 of the Enchiridion and learn about an approach to accepting events exactly as they are instead of resisting against the will of nature and fortune.
Sickness is a problem for the body, not the mind – unless the mind decides that it is a problem. Lameness, too, is the body’s problem, not the mind’s. Say this to yourself whatever the circumstance and you will find without fail that the problem pertains to something else, not to you. — Epictetus
“I’ve spent the last 7 or 8 years of my life with the prime objective of healing my anxiety and I have looked at so many different modalities. This course is the one course that I would recommend to anyone who is dealing with anxiety.” - Nic Stubbs, Interviewer
In this interview, my friend and colleague Nic Stubbs and I flesh out the details of my new course: Stoic Anxiety Mastery.
Who is it for?
Why I created it.
And how it works.
As well as a bunch of other topics around my personal journey with anxiety and how I transformed it from enemy to ally, the reasons why spiritual people shy away from these thoroughly research-backed cognitive healing modalities, and some of Nic's insights from his own struggles with social anxiety.
Stay updated with all Stoic Handbook podcasts, courses, and articles, you can sign up here.
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This episode features my breakdown of the following quote:
For every challenge, remember the resources you have within you to cope with it. Provoked by the sight of a handsome man or a beautiful woman, you will discover within you the contrary power of self-restraint… In time, you will grow to be confident that there is not a single impression that you will not have the moral means to tolerate.— Enchiridion, Chapter 10, Epictetus
If you deeply recognize that life is impermanent, ever-changing and that everything we enjoy is a gift from the Universe, you can no longer suffer in the same way when things are taken from you.
This episode is inspired by the following quote from Epictetus:
“Under no circumstances ever say ‘I have lost something,’ only ‘I returned it.’ Did a child of yours die? No, it was returned. Your wife died? No, she was returned. ‘My land was confiscated.’ No, it too was returned.
Stoic author, philosopher and cognitive behavioural therapist, Donald Robertson, returns to discuss his brand new graphic novel, VERISSIMUS.
This is the most epic philosophical project that I am aware of to date.
If Ridley Scott's Gladiator had a baby with Marcus Aurelius’ Meditations, you’d get Verissimus.
As you’ll hear in this interview, this project was a massive undertaking, taking nearly 3 years to complete. Detailing the life, times, and philosophy of Marcus Aurelius, the book acts as a historically accurate, action-packed entry point into the Stoic landscape.
In this episode, we cover:
The process of creating this book
Why Donald decided to make a graphic novel
Why many Romans actually opposed Marcus Aurelius
Marcus’ mission to cultivate natural compassion towards all human beings, even his worst enemies
The absurdity of Stoicism’s most popular criticism
Modern Stoicism says a lot about how to be more resilient and how to "accept things" with equanimity. But what about feelings of joy, awe, and laughter.
Can Stoicism help us live a more joyful life... really?
I ask Stoicism writer Donald Robertson in a new series where I'll be picking his brain about important Stoic ideas.
The "What If" Technique comes from Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), which is an effective, science-backed therapeutic system inspired by Stoic philosophy and it helps you discover the root of your anxieties.
This meditation is one of over a dozen found in Stoic Anxiety Mastery.
And when asked what he had learned from philosophy, Diogenes replied, “To be prepared for every fortune.“
— William B. Irvine, A Guide to the Good Life: The Ancient Art of Stoic Joy
Diogenes is the most famous of the Cynics, a branch of philosophy that served as the precursor for traditional Stoicism. Diogenes was a bizarre fellow for a number of reasons. He lived inside a barrel and shunned any form of luxurious living. Diogenes only ate when he was starving hungry and drank when he was gaspingly thirsty. This allowed him to enjoy a simple cup of water as if it was the world’s most expensive wine.
The core of Diogenes' thought was based on his observation that “bad men obey their lusts as servants obey their masters,” and because we are so bad at controlling our desires, we can never find contentment. This is why Diogenes was so intent on being the master of his own lust and attachments.
Perhaps Diogenes' greatest and most memorable display of Stoic superhero strength was in his meeting with Alexander the Great. Alexander was taught by Aristotle and had brilliant admiration for great thinkers. One day when riding through Greece Alexander encountered Diogenes, a philosopher he had heard many great things about. The legend states that upon meeting Diogenes, Alexander asked the philosopher if there was anything he could give him.
Alexander at this point in time was the most powerful man in the world, and he was extremely hot-tempered. There were stories of Alexander having his best friends executed for disrespecting him. So when he offered Diogenes a gift, nobody would have expected the words that would have come out of the strange philosopher’s mouth:
“Yes,” said Diogenes, “stand a little out of my sun.”
Diogenes was so steadfast in his Stoic way of living he even risked the wrath of Alexander the Great to demonstrate it. Diogenes was not someone who just lived his philosophy, he was continuously on the lookout for opportunities to teach it and his meeting with Alexander presented one.
It worked. So taken aback by this reply, and admired the courage and wit of Diogenes so much, he said to his followers laughing, “But truly if I were not Alexander, I would be Diogenes.”
In this lesson, I ask Donald Robertson about the difference between reading about Stoicism and practicing it, and we discuss what would happen if Marcus Aurelius time traveled to modern times.
"If you want to make progress, drop reflections like: ‘I will end up destitute if I don’t take better care of my affairs,’ or, ‘Unless I discipline my slave, he’ll wind up good for nothing.’ It is better to die of hunger free of grief and apprehension than to live affluent and uneasy. Better that your slave should be bad than that you should be unhappy." — Epictetus
In this episode, I explore the topic of stress and worry. I begin by looking at the game most of us play, and then offer a Stoic alternative recommended by Epictetus.
Many of us are interested in philosophy and self-improvement not to become wise, but for the reputation of being wise. Epictetus saw that this pattern of behavior is very counter-productive if one wishes to acquire true wisdom.
“If you want to make progress, put up with being perceived as ignorant or naive in worldly matters, don’t aspire to a reputation for sagacity. If you do impress others as somebody, don’t altogether believe it. You have to realize, it isn’t easy to keep your will in agreement with nature, as well as externals. Caring about the one inevitably means you are going to shortchange the other.”
This meditation will help you see all of the invisible and magic conditions of life that make everything possible. There is so much going on beneath the surface of existence that we take for granted such as the way our societies are run, the way we get access to food and water, the statistical likelihood of being born, and the way the atmosphere is perfectly attuned to our survival. To allow oneself to become oblivious to the awe of ordinary life is a mistake that we will put right in this lesson. It's time to once again see the beauty of a raindrop and feel the vitality of a single breath of cold air.
Reframing negative events to make them appear more positive and useful is a classic Stoic technique. But can it ever go too far? Is it dangerous to reframe everything into something positive? Stoic writer Donald Robertson answers.
In this complete Stoic loving-kindness meditation, we take a look at three important areas of compassion: love of people, love of humanity, and love of service. Then we go through each one, with the guidance of the ancient Stoics to increase our compassion and happiness.
In this talk, I cover what I consider to be the three pillars of skillful communication. These pillars cover poor communication habits, how to simply express yourself well in all circumstances, and the model I use to manage conflict.
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Marcus Aurelius, as emperor of Rome, was the most powerful man in the world. But that did not stop him from having to deal with a difficult son, a lazy co-emperor, and many others who tried to antagonize him or overthrow him. His days were filled with difficult social moments. In this contemplation we practice the exact morning meditation Marcus did each day to prepare his mind for whatever came his way.
In this episode of The Stoic Handbook podcast, creator of WhatIsStoicism.com, Allan, shares his journey into Stoicism and how it has helped him find meaning and purpose in life. Allan discusses how he was introduced to Stoicism through the Tim Ferriss’ podcast and William B Irvine's book "A Guide to the Good Life". He explains how Stoicism's focus on personal responsibility and practical philosophy resonated with him and led him to start creating content on the topic early on in his journey.
Allan shares his thoughts on rereading and creating content as ways to deepen his learning process and discusses the Stoic technique of journaling, which resonates with him the most. He offers practical advice on how to get started with a journaling practice and emphasizes the power of writing as a tool for personal growth.
Throughout the episode, Allan draws connections between Stoicism and entrepreneurship and shares his thoughts on how Stoicism can help individuals navigate the challenges of modern life. He also discusses the value of caring for a dog and integrating Stoic principles into his social life.
Listeners will enjoy Allan's insights on Stoicism and its relevance to modern life, as well as his recommendations for books, podcasts, and other resources to deepen their understanding of the philosophy.
This is a free preview of AMA #3. You can access the full AMA, plus previous episodes and the full Stoic Handbook meditation library with a free trial at:
In the full episode n this subscriber-only episode, I answer the following 4 questions:
How do you deal with recurring negative thoughts about the past that appear from nowhere?
What are some tools to battle unhealthy desires?
What is your view on traveling as a means of enjoyment and sometimes escape?
Where does ambition fit into Stoicism?
6 Stoic Tactics to Escape Negative Thought Loops Survey Please answer this quick survey if you haven't already, to help me flesh out my new live training:
The six positive emotions that contribute to happiness: joy, gratitude, serenity, interest, pride, and excitement
The role of Stoicism in emotional mastery and mindfulness
The benefits of journaling and self-reflection for emotional growth
The power of anticipation in experiencing happiness
How to implement Stoic principles and practices in our daily lives
The importance of resilience and adapting to life's challenges
The relationship between physical health and emotional well-being
About Justin Noppé
Justin is an expert in leadership development, specializing in helping leaders, founders, and managers of small, successful companies navigate their way from overwhelm to a life filled with excitement and capability.
With his integrative approach, Justin empowers clients to become emotionally stable, productive, and more humane with their teams, ultimately transforming them into the effortless leaders they aspire to be.
In our conversation, we delve into the learnability of leadership, discuss how to lead with social anxiety and examine the value of fostering positive emotions. We also touch on essential resources for anyone looking to develop their leadership skills further. Don't miss this opportunity to learn from Justin's wealth of knowledge and experience.
In this episode, we challenge common misconceptions about Stoicism, exploring its true essence which is far from robotic or emotionless. We delve into the Stoic's approach to dealing with suffering, both personal and that of others, highlighting the importance of maintaining balance, compassion, and a clear perspective.
Key Points:
Misconceptions about Stoicism (00:00 - 02:07): Stoicism is often misconstrued as lacking in compassion due to its emphasis on resilience and handling negative issues. In reality, Stoics feel emotions but choose to care about the right things, not getting upset about things that don't truly matter.
Stoicism and Compassion (02:08 - 02:56): Stoic philosophy, as exemplified by Seneca's letters, is about wanting to help others overcome suffering. Far from being emotionless, Stoics are deeply empathetic, offering support and guidance in times of hardship.
Dealing with the Suffering of Others (02:57 - 04:25): The dilemma of wanting to help loved ones who are suffering but not having the right tools is common. It's crucial to find a balance in showing empathy without losing oneself in others' emotions or appearing cold and detached.
Stoic Principle for Handling Others' Suffering (04:26 - 05:05): The Stoic approach is to love and wish others well during hard times, but not let their perceptions distort your judgments. It's about feeling empathy for the person while not adopting their worldview.
Understanding the Source of Emotions (05:06 - 05:47): It's important to understand that the source of emotional distress is not the event itself but the judgment about the event. People react differently to the same events due to their unique perspectives and judgments.
A Parenting Analogy (05:48 - 06:24): Like a parent guiding a child, it's vital to empathize with the individual's feelings and provide support and love without getting sucked into the emotional vortex.
Applying Nonviolent Communication (06:25 - 06:50): Nonviolent communication model can help to understand the feelings and needs of the person who is struggling. Instead of getting into the specifics, locate the individual's feelings and needs.
Techniques for Dealing with Suffering (06:51 - 07:34): Listening beyond the sentences to understand the true emotions and needs of the individual can help in consoling someone while maintaining one's own emotional balance.
Listen to this episode to learn more about the Stoic's compassionate approach to dealing with suffering and how you can apply these principles in your life.
“The path of wisdom is to go with the flow, to not resist the way that fortune is unfolding, to always recognize that I can choose how I respond to external events and I can choose whether I am harmed or not.”
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In this episode, I take you behind the scenes of my daily Stoic morning journal routine, explaining how I organize my journal to set my day for success, remember what is valuable, and ensure that I act with resilience and tranquility.
The episode sheds light on the importance of intention rather than perfection, and how to use different techniques and tools to cultivate a growth mindset, manage negative emotions, and practice gratitude.
In this episode, you'll learn:
The Significance of Flexibility in Morning Routine: Discover the importance of not being a slave to your routine and understanding that the intention matters more than perfection.
The Use of Apps and Templates for Journaling: Learn how to utilize applications like Craft and Notion to create journal templates that can be customized to fit your needs.
The Productivity Planner Approach: Understand how to prioritize daily tasks by using the concept of the Productivity Planner, and focus on the most important task first followed by secondary tasks.
Incorporating Stoic Quotes and Reflection: Learn how to include Stoic quotes in your journal and how reflecting on these quotes can help you align with the principles of Stoicism.
Triple-Column Technique for Managing Negative Emotions: Get an insight into the triple-column technique borrowed from Dr. David Burns for challenging irrational thoughts and managing negative emotions.
The Philosophical Journal for Self-Improvement: Learn the simple yet profound method of acknowledging what you did wrong, what you did right, and what you can do better if a similar situation arises again.
"The more we value things outside our control, the less control we have." — Epictetus
In today's episode, we delve into the practice of the dichotomy of control, a fundamental principle in Stoic philosophy.
While many people intellectually understand the concept of differentiating between things within their control and things outside their control, they often struggle to find genuine emotional relief. I explore the paradoxical nature of the dichotomy of control and provide insights on how to deepen the practice for maximum benefit.
In today's episode, we cover:
The Dichotomy of Control: Understanding what we can and can't control.
Multi-Level Application: Applying the concept across events, emotions, and judgments.
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT): Using CBT as a tool for Stoic practice.
Accepting Emotional States: Embracing emotions, even if unwanted.
Overcoming Self-Criticism: Letting go of self-judgment in Stoic practice.
The Paradox of Control: Finding true effectiveness by relinquishing the need for control.
"Instead of trying to be everything to everyone, Stoic Role Ethics encourages us to focus on the role we have to play right now and give it our utmost attention and dedication."
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Today we delve into the concept of Stoic Role Ethics, a branch of Stoic philosophy that explores the interconnected roles we play in our lives and how we can navigate them to achieve fulfillment and well-being.
We'll discuss the importance of understanding our duties and expectations in each role, while focusing on the four cardinal virtues: wisdom, courage, justice, and temperance.
Join me in learning to embrace the roles we play and accepting the boundaries of our control.
What's Included in the Episode:
Understanding Stoic Role Ethics: Explore the core principles and concepts of Stoic Role Ethics, emphasizing the interconnectedness of roles in our lives and the duties associated with them.
The Four Cardinal Virtues: Learn about the four cardinal virtues of Stoic philosophy—wisdom, courage, justice, and temperance—and how they can guide our behaviour within different roles.
Embracing Essentialism: Discover the benefits of focusing on playing our immediate roles well and avoiding the urge to take on everything at once, allowing us to concentrate on what is within our control.
Recognizing What's Not Within Our Control: Reflect on the aspects of our lives that are beyond our influence, such as genetics, upbringing, and external circumstances, and understand how Stoic philosophy encourages acceptance and adaptation.
"The 'Why, What, How' technique encourages us to understand why someone is behaving a certain way, determine what we want to teach them, and find the best way to deliver the lesson."
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In today's episode, we delve into the concept of discipline and teaching. Drawing inspiration from Stoic philosophy and insights from parenting, we discover the power of the "Why, What, How" technique in building constructive relationships and fostering personal growth. This episode aims to teach you how to navigate and resolve disagreeable situations from a place of calm, curiosity and centeredness.
What's included in this episode:
The True Meaning of Discipline: Exploring its origins and debunking misconceptions.
Discipline as Teaching: Recognizing the profound connection between the two.
Optimal vs. Suboptimal Self-Teaching: Wanting to do something vs forcing yourself to do it.
Introducing The "Why, What, How" Technique: A practical framework for understanding behaviour and delivering lessons.
Parenting as a Framework For Conflict Resolution: Learning to respond to the world in the same way you do to your child.
"Stoicism provides us with a kind of psychological toolbox. It's full of strategies for helping us cope with anxiety, anger, pain, and all sorts of emotional problems."
"People who love Stoicism often read the Meditations over and over. You can squeeze more and more out of it the more you read it."
In this episode, we're thrilled to be joined by a renowned expert in Stoicism Donald Robertson. This episode was created a few years ago on the HighExistence podcast but has never been shared on the Stoic Handbook podcast.
In my discussion with Donald, we explore the rich history of this ancient philosophy and unravel the wisdom of some of the great Stoic thinkers including Marcus Aurelius, Epictetus, and Seneca. As we dissect key Stoic texts, we will also discover how to effectively apply these age-old teachings to address modern-day challenges. Whether you’re new to Stoicism or well-acquainted, get ready to embark on an enlightening journey that transcends time and sheds light on living a meaningful and contented life.
In the episode, you'll learn...
Introduction to the ancient philosophy of Stoicism and its historical background.
Insight into the fundamental principles of Stoicism, including rationality, virtue, and acceptance of fate.
Exploration of key Stoic texts including Marcus Aurelius’ Meditations, Epictetus’ Handbook, and Seneca’s Letters.
Discussion on the contemporary relevance of Stoicism and how it addresses modern challenges such as anxiety and depression.
A guide on how to effectively study and interpret Stoic texts.
Examination of Stoicism’s influence on cognitive behavioral therapy and psychological practices.
The importance of community and connection in Stoic philosophy.
Overview of modern adaptations and interpretations of Stoicism, including books by Ryan Holiday.
Personal reflections and stories of how Stoicism has profoundly impacted the expert’s life.
Recommendations on how to integrate Stoic principles into daily life for greater well-being and contentment.
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"Habits and your daily disciplines cast a vote for the person you want to be and for the person that you're becoming."
"If you want to own the identity and feel rooted in the identity of being a meditator, there's only actually one thing you need to do and that's either an obstacle or an opportunity, is just meditate regularly."
In this episode, we have the privilege of interviewing Eric Brown. Eric is a passionate advocate for personal transformation and growth, co-creator of Phoenix Culture and creator of Warrior 100, a powerful initiative aimed at fostering personal discipline and wellbeing. In our discussion, we dive deep into the practices of self-discipline, mindfulness, and the true value of personal development.
Eric illustrates the importance of commitment and community when it comes to transformative practices such as meditation and physical training. Our conversation highlights the tangible benefits of integrating these practices into our daily routines, and how they can ultimately become a seamless part of our identity. Join us as we explore the power of self-discipline and how the cultivation of good habits can profoundly alter our experience of life.
What you'll learn:
The importance of valuing personal growth and how to decide its worth.
How community support can foster success in personal transformation.
The science behind habit formation and the concept of "identity-level transformation."
Practical methods of fitting meditation and physical exercise into a daily routine.
The detrimental effects of excessive screen time and how to repurpose it for personal development.
The necessity of imposing personal structure in our lives to foster discipline.
The importance of the 'do the thing' philosophy for practical skill acquisition over theoretical knowledge.
The idea of "judo flipping" your life into deeper alignment by changing daily habits.
How the practice of martial arts can mirror lessons for life and personal growth.
"The Stoics can teach you how to find a sense of purpose in life, how to face adversity, how to conquer anger within yourself, moderate your desires, experience healthy sources of joy, endure pain and illness patiently and with dignity, exhibit courage in the face of your anxieties, cope with loss, and perhaps even confront your own mortality while remaining as unperturbed as Socrates." ― Donald J. Robertson, How to Think Like a Roman Emperor: The Stoic Philosophy of Marcus Aurelius
Unpacking the teachings of Stoicism, Donald Robertson stands as a leading authority, especially in their interplay with cognitive science and therapy. A clinical psychologist, Donald has delved into Stoic texts for years. His recent book, a blend of biography and self-improvement, delves into Marcus Aurelius's life and philosophy, serving as both an engaging and pragmatic guide.
This episode builds on a previous discussion with Donald, focusing on the intricacies of Marcus Aurelius’s mind. The aim? To align our lives more closely with the insights of this profound philosopher king.
In This Episode, We Explore:
Marcus Aurelius's Stoic foundations.
How compassion influenced Marcus' actions and decisions.
The ongoing tussle between Stoic and Sophistic principles.
Key figures who shaped Marcus's philosophical journey.
Insights into Marcus's introspective journaling practices.
Common pitfalls in practicing Stoicism and ways to sidestep them.
Stoic perspectives on modern challenges like pornography.
Donald's take on Stoics and the concept of 'victimhood'.
Techniques Marcus employed to regulate his temper.
Tragedies and trials that defined Marcus’s life.
The curious case of parallels in Stoic writings.
Intersections of Western philosophy with psychedelic experiences.
Delving into the realms of mysticism and psychedelics.
"If someone says, “I’m a fucking loser,” that’s a form of dishonesty. What you actually are is a collection of atoms talking to each other. To say that you’re a loser isn’t accurately describing yourself. To say, “right now I’m having a thought that I’m a loser and engaging in some self-pity around that,” that’s more accurate."
— Dan Munro
“When I say I was working with criminal offenders, really I was just coaching people, and now I’m still coaching people it’s just they’re less likely to be in a gang these days.”
— Dan Munro
A recommendation from a friend led me to Dan Munro, a coach whose transformative impact was evident. Intrigued, I reached out to Dan to delve deeper into his coaching philosophy and to establish a connection. Our conversation revealed an unexpected link: Dan mentioned that Donald Robertson, renowned Stoicism writer, was penning the foreword for his upcoming book on honesty. Interestingly, I had just interviewed Donald for my podcast.
About Dan Munro:
Hailing from Auckland, New Zealand, and currently residing in the Czech Republic, Dan Munro is a Confidence Coach who has made waves with his unique approach. He's the founder of the Brojo men's mastermind group and the author of "The Legendary Life" and "Nothing to Lose." His experience as a probation officer provided him with invaluable insights into human behavior, especially with individuals resistant to change.
Dan's personal journey of grappling with authenticity and genuine connections has shaped his coaching philosophy. It's often said that those who face challenges head-on, eventually master them and become profound guides for others.
To gain insights into living an authentic life and navigating the world with unwavering confidence, tune into this episode.
In this episode, we explore:
The pivotal role of honesty in cultivating confidence
Distinguishing effective coaching from the ineffective
Strategies to handle manipulative individuals
The shadowy aspects of the pick-up industry
The essence of "being yourself"
Dan's transformative 30-day confidence challenge
Episode Highlights:
Introduction to Dan Munro [04:25]
The essence of "confidence" in Dan's perspective [05:27]
Unpacking the term "confidence" [08:15]
The significance of core values [11:55]
Dan's personal evolution and journey to his current self [14:15]
Dan's exploration of pick-up artistry and its alignment with authenticity [20:25]
The impact of "honesty" on clients' romantic pursuits [25:25]
Jon Brooks shares his tryst with authenticity in relationships [30:25]
Addressing self-doubt and the idea of "being oneself" [32:25]
The importance of accuracy in honest communication [36:15]
Dan's stance on truthfulness and the circumstances that might lead him to deviate [39:25]
Addressing clients entangled in toxic relationships based on...
Originally featured on highexistence.com, I'm thrilled to share this enlightening conversation on The Stoic Handbook Podcast.
"It's possible to be a legitimate victim of something... but to not be consumed by the label of victim."
"The victim mindset is not just disempowering, it's also foolish, inaccurate, and irrational."
In this enlightening discussion, we delve deep into the concept of the "victim mentality." While acknowledging the legitimacy of being a victim in certain situations, the focus is on the overarching mindset where one perceives themselves as a perpetual victim, feeling that life is constantly against them.
Here's what you'll learn:
Understand the difference between being a victim of an event and adopting a victim mentality.
Discover the hidden benefits and drawbacks of the victim mindset.
Learn about the origins of the victim mentality from childhood experiences.
Gain insights into the Stoic philosophy and its perspective on external events.
Explore the concept of self-ownership and taking responsibility without self-blame.
Dive into the practice of Jiu Jitsu and the inspiring story of coach John Danaher.
Understand the profound wisdom of German philosopher Friedrich Nietzsche on loving one's fate.
Engage in the "good exercise" to shift perspectives on challenges.
Delve into the concept of radical gratitude and its transformative power.
Get a sneak peek into the intriguing topic of the inner critic and its role in self-sabotage.
Join me in this deep dive into the victim mentality, its origins, its implications, and the transformative power of Stoic philosophy and radical gratitude. Whether you've felt trapped in this mindset or are simply curious about human psychology, this talk offers valuable insights and tools for personal growth.
In this episode, we delve into the complexities of anxiety with Dr. Aziz Gazipura. We explore four primary frameworks that explain the origins of anxiety:
1. Exposure: Anxiety stems from avoiding certain situations. 2. Cognitive: Irrational thoughts can escalate our anxiety levels. 3. Biological: Biochemical shifts can also trigger anxiety.
But the fourth, known as "The Hidden Emotion Model," suggests that unaddressed issues and suppressed emotions in our lives are key contributors to anxiety. This is essentially another term for being "too nice."
Being "nice" often means keeping the peace at the expense of your own feelings, which can ultimately lead to emotional turmoil and mental health struggles. I can personally relate to this, as my perspective changed after diving into Dr. Aziz's work.
Dr. Aziz Gazipura is not just a compelling speaker but also holds a PhD in clinical psychology. This makes his work both engaging and rooted in scientific research. He specializes in helping people build social confidence.
In our discussion, we cover a wide array of topics, including:
- Why Dr. Aziz emphasizes the pitfalls of being "too nice." - The role of trauma healing in contrast to self-optimization. - The significance of Shadow work and techniques for practicing it. - Striking a balance between assertiveness and compassion. - Dr. Aziz's personal journey from shyness to social confidence. - Ways to express yourself without reservation.
And much more! Don't miss this enlightening episode.
In this episode, we delve into the philosophy of Essentialism, inspired by Greg McKeown's book "Essentialism: The Disciplined Pursuit of Less." We explore how the constraints of parenthood led to a transformation in productivity, focus, and overall well-being. Whether you're a parent, a digital nomad, or someone juggling multiple interests, this episode offers valuable insights into making the most of your limited time and energy.
Why You Should Listen:
Discover the Philosophy of Essentialism: Learn how focusing on less can actually lead to more meaningful results in every aspect of your life.
Parenting as a Catalyst for Change: Hear a firsthand account of how the responsibilities of parenthood can be a powerful motivator for personal growth.
The Moscow Method: Understand a simple yet effective method for prioritizing tasks and projects in your life.
The Professional Mindset: Learn why waiting for inspiration is the hallmark of an amateur and how to cultivate a professional approach to your passions.
The Power of Limitations: Find out how constraints can actually fuel creativity and productivity.
Trade-offs and Choices: Understand the importance of making conscious choices and trade-offs in a world filled with endless opportunities.
Art and Essentialism: Learn how the principles of Essentialism can be applied to artistic pursuits for more fulfilling results.
The Real Value of Things: Gain insights into assessing the true value of your tasks, relationships, and goals.
In this episode, we explore the idea of bad luck omens and how to navigate them using principles from Stoic philosophy. Whether it's a forecast of bad weather or hearing a concerning noise from your car, these signs often unsettle us. Learn how to turn these instances into opportunities for personal growth and well-being.
Key Takeaways:
Dichotomy of Control: Understand what is within your control and what is not.
Reframing: Learn to view bad luck omens as opportunities for growth, rather than as setbacks.
Empowerment: By reframing your perspective, you become more in control of your life narrative.
Evidence-based Approach: There are no adverse effects to reframing too much; it's a beneficial practice.
Appreciate you tuning in. Take the Stoic approach to navigate through life's uncertainties and remember that every sign can be a good luck sign if you choose for it to be.
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“If we’re in a fully awakened state, trauma’s not a problem. In a sense, it’s not trauma. It just becomes something beloved. It becomes washed through with love and acceptance. That’s the healing.” — Henry Shukman, HEx Podcast #55
While Western mental health often focuses on eliminating trauma and pain as if they were thorns to be plucked, Eastern philosophies offer a contrasting perspective: embracing suffering through unconditional love and acceptance, thereby neutralizing its negative impact.
The terms "awakening" and "healing" are frequently used interchangeably, though they convey distinct concepts. Healing is the act of mending what is fragmented, optimizing what can be improved, and integrating what has been divided. In contrast, awakening refers to the awareness of reality's non-dual nature, a realization that there is nothing to mend or improve because everything is inherently perfect and whole.
So, should we bypass healing and jump straight to awakening? According to Henry Shukman, our guest for this episode, the answer is more nuanced.
Henry is a seasoned meditation instructor who has harmoniously blended various meditative disciplines with psychotherapy, plant medicine, and other therapeutic practices to create a synergistic path toward wholeness in his own life. From the depths of eczema and despair to profound enlightenment and peace, Henry has navigated a balanced pathway that he shares in this illuminating discussion.
Join us as Henry generously lays down the stepping stones for us to traverse the intricate landscapes of healing and awakening.
What We Explore:
Henry's transformative awakening journey and the subsequent emotional challenges
How awakening alters our relationship with trauma
A powerful solution to combat loneliness
Initiating the journey into non-duality while dealing with trauma
Practical approaches to working with Zen koans
Can ordinary individuals achieve true awakening?
Henry’s top Zen resources and recommendations
Strategies for finding the right spiritual mentors and practices
The viability of making substantial progress via online spiritual training courses
Tune in for an enlightening episode that bridges the gap between healing and awakening, and offers practical guidance for those navigating both realms.
In this exploration of Epictetus' Enchiridion Chapter 19, we delve into the profound Stoic understanding of success and failure.
Many in today's society grapple with feelings of envy and frustration, often due to external factors beyond our control. Epictetus teaches that true freedom and happiness lie in understanding the distinction between what we can and can't control. Instead of competing in external contests that can lead to inevitable defeat, one should focus on personal growth and character.
Succumbing to envy and placing value on external achievements only leads to unhappiness. True success is anchored in good character and the wisdom to recognize it. Remember, freedom is about looking beyond outward appearances and valuing our internal essence.
Here is a remix of a premium lesson I created for my 7-Day Stoic Radical Gratitude Course about the importance of awe and wonder. It includes music, whereas the original does not.
In this episode, we delve into the core tenets of Stoicism, discussing the four cardinal virtues and how they serve as pivotal tools in our life. We'll dissect what they mean, their relevance, and how to apply them in our everyday living. Moreover, we spotlight the concept of philosophical journaling—a method adopted by the Stoics and modern-day Cognitive Behavioral Therapy alike, and its transformative effects.
Why You'd Want to Listen:
Delve deeper into the philosophy that has shaped great leaders and thinkers throughout history.
Learn about philosophical journaling and how it can be a transformative daily practice.
Discover actionable steps for self-awareness, self-coaching, and reshaping destructive patterns.
Combine meditation practices with journaling for a synergistic effect on self-improvement.
Learn to integrate these practices daily and see genuine, long-lasting changes in behavior and thought processes.
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In this thought-provoking episode, we delve deep into the wisdom of Stoicism, specifically drawing inspiration from Epictetus's timeless teachings in the Enchiridion.
As a self-proclaimed introvert and content creator, I share personal anecdotes about the challenges and ridicule I faced when choosing a path less trodden. Through a blend of personal stories and philosophical insights, listeners will find encouragement to stick to their principles amidst the doubters and naysayers that inevitably accompany any journey toward greatness.
For anyone who's ever felt out of place for pursuing a passion, faced the sting of social ridicule, or struggled to maintain their course in a sea of doubt, this episode offers a beacon of solidarity and guidance.
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In this episode, we explore the transformative six-step preparation process that not only enhances meditation practices but also extends its benefits into the very fabric of our daily existence. Join us as we uncover how showing up with intention, addressing distractions, and adopting the right posture can revolutionize the way we engage with our goals, work, relationships, and self-perception.
Inside you'll learn:
Discover a six-step preparation process that promises to elevate your meditation and focus.
Learn how to apply meditation principles to enhance productivity and personal growth.
Unpack the significance of posture not just in meditation but in life and success.
Explore the concept of premeditation to effectively manage distractions.
Gain insights into integrating mindfulness into every aspect of your daily routine.
Find out why "showing up" may be the most crucial step towards achieving your goals.
Understand the importance of setting intentions and how they shape your outcomes.
Get practical tips for fostering a mindful approach to your environment and tasks.
Hear about how these steps can cultivate character traits essential for lifelong success.
Dive into an engaging conversation that will change your perspective on self-discipline and commitment.
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In this lesson, I explore the three limits of modern Stoicism: trauma healing, mindfulness, and ecstatic experiences. In ancient times, they likely had methods of working through these important areas. But modern Stoicism puts a big emphasis on resilience and "coping" with hardship and can inadvertently worship rationality over wisdom, which is not the point.
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In today's episode, we're venturing into the ancient yet ever-relevant world of Stoicism to explore a unique and profound perspective on success.
In a society often caught up in the whirlwind of external achievements and societal benchmarks, we're going to pause and reflect on what success truly means. Is it just about hitting our targets, or is there more to it? We'll be delving into the wisdom of Stoic philosophy, a school of thought that has stood the test of time, offering insights that are as applicable today as they were over two millennia ago.
Our journey today will take us through the corridors of history, back to the teachings of renowned Stoic thinkers like Seneca, Epictetus, and Marcus Aurelius. We'll explore Cicero's arrow analogy and the concept of the dichotomy of control – understanding what's in our power and what lies beyond it. This isn't just a philosophical discussion; it's a practical guide to reorienting our approach to success.
We'll dissect the Stoic Success Formula – a compelling blend of clarity of intent and freedom from outcome, and how this formula can be applied in various aspects of our lives, from personal goals to professional aspirations.
But it's not all about ancient texts and philosophical discussions. We'll bring in modern interpretations and practical applications, making Stoicism relevant to our everyday challenges and ambitions.
So, whether you're a long-time student of philosophy or just curious about different approaches to living a fulfilling life, this episode is for you. Together, we'll uncover the Stoic secrets to achieving true success – one that's defined not just by the goals we reach but by the journey we take and the wisdom we gather along the way.
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Dan Munro, returns to share his expertise and discuss his book, "The Naked Truth." In our previous meeting, we delved into Dan's journey towards cultivating honesty and authenticity, and his coaching strategies for transforming social anxiety into social resilience.
In today's dialogue, we zero in on the detrimental effects of dishonesty and provide a practical guide for reinventing your life by embracing your true self. Key topics we explore include:
Navigating the pitfalls of essentialism and the allure of shiny object syndrome.
Unraveling the complexities of self-deception and personal bias.
Deciphering society's conflicting messages about honesty.
A personal account from Dan on the damaging impact of his own dishonesty.
Recognizing and understanding various forms of hidden lies.
Examining the connection between shame and dishonesty.
Strategies for authentic expression that avoid causing harm.
Overcoming the need for external validation.
The importance and benefits of being comfortable with being disliked.
Analyzing whether Chris Watts' actions were driven by dishonesty.
"Self-mastery is the ability to live by choice and not by chance." – Eric Brown
"The discipline of surrender is like submitting yourself to a practice that molds you." – Eric Brown
In this episode, I talk with Eric Brown in a conversation that spans a wide range of topics, including personal growth, self-mastery, honesty in relationships, the discipline of surrender, and the power of reading and journaling. This podcast is a treasure trove for anyone interested in personal development, understanding the essence of self-mastery, and the role of honesty in shaping our relationships and life. Eric shares his experiences and insights, making this a must-listen for those seeking inspiration and practical advice on leading a more intentional and fulfilled life.
Dan is a coach, author, and speaker known for his emphasis on honesty and authenticity. After the release of his book "The Naked Truth," Dan has dedicated his career to helping others embrace their true selves, navigating the complexities of personal relationships and self-improvement. His unique approach combines stoic philosophy with practical life skills.
In this episode, Jon Brooks and Sami ɱдгӄυȿ (Beyond Stoicism) speak to Dan Munro, focusing on the importance of honesty in personal growth and the challenges of being authentic in a world that often values superficiality. They discuss Dan's experiences post his book release, his transition into fatherhood, and the profound impact of stoicism and honesty on his life and work. The episode is a blend of personal anecdotes, philosophical insights, and practical advice for anyone seeking a more authentic and fulfilling life.
In this episode, I share my personal experiences and insights into my journey to overcoming anxiety. Drawing on a rich tapestry of stoic principles, practical strategies, and personal anecdotes, this episode promises to equip you with the tools you need to navigate the challenges of anxiety, turning inner turmoil into tranquility and fear into fortitude.
Books Mentioned:
"When Panic Attacks" by David Burns
"Stoicism and the Art of Happiness" by Donald Robertson
"A Guide to the Good Life" by William B. Irvine
List of Concepts or Key Ideas Covered
Understanding Anxiety: Differentiating between fear and anxiety, with fear being a rational response to immediate threats, and anxiety being an irrational response to potential threats.
Common Causes of Anxiety: Cognitive, biological, hidden emotions, and exposure as leading models.
Practical Techniques for Managing Anxiety: Including rational analysis, reframing, and exposure, both physical and cognitive.
The Role of Exposure: Facing and embracing anxiety-inducing situations as a method of overcoming fears.
Rational Analysis and Reframing: Challenging anxious thoughts and changing one’s relationship with anxiety.
Personal Growth and Resilience: Leveraging anxiety as an opportunity for personal development and self-improvement.
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In this session, we explore the debilitating nature of anger through the lens of Seneca's writings. Contrary to what society may sometimes depict, anger is not a badge of strength but a chain that holds us back from reaching our full potential. Through meditation and contemplation, we address the primal, relentless, and contagious nature of anger. We examine how, even though we may not display outward aggression, the simmering rage within can be equally toxic and detrimental to ourselves and those around us. By embracing Seneca's insights, we learn to recognize and release our pent-up anger, paving the way for emotional mastery and a fulfilling life. This lesson serves as a turning point, encouraging participants to move away from the self-imposed limitations of anger and towards a more serene, aware, and harmonious existence.
In this episode, we delve into the profound relationship between science and spirituality, featuring insights from Steve Taylor, a distinguished British psychologist and celebrated author. With a rich background in transpersonal psychology, Taylor explores the realms of consciousness, awakening experiences, and the essence of spirituality in understanding our world.
Steve Taylor, a lecturer at the University of Leeds, stands out with his extensive research in higher states of consciousness and wakefulness. His literary contributions, including bestsellers like "The Fall," "Waking From Sleep," "Back to Sanity," "The Leap," and his latest, "Spiritual Science," challenge and expand our perceptions of spirituality. Eckhart Tolle praises "The Leap" for its clarity and wisdom, embodying Taylor's skill in articulating profound insights in an accessible manner.
In-Depth Conversation Highlights:
Beyond Materialism: Taylor critiques the limitations of a materialistic view, advocating for a broader understanding of existence.
Enlightenment Reimagined: An exploration of enlightenment as an ongoing journey rather than a final destination, emphasizing the diverse experiences across spiritual traditions.
Defining Consciousness: A quest to understand the essence of consciousness and its implications for our understanding of reality.
Pathways to Awakening: Discussing methods to achieve enlightening experiences, including the transformative power of emotional turmoil.
Psychedelics and Spirituality: The potential benefits and risks of using psychedelics in spiritual practice.
The Science of Telepathy: Examining the possibility of telepathy from a scientific standpoint.
Integration of Spirit and Matter: Taylor stresses the importance of recognizing the sacredness of the natural world and the unity of spirit and body.
In the following podcast, Justin Noppé shared invaluable insights into the world of health, fitness, and personal development. This post distills the essence of that dialogue into a resourceful guide for anyone looking to embark on or enhance their health journey.
VO2 Max: A measure of the maximum volume of oxygen an athlete can use. It's a pivotal indicator of cardiovascular fitness.
Heart Rate Variability (HRV): A measure of the variation in time between each heartbeat. Contrary to focusing on HRV, Justin suggests monitoring resting heart rate and respiration rate upon waking as more reliable health indicators.
Eccentric and Concentric Movements: In resistance training, eccentric refers to muscle lengthening, while concentric relates to muscle shortening. Understanding these can aid in designing effective workout routines.
Isometrics: Exercises where the muscle length doesn't change during contraction. These are beneficial for recovery and building strength within a muscle's range of motion.
Resistance Training Fundamentals: Justin emphasizes four essential movements: push, pull, hinge, squat. Tailoring these to personal preference can make resistance training more enjoyable and effective.
Techniques and Tactics
Overcoming Stress
Exploration and Curiosity: Emphasizing the importance of following one's passion and curiosity within exercise and beyond to ensure sustained engagement and joy in health practices.
Flexibility and Mobility
Pre-bed Stretching Routine: Engaging in gentle stretching before bed can enhance sleep quality and muscle relaxation without the need for intensive flexibility training.
Cardiovascular Fitness
Incremental Progression: Start with what's manageable and enjoyable, gradually increasing intensity and duration to improve cardiovascular health without overwhelming oneself.
Norwegian High-Intensity Training Protocol: A rigorous training method that can significantly enhance VO2 max with just one session a week, but requires building up to avoid adverse reactions.
Notable Mentions
Peter Attia: Cited for his work on longevity and health optimization, emphasizing the significance of VO2 max.
Human Givens Institute: Recommended for its innovative approach to psychological well-being, including strategies to address emotional patterns and triggers.
In this lesson I delve into Chapter 24 of Epictetus' Handbook, exploring five powerful arguments against the mindless pursuit of status and wealth. If you've ever found yourself dreaming of "making it" and achieving high social status, this discussion will challenge your current mindset and introduce a new Stoic approach to defining success.
In this lesson, we explore the deep, transformative power of mindfulness and meditation beyond routine practices. We discuss how integrating mindfulness into every aspect of our lives can extend the benefits beyond the meditation cushion, influencing our health, relationships, and overall well-being.
What You'll Learn:
The addictive nature of cognition and the power of mindfulness prompts to help us live in the present.
The commercial success of meditation apps and the misconception of meditation as a mental "vitamin."
Insights from Sam Harris on the true connection with meditation practices, and the pivotal experiences from his 10-day meditation retreat.
The role of continuous mindfulness throughout the day, as highlighted by Joseph Goldstein, and the importance of framing our daily meditation within the context of our entire day.
Practical advice for integrating mindfulness into daily life, including a discussion on the benefits of consistent, mindful living.
Featured Prompt: "What is here now when there is no problem to solve?"
Join us in this transformative meditation session inspired by the wisdom of the Stoics. Today, we explore the teachings of Marcus Aurelius and Seneca, focusing on mindfulness, acceptance, and the preciousness of the present moment. This guided meditation will help you embrace each thought and emotion, reflect on past challenges, and prepare for future ones with a Stoic mindset.
In this evening Stoic meditation, you'll be guided through a reflective process to review your day with a balanced perspective. You'll begin by focusing on your successes, and acknowledging the positive actions and decisions you made. Then, you'll gently transition to areas where you could improve, understanding that self-reflection is about growth, not self-criticism.
Finally, you'll set a clear and focused intention for tomorrow, preparing yourself to face any challenges with a sense of gratitude and renewed purpose. This meditation aims to help you conclude your day with positivity and optimism, fostering a restful sleep and a fresh start for the next day.
This meditation explores the Stoic philosophy of detachment from possessions and desires. It guides listeners through the practice of deconstructing their attachments by breaking them down into their elemental parts, free of positive framing.
By doing so, participants can see their attachments with a neutral mind, helping to liberate themselves from unnecessary suffering. The meditation includes examples and contemplation questions to aid in this process, encouraging a balanced perspective and gratitude.
In this episode, we delve into the profound Stoic philosophy surrounding death. Join us for a guided meditation that will help you confront and accept mortality, diminish the fear of death, and find peace in the natural cycle of life and death.
Learn to focus on what truly matters and live a life of tranquility and resilience.
Key Takeaways:
Understanding the Stoic Perspective on Death
Confronting mortality and its inevitability
Quotes from Epictetus, Marcus Aurelius, and Seneca
Exercise: Sit with Your Fear of Death
Addressing the root cause of anxieties
Reflecting on the impact of death on your life's story
Visualizing Your Life
Contemplating the transient nature of personal details and experiences
Imagining Different Timeframes
Considering your actions with ten years, one year, and one day left to live
Visualizing Your Own Death
Contemplating decay and the state of non-existence before birth
Filling Your Heart with Love
Practicing compassion and reflecting on love
Combining Compassion with Contemplation
Balancing anxiety work with love and compassion
Quotes Highlighted in the Episode:
"Some things are within our power, while others are not." – Epictetus
"You have power over your mind—not outside events. Realize this, and you will find strength." – Marcus Aurelius
"He who fears death will never do anything worthy of a living man." – Seneca
"It's not what happens to you, but how you react to it that matters." – Epictetus
"Consider that before long you will be nobody and nowhere, nor will anything which you now behold exist, nor one of those who are now alive." – Marcus Aurelius
"Death is a release from all suffering." – Seneca
"When you arise in the morning think of what a privilege it is to be alive, to think, to enjoy, to love." – Marcus Aurelius
"Make the best use of what is in your power, and take the rest as it happens." – Epictetus
Welcome to this guided meditation based on Stage One of The Mind Illuminated Meditation Training System. This meditation is designed to help you establish a consistent and diligent meditation practice. You'll be guided through a structured preparation, transition, and focused meditation, with periods of silence to allow you to deepen your practice. Practice this regularly to learn the foundational skills needed to maintain a regular meditation routine.
In this episode, we delve into profound concepts and practices to improve our relationships and our inner world by drawing from the CIT model (Cognitive Interpersonal Therapy) and incorporating the timeless wisdom of Stoic philosophy.
Quotes Featured:
"It's not what happens to you, but how you react to it that matters." - Epictetus
"You have power over your mind—not outside events. Realize this, and you will find strength." - Marcus Aurelius
"He who is brave is free." - Seneca
"If you are distressed by anything external, the pain is not due to the thing itself, but to your estimate of it; and this you have the power to revoke at any moment." - Marcus Aurelius
"We suffer more often in imagination than in reality." - Epictetus
"When you arise in the morning think of what a privilege it is to be alive, to think, to enjoy, to love." - Marcus Aurelius
"True happiness is to enjoy the present, without anxious dependence upon the future." - Seneca
"Make the best use of what is in your power, and take the rest as it happens." - Epictetus
"The happiness of your life depends upon the quality of your thoughts." - Marcus Aurelius
Tune in and take the first step towards cultivating a life of wisdom and virtue!
In this episode, we explore the Daily Stoic Mindful Review, a transformative practice designed to integrate Stoic principles into your daily life. Learn how to reflect on your thoughts, emotions, speech, and actions to improve self-awareness, emotional regulation, and resilience. By practicing this mindful review regularly, you can cultivate wisdom and virtue, reducing psychological distress and enhancing your response to life's challenges.
Join us as we guide you through the steps of the Stoic Daily Mindful Review, from opening awareness and grounding to analyzing consequences and reenacting with virtue. Embrace this practice to make intentional adjustments in your behavior and speech, fostering inner peace and stronger relationships. Listen in to start your journey towards a more mindful, Stoic approach to life.
In Stage 2 of "The Mind Illuminated," practitioners work on sustaining their attention on the meditation object for longer periods, aiming to reduce mind-wandering. This stage focuses on recognizing and swiftly recovering from distractions, enhancing overall concentration. By cultivating a gentle yet persistent awareness, meditators build a solid foundation for more profound states of focus and tranquility in the stages to come.
The Dichotomy of Control training focuses on distinguishing between what is within our control—our thoughts, actions, and responses—and what is outside our control, such as other people's opinions and external events. By learning to focus only on what we can control, we reduce unnecessary stress and cultivate inner peace. This practice empowers us to respond to life’s challenges with clarity and composure, fostering resilience and emotional stability.
In this quick episode, I offer practical tips to help you stop procrastinating and start taking action. Learn why we procrastinate, how to overcome the initial resistance, and the importance of adopting a professional mindset to stay consistent. If you’ve been putting off tasks, this episode will give you the motivation and tools you need to get started today.
In this guided meditation, you are encouraged to transform feelings of judgment towards others into opportunities for self-reflection and personal growth. Drawing on the wisdom of Marcus Aurelius, the meditation leads you through a process of recognizing your own faults, practicing self-compassion, and extending empathy towards those you might judge. By reflecting on the lessons these situations offer, you can deepen your understanding and commitment to your own growth, fostering greater wisdom and compassion in your daily life.
In this episode, we dive into the power of a structured morning routine inspired by Stoic philosophy. We'll explore practical steps you can take to start your day with clarity, purpose, and resilience. From reflecting on Stoic quotes and mindful journaling to incorporating meditation and even cold exposure, this episode offers a comprehensive guide to building a morning routine that sets a positive tone for the rest of your day.
Episode Highlights:
[02:15] Reflecting on a Stoic Quote: Start your day by reading and contemplating a Stoic quote. This simple practice helps align your mindset with Stoic principles right from the moment you wake up.
[05:30] The Power of Stoic Journaling: Learn how to use journaling to cultivate gratitude, anticipate obstacles, and set a clear intention for the day.
[12:00] Meditation for Mindfulness: Discover the benefits of starting your morning with a brief meditation session to cultivate presence and awareness
[16:40] Reading Stoic Texts: Incorporate Stoic readings into your routine to fortify your mind against daily challenges and deepen your understanding of Stoic principles.
[20:30] Embracing Cold Exposure: Understand how integrating cold showers into your morning can build resilience and enhance mental discipline.
[24:15] Death Meditation: A reflective practice to remind yourself of life's impermanence and motivate you to live fully.
[28:10] Dressing with Intention: Explore how your clothing choices can reflect your values and help you live more authentically.
Resources Mentioned:
Meditations* by Marcus Aurelius
Letters from a Stoic* by Seneca
Atomic Habits* by James Clear
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In this episode of our series on crafting a Stoic daily routine, we focus on how to build effective work rituals. These rituals are designed to help you find deeper meaning and purpose in whatever form of work you do—whether it’s a formal job, creative endeavor, or a personal project like martial arts. Here are the key highlights from the episode:
Episode Notes:
1. Broadening the Definition of Work
Work doesn’t have to be limited to a traditional career. We explore how to recognize anything you spend time on and take seriously as your “work”—whether it's drawing, studying martial arts, or any passion project.
2. Pre-Work Ritual: Six Key Points
Inspired by John Yates' "The Mind Illuminated," we dive into a six-step preparation ritual that helps set the stage for a successful work session.
Key elements include defining your motivation, setting specific goals, acknowledging expectations, committing to diligence, addressing potential distractions, and preparing your work environment.
3. Finding Enjoyment in Your Work
We discuss the importance of enjoying the process rather than seeing work as a box to tick off your list. Finding ways to enjoy your work not only makes it more sustainable but also enriches the entire experience.
4. The Power of a Performance Statement
Develop a performance statement as an affirmation to keep you on track. For example: “Every time I get distracted, I will make a note of the distraction and return to the task.” This simple tool helps reinforce positive behavior and mindfulness during work.
5. Work as Meditation
Applying a meditative mindset to work helps you stay present and focused. Just like mindfulness meditation, when you lose focus, gently redirecting yourself back to the task at hand can transform your productivity and mindset.
6. Post-Work Reflection
Reflecting on what went well after each work session is crucial. Focus on three positive outcomes to reinforce growth and keep yourself motivated.
7. Working with Others: The EAR Acronym
Good communication during collaboration can be broken down into Empathy, Assertiveness, and Respect (EAR). This simple framework helps improve how you navigate work relationships and difficult dynamics.
8. Premeditation of Adversity
Inspired by Marcus Aurelius, we explore the Stoic practice of **premeditating potential obstacles** to remain calm and composed during challenging moments at work. It’s not about being negative but about being prepared
Resources Mentioned:
John Yates' "The Mind Illuminated"** – The inspiration behind the six-point pre-work ritual.
In this episode, I sit down with Donald Robertson, renowned author, psychotherapist, and expert in ancient philosophy, to dive deep into the life, methods, and lessons of Socrates. Donald brings his unique perspective, blending cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) and Stoic philosophy, to explore why Socrates remains a pivotal figure in philosophy—and what we can learn from his methods today.
In this episode, we explore practical strategies to manage challenging relationships, including high-conflict individuals and those with personality disorders. Drawing from Stoic philosophy and modern psychology, we cover:
Why ancient Stoics emphasized handling insults and toxic people.
The distinction between caring and caretaking—and why caretaking can harm you.
Empathy vs. compassion: understanding the psychological and emotional differences.
Communication frameworks like the "I" Model, DEAR MAN, and Nonviolent Communication (NVC).
Tools for setting boundaries effectively without escalating conflict.
Grey Rock technique: when and how to use it in abusive dynamics.
Tactical empathy and the power of tone, labeling, and mirroring for conflict de-escalation.
If you've ever struggled with navigating tense relationships, setting boundaries, or balancing compassion without burning out, this episode is packed with insights and actionable advice.
Key Takeaways:
The Caretaking Trap: Caring is healthy, but overextending yourself to meet others' needs while neglecting your own is not. Learn how to protect your emotional well-being.
Empathy vs. Compassion: Empathy can be hijacked and lead to poor decisions. Cultivate compassion instead—a detached yet intentional approach to helping others.
Boundary Setting Basics: Boundaries are about what you do, not controlling others. Learn practical methods to uphold boundaries with confidence.
Communication Tools: Techniques like the "I" Model, DEAR MAN, and NVC help you express yourself assertively and resolve conflicts constructively.
Grey Rock Strategy: Make yourself uninteresting to toxic people by limiting engagement and avoiding emotional responses.
Tactical Empathy: Use tone and labeling to de-escalate tense situations and foster collaboration.
Resources Mentioned:
The Compassionate Mind by Paul Gilbert
Against Empathy by Paul Bloom
Stop Caretaking the Narcissist or BPD by Margalis Fjelstad
Never Split the Difference by Chris Voss
Not Nice: Stop People-Pleasing, Staying Silent, & Feeling Guilty by Dr. Aziz Gazipura
Modern Stoicism often focuses on self-control and resilience, but what if we’ve overlooked its most important lesson?
True Stoicism is about strength through compassion. Marcus Aurelius believed that anger is weakness and that true power comes from brotherly love and justice. Yet today, Stoicism is often misrepresented as cold, emotionless, and distant.
How do you know when to speak up and when to stay silent? When to push forward and when to step back? In this conversation with Donald Robertson, we explore the concept of coping flexibility—the ability to adapt your response based on the situation.
Drawing from Stoicism, cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), and martial arts, we discuss:
📌 Key Topics in This Interview:
- What is coping flexibility, and why does it matter? - The Stoic skill of picking your battles wisely. - Epictetus’ lesson: How do you know if you can fight a lion? - Why even Marcus Aurelius practiced martial arts. - The role of self-knowledge in decision-making. - How to build practical wisdom for facing adversity.
In this lesson, I speak to Stoicism expert Donald Robertson about how to apply the Socratic method.
Discover the timeless wisdom of Socrates and his groundbreaking two-column technique—a simple yet profound method for improving critical thinking, questioning assumptions, and making better decisions. This ancient approach to self-improvement has inspired philosophers like Epictetus, Seneca, and Marcus Aurelius, and remains a powerful tool for modern personal growth.
What if another person could act as a mirror for your mind?
In this thought-provoking conversation with philosopher Donald Robertson we delve into Socrates' timeless insights on wisdom, self-awareness, and the art of questioning. Discover how Socrates used deep dialogue to uncover life’s most fundamental truths and what he meant by an eye that can see itself.
Reading about Stoicism won’t change your life—practicing it will.
In this conversation with Donald Robertson, one of the world's leading Stoic authors and cognitive-behavioral therapists, we explore a major misconception: Stoicism isn’t just a philosophy to study—it’s a way of life to train.
In this lesson, renowned Stoicism writer and philosopher Donald Robertson and Jon Brooks reflect on the unique personality of Socrates and his profound love for humanity. Donald compares Socrates to modern-day creative icons, such as Jimi Hendrix, to illustrate his total immersion in philosophy as a way of life.
Discover how Socrates' daily practices, charisma, and relentless pursuit of wisdom made him an unparalleled figure in ancient Greece and beyond.
What was Socrates’ relationship with his infamous wife, Xanthippe, really like? Was she an abusive partner, or simply misunderstood within the context of ancient Athenian culture? In this fascinating discussion, I dive deep into Socrates’ domestic life with philosopher and author Donald Robertson.
Begin your day with mental clarity and emotional resilience through this 8-minute Stoic meditation. This guided session will help you separate raw events from the judgments you attach to them, giving you the power to observe your thoughts without being controlled by them.
Through three simple steps—observing reality, recognizing your judgments, and choosing a new perspective—you will develop the ability to see things as they are, not as your emotions make them seem.
Start each morning with a clear mind, unshaken by external events. Breathe deeply, reframe challenges, and step into your day with calm and control.
This 7.5-minute Stoic morning meditation guides you in the practice of objective representation—seeing events clearly without emotional distortion. You'll be invited to observe a recent experience, separate facts from feelings, and reframe your response with calm and clarity. Inspired by the wisdom of Marcus Aurelius and Epictetus, this meditation helps you begin your day grounded in reason, not reaction. By the end, you’ll feel mentally clear, emotionally steady, and ready to navigate your day with a Stoic mindset.
In this clip, renowned Stoicism writer @DonaldRobertson explains why he believes Plato’s Apology is the only book he universally recommends. Donald dives into the profound impact of this short yet powerful text, Socrates’ legendary courtroom defense, and its relevance to Stoic philosophy and modern life.
What You’ll Learn in This Clip:
- Why Plato’s Apology stands apart as a must-read. - The philosophical seeds Socrates planted in this courtroom drama. - How The Apology influenced ancient thinkers like Marcus Aurelius and Epictetus. - Socrates’ fearless perspective on death and its philosophical significance. - The timeless lessons on courage, mortality, and virtue.
Learn more about Plato's Apology: https://www.stoichandbook.co/podcast/platos-apology-the-only-book-every-human-needs-to-read/
📖 Connect with Donald Robertson: Website: https://donaldrobertson.name Twitter: @DonJRobertson
In this guided reflection, we look at the Stoic technique of "object deconstruction," which can help us to see our cravings and attachments in a more objective, rational way, and therefore reduce the delusory framing we put around them.
This guided lesson is based on Chapter 3 of the Enchiridion, in which Epictetus states:
"In the case of particular things that delight you, or benefit you, or to which you have grown attached, remind yourself of what they are. Start with things of little value. If it is china you like, for instance, say, ‘I am fond of a piece of china.’ When it breaks, then you won’t be as disconcerted."
By practicing "object deconstruction" regularly, you will learn the skill of not getting wrapped up with the stories you tell yourself about your attachments, which can include relationships, pleasures, possessions, and habits.
This meditation draws on Epictetus' advice for handling strong feelings of both aversion and desire. Is it wise to avoid things that are not within our control?
And what is the balance when it comes to passionate desire?
Note: This contains powerful imagery that some may find upsetting. If you are very sensitive to challenging imagery, do the other meditations before this one.
This meditation uses the powerful Stoic technique of premeditation of adversity to make you contemplate just how "bad" your life could be.
By practicing negative visualization, you will see with great clarity how wonderful your life currently is, and also rehearse handling hardship with equanimity and virtue.
In this Stoic training exercise, we take a look at some of the methods the ancient Stoics used to handle insults and verbal sleights.
Then we immediately put them to use in an audio simulation training, where I insult you and you practice interpreting them with the right frames.
At first, this process may seem a bit strange or uncomfortable, or humourous, but this is how we learn. We must practice using skills in low-stress situations if we ever hope to have them at our disposal in high-stress situations, i.e. when someone insults us in the world.
In this contemplation, I guide you through a series of questions that has you examine your life and your decisions.
Are you not living up to your potential? Are you wasting time? Are you procrastinating or making excuses?
Even though this talk may be an uncomfortable listen... that's the point. It's designed as a "wake up" reflection to get you thinking and moving forward.
To get access to my full conversations with great thinkers like Donald Robertson, you can subscribe to The HighExistence Podcast at: https://highexistence.com/podcast/
In this episode, I share a clip with the great Stoic writer Donald Robertson that I conducted in a longer interview on The HighExistence Podcast.
In this episode, Donald gives his account of Derren Brown's book Happy and shares his response to the questions...
Is there a utility to anxiety? Were the Stoics too harsh on the emotion of anxiety?
In this Stoic Handbook episode, I answer a question by my fellow HighExistence teammate Mike Slavin, who asked me about ways I implement ancient Stoicism into my life.
The question prompted me to discuss the best practices I've found for reading Stoic texts.
This is the audio version of a YouTube video you can watch here.
Note: In this audio, I insert a clip of the great Jocko Willink (channel here), but because this was originally a video with a visual of Jocko including his social accounts, it seems like I didn't credit him in this audio. Someone raised this in a podcast review, and I want to make this clear. In this episode, I explore 11 quotes by Seneca all about fear and anxiety, then explain some ways we might apply these ideas to our own life.
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