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05 Jun 2024Setting Your Affection {Eps 56}00:07:59

Read Colossians 2:6-10

27 Apr 2023The Power of Confession, Community, and Accountability in Being Set Free From Sexual Sin with Chris Lewis {Eps. 25}00:54:50

What lies hidden in the dark cannot receive healing.  Chris Lewis will be the first to tell you that exposing secret sins of the past can be painful, but oh, the freedom and healing it brings!  

In this episode, you will hear Chris share steps he has taken on his healing journey and his mother's role as she walked with him.  

 

Connect with Chris:

IronSLAP IG

Chris Lewis IG

Creativity with Chris YouTube

Chris Lewis FB

Email Chris: lewis.christopher423@gmail.com

 

 

Past Episodes mentioned:

Eps 21 with Jon Sowel

 

Links mentioned:

Restored Hope Network Hope 2023 Conference

Living Waters

CrossCurrent-Online

His Wonderful Works

Church of the Apostles

 

Scripture references:

Psalm 103

Psalm 106:13

1 John 2:16

1 Timothy 6:11-13

James 4:7

Psalm 18

 

20 Dec 2023Rejoice, Weary World! Because Of Christmas We Have Every Reason To Celebrate! {Eps. 47}00:07:42

The holidays have a way of magnifying our pain and the brokenness in our families.

Listen in to hear the reason for the season and why we should celebrate more than ever.

Share this podcast with someone else who needs hope this Christmas season.

Light a candle.

For more encouragement, listen to these past episodes

Eps 41 - How To Overcome Grief When It Is Impacting Your Life And Your Relationship With Your LGBTQ-identified Child

Eps 38 - Taking Territory Back: How To Release The Power of God In Your Prayers For Your LGBTQ -identified Loved One, Part Two with Lindsey Kiser

Eps 36 - Wisdom and Advice For Parents Rearing an LGBTQ-identified Child in the Home

Eps 12 – How To Survive The Holidays When You Really Just Want To Skip Them

Eps 11 – How To Live A Life That Points Others To Jesus

Eps 9 – Living In The Unshakable Victory Of Christ with Judy Dunagan

Eps 8 – The Truth About Spiritual Disappointment and How It May Not Be A Bad Thing

One last reminder:  This is the last podcast episode for 2023.  The Bridge Between Us will be back on January 3. 

My prayer for you today comes from Romans 15:13 – May the God of Hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in Him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.

God has entrusted this journey and our loved ones to us. He is asking us to engage with Him on this journey.  As we do, He promises to equip us every step of the way.

Until January 3rd – I wish you a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!  Talk to you in 2024, friends!

22 Mar 2023Dr. Sharon Norris Elliott with Didn't See THAT Coming: When How They're Living's Not How You Raised Them {Eps. 22}00:57:20

You did all the right things. Perhaps, you raised your children in church and set a good example. Now your grown children are making choices of their own, and they aren't aligning with how you raised them.  

Today's Bridge guest, Dr. Sharon Elliott, completely understands.  She joins us today as a mom who has had children making choices that didn't line up with their upbringing.

In this episode, Sharon shares:

*how to walk through disappointment

*the difference between confrontation and care-frontation

*why parents need to continue taking their child to Jesus through prayer

 

You may connect with Dr. Sharon N. Elliott here:

www.authorizeme.net

Sharon Elliott Facebook

Sharon Elliott private FaceBook group for her books

Sharon Elliott Instagram

 

Amazon link for the book:

Didn't See That Coming: When How They're Living's Not How You Raised Them

 

 

Other mentions:  

Mark 9:14-29

 

To connect with Melinda Patrick, email:  melinda@melindapatrick.org

18 Dec 2024Dr. James Merritt - Loving Your LGBTQ-identified Child with Grace and Truth {Eps 77}00:44:46
06 Jun 2024Wilna van Beek & Ryan Willey - Humility Breaks Pride {Eps 57}00:42:48
08 Sep 2022One Tip Thursday: Know Your God00:02:02

Each week I will give one tip to equip us to walk this journey with boldness, strength, and compassion. 

Today’s tip comes from Episode 1 – Holding On To Truth In A Shifting Culture

Daniel 11:32 states: Those who do wickedly against the covenant shall he corrupt with flattery; but the people who know their God shall be strong, and carry out great exploits. NKJV

ESV  - but the people who know their God shall stand firm and take action

Listen in to learn one tip you can begin to apply in your life today.

13 Dec 2023Sarah Frazer - Navigating Through Life When This Isn't What You Signed Up For {Eps 46}00:53:31
Sarah E. Frazer is a writer, Bible study mentor, wife of Jason, and mother of five. With a background in missionary work and Bible teaching, her passion is to encourage women to start today with a Bible reading and prayer habit. She shares tools and encouragement for Bible study and prayer study on her website and on Instagram at @sarah_e_frazer. 
 
Links: 
29 Aug 2024Kathy Grace Duncan - How God Used One Truth To Dispel 3 Lies A Former Transgender Once Believed {Eps 63}00:40:00

Have you ever played the game 2 Truths and 1 Lie?  The game's object is for you to share 2 truths and one lie about yourself and the people around you must determine which statement is the lie. 

You can learn a lot about someone in this game. And today, as you listen in, you will learn a lot about:

*how perceptions play a big part in our belief system 

*the goodness of God

*the role your response can play in helping someone walk our their freedom 

 

Connect with Kathy Grace Duncan:

Portland Fellowship

Changed Movement:  Kathy Grace Duncan's story

 

The Daring Rescue book by Melinda Patrick

Sept. 20-21 - Rising Stronger Summit - at Park Place Chruch in Snellville, GA

Oct. 2 - Grace Assembly - Greenwood, IN

Oct. 4-5 - ReStoried24 Conference - Greenwood, IN

02 Mar 2023Part One with Angel Colon: God's Relentless Pursuit and The Power of A Mother's Prayers and Commitment to Truth and Love {Eps. 19}00:34:58
01 Jun 2024Welcome to Pride Month Where We Share A Different Story {Eps 54}00:08:45

This month can be heartbreaking and anxiety-provoking for many parents.  Over the next 30 days, we will share stories different than what the world offers.  Stories of hope, truth, and equipping. 

Resources listed: 

Restored Hope Network

Transformation Ministries Alliance

Joe Dallas: Christians In Cancel Culture (Youtube)

Andrew Rodriguez: Psycho Bible Youtube

 

Books:

Transformation: A Former Transgender Responds To LGBTQ by Linda A Seiler, PhD

Piercing The Night: Strategic Intercession to Set the LGBTQ+ Captives Free by Kathryn Lindsey Kiser

The Daring Rescue: Joining Jesus Christ In His Pursuit Of Your LGBTQ-identified Child's Heart by Melinda Hardy Patrick

 

*I earn a small commission from these sponsored links if you purchase a book. 

02 Nov 2022One Tip Thursday - Rest Found In Routine00:02:04

www.melindapatrick.org

Resources:

Celebration of Discipline by Richard Foster

Practicing Basic Spiritual Disciplines by Dr. Charles Stanley

Intimate Faith: A Woman's Guide to the Spiritual Disciplines by Jan Winebrenner

06 Jan 2023Refocus, Reset and Shift From Moving In Reaction To Living In Response {Eps. 16}00:09:14

It can happen to the best of us.  We start with the greatest of intentions.  We put a stake in the ground to follow Him wherever He leads; we vow to pray this through and surrender to the Lord’s guidance. 

But, the battle is longer than we expected, and instead of getting easier, it becomes more intense.  Somewhere along the way, our eyes shift to the battlefield, and we take them off our Commander-in-chief.

Listen in to hear how to reset your focus. 

If you would like to join us on the 21 day fast, send me an email: melinda@melindapatrick.org

09 Apr 2025Mark Nelson - Words Matter: What Are You Speaking? Part One {Eps 91}00:46:13

Have you ever wonder if what you say really makes a difference?  

In today's episode, Mark Nelson, Executive Director of Exchange Ministries, joins Melinda and shares an awe-inspiring testimony of God's powerful intervention in his life.  

Mark's testimony is fuls of Holy Spirit inspired moments that leave you wanting to know more. 

Listine in to discover:

*how words spoken over Mark made a life changing difference for him

*ways that we can speak life over our loved ones

 

Connect with Mark: 

Exchange Ministries

 

Next Week: Tune in as we Mark shares Part 2 of his transformation story. 

Thank you for listening to The Bridge Between Us! Remember, God has entrusted this journey to you, as you engage with Him He will equip you for each next step.

Please share this episode with others. 

If you haven’t left a review for The Bridge Between Us Podcast, please take 1-3 minutes to do so.  This helps other parents to know if this is the right podcast for them.

 

 

21 Oct 2022One Tip Thursday - Setting Yourself Up For Success00:02:01
10 Nov 2023How To Overcome Grief When It Is Impacting Your Life and Relationship With Your LGBTQ Identified Child - Eps 4100:23:23

Do you find yourself not knowing how to move beyond your grief?

Sometimes, there comes a time in life when we need to stop being sad and start getting angry. Grief, which has chosen to hang around a little longer than it should, is one of those times.

In today's episode, listen in to hear how to move forward: 

Stop

Reset

Recall

 

Special thanks to Adonis Bemish for giving us a word of encouragement at the beginning of the episode.  I have known Adonis for 5 years now and it is a great joy to watch God work in his life.  Thank you, Adonis!

For more information on being a part of our monthly zoom community where we dive deeper into the podcast episodes, email me:  melinda@melindapatrick.org

 

Dr. Linda Seiler resources and book

 

 

 

06 May 2023Derek Paul on Transformation, Personal Responsibility in Healing, and Steps a Pastor or Ministry Leader Can Take When Your Child Experiences Same Sex Attraction or Gender Dysphoria {Eps. 26}00:55:10
15 Feb 2025Caring for Your Heart: Finding Joy and Strength on the Journey with Your LGBTQ-identified Loved One {Eps 84}00:32:41

Welcome to the TBBU Podcast, hosted by Melinda Patrick. In today’s episode, we’re diving into an essential topic for Christian parents with LGBTQ-identified children: caring for your heart as you navigate this journey.

With February being 'heart month,' we’ll talk about the importance of nurturing your own well-being. We'll explore the red flags that signal when you’re not taking care of your heart, why it’s vital to guard and care for it, and practical steps you can take to protect your emotional and spiritual health.

As we walk through this, we’ll discuss how you can overflow with joy, peace, and hope, even during challenging seasons. Plus, we’ll talk about how to support your child or spouse, even when they might not be ready to care for their own heart.

Join me for this heart-centered episode that offers grace, encouragement, and a challenge to care for yourself so that you can love your child well.

Scripture Reference:

  • Proverbs 4:23 (NIV) – Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.
  • Romans 15:13 (NIV) – May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.
  • John 10:10 (NIV) – The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full.

Resources Mentioned in the Episode:

2-Week Challenge:
Starting today, take just 15 minutes each day to do something that gives you life. Here are some ideas:

  • Take a nap
  • Sit in silence
  • Go for a walk
  • Take time off social media
  • Breathe deeply and relax

Connect with Us:

  • Subscribe to The Bridge newsletter for exclusive content and updates on upcoming launches.
  • Share this podcast with fellow parents and ministry leaders who might benefit from this message.
  • If you’re struggling with grief or emotional burnout, reach out for support—whether through prayer or a counselor. You don’t have to walk this journey alone.

Closing Prayer:
"May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit." (Romans 15:13)

15 Mar 2023Recognizing Counterfeit Intimacy, How To Meet The Need Legitimately and Steps Parents and The Church Can Take To Walk Out Healing With the LGBTQ Community with Jon Sowell {Eps. 21} with Jon Sowell00:35:19

Join Melinda and guest, Jon Sowell on episode 21 of The Bridge Between Us Podcast. 

In this episode, Jon will share how we each have legitimate needs, but Satan wants us to meet these needs in illegitimate ways.  

Two of my favorite quotes from Jon are: 

  1. If we are deprived of having healthy intimacy with the same sex, something God has given us, then we are going to go for the counterfeit.
  2. You are responsible for sowing the seed, but you're not responsible for making the seed grow.  As soon as we try to make the seed grow, then we are trying to play God in the situation. 

Freedom March

melinda@melindapatrick.org

 

Other mentions:

Angel Colon - Listen to Eps 19 & 20 of The Bridge Between Us Podcast 

02 Dec 2022One Tip Thursday - Are You Hindering Your Prayers00:02:04

My grandson wanted to get home as fast as possible, but he also wanted to help me by putting himself in his car seat.  If you have ever wrestled a two-year-old into their car seat, you also know he was the hindrance to him getting home to eat. 

In this 2-minute episode, you will discover how we can be a hindrance to our own prayers and how to give God space to do what only He can do. 

28 Oct 2022The Truth About Spiritual Disappointment and How It May Not Be A Bad Thing {Eps 8}00:12:01

Resource:  A Sacred Sorrow by Michael Card

04 Nov 2022One Tip Thursday - How To Bring Power To Your Prayers00:02:04

The Adversary - Mark Bubeck

29 Jan 2025How To Support Your LGBTQ-Identified Loved One Without Endorsing The Identity They Embrace {Eps 82}00:18:29

In today’s episode, The Bridge Between Us host Melinda Patrick answers a heartfelt question from a listener:

How do I support my transgender niece without endorsing or condoning their choices?

If you’ve ever struggled with how to show love to a LGBTQ-identified family member while holding onto your personal beliefs, this episode is for you.

Melinda dives into the balance of loving well while staying true to your values, sharing practical and spiritual steps to help you show up for your loved ones without compromising your convictions.

Key Topics Covered:

  • Acknowledging the Hurt Without Endorsing the Path: Melinda addresses the delicate tension between showing love and acceptance, without affirming a lifestyle that goes against your faith.

  • The Importance of Loving Like Jesus: We discuss the significance of loving others in a way that reflects God’s love—sacrificial, unconditional, and without compromise. Melinda also shares a powerful scripture, 1 John 4:19, reminding us that we love because God first loved us.

  • Practical Ways to Support:

    1. See the Person Beyond the Label: Pray for God to help you see your loved one as He does.
    2. Engage in Their Life: Make an intentional effort to connect and be involved.
    3. Understand Their Love Language: Show love in ways that are meaningful to them.
    4. Be a Listening Ear: Listening isn’t agreement—it’s a sign that you see them, hear them, and care for them deeply.
  • Spiritual Support Through Prayer: Melinda encourages prayer as a vital part of loving well. Drawing from Oswald Chambers' insights on true intercession, we learn that prayer isn’t just about sympathizing—it’s about seeking God’s heart and perspective on the situation.

Closing Thoughts: Loving a transgender family member with non-endorsing support doesn’t mean withdrawing—it means showing up with love, prayer, and a heart that seeks God’s truth and grace.

Call to Action:

  • Share this episode with someone who might need this encouragement.
  • If you haven’t left a review for The Bridge Between Us, please consider doing so to help us reach more people.
  • If you’ve read The Daring Rescue: Joining Jesus Christ In His Pursuit Of Your LGBYQ-identified Child's Heart, Melinda’s book, please leave a review on Amazon, Focus on the Family, or Goodreads. Each review helps families in need of guidance find the book.

Thank you for listening and supporting The Bridge Between Us podcast!

 

Restored Hope Network HOPE 2025 VIRTUAL conference:

https://www.restoredhopenetwork.org/hopeconf

Use code: EBHOPE2025 for the early bird discount by February 1.

 

Speakers:

Dr. Andrew Rodriguez- TBBU episode 45 with Andrew

                                      TBBU episode 33 with Andrew

Dr. Julie Hamilton

Dr. Anne Gillies

Jonathan Daugherty

 

19 Nov 2022How To Survive The Holidays When You Really Just Want To Skip Them {Eps 12}00:20:29

Here are 8 tips that will help you survive the holidays when you really want to skip them.  

p.s. - I apologize in advance for my singing 😉  I do hope it puts a song in your heart, though. 

 

www.melindapatrick.org

https://www.boundariesbooks.com/

A Sacred Sorrow by Michael Card

Eps 9 with Judy Dunagan

Eps 11 with Charity Ellis

26 May 2023Three Ways Our Ears Can Be Stopped Up and Keeping Us From Hearing The Voice of God with Julie Holmquist {Eps 29}00:22:22
07 Sep 2022Holding On To Truth In A Shifting Culture {Eps 1}00:09:05

Walking in the tension of grace and Truth can be one of the most difficult feats of a Christian parent with an LGBTQ identified child.  

It's only possible with the Holy Spirit as our guide. 

In Episode 1 of The Bridge Between Us, as you listen in you will learn:

*the biblical definition of love

*how to walk in Truth

*the importance of holding firm to truth in a shifting culture 

Download the prayer for your journey, here

Please share this podcast and head over to Apple podcast to rate and review. 

10 Jun 2024When an LGBTQ Activist Encounters Jesus Christ with Wilna van Beek and Ryan Willey, Part Two {Eps 58}00:35:06
31 Mar 2025Finishing Strong: The Power of A Good Support Team {Eps 89}00:17:30

God hasn't called us to walk through life alone. In today’s episode, Melinda takes us through what it looks like to set yourself up for success when facing a daunting challenge, and how the team around you plays a crucial role in getting you to the finish line.

Listen in to hear the four key people you need on your team and why.

As Melinda challenges listeners, it’s important to recognize and appreciate those who walk with you on your journey. A simple note, call, or text to show gratitude can make a huge difference. The support system you build along the way doesn’t just help you reach the finish line—it transforms you as you walk together.

Next Week: Tune in as we explore the important role of counselors in our lives. Melinda will share insights on finding the right counselor and how professional support complements the support of loved ones.

Thank you for listening to The Bridge Between Us! Remember, you’re never alone on your journey—keep building your team, and keep walking forward. God has entrusted this journey to you, and He will equip you for each next step.

If you’ve enjoyed today’s episode, please consider leaving a review or sharing it with a friend who might benefit from hearing about the power of a strong support system.

05 Feb 2025Tony & Alisa DeLorenzo: Together Through Grief: Building a Closer Marriage in Challenging Times {Eps 83}00:38:40

When we discover that our child has embraced an LGBTQ identity, it can feel like a tidal wave that shakes the very foundation of our family dynamics. It’s easy to overlook the other important relationships in our lives—especially our marriage. 

In this powerful episode, Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo join host Melinda Patrick to discuss the crucial steps couples can take to preserve their relationship with each other while navigating this difficult season.

One of the most impactful takeaways from this episode is the reminder that "If couples don't take care of their marriage, then there will need to be two rescues: not just the rescue of the child, but the rescue of the couple." This quote serves as a powerful warning to couples that the well-being of their marriage is just as important as their child's emotional health.

In this episode, you’ll learn how to:

  • Maintain closeness and connection with your spouse
  • Take actionable steps forward if you feel stuck in your relationships
  • Honor your spouse during seasons of grief
  • Pray together as a couple in times of uncertainty
  • Lighten the heaviness of difficult circumstances and rediscover joy

Whether you're navigating changes in your family or simply seeking ways to strengthen your relationship, this episode offers valuable insights on maintaining balance and emotional well-being during challenging times.

Resources Mentioned:
The 6 Pillars of Intimacy by Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo

Dave Ramsey

The Daring Rescue by Melinda Patrick

Join the conversation:
We’d love to hear how you’ve navigated difficult family transitions. Share your thoughts and experiences with us on social media or via email.

Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review the podcast!

​The shownotes contain affiliate links. If you make a purchase through one of these links, I will make a commission at no extra cost to you.​

29 Nov 2023Moving From Fear to Faith and Taking Steps To Have A Trauma-less Christmas with Jenn Hand {Eps 44}00:39:53

Did you know that even in the midst of your heartbreak God has a promised land for you?  That's right!  The abundant life mentioned in John 10:10 isn't just for when we get to heaven.  We can live in our promised land now!  

Listen in as my guest, Jenn Hand, shares ways to conquer our fear and take bold steps of faith.  Towards the end of the episode, Jenn will also share a few tips to help you have a trauma-less Christmas. 

Connect with Jenn Hand: https://jenniferhand.org/

 

Links from Jenn Hand

Trauma-less holiday guide/after trauma hope bundle:  https://jenniferhand.org/product/a-trauma-less-holiday-bundle-sale/  use code bridge for 10.00 off 
 
If you would like to join me on Zoom during the month of December or in January, please send me an email:  melinda@melindapatrick.org
 
Please share this episode with another person who may need a faith boost. 
12 Mar 2025Brandon Showalter- In the Trenches: Confronting the Battle of Gender Ideology {Eps 87}00:59:23

For Christian parents whose children have embraced an LGBTQ+ identity, the world is full of confusion, manipulation, and emotional pain. Watching your child go through gender confusion and irreversible medical procedures is heart-wrenching. Navigating this world feels isolating and often spiritually and emotionally draining. There’s a need for truth, empathy, and a support system that isn’t afraid to stand firm in God’s design for humanity.

In this episode, Brandon Showalter, a passionate advocate for truth and a journalist for the Christian Post, is joining Melinda on The Bridge Between Us Podcast. With years of experience and a personal commitment to truth, Brandon offers both emotional support and practical advice

Listen is to discover: 

  1. The Deception of Language
    One of the most insidious aspects of gender ideology is the manipulation of language. Brandon highlights how changing the meaning of basic words, like “gender” and “sex,” sows confusion and disrupts the ability to speak truthfully about the human body and identity.
  2. Spiritual Warfare and the Church’s Role
    In this battle against gender ideologies, Brandon discusses how the church must not only engage in policy change but also engage spiritually. The importance of persistent prayer and maintaining vigilance is underscored. The need for the church to stand firm against this deception is crucial in reclaiming the truth of God's design for humanity.
  3. The Role of the Church in the Battle
    As society grapples with this issue, the church is called to be a place of healing and truth. The need to accept and minister to those who are struggling with gender identity is vital, but it requires both compassion and the courage to speak the truth.
  4. Parents on the Frontlines
    Parents are urged to be proactive in protecting their children from harmful ideologies and pseudoscience. Despite the cultural push for tolerance, Brandon explains that compassion and kindness should not require compromising truth.

 

We are in the midst of a spiritual battle, but as believers, we are equipped with the truth of God’s word and the power of prayer. Let’s stay vigilant, stand firm, and continue to share the love of Christ with a world in desperate need of His transformative hope.

 

Connect with Brand Showalter: 

Exposing The Gender Lie: How To Protect Children and Teens From the Trangender Industry's False Ideology

The Christian Post

09 Dec 2022One Tip Thursday - Are You Sharpening Your Ax00:02:07

In the midst of the hustle and bustle, God is whispering to your heart: "Come to Me all you who are weary and heavy ladened, and I will give you rest."

23 Dec 2024Gretchen Stockman - Help For the Parent Who Has Been Estranged From Their Child {Eps 78}00:36:10

Hey friend. Have you been estranged from your child and don't know what to do? Perhaps this Christmas is a little more than you can take.

In this episode of The Bridge Between Us, host Melinda Patrick and guest Gretchen Stockman talk about things parents can do to get through the painful season - especially when you have been estranged from your child.  

Gretchen Stockman is a licensed marriage and family therapist but more important than that - she is a mother who is all too familiar with the pain of being estranged from her children. 

Our prayer for you today is that you will be helped and equipped to 'light a candle and give the enemy a big kick!'

Listeners will discover:

*The healing that comes from dragging our pain into the light

*The power of having a Kingdom mindset.

*Ways to minister to a friend who has been estranged from their child

*What to do this Christmas season to give the Enemy a big kick!

 

A few of favorite quotes from the episode:

We can get hyperfocused on the loss and not be able to attend to all of the blessings, all of the other people that are in our life. - Gretchen Stockman

I can hurt really bad and I can feel all the feelings but I can still have a wonderful life and a fulfilling and meaningful existence. - Gretchen Stockman

We are fighting the good fight of faith...we are interceding for our children. They need us to be stable, solid, and committed. - Gretchen Stockman

Our children may run from our presence but they can't run from our prayers. - Melinda Patrick

Being fully present being able to love, is one of the best, most richest parts of life. - Gretchen Stockman

 

 

Connect with Gretchen Stockman:

livrite@livrite.com 

https://livrite.com/bewholecoaching/

 

Other mentions:

Restored Hope Network

Shoulder to Shoulder support group - contact Gretchen Stockman (livrite@livrite.com)

Dr. Joshua Coleman's book - Rules of Estrangement: Why Adult Children Cut Ties and How To Heal the Conflict

Karen Wheaton

 

Order Melinda Patrick's new book The Daring Rescue: Joining Jesus Christ In His Pursuit Of Your LGBTQ-identified Child's Heart here.

 

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03 Nov 2022Judy Dunagan - The Loudest Roar: Living In The Unshakable Victory Of Christ {Eps 9}00:26:32

JUDY DUNAGAN is the author of The Loudest Roar: Living in the Unshakable Victory of Christ. A wonder seeker of God and His Word, Judy is passionate about discipleship and making God’s Word and prayer come alive in everyday life. She is a speaker and Bible teacher and an acquisitions editor of women’s Bible studies and books at Moody Publishers. Judy and her husband, Rick, live in Colorado and are the joyful grandparents of five grandchildren. Receive a free resource “The Power of Praying Scripture” when you subscribe to https://judydunagan.com/

Other resources:

The Loudest Roar: Living In The Unshakable Victory Of Christ by Judy Dunagan

Spiritual Warfare Prayers by Mark Bubeck

The Adversary by Mark Bubeck

The Even While Podcast Episode with Judy Dunagan:  How To Pray When You Don't Know What To Pray

 

 

04 Dec 2024Catherine Segars - Becoming Spiritual Warriors For Our LGBTQ-Identified Children {Eps 75}00:51:21

Hey friend, do you want to make a difference in your child's life but aren't sure what will bring the most return on investment?  

Perhaps you are feeling powerless and not sure what to do. 

In this episode of The Bridge Between Us, host Melinda Patrick and guest Catherine Segars  unpack 4 types of prayers you can be praying and how to start taking back ground from the enemy.

Listeners will discover:

  • the 4 types of prayers you can be praying and which one will cause you to put on your battle boots and go to war
  • the difference between the logos word and the rhema word
  • how God has blessed Catherine on this journey as a mom

 

Connect with Catherine Segars:

Prodigal Bundle & Prayer List: 
Christian Parent/Crazy World: 

Did you miss our previous episodes on prayer?

Taking Territory Back: How To Release the Power of God In Your Prayers For Your LGBTQ+ Loved One, Part Two with Lindsey Kiser - Eps 38

Co-laboring With Jesus Christ as Intercessors For the LGBTQ Community, Prodigals, and the Next Generation - Eps 23

The Loudest Roar: Living In The Unshakable Victory Of Christ with Judy Dunagan - Eps 9

 

Books mentioned:

Intercessory Prayer: How God Can Use Your Prayers To Move Heaven and Earth by Dutch Sheets

Authority In Prayer: Praying With Power and Purpose by Dutch Sheets

Watchman Prayer: Protecting Your Family, Home, and Community From the Enemy's Schemes by Dutch Sheets

Order The Daring Rescue here.

 

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06 Oct 2022One Tip Thursday - Take Time To Notice00:01:59

“People travel to wonder at the height of the mountains, at the huge waves of the seas, at the long course of the rivers, at the vast compass of the ocean, at the circular motion of the stars, and yet they pass by themselves without wondering.”  
—St. Augustine

We often stand amazed at what God does in the lives of others, but rarely notice the miracles He works in us.  

Take time to notice, friend. God is doing a good work!

22 Jul 2023How to Stand Firm In Today's Culture + 4 Ways You Can Team Up With Me - Eps 3200:13:57
19 Feb 2025Mike Manzie- Processing Pain and Inviting Healing: Using the SHAPE Journaling Method for Christian Parents of LGBTQ-identified Children{Eps 85}00:43:30

Mike Manzie, executive director of Fresno New Creation Ministries is joining Melinda on The Bridge Between Us podcast.  In this episode, Mike and Melinda discuss the importance of processing pain and healing through a spiritual lens.

Using the SHAPE journaling method, parents can take intentional steps toward healing and understanding, inviting the Lord into their emotional journey. This episode provides valuable guidance for parents navigating complex feelings while supporting their children in love and truth.

Key Topics Discussed:

  • Why time alone doesn't heal wounds – the importance of intentional processing
  • How to invite the Lord into the process of emotional healing
  • Practical tips for journaling through pain and seeking clarity
  • The importance of addressing unresolved emotions before they resurface

 

SHAPE Journaling Method Explained:

Scripture

Hearing

Application

Purpose

Edify

 

Mike's testimony: Listen Here>>>

Connect with Mike: 

Website   ncmfresno.org
Phone     559-227-1066
Email       mike@ncmfresno.org
03 Jun 2024Positioning Ourselves For Greater Impact with the LGBTQ Community {Eps 55}00:10:47

Read through Psalm 18.

Take note of who GOD is. At the end of the day, it doesn't matter who we are.  What matters is who God is!

29 May 2024Conversion Therapy: Where It is Headed And What We Need To Know with Wayne Blakely {Eps 53}00:41:09
09 Aug 2023Luis Ruiz - Part Two - The Faithfulness of God {Eps 35}00:48:27

Oh, the faithfulness of God!  He is not only at work in pursuing our children but He is in hot pursuit of our hearts, too.  

One of my favorite quotes from Luis:  "I thank God that I had a mom and dad that knew the power of intercession and prayer even when it looked like all hell was breaking loose.  When it looked like they were ready to throw in the towel, they knew how to call upon God and not compromise Scripture and stand on Scripture and believe the Word of God."

 

Connect with Luiz Ruiz:

IG

Rainbow Revival

More Than A Victim Documentary

 

Past episodes mentioned:

TBBU Eps 19 - Part One with Angel Colon

TBBU Eps 20 - Part Two with Angel Colon

 

09 Oct 2024Garry Ingraham - What Fathers Can Do To Shepherd The Hearts Of Their Child - Part Two {Eps 69}00:42:11

Do you ever feel like you have completely blown it? As a parent, I have felt that many times. I'm so thankful we serve a God who is greater than our biggest mistakes. 

In today's episode of The Bridge Between Us Podcast, Melinda continues her conversation with author, ministry leader, and podcast host Garry Ingraham. 

Garry has words of wisdom and practical application for fathers. In this episode, you will:

*learn what it means to 'shepherd your child's heart'

*be given practical ways to connect with your child

 

Connect with Garry Ingraham:

Garry is the podcast host for Love & Truth Network and the author of Am I Gay? He and his wife, Melissa, founded Love & Truth Network, a national, non-profit ministry focused on equipping Christian leaders to develop safe and transformational environments with the purpose of restoring sexual wholeness and Biblical identity.

Love & Truth Network

Mentions:

ReStory Ministries

Living Waters - Andrew Comisky

Listen here to Melinda’s interview on Love & Truth Network

 

Previous episodes speaking of fathers:

Eps 3 with Ashley Little

Bible verses:

James 5:16

Malachi 4:6

Proverbs 20:5

1 John 1:7

To share your thoughts or to send a question:

Send Melinda an email to: melinda@melindapatrick.org

Please leave an honest review on ITunes or your favorite podcast app. Your ratings and reviews help get this message of hope into the hands of hurting families, and I read each one. 😊

Make sure to ‘Follow’ the Bridge Between Us Podcast on Itunes so you don’t miss an episode.

Subscribe to our newsletter here.

Purchase Melinda’s new book – The Daring Rescue: Joining Jesus Christ In His Pursuit Of Your LGBTQ-identified Child’s Heart

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24 Apr 2023Steps You Can Take As A Parent To Disciple and Be A Source of Healing For Your Child In The Midst of the LGBTQ Agenda with Cameron Diamond {Eps. 24}00:52:55

There isn't one single family that's not touched by the LGBTQ agenda. As today's guest, Cameron Diamond, states in the episode: "The future generations are going to need to be stronger than we are, and we have to show them how to get there." 

If this is the case, then:

*How do we teach our children to stand strong in the face of peer pressure? 

*What steps can we take to open up conversations in our homes? 

*How do we walk through healing with our children?

Cameron Diamond, Identify Ministries' Board President and Youth Pastor at Jonesville Baptist Church, is joining Melinda on the podcast today.  Be sure to take out pen and paper as Cameron is sharing lots of wisdom and resources.  

 

If this podcast has encouraged your heart, please share it with one other person. 

Connect with Cameron Diamond: cameron@jonesvillebaptist.com

 

Links:

Epic Transformation Conference

Identify Ministries

Jonesville Baptist Church

Finally Free by Heath Lambert

Tactics by Greg Koukl

Grasping God's Word by Scott Duvall

 

 

05 Nov 2024Fear And Anxiety Don't Have To Reign - A Christian Response To Election 2024 {Eps 71}00:22:11

It doesn’t take much right now to lose peace and eventually begin reacting to fear or anxiousness.

One commercial or news report on the radio or tv, an acquaintance’s social media post that doesn’t align with your beliefs, or a family member obnoxiously belittling your values can set us off. Or the Enemy placing a thought in our minds causing us to turn our focus from Jesus to the world can have us sinking in the storm and not walking on the water.   

I can easily find my peace slipping away and fear sneaking in with every glance toward the world.  Anybody else? (hand raised)

This isn’t what God has for His children, though.

Like Peter, we are called to be water-walkers. Our lives should look different not only on good days but also when surrounded by a storm.

The world is watching so here are 5 ways we can set ourselves up for success over the coming days and weeks to be a light to the world around us.

 

Connect with Melinda or for more information about the FREE webinar:  melinda@melindapatrick.org

 

22 Sep 2022One Tip Thursday - Learning To Discern Between True Guilt And False Guilt00:02:04

Welcome to One Tip Thursday!

Romans 8:1 - There is, therefore now, no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.

The enemy loves to get us bogged down in parent guilt. 

Today's tip is learning to discern between true guilt and false guilt. 

Warrior, the battle is fierce, and the enemy will take every shot he can get at you.

God is greater than your biggest mistake and pursuing your loved one in ways you can't even begin to imagine.

Share this podcast with a friend or share it on Instagram, please tag me, Melinda Patrick so I can say thank you.

06 Sep 2024Kathy Grace Duncan - Part Two - Questions Answered for Families By A Former Transgender And Two Things We All Need For This Journey {Eps 64}00:42:03

Connect with Kathy Grace Duncan:

Portland Fellowship

Changed Movement:  Kathy Grace Duncan’s story

 

The Daring Rescue book by Melinda Patrick

Sept. 20-21 – Rising Stronger Summit – at Park Place Chruch in Snellville, GA

Oct. 2 – Grace Assembly – Greenwood, IN

Oct. 4-5 – ReStoried24 Conference – Greenwood, IN

10 Nov 2022One Tip Thursday - Let Him Write00:02:00
27 Sep 2023Tiffany Jo Baker - Decrease Decision Fatigue and Stand Firm In Your Resolution When Your Parenting Season is Difficult {Eps. 39}00:32:30

This journey as a Christian parent with a child who's embraced an LGBTQ identity isn't for the faint of heart. Besides the grief and concern, making decisions can wipe us out mentally, emotionally, physically, and spiritually. And let's just be real honest right here: decision fatigue is no joke!

Today on The Bridge Between Us Podcast, Tiffany Jo Baker is joining Melinda in the conversation on ways to decrease decision fatigue.  

In this episode, you will hear:

*the importance of establishing core values for yourself and for your family

*how to determine your core values

*how setting core values can open up conversations with your loved one and give you a safe place to stand

 

About our guest:

Tiffany Jo Baker is a caffeinated mom of two young adult daughters, surrogate mom who has delivered five babies for three families dealing with infertility, proud dog-mom, and wife to an extreme outdoorsman. She is the podcast host of My Full Life + Faith Leaps Podcast, author of the devotional Soul-Care for Go-Getters, speaker, and strategizer who uplifts the soul and success of women walking out their why at home, online, and in the real world so they can birth their God-given dreams.

 

Set your own core values using Tiffany's free download: https://www.tiffanyjobaker.com/core-values

Ways to connect with Tiffany:

IG

Facebook

YouTube

 

30 Nov 2022Wilna van Beek - Part 1: How One Lesbian Walked Away From Homosexuality And Discovered True Joy in a Relationship with Jesus Christ {Eps 13}00:31:28

Join Melinda Patrick and her guest, Wilna van Beek in Part One of their interview together. 

In this episode you will hear how The Bridge Between Us Podcast started, learn how to say "Thank you" in African but most importantly you will discover how Wilna walked away from  homosexuality and discovered true joy in a relationship with Jesus Christ.

Connect with The Bridge Between Us guest, Wilna van Beek:

FB: Wilna van Beek

God Gazers website

 

Listen here to the Bold Mercies' Podcast where Melinda is a guest. 

His Wonderful Works, Inc.

 

Please review and rate the podcast on your favorite podcast app.  The more reviews and rating the podcast receives, the more it is sent out to listeners.  

Also, if the Lord laid someone on your heart while you were listening, please share the podcast with them.

Watch for Part 2 next week where we learn how God took Wilna's surrendered heart and used it to expand His Kingdom!

05 Mar 2025Alex McFarland - Navigating Truth, Love, and the Culture Shift {Eps 86}00:21:48

Hey friends, welcome back to The Bridge Between Us Podcast

In this episode, Melinda Patrick and her guest, Alex McFarland, dive deep into how we, as parents and individuals, can continue to hold firm to the truth amidst the changing culture and differing values between us and our children.

Parents today are facing a culture that challenges traditional beliefs, especially around sexuality, identity, and values. Their children are growing up in a world where those beliefs often conflict with their own, and it can feel overwhelming and heartbreaking. How can parents stand firm in their faith and share truth with love in a way that doesn’t compromise their beliefs but also doesn’t drive a wedge between them and their children?


Today’s guest is Alex McFarland, an expert in apologetics and a passionate advocate for truth. Alex has spent years counseling, teaching, and engaging in tough conversations with people who are struggling with cultural shifts in their beliefs. He brings years of wisdom to the table as he helps us navigate how to hold fast to God’s truth, love others well, and parent with courage.

Listen in and discover how to: 

  1. Stand firm in the truth of God’s Word.
  2. Love others unconditionally, even when you don’t agree with their choices.
  3. Be patient and trust in God’s timing as you continue to pray and walk alongside your loved ones.

Thank You For Listening!
Thank you for joining us today on The Bridge Between Us Podcast. If you found this episode helpful, please share it with your friends and family. Let’s continue to walk in truth and love together. Subscribe to the podcast to never miss an episode!

Mentions:

Restored Hope Network

The Truth Network - Alex McFarland Show with Melinda Patrick

 

16 Oct 2022One Tip Thursday - How To Conquer Overwhelm and Take Back Your Life00:02:04

Overwhelm has hit all of us on this journey, but we don't have to let it rob of us living. 

In this episode, you will learn two tools for conquering overwhelm and taking back your life. 

 

p.s. In case you are wondering, I didn't leave the gym that day. I completed the class. :)

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05 Oct 2022One Tip Thursday - It Is Fitting To Praise Him00:02:04

Join me today in Psalm 33.

22 Jan 2025January Littlejohn - Part 2 - Equipping Families and the Church to Respond Biblically to the LGBTQ Movement {Eps 81}00:27:37

It will never happen to our child, our family, or in our school.  Words from almost every parent across America.

Until it does.

January Littlejohn and her husband thought the same thing until one day, everything changed.

Listen in to Melinda Patrick’s conversation with January Littlejohn and learn how to be a voice for your child and family - in the church and at home. 

 

Connect with January Littlejohn: 

 https://donoharmmedicine.org/share-your-concern/

 

Dr. Miriam Grossman notice to schools: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1IECbkuP4QZ20ZOdfrF3DtILlMGqO2Leq/edit

 

Resources mentioned:

Christian Resources on Gender Ideology

Books and articles:
The Church Transgender Response Guide – https://childparentrights.org/church-transgender-
response-guide/

For the Body by Timothy Tennent

When Harry Became Sally – by Ryan Anderson

Lost in Trans Nation – by Dr. Miriam Grossman

Perfected with Love– by Walk Heyer –

https://www.theamericanconservative.com/dreher/mary-hasson-parents-pastors-transgender-
gender-ideology-person-and-identity/

Organizations:

The Person and Identity Project- https://personandidentity.com/
Focus on the Family – https://www.focusonthefamily.com/get-help/transgender-resources/
Identity Project – https://identityproject.tv/
Family Research Council – https://www.frc.org/sexuality
Eden’s Redemption – https://edensredemption.org/
Sex Change Regret- https://sexchangeregret.com/

Help 4 Families by Living Stone Ministries – https://livingstonesministries.org/help4families/

Documentaries:
Dysphoria – https://www.fearlessfeatures.org/dysphoria
In His Image – https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W3YKpnrzmqc
Tranzformed- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ebodf8rWpv4
Mary Hasson speech- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S96KBTBiYuA
Videos – https://identityproject.tv/watch/how-can-i-respond-to-a-child-or-friend-with-gender-
confusion

Resources to inoculate young children:
Articles:
https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/kids-navigate-transgender-ideology/
https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/tips-talking-kids-transgender/
https://www.focusonthefamily.com/get-help/talking-to-your-children-about-transgender-
issues/
https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/8-things-parents-gender-transition/
https://www.focusonthefamily.com/parenting/different-pronouns-explaining-lgbt-pronoun-
usage-to-our-kids/
https://www.focusonthefamily.com/parenting/reinforce-your-childs-sexual-identity/
https://www.focusonthefamily.com/get-help/what-is-gender-identity/

Children’s Books:

God Made Boys and Girls- Helping Children Understand the Gift of Gender

No More Secrets

I’m Glad God Made Me a Girl

Elephants Are Not Birds

God Made Me in His Image: Helping Children Appreciate Their Bodies – by Justin and Lindsey
Holcomb

He is He – by Bethan Bomberger

She Is She – by Bethany and Ryan Bomberger

In the Image of God: A Story of Identity and Value

Secure Daughters, Confident Sons: How Parents Guide Their Children into Authentic Masculinity
and Femininity

 

24 Feb 2023What It Looks Like To Live In A Rhythm Of Wait While Trusting The God You Are Waiting On {Eps. 18}00:22:21

My mentor, Ms. Marie, would often say: "Melinda, just as there is a remedy for what ails us physically, there is a remedy for what ails us spiritually.  All we need to do is go to God’s Word and ask the Holy Spirit will make it evident to us."

One of the most difficult parts of this journey is the waiting. One of the best ways to rest is the waiting is to trust in the One we are waiting on. 

In today's episode, I share three things you can do when trusting is difficult. 

 

Thank you to everyone who has left a review on Apple podcast.  My heart is overflowing with gratitude!

 

Waiting On God by Andrew Murray

21 Sep 2022Ashely Little: How To Come Alongside Your LGBTQ Loved One To Bring Healing & Freedom {Eps 3}00:35:06

As a parent, you want to do everything possible to set your child up for success.  

In this episode, Ashley Little shares how God used her parents, brother, and others in her healing journey.

A reminder for us all: every person's healing is different. God's ultimate goal in recovery is to draw us into a personal relationship with Him.  Don't become so fixated on the healing that you miss out on the grandest adventure:  an intimate relationship with the God of all creation.  

Listen in and discover ways to:

*pray for your child

*take practical steps in the healing journey

*handle triggers

*be a safe place for your loved one

 

Please share this podcast with a friend, your pastor, youth pastor, and ministry leader.  

If you want to subscribe to The Bridge Between Us Newsletter, click here.

Watch Ashley's documentary 'The Greater Love' here

Other mentions in the podcast:

The Amazing Love Event

Sy Rodgers

Psalm 84: 10 - Better is one day in your courts than a thousand elsewhere; I would rather be a doorkeeper in the house of my God than dwell in the tents of the wicked.

Ephesians 6:12 - For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this world's darkness, and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms.

 

10 Jan 2025What Decluttering a Room Taught Me and How It Will Set You Up For a Relational Win in 2025 with Melinda Patrick {Eps 79}00:32:40

We have this room in our home that I affectionately call the gathering room. It rests above our garage and for many years it was a great connecting place with family and friends. In fact that is the original intent of the room. A gathering place for family and friends. A place where we could hang out, play games, watch a movie and relax. A place where we could enjoy laughter and long late-night talks with our children and one day grandchildren.

And, that is how the room was for a many years.

But overtime, the room became a place to stash and hide things away in a hurry when company came. Which eventually turned into a place where I would store items I didn’t know what to do with  -  always with the mind set: One day I will take the time to get this sorted back out and cleaned up.

But …the time didn’t come and I have continued living my life while steadily stashing away items in the bonus room like a squirrel packs his nest for winter.

Our hearts can be the same way.  

In this episode, I share with you 3 things I learned on this decluttering journey that will also help us declutter our hearts and set us up for relational wins in 2025. 

I also share two ways to maintain a clean room and a clean heart along with 3 questions you can ask yourself as you declutter:

  1. How well has this attitude, thought, or behavior worked for me?
  2. Does this bring me joy in life?
  3. Do I want my children to have to deal with this?

If you are decluttering a room or your heart this year, let me know.  I would love to cheer you on and prayer for you.  Send me an email:  melinda@melindapatrick.org

Also, please share this episode with someone else who may need to be encouraged.

Let's start 2025 off with decluttered hearts!

22 Aug 20244 Ways Christians Can Be Like The LGBTQ Community and What To Do To Be More Like Jesus {Eps 62}00:20:44

Quite often on this journey with an LGBTQ-identified child or loved one, we focus mainly on the ways we are different. I will never forget the day the Lord opened my eyes to the ways I was similar to the LGBTQ community. It was a painful day but a freeing and healing day.

Listen in to hear 4 ways Christians and can be like the LGBTQ community and what to do to look more like Jesus. 

Mentions: 

Eps. 8 - Spiritual Disappointment

Queen Bee Coffee, McDonough, GA (in the Conflux Building)- Book Signing - Thursday, Sept. 12 - 6:00pm - 8:00pm (please park on the street or use the nearby public parking)

Rising Stronger Summit - Sept. 20-21 - Park Place Church - Snellville, GA

Grace Assembly - October 2 (night service) - Greenwood, Indiana

ReStoried24 - October 4-5 - Greenwood, Indiana

The Daring Rescue: Joining Jesus Christ In His Pursuit Of Your LGBTQ-Identified Child's Heart is now on Amazon

Connect with Melinda: melinda@melindapatrick.org

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25 Sep 2024Dr. Linda Seiler - ROGD: the latest trend in LGBTQ, 3 Catagories of Transgender Disorder and Practical Helps for Parents with an LGBTQ-identified Child - Part Two {Eps 67}00:27:50

In episode 67 of The Bridge Between Us, host Melinda Patrick's returning guest, Dr. Linda Seiler, discusses what is happening in the culture and why we are seeing an uprise in transgender disorder.

Listeners will discover:

  • The 3 categories of transgender
  • ROGD - Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria and its roots
  • practical application and resources for families and the Church 

 

Dr. Linda Seiler is the author of Trans-Formation: A Former Transgender Responds to LGBTQ, the executive director of ReStory Ministries, an ordained Assemblies of God minister, and a National Chi Alpha missionary. 

 

Did you miss these prior episodes that were mentioned?

Eps 66 - Part One with Dr. Linda Seiler

 

Books mentioned:

Trans-Formation: A Former Transgender Responds To The LGBTQ by Dr. Linda Seiler.

Irreversible Damage: The Transgender Craze Seducing Our Daughters by Abigail Shier

Desist, Detrans & Detox: Getting Your Child Out of the Gender Cult by Maria Keffler

 

ReStory Ministries Quick Guide

 

Connect with Dr. Linda Seiler:

Linda Seiler

ReStory Ministries

 

Register for the ReStoried24 Conference

 

Speakers at ReStoried24 who have previously been a guest on The Bridge Between Us:

Andrew Rodriguez - Eps 45 and Eps 33

Joe Dallas - Eps 17

Dr. Linda Seiler - Eps 66 

 

Order Melinda Patrick's new book:  The Daring Rescue - Joining Jesus Christ In His Pursuit Of Your LGBTQ-Identified Child's Heart

 

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Leave an honest review on iTunes or your favorite podcast app. Your ratings and reviews help get this message of hope into the hands of hurting families, and I read each one. 😊

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09 Nov 2022What Your LGBTQ- identified Loved One Needs From You {Eps 10}00:11:03

If you are praying, you should be preparing.

Listen to hear 4 things your loved one needs from you because what you do in the wait matters for eternity. 

Watch this message LIVE beginning at minute 19:00.

02 Oct 2024Garry Ingraham - Am I Gay? How God Pursued an LGBTQ-identified Man And Won His Heart {Eps 68}00:31:40

Hey friend, do you feel hopeless and overwhelmed? Are there days you think your loved one may be too far gone, and this is how life will always be?

In this episode of The Bridge Between Us podcast, author and ministry leader Garry Ingraham joins our host, Melinda Patrick.  Your heart will be encouraged and your burden lightened as Garry shares how the Holy Spirit pursued him and won his affection.   

Garry is the podcast host for Love & Truth Network and the author of Am I Gay? He and his wife, Melissa, founded Love & Truth Network, a national, non-profit ministry focused on equipping Christian leaders to develop safe and transformational environments with the purpose of restoring sexual wholeness and Biblical identity.

Listeners will discover:

*ways the enemy can get a foothold in our children's lives

*the power and pursuit of the Holy Spirit in the lives of those we pray for

*the importance of shepherding our children's hearts

 

Connect with Garry Ingraham:

Love & Truth Network

 

Mentions:

Listen here to Melinda's interview on Love & Truth Network

Restored Hope Network

 

Bible verses:

Proverbs 20:17

James 1:8

1 Corinthians 6:18

 

To share your thoughts or to send a question:

Send Melinda an email to: melinda@melindapatrick.org

Please leave an honest review on ITunes or your favorite podcast app. Your ratings and reviews help get this message of hope into the hands of hurting families, and I read each one. 😊

Make sure to ‘Follow’ the Bridge Between Us Podcast on Itunes so you don’t miss an episode.

Subscribe to our newsletter now. https://mailchi.mp/1e8513b0df62/the-daring-rescue

Purchase Melinda's new book - The Daring Rescue: Joining Jesus Christ In His Pursuit Of Your LGBTQ-identified Child's Heart

*These show notes contain affiliate links.  If you purchase a book through one of these links, I will make a commission at no extra cost to you.​

12 May 2023Encouragement and Hope For All Moms: The Grieving Mother, The Mother Who Has Been Blocked Or Distanced From Her Child, The Mother Who Struggles With Mom Guilt and the Mom Who Is Doing Her Best To Stand Strong {Eps 27}00:26:05
26 Nov 2024Three Ways You Can Better Connect With Your LGBTQ-Identified Child with Ron Patrick {Eps 74}00:34:51

Today, I have a very special guest joining me on The Bridge Between Us podcast - my husband, Ron Patrick.  

Listen in as we discuss 3 steps you can take to better connect with your LGBTQ-identified child's heart. 

23 Nov 2022One Tip Thursday - One Way We Praise Jesus Only On This Side Of Heaven00:02:01

Isaiah 6 - In the year that King Uzziah died, I saw the Lord...

When we get to heaven, we will spend our days praising our Lord and Savior. But this side of heaven offers us a way to praise Him that isn't offered when we see Him face to face. 

A sacrifice of praise is only possible on this side of heaven. 

Don't get to heaven having missed out on the opportunity. Start praising Him today amid heartbreak and conflict.

17 Jan 2024Dean Greer - Two Important Things You Can Do As A Parent To Help Your LGBTQ identified Child {Eps 50}00:32:08

So much of this journey is out of our control. But, what if there were a few things we could be doing? 

Join Melinda and her guest, Dean Greer, as they discuss two important things you can do to help your child and ways you can be ready when they say "Yes" to Jesus. 

 

Oasis:
 
Living Waters Guidebook:
 
LW Teaching Videos:
19 Mar 2025Nate Oyloe - Pray the Gay Away: Is It Possible and How To Respond To Your Child When They Feel God Isn't Listening {Eps 88}00:38:28

For many parents, when their child shares with them they experience same-sex attraction or gender disphoria, one thing they will also hear is: "I have prayed and prayed and asked God to take it away but He hasn't."

As parents, many of us have done the same thing: we have prayed and prayed and God doesn't appear to be answering.

In today's episode, Nate Oyloe - ministry leader of Agape First Ministries, joins Melinda Patrick.  Nate shares a portion of his own healing journey, but he also share how parents can respond when their child doesn't feel as though God is answering their prayers. 

In this powerful episode, listeners will hear:

*how to respond to your child's disspointment in God seemingly not answering his/her prayer

*one thing that can disempower parents

*God's desing for healing within the family

 

 

Connect with Nate Oyloe: Agape First Ministries

 

Other mentions:

Restored Hope Network

Living Waters

 

Other TBBU episodes mentioned:

Dean Greer - Part One

Dean Greer - Part Two

 

Please share this episode with others. 

If you haven't left a review for The Bridge Between Us Podcast, please take 1-3 minutes to do so.  This helps other parents to know if this is the right podcast for them. 

 

 

 

21 Nov 2023Jessica Rose - From Transgender to Transformed: Ways We Can Build a Bridge To Our Children and Be Prepared To Walk Out the Healing Journey with Them00:56:38

We pray and cry out to God to set our children and the LGBTQ Community free but are we prepared for how it will look?  Are we ready to receive with open arms those finding freedom?

 

In our episode today, Jessica Rose, a former trans-man - now Child of God and Daughter of the King shares with Melinda portions of her healing journey.  Listen in to learn:

*Questions to ask your child if they come to you sharing their gender dysphoria or same-sex attraction

*Ways parents and the Church can be a part of the healing process

*what to expect in the transformation process

 

If Jessica Rose's story has brought you hope and encouragement, will you please share it with 5 other people?  Where the world is shouting loud that transformation isn't possible, we need to share more boldly that with God, all things are possible

Mentions in the episode:

Jessica's TikTok video on her coming out to her church

Ken William's Book and resources: The Journey Out

Restored Hope Network Hope 2024 Conference

 

If you are looking for community during the Christmas season, I will be hosting a Zoom meeting 3 times in December.  Please email: melinda@melindapatrick.org for more information.

 

11 Jun 2024Dee Barnes - A True Encounter With Jesus Christ Changes Everything {Eps 59}00:15:42
17 Dec 2022Our Reason For Celebrating plus an announcement for 2023 {Eps 15}00:08:49

The holidays have a way of magnifying our pain and the brokenness in our families. 

Listen in to hear the reason for the season and why we should celebrate more than ever.

Share this podcast with someone else who needs hope this Christmas season. 

              Light a candle.

             Then, email me: melinda@melindapatrick.org for more information about joining us for the fast January 8 - January 28, 2023.

For more encouragement, listen to these past episodes -

 Eps 12 - How To Survive The Holidays When You Really Just Want To Skip Them

Eps 11 - How To Live A Life That Points Others To Jesus

Eps 9 Living In The Unshakable Victory Of Christ with Judy Dunagan

Eps 8 The Truth About Spiritual Disappointment and How It May Not Be A Bad Thing

One last reminder:  This is the last podcast episode for 2022.  The Bridge Between Us will be back on January 4. 

My prayer for you today comes from Romans 15:13 - May the God of Hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in Him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.

God has entrusted this journey and our loved ones to us. He is asking us to engage with Him on this journey.  As we do, He promises to equip us every step of the way.

Until January 4th – I wish you a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!  Talk to you in 2023, friends!

11 Dec 2024Wynn Thompson - A Story Of Redemption In One Man's Life Setting Him Free From Abuse and Addiction {Eps 76}00:59:04
18 Jun 2024God Is Still Transforming Lives {Eps 61}00:04:02
28 Oct 2024Daniel Mingo - How The Heart Of A Father Can Impact The LGBTQ Community {Eps 70}00:46:29

Fathers not only impact their children, but they also impact the generations to come. 

Today, Daniel Mingo, ministry leader of Abba's Delight, joins host Melinda Patrick.  

Daniel shares a small portion of his testimony and then opens his heart to us as a father.  

In this episode, you will discover:

*one of the best ways to engage your child

*what to do when parent guilt hits

 

To connect with Daniel Mingo:

Abba's Delight Ministry

 

To connect with Melinda Patrick:

melinda@melindapatrick.org

 

Purchase Melinda Patrick's newest book - The Daring Rescue: Joining Jesus Christ In His Pursuit Of Your LGBTQ-Identified Child's Heart

 

29 Sep 20225 Ways To Love Your LGBTQ Identified Child Without Compromising Truth {Eps 4}00:07:37

I will be the first to admit I have made more than my share of mistakes on this journey.  

Listen in to discover 5 ways God has taught me to love my child.

Here are the mentioned links:

Freedom March

Restored Hope Network

Changed Movement

Previous Episode with Ashley Little

I would love for you to email me at melinda@melindapatrick.org and let me know what topics you want to hear about or any questions you would like answered.  I promise to keep it anonymous. 

Please share this podcast with another parent.

10 Jan 2024Dean Greer - Mom, Dad, I'm Gay and HIV Positive. How Do You Like Me Now? {Eps 49}00:31:06
13 Sep 2023Lindsey Kiser - Taking Territory Back: How To Release The Power of God In Your Prayers for Your LGBTQ+ identified Loved One, Part Two {Eps 38}00:40:22

Today's episode is a continuing conversation with Lindsey Kiser.  We dive d e e p into her book  and discuss how to release the power of God in our prayers for our LGBTQ+ loved ones.  To say we get a little passionate may be an understatement but how can you not get excited about all God has done for us and how He has equipped us! 

Listen in to hear:

*why Lindsey wrote 'Piercing the Night: Strategic Intercession to Set The LGBTQ+ Captives Free 

*How to release the power of God in your prayers

*How intercession raids the Enemy's camp

 

Lindsey Kiser's testimony:

The Lord's Pursuit 

 

Connect with Lindsey Kiser:

IG

FB

Website

Book:

Piercing the Night: Strategic Intercession to Set the LGBTQ+ Captives Free

 

Other related podcast episodes:

Part One with Lindsey Kiser: Piercing the Night {Eps. 37}

Co-laboring with Jesus Christ as Intercessors for the LGBTQ Community, Prodigals, and the Next Generation with Wilna van Beek {Eps 23}

When Pride Met Humility and an LGBTQ Protestor Became A Jesus Follower with Wilna van Beek {Eps 14}

How To Live a Life That Points Others to Jesus {Eps 11}

 

Other mentions:

Transformation Ministries Alliance 

 

Contact Melinda:  melinda@melindapatrick.org

 

06 Sep 2023Lindsey Kiser - Piercing the Night: Strategic Intercession to Set the LGBTQ+ Captives Free- Part One {Eps 37}00:43:51
07 Dec 2022Wilna van Beek - Part Two: When Pride Met Humility and an LGBTQ Protester Became A Jesus Follower {Eps 14 }00:40:02

Today's conversation is part two of Melinda and Wilna's conversation.  

In this episode, Melinda and Wilna are open and raw with their own wrestlings. You will discover:

*the best way to combat pride

*how to best love your LGBTQ-identified loved one

*one thing we can do as the Body of Christ to equip the church for the LGBTQ 

Other podcast episodes mentioned:

Eps 7 - A Former Lesbian's Lifelong Search For Love And How The Church Played An Active Role

Eps 11 - How To Live A Life That Points Others To Jesus 

Eps 12  - How To Survive The Holidays When You Really Want To Skip Them

Scripture reference:  Colossians 2:15

13 Oct 2023A Mother's Response to Andy Stanley {Eps. 40}00:29:31

If you are looking for a biblically based ministry for parents or those with same-sex attraction or gender dysphoria,  Restored Hope Network and Transformational Ministries Alliance can connect you with groups, counselors and churches that have been vetted.

Connect with Melinda:  melinda@melindapatrick.org

Joe Dallas' Response to Andy Stanley's Controversial Conference

 

Previous related episodes:

Andrew Rodriguez - We Are Talking Boundaries, Defining Compassion and Unpacking Why It Is Impossible To Show Compassion If We Aren't Also Sharing Truth {Eps. 33}

Joe Dallas - Christians In A Cancel Culture {Eps. 17}

Jon Sowell - Recognizing Counterfeit Intimacy and How To Meet The Need Legitimately {Eps. 21}

Deborah Barr - A Former Lesbian's Lifelong Search For Love And How The Church Played An Active Role {Eps 7}

The Truth About Spiritual Disappointment and How It May Not Be A Bad Thing {Eps 8}

Lindsey Kiser: Taking Territory Back: How To Release The Power Of God In Your Prayers For Your LGBTQ+ Loved One

Angel Colon: The Healing Process and Discovering True Freedom From an LGBTQ Identity

 

Books:

A Sacred Sorrow: Reaching Out To God In the Lost Language of Lament by Michael Card

When Homosexuality Hits Home by Joe Dallas

The Gay Gospel?: How Pro-Gay Advocates Misread the Bible by Joe Dallas

Speaking of Homosexuality: Discussing the Issues with Kindness & Clarity by Joe Dallas

Trans-Formation: A Former Transgender Responds to LGBTQ by Dr. Linda Seiler PhD

Piercing the Night: Strategic Intercession To Set the LGBTQ Captives Free by Kathryn Lindsey Kiser

14 Sep 2022Dee Barnes - LGBTQ + Christian Identity and How Truth Spoken From An Unlikely Source Set A Lesbian Free {Eps 2}00:26:58

Are you weary in hope?  Is the flame of your faith down to an ember?  

Listen in today as The Bridge Between Us host Melinda Patrick and Founder of His Wonderful Works, Dee Barnes, talk about how Truth, spoken to Dee from an unlikely source, set her free and :

*why testimonies are so important

*the differing views on Christian doctrine, identity, and homosexuality

You will be encouraged and discover how to better love and pray for your LGBTQ-identified loved one. 

Links to ministries mentioned in Eps 2:

His Wonderful Works, Inc.

Restored Hope Network

Joe Dallas

Changed Movement

Portland Fellowship and the 4 Lanes download

Laura Perry

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06 Dec 2023Andrew Rodriguez -Relational Roots of Same-Sex Attraction and the Importance of Attachment and Community {Eps 45}00:43:51

We have heard the saying, 'Just pray it away'.  This can lead to shame, disappointment, and isolation. God uses the Body of Christ to bring healing.  We heal in community.  If so, how can we best be a healing community for our loved ones? 

In today's episode, Christian counselor Andrew Rodriguez shares ways God uses families and community to bring healing. 

PsychoBible - Andrew Rodriguez's YouTube Channel

Andrew's video mentioned in The Bridge Between Us: 

Andy Stanley, Unconditional Conference, and Pope Francis: Christianity's Sexuality Crisis Evaluation

 

Other mentioned TBBU podcast episodes:

Eps. 7 with Deborah Barr

Eps. 33 with Andrew Rodriguez

 

 

16 Jun 2023How to Discern The Voice Of The Lord and Ways The Lord Speaks To Us - Part 3 with Julie Holmquist {Eps 30}00:31:34

Thoughts run through our head on a daily basis.  How do we determine if they are our thoughts or the voice of the Lord wanting to speak to us?  

 

Today's episode is the final of a 3-part series with Julie Holmquist, the Kairos Moments Podcast host.  In this episode we share ways the Lord speaks to us and how to determine it is His voice and not our own. 

 

29 Aug 2022The Bridge Between Us Trailer00:03:53
11 Jan 2023Joe Dallas with Christians In A Cancel Culture: How To Walk In The Tension of Grace & Truth When Homosexuality Hits Home {Eps. 17}00:46:04

The most common question I receive from parents is, "How do I continue to love my child well and not compromise my values and beliefs as a follower of Jesus Christ?"

As parents, we are not only dealing with the shock and heartbreak of our children coming out to us, but we also need to learn how to walk in the tension of grace & truth.

Joe Dallas is an author, speaker, and ordained pastoral counselor and joining Melinda on the podcast today. 

Listen in to discover:

*Important questions we should ask our loved one

*starting points for the church to come alongside parents with children who have embraced an LGBTQ identity

*How to walk in the balance of grace & truth

 

Joe's testimony      (scroll to the bottom and click on 'More About Joe' to hear Joe share his testimony)

The Challenge For Pastors

When Someone You Love is Gay course

www.joedallas.com

Books:

Christians In A Cancel Culture

When Homosexuality Hits Home

 

Please forward this podcast to another parent, pastor or ministry leader and make sure you are following The Bridge Between Us Podcast on your favorite podcast app. 

If you have left a rating and review, THANK YOU!  Every review helps get the podcast into the hands of more listeners. 

If you would like to connect with me, email: melinda@melindapatrick.org

 

Thank you for listening and for sharing!

29 Aug 2023Wisdom and Advice for Parents Rearing an LGBTQ Identified Child in the Home {Eps 36}00:23:54

Today Melinda is answering a listener's question:  'What words of wisdom and advice can you give to parents who are rearing an LGBTQ identified child in their home?' 

In this episode you will discover five key things that will equip you on this journey. 

We would love to answer your question or speak on a topic that you are wanting to know more about. Email Melindamelinda@melindapatrick.org

Recommended Reading:

Boundaries by Dr. Henry Cloud and John Townsend

Women In The Word by Jen Wilkin

The Gay Gospel? How Pro-Gay Advocates Misread the Bible by Joe Dallas

 

Past episodes that relate to this episode:

Eps 24 with Cameron Diamond: Steps You Can Take As A Parent To Disciple And Be A Source Of Healing For Your Child In The Midst of an LGBTQ AGenda

Eps 17 CHRISTIANS IN A CANCEL CULTURE: HOW TO WALK IN THE TENSION OF GRACE & TRUTH WHEN HOMOSEXUALITY HITS HOME WITH JOE DALLAS

Eps 11 HOW TO LIVE A LIFE THAT POINTS OTHERS TO JESUS with Charity Ellis

Eps 33  with ANDREW RODRIGUEZ – WE ARE TALKING BOUNDARIES, DEFINING COMPASSION AND UNPACKING WHY IT IS IMPOSSIBLE TO SHOW COMPASSION IF WE AREN’T ALSO SHARING TRUTH 

Eps 34 -Luis Ruiz PART ONE – WHAT CAN HAPPEN WHEN PARENTS CHANGE THE GAME AND JOIN JESUS CHRIST IN HIS PURSUIT OF THEIR LGBTQ_IDENTIFIED CHILD

Eps 3 Ashley Little – HOW TO COME ALONGSIDE YOUR LGBTQ LOVED ONE TO BRING HEALING & FREEDOM

26 Jul 2023Andrew Rodriguez - We Are Talking Boundaries, Defining Compassion and Unpacking Why It Is Impossible to Show Compassion If We Aren't Also Sharing Truth - Eps 3300:48:22

Compassion is at the forefront of my conversation today with licensed Christian psychotherapist and host of the PsychoBible Youtube channel, Andrew Rodriguez.  

PsychoBible Youtube

 

Andrew's 2 writings for the Christian Post: 

A Christian Psychotherapist's Appeal To LGBTQ Affirming Christian

True Compassion Starts With Truth

 

 

20 Apr 2023Co-laboring With Jesus Christ as Intercessors For the LGBTQ Community, Prodigals, and the Next Generation with Wilna van Beek {Eps. 23}00:43:08

Join Melinda and Wilna van Beek in today's powerful and equipping episode of The Bridge Between Us Podcast. 

Wilna is no stranger to our Bridge community as she was a guest on Episode 13 and Episode 14 in the fall of 2022. 

 

Today, Wilna van Beek shares how we as intercessors can co-labor with Jesus Christ. 

 

Links:  

Wilna van Beek FB

RHN Hope Conference 2023, June 9 - 10

 

Scripture references:

John 3:5-6

Ezekiel 11:19

Psalm 25 & 51

Jude 22-23

 

https://melindapatrick.org/

17 Nov 2022One Tip Thursday - Pave The Way To True Friendship00:02:03

We all want to be seen, heard, known, and loved.  Listen in to today's episode for one tip that will lead to deeper friendships.

29 Mar 2024A Love Like No Other with Wayne Blakely {Eps 52}00:44:09
15 Nov 2023Ways To Thrive This Holiday Season When Skipping Isn't An Option {Eps 42}00:26:16

Let's be honest: holidays are the greatest revealers of problems in a family.  For many of us, we would rather skip them and wake up on January 2.  But what if there was a way to survive and thrive during the holiday?  

Listen in as Melinda shares 8 tips on how to survive the season.  

 

Previous episodes that are mentioned:  

Boundaries and True Compassion - Eps33

Go Low - Eps 11

The Loudest Roar - Eps 9

 

Connect with Melinda:  melinda@melindapatrick.org

 

 

 

14 Jun 2024Ashley Little - When God Radically Stepped In And Exchanged Her LGBTQ Identity for A Daughter Of The King {Eps. 60}00:18:46
19 Oct 2022Debora Barr - A Former Lesbian's Lifelong Search For Love And How The Church Played An Active Role {Eps 7}00:32:25

To hear Debora Barr's episode with Clarisse Ottley - her women's ministry leader - listen to episode 50 here: Transformed By The Word

All Things New: A Former Lesbian’s Lifelong Search For God by Debora Barr – available on Amazon.com and on https://www.DBarrMinistries.org 

Find other resources on Debora’s website at - https://www.DBarrMinistries.org

13 Nov 2024Alicia Michelle - How To Show Up With Emotional Confidence with Family and Friends During The Holidays {Eps 72}00:44:29

Hey friend, are you feeling anxious about the holidays? Do you find yourself wondering how to handle difficult moments in family functions? 

I imagine you want to show up well for your family and friends at the Thanksgiving table or gatherings during Christmas.  You wouldn't be here if you didn't. 

But, let's be honest. It can oftentimes be difficult when there is division and pain in our lives.

We aren't powerless, though.

We may not can control others but we can control ourselves. 

In this episode of The Bridge Between Us, coach, author and podcast host, Alicia Michelle, joins Melinda Patrick. 

Drawing from Alicia Michelle's personal and professional experience, they unpack 3 steps you can take that will set you up for success in relationships over the days ahead. 

Listeners will discover:

*the importance of acknowledging where you are emotionally

*how to lean into God's clarity for situations

*you have the power to choose where you want to emotionally dwell

It's not too late to gain emotional confidence!

Call to ACTION:

Make a list for this season using Phillipians 4:8 as a template.  

 

Connect with Alicia Michelle:

Link to get Chapter 1 of the book for free: https://AliciaMichelle.com/free-chapter
 
Site Link: AliciaMichelle.com
 
Podcast: The Christian Mindset Coach Podcast (link is for Apple Podcasts)
 
IG: @aliciamichellecoach

Order Alicia Michelle's new book: Emotional Confidence here.

 

Connect with Melinda Patrick:

Email: melinda@melindapatrick.org

Order Melinda Patrick's book The Daring Rescue here:

Click HERE for more information or to register for the FREE holiday webinar with Ashley and Melinda. 

To share your thoughts:

Leave a note in the comment section below or send me an email to: melinda@melindapatrick.org

Leave an honest review on ITunes or your favorite podcast app. Your ratings and reviews help get this message of hope into the hands of hurting families and I read each one. 😊

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Subscribe to our newsletter now. https://mailchi.mp/1e8513b0df62/the-daring-rescue

Thanks for listening to this episode of The Bridge Between Us Podcast with Melinda Patrick. To find out more, go to www.melindapatrick.org. Once you are there, you can check out the many resources that Melinda has available.

You can also book Melinda for your next speaking engagement.  For more information, the speaking tab is at the top of the page at www.melindapatrick.org.

Thank you for listening in today, be sure to join us next time for
another episode of The Bridge Between Us with Melinda Patrick.

04 Apr 2025Being Your Own Advocate: Questions to Consider As You Create Your Support Team {Eps 90}00:20:23

Welcome to The Bridge Between Us Podcast, where we navigate the challenges and opportunities of walking alongside LGBTQ-identified loved ones from a Biblical perspective. Hosted by Melinda Patrick, today’s solo episode is all about being your own advocate as you build a support team for your personal journey.

In Today’s Episode, You’ll Hear About:

  • The importance of a support system and how Jesus’ story of raising Lazarus teaches us that no one walks the journey alone.
  • The need for Godly counsel and guidance in your healing process.
  • Signs to look for that indicate you might need professional help, including counselors or therapists, to aid you through grief or trauma.
  • How to interview a counselor to ensure they align with your Biblical convictions and are a good fit for your needs.
  • Practical questions you should ask potential counselors to be your own advocate.
  • The role of trusting in God’s process and finding freedom not just for your loved one, but for yourself too.

Key Scriptures Discussed:

  • John 11:44 – The story of Lazarus: Jesus doesn’t expect us to walk alone.
  • Galatians 6:2 – Carry one another's burdens and fulfill the law of Christ.
  • Romans 8:28-29 – God works all things for our good and transforms us into the image of His Son.
  • Proverbs 11:14, 20:5, 24:6 – The wisdom and safety found in seeking godly counsel.

Key Takeaways:

  • Building a support team of friends, prayer warriors, counselors, and more is essential to emotional and spiritual healing.
  • A biblical counselor can provide guidance and a fresh perspective when you're stuck in grief or difficult circumstances.
  • As a self-advocate, you have the right to interview and find the right counselor who aligns with your values.
  • Healing and freedom aren’t just for your loved one—they’re for YOU too. Your journey is just as much about your own transformation.

Red Flags: Signs You May Need Help

Melinda shares some red flags to watch for to determine if you might be struggling with grief or trauma:

  1. Difficulty remembering the last time you laughed or enjoyed time with loved ones.
  2. Struggling to engage in activities you once loved.
  3. Feeling emotionally drained by everyday tasks.
  4. Avoiding people or conversations.
  5. Trouble celebrating others’ successes.
  6. Feeling overwhelmed by bitterness, guilt, or sadness.

Questions to Ask Your Counselor:

  • How does your Christian faith influence your approach to therapy?
  • What’s your view on marriage and gender?
  • What do you believe about homosexuality, and how does that affect your counseling approach?
  • Do you see the Bible as the final authority in your practice?

These questions will help you determine if a counselor aligns with your faith and values before diving deeper into the therapeutic process.

Resources Mentioned:

 

Want to Connect?
Melinda loves to hear from listeners! If you’re navigating your own journey, need encouragement, or want to share your story, feel free to email Melinda at melinda@melindapatrick.org.

Don't forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with someone who might need it.

Until next time, remember:
God has entrusted this journey to you. As you engage with Him, He will equip you for each next step.

 

*Disclaimer:
The opinions and advice shared on this podcast are intended for informational purposes and are not a substitute for professional counseling. Always seek appropriate guidance and support for your personal needs.

16 Nov 2022How To Live a Life That Exhibits To Love Your LGBTQ identified Child: More Of Him, Less Of Us with Charity Ellis {Eps 11}00:24:03

We all want to live a life of victory, but what does that look like? 

Join Melinda Patrick and her guest, Charity Ellis, as they discuss living a life that points others to Jesus.

www.melindapatrick.org

16 Mar 2024Billie Jauss - How To Tackle The Disturbing Thoughts That Keep You Up At Night {Eps. 51}00:35:55

We all have them  -- the unwanted and ill-timed thoughts that want to control your day or interrupt your much-needed sleep.  You know, the ones where you are sound asleep and then rudely awakened by worry, fear, doubt, or grief.  

In today's episode, author Billie Jauss joins host Melinda Patrick. Billie leads us through 5 simple steps to minimize distracting thoughts and achieve more peace.  

 

Meet our guest, Billie Jauss:

https://www.billiejauss.com/

 

Other related episodes:

Eps. 9 with Judy Dunagan - The Loudest Roar: Living In the Unshakeable Victory of Christ

Eps 22 with Dr. Sharon Elliott - Didn't See THAT Coming: When How They're Living Is Not How You Raised Them

Eps 38 with Lindsey Kiser - Taking Territory Back: How To Release The Power Of God In Your Prayers

 

Episodes with Andrew Rodriguez:

Eps 45 

Eps 33

 

Upcoming Conferences:

Transformational Ministries Alliance EPIC Conference 2024 - May 30-June 1, 

Restored Hope Network HOPE 2024 Conference- June 21-22

 

For Book Launch Information: 

Email:  melinda@melindapatrick.org

03 Jan 2024Lori Margo: Tracking God - Positioning Ourselves to See God In the Midst Of A Difficult Season {Eps 48}00:40:28

Lori Margo is joining in the conversation today with Melinda.  Lori is no stranger to difficult seasons and wondering where God is. It is through one particular heartbreaking time in Lori's life that she came to understand the importance of tracking God in her life and the life of her family. Today, Lori equips others to track God and watch peace rule where panic once controlled. 

Listen in today to learn: 

*the importance of tracking God

*where to uncover the deep gifts of God

*and how to document your faith and watch God surprise you

Scriptures mentioned:

Habakkuk Chapters 1-3

Philippians 4:4-9

Matthew 11:28-30

Psalm 77

 

Connect with Lori Margo:

Tracking God quiz

https://lorimargo.com/

 
For More information on the Restored Hope Conference:
 
 
To connect with Melinda, please email: melinda@melindapatrick.org

 

03 Aug 2023Luis Ruiz - Part One - What Can Happen When Parents Change The Game and Join Jesus Christ In His Pursuit of Their LGBTQ-Identified Child {Eps 34}00:30:26

Listen in to hear:

*Why Luiz stopped bringing boyfriends home

*How Luiz's parents changed the game 

*What happened when Luiz's parents decided to partner with Jesus Christ in pursuit of their son

 

Connect with Luiz Ruiz:

IG

Rainbow Revival

More Than A Victim Documentary

 

21 Jun 2023Dr. Saundra Dalton-Smith: Recover Your Life, Renew Your Energy, Restore Your Sanity {Eps 31}00:32:13

It's not about having the right child. It's about being the right parent. If this is true, what are some practical things we can begin to apply to our life to be the best parent?  

In today's episode, Dr. Saundra Dalton-Smith, a Board-Certified Internal Medicine Physician, speaker, and author, is talking about the importance of rest and the seven types of rest. 

Listen in, and you will discover:

*how your rest benefits your child

*the 7 types of rest

*how to implement rest into your life

 

To connect with Dr. Saundra Dalton Smith:

FB

IG

Website: Dr. Saundra Dalton-Smith

Books:

Sacred Rest: Recover Your Life, Renew Your Energy, Restore Your Sanity

Set Free to Live Free: Breaking Through the 7 Lies Women Tell Themselves

 

Connect with Melinda Patrick:  melinda@melindapatrick.org

18 May 2023How To Hear The One Voice That Matters and Seven Words That Can Change The Trajectory Of The One Your Are Praying For {Eps 28}00:26:29

The best way to pray and intercede is to hear the Father's heart regarding your loved one and the situation. But how can we do that if we aren't sure if He speaks and we don't know how to listen to His voice?  

In today's episode, Julie Holmquist, podcast host of Kairos Moments, is joining me.  

Listen in to discover 3 keys to positioning yourself to hear God's voice: 

*Expect the unexpected.

*Practice His presence.

* Be willing to be set apart. 

 

Other episodes that encourage listening to the Father's voice: 

Eps 26 - Derek Paul on Transformation, Personal Responsibility in Healing  

Eps 23 - Wilna van Beek in Colaboring with Jesus Christ As Intercessors For The LGBTQ Community

Eps 14 - Wilna van Beek When Pride Met Humility

 

Connect with our guest, Julie Holmquist:

Julie Holmquist

The Kairos Moment

Julie's IG

 

Scriptures mentioned: 

John 6:63, 68

Ephesians 5:1-2

1 Samuel 3

Isaiah 55

 

Upcoming conferences:

Restored Hope Network online Hope Conference - June 9-10

Transformational Ministries Alliance in-person Epic Transformation Conference - June 22-24

 

Connect with Melinda Patrick: melinda@melindapatrick.org

15 Jan 2025January Littlejohn- Steps to Take to Protect Your Child From Gender Ideology in the School System {Eps 80}00:40:52

It will never happen to our child, our family, or in our school.  Words from almost every parent across America.  

Until it does.

January Littlejohn and her husband thought the same thing until one day, everything changed. 

Listen in to Melinda Patrick's conversation with January Littlejohn and learn what questions you need to be asking, signs you need to be looking for in your school system, and what you can do to help your child.  

 

Connect with January Littlejohn: 

 https://donoharmmedicine.org/share-your-concern/

 

Dr. Miriam Grossman notice to schools: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1IECbkuP4QZ20ZOdfrF3DtILlMGqO2Leq/edit

 

Resources mentioned:

Christian Resources on Gender Ideology

Books and articles:
The Church Transgender Response Guide - https://childparentrights.org/church-transgender-
response-guide/


For the Body by Timothy Tennent 

When Harry Became Sally - by Ryan Anderson


Lost in Trans Nation – by Dr. Miriam Grossman 


Perfected with Love- by Walk Heyer -

https://www.theamericanconservative.com/dreher/mary-hasson-parents-pastors-transgender-
gender-ideology-person-and-identity/


Organizations:


The Person and Identity Project- https://personandidentity.com/
Focus on the Family – https://www.focusonthefamily.com/get-help/transgender-resources/
Identity Project - https://identityproject.tv/
Family Research Council - https://www.frc.org/sexuality
Eden’s Redemption - https://edensredemption.org/
Sex Change Regret- https://sexchangeregret.com/

Help 4 Families by Living Stone Ministries - https://livingstonesministries.org/help4families/


Documentaries:
Dysphoria - https://www.fearlessfeatures.org/dysphoria
In His Image - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W3YKpnrzmqc
Tranzformed- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ebodf8rWpv4
Mary Hasson speech- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S96KBTBiYuA
Videos – https://identityproject.tv/watch/how-can-i-respond-to-a-child-or-friend-with-gender-
confusion


Resources to inoculate young children:
Articles:
https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/kids-navigate-transgender-ideology/
https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/tips-talking-kids-transgender/
https://www.focusonthefamily.com/get-help/talking-to-your-children-about-transgender-
issues/
https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/8-things-parents-gender-transition/
https://www.focusonthefamily.com/parenting/different-pronouns-explaining-lgbt-pronoun-
usage-to-our-kids/
https://www.focusonthefamily.com/parenting/reinforce-your-childs-sexual-identity/
https://www.focusonthefamily.com/get-help/what-is-gender-identity/


Children’s Books:


God Made Boys and Girls- Helping Children Understand the Gift of Gender

No More Secrets 

I’m Glad God Made Me a Girl 


Elephants Are Not Birds 


God Made Me in His Image: Helping Children Appreciate Their Bodies – by Justin and Lindsey
Holcomb 


He is He – by Bethan Bomberger 


She Is She – by Bethany and Ryan Bomberger


In the Image of God: A Story of Identity and Value


Secure Daughters, Confident Sons: How Parents Guide Their Children into Authentic Masculinity
and Femininity

 

05 Oct 2022Ronald McCray: Is God Who He Says He Is? {Eps 5}00:28:12

On today's episode, Ronald J McCray joins Melinda Patrick.  

Ronald J. McCray formerly identified as gay for six years. On October 18th, 2009, he had a life-changing encounter with Jesus Christ and began to walk out his journey of freedom from homosexuality.

In this episode you will discover:

*the importance of listening to backstories

*ways you can pray for your loved one

*the power of sharing testimonies

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