The Fearless Submissive (julieR)

julie_R talk about self care.  Why it's important to take the time to care for yourself to better care for your Dominant.

julie_R talks about dealing with drama in the community and how not to let it effect your experience in the BDSM lifestyle.  

julie_R talks about meeting new people. finding play partners and submissive safety.

A last minute episode since my other recorders got jacked up!!!  GrUE, Holidays and Needs and Wants for the New Year!  

Los Angeles GrUE coming up January 16-18.

Orchid and Serpent

Saint Leather Toys

Violet Wand Store

Part 2 of Episode 55, Consentual nonconsent, power exchange and obedience

Happy New Year!  

Dominants and weight loss.  Is it acceptable for a Dominant to tell thier submissive to lose weight?  

A whole lotta stuff... communication, sports, shoes.  Just SirRedemption and julie_R talking and having a good time.

Sitting down with Sir Redemption again, we talk about discipline and punishment.  

julie_R sits down and talks with Sparkle about her struggles with NOT being a masochist.  

Part 2- julie_R, SirRedemotion and DaddysBrattty talk about poly.

I'm back!  Sparkle joins julie_R to talk about jealousy.  The hows and whys of it.  

A hodgepod episode with julie_R and Ishtara.  

julie_R and Ishtara talk about attitude!!  The times that you just feel funky and off balance.  How to get out of your own head and back into the game.  

What are we communicating when we are not talking??  

(and a little bit on how I talk politics with Sir Redemption)

Talking to my Master, Sir Redemption.  We sat down and talked about how we got together.  Ahhh memories.  We also touch on submissive fears and how he helps me get past my fear of the BELT.  

Intro music is Snow Globe by The Brady Bastards.

Sorry for the weeklong break.  Life happens.  

In Episode 11 we talk about fetishes.  Kinky, naughty, rare  and some that are pretty common.  Lots of shenanigans as there was drinking involved, but a good time.  

Are you a "save me" submissive?  

julie_R shares her thoughts about accountability in a power exchange relationship.

julie_R talks to sparkle about being monogamous and having a polyamorous Master.  

JulieR talks about role play.  Her Daddy/little girl play with Sir Redemption and how that has grown over the years.  Ways to introduce role play into your relationship and things to watch out for.

Welcoming back Star to the show to talk about her upcoming Submissive Bootcamp as well as her upcoming podcast DarkStar Kink!!!

Submissive Bootcamp, Class 1

Dark Star Kink Podcast

Pet comes back with some questions for julile_R and SirRedemption.  

julie_R talks about topping in a scene.  

Part 1 of a 2 part episode with Miss Julie (EriksPet) about her experience with 24/7.  

What happens when things stop being kinky?  

Knowing your anger.  What makes you angry and how do you handle it?  (AKA when Julie got really angry but didn't completely lose her shit.)  Sorry about the loud background, I must have been driving next to a big truck!!!   

julie_R talks about needs, wants and requirements.  

Featuring Dawn from The Erotic Awakening Podcast gives her thoughts on what it means to be a Fearless Submissive.

Catch Dan and Dawn on the Erotic Awakening Podcast!!  

Priorities.  Realizing that I was so busy taking of care of things that I stopped making time for Him.

julie_R talks with SirRedemption about protocols and service.  

julie and Star talking about your limits and your Dominants limits.  Also, what is a no-limit slave?  

julie_R, SirRedemption and serviceslut talk about consentual nonconsent, power exchange and obedience.

This is the first part 1 of 2 part episode.

Brats and Manipulation.

SirRedemption and SarahMary join julie_R for a talk about bratting and manipulation.  What is bratting good for?  When has it gone too far?  

julie_R talks with DaddysBratty (Hayde) about getting over fears about being naked in the dungeon.  

S-types like to complain, but what happens when we bad mouth our Dominant?  What message are we putting out there?  

Sitting down to talk to Starkraving.  The long path to slavehood.

House Ravynblood

julie_R sits down with her friend Pet and they talk about first impressions of the BDSM lifestyle, the first trip to the dungeon, and the first time you get into trouble as a submissive.  Pet also shares her thoughts on subspace.

This week the show was hijacked by Service Slut.  She decided to interview julie_R this week and ask her questions about relationships, 2015 and the Los Angeles GrUE.  

 All about sex toys!!!

This week I talk to Dangerous Lilly, sex toy expert!!  This is a great episode about vibes, dildos and the materials that are safe for your body.  Check out the links for the companies and items we talk about.

Lilly's Website

SheVibe

Tantus

Jopen

Lelo Smart Wand

We-Vibe Tango

julie_R talks about obediance, transparency and consistency and making the decision to stop making excuses and actually DO what we've agreed to do.  

This week I talk to Graydancer- kink performer, educator, writer and "rope guy extraordinaire" as well as the facilitator for the GrUE which can be found just about anywhere these days.

I talk to Graydancer this week about something a little unexpected- long distance relationships!!  

Graydancer

Ropecast

Love.Life.Practice

julie_R talks about adapting to the changes in her life.

SirRedemption and julie_R talk about the Los Angeles GrUE 3.  

The Dominant Show.  Guests Insidious Muse and Service Slut join SirRedemption and julie_R for a talk about the challenges to being a Dominant.  Expectations, pressure and when D-types want to just ditch it all.  

How to deal when you don't like your Dominant's other partner.  

Humiliation and degradation.  Talking with ServiceSlut from the Intellectual Kink Podcast. 

Be sure to check out ServiceSlut and Insidious Muse bi-weekly at SkidRow Studios.

Welcome to the first episode of The Fearless Submissive.

In the episode, _Sparkle_ and I talk about the awesomeness that was the LA GrUE 2.0, the month of "yes", and how we both aspire to be The Fearless Submissive.

It's my first recording and after HOURS of editing, I just have to let go of the fact that it's not going to be perfect for a while!!  Please forgive the weird echo's and such.  It will get better.  Give me some time and I'll have cool intro and exit music and all the bells and whistles, but for now- I was just really excited to get started.

Thanks for listening!!

-julie_R

Straight talk on poly.  The things I struggle with.  

Just catching up.

Why dominants don't chase you!!  

Sorry for my horrible voice, I have a cold.

What a Dominant looks for in a submissive.  Sir Redemption gives his thoughts on what he feels makes a good submissive.  

Taking with Ishtaria this week.  She asked me questions about M/s, poly and being the alpha.  Rest assured, there's no VETO card here.  If you enjoy the shows- be sure to rate and review it on iTunes!!  

SirRedemption and julie_R sit and talk about ending a D/s relationship.  How to know when it's time to go.  

Part 2 of julie_R talking with Miss Pet about her experience with 24/7.

I was asked what makes a good Dominant.  In this episode I discuss my past Dominants and what made them good for me, and why. 

Unplanned drivetime post about affirmations.  Why I think it's important to be able to find love and confidence from yourself!! 

Be sure to check out the new IOS App.  Android app is forthcoming.  

SirRedemption joins julie_R to talk (for a long time) about the past year.  Some changes, some challenges, and new things to come.  Enjoy it!!

Catching up with Sparkle.  She and julie_R talk about our online persona, talking to Dominants and why is it that when our Dominant isn't looking we are tempted to run amuck??  Also, how many dicks is too many?  

Answering a listeners question about being clingy and needy.

Sparkle and julie_R have a fun show.  Talking about having fun with your Dominant.  It's not all just sex and beatings, although we talk about that a lot too!!!  

tags: BDSM, kink, Dominant, submissive, Master, slave

julie_R talks with one of SirRedemptions submissives, DaddysBratty about thier relationship, being poly, and managing changes.

Sir Redemption and julie_R talk about love.  How it relates to thier M/s relationship and why it's important to keep love and other emotions in the proper perspectve.

tags: Master, slave, Dominant, submissive, kink, BDSM

Another drive time episode about things to think about BEFORE you decide to move in with your Dominant and live 24/7.

In Episode 10 julie_R talks about obedience, mindfulness, expectations and the times when being a submissive is challenging.  

Lee Harrington joins me for my 50th episode!!  We talk about submission, safewords, and the things we carry with us through our journey.  

Check out the Passion and Soul Podcast

Lee Harrington's Website

Check out more awesome shows on the Erotic Awakenings Podcast Network.

Dealing with disappointment.  

Musings from the Los Angeles GrUE V.  

Photo taken at the Pancake Breakfast.  

julieR's thoughts on balancing your life and self care.

Slavery for the rest of us.  It's hard to be a "good slave" when you have a busy life.  julie_R talks about where she struggles and how she manages to get it done.  

Somewhat of a WTF episode that talks mostly about play scenes in BDSM.  slave julie and Sir Redemption share thoughts on his favorite type of play- FEAR.  

Sparkle joins julie_R and they talk about some of the common myths about submissives.

Welcome back!!! 

This Episode with Sarah_Mary with SirRedemption acting silly and adding commentary.  Masochism, Humiliation and the good ways to meet new people. YMMV.

Check out the Erotic Awakenings Podcast Network for great kinky and sex positive podcasts!!  

Random and fun!!

Sir Redemption and I just celebrated our 4 year anniversary.  This show hits topics like M/s and BDSM, porn, new relationship energy, loopholes, intent and whether or not Sir Redemption is an "angry guy."  

julie_R visits with slave panda.  With her Master, she shares the Southern Califormia Leather Master/slave title.  They talk about the competition, a recent reality show special and the challenges of managing her time and being in a poly household.    

Serviceslut joins me to talk about negotiations.  

This podcast contains portions of the book SM 101 from Jay Wiseman.  Published by Greenery Press. Copyright 1998.