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| 08 Dec 2024 | #58 Mark's Affair Story Pt. 2 - Luke Shillings | 00:47:11 | |
This Week on The Other Woman and The Wife: Ann Marie and Luke Shillings continue unraveling the gripping story of infidelity shared by Tim Teddor, writing under the alias "Mark." In Part 2, we uncover the twists and turns of Mark’s journey in the aftermath of his affair and divorce, exploring how his decisions shaped the years that followed. If you haven’t listened to Part 1 episode #54 yet, catch up here: Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BBxKxAaErZc&list=PLT72S-uJEtmDtVZ2xI4FnVOWGE9fXuDaZ&index=4 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/5QrOvLH2Gpj4y4xwTjOGUU?si=dlrhd4uOREq4yW2GIbkQjg Apple Music: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/54-marks-affair-story-pt-1-luke-shillings/id1685932363?i=1000676389597 Don’t miss this raw conclusion to a story that’s both deeply personal and universally resonant. For Tim’s full story and more visit his website https://www.affairhealing.com/mark-affair-story.html SUBMIT YOUR OWN STORY https://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/submit ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast: HOW WE CAN HELP Join the Other Women Community OUR LINKS Website: https://towtw.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife GUEST LINKS Website: www.lifecoachluke.com Facebook: www.facebook.com/mylifecoachluke Instagram: www.instagram.com/mylifecoachluke LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/mylifecoachluke TikTok: @mylifecoachluke Discovery Call: www.lifecoachluke.com/booking-calendar/discovery-call Podcast: www.lifecoachluke.com/podcast Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/24Mxm7BItKT4xAz2Psfyh8?si=7dcc4d546d984c41 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/after-the-affair/id1648061200 | |||
| 17 Nov 2024 | #55 Ignorance is Bliss - Luke Shillings | 00:54:00 | |
In this week's episode Chelsea, Luke, & Ann Marie explore a story submitted to them by a follower. The writer reveals the confusing and emotional complexities of infidelity. Once a harsh critic of affairs, she found herself involved in one after 23 years of a stable but unfulfilling marriage. A connection with a coworker, her direct report, sparked an intense, secret relationship that has lasted for over a year, even though her husband now knows about it and wants to repair their marriage. Now, with a greater empathy for those in similar situations, she faces the painful choice between duty and fulfillment. Topics:
SUBMIT YOUR OWN STORY https://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/submit ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast: HOW WE CAN HELP Join the Other Women Community OUR LINKS Website: theotherwomanandthewife.com TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/ GUEST LINKS Website: www.lifecoachluke.com Facebook: www.facebook.com/mylifecoachluke Instagram: www.instagram.com/mylifecoachluke LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/mylifecoachluke TikTok: @mylifecoachluke Discovery Call: www.lifecoachluke.com/booking-calendar/discovery-call Podcast: www.lifecoachluke.com/podcast Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/24Mxm7BItKT4xAz2Psfyh8?si=7dcc4d546d984c41 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/after-the-affair/id1648061200 | |||
| 30 Jul 2023 | #14 Community, Throuple & Monogamy | 014 | 00:31:33 | |
This is a special episode where we talk about insider topics from the community, throuple relationships and models to lasting relationships. Topics:
ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast: Join the Other Women Community Apply for Affair Recovery Coaching OUR LINKS: Website: theotherwomanandthewife.com | |||
| 06 Oct 2024 | #49 Finding Home Outside My Marriage | 00:54:25 | |
In this episode, Chelsea interviews Lindsey, who shares her deeply personal experience with infidelity. She discusses how her life changed when she realized she had found safety and a sense of “home” with someone who wasn’t her husband. Lindsey opens up about the emotional struggles of divorce and what it took to rebuild her life with her affair partner. A story of vulnerability and transformation, Lindsey’s journey sheds light on finding oneself amid heartache. SUBMIT YOUR OWN STORY https://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/submit ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast: HOW WE CAN HELP Join the Other Women Community OUR LINKS Website: theotherwomanandthewife.com TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife Guest Links - Lindsey's Work Explore Lindsey's Website: The Resource Follow Lindsey on Instagram: Lindsey.Kasten on IG Lindsey's Blog: PinzyDoesBrave | |||
| 10 Sep 2023 | #20 How To Forgive Yourself After the Affair | 00:24:13 | |
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| 01 Oct 2023 | #23 How Money Influences your Relationship & Independence w/ Julie | 00:34:51 | |
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| 28 May 2023 | #005 Betrayed Wife Shares Her Story on Being Cheated On w/ Nicole & Sarah | 00:38:30 | |
ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast: Join the Other Women Community Apply for Affair Recovery Coaching OUR LINKS Website: theotherwomanandthewife.com | |||
| 20 Aug 2023 | #17 Leaving Unhappy Marriage For Her Best Friend w/ Kristin | 00:34:23 | |
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| 21 Jan 2024 | #34 On The Other Side Of Infidelity w/ Melanie | 00:48:13 | |
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| 26 May 2024 | #43 Is Your Affair a Painkiller or a Refuge? | 01:01:14 | |
In this week's episode, Chelsea and Ann Marie explore the complex motivations behind infidelity by defining and distinguishing between "painkiller" and "refuge" affairs. By facing past traumas and recognizing unhealthy patterns, they discuss how addressing the root causes of infidelity can lead to healthier, more fulfilling relationships. Join us for an insightful discussion on the nuanced reasons behind why people seek affairs and how to move forward in a constructive way. ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast: HOW WE CAN HELP Join the Other Women Community OUR LINKS Website: theotherwomanandthewife.com | |||
| 05 Nov 2023 | #27 Former Pastor got Accused of Cheating w/ Dave Capozzi | 00:40:16 | |
Dave Capozzi is a former evangelical pastor turned teacher. Dave shares his personal experiences with infidelity, including unexpected proposals and accusations. Chelsea and Dave explore deconstruction, the challenges of marriage within the confines of religion, and the importance of trauma-informed care. Topics
Dave's links: https://www.tiktok.com/@davecapozzi ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast: HOW WE CAN HELP Join the Other Women Community Apply for Affair Recovery Coaching OUR LINKS Website: theotherwomanandthewife.com | |||
| 02 Jul 2023 | #010 How to NOT Fall Out of Love in your Relationship / Affair | 00:26:26 | |
How can you prevent falling out of love in your relationship? Chelsea shares her fear of meeting another man, losing self-control and the potential of entering a new affair. Falling out of love with her husband and how to prevent it. She discusses how to sustain a healthy relationship with her partner & the mindset involved to be successful in a long-term marriage. Topics:
ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast: HOW WE CAN HELP Join the Other Women Community Apply for Affair Recovery Coaching OUR LINKS Website: theotherwomanandthewife.com | |||
| 11 Jun 2023 | #007 Why Do Men Cheat? | 00:29:04 | |
Do men cheat because they don't have the ability to be honest? Because they have tons of unmet needs, wants and desires that they don't know how to communicate to their spouse? Or could it just be that they like to hurt people? In this episode I sit down with Kevin to discuss male infidelity. We talk about:
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| 30 Apr 2023 | #001 Betrayed Wife Falls in Love with Someone Other Than Husband w/ Veronica | 00:35:37 | |
Veronica was the betrayed wife and the other woman. I wanted to understand what went through her mind, how she dealt with falling in love with someone who wasn't her husband, and get her perspective now that this is all over. She is also a child abuse survive and we delve into the topic of parenting and what it means to be a good mom as a single parent. ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast: HOW WE CAN HELP Join the Other Women Community Apply for Affair Recovery Coaching OUR LINKS Website: theotherwomanandthewife.com TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife Veronica's Links | |||
| 05 May 2024 | #40 How The 20 Year Affair with My Brother in Law Worked Out | 01:00:38 | |
Episode Description: This week Chelsea is joined in the studio with a special guest, Grace. They delve into the intricate layers of Grace's life, where she candidly shares her journey through a decades-spanning marriage. Discover the profound impact of infidelity on Grace's life, as she opens up about her 20-year affair with her brother-in-law, unraveling the tangled web of emotions, guilt, and longing. In this episode, we confront the uncomfortable truths of marital discord, the allure of forbidden love, and the difficult journey toward reclaiming one's sense of self. We will navigate the depths of Grace's experiences, offering a counterweight to conventional narratives surrounding infidelity and providing a beacon of hope for those grappling with similar struggles. ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast: HOW WE CAN HELP Join the Other Women Community OUR LINKS Website: theotherwomanandthewife.com | |||
| 16 Jun 2024 | #46 To Tell Or Not To Tell: Affair Disclosure v. Discovery | 01:00:36 | |
In this week’s episode, Chelsea and Ann Marie delve into the topic of disclosing your affair verses waiting for it to be discovered. The discussion weighs the merits of voluntary disclosure against the potential trauma of a partner finding out about the affair independently. Topics:
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| 18 Jun 2023 | #008 Can Women Fall PREY to Cheating? w/ Luna | 00:29:23 | |
Did you ever connect infidelity with women's empowerment? Luna delves deep into the complexities of infidelity and its connection to women's empowerment. Breaking societal norms, Luna challenges the notion that women who seek satisfaction outside their committed relationships are selfish, shedding light on the interplay between infidelity, patriarchy, and women's empowerment. Drawing from her personal experience, Luna explores the nature versus nurture debate, discussing how individuals can become unwitting prey to affair Topics:
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| 27 Aug 2023 | #18 Lessons of 19 YEARS in an Affair w / Julie | 00:37:37 | |
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ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast: HOW WE CAN HELP Join the Other Women Community Apply for Affair Recovery Coaching OUR LINKS: Website: theotherwomanandthewife.com | |||
| 13 Aug 2023 | #16 Should You Tell His Wife About The Affair? | 00:19:07 | |
ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast: HOW WE CAN HELP Join the Other Women Community Apply for Affair Recovery Coaching OUR LINKS: Website: theotherwomanandthewife.com | |||
| 19 May 2024 | #42 The Affair That Resulted In a Decade-Long Marriage. | 01:17:11 | |
In this weeks very special episode we are joined on the podcast by non other than Chelsea's husband, Stan. Join them as they discuss the intricate terrain of love, resilience, and personal growth after partaking in an affair. From Stan's immigrant roots to the complexities of their relationship dynamics, they offer raw honesty and shared wisdom, illuminating the transformative power of commitment amidst adversity. Through candid reflections on overcoming challenges, rebuilding trust, and the importance of therapy, they inspire listeners with their tale of redemption and renewal. ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast: HOW WE CAN HELP Join the Other Women Community OUR LINKS Website: theotherwomanandthewife.com | |||
| 29 Sep 2024 | #48 Welcoming Luke Shillings | 00:59:39 | |
We’re back from summer break, and we have some exciting news! Joining our team here this season at The Other Woman and The Wife is a special guest Luke Shillings. Luke is stepping in to help us expand our reach to not just include women but men as well as we grow and develop The Other Man and The Mister community. In this episode, we explore complex topics surrounding a men’s community, relationships, and the delicate issue of infidelity. Together, we dive deep into the emotional landscapes that often go undiscussed. Whether you’re navigating these challenges yourself or simply curious, this conversation is sure to resonate. Tune in for fresh insights, a powerful new perspectives, and a preview of what’s to come this season! SUBMIT YOUR OWN STORY https://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/submit ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast: HOW WE CAN HELP Join the Other Women Community OUR LINKS Website: theotherwomanandthewife.com | |||
| 25 Feb 2024 | #35 From Trolling to Dialogue: A Betrayed Spouse Shares His Journey | 01:00:03 | |
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| 24 Nov 2024 | #56 What Makes People Leave Their Marriage For An Affair? - Carolina Vilalva | 00:55:33 | |
This week Chelsea sits down with Carolina Vilalva. Carolina is a certified Executive and Life Coach from Columbia University with over 11 years of experience specializing in life transitions for couples, executives, teenagers, and parents. She holds a B.A. in Clinical Psychology and International Relations from Tufts University and a Master’s in International Education. After commenting on an Instagram post asking, “What makes somebody leave their marriage for the affair?” Carolina was overwhelmed by the response, inspiring her to continue to connect with other people who had found themselves in similar situations involving infidelity. Topics:
SUBMIT YOUR OWN STORY https://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/submit ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast: HOW WE CAN HELP Join the Other Women Community OUR LINKS Website: theotherwomanandthewife.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/ | |||
| 25 Jun 2023 | #009 How Does Guilt & Shame Manifest in an Affair? w/ Luna | 00:17:44 | |
Luna gets to ask Chelsea burning questions on infidelity.
ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast: HOW WE CAN HELP Join the Other Women Community Apply for Affair Recovery Coaching OUR LINKS Website: theotherwomanandthewife.com | |||
| 16 Jul 2023 | #12 When Will He Leave His Wife? Can You Trust Him? | 00:28:45 | |
How do you know your affair partner will leave his wife? Can you even trust your AP? How does he follow up on his word? In this episode I share how it all went down with me and Stan, how women can make their own decisions and how that translates into the dating scene. Topics:
ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast: HOW WE HELP Join the Other Women Community Apply for Affair Recovery Coaching OUR LINKS Website: theotherwomanandthewife.com | |||
| 29 Oct 2023 | #26 Exploring the Intersection of Religion and Infidelity w/ Bible School Black Sheep | 00:57:13 | |
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| 07 Apr 2024 | #36 Chelsea Jubilee Reaction | 00:33:58 | |
Chelsea reacts to her own guest appearance on an episode of Jubilee centered around infidelity. Join Chelsea as she pulls back the curtain on this experience and talks about what it was really like on this set. ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast: HOW WE CAN HELP Join the Other Women Community OUR LINKS Website: theotherwomanandthewife.com | |||
| 10 Nov 2024 | #54 Mark's Affair Story Pt. 1 - Luke Shillings | 01:04:58 | |
Join Chelsea, Luke Shillings, and Ann Marie as they dive into a gripping story of infidelity by Tim Teddor, writing under the alias Mark. Tim recounts his affair, the struggle to choose between his marriage and his affair partner. Tune in for a raw discussion on the complexities of love, choice, and consequence—and look out for Part 2, where we learn how Mark’s journey unfolds in the years that follow. For Tim’s full story and more visit his website https://www.affairhealing.com/mark-affair-story.html SUBMIT YOUR OWN STORY https://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/submit ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast: HOW WE CAN HELP Join the Other Women Community OUR LINKS Website: theotherwomanandthewife.com TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife IG: https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/ LUKE SHILLING'S LINKS: Website: www.lifecoachluke.com Facebook: www.facebook.com/mylifecoachluke Instagram: www.instagram.com/mylifecoachluke LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/mylifecoachluke TikTok: @mylifecoachluke Discovery Call: www.lifecoachluke.com/booking-calendar/discovery-call Podcast: www.lifecoachluke.com/podcast Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/24Mxm7BItKT4xAz2Psfyh8?si=7dcc4d546d984c41 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/after-the-affair/id1648061200 | |||
| 14 May 2023 | #003 Confronting Infidelity in Marriage w/ Greg | 00:29:52 | |
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| 03 Sep 2023 | #19 How to Reinvent Yourself After Divorce w/ Marissa Baker | 00:25:09 | |
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| 21 May 2023 | #004 Q&A How To End the Affair Without Breaking My Husband? | 00:35:59 | |
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| 19 Nov 2023 | #29 Growing Up in a Toxic Family Environment w/ Kaity | 00:51:37 | |
Get 10% off your first month of talk-therapy with BetterHelp using the link: https://betterhelp.com/theotherwoman Description: Katie shares her story of growing up in dysfunctional families, dealing with emotionally unstable parents, and the trauma these experiences have inflicted on her. Katie extensively shares her childhood experiences, detailing how her parents' unhappy marriage and subsequent divorce shaped her. Katie discusses the lessons she's drawn from these experiences, as well as her efforts to ensure these patterns don't repeat in her own family and relationships. Topics:
ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast: HOW WE CAN HELP Join the Other Women Community Apply for Affair Recovery Coaching OUR LINKS Website: theotherwomanandthewife.com | |||
| 22 Dec 2024 | #60 The Affair That Rekindled Her Soul - Luke Shilling's | 00:52:22 | |
This week on The Other Woman & The Wife, Chelsea and Ann Marie are once again joined in the studio by Luke Shillings. Together they retell and explore the emotional story of a woman torn between her role as wife and mother to her family and a rekindled connection with a man from her past. As relationship coaches, they delve into the roots of infidelity, unresolved trauma, and finding constructive paths forward when in complicated relationships. Whether you’re seeking understanding or guidance, this episode offers a compassionate look at the nuances of love, betrayal, and self-discovery. SUBMIT YOUR OWN STORY https://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/submit ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast: HOW WE CAN HELP Join the Other Women Community OUR LINKS Website: https://towtw.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife GUEST LINKS Website: www.lifecoachluke.com Facebook: www.facebook.com/mylifecoachluke Instagram: www.instagram.com/mylifecoachluke LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/mylifecoachluke TikTok: @mylifecoachluke Discovery Call: www.lifecoachluke.com/booking-calendar/discovery-call Podcast: www.lifecoachluke.com/podcast Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/24Mxm7BItKT4xAz2Psfyh8?si=7dcc4d546d984c41 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/after-the-affair/id1648061200 | |||
| 02 Jun 2024 | #44 Gangster Gate and Passion Driven Work | 01:11:07 | |
In this weeks episode, Chelsea and Ann Marie delve into "Gangster Gate," where a group of women doxed members of Chelsea's online community. They explore the dramatic events and their fallout. Chelsea shares her experience and the valuable lessons learned from this challenging situation. They also discuss the struggles and triumphs of building a controversial business from scratch, driven by passion and purpose, despite facing skepticism and opposition. ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast: HOW WE CAN HELP Join the Other Women Community OUR LINKS Website: theotherwomanandthewife.com | |||
| 12 Nov 2023 | #28 From Shame to Growth: Therapist Talks Infidelity w/ Romi Cumes | 00:39:43 | |
Get 10% off your first month of talk-therapy with BetterHelp using the link: https://betterhelp.com/theotherwoman Description: Romi Cumes is a leading professional in somatic and relational psychotherapy, bodywork, yoga instruction, and intuitive healing. She supports people to explore the profound relationship between somatic (body-centered) awareness, inner-healing and personal growth. In this episode Romi shares her professional & personal opinion on the topic of infidelity covering the following topics: Topics:
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| 04 Jun 2023 | #006 Can you Prevent Affairs? | 00:24:22 | |
Can you prevent infidelity in a marriage? Chelsea discusses her stand point on eradicating affairs in society and shares her struggles in moving forward with her affair partner. Topics discussed:
ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast HOW TO GET HELP Join the Other Women Community Apply for Affair Recovery Coaching OUR LINKS Alternative titles (for SEO) Can you prevent affairs? Can you stop affairs from happening? Are affairs inevitable in society? | |||
| 10 Dec 2023 | #31 Why He Won't Leave Her w/ Minister Jamie | 00:31:40 | |
In this episode of The Other Woman and a Wife, host Chelsea is joined by minister Jamie to discuss the topic of infidelity and why women often find themselves in competition with one another. They explore how societal expectations and upbringing shape women's perception of themselves in relation to men, the importance of passion in relationships, and the complexities of reconciling after infidelity. Jamie shares valuable insights on love, the difference between being in love with the idea of a person versus the actual person, and the role of circumstances in changing individuals. Jamie's links https://www.tiktok.com/@ministerjamie2 http://ministerjamie.weebly.com/ ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast: HOW WE CAN HELP Join the Other Women Community OUR LINKS Website: theotherwomanandthewife.com | |||
| 23 Jun 2024 | #47 The Temptation To Cheat Again | 00:59:23 | |
How does a woman who is self described as "the most unlikely candidate to cheat" find herself in an affair? An affair that leaves her reeling and conflicted with a temptation to cheat again no less. Join Chelsea and Ann Marie as they candidly share their reactions, thoughts, and insights about this very situation. If you would like to entrust us with your own story and have it shared on the podcast please leave it in the comments or better yet visit the link below and submit it on our website. SUBMIT YOUR OWN STORY https://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/submit ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast: HOW WE CAN HELP Join the Other Women Community OUR LINKS Website: theotherwomanandthewife.com | |||
| 26 Jan 2025 | #63 Therapy vs. Coaching: Healing After Infidelity - Carolina Vilalva | 00:23:28 | |
In this illuminating episode, Chelsea sits down with Carolina Vilalva, a licensed clinical therapist joining The Other Woman and The Wife coaching team. They explore the crucial differences between therapy and coaching, helping you understand which path might be right for your healing journey after infidelity. Whether you're considering professional support or looking to make a change in your current therapeutic relationship, this episode provides valuable insights to guide your decision-making process. SUBMIT YOUR OWN STORY https://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/submit ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast: HOW WE CAN HELP Join the Other Women Community OUR LINKS GUEST BIO Website: https://towtw.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife GUEST BIO Carolina is a certified Executive and Life Coach from Columbia University with over 11 years of experience specializing in life transitions for couples, executives, teenagers, and parents. She holds a B.A. in Clinical Psychology and International Relations from Tufts University and a Master’s in International Education. Her training includes EFT, IOPT, DISC assessments, and she is pursuing licensure in Neurofeedback. A Third Culture Kid and part of a blended multicultural family, she has lived on four continents and is currently based in Maputo, Mozambique, where her husband serves as a diplomat. | |||
| 19 Jan 2025 | #62 Debunking Betrayal Stereotypes - Luke Shillings | 00:51:26 | |
Chelsea and returning guest Luke Shillings bring their personal experiences to challenge common stereotypes about infidelity. As a former other woman and betrayed spouse respectively, they examine which stereotypes rang true, which missed the mark, and whether these labels help or hurt healing. A raw, honest conversation about moving beyond societal assumptions to find understanding. Topics:
SUBMIT YOUR OWN STORY https://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/submit ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast: HOW WE CAN HELP Join the Other Women Community OUR LINKS Website: https://towtw.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife GUEST LINKS Website: www.lifecoachluke.com Facebook: www.facebook.com/mylifecoachluke Instagram: www.instagram.com/mylifecoachluke LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/mylifecoachluke TikTok: @mylifecoachluke Discovery Call: www.lifecoachluke.com/booking-calendar/discovery-call Podcast: www.lifecoachluke.com/podcast Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/24Mxm7BItKT4xAz2Psfyh8?si=7dcc4d546d984c41 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/after-the-affair/id1648061200 | |||
| 14 Apr 2024 | #37 Am I Giving Him an Ultimatum or Setting a Boundary? | 00:37:33 | |
In this weeks episode join us for a thought-provoking exploration of boundaries, self-care, and the profound impact they have on the fabric of our relationships. Get ready to embark on a journey of empowerment and connection as we navigate the intricate terrain of setting healthy boundaries. Topics:
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| 14 Jan 2024 | #33 Twin Flames, Validation & Real Love w/ Kristin | 00:48:55 | |
Chelsea & Kristin discuss infidelity, the essence of love, societal expectations of relationships, and the concept of soulmates or twin flames. Rather than sticking to societal norms, they emphasize the paramount significance of cultivating self-love, seeking internal validation and nurturing genuine self-understanding. They explore the idea that one's relationship with oneself sets the foundation for their relationships with others. ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast: HOW WE CAN HELP Join the Other Women Community OUR LINKS Website: theotherwomanandthewife.com | |||
| 12 May 2024 | #41 Whose Happiness Comes First – Mothers or Children? | 01:19:24 | |
In this thought-provoking episode, Chelsea and Ann Marie delve deep into the often overlooked aspect of motherhood: the mother's own happiness and well-being. Join us as we explore the tendency for mothers to prioritize their children's experiences over their own, the societal expectations placed upon mothers, and the impact of relationships, like marriage, on a woman's happiness. Join us as we celebrate the multifaceted journey of motherhood, encouraging mothers everywhere to nurture their own happiness as they nurture their children. Tune in for an empowering and enlightening conversation. ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast: HOW WE CAN HELP Join the Other Women Community OUR LINKS Website: theotherwomanandthewife.com | |||
| 27 Oct 2024 | #52 Dangerous Liaisons | 00:56:25 | |
This week, Chelsea interviews Mama Coll, who opens up about her experience as “the other woman” and the extreme harassment she faced from her affair partner’s spouse. From online stalking to restraining orders, Mama Coll shares her story and how she found her voice as an advocate. With a large TikTok following, she first connected with The Other Woman & The Wife as a passionate supporter in the comments. Join us for an eye-opening conversation about infidelity and resilience. SUBMIT YOUR OWN STORY https://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/submit ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast: HOW WE CAN HELP Join the Other Women Community OUR LINKS Website: theotherwomanandthewife.com TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife GUESTS LINKS TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@collsclosetofcomfort52?_t=8qn7ZebMqxq&_r=1 Youtube: https://youtube.com/@mama-colls-closet52?si=lefLuUQJ6QWIpcff | |||
| 17 Sep 2023 | #21 Leaving Husband for Best Friend w/ Suzi | 00:43:07 | |
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Schedule your 15min free call here ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast: HOW WE CAN HELP Join the Other Women Community Apply for Affair Recovery Coaching OUR LINKS: Website: theotherwomanandthewife.com | |||
| 20 Oct 2024 | #51 From Infidelity to Empowerment: Forging New Communities for Men and Women | 00:57:22 | |
In this week's episode, Chelsea passes the hosting baton to Luke Shillings, who turns the spotlight on her journey in building a thriving women's community and coaching program. Together, they dive deep into the recent launch of a men's community in August, sharing the inspiration behind it and their vision for its future. Join them as they explore the evolution of these supportive spaces and the exciting expansion of their mission. SUBMIT YOUR OWN STORY https://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/submit ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast: HOW WE CAN HELP Join the Other Women Community OUR LINKS Website: theotherwomanandthewife.com TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife GUEST LINKS Website: www.lifecoachluke.com Facebook: www.facebook.com/mylifecoachluke Instagram: www.instagram.com/mylifecoachluke LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/mylifecoachluke TikTok: @mylifecoachluke Discovery Call: www.lifecoachluke.com/booking-calendar/discovery-call Podcast: www.lifecoachluke.com/podcast Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/24Mxm7BItKT4xAz2Psfyh8?si=7dcc4d546d984c41 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/after-the-affair/id1648061200 | |||
| 07 Jan 2024 | #32 Male Emotional Affair Gone Wrong w/ Marty | 00:41:37 | |
Marty shares his complex journey about an emotional affair he had while being married for 20 years. He details his struggle with balancing his love for his wife and the feelings for his affair partner, while also dealing with personal growth and realization. ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast: HOW WE CAN HELP Join the Other Women Community OUR LINKS Website: theotherwomanandthewife.com | |||
| 15 Dec 2024 | #59 Empower, Transform, Connect: Inside Our Upcoming Puerto Vallarta Retreat | 00:55:00 | |
This week on The Other Woman & The Wife, Chelsea and Ann Marie welcome Julie, the Chief of Knowledge at TOW&TW, to the studio. Julie has been working tirelessly to create an all-inclusive, transformative retreat for women in Puerto Vallarta, Mexico. This retreat is designed to foster connection, empowerment, and personal growth in a supportive and inspiring environment. If you've ever wanted to meet Chelsea and our team while building lifelong friendships with like-minded women, this is your opportunity! Don’t miss the chance to join this life-changing experience. Visit our website or click the link to sign up: https://towtw.com/retreats. Give yourself the gift of transformation—you won’t regret it! Walk away feeling empowered, inspired, and connected like never before. JOIN OUR RETREAT SUBMIT YOUR OWN STORY JOIN OUR RETREAT https://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/submit ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast: HOW WE CAN HELP Join the Other Women Community OUR LINKS Website: https://towtw.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/ | |||
| 21 Apr 2024 | #38 Does The World Change or Does How You View The World Change? | 00:45:45 | |
In this week's episode, Chelsea & Ann Marie embark on an exploration of how marriage, infidelity, motherhood and many other factors transformed the way they viewed the world. Dispelling common misconceptions along the way, they bravely share their experiences of embracing new mindsets. As they reflect on the transformative power of flexibility over rigidity, listeners are invited to join them on a candid and thought-provoking journey. ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast: HOW WE CAN HELP Join the Other Women Community OUR LINKS Website: theotherwomanandthewife.com TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife | |||
| 08 Oct 2023 | #24 Q&A: Did he use me? Is he having Sex with his wife? | 00:26:57 | |
ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast: HOW WE CAN HELP Join the Other Women Community Apply for Affair Recovery Coaching OUR LINKS: Website: theotherwomanandthewife.com | |||
| 23 Jul 2023 | #13 How No Contact Hurts & Messes Up Your Life | 00:24:25 | |
How do you handle no contact? Resist the urge to text him.. To think about him.. Going through the whole process unscathed. In this episode I share my thoughts on the process and how other women in the community are handling their experience ghosting someone they love. I explore the male and female perspective, how no contact can be seen as a form of abuse and how you can ease going through the process by showing up for yourself. We also talk about boundaries and cultivating awareness so, let's dive in! Topics:
ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast: HOW WE HELP Join the Other Women Community Apply for Affair Recovery Coaching OUR LINKS Website: theotherwomanandthewife.com | |||
| 06 Aug 2023 | #15 Who To Tell About Your Affair? | 00:22:18 | |
ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast: HOW WE CAN HELP Join the Other Women Community Apply for Affair Recovery Coaching OUR LINKS: Website: theotherwomanandthewife.com | |||
| 09 Jul 2023 | #11 Story time: Widow Grieves Death of Affair Partner | 00:25:46 | |
How do you experience an affair as a widow? How does it feel to grieve the death of your affair partner? In this episode I share the story of 76 year young "Roxy", how she met her affair partner after her husband passed away and my thoughts on her experience. Thank you "Roxy" for sharing your story with me. ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast: HOW WE CAN HELP Join the Other Women Community Apply for Affair Recovery Coaching OUR LINKS Website: theotherwomanandthewife.com | |||
| 24 Sep 2023 | #22 Betrayed Wife Stays in Marriage After Affair w/ Kayti | 01:02:40 | |
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Schedule your 15min free call here ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast: HOW WE CAN HELP Join the Other Women Community Apply for Affair Recovery Coaching OUR LINKS: Website: theotherwomanandthewife.com | |||
| 22 Oct 2023 | #25 From Resentment to Healing: How a Betrayed Husband Overcame the Pain of Infidelity w/ Luke Shillings | 01:06:27 | |
Luke is relationship coach specialised in infidelity recovery. In his previous marriage he got cheated on by his wife. He now uses that experience to help the betrayer and betrayed parties to heal from their affairs. This episode is packed with personal stories and insights. Topics:
Luke's links: https://www.lifecoachluke.com/ ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast: HOW WE CAN HELP Join the Other Women Community Apply for Affair Recovery Coaching OUR LINKS Website: theotherwomanandthewife.com | |||
| 12 Jan 2025 | #61 Revisiting Hard Truths a Q&A: Did he use me? Is he having Sex with his wife? | 00:28:37 | |
TOW&TW kicks off the year with a journey down memory lane. In this encore episode, we revisit an episodes that deeply resonated with our longtime listeners – and offers our new audience a powerful glimpse into some of our previously aired compelling conversations. From our carefully curated archives, this raw and honest Q&A with Chelsea explores the questions that keep affair partners awake at night. SUBMIT YOUR OWN STORY https://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/submit ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast: HOW WE CAN HELP Join the Other Women Community OUR LINKS Website: https://towtw.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/ | |||
| 03 Nov 2024 | #53 Divorce Attorney's Thoughts on Infidelity & Relationships -James Sexton | 00:53:53 | |
This week on The Other Woman and the Wife, Chelsea is joined by renowned divorce attorney and author James Sexton, who brings over two decades of experience handling high-conflict divorces. Together, they dive into the complexities of modern relationships, examining the intricate roles of infidelity, love, and commitment. James shares surprising truths from the courtroom and beyond, revealing what often goes unsaid about why marriages end and what we can learn from those who face it head-on. Don't miss this candid conversation about the legal and emotional landscapes of divorce. SUBMIT YOUR OWN STORY https://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/submit ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast: HOW WE CAN HELP Join the Other Women Community OUR LINKS GUEST LINKS Website: theotherwomanandthewife.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife GUEST LINKS James's Twitter: https://twitter.com/nycdivorcelaw James's Instagram: https://instagram.com/nycdivorcelawyer James's Website: https://nycdivorces.com/our-attorneys How to Stay in Love (book): https://amzn.to/3t61uji If You're in My Office, It's Already Too Late (audiobook): https://amzn.to/3PkVECg | |||
| 09 Jun 2024 | #45 Does Limerence Cause Affairs? | 00:49:09 | |
In this week's episode, Ann Marie and Chelsea dive into the concept of limerence and its role in infidelity. They discuss how the limerence narrative can limit self-growth by offering overly simplistic explanations, and examine its impact on addressing the root causes of affairs. Finally, they challenge the labels associated with limerence, suggesting it be viewed as a facet of human emotion rather than an addiction. Topics:
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| 07 May 2023 | #002 Q&A: How Do You Get Over a Secret Long-term Affair | 00:29:03 | |
ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast: HOW WE CAN HELP Join the Other Women Community Apply for Affair Recovery Coaching OUR LINKS Website: theotherwomanandthewife.com | |||
| 28 Apr 2024 | #39 Why Do People Stay and Cheat Instead of Leave | 01:10:29 | |
This week Chelsea and Ann Marie explore the concept of opportunity cost in relationships, emphasizing the human tendency to prioritize external factors like financial stability and social standing over personal well-being and growth. They discuss how pro's and con's lists can lead to analysis paralysis, hindering individual growth within relationships. ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast: HOW WE CAN HELP Join the Other Women Community OUR LINKS Website: theotherwomanandthewife.com | |||