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On episode 22 of The One Fab Day Wedding Podcast, we're delivering a crash course in wedding speeches, which will come in terribly handy whether you're giving one yourself, or just wondering how to put this portion of the day together. We'll be covering the various formats that work well for speches (and some fun alternatives!), and discussing how to choose your speechgivers, as well as offering up our favourite wedding speech tips. And, as always, we've got lots of golden nuggets of general wedding-planning advice, too! Enjoy!

Episode Breakdown: Episode 22: Wedding Speeches 101

Wedding tip: This week, Celina is delivering a passionate appeal for long-established, gimmick-free dress codes.

Main topic: Speeches are sometimes regarded as this long, arduous part of the wedding day that no-one enjoys and the speechgiver dreads, but in most cases, this couldn’t be further from the truth - in fact, they're among our favourite parts of the wedding day! That's why we wanted to devote a whole show to them! In this episode, we're discussing how to organise your speeches, who to trust with the microphone, and, crucially, how to write a speech that will keep your guests LOLing and tearing up in all the right places.

Wedding dilemma: A listener writes, “I have been dating my boyfriend for 11 years and we are very happy. He is the best! We are planning on getting engaged at Christmas but will be picking out our rings in October. We are both very excited! However, both my parents have strongly voiced that they don't like us 'as a couple'. I would love to have a traditional wedding with a large reception but I'm afraid my parents will dampen the the lead up, the engagement and the wedding. We all live in a small village so we see them all the time. Because of this potential drama, we are contemplating an elopement. In your opinion, do you think we would regret eloping or should we deal with our parents and have our traditional wedding?" This is probably the trickiest dilemma to date, but we're suggesting lots of alternatives to the traditional wedding format, including a few ideas for post-elopement parties.

Something to do when you're not planning your wedding: Celina's latest recommendation is a rousing round of the Song Association Game, as inspired by Elle.

Thanks for listening! Got something to add to the conversation? Shoot us a mail at hello@onefabday.com. We want the One Fab Day Wedding Podcast to make wedding planning easier and more enjoyable for you, our beloved listener, so if there's something you'd love to hear discussed on the show, or a question you'd like answered, please do drop us a line.

If you loved the episode, don't forget to rate and review the podcast on iTunes. You should also make sure you're subscribed to the podcast - that way you'll receive notifications every time a new episode is released! Oh, and if you know anyone who's engaged and planning a wedding, or a bridesmaid, groomsman, parent or wedding guest who needs a dilemma solved, be sure to tell them about the podcast and share a link.

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Music by Kevin Macleod

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In episode 46 of The One Fab Day Wedding Podcast, we're talking about how to create a relaxed, fun and informal atmosphere on the big day. Most couples will say that this is a top priority for their wedding, but there's very little information out there about how to actually make it happen, which is where your humble podcast hosts come in! We've put together some indispensable advice for creating a laid-back wedding, including tips on getting guests mingling, setting the right tone, figuring out which formalities to ditch, and, crucially, ensuring that you and your partner are relaxed on the day itself!

Episode Breakdown: How to Have a Laid-Back Wedding

Wedding tip: Claire's tip this week is to fill up that space at the front of the ceremony venue! For guests, this means not being afraid to nab a prime spot. For couples, it means asking a wedding party member to help manage the flow of guests into the space.

Main topic: This week, we're presenting our top tips for creating a fun, laid-back wedding, something that, contrary to popular belief, actually takes quite a lot of thought and careful planning to achieve! From creating the perfect balance across the guest list, to ensuring that each guest knows exactly where they're supposed to be (and when!), there are plenty of ways to informalise your wedding celebration, so this episode really is a must-listen!

Wedding dilemma: A listener writes, “I’m having two bridesmaids, my sister who lives abroad, and my best friend. My partner has two brothers so this matches nicely. But my best friend has just found out she is pregnant, and due to give birth on my wedding day. She's said she will still be at the hen (when she's eight months' pregnant!) but likely not the wedding day, but that she might get a coordinating dress in case she can make it. What should I do now? I have another close friend who I could ask to step in but I would need to discuss this with my best friend and wait until she's ready to announce the pregnancy. While it would be nice to give my best friend the option of choosing to be bridesmaid or not, I think it will lead to extra expenses, and we had planned to keep the wedding party small for this reason. Also, while I love my sister dearly, she can be challenging at times and another bridesmaid would make a great buffer on the morning of the wedding. My fiance is worried that I'll arrive to the church stressed and worked up if it's just me, my sister and my mom. And for my sister to plan my hen party from abroad on her own would be difficult. I’m also wondering how my other friend will take being the second choice bridesmaid if I do ask her to step in. My question is, how can I accommodate my friend who’s pregnant, but also get the support I need on the day?” Our advice for this listener is to keep your best friend on board, and ask your other friend to join the wedding party. This might mean shouldering a few extra costs, but it'll be worth it to preserve your relationship with your best friend and guarantee you'll get the support that you need on the day.

Something to do when you're not planning your wedding: In this episode, Claire's recommending the 1 Second Everyday App.

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There's one subject that we get asked about more than any other, and that's bridesmaids dresses. And while we've written lots of features on our favourite brands, stores, trends and colour schemes, we haven't actually covered the logistics of finding (and agreeing upon!) the right dress. So, on episode 21 of The One Fab Day Wedding Podcast, we're doing exactly that! As well as offering our top bridesmaids shopping tips, we'll be answering such age-old questions as, "Who pays for the bridesmaids dresses!?", "Who gets the final say?" and "How do you minimise drama in the WhatsApp group!?" Plus, we've got our usual helping of wedding-planning advice and insider info. Enjoy!

Episode Breakdown: Episode 21: The Dos and Don’ts of Bridesmaids Dress Shopping

Wedding tip: This week, Claire's recommending Trello, or a similar task management app, for dividing the wedding admin between you and your partner.

Main topic: In this episode of the One Fab Day Wedding Podcast, we're tackling the tricky subject of bridesmaids dress shopping, and the inevitable issues that arise when you dress several women with different tastes, styles and shapes in matching outfits! We’ll be tacking where to start, what to do when opinions differ, and, of course, how to deal with the whole money thing!

Wedding dilemma: A listener writes, “I’m engaged and my partner and I are planning quite a low-key wedding. What we really want to do is go to a registry office with just our family, then meet around 30 of our friends for a fab, informal wedding breakfast at our favourite art gallery and café. Later on in the evening, we’re having more guests for drinks and dancing, which is always my favourite part of any wedding. My worry is this: will people feel that we’ve denied them something if they’re not at the ceremony itself? Will they still feel like they’re at a wedding at all? We’re very private people, and I’d much prefer to say our vows in an intimate setting, but I don’t want to make my guests feel that they’ve missed out on the ‘real thing’. We’ve also thought about doing a speech together to try and get around this, where we would write promises to each other separately, then read them out to one another. Might that be a good solution?" Our advice for this listener is to have more confidence in their plan - it sounds like it's going to be a gorgeous day!

Something to do when you're not planning your wedding: Claire's latest recommendation is a really fun one - be a tourist in your own village, town or city for a day!

Thanks for listening! Got something to add to the conversation? Shoot us a mail at hello@onefabday.com. We want the One Fab Day Wedding Podcast to make wedding planning easier and more enjoyable for you, our beloved listener, so if there's something you'd love to hear discussed on the show, or a question you'd like answered, please do drop us a line.

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In episode eight of The One Fab Day Wedding Podcast, we're delivering a crash course in wedding dress shopping, covering everything from gathering inspiration to visiting boutiques to post-purchase uncertainty. Along the way, we'll be answering such tricky questions as, "How much research is too much research?", "What's the real difference between a high street and a designer dress?" and "Who should I bring with me to bridal boutique appointments?" Plus, we talk wedding-day booze requirements, and on-the-day gift exchanges. This is a jam-packed episode, so we hope you're ready for some extensive wedding #realtalk!

Episode Breakdown: What Every Bride Should Know About Wedding Dress Shopping

Wedding tip: This week, we're urging you to make a plan for on-the-day wedding gifts. You can go extravagant, go homemade, or ditch the gifts altogether, but whatever you do, remember to discuss it with your partner beforehand!

Main topic: In this episode, we're walking you through the wonderful - and sometimes overwhelming! - world of wedding dress shopping, from initial research to boutique visits to making the all-important payment! And, of course, we're dropping lots of helpful insider tips along the way.

Wedding dilemma: A listener writes, “We’re bringing our own wine to our wedding venue. We have 90 guests - how the heck do we work out how much red and white we need?” This week, we're showing you how to work out a precise mathematical equation for your wedding booze requirements!

Something to do when you're not planning your wedding: Celina indulges her love of classic films, particularly those centred around fearless and ferocious female characters, as featured in the popular Dublin film series, Sass Mouth Dames.

Thanks for listening! Got something to add to the conversation? Shoot us a mail at hello@onefabday.com. We want the One Fab Day Wedding Podcast to make wedding planning easier and more enjoyable for you, our beloved listener, so if there's something you'd love to hear discussed on the show, or a question you'd like answered, please do drop us a line.

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Music By Kevin MacLeod

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In episode 20 of The One Fab Day Wedding Podcast, we're answering your burning honeymoon questions with the help of travel writer extraordinaire Nadia El Ferdaoussi AKA The Daily S'Elf. Having been to (almost!) every potential honeymoon destination on the planet, Nadia was perfectly placed to offer tips on where to go and when. As well as sharing her top honeymoon destinations for 2019, she gave us some expert advice on packing, beachside beauty, and, crucially, avoiding holiday research overload! Ready to experience next-level wanderlust? I sure hope so!

Episode Breakdown: Episode 20: Honeymoon Q&A Special with Nadia El Ferdaoussi

Wedding tip: This week, Celina suggests creating an elevator pitch for your wedding, AKA two or three keywords to describe your day, which you can reference when stumped on decisions and use with your suppliers. Something like "wild and whimsical", "chic and sophisticated", or  "simple and laid-back" works a treat.

Main topic: We honestly struggle to think of anyone who is better-travelled than writer Nadia El Ferdaoussi AKA The Daily S'Elf, which is precisely why we invited her on the show to discuss all things honeymoon! We put Nadia to work on reader and listener questions, as well as grilling her on her all-time favourite destinations. Nadia made a very convincing case for honeymooning in Europe and returning to a beloved destination for your post-wedding getaway, so we know her advice will be hugely helpful!

Wedding dilemma: A listener writes, “I’m having a real problem with my other half’s family when it comes to our wedding and planning it. From the start, they made it clear that they weren’t happy with our venue (we’re getting married in a restaurant) and even threatened to not stay at the nearby hotel with us that night (which made him really upset). It seems like every choice we make for our day (having both my parents walk me down the aisle, spending money on a good photographer, even the types of dresses I like!) comes with the response, 'That’s not how it’s usually done.' How do I get through the next year without completely pulling my hair out? The last time we visited them, I left in tears because I just feel like they’re seeing our day as just one big party we’re meant to organise for them, even though we as a couple see it as a day to celebrate our relationship. Have either of you ever experienced this before?" Our advice for this listener involves limiting wedding-related chat around their future in-laws, and showing them examples of similar weddings.

Something to do when you're not planning your wedding: This week, Celina introduces her current favourite way to pass the time, taking a peek inside the shopping habits of the stars with a scroll through some of New York magazine's highly addictive Celebrity Shopping Features. Photo courtesy of Nadia El Ferdaoussi and The Daily S'Elf[/caption]

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In episode 16 of The One Fab Day Wedding Podcast, we're joined by the wonderful Aleisha McCormack from The Bridechilla Podcast to discuss a topic that we're all extremely passionate about: creating a wedding that sparks joy for you, your other half and your guests! We're (quite literally) taking a leaf out of Marie Kondo's book and showing you how to apply her much-loved KonMari method to your big day, which means ditching the non-essentials, and rethinking any elements that might be causing you stress. If you're looking for ways to stay organised for your wedding, this is the episode for you!

Episode Breakdown: Episode 16: How to Marie Kondo Your Wedding

Wedding tip: Celina is adding yet another spreadsheet into the mix - this one will make sending thank-you cards a breeze!

Main topic: We hope you're ready for some wedding planning #realtalk! This week, with help from the hilarious and insightful Aleisha McCormack from The Bridechilla Podcast, Bridechilla.com and The Bridechilla Guides, we're embarking on a little experiment: applying the KonMari method to wedding planning! By the end of this episode, you should be ready to wave goodbye to any elements of your big day that aren't working for you, and resume planning a celebration that is delightfully clutter-free.

Wedding dilemma: A listener writes, "The venue we booked some time ago has recently redecorated the main function room where we will be having our dinner and spending most of our day. We were not aware they were changing the room until it was completed and were only able to see the room after we had made our big payment, and we are 12 weeks to our wedding day so this leaves us with very little options. The room has gone from a nice bright, clean slate with white walls, perfect for decorating, to a much darker, beige/ mushroom coloured room, with a strong geometric wallpaper on two large walls, which now makes it a very, very different room with a very different, formal feel. I could go on, but, suffice to say, the room is not to my taste at all and I feel really let down by the venue but feel there is nothing we can do about it. The venue have been unapologetic with the wedding planner simply saying she didn’t do it. Do we have any rights here or is there anything I can do?” Our advice for this listener involves reshuffling the order of the day and bringing in an emergency stylist.

Something to do when you're not planning your wedding: This week, Celina brings an exciting new food trend to the table, but Claire's not convinced!

Bonus Q&A special: Celina and Claire appeared on Aleisha's podcast a few weeks ago, answering some of her listeners' dilemmas - click here to give it a listen!

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In episode 33 of The One Fab Day Wedding Podcast, we're discussing the kind of wedding that most couples have probably considered, at least for a few blissful moments - destination weddings! To tackle this topic, we recruited an authority on the subject, Lindsay Moynagh, founder of House of Hannah, who specialises in planning gorgeous destination weddings in Ireland, France, Italy, Spain, Portugal and beyond. She'll be telling us about her own, frankly fabulous destination wedding, as well as giving us an expert insight into the realities of planning a celebration abroad, covering everything from budget to guest list to visas! And of course, we'll be offering our top destination wedding tips along the day!

Episode Breakdown: An Expert's Guide to Planning a Destination Wedding

Wedding tip: Celina's tip this week is for speechgivers: before including an anecdote in your speech, ask yourself, "Is this a story about the couple/groom/bride, or a story about me?" If it's the latter, it should be ditched immediately, in favour of the former!

Main topic: Today's episode is all about destination weddings, how to know if that's the right route for you, your partner and family, and, of course, how to go about planning one! Lindsay Moynagh of House of Hannah joins us in the studio to tell us about her experiences planning her own destination wedding, and helping countless couples plan theirs! We'll be covering everything from how much money you can expect to save by getting married abroad (if any!), to how to find the best hairstylists and makeup artists in a foreign country. This episode is loaded with destination wedding tips, so we hope you love it!

Wedding dilemma: A listener writes, “I’m getting married next year, and I have picked my four bridesmaids - three super close friends and my sister-in-law. However, I am not asking my 'best friend', because we’ve drifted apart over the past few years. In the past, I went through a rough patch and I was very sick. During this period, I became quite withdrawn from life, friends etc. but throughout those years, I discovered my true friends those who stood by me, contacted me regularly and involved me in anything going on, but, unfortunately, this didn’t include the best friend. I rarely heard from her and she didn’t offer a lot of compassion, which was quite upsetting at the time. She got married a few years ago and just had her sisters as bridesmaids. Despite all this, I can’t help feeling guilty about not asking her. I’m petrified to tell her who my bridesmaids are in case she gets really annoyed. Although we’ve drifted, we still get along and I will include her in other ways at the wedding, but, for now, I don’t know how to bring up the fact that I’m not having her as bridesmaid. Please help!” The advice we're offering this week includes planning a sit-down chat, and leading with the role you've chosen for your friend.

Something to do when you're not planning your wedding: In this episode, Celina's advocating a rolling TV-watching date with a pal, family member, or even your other half, like we used to do in the old days! Between GBBO on Tuesdays, Strictly on Saturdays, and Room to Improve on Sundays, you're spoiled for choice at this time of year!

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On episode 52 of The One Fab Day Wedding Podcast, we're troubleshooting some of the most common family-related dilemmas, covering everything from feuding parents, to interfering siblings, to demanding cousins! Pretty much every couple we’ve encountered has experienced some kind of family conflict around their wedding, so, rather than resist the inevitable, we're dusting off our very best pieces of advice for minimising and reacting to wedding family drama. Our hope is that, after listening to this episode, you'll feel prepared to deal with all manners of squabbles and disputes, and get on with the fun parts of wedding planning!

Episode Breakdown: Your Family Drama Dilemmas Solved!

Wedding tip: Claire's tip this week is to communicate your favourite parts of your venue to your photographer, so they can arrange to take some of your wedding portraits there, if possible!

Main topic: This week, we're talking about something that, unfortunately, seems to be unavoidable during the wedding-planning period - family-based conflict! For some reason, hosting a big celebration tends to spark issues among family members (if you're unlucky, in your partner's family as well as your own!), so our aim with this episode is to give you the tips and tools to tackle them! As well as offering up our top pieces of advice for avoiding and anticipating wedding family drama, we're troubleshooting some of the family issues that we get asked about most frequently. Hopefully, by heeding our advice, you can continue to enjoy the exciting, wedding-planning period in the face of any unwanted drama!

Wedding dilemma: A listener writes, “My bridal party consists of my two sisters, my groom's sister, and two of my best friends, so five ladies in total. We all live in different cities, and so I don't regularly see them all together, just one-on-one. They are all lovely and dear to me, but have very different personalities, hobbies, life situations, etc. I'm a bit nervous for our bachelorette weekend as I know that some girls aren't overly fond of each other. My thought was to go rent a cottage in the country for a weekend and tour some vineyards together. How do I get all the girls to get along with each other and have a good time? I'm nervous that it will be very awkward or things may get catty. The wine may help... but it also may not! I’m hoping to avoid a Bridesmaids cookie situation!” Our advice for this listener is to voice your concerns to one or two of your bridal party members, but go ahead with your vineyard plan (which sounds fabulous by the way!), and trust that everyone will be on their best behaviour.

Something to do when you're not planning your wedding: In this episode, Claire's recommending Laura De Barra's indispensable DIY manual, Gaff Goddess.

Thanks for listening! Got something to add to the conversation? Shoot us a mail at hello@onefabday.com. We want the One Fab Day Wedding Podcast to make wedding planning easier and more enjoyable for you, our beloved listener, so if there's something you'd love to hear discussed on the show, or a question you'd like answered, please do drop us a line.

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In episode 44 of The One Fab Day Wedding Podcast, we're talking about the all-important wedding venue search. The wedding venue you choose has a huge impact on the look, feel and vibe of the day, so there's definitely a lot riding on this decision, but the good news is that there are wonderful venues out there to satisfy every budget and set of requirements. In this week's chat, we're showing you how to find your wedding venue, from initial research, to visiting venues in person, to paying your booking deposit, and chatting through some of the wedding industry lingo that couples often find confusing. We're also providing you with a handy list of everything you need to know before you start looking, which will make the whole process a lot easier. Enjoy!

Episode Breakdown: How to Find the Perfect Wedding Venue

Wedding tip: Claire's tip this week is to remember (or ask a wedding party member to remind you!) to take off your veil, headpiece, sunglasses and/or eyewear for some of the photos. That way, you'll have lots of options in the final set of imagery.

Main topic: This week, we're talking through how to find your wedding venue, including what you need to know before you commence your search, how to put together your longlist, what questions to ask during your viewings, and what points to nail down before taking the plunge. We'll also be explaining the basic styles of venue, covering hotel and resort venues, exclusive hire venues, marquee weddings, pub and restaurant venues and those wacky wild card venues that you've seen on Pinterest!

Wedding dilemma: A listener writes, “I am German, living in Ireland, and we are looking to have a small wedding in Malahide since we connect so much with the place. We are having 12 guests for the ceremony and dinner, with more people coming for drinks afterwards. We’re wondering how to break the news to some friends in Germany and the USA who won’t be invited. The main reason we’re not inviting them is because we feel that asking friends to travel and not invite them to the ceremony or dinner would be rude. We’re worried about how they might react, particularly when they hear that we have lots of Irish friends coming to the drinks after the meal.” Our advice for this listener is send a carefully-worded email to your friends in Germany and the USA to let them know about your plans, and consider planning a small get-together with them some time in the future.

Something to do when you're not planning your wedding: In this episode, Claire's suggesting you form a roast dinner club with your pals. 

Thanks for listening! Got something to add to the conversation? Shoot us a mail at hello@onefabday.com. We want the One Fab Day Wedding Podcast to make wedding planning easier and more enjoyable for you, our beloved listener, so if there's something you'd love to hear discussed on the show, or a question you'd like answered, please do drop us a line.

If you loved the episode, don't forget to rate and review the podcast on iTunes. You should also make sure you're subscribed to the podcast - that way you'll receive notifications every time a new episode is released! Oh, and if you know anyone who's engaged and planning a wedding, or a bridesmaid, groomsman, parent or wedding guest who needs a dilemma solved, be sure to tell them about the podcast and share a link.

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Music by Kevin Macleod

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This week on The One Fab Day Wedding Podcast, we're delivering a message to every engaged person on the planet - you look great, so, in the words of Billy Joel, don't go changing! Unfortunately, in the lead up to your wedding day there's extra pressure to conform to societal beauty standards - you'll likely hear that you need to lose weight, get your teeth straightened, get your nose fixed and so on, in advance of the big day. Billy Joel lyrics aside, we would never tell anyone that they should or shouldn't alter their appearance, but we do want to extinguish the myth that you need to look a certain way to get married. That's why we recruited the help of Louise McSharry, 2FM broadcaster, beauty columnist, and author of the book, Fat Chance, to help us put this episode together. Louise wrote an incredible piece for online magazine The Pool about her decision not to lose weight for her wedding, and we thought this was the perfect way to kickstart a crucial conversation about body image and wedding planning.

Episode Breakdown: Episode 11 - Why You Don't Have to Lose Weight for your Wedding with Louise McSharry

Wedding tip: This week, we're spreading the good word about open mic-style wedding speeches. Celina actually MCed the speeches at Claire's wedding, so needless to say, we're huge fans of this format!

Main topic: With our esteemed guest, Louise McSharry, we discuss why it's so difficult to maintain a healthy body image during wedding planning, and what you can do to safeguard yourself from diet and cosmetic surgery culture, and ultimately, walk up the aisle feeling happy with how you look.

Wedding dilemma: A listener writes, “I was wondering if you could speak on having an obligatory family member in your bridal party that you don’t have a lot in common with or agree on things with? How do you handle having them involved in all of the bridal party tasks? I have a sister and we are complete opposites but I thought having her as my Maid of Honour would be an opportunity to bring us closer. We’re far apart in age and are in complete different stages in life. I gave her the title but I don’t know for my sanity/happiness how much I want her involved in decisions.”

Something to do when you're not planning your wedding: Claire's recommendation this week involves scheduling a Skype date with a friend who lives abroad.

Thanks for listening! Got something to add to the conversation? Shoot us a mail at hello@onefabday.com. We want the One Fab Day Wedding Podcast to make wedding planning easier and more enjoyable for you, our beloved listener, so if there's something you'd love to hear discussed on the show, or a question you'd like answered, please do drop us a line.

If you loved the episode, don't forget to rate and review the podcast on iTunes. You should also make sure you're subscribed to the podcast - that way you'll receive notifications every time a new episode is released! Oh, and if you know anyone who's engaged and planning a wedding, or a bridesmaid, groomsman, parent or wedding guest who needs a dilemma solved, be sure to tell them about the podcast and share a link.

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Music by Kevin Macleod

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Episode 36 of The One Fab Day Wedding Podcast is all about taking the guilt out of wedding planning, by giving your big day a quick sustainability audit. We're not for a minute suggesting that you turn your plans upside down to reduce the environmental or ethical impact of your wedding, what we're really doing in this episode is highlighting lots of achievable ways to make your big day more sustainable, eco-friendly, enviromentally-friendly, and ethical. This is an incredibly complex subject (one that would probably require a 20-part series to cover full!), so we wanted to keep it simple with a list of our favourite sustainable wedding tips and ideas. Aim to take two or three of these ideas on board, and you'll be well on your way to a more sustainable celebration!

Episode Breakdown: Easy Ways to Make Your Wedding More Sustainable

Wedding tip: Claire's tip this week is to use signage in your day to let guests know about all the fun elements you've planned for them. This could be anything from lawn games to photo booths, to a cosy room in your venue where guests can go for a few moments of quiet.

Main topic: Today's episode is all about making your wedding more sustainable, eco-friendly, enviromentally-friendly, and ethical, which, we have to admit, is a bit of a mammoth topic to cover in one episode. As a result, our top sustainable wedding tips cover everything from choosing a venue with an eco-friendly ethos, to purchasing biodegradable glitter for your '80s-themed hen night! We talk about huge elements of the day, like deciding where to get married, and which caterer to book, as well as little ones, like suggesting a cruelty-free brand to your makeup artist and leaving that Wifey for Lifey luggage tag on the shelf! Most of our ideas will go completely unnoticed by your guests, and cost very little extra in terms of budget or workload, so we're sure that there's something on the list for everyone!

Wedding dilemma: A listener writes, “I'm looking for some advice. My engagement ring and wedding band were given to me by my Nanny (grandmother). I'm very close with her and she does not speak to an Aunt of mine. It's not your standard fall out, they won't be in the same room together. I've been told by my family that I have to invite my Nanny and not my Aunty and I just need to tell my Aunty that she can't come. I'm not sure what the best route to go here is. For all other events, I've invited everyone and let them all decide who goes, but I feel a bit tied because of the rings and the fact I will be leaving from Nanny's house. Do you have any advice on how to approach the situation? I feel like I'm getting quite biased advice from family.” Our tip for this listener is to plan a separate celebration with your Aunt, and start the conversation there!

Something to do when you're not planning your wedding: In this episode, Claire's suggesting you plan a small, low-pressure event for someone else, be it a baby shower for a pal, or a charity bake sale in your workplace! 

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We've lost count of the number of times we've been asked how to save money on your wedding, but there's another question that we don't think is asked enough, and that's, "How do I save time in the run up to my wedding?" Well, in episode 38 of The One Fab Day Wedding Podcast, we're helping you do both! We're presenting a list of all the details, elements and purchases that you can happily drop from your wedding today, without your guests ever noticing! Now, we're not suggesting that you ditch all 29 items mentioned, but it's worth noting that, if you did, you'd save around €10,000/£9,000/$11,000, and about a fortnight's worth of wedmin! Ditching a handful of things from our list is probably a more realistic goal, so grab your red pen and let's go!

Episode Breakdown: 29 Things You Can Ditch From Your Wedding Right Now

Wedding tip: Claire's tip this week is to remember to pack an overnight back for the wedding! Whether you're getting ready at home, at a hotel, or at your venue, this is an absolute must, unless you want to go down to breakfast on the morning after the big day in nothing but a bathrobe! We've got a handy checklist of everything you need to include here.

Main topic: We love an elaborate, no-expense-spared party as much as the next gals, but we're also aware that lots of couples are desperate to slash either their wedding budget, or their wedding to-do list... or perhaps both! One of the best ways to do this is to drop a handful of elements that you expected to include in your wedding, so in today's episode, we're giving you a handy list of things to ditch! Our Ditch List includes lots of cute and pretty, but ultimately unnecessary, details that absolutely no one will miss on the big day, least of all you and your partner! If you're looking to save money on your wedding, or remove some tasks from your to-do list, this is an ideal place to start.

Wedding dilemma: A listener writes, “I'm an Irish bride living in Vancouver. My fiancé and I got engaged in the spring of 2018 and it was so special. Our wedding is December 2020. I'm just wondering if you have any tips on how to keep people excited as our big day is coming in. Being abroad, I find it really hard when people aren't excited over big things. I completely understand it's been a longer engagement (over 2.5 years), but we were adamant that we didn't want to take out a loan or live like hermits to achieve a shorter engagement.” Our advice for this listener is to celebrate wedding milestones with her partner, and to accept the inevitable! Unfortunately, you can't force people to get excited about your wedding, but rest assured that they will be jumping out of their skin with enthusiasm when the big day finally rolls around!

Something to do when you're not planning your wedding: In this episode, Claire's recommending a board or parlour game tournament, complete with prizes and leaderboard!

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In episode 35 of The One Fab Day Wedding Podcast, we're talking about planning a wedding when two become three! The further we move away from traditional marriages, the more brides find themselves in the position of wedding planning while pregnant. Obviously, if your due date is around the time of your wedding, you may have to postpone it, but if you're going to be pregnant on the day, or you'll have a small baby in tow, there are a lot more options. Our guest today is You Magazine fashion editor and expecting Mum Grace Cahill, who will be tying the knot with her other half, Adam, in 2020, when their new arrival will be eight months old. It's a very workable timeline, but it also means that Grace has been pregnant for a huge chunk of planning, which isn't without its challenges! Her advice on wedding planning while pregnant covers essential topics such as navigating wedding dress shopping and simplifying the budget, so let's dive in!

Episode Breakdown: How a Pregnant Fashion Editor Planned her Wedding

Wedding tip: Celina's tip this week is to make a plan for the night before the wedding. This could be anything from an intimate dinner with family, to a trad session in a local pub, to a quiet night of pampering with your bridesmaids. Whatever your preference, it’s good to have something in the calendar before all your relatives arrive at the venue, and demand you spend the evening in the bar with them!

Main topic: Today's episode is all about wedding planning while pregnant, something our lovely guest knows all about! As well as being a stylist, journalist, and fashion editor of The Irish Daily Mail’s You Magazine, Grace Cahill is an expecting Mum, who will be tying the knot with her other half, Adam, in 2020. Our chat covers everything from wedding dress shopping with a bump, to incorporating a newborn into your wedding plans, to catering for pregnant guests, to managing your budget when you've got two major life events on the horizon!

Wedding dilemma: A listener writes, “I absolutely love smoke bomb pictures and really want to incorporate into my wedding shots but does the reality live up to the dream?! And also will they stain my dress? Even if you just stand in the smoke and get someone else to light/hold it?” Our advice is, of course, to use smoke bombs if you really want to, but we're also mulling over some of the challenges associated with these popular photographic props. For example, they're unpredictable, potentially time-consuming, and yes, it is possible that they'll stain your wedding dress! 

Something to do when you're not planning your wedding: In this episode, Celina's recommending an open online course, like the ones offered by Masterclass, Coursera, and Udemy. There are lots of short, low-commitment options available, and you can learn everything from how to train your dog, to how to sing like Christina Aguilera (sort of!)

Thanks for listening! Got something to add to the conversation? Shoot us a mail at hello@onefabday.com. We want the One Fab Day Wedding Podcast to make wedding planning easier and more enjoyable for you, our beloved listener, so if there's something you'd love to hear discussed on the show, or a question you'd like answered, please do drop us a line.

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Who's supposed to plan the stag party? How do you go about writing a wedding speech? Do you need a back-up wedding suit? In episode 39 of The One Fab Day Wedding Podcast, we'll be answering all of these questions and more, in conversation with two real grooms! Our guests are lifelong pals Dallan and Pauric, who both got married in 2019, and both played a huge role in the other's big day; Dallan was Pauric's Best Man, while Pauric officiated Dallan's wedding to his now-wife Laura. In this chat, we hear some terrific wedding tips for grooms, but also brides, wedding party members and everyone in between!

Episode Breakdown: Must-Hear Wedding Tips from Real Grooms

Wedding tip: Celina's tip this week is to decide how much time you'd like to allocate to wedding portraits on the day of the wedding. For some couples, ambitious photographs are a top priority, while others are motivated by missing as little of their drinks reception as possible! We recommend chatting about this with your partner. Once you're on the same page, you're ready to discuss the portrait session with your photographer.

Main topic: In episode 39 of the One Fab Day Wedding Podcast, we're turning our attention to the grooms, covering everything from stag parties to speeches to suit shopping, in conversation with two real grooms, Dallan and Pauric. As well as fleshing out our top wedding tips for grooms, we're asking such tricky questions as, How invested were you in the wedding flowers and décor? Did you pull your weight in wedding planning? and What would you change about your big day? By the end of this week's installment, you'll know how to assign roles in the wedding party, tackle the guestlist, and make your wedding speech truly legendary!

Wedding dilemma: A listener writes, “My question is about suppliers and vendors. Some are quite responsive with emails and confirming things, but others are quite slow and I find it quite frustrating. In particular, there’s a hair stylist who I would like to book a trial with before I pay the deposit for the actual day. I have crazy curly hair, so it's hard to find someone who actually knows how to work with it. I've had bad experiences in the past, so don't want to commit to someone before I can see how they work with natural curls. I found someone who has great reviews and settled on a date for the trial that’s the same date as my engagement photos, but I'm having to send a lot of 'Did you receive my email?' emails after a week of radio silence. I understand she's probably busy and my wedding isn't until April, but I'm just a bit frustrated, as I want to know if the hair trial date is secure, or if I should look for someone else. It also doesn't give me a load of confidence moving forward. Is this normal? We've had a few other vendors, like the DJ, be very slow to respond, but that doesn't bother me as much because there's so many options out there.” Our advice for this listener is give your supplier the benefit of the doubt, and go ahead with the trial, as you'll likely be happy with her when you meet her and get to see her work up close. Suppliers like hairstylists and DJs might have to communicate with dozens of different couples at once, so it's quite normal for them to be slow to respond to couple's queries.

Something to do when you're not planning your wedding: In this episode, Celina's recommending a Whatsapp-based book club!

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...but once you figure out which one, planning will become a whole lot simpler!

Wedding planning can be exceptionally tricky if you can't pinpoint the feel and vibe you want for your day, so in episode six of The One Fab Day Wedding Podcast, we're helping you do exactly that! Of course every wedding is different, but, in our view, there are only eight types of wedding; country house weddings, elopements, black tie weddings, city weddings, destination weddings, festival weddings, marquee weddings, and hotel package weddings. In this episode of the show, we're delivering a crash course in all eight styles, as well as some helpful tips for figuring out which one of them is right for you!

Episode Breakdown: Episode 6: Newsflash! Your Wedding Is One of These 8 Types

Wedding tip: We deliver a PSA on breaking in your wedding shoes before the big day, and we're not just talking about brides! Grooms, bridesmaids, groomsmen, parents, guests - this one's for you, too!

Main topic: Nailing down the feel and vibe of your dream wedding day should be on the top of your to-do list, so in today's episode we're breaking down eight styles of wedding, including chic city celebrations, raucous countryside weekenders and far-flung elopements.

Wedding dilemma: A bride writes, “My venue have told me I’m only able to get in to get in to decorate the room on the morning of the wedding. I’d planned to have lots of personal touches and do the decoration myself, as I’m bringing in my own napkins, cutlery and glasses, and we also want to hang lights and dot signage around the venue. Is it normal for the venue to only let you in on the day of the wedding? I’m not sure I can trust someone else to do the set-up, because I know exactly how I want it all to look.” Our advice this week includes hiring a planner or stylist and recruiting aesthetically-gifted pals.

Something to do when you're not planning your wedding: Celina bigs up the benefits of non-competitive exercise, including shout-outs for YouTube instructor Yoga with Adrienne and Dublin-based exercise class, Fearless Moves.

Thanks for listening! Got something to add to the conversation? Shoot us a mail at hello@onefabday.com. We want the One Fab Day Wedding Podcast to make wedding planning easier and more enjoyable for you, our beloved listener, so if there's something you'd love to hear discussed on the show, or a question you'd like answered, please do drop us a line.

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In episode 48 of The One Fab Day Wedding Podcast, we're answering the question that all couples probably ask themselves at some point in wedding planning - “Should we just elope!?” We love elopements here at One Fab Day, particularly as couples get more creative with small weddings and alternative celebrations. But we firmly believe that there are right and wrong reasons to choose an elopement over a full-blown wedding, which we'll be exploring in this chat. We've also come up with a few compromises that fall half-way between the two formats, and have thrown in some helpful tips for eloping couples to boot! Enjoy!

Episode Breakdown: Should You Just Elope?

Wedding tip: Claire's tip this week is to get your guests mingling at dinner by sharing nuggets of trivia about them at the tables. You could even turn it into a fun guessing game, as suggested by our producer, Ian!

Main topic: This week, we're talking about elopements, specifically how to tell when it's the right move for you and your partner, as opposed to a rash decision made in a moment of weakness, when a full wedding celebration seems too daunting! Our aim with this episode is to answer the question, "Should we just elope?!" but we're also suggesting a few popular alternatives that fall somewhere in between an elopement and a wedding, and offering some helpful planning tips for eloping couples.

Wedding dilemma: A listener writes, “My dilemma is about what to buy for the bridal party and the groomsmen. We originally said we would pay for all their rooms as a gift, but that's eight rooms and it's now one of our biggest expenses. So what I'm wondering is, is it a prerequisite that the bride and groom pay for the rooms? If we don't, will we be seen as being cheap and ungrateful? What about a travel voucher? I'm really lost on this. I just want the presents to be useful and not generic." While it's not expected that the couple pay for the wedding party accommodation, at least not in Ireland and the UK, we think it's worth considering it if the venue is very expensive and no affordable is available, or you've specifically asked your pals to stay where you're staying. Alternatively, we're big fans of the travel voucher idea! In our book, a practical gift is always superior to a rushed, last-minute buy.

Something to do when you're not planning your wedding: In this episode, Claire's suggesting @CommentsByCelebs on Instagram!

Thanks for listening! Got something to add to the conversation? Shoot us a mail at hello@onefabday.com. We want the One Fab Day Wedding Podcast to make wedding planning easier and more enjoyable for you, our beloved listener, so if there's something you'd love to hear discussed on the show, or a question you'd like answered, please do drop us a line.

If you loved the episode, don't forget to rate and review the podcast on iTunes. You should also make sure you're subscribed to the podcast - that way you'll receive notifications every time a new episode is released! Oh, and if you know anyone who's engaged and planning a wedding, or a bridesmaid, groomsman, parent or wedding guest who needs a dilemma solved, be sure to tell them about the podcast and share a link.

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In this week's episode of the The One Fab Day Wedding Podcast, we're talking about the phenomenon that is engagement season, specifically, how to get through it if you're waiting on a proposal, or you're feeling insecure about how your own engagement went down! The Champagne-filled period that stretches from December to Valentine's Day can be really challenging, as your social media feeds get flooded with ring selfies, and epic engagement stories spread like wildfire throughout your social circle. With this in mind, we put together our top tips for surviving engagement season, including how to cut yourself some slack if you're experiencing unexpected anxiety.

Episode Breakdown: How to Survive Engagement Season

Wedding tip: Celina's tip this week is to remember to pack a pair of sunglasses that works with your wedding outfit. Even if you're having a winter wedding, they'll probably come in handy for portrait sessions!

Main topic: This week, we're talking about surviving engagement season, that time of year when it feels like everyone you know - and their little sister! - is getting engaged in some outragously romantic fashion. It’s a time when even the most laid-back among us might start to set high expectations about a huge ring and a fairytale proposal, or find ourselves obsessing about whether or not an engagement is imminent. Equally, if you're recently engaged, you may feel like your proposal story doesn't measure up! But don't fret, because our tips will help you navigate this tricky time of year!

Wedding dilemma: A listener writes, “Please help! I’m changing my surname to my husband’s after we get married, and while I’m trying to own my decision, I can still hear my inner feminist voice (and some of my friends’) saying I’m betraying the sisterhood. Any tips for making the final call and explaining it to those who don’t get why you’ve made the choice to change your name?” Our advice for this listener is to know that whatever decision you make will be the right one. Your inner feminist voice, if it was truly feminist, wouldn't pass judgement either way!

Something to do when you're not planning your wedding: In this episode, Celina's recommending starting a new Christmas tradition with your partner!

Thanks for listening! Got something to add to the conversation? Shoot us a mail at hello@onefabday.com. We want the One Fab Day Wedding Podcast to make wedding planning easier and more enjoyable for you, our beloved listener, so if there's something you'd love to hear discussed on the show, or a question you'd like answered, please do drop us a line.

If you loved the episode, don't forget to rate and review the podcast on iTunes. You should also make sure you're subscribed to the podcast - that way you'll receive notifications every time a new episode is released! Oh, and if you know anyone who's engaged and planning a wedding, or a bridesmaid, groomsman, parent or wedding guest who needs a dilemma solved, be sure to tell them about the podcast and share a link.

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• Why a Small Engagement Ring or a Simple Proposal is Perfectly OK
• How To Avoid Being a Weirdo About a Proposal (Or a Non-Proposal!)
• How Will You Get Engaged? Take Our Fun Quiz and Find...

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This week on The One Fab Day Wedding Podcast, we're talking about bridesmaids, specifically, what makes one great! We've got a whole post about this on the site, in which we lay down 17 rules for being a phenomenal right-hand gal to your bride, but we wanted to take a slightly different approach with this episode. That's why we asked excited bride-to-be Dearbhla Toal of Belle Azzure, and her bridesmaid Louise Cooney to join us for a chat about what the role of maid of honour means to them. These girls clearly have a very deep-rooted friendship, so this episode is such a fun, feelgood listen. Plus, the girls gave us some hugely creative ideas for popping the question to your bridal party!

Episode Breakdown: Episode 10 - How to Be the Best Bridesmaid Ever with Louise Cooney and Dearbhla Toal

Wedding tip: Celina raves about the benefits of creating a unifying moment in your wedding day, be it a ring warming during the ceremony, a call-and-response speech during the reception, or something completely unique. We also talk about a detail at a recent wedding that had us both welling up!

Main topic: This episode is a real celebration of female friendship, as we're joined by Dearbhla Toal and Louise Cooney to talk about all things bridesmaids. Together, we'll answer such crucial questions as, "What are the most important bridesmaid duties?" and "What's the best way to pop the question?"

Wedding dilemma: A listener writes, “I'm recently engaged and planning a wedding for March 2020. I suffer from alopecia areata, which means I have bald patches all over my head, primarily to the back. I have no idea what I will do with my hair on the day of the wedding, that will depend on how much of my hair grows back between now and then! I've been doing a bit of research and haven't gotten anywhere about hairstyle ideas for brides with alopecia. Is there any info you can give me?” Our advice this week includes a shoutout for Pelo Hairdressing in Kildare.

Something to do when you're not planning your wedding: This week, we're giving you a peek inside the inner workings of the One Fab Day office to talk about our latest and most exciting extra-curricular activity, Crisp Club! For updates, keep your eyes peeled on our Instagram page.

Thanks for Listening! Got something to add to the conversation? Shoot us a mail at hello@onefabday.com. We want the One Fab Day Wedding Podcast to make wedding planning easier and more enjoyable for you, our beloved listener, so if there's something you'd love to hear discussed on the show, or a question you'd like answered, please do drop us a line.

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In episode 45 of The One Fab Day Wedding Podcast, we're focussing on an area of wedding planning that most couples dread discussing, or even thinking about - budgeting! Drawing up and sticking to a budget is blatantly not as fun as shopping for your wedding-day outfits or attending a cake tasting, but it simply has to be done. We can’t promise to take the drudgery out of budgeting, but by following our wedding budget tips, you should at least be able to do it efficiently, freeing up more time for celebratory Champagne!

Episode Breakdown: Our Top Tips for Mastering Your Wedding Budget

Wedding tip: Celina's tip this week is make sure to eat breakfast on the morning of the wedding, and factor this into your getting-ready plan!

Main topic: This week, we're talking about budgeting, which, along with making the guest list, tends to cause the most hassle, confusion and arguments among engaged couples, so we’ll be treating this topic pretty seriously. But, hopefully we can have some fun along the way, too! We've poured all of our expertise into creating a step-by-step guide to wedding budgeting, which should help you get off on the right foot, regardless of how much you've got to spend! Some of our wedding budget tips may sound a little bit strict, but our aim with this episode is to help you avoid common budgetary issues that real couples contact us about all the time. In short, you'll thank us later!

Wedding dilemma: A listener writes, “I’m going to be shopping for my wedding dress soon, and I’m already starting to stress, as I’ve had loads of offers from people who want to attend appointments with me. My Mum, my Aunty, my partner’s Mum, my partner’s Stepmum, my three sisters and four of my good female friends, and my best friend in work have all mentioned it, and obviously, that’s way too many people to fit in one boutique! How do I choose, and how do I let down the others down easily?!” Our advice for this listener is to prioritise the people you expect to be the most helpful, and organise a few extra boutique visits to accommodate anyone who you feel obliged to invite, for example, your Mum or sisters.

Something to do when you're not planning your wedding: In this episode, Celina's suggesting hosting your pals for a weekend brunch or lunch - late January's the perfect time in which to do it!

Thanks for listening! Got something to add to the conversation? Shoot us a mail at hello@onefabday.com. We want the One Fab Day Wedding Podcast to make wedding planning easier and more enjoyable for you, our beloved listener, so if there's something you'd love to hear discussed on the show, or a question you'd like answered, please do drop us a line.

If you loved the episode, don't forget to rate and review the podcast on iTunes. You should also make sure you're subscribed to the podcast - that way you'll receive notifications every time a new episode is released! Oh, and if you know anyone who's engaged and planning a wedding, or a bridesmaid, groomsman, parent or wedding guest who needs a dilemma solved, be sure to tell them about the podcast and share a link.

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Episode 4: Why are Weddings So Expensive?

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On episode 50 of The One Fab Day Wedding Podcast, we're turning our attention towards some very important people. And when we say important, we really mean it, because, without these guys, there literally wouldn’t be a wedding. They are, of course, your vendors! We're offering our top tips for finding the best wedding suppliers in the business, figuring out if they're the right fit for your wedding, and helping you get the best service, from initial introductory emails, right up to the big day itself!

Episode Breakdown: How to Find the Best Wedding Suppliers

Wedding tip: Claire's tip this week is to check out our newly-created FAQ page, which is chock-full of answers to the most common wedding-related questions.

Main topic: This week, we're talking wedding vendors, specifically, how to find the best ones! As well as being available on your wedding date, falling within your price range, and being fantastic at what they do, your wedding suppliers need to be able put you at ease on the day, so there are a lot of boxes to tick! The good news is that it's easy to find the best wedding suppliers when you know where to look. Our chat also includes tips for making the most of the professionals you've hired to work on your day, be they photographers, videographers, bands, musicians, stationers, florists, bakers, hairstylists, makeup artists, planners or caterers! Enjoy!

Wedding dilemma: A listener writes, “I would appreciate some guidance from you guys as to how I can show my appreciation to my parents on my wedding day during the speeches. They have been so helpful with everything including foraging for berries for our wedding favours (jam), microdetails about the wedding and making sure it is all exactly what we want. Most importantly, they have always made my partner feel just like a member of the family and I couldn't be more grateful. Any suggestions as to how I could make a massive fuss of them during the speeches?” Our advice for this listener is to take inspiration from your own lovely email and be specific. We recommend writing down some key things your parents have done for you, to reference in your wedding speech, and also write them a card or a letter so they have something they can read over and over again!

Something to do when you're not planning your wedding: In this episode, Claire's suggesting her favourite TV shows for a cathartic cry, including This is Us, Queer Eye, and DIY SOS!

Thanks for listening! Got something to add to the conversation? Shoot us a mail at hello@onefabday.com. We want the One Fab Day Wedding Podcast to make wedding planning easier and more enjoyable for you, our beloved listener, so if there's something you'd love to hear discussed on the show, or a question you'd like answered, please do drop us a line.

If you loved the episode, don't forget to rate and review the podcast on iTunes. You should also make sure you're subscribed to the podcast - that way you'll receive notifications every time a new episode is released! Oh, and if you know anyone who's engaged and planning a wedding, or a bridesmaid, groomsman, parent or wedding guest who needs a dilemma solved, be sure to tell them about the podcast and share a link.

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Episode 4: Why Are Weddings So Expensive?

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In episode 37 of The One Fab Day Wedding Podcast, we're celebrating One Fab Day's 10th birthday in conversation with founders Naoise McNally and Susan Gallagher! The podcast, and indeed, the very website you're currently visiting, wouldn't exist without them, so it's only fitting that they make an appearance on the show as we hit this very exciting milestone! Naoise and Susan have racked up a whopping 20 years of wedding expertise between them, so, naturally, we had to grill them on the most valuable pieces of advice they've learned along the way. From managing your budget, to dealing with interfering relatives, to executing those last-minute details, these are the expert wedding tips you can't afford to miss!

Episode Breakdown: The Wedding Planning Advice the Experts Want you to Hear

Wedding tip: Celina's tip this week is to put your phone away on the big day, or, better still, hand it off to a member of the wedding party for safe keeping. That way, you'll be able to stay present and be in the moment, but you'll still be contactable in case of an emergency!

Main topic: For today's episode, we sat down with One Fab Day founders, Naoise McNally and Susan Gallagher, to tease out their very best expert planning tips, on the very week that our humble website turns 10! From fielding unsolicited advice, to assigning roles in your wedding, to dealing with unforseen issues on the day, there are some serious gems to be found in our chat!

Wedding dilemma: A listener writes, “I recently got engaged and my younger (full) sister had quite a negative reaction to my older, half-sister helping my now-fiancé to pick the ring. It totally burst the little happy bubble the engagement had created, and I'm finding it hard to see past it. My mother is pandering to her too, and telling me that I shouldn't have my half-sister as my maid of honour when we get married, and that all of my sisters should be treated equally. Mind you, the younger sister did a disappearing act on the night of my other sister's wedding while she was bridesmaid, so I don’t trust her not to create drama.” Our advice for this listener is to go with your gut, choose the sister who's best suited to the role of Maid of Honour, and shut down any further chat about it in the family with a simple one-liner. 

Something to do when you're not planning your wedding: In this episode, Celina's recommending the most wholesome YouTube channel in existence, Pasta Grannies!

Thanks for listening! Got something to add to the conversation? Shoot us a mail at hello@onefabday.com. We want the One Fab Day Wedding Podcast to make wedding planning easier and more enjoyable for you, our beloved listener, so if there's something you'd love to hear discussed on the show, or a question you'd like answered, please do drop us a line.

If you loved the episode, don't forget to rate and review the podcast on iTunes. You should also make sure you're subscribed to the podcast - that way you'll receive notifications every time a new episode is released! Oh, and if you know anyone who's engaged and planning a wedding, or a bridesmaid, groomsman, parent or wedding guest who needs a dilemma solved, be sure to tell them about the podcast and share a link.

FURTHER READING:

The Wedding Photo Checklist

Tips for Choosing Your Wedding...

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In episode 26 of The One Fab Day Wedding Podcast, we're discussing how best to plan a wedding when time is not on your side. Whether you're working with a timeline of three months, or you've had a longer engagement, but you're now running way, way behind on your wedmin, this episode is for you! We're offering up our most practical last-minute wedding planning tips, along with some rousing words of encouragement - if you're organised and decisive, you can achieve amazing things in just a couple of weeks! And of course, we've got our usual helping of advice, recommendations and dilemma-solving. Enjoy!

Episode Breakdown: Episode 26: Help! I’m Getting Married in Three Months!

Wedding tip: Celina's latest nugget of wisdom involves asking your photographer to take a picture of you with your parents on the day. This is a must-have photo, as far as we're concerned - click here for our full wedding photo checklist!

Main topic: Wedding planning is daunting enough when you've got a year or two to play with. When you've only got a few months, it can be downright overwhelming! But that's where your pals at One Fab Day come in! In this episode, we're helping you achieve big things in a small timeframe. Beginning with the all-important checklist, we're taking you through the essential steps of planning a wedding in three months, which will also come in very handy for any couples who are lagging behind on their to-do lists.

Wedding dilemma: A listener writes, “My fiancé and I got engaged about two months ago and we’ve had a lovely time celebrating so far. My problem is that I think his daughter is feeling quite left out. She’s 13 and we get on really well so I know she’s OK with us getting married, but she just doesn’t seem like herself since we got engaged. I get the feeling that she thinks we’ll be so busy with the wedding that we won’t have time for her. Any idea how we can make her feel more included? She’s not really into clothes or makeup so I don’t think she’ll be interested in wedding dress shopping or being a bridesmaid." Our advice for this listener, and indeed anyone in a similar position, is to chat to the family member in question, aad find a role within the wedding that they're comfortable with and excited about!

Something to do when you're not planning your wedding: In this episode, Celina tries to convince Claire to pay a leisurely weekend visit to her chosen garden centre, with mixed results!

Thanks for listening! Got something to add to the conversation? Shoot us a mail at hello@onefabday.com. We want the One Fab Day Wedding Podcast to make wedding planning easier and more enjoyable for you, our beloved listener, so if there's something you'd love to hear discussed on the show, or a question you'd like answered, please do drop us a line.

If you loved the episode, don't forget to rate and review the podcast on iTunes. You should also make sure you're subscribed to the podcast - that way you'll receive notifications every time a new episode is released! Oh, and if you know anyone who's engaged and planning a wedding, or a bridesmaid, groomsman, parent or wedding guest who needs a dilemma solved, be sure to tell them about the podcast and share a link.

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Music by Kevin Macleod

FURTHER READING:

The Essential Wedding Photo Checklist

How to Plan a Wedding in Three...

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The One Fab Day Wedding Podcast is back! On our brand new episode Editor Jessica O'Sullivan talks to Rachel and Hannah Healy, co-founders of Yoga Mara, on how to stay grounded while wedding planning. Not only are they mindfulness, movement and breathwork experts, but Hannah is recently married and Rachel is newly engaged, so they know exactly what couples are going through.

Rachel and Hannah are two sisters from Galway who are co-founders of Yoga Mara (yogamaraescapes.com) and the hosts of the Love Your Limits podcast, empowering you to shed fear and self-doubt to move into a place of self-love and confidence.

In this episode they share practical tips about how to manage the stress that can come with wedding panning, how to protect your mental health, how to deal with pressure, especially unsolicited opinions, as well as how to be fully present and truly joyful on your wedding day.

Yoga Mara: https://www.yogamaraescapes.com/

Yoga Mara Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/yogamaraescapes/?hl=en

Love Your Limits Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/3ZXFzHusxSIhQBbdg1MYGQ

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On episode 51 of The One Fab Day Wedding Podcast, we're going deep on a wedding-planning topic that almost every couple tells us is a top priority - the food and the drinks! Planning your wedding menu can be a real challenge - many couples aren't sure whether to take inspiration from their personal favourites or stick to crowd-pleasers, and then there are dietary requirements, wine allocations and late-night food offerings to think about! To tackle these questions and more, we're joined by Andrew Rudd, the executive chef and owner of Dublin venue Medley, who also looks after weddings and events at Ballintubbert House and Gardens in Co. Laois. As well as sharing lots of mouth-watering wedding food ideas, he's giving us a crash course on the world of wedding catering. Enjoy!

Episode Breakdown: Wedding Food and Drink 101

Wedding tip: Celina's tip this week is to keep your wedding cake design simple! If you're having a cake topper, ask your baker to focus the decoration on the lower layers of the cake, and remember that laser-cut cake toppers work better when they've got a long stem!

Main topic: This week, we're talking wedding food and drink, covering such diverse topics as how to design the ultimate wedding feast, where to cut the budget, and how much wine to allocate per guest. Joining us in the studio is private chef and food writer Andrew Rudd of Irish venues Medley and Ballintubbert House and Gardens, who shares some of his favourite wedding food ideas, and answers lots and lots of our listeners' questions. Be sure to grab a snack before you hit play, because this episode makes for hungry listening!

Wedding dilemma: A listener writes, “I was wondering if you'd have any advice for me - I'm getting married abroad later in the year. I was quoted crazy money for hair and makeup over there, so I decided to ask my hairdresser and makeup artist from home to come, as covering her flights, accommodation and fee is still less than the quotes I got. I'm meeting her next week to discuss details and just want to be as prepared as possible. What would you think needs to be covered and paid for by us? And I don't want to have a legal contract with solicitors but I do want some sort of agreement so that I know I can depend on her - would you have any advice on this? ” Our advice for this listener is to expect to pay for flights, accommodation, transport and meals, and potentially extra checked luggage, but to discuss this with your hairstylist and makeup artist well in advance, and to follow up any conversations in writing by email.

Something to do when you're not planning your wedding: In this episode, Celina's raving about essential oils!

Thanks for listening! Got something to add to the conversation? Shoot us a mail at hello@onefabday.com. We want the One Fab Day Wedding Podcast to make wedding planning easier and more enjoyable for you, our beloved listener, so if there's something you'd love to hear discussed on the show, or a question you'd like answered, please do drop us a line.

If you loved the episode, don't forget to rate and review the podcast on iTunes. You should also make sure you're subscribed to the podcast - that way you'll receive notifications every time a new episode is released! Oh...

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In episode four of the One Fab Day Wedding Podcast, we introduce our very first guest, Tara Fay of Xena Productions and RTÉ TV show My Big Day Home or Away, who lifts the curtain on why weddings make such a significant dent in our bank balances. In Ireland, where we're based, the average cost of a wedding is €31,000, which, for some couples, is more than the deposit for their first home. Obviously, you can plan an amazing wedding on pretty much any budget, but we wanted to discuss where the money goes on your big day, how to set a realistic budget and how to stop yourself from going overboard!

Episode Breakdown: Episode 4 - Why Are Weddings So Expensive?

Wedding tip: We discuss the Pros of doing an engagement shoot with your wedding photographer.

Main topic: In a fascinating chat with bespoke wedding planner Tara Fay, we shed some light on what dictates wedding supplier costs, and how to set a budget that works for you.

Wedding dilemma: A reader writes, "I’m getting married in 13 months and I’m really happy with everything to do with my wedding venue, except the wedding coordinator who works at the venue. She was really helpful initially, but has been giving me the cold shoulder lately. I sent her four emails last week and she hasn’t responded to a single one of them. Am I out of order or should she be paying a little bit more attention to me?" We break down the reasons behind wedding coordinator ghosting, and offer some tips on how to get the most out of your venue.

Something to do when you're not planning your wedding: Claire indulges her love for Dolly Parton and drag queens with the Netflix movie, Dumplin'.

Thanks for listening! Got something to add to the conversation? Shoot us a mail at hello@onefabday.com. We want the One Fab Day Wedding Podcast to make wedding planning easier and more enjoyable for you, our beloved listener, so if there's something you'd love to hear discussed on the show, or a question you'd like answered, please do drop us a line.

If you loved the episode, don't forget to rate and review the podcast on iTunes. You should also make sure you're subscribed to the podcast - that way you'll receive notifications every time a new episode is released! Oh, and if you know anyone who's engaged and planning a wedding, or a bridesmaid, groomsman, parent or wedding guest who needs a dilemma solved, be sure to tell them about the podcast and share a link.

Music by Kevin Macleod

Produced by UrbanMedia

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In episode 15 of The One Fab Day Wedding Podcast, we turned the microphone over to you guys for a Q&A Special! An ask-us-anything quickfire round in which we aim to address as many of your wedding dilemmas as possible. We're tackling everything from awkward guest list issues to what kind of bra to wear with a backless dress. It's a real smorgasbord of wedding planning problems, and we're only too happy to lend our advice!

Episode Breakdown: Episode 15 - Wedding Q&A Special

Wedding tip: This week, Claire's tip is two words: be decisive. While it doesn't come naturally to everyone, being decisive will save you time, stress and money in wedding planning.

Main topic: It's our first ever wedding Q&A special! We did a shout out on Instagram for your most pressing dilemmas and you sent them by the dozen. From what to do about 'your black sheep uncle' to how to plan out your wedding morning timeline, we're dishing out our top tips - quickfire style! This is an essential listen, whatever stage of wedding planning you're at. P.S. Thanks so much to everyone who sent us questions!

Something to do when you're not planning your wedding: In this episode, Claire's taking a leaf from Áine in One Fab Day's book with a pampering staycation at your parents' house!

Thanks for listening!

Got something to add to the conversation? Shoot us a mail at hello@onefabday.com. We want the One Fab Day Wedding Podcast to make wedding planning easier and more enjoyable for you, our beloved listener, so if there's something you'd love to hear discussed on the show, or a question you'd like answered, please do drop us a line.

If you loved the episode, don't forget to rate and review the podcast on iTunes. You should also make sure you're subscribed to the podcast - that way you'll receive notifications every time a new episode is released! Oh, and if you know anyone who's engaged and planning a wedding, or a bridesmaid, groomsman, parent or wedding guest who needs a dilemma solved, be sure to tell them about the podcast and share a link.

Produced by UrbanMedia

Music by KevinMacleod

FURTHER READING:

Tips for Planning a Destination Wedding

How to Choose a Wedding Venue

Non-Essentials to Cut from your Wedding

What You Need for a Wedding Photo Booth

How to Manage Children at Weddings

How to Make Your Wedding Less Expensive for your Guests

Finding the Perfect Wedding Lingerie

Minimising Drama on a Hen

Our Recommended Wedding Cake Bakers

Tips and Tools for Making a Table Plan

Where to Find Bridal Party Robes

Hen Party Checklist and Planning Timeline

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We often hear from readers who are feeling overwhelmed because their partner isn't pulling their weight, so on this episode of The One Fab Day Wedding Podcast, we wanted to have a frank discussion about the relationship dynamics of planning a wedding. A wedding is a celebration of the love between two people, so, as far as we're concerned, putting the whole thing together should be a two-person job (with lots of help from willing volunteers, of course!) That's why we sat down with a real-life engaged couple, Eoin and Yvette, to hash out some of the trickier aspects of planning a wedding with your partner, from settling on your priorities, to dividing up the tasks and to sharing the financial burden. Plus, we talk choosing the bridal party and easy ways to put your guests at ease on the big day.

Episode Breakdown: Episode 12 - Why it Takes Two to Plan a Wedding

Wedding tip: This week, we're championing creating a printed timeline to display in your wedding venue. This may seem like a small detail, but believe us, it'll put your guests at ease if they know where they're supposed to be, and when!

Main topic: Our guests this week are real-life engaged couple, Eoin O'Neill and Yvette Poufong. Yvette is a broadcaster and marketing whiz, and Eoin is a videographer with a sideline in whiskey (he's one half of Whiskey Barons, who organise tastings all around the country), and they're busily getting ready for their wedding in June. With their help, we discuss how to get on the same page as your partner during wedding planning and, crucially, how to stay there.

Wedding dilemma: A listener writes, “I have two girls I've been friends with for 15 years. We meet every now and again but we were quite close. They are expecting to be my bridesmaids. However, since I got engaged they haven't been interested in me at all. I invited them over the weekend post-engagement and they just complained about their own problems the whole night (one hasn't even acknowledged I'm engaged at all). They have no interest, one will be emigrating early next year so won’t be around for planning at all either. I want to ask a college pal to be my bridesmaid, she is fantastic and has been so helpful and enthusiastic as long as I've known her, even more so since I got engaged. But I will lose the other two as friends if I don't ask them. What do I do?” This week, we're delivering some no-nonsense #realtalk on choosing your bridal party.

Something to do when you're not planning your wedding: In a move that should surprise no-one, we have another food-based recommendation this week! Claire suggests creating a restaurant bucket list for your town or city.

Thanks for listening! Got something to add to the conversation? Shoot us a mail at hello@onefabday.com. We want the One Fab Day Wedding Podcast to make wedding planning easier and more enjoyable for you, our beloved listener, so if there's something you'd love to hear discussed on the show, or a question you'd like answered, please do drop us a line.

If you loved the episode, don't forget to rate and review the podcast on iTunes. You should also make sure you're subscribed to the podcast - that way you'll receive notifications every time a new episode is released! Oh, and if you know anyone who's engaged and planning a wedding, or a bridesmaid, groomsman, parent or wedding guest who needs a dilemma solved, be sure to tell them about the podcast and share a link.

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Music by Kevin Macleod

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On episode 13 of The One Fab Day Wedding Podcast, we're donning our fake veils and #bridesquad badges (quite literally!) and distilling all of our hen party planning knowledge into one indispensable guide! It goes without saying that you want to throw your beloved bride-to-be the most amazing hen do or bachelorette party, but this task is not as easy as it seems! Between budgeting, logistics and the dreaded drama in the WhatsApp group, there are lots of tricky factors at play, so in this episode, we wanted to answer some of the biggest questions around hen party planning, namely, "Who gets invited?", "Who pays for what?" and "How many willy straws is too many willy straws?". Plus, we solve a very common guest-list dilemma!

Episode Breakdown: Episode 13 - How to Throw an Unforgettable Hen Party

Wedding tip: This week, we're asking you to take a moment to consider the needs of any guests who are elderly or pregnant, or have specific access or dietary requirements, and make a plan for looking after them!

Main topic: Planning a hen party or bachelorette party? You've come to the right place, because in this episode of The One Fab Day Wedding Podcast, we're delivering Hen Party 101! We're breaking down the dos and don'ts of hen parties, and offering up some of our favourite ideas, from glamping to karaoke, beach parties to wine tastings, and yoga retreats to music festivals.

Wedding dilemma: A listener writes, “I emailed my friend from college for her address for the wedding invitations, she sent it on and said she was excited to come to the wedding with her partner and six-year-old daughter. Any advice on how to say it's invite-only and kids don't count? We can’t really say it’s a kids-free wedding because there are a couple of flower girls in the wedding party.” Our advice this week includes blaming the venue (a life-changing tip, honestly), and having a one-on-one chat with the guest in question.

Something to do when you're not planning your wedding: In this episode, Celina indulges her lethargic side by recommending a self-enforced couch day!

Thanks for listening! Got something to add to the conversation? Shoot us a mail at hello@onefabday.com. We want the One Fab Day Wedding Podcast to make wedding planning easier and more enjoyable for you, our beloved listener, so if there's something you'd love to hear discussed on the show, or a question you'd like answered, please do drop us a line.

If you loved the episode, don't forget to rate and review the podcast on iTunes. You should also make sure you're subscribed to the podcast - that way you'll receive notifications every time a new episode is released! Oh, and if you know anyone who's engaged and planning a wedding, or a bridesmaid, groomsman, parent or wedding guest who needs a dilemma solved, be sure to tell them about the podcast and share a link.

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Music by KevinMacleod

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It's a situation that nobody wants to find themselves in, but in episode three of the One Fab Day Wedding Podcast, we discuss what to do when you've got reservations about your friend's future spouse. To help us unpack this exceedingly hairy issue, we recruited the help of Léa Rose Emery, freelance journalist and host of the Money Sex Power podcast. She wrote about the subject at length in her Cosmopolitan article, titled 5 Things to Consider if you Think your Friend is Marrying the 'Wrong' Person, so she's the ideal person to help us figure out when to speak up, and when to hold your tongue.

Episode Breakdown: Episode 5 - Help! I Think My Friend is Marrying the Wrong Person

Wedding tip: We share our tips for approaching wedding suppliers who you think might be out of your price range.

Main topic: With the help of freelance journalist Léa Rose Emery, we attempt to solve the ultimate wedding-related quandary; what to do if you don't like your friend's future spouse!

Wedding dilemma: A bride writes, "This might seem like a silly question, but how do you pee in your wedding dress? I have a mermaid-style wedding dress with buttons the whole way down the back and it’s fitted below my knee. Will I have to take the whole thing off every time." Our advice this week relies heavily on button hooks and pee partners.

Something to do when you're not planning your wedding: Celina attempts to convince Claire of the merits of reading cookbooks in bed.

Thanks for listening! Got something to add to the conversation? Shoot us a mail at hello@onefabday.com. We want the One Fab Day Wedding Podcast to make wedding planning easier and more enjoyable for you, our beloved listener, so if there's something you'd love to hear discussed on the show, or a question you'd like answered, please do drop us a line.

If you loved the episode, don't forget to rate and review the podcast on iTunes. You should also make sure you're subscribed to the podcast - that way you'll receive notifications every time a new episode is released! Oh, and if you know anyone who's engaged and planning a wedding, or a bridesmaid, groomsman, parent or wedding guest who needs a dilemma solved, be sure to tell them about the podcast and share a link.

Music by Kevin Macleod

Produced by UrbanMedia

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In episode three of the One Fab Day Wedding Podcast, we're turning our attention to the wedding guests, and the many ways in which this eager group of revellers can make or break a wedding celebration! If asked, we'd probably all say that we were impeccable partygoers, but some (seemingly innocent!) wedding guest habits can be really frustrating for the couple, for example, casually mentioning that you're not going to bother RSVPing, asking logistical questions on the day of the wedding, and assuming that it's fine to be 15 minutes late. With that in mind, we're laying down some semi-strict rules for wedding guests, along with some useful nuggets of advice!

Episode Breakdown: Episode 3 - How to Avoid Being an Awful Wedding Guest

Wedding tip: Why we always recommend working to a fake deadline when planning your wedding.

Main topic: We share a set of rules for how to be a good wedding guest, spanning RSVPs, dress codes, gifts, and social media posts.

Wedding dilemma: A reader writes, "I really hate getting my photo taken and my partner feels the same. We’re thinking about not having a photographer but all of our friends think we’re mad. Surely someone will get a few nice photos on the day? Thoughts?" We deliver a public service announcement on the importance of wedding photography.

Something to do when you're not planning your wedding: Claire discusses her love of audiobook autobiographies, and shares a few recommendations!

Thanks for listening! Got something to add to the conversation? Shoot us a mail at hello@onefabday.com. We want the One Fab Day Wedding Podcast to make wedding planning easier and more enjoyable for you, our beloved listener, so if there's something you'd love to hear discussed on the show, or a question you'd like answered, please do drop us a line.

If you loved the episode, don't forget to rate and review the podcast on iTunes. You should also make sure you're subscribed to the podcast - that way you'll receive notifications every time a new episode is released! Oh, and if you know anyone who's engaged and planning a wedding, or a bridesmaid, groomsman, parent or wedding guest who needs a dilemma solved, be sure to tell them about the podcast and share a link.

Music by Kevin Macleod

Produced by UrbanMedia

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In episode 32 of The One Fab Day Wedding Podcast, we're lighting the candles, donning our sparkliest dresses, and clinking glasses of mulled wine, because this episode is all about winter weddings! If you're due to get married in the colder months, or you're currently weighing up the pros and cons of a winter wedding, this is definitely the episode for you! Not only are we offering up our top winter wedding tips, covering everything from styling to logistics to bad-weather back-up plans, but we're taking you through our favourite ideas for this style of celebration, including Irish coffee receptions, blanket baskets and Christmas cookie favours!

Episode Breakdown: Your Essential Guide to Winter Weddings

Wedding tip: Celina's tip this week is stolen directly from a real couple, Mick and Erin! You choose four or five people close to you, give them each a word, then ask them to write a blessing based on that word to read aloud during the ceremony. The words could be love, friendship, loyalty, family, spirituality, kindness, forgiveness, adventure, creativity, etc. This is a really nice, and low-pressure way to invite friends and family members to put their own stamp on the ceremony, and orchestrate a fun surprise for you and your partner to look forward to on the day!

Main topic: Today's episode is all about winter weddings, which we're both huge fans of! While we do love to get caught up in the magic of festive celebrations, we're also hugely interested in the practical side of getting married in winter. Our top winter wedding tips include advice on selecting a venue, availing of off-peak rates (this one comes with a hefty disclaimer - few guests will be able to attend your December 24th wedding!), choosing decorations, and working with your photographer to get the best possible portraits, even on one of the shortest days of the year!

Wedding dilemma: A listener writes, “My other half is Polish and we’re getting married in Ireland. Everyone attending the wedding speaks fluent English, except for my fiancé’s parents, who have no English at all. They are quite conservative and can be hard to please at the best of times, so getting them involved is tricky but I don’t want them to feel lost or left out on the day. Beyond reading a poem in Polish, or lighting the candles, we can't think of anything they can do on the day. I don't want to make everyone sit through a ceremony or speeches that are twice as long while everything is translated. Any ideas for how to manage bilingual weddings, or do you think we are overthinking it?” The advice we're offering this listener include having signage in both languages, having ceremony booklets in both languages, having a bilingual friend or relative sit beside the future in-laws to translate, and researching Polish wedding traditions to incorporate into the day.

Something to do when you're not planning your wedding: In this episode, Celina's recommending planning a fun weekend away with a pal!

Thanks for listening! Got something to add to the conversation? Shoot us a mail at hello@onefabday.com. We want the One Fab Day Wedding Podcast to make wedding planning easier and more enjoyable for you, our beloved listener, so if there's something you'd love to hear discussed on the show, or a question you'd like answered, please do drop us a line.

If you loved the episode, don't forget to rate and review the podcast on iTunes. You should also make sure you're subscribed to the podcast - that way you'll receive notifications every time a new episode is released! Oh, and if you know anyone who's engaged and planning a...

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In episode 14 of The One Fab Day Wedding Podcast, we're talking about how to make your wedding ceremony your own - whether you're saying your vows in a church or on a cliffside. For some couples the wedding ceremony is 'just the legal bit' but for others it's a chance to declare your love in a meaningful away in front of all your favourite people. We'll be joined by accredited humanist celebrant - and all-round fabulous lady! - Emer Dillon, who's guaranteed to give you the feels as she talks us through some beautiful ideas for adding meaningful rituals to your wedding. Whatever your ceremony means for you, today's chat will cover all your options, how to make it personal, and how to navigate any politics around choosing an 'alternative' ceremony.

Episode Breakdown: Episode 14 - How to Make Your Ceremony *Really* Special

Wedding tip: Always looking out for wardrobe malfunctions, we're making an appeal to grooms, best men, groomsmen and dads: don't forget to pack a second shirt to keep you looking fresh all day long!

Main topic: We're talking wedding ceremonies. For today's main event, we're joined by someone who has made wedding ceremonies her day job, humanist celebrant, Emer Dillon. She's sharing her expert advice and insight on making your ceremony truly special. Whatever kind of vows you're having, civil, secular or religious, we reckon this chat will make for enlightening listening!

Wedding dilemma: A listener writes, “I am getting married in the summer next year. I am the first to get married in my family. I am really excited and already organising bands, photographers, going dress shopping next month! My dilemma is that my mother doesn’t seem interested. I don’t live at home and haven’t for a number of years, and when I call her for the chats she never asks me about it unless I bring it up. She loves my future husband btw, so I know it’s nothing like that. But it gets me down a bit as I would love her to be just as excited as me! On the other hand, my fiancé’s mother is always interested in our plans and is constantly asking about it, so at least I have that but I wish my own mother would be more interested. Any advice?” Listen up for our tips on how to get reluctant parents involved and excited in the build-up to your big day.

Something to do when you're not planning your wedding: In this episode, Celina tells us all about Dublin's One City One Book - and why you should find out what your city-wide need-to-read tome is.

Thanks for listening!

Got something to add to the conversation? Shoot us a mail at hello@onefabday.com. We want the One Fab Day Wedding Podcast to make wedding planning easier and more enjoyable for you, our beloved listener, so if there's something you'd love to hear discussed on the show, or a question you'd like answered, please do drop us a line.

If you loved the episode, don't forget to rate and review the podcast on iTunes. You should also make sure you're subscribed to the podcast - that way you'll receive notifications every time a new episode is released! Oh, and if you know anyone who's engaged and planning a wedding, or a bridesmaid, groomsman, parent or wedding guest who needs a dilemma solved, be sure to tell them about the podcast and share a link.

Produced by UrbanMedia

Music by KevinMacleod

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In the second episode of the One Fab Day Wedding Podcast, we delve into an area of wedding planning that can often be a source of stress and conflict - involving your parents in your wedding! There's no denying that we owe a lot to our parents, but sometimes their expectations for the big day simply don't align with ours. With that in mind, we decided to tackle some of the burning questions around parents and weddings, including "Should my parents be allowed to invite people to my wedding!?" and "How do I politely ask my in-laws to stop interfering?" We also discuss how accepting financial contributions from your parents can change the dynamic of your day. As you may have guessed, this episode is full of family #realtalk!

Episode Breakdown: Episode 2 - Parents and Weddings, How to Deal

Wedding tip: We offer some advice that will help make your wedding morning infinitely calmer!

Main topic: We share our tips for managing the expectations of your parents and in-laws, including a whole lot of financial #realtalk.

Wedding dilemma: A bride writes, "We are two brides getting married, do our dresses need to match? How can we make sure our looks tie in without seeing each other’s dresses beforehand?" We provide some handy styling tips for same-sex couples.

Something to do when you're not planning your wedding: Celina explores the emotional and comedic rollercoaster that is the press junket for Mariah Carey's new album, Caution.

Thanks for listening! Got something to add to the conversation? Shoot us a mail at hello@onefabday.com. We want the One Fab Day Wedding Podcast to make wedding planning easier and more enjoyable for you, our beloved listener, so if there's something you'd love to hear discussed on the show, or a question you'd like answered, please do drop us a line.

If you loved the episode, don't forget to rate and review the podcast on iTunes. You should also make sure you're subscribed to the podcast - that way you'll receive notifications every time a new episode is released! Oh, and if you know anyone who's engaged and planning a wedding, or a bridesmaid, groomsman, parent or wedding guest who needs a dilemma solved, be sure to tell them about the podcast and share a link.

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In episode 34 of The One Fab Day Wedding Podcast, we're on a mission to help you create a meaningful and highly personal ceremony, the kind that will make your guests laugh, cry, and maybe even break into song! Unfortunately, this is easier said than done, particularly if you're having a religious or civil ceremony (although, it's worth pointing out that secular and symbolic ceremonies have restrictions, too!). This week, we wanted to offer up our favourite unique wedding ceremony ideas for all couples, whether you're getting hitched in a catholic church, a registry office or on the side of a cliff! If we may toot our own horns for a moment, we think this is a super helpful episode, and we hope you walk away from it with lots of inspiration for your own big day!

Episode Breakdown: How to Make *Any* Kind of Wedding Ceremony Special

Wedding tip: Claire's tip this week is for grooms; make a fun plan for the morning of the wedding, or you might find yourself at a loose end for four and a half hours, while other wedding party members are getting hair and makeup done!

Main topic: Today's episode is all about ways to personalise your wedding ceremony, be it religious, civil, secular or purely symbolic. For secular and symbolic ceremonies, we're able to offer up lots of unique wedding ceremony ideas across readings, music, and rituals, while couples are more restricted in religious and civil ceremonies. That said, we've included lots of tips in this episode on how to speak to your officiant in advance of your ceremony, as well as ideas for how to personalise this part of your day when restrictions are extremely strict, and you only have a small amount of wiggle room!

Wedding dilemma: A listener writes, “What are your thoughts on putting where you are registered on the wedding invitation? My worry is that it’s a bit rude. But my other worry is that I already have two cutlery sets and the risk of adding to that is very high!” On the whole, we don't think it's presumptuous to put the details of your wedding registry on the invitation. But, of course, we're offering a few tips for subtle ways to point your guests in the right direction!

Something to do when you're not planning your wedding: In this episode, Claire talks about the joys of making jam... because who doesn't love jam!?

Thanks for listening! Got something to add to the conversation? Shoot us a mail at hello@onefabday.com. We want the One Fab Day Wedding Podcast to make wedding planning easier and more enjoyable for you, our beloved listener, so if there's something you'd love to hear discussed on the show, or a question you'd like answered, please do drop us a line.

If you loved the episode, don't forget to rate and review the podcast on iTunes. You should also make sure you're subscribed to the podcast - that way you'll receive notifications every time a new episode is released! Oh, and if you know anyone who's engaged and planning a wedding, or a bridesmaid, groomsman, parent or wedding guest who needs a dilemma solved, be sure to tell them about the podcast and share a link.

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While we've had lots of fun on the The One Fab Day Wedding Podcast so far, discussing delightfully frothy subjects like planning your engagement bash and styling the wedding party, this week, we're doing something a little different. Episode seven finds us sitting down with Sasha Hamrogue, co-host of the podcast, Grief Encounters, to talk about her big day, and how losing both her parents led her to jet off to New York with her now-husband for a top-secret elopement. Bereavement and wedding planning is a topic that hits home for both Claire and I, as we've each lost a parent, so we really hope our chat with Sasha brings a tiny dose of comfort to couples who will be missing a loved one on their wedding day.

Wedding tip: This week, we're urging you to create a wedding website. Believe us, it'll make all of your guest list interactions so much easier!

Main topic: Planning a wedding when you've lost a loved one is more common than you'd think, and everyone copes with it differently - some people plough ahead with the party of their dreams, for others it totally changes their attitude towards weddings. For us, the best way to tackle this tricky subject is to hear real couple's stories, so that's exactly what we're doing in this episode, with Sasha Hamrogue, co-host of the podcast, Grief Encounters.

Wedding dilemma: A listener writes, “My fiancé and I sat down to write out our guest list last night and we fell at the first hurdle! I’ve got loads of family that I want to invite. There’s immediate family, grandparents, aunts, uncles and cousins on both sides so there are about 40 in total. My fiancé only wants to invite his Mam, Dad and sister as he’s not close to any of his extended family. He says he’s totally fine with all of this and just those three, but I’m worried it might look strange. I feel selfish having such a long list - do I need to cut my list down?”

Something to do when you're not planning your wedding: Inspired by a magical evening at Dublin hotspot Lilliput Press, Claire encourages us to sign up for events at our local bookshops.

Bonus section: Claire and Celina react to a surprise engagement (sort of!)

Thanks for listening!

Got something to add to the conversation? Shoot us a mail at hello@onefabday.com. We want the One Fab Day Wedding Podcast to make wedding planning easier and more enjoyable for you, our beloved listener, so if there's something you'd love to hear discussed on the show, or a question you'd like answered, please do drop us a line.

If you loved the episode, don't forget to rate and review the podcast on iTunes. You should also make sure you're subscribed to the podcast - that way you'll receive notifications every time a new episode is released! Oh, and if you know anyone who's engaged and planning a wedding, or a bridesmaid, groomsman, parent or wedding guest who needs a dilemma solved, be sure to tell them about the podcast and share a link.

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This week on The One Fab Day Wedding Podcast, we're taking you on a virtual trip to the cinema, to see how many sneaky wedding-planning tips we can glean from Hollywood's best-loved wedding movies, from Father of the Bride to Bride Wars to Wedding Crashers! Joining us is FM104’s resident movie buff and newlywed Stephen King O'Farrell, who'll be helping us choose the most worthwhile lessons on the subjects of speeches, table plans and bridesmaid dress shopping! And, we'll be handing out awards for some of our all-time favourite on-screen wedding moments, including Most Obscene Wedding and Swoonworthiest Groom! Enjoy!

Episode Breakdown: Episode 23: Wedding Lessons We Learned from the Movies

Wedding tip: This week, we're talking table plans! Claire's advising you to wait until the day before the wedding to finalise your seating chart or table plan display, or, even better, to make it editable!

Main topic: Our chat this week is all about wedding movies - the good, the bad and the just plain ridiculous! We begin by discussing our own favourite wedding-themed films - Stephen's pick is Four Weddings and a Funeral, Celina's pick is Muriel's Wedding, and Claire's pick is Bridesmaids. All three of these films are fun and frothy comedies, but we've managed to find a few golden nuggets of wedding-planning advice lurking beneath the surface. We'll also be dishing out wedding movie awards, including a Best Entertainer gong for the rapping Granny in The Wedding Singer (apologies to Liza Minnelli of Sex and the City 2 notoriety, remember that it's an honour just to be nominated!)

Wedding dilemma: A listener writes, “We're having a Catholic ceremony and it's a serious amount of paperwork (that's a dilemma in itself), but the problem is that we don't have a local priest as we don't go to mass every Sunday, and just want a super nice sound guy who can marry us and the priest in the nearby church isn't fantastic. Are we going to have to go to a different church every Sunday and try and corner the priest we like? What's the etiquette? Or do we have to make do with a priest that may not exactly be our style?" In this episode, we're delivering an answer that the listener probably doesn't want to hear - no, you generally can't choose your priest according to their personality!

Something to do when you're not planning your wedding: Claire's recommendation this week is a great one - plan a one-on-one date with your parents and/or siblings.

Thanks for listening! Got something to add to the conversation? Shoot us a mail at hello@onefabday.com. We want the One Fab Day Wedding Podcast to make wedding planning easier and more enjoyable for you, our beloved listener, so if there's something you'd love to hear discussed on the show, or a question you'd like answered, please do drop us a line.

If you loved the episode, don't forget to rate and review the podcast on iTunes. You should also make sure you're subscribed to the podcast - that way you'll receive notifications every time a new episode is released! Oh, and if you know anyone who's engaged and planning a wedding, or a bridesmaid, groomsman, parent or wedding guest who needs a dilemma solved, be sure to tell them about the podcast and share a link.

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Music by Kevin Macleod

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In episode 27 of The One Fab Day Wedding Podcast, we’re tackling a subject that isn’t often spoken about, but affects pretty much every engaged couple - wedding-related stress and anxiety. This could be anything from pre-ceremony nerves to the kind of severe anxiety that warrants a trip to see a doctor or mental health professional. We asked psychotherapist and author Stella O’Malley to help us answer some of the bigger questions on this topic, including, "How can I minimise conflict with my family members around my wedding?"and "How do I know that it's time to see a councellor about my anxiety?", as well as offering our own practical tips, and handy coping mechanisms for managing wedding-related stress.

Episode Breakdown: Anxiety, Stress and Your Wedding: How to Deal

Wedding tip: Celina's nugget of wisdom this week is to avoid hitting the shops in the last few weeks of wedding planning. Sure, those Wifey for Lifey socks are cute, but not essential!

Main topic: If you're currently planning a wedding, there's a very high chance that you've already experienced a little bit of stress, be it guest list, budget or weather-related! That's why we wanted to clear a space in our podcast schedule for a frank discussion about anxiety and weddings, including some invaluable tips from psychologist Stella O’Malley on managing your frustrations, be they large or small, and practical advice that will leave you in the best possible position to enjoy the planning process!

Wedding dilemma: A listener writes, “My sister showed me a picture of the dress she’s bought for my wedding and although it’s not a wedding dress, it’s pretty close! It’s white and knee-length, and kind of bridalish, it’s the sort of dress that a bride would wear to a civil ceremony or city hall wedding. She’s really excited about it, so obviously I don’t want to wreck her buzz, but at the same time, I know she can easily find another dress that isn’t so bridal. Am I being unreasonable if I ask her to return the dress and get another one?" Our advice this week includes evaluating the bridal factor of your own wedding-day outfit, and asking a family member or mutual friend to have a quiet word with your sister!

Something to do when you're not planning your wedding: In this episode, Celina's recommending a digital detox, but only for one night!

Thanks for listening! Got something to add to the conversation? Shoot us a mail at hello@onefabday.com. We want the One Fab Day Wedding Podcast to make wedding planning easier and more enjoyable for you, our beloved listener, so if there's something you'd love to hear discussed on the show, or a question you'd like answered, please do drop us a line.

If you loved the episode, don't forget to rate and review the podcast on iTunes. You should also make sure you're subscribed to the podcast - that way you'll receive notifications every time a new episode is released! Oh, and if you know anyone who's engaged and planning a wedding, or a bridesmaid, groomsman, parent or wedding guest who needs a dilemma solved, be sure to tell them about the podcast and share a link.

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Music by Kevin Macleod

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Episode 53 of The One Fab Day Wedding Podcast is a little bit different to previous episodes, as we recorded it from our respective homes due to Covid-19 restrictions. Thanks to the technological prowess and admirable patience of our producer, Ian Doyle, we were able to put together what we consider to be a really helpful episode, so we hope you don't mind too much that the sound quality isn't up to our usual standards! The episode also marks our final show before we head off on maternity leave and the podcast goes on hiatus, so we wanted to answer as many reader and listener questions as we possibly could in one, whopper Q&A session! Of course, many of these questions deal with coronavirus and weddings, but we're also tackling guest list dilemmas, style queries and plenty more besides. 

Episode Breakdown: A Covid-19 and Wedding Planning Q&A

Wedding tip: Celina's tip this week is to make a detailed wedding-day schedule, from wake-up call to last dance, and share it with one or two key suppliers, who should be able to easily identify any oversights! Couples often tell us that they underestimated the time it would take to get ready, travel between venues, have their portrait session, and get through the speeches, so this tip could save you some unwelcome stress on the big day itself!

Main topic: Today, we're bringing you another wedding-planning Q&A, but not the one we had originally planned! We were expecting to discuss topics like dress shopping and wedding party politics, but understandably, we've been flooded with questions about coronavirus and weddings, and we wanted to address as many of these as possible. And, although we haven't been able to give as much concrete, practical advice as we would like, with the situation looking so uncertain, we think that this will be a really useful (and hopefully reassuring!) listen for anyone whose wedding looks set to be affected by Covid-19. We also made sure to answer lots of non coronavirus-related questions, as we know that the resulting tips will come in handy when this is all over and you're back in the swing of wedding planning!

Something to do when you're not planning your wedding: In this episode, Celina and Claire discuss their favourite email newsletters, both free and subscription-based, including Rogue, Longreads, Pocket, Charlotte Jacklin's Monday Motivator, and Laura Jackson's The Hoste Post.

Thanks for listening! If you loved the episode, don't forget to rate and review the podcast on iTunes. Oh, and if you know anyone who's engaged and planning a wedding, be sure to tell them about the podcast and share a link.

We hope to bring the podcast back in 2021, but, in the meantime, there are over 50 episodes worth of tips and advice for you to listen back to! You can find them all here.

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How do I tell my sister she's not going to be in my bridal party? What should I do if my maid of honour isn't pulling her weight? How can I get my bridesmaids to agree on their dresses? In episode 48 of The One Fab Day Wedding Podcast, we're answering all of these questions and more! Yes, we're attempting to take the drama out of wedding planning by offering our advice and tips for coping with (and hopefully, eliminating!) bridesmaid drama! We'll also be discussing how to choose the right people for the job, and how to manage your expectations (and theirs!), so we really hope you find this episode helpful!

Episode Breakdown: How to Deal With Bridesmaid Drama

Wedding tip: Celina's tip this week is to learn how to tie a tie, and how to tie a bow tie, regardless of how likely you are to wear one on the big day! Believe us when we say that someone in the wedding party will require your expertise!

Main topic: This week, we're giving you a virtual toolbox for dealing with bridesmaid drama, across such potentially controversial areas as dress shopping, hen party planning, and job delegation. We wouldn't, for a minute, want to imply that groups of women are prone to disagreement (that's just not how we roll!), but we can't ignore the many, many questions we receive weekly from brides who are experiencing issues with their bridal party. So, as well as giving you tips for choosing your bridesmaids, and helping you manage your expectations in the run up to the big day, we're sharing our thoughts on some of the most commonly-asked bridesmaid-related questions.

Wedding dilemma: A listener writes, “I was hoping you can help me with an outfit conundrum I have ahead of my daughter’s wedding this summer. I’m not a fan of my legs at the best of times, so I was planning to buy a pants suit, but found the most beautiful light blue dress in the sales, and it was such a bargain, I snapped it up. It looks lovely on, and sits right below the knee, but the problem is my legs! The blue colour just shows up the veins in my legs, and I’m prone to bruising. I don’t want to put lots of effort into my hair, makeup and outfit only for my legs to let me down. Are tan tights really dated? Should I go down the fake tan route? Any tips you have would be great. My daughter lives abroad and isn’t back until the wedding, so I can’t really get her help!” Our advice for this listener is to invest in a good quality pair of tights, and find a stockist where you can expect great customer service. The in-store experts will be happy to help you choose the right pair!

Something to do when you're not planning your wedding: In this episode, Celina's suggesting bullet journalling!

Thanks for listening! Got something to add to the conversation? Shoot us a mail at hello@onefabday.com. We want the One Fab Day Wedding Podcast to make wedding planning easier and more enjoyable for you, our beloved listener, so if there's something you'd love to hear discussed on the show, or a question you'd like answered, please do drop us a line.

If you loved the episode, don't forget to rate and review the podcast on iTunes. You should also make sure you're subscribed to the podcast - that way you'll receive notifications every time a new episode is released! Oh, and if you know anyone who's engaged and planning a wedding, or a bridesmaid, groomsman, parent or wedding guest who needs a dilemma solved, be sure to tell them about the podcast and share a link.

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There's one area of wedding planning that seems to cause more stress and worry than any other - making the wedding guest list. So, this week on The One Fab Day Wedding Podcast, we're trying to make this tricky task a little bit easier, using a handy system we like to call the A-D method. Dividing your prospective guests up into an A List, B List, C List and D List sounds harsh, but it's immeasurably helpful in figuring out who do you have to invite to your wedding. This episode is jam-packed with tips for dealing with the types of guests who often become the source of conflict (cousins, children and plus ones), and navigating unpleasant conversations with those who didn't make the cut.

Episode Breakdown: Episode 17: Who Do You Have To Invite To Your Wedding?

Wedding tip: This week, Claire's got a tip that'll help you create the best wedding your guests have ever attended!

Main topic: While there are no hard or fast rules for making your wedding guest list, we've picked up lots of tips on this subject over the years, which we're passing onto you in this episode! We'll show you how to use the A-D List method to create a watertight guest list, and how to deal with the friends and family members who aren't on it! Oh, and if you enjoy this episode, be sure and give Episode 15, our Q&A special, a listen - we addressed lots of common guest list-related dilemmas on that one!

Wedding dilemma: A listener writes, “I’m going suit shopping soon, and I haven’t a clue what I’m looking for. My brother is my best man and I’m not having any other groomsmen, so I’m worried we’ll look like twins if we wear the same suit! Any ideas?” Our response this week includes some foolproof wedding party styling tips!

Something to do when you're not planning your wedding: We hope you're ready for some kip, because on this episode, Claire's reading us a bedtime story (with a difference!)

Thanks for listening! Got something to add to the conversation? Shoot us a mail at hello@onefabday.com. We want the One Fab Day Wedding Podcast to make wedding planning easier and more enjoyable for you, our beloved listener, so if there's something you'd love to hear discussed on the show, or a question you'd like answered, please do drop us a line.

If you loved the episode, don't forget to rate and review the podcast on iTunes. You should also make sure you're subscribed to the podcast - that way you'll receive notifications every time a new episode is released! Oh, and if you know anyone who's engaged and planning a wedding, or a bridesmaid, groomsman, parent or wedding guest who needs a dilemma solved, be sure to tell them about the podcast and share a link.

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In episode 31 of The One Fab Day Wedding Podcast, we're travelling beyond the wedding day itself, into the tricky post-wedding period. This episode is a direct response to the many readers and listeners who’ve told us that they struggled to fill the gap after their vows had been exchanged, and the confetti had been thrown. Post-wedding blues, otherwise known as post-wedding comedown, are extremely common, and quite natural when you consider what an exciting couple of months you've had. So, over the next half an hour or so, we’ll give you some useful tips and tools for how to deal with the post-wedding slump, and hopefully help you get excited for what the next phase of life brings!

Episode Breakdown: Post-Wedding Comedown: The Struggle is Real

Wedding tip: Claire's top tip this week is to make a plan for peeing in your wedding dress!

Main topic: Today's main topic is all about the very real phenomenon of post-wedding comedown, also known as post-wedding blues. Many couples report feeling sad, lonely, and a little directionless after their big day, so we wanted to offer some advice on how to manage this potentially tricky transition. Obviously, if at any point during the post-wedding period, your feelings become overwhelming, it’s time to pay your GP, counsellor or psychotherapist a visit. In most cases, though, you should benefit from following the tried-and-tested tips in this episode!

Wedding dilemma: A listener writes, “I was just wondering if you had any tips or anything for a bride who's realising throughout planning that she’s a little bit of a loner? I've never had strong friendship groups, and always sat on the outskirts with one or two good friends, but it’s only now as I’ve sat down to check over the guest list, that I realise that I only have three friends coming to the day (plus their partners), and six coming to the evening. For reference, our daytime total is 75 guests and evening about 130 guests. My fiance’s friend count for the day is seven guests, but his evening is 32 guests! Don't get me wrong, I'm not complaining that he’s got a big guest list, but I suppose, until now, I never really thought I was such a loner that I don't even have 10 friends to invite to my own wedding. I find I'm relying heavily on the two people closest to me, but only because I don't have enough other friends to spread the wedstress out to! Any tips or ways to just get over it are greatly appreciated!” Our advice for this bride is to ditch the word "loner" from her vocabulary and try to let go of the idea that there's a perfect number of close friends a person should have at their wedding!

Something to do when you're not planning your wedding: Grab a potter's wheel and someone who boasts the animal magnetism of a 1990s Patrick Swayze, because, in this episode, Claire's recommending you take up pottery!

Thanks for listening! Got something to add to the conversation? Shoot us a mail at hello@onefabday.com. We want the One Fab Day Wedding Podcast to make wedding planning easier and more enjoyable for you, our beloved listener, so if there's something you'd love to hear discussed on the show, or a question you'd like answered, please do drop us a line.

If you loved the episode, don't forget to rate and review the podcast on iTunes. You should also make sure you're subscribed to the podcast - that way you'll receive notifications every time a new episode is released! Oh, and if you know anyone who's engaged and planning a wedding, or a bridesmaid, groomsman, parent or wedding guest who needs a dilemma solved, be sure to tell them about the podcast and share a link.

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In episode 28 of The One Fab Day Wedding Podcast, we're tackling an element of wedding planning that's pretty elusive - making your wedding unique. We're the first to admit that this is a confusing concept. After all, if you Google "unique wedding ideas", you're going to end up with a list of suggestions that are quite the opposite! But in reality, couples often find inspiration for their own personal touches by hearing about other weddings. Making your wedding unique is also about thinking outside the box, which is why we invited Aoife McElwain, the woman behind party phenomenon Singalong Social and author of the book Slow at Work, to share some cool details from her own wedding!

Episode Breakdown: How to Make your Wedding Unique

Wedding tip: Claire's nugget of wisdom this week is to make a plan for which friends, family members, and/or wedding party members should get buttonholes and corsages.

Main topic: Today's main topic is making your wedding unique, but we don't mean exchanging vows during a bungee jump or hosting an underwater reception! We're talking about the sweet details and personal touches that make a wedding a true reflection of your personality. Think giving out little pots of your Granny's jam as wedding favours, or ditching the speeches for a table quiz! To kick off the conversation, we spoke to master party-thrower Aoife McElwain, who is best known as founder of Sing Along Social and author of the book Slow at Work. We hit on some really fun, unique wedding ideas over the course of this chat, so we hope you enjoy!

Wedding dilemma: A listener writes, “How do I put a disclaimer on the invite that basically says there’s no pressure to come? How do I word this? Our wedding is on the Aran Islands so it may well require people taking Friday and Monday off work, as the wedding is Saturday, and the first ferry doesn’t leave a lot of time to get ready. I absolutely want everyone to come, and friends in Australia have already booked flights home as soon as we set the date, but I want to acknowledge that it’s far and awkward and that we won’t be annoyed if people can’t come.” Our advice this week includes a few handy suggestions for how to word the wedding invitations.

Something to do when you're not planning your wedding: In this episode, Claire's recommending a spot of DIY to take your mind off the spreadsheets and supplier emails.

Thanks for listening! Got something to add to the conversation? Shoot us a mail at hello@onefabday.com. We want the One Fab Day Wedding Podcast to make wedding planning easier and more enjoyable for you, our beloved listener, so if there's something you'd love to hear discussed on the show, or a question you'd like answered, please do drop us a line.

If you loved the episode, don't forget to rate and review the podcast on iTunes. You should also make sure you're subscribed to the podcast - that way you'll receive notifications every time a new episode is released! Oh, and if you know anyone who's engaged and planning a wedding, or a bridesmaid, groomsman, parent or wedding guest who needs a dilemma solved, be sure to tell them about the podcast and share a link.

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Music by Kevin Macleod

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In this week's episode of The One Fab Day Wedding Podcast, we're talking about managing your wedding planning timeline, essentially, figuring out what needs to be done, and when, and making a foolproof plan for how it's all going to get completed before the big day! This episode is packed with practical tips, including advice on which items on your to-do list should definitely be left until the final weeks, and which ones benefit from being dealt with early. Enjoy!

Episode Breakdown: How to Manage your Wedding Planning Timeline

Wedding tip: Celina's tip this week is to coordinate the thank yous across all of the speeches, or ask an assigned wedding party member to do this for you. There's really no need for the same people to be thanked in four different speeches!

Main topic: This week, we're presenting you with a handy, step-by-step road map for your wedding. Navigating your wedding-related admin can be quite the challenge - you've got a mammoth to-do list and a large stretch of time in which to complete it. We often hear from couples who aren't sure how to order their tasks, or are worried that they're starting too early, or leaving things too late! That's why we wanted to provide tips and advice for managing your wedding planning timeline.

Wedding dilemma: A listener writes, “Sorry, this is a bit of a complicated one, and I'm not sure if there's much advice that can be given to be honest, but here goes. We're getting married in May and have given out all the invites. We're still waiting on my Nan to RSVP, I thought it was odd that she hadn't, but thought maybe she thought it went without saying that she would be there. Yesterday my mum told me that my Nan has rung my uncle and told him she won't be coming to the wedding if we don't invite her brother, and she was trying to convince him not to come as well. I'm really shocked and hurt by this. We're only having a small wedding at a registry office followed by a small reception venue so we have only been able to invite grandparents and aunts and uncles and a couple of cousins. Plus, there is already some drama between him and my family anyway. I spent the whole day yesterday crying about it as I can't believe she would be so manipulative and spiteful. I am her eldest grandchild and the first of us to get married as well. We've always had a close relationship.” Our advice for this listener is to confront your Nan and reiterate that you'd love to have her attend the wedding but that you're restricted with the guest list, and that sacrifices have been made on both sides. And, whatever the outcome, remind yourself that she's the one making this awkward, not you!

Something to do when you're not planning your wedding: In this episode, Celina's recommending you seek out some of the albums that featured on the Best of 2019 lists that you may have missed during the year! 

Thanks for listening! Got something to add to the conversation? Shoot us a mail at hello@onefabday.com. We want the One Fab Day Wedding Podcast to make wedding planning easier and more enjoyable for you, our beloved listener, so if there's something you'd love to hear discussed on the show, or a question you'd like answered, please do drop us a line.

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In recent episodes of The One Fab Day Wedding Podcast, we’ve led crash courses in wedding dress shopping, bridesmaid dress shopping, guest lists, and honeymoons, and now, it’s time for another biggie - today, we’re talking about all things bridal beauty! This is an area of wedding planning that we get so many questions on, so this week, we're putting those questions to an expert, Aidan Corcoran of the Brown Thomas Beauty Style Team. We've long been huge fans of Aidan's no-nonsense approach to wedding makeup, so we were thrilled to be able to quiz him on all things beauty!

Episode Breakdown: Episode 25: Everything You Need to Know About Bridal Beauty

Wedding tip: Think about tipping - chat to your other half about who you’ll tip ahead of your wedding, how much you’ll tip and make sure you have cash in envelopes ready to go on the day.

Main topic: Regardless of whether you're a full-blown beauty nerd or a makeup-only-on-the-weekend kind of girl, it's only natural to want to feel as confident as possible on the big day, and for many brides, that means wearing makeup. That's why we recruited the help of Aidan Corcoran from the Brown Thomas Beauty Style Team, to offer expert skincare and make-up advice, and tell us about some of his favourite products across the department store's extensive Beauty Hall.

Wedding dilemma: A listener writes, “My best friend in the whole world is pregnant and her due date is 11 days after the wedding. I’m really hoping that she’ll be able to attend but, of course, she’ll have to wait and see how she feels on the day, but I’m wondering, if she does make it, is there anything I can do to make her feel more comfortable? I would love to still include her in the day in some way, too, if possible. We previously asked her to sing at the ceremony but, on her suggestion, we changed things around when she told us about the pregnancy!" 

Something to do when you're not planning your wedding: In the theme of this week’s episode, we're recommending that you treat yourself to a really indulgent pre-wedding beauty treatment.

Thanks for listening! Got something to add to the conversation? Shoot us a mail at hello@onefabday.com. We want the One Fab Day Wedding Podcast to make wedding planning easier and more enjoyable for you, our beloved listener, so if there's something you'd love to hear discussed on the show, or a question you'd like answered, please do drop us a line.

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In episode 29 of The One Fab Day Wedding Podcast, we're talking about an issue that almost every engaged couple struggles with - keeping costs down during wedding planning! No matter how big or small the pot of cash you're working with, and no matter how extravagant or simple your dream wedding is, it's only natural that you'll want to get bang for your buck on the big day, and reign in the spending where possible! In this episode, we're helping you do just that, by delivering a practical guide to wedding budgeting, and sharing our top wedding money saving tips!

Episode Breakdown:

Episode 29: How to Save Money on Your Wedding

Wedding tip: Celina's nugget of wisdom this week is to decide on three priorities for your big day, and have your partner do the same!

Main topic: Today's main topic is all about managing your wedding budget, which is easier said than done! We’re not ones to advocate cutting corners when it comes to wedding planning - treating your favourite people to an elaborate day out is going to be expensive, whatever way you slice it! - but hopefully this chat will help you identify areas where you’re willing to spend less. It's also chock full of practical wedding money saving tips, which you'll probably thank us for 12 months after your wedding!

Wedding dilemma: A listener writes, “My significant other and I are going for a DJ only. Any ideas on what we could do to entertain our guests in the between time of the DJ playing and after speeches are done? We're eating beforehand. We definitely don't want a band, and are kinda stumped with what to do. We may get a talented singer who will sing a few songs, but I was thinking something hands-on would be nice for guests. If I’m right, there should only be about 30 to 45 minutes of down time." Our ideas include hiring an instrumental group, a magician, or a caricaturist, or organising a photo booth. We also recommend re-evaluating your need for post-dinner entertainment at all!

Something to do when you're not planning your wedding: In this episode, Celina's recommending the Be Kind Rewind video essays on YouTube, which tell the fascinating stories behind some of the most hotly-contested Best Actress Oscar races in history.

Thanks for listening!

Thanks for listening! Got something to add to the conversation? Shoot us a mail at hello@onefabday.com. We want the One Fab Day Wedding Podcast to make wedding planning easier and more enjoyable for you, our beloved listener, so if there's something you'd love to hear discussed on the show, or a question you'd like answered, please do drop us a line.

If you loved the episode, don't forget to rate and review the podcast on iTunes. You should also make sure you're subscribed to the podcast - that way you'll receive notifications every time a new episode is released! Oh, and if you know anyone who's engaged and planning a wedding, or a bridesmaid, groomsman, parent or wedding guest who needs a dilemma solved, be sure to tell them about the podcast and share a link.

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This week on The One Fab Day Wedding Podcast, we're covering a topic that we’ve been dying to discuss for quite a while: using Instagram to plan your wedding! Lots of couples tell us that they’ve found inspiration on the popular and sometimes all-consuming app, but it isn’t without its pitfalls! That's why we decided to put together an indispensable list of Dos and Don'ts. Our handy, wedding-centric user guide to Instagram includes lots of tips and tricks that you can apply to the popular wedding planning app (that isn't actually a wedding planning app at all!) For example, you'll learn why you should check your venue's location tag, but shouldn't DM your florist. Happy scrolling!

Episode Breakdown: Using Instagram to Plan your Wedding: Our Dos and Don'ts

Wedding tip: Claire's tip this week is to be careful who you share your full wedding photo gallery with, that is, if you don't want to be confronted with a giant print of your least-favourite photo every time you visit your parents' house! Instead, we recommend putting together a photo album for family (your photographer can help you with this) or creating a carefully-curated edit for them!

Main topic: We love Instagram as much as the next gals, and turn to it regularly for trendspotting and idea-gathering, but we also have a lot of opinions on how it should - and shouldn’t! - be used. We’ve seen couples run into trouble with Instagram finds, and get massively overwhelmed by the sheer amount of content in their feeds. So, in episode 40 of the One Fab Day Wedding Podcast, we wanted to present some Instagram wedding planning Dos and Don'ts, covering inspiration gathering, venue scouting, wedding dress shopping and everything in between!

Wedding dilemma: A listener writes, “We're six months out from the wedding day and the deposits are all paid. A few weeks ago, we got some feedback on our reception venue via the groom's mother. A friend of hers attended a wedding in our hotel and reported that, while the food was good, the service was 'not great'. I'm panicking as I imagine the criticism has been quite toned down before it gets to me. I'm also kicking myself because, when I think back to when we had lunch in the hotel bar on the day of the showcase, the wait and bar staff were forgetful and we waited a while for our food. This is a four-star brand name hotel, by the way. The hotel's wedding coordinator, who we met when booking, has since left the company and been replaced by a girl who is much less experienced and less organised. Most of our budget is going on this five-course meal and wine, and it's really bothering me that bad service could ruin that, and be the enduring memory of the day for our guests. So what can we do? Booking another venue is out of the question as deposits have been paid and guests have booked rooms. Would a day-of wedding planner help in this situation?” Our advice for this listener is to raise your concerns with the venue, and maintain perspective - mediocre service, while not ideal, is not likely to ruin the day for your guests.

Something to do when you're not planning your wedding: In this episode, Claire's recommending creating a lifelong bucket list with your partner!

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In episode 18 of The One Fab Day Wedding Podcast, we’re discussing a wedding phenomenon that's more popular than ever - putting your friends to work on the big day. Our guest this week, screenwriter, actor and activist Alan Flanagan, is the kind of guy whose talents are always requested for weddings - he's been a celebrant, a reader, an MC, a speechgiver, a day-two coordinator and plenty more besides! Your humble hosts have some experience in the field, too - between us, we’ve baked cakes, sang songs, set tables, decorated churches and distributed glow sticks. And our mission this week is to pass on all the knowledge we've picked up along the way, so you can learn from our mistakes!

Episode Breakdown: Episode 18: How to Involve Your Friends In Your Wedding

Wedding tip: This week, Celina offers a handy little tip that makes her a very popular wedding guest!

Main topic: In this episode, we're taking you through the dos and don'ts of getting your friends involved in your wedding. Of course, there’s a huge difference between asking a pro florist to kit out your venue for free, trusting a colleague with a fancy smartphone to take your wedding photographs (please don’t do this, no matter how much Shane from HR insists!), and asking a pal to collect your granny from the train station. During our chat, we briefly touch on all kinds of arrangements but, for the most part, this episode is about asking non-professional friends to play a role your day, be it ceremony reader, guest book manager, conga line leader or speechgiver. And our guest this week is a man who’s got tonnes of experience in this area, screenwriter, actor and activist Alan Flanagan!

Wedding dilemma: A listener writes, “My stag is coming up in a couple of weeks and the groomsmen have asked me who I want to invite - am I supposed to ask my Dad along? I discussed it with the Best Man and he said that what they’ve got planned isn’t really "Dad-appropriate", and also, if I invite my Dad, I’ll also have to invite my fiancé’s Dad, uncles, etc. so it’s best to leave him out. But I’m worried my Dad will be offended if he doesn’t get an invite. Help!” Our advice this week is pretty simple - have multiple stag parties!

Something to do when you're not planning your wedding: Celina's recommendation this week is unashamedly frothy - browsing cameo.com to see which celebrities are currently selling shout-outs. Naturally enough, they managed to hook us in - we've ordered one for an upcoming hen party!

Thanks for listening!

Thanks for listening! Got something to add to the conversation? Shoot us a mail at hello@onefabday.com. We want the One Fab Day Wedding Podcast to make wedding planning easier and more enjoyable for you, our beloved listener, so if there's something you'd love to hear discussed on the show, or a question you'd like answered, please do drop us a line.

If you loved the episode, don't forget to rate and review the podcast on iTunes. You should also make sure you're subscribed to the podcast - that way you'll receive notifications every time a new episode is released! Oh, and if you know anyone who's engaged and planning a wedding, or a bridesmaid, groomsman, parent or wedding guest who needs a dilemma solved, be sure to tell them about the podcast and share a link.

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In episode 19 of The One Fab Day Wedding Podcast, we’re showing you some of our favourite ways to make your wedding less expensive for your guests! Now, we've written about this topic before, and every time we do, we find ourselves wondering, "Do couples actually care about this? Surely they're too busy worrying about their own bank balance to think about anyone else's!" Well, it turns out that you are a pretty considerate bunch! The last time we ran an Instagram poll on the subject, 82% of our followers told us that they consider their guests' wallets when they’re making decisions around their wedding, so in this episode of the podcast, we're sharing some tips and tricks for how you can do just that (without blowing your own budget, of course)!

Episode Breakdown: Episode 19: Making Your Wedding Less Expensive For Your Guests

Wedding tip: Claire's latest nugget of wisdom is crucial for anyone planning a day-two party!

Main topic: In this episode, we're presenting a list of ideas for keeping costs down for your wedding guests, across transport, food and drink, hen parties and stag dos, gifting, day-two parties, and dress code! Of course, we're not suggesting that you plan your entire wedding according to your second cousin's financial situation, but if you can incorporate one or two tips from this episode into your big day, your guests will really appreciate it!

Wedding dilemma: A listener writes, “We just did an engagement shoot with our photographer and I’m a little bit stressed out as I don’t love the photos. They’re nice, my friends really liked them, it’s just not what I’d imagined. I wanted something really bright and playful, and these are just a bit classic and moody. I’m really torn between booking a different photographer, and just sucking it up and hoping for the best. I know I’ll lose my deposit but I’m really tempted to cancel and look for someone else. The wedding is in four months’ time.” We're advising this listener to revisit their contract before they start looking elsewhere.

Something to do when you're not planning your wedding: Claire's recommendation this week involves a simple and commitment-free way to see your friends more!

Thanks for listening! Got something to add to the conversation? Shoot us a mail at hello@onefabday.com. We want the One Fab Day Wedding Podcast to make wedding planning easier and more enjoyable for you, our beloved listener, so if there's something you'd love to hear discussed on the show, or a question you'd like answered, please do drop us a line.

If you loved the episode, don't forget to rate and review the podcast on iTunes. You should also make sure you're subscribed to the podcast - that way you'll receive notifications every time a new episode is released! Oh, and if you know anyone who's engaged and planning a wedding, or a bridesmaid, groomsman, parent or wedding guest who needs a dilemma solved, be sure to tell them about the podcast and share a link.

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Music by Kevin Macleod

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We're constantly fielding questions on wedding beauty prep, so we thought it was about time that we sat down with an expert to give this topic the time and attention it deserves! On episode 49 of The One Fab Day Wedding Podcast, we're joined by freelance beauty therapist Ciara McCluskey to talk about all things skincare and beauty, taking in waxing, tan, brows and nails along the way. The aim of this episode is to help you develop an affordable and doable skincare routine, whatever your budget. Ciara will also be talking us through the most popular treatments for brides, and crucially, the order in which to get them! This is wedding beauty prep 101, so you might want to have a pen and paper at the ready before you hit play!

Episode Breakdown: Bridal Beauty Prep: Your Essential Guide

Wedding tip: Celina's tip this week is to use this handy formula to figure out how much wine you need for your wedding!

Main topic: This week, we're talking about wedding beauty prep, which, I think we can all agree, is an intimidating topic! That's why we wanted to sit down with freelance beauty therapist Ciara McCluskey to talk through treatments, products and lifestyle factors (is anyone out there actually drinking two litres of water per day!?), specifically, which ones are worth the investment! As well as answering lots and lots of listener questions across skincare, tanning, waxing, nails, and brows, Ciara gave us her top tips for creating a foolproof skincare regime (and sticking to it!) and talked us through the ideal wedding beauty timeline. Enjoy!

Wedding dilemma: A listener writes, “I’m not coming with an exciting question about my upcoming nuptials as they are no longer going ahead. I collected my wedding dress in September and by the end of October, my fiancé told me he had changed his mind. I now have an unused, unworn and unaltered couture gown sitting in my wardrobe that I cannot sell. The price was €3,595 and I have already reduced it to €3,000 but to no avail. I have an advert on sellmyweddingdress.ie and have contacted a number of bridal boutiques, which have been reluctant to sell my gown. The only place that has come back to me said the highest they would offer to sell it for is €2,000. Any tips on where I can get the most for my dress? I don't want to sell it for half price.” Our response for this listener is that, unfortunately, it's unlikely she'll be able to sell her wedding dress for the price she's hoping, which is around 85% of the full retail price. Generally speaking, we recommend selling for 50% - 70% of the full retail price. That said, we think it's worth casting a wide net with online marketplaces, including Depop and Adverts, and maximising the chance of selling by using lots of keywords.

Something to do when you're not planning your wedding: In this episode, Celina's suggesting you book tickets for a supper club. Her pick for Dublin is Ethiopian pop-up restaurant Gursha!

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In episode nine of The One Fab Day Wedding Podcast, Claire and I are hoisting our feminist flags to discuss the somewhat controversial topic of feminist weddings. Most brides these days are, like us, passionate about the issues surrounding gender equality, but planning a wedding that reflects those values can actually be pretty tricky! Long-standing traditions like wearing white, tossing the bouquet and walking up the aisle with your Dad are loaded with patriarchal origins and/or sexist connotations. This doesn't necessarily mean you should ditch them, but mindlessly adopting them isn't ideal either. That's why, this week, we're doing a deep dive into the bizarre world of wedding traditions and presenting some fun alternatives! Plus, we answer the age-old question, "What do you do when your other half isn't pulling their weight in wedding planning?"

Episode Breakdown: Episode 9 - How to Have a Feminist Wedding

Wedding tip: We discuss the merits of doing a full, head-to-toe dress rehearsal a few days before the wedding. Bonus content: the story of how Claire's husband ripped his trousers from seam to seam on the dance floor at a friend's wedding.

Main topic: Our deep dive into the bizarrely sexist origins behind some commonplace wedding traditions includes an appeal to let women eat wedding cake without thinking about their reproductive cycles, and our thoughts on garter tosses, writing your own vows, first looks, and ball-and-chain tropes.

Wedding dilemma: A listener writes, “I was enjoying wedding planning at the start, but now I’m feeling a bit frustrated, as my other half just isn’t pulling his weight. I feel like I’m doing all of the organising, he just kind of goes along with everything I suggest and says, ‘That sounds great’, and then I’m left to deal with the suppliers, sort out the deposits, etc. My friends and Mam have all said the same thing, which is that I’m really lucky that he’s so easygoing and I can basically do whatever I want, but I don’t see it that way at all. At the end of the day, it’s not my wedding, it’s our wedding, and I really want him to be invested in it.” This week's advice is a mini masterclass in delegation.

Something to do when you're not planning your wedding: Claire shares one of her current favourite pastimes, nosing around celebrity homes via house tours on the YouTube. Highlights include Zachary Quinto's million-dollar loft via Architectural Digest and Amy Sedaris' magical DIY-heavy apartment via New York Magazine.

Thanks for listening! Got something to add to the conversation? Shoot us a mail at hello@onefabday.com. We want the One Fab Day Wedding Podcast to make wedding planning easier and more enjoyable for you, our beloved listener, so if there's something you'd love to hear discussed on the show, or a question you'd like answered, please do drop us a line.

If you loved the episode, don't forget to rate and review the podcast on iTunes. You should also make sure you're subscribed to the podcast - that way you'll receive notifications every time a new episode is released! Oh, and if you know anyone who's engaged and planning a wedding, or a bridesmaid, groomsman, parent or wedding guest who needs a dilemma solved, be sure to tell them about the podcast and share a link.

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In episode 30 of The One Fab Day Wedding Podcast, we're tackling a subject that is always the source of much controversy, and often, a lot of head-scratching on the part of the engaged couple, too: children at weddings. We’ve talked through the most frequently asked questions on this topic - whether you should invite children to your wedding, how to break the news to parents that they’re not invited, and how to keep them occupied if they are going to be there on the day. Whether you're having an adults-only wedding, or a kid-friendly bash, this should be helpful listening for every couple! 

Episode Breakdown: Episode 30: Should You Invite Children to Your Wedding?

Wedding tip: Claire's top tip this week is all about why you need to assign one of your guests with the job of 'photo manager'!

Main topic: Today's main topic is all about children at weddings, a subject that can all too often be divisive! As always, there are no hard and fast rules about whether or not you should have children at your wedding, but hopefully our chat will help you figure out what's suitable for your wedding, how to discuss the topic with your guests, and, if you end up inviting kids along, how to make it a more enjoyable day for them! 

Wedding dilemma: We had a lovely email from a groom who’s having a same-sex wedding. He writes, “My significant other wants us to get ready together the morning of the wedding, but I'm conflicted with this. On one hand, I think we would have some great wedding photos and it would be sweet on our video, but on the other hand, I want to get ready with my wedding party and feel a momentum of adrenaline seeing him during the ceremony. There are no dresses involved as we are both wearing suits but I still think the thrill might be nice!”

Something to do when you're not planning your wedding: In this episode, Claire's recommending some great new Irish books out this month by female authors. Sophie White's Filter This, Vicky Phelan's autobiography with Naomi Linehan, Overcoming and the new Aisling book, by Sarah Breen and Emer McLysaght are currently at the top of her reading list. 

Thanks for listening!

Thanks for listening! Got something to add to the conversation? Shoot us a mail at hello@onefabday.com. We want the One Fab Day Wedding Podcast to make wedding planning easier and more enjoyable for you, our beloved listener, so if there's something you'd love to hear discussed on the show, or a question you'd like answered, please do drop us a line.

If you loved the episode, don't forget to rate and review the podcast on iTunes. You should also make sure you're subscribed to the podcast - that way you'll receive notifications every time a new episode is released! Oh, and if you know anyone who's engaged and planning a wedding, or a bridesmaid, groomsman, parent or wedding guest who needs a dilemma solved, be sure to tell them about the podcast and share a link.

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On episode 24 of The One Fab Day Wedding Podcast we wanted to talk about what happens after the dust settles on your big day, how you feel once the biggest party of your life is over, and which of your laboured-over decisions will still matter a year down the line! For this, we recruited the help of newlyweds Joey and Liam, who celebrated their one-year wedding anniversary around the time of recording. They told us all about their prom-themed wedding - which was planned in nine months, from two different countries! - and what they would do differently, if given half the chance.

Episode Breakdown: Episode 24: 365 Days Later - Wedding Tips and Regrets from a Real Couple

Wedding tip: This week, our tip is to create some handy playlists for your big day (or borrow them from the One Fab Day archive!), and have them downloaded on yours or your wedding party members' phones. They'll come in very handy in the event of a musical emergency!

Main topic: The most valuable advice you receive about your wedding often comes from a couple who have been married for a while, and have a clear idea of what really mattered on the big day, and crucially, what didn’t! Well, that’s exactly the kind of wisdom we were shooting for with this week's episode, and married couple Joey and Liam certainly delivered. 365 days after they tied the knot, they chatted with us about the highs and lows of wedding planning, sharing everything they learned along the way.

Wedding dilemma: A listener writes, “We're planning on having three bridesmaids; my best friend, my sister and one of my fiancé's two sisters. How can I ask one sister without offending the other? We can't afford to have another bridesmaid and we don't get on that well, plus I don't think it's really her kind of thing either, but I want her to feel included. I thought maybe she could be an usher, but we're getting married in a registry office so it's not really necessary. Do you have any suggestions?” Our advice this week includes asking your fiancé's sister to do a reading at the ceremony or give a toast at the reception.

Something to do when you're not planning your wedding: Claire's latest recommendation is the TV show Shrill, based on the book by Lindy West, and starring Aidy Bryant.

Thanks for listening! Got something to add to the conversation? Shoot us a mail at hello@onefabday.com. We want the One Fab Day Wedding Podcast to make wedding planning easier and more enjoyable for you, our beloved listener, so if there's something you'd love to hear discussed on the show, or a question you'd like answered, please do drop us a line.

If you loved the episode, don't forget to rate and review the podcast on iTunes. You should also make sure you're subscribed to the podcast - that way you'll receive notifications every time a new episode is released! Oh, and if you know anyone who's engaged and planning a wedding, or a bridesmaid, groomsman, parent or wedding guest who needs a dilemma solved, be sure to tell them about the podcast and share a link.

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Music by Kevin Macleod

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It can be hard to know exactly what to do when you get engaged, and in our opinion, there's one, hugely important task that always gets overlooked - sitting down with your other half to discuss your hopes and dreams for the big day! In this week's episode of The One Fab Day Wedding Podcast, we're offering up a step-by-step guide to that initial wedding-planning chat, which we feel is absolutely essential! We've even gone so far as to provide you with a handy agenda to guide you through your first proper wedding-related conversation. Once you've listened to this episode, all you'll need is your partner, and a bottle of your chosen tipple, and you're ready to start planning!

Episode Breakdown: The First Thing You Need to Do When You Get Engaged

Wedding tip: Claire's tip this week is to keep your wedding tablescape simple! An overstuffed table can really detract from the fun atmosphere of the meal.

Main topic: This week, we're talking about what to do when you get engaged, specifically, how to navigate that crucial first wedding-planning chat with your other half. We've even provided a six-point agenda, which you'll find below!

• What kind of wedding do you want?
• What is your budget for the wedding?
• Who do you want to invite?
• What's your ideal wedding venue?
• When would you like to get married?
• Is there a key theme, colour, or style in your head?

Wedding dilemma: A listener writes, “My fiancé and I are struggling to pick out our first dance song. We both have a song in mind that we'd like to use, however, I feel like we cannot use it. The reason is that a couple years ago, a close friend of ours used the song for their first dance. My fiancé believes that, as we discussed dancing to that song way before our friends got married, we should be fine using the same song. He also believes that it's our wedding so we should do what makes us happy. While I agree, I also don't want to step on any toes and do something that might not be considered proper wedding etiquette. Maybe I'm thinking too far into this but it has been a real concern of mine.” Our advice for this listener is to go ahead and use the song. If your friends are at all reasonable, they won't object, but it might be worth giving them a head's up about it in advance, just in case. 

Something to do when you're not planning your wedding: In this episode, Claire's recommending a swap shop or charity shop crawl.

Thanks for listening! Got something to add to the conversation? Shoot us a mail at hello@onefabday.com. We want the One Fab Day Wedding Podcast to make wedding planning easier and more enjoyable for you, our beloved listener, so if there's something you'd love to hear discussed on the show, or a question you'd like answered, please do drop us a line.

If you loved the episode, don't forget to rate and review the podcast on iTunes. You should also make sure you're subscribed to the podcast - that way you'll receive notifications every time a new episode is released! Oh, and if you know anyone who's engaged and planning a wedding, or a bridesmaid, groomsman, parent or wedding guest who needs a dilemma solved, be sure to tell them about the podcast and share a link.

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In the inaugural episode of the One Fab Day Wedding Podcast, we travel back to the moment that kickstarted your wedding planning journey - the proposal! Or, more specifically, the early days of your engagement. This can be a tricky time, as well as an emotional one, with parents, pals and complete strangers weighing in on the kind of wedding day you allegedly should be having. With that in mind, we decided to tackle some of the burning questions of early engagement, including "What should I do if I don't like the ring!?" and "Are engagement parties still a thing?" We're even helping you identify potential pitfalls, for example, agreeing to invite all 62 of your cousins to your wedding while under the influence of celebratory Champagne!

Episode Breakdown: Episode 1 - So You're Engaged, Now What?

Intro: We share a little bit of background about One Fab Day and what we're about.

Wedding tip: We spell out why credit cards are king in wedding shopping.

Main topic: So you're engaged. Now what?

Wedding dilemma: A reader writes, "I really want to walk up the aisle with my partner but when I told my Dad about our plans, he was really disappointed. Now I feel guilty, and I’m thinking of giving in." We offer some handy tips on alternative ways to including your Dad in your wedding day.

Something to do when you're not planning your wedding: Claire takes us through her newfound love for weaving.

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