The Divorce Social (Samantha Baines)

"I went to another realm of orgasm" - Kerry Howard

Kerry Howard joins Samantha Baines to sing and be joyous about divorce. An honest conversation about taking time for yourself, dating and what you wear to court. Samantha is very excited to hear about a new level of orgasm and the two discuss dating and divorcing in the public eye. Someone googled Kerry on a date, right in front of her too! A lively, fun and funny episode of the smash hit podcast.

Trigger warnings:

rape

bulimia

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"I was basically taking a lethal dose of alcohol and drugs to get to sleep" - Laura Cathcart-Robbins

Laura Cathcart-Robbins joins Samantha Baines to talk divorce and addiction. Laura openly talks about "improvising her education", entering into her marriage lying and using alcohol and drugs to 'cope'. The two discuss the five stages of grief, the importance of asking for help and Laura lets us know how much it costs to check into recovery in the US and the difficulties of getting divorced and sober at the same time.

Laura talks about the journey of first hiding and then sharing her story plus still having Thanksgiving with her ex husband every year.

Trigger warnings:

addiction

violence

abuse

Laura's podcast is The Only One

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"I started to go blind" - Poppy Delbridge

Tapping teacher Poppy Delbridge joins Samantha Baines to talk getting married at 18, divorce, being a single Mum and starting to go blind. The two talk about catalysts, grief and have a great chat about seeing a different penis for the first time. Samantha shares her crying during sex fears, setting up that first time post break up and the two discuss clothes as part of your identity. An upbeat chat and a tapping exercise to follow too.

Trigger warning:

death/grief

blindness

sex

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"I decided to retrain to be a lawyer" - Holly Bell

Holly Bell joins Samantha Baines to discuss her divorce and why her idea to retrain to be a lawyer didn't work out. Holly discusses how divorce changed her opinion of herself and the two bond over their new warrior status. Holly reveals that her divorce proceedings sent her into an early menopause and talks about the effect that had on her new relationship with a surprise result. Holidays on your own feature the two agree they are amazing) as well as Holly's campaign for divorced mothers suffering because of child maintenance loopholes. If any lawyers/journalists would like to get involved in the campaign please contact Holly direct via her social media

Trigger warnings:

weight loss

early menopause

fertility

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"I need to stop eating my feelings, put on my big heels, stomp about and snog a boy" - Tori Allen-Martin

Tori Allen-Martin joins Samantha Baines to chat breaking when you are engaged in a first for The Divorce Club! The two chat cancelling your wedding, having to pick up the wedding dress and giving the ring back. An upbeat and very honest look at Tori's tumultuous and shocking break up and recovering from trauma during a pandemic. Love, guilt and a need for snogging feature as well as the idea of closure and if that even really exists.

Trigger warning:

cheating

depression/anxiety

suicide

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"it had to happen because otherwise I was going to lose my mind" - Jessica Fostekew

Comedian Jessica Fostekew joins Samantha Baines to talk breaking up with her child's father and her queerness. Jess talks about leaving someone well, being firm that it's the end and accidentally falling in love. The two share their queerness journeys and Sam talks bisexuality and thinking about her marriage ending by a rooftop pool in LA, as you do. The importance of a colour coded google spreadsheet comes up as well as breaking your new engagement to your ex and owning your part in their pain.

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"We call them the crying months" - Jo Middleton

Jo Middleton joins Samantha Baines to talk about her painful relationship history. A single mother of two, Jo discusses motherhood and dating, living in her Mum's dressing room and why you should always find an American if you are having a panic attack. The two bond over anxiety, share their relationship catalysts and Jo opens up about "the crying months". An reveal all, jam packed episode.

Trigger warnings:

anxiety

depression

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"My children's new step-mother is their old school teacher" - Cally Beaton

Cally Beaton joins Samantha Baines for a stonker of a chat about being not so divorced. Cally chats about her ten year relationship that resulted in her two wonderful children and having your ex living in your attic. Sam asks about dealing with the assumption of marriage and the two share their thoughts about body image and vulnerability.

Trigger warnings:

weight loss

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"I am a big fan of 'does your disfunction match my disfunction' in relationships" - Victoria Smurfit

Victoria Smurfit joins Samantha Baines for funny, upbeat and honest chat about her divorce and being a single mum of three. The two talk about putting their warrior spears down, buying sofas and stopping believing that love conquers all. Victoria describes some hippy LA recovery moments, her worst moment sat on the bottom step of her stairs and the one night she let her dog in the bed. An inspiringly honest chat that will definitely make you smile

Trigger:

not eating

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"I accidentally sent a picture of my vagina to my neighbour" - Helen Thorn

Helen Thorn (one half of Scummy Mummies) joins Samantha Baines for this hilarious chat. The two comedians talk dick pics, sending their own naughty photos, internet dating, bawling your eyes out and why we should all make friends with Australians. Our freshest guest yet, Helen's separation was only six months ago so she discusses being newly single in lockdown, shock breakups and the moment they told the kids. A touching, honest and very funny episode.

This episode is sponsored by Frolo - the new app for single parents

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"what I'm talking about is ending up in a sexless marriage" - Irene Fehr

Sex and intimacy coach Irene Fehr joins Samantha Baines to talk about her divorce and sexless marriage. Irene talks about her initial belief that she was asexual, taking on the responsibility and shame of the lack of sex in a relationship. Irene discusses painful sex due to loss of lubrication and her sexual journey. The two discuss the lack of conversation around sex in long term relationships and issues around sex and Irene opens up about her inability to orgasm in her marriage.

Trigger warning:

sex

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"It feels like another life when I look back" - Lynne Parker

Lynne Parker, founder and Chief Exec of Funny Women joins Samantha Baines to discuss her divorce over thirty years ago. The two discuss the stigma around divorce in the 1980's, remarriage and not being very wife-y! Lynne shares her passion for straw hats and gives Sam hope for finding love again. An insightful and positive chat about moving on and even one day forgetting you are divorced.

Trigger warnings:

divorce

alcohol

cheating

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Samantha announces her big personal news and looks back at the series as well as reading out some of your messages.

Will there be a series 4? Listen to find out more.

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"have a divorce party" - Leyla Hussein



Somali activist and psychotherapist chats to Samantha about divorce and marriage in the Somali community and standing out from that. We hear about being a single mum living in a council flat and choosing her child over all else. Leyla professes her love for a divorce party and convinces Sam that she should have one, maybe even one with a slogan cake. The two chat losing friends, the divorce commission scheme and everyone thinking you are going to steal their husband.

Trigger warnings

emotional abuse

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"I am giving you ten years for you to change and if you don't I will leave you" - Annie Kashamura

Trigger warning: domestic violence

Gender Equality specialist and activist Annie Kashamura joins Samantha Baines for a powerful conversation about Annie's inspiring story of overcoming abuse. Beginning with her marriage in the Congo, Annie explains some of the laws that trap women in difficult situations in her home country as well discussing her eventual asylum to Canada with her children. A shocking and brutally honest discussion about the depths of marriage horror, violence and the uplifting freedom after a battle to survive. A truly important listen and a surprisingly positive one too.

To follow Annie's current campaigns go to:

www.invictusequality

www.igddcongo.org

If you are affected by abuse please speak to someone.

Women's Aid : www.womensaid.org.uk

National Domestic Abuse Helpline : 0808 2000 247

The Men's Advice Line (for male domestic abuse survivors) : 0808 801 0327

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Instagram superstar Jahannah James joins Samantha Baines to discuss marriage at 18, sex addiction and the pressure of proving everyone wrong. Jahannah is one of our youngest guests so far on the podcast and this insightful and compelling discussion explores not only the taboo of divorce but other relationship taboos too. We chat getting married to have sex, rejection and even shopping in Ann Summers.

Trigger warning:

sex addiction

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"I feel like I've been three different people" - Liz

Actor Liz Hume-Dawson joins Samantha Baines to talk divorce that feels like a lifetime ago. The two discuss friends/relatives telling them they can drop out of the wedding and Liz knowing things aren't working five years before the separation. Liz discusses the way we keep things to ourselves, dealing with the in-laws, the way things build up and the legacy of a mushroom pate. Her break up led Liz to train as an actress, remarry and feel free.

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Host Samantha Baines rounds up the series with her favourite bits of each episode, her love for cooling sheets and shares some of your wonderful messages. Samantha also gives a sneak peek into what series 6 has in store- exciting!

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"It wasn't so much for me the act of cheating on me, it was how he had treated me in that time frame"- Micaela Sharp

Star of Interior Design Masters and upholsterer, Micaela Sharp joins Samantha Baines to discuss leaving her home of 6 years and reclaiming her space. Micaela talks about dealing with anger, placating her dog and having another woman fill her in on the details of her exes infidelity. The two discuss losing their parent/s and how that resonated for them while going through a divorce. Micaela also gives suggestions on curating the best space for yourself after your partner moves out.

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"I went out and had tons of sex. I had so much sex with so many different kinds of people..."- Laura Friedman Williams

Author of Available and self declared PTA mum, Laura Friedman Williams joins Samantha Baines to discuss details of her divorce skate party, asking men lots of questions and talking all things hair (and not the stuff on our heads)! Laura discusses the sordid details of her book, the feelings of sickness when she found out about her exes "soulmate" and how she modelled forgiveness to her kids. The two discuss fellatio (yep that's right), their sexual awakening and men's strange requests. Laura also speaks on how getting divorced was one of the best things that happened to her!

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"It was the most horrific experience, I think of my life..."- Sue Atkins

Parenting Consultant, author and Broadcaster Sue Atkins joins Samantha Baines to discuss her coping strategies to life's biggest changes, her "F*** you ring" and advises on what to do when breaking the news of divorce to children. Sue discusses what not to do when having to go places where your ex is going to be and the two discuss their horrible experiences of online dating.

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"What was challenging for me was separating the different threads of grief..."- Steven Petrow

Author and Columnist at The Washington Post, Steven Petrow joins Samantha Baines to discuss dealing with losing his parents while splitting from his ex husband. The two open up about dealing with emotions when your ex moves on first, how they manage their anxiety and the true meaning of the phrase 'generous Daddy'. Steven discusses being honest with people about depressive episodes, noting gratitude at the start and end of his day and the two speak about being in a better place.

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"I don't think I could have stopped what happened anyway..." -Gilly Da Silva

Gilly Da Silva joins Samantha Baines to talk about being gaslighted and why she set up Mending Hearts Retreat: a unique experience for individuals experiencing the hurt and pain of a relationship breakdown or loss of a deceased loved one. The two chat revamping themselves from the outside in after divorce and the freedom of their shopaholic phases. Gilly talks about the men she encountered during her ruthless divorce f*** frenzy and how she used it to escape and feel liberated. They also discuss the financial freedom needed to be independent after divorce and the role that plays.

Mending Hearts Retreat: @mendingheartsretreat https://www.mendingheartsretreat.com/

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"The break up that triggered all that was when I got dumped by email"- Rosie Wilby

Comedian and Author of The Breakup Monologues, Rosie Wilby joins Samantha Baines to talk about the major breakdown of her relationship. Rosie talks about the impact her break up had on her pet cat and how she felt being in a relationship with someone not openly gay. The two discuss the lack of women who like women, representation on Tinder and taking into consideration being a pet parent when you separate from a partner.

Rosie's new book, The Breakup Monologues is based on her acclaimed podcast of the same name: https://linktr.ee/breakupmonologues

Twitter @rosiewilby and @breakupmonologues on Instagram. 

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"I came home and there was a ripped up photo of us and his ring next to my sink"- Nikki DeBartolo

In a Divorce Social first, we have a divorced couple on the show together! Nikki DeBartolo and Ben Heldfond both join Samantha to talk about their divorce from one another and their book all about it. Now the best of friends, they talk to Samantha about their journey whilst bringing up their son. The three discuss feelings of insecurity, meeting in public places and the power of therapy. Ben and Nikki also discuss the drastic differences in their childhood and how that affected the different outlooks they had on relationships. 

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"I knew he was in a really really bad place and I think that's how I forgave a lot of his behaviour" - Georgia Hirst

Vikings actor and activist Georgia Hirst joins Samantha Baines to talk about delaying the healing process. The two discuss about the difference between doing the dumping vs being the one dumped. Georgia talks about her experience of being with an older man and the lack of communication between them. Both discuss wanting to protect your partner from scrutiny by loved ones and that urge to look through their partners phone. And Georgia speaks about the importance of spending time with yourself along with tips on how to do just that!

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TW: Baby death/Miscarriage

"I called and said I'm going to come back and he said, no you're not, this isn't your house anymore- I'm divorcing you"- Natasha Aujla

Writer Natasha Aujla joins Samantha Baines to talk about dealing with the death of her newborn son and then being asked for a divorce eight days later. Natasha discusses her journey with forgiveness and how logical thinking aided her recovery. They both discuss going to weddings after a divorce and the emotional rollercoaster they went through. Natasha talks about the importance of her Sikh religion and how she felt growing up in a South Asian community and the cultural expectations that come with it.

Natashas blog and Instagram: blusabar.com / @Blusabar

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‘Sometimes there are things in your life you just have to accept and live with, that you can’t solve, that you can’t put right - a lot of my life is about let’s solve that problem... but this is something, the most important thing in my life and I actually couldn’t control…’ -Jacqui Smith

Former Home Secretary and political commentator Jacqui Smith joins Samantha Baines to talk about divorce and the expenses scandal even gets a mention. Jacqui talks about the importance of counselling and accepting the end of her 32 year marriage. They both discuss different sorts of grief and how to handle their emotions. Jacqui speaks about online dating and the awkwardness of being recognised by her date! They both talk about adapting to life without men in their homes and the sudden need and satisfaction of buying their own toolkits!

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Host Samantha Baines rounds up the series with her favourite bits of each episode, the gifts she misses at Christmas, the affect of anniversaries on her and the weird dates she's been on - its been a strange year of dating!

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"This season is called the cuffing season" - Samantha Baines

Samantha Baines is joined by not one but THREE brilliant previous The Divorce Social guests to chat break up and Christmas! Scummy Mummies' Helen Thorn, comedy actress Kerry Howard and Interior Design Masters' Micaela Sharp bring the joy to this seasonal special. All share stories about presents from the ex, lonely moments and Christmas merriment as well as top tips for your first Christmas without a partner. There are crackers, cheesy Christmas jokes and solidarity to feast on.

We know Christmas can be a difficult time for anyone going through a breakup/in a difficult situation/or dreaming of leaving and we at The Divorce Social are here for you. Join us next week for our New Years special too!

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"Divorce kind of knocks the naivety out of you, so the idea that little wishes are going to change your life like that" - Kerry Howard

Our very own Samantha Baines is joined by excellent previous podcast guests actress Kerry Howard, comedian Helen Thorn and Artistic Director of the National Youth Theatre Paul Roseby OBE to talk New Year. For Samantha this one night is harder than Christmas as a singleton and the four chat body image after break up, creating odd numbers on trips away and who to snog at midnight.

We are here for any of you going through a difficult time or feeling lonely this New Year. Remember you are not alone!

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“Don’t get married to someone you wouldn’t want to get divorced from” - Steve Hoftstetter.

Comedian Steve Hoftstetter, as seen on ABC, NBS and Fox in the US, joins Samantha Baines. Steve shares his experiences of the brave new world of dating apps, your niece finding out you are divorced via Wikipedia, and just why you should NEVER touch the buffet in a strip club. The two cover gourmet dog food and whether comedians react differently to trauma.

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“I wasn't instantly happy, but I knew happiness was possible" - Rose Stokes

Writer Rose Stokes joins Samantha Baines to talk break up, her parents divorce and her new engagement. Rose also recounts how she coped in the aftermath of a toxic relationship and got to a place where she is ready to say 'I do', whilst keeping realistic expectations of what a marriage really is and not buy into the damaging fairy-tale narrative. The two talk about their parents flourishing post-divorce and separation and what it is like as a child of divorce parents. Rose also explains how past relationship trauma can seep into new relationships and how she dealt with that through therapy.

Trigger warning:

new engagement

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"Only you know what you need and you have to block out the stigma and the judgment to get help" - Aja Barber

Writer and stylist Aja Barber talks to Samantha Baines about the post-break-up tragedy which changed her outlook on life forever. Aja opens up to Samantha about the guilt she feels for being un-happy about a break-up in the last few weeks of a loved one's life. Aja promises that she will never allow herself to take life for granted again, giving her the strength to talk about the subjects she feels are important, regardless if it makes others uncomfortable. Aja discusses race, heartache, moving country and sustainability.

Aja also gives us (and Samantha) some vital tips on how to not turn to shopping in times of stress and they talk about her book Consumed.

Trigger warning:

not eating

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"To me 100% it felt like a real marriage"- Amy Christophers

Sports journalist, model, and former 'Married at First Sight' contestant Amy Christophers talks to Samantha Baines about not only getting 'married' in the public eye but how she coped with the break-up of that relationship being reported in the media.

Amy tells us what it was like to be on the show and how she had to carry on with the press and publicity, despite already splitting with her husband from the show. Amy also realises now, that they went into the marriage with very different expectations and feels this may have changed the way she approaches relationships in the future, plus she talks about how it felt when she found out that she had been blocked from her ex's social media.

Amy also shares a spooky tale from her childhood which will make even the skeptics amongst us stop and think!

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"Would you rather be right, or would you rather be free?!" - Jessica Pidsley

Samantha Baines is joined by friend and courage coach Jessica Pidsley, who was able to draw on the extraordinary circumstances of her parent's marriage break-up to learn some valuable lessons for her own life and relationships.

Jessica's ability to help and guide people through the difficult and transient phases of their lives is clear to see and Samantha wanted to share some of Jessica's amazing insight for the benefit of anyone out there who may need it.

As well as using the lessons of her parent's divorce in her marriage, Jessica has also been able to counsel members of her own family in the unresolved issues of that process many years later.

We also learn the importance of creating and maintaining rituals and how they can help us in our relationships and individually.

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“I gave myself permission to be a wreck” - Stacey Duguid 

Samantha Baines talks to journalist and Telegraph Columnist Stacey Duguid about being in the midst of her divorce. 

Stacey speaks honestly and openly about how she is finding the process, the help she's getting to manage her way through the legal jargon, and how to avoid some of the mounting costs. 

Stacey discusses her recent diagnosis of ADHD, which has changed the way she views her past marriage and future dating plans. We also hear about the support Stacey received on social media when she opened up about her break-up and mental health.

This episode was recorded during a landmark week for divorce law, as the UK welcomed 'No-Fault Divorce' - meaning that no one has to take the blame on divorce proceedings. The two discuss whether this is a universally positive change and the impact it may have on proceedings. Samantha and Stacey also touch on what this means from their own experiences. 

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"When you're in an abusive relationship, you lose that sense of being able to make a decision" Kate Daly 

TRIGGER WARNING: Kate talks about her abusive marriage.

Samantha talks to Kate Daly, host of The Divorce Podcast about the moment she knew she had to leave her abusive marriage and embark on a confusing, expensive, and seemingly never-ending divorce process.

After finding the process such a challenge Kate decided that she wanted to help and advise other people who are navigating their way through the baffling legalities by not only setting up The Divorce Podcast but also co-founding Amicable, which aims to help those going through divorce with advice to cut the financial burden and ways to get emotional support.

Samantha and Kate talk about how much they have learned as a result of launching their podcasts and how there's definitely room for more than one show about divorce.

We also hear how worry windows can help anyone going through a traumatic time and Kate recounts the date from hell, which is difficult not to have a chuckle at.

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"You always break up too late" Desiree Burch

In the final episode of this series, Samantha Baines talks to comedian, actor & presenter of Netlix's reality dating show 'Too Hot To Handle', Desiree Burch about finding the courage to go through the heartache of a break-up. 

Desiree tells us about a significant break-up in her past and how she found the strength to carry on with her show at The Edinburgh Fringe, making people laugh night after night, in the immediate aftermath of a painful, yet necessary break-up. 

Samantha and Desiree also talk about the loneliness of being with someone after the relationship has run its course, how relief and hope emerge through the pain and tears of heartbreak and why it's impossible not to cry on an airplane. 

Desiree also tells us why Pizza Express might be the perfect break-up venue and what she thinks about the beautiful people on reality dating series 'Too Hot To Handle', which she presents on Netflix. 

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Host Samantha Baines rounds up the series and remembers the pearls of wisdom her fantastic and varied guests have shared with us. 

From hearing Amy Christopher's experiences of 'marrying' and breaking up on TV's 'Married at First Sight' to comedian Desiree Burch recounting the time she cried all over her pizza when her relationship ended, we've heard from people at every stage of the divorce/ break-up spectrum. 

Journalist Stacey Duigud spoke to us whilst still navigating her way through a divorce and discussed with Samantha the newly announced plans for the UK to switch to 'no-fault divorce' and fellow divorce podcaster Kate Daly shared her experiences of breaking free from an abusive marriage and how she helps others who are in similar situations. 

Thank you so much for joining us for this series, we will be back for series 8, and in the meantime, why not go back and enjoy our amazing back catalog of episodes! 

See you soon! 

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“there was no sex… it was like living with a sister” - Roy Biancala

trigger warning for language around weight gain

Divorce and love coach Roy Biancala joins Samantha Baines to talk about his own divorce and what that taught him about himself and relationships. The two talk patterns within relationships and how you 'attract' the sort of person you want. Roy opens up about rebounding straight after his divorce and his 'year long life crisis' as well as giving Sam some dating advice. They explore how Roy eventually become a divorce and relationships coach and met his current wife.

Roy's books are available on Amazon.

Roy's podcast is called Attracting Lasting Love.

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"I remember a couple of friends who couldn't be there for me and I got it" - Harriet Hadfield

Journalist and "wannabe politician" (her words) Harriet Hadfield joins Samantha Baines to talk divorce, living abroad and her love for the Isle of Wight. Harriet opens up about breaking up with someone in a different country with a one year old and the traumatic journey back home to the UK. The two discuss the importance of friends, how triggering your experience can be for others and getting annoyed with people around you. Harriet describes going through a lorry of her belongings from her marriage and how her new community has helped her so much. Sam and Harriet talk new love, hope and Harriet details her fertility and IVF journey (which has had a happy ending).

Trigger warning:

IVF/fertility

Harriet’s podcast is Island Stories: https://bio.site/islandstories

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"I couldn't let my daughter see me in the way I would have been in the marriage, I had to be alone" - Michelle Dempsey-Multack

Best-selling author and certified divorce and co-parenting specialist Michelle Dempsey-Multack joins Samantha Baines to talk about her own divorce. Michelle is honest about the impact her divorce had on her and the difficulties of co-parenting. She also opens up about her parents divorce and having to hide that from the other children at school and what she calls 'daddy envy'. The two bond over normalising divorce, the idea of empowering others and redecorating getting out of hand. It's Michelle's velvet blue couch versus Samantha's pink kitchen wall in this engaging, fun chat.

Michelle's podcast is: Moms Moving On

Her book has the same title

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"I was in a car crash, so I was arrested for drink driving and wrote off my car" - Mark Kozminski

Coach Mark Kozminski joins Samantha Baines for a very honest chat about his divorce and addictions. The two discuss goals, self sabotage, bringing up children and being vulnerable. Mark explains his moment of change being a horrific car crash, after which he was arrested for drink driving and then did a work out in his jail cell to change his mind set (as you do). He is very open about a culture of drinking after work and the signs that his gambling was getting out of control. As part of his recovery journey, Mark discusses the importance of moving everyday, talking and also talking in ink - writing down what you want from your life.

Mark's company is called Blue Mind Approach www.bluemindapproach.com

Trigger warning: gambling and alcohol addiction

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"I was a bit obsessed in an unhealthy way" - Gina Martin

Campaigner Gina Martin joins Samantha Baines to talk break ups. Gina is one of Sam's real life best friends and the two discuss what it is like as the friend of a divorced person (namely Sam). Gina tells Sam her view of the divorce and the two talk about holding space for your friend to open up. The two talk about first love, obsession and defining yourself through the eyes of another person. Gina talks about dating a friend of the family and how early relationships can inform later experiences.

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"I was never in a place for more than a year, once I was in a school for two days" - Allan Brocka

Hollywood filmmaker Allan Brocka joins Samantha Baines to talk about his mother's multiple divorces when he was a child and the effect breakups had on his life. Allan talks about moving back to Guam, being the only child in his class with divorced parents as well as being unable to lay down roots and make solid friendships. The two discuss looking at the world through a lens, learning how to make friends and childhood experiences effecting your later life. Queer stories are important to both Allan and Sam and they explore how film and television has had an impact on their experiences.

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"people will talk to you about bitcoin, f*ck that sh*t, invest that energy into yourself" - Salma El-Wardany

Author and presenter Salma El-Wardany joins Samantha Baines to talk about why she won't go to any more weddings and how toxic 'situationships' can be. Salma's new book 'These Impossible Things' is a novel about female friendship and Salma talks about the influence of the patriarchy and the importance we need to put on women's friendships and successes outside of marriage and children. The two discuss treating their book launches as a personal wedding and Sam shares her advice on planning a wedding. Silence is golden and Salma advises how to get yourself away from a partner who keeps contacting you and pulling you back in. You are allowed to block people according to Salma and she gives Sam some words of wisdom about boundaries when dating.

These Impossible Things is available now from all good bookshops.

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"cut the chords and just go and fly now" - Judy Joo

Celebrity Chef Judy Joo joins Samantha Baines to talk divorce, diamond earrings and Chanel bags. Judy talks about her divorce experience, throwing herself into work and fertility worries. She opens up about the process of freezing her eggs post divorce and sitting in fertility waiting rooms on her own. The two bond over the numb feeling and depression that comes with divorce and big changes as well as dating as a divorcee.

Trigger warning:

depression

suicide

fertility

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Best-selling author and American Entrepreneur Karen Salmansohn joins Samantha Baines to talk relationship fall outs. A relationship expert, with many bestselling books and relationship courses under her belt, Karen is used to giving advice on heartbreak and how to find love. Karen talks about her toughest breakup personally and what inspired her to start helping other people. Samantha fangirls over Karen's instagram account and the two bond over the combination of humour and heartbreak.

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Samantha Baines brings a lot of juicy news after a couple of months off writing her book. Her personal news is RATHER EXCITING plus the pod has won two awards! Bronze for Best Relationship Podcast at the British Podcast Awards 2022 and Winner of Moment of Touching Honesty at the International Women's Podcast Awards 2022 (sam's got the award in her bathroom).

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"I was engaged five times and not by choice, you could call it an emotional mugging with a fancy ring" - Rose McGowan

Former Hollywood actress and activist Rose McGowan joins Samantha Baines to talk about her 'good' divorce and her five engagements. The two talk about their approaches to love, break ups and acting. Rose reveals that she is in love now, hurrah and that she had a very clear marriage and divorce plan. She touches on #MeToo and her involvement, her first engagement to Marilyn Manson at twenty four, as well as how she approached playing her character in the Scream movie.

Rose's book Brave is available at all good book stores.

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"I will not except shame anymore, I have been shamed enough" - Rose McGowan

Former Hollywood actress and activist Rose McGowan joins Samantha Baines for part two of their interview to talk about her wedding and 'good' divorce. Rose reveals her choice of wedding ring, details of her wedding and her favourite song (played at her wedding) which she wants played at her funeral! The two discuss shame, being alone and healing in this emotional conclusion to the interview.

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"sixty year old me would say, why the f*ck did you waste time" - Jo Westwood

Jo Westwood, The Co-Dependency Coach joins Samantha Baines to talk divorce, toxic relationships and being married to a narcissist. The two discuss Jo's divorce and how that led her to become a coach as well as the effect it had on her life. Did you know there are co-dependents anonymous meetings? Sam didn't but it was the meeting that changed Jo's life. Jo talks bargaining, coming from a divorced family and embarrassment as well as the signs of co-dependency.

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"I'm never going to change my name again" - Natasha Mahtani

Divorce Coach Natasha Mahtani joins Samantha Baines to talk about her own divorce. Natasha shares her experience of divorce in the South Asian community and the two talk about the importance of surnames/family names and identity. Natasha talks about social media couple expectations, moving country and raising her son as a single a mother alongside her family.

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"I've now found the love of my life but it's a less traditional relationship" - Sarah Armstrong

Business woman and author Sarah Armstrong joins Samantha Baines to talk divorce. The two talk about showing emotions, compartmentalisation and telling others what you need. Sarah talks about how her experience became a book, how she managed co-parenting and dealing with two households meant buying everything twice! There is even chat about new long distance relationships and why separate houses might be the key. Would you live in a different house to your partner long term?

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"you will be okay, you can't see it now but you will be" - Louise, podcast listener

Our first listener story on the podcast! Louise joins Samantha Baines and opens up about her divorce after answering our call out. You wanted to hear from a range of people and experiences and we listened. Sam loved chatting to long time listener Louise about her ups and downs and how the podcast has helped her.

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"when you are single you create the life around you that you need, a support network" - Sara Miller

Award winning designer Sara Miller joins Samantha Baines to talk about the divorce which was the catalyst for starting her brand - Sara Miller London. The two chat loneliness in a marriage, juggling business with family and bravery. Sara also reveals all about her 'soul searching' trip to India post separation and how it still inspires her design work today. Sara and Sam share their full circle divorce moments too, have you had one?

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"your kids deserve to have a happy Mum" - Natalie Alexis Lee

Social media sensation Natalie Lee (@StyleMeSunday) joins Samantha Baines to talk divorce, living with your ex and sleeping in the same bed as someone you are divorcing. Nat opens up about being a single parent, choosing happiness and rewiring your brain. The two talk about finances when it comes to divorce and feeling trapped because of finances. Natalie shares that she sought legal advice when it came to finances and how that opened her eyes to how little she knew about their financial situation as a couple.

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"the books I was writing were getting more bisexual by the day...I thought it was important to stand up and say I was bisexual" - Julie Cohen

Acclaimed author Julie Cohen joins Samantha Baines to talk divorce, being queer and writing books. Samantha was very upset to see Julie's eclectic bathroom ripped out on twitter and Julie explains why it was very necessary! The two talk freedom of sexuality, therapy and penises.

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"life is too short, I need to sort this out" - Emma White

Emma White of Emma White Jewellery, as seen on BBC's All That Glitters: Britain's Next Jewellery Star joins Samantha Baines to talk about her divorce and new family. Straight talking Emma talks about divorce being her decision, creating her own business and having a blended family. Sam opens up about friend zoning herself when she was younger, the two discuss having a moment of reflection before separation and being bad at taking things slow.

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"if there was a divorce section of the Guinness Book of Records they would have an honourable mention".

Martial therapist Andrew G Marshall joins Samantha Baines to talk divorce. Andrew helps couples everyday but it's a divorce in his childhood that had a huge impact on his life and the lives of those around him that he opens up about for the first time. The two talk about the danger of secrets and possibly the worst Boxing Day ever.

Andrew's podcast is The Meaningful Life Podcast

Find out more here: https://andrewgmarshall.com/podcasts/

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Samantha gives the lowdown on series 10, plus reads some of your lovely messages and celebrates being part of Acast’s The Funny Side! Also she’s sorry she says the word “delve” so much in this episode, maybe it could be a drinking game. If you hear the word “delve” or “delved” then you have to drink!

Series 10 coming soon!

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“you have to accept that you cannot fix that other person” - Elaine

Listener Elaine joins Samantha Baines to share her divorce story as well as what the podcast means to her. The two discuss caring for a partner, mental health and older children being aware of the situation and how to deal with that. An honest and enlightening chat and a situation we haven’t previously covered on the podcast.

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"in my darkest time I was not expecting to be thrown a lifeline from my family, from 140years ago"

Samantha Baines joins listener Ingrid to talk about her unique divorce experience. Ingrid discovered love letters that had been passed down in her family from 140years ago between Fred and Janie her ancestors. During her own divorce Ingrid began following the story of her great great grandad and grandma, researching and started her own podcast to share this one hundred year old love story with the world. Her research brought up parallels and highlighted the historical differences women face in relationships then and now as well as revealing another family member going through a divorce at the time.

Ingrid's podcast is called My Love Letter Time Machine

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Trigger warning: abuse

Kanchan Bhaskar (coach and author) joins Samantha Baines to talk about her divorce and abusive marriage. Kanchan talks about the situation in India for married women in the eighties and her eventual move to the US and divorce as well as her mindset at that time.

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"I was ghosted by someone on a dating app and I really struggled with that"

Samantha Baines is joined by listener Jessica to talk divorce. The two discuss being 'a good wife', domestic expectations and being accused of nagging during the marriage. Jessica shares her internet dating stories and her experience of being ghosted on an app.

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""Are you his wife or are you his wife?" He looked at the waitress and said, "that's my wife and that's my ex wife, we are all friends"

Yvette Boden (Author, Founder of Awakened Woman) joins Samantha Baines to talk about the divorce that led to her change in career path. Yvette talks about being there for her daughter, self-love and having an awakening. Yvette sees her divorce as empowering and feels that she can help others on their divorce journey. The two talk 'who am I?', change and seperation.

Host of AW Confidential Podcast

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"that angelic smile had the devil inside of him"

Podcast listener Kevin joins Samantha Baines to talk about his traumatic divorce. Kevin bravely shares his story about being scammed for a green card after falling in love and marrying someone from a different country. He opens up about hair loss and depression as a consequence of the divorce and the two share their slogans for life.

trigger warning: depression, hair loss

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"my mother at some point started saying, you've got to get out"

Trigger warning: emotional abuse, assault

US Army Veteran Keena Crowley joins Samantha Baines to talk about her divorce from another army vet. Keena opens up about betrayal, having to follow your spouse around the world for their job and getting the diagnosis of a brain aneurysm. The two talk about excuses, connection and loneliness.

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"that was the worst thing about it, the shock factor"

Listener of the podcast Naomi Chapelhow joins Samantha Baines to talk about a really difficult break up that had a big impact on her. In this honest conversation the two talk mental health, putting your life on hold for someone else and family politics. Naomi discusses a drunken incident that had ramifications for the rest of her relationship and the shock of the break up.

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trigger warning: illegal drugs

April Pride, a creative entrepreneur who works in cannabis and psychedelics, joins Samantha Baines to talk divorce and micro dosing. This podcast does not endorse illegal drugs and would like to remind you that mushrooms and ketamine are illegal in the UK. April does however, talk about her divorce and micro dosing experiences as well as being bisexual and her parents’ divorce.

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"I don't know that I could ever go back to sharing a bed" - Ria Lina

Comedian Ria Lina joins Samantha Baines to talk about her divorce, kids and still living with her ex years on. The two talk sleeping solo vs sharing a bed, dating and when is too soon to ask to listen to rain noise before you go to sleep!? A funny and enlightening chat between two comedy friends.

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What a series and its time for Samantha Baines' round up and this one has as much exciting news as ever! A baby (plus gender reveal), a free certificate to download and if you are in London you can come along to our second ever LIVE recording of the podcast.

Live recording of The Divorce Social - part of the London Podcast Festival

9.30pm (1hr), 9th September, Kings Place, Kings Cross, London England

Tickets only £9.50

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"I'd like life to be great, I think life can be great and I'd like to try and find that"

Founder, speaker, author and podcaster Liz Earle joins Samantha Baines to talk for the first time openly about her two divorces. The two discuss her new book A Better Second Half, divorce, children and dating. Liz explains where she was in her life during her divorces, her motivation for ending those marriages and also others reactions.

Liz's Book: A Better Second Half

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"a good approach to boundaries is expecting a push back"

Coach and TedX Speaker Ali Hendry joins Samantha Baines to talk divorce first from a man and then from a woman. The two talk about bisexuality and coming out, being open sexually and love. Ali talks about the depth of friendships and making them a priority alongside romantic relationships as well her enjoyment of sex. The conversation delves into non-monogamy and how to make that work for you as well as advice on boundary setting.

www.alihendry.co.uk

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"me being on my bike cycling around as a woman [in the UK], without having to worry about whats going to happen if people see me on my bike"

An anonymous (for legal reasons) guest joins Samantha Baines to talk about divorce under difficult circumstances. Getting married for love in the UK, despite originally being from a different country and then wanting to stay in the UK post divorce. The two talk about women's rights and marriage rights in the UK versus abroad. The guest is thirty years old and is currently going through her divorce process and talks about the stress of lockdown on a new marriage and making difficult decisions.

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“You know you can leave right?!”

Writer Kelly McMasters joins Samantha Baines from the US, to chat divorce. They chat friends taking a chance to speak some truth, writing and not having to weather someone else’s emotions.

Kelly’s book: The Leaving Season

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Trigger warning: Drug abuse, death.

This week Samantha Baines is joined by podcast host and radio presenter Graeme Smith. The pair talk queer identity, dealing with grief and asking for help. Graeme is incredibly honest about his emotional breakup story, coming out and his new engagement.

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"You know when you're little and people ask you what you want to be when you grow up?... One of my answers would be, 'When I grow up I don't want to be divorced'."

This week, our guest is long-time listener, Lucy. Sam and Lucy discuss the similarities in their divorce experiences, Lucy's religious deconstruction and seeking out community.

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This week, Sam is joined by Beth Behrendt, author of Nesting After Divorce: Co-Parenting in the Family House. The pair discuss the concept of Nesting, where the parents take turns living in the family home while the children reside there full-time. Beth also generously shares the details of how she and her ex-husband made it work for their own family.

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"Don't sacrifice your needs, believing that's what you should do in order to be loved and validated."

Tonya Carter, Marriage & Relationship Exit Strategist, joins Sam from the US. Tonya shares her insights on how small changes can make a big impact and the value in asking yourself hard questions. The two also discuss some of the toughest moments of their divorce journeys.

https://www.tonyacarter.com

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To conclude season 11, Sam is joined by the brilliant actress, comedian and writer, Arabella Weir.

Arabella is very honest about her experience of divorce, becoming great friends with her ex-husband and all the sadness that happened in-between. She also hilariously shares how, when spending time with men, she now draws the line at dinner and some nice wine.

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The Divorce Social is back for Season 12!

"I stayed in the house we had together, but I bought him out. Then I had this weird thing with all these memories in the house, and now it's mine. So I redecorated to reclaim the space."

To kick us off, Samantha is joined by the writer and comedian, Amy Mason. The pair discuss Amy's experience of divorcing during the COVID pandemic, the importance of decent friendships and bond over their mutual love of Farrow & Ball paint.

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"With shadow work we shine a light on the unconscious mind. The programming that's running in the back of your head that's having you self-sabotage, or doubt yourself, or not even be able to dream."

This week Samantha is joined by author and Global Love Mentor Junie Moon. Junie shares her experience of ending her 20 year marriage, explains what Shadow Work is and why we can all benefit from it.

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"We went the whole of that 10 years with me not knowing I was ADHD, and him knowing but not telling me he was autistic."

Author and ADHD Campaigner Sarah Templeton joins Samantha to talk about the effects ADHD has on relationships, and how it impacted her own marriage. They also discuss the prevalence of ADHD within the criminal justice system and how to go about getting a diagnosis.

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"Look, divorce isn't a picnic. It's not fun times...But the chances are the reason that you're finding it tough is that it's bringing up stuff from your past that you haven't fully dealt with".

This week Sam is joined by Divorce Coach Fiona Kimbell. She shares her experience of navigating a lengthy divorce and the feeling of liberation after the initial stages of heartbreak. We also hear how she now supports other women through their own separations.

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TW: domestic abuse, gaslighting, self harm.

'If I'm focusing on the past, I'm depressed because I'm focusing on what has been. If I'm focusing on the future then I'm anxious because I'm trying to get somewhere. Both are an inability to be present".

Samantha is joined by Vanessa Louise, an emotional health coach. The two discuss the process of leaving an unhealthy relationship, the power of love and 'unlovely' choices.

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"I do think children pick things up.. you're a role model of happiness, and living a happy life and that you're allowed to be happy".

Samantha is joined by Estella Newbold-Brown, a children's author, mother of twins, and family law partner. Estella shares the effect her parents divorce had on her body, and how her work now helps parents to discuss the topic of divorce with their own children. The pair also discuss the importance of diverse representation in children's books.

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"Just going and making the decision to choose you and start this new life, that's the hard thing to do. So well done. Everything after this is going to be varying levels of a battle, but you took that first step".

This week Samantha is joined by Sophia Bianchi. Entrepreneur, Executive Coach and host of The Story Goes podcast.

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"I immediately joined a dating app, and then I saw my ex on the dating app".

This week Samantha is joined by Lynn Beattie A.K.A @MrsMummyPenny. They chat about managing finances through divorce and Lynn gives some useful tips of what to be mindful of. The pair also discuss how to make new friends and dating post-separation.

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"When I divorced I was scared, but I knew something had to change. I just knew it".

This week Samantha is joined by Elainea Emmott. A lady with many strings to her bow, amongst other things she is a photographer, TV chef, artist and fashion designer. The pair discuss Elainea's experience of getting married at age 19, her decision to relocate post-separation and raising a young son whilst balancing her varied career.

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"The biggest thing I'm learning on the journey is loving myself, and maybe that loving myself is not what I thought it was."

This week we are joined by Michele Traina, the creator of the Divorce Diaries. Michele shares her experience of parenting and dating post-divorce, and we have a podcast first!

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Changing the conversation around divorce. Trailer for the brand new podcast. Interviews hosted by comedian, actress and author Samantha Baines. Make sure you subscribe to The Divorce Social series to keep updated on new episodes!

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"Do I want orchids in the house, yes I want them everywhere" - Candice Gallimore

Candice joins us all the way from Australia to chat divorce and her love of orchids with Sam. Candice discusses her imposter syndrome, same sex marriage and spending sprees. An interesting insight into getting married before it was legal and the complications that come with laws changing in different parts of the world as well as growing up in a gay household and campaigning for same sex marriage whilst you are in the midst of a divorce. Another light-hearted and enlightening conversation.

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"I went to the osteopath, not for my back, for my thumbs from sexting" - Paul Roseby

Paul joins Samantha for lots of laughs and some raw honesty. The two chat finances, touching penises again and being dumped by a Druid. Samantha learns a lot about gay dating apps and Paul explains why he's not your Daddy! Samantha is touched by their conversation on standing up for yourself and leaving the marriage with dignity and she opens up a little more about her recent divorce.

Trigger warnings:

Suicide

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Samantha Baines talks through her emotions and divorce journey during the recording of series 2. She picks out her series highlights and gives us the lowdown on the London Podcast Festival live episode which is coming soon.

Series 3 is on its way!

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"l love being divorced, I would recommend it to anyone" - Lyz Lenz

Lyz Lenz joins Samantha Baines all the way from the States to chat divorce, being raised Evangelical Christian and why getting married at 22yrs old was a bold feminist statement. The two compare religious upbringings and their hang overs and Samantha discovers the religious rules of courtship for young Lyz. Opening up about her sisters abuse as a child, Lyz talks about her family situation and how much that affected her marriage and the fact that she did get married even though she wasn't "head over heels in love".

trigger warning:

childhood abuse

Books:

Belaboured by Lyz Lenz

God Land by Lyz Lenz

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"When I die I want to be put in a firework" - Rachel Teate

Rachel Teate talks to Samantha Baines about being broken up with whilst driving, watching your ex leave a party that you are still at and even vision boards. A funny and upbeat chat about divorce, filling your house with flowers and top tips about sitting in front of the freezer and eating ice-cream whilst wearing your wedding tiara. Sam loses her mind a little bit about mugs that don't match but other than that there is lots to relate to in this episode and even some love for our podcast.

This episode was recorded before lockdown 2.

Trigger warnings:

cheating

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