The Guys Fishing Weekly (Guys Fishing Weekend)

Ed and Reid welcome Brian Beach, an angler, golfer, and co-owner of the fish-inspired golf gear company, Fins & Pins. Brian shares his journey from aspiring professional golfer to business owner and father, detailing the lessons learned on the green, the river, and at home. He opens up about his love for fishing, his competitive nature, and the challenges of balancing a growing family with a passion for entrepreneurship.

Fins & Pins is a company that merges the worlds of golf and fishing with unique, hand-painted gear. The GFW Boys highly recommend checking out their gear at finsnpins.com.

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In this friendly chat, Ed and Reid dive into the fascinating realm of Third Spaces, one of the three main social arenas where folks get to mix and mingle. They shine a light on the importance of intentionally carving out these Third Spaces and the pure joy that comes from doing stuff together. They underline how crucial these Third Spaces are in sparking social connections, mentorship opportunities, and personal growth. They also tackle the tricky part - engaging in these Third Spaces as life, work, kids and travel take more of your time. The Guys Fishing Weekend is brought up as a brilliant example of a purposefully created Third Space that offers a laid-back and genuine setting for some quality male bonding.

Takeaways:

• Third Spaces are the social surroundings where people spend time interacting with others.
• Engaging in Third Spaces fosters social interaction, mentorship, and personal growth.
• Creating intentional Third Spaces is important for maintaining social connections.
• Engaging in activities with other individuals in Third Spaces is the best way to stay engaged in society.
• The Guys Fishing Weekend is an example of an intentional Third Space that provides an unguarded and authentic environment for male bonding.

This week, Reid and Ed talk about the adventures that ensued during their trip to the Arkansas River outside of Nathrop, CO last week. They'll also be discussing Five Things you can do to be a Better Fishing Buddy in honor of Mental Health Awareness Month. They'll touch on the topic of 10% - 80% - 10% and how it can help you navigate the lows and truly appreciate the highs of the year. As a sweet finish to the episode, they'll be celebrating Mother’s Day by sharing the things they admire most about their wonderful mothers.

Takeaways

• The adventures and conversations on a GFW are the best part
• Tips for being a better fishing buddy:
• 1. Help Them Celebrate Their Wins
• 2. Check in Regularly
• 3. Listen to What They’re Navigating
• 4. Encourage Professional Help
• 5. Invite them to go Fishing
• Make sure to show your mothers that you love them!

This week, Ed and Reid chat with Chase Coyle, founder of Slayfest Fishing Co., an outdoor apparel and graphic design company. Chase shares his journey of becoming a fly fishing entrepreneur and embracing his creative side. He offers insights on finding a new community after losing the brotherhood that comes with playing college football.

As a versatile angler skilled in multiple fishing techniques, Chase discusses his experiences fishing Southern Oregon's diverse waters, including the Rogue and Umpqua river systems. He talks about documenting his growth as a fisherman through his "Chasing Water" series on YouTube and building community in the fishing world. Chase also shares his perspective on creativity in fishing apparel design and offers advice for aspiring anglers and entrepreneurs.

This week, Reid and Ed interview Ray Cameron, the man behind Pop's Flies. Pop's Flies, a collection of fly patterns and recipes, is a story that extends beyond fly fishing, encompassing family connections, mental wellness, and adventures across the Rocky Mountains. Ray discusses the legacy of fly fishing in his family and how his attempt to tie flies opened the door to his father passing on the tradition. The conversation highlights the importance of mentorship and the bonds formed through shared interests. Ray shares a heartwarming story about recreating a photo of his grandfather fishing in the same spot decades later, this time with his own son.

Ray also delves into his passion for helping men with mental health challenges, emphasizing how fly fishing and other outdoor activities can be therapeutic. He stresses the need for open conversations about mental health and normalizing such discussions. He reminds us of the importance of checking in on each other. Sharing his favorite fishing memories, Ray also offers advice on encouraging the younger generation to embrace outdoor activities. Plenty of great insight through it all and lots of laughs along the way!

Takeaways

• The legacy of fly fishing has been passed down through generations in Ray Cameron's family, starting with his great-grandfather.
• The fly fishing community provides a supportive network of like-minded individuals who share a passion for the outdoors and the sport.
• Ray emphasizes the importance of mental health awareness and encourages open conversations about anxiety and other mental health challenges.
• It is important to talk openly about mental health and normalize the conversation.
• Mentorship and sharing knowledge are essential in preserving the tradition of fly fishing and passing it on to future generations.
• Encouraging the next generation to embrace the outdoors can be done by leading by example and teaching respect for nature.

In this week’s episode, Ed and Reid chat with Robert Betts, co-owner of Cutthroat Fly Shop in Dubois, Wyoming. Robert takes us on a verbal journey through his hometown, sharing his experiences growing up in a family deeply rooted in the outdoors of the outfitting and guiding industry. From his early days learning to fish with his dad to now running a fly shop, Robert's passion for fly fishing and his community shines through. He offers valuable insights into fishing in the Dubois area, discusses the challenges and joys of working with family, and gives our hosts some great tips for their upcoming fishing trip. The conversation is sprinkled with humor, nostalgia, and a genuine love for the sport that'll have you itching to cast a line in Wyoming's pristine waters. Don’t miss out!

In this week’s conversation, Ed and Reid discuss a number of topics they have come across that have provided value to them. The discuss a road map on how to live a great life, stories of bushwhacking to find fish and a favorite book, “The River Why”. They also explore the idea of having a personal conversational resume. A wide ranging conversation with each other, with plenty of laughs along the way.

Takeaways:

- The Seasons of Life: Finding time for hobbies and adventures can be challenging but important for personal fulfillment.

- Bushwhacking, or exploring off-trail to find secluded fishing spots, can lead to memorable and rewarding experiences.

- Outdoor activities and shared adventures can deepen friendships and provide a sense of solitude and authenticity.

- Small talk is an important stage in the connection process and can lead to meaningful conversations.

- Creating a conversational resume with a list of topics can help in small talk and personal identity.

- Culture plays a significant role in our lives and relationships, and it is important to create a positive and welcoming culture.

- The book 'The River Why' by David James Duncan is a coming-of-age story that explores the search for meaning and the value of relationships.

This week, Ed and Reid sit down with Andrew Todd, executive director of Running Rivers and creator of the Flyathlon event series. They delve into Todd's innovative approach to fish conservation through the Flyathlon—a unique blend of trail running, fly fishing, and craft beer. The hosts are eager to participate in this exciting event!

Todd offers valuable insights on native trout preservation, emphasizes the crucial role of community in conservation efforts, and shares his journey from federal scientist to nonprofit founder. The conversation spans a range of topics, from the impacts of climate change on fish populations to the importance of authenticity in pursuing one's passions. We even get a little insight to Todd’s fishing origin story being based on a lie.

Make sure to check out the organization, Running Rivers, and sign up for your local Flyathlon. Maybe even create your own!

This week, Reid and Ed talk with FFI Fly Tyer of the Year, Garrett Lesko of Oregon Fly Tying. Garrett is an expert in fly tying and fly fishing, having forgotten more about the sport than the Guys know. He educates the Guys on the diverse fishing opportunities in Oregon, fly tying, fishing off the jetty, and shares his opinions on the industry's trajectory.

They discuss Oregon Fly Tying, a website run by Garrett and his friend/mentor, Garren Wood. The conversation highlights the importance of clubs and community involvement in fly fishing, as well as the art and science of fly tying. Together, they plan an incredible trip through Oregon that would make most bucket lists cry, and even share a delicious sandwich shop recommendation. Garrett also emphasizes the importance of choosing the right community and bringing new people into the sport. Overall, Garrett's passion for fishing and dedication to fly tying shine through in the conversation. Don’t miss out on our fishiest episode yet!

In this week's discussion, Reid and Ed chat with Colten Tidwell, the owner of Wild Orca, a company specializing in fly fishing rods and gear. Colten is passionate about community and ensuring everyone has a better fishing experience than anticipated. From exceptional packaging to no-questions-asked customer service, Colten and Wild Orca embody the spirit of fly fishing.

In the conversation, we delve into how Colten conceptualized Wild Orca, the adventures he's embarked on throughout his life, and his understanding of community. He stresses that community is fostered through shared interests, genuine care for others, and openness to new connections. He recounts fishing trips with his father and a playful tradition they have—the "Skunk Bandana," a consolation prize for catching the fewest fish. We even get chased by a badger (what is it about this sport and getting chased by wildlife?!).

All this and plenty more laughs along the way!

Takeaways

• Wild Orca is hyper focused on quality and attention to detail, and also passing a little joy along the way.
• Fishing trips with friends and family create lasting memories and strengthen bonds. Community is built on common interests and a genuine care for others.
• Advice for individuals seeking community: be open, be uncomfortable, and find people with common interests.
• Advice for those building community: paint a clear vision, be welcoming, and empower others.

In this week’s episode, Reid and Ed are just having a laugh while talking about some topics that they have found value in recently. They discuss a wide ranging set of topics from the history of recreational fishing, to the journey of retirement and finding happiness. They make sure to rib one another, as fishermen do, about their technology woes as well as lack of expertise in different fishing styles. It’s all in good fun, just a couple of guys having a chat. Takeaways

• Nymphing in fishing can be a valuable technique for catching more and bigger fish, especially during the winter season. The dry dropper method is an effective fishing technique.
• “Samsara” and escaping the circular wandering through life.
• When facing a major life change, it's important to focus on the present and not worry about the future.
• Finding happiness is an inside job and should NOT rely on external factors or other people.
• Allowing children to experience failure and discomfort can help them develop resilience and independence.

This Thanksgiving week, we are taking a little time to express what we are thankful for! Our call to action is that you do the same, and make sure you let whomever/whatever you are thankful for know out loud or in a letter.

Have a great Thanksgiving everyone!

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This week, a little something different. We are recapping our “Conversations Between Guests” segment of the show, and recreating the actual community conversation we had throughout the year. It is a fun ride!

Thanks to all the guests who were a part of the show this year. In order of appearance:

Joe Hemelt (Colorado Drifters)

Diogo Deassis and Peter Van De Merwe (Frequent Flyers)

Colten Tidwell (Wild Orca)

Kevin Onsrud (Casting Feathers & Fur)

Ray Cameron (Pop’s Flies)

Joshua Torrez (Afuera Outdoors)

Garret Lesko (Oregon Fly Tying)

Peter Stitcher (Ascent Fly Fishing)

JJ Naico (Down2Fish)

Robert Betts (Cutthroat Fly Shop)

Coltin Gresser (Degenerate Fish Hippies)

Eric Oram (Two Rivers Fly Shop)

Chase Coyle (Slayfest Fishing)

Andrew Todd (Flyathlon)

Grant Powell (Temperance & Penn)

Tom Rosenbauer (Orvis Fly Fishing)

David Coggins (Author of The Believer & The Optimist)

Brian Beach (Fins & Pins)

Kevin Hein (Renewal Counseling)

Mark Walinske (Margo & Lola)

Jennifer Wallace (NYT Best Selling Author of ‘Never Enough’)

Joshua Caldwell (Director of ‘Mending the Line’)

Chris Lyford (Senior Editor of Psychotherapy Networker)

Spence Neubauer (Eagle River Whisky)

David Pitt (KC Flats Co.)

Erik Johnsen (TroutRoutes)

Kyle Bakko (Umpqua Signature Fly Tyer)

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Joshua Caldwell is an award-winning director of the movie Mending the Line, a movie focused on the issues veterans face with PTSD, returning home from service and how fly fishing can aid in that healing. For more information on Joshua, and his future projects and fishing escapades, Find him on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/joshuacaldwelldirector/.

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In this week’s chat, our friends Reid and Ed are catching up using a couple of conversation starters that have a way of opening a conversation wide open. Reid has a great trick to make these chats more fun and meaningful. He simply asks, 'What are you celebrating in life right now?' They both agree it's super important to take time to enjoy and celebrate all the good stuff in life. But their conversation doesn't stop at celebrations. They also dive into the second question in their series of conversation starters that really make you think: 'What are you navigating in your life right now?' They believe this question is key to forging stronger connections, as it opens up a safe space for folks to share their current struggles and ask for a helping hand if needed. These questions are a secret life hack on how to get a conversation flowing and have a few chuckles along the way. Takeaways

• Asking the question 'What are you celebrating?' can make conversations more positive and allow the speaking pair to take a conversation anywhere they please.
• Focusing on accomplishments and milestones in life can bring a sense of joy and fulfillment.
• Celebrating the achievements of others, such as children, can strengthen relationships and create a supportive environment.
• The question 'What are you navigating in your life right now?' allows for deeper conversations and provides an opportunity for people to share their struggles and ask for help.
• Navigating parenting older kids can be challenging, but it also provides opportunities for growth and meaningful conversations.
• Being informed and making well-informed decisions is important in navigating life's challenges.
• Open and honest communication is key in building strong relationships and fostering deeper connections.

This week Ed and Reid talk with Erik Johnsen, the Community Marketing Manager at TroutRoutes, the leading trout water mapping app designed to help anglers discover and navigate trout streams across the country. In this episode, Erik shares his journey into fly fishing, inspired by family connections and the unique waters of Wisconsin’s Driftless Region. He also discusses his role at Trout Routes, the app’s recent merger with OnX Maps, and its mission to empower anglers while respecting conservation efforts.

Join us as Erik dives into tales of fishing with family, memorable streamer days in Montana, and the balance between tradition and technology in the fly fishing world. Whether it’s sharing tips for scouting new waters, navigating stream access, or fostering a sense of community, Erik’s insights resonate with anglers at all levels.

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This week we talk with David Pitt, from KC Flats Company, a dedicated fly fishing guide outfitter in the Kansas City and Branson, MO region. In this episode, David dives into the rewarding challenges of being a guide, from carp fishing in Kansas to night fishing for trophy trout. He shares stories of KC Flats Co., a company he helped build to provide unique, saltwater-style experiences for carp fishing, offering locals the chance to train for trips to the saltwater flats.

David reflects on how fishing saved him from life’s stresses and emphasizes the healing power of the water. As a guide with Project Healing Waters, he provides veterans with therapeutic fishing trips and believes strongly in the importance of building communities centered around passion. Listeners can expect insights on mentorship, personal growth, and meaningful friendships formed by time on the water.

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Summary

This week, after a recent fishing/camping trip, Ed and Reid got to talking about how awesome campfire chats are and all the cool stuff that makes them so special. They chatted about give and take, really hearing each other out, the power of a good piece of advice, and just letting your guard down. They also talked about the magic of a campfire and how it pulls deep chats out of people and tightens friendships. They ended things by saying how important it is to soak up the moments you share with your favorite people.

Takeaways

• Campfire chats are like the best thing ever for having real talks and bonding.
• It's all about give and take in relationships where everyone can put in their two cents and get some support.
• Remember to actually listen! It's a skill we often forget but it's super important for real talks.
• Advice is like gold, but remember to give it from the heart and really mean it.
• Being open, ready to give not just take, and being there in the moment is how you make those deep connections.

This week, Ed and Reid meet at the base of the Grand Tetons to discuss a topic close to their hearts: sobriety. After recounting their wonderful trip to NW Wyoming, they dive into their sobriety journeys and what it has brought to their lives. They share personal experiences with addiction, the challenges and triumphs of maintaining sobriety, and the role supportive communities and hobbies like fly fishing have played in their journeys. As they express, no two sobriety journeys are the same. The conversation provides a thoughtful and candid exploration of the complexities of addiction and the diverse paths to achieving and maintaining a sober lifestyle.

If this is something you are navigating, know that GFW is here to tell you that you are not alone. Don’t be a stranger and drop us a line.

This week Ed and Reid talk with Kyle Bakko, a fly-tying artist, devoted father, and outdoorsman from Montana. Known for his signature hopper patterns and infectious energy, Kyle shares his inspiring story of creativity, fatherhood, and finding focus through fly tying.

In this episode, Kyle opens up about the challenges of ADHD, his sobriety journey, and how fly fishing became his creative and personal outlet. From childhood adventures with his father to creating memories with his own kids, Kyle reflects on the power of passing down the sport, building community, and living with purpose.

He also talks about guiding for Fishing for the Fight, a powerful cause helping families impacted by cancer, and his dream of fostering a more inclusive fly-fishing community in Montana. With stories that will make you laugh, reflect, and maybe tear up, Kyle’s honesty and passion for the outdoors make this episode one for the books.

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This week, Ed and Reid sit down with Mark Walinske, owner and founder of the fly fishing school Margo + Lola in western Wisconsin. Mark shares how his 50-year journey with fly fishing and his entrepreneurial spirit came together to build a school that welcomes new anglers with open arms.

Mark opens up about the connection between fly fishing and well-being, and how today’s wellness industry has it all wrong. Tune in for a conversation filled with laughs, insights into the magic of the Driftless area, and the joy of fly fishing!

Mark Walinske, and the Margo + Lola Fly Fishing School, can be found at www.margolola.com

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In this week's discussion, Ed and Reid are joined by artist and outdoorsman Kevin Onsrud from Casting Feathers & Fur. Kevin, once a teacher and now a mentor, talks about his outdoor activities, love for fishing, artistic journey, and the advantages of community involvement and hobbies after retirement.

Kevin narrates the evolution of his art, starting from tying flies, illustrating them, and now crafting art and logos.

The conversation delves into topics like fly fishing in the Driftless area, the camaraderie within the fishing community, the emotional and spiritual rewards of fishing, and the significance of active participation in a community. Kevin also reminisces about his favorite fishing memory and imparts wisdom to his 20-year-old self. Overall, the discussion was enlightening and thoroughly entertaining.

This week, Ed and Reid sit down with fly fishing legend Tom Rosenbauer of Orvis, host of the renowned Orvis Fly Fishing Podcast. Tom recounts his journey from a self-taught angler to becoming one of the most respected educators in the fly fishing world. He opens up about his early challenges, emphasizes the crucial role of mentorship, and explains how he's harnessed technology to connect with and educate new generations of anglers.

Tom imparts valuable wisdom on maintaining curiosity, revels in the thrills of sight fishing, and contemplates the future innovations in fly fishing. He also offers his perspective on increasing diversity within the sport, shares his favorite Vermont fishing spots, and talks about what his next dream trip would be. Whether you're a seasoned pro or a newcomer to the sport, this episode brims with wisdom, humor, and practical advice—guaranteed to inspire your continued growth and learning in the enchanting world of fly fishing.

This week, Ed and Reid sit down with Spence Neubauer, co-founder of Eagle River Whiskey in Minturn, Colorado. Spence shares the journey that took him from New England to the Rocky Mountains, from being a stay-at-home dad to starting a whiskey business deeply rooted in fly fishing and building his local community. Spence explores his and his wife’s mission to create a unique "Third Space" at their cozy whisky shop—a place where locals and tourists alike can unwind, connect, and feel at home.

Spence Neubauer is the passionate founder of **Eagle River Whiskey. For more information, you can find him at https://www.erwhisky.com or on Instagram at** https://www.instagram.com/eagleriverwhisky

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This week, Ed and Reid have the pleasure of sitting down with Eric Oram, the co-owner of Two Rivers Fly Shop in the top-secret fishing location of Pinedale, Wyoming. In this engaging episode, Eric shares his incredible journey in the world of fly fishing, emphasizing the importance of fostering a welcoming and inclusive community for all anglers. He delves into the critical role of mentorship and how it shapes the next generation of fly fishermen.

Eric also offers his invaluable insights on improving the fly fishing industry, the significance of supporting local businesses, and provides some fantastic tips for planning an unforgettable fishing trip to the Pinedale area. Tune in to hear about Eric's cherished fishing memories, his thoughts on the current state of men's community opportunities, and so much more. It's an episode brimming with wisdom, funny stories, and practical advice that you won't want to miss!

This week, Ed and Reid sit down with Kevin Hein, a devoted counselor, family man, and passionate fly fisherman from Colorado. In this heartfelt and inspiring episode, Kevin shares his journey from corporate life to counseling, discussing the critical role that nature, faith, and family played in his life. He delves into his love for fly fishing and how it serves as both an escape and a source of mental renewal.

Kevin opens up about the struggles he faced when his sons went through tough times and how leaning on community and faith pulled them through. Tune in to hear Kevin's candid stories about balancing family, life, and passion for the outdoors, with plenty of laughter, life lessons, and fishing tips along the way!

Kevin Hein, MA LPCC can be found at his website www.renewalcounseling.life

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This week, Ed and Reid chat with Grant Powell, a new dad and the creative force behind Temperance + Penn, a fishing and outdoor accessories company. Grant opens up about juggling the demands of fatherhood with his passion for woodworking and the great outdoors. He shares his journey to sobriety, how his relationship with fishing has evolved, and the inspiration behind Temperance and Penn.

Grant offers candid insights on building community in unexpected places, the value of self-reflection, and the pure joy of sharing outdoor adventures with family. From the ups and downs of being a stay-at-home dad to uncovering Minnesota's hidden fishing gems, this episode is a treasure trove of relatable stories, practical wisdom, and light-hearted humor. Whether you're an outdoor enthusiast, a new parent, or simply someone navigating life's challenges, this episode has something for everyone!

This week, Ed and Reid chat with aquatic biologist, fly shop owner, and friend of the show, Peter Stitcher of Ascent Fly Fishing. They dive into the incredible strength Peter found in the fly fishing community during some of his toughest times. Peter shares his journey of starting Ascent Fly Fishing and how it blossomed into a community-first organization, both locally and internationally.

They also explore his belief that men need each other and that by coming together, they can support and uplift one another. Peter emphasizes the importance of being seen and acknowledged, rather than feeling the need to fix each other's problems.

The conversation was fun and sometimes heartfelt, and the guys can’t wait to tackle those 26-inch cutthroats Peter mentions. Don’t miss out on this one!

This week, Ed and Reid are thrilled to sit down with Chris Lyford, Senior Editor at Psychotherapy Networker and a voice for mental health. In this heartfelt episode, Chris opens up about his journey with male friendship, examining why men often struggle with connection and how societal norms shape these experiences. We also dive deep into the loneliness epidemic and what men can do to navigate this challenge in life.

Chris Lyford is the Senior Editor at Psychotherapy Networker. He wrote a piece titled, ‘In Search of The Great Male Friend’ that focuses on his experience with the male friendship recession we have in society today. For more information on Chris and Psychotherapy Networker visit www.psychotherapynetworker.org to subscribe to their amazing publication.

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This week, Ed and Reid dive into the mailbag, answering listener questions about fishing, friendships, and personal growth. Together, they share heartfelt stories, practical advice, and hilarious mishaps that define their annual Guys Fishing Weekend trips.

From favorite fishing spots like Colorado's Avalanche Creek to a wild misadventure in Wyoming, Ed and Reid explore how they’ve built traditions, faced challenges, and celebrated life’s big and small moments. They also discuss the evolution of their trips—from competitive to collaborative—and provide tips on organizing memorable fishing weekends that foster connection.

The episode features standout moments, including reflections on Ed’s 10 years of sobriety, advice for maintaining friendships, and the funniest mishaps that have kept their trips full of laughter. Whether you’re a seasoned angler or just looking for inspiration to create deeper connections, this episode has something for everyone.

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The conversation covers topics such as weekend adventures, fishing trip recaps, reflections on sobriety, navigating social events, and the importance of safe communities. The hosts discuss their personal experiences with sobriety and the challenges they faced in social situations. They also touch on the perception of sobriety and the support they received from their friends and family. The conversation ends with a reflection on the importance of acceptance and the creation of a safe community.

Takeaways

• Sobriety is a personal journey that can be challenging but ultimately rewarding.
• Having a supportive community is crucial for maintaining sobriety.
• Navigating social events as a sober person can be difficult, but finding alternative drinks and creating a new identity can help.
• Changing the perception of sobriety in society is important to create a more accepting and inclusive environment.

This week, Ed and Reid have a chat with Joshua Torrez, the founder of Afuera Outdoors. His organization aims to bring minorities, especially Latinos and indigenous communities, into the joy of outdoor activities.

Joshua is enthusiastic about promoting diversity in outdoor activities and giving back to the community. He shares his wonderful experiences in organizing events like fishing and skiing for kids, focusing on mentorship and sharing knowledge. One of his favorite community projects they put on is Dia de Pesca, where they provide fishing poles and arrange fun fishing events for families.

He also shares his personal love for fishing, which has been a bonding activity with his father and now with his daughter. He emphasizes the importance of introducing children to outdoor activities to help them connect with nature and develop new skills.

For Joshua, community is all about the blend of food, music, and people. He highlights the importance of protecting our environment and encourages everyone to stand up for what they believe in. His passion shines brightly and is truly infectious throughout the conversation.

This week, Ed and Reid chat with Diogo and Peter from Frequent Flyers Fishing. They discuss the camaraderie among fishing buddies, the thrill of exploring the northeast USA, and the bond they've formed over the past few years. Diogo and Peter share their passion for camping and the exhilaration of fishing in challenging locations, as well as the tranquility that comes with focusing on a catch. They fondly recall their weekend trips to the Adirondacks and Catskills, where they first fell in love with fly fishing. The conversation concludes with a discussion about their encounters with wildlife, the importance of conservation, and future plans for their YouTube channel. It's a conversation filled with stories and laughter!

Takeaways

• Frequent Flyers Fishing is a YouTube channel, following the fishing adventures of Diogo and Peter as they learn the sport of Fly Fishing and engage with the community of anglers who love it.
• The fly fishing community is welcoming and supportive, with experienced anglers willing to share their knowledge and help newcomers.
• Camping and fishing trips with friends can be rejuvenating and provide a sense of camaraderie and joy.
• Being present in the moment while fishing and appreciating the experience is more important than catching fish.
• The Frequent Flyers Fishing guys love exploring fishing spots in the Jersey area, particularly in the Adirondacks and Catskills.
• Camping is an integral part of their fishing trips, and they have favorite camping spots where they enjoy the serenity of nature.
• Frequent Flyers Fishing emphasizes the importance of conservation and are passionate about keeping rivers clean and healthy.
• Frequent Flyers Fishing have exciting plans for future videos and collaborations, including more conservation stories and trips to different fishing destinations.

This week, Ed and Reid talk with JJ Naico, guide and owner of Down 2 Fish out of New Mexico.

They discuss JJ’s story and journey from the Florida high-octane life to the more measured pace of fly fishing the San Juan River. JJ shares his journey into fly fishing and his decision to become a full-time guide. Through that JJ has found and continues to foster a sense of community in the fly fishing world, highlighting the welcoming and inclusive atmosphere of certain fly shops and anglers on the river.

The hosts and JJ discuss the importance of teaching and mentoring others in fishing and the joy they find in helping others with their “pursuits”.

Overall, JJ's story showcases the spirit of adventure and pursuit that fishing brings to his life. Don’t miss out on all this and plenty of laughs along the way!

Summary

In this week's chit-chat, our pals Ed and Reid are joined by fellow GFW'ers, Joe and Robb, at the cozy Silver Trout Lodge in Nathrop, CO. They're all set to unravel a fantastic weekend of fishing they enjoyed together, their first impressions about GFW, and of course, there's a hearty dose of laughter sprinkled throughout. You'll get a sneak peek into what their annual fishing trip, a tradition of 28 years, really looks like and how it's blossomed over time. To wrap it all up, they stroll down memory lane, recalling some unforgettable moments like the "Skunky Beer Boat Day" and "The 50 Foot Fall into the River". Don't miss out! Takeaways

• Silver Trout Lodge in Nathrop, Colorado is an excellent place for a Guys Fishing Weekend. It's right near the Arkansas River and Chalk Creek, two fantastic fisheries.
• Fishing trips aren't only about fishing. They're also about hanging out with friends, playing cards, and eating meals together.
• It's good to take a break from everyday life to enjoy nature and have adventures.
• These fishing weekends can help you grow as a person, make good memories, and are a great way to relax.
• Learning from each other is a big part of these trips. The friends you choose to go on these weekends with give valuable insights and perspectives.
• It's important to check in with each other and support each other. Fishing weekends are a time for men to celebrate their wins, share what they are navigating and help each other.
• Even when things get tough, the fun, adventures, and memories make it worth it. It's more than just a fishing trip.

In this conversation, Ed and Reid interview the gregarious Joe Hemelt from Colorado Drifters in New Castle, Colorado. Joe spills the beans on how he and his lovely wife breathed life into Colorado Drifters, a cozy corner for coffee, a fly shop, and soon, a brewery, all aimed at serving the heart of the local community and uplifting other local businesses. The guys discuss how their drive for building up the community of New Castle aligns with their vision of creating third spaces and the importance of community, service and how fishing can bring people together. Joe shares heartfelt anecdotes about how fishing has been a beacon during stormy periods in his life, including during the COVID pandemic and deaths in the family. The conversation ebbs and flows around fishing escapades with loved ones and the importance of camaraderie among men. All this and plenty of laughs along the way! Takeaways

• Colorado Drifters is a Coffee Shop, Fly Shop and Brewery, located in New Castle, CO. Highly focused on local brands and building up the community of New Castle
• Check out Colorado Drifters new location this June 2024 at the former Texaco. Opening the premier brewery in the Valley.
• Finding Community after being in the service is a critical part of transition into retirement. You can find that in the outdoors and giving back.
• Fly Fishing has saved people’s lives and nature has a therapeutic aspect that heals. You can find solace during stressful times out in nature.
• Fishing with our children and the relationship building benefit of getting on the water together. It is important to get out in nature together and the bond that brings along with it.
• Service and giving back to others can be fulfilling and help create a strong sense of community. Fishing with family, especially with children, creates special memories and bonds.
• Young boys growing up with men around them is a huge leg up in life. It is a benefit to be brought under the wing of your elders.
• Male bonding through fishing and outdoor activities is important for mental health and overall well-being.

This week on the show, Ed and Reid sit down with Coltin Gresser of the Degenerate Fish Hippies, live on the shores of Yellowstone Lake. Coltin, a recent wildlife biology graduate and passionate outdoorsman, shares his insights on fishing, conservation, and the importance of maintaining a childlike wonder in nature.

The conversation spans a wide range of topics, from Coltin's journey to Yellowstone and the formation of the Degenerate Fish Hippies, to in-depth discussions about fishing techniques, wildlife management, and the future of the fishing industry. Coltin offers valuable advice on planning a Yellowstone fishing trip, including top spots for different species and insider tips on lodging and dining.

Listeners will gain a fresh perspective on the balance between catch-and-release practices and responsible harvesting, the need for environmental stewardship, and the importance of knowledge-based recreation. The episode also touches on personal growth, the value of reflection, and building community in the outdoors.

Whether you're a seasoned angler or new to fishing, this episode offers something for everyone, blending practical advice with thought-provoking insights on our relationship with nature. Join us for an inspiring conversation that will leave you eager to plan your next outdoor adventure and reflect on your own connection to the natural world.

This week, Ed and Reid test their interview skills on one of their favorite GFW members, Robb Gneiser. Kicking off with a casual chat about the joys of retirement and the ups and downs of running training, our dynamic duo even consider participating in a Burro Race (Racing Donkeys? Now that's something we'd love to see!). In between the laughter, they take a moment to reflect on the unforgettable times they've had on Guys Fishing Weekend, underlining the importance of trust and vulnerability in their camaraderie. Overflowing with gratitude for the unbreakable bond they've developed and the chance to grow together, the conversation is peppered with themes of friendship, bonding, and the sheer joy of being outdoors, especially when there's fishing involved! They delve into the importance of staying genuine and present in their interactions, highlighting how shared experiences and cherished memories can tighten their bonds. The guys also discuss the invaluable role of teaching and passing on what they've learned, not just about fishing, but about life too. Wrapping up this heartwarming chat, they take a moment to reflect on some of their favorite memories on their GFW.

Takeaways:

• Participating in unique and challenging activities, such as a burro race, can be a fun way to bond with friends.
• The Guys Fishing Weekend has provided a space for trust, vulnerability, and deep friendship to develop over the years.
• Being present and authentic in relationships is key to maintaining strong bonds.
• Shared experiences and memories create lasting connections.
• Teaching and passing on knowledge, whether in fishing or in life, is a valuable way to connect with others.
• Retirement brings new challenges and opportunities for personal growth.
• Surrounding oneself with people who challenge and inspire can lead to personal and professional development.

In this podcast episode, Reid and Ed introduce themselves and discuss the mission of Guys Fishing Weekend. They aim to share the experience of their annual Guys Fishing Weekend trip and inspire others to create their own fishing adventures. The trip is not just about fishing, but also about camaraderie, laughter, and leveling with each other. Jokes play a significant role in their trips, providing a safe space for humor and deeper conversations. Reid and Ed share their backgrounds and their passion for fishing. They hope to create a community where people can share their fishing trips and experiences.

Takeaways

• The Guys Fishing Weekend trip is about more than just fishing; it's about camaraderie, laughter, and leveling with each other.
• Jokes play a significant role in the trip, providing a safe space for humor and deeper conversations.
• Reid and Ed aim to inspire others to create their own fishing adventures and connect with like-minded individuals.
• The podcast will serve as a platform for sharing fishing trips, experiences, and tips.

Ed and Reid welcome David Coggins, an avid angler and talented author, to discuss his lifelong journey with fishing and writing. They explore how these passions intertwine with personal growth, mentorship, and life's complexities. David's deep appreciation for tradition and the friendships forged over time shines through as he inspires listeners to embrace the process, celebrate small moments, and find balance between passion and daily life. This episode offers wisdom, laughter, and a genuine love for the outdoors, appealing to both experienced anglers and newcomers to the sport.

David has written numerous books, including two fantastic books on the sport of fishing, “The Believer” and “The Optimist”. The GFW Boys highly recommend checking out both of these books, as well as the newsletter he pens titled The Contender.

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Summary

This discussion underscores the challenges, advantages, and importance of vulnerability, especially for men. It touches on suppressed emotions, desensitization, authenticity, and the need for trust-building. The role of adventure in reducing barriers and creating spaces for vulnerability is highlighted. It suggests a balanced approach towards vulnerability, considering its impact on mental wellness, personal growth, and relationships.

Takeaways

• Vulnerability is often seen as a sign of weakness for men, but it is important for building deep and meaningful relationships.
• Vulnerability takes time and authenticity to develop, and it is important to find spaces and relationships where you feel comfortable being vulnerable.
• Suppressing emotions can lead to a lack of emotional awareness and difficulties in managing emotions.
• Adventure and hardships can help break down barriers and build vulnerability in relationships. Different people have different comfort levels with vulnerability, and this can affect the pace at which they open up in relationships.
• Vulnerability involves a risk, but the rewards can be significant in terms of personal growth and learning.

In this episode, Ed and Reid talk about one of the all-time great welcome pranks pulled at a Guys Fishing Weekend. They read through and discuss the writing piece “Naked Cards” and the value that this prank has given to the weekend over the years. The conversation explores some of the favorite traditions of GFW, including poker nights, drives up the mountain, and inside jokes. Lots of laughs and fun times in this one!

Takeaways

• Inside jokes are the glue that holds weekends like GFW together.
• Pranks can be great ice breakers as well as create lasting memories and bonds among one another.
• The moments where you are stuck in a situation and encouraged to interact are the most special.
• The passing of a loved one reminds us to cherish relationships and live in the present moment.
• Nothing is forever.

Jennifer Wallace is an award winning author of New York Times best selling book Never Enough: When Achievement Culture Becomes Toxic - and What We Can Do About It. More information on Jennifer, and the amazing work she is doing, can be found at https://www.jenniferbwallace.com/. You can also connect with her on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/jenniferbwallace) and LinkedIn (https://www.linkedin.com/in/jennifer-b-wallace/).

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