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| 19 Jul 2023 | BDSM + Kink Basics Three Part Mini-Series: Plan +Prep Basics | 00:18:33 | |
Don't underestimate the power of the Plan + Prep Basics! Even if you aren't into BDSM + Kink, the Plan + Prep Basics can still improve your sex life. In this episode, I explain why knowing the Play space is more than just knowing the address, what areas to cover to maximize personalization, and what three kits everyone needs before anything happens. Listen now to hear how you can take your ordinary nights to unforgettable nights as safely and securely as possible.
P.S. The Plan + Prep Basics is also beneficial if you don't have a strong relationship with your imagination just quite yet. To stay up-to-date with all things Kinky, follow me on Instagram @thepartition_life Stay Kinky! | |||
| 28 Dec 2023 | Sorry Not Sorry: A Guide to Genuine Apologies Plus My Final 2023 Message | 00:17:58 | |
#LastEpisodeof2023 In this episode, I let you in on how Kinky Wellness taught me to apologize better by outlining the 12 elements of a good apology, while also getting into what I did yesterday and the importance of customization. Listen now to hear what's in store for next season and to hear my final 2023 message to you. #HappyListening----more---- ✨The Partition: Home of Kinky Wellness Upcoming Events✨ Kinky Wellness Online Summit: Redefine Your Sex Life in One Weekend!
Stay Kinky! P.S. If you're thinking of entering Kinky Wellness, make sure to learn your BDSM + Kink Basics at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to learn your Partnership Basics, Impact Basics, and Plan + Prep Basics.
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| 23 Apr 2024 | Leaning into Performance Art + Genevieve Jones | 00:41:37 | |
In this episode, we welcome Genevieve (Evie) Jones to discuss how elements of solo performance art can help us learn more about resistance, suffering, vulnerability, and facing fears and how this translates into the sexual wellness and exploration space. In addition, she shares insight into the concept of multiple truths, personal capacity, and problems within the current dating culture. Genevieve’s solo performance work includes working with elements of play, satirical comedy, and feminist performance art. She is also a first-year PhD student studying Interdisciplinary Humanities, focusing on resistance and vulnerability on stage, and auto-theory as a sense of self. Additionally, Genevieve is a mother and strives to create work that challenges dominant parenting narratives and asks provocative questions. #HappyListening
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Stay Kinky P.S. If you're considering entering Kinky Wellness, learn your BDSM + Kink Basics at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to understand your Partnership, Impact, and Plan and Prep Basics. | |||
| 09 Jul 2024 | Temperature Play: Where Pleasure Meets Wellness | 00:15:49 | |
In this episode of The Partition Podcast, we explore the healing and therapeutic benefits of Temperature Play that extend further than just keeping things Kinky in the bedroom. Join me now to explore:
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Stay Kinky P.S. Interested in Kinky Wellness? Learn your basics at www.kinkywellness.ca, where I make it easy to understand your Partnership, Impact, and Plan and Prep Basics.
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| 20 Dec 2023 | The Importance of Cathartic Experiences | 00:15:30 | |
When was the last time you had a cathartic experience? In general, "cathartic" refers to any experience, activity, or expression that allows you to release pent-up emotions, which in turn provides emotional relief. In this episode, I’ll outline a few different ways you can gain cathartic experiences and how BDSM and Kink taught me the importance of it. #HappyListening----more---- ✨The Partition: Home of Kinky Wellness Upcoming Events✨ Kinky Wellness Online Summit: Redefine Your Sex Life in One Weekend!
Stay Kinky! P.S. If you're thinking of entering Kinky Wellness, make sure to learn your BDSM + Kink Basics at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to learn your Partnership Basics, Impact Basics, and Plan + Prep Basics.
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| 09 May 2024 | The Dark Side of Abortion | 00:14:14 | |
In today's sensitive episode, I'll be addressing the mental and emotional side effects that some women may undergo after having an abortion based on my firsthand observations. I will also be addressing symptoms of post-abortion grief, how the Washington Post can suck it, and challenge the misconception that abortions don't impact men. To be clear, this isn't an episode telling women not to get an abortion but instead emphasizes the significance of informed consent. Resource Links
Stay Kinky P.S. If you're considering entering Kinky Wellness, learn your BDSM + Kink Basics at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to understand your Partnership, Impact, and Plan and Prep Basics. | |||
| 19 Jun 2023 | Burlesque, Sex, + You + Azura Maneater | 00:53:23 | |
💥 WELCOME TO THE STAGE 💥 Today I welcome Azura Maneater to talk about all things Burlesque!❤️🔥 This sultry vixen is a force to be reckoned with, as she has been singing, dancing, and acting from a very early age. Azura has performed on-screen and off for many years, taught all over the world, and now teaches Burlesque and Chair on Monday nights at Brass Vixen, which is where we met. 😍 Today, Azura gives a glimpse behind the curtain at what it takes to be a Burlesque dancer and why this is something for everyone. Listen now to hear her do's and don'ts of Burlesque and the difference between stripping and Burlesque. 😘 To stay up to date, follow us on Instagram! The Partition Azura Maneater Insta: @thepartition_life Insta: @azuramaneater Stay Kinky! P.S. If you're new here or to the BDSM + Kink scene, check out my e-learning video, "BDSM + Kink Basics," at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to learn the basics. | |||
| 12 Feb 2024 | Healing Faster with Accelerated Resolution Therapy + Brooke Bralove | 00:44:58 | |
Welcome back Brooke Bralove! Today Brooke is back to explain how Accelerated Resolution Therapy (ART) is paving the way to faster recovery times, saving relationships, and allowing people to heal without having to verbally repeat history. Listen now to hear if ART is right for you and how Accelerated Resolution Therapy and Kinky Wellness are more similar than you may think! #HappyListening Brooke Bralove, LCSW-C, is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Psychotherapist, Accelerated Resolution Therapy Practitioner, and an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist in Maryland with over 20 years of clinical experience. She holds degrees from the University of Pennsylvania and Columbia University and specializes in treating adults, couples, and groups with depression, anxiety, trauma, and relationship challenges. Brooke helps people overcome perfectionism and achieve greater authenticity, joy, and connection. Brooke believes every human being has an inherent right to pleasure and enjoys helping people discover that right.
Contact Information + Professional Links Brooke Bralove Psychotherapy - Phone: 202.256.4646 - E-Mail: brookebralove@gmail.com
Stay Kinky P.S. If you're considering entering Kinky Wellness, learn your BDSM + Kink Basics at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to understand your Partnership, Impact, and Plan and Prep Basics. | |||
| 14 Aug 2023 | Sweet Persuasion: Spicy XXX Book Review + Lala of Lala’s Bedtime Tales | 00:42:08 | |
If you’ve never read a spicy XXX book before, here’s your sign to start! In today’s episode, Lala from Lala's Bedtime Tales joins us to discuss the book Sweet Persuasion by Maya Banks. This spicy story is about a woman named Serena whose deepest desire is to give ownership of her body to a man. Someone who will command her, pleasure her, and have complete authority over her. – Oh, la la indeed. Lala's Bedtime Tales is a sexual liberation brand that shares erotica and romance short stories, while also focusing on women's sexual wellness and sexual education. Listen now to hear all the naughty details!
To stay up to date, follow us on Instagram! The Partition Lala from Lala’s Bedtime Tales Insta: @thepartition_life Insta: @lalasbedtimetales Lala’s Website: https://www.lalasbedtimetales.com/ Book link here: https://www.amazon.com/Sweet-Persuasion-Maya-Banks/dp/0425266966 Stay Kinky! P.S. If you're thinking of entering Kinky Wellness, make sure to learn your BDSM + Kink Basics at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to learn just that. | |||
| 25 Jan 2024 | Trust + Tension: Truths of Consensual Non-Consensual Play | 00:16:54 | |
In this episode, I will be continuing to talk about another play type that gets a lot of misunderstanding, which is Consensual Non-Consensual Play. Now, before you continue this episode, please take this moment to acknowledge that this episode may be very triggering as CNC is a highly sensitive Play Type. However, if you want to get a better understanding of what Consensual Non-Consensual is and what it isn’t, and how this play type can be healing and helpful, hit that play button and listen now.
🔴UPCOMING EVENTS🔴 ✨Beyond the Bedroom: A Kinky Wellness Workshop + Seminar✨
✨Kinky Wellness Summit: Redesign Your Sex Life In One Weekend✨
Stay Kinky P.S. If you're considering entering Kinky Wellness, learn your BDSM + Kink Basics at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to understand your Partnership, Impact, and Plan and Prep Basics. | |||
| 18 Mar 2024 | Attachment Styles + Shelby Avann | 00:41:01 | |
Secure? Anxious? Dismissive? Fearful Avoidant? Which attachment style are you? Let's find out, as today we are joined by relationship and intimacy coach and reiki healer Shelby Avann, who will discuss the four different attachment styles and how they relate to intimacy. As a relationship and intimacy coach, Shelby is a professional guide trained in attachment theory, intimacy and sexuality practices, tantra, kink and reiki who helps individuals enhance their emotional, physical, and relational connections. #HappyListening
Contact Information + Professional Links
✨ UPCOMING EVENT✨ Intimacy Workshop for Couples (3 Workshop Bundle Event): https://www.eventbrite.com/e/intimacy-workshop-for-couples-tickets-837881204237
Stay Kinky P.S. If you're considering entering Kinky Wellness, learn your BDSM + Kink Basics at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to understand your Partnership, Impact, and Plan and Prep Basics. | |||
| 18 Dec 2023 | Taking a Glimpse into the Swinging Lifestyle + Dan & Lacy of Swing Nation | 00:45:50 | |
On today’s episode, we’re exploring the multifaceted world of swinging with Dan and Lacy of Swing Nation! Dan and Lacy are a non-monogamous married couple who host one of the highest-rated lifestyle podcasts on Apple called The Swing Nation Podcast. Today, they will be sharing personal stories, practical tips, and expert insights on how to navigate the swing spectrum and what to know when entering a community where curiosity meets respect. #HappyListening Contact Information + Professional Links
----more---- ✨The Partition: Home of Kinky Wellness Upcoming Events✨ Kinky Wellness Online Summit: Redefine Your Sex Life in One Weekend!
Stay Kinky P.S. If you're considering entering Kinky Wellness, learn your BDSM + Kink Basics at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to understand your Partnership, Impact, and Plan and Prep Basics. | |||
| 10 Nov 2022 | Bound Movie Review + Satisfied Kat | 00:25:05 | |
#Bound In this episode, Katrina and I review the 1996 film Bound, starring Jennifer Tilly and Gina Gershon. We discuss what we did and didn't like about the movie's portrayal of sex and relationships, the scene that affected us the most, and if the film changed our perspective on something. Check out the trailer! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ToCMwdOaWh4 Katrina Fairhurst is a freelance writer and social media manager who runs her company, Satisfied Kat. She has a passion for writing about sexual wellness and pleasure. Her articles range from sex toy reviews to exploring the many forms of pleasure and sexual confidence. As an out and proud queer woman she seeks to provide writing and social media management that is inclusive of this perspective. To stay up to date, follow us on Instagram! The Partition Katrina Fairhurst Insta: @thepartition.life Insta: @_satisfiedkat Stay kinky! | |||
| 27 Feb 2023 | Fresh on the Market: Setting Up Kat’s Hinge Profile + Satisfied Kat | 00:35:32 | |
Watch out! Hot Thing Alert! Kat's making true to her New Year's resolution and jumping back into the dating world. Join us as we set up her dating profile and discuss ideal mates, perfect dates, and triggering traits. Katrina Fairhurst is a freelance writer and social media manager who runs her company, Satisfied Kat. She has a passion for writing about sexual wellness and pleasure. Her articles range from sex toy reviews to exploring the many forms of pleasure and sexual confidence. As an out and proud queer woman she seeks to provide writing and social media management that is inclusive of this perspective. To stay up to date, follow us on Instagram! The Partition Katrina Fairhurst Insta: @thepartition_life Insta: @_satisfiedkat
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| 17 Jul 2024 | The Importance of Rock Bottom + Letting Go of Blame | 00:14:22 | |
| 08 Nov 2023 | What Everybody Ought to Know About Shame | 00:17:33 | |
💥 #Shame 💥 Shame is another natural human emotion we all experience that doesn’t get discussed as much as it should. This is why, in this episode, I will be covering…
Listen now to hear why Shame is another silent killer that we must take seriously. #StayKinky P.S. If you're considering entering Kinky Wellness, learn your BDSM + Kink Basics at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to understand your Partnership, Impact, and Plan and Prep Basics.
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| 28 Feb 2024 | Collaring Ceremony Basics | 00:15:51 | |
In this episode, we’re exploring the basics of what goes down in a collaring ceremony. Although collaring ceremonies mean different things to different people, a collaring ceremony is typically a symbolic ritual where commitment, play, and power dynamics intertwine. Listen now to hear what a collaring ceremony is, its significance, and what you need to consider when planning a collaring ceremony or buying a collar for the first time.
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Stay Kinky P.S. If you're considering entering Kinky Wellness, learn your BDSM + Kink Basics at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to understand your Partnership, Impact, and Plan and Prep Basics. | |||
| 23 Nov 2023 | Loosen the Noose on Sexual Educators | 00:19:42 | |
Let's get to the point. For too long, only a handful of people and policies have determined what sexual education is good and bad for us BUT NEWSFLASH: Sex education is not something that can be copied and pasted. This is where sexual educators come in. We're here to showcase how diverse sex can be and help people find a sexual wellness education that suits them! This is why, today I'll be talking about why we need to loosen the noose on sexual wellness educators. Listen now to hear why sexual wellness education deserves diverse voices and perspectives and what you can do to help.
Stay Kinky P.S. If you're considering entering Kinky Wellness, learn your BDSM + Kink Basics at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to understand your Partnership, Impact, and Plan and Prep Basics.
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| 27 Sep 2023 | Banned Foods Affecting Your Health | 00:21:55 | |
After struggling with my own food issues, I finally decided to eat cleaner and more organic, which sent me down a rabbit hole of shocking facts and made me face the reality that just because something is on the grocery shelf doesn’t make it safe to eat. This is why in today’s episode, I will focus on specific ingredients that other countries have banned or at least labeled with warning signs, as they do with cigarettes and alcohol. Because when it comes to our health, what we eat makes all the difference! And just like Dr. Andrezj says, everything gets better once you get your nutrition in check, including your sex life. In this episode, I will be touching on
Listen now to know more about what these chemicals are, how common they are, and the harms that they do. #HappyListening
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Stay Kinky P.S. If you're considering entering Kinky Wellness, learn your BDSM + Kink Basics at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to understand your Partnership, Impact, and Plan and Prep Basics. | |||
| 07 Jun 2023 | How Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs Affects Sexual Frustration | 00:13:57 | |
Within Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs, sex is nestled up there with food and water, and when it isn't satisfied, we will feel the effects. People tend to think that sexual frustration primarily affects people with high sex drives, but the reality is that sexual frustration can affect anyone who's not getting the sex they want. Listen now for more why how sexual frustration is the real deal, how sexual frustration can affect someone and ways Kinky Wellness can help. #HappyListening
To stay up-to-date with all things Kinky, follow me on Instagram @thepartition_life Stay Kinky! P.S. If you're new here or to the BDSM + Kink and Kinky Wellness Scene, check out my e-learning video, "BDSM + Kink Basics," at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to learn the basics of BDSM and Kink.
Links Maslow, A. H. (1970a). Motivation and personality. New York: Harper & Row. https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0047235221000854 https://www.simplypsychology.org/maslow.html#The-expanded-hierarchy-of-needs | |||
| 06 Mar 2023 | IUDs • Period Pain • PMS + PMDD • Oh My... + Satisfied Kat | 00:36:53 | |
Did you know the name for period pain is Dysmenorrhea? Or that IUD insertions can cause birthing contractions? Listen as Katrina and I go round two on Kinky Wellness as we discuss Buzzfeed's article on IUDs, the differences between PMS and PMDD, and the age-old debate of Tampons vs. Pads vs. the Diva Cup. P.S. Please read the word Dysmenorrhea over again, as I totally butchered the pronunciation. Katrina Fairhurst is a freelance writer and social media manager who runs her company, Satisfied Kat. She has a passion for writing about sexual wellness and pleasure. Her articles range from sex toy reviews to exploring the many forms of pleasure and sexual confidence. As an out and proud queer woman she seeks to provide writing and social media management that is inclusive of this perspective. To stay up to date, follow us on Instagram! The Partition Katrina Fairhurst Insta: @thepartition_life Insta: @_satisfiedkat
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| 13 Dec 2023 | Stressful Success: Why Understanding Eustress is to Your Advantage | 00:16:02 | |
When I say the word “Stress”, what comes to mind? A sinking feeling in your gut? Increased heart rate? Well, in today’s episode, I’m outlining how not all stress is bad for you and that embracing Eustress is the secret key to life. Listen now to understand what is Eustress, its benefits, and other types of stress that seem to go under the radar. #HappyListening Stay Kinky! P.S. If you're thinking of entering Kinky Wellness, make sure to learn your BDSM + Kink Basics at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to learn your Partnership Basics, Impact Basics, and Plan + Prep Basics. | |||
| 03 Oct 2022 | Checking Out The Local Strip Clubs | 00:14:03 | |
Last week I talked about visiting my local strip clubs and touched on why people need to feel sexy. This week I'm going to expand on that need a little further by explaining what often happens when you don't feel sexy, how sexy helps with your overall health, and why self-esteem is so important. As promised, below is the link to the six steps to gaining confidence and sex appeal. https://www.tcnorth.com/building-confidence/6-steps-on-how-to-gain-confidence-and-sex-appeal/ To stay up to date, follow me on Instagram! @thepartition.life If you're new here or to the BDSM scene, check out my e-learning video, "BDSM Basics," at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to learn the basics of BDSM. Stay kinky! | |||
| 24 Apr 2023 | Balancing Feminine and Masculine Energies + Satisfied Kat | 00:30:18 | |
In this week's episode, Kat and I explore feminine and masculine energies and their meaning to us. We discuss what could happen when they aren't balanced, why the definition of the Divine Feminine might be narrow, and if there is a possibility of a third energy. Listen now to learn more about feminine and masculine energies. #HappyListening
P.S. If you're new here or to the BDSM + Kink scene, check out my e-learning video, "BDSM + Kink Basics," at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to learn the basics.
Katrina Fairhurst is a freelance writer and social media manager who runs her company, Satisfied Kat. She has a passion for writing about sexual wellness and pleasure. Her articles range from sex toy reviews to exploring the many forms of pleasure and sexual confidence. As an out and proud queer woman, she seeks to provide writing and social media management that includes this perspective. To stay up to date, follow us on Instagram! The Partition Katrina Fairhurst Insta: @thepartition_life Insta: @_satisfiedkat Stay Kinky!
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| 07 Aug 2023 | How to Choose The Right Lube For You! + Deb & Brian of Pleasure Pods | 00:44:33 | |
What happens when none of the lubes on the market are working for you? For Deb and Brain, they took matters into their own hands and created Pleasure Pods, an all-natural lubricant. However, during their three-year journey, they found out that not all lubes are created equal and that there are things we need to take notice of! Listen now to hear why you NEED to care about what lube you are choosing and how it affects your health! PLEASURE PODS® are the first and only 100% natural lube made from plant butters (mango, cocoa, and kokum) and oils (olive, argan, and rosemary). They leave no stickiness, itching, burning, yeast infections or UTIs. Activated by body heat, they melt into a silky-smooth liquid lube with a long-lasting glide that maximizes pleasure. PLEASURE PODS® are made from raw materials in Peterborough, ON. Learn more at their website: https://thepleasurepods.com/collections/all To stay up to date, follow us on Instagram! The Partition Pleasure Pods Insta: @thepartition_life Insta: @pleasurepods
Stay Kinky! P.S. If you're thinking of entering Kinky Wellness, make sure to learn your BDSM + Kink Basics at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to learn just that. | |||
| 29 Sep 2022 | The Importance of Attention + Satisfied Kat | 00:34:10 | |
This week's episode discusses the importance of attention, the different types of attention Kat and I like to receive, and how asking for tailored attention needs to be normalized. Katrina Fairhurst is a freelance writer and social media manager who runs her company, Satisfied Kat. She has a passion for writing about sexual wellness and pleasure. Her articles range from sex toy reviews to exploring the many forms of pleasure and sexual confidence. As an out and proud queer woman she seeks to provide writing and social media management that is inclusive of this perspective.
To stay up to date, follow us on Instagram! The Partition Katrina Fairhurst Insta: @thepartition.life Insta: @_satisfiedkat Stay Kinky! | |||
| 05 Jan 2023 | Bring Back Basic Kinky Wellness + Satisfied Kat | 00:34:41 | |
Did you know Planned Parenthood says women with IUDs shouldn't use a menstrual cup?! In this episode, we start the New Year with a Kinky Wellness topic that desperately needs to be discussed more: Protection! With hook-up culture on full tilt, it's no surprise that STIs are increasing. Listen to more on why it's time to bring back some basic Kinky Wellness. Katrina Fairhurst is a freelance writer and social media manager who runs her company, Satisfied Kat. She has a passion for writing about sexual wellness and pleasure. Her articles range from sex toy reviews to exploring the many forms of pleasure and sexual confidence. As an out and proud queer woman she seeks to provide writing and social media management that is inclusive of this perspective.
To stay up to date, follow us on Instagram! The Partition Katrina Fairhurst Insta: @thepartition_life Insta: @_satisfiedkat
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| 26 Jun 2024 | Chakra Insights: Understanding Your Energy Centers | 00:17:00 | |
In this episode of The Partition Podcast, I'm breaking down the seven chakras. Why? Because in Yoga philosophy, the human body is not only seen as a physical entity, but also as an energetic system! And when these energy centers are balanced and unblocked, they benefit our overall physical, emotional, and spiritual well-being, which naturally includes our sexual health. Join me now to explore:
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Stay Kinky P.S. Interested in Kinky Wellness? Learn your basics at www.kinkywellness.ca, where I make it easy to understand your Partnership, Impact, and Plan and Prep Basics.
#kinkywellness #sexualhealth #health #wellness #wellnesscoversation #aia #chakras #yoga #energy #blocked #unblocked #energeticsystem | |||
| 03 Jul 2023 | The Importance of Suffering + Master Joshua | 00:39:52 | |
Today we welcome Master Joshua. Master Joshua is professional dom, an end-of-life doula, and a non-traditional sexual behavioral counsellor. ❤️ Master Joshua has worked with hundreds of people helping them achieve self-acceptance and become active participants in their own lives for over a decade. He is a co-founder of both the Power Exchange Academy and the Sanctuary For Spiritual Development and Consciousness Expansion. In today's exciting new episode, we are going to have a candid conversation regarding shame and suffering.
Links Power eXchange Academy: Thursday, August 24, 20232:00 PM - Sunday, August 27, 20232:00 PM Easton Mountain Retreat Center391 Herrington Hill Road Greenwich, NY, 12834 Power eXchange Academy — Easton Mountain https://masterjoshua.com/contact/ https://kinkcollective.net/founders/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/masterjoshuanyc/
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| 20 Mar 2024 | Beyond Fight or Flight: Exploring the Spectrum of Trauma Responses | 00:16:00 | |
When faced with trauma or in a situation that brings you back to a place of past traumas, there are several different ways that someone could respond or react. Depending on our personality, current support network, how we were raised, or what type of coping mechanisms we have in place, just to name a few, can and will influence how we react to particular stimuli. This is why, in today's episode, we are exploring the spectrum of trauma responses beyond fight or flight. Listen now for more about the fight, flight, freeze, fawn, fine, faint, and flop trauma responses. Resource Links
✨ UPCOMING EVENT✨ Intimacy Workshop for Couples (3 Workshop Bundle Event) : https://www.eventbrite.com/e/intimacy-workshop-for-couples-tickets-837881204237
Stay Kinky P.S. If you're considering entering Kinky Wellness, learn your BDSM + Kink Basics at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to understand your Partnership, Impact, and Plan and Prep Basics. | |||
| 02 Aug 2023 | Mating in Captivity | 00:18:54 | |
Mating in Captivity is a book written by psychotherapist Ester Perel that provides over 20 years of professional insight on intimacy and sex in long-term relationships and what it takes to bring lust home. In today’s podcast episode, I go over my thoughts and break down my top three takeaways from it. ✔️ The concept of the “third” and how it relates to B.D.S.M + K-nk ✔️ The myth of spontaneity and what to do about it ✔️ How verbal communication is not the elite form of communication #HappyListening To stay up-to-date with all things Kinky, follow me on Instagram @thepartition_life Stay Kinky! Links
P.S. If you're new here or to the BDSM + Kink and Kinky Wellness Scene, check out my e-learning video, "BDSM + Kink Basics," at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to learn the basics of BDSM and Kink. | |||
| 31 May 2024 | Lube vs. Spit: The Great Debate | 00:14:27 | |
In today's episode, I'm sharing my opinion on the spit versus lube debate as I discuss toxic ingredients and oral hygiene practices that go beyond brushing and flossing. But let me know what you think. Do you think our sexual wellness market has overblown how dangerous saliva can be, or is there more to spit that I don't know? Click Here for Kinky Wellness Article
Stay Kinky P.S. Interested in Kinky Wellness? Learn your basics at www.kinkywellness.ca, where I make it easy to understand your Partnership, Impact, and Plan and Prep Basics. Resource Links
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| 26 Dec 2022 | ”How to Quit Looking at Pornography and Break a Sex Addiction” | 00:17:50 | |
Did you know some health organizations don't recognize sex addiction as an addiction, although Pornography and sex addiction affect thousands of people daily? Luckily, we have helplines, therapy, and groups dedicated to helping those effects. In this Kinky Wellness episode, I share what I learned from a "How to quit looking at pornography and break a s-x addiction" course by Kevin Siddle. Kevin uses his own experience of overcoming his addiction to help others. Please see below for more information on sexual addiction help. To stay up to date, follow me on Instagram! @thepartition_life If you're new here or to the BDSM scene, check out my e-learning video, "BDSM Basics," at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to learn the basics of BDSM.
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| 29 May 2023 | Sex at Dawn + Megan Millington | 01:07:09 | |
💥It's My Birthday!💥 So, it only seems fitting to welcome back Megan Millington! On her birthday, we welcomed her to the show. On my birthday, she's back to discuss the book Sex at Dawn: The Prehistoric Origins of Modern Sexuality by Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jetha. This enlightening book expands our conversation into concerns our senses face, what women need to know about tightness and their pelvic floor, and how birth control affects women's decisions. Listen now, as this episode is worth every minute. Megan Millington is a 1:1 Holistic Sexuality Coach. Megan believes in the power of sexual Wellness and why we should all experience the sex, pleasure, and relationships we deserve. To learn more or schedule a 1:1 call, visit her website at www.meganmillington.com #StayUpToDate and follow us on Instagram! The Partition Megan Millington Insta: @thepartition_life Insta: @meganmillingtoncoaching Stay Kinky! P.S. If you're new here or to the BDSM + Kink scene, check out my e-learning video, "BDSM + Kink Basics," at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to learn the basics. | |||
| 17 Apr 2023 | Kinky Tips with a Special Team Update + Satisfied Kat | 00:33:28 | |
💥PARTITION TEAM UP-DATE💥 Kat gives us her exciting new news as we discuss the benefits of creative outlets and Kinky Tips in this week’s wildcard episode. From oral health tips to sensuality tips to how to have better sex, Kat and I cover a little bit of everything. Special Shout out + Material Reference Gentleman Stirling, follow him at @gentlemanstirling https://www.instagram.com/p/CqOt7o8A-aV
Katrina Fairhurst is a freelance writer and social media manager who runs her company, Satisfied Kat. She has a passion for writing about sexual wellness and pleasure. Her articles range from sex toy reviews to exploring the many forms of pleasure and sexual confidence. As an out and proud queer woman, she seeks to provide writing and social media management that includes this perspective. To stay up to date, follow us on Instagram! The Partition Katrina Fairhurst Insta: @thepartition_life Insta: @_satisfiedkat Stay Kinky! P.S. If you're new here or to the BDSM + Kink scene, check out my e-learning video, "BDSM + Kink Basics," at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to learn the basics. | |||
| 14 Sep 2023 | Deconstructing and Uncovering Your Sexual Self Through Microcosmic Study + Ancilla of Ancillary Kink Support | 00:52:09 | |
You’re in for a treat! Today’s episode invites the brilliant Ancilla of Ancillary Kink Support. During the Erotic Edge Delhi Edition, Ancilla presented two outstanding classes just bursting with knowledge! One of those classes included a section called “Deconstructing and Uncovering Your Sexual Self Through Microcosmic Study,” which consists of six areas: The Personal - The Social - The Ethical - The Political - The Emotional - The Artistic Gracely, Ancilla is here to explain the Microcosmic Study and how its different influences lend themselves to sexual self-discovery. Ancilla is a writer, journalist, sex-and-kink educator, and author of novels, both erotic and otherwise. As a former sex worker, she has on-ground insight into human sexuality, and as a graduate of communications, she is able to apply that to create structured methodology to apply to the sexual. She is pansexual, polyamorous, kinky, and constantly discussing how labels are reductive. Be sure to follow her on social and check out her work below! Social + Professional Links:
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** Links are to Kindle and Amazon US for paperback. Please search by title for other countries for local vendors. ** #HappyListening Stay Kinky! P.S. If you're thinking of entering Kinky Wellness, make sure to learn your BDSM + Kink Basics at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to learn your Partnership Basics, Impact Basics, and Plan + Prep Basics. | |||
| 25 Dec 2023 | The Joy of Backdoor Intimacy: A Guide to Anal Play + Rae Szereszewski | 00:33:43 | |
In this episode, we are joined by certified sex educator and relationship coach Rae Szereszewski to discuss the realities and basics of anal play. From prepping recommendations, what lube to use, ideal positions for entry, and different forms of play that don’t include penetration, this episode will give you everything you need to know when exploring Anal Play for the first time. #HappyListening Rae Szereszewski is a certified sex educator and relationship coach, and an Options for Sexual Health SHEC graduate. Rae wants to live in a world where having conversations around sex and sexuality is not considered inherently inappropriate, and aims to empower people to make authentic and informed choices. Rae also has a Bachelor of Design in Fashion and Apparel Design from Toronto Metropolitan University, and uses it to make body-positive latex clothing. In addition to her experience as a latex designer, she spent eight years creating sex-positive events at a swingers and lifestyle club, and has worked in a variety of roles in event planning, community building, mentorship, and project coordination. She is currently running sexual education workshops, coaching clients, and making art. Contact Information + Professional Links
----more---- ✨The Partition: Home of Kinky Wellness Upcoming Events✨ Kinky Wellness Online Summit: Redefine Your Sex Life in One Weekend!
Stay Kinky P.S. If you're considering entering Kinky Wellness, learn your BDSM + Kink Basics at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to understand your Partnership, Impact, and Plan and Prep Basics. | |||
| 29 Dec 2022 | 10 Kinky Wellness New Years Resolutions + Satisfied Kat | 00:34:04 | |
Let's talk Kinky New Year’s resolutions! Kat and I go into how 2023 will focus on kinky art, wellness, and expression, but that’s not everything. Listen for what’s really expected for us in 2023! #BigPlans Katrina Fairhurst is a freelance writer and social media manager who runs her company, Satisfied Kat. She has a passion for writing about sexual wellness and pleasure. Her articles range from sex toy reviews to exploring the many forms of pleasure and sexual confidence. As an out and proud queer woman she seeks to provide writing and social media management that is inclusive of this perspective.
To stay up to date, follow us on Instagram! The Partition Katrina Fairhurst Insta: @thepartition.life Insta: @_satisfiedkat
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| 11 Dec 2023 | Empowerment Through Expression: Uncover the Role of Sexual Artistic Expression + Ainsley & Laurielle of Sweet Spot Nation | 00:36:06 | |
Welcome to the driving forces behind The Sweet Spot Burlesque, Laurielle Noel and Ainsley Burrows! Together, they lead an artistic revolution, redefining the boundaries of burlesque performance with a unique blend of sensuality, empowerment, and artistic expression, making them the perfect couple to discuss the importance of expression. In this fun episode, we discuss…
With Laurielle's strategic prowess and Ainsley's artistic and creative vision converging, they are propelling The Sweet Spot to the forefront of contemporary entertainment, where every show is a testament to the power of inclusivity, self-expression, and celebration of the human spirit. Their combined leadership ignites a vibrant movement that challenges norms and sparks conversations, leaving audiences inspired and empowered. #HappyListening Contact Information + Professional Links
Stay Kinky! ✨The Partition: Home of Kinky Wellness Upcoming Events✨ Kinky Wellness Online Summit: Redefine Your Sex Life in One Weekend!
P.S. If you're considering entering Kinky Wellness, learn your BDSM + Kink Basics at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to understand your Partnership, Impact, and Plan and Prep Basics | |||
| 08 Jan 2024 | Inside the Kinky Wellness Revolution: 2024 Summit Preview + Rae Szereszewski | 00:42:02 | |
Our Kinky Wellness Summit Co-Host, Rae Szereszewski, is back and we're spilling the secrets of the Kinky Wellness revolution! 🔥 Join us for an exclusive sneak peek into the fabulous journey that awaits you at the summit, while getting to know Rae on a deeper level. This episode is a can't-miss, so listen in now as Rae and I unveil the behind-the-scenes magic happening for the Kinky Wellness Summit on February 22-25, 2024!
#HappyListening Rae Szereszewski is a certified sex educator and relationship coach, and an Options for Sexual Health SHEC graduate. Rae wants to live in a world where having conversations around sex and sexuality is not considered inherently inappropriate, and aims to empower people to make authentic and informed choices. Rae also has a Bachelor of Design in Fashion and Apparel Design from Toronto Metropolitan University, and uses it to make body-positive latex clothing. In addition to her experience as a latex designer, she spent eight years creating sex-positive events at a swingers and lifestyle club, and has worked in a variety of roles in event planning, community building, mentorship, and project coordination. She is currently running sexual education workshops, coaching clients, and making art. Contact Information + Professional Links
----more---- ✨The Partition: Home of Kinky Wellness Upcoming Events✨ Kinky Wellness Online Summit: Redefine Your Sex Life in One Weekend!
Stay Kinky P.S. If you're considering entering Kinky Wellness, learn your BDSM + Kink Basics at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to understand your Partnership, Impact, and Plan and Prep Basics. | |||
| 10 Apr 2024 | Vaping? Say Goodbye to Your Testosterone | 00:14:10 | |
Did you know that the largest consumers of E-cigarettes and vapes are young adults and teenagers? This is why, in today’s episode, I highlight how vaping is not only destroying lungs but also how they are destroying testosterone levels and what that means for the next generation of males. #HappyListening
Dr. Andrezj Buryluk Contact Information
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Stay Kinky P.S. If you're considering entering Kinky Wellness, learn your BDSM + Kink Basics at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to understand your Partnership, Impact, and Plan and Prep Basics. | |||
| 21 Aug 2023 | How to Increase Self-Awareness and Live More Authentically + D20Domme Ph.D | 00:35:55 | |
Being self-aware is deeper and more complicated than most people think. It takes years to develop and requires constant inward self-exploration. Luckily for us, D20Domme is here to share her expertise on how everyone can increase their self-awareness to live a more authentic life. Listen now as D20Domme shares… ✔️ Three steps someone can take to increase their self-awareness ✔️ Characteristics of a self-aware person ✔️ Common struggles people face when first deciding to live authentically ✔️ What happens when we don't live authentically ✔️ and so much more! D20Domme is a polyamorous, professional Human Behavioral Expert Ph.D. and Alternative Lifestyles Coach who loves to speak on self-improvement. Her other passion topics include female empowerment, hypnotherapy, sexual awareness, and authentic living. She has been involved in active alternative lifestyle expressions for the past 15+ years and has been a featured presenter, performer, and speaker on international stages and screens that showcase those lifestyles. To stay up to date, follow us on socials! D20Domme Website: www.mundanemiss.com D20Domme Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/d20domme The Partition D20Domme Insta: @thepartition_life Instagram - @thed20domme
Stay Kinky! P.S. If you're thinking of entering Kinky Wellness, make sure to learn your BDSM + Kink Basics at www.kinkywellness.ca where I make it easy to understand just that. | |||
| 25 Apr 2024 | Trauma + Memory: C-Section Deliveries | 00:14:51 | |
In this episode of The Partition podcast, I discuss insights from Dr. Peter Levine's book "Trauma and Memory," focusing on a case study and several key points. From what can happen to a baby during a traumatic birth, who passes down generational trauma stronger, and how Kinky Wellness and Dr. Levine’s Somatic Experiencing definitely intersect, this episode delivers. P.S. Did you know our bodies can hold onto memories as early as the second trimester? I didn’t. Listen now to hear more about what I didn’t know. 💯 ✨Dr. Levine is world-renowned and holds doctorates in medical biophysics and psychology. He is also the developer of “Somatic experiencing,” a body awareness approach to healing trauma. In 2010, Dr. Levine received the Lifetime Achievement Award from the United States Association for Body Psychotherapy. He also has a best-selling book called Waking the Tiger: Healing Trauma. Trauma and Memory Amazon Book Link Click Here
Stay Kinky P.S. If you're considering entering Kinky Wellness, learn your BDSM + Kink Basics at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to understand your Partnership, Impact, and Plan and Prep Basics.
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| 13 Apr 2023 | Why Investing in a Yoni Egg Makes Sense | 00:10:35 | |
Today's episode is all about Yoni Eggs! BUT…What is a Yoni egg? A Yoni egg is a small smooth stone that is said to help women have a stronger pelvic floor, receive more intense orgasms, help prevent leakages after childbirth, and assist in the transition into menopause easier. With all this positivity, I had to ask…why hasn't the West adopted this Sexual Wellness technique? Listen and find out. #HappyListening To stay up-to-date with all things Kinky, follow me on Instagram @thepartition_life Stay Kinky! P.S. If you're new here or to the BDSM scene, check out my e-learning video, "BDSM + Kink Basics," at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to learn the basics.
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| 04 Mar 2024 | The Nerve You Need to Know: Vagus Nerve + Mark Dwyer, RMT | 00:48:11 | |
In this eye-opening episode of The Partition Podcast, we're joined by Registered Massage Therapist Mark Dwyer to talk about one of mainstream healthcare’s biggest blind spots, the Vagus nerve. From what it is, where it’s located, what its functions are, and why its soo important, Mark will provide a basic understanding of what we need to know. Whether you're curious about its connection to various health conditions or eager to enhance your overall vitality, Mark provides invaluable guidance and practical tips on how we can nurture and heal our Vagus nerve holistically. As a graduate with honours from Georgian College, and over 10 years in the field and with additional training in osteopathy and acupuncture, Mark brings a holistic perspective to his practice. His unique insights into conditions ranging from scar tissue to nervous system dysfunctions offer listeners a comprehensive understanding of the body's innate healing mechanisms.
Contact Information + Professional Links https://www.lifemark.ca/therapists/mark/dwyer/3319338
Stay Kinky P.S. If you're considering entering Kinky Wellness, learn your BDSM + Kink Basics at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to understand your Partnership, Impact, and Plan and Prep Basics.
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| 26 Sep 2022 | Imagination Isn’t Just For Kids | 00:11:44 | |
Who said adults have to stop using their imagination? In this episode, I talk all about imagination. I reflect on how my views on it have evolved, the skills imagination helped me with, and why I think everyone should incorporate imagination into their lives. Listen now and let me know how you incorporated imagination into your life! To stay up to date, follow me on Instagram! @thepartition.life If you're new here or to the BDSM scene, check out my e-learning video, "BDSM Basics," at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to learn the basics of BDSM. Stay kinky! | |||
| 20 May 2024 | Intro to Reiki & Energy Healing + Shelby Avann | 00:45:41 | |
In today’s episode, reiki healer and intimacy coach Shelby Avanns is back to give us an introduction to reiki and the transformative potential energy healing can have. Join us now as we explore:
As a relationship and intimacy coach, Shelby is a professional guide trained in attachment theory, intimacy and sexuality practices, tantra, kink and reiki who helps individuals enhance their emotional, physical, and relational connections. #HappyListening
Contact Information + Professional Links
Stay Kinky P.S. If you're considering entering Kinky Wellness, learn your BDSM + Kink Basics at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to understand your Partnership, Impact, and Plan and Prep Basics.
#HelathPodcast #WellnessPodcast #AlternativeWellness #HappyListening #reiki #healer #intimacy #coach #reikihealing #transformative #energy #energyhealing #Chakras #attachmenttheory | |||
| 03 Jul 2024 | Mono Minds, Poly Hearts: Exploring the Spectrum of Relationships + Shelby Avann | 00:56:40 | |
In this heartfelt episode of The Partition podcast, we dive into an intimate conversation with intimacy coach Shelby Avann. Together, we explore lessons from past relationships, where we stand on the spectrum of relationship dynamics, the real workings of Tinder, essential qualities for all relationship styles, how our perspectives on polyamory and monogamy have evolved over time, plus so much more. As a relationship and intimacy coach, Shelby is a professional guide trained in attachment theory, intimacy and sexuality practices, Tantra, kink and Reiki who helps individuals enhance their emotional, physical, and relational connections. Shelby was previously on the podcast in Ep.147 (Attachment Styles) and Ep. 163 (Intro to Reiki). #HappyListening Shelby’s Upcoming Events
Shelby’s Contact Information + Professional Links
Stay Kinky Click Here to Learn Your Kinky Wellness Basics: www.kinkywellness.ca #intimacy #coach #reikihealer #polyamorous #monogamous #relationshipstyles #kinkywellness #relationships #couplegoals | |||
| 23 Aug 2023 | Erotic Edge Expanded: Delhi Edition | 00:19:03 | |
Let’s talk Erotic Edge! As promised, today is all about my experience at the Erotic Edge Expanded Delhi Edition. Hosted by the Kinky Collective, this film festival was packed with 30 films ranging from documentaries, experimental, adult cinema, short films, discussions, and educational classes! Listen now to hear what movies made me sad, happy, and uncomfortable, as well as a quick breakdown of what I learned in the classes, and what else you can expect at your first erotic film festival. #HappyListening Links to Mentioned Socials Kink Collective:
Ancillary Kink Support Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/ancillal Tassma Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tassma.in/
Stay Kinky! P.S. If you're thinking of entering Kinky Wellness, make sure to learn your BDSM + Kink Basics at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to learn just that. | |||
| 05 Dec 2023 | The Hidden Powers of Erotic Writing and Audio + Lala of Lala’s Bedtime Tales | 00:40:41 | |
Welcome back Lala! In this episode, Lala’s back to dive into the hidden powers of erotic writing and audio. Beyond foreplay, she sheds light on how these forms of eroticism offer benefits for anxiety, depression, and communication. Tune in as Lala breaks down spice levels, shares steps for crafting your first erotic story, and navigates through 'ick' inducing words. Ready for a sensual journey? Listen now #HappyListening Contact Information + Professional Links + Resources
Stay Kinky P.S. If you're considering entering Kinky Wellness, learn your BDSM + Kink Basics at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to understand your Partnership, Impact, and Plan and Prep Basics. | |||
| 19 Apr 2023 | Where Sexual Education Needs To Be Updated + Megan Millington | 00:38:28 | |
💥Welcome Back!💥 In this special episode, we welcome back Megan Millington! Together, we explore examples of where our sexual education needs to be updated, why no one should ignore their Sexual Wellness, and contradictions between Western and alternative sexual education. Megan Millington is a 1:1 Holistic Sexuality Coach. Megan believes in the power of sexual Wellness and why we should all experience the sex, pleasure, and relationships we deserve. To learn more or schedule a 1:1 call, visit her website at www.meganmillington.com #StayUpToDate and follow us on Instagram! The Partition Megan Millington Insta: @thepartition_life Insta: @meganmillingtoncoaching Stay Kinky! P.S. If you're new here or to the BDSM scene, check out my e-learning video, "BDSM + Kink Basics," at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to learn the basics.
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| 13 Mar 2023 | Why Toxic Positivity Should be a Red Flag + Satisfied Kat | 00:35:52 | |
Did you know being unable to sit within negative feelings is a bad thing? Our ability to cope with all types of feelings, good or bad, is necessary for personal development. In this episode, Kat and I discuss how the toxic positive and how the “red flag” movement has created more problems than solutions and how it affects the dating environment. Katrina Fairhurst is a freelance writer and social media manager who runs her company, Satisfied Kat. She has a passion for writing about sexual wellness and pleasure. Her articles range from sex toy reviews to exploring the many forms of pleasure and sexual confidence. As an out and proud queer woman she seeks to provide writing and social media management that is inclusive of this perspective. To stay up to date, follow us on Instagram! The Partition Katrina Fairhurst Insta: @thepartition_life Insta: @_satisfiedkat
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| 07 Nov 2022 | Orgasm Inc. The Race for the Female Orgasm | 00:16:43 | |
#OrgasmInc. #2009 This week I talk about the eye-opening documentary Orsgam Inc. which was filmed in 2009 "Orgams Inc. is an extraordinary behind-the-scenes access reveals a drug company's fevered race to develop the first FDA-approved Viagra for women." I discuss why not all sex education is good education and the devasting effects of overmedicalized everyday life. To stay up to date, follow me on Instagram! @thepartition.life If you're new here or to the BDSM scene, check out my e-learning video, "BDSM Basics," at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to learn the basics of BDSM. Stay kinky!
----more---- Links Orgasm Inc. Trailer https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dZeHDKRa1y8
Orgasm Inc. YouTube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yRdn8A1L1e0&t=3142s
Additional Links https://www.imdb.com/title/tt1439562/ https://www.statista.com/statistics/263102/pharmaceutical-market-worldwide-revenue-since-2001/ | |||
| 26 Oct 2022 | Don’t be Shy to Show Your Freak Side! Taboo Production Inc. Presents... | 00:13:36 | |
#BadDragon #EverythingtodowithSexShow This week I talk about my experience at The Everything To Do With Sex Show presented by Bad Dragon, touch on how screaming helps aggression, and how trying new things keeps the spice of life. For Podcast links, please scroll to the bottom. To stay up to date, follow me on Instagram! @thepartition.life If you're new here or to the BDSM scene, check out my e-learning video, "BDSM Basics," at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to learn the basics of BDSM. Stay kinky! ----more---- Links Bad Dragon - https://bad-dragon.com/ Brent Ray Fraser - https://www.brentrayfraser.com/ | |||
| 20 Oct 2022 | Write Us Something Naughty + Satisfied Kat | 00:33:05 | |
In this episode, Katrina and I discuss our sexual writing roots, what we love about sexual writing, opinions on consensual non-consensual erotica, and why everyone needs to try writing their own erotica story. **Trigger Warning for those affected by CNC: Consensual Non-Consensual**
Katrina Fairhurst is a freelance writer and social media manager who runs her company, Satisfied Kat. She has a passion for writing about sexual wellness and pleasure. Her articles range from sex toy reviews to exploring the many forms of pleasure and sexual confidence. As an out and proud queer woman, she seeks to provide writing and social media management that is inclusive of this perspective. To stay up to date, follow us on Instagram! The Partition Katrina Fairhurst Insta: @thepartition.life Insta: @_satisfiedkat Stay Kinky! | |||
| 03 Nov 2022 | Core Erotic Themes, Do Partners Need Them? + Satisfied Kat | 00:32:41 | |
In the spirit of Halloween, Kat and I start by talking about Halloween and how it can be used to spark intimacy. We discuss "A Sex Therapist's Secret to Rediscovering Your Spark" TedTalk by Ian Kerner and our views on partners having "core erotic themes." Click the link below to listen to the full TedTalk. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L5rE-Ur9pSI
Katrina Fairhurst is a freelance writer and social media manager who runs her company, Satisfied Kat. She has a passion for writing about sexual wellness and pleasure. Her articles range from sex toy reviews to exploring the many forms of pleasure and sexual confidence. As an out and proud queer woman, she seeks to provide writing and social media management that is inclusive of this perspective.
If you have a movie, topic, or idea you want us to discuss, leave a message below in the comments.
To stay up to date, follow us on Instagram! The Partition Katrina Fairhurst Insta: @thepartition.life Insta: @_satisfiedkat
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| 10 Jul 2023 | The Truth About Porn Addiction + Joshua Shea | 00:40:13 | |
Did you know 1 in 3 men under 30 are addicted to pornography in some way? With the ever-increasing access to pornography, now more than ever, we need open and honest conversations about how pornography affects us, our society, and our ability to communicate intimacy. That’s why on today’s episode, we welcome Joshua Shea. Joshua Shea is a pornography addiction expert, certified betrayal trauma coach, therapeutic disclosure specialist and the author of four books about pornography, including I’m Reading This Book About Porn Addiction For a Friend. Since 2018, Joshua has given more interviews about pornography addiction and betrayal trauma than anybody in the world, and today we’re adding another interview to his list. Today he is sharing his wealth of research and personal story to raise awareness and promote the ideas that porn addiction spans all demographics and that those with a problem should seek help before it’s too late. If you know someone or are suffering from pornography addiction, listen now for tactile tips and advice on what to do, where to seek help, and how to regain control over your life. Links https://paddictrecovery.com/pornography-addiction-education-for-partners/ https://paddictrecovery.com/pornography-addiction-resources/ https://www.drugrehab.com/co-occurring-disorder/ https://rehabs.com/behavioral-addiction/ https://www.webmd.com/sex/porn-addiction-possible#1
To stay up to date, follow us on Instagram! The Partition Joshua Shea Insta: @thepartition_life Insta: @thatcorncoach
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| 27 Mar 2023 | Pride: Who Should and Shouldn’t Be Invited? + Satisfied Kat | 00:35:31 | |
What started as an episode to explore attitudes towards homosexuality around the globe quickly heats up as we discuss... if straight people should be allowed at Pride, if straight people should know when they aren't needed, and if the West really thinks they know everything about sex and sexuality. Listen for yourself, and join the conversation. If you're new here or to the BDSM scene, check out my e-learning video, "BDSM + Kink Basics," at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to learn the basics. Katrina Fairhurst is a freelance writer and social media manager who runs her company, Satisfied Kat. She has a passion for writing about sexual wellness and pleasure. Her articles range from sex toy reviews to exploring the many forms of pleasure and sexual confidence. As an out and proud queer woman, she seeks to provide writing and social media management that includes this perspective. To stay up to date, follow us on Instagram! The Partition Katrina Fairhurst Insta: @thepartition_life Insta: @_satisfiedkat Stay Kinky! | |||
| 06 Feb 2023 | Meet Your Shadow Self | 00:16:15 | |
Did you know we have personalities we don't want others to see? Yep! Every self-fulling prophecy of "I would never…" or "that's not me…" regresses into a place known as our Shadow-Self. In this episode, I will introduce 13 different shadow types and why it's essential to use your imagination to bring them to life. #HappyListening Stay Kinky! To stay up to date, follow me on Instagram and TikTok! Insta: @thepartition_life TikTok: @the_partition.life P.S.: If you're new here or to the BDSM scene, check out my e-learning video, "BDSM Basics," at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to learn the basics of BDSM and Kink. | |||
| 22 May 2023 | Belly Buttons Are More Than Cute Scars + Satisfied Kat | 00:29:26 | |
Last month, Kat and I received a podcast request to do an episode dedicated to our belly buttons and asked a very serious question, "can you orgasm from your belly button?" Unfortunately, when I replied, I received a bounce-back message saying that that e-mail didn't exist anymore – So, if you're still listening, this podcast episode is for you! Listen now as Kat and I dive into all things Navel Play, its risks, play types, and play basics, as well as how to incorporate Navel Play.
#HappyListening
Links https://www.instyle.com/lifestyle/tiktok-orgasm-g-spot-technique https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/a19545104/unbelievable-orgasm/ https://www.vice.com/en/article/epzpv4/navel-play-belly-button-fetish-sex https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Navel_fetishism https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wgOp3unpLzA
Katrina Fairhurst is a freelance writer and social media manager who runs her company, Satisfied Kat. She has a passion for writing about sexual wellness and pleasure. Her articles range from sex toy reviews to exploring the many forms of pleasure and sexual confidence. As an out and proud queer woman, she seeks to provide writing and social media management that includes this perspective. To stay up to date, follow us on Instagram! The Partition Katrina Fairhurst Insta: @thepartition_life Insta: @_satisfiedkat Stay Kinky! P.S. If you're new here or to the BDSM + Kink scene, check out my e-learning video, "BDSM + Kink Basics," at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to learn the basics. | |||
| 18 Apr 2024 | The Importance of Validation | 00:16:00 | |
In this episode, I'm talking all about the importance of validation. ✔️ From different types of validation ✔️ What happens to us when we don’t receive validation ✔️ How we can cultivate self-validation ✔️ Differences between healthy and unhealthy forms of validation Listen now to hear how validation fuels our development and how it can also be used as manipulation.
Stay Kinky P.S. If you're considering entering Kinky Wellness, learn your BDSM + Kink Basics at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to understand your Partnership, Impact, and Plan and Prep Basics.
#HappyListening #NewEpisode #Podcast #NewPodcast #WellnessPodcast #FollowNow #ListenNow #Welness #valid #validity #importanceofvalidation #selfvalidation #innervalidation #healthyvalidation #unhealthyvalidation #selfdevelopment #sexualwellness #sexualhealth #sex #holisticsex
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| 22 May 2024 | Marriage Advice 101 | 00:16:59 | |
I know I don't have all the answers when it comes to marriage advice, but there's one point of view I'm willing to take a bullet for. Listen now to hear what that is, along with the concept of Robin Dunbar's Dunbar Number and Dr. Gary Chapman's concept of the "Five Love Languages." Click Here for the Love Language Quiz
Stay Kinky P.S. Interested in Kinky Wellness? Learn your basics at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to understand your Partnership, Impact, and Plan and Prep Basics.
#HappyListening #Marriage #MarriageAdvice #Love #ForeverTogether #JustMarried #RobinDunbar #DunbarNumber #GaryChapman #LoveLanguages #RelationshipAdvice #BestFriends #Besties | |||
| 19 Oct 2023 | Marriage is a Kink | 00:19:30 | |
As you know, this past weekend, I had the opportunity to speak and attend the Toronto Taboo Show. In short, the event was a blast, and I met so many fabulous kinky people spreading sexual awareness in their own kinky way! However, the conversation that stood out to me the most was with a man who was explaining the differences between BDSM and Kink in a Play setting versus living a BDSM and Kink lifestyle 24/7. And as he was explaining it, all I could think of was… “Wow, this sounds a lot like marriage.” Seriously! When it comes to marriage, BDSM and Kink, and Power-Exchange Relationships, there seems to be a lot of overlap. Listen now to hear why I think so. Stay Kinky P.S. If you're thinking of entering Kinky Wellness, make sure to learn your BDSM + Kink Basics at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to learn your Partnership, Impact, and Plan and Prep Basics.
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| 10 May 2023 | Virtual Friends, Digital Lovers, + Algorithmic Matchmakers: What Does this Mean for Human Intimacy? | 00:16:48 | |
Artificial Intimacy is changing the landscape of how human beings obtain intimacy. According to evolutionary biologist, professor, and author, Rob Brooks, there are three types of artificial intimacy: virtual friends, digital lovers, and algorithmic matchmakers. But what does that mean for human intimacy? That is what I explore in today’s podcast. Listen now as I discuss Rob Brooks's book, Artificial Intimacy and “how it offers an innovative perspective on the possibilities of A.I. and Intimacy with humans in the present…and near future.” #HappyListening
To stay up-to-date with all things Kinky, follow me on Instagram @thepartition_life Stay Kinky!
P.S. Need to know your BDSM + Kink Basics? Check out my e-learning video, "BDSM + Kink Basics," at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to learn the basics of BDSM and Kink. | |||
| 30 Aug 2023 | Regain Your Ability to Explore | 00:16:48 | |
Newsflash! When we have been so discouraged to explore our external world, it only becomes harder to explore our internal world, and some do not even realize exploring internally is even an option. In this episode, I shine a light on why we need to break the imaginary chains on things that were once free, like exploring. Listen now to hear the first step YOU need to take to start exploring today! Stay Kinky! P.S. If you're thinking of entering Kinky Wellness, make sure to learn your BDSM + Kink Basics at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to learn just that. | |||
| 18 Jan 2024 | No Apology, No Problem: Living Well Without an Apology | 00:15:39 | |
In Episode 124, we broke down what a good apology looks like, however, in this episode we tackle the challenging scenario of not receiving an apology at all. I offer practical advice and insight on how to move on and release resentment, what happens to our bodies when we don't forgive, and the four main phases of Apology Therapy. Listen now for what you can do in the absence of an apology.
🔴UPCOMING EVENTS🔴 ✨Beyond the Bedroom: A Kinky Wellness Workshop + Seminar✨
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Stay Kinky P.S. If you're considering entering Kinky Wellness, learn your BDSM + Kink Basics at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to understand your Partnership, Impact, and Plan and Prep Basics. | |||
| 30 Jan 2024 | Pelvic Floor 101: Yes, We ALL Have One! + Carmen Schmidt | 00:46:27 | |
Welcome to Pelvic Floor 101! In today's episode, we are joined by Carmen Smidt, a dedicated pelvic floor and pediatric physiotherapist, as we shed light on the often neglected topic of our pelvic floor. Our pelvic floor, though rarely discussed, plays a crucial role in our well-being, and Carmen will take us on a journey to understand what the pelvic floor is, its significance and how breathing affects its health, as well as possible pelvic floor issues that can stem from childhood and practical exercises to help it. From understanding its role to actionable tips, this episode is your go-to guide for pelvic floor wellness. Listen now to empower yourself on your pelvic floor health. Carmen is a pelvic floor and paediatric physiotherapist with a true passion for helping people with their pelvic floor health. She’s committed to helping people suffering from pelvic pain and believes the pelvic floor is the foundation of our bodies and when it functions well, we can improve the way the rest of our body is working on a HUGE scale!
Contact Information + Professional Links
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Stay Kinky P.S. If you're considering entering Kinky Wellness, learn your BDSM + Kink Basics at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to understand your Partnership, Impact, and Plan and Prep Basics. | |||
| 04 Nov 2024 | Insights from an Erotic Writer + Ancilla of Ancillary Kink Support | 00:43:18 | |
In this episode of the Kinky Wellness podcast, I’m excited to welcome back fan favorite Ancilla from Ancillary Kink Support! A passionate sexual wellness educator and erotic writer, she shares her experiences with erotic writing, including the unique challenges in crafting kink-based literature. Ancilla also explores the reasons behind the heavier censorship of erotic writing compared to other forms of sexual expression and discusses how intersectionality plays a crucial role in the realm of erotic art. #HappyListening Ancilla is a journalist, sex-and-kink educator, and author of novels, both erotic and otherwise. As a former sex worker, she has on-ground insight into human sexuality, and as a graduate of communications, she can apply that to create a structured methodology to apply to the sexual. For more on Ancilla and her work, check out the links below. Social + Professional Links:
Book Links
** Links are to Kindle and Amazon US for paperback. Please search by title for other countries for local vendors. ** Stay Kinky P.S. Interested in learning more about Kinky Wellness? Begin with the basics here: www.kinkywellness.ca #kinkywellness #sexualhealth #health #wellness #wellnessconversation #aia #pleasurewellness #kinktok | |||
| 26 Jun 2023 | What You Need To Know About Being a Dominatrix + Miss Mackenzee | 00:49:19 | |
💥 Interested in Becoming a Dominatrix? 💥 Then today's episode is for you as I welcome Miss Mackenzee! Miss Mackenzee is a trauma-informed international BDSM and intimacy educator, certified hypnotist, Kink lifestyle and professional dominatrix coach. Miss Mackenzee has been involved in the Kink lifestyle, professionally and personally, for over 20 years. She teaches a full range of subjects, including but not limited to energy play, Tantra, bondage, intimacy, power exchange, revelling in pleasure, hypnosis, sexuality, and the art of sadism. Listen now as she gives us the full package as we discuss common mistakes and misconceptions, client red flags, risks and how to mitigate them, as well as a Kinky hypnosis story that's out of this world. 👽️ To stay up to date, follow us on Instagram! The Partition Miss Mackenzee Insta: @thepartition_life Insta: @missmackenzeeagain Stay Kinky! P.S. If you're new here or to the BDSM + Kink scene, check out my e-learning video, "BDSM + Kink Basics," at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to learn the basics. | |||
| 28 Aug 2023 | Continuing the Nutrition Conversation: Proteins + Sugars + Andrzej Baryluk MD | 00:55:37 | |
Throw your food pyramid out the window because Dr. Andrezj Buryluk is back to continue the conversation on nutrition with some shocking facts! In this episode, we discuss…
Listen now to this jam-packed episode and be ready to take some notes.
Dr. Andrzej is an honours graduate from the Medical University of Lublin, Poland. 20+ years of theoretical and clinical medical experience across public, private and two-tier healthcare systems. Education in the biotech sector and focus within the pharmaceutical industry. Research in clinical trials involving medical devices, new drugs, clinical process optimization, quality control measures and development of clinical assessment tools among others. He devoted his spare time to developing surgical skill excellence and understanding the regenerative capacity of the human body. Realizing most surgical interventions are not necessary, he shifted his focus to holistic and preventative care. Maintaining his passion for finding solutions, with his father slowly deteriorating, he couldn’t help but reflect on the trajectory of his own health. From developing erectile dysfunction, to suffering from repeated sports injuries and feeling the effects of deteriorating vascular health, Andrzej has developed this program to not only address the disparity of knowledge we all face but to extend our youth and sexual health well beyond the expectations set for us by society.
Contact Information Web: www.phoenixrti.com Office: Phoenix Regenerative Therapeutics Institute | Cell +1 647-533-3565 | 235 Salem Rd S unit 4, Ajax, ON, L1Z 0B1, Canada Email: abaryluk@phoenixrti.com |info@phoenixrti.com
To stay up to date, follow us on Instagram! The Partition Dr. Andrzej Baryluk, MD Insta: @thepartition_life Insta: @phoenixrti
Stay Kinky! P.S. If you're thinking of entering Kinky Wellness, make sure to learn your BDSM + Kink Basics at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to learn just that. | |||
| 06 Nov 2024 | Parts Work: Exiles Managers Firefighters | 00:17:37 | |
In this episode, I’m thrilled to catch up with you on some exciting updates and insights! Since our last chat, I had the privilege of attending an online immersive workshop on Parts Work, a therapeutic approach based on Internal Family Systems (IFS).
I’ll share a brief overview of the unique roles and protective functions of the three key parts we need to be aware of—our Exile, Manager, and Firefighter parts.
Listen now if you’re ready to dive deeper into self-discovery, release old patterns, and elevate your wellness journey.
🎉ALSO!! EXCITING ANNOUNCEMENT! 🎉
I finally completed the Kinky Wellness Basics Textbook! Designed to be the go-to guide for Kinky Wellness, this e-book includes interactive, practical frameworks that anyone can personalize. You can find it on my brand-new website: www.KinkyWellness.ca.
Stay Kinky!
#KinkyWellness #PartsWork #IFS #WellnessPodcast #HealthPodcast #AIA | |||
| 12 Dec 2022 | Not into BDSM? Try this instead. | 00:21:29 | |
This week I catch you up with my key highlights from the book "The Psychology Of Sexual Expression: Exploring The Realities Of Human Sexuality" by Grace Ennis, what I've been up to, and some words of wisdom to live by! To stay up to date, follow me on Instagram! @thepartition.life If you're new here or to the BDSM scene, check out my e-learning video, "BDSM Basics," at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to learn the basics of BDSM. Stay kinky! | |||
| 03 May 2024 | Masturbation May | 00:14:46 | |
Did you know that May is masturbation awareness month? Neither did I! This is why I'm kicking off May by joining in on the fun and dedicating this episode to masturbation. Be sure to listen to the end for my #MasturbationTips ! Resource Links
Stay Kinky P.S. If you're considering entering Kinky Wellness, learn your BDSM + Kink Basics at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to understand your Partnership, Impact, and Plan and Prep Basics.
#Podcast #AlternativeWellnessPodcast #May #MayMasturbation #MasturbationAwareness #Masturbation | |||
| 13 Nov 2024 | Beyond the Shock: Rethinking Visibility in Kink and Sexual Wellness | 00:15:03 | |
In this episode, we dive into the complexities of representation and visibility within the overall Kinky Wellness communities, especially in the age of TikTok and social media. While the fight for marginalized voices to be heard is crucial, we explore how not all visibility is good visibility. I discuss the dangers of sensationalized narratives and the growing trend of pushing extreme, often self-sabotaging portrayals of kink as the "norm." From over-the-top performances to bizarre extremes, I ask the hard question: Is this really the message we want to send about kink and sexual wellness? Join me as I challenge the narratives that dominate the conversation and advocate for a more inclusive, mature, healthy, and nuanced perspective on sexual exploration and identity that doesn’t rely on shock value. Stay Kinky! P.S. Click Here to Learn Your Kinky Wellness Basics. #visability #shocking #tiktok #sexualwellness #maturity #stoptheshock
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| 16 Aug 2023 | Fetlife + Kinky Websites For You | 00:13:59 | |
Did you know that having access to Kink-friendly websites is more than just finding friends? It's an important way for the community to stay connected and share health and safety information without censorship. It’s a place where people can share their more vulnerable sides and ask tough or sensitive questions that they can’t share in public. It’s a place where authenticity thrives, and curiosities can be followed. Listen now to hear why Fetlife might be the Kink space you’ve been looking for and what you need to know. Fetlife Name: DanaShergill #HappyListening To stay up-to-date with all things Kinky, follow me on Instagram @thepartition_life Stay Kinky! Links https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/FetLife https://datingtop10.net/sites-like-fetlife/ My Fetlife Account: https://fetlife.com/users/17604536
P.S. If you're new here or to the BDSM + Kink and Kinky Wellness Scene, check out my e-learning video, "BDSM + Kink Basics," at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to learn the basics of BDSM and Kink. | |||
| 29 Jun 2023 | Cycles + Patterns: Why You Need to Break Them | 00:15:51 | |
The cycles, habits, routines, and patterns we create for ourselves can become outdated, but to see that, we need something to interrupt our cycles and patterns long enough to reflect on them. If we don't, we risk living in auto-pilot mode. This is why in this episode, I explain why experiencing change is so important and how Kinky Wellness helped me to do that. Remember #NothingChangesWithoutChange
To stay up-to-date with all things Kinky, follow me on Instagram @thepartition_life Stay Kinky! | |||
| 15 Nov 2023 | Which Form of Grief Are You Experiencing? | 00:15:23 | |
After talking with Edy on Monday about sexual grief, I realized that grief is another emotion that doesn't get talked about as much as it should. This is why today I'll reflect on Monday's episode and expand on 12 different kinds of grief and how it affects us physically and our social behaviours. Grief comes with the human experience, but that doesn't mean it needs to take over your life. However, it is only when you can identify grief that you will be able to heal from it. Listen now to see which form of grief you are experiencing.
Edy Nathan Contact Information + Professional Links
Episode Resource Links
Stay Kinky P.S. If you're considering entering Kinky Wellness, learn your BDSM + Kink Basics at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to understand your Partnership, Impact, and Plan and Prep Basics. | |||
| 03 Apr 2024 | Ketamine & Pleasure + Dr. Cat Meyer | 00:46:44 | |
In this episode, we are joined by Dr. Cat Meyer to discuss the psychedelic Ketamine and how it can be used for pleasure and healing. Dr. Cat explains what Ketamine is, the stigmas around it, and what you will need to do should you wish to explore this avenue of healing. Dr. Cat Meyer, PsyD, LMFT is a licensed psychotherapist specializing in sex, trauma, and psychedelics, and her clinical work with psychedelics combines her skills and knowledge of trauma, sex, and energy psychology. Dr. Cat approaches the work with her clients from a multi-layered and spiritual perspective for powerful activations and transformations. Dr. Cat is also a ceremonialist, author, teacher of yoga, and international speaker dedicated to evolving the relationship we have surrounding sexuality and our bodies. She is also the founder of SexLoveYoga.com, an online platform integrating various schools of thought including science, tantric yoga, indigenous ceremony culture, and psychology designed to help people create a deeply fulfilling, prosperous relational and sexual life. As an expert and published researcher on the topic of sex, Dr. Cat sees clients in her private practice office in Beverly Hills and leads workshops, lectures, and retreats internationally. Dr. Cat is the host of the podcasts Sex Love Psychedelics and Erotically Wasted, author of the book Sexloveyoga, + co-founder of Un.done women’s sensual yoga experience.
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Stay Kinky P.S. If you're considering entering Kinky Wellness, learn your BDSM + Kink Basics at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to understand your Partnership, Impact, and Plan and Prep Basics. | |||
| 15 Jul 2024 | Sex + Safety: Navigating the Nervous System + Nadia Lune | 00:54:04 | |
In this episode of The Partition Podcast, we welcome back the radiant and magical Pleasure Witch Nadia Lune. Nadia is back to have a candid discussion on the role of our nervous system and how it affects our sense of safety within sex. As usual, Nadia is filled with wisdom and stories you don't want to miss. Listen now as Nadia explains:
Nadia Lune is a Queer, Gender Expansive, Slutty, Sex Witch who teaches Sex Magic to women and vulva beings to guide them to reclaim their inner power and magic through the tool of pleasure. Nadia's work is about teaching you practices that will lead you to have the most incredible and pleasure-filled relationship with yourself as a foundation to then have the most astonishing sex, love, and relationships with others! Using the tools of Tantric Sex, Sex Magic, and Jade Egg, among others! Contact Information + Professional Links
Stay Kinky P.S. Learn Your Kinky Wellness Basics Here: www.kinkywellness.ca #PleasureWitch #nervoussystem #safety #WindowofTolerance #Attunement #Intention #Grace #Compassion #Rage #tantric | |||
| 24 Jul 2023 | What Not To Ignore When It Comes to Men’s Health + Andrzej Baryluk, MD | 00:52:59 | |
Men! Listen up! If your morning wood isn’t rock solid each morning, you can’t ignore it! Why? Well, in today's educational packed episode, we tackle this question with Andrzej Baryluk, MD, along with other sexual health issues that men need to know, from how it all works for guys to how it affects them and their partners when it doesn’t! We talk about the stigma of erectile function and prostate health as an expression of masculinity and how that plays into why many guys deal with chronic progressive erectile dysfunction or decline along with prostate issues in silence. But don’t worry, because at the end, Andrzej will be sharing a revolutionary technology that he works with that directly stimulates the body to rebuild itself, and how amazing it is at regenerating erectile function, including curing Peyronie’s Disease. Listen now as we dive into sexual health that men shouldn’t ignore, what they need to know about ED and prostate issues, and compare the risks of this technology to the risks of taking the blue pill, hormone therapy, injections, or surgery.
Contact Information Web: www.phoenixrti.com Office: Phoenix Regenerative Therapeutics Institute 235 Salem Rd S unit 4, Ajax, ON, L1Z 0B1, Canada abaryluk@phoenixrti.com | info@phoenixrti.com Phone: 647-533-3565
To stay up to date, follow us on Instagram! The Partition Andrzej Baryluk, MD Insta: @thepartition_life Insta: @phoenixrti Stay Kinky! P.S. If you're thinking of entering Kinky Wellness, make sure to learn your BDSM + Kink Basics at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to learn just that. | |||
| 27 Mar 2024 | Bleeding with the Moon | 00:15:23 | |
In the last episode, Jordan D'Nelle introduced us to the four stages of the menstrual cycle. Our conversation briefly touched upon the intriguing concept of bleeding with the Moon and its symbolic significance. And yes, while many Western scientific studies dismiss any correlation between the Moon and menstrual cycles, numerous cultures and ancient traditions, such as ancient Egypt, India, and China, firmly believe in their connection. This is why today's episode is dedicated to exploring each phase of the Moon and its implications for menstrual cycles. Listen now to hear the meanings behind the red, white, pink, and purple moon cycles and what each cycle of the Moon represents concerning our menstrual cycle. #HappyListening Resource Links
Stay Kinky P.S. If you're considering entering Kinky Wellness, learn your BDSM + Kink Basics at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to understand your Partnership, Impact, and Plan and Prep Basics.
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| 08 Apr 2024 | Intro to Sex Magic + Nadia Lune | 00:47:28 | |
In today’s episode, we get magical with Sex Witch Nadia Lune as she explains what sex magic is, where it comes from, and how all of us have the power to use it. Nadia also touches on the concept of asking ourselves for consent, the importance of letting our bodies go unhinged, the benefits of jade eggs, and what the three levels of sex are. Nadia Lune is a Queer, Gender Expansive, Slutty, Sex Witch who teaches Sex Magic to women and vulva beings to guide them to reclaim their inner power and magic through the tool of pleasure. Nadia's work is about teaching you practices that will lead you to have the most incredible and pleasure-filled relationship with yourself as a foundation to then have the most incredible sex, love, and relationships with others! Using the tools of Tantric Sex, Sex Magic, Jade Egg, among others! Contact Information + Professional Links
Stay Kinky P.S. If you're considering entering Kinky Wellness, learn your BDSM + Kink Basics at www.kinkywellness.ca where I make it easy to understand your Partnership, Impact, and Plan and Prep Basics. | |||
| 02 Jan 2024 | Sexual Communication Practices for Better Sexual Engagement + Ancilla of Ancillary Kink Support | 01:14:50 | |
Welcome back Ancilla! Ancilla of Ancillary Kink Support is back to teach us sexual communication practices for better sexual engagement! In this episode, we jump right into it as we delve into…
Ancilla is a writer, journalist, sex-and-kink educator, and author of novels, both erotic and otherwise. As a former sex worker, she has on-ground insight into human sexuality, and as a graduate of communications, she can apply that to create a structured methodology to apply to the sexual. She is pansexual, polyamorous, kinky, and constantly discussing how labels are reductive. Social + Professional Links:
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| 13 Nov 2023 | Sexual Grief: How it Affects Us All + Edy Nathan | 00:52:44 | |
In today’s powerful conversation, we are joined by Edy Nathan to discuss Sexual Grief. Edy is the first clinician to label and coin the term Sexual Grief accurately and in today’s episode, Edy will break down what Sexual Grief is, what the symptoms are, who is affected by this, and what we can do about it, as well as walk us through a self-regulating technique and the differences between the stages and phases of grief. Edy is a LCSWR, AASECT certified sex therapist, hypnotherapist, certified EMDR practitioner, Psychology Today blogger, international speaker, and workshop innovator with more than 20 years of experience. Edy is also the author of "It’s Grief: The Dance of Self-Discovery through Trauma and Loss,” but be sure to stay tuned as her new book on Sexual Grief has yet to be published. With Edy bringing the 'grief' element into focus as it aligns with sexually traumatic events or experiences, her evolutionary project brings insight into the way loss affects the soul and the brain. Edy uses these insights to breathe new meaning into the lives of those stagnated and hijacked by their developmental losses or trauma. #HappyListening
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Stay Kinky P.S. If you're considering entering Kinky Wellness, learn your BDSM + Kink Basics at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to understand your Partnership, Impact, and Plan and Prep Basics. | |||
| 24 Nov 2022 | Is Society Catering to MAPS? *Minor Attracted Persons + Satisfied Kat | 00:29:52 | |
In this sensitive episode, Katrina and I discuss the topic of Minor Attracted Persons, or MAPS, if the term comes off too soft, and how society seems to be serving our young people on a silver platter. * Trigger warning as this topic may be unsuitable for all. * Listen to the end to not miss Katrina's bonus advice on the importance of raising kids with their own personal space. Below are links to the videos we reference and shed light on. https://www.youtube.com/shorts/vKvOXrf1120 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L_432I88eVQ
Katrina Fairhurst is a freelance writer and social media manager who runs her company, Satisfied Kat. She has a passion for writing about sexual wellness and pleasure. Her articles range from sex toy reviews to exploring the many forms of pleasure and sexual confidence. As an out and proud queer woman, she seeks to provide writing and social media management that is inclusive of this perspective.
If you have a movie, topic, or idea you want us to discuss, leave a message below in the comments.
To stay up to date, follow us on Instagram! The Partition Katrina Fairhurst Insta: @thepartition.life Insta: @_satisfiedkat
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| 28 Nov 2022 | What is Erotic Intelligence? | 00:13:39 | |
What is Erotic Intelligence? Esther Perel answers that question in this week's episode. Esther Perel is a world-renowned physiologist and relationship therapist who explores the power of "aliveness." Join me as I cover my key takeaways from her Mindvalley Talk "What is Erotic Intelligence?" To stay up to date, follow me on Instagram! @thepartition.life If you're new here or to the BDSM scene, check out my e-learning video, "BDSM Basics," at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to learn the basics of BDSM. Stay kinky!
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| 01 Feb 2024 | Embrace the Discomfort of Positive Transformation | 00:17:03 | |
In this episode, I let you in on what I’ve been up to, what’s on my mind, and what’s coming on. Listen now to hear…
#HappyListening
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Stay Kinky P.S. If you're considering entering Kinky Wellness, learn your BDSM + Kink Basics at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to understand your Partnership, Impact, and Plan and Prep Basics.
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| 20 Nov 2023 | Healing Through Magic Mushrooms + Professor X | 00:37:13 | |
In today’s episode, Professor X and I will discuss the power of healing through psilocybin, also known as Magic Mushrooms. Professor X is a military veteran with an exceptional service record and a trailblazing business mind. He is the founder of DreamPeach™, a pioneering sexual wellness company, and PeachPaper Co.™, a premium all-organic rolling paper venture. Profession X is about to make waves as a self-published author, as he is leading the discussion on mental health and the psilocybin revolution. Personally, psilocybin has been a huge factor in my own health recovery, so I’m excited to share this episode now! #HappyListening Contact Information + Professional Links
Stay Kinky P.S. If you're considering entering Kinky Wellness, learn your BDSM + Kink Basics at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to understand your Partnership, Impact, and Plan and Prep Basics. | |||
| 31 Jul 2023 | Endometriosis: What It Is & What It Isn’t + Venus Libido | 00:31:05 | |
Did you know that endometriosis is more than just a painful period? This is why we welcome Venus Libido to the show to explain further what endometriosis is, what it isn't, and how to improve living with it. Venus is a qualified sex educator, sex and relationships coach and training clinical sexologist and relationships therapist. For the last three years, Venus has been working in the field of sex education, sex toys and pleasure, endometriosis awareness, and helping others when it comes to sexual wellness, intimacy, dating and relationships. To stay up to date, follow us on Instagram! The Partition Venus Libido Insta: @thepartition_life Insta: @venuslibido Stay Kinky! Links https://www.venuslibido.com/sex-relationship-coaching https://www.venuslibido.com/sex-relationship-blog https://www.bcreator.co.uk/blogosphere-awards-2022/
P.S. If you're considering entering Kinky Wellness, learn your BDSM + Kink Basics at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to understand just that. | |||
| 22 Dec 2022 | 10 Facts You Never Knew About Sex Toys + Satisfied Kat | 00:35:42 | |
Did you know that body-safe lube originated out of love? In this episode, Kat gives us the complete breakdown of that story and leads the conversation with nine other kinky facts. Katrina Fairhurst is a freelance writer and social media manager who runs her company, Satisfied Kat. She has a passion for writing about sexual wellness and pleasure. Her articles range from sex toy reviews to exploring the many forms of pleasure and sexual confidence. As an out and proud queer woman she seeks to provide writing and social media management that is inclusive of this perspective.
To stay up to date, follow us on Instagram! The Partition Katrina Fairhurst Insta: @thepartition_life Insta: @_satisfiedkat
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| 08 May 2023 | ”Accelerate Your Career in Sextech School” + Satisfied Kat | 00:32:10 | |
Today we’re talking about how Kat will be the Sex Tech Queen of 2026 with the help of what she learned in SexTech School. Founded in 2020, SexTech School aims to help people build their own sex tech companies by teaching current industry knowledge you won't find on Google, unique business models, and the importance of building a brand with community engagement. Listen now as Kat breaks down her journey within SexTech school.
If you want to set something up within the sex tech industry, this episode is for you! For more on SexTech School, check out their social below Website: https://www.sextechschool.com/old-home Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sextechschool/
To stay up to date, follow us on Instagram! The Partition Katrina Fairhurst Insta: @thepartition_life Insta: @_satisfiedkat
Stay Kinky! P.S. If you're new here or to the BDSM + Kink scene, check out my e-learning video, "BDSM + Kink Basics," at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to learn the basics. | |||
| 03 Nov 2023 | Bedford vs. Canada: The War on Sex Work | 00:18:49 | |
On Monday, we had the lovely and beautiful Air Force Amy on the show and touched on the differences between legal and non-legal sex work, which motivated me to take a deeper look at Canadian s-x work laws. And although s-x work is “technically” legal in Canada, it seems almost everything to make s-x work safe and secure is illegal. In this episode, I will be breaking down…
Listen now to see why Canada isn’t as progressive as you think when it comes to s-x.
#StayKinky P.S. If you're considering entering Kinky Wellness, learn your BDSM + Kink Basics at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to understand your Partnership, Impact, and Plan and Prep Basics. Links
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| 01 May 2023 | The Truth Behind Our Kinks + Satisfied Kat | 00:41:15 | |
💥Trigger Warning💥 Kat and I stay vulnerable in this week’s episode as we open up about Kinks, past traumas, and why oversimplifying Kinky Sexual Wellness causes more problems than solutions. #stayvunverable
Katrina Fairhurst is a freelance writer and social media manager who runs her company, Satisfied Kat. She has a passion for writing about sexual wellness and pleasure. Her articles range from sex toy reviews to exploring the many forms of pleasure and sexual confidence. As an out and proud queer woman, she seeks to provide writing and social media management that includes this perspective. To stay up to date, follow us on Instagram! The Partition Katrina Fairhurst Insta: @thepartition_life Insta: @_satisfiedkat Stay Kinky! P.S. If you're new here or to the BDSM + Kink scene, check out my e-learning video, "BDSM + Kink Basics," at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to learn the basics. | |||
| 09 Oct 2023 | How to Move from Self-Hate to Self-Love + Dr. Fanny Leboulanger | 00:42:02 | |
Are you someone who is unable to take a compliment? Does looking in the mirror make you feel angry or disgusted? This could be a sign of self-hate, which can show itself in mild, medium, and extreme ways. This is why today we will be joined by Dr. Fanny Leboulanger, who will explain practical steps on how pleasure and sexual wellness can be the fastest way to stop self-hate in its tracks, as well as the importance of "emotional orgasms." Dr. Fanny Leboulanger can be described as a "Lifegasm Fairy Godmother" because, after years of working as a doctor helping women, she decided to follow what was obviously missing: assisting women to reconnect to their pleasure and their Orgasmic Power. Using a combination of ancient wisdom, modern science, a talent to teach and a French sense of humour, Dr. Fanny's mission is to help you reclaim the thriving and fulfilling life you deserve. Dr. Fanny is also the host of the "Your Sexyfied Life" podcast, which you can access using the links below. Contact Information + Professional Links
Stay Kinky P.S. If you're considering entering Kinky Wellness, learn your BDSM + Kink Basics at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to understand your Partnership, Impact, and Plan and Prep Basics. | |||
| 11 Nov 2024 | C-Section Truths: Risks, Recovery, + Unspoken Realities + Jennifer Sharp | 00:42:17 | |
In this episode of the Kinky Wellness podcast, we welcome Jennifer Sharp, a passionate postpartum and pelvic floor specialist who is deeply committed to helping women reclaim their bodies and strength. Fun fact about Jennifer is that she helped me take my very first cold water plunge! But today, she's here to dive into the hot topic of C-sections. Having gone through the experience herself, Jennifer is ready to break it all down—sharing her expert insights on everything from common misconceptions to eye-opening statistics that might raise some concern. Jennifer also offers valuable tips on how to properly care for a C-section scar, why Kegels aren’t always the best approach for everyone, and how the body is incredibly interconnected—especially when it comes to recovery. Tune in now for an eye-opening, supportive conversation.
Whether you're newly postpartum or years into motherhood, Jennifer is here to support you on your journey to feeling strong, confident, and pain-free. She knows firsthand the toll that pregnancy, childbirth, and life can take on your body—particularly your core and pelvic floor. That’s why she’s created specialized rehab programs that address exactly what you're going through, whether it’s healing diastasis recti, recovering post-C-section, managing pelvic floor dysfunction, or rebuilding your strength to thrive in your abundant body. Contact to learn more. Contact Links Stay Kinky! P.S. Learn your Kinky Wellness Basics at www.kinkywellness.ca | |||
| 10 Jan 2024 | Vanilla is still Kinky | 00:17:05 | |
It's funny how often I run into someone who says something like "I'm definitely not into BDSM and Kink, those things aren't for me”, only to be told that those “vanilla” play practices they are currently doing are still soft forms of BDSM and Kink. Remember! Don’t let anyone make you believe that just because you like the lighter, softer, more “vanilla-ly” side of things – doesn’t make you any less of a Kinkster. Listen now to hear why I believe the term “Vanilla” has created a false “us versus them” narrative within the community. Regardless if you're on the softer or the harder side of BDSM + Kink, there is space for anyone who is partaking ethically and consentingly. #HappyListening 🔴UPCOMING EVENTS🔴 ✨Beyond the Bedroom: A Kinky Wellness Workshop + Seminar✨
✨Kinky Wellness Summit: Redesign Your Sex Life In One Weekend✨
Stay Kinky P.S. If you're considering entering Kinky Wellness, learn your BDSM + Kink Basics at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to understand your Partnership, Impact, and Plan and Prep Basics. | |||
| 01 Dec 2022 | Eyes Wide Shut Review + Satisfied Kat | 00:28:33 | |
#EyesWideShut In this episode, Katrina and I review the 1999 film Eyes Wide Shut, starring Tom Cruise and Nicole Kidman. We discuss what we did and didn't like about the movie's portrayal of sex, how the woman who had sex were treated, the mask scene that affected us the most, and our key relationship takeaway from the film. Check out the trailer! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FBrbQSDfh7Q Katrina Fairhurst is a freelance writer and social media manager who runs her company, Satisfied Kat. She has a passion for writing about sexual wellness and pleasure. Her articles range from sex toy reviews to exploring the many forms of pleasure and sexual confidence. As an out and proud queer woman she seeks to provide writing and social media management that is inclusive of this perspective. If you have a movie or topic you want us to discuss, leave a message below in the comments. To stay up to date, follow us on Instagram! The Partition Katrina Fairhurst Insta: @thepartition.life Insta: @_satisfiedkat
Stay kinky! | |||
| 11 Oct 2023 | The 3rd Basic Truth of Kinky Wellness | 00:17:52 | |
To my dedicated listeners, this episode is for you. Be the first to listen to the 3rd basic truth of Kinky Wellness. You know truths 1 and 2, but can you guess the 3rd? P.S. I'm super excited about this weekend! If you're in the GTA area and haven't bought your Toronto Taboo Show tickets! What are you waiting for? Buy your tickets now and see me speak in the Kinky Theatre using the links below. Get your kinky needs and education under one roof, all while having a blast! Toronto Taboo Show Ticket Links:
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Stay Kinky P.S. If you're thinking of entering Kinky Wellness, make sure to learn your BDSM + Kink Basics at www.thepartition.life, where I make it easy to learn your Partnership, Impact, and Plan and Prep Basics. | |||
| 12 Jan 2023 | How to Build a Sex Room + Satisfied Kat | 00:36:33 | |
Have you seen Netflix’s new show “How to Build a Sex Room?” Well, we did! Join us as we discuss what we have to say about it and what our dream sex rooms would look like! Katrina Fairhurst is a freelance writer and social media manager who runs her company, Satisfied Kat. She has a passion for writing about sexual wellness and pleasure. Her articles range from sex toy reviews to exploring the many forms of pleasure and sexual confidence. As an out and proud queer woman she seeks to provide writing and social media management that is inclusive of this perspective.
To stay up to date, follow us on Instagram! The Partition Katrina Fairhurst Insta: @thepartition_life Insta: @_satisfiedkat
Stay Kinky! | |||
| 10 Jul 2024 | Supplements to Enhance Your Sexual Health | 00:14:30 | |
In this episode of The Partition Podcast, we explore a range of natural supplements considered to boost sexual health and address issues such as male and female infertility, low libido, cell damage, erectile dysfunction, and menopause relief. Listen now to hear the restorative effects of:
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Kinky Wellness Article: https://torontosun.com/life/sex-files/sex-files-kinky-wellness-might-be-exactly-what-you-need
Stay Kinky P.S. Interested in Kinky Wellness? Learn your basics at www.kinkywellness.ca, where I make it easy to understand your Partnership, Impact, and Plan and Prep Basics.
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