The Golf Parent (Ryan Addams)
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| 03 Mar 2025 | How to Develop Junior Golfers | Golf Coaching & Practice Rounds with VJ Trolio | 00:46:58 | |
What’s the difference between a golf teacher and a golf coach, and why does it matter for junior golf development? In this episode of The Golf Parent, we sit down with VJ Trolio, one of the top golf instructors in the country, to explore the keys to developing junior golfers into champions. Trolio, author of Only One Shot: Creating a Discipline Defined and Love-Driven Environment for Junior Golfers, breaks down the essential elements of planning effective practice rounds, supporting junior golfers as parents, and fostering a mindset for success. We discuss how playing the game—not just working on technique—builds better players, the role of honesty and emotional control in parenting junior golfers, and how immersion and playfulness are crucial for long-term development. Trolio also shares how his son earned a golf scholarship to Ole Miss and what traits he looks for in young players with potential. Whether you're a golf parent or coach, this episode is packed with practical strategies to help your junior golfer thrive on and off the course. Takeaways: The distinction between a golf teacher and a golf coach lies in the approach: a teacher focuses on technique, while a coach takes a holistic approach and guides the player through the process of playing the game. Playing the game and gaining experience before receiving extensive instruction can be beneficial for junior golfers. Access to the golf course and proximity to playing the game are crucial for junior golf development. Parents should provide honest feedback and support their child's golf journey, focusing on the process rather than solely on outcomes. Planning practice rounds with a focus on strategy and creating usable plans can enhance a junior golfer's performance. Developing a well-rounded athlete through participation in multiple sports and focusing on athleticism is important for junior golfers. Stay honest and avoid emotional outbursts when parenting junior golfers. Give feedback to junior golfers after their limbic system has calmed down. Look for junior golfers who are inspired by great shots, have gratitude for the game, and possess physical coordination. Encourage a playful mindset and immersion in the process of improvement. Create an environment that fosters focus and proximity to golf courses.
00:00 The Difference Between a Golf Teacher and a Golf Coach 02:29 The Importance of Playing the Game in Junior Golf Development 07:25 Creating a Discipline Defined and Love-Driven Environment for Junior Golfers 16:12 Planning Effective Practice Rounds 22:16 The Role of Parents in Supporting Junior Golfers 24:32 Parenting Junior Golfers: Honesty and Emotional Control 26:27 Identifying Potential: Inspiration, Gratitude, and Physical Coordination 31:28 The Power of Immersion and Playfulness 39:43 Creating an Environment for Success
Website - https://troliogolf.com/about-vj-trolio/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/vjtroliogolf/ X - https://x.com/VTROLIO Books - https://www.amazon.com/V-J-Trolio-Books/s?k=V.+J.+Trolio&rh=n%3A283155 Instruction - https://www.oldwaverly.com/coachesandsessions The Golf Parent Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thegolfparent YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@thegolfparent | |||
| 14 Nov 2024 | Mastering the Mental Game: Kevin Kirk’s Blueprint for Junior Golf Success | 00:56:52 | |
On this episode of The Golf Parent, I sit down with the original "Golf Sherpa" and one of the most fascinating figures in the world of golf, Kevin Kirk. Kevin isn’t just any coach—he’s a 2019 PGA Coach of the Year, a deep thinker, a culture creator, and an all-around incredible human being whose wisdom has profoundly shaped my approach to coaching and training. We’re even teaming up on some exciting future projects that I can’t wait to share with you. Kevin’s track record speaks for itself. He’s the driving force behind the success of elite players like Patrick Reed, Lexi Thompson, and many others on tour. But beyond his impressive resume, Kevin is known for his unique perspective on developing talent and the mental game. He believes that success hinges on hyper-intentionality—having a crystal-clear vision of goals and the discipline to achieve them. Kevin explains how he identifies promising junior golfers, what he looks for in an athlete’s mindset, and the traits that make someone truly stand out. In our conversation, Kevin shares invaluable insights into the mental side of the game. From object meditation and controlled breathing techniques to building resilience and learning from failure, he discusses powerful tools that parents, coaches, and athletes can use to prepare for the national stage and beyond. We dive into navigating difficult personalities, cultivating a winning culture, and understanding the nuances of long-term athlete development. Kevin even shares why he encourages multi-sport engagement to build physical literacy and transferable skills. Get ready to learn from one of the most interesting men in golf as we explore what it truly means to raise a champion, both on and off the course. Don’t miss this one—it’s packed with insights that could change the way you think about the journey to greatness. Takeaways
Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Setting the Stage 01:27 What to Look for in Promising Junior Golfers 02:21 Hyper-intentionality and Clear Goals 03:21 The Role of Exceptional Traits 03:50 The Importance of Adversity and Resilience 07:08 The Significance of Culture in Golf 11:35 Focusing on Specific Outcomes 16:20 Crystallizing Possibilities and Visualization 19:57 Managing Energy and Staying Present 24:32 The Role of Eye Movement and Breathing 27:14 Object Meditation and Stillness 30:12 Coaching Difficult Personalities 32:40 Mindset and Mental Preparation 38:31 Pitfalls in the Transition to Professional 45:34 Developing Physical Literacy 51:36 The Benefits of Running 56:20 Parenting in Sports Links: Kevin Kirk Linkedin - https://www.linkedin.com/in/kevin-kirk-ba56b45 Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/kevinkirkgolf The Golf Parent Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thegolfparent Tiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@thegolfparent YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@thegolfparent For more information check out www.thegolfparent.com | |||
| 25 Nov 2024 | Making Junior Golf Champions: Tony Ruggiero Reveals the Secrets to Turning Pro | 00:57:14 | |
Unlock the secrets to raising junior golf champions in this exclusive episode with Tony Ruggiero, one of the most trusted and respected voices in golf instruction. Whether you’re a parent, grandparent, or coach guiding a young golfer—or a parent of a multi-sport athlete with dreams of going pro—this video is packed with invaluable advice to help your child thrive on and off the course. Tony dives deep into the challenges and rewards of junior golf development. Key Takeaways:
This conversation goes beyond swing mechanics and tournament prep—it’s about helping your child grow into a confident, self-aware individual. Tony offers actionable strategies for parents to support their child’s journey while empowering them to take ownership of their progress. Whether your child is aiming for a college golf scholarship, junior tournament success, or simply to become their best self, this episode is your roadmap to success. Subscribe now for more expert tips on raising junior golf champions, and share your thoughts in the comments below! Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Junior Golf 03:03 Offering Comprehensive Coaching for Junior Golfers 05:00 Managing Expectations and Providing Realistic Feedback 08:55 The Role of Parents in Junior Golf 15:19 The Importance of Overall Athletic Development 20:03 Avoiding Undue Pressure on Young Players 27:43 Choosing the Right Coach for Junior Golfers 30:28 The Impact of the Coach-Player Relationship 31:39 Life Skills and Mental Development 33:29 Qualities of Great Players 34:19 Supporting Junior Golfers 38:05 Taking Responsibility and Embracing Failure 44:26 Parental Role in Junior Golf 46:30 Letting Children Take Ownership 50:15 Authenticity and Communication 53:57 Accepting Failure and Setting Boundaries Links: Tony Ruggiero Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thedewsweeper Website - https://dewsweepersgolf.com/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@DewsweeperTV The Golf Parent Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thegolfparent Tiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@thegolfparent | |||
| 14 Apr 2025 | How Early Specialization Could Be Hurting Your Junior Golfer with Dale Abraham | 00:51:01 | |
In this insightful episode of The Golf Parent Podcast, I sit down with renowned golf coach Dale Abraham to discuss key strategies for developing junior golfers using the American Development Model (ADM). Dale sheds light on how the ADM emphasizes age-appropriate training, fundamental movement patterns, and the importance of playing multiple sports to build well-rounded athletes. Dale tackles the critical issue of early specialization, outlining its dangers such as burnout and increased injury risk. He stresses the value of focusing on fun, varied athletic experiences, and fundamental skill development during a young golfer’s early years. We delve into practical advice for parents and coaches on managing expectations, setting achievable process goals, and fostering a resilient mindset. Dale provides powerful insights into staying present on the course through awareness of thoughts and effective breathing techniques. Listeners will learn how adaptability—accepting different swing tendencies and conditions—is vital for junior golfers’ long-term success. Dale explains how to handle missed shots constructively and avoid negative spirals by maintaining a positive outlook. Additionally, Dale covers tournament preparation techniques, advocating for play-based practice, post-round evaluations, and balanced decision-making between aggressive swings and conservative targets. He highlights the crucial role parents play in supporting junior golfers, emphasizing realistic expectations, praising effort over outcomes, and nurturing a supportive, friendship-based relationship. Finally, Dale underscores the importance of efficient practice routines and shares how visualization techniques significantly improve performance. Tune in for practical guidance that equips parents and junior golfers with the tools to navigate the journey toward lasting golf success. Key Takeaways:
Chapters: 00:00 The American Development Model and Golf 03:12 The Dangers of Early Specialization 07:31 Managing Expectations and Setting Process Goals 10:18 Staying Present and Focused 13:56 Adapting to Swing Tendencies and Conditions 23:51 Adapting to Missed Shots and Avoiding Negativity 27:15 Preparing for Tournaments with Play-Based Practice 31:23 Balancing Aggressive and Conservative Play 33:59 Setting Realistic Expectations as a Parent 38:07 Efficient Practice and Visualization for Improved Performance Dale Abraham's Links: Website - https://www.daleabraham.com/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/swing.md The Golf Parent Links: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thegolfparent YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@thegolfparent X - https://x.com/thegolfparent Tiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@thegolfparent | |||
| 10 Dec 2024 | The Mind-Body Connection in Junior Golf: Insights from Jim Waldron | 01:12:26 | |
In this episode of The Golf Parent, I sit down with renowned golf coach Jim Waldron to uncover the secrets to mastering both the technical and mental sides of the game. Jim shares his holistic approach to golf instruction, emphasizing the vital connection between the mind and body. We explore how cultural conditioning shapes beliefs about performance, self-worth, and resilience—and how to break free from limiting mindsets. Jim offers invaluable insights for parents, discussing how to support young athletes in building confidence while separating their self-worth from performance outcomes. He shares techniques for taming the mind, enhancing focus, and fostering a positive internal narrative, all of which are essential for success on and off the course. Whether you're a parent navigating the challenges of junior golf or a player seeking to unlock your full potential, this episode delivers powerful strategies to build resilience, sharpen focus, and elevate performance. Subscribe now for more expert tips on raising junior golf champions both on and off the course! Chapters 00:00 The Holistic Approach to Golf Instruction 02:51 Cultural Conditioning and Belief Systems 06:01 Mind-Body Connection vs. Dualism 08:48 Parenting and Mental Resilience in Sports 12:01 Balancing Authority and Nurturing in Parenting 14:50 Separating Self-Worth from Performance 18:06 Unconditional Confidence and Its Importance 21:01 The Power of Positive Storytelling 23:56 Understanding the Mind-Body Connection 26:49 The Nature of Consciousness and Reality 36:09 The Nature of Psychological Reality 39:30 Taming the Mind: Techniques for Focus 43:48 Consciousness vs. Mind: Understanding the Difference 46:24 Focal Points in Golf: The Mental Game 57:51 Creating a Positive Mindset in Golf 01:05:23 Parenting and Supporting Young Golfers Links: Jim Waldron Website - https://www.balancepointgolf.com YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCa3zkcVp_gZ2Eq_-ElaLF8g Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/balancepointgolf/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/balancepointgolf/ The Golf Parent Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thegolfparent YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@thegolfparent | |||
| 23 Apr 2025 | What College Golf Coaches Really Want: Inside Secrets from Brian Craig | 00:48:21 | |
In this must-listen episode of The Golf Parent Podcast, I’m joined by Brian Craig, renowned former University of Kentucky golf coach and co-founder of P3 Recruits—a leading college placement service for aspiring golfers. Brian pulls back the curtain on the college recruitment process, sharing insider insights on what college coaches genuinely seek in young golfers beyond just swing mechanics. Brian dives deep into the critical skills and character traits that make junior golfers stand out, including the vital qualities of self-motivation, resilience, and unshakeable confidence—or as Brian calls it, “moxie.” We discuss how to identify and nurture these intangibles and why good teammates can elevate an entire program. This conversation addresses the influential role parents play in athlete development. Brian emphasizes fostering a supportive and affirming environment, prioritizing positive reinforcement, and creating a fun atmosphere that builds lasting confidence and mental toughness. We also explore practical coaching strategies to manage tournament pressure, the importance of effective wedge play and course management, and the powerful role of mental skills such as positive self-talk and visualization. Brian underscores the need for junior golfers to drive their own athletic journey, supported by informed and encouraging parents. Packed with actionable advice, this episode offers a clear roadmap for parents and players aiming to successfully navigate the journey from junior golf to collegiate-level competition. Takeaways:
Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to P3 Recruits 03:04 Challenges in College Recruitment 05:56 The Role of Coaches in Recruitment 08:47 Identifying Intangibles in Players 12:07 Toxic Traits to Avoid in Players 14:55 The Mindset of a Champion 18:12 Fostering Confidence and Moxie 20:57 Instilling Positive Beliefs in Young Golfers 24:08 Empowering Young Athletes Through Affirmations 26:04 The Role of Parents in Sports Resilience 27:16 Mentorship and the Parent-Athlete Dynamic 31:42 Performance Coaching in Junior Golf 34:12 Mastering Wedge Play and Course Management 36:55 Navigating Tournament Pressure and Nerves 41:10 The Importance of Parental Support and Perspective
Website - https://p3recruits.com/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/p3recruits Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/p3recruits Linkedin - https://www.linkedin.com/company/p3-recruits The Golf Parent Links: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thegolfparent YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@thegolfparent X - https://x.com/thegolfparent Tiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@thegolfparent | |||
| 24 Mar 2025 | Why Junior Golfers Should Burn Their Golf Goals and Follow a Roadmap | 00:52:25 | |
In this inspiring episode of The Golf Parent Podcast, I chat with renowned PGA Master Golf Pro John Dunigan—a Golf Digest Top 30, Golf Magazine Top 100 teacher, and U.S. Kids Golf Top 50 Master Kids Teacher—about what truly separates elite junior golfers from their peers. John emphasizes that becoming a successful golfer is about far more than talent—it's about developing resilient, courageous individuals who also excel on the course. John dives deep into the mental game, offering practical advice on how young golfers can face fears, manage pressure, and embrace nervousness as a positive sign of growth. He urges parents and coaches to shift their focus from achieving results to mastering the process, helping juniors build courage and resilience rather than fear of judgment or failure. We also discuss the dangers of over-professionalizing youth sports and how it can dampen the joy of playing golf. John encourages parents to create fun, pressure-free environments and highlights the importance of finding coaches who prioritize the whole player—mental, emotional, and physical development. John also shares exciting details about his upcoming Practice Coach app, aimed at making practice sessions more efficient, enjoyable, and effective for junior golfers. Key Takeaways:
Sound Bites: "I'm trying to create a legion of golfers that goes out to play a tournament with a big fat smile on their face going, like, let's go get on the roller coaster." "It's not whether or not you have butterflies or not. It's whether or not you can get them flying in formation, harnessing the nerves." "Success is not an outcome. It's the way you approach playing, the process that you go through playing." "Everybody's putting the cart before the horse." "Goal setting is important, right? Well, I say burn your goals." "What can we do as parents to combat the professionalization of sports to help keep it fun?" Chapters: 00:00 Introduction and John Dunigan's Approach to Junior Golf 03:24 Teaching Courage and Overcoming Fear in Golf 05:26 Staying Focused and Putting in Your Best Effort in Golf 08:11 Dealing with Mental Farts and Bringing Focus Back to the Present 11:58 The Importance of a Fun and Non-Pressure Environment in Youth Golf 19:46 The Fear of Judgment and Pressure in Youth Sports 22:47 Balancing Fun and Competition in Junior Golf Tournaments 25:13 Life Lessons Learned from Golf 27:10 Combatting the Professionalization of Youth Sports 32:08 Finding a Coach Who Prioritizes Holistic Development 41:40 Improving Practice Sessions with the Practice Coach App John Dunigan Links: Website - https://www.johndunigangolf.com/ Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@JohnDunigan X - https://x.com/JohnDuniganGolf Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/john.dunigan/ The Golf Parent Links: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thegolfparent YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@thegolfparent X - https://x.com/thegolfparent Tiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@thegolfparent | |||
| 18 Feb 2025 | Activating 'Flow State' in Golf - PsychoNeuromuscular Training with Bo Watson & Shannon Shuskey | 00:47:45 | |
In this episode, Bo Watson and Shannon Shuskey break down the critical role of mental training in golf, revealing why success on the course is more mental than physical. They introduce PsychoNeuromuscular Training, a proven method that helps golfers access the "zone" or flow state on command, leading to more consistent and peak performances. Bo and Shannon dive deep into visualization techniques, explaining how using all seven senses can enhance performance and referencing legendary golfers who have successfully incorporated mental imagery into their training. They also discuss CPR (Consistent Passionate Reaction)—a concept that highlights how emotional responses impact focus and performance under pressure. For parents of junior golfers, this episode provides invaluable insights into creating a supportive environment, avoiding the pitfalls of performance-related pressure, and fostering mental resilience. Bo and Shannon also share practical mental training resources, ensuring both parents and athletes have the tools to develop a strong, focused, and confident mindset on the course. If you want to unlock the true mental potential of your young golfer, this episode is a must-listen! Chapters 00:00 The Mental Game of Golf 07:58 Unlocking the Zone: Psycho Neuromuscular Training 15:56 Visualizing Success: The Seven Senses Approach 21:04 Historical Insights: Golf Legends and Mental Imagery 23:58 The Power of Visualization in Golf 26:21 Creating Effective Triggers for Performance 29:15 Understanding CPR: Consistent Passionate Reaction 34:54 Emotional Responses and Focus in Golf 39:21 Guiding Junior Golfers: Parental Influence 45:31 Accessing Resources for Mental Training Links: Book - In The Zone Secrets: How To Get In The Zone At The Flip Of A Switch Website - www.InTheZoneMentalTraining.com The Golf Parent | |||
| 24 Feb 2025 | Golf Psychology for Kids: Mental Game Secrets Every Junior Golfer Needs with Lanny Bassham | 01:05:37 | |
In this episode of The Golf Parent Podcast, I sit down with Lanny Bassham, an Olympic Gold Medalist and mental performance coach, to explore how junior golfers can develop a champion’s mindset. Lanny shares the mental training system that helped him go from choking under pressure at the Olympics to dominating his sport with 22 world titles. We dive into golf psychology, mental toughness, and confidence-building techniques that can help young golfers improve their golf swing, golf practice, and tournament performance. Lanny reveals why the top 5% of athletes prioritize mental training and how parents can support their child's junior golf development without adding pressure. If your junior golfer struggles with performance anxiety, self-doubt, or inconsistency, this episode is packed with practical golf tips, visualization techniques, and mental exercises to help them play with confidence and focus. Whether your child is just starting with golf lessons for kids or competing in junior golf tournaments, this episode will give you the tools to help them succeed. 🎧 Listen now and give your child the mental edge on the course! Takeaways: The mental game is crucial for excelling in sports, but it is often undervalued and neglected in training. The top performers prioritize the mental game, while many others focus solely on skill development. Parents play a significant role in shaping their children's self-image and should focus on building a positive self-image through constructive feedback and solution-oriented discussions. Imprints, both positive and negative, influence self-image and performance. Starting mental training at a young age can have long-term benefits for athletes. Passion is a crucial factor in sports, and parents should support and nurture their children's passion. There are three levels of participation: interested, training to compete, and training to win. Parents should match their level of participation with their child's. The mental game is essential in sports, and athletes and parents should prioritize mental skills training. Overcoming fear and negative self-talk is crucial for success in sports. Developing a mental management system can help athletes stay focused and consistent. Parents play a significant role in the mental coaching of their children and should seek resources and support to improve their understanding of the mental game.
00:00 Introduction and Importance of the Mind in Sports 02:51 The Undervalued Mental Game 07:53 The Difference Between Top Performers and the Rest 10:50 The Role of Parents in Shaping Self-Image 17:56 Constructive Feedback and Solution-Oriented Discussions 21:17 The Power of Positive Imprints 29:37 Starting Mental Training at a Young Age 32:02 The Importance of Passion and Competition in Sports 36:27 The Role of Parents in Supporting Children's Passion 39:26 Understanding the Mental Game in Sports 41:45 Overcoming Fear and Negative Self-Talk 47:02 Prioritizing Mental Skills Training 01:00:47 The Role of Parents as Mental Coaches
Website - https://withwinninginmind.com The Golf Parent Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thegolfparent YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@thegolfparent | |||
| 16 Nov 2024 | The Competitive Edge - Building Resilient Golfers: Andrew Rice | 00:42:49 | |
In today’s episode, I sit down with Andrew Rice, the ‘Every Day Golfer’s Coach,’ to discuss the secret sauce behind junior golf development. As the Director of Instruction at The Club at Savannah Harbor, a GolfPass instructor and one of Golf Digest’s Top 50 Teachers in America, Andrew brings nearly 25 years of experience to the table. He’s coached golfers of all levels, and in this conversation, we explore what it takes to foster a winning mindset in young athletes. We dive deep into the competitive side of golf—Andrew explains why competition is key to developing skills and how frequent tournaments help junior players elevate their game. He shares the unique aspects of South African golf culture and how role models can inspire young players to push harder and dream bigger. Andrew emphasizes the importance of falling in love with the game before anything else and gives us an inside look at how a well-rounded junior program focuses more on playing the game than chasing rankings. This episode is packed with valuable insights on cultivating a competitive mindset, the role of the driver in modern golf, and how to develop young golfers into champions, both on and off the course. Don't miss this powerful conversation with one of the top golf instructors in the world! Takeaways South Africa produces great golfers due to a love for sport and the presence of role models like Gary Player and Ernie Els. Role models inspire young players and create a desire to emulate their success. An effective junior golf program should prioritize frequent tournaments, minimal parental involvement, and a focus on playing the game rather than rankings. Cultivating a love for the game is crucial for long-term success in golf. The driver is a crucial club in the modern game, and hitting the ball well and far is more important than putting and short game skills. Competition and a competitive mindset are essential for success in golf. Parents should focus on creating great human beings rather than solely focusing on golf success. Chapters 00:00 The Success of South African Golfers 04:18 The Impact of Role Models 10:33 The Elements of an Effective Junior Golf Program 16:03 Cultivating a Love for the Game 21:45 The Importance of the Driver 28:00 Competition and a Competitive Mindset 37:34 Creating Great Human Beings Links: Andrew Rice Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/andrewricegolf Website - https://www.andrewricegolf.com/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/andrewricegolf/ The Golf Parent Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thegolfparent Tiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@thegolfparent YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@thegolfparent | |||
| 10 Mar 2025 | Building Golf Champions: Kellie Stenzel on the Power of Multi-Sport Development and Mental Strength | 00:40:28 | |
Join PGA Professional Kellie Stenzel, recognized among Golf Magazine’s Top 100 Teachers and Golf Digest’s best instructors in New York, on this insightful episode of The Golf Parent podcast. Kellie shares valuable golf advice and golf lessons focused on junior golf training, women's golf, and mastering the golf mental game. Discover why multi-sport athletes benefit greatly from diversified youth sports development, and learn how teaching kids work ethic can significantly improve their performance and enjoyment of golf. Kellie also explores essential golf parenting tips, emphasizing the importance of properly fitted equipment and nurturing self-reliance and resilience in young athletes. Whether you're raising young athletes aiming to become better golfers or seeking golf life lessons to enrich your child's development, Kellie's expertise in golf coaching for kids will help you foster joy, growth, and success on and off the golf course. Takeaways: - Playing multiple sports and not specializing too early can be beneficial for young athletes. - Proper equipment fitting is important for women in golf. - The mental aspect of the game is crucial, and having a well-rounded approach can lead to success. - Parents should provide support and avoid putting too much pressure on their children. - Enjoying the game and having fun should be a priority for both junior golfers and their parents. Chapters: 00:00 Introduction and Background in Golf 03:36 The Value of Playing Multiple Sports and Avoiding Early Specialization 07:17 Writing Books for Women in Golf: Empowering and Helping Others 10:59 The Importance of Proper Equipment Fitting for Women in Golf 16:04 The Mental Aspect of Golf: A Well-Rounded Approach 20:27 Advice for Junior Golfers: Enjoy the Game and Have a Plan B 29:05 Supporting Junior Golfers: Parental Guidance and Avoiding Pressure Links: Website - https://www.kelliestenzelgolf.com/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/kelliestenzelgolf Books - https://amzn.to/4iD7aG7 The Golf Parent Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thegolfparent YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@thegolfparent X - https://x.com/thegolfparent Tiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@thegolfparent Keywords: golf, golf podcast, juniors, sports, supportive parents, multiple sports, specialization, writing books, women in golf, equipment fitting, mental aspect, well-rounded approach, junior golfers, parental support, golf lessons, how to play golf, golf advice, become a better golfer, youth sports development, teaching kids work ethic, golf parenting tips, junior golf training, raising young athletes, golf mental game, golf coaching for kids | |||
| 02 Dec 2024 | Speed, Grit, and Raising Resilient Junior Golfers: Insights from Virgil Herring | 01:10:09 | |
In this episode of The Golf Parent Podcast, I sit down with Virgil Herring, a leading voice in junior golf coaching, to explore what it takes to develop not just great golfers but extraordinary individuals. Virgil shares his philosophy on balancing speed, grit, and mental resilience to help young players thrive both on and off the course. He reveals why struggle is essential for success, how parents can model the right behaviors, and why fostering autonomy and fun in golf is key to long-term development. We also dive into the emotional dynamics of youth sports and the crucial role parents play. Virgil offers actionable advice on maintaining a balance between praise and critique, managing competitive pressure, and using golf as a metaphor for navigating life’s challenges. From building confidence through competition to the transformative power of positive self-talk and hypnosis, this conversation is packed with insights for parents, coaches, and junior golfers alike. Whether your child is just starting out or competing at the highest levels, this episode provides invaluable strategies to help them excel while keeping the game fun and meaningful. Subscribe now for more expert tips on raising junior golf champions both on and off the course, and share your thoughts in the comments below! Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Junior Golf Coaching 02:58 The Importance of Speed in Golf 05:52 Complacency and the Struggle for Success 09:05 Instilling Grit and Passion in Kids 11:53 The Role of Parents in Fostering Grit 14:53 Creating a Fun Learning Environment 17:53 The Mental Game of Golf 20:48 Using Golf as a Life Coaching Tool 24:09 The Importance of Competition in Development 26:47 Self-Talk and Mental Resilience 34:45 Navigating Parental Support in Sports 41:01 The Balance of Praise and Critique 45:48 The Power of Immersive Presence 53:30 Harnessing the Mind: Hypnosis in Sports 01:07:16 Encouraging Fun and Autonomy in Children
Virgil Herring Website - https://virgilherring.com/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/virgil.herring/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/virgil.herring X - https://x.com/i/flow/login?redirect_after_login=%2Fvirgiltourspin Books - https://virgilherring.com/books-by-virgil-herring/ Podcast: On the Virg The Golf Parent Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thegolfparent Tiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@thegolfparent YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@thegolfparent | |||
| 17 Mar 2025 | Mastering the Mental Game: Building a Championship Mindset in Junior Golf | 00:51:33 | |
In this episode of The Golf Parent Podcast, I chat with Josh Nichols, a Golf Psychology Coach and seasoned amateur golfer who's packed with practical advice about the mental aspects of junior golf. Josh shares his own journey, starting golf at age 12, inspired by his father's passion for the game. He emphasizes that mistakes aren't setbacks—they're signs young players are testing their limits and genuinely improving. As Josh humorously points out, hitting the ball into the trees every now and then means they're taking healthy risks. We discuss strategies for handling the emotional ups and downs on the golf course, with Josh offering easy-to-implement techniques like breathing exercises and mindfulness practices. These tips help junior golfers stay calm and focused, turning potential meltdowns into opportunities for growth. Josh also outlines effective practice methods, including a mix of block, random, and challenging drills, that make practice sessions engaging and impactful. He provides candid insights into preparing for tournaments, highlighting the importance of mental adaptability under pressure. If you're looking for straightforward, relatable advice on supporting junior golfers in both their athletic and mental development, this episode delivers the perfect balance of genuine insight and practical strategies. Key Takeaways: - It’s never too early or late to start playing golf. - Mistakes indicate progress, not failure. - Emotional management leads to better performance and enjoyment. - Emphasizing effort over results builds resilience and confidence. - Diverse practice routines enhance skill development. - Mental toughness is essential in tournament situations. - Mindfulness significantly improves performance on the course. - Clear emotional guidelines create a better experience for everyone. Chapters: 00:00 The Journey Begins: Early Influences in Golf 01:56 Instilling a Championship Mindset in Children 06:10 Navigating Emotions: Teaching Kids to Self-Regulate 10:02 Setting Boundaries: The Role of Consequences in Parenting 11:59 Practical Tips for Emotional Regulation in Young Golfers 16:06 Mindfulness in Golf: Balancing Thought and Action 19:47 Effective Practice Strategies for Young Golfers 25:35 The Art of Deliberate Practice 27:04 Preparing for Competition: Practice Strategies 30:26 Maximizing Practice Rounds Before Tournaments 35:08 Lessons from the Psychology of Golf 39:52 The Importance of Embracing Failure 45:05 Parenting Reflections: Breaking Generational Patterns Josh Nichols Links: Website: https://www.joshnicholsgolf.com/The Mental Golf Show: https://www.joshnicholsgolf.com/podcastTwitter/X: https://x.com/joshlukenicholsInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/joshlukenichols/ The Golf Parent Links: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thegolfparent YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@thegolfparentX - https://x.com/thegolfparentTiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@thegolfparent | |||
| 31 Mar 2025 | Golf Tips from Butch Harmon’s Lead Instructor for 26 Years | 00:42:29 | |
In this powerful episode of The Golf Parent Podcast, I'm joined by Shawn Callahan, a top-ranked golf instructor with over 26 years of experience as the head instructor at the legendary Butch Harmon School of Golf in Las Vegas. Now based at Abacoa Golf Club in Jupiter, Florida—one of the toughest and most competitive golf communities in the nation—Shawn shares the keys to developing young golfers into confident, skilled, and mentally tough competitors. We dive into the importance of practicing in challenging environments and the mindset required to succeed against elite competition. Shawn provides game-changing insights into swing mechanics, emphasizing why the "impact zone" is more crucial than picture-perfect technique. He advocates for finding and embracing one's authentic swing, encouraging juniors to trust their instincts and focus on results rather than overanalyzing their movements. Shawn breaks down effective practice techniques designed to rapidly enhance junior golfers' skills, from mastering the short game to confidently hitting mid-irons and drivers. He stresses the importance of maintaining acceleration through every shot, properly utilizing the club's bounce, and consistently finding the correct ball position. Beyond technique, Shawn also highlights the critical role parents play in nurturing successful junior golfers. His advice centers around selecting experienced coaches, fostering a supportive atmosphere, and teaching kids to embrace the journey—focusing on the process over immediate outcomes. Key Takeaways:
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| 07 Apr 2025 | Short Game Secrets Revealed by Golf Digest's #1 Ranked Golf Instructor - James Sieckmann | 00:39:17 | |
In this episode of The Golf Parent Podcast, I talk with James Sieckmann—Golf Digest’s 2019 #1 ranked teacher and renowned short game specialist. Known as the “Short Game Guru,” James has coached over 150 tour pros and brings a wealth of expertise on mastering putting and chipping skills crucial for junior golfers. James breaks down the common myths and mistakes golfers make on the putting green, revealing that putting success is rooted in developing systematic skills: consistently hitting your start line, controlling speed, and accurately reading greens. He shares his favorite putting drills, including the effective "Putting Through a Gate" technique, designed to dramatically improve accuracy and consistency. We also dive deep into chipping techniques, emphasizing the importance of understanding club design, proper turf interaction, and how to adapt to various lies and challenging situations. James highlights the necessity of practicing a wide range of shots to build confidence and versatility around the green. For parents of junior golfers, James offers invaluable insights on supporting young players with a healthy, long-term perspective. He stresses the importance of fostering resilience, avoiding performance pressure, and encouraging continuous improvement rather than immediate results. Tune in to gain game-changing strategies from one of golf's greatest short game teachers, and equip your junior golfer with the tools to excel both mentally and physically on the course. Key Takeaways:
Chapters: 00:00 Introduction and Expertise in the Short Game 02:44 Common Faults and Misconceptions in Putting 07:20 Developing a Systematic Approach to Putting 12:36 Favorite Drill: Putting Through a Gate 20:26 Advice for Parents of Junior Golfers 25:00 Favorite Drills for Putting Improvement 26:02 Mental Skills and Mindset of Elite Golfers 28:05 Chipping Technique and Shot-Making Skills 34:59 Advice for Parents and Junior Golfers James Sieckmann's Links: Website - www.jsegolfacademy.com Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/james.sieckmann/ Books - https://amzn.to/4i2A3eg The Golf Parent Links: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thegolfparent YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@thegolfparent X - https://x.com/thegolfparent Tiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@thegolfparent | |||
| 15 Nov 2024 | Speed, Putting Drills and All Things Junior Golf: Joe Hallet and Maureen ‘Coach Mo’ Farrell | 01:16:32 | |
In this powerhouse episode of The Golf Parent, I welcome two of golf’s elite coaches: Joe Hallett, 2024 PGA of America Teacher & Coach of the Year, and Maureen “Coach Mo” Farrell, acclaimed Director of Instruction at Oakwood Country Club. Joe, a PGA Master Professional, is a fixture on Golf Digest’s Top 50 and has coached legends like Inbee Park and Stacy Lewis, while Coach Mo has spent over 15 years molding talent and is named one of Golf Digest’s "Best Teachers in State" (2022-25), and "Best Young Teachers" (2021-25). Together, Joe and Coach Mo dive into the game’s secrets, from maximizing distance and speed with the driver to mastering grip pressure and tempo. They break down the body-swing connection using the TPI model, giving parents and juniors practical tools to elevate their game. Their insights into the mental game emphasize the power of curiosity and creativity, with Joe sharing drills for putting mastery and Coach Mo showing how to balance tech with real-world play. The episode wraps up with advice every parent needs: fostering resilience, encouraging multi-sport play, and building a positive attitude on and off the course. With wisdom from two of golf’s best, this episode is a must-listen for anyone supporting young golfers in their journey to greatness! Takeaways Swing speed is a crucial factor in golf, and players with higher swing speeds have a competitive advantage. Equipment, technique, and physical training play significant roles in developing speed and distance. The TPI model provides valuable resources for parents and coaches to understand the body-swing connection and train juniors effectively. Firm grip pressure and a three-to-one tempo ratio are recommended for optimal performance. Having a growth mindset and focusing on the process rather than the outcome can lead to improvement in golf. Focus on speed control and aim to improve putting performance. Use drills like the four-foot box and leapfrog to work on speed control. Read greens by rolling balls towards the hole and observing the break. Find a balance between technology and on-course performance in golf instruction. Encourage juniors to play multiple sports to develop overall athleticism. Physical fitness is crucial for junior golfers. On-course play is essential for understanding lies, conditions, and strategy Simulators are useful for technique training during inclement weather Foster a positive attitude and focus on enjoyment in the game Chapters 00:00 Introduction and the Evolution of Golf 01:08 The Importance of Swing Speed and Distance 03:02 The Role of Instructors and Technology in Golf 06:12 Developing Speed and Distance: Techniques and Training 08:59 Optimizing Performance: Grip Pressure and Tempo 12:29 The TPI Model: Understanding the Body-Swing Connection 19:14 The Role of Mindset and Process-Oriented Approach in Golf 22:26 Embracing a Growth Mindset and Exploration in Golf 24:03 Mastering Speed Control and Aim in Putting 28:27 Drills for Improving Speed Control 29:28 Reading Greens and Understanding Break 43:08 Balancing Technology and On-Course Performance in Golf Instruction 49:45 Introduction 50:17 Developing Well-Rounded Athletes: The Importance of Multiple Sports 53:11 The Role of Physical Fitness in Junior Golf 56:38 The Significance of On-Course Play and Understanding Lies 01:00:28 The Benefits and Limitations of Simulators 01:06:38 Supporting Junior Golfers: Advice for Parents 01:13:37 Fostering a Positive Attitude in Junior Golf 01:14:53 Conclusion Links: Joe Hallet Website - https://www.joehallettgolf.com/ Maureen Farrell Website - https://www.coachmogolf.com/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/coachmogolf X - https://x.com/coachmogolf The Golf Parent Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thegolfparent Tiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@thegolfparent YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@thegolfparent For more information check out www.thegolfparent.com | |||
| 10 Feb 2025 | Unlocking Golf Performance: The Psychology Behind the Game with Dr. Raymond Prior | 00:55:05 | |
Book:Golf Beneath the Surface In this episode of The Golf Parent Podcast, I delve deep into the psychology of performance with Dr. Raymond Prior, a renowned expert in mental performance who has worked with Olympic Gold Medalists, Major Champions, and Grammy Award winners. Dr. Prior brings his expertise to the world of golf, sharing invaluable insights for parents of junior golfers looking to enhance their child's mental game. We explore the science behind performance psychology, debunking common myths that may hinder a young golfer’s development. Dr. Prior discusses how a growth mindset can unlock a child’s potential, why praising effort over talent is essential, and how parents can support their children during times of poor performance. We also dive into the power of mindfulness, visualization, and the importance of playing freely to reduce anxiety and foster resilience. This episode is a must-listen for any parent seeking to understand the mental side of golf and how to help their child thrive both on and off the course. Whether your child is struggling with performance anxiety or striving for greatness, Dr. Prior’s expert advice will guide you in nurturing a mindset that sets them up for long-term success. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Golf Psychology and Performance 02:51 Debunking Myths in Golf Psychology 06:06 The Importance of a Growth Mindset 08:46 Constructive Praise and Feedback for Young Golfers 11:45 Handling Poor Performance in Young Athletes 14:53 The Role of Self-Talk and Visualization 17:45 Breathwork and Mindfulness in Golf Performance 23:49 Mental Strategies of Elite Golfers 27:09 The Importance of Playing Freely in Golf 30:06 Encouraging Children to Play Freely 32:53 Navigating Anxiety and Performance 37:12 The Role of Parental Support 45:29 Fostering Exploration and Resilience in Children 47:27 The Dangers of Allowing Children to Quit Links: Dr. Raymond Prior Book:Golf Beneath the Surface Podcast:https://gbtspodcast.buzzsprout.com/ Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/gbtspodcast?igsh=MWt1dThhbTVlaWk2OA== Website: https://btsmindset.com/ The Golf Parent Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thegolfparent YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@thegolfparent | |||
| 17 Dec 2024 | Process Over Results: Nurturing Junior Golfers with Todd Kolb | 00:53:50 | |
In this episode of The Golf Parent, I sit down with golf coach and author Todd Kolb to dive into the art of raising passionate, resilient junior golfers. Todd shares age-specific strategies for guiding young athletes, emphasizing the value of multi-sport participation and a competitive mindset. He explores how parents can create supportive environments that encourage growth and focus on the process of improvement, rather than solely on results. Todd also breaks down common misconceptions in golf instruction, including simplifying the short game and shifting the focus from distance to control for consistent performance. Beyond technical advice, he offers powerful insights into overcoming bad days—both on the course and in life—and explains how to avoid the pitfalls of toxic sports parenting. Whether you're a parent looking to inspire your junior golfer or an athlete aiming to sharpen your game, Todd’s expertise will help you foster passion, resilience, and lasting success. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Youth Sports Development 02:53 Passion and Environment in Junior Golf 05:59 Nurturing Young Golfers: Parental Influence 08:56 Age-Specific Guidance for Young Golfers 12:08 Building Resilience in Young Athletes 15:09 The Importance of Multi-Sport Participation 17:48 Developing Competitive Nature in Golf 21:05 Focusing on Process Over Results in Golf 26:51 Letting Go of Bad Days 29:13 The Bad Lie: Rethinking Golf Instruction 31:08 Misconceptions in Golf Instruction for Older Players 34:26 Injury Prevention and Swing Mechanics 37:34 The Importance of Control Over Distance 39:53 Simplifying the Short Game 46:40 Strategies for Lowering Scores 50:44 Encouraging Greatness in Young Athletes
Todd Kolb Twitter: https://x.com/usgolftv Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/usgolftv/ Book: The Bad Lie https://www.badliegolfbook.com/ Website: https://usgolftv.com/ The Golf Parent Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thegolfparent YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@thegolfparent | |||
| 14 Nov 2024 | Taking Pressure off Junior Golfers with 2024 Pac-12 Coach of the Year: Matt Thurmond (ASU) | 00:52:20 | |
In this episode, I sit down with Matt Thurmond, the 2024 Pac-12 Coach of the Year and head coach of Arizona State University’s men’s golf team. Since taking the reins in 2016, Matt has transformed ASU into a powerhouse, leading them to 24 tournament wins, back-to-back NCAA Regional titles, and a Pac-12 Championship. Matt’s earned multiple West Region and Pac-12 Coach of the Year honors and coached 11 Sun Devils to 18 All-America honors. Matt shares his philosophy on balancing success and setbacks, emphasizing mental resilience and the power of a growth mindset. He breaks down the recruiting process, revealing what he looks for in young athletes, and how he customizes his approach for each player’s unique goals and motivations. Matt’s advice goes beyond golf, touching on the importance of supportive relationships and self-forgiveness, offering parents and young players practical ways to thrive under pressure. With insights into the daily life of a college golfer and the need for mental strength and joy in the game, this conversation is packed with wisdom. Whether you’re a parent, player, or coach, Matt’s perspective on the journey of junior golf is one you don’t want to miss. Takeaways Success and failure are part of everyone's journey, and it's important to acknowledge and learn from both. Individualized coaching is crucial in understanding and meeting the unique needs and motivations of each player. Belief in oneself and deep understanding of one's abilities are key to achieving success in golf and in life. Goals should be driven by personal beliefs and serve as directional beacons rather than strict targets. Enjoying the process and finding passion in what you do is more important than focusing solely on the end result. Having a healthy and supportive relationship outside of the game can have a big impact on a golfer's mental, physical, and emotional state. Elite-level golfers are driven and hard on themselves, but they also have the ability to forgive themselves and move on from mistakes. A typical week for college golfers includes practice, workouts, and competition preparation, with a focus on improving all areas of the game. Manufacturing pressure in practice can be done through team drills, inviting spectators, and tracking results. Parents should take pressure off their child golfer and not tie their own happiness to their child's performance. Reading Carol Dweck's 'Mindset' is recommended for parents and players to understand the importance of a growth mindset. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Recent Success 04:49 Navigating Success and Failure 07:04 Dealing with Disappointment and Learning from Failure 10:02 Coaching and Learning from Inspirational Movies 10:34 Lessons Learned from Coaching for Over Two Decades 15:21 Individualized Coaching and Understanding Players 19:13 Recruiting and Evaluating Potential Players 21:31 The Role of Goals in Achieving Success 24:21 Finding Passion in the Process 28:27 The Underrated Aspect of Relationships in Golf 32:21 The Ability to Forgive and Move On 33:20 A Typical Week for College Golfers 44:45 Manufacturing Pressure in Practice 46:44 Taking Pressure Off Child Golfers 48:54 The Importance of a Growth Mindset Links: Matt Thurmond ASU - https://www.instagram.com/sundevilmgolf Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/coachmattthurmond The Golf Parent Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thegolfparent Tiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@thegolfparent YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@thegolfparent For more information check out www.thegolfparent.com | |||
| 16 Nov 2024 | Technology and Junior Golf - Insights From Global Expert: James Leitz | 01:13:40 | |
James Leitz, a renowned golf instructor and club fitter, shares his journey and insights into the impact of technology on the game of golf. He discusses how he discovered golf by accident and became passionate about improving his skills. Leitz emphasizes the importance of measuring and analyzing the golf swing to understand the impact on ball flight. He explains the four laws of golf: speed, path, face, and impact points, and how they determine the outcome of a shot. Leitz also highlights the challenges of changing mechanics and the need for conscious and competent practice to achieve unconscious competence. In this conversation, James Leitz shares his insights on golf and player development. He emphasizes the importance of having a consistent impact point on the clubface for ball control and playing at a high level. Leitz believes that talent plays a significant role in achieving this consistency, but it can also be developed through practice and hand-eye coordination. He discusses the various talents and skills required to be a competitive golfer, including physical fitness, mental toughness, and strategic thinking. Leitz also offers advice to parents of junior golfers, emphasizing the importance of fun, support, and finding the right balance in their child's development. Takeaways Technology has revolutionized the game of golf, allowing for more precise measurement and analysis of the golf swing. The four laws of golf - speed, path, face, and impact points - determine the outcome of a shot. Changing mechanics requires conscious and competent practice to achieve unconscious competence. Precision, lack of variance, and mental state are essential for success in golf. Having a consistent impact point on the clubface is crucial for ball control and playing at a high level in golf. Talent plays a significant role in achieving a consistent impact point, but it can also be developed through practice and hand-eye coordination. Being a competitive golfer requires a range of talents and skills, including physical fitness, mental toughness, and strategic thinking. Parents of junior golfers should prioritize fun, support, and finding the right balance in their child's development. Finding a good instructor who cares about the whole student is important for a golfer's development. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Background 03:42 The Impact of Technology on Golf 09:54 The Importance of Measurement and Analysis 17:01 The Four Laws of Golf 23:21 Changing Mechanics and Achieving Unconscious Competence 26:44 The Keys to Success in Golf 37:12 The Importance of a Consistent Impact Point 46:58 The Evolution of Golf with Equipment and Instruction 52:26 The Role of Talent in Golf 55:56 The Pitfalls of Being Too Careful 01:01:34 Advice for Parents of Junior Golfers 01:04:03 The Complexities of Golfer Development 01:09:10 The Importance of Finding a Good Instructor Links James Leitz Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jamesleitz Website: https://www.leitzgolf.com/ The Golf Parent Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thegolfparent Tiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@thegolfparent YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@thegolfparent For more information check out www.thegolfparent.com | |||