The Flynn Skidmore Podcast (Flynn Skidmore)
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| 27 Jul 2023 | Welcome to The Flynn Skidmore Podcast! | 00:00:35 | |
It's HERE! Welcome to The Flynn Skidmore Podcast. I'm Flynn, and this podcast is for learning to light your soul on fire and become exactly who you want to be. Get ready to generate the love you have always wanted, cultivate your vision for a next-level life, and tap into abundance and wealth while developing a deep understanding of yourself. This podcast is for anyone who wants to live a remarkably fulfilling life. Let's connect:
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| 09 Aug 2023 | SOLO: Answering Your Most Pressing Relationship Questions | 00:46:53 | |
In today’s episode, I speak about my grand philosophy on relationships and how the way we relate to one thing is the way we relate to all things. The way we relate to all things is what determines the quality of our lives. Connect with Flynn:
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| 09 Aug 2023 | Going From Anxious to Secure in My Relationship with My Girlfriend Emily | 00:55:51 | |
In this episode, I speak with my girlfriend and business partner, Emily Sudlow. Have you ever wondered if someone can go from anxious to secure in a relationship? The answer is yes. Emmy and I are spilling the tea, all about how I was anxious at the beginning of our relationship, doing things that were a turn-off, and waving at least 50 red flags (lol). We chat about how we went from there to what we think is one of the greatest and most loving relationships ever. We dive into navigating anxious and avoidant attachment styles, love bombing, red flags in a relationship, turning conflict into gold, and what we think is required to create an out-of-this-world relationship. Connect with Flynn:
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| 09 Aug 2023 | JT Barnett on Trusting Your Intuition | 01:09:06 | |
In this episode, I speak with creative visionary, marketing genius, and man of love, JT Barnett. This story is about self-discovery, unconditional love, trusting your intuition and the courage to be true to oneself. Thank you, JT, for such open and honest sharing. Connect with Flynn: Connect with JT:
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| 14 Aug 2023 | The Power of Discipline, Choice and Honesty with Kenzie Burke | 01:30:54 | |
In this episode, I speak with the founder, designer, and visionary, Kenzie Burke.
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| 16 Aug 2023 | SOLO: You've Never Thought About Relationships Like This | 00:54:37 | |
In today's episode, I speak about relationships and how your internal relationships shape your external world.
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| 23 Aug 2023 | The Energy of Money: Shifting from Fear-Based to Heart-Centered Wealth with Victoria Washington | 01:06:01 | |
In this episode, I speak with Victoria Washington, a compelling voice of entrepreneurship and the founder of the House of Wealth Embodiment®.
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| 30 Aug 2023 | Discovering and Owning Your Inner Genius with Founder & Author Liz Tran | 01:19:26 | |
In today’s episode I speak with the incredible founder, author, and podcaster Liz Tran. Liz merges the worlds of grounded spiritual practice and business, and is the founder of Reset, where she works as an executive coach to the CEOs and founders of some of the world’s fastest-growing companies. Connect with Liz:
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| 06 Sep 2023 | Turn-offs, Conflict and Getting Everything You Want in a Relationship with My Girlfriend Emily | 01:02:30 | |
In today's episode my girlfriend Emily and I speak about recent life updates (we're living in Tuscany!) and navigating conflicts and disagreements in a relationship.
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| 13 Sep 2023 | Finding Balance Between Science and Intuition: A Holistic Approach to Understanding Our Inner World with Nicole Vignola | 01:13:40 | |
On today's episode I speak with Neuroscientist, Consultant, Author and Speaker, Nicole Vignola.
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| 20 Sep 2023 | Manifestation Like You’ve Never Heard Before | 00:51:30 | |
In today’s episode, I discuss manifestation in the most beautiful and interesting way I know of. You are already a master of manifestation. Everything in your life is a product of manifestation.
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| 27 Sep 2023 | Unraveling the Complexities of Infidelity and Next Level Healing with Psychotherapist Ailey Jolie | 01:32:20 | |
In today’s episode, I speak with fellow psychotherapist, Ailey Jolie. Ailey’s perspective on healing, self-trust and betrayal in relationships is absolutely beautiful.
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| 04 Oct 2023 | The Skill of Inspiration, Choosing Creativity, and Embracing Joy with Puno from ilovecreatives | 00:52:13 | |
In today’s episode I speak with Puno, the founder of ilovecreatives.com. Connect with Puno:
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| 11 Oct 2023 | Exploring the Intricacies of Shame and What it Means to be Embodied with Dr. Scott Lyons | 01:17:46 | |
In today's episode, I speak with holistic psychologist, educator and author, Dr. Scott Lyons. Scott is a world-class body-based trauma expert, helping people break free from cycles of pain, limiting beliefs, and trauma. In this conversation, we explore cyclical thoughts, shame and its effects, positive and toxic shame, self-actualization, social isolation and loneliness, and what it means to have an internal experience. We also discuss detecting repressed shame and manipulation, resonance and emotional contagion, supporting each other in the journey toward self-actualization, and creating a world that supports everyone's access to love and joy. Connect with Flynn: Connect with Dr. Scott Lyons:
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| 18 Oct 2023 | Neuroplasticity, Spirituality, and Social Media Success: A Deep Dive with Neuroscientist Emily McDonald | 01:24:24 | |
Join us as we delve into an insightful conversation with neuroscientist and content creator, Emily McDonald. Today, Emily unpacks the transformative power of neuroplasticity, the influence of spirituality on the brain, and the art of crafting content that truly resonates.
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| 25 Oct 2023 | Unlocking Potential: From Pro Rugby to Best-Selling Author with Ben Mercer | 01:21:47 | |
In this engaging episode, I chat with former pro rugby player and now author, Ben Mercer. Join with us as we unpack the attitude that allowed Ben to get so good at rugby, growth mindset, and navigating male friendships.
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| 01 Nov 2023 | How Micro-Moments Shift Your World with Tero Isokauppila of Four Sigmatic | 01:06:52 | |
In today’s episode, I speak with Tero Isokauppila, Founder and CEO of Four Sigmatic. Tero and I discussed the importance of transitions and micro-moments in life, prioritizing his mission and Dharma as a guiding principle, understanding the shadow and its role in embracing one's true self, emphasizing truth, living authentically, personal fulfillment, and his reflection on mortality. We also spoke about the significance of taking accountability and personal responsibility in relationships and life choices, and Tero shared the specific processes he uses to reflect on his life and inform the choices he makes about how he wants to create his future.
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| 08 Nov 2023 | Integrate Mindfulness and Shape Your Reality with Manoj Dias, Co-Founder of Open | 01:01:44 | |
In today’s episode, I speak with Manoj Dias, the co-founder of mindfulness studio, Open. Manoj has helped thousands of people around the world through mindfulness and meditation.
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| 15 Nov 2023 | Taking Control of Your Energy and Authenticity in Relationships with My Girlfriend Emily | 00:47:54 | |
In today’s episode I speak with my girlfriend Emily on internal fulfillment, authenticity in life and in relationships and becoming who you want to be. We discuss my initial dislike of authenticity, how authenticity can often create a fear of being inauthentic, using intensity and directness as a tool for getting what you want, living in alignment and being unaffected by external validation.
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| 29 Nov 2023 | Entrepreneurial Energy: Suzy Batiz on Finding Balance, Internal Wealth, and Transcending Your Creative Potential | 01:22:39 | |
In today’s episode, I speak with the incredible and intuitive entrepreneur, Suzy Batiz, Founder of Poo-Pourri, Supernatural and creator of a $500+ million empire. We also explored owning the depths of darkness within you, wealth as an internal state, abundance, trusting the flow of life and to be accountable for one's actions, the power of authenticity and the dynamic nature of businesses as living organisms.
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| 06 Dec 2023 | The Balance of Ego and Passion, Aligning With Your Purpose and Finding Meaning with Raed Khawaja, Co-founder of Open | 00:59:37 | |
In today’s episode, I speak with Raed Khawaja, co-founder of LA based meditation studio and app, Open.
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| 13 Dec 2023 | The 6 Principles of Your Unconscious: How to Use Your Unconscious to Shape Your Reality | 00:38:31 | |
In today’s episode, I teach you about "The 6 Principles of Your Unconscious". These principles, informed by Neuro-Linguistic Programming, are the key to understanding your unconscious to transform your internal and external realities. The 6 Principles:
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| 27 Dec 2023 | How To Know What You Want In Life | 00:50:24 | |
In today’s episode, we begin to understand what you actually want in the life and how to get it. We dive into the importance of knowing what you want, being specific, what gets in the way of what you desire in life, strategies to access internal experience, trusting your taste and preferences, the vision for the rest of your life, the opportunity to see yourself as an artist, getting clear on the energy you want to exchange, owning what you like, and becoming an energetic asset.
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| 03 Jan 2024 | The Energetics of Self in Human Design, The Science of Your Aura and Expanding Consciousness with Maike Gabriela | 01:21:46 | |
In this episode, my guest is Maike Gabriela, Human Design reader, and deconditioning expert. Maike’s mission is to support people in finding their way back to themselves and their purpose.
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| 10 Jan 2024 | What it Takes to Create a Secure Relationship | 00:38:37 | |
In this episode, I describe two frameworks to use in any relationship and how to create a secure relationship to be your most expansive self. Framework one is a commitment to closeness and framework two is co-creation. I explain two different types of attachment in relationships which I created - lifeless and expansive - how I used to be a person with avoidant tendencies, the gap between where you are and where you want to be, and getting clear on the life you desire. I discuss common objectives about secure relationships, how secure relationships are an opportunity to pursue immense change, creating coherence in relationships, and what codependency actually is. This episode will help you understand how to create secure relationships, nurture your relationships for deeper intimacy, create a surplus of energy in partnerships and live in your genius to create the life you want.
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| 17 Jan 2024 | Understanding Attachment Styles, Emotional Intelligence and Intimacy in Relationships with Brian Yang | 01:39:02 | |
In this episode, my guest is Brian Yang, @awakeningwithbrian, a transformational coach. Brian helps people heal the deepest emotional wounds that block them from fulfilling relationships, using SIBS, which is the synergy of somatic work, inner child work, and breathwork.
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| 24 Jan 2024 | The Coexistence of Self, Reality Creation and Unveiling Neutrality with Pea the Feary | 00:50:53 | |
In this episode, my guest is Pea The Feary, an artist and spiritualist. Pea specializes in the energetics of reality creation and uses the principles of reality creation to support creatives in calling in careers they desire and love. Pea describes using timeline jumping to get from where you are to where you want to be, unveiling yourself, and revealing yourself through choice, life as an act of creativity, and the concept of neutrality.
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| 31 Jan 2024 | From Shameful Self-Awareness to Loving Awareness Part 1 | 00:18:52 | |
In today's episode, I explore what shameful self-awareness is and where it comes from, and more importantly how you can begin turn it into loving self-awareness. We dive into shameful self-awareness and how it shows up as immense self-criticism, self-hatred, what happens to your nervous system with shame, loneliness, and being rejected. This conversation is the first part of a two-part series. In Part 2, we explore loving self-awareness and how make a different choice about who you want to be, the thoughts you want to think, and the way you want to interpret yourself in the world.
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| 07 Feb 2024 | From Shameful Self-Awareness to Loving Awareness Part 2 | 00:49:25 | |
In today's episode, I explore what loving self-awareness is and offer you a framework for implementing it in your life. I also discuss the unconscious mind, neuroplasticity, the conditions that change needs, how to cultivate deeper self-understanding, the energetic frequency associated with actions and thoughts, and transforming your dislikes into likes. This conversation is the second part of a two-part series and offers an in-depth perspective on how to go from shameful self-awareness and stuckness to loving self-awareness and internal fulfilment.
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| 14 Feb 2024 | How to Know If You Really Love Someone, If You’re Settling, & Navigating Conflict in Your Relationship with Emily & Flynn | 00:48:15 | |
In this episode, my guest is my business partner and girlfriend, Emily Sudlow and this might be the most important relationship podcast you’ve ever heard. Emily and I explore how to know if you are settling in a relationship, see others’ traits as scarce resources, the honeymoon phase, and finding validation from relationships. We also discuss how to know if you really love someone, how to know if you love your life, becoming exactly who you want to be, how a relationship can accelerate finding your unconscious wounds, pushing yourself to be the best version of yourself, navigating conflict in a relationship, how often couples fight in a relationship, and how conflict can turn into a container for growth. This conversation offers a deep dive in discovering if you are settling in a relationship, how to become the highest version of yourself, using conflict for growth and understanding what it means to know if you are actually in love or if you are just comfortable.
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| 21 Feb 2024 | Why Is It So Hard To Be Yourself? | 01:01:04 | |
If you're a person who wants fulfillment, if you want satisfaction, if you want a sense of completion, yet never complete fulfillment in your life, if you want to create, if you want empowerment, if you want to empower others, if you want to inspire the people around you and breathe life into the spaces that you walk into, then this episode is for you. In today's episode, I explore how to be yourself. We explore how fragmentation happens, my story of fragmentation, and how to create wholeness. I offer a perspective on being yourself that is likely different than what you’ve heard before, and it is one of the most important things that has propelled me into a life of internal freedom, full expression, and fulfillment. Toward the end, I explore and address some of the common struggles people have with being themselves. My hope is that you walk away from this episode with clarity on how to begin creating this for yourself.
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| 28 Feb 2024 | How to Transform Your Unconscious Wounds | 00:47:05 | |
In today's episode, I demystify the process of trauma healing, and simplify the process unconscious and personal transformation. I discuss how you can own the truth of what you want to create in your life, how healing trauma for the sake of healing trauma is less likely to fulfill you, and how to go deeper inward and understand yourself, find wounds and transform them. My hope is that you walk away from this episode with a deep understanding of the emotional brain, the ability to identify and evolve your internal states, and a sense of confidence in creating the future version of yourself while evolving your nervous system and transforming your external world.
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| 06 Mar 2024 | Understanding Hypnosis and How Change Happens in the Brain with Dr. David Spiegel | 00:58:46 | |
In today's episode, I'm joined by the global authority on clinical hypnonis, Dr. David Spiegel. Dr. Spiegel is the Director of the Center for Integrative Medicine at Stanford University School of Medicine, and co-founder of Reverie, an app that teaches personalized hypnotherapy and self hypnosis. Dr. Spiegel discusses the stigma of hypnonsis, the resistance faced from the medical community towards hypnosis, creating a paradigm shift in medicine, how hypnosis works on a neurological level, taking hypnosis direct to consumers and making it widely available for pain mananagement, sleep, stress, anxiety and more. This conversation offers a unique perspective on the the direction of medicine, and we dive deep into how healing and transformation happen in the brain.
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| 13 Mar 2024 | Harnessing Creative Freedom with Cam Rosin | 01:06:31 | |
In today's episode, I'm joined by speaker and writer Cameron Rosin. Cam is a registered nurse with a deep knowledge of plant medicine, endocannabinoids, and the nervous system. Cam discusses his creative process, what freedom means to him, how he creates more of it in his life, and what he's learned about focus and instinct. He also explores the differentiation between instinct and intuition, and trusting his intuition in the process of becoming a father. We also dive into the relationship between resonance and viral content, our relationship with the big existential questions, and finding the parameters in your process of pursuing freedom. This conversation offers a beautiful take on internal freedom, fulfillment, and the discovery that the most impactful and potent work often comes from the things that are effortless to you.
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| 20 Mar 2024 | How to Master Conflict in Relationships | 00:41:10 | |
In today's episode, I speak about the one major thing that gets in the way of people's capacity to engage in conflict skillfully, efficiently, and effectively. I'm also going to give you one framework to be able to understand yourself on a deeper level so that you can go into conflict understanding what it is that you actually want. I discuss how 70 percent of couples supposedly have the same conflict over and over, how to find a fulfilling solution to the conflict, understand your frustration, and transform it into figuring out what you want, being fully honest with yourself, and provide you with the free-to-judge process. My hope is that you walk away from this episode with a deep understanding of how to resolve conflict in a more satisfying and fulfilling way, and in the process deepen your relationship with yourself.
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| 27 Mar 2024 | What is a “Dark Night of the Soul,” Why they Happen, and How to Become Un-Dark-Night-of-the-Soulable | 00:52:35 | |
In this thought-provoking episode, I delve into the mystical concept of the 'dark night of the soul,' a term coined by the Spanish mystic St. John of the Cross, and what it might take to become “un-dark-night-of-the-soulable”. I share my personal journey of self-discovery that began in my late teens, marked by a struggle with self-hatred and a deep yearning for transformation. Over a decade, my journey unfolded as a quest for understanding and tapping into the divine love that lies at the heart of this spiritual concept. I explore the importance of personal interpretation in navigating the dark night of the soul, suggesting that true safety and freedom emerge from being open to all possibilities without the need for any to be true. This openness fosters a playful and creative approach to interpreting the world and our experiences within it. You are encouraged to tune into your inner selves and fight for truth, beauty, and full expression, using your experiences as fuel for deeper connection and understanding. I emphasize the challenges of the transformation process, highlighting the tension between the desire for immediate change and the reality of slow, continuous evolution. Throughout the episode, poetry is celebrated as a powerful medium for expressing deep spiritual experiences, and the struggle to find an 'instruction manual' for transformation is acknowledged. Despite the frustrations and challenges, my message is one of persistence and hope in the journey towards understanding and accessing divine love. Tune in to this episode for a deep dive into the spiritual journey of the dark night of the soul and the transformative power of embracing all possibilities in the quest for personal growth and connection.
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| 03 Apr 2024 | How to Stop Hating Yourself | 01:02:08 | |
In this episode, I delve into my experience with self-hate and outline 3 of the most important factors in my experience of transcending it. We will dive into concept of resonance and its profound impact on our actions and perspectives. I share my personal journey of self-realization, beginning at the age of 18, where I encountered fear, insecurity, and the struggle of self-perception. I explore the pursuit of perfection as a response to self-hatred and the realization that perfection isn't the antidote. I discuss the experience of self-hate, existential crisis, and depersonalization, and what it’s like to forget who you are. I then describe the transformative shift from self-hate to self-love, emphasizing the three essential elements that facilitated this change: the understanding that there's no such thing as good and bad, using systems theory for forgiveness and acceptance, and understanding what you actually want. I further elaborate on the influence of systems theory on self-perception and the role it plays in acceptance and forgiveness, emphasizing that all systems move towards coherence, organization, and energetic efficiency. Then we end with a piece on creating both internal and external environments that match your unique resonance and using your resonance to serve others and create beautiful evolution in the world.
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| 08 Apr 2024 | The Evolution of Personal Branding: Insights from Instagram's Frank Bach | 00:56:57 | |
In today’s episode, I'm joined by Frank Bach, a designer at Instagram and a member of the band Monk. We delve into the intriguing crossroads of art and commerce, the significance of parental support in cultivating self-confidence, and the pivotal role of intuition in decision-making. Our conversation begins with Frank's role at Instagram, where he's dedicated to enhancing the experience for creators on the platform. We then explore his insights on branding, its transition from corporate identities to personal ventures, and the importance of consistent application over time. Frank also shares his background in hardcore punk music and its influence on his approach to design and branding, teaching him to challenge norms and embrace authenticity. We discuss our takes on cultural trends. Frank dives into his unique design aesthetic, shaped by his musical influences and the merging of cultures and influences in the current creative landscape. Join me for this thought-provoking, sociology-esque discussion with Frank Bach!
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| 17 Apr 2024 | How to Never Be Defensive Again | 00:49:49 | |
In this episode, I delve into two compelling themes: the pursuit of perfection and the commitment to never being defensive or offended. I discuss how we can view perfection not as a final destination but as a continual journey that strives for balance and coherence. I talk about the importance of not setting unrealistic expectations and embracing imperfections as they present growth opportunities.
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| 24 Apr 2024 | How to be Unshakably Confident | 00:44:30 | |
In this episode, I dive into the essential elements of personal evolution, focusing on the transformative power of self-confidence, transparency, and owning your truth. I kick things off with a discussion on how self-development and improvement fuel our energy and confidence. I share personal anecdotes from my experiences with surfing and tennis to illustrate the journey of understanding one's current state and desired goals. We then delve into the desire for improvement, exploring how crucial it is to recognize how much you want to improve and the willingness to put in the hard work. Following this, I discuss the role of the ego in differentiation and individuality, unpacking the human ego's tendency towards comparison and the pursuit of status or belonging. The conversation shifts to valuing internal experiences like joy, confidence, and peace, emphasizing the importance of cultivating these qualities within ourselves. I introduce the concept of a 'flex hierarchy', where the things you value most become your biggest 'flexes'. As we near the end, I encourage you to embrace the process of becoming who you want to be, highlighting the importance of recognizing the gap between where you are and where you aspire to be as a space for growth rather than shame. I reflect on my journey and the lessons learned along the way. We conclude with a reiteration of the importance of transparency, truth, and commitment. I invite you to fully commit to your own development and growth, embracing each step of the journey with hard work and repetition to achieve greatness. Join me as we navigate the complex yet rewarding path of self-discovery and improvement.
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| 01 May 2024 | What Unreasonable Passion Sounds Like | 01:02:53 | |
In this episode join me as I speak with Andy McCune, founder of Cosmos, a Pinterest alternative designed for creatives with great taste. Together, we delve into the depths of creativity, unleashing ourselves to be unreasonably passionate and in love with life, the artistic process, and the relationship between heartbreak and creation. We kick off the discussion by exploring our shared belief in the power of relentless passion and the essential role of authenticity in our work. We also reflect on the notion of 'perfection' found in organic materials and nature, and how this influences our creative endeavors. Andy shares insightful stories from his experiences selling his companies and the intricate process of relinquishing control. We discuss how money can indeed be part of the creative process and how making money can be considered an art form. As we wrap up our conversation, we touch on the power of choosing to be a certain kind of person, emphasizing the importance of reflection in our journey to make better mistakes. Join us as we navigate these complex themes, offering our insights and experiences to inspire you in your own creative and entrepreneurial ventures.
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| 08 May 2024 | How to Approach Self-Sabotage | 00:40:00 | |
In this episode, we explore the concept of self-sabotage, analyzing how our internal experiences, like shame and fear, often reflect our unconscious desires. We’ll look at how these patterns can be traced back to our early years, especially from infancy to about seven years old—a critical period when we were learning to navigate our surroundings. I emphasize that self-sabotage isn't inherently bad; it’s a survival mechanism we’ve developed. I explain that transforming these patterns is entirely possible by approaching self-sabotage with warmth, love, and curiosity. By understanding and accepting these patterns, we can begin to change them, but it requires engaging in deep emotional work and taking decisive actions in our daily lives. To wrap up, I encourage you to think about how you might consciously cultivate a new environment for yourself where positive internal experiences are more frequent. Join me as we delve into these complex issues, providing insights and actionable advice on using self-sabotage as a tool for personal growth and self-discovery.
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| 15 May 2024 | How to Deal with People who Aren’t Invested in Growth | 00:47:53 | |
In this episode, I explore dealing with those who aren’t invested in their own growth and what I call 'magnetism'—essentially, how to best set ourselves up to influence others. I share insights from my own journey to boost my magnetism, shedding light on the crucial role of sincerity and truth in self-discovery and our interactions with others. We'll talk about the significant impact our environments and relationships have on our personal growth and the strength of our magnetism. I emphasize the importance of taking responsibility for creating our own ecosystems that support our growth, boost our magnetism, and help us love and accept others as they are. Another key point we tackle is the challenges of effectively communicating our truth, especially when it means facing our fears and dealing with shame. Throughout the episode, I encourage you to take an active role in your personal growth by creating spaces that enhance your magnetism and allow you to love and accept others. Plus, we'll explore why honesty and facing tough emotions are essential steps on the path to personal growth.
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| 22 May 2024 | Forming an Identity with Jeff Guenther | 01:00:37 | |
In this episode, I sit down with Jeff Guenther (TherapyJeff), a therapist who's made a huge splash with his engaging mostly-relationship content. We dive into Jeff’s personal backstory, including his challenging relationship with his mother, his battles with anger, identity formation, music and culture, and the impact of his mom's drug addiction during his formative years. Jeff also opens up about his content journey, from the excitement of his initial viral success to the challenges of monetizing his platform. He shares his struggles with maintaining authenticity while navigating the world of sponsored content. Now, he's shifting toward a more balanced approach, focusing on writing and podcasting and cutting back on sponsored posts. He's also excited about his upcoming book, "Big Dating Energy," which he hopes will offer fresh insights into modern relationships. We wrap up our conversation by discussing his love for organic, long-form conversations and his enthusiasm for the next chapter of his career. Join us as TherapyJeff shares his journey and insights, offering a behind-the-scenes look at the life of a viral content creator turning towards more meaningful media endeavors.
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| 29 May 2024 | Why You Feel So Lonely | 00:40:01 | |
In this episode, we explore the concept of human tribes and the pervasive sense of disconnection many feel today. We look at how our shift from tribal living to agricultural societies marked the beginning of what I call the 'great disintegration'—a move away from a unified, integrated experience of life. This shift, driven by fear and the pursuit of resource accumulation, has left many feeling tribeless and isolated in a fragmented world. Despite these challenges, I encourage you to create your own tribes based on shared values and standards, holding yourself to the standard of becoming those values and standards. While the potential for loneliness persists, this proactive approach offers a path to reintegration and the possibility of building a harmonious society on a scale previously unimaginable. Join me as we contemplate the historical shifts that have shaped our social landscape and discuss how we might forge new connections that transcend traditional boundaries, fostering a sense of belonging and community in our modern world.
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| 05 Jun 2024 | How to Think Usefully with Derek Sivers | 01:08:22 | |
Today, I'm thrilled to share a conversation with Derek Sivers, a former musician, programmer, TED speaker, circus clown, and author. From selling his first company for $22 million and donating all the proceeds to charity to moving from Singapore to New Zealand, his vibrant presence shines through every story he shares. In this episode, Derek and I explore his unique life experiences, from his early days in Fort Greene, navigating the gritty reality of New York City in the late '80s and '90s, to his dynamic career transitions that have led him to writing and podcasting. We discuss the impacts of gentrification, the pivotal decisions that shaped his path, and the vibrant energy of cities that shaped the creative landscape of his time. Derek's reflections on personal growth, transformation, and the pursuit of authenticity through all phases of life are as enlightening as they are inspiring. His move toward a more balanced approach in his career, reducing sponsored content to maintain authenticity, signals his ongoing evolution as a creator and thinker. Join us as we dive deep into the mechanics of creativity, the essence of personal change, and the enduring pursuit of living a life true to one's values. Derek's story is a testament to the power of resilience and the beauty of reinventing oneself amidst life's unpredictable waves. So tune in, get inspired, and discover how you can harness your experiences to craft a life filled with purpose and passion. Connect with Derek: Connect with Flynn:
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| 12 Jun 2024 | The Paradox of Change with Steve Hoskinson | 00:52:00 | |
In this episode, Steve Hoskinson, founder of Organic Intelligence, joins me to discuss a range of topics, from mindfulness and meditation to how we understand change and compassion through systems theory. Steve shares his insights from decades of studying what it means to be inherently whole. We dive into the paradox of change, exploring how accepting ourselves as we are can lead to transformation. We also discuss the role of compassion in our lives, looking at it through the lens of systems theory to gain a deeper understanding. Steve introduces his theory that focusing our attention outward rather than inward can foster positivity and help us organize our lives better. As we wrap up, we stress the importance of appreciating the world's beauty while being aware of the environmental challenges we face. Join us for this engaging episode as we delve into these topics, offering insights that encourage us to embrace and navigate life’s complexities with clarity and purpose. Tune in and discover practical ways to integrate these concepts into your daily life.
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| 19 Jun 2024 | Diary of Someone with a Pattern of Avoidance and Withdrawl | 00:46:00 | |
In today’s episode of the Flynn Skidmore podcast, I discuss a personal pattern that has challenged and defined a part of who I am in relationships. I discuss the times I've walked away from relationships, leaving others feeling hurt due to my lack of communication. However, it’s not a simple story of complete avoidance; it's a pattern that doesn’t define all my relationships, as many have grown stronger and deeper over the years. However, the pattern of withdrawal absolutely exists for me, and I want to share my insights with you. Here’s what we’ll unpack today:
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| 26 Jun 2024 | How to Bring Light to Your Shadows | 00:31:05 | |
In today’s episode of the Flynn Skidmore podcast, I delve into what we often hide from the world and ourselves—our fears, shames, and those dark corners of our psyche we seldom dare to illuminate. We’re discussing the energy it takes to keep these secrets buried and the transformative power of bringing them to light. Here’s what you can expect in this episode:
Join me as we uncover the hidden, confront the uncomfortable, and learn to harness the liberating power of truth for a fuller, more authentic life.
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| 03 Jul 2024 | How to Devote Your Life to Becoming Love | 00:45:07 | |
In today’s episode, we explore the journey of "Becoming Love." This isn't just about romance or affection; it's about transforming every interaction and everyday moment into an opportunity for growth and kindness. Today, we delve deep into what it means and what it takes to embody love in all aspects of life. What you'll discover in this episode:
Join me for a transformative journey through the landscapes of emotion and relationship, where we learn not just to experience love but to become it, in every breath and every interaction.
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| 10 Jul 2024 | How to Identify Unconscious Wounds | 00:37:56 | |
In this episode, we delve into the depths of the unconscious mind. We begin by unpacking the concept of the unconscious, drawing on insights from Carl Jung to appreciate its complexities and potential. This episode is dedicated to helping you explore and embrace the hidden treasures of your unconscious, moving beyond fear and into a profound engagement with your deeper self. Here's what we cover:
Join us on this journey into the unconscious mind, where we strive not just to confront but to transform and revitalize our hidden selves for a more fulfilled and conscious life.
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| 18 Jul 2024 | The Relationship Between Your Internal and External Worlds | 00:38:01 | |
In this episode of the Flynn Skidmore podcast, we delve into the relationship between our internal states and the external environments we navigate. I challenge the idea that joy can be cultivated internally regardless of external circumstances by emphasizing the interconnectedness of the internal and external worlds. Here’s what we cover:
Join us to understand how crafting our external circumstances can enhance our inner well-being, highlighting the transformative power of creating ecosystems that emphasize the internal and external. 1:1 spots are open by invitation only — if you’re ready for deep, transformative work, apply here. | |||
| 26 Jul 2024 | What it Takes to Live Boldly | 00:25:07 | |
In this episode, we dive deep into the themes of purpose and our contributions to the collective well-being. We explore how aligning our internal and external environments can empower us to trust our instincts and fully engage in our lives, unlocking a state of fulfillment and creative power. Here’s what we cover:
Join us as we uncover how to harness your inner power and step into a life of active contribution and satisfaction, energized by a profound connection to the universe. 1:1 spots are open by invitation only — if you’re ready for deep, transformative work, apply here. | |||
| 01 Aug 2024 | REPLAY - The 6 Principles of Your Unconscious: How to Use Your Unconscious to Shape Your Reality | 00:37:53 | |
This episode is a re-airing of the episode published on December 13, 2023. The 6 Principles:
Each principle offers practical insight into recognizing how your conscious and unconscious mind work together, and how this awareness can inspire new action and ultimately change the workings of your unconscious to align with who you want to be, the life you want to live, and bring your potential to life. 1:1 spots are open by invitation only — if you’re ready for deep, transformative work, apply here. | |||
| 07 Aug 2024 | The Intersection of Love and Movement: Redefining Fitness and Fulfillment | 00:45:27 | |
In this episode, I dive deep into my transformative journey with Connor Milstein's movement system. This isn't just about getting in shape; it's about aligning your body, mind, and spirit to the highest degrees of love and transformation. We kick off by exploring my initial resistance to adopting Connor's system and how committing to it has led to unprecedented levels of personal growth. I'm talking about physical changes like increased neck size and foot growth, as well as deeper shifts in confidence, creativity, and decision-making. I share how the combination of internal world safety and expansiveness with physical practices has been mind-blowing. We touch on sacred geometry and how love and efficient energy distribution manifest as beautiful, symmetrical shapes. Carl Rogers' idea of perpetual adaptation also makes an appearance, shedding light on the importance of being in a constant state of change and evolution. The episode is a love letter to Connor's movement system and its profound impact on my life. If you're committed to becoming love in a world-class way, this is the episode for you. Thank you for tuning in. Your support and love mean the world to me. Let's continue this journey of transformation together. 1:1 spots are open by invitation only — if you’re ready for deep, transformative work, apply here. | |||
| 14 Aug 2024 | Navigating Conflict: Turning Tension into Transformation | 00:18:09 | |
In this episode, I dive into one of the most challenging and transformative aspects of personal growth: conflict. I share my perspective on how to navigate, embrace, and engage with conflict in the most next-level way possible. Conflict is golden because it accelerates the process of bringing unconscious material to the surface of your conscious awareness. This gives you the opportunity to make conscious choices about how you relate to that material and, ultimately, transform it. I discuss how our narratives and stories act as scaffolding around the energy we experience, and how changing the energy can change our patterns. I also explore the concept of solipsism—the idea that the entire universe might be a projection of your mind—and how considering this perspective can lead to a deeper level of personal responsibility. Using a recent conflict with a close friend and client as an example, I illustrate how we can use conflict to practice being more of who we want to be. By taking 100% responsibility for our conflicts, we can extract the most material for our evolution, rupture and repair deeper issues, and ultimately cultivate more joy, curiosity, awe, wonder, and empowerment in our lives. Thank you for joining me. I hope this episode offers you valuable insights and perspectives to consider. | |||
| 21 Aug 2024 | Self Worth and the Inferiority/Superiority Complex | 00:42:14 | |
In this episode, I dive deep into the personal journey of understanding and transforming my internal concept of worth and value. I explore the idea of being seen as the "best option" and how it has influenced my actions and relationships. Through a reflective process, I discuss the importance of shifting from a vertical, hierarchical mindset to a more horizontal, interconnected view of relationships and self-worth. 1:1 spots are open by invitation only — if you’re ready for deep, transformative work, apply here. | |||
| 28 Aug 2024 | The Relationship Between Art and Honesty | 00:27:16 | |
In this episode, I follow up on last week’s topics of superiority and inferiority and share my growth since. I speak about into the concept of empowerment and the journey from perceiving relationships vertically to embracing horizontal connections. I explore the realization that safety and genuine connection come from allowing ourselves to be seen horizontally by others. This shift in perspective has transformed my creative process, enabling me to operate with a more nourishing worldview. 1:1 spots are open by invitation only — if you’re ready for deep, transformative work, apply here. | |||
| 04 Sep 2024 | How Two People Grow Within a Relationship | 00:20:47 | |
In this episode, I dive into the complexities of personal growth within relationships and share my 4-part framework for co-creation. | |||
| 11 Sep 2024 | Why Does Change Take Time? | 00:32:34 | |
In this episode, I ask the question, “Why does growth take time?” 1:1 spots are open by invitation only — if you’re ready for deep, transformative work, apply here. | |||
| 20 Sep 2024 | How to Balance Giving and Receiving | 00:38:54 | |
I share how I've transformed potentially tense situations into opportunities for connection and growth. By approaching these encounters with an intention of giving of giving - offering presence, friendliness, and genuine interaction - I've not only often avoided traffic tickets but more importantly, created moments of real human connection. This approach, I believe, is about transcending societal programming and contributing to a collective evolution in how we interact with one another. 1:1 spots are open by invitation only — if you’re ready for deep, transformative work, apply here. | |||
| 25 Sep 2024 | How to Create Pt .1 | 00:24:32 | |
In this episode, I dive into the concept of creation and share my personal journey of identifying as an artist. I explore how this decision has transformed my perspective on life and creativity. I discuss the importance of embracing all dimensions of ourselves, dissolving perceived contradictions, and how identifying as an artist has allowed me to love mistakes and take myself less seriously. I also touch on the idea that we are all artists, constantly creating in every moment, whether we're conscious of it or not. 1:1 spots are open by invitation only — if you’re ready for deep, transformative work, apply here. | |||
| 02 Oct 2024 | The Energy of Creation: Aligning Actions with Long-Term Vision (Pt. 2) | 00:47:38 | |
In this episode, I dive deep into the concept of creating our desires in life. I explore how our general orientation, like my goal of becoming 100% love, guides our actions and shapes our journey. I emphasize the importance of embracing the tension between our current state and our aspirations, viewing it as a space for creation and growth. We discuss the rhythm of creation - birth, maintenance, and death - and how honoring each stage is crucial for sustainable progress and energy management. 1:1 spots are open by invitation only — if you’re ready for deep, transformative work, apply here. | |||
| 09 Oct 2024 | From Energy to Matter: Creating Reality with Intention | 00:32:53 | |
In this episode, we explore the intricate dance between energy and the material world, uncovering how these two layers of reality shape our experiences. Through the lens of my personal journey, we examine how our energetic states—whether rooted in shame or love—ripple out to influence the physical world. Understanding the cycles of creation, assimilation, and completion, we gain the power to cultivate life-giving energy, transforming not only ourselves but also the environments we touch. By processing the inherited energies of our lineage and the collective, we’re guided toward a life steeped in love and curiosity. 1:1 spots are open by invitation only — if you’re ready for deep, transformative work, apply here. | |||
| 16 Oct 2024 | Tidying the Studio of Your Mind: A Path to Greater Fulfillment and Creativity | 00:28:15 | |
In this episode, I explore the profound impact of completion on personal growth and success. I share my journey in recognizing the importance of signing off on both tangible projects and intangible parts of myself, including past versions of who I’ve been. By acknowledging what’s complete, I’ve found that it reduces overwhelm and frees up energy for new creations. 1:1 spots are open by invitation only — if you’re ready for deep, transformative work, apply here. | |||
| 30 Oct 2024 | The Power of Self-Love: Beyond What You Think, Into What You Feel | 00:33:56 | |
In this episode, I’m diving into the heart of self-love, breaking down some of the biggest misconceptions that can actually hold us back and deepen self-criticism. I’ll share how looking at self-love as an energetic process can help us move beyond judgment and obligation, opening up space for real acceptance and powerful transformation. 1:1 spots are open by invitation only — if you’re ready for deep, transformative work, apply here. | |||
| 13 Nov 2024 | How to Like Yourself | 00:47:09 | |
In this episode, we explore the journey of becoming someone who genuinely inspires yourself. I share my personal transformation from relying on fear-based motivation to cultivating a life of true self-inspiration, highlighting both the struggles and revelations along the way.
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| 20 Nov 2024 | The True Cost of Isolation and The Power of Belonging | 00:35:17 | |
In this episode, I share my thoughts on why material wealth alone doesn’t create a truly fulfilling life. I talk about the epidemic of isolation in our culture and how many of us, myself included, have sacrificed genuine connection in the pursuit of success. I explore what’s at the core of this need for “life force” and how nurturing friendships with shared aspirations can shift our experience, bringing us closer to true abundance. 1:1 spots are open by invitation only — if you’re ready for deep, transformative work, apply here. | |||
| 27 Nov 2024 | A Meditation to Grow your Desires | 00:19:14 | |
In this episode, I guide you through a powerful meditation designed to help your desires feel safe to grow and flourish. I’ll help you create a space where you can explore what you truly want, hold space for the fears that may arise, and transform them with warmth and tenderness. This practice allows you to connect with your desires, understand their potential, and create an environment where they can thrive. | |||
| 04 Dec 2024 | What It's Like to Want to Die | 00:27:55 | |
In this episode, I delve into the journey of navigating darkness and discovering the beauty that emerges when we embrace our contradictions. I share my personal experience of living out of alignment with my true self, the pain of hiding behind masks, and the profound transformation that comes from aligning your external reality with your internal truth. 1:1 spots are open by invitation only — if you’re ready for deep, transformative work, apply here. 1:1 spots are open by invitation only — if you’re ready for deep, transformative work, apply here. | |||
| 11 Dec 2024 | The Emotion You Fear Most | 00:21:31 | |
In this episode, I explore the often-overlooked fear of joy and the profound impact it has on our lives. Through a powerful client story and reflections on my personal journey, I uncover the ways early life experiences teach us to repress joy as a survival strategy. Together, we examine how these patterns shape our personality, relationships, and creative potential, often keeping us disconnected from our truest selves. | |||