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| 12 Dec 2024 | Self-love slob | 00:35:30 | |
Stress can be a b**ch for us and our sex lives. Ruby and Meg share what happens to their sexual desire when they’re stressed, Ruby reveals the science behind stress and they both share their tips for how to deal with stress impacting your sex life. Meg also petitions for a national holiday where only hibernation and self-love slobbing is allowed. Sounds great, no?! Email the podcast: hello@insandoutspod.com Follow Ruby on socials: @rubyrare Follow Megan on socials @meganbartonhanson_ The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan is a Mags Creative and Dear Media production
Producer and Content Editor for Mags Creative: Christy Callaway-Gale Editor and Engineer: Beautiful Strangers, Podcast House Executive Producers for Mags Creative: Faith Russell and Kit Milsom This podcast contains adult themes that are not suitable for children. Listener caution is advised. If you’ve been affected by anything raised in this episode and want extra support, we encourage you to reach out to your general practitioner or an accredited professional. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. | |||
| 07 Nov 2024 | Speedy sperm, awkward sex-ed and Meg asks: why are we learning about triangles but not sex? | 00:37:11 | |
Was your sex ed growing up giving Mean Girls vibes? Ruby and Meg give you the sex ed you wish you’d had…. Including a fun fact about the speed of sperm! As a sex educator on the ground, Ruby shares some of the most popular questions kids ask in sex ed classes and Meg shares her mortifying 1970s-style sex ed experience at school. They chat about the things they wish they’d been told and why a more open dialogue would help cut the shame and stigma for teens figuring out their sexuality. Email the podcast: hello@insandoutspod.com Follow Ruby on socials: @rubyrare Follow Megan on socials @meganbartonhanson_ Links and resources:
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The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan is a Mags Creative and Dear Media production
Producer and Content Editor for Mags Creative: Christy Callaway-Gale Editor and Engineer: Beautiful Strangers, Podcast House Executive Producers for Mags Creative: Faith Russell and Kit Milsom This podcast contains adult themes that are not suitable for children. Listener caution is advised. If you’ve been affected by anything raised in this episode and want extra support, we encourage you to reach out to your general practitioner or an accredited professional. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. | |||
| 26 Dec 2024 | Merry Christmas from Ruby and Meg! Back on 2nd Jan | 00:02:17 | |
Merry Christmas from Ruby and Meg! We'll be back with a full episode of The Ins and Outs on 2nd Jan See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. | |||
| 24 Oct 2024 | Kinks, BDSM and fetishes: What's the difference? | 00:29:09 | |
Do you know your fetish from your kink? Ruby and Meg have got you covered. Meg spills the beans (or should we say custard and gravy?!) on things she was asked to do as a sex worker and Ruby gets hot and bothered talking about jelly. Email the podcast: hello@insandoutspod.com Follow Ruby on socials: @rubyrare Follow Megan on socials @meganbartonhanson_ Ruby and Meg recommendations:
The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan is a Mags Creative and Dear Media production
Producer and Content Editor for Mags Creative: Christy Callaway-Gale Editor and Engineer: Beautiful Strangers, Podcast House Executive Producers for Mags Creative: Faith Russell and Kit Milsom This podcast contains adult themes that are not suitable for children. Listener caution is advised. If you’ve been affected by anything raised in this episode and want extra support, we encourage you to reach out to your general practitioner or an accredited professional. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. | |||
| 16 Jan 2025 | Being cheated on and the green-eyed monster, jealousy | 00:33:33 | |
Why do we shy away from messy emotions? Meg and Ruby get into the nitty gritty of jealousy - an emotion that’s often labelled as “ugly” or “shameful”. Meg and Ruby talk about their experiences of being cheated on and how that can impact feeling jealous in relationships. “Mystic Meg” even had a dream about being cheated on which turned out to be true! Ruby opens up about jealousy in non-monogamous relationships and together they chat about ways of communicating jealousy to other people in a constructive way. Healthy stuff! Do you experience jealousy in relationships? Have you found a good way of communicating how you’re feeling? Get in touch and let us know! Email the podcast: hello@insandoutspod.com Follow Ruby on socials: @rubyrare Follow Megan on socials @meganbartonhanson_ Ruby and Meg’s recommendations:
The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan is a Mags Creative and Dear Media production
Producer and Content Editor for Mags Creative: Christy Callaway-Gale Editor and Engineer: Beautiful Strangers, Podcast House Executive Producers for Mags Creative: Faith Russell and Kit Milsom This podcast contains adult themes that are not suitable for children. Listener caution is advised. If you’ve been affected by anything raised in this episode and want extra support, we encourage you to reach out to your general practitioner or an accredited professional. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. | |||
| 23 Jan 2025 | Meg and Ruby get vulnerable about consent | 00:31:03 | |
Consent is the bedrock of sexual interactions but so many of us have had experiences that we have not consented to. This is a vulnerable episode where Ruby and Meg share some of their personal experiences with consent and talk about damaging narratives around consent - something that isn’t spoken about openly enough. Please listen with care. Ruby and Meg spend significant time talking about rape and sexual assault. If you have experienced rape or sexual assault, the NHS has guidance around how to find help and support. (https://www.nhs.uk/live-well/sexual-health/help-after-rape-and-sexual-assault/) Email the podcast: hello@insandoutspod.com Follow Ruby on socials: @rubyrare Follow Megan on socials @meganbartonhanson_
The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan is a Mags Creative and Dear Media production Producer and Content Editor for Mags Creative: Christy Callaway-Gale Editor and Engineer: Beautiful Strangers, Podcast House Executive Producers for Mags Creative: Faith Russell and Kit Milsom This podcast contains adult themes that are not suitable for children. Listener caution is advised. If you’ve been affected by anything raised in this episode and want extra support, we encourage you to reach out to your general practitioner or an accredited professional. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. | |||
| 28 Nov 2024 | Is squirt actually wee? Strap in! | 00:42:15 | |
There are stories akimbo in this episode as Ruby and Meg continue chatting about the holy trinity of sex topics: lube, squirting and strap-ons! Ruby shares whether squirting is actually pee and reveals the world record for the highest volume of squirt. (Pimms jug anyone?!). Ruby and Meg exchange surprising squirting stories and discuss wearing a strap-on to… watch TV. This is the second half of a two-part episode. Scroll back to last week’s episode for part one! Email the podcast: hello@insandoutspod.com Follow Ruby on socials: @rubyrare Follow Megan on socials @meganbartonhanson_
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The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan is a Mags Creative and Dear Media production
Producer and Content Editor for Mags Creative: Christy Callaway-Gale Editor and Engineer: Beautiful Strangers, Podcast House Executive Producers for Mags Creative: Faith Russell and Kit Milsom This podcast contains adult themes that are not suitable for children. Listener caution is advised. If you’ve been affected by anything raised in this episode and want extra support, we encourage you to reach out to your general practitioner or an accredited professional. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. | |||
| 30 Jan 2025 | When you bump into a relative at a sex party… | 00:39:13 | |
Wondering if a sex party is for you? Ruby and Meg chat to Logan Star who has been in the sex party and play party space for eight years. Logan created the organisation Little Black Book, which used to run sex parties and now supports people who want to set up their own play parties. Ruby, Meg and Logan get to the bottom of the difference between a sex party, a play party and a fetish party. They talk about what happens at these parties and how consent and aftercare works. They also speak about how to find parties like these, in the first place! As well as sharing some stories of their own… Email the podcast: hello@insandoutspod.com Follow Ruby on socials: @rubyrare Follow Megan on socials @meganbartonhanson_ Follow Logan on socials @iamloganstar Follow Little Black Book on socials @littleblackbookparty Logan’s recommendations:
1. Quench https://www.quenchlondon.co.uk/ https://www.instagram.com/quench_london?igsh=MXNnaDFubnMxNXE3Nw== 2. Riot Party https://www.instagram.com/riotpartyuk?igsh=d2pqNnp3M3hxbHZo 3. Dominium Vita https://www.instagram.com/dominiumvitaevents?igsh=MXhzb3h6bXVjZHd3NQ== 4. One Night Parties https://www.onenightparties.com/ https://www.instagram.com/onenightparties?igsh=MTN5c2NmejhvNTdvdg== 5. Scene https://www.instagram.com/sceneldn?igsh=eWYzczMwaXR6MHc5 6. Pinky Promise https://www.pinkypromiseland.co.uk/ https://www.instagram.com/pinkypromise.world?igsh=eTFhdjZ5c3Rxejly 7. Lucid https://www.instagram.com/lucid_sober_events?igsh=MTJkYTI1ejRoMzNnYQ== The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan is a Mags Creative and Dear Media production
Producer and Content Editor for Mags Creative: Christy Callaway-Gale Editor and Engineer: Beautiful Strangers, Podcast House Executive Producers for Mags Creative: Faith Russell and Kit Milsom This podcast contains adult themes that are not suitable for children. Listener caution is advised. If you’ve been affected by anything raised in this episode and want extra support, we encourage you to reach out to your general practitioner or an accredited professional. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. | |||
| 09 Jan 2025 | "Is my big sexual fantasy normal?" Your sex questions and stories! | 00:30:24 | |
We have been gagging for an episode full of your sex questions and stories and finally here it is! Ruby and Meg de-stigmatise a listener’s kink - wanting to watch his partner have sex with someone else - and discuss the “cuck” chair in hotel rooms. (You’ll never be able to see a hotel room in the same way again). Ruby and Meg get deep talking through a listener question about whether BDSM should be on the sex ed curriculum. And we settle in for story time as a listener message transports us back to a noughties hip hop night where a bandana-fuelled hook up ended in bloody bed sheets. It’s a wild ride. You’re welcome! Email the podcast: hello@insandoutspod.com Follow Ruby on socials: @rubyrare Follow Megan on socials @meganbartonhanson_ The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan is a Mags Creative and Dear Media production
Producer and Content Editor for Mags Creative: Christy Callaway-Gale Editor and Engineer: Beautiful Strangers, Podcast House Executive Producers for Mags Creative: Faith Russell and Kit Milsom This podcast contains adult themes that are not suitable for children. Listener caution is advised. If you’ve been affected by anything raised in this episode and want extra support, we encourage you to reach out to your general practitioner or an accredited professional. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. | |||
| 17 Oct 2024 | Being single: love or loathe? | 00:41:00 | |
Ruby is newly single and to use her own words, entering a ‘slaggy era’. Megan has been single for years. So what’s their take on singleness? Ruby and Meg chat about their personal lives, the shocking cost of being single, solo sex and w**king stories, and where the “modern Bridget Jones” would be living today. Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@InsandOutspod Email the podcast: hello@insandoutspod.com Follow Ruby on socials: @rubyrare Follow Megan on socials @meganbartonhanson_ Ep links and resources:
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Producer and Content Editor for Mags Creative: Christy Callaway-Gale Editor and Engineer: Beautiful Strangers, Podcast House Executive Producers for Mags Creative: Faith Russell and Kit Milsom This podcast contains adult themes that are not suitable for children. Listener caution is advised. If you’ve been affected by anything raised in this episode and want extra support, we encourage you to reach out to your general practitioner or an accredited professional. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. | |||
| 13 Feb 2025 | Happy Galentine’s Day! | 00:26:58 | |
Galentine’s is a day to celebrate platonic relationships (yay!) and on this podcast we get a front row seat to Meg and Ruby’s gorgeous friendship. These are some nourishing moments from previous episodes where Ruby and Meg share dating app advice, give sex playlist tips, and get vulnerable about singleness and weird crushes. What are the most important relationships in your life? Get in touch and tell us! Also hot Valentine’s plans for tomorrow? Let us know!!! We are taking a little break now - see you soon! Email the podcast: hello@insandoutspod.com Follow Ruby on socials: @rubyrare Follow Megan on socials @meganbartonhanson_ Links and resources:
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The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan is a Mags Creative and Dear Media production
Producer and Content Editor for Mags Creative: Christy Callaway-Gale Editor and Engineer: Beautiful Strangers, Podcast House Executive Producers for Mags Creative: Faith Russell and Kit Milsom This podcast contains adult themes that are not suitable for children. Listener caution is advised. If you’ve been affected by anything raised in this episode and want extra support, we encourage you to reach out to your general practitioner or an accredited professional. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. | |||
| 21 Nov 2024 | Gliding and sliding, baby! | 00:31:36 | |
Ruby and Meg tackle the holy trinity of sex topics: lube, squirting and strap-ons! Ruby gives us the lowdown on different kinds of lube and Meg shares the moment lube got her featured in The Sun. Ruby builds up to revealing an explicit lube-related story that her book editor asked her to remove before the book was published. This is a two-part episode. Part two out next week! Email the podcast: hello@insandoutspod.com Follow Ruby on socials: @rubyrare Follow Megan on socials @meganbartonhanson_ Ruby and Meg’s lube recommendations:
The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan is a Mags Creative and Dear Media production
Producer and Content Editor for Mags Creative: Christy Callaway-Gale Editor and Engineer: Beautiful Strangers, Podcast House Executive Producers for Mags Creative: Faith Russell and Kit Milsom This podcast contains adult themes that are not suitable for children. Listener caution is advised. If you’ve been affected by anything raised in this episode and want extra support, we encourage you to reach out to your general practitioner or an accredited professional. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. | |||
| 06 Feb 2025 | Our friend, the clitoris! | 00:25:48 | |
Did you know the clitoris is a wishbone shape? Or that it’s made up of the same stuff as the penis and testes? Mind blown over here! Ruby and Meg get into the anatomy of the clitoris, chat pleasure and tell us about their own personal discovery of the clitoris. Dining room tables and bed frames may be involved... Listen with care as Ruby and Meg also briefly discuss FGM. If you have been affected by FGM, the NHS offers information and support: https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/female-genital-mutilation-fgm/national-fgm-support-clinics/ Email the podcast: hello@insandoutspod.com Follow Ruby on socials: @rubyrare Follow Megan on socials @meganbartonhanson_ Ruby and Meg recommendations:
The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan is a Mags Creative and Dear Media production
Producer and Content Editor for Mags Creative: Christy Callaway-Gale Editor and Engineer: Beautiful Strangers, Podcast House Executive Producers for Mags Creative: Faith Russell and Kit Milsom This podcast contains adult themes that are not suitable for children. Listener caution is advised. If you’ve been affected by anything raised in this episode and want extra support, we encourage you to reach out to your general practitioner or an accredited professional. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. | |||
| 14 Nov 2024 | Slut shaming and secret fantasies with Charlotte Fox Weber | 00:30:17 | |
Who are you when no one else is watching? Ruby and Meg have a raw and candid discussion with their first ever guest: author and psychotherapist Charlotte Fox Weber. From painful stories of being slut shamed to laughing at the shame you can feel for f*cked up TV crushes, Ruby, Meg and Charlotte get shame out in the open. This is a complex and tender discussion. Sexual violence is discussed in this episode so please listen with care. If you’ve been affected by anything raised in this episode and want extra support, we encourage you to reach out to your general practitioner or an accredited professional. Email the podcast: hello@insandoutspod.com Follow Ruby on socials: @rubyrare Follow Megan on socials @meganbartonhanson_ Links and resources:
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The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan is a Mags Creative and Dear Media production
Producer and Content Editor for Mags Creative: Christy Callaway-Gale Editor and Engineer: Beautiful Strangers, Podcast House Executive Producers for Mags Creative: Faith Russell and Kit Milsom This podcast contains adult themes that are not suitable for children. Listener caution is advised. If you’ve been affected by anything raised in this episode and want extra support, we encourage you to reach out to your general practitioner or an accredited professional. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. | |||
| 05 Dec 2024 | I’m on Grindr not Children in Need! With Ash Self | 00:35:58 | |
Ruby and Meg chat to actor, comedian and writer Ash Self (best known for playing Felix in Heartstopper), who debunks the myth that disabled people either can’t have sex or don’t want to. We hear about sex education (or lack of it) in the hospital youth ward where Ash spent some time and how he feels people expect to see him on Children in Need rather than Grindr. Ruby, Meg and Ash also debate whether Love Island is ready for a trans wheelchair user (or even just hairy armpits?!). Ash shares his dating highs - sleeping with another trans person for the first time - and dating lows - a comically bad sex moment that he swerved, thanks to asthma and his gran! Email the podcast: hello@insandoutspod.com Follow Ruby on socials: @rubyrare Follow Megan on socials @meganbartonhanson_ Follow Ash on socials @smashself Ash’s recommendations:
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The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan is a Mags Creative and Dear Media production
Producer and Content Editor for Mags Creative: Christy Callaway-Gale Editor and Engineer: Beautiful Strangers, Podcast House Executive Producers for Mags Creative: Faith Russell and Kit Milsom This podcast contains adult themes that are not suitable for children. Listener caution is advised. If you’ve been affected by anything raised in this episode and want extra support, we encourage you to reach out to your general practitioner or an accredited professional. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. | |||
| 02 Jan 2025 | Opening up your relationship? | 00:38:25 | |
Wondering if you should open up your relationship or try out polyamory? You’re not alone! More and more people seem to be having this conversation. Ruby and Meg get into what it truly means to be non-monogamous. Ruby shares what her life looks like as a solo polyamorous babe and Meg contemplates whether non-monogamy could ever be for her. They chat about what it means to build relationships outside of the “norm” and why we’re taught to believe that love can run out. A hot Countdown collab is floated with (non-monogamous?) Carol Vorderman. Plus plot twist - Meg wonders whether she could date Ruby’s dad… Email the podcast: hello@insandoutspod.com Follow Ruby on socials: @rubyrare Follow Megan on socials @meganbartonhanson_ Resources:
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The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan is a Mags Creative and Dear Media production
Producer and Content Editor for Mags Creative: Christy Callaway-Gale Editor and Engineer: Beautiful Strangers, Podcast House Executive Producers for Mags Creative: Faith Russell and Kit Milsom This podcast contains adult themes that are not suitable for children. Listener caution is advised. If you’ve been affected by anything raised in this episode and want extra support, we encourage you to reach out to your general practitioner or an accredited professional. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. | |||
| 31 Oct 2024 | Porn: Sexy or unrealistic? | 00:27:57 | |
Ruby and Meg chat about the first time they watched porn, growing up queer, the history of porn, and the ethical porn industry. Plus, what are the top 5 search terms of PornHub? Ruby and Meg reveal all. Email the podcast: hello@insandoutspod.com Follow Ruby on socials: @rubyrare Follow Megan on socials @meganbartonhanson_ Links and resources:
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The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan is a Mags Creative and Dear Media production
Producer and Content Editor for Mags Creative: Christy Callaway-Gale Editor and Engineer: Beautiful Strangers, Podcast House Executive Producers for Mags Creative: Faith Russell and Kit Milsom This podcast contains adult themes that are not suitable for children. Listener caution is advised. If you’ve been affected by anything raised in this episode and want extra support, we encourage you to reach out to your general practitioner or an accredited professional. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. | |||
| 19 Dec 2024 | Grindr for girls? | 00:37:37 | |
Buckle up as Ruby and Meg reveal their Hinge and Feeld dating profiles, offering each other (and you listeners!) dating app tips along the way. We hear about Ruby and Meg’s best and weirdest dating app stories - from Ruby’s first date at a sex party to Meg’s phase of dating furiously to get a ‘festive boyfriend’. They laugh about creating romantic fantasies about people before and after dates - “what will my wedding speech be like?!” And Meg prepares for a first date TONIGHT! Also… where is the Grindr for girls please?? Email the podcast: hello@insandoutspod.com Follow Ruby on socials: @rubyrare Follow Megan on socials @meganbartonhanson_ The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan is a Mags Creative and Dear Media production
Producer and Content Editor for Mags Creative: Christy Callaway-Gale Editor and Engineer: Beautiful Strangers, Podcast House Executive Producers for Mags Creative: Faith Russell and Kit Milsom This podcast contains adult themes that are not suitable for children. Listener caution is advised. If you’ve been affected by anything raised in this episode and want extra support, we encourage you to reach out to your general practitioner or an accredited professional. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. | |||
| 14 Oct 2024 | Introducing... The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan | 00:01:22 | |
What do you get when you bring a curious sex expert together with the nicest woman on OnlyFans? A show that really goes there. Each week, Ruby Rare and Megan Barton-Hanson welcome listeners to an unfiltered, playful and inclusive space to talk about sex in all its glory. They unpick all the big questions like: “How can we talk about kinks and fantasies?”, “Does stress kill the vibe?”, “What place does humour have in the bedroom?”, “How can we banish shame around sexual desires?”, and “Does wearing socks actually lead to a better orgasm?!”. Along the way, they share their own unforgettable stories of sex and dating, and hear from you lovely lot about your sex questions and tried-and-tested sex tips. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. | |||