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| 08 May 2024 | Exploring the Wisdom of Sexual Fantasies with Artemisia de Vine | 01:06:01 | |
In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I talk with Sexual Fantasy Expert, Artemisia de Vine. Artemisia shares her personal story from her restrictive upbringing through her discovery of sexual fantasies and expanded consciousness to becoming a professional dominatrix. During this conversation, we dive into the exploration of desires rather than suppression of them in forming a healthy relationship with desire for sexual play. Atemisia brings a wealth of training and expertise in creating emotional and psychological safety during sexual play, offering listeners a unique exercise to explore sexual preferences. With insights from her upcoming book "The Spirituality of Smut: The Surprising Wisdom of Sexual Fantasies," Artemisia enlightens us on the transformative power of erotic imagination. Join us as we navigate the journey of embracing our deepest desires for a more satisfying and spiritually connected sex life through fantasy. Connect with Artemisa Free Gift myfantasyis.com Got questions about sex and relationship? Podcast Feedback DeborahTantraKat@Gmail.com Book a breakthrough session with Deborah https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=11737312&appointmentType=60692935 Sex and Relationship tips direct to you Inbox https://deborahkat.us5.list-manage.com/subscribe?u=428b26a12a8810bb5012792c3&id=ff89fb0d94 Learn Relationsh Skills in the Relationship Lab https://www.deborahkat.com/relationship-lab FB https://www.facebook.com/deborah.tantrakat | |||
| 30 Jan 2025 | Flirting and the Feminine with Coco Williams | 00:55:21 | |
In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I talk with Certified Bondassage Trainer, Entrepreneur & Coach, Coco Williams who dives deep with us into the power of feminine energy, the art of flirting, and the journey of personal growth and healing. We talk about how subtle shifts in communication can significantly affect our interactions and relationships and the ways flirting can elevate your mood and energy while also exploring the nuances of flirting across different cultures and the cultural fears around it. Along the way, Coco opens up about her healing journey, including therapy, coaching, and self-reflection techniques all leading her to finding joy in femininity and the empowering aspects of sex work. Coco shares her unique coaching techniques and personal experiences, including stories about the powerful role of maintaining a high vibration to manifest your desires. Learn about the importance of human interaction and flirtation beyond the bedroom, and how embodying specific fantasies in marketing has brought Coco both joy and financial success. You won’t want to miss Coco’s powerful insights and tools to manifest your desires in this fun conversation! Connect with Coco Website - TheHeauxprenuer.com Twitter - https://x.com/theheauxprenuer Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/theheauxprenuer/ Pinterest - SoWellMsBehaved Connect with Deborah Got questions about sex and relationship? Podcast Feedback DeborahTantraKat@Gmail.com Book a breakthrough session with Deborah https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=11737312&appointmentType=60692935 Sex and Relationship tips direct to you Inbox https://deborahkat.us5.list-manage.com/subscribe?u=428b26a12a8810bb5012792c3&id=ff89fb0d94 Practice and experimentation | |||
| 16 Apr 2024 | Unlocking the Power of the Love Goddess with Maya Kova | 00:52:46 | |
In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I talk with Sensuality and Love Coach Maya Kova. Maya's journey began as young woman fascinated by love, propelling her on a path to conquer her own relationship anxiety. Her journey and expertise offer a treasure trove of enlightenment that has the potential to revolutionize your experience with love and desire. With her partner, Maya has navigated the challenges of anxiety and attachment, crafting a grounded and secure co-creative partnership built upon self regulation of your nervous system.
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| 20 Sep 2023 | Parenting Can Be Sexy with Iryna Sulim | 00:39:24 | |
In this episode I talk with Love, Sex & Relationship Coach Iryna Sulim who specializes in men’s empowerment and sexual mastery. Hear Iryna’s journey into Tantra and sacred sexuality and how that has informed her relationships as she becomes a mother. During this conversation, we talk about the dance of the polarities within everyday life of kids, partners and jobs. Iryna shares with us the importance of deep inner self-knowledge and tells us some easy ways to reconnect to your sexy self to share with a partner. Connect with Iryna Website: www.IrynaSulim.com Instagram: https://www. Got questions about sex and relationship? DeborahTantraKat@gmail.com Better Sex Membership https://www.deborahkat.com/turnedon FB https://www.facebook.com/deborah.tantrakat Stay Connected Pillow Talk | |||
| 06 Sep 2023 | The Power of Variations: Exploring Different Strokes, Speeds, and Positions for Better Sex with Will Tantra | 00:49:40 | |
In this episode I talk with Sex Coach, Will Tantra about the practice of Tantra and its impact on enhancing pleasure and intimacy in relationships. Hear about Will’s personal journey in the field of sex coaching and the benefits of practicing edging and energywork during masturbation. We also talk about how to create a masturbation practice to prepare for partnered sex, the role of breath, sound, and movement in experiencing touch and the role porn plays in sexual fantasy. Along the way, Will shares about the need for comprehensive sex education for women as well as men, optimizing pleasure and meditation as a part of sexual practice. Don't miss this enlightening conversation on sexual empowerment and embracing pleasure.
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| 10 Apr 2025 | Tools to Make Sex Talks Easy with Dr. Evelin Dacker | 00:48:40 | |
In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I chat with Sexologist and Educator Dr. Evelin Molina Dacker about the power of open conversations around sexual health at every stage of life. She gets real about her own journey—breaking free from societal expectations and redefining what pleasure looks like, especially through menopause. During this conversation, Dr. Eveline shares her simple but powerful STARS framework to help guide open and shame-free discussions around intimacy. We discuss how this tool can help anyone—whether single or partnered—navigate important conversations about sex with ease and confidence. Along the way, we dive into the emotional and physical changes that come with aging, the surprising joys of this new chapter, and how shifting cultural attitudes are making space for deeper, more honest conversations about desire. We chat about how embracing these changes can lead to greater intimacy and confidence rather than fear or uncertainty. This episode is a reminder that talking about sex shouldn’t be awkward—it should be empowering. You’ll walk away with fresh insights on how to communicate your desires, navigate changes with confidence, and embrace pleasure at any stage of life Connect with Dr Ducker Website - MakeTimeForTheTalk.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sexmeddoc/ Connect with Deborah Questions and Answers Substack: https://substack.com/@deborahkat Podcast Feedback DeborahTantraKat@Gmail.com Book a breakthrough session with Deborah https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=11737312&appointmentType=60692935 Sex and Relationship tips direct to you Inbox https://deborahkat.us5.list-manage.com/subscribe?u=428b26a12a8810bb5012792c3&id=ff89fb0d94 | |||
| 26 Jul 2023 | Smart Men and Sacred Sexuality with Dr. Jessica Harvey | 00:55:22 | |
On this episode I sit down with Tantric Scientist Dr. Jessica Harvey to talk about sexuality as a sacred practice. Hear her story of taking her MIT-trained Organic Chemist academic research skills and applying them to the exploration of consciousness and sacred relating. We dive into the path of Tantric wisdom that teaches sexuality as a sacred path for awakening and liberation from suffering. Dr. Harvey shares her perspectives on emotional intelligence, mens’ sexuality and how to empower men to vulnerably reclaim their desires in ways that also respect and honor women. Jessica shares more about her research into desire, communication and self-care for fostering deeper intimacy. Learn More About Jessica: The Thinking Man's Intimacy Summit: https://www.bliss-science.com/summit Coaching men and couples: https://www.bliss-science.com/ Follow Jessica on IG! https://www.instagram.com/bliss.science/ Become part of the Better Sex Membership https://www.deborahkat.com/turnedon Coaching with Deborah | |||
| 06 Mar 2024 | Prostate Pleasure From The Man Who Wrote The Book with Charlie Glickman | 00:54:32 | |
In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I talk with PhD, Sex and Relationship Coach, Sexuality Educator, and Sexological Bodyworker Charlie Glickman. Charlie shares his extensive experience and wisdom from over three decades of working in the field of sexuality education. We talk about his book, "The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure" providing listeners with an in-depth look at the pleasures and benefits of prostate stimulation for cisgender men, as well as touching on experiences for transgender women, non-binary, and gender-neutral individuals with prostates. As Charlie shares about his own journey to sexual education, he shares about the importance of somatic education in learning about one’s erotic experience. We also talk about anal play sharing methods to overcome common concerns such as fear of pain or concerns about masculinity and sexual orientation. He gives us some valuable tools for respectful language to help create pressure-free sexual environments with your partner. Charlie leaves us with encouragement to embrace sex positivity and an invitation to explore the transformative power of vulnerability in intimate relationships.
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| 05 Dec 2024 | What is Relationship Anarchy? A conversation with Annie Boheler | 00:53:20 | |
In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I talk with holistic mental health pioneer, Annie Boheler. Annie introduces us to the concept of relationship anarchy– a uniquely refreshing approach to relationships that balances chaos and order, recognizing the full range of connections equally. Hear about the influence of drawing from her extensive background in biology, environmental sciences, trauma healing, and psychedelic integration. Annie’s extensive background in biology, environmental sciences, trauma healing, and psychedelic integration influences how she views the range and styles of relationships and the varying factors that play an impactful role to our experiences of autonomy and intimacy. Along the way, we explore her insights on dealing with societal norms like monogamy, and the importance of consent and authentic communication while healing relationships. We also discuss the pervasive impacts of shame and information overload, and how to navigate modern challenges in our relationships. Throughout the conversation, Annie offers us actionable steps to enhance connection and cultivate healthier, more fulfilling relationships. Connect with Annie
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| 30 Oct 2024 | Living a BDSM Life with Alesandra Madison | 00:45:41 | |
In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I talk with BDSM educator and creator of Dom Sub Living, Alesandra Madison. We delve into the dynamic world of Dom/Sub relationships, exploring how BDSM can be both healing and beneficial for partnership.
Alesandra shares a bit of her journey into BDSM as a lifestyle, giving us some invaluable insights into the importance of open communication, mutual respect, and regular check-ins in maintaining healthy relationships. We talk about different styles of BDSM partnership, safety, finding partners, kink in modern culture and how to get started with BDSM.
We also discuss the challenges of balancing a BDSM lifestyle with everyday responsibilities like family and finance. Alesandra tells about the importance of self-care rituals to stay aligned with one's role and gives us a glimpse into some of her personal practices. This conversation is chock full of tips and tidbits from talking to the kids about what they might discover to finding a BDSM partner and everything in between.
Plus, Alesandra gives us a ton of resources from her free library on DomsubLiving.com, and gives us a sneak hint at her upcoming four-day challenge. Don't miss this enlightening conversation filled with practical advice and heartfelt stories to help you navigate your BDSM journey.
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| 04 Oct 2023 | Neurodivergent Love: Autism & Relationships with Tanja Diamond | 01:06:25 | |
In this episode I talk with autistic polymath, maverick leader, business & life strategist and Tantra lineage holder Tanja Diamond. Tanja opens up about her own experiences as an introvert and offers valuable advice on embracing awkwardness during the dating process. https://www.linkedin.com/in/tanjadiamond/ https://learningtantra.com/ Got questions about sex and relationship? DeborahTantraKat@gmail.com Better Sex Membership https://www.deborahkat.com/turnedon FB https://www.facebook.com/deborah.tantrakat Stay Connected Pillow Talk | |||
| 03 Jan 2025 | The Neuroscience of Pleasure & Happiness with Dr. Nan Wise | 00:57:27 | |
In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I speak with the brilliant Neuroscientist, Best-Selling Author, Sex Therapist, & Licensed Psychotherapist Dr. Nan Wise. During this conversation, we dive into the fascinating and transformative topic of "The Neuroscience of Pleasure and Happiness," uncovering how our brains are beautifully designed for connection, joy, and emotional well-being. Along the way, Dr. Wise shares her inspiring journey from therapist to scientist, sparked by her deep curiosity about the powerful impact of pleasure on mental and emotional health. We also explore essential topics like overcoming sexual anxiety, fostering deeper, more authentic relationships, and navigating the challenges of our tech-driven world. Packed with wisdom and insight, this episode gives you some practical takeaways, including powerful exercises like "sensate focus" to reconnect with your body and mindfulness techniques to nurture more fulfilling, joyful connections in your life. Connect with Dr. Nan Author: Why Good Sex Matters: Understanding The Neuroscience of Pleasure for a Smarter, Happier, and More Purpose-Filled Life Website: https://askdoctornan.com Instatgram @AskDoctorNan Connect with Deborah Got questions about sex and relationship? Podcast Feedback DeborahTantraKat@Gmail.com Book a breakthrough session with Deborah https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=11737312&appointmentType=60692935 Sex and Relationship tips direct to you Inbox https://deborahkat.us5.list-manage.com/subscribe?u=428b26a12a8810bb5012792c3&id=ff89fb0d94 Practice and experimentation | |||
| 02 Sep 2024 | Unpacking Sexual Freedom with Mandy Salley | 00:53:01 | |
In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I talk with Licensed Social Worker and Sexual Freedom Advocate, Mandy Salley of the Woodhall Freedom Foundation. In this conversation, we chat about some of the limitations of sexual freedom in the United States, touching on laws against activities like cunnilingus or interracial sex and how outdated these laws have become. We delve into the Comstock Act and its lingering effects on mailing erotic materials and contraception information. Along the way, Mandy shares insights into effective laws that protect sex workers, such as the "Stop Violence in the Sex Trades Act" in New York. Her passion for social justice and sexual freedom is evident as she encourages listeners to engage in open conversations and remain hopeful for change. And of course, Mandy invites us to connect with the Woodhull Freedom Foundation for resources and support in advocating for sexual rights in your area and community Connect with Mandy https://www.woodhullfoundation.org https://www.instagram.com/woodhullfreedom/ https://www.instagram.com/_mandy.salley/
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| 28 Mar 2025 | Fantasies, Secrets & Good Sex with Dr. Toni Bear | 00:58:21 | |
In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I talk with sexologist and intimacy expert Dr. Toni Baer. We dive into sexual identity, fantasies, and the power of secrets in relationships. Dr. Toni shares how her personal journey—from high school teacher to sexologist—was shaped by a deeply personal family tragedy that ignited her passion for helping others embrace their desires and navigate sexual identity. Along the way, we explore common sexual fantasies, why some are better left unspoken, and how privacy and consent shape intimate conversations. Dr. Toni also reveals how secrets can create stress in relationships offering guidance on how to balance openness with discretion. From cultural perspectives on sexuality to vetting within kink and polyamorous communities, this conversation sheds light on how our different backgrounds can shape different desires. Dr. Toni also teases her upcoming TV show, The Voyage of Desire, offering a global look at human passion. Listen in to discover how understanding your fantasies—and the role of secrets in your life—can lead to deeper intimacy and greater self-acceptance. Tune in wherever you listen to podcasts, and don’t forget to like, subscribe, and leave a review! Connect with Dr Toni Website - https://www.tonibearedd.com/ Free Gift: Aphrodite’s Love Secrets https://www.tonibearedd.com/opt-in Annual ReAwakening Women's Retreat in Costa Rica. https://www.tonibearedd.com/retreats Connect with Deborah Got questions about sex and relationship? Podcast Feedback DeborahTantraKat@Gmail.com Book a breakthrough session with Deborah https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=11737312&appointmentType=60692935 Sex and Relationship tips direct to you Inbox https://deborahkat.us5.list-manage.com/subscribe?u=428b26a12a8810bb5012792c3&id=ff89fb0d94 Questions and Answers Substack: https://substack.com/@deborahkat | |||
| 18 Oct 2023 | Breathing Life into Sensuality: Loving your Body through Storytelling | 00:43:12 | |
In this episode I talk with mentor, breathwork teacher, storyteller and creator of the Yoniverse Monologues, Sirena Andrea. Sirena tells us about her work with women telling their stories to release shame around their experiences and desires. She shares her journey as a breathwork practitioner and the transformative power breathwork has for healing and empowerment. In this conversation, we explore the impact the stories we tell about our bodies have on our identities and the effect that has both in and out of the bedroom. We also chat about uncomfortable emotions and how to embrace them better sex and a fuller, more authentic life. Website https://www. FB https://www.facebook.com/ Insta @YoniVerse Monologues Got questions about sex and relationship? DeborahTantraKat@gmail.com Better Sex Membership https://www.deborahkat.com/turnedon FB https://www.facebook.com/deborah.tantrakat Stay Connected Pillow Talk | |||
| 14 Aug 2024 | Sinking into the Art of Seduction with Marla Renee Stewart | 00:45:26 | |
In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I talk with sexologist, author, and sexual strategist Marla Renee Stewart who shares her extensive experience studying human sexuality and running workshops worldwide through her sexuality education company, Velvet Lips and as co-founder of the groundbreaking Sex Down South Conference. Marla shares her own journey, including her move from California to the South, and how it shaped her mission to create spaces for marginalized communities to explore sexual liberation and within the kink world. She also talks about what she’s seen in the evolving landscape of sex and relationship from desire discrepancy to the increasing interest in non-monogamy and kink. Along the way, we get into the importance of seduction for a more satisfying sex life and Marla shares her hot tips on how to seductively spice things up while also challenging the common fantasy around spontaneous sex. Connect with Marla Sex Education https://www.instagram.com/1marlastewart https://www.velvetlipssexed.com/ Sex Down South https://www.instagram.com/sdscon/ Sexcessful Business Coaching Free Gift https://velvetlips.ck.page/5solutions Got questions about sex and relationship? Book a Bedroom Breakthrough session with Deborah https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule/023cee22/appointment/1540942/calendar/302593?appointmentTypeIds[]=1540942 Sex and Relationship tips direct to you Inbox | |||
| 20 Jun 2024 | The Spiritual and Creative Power of Sexual Energy with Lisa Rizzoli | 01:00:09 | |
In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I talk with certified Tantra educator and level two teacher trainer, Lisa Rizzoli. Lisa shares profound insights into the integration of sexual energy with life force energy, and how it can be harnessed to manifest the life we desire. We delve into her journey into Tantra, starting at a transformative retreat at Esalen, and how her experiences shaped her current practices. Lisa introduces a daily meditation practice called "loving myself awake," and discusses how it brings more sensation and awareness into the body. We also explore the spiritual and creative power of sexual energy, as well as techniques like the Yoni egg practice and the "seven-layer transformation" method. Lisa's candid narrative about trusting intuition, overcoming resistance, and transforming trauma offers listeners an enriching perspective on deepening intimacy and enhancing relationships. Connect with Lisa Got questions about sex and relationship? Podcast Feedback DeborahTantraKat@Gmail.com Book a breakthrough session with Deborah https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=11737312&appointmentType=60692935 Sex and Relationship tips direct to you Inbox https://deborahkat.us5.list-manage.com/subscribe?u=428b26a12a8810bb5012792c3&id=ff89fb0d94 Learn Relationsh Skills in the Relationship Lab https://www.deborahkat.com/relationship-lab FB https://www.facebook.com/deborah.tantrakat | |||
| 21 May 2024 | Tech Innovation and Enhancing Erectile Performance with Dr. Elliot Justin | 00:45:51 | |
In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I talk with CEO of Firmtech, Dr. Elliot Justin. Dr. Justin brings his extensive knowledge in medical technology and personal experience to share his innovations towards improved male sexual health and performance.
Beyond the technology available, we talk about the importance of non-rushed, pleasurable sexual experiences, prioritizing regular lovemaking and how planning intimate moments can help maintain the romantic connection between partners. Diving into the science of pleasure a bit, Dr. Justin shares the benefits of regular sexual activity for maintaining penile and overall health, highlighting the role it plays in hormone regulation and relationship satisfaction. Connect with Dr Justin Insta https://www.instagram.com/myfirmtech/ Website https://myfirmtech.com/ Got questions about sex and relationship? Podcast Feedback DeborahTantraKat@Gmail.com Book a breakthrough session with Deborah https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=11737312&appointmentType=60692935 Sex and Relationship tips direct to you Inbox https://deborahkat.us5.list-manage.com/subscribe?u=428b26a12a8810bb5012792c3&id=ff89fb0d94 Learn Relationsh Skills in the Relationship Lab https://www.deborahkat.com/relationship-lab FB https://www.facebook.com/deborah.tantrakat | |||
| 01 Oct 2024 | Voicing Desire with Alexis Ware | 00:51:29 | |
In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I sit down with acupuncturist, theta healer, and sex relationship coach Alexis Ware, for a deep dive into voicing our desires. We explore the fascinating connection between the throat and the clitoris, and how speaking our truth is vital for intimacy and connection in relationships. Along the way, Alexis shares powerful insights on the importance of feeling safe to express our needs and the role open communication plays in fulfilling sexual and emotional connections. As we chat, Alexis reveals her transformative journey through orgasmic meditation, and emphasizes the significance of reclaiming our inherent power and creative potential as women. Together, we dig into the layers of societal conditioning that hold us back, and discuss practical techniques to reclaim our voice, power, and pleasure including a special heart meditation teaching. This episode is packed with wisdom and laughter, as well as actionable steps you can take to unveil your voice and elevate your sex life. Connect with Alexis https://www.instagram.com/alexislaurenware https://www.facebook.com/alexislaurenware for Free Heart meditation sign up for newsletter https://sovereign-university.com/ Connect with Deborah Got questions about sex and relationship? Book a breakthrough session with Deborah
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| 18 Sep 2024 | Understanding Control in Relationship with Dr. Tom Murray | 01:00:05 | |
Is there such a thing as ‘ethical porn’? In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I talk with Sex Therapist Dr. Tom Murray to explore this question as well as pornography trends, erotophobia and different control dynamics as they play out within relationships . Along the way, hear more of Dr. Tom’s story of becoming a sex therapist including time spent with pornography distribution giving him an insider’s view to the industry. Besides exploring the relationship between societal norms, expectations, fantasies and desires, we take a deep dive into control dynamics, namely over-controlling, in relationships, a topic he writes about in his book, “Making Nice with Naughty: An Intimacy Guide.” Dr. Murray gives some ways to bring more playfulness into the bedroom to deepen intimacy and of course, have better sex. Connect with Dr Tom The Book Making Nice with Naughty https://drtommurray.com/books/ Making Nice with Naughty Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC78viRgDA05daSGFVD4QoPg
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| 05 Apr 2023 | Understanding Grief And Sexual Fantasies with Jess DeVries | 00:31:22 | |
| 07 Dec 2022 | The Power of Asking Questions for Better Sex with Eirikah Delaunay | 00:38:11 | |
In today’s episode of The Better Sex Podcast, we will be having conversations with Eirikah Delaunay, a writer, Witch, and sexual rebel who identifies as a white, polyamorous, bisexual, cisgender woman, Dominant-leaning Switch, and sadomasochist. She is also the mother of two amazing adult children, an executive-level academic professional, and previously a monogamous wife of 20 years. Both/and is her magic word.
The founder of Desire Alchemy, she is a somatic sex+relationship coach and initiated priestess who helps people use embodiment, storytelling, and ritual to transform the energy of their own unique desire into fuel for lives of connection and passion. Her mission is to re-ignite and strengthen stale relationships (including the relationship with self) by cultivating true authenticity, practical skills, devotion, and delight.
In her pursuit of deeper connection through language and embodiment, she earned an MFA in Creative Writing, and trained as a sex+relationship coach at the Somatica InstituteTM. She has had the joy of more than a decade of connection, education, and service in the Seattle sex-positive community, where she has served as a “Tasting Top” and guest educator and facilitator on topics ranging from hands-on skills, D/s dynamics, sacred sexuality, and strategies for maintaining intimacy and connection in long-distance relationships. She currently serves on the Board of the Center for Sex-Positive Culture in Seattle.
Her erotic writing appeared in the Seattle Erotic Arts Festival Literary Anthology in 2018-2020 and 2022. Her chapter “Light Your Fire: Ecstatic Embodiment to Fuel Your Dreams” was featured in the Amazon #1 bestseller, Sacred Medicine: Mystical Practices for Ecstatic Living, and her chapter “Turn Yourself On: Embodiment Practices to Jump Start Your Day” was featured in the Amazon #1 bestseller, The Ultimate Guide to Self-Healing Volume 5. She provides individual, partnered, and group coaching for people curious and excited about using effective communication, magic, sexuality, kink, and/or power exchange relationships as vehicles for personal growth and bliss.
Experience better sex and learn the importance of communicating your desires by tuning in to this episode!
Highlights: (05:28) Erikah’s Story (09:41) What does it mean to be polyamorous, bisexual, cisgender, and dominant leaning switch? (15:13) The Power of Asking Questions (18:52) The importance of putting into words what we really want (20:15) How did sex and spirit come together for Erika? (23:00) One of the most powerful ways to raise energy and fuel any intention (25:06) How do asking and desire come together? (30:58) How do we recover and be in the place of desire and connection? (32:24) The Power of NO in Expression and Reception (40:00) The importance of knowing what your partner wants
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Website:desi(re al)chemy Instagram: Eirikah Delaunay (@eirikah) • Instagram photos and videos Linkedtree: https://linktr.ee/eirikah Facebook: Eirikah Delaunay | Facebook https://facebook.com/desire.alchemy
****Catch her at the Seattle Erotic Arts Festival this weekend****
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| 04 Jan 2023 | Better Sex Podcast: Behind the Scenes to Better Sex | 00:58:24 | |
Today on The Better Sex Podcast, we’re doing something a little different! I’m turning the tables (or mic) around and for the first time ever, I’ll be the guest, and my dear friend, Missy Singer DuMars will interview ME! In this intimate conversation, nothing is off-limits! We’ll talk about my early relationships, unique childhood experiences, and how my passion for this work began. Along the way, we’ll chat about how to get your ’sexy’ on, the basics of Tantra, Kink, Communication, and what I see as the Three Pillars to Better Sex all peppered with fun stories!
Missy Singer DuMars, is a conscious businesswoman, a mindful farmer, a curious cook, a spiritual seeker, and the hostess of the Women in Food Podcast.
Highlights: (02:30) How Deborah Entered the World Of Sex and Intimacy (09:11) The Different Possibilities of Relationship and Sex (15:39) Applying Sex and Intimacy from Personal Life to Professional Life (18:21) Where does sexual arousal start? (19:42) Ways to pleasure yourself (21:12) Ticks to make you sexy and feel sexy (21:42 ) Tantra and the Three Basic Broad Techniques (28:33) Unconscious Mistakes That Can Destroy Any Relationship (35:00) Better Sex for Couples (41:50) The Definition of Kink and The Umbrella of BDSM (48:04) Everything You Need to Know About Using Safewords (52:57) The Key Role of Communication in Relationship (01:05:48) Things Everyone Should Know About Relationships
Links: https://bettersexforcouplessummit.com/ Website: https://www.womeninfood.net/ https://www.spiritbizpeople.com/ Https//crownhillfarm.com Instagram: @crownhillfarmny Facebook: Missy Singer DuMars LinkedIn: Missy Singer DuMars | |||
| 03 Aug 2022 | Episode 14: Ethical Non-Monogamy | 00:43:28 | |
Our guests’ beginnings - Suzannah with a political and military background and Andre with a focus on love and relationships - couldn’t be more different, but their meeting transformed their lives. When their traditional marriages ended and forced them to look at how they wanted to live for the first time in a long time, they found each other again and vowed to explore new ways of building relationships and relationship dynamics. Eight years later, Suzannah and Andre work together healing, coaching, and offering guidance to those navigating ethical non-monogamy. In this episode, we explore what ethical non-monogamy means, get tools and practices to navigate it well, and hear how to handle conflict constructively in both monogamous and non-monogamous relationships
Join Suzannah, Andre, and me as we discuss:
About Suzannah and Andre:
Andre Lazarus and Susannah Rose have been coaches and healers over 10+ years, bringing a unique and open perspective to relationship dynamics and helping people expand their capacity of understanding. With a combined 16 years of experience in Consensual Non Monogamous (CNM) dynamics, they are bringing their lessons and tools learned over years of navigating open relationship dynamics through a brand new fully loaded online course coming in April! Learn more at comingcloser.carrd.co/ and follow comingcloserwithandre on IG. Connect with Suzannah and Andre:
Website: comingcloser.carrd.co/
Course: opentomore.mykajabi.com/readytoopen Connect with Deborah: Send your sex and relationship questions to DeborahTantraKat@Gmail.com
For a free Truth and Clarity Session https://www.deborahkat.com/appointments-3
Website: https://www.deborahkat.com/
Email: deborahtantrakat@gmail.com
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| 21 Dec 2022 | How To Be More Confident in Dating with Matchmaker and Dating Coach Dan Silverman | 00:59:31 | |
Dating can be stressful and intimidating at times, but it is also an excellent opportunity to connect with others, especially when you've found a good match. Whether you're a beginner to dating or looking for a refresher course in overcoming your dating fears, this episode is for you!
Today on The Better Sex Podcast, we have Matchmaker and Dating Coach Dan Silverman, who helps those singles prepare for fun dates by teaching them proven techniques for success. He offers immersive training to teach clients how to overcome dating fears and learned habits.
Tune in now and Learn how to be comfortable in the dating world!
Highlights: (01:35) How Dan became a Matchmaker and Dating Coach (05:12) Why Is Dating So Hard? (09:56) How to know if two people are a good match? (15:31) Why Women don't like to date ‘Nice Guys’? (23:02) Dating and Consent (35:39) Dating Tips for Introverts (42:09) The Mastery Curve (47:21) What does vulnerability look like in dating? (50:330) How to deal with women's emotions?
Links: Website: Dan Silverman Matchmaker Miami LinkedIn: Dan Silverman - Miami, Florida, United States Facebook: Dan Silverman - The Miami Matchmaker Instagram: Dan Silverman (@matchmakerdan) Twitter: Dan Silverman (@MatchmakerDan) Deborah’s Links: Send your sex and relationship questions to DeborahTantraKat@Gmail.com For a free Truth and Clarity Session Appointments 3 — Deborah Kat Coaching Website: https://www.deborahkat.com/ Email: deborahtantrakat@gmail.com Facebook: Events Near Me | Facebook Twitter: Deborah Kat (@TantraKat) / Twitter | |||
| 01 Sep 2022 | Episode 16: Your Heart, Your Mind, and Your Sex Life | 01:08:33 | |
We don't think about it a lot, but our emotional and spiritual health plays a HUGE role in our sex life. This week, I've invited relationships expert and author Sequoia Stafford onto the show to unpack some of the less-obvious causes of challenges people run into in the bedroom - from erectile dysfunction to jealousy. Join Sequoia and I as we discuss:
About Sequoia: Sequoia is an author, podcaster, educator, sex coach & master healer who weaves over 20 years of study, practice, teaching and exploration of Ontology, Psychology, Shamanism, Mysticism, Advanced Tantra Therapies, Bio-hacking, Full-Spectrum Energy Medicine, NLP, Drama Therapy, Hypnosis, Nutrition, and her own discoveries of the Science of Now, to guide seekers to be the healthiest human beings possible. Just like our fingerprints, each one of us has a unique design for what brings and keeps us healthy, healed, and in the eXtasy of life. She is on a mission to take the pain and suffering out of love and S.E.X.! This year she launched her podcast SEX4LIFE and is the Bestselling Author of two books, It’s Hard! Sexual Satisfaction Secrets to Beat Erectile Dysfunction and I’m Not Jealous! The Ethical Non-Monogamist’s Guide to Free Love Relationships Without Pain & Suffering. In her California temple, she teaches Applied Tantra to singles and couples in her signature programs Delicious Love and the Goddess Arts & Intimacy Academy. Sequoia’s wish for her students is to find reverence for humanity in those moments of intimacy and the challenges that open doors to sacred partnership and love. Sequoia's gift to listeners of the Better Sex Podcast is a copy of both her books. To claim yours, go to www.FreeLoveModel.com See new SEX4LIFE podcast episodes at www.SEX-4-Life.com Connect with Deborah: Send your sex and relationship questions to DeborahTantraKat@Gmail.com For a free Truth and Clarity Session https://www.deborahkat.com/appointments-3 Website: https://www.deborahkat.com/ Email: deborahtantrakat@gmail.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/deborah.tantrakat Twitter: https://twitter.com/TantraKat | |||
| 17 Mar 2022 | Episode 6: The Three Keys to Great Sex and Fulfilling Relationships | 00:44:35 | |
The Three Keys to Great Sex and Fulfilling Relationships This week’s incredible guest, Sheba, Queen of the Night, began her career as a traditional stage actress, but a fated performance of the Vagina Monologues changed everything. That show became her life for the next 11 years, and opened her up to a world of sex, dance, creativity, pleasure, and kinks in the process. Now an Erotic Artist and Sex & Intimacy coach, Sheba spends her days teaching others how to fill their lives with good sex and fulfilling relationships. In this episode, she shares the pillars of her philosophy on fulfilling sex, gives us some fascinating ways to apply them, and takes us through how to let your personality shine through your sensuality. Join Sheba and me as we discuss:
About Sheba: Sheba is a Sex & Intimacy Coach and Erotic Artist located in St. Petersburg, FL. As a practitioner of Body Joy Intimacy School, she works with clients virtually and in-person for one-on-one coaching sessions around relationships, sexuality, exploration, and body positivity. She leads kink-friendly/queer-friendly workshops encouraging intimacy building and creating a playful, explorative, exciting dynamic in your sex life. Connect with Sheba Website: https://www.shebaqueenofthenight.com/sex-coach Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sexposisheba/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/shebaQOTNentertainment/
Connect with Deborah: Send your sex and relationship questions to DeborahTantraKat@Gmail.com For a free Truth and Clarity Session https://www.deborahkat.com/appointments-3
Website: https://www.deborahkat.com/ Email: deborahtantrakat@gmail.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/deborah.tantrakat Twitter: https://twitter.com/TantraKat
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| 16 Jun 2022 | Episode 11: Liberating Yourself - Inside & Outside the Bedroom | 00:46:43 | |
Buckle up, sexy spirits! This episode is a transformative one.
This week’s guest Spirit Child is a revolutionary somatic practitioner who has never been a fan of the boxes we put ourselves in. They’ve made it their life’s work to help people find liberation from stereotypes and shame - inside and outside of the bedroom.
In this episode, Spirit explores how ancestry and culture assign stereotypes and shares ways we can responsibly acknowledge, heal, and free ourselves from those stereotypes.
Join Spirit and me as we discuss:
About Spirit:
Spirit is a rEvolutionary Somatica practitioner incorporating elements of sensuality, sexuality, spirituality and the various “realities” (our society and daily practical challenges) to holistically obtain desired effects of eroticism and greater intimate relations with self and the world that surrounds us.
Spirit has 30 years of experience as a spiritual advisor and counselor along with; community organizing, mentorship, prison/school/community workshops on arts and exploration of another world for the liberation of all beings, being an international touring freedom singer (musician) who devotes songs that speak to liberation and a pedagogue that assist with the professional development with individuals as well as organizations. spirit has a B.A. in Psychology and Communications.
Spirit offers experiential sex and relation guidance (coaching) working with parents/partners, lovers, rEvolutionaries and those seeking to improve their ever growing and loving relations providing tools to assist with self awareness, repair, inner child and having the sex and intimate relations you want and that are right for you.
We explore a mutually vulnerable experience while creating a *relation lab. we practice intimate relations starting with self and with others. this method is inspired and explored with the tools of the Somatica Institute. we will add various healing methods infused offering services on embodiment, sexuality and relationships. Connect with Spirit:
Linktr.ee: https://linktr.ee/soulsensespirit
Connect with Deborah: Send your sex and relationship questions to DeborahTantraKat@Gmail.com
For a free Truth and Clarity Session https://www.deborahkat.com/appointments-3
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Email: deborahtantrakat@gmail.com
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| 14 Sep 2022 | Episode 17: Inside the World of a Sex Worker with Lana Sequioa | 00:51:21 | |
The key to better sex is to understand ourselves– what makes us feel good and what doesn’t. Women are often not given the chance to rule in bed or they aren’t even asked if they are enjoying the moment. Communicating and understanding what we want as a woman allows us to live with more connection and pleasurable experience that suffices our desires and erotic fantasies– this is where real empowerment lies. Know that you can speak up for yourself and that maybe you can learn how to be more assertive about your desires and boundaries because we deserve a good sex life after all! In today’s episode of The Better Sex Podcast, we are joined by Lana Sequoia. Lana has eight and a half years of experience as a sex worker, ranging from tantric massage to companionship. She is a massage therapist and energy worker. She has studied Tantra, she studied somatic therapy for sex, and relationship coaching. And right now she is doing another coaching program in the trauma of trauma-informed work so that she can bring even more healing and love to the planet. So her main, her main clientele is men with the occasional couple. If you want to learn about unfiltered conversations on sex and the sex industry, then this episode is for you! I really believe that a sexy world creates a happier world and a safer world. If you want to do your part in creating a sexy, safe world. Please hit subscribe, and leave a review on Apple podcasts or wherever you are listening. Highlights: (02:20) How Lana got into the world of Sex Work (05:48) Understanding Sensual Massage + How Each Session Go (18:12) Learning Boundaries: Sharing your desires and asking for the desires of others (24:24) How knowing one’s desires work and how fantasy plays into it (30:37) Stereotypes and prejudices given to sex workers that are damaging and inaccurate (38:50) Lana’s experience during the pandemic given that there is no access to in-person clients (46:10) On Becoming a Conscious Creator (49:07) Valuing friendship and connection in the sex industry
Links: Website:LANA SEQUOIA OnlyFans: Lana Sequoia ♡ OnlyFans Email:lanasequoia@protonmail.com Instagram:Lana Sequoia ♡ (@lana.sequoia) • Instagram photos and videos Twitter:https://twitter.com/lanasequoia Slixa: https://www.slixa.com/california/san-jose/lana-sequoia
Deborah’s Links: Send your sex and relationship questions to DeborahTantraKat@Gmail.com For a free Truth and Clarity Session Appointments 3 — Deborah Kat Coaching Website: https://www.deborahkat.com/ Email: deborahtantrakat@gmail.com Facebook: Events Near Me | Facebook Twitter: Deborah Kat (@TantraKat) / Twitter | |||
| 09 Mar 2022 | Episode 5: Tarot and You | 00:44:41 | |
Tarot and You: A Conversation with Wizard and Business Coach Sage Lee I don’t know about you, but when I have a fight with my partner or less-than-stellar sex, my first move isn’t to consult my tarot deck - but after this episode, that might change.
In this week’s unfiltered conversation, wizard and relationship coach Sage Lee pulls back the curtain on the power tarot has to reveal the true challenges between you, love, and good sex. Tune in to learn how to use the power of tarot to identify our relationship or sexual blockages, facilitate inner healing, and integrate our awesome masculine and feminine energies. We’ll even give you an inside look at a tarot deck Sage Lee designed specifically for this purpose - The Sage Tarot. Take a look at one of the cards here. Join us to discuss:
Connect with Sage Lee:
Website: theschoolforwizards.com Instagram: instagram.com/sageleelove Twitter: twitter.com/brandmystic Get your copy of The Sage Tarot: https://theschoolforwizards.com/sage-tarot-2/ Connect with Deborah:
Website: https://www.deborahkat.com/ Email: deborahtantrakat@gmail.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/deborah.tantrakat Twitter: https://twitter.com/TantraKat | |||
| 06 Jul 2022 | Episode 12: Sex and Sound Healing | 00:46:14 | |
Over the course of her life, LiSara has been everything from a forensic linguist to a performer, to a trade show marketer, to a leadership coach. Though her life has called her to many different roles and places, her varied experience revealed one constant truth: sound is powerful. As a relationship coach, LiSara witnessed sound’s power to heal trauma. As a leadership coach, she marveled at how sound provided her clients an access point to their authentic selves and inner wisdom. During her performances, she’s consistent Now, LiSara has made it her mission to understand our relationship with sound and harness its power to improve others’ lives through sound healing. In this episode, we cover how using your voice and playing with sound can lead to better sex.
Join LiSara and me as we discuss:
About LiSara: She hails from a rich ancestry of both medicine women and Civil Rights educators who worked with Martin Luther King Jr in the 1960s. She also was the first woman of color (WOC) in the United States to graduate as a forensic linguist, training with the FBI agent who broke the Unabomber case of the 1990s. Global audiences as large as 15,000 have witnessed her dynamic, multilingual live performances. LiSára founded Sexy Sound Healing (SSH), the world's 1st personalized sound healing app & community platform for the spiritually-led to experience their divinity, sensuality, and prosperity through the healing frequencies of sound. She speaks multiple languages and lives on the California coast with her partner. Connect with LiSara Website: https://www.sexysoundhealing.com/
Connect with Deborah: Send your sex and relationship questions to DeborahTantraKat@Gmail.com For a free Truth and Clarity Session https://www.deborahkat.com/appointments-3 Website: https://www.deborahkat.com/ Email: deborahtantrakat@gmail.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/deborah.tantrakat Twitter: https://twitter.com/TantraKat | |||
| 18 Aug 2022 | Episode 15: Improve Your Relationships by Putting Yourself First | 00:37:28 | |
Thea grew up in a traditional family where she was taught nothing about sex/intimacy/relating to others formally. She learned what she saw, did what she was told, and followed the path that she was promised would produce success... but when that path left her a newly divorced, stay-at-home mom of two kids in her late 20s, she decided it was time to try something different. On her quest to learn who she was outside of the role of "mom", she learned to love and listen to herself again. This gave her the power she needed to completely redefine herself, her career, and her sexuality. Now, Thea takes her clients through the same process of rediscovery. In this episode Thea and I explore some of the most effective approaches to rediscovering yourself and crafting intimacy in your life - both in and out of the bedroom. Join Thea and me as we discuss:
About Thea: Thea Jansky holds her Masters of Arts Degree in Integrative Health & Healing and was trained as a Sex & Relationship Coach out in Berkeley, CA. she is Certified in Codependency Recovery and trained in Conflict Management, Resolution, Mediation, Dialectical Behavior Therapy and Complex Trauma & the Nervous System. She lives in Connecticut with her husband and two daughters. Connect with Thea Website: https://www.theasexandrelationships.com/\ Email: intimacyandrelationships@gmail.com Connect with Deborah: Send your sex and relationship questions to DeborahTantraKat@Gmail.com For a free Truth and Clarity Session https://www.deborahkat.com/appointments-3 Website: https://www.deborahkat.com/ Email: deborahtantrakat@gmail.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/deborah.tantrakat Twitter: https://twitter.com/TantraKat | |||
| 04 May 2022 | Episode 9: Better Art = Better Sex? | 00:53:19 | |
Better Art = Better Sex? Does becoming a better artist make you better at sex? And does becoming better at sex make you better at art? According to this week’s guest, Artist and Sex Coach Rafael Martinez, the answer to both questions is yes - and he’s here to show us how that’s possible. In this episode, Rafael and I explore the relationship between sex and art, what Kundalini energy has to do with both, and how we can use both to heal ourselves and feel more fulfilled. Join Rafael and me as we discuss:
About Rafael: Rafael Martinez, born in Colombia and raised in New York City, has been an artist all his life and a coach for over nine years. He’s been doing transformational work for well over thirteen years. Rafael is skilled in subtly penetrating and identifying the heart of his clients’ desires and helping them live their lives guided by that desire. Rafael has also expanded this skill to coach artists and people in relationships. He helps them access deeper passion and live with more connection to the deeper things that make life fulfilling.
Connect with Rafael: Email: rafael.martinez.coaching@gmail.com Website: rafaelmartinezcoaching.com
Connect with Deborah: Send your sex and relationship questions to DeborahTantraKat@Gmail.com Book your free Truth and Clarity Session at https://www.deborahkat.com/appointments-3 Website: https://www.deborahkat.com/ Email: deborahtantrakat@gmail.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/deborah.tantrakat Twitter: https://twitter.com/TantraKat
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| 16 Nov 2022 | Incorporating Consciousness into Sexual Relationships with Zahava Griss | 00:45:39 | |
Today on The Better Sex Podcast, we have Zahava Griss, Founder of Embody More Love, a spiritual kinky dance community for personal and cultural liberation. For over 22 years, Z has been guiding dance, embodiment, and eros as the source of healing, creativity, building community, and shifting our culture. Z's love coaching focuses on secure attachment, kink, gender, expression, polyamory, and the erotic arts.
In this episode, Z will unravel how they grew up with a lot of energy and was socialized as a white girl, which gave them the opportunity to understand how white supremacy culture is conditioned in the body. Z talks about how they recovered from ballet, “being a bun head.” Z also highlights the importance of growing in relationships especially when an erotic charge is involved. Experience better sex by tuning in to this episode!
Highlights: (03:27) What is the Grief Ritual Lineage? (04:10) Getting to know Z’s story (11:46) What is the social locator in Z’s leadership program? (12:35) Z’s leadership program and how capacity is being incorporated into it (16:01) What makes the difference between someone just surviving the trauma versus someone growing from that? (18:07) Understanding conscious breathing through yoga (25:54) What happens to your presence if you feel at capacity and where does it go? (33:00) What are some of the stories that interrupt our sex life? (41:35) The idea of growing in relation (45:25) The healing power of conscious kink (47:04) Dominance as a form of leadership
Links: Book a schedule here: Embody More Love Deborah’s Links: Send your sex and relationship questions to DeborahTantraKat@Gmail.com For a free Truth and Clarity Session Appointments 3 — Deborah Kat Coaching Website: https://www.deborahkat.com/ Email: deborahtantrakat@gmail.com Facebook: Events Near Me | Facebook Twitter: Deborah Kat (@TantraKat) / Twitter
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| 05 Oct 2022 | Is Sex More than Just Physical? with Ana del Castillo | 00:41:59 | |
Our whole lives are sex. Yes, you read that right. And I don’t mean it literally. Sometimes sex is boring; other times, it is exciting–which is pretty much like it.
Here’s a truth about sex– it’s not just about you getting an orgasm; forget about penetration; it’s just part of it. The truth is, sex feels good and even feels best when it touches parts of us that haven’t felt good in a while; it could be our fears, our traumas, our insecurities, or whatever that isn’t feeling good inside of us, or it could be just pure connection. What feels good happens everywhere, not just in the bedroom.
In today’s episode of The Better Sex Podcast, Ana Del Castillo is a Rightness Expert & Certified Coach with over 20 years of experience working with men and women who have great lives but still always feel like there’s something wrong. By addressing the underlying source of their suffering, Ana creates transformative experiences for her clients so they can own their inherent rightness and feel vital and alive in their skin and lives again.
An energetic, warm and empathetic leader, Ana has spoken to audiences all over the country and has coached women rock stars, entrepreneurs, and homemakers on the power and freedom of authentic rightness, whose name appeared on NPR, the NY Post, People Magazine, and The Moth. Ana coaches, speaks, and leads courses on Rightness, married to the love of her life, Ken Blackman.
Tune in to this episode as Ana unravels the truth about sex and how we can feel good even if it is not purely physical.
Highlights: (05:06) How Ana became a rightness expert, women's rightness expert, and certified coach (10:01) How does ‘Rightness’ live for Ana and her clients (12:47) How to not let others tell you your worth (14:25) Five Levels of Commitment
(17:21) Understanding and looking into the sensations in your body. (31:09) Approaching our sex life in a much more holistic way. (33:58) Realizing that sex is more than just a physical act. (36:13) Why every moment is foreplay. (38:19) What to do once the honeymoon and the chemistry fades. (39:58) Ana’s experience of working with her husband with other couples (45:45) Ana’s upcoming event in New York (49:03) Ana’s message for YOU!
Links: Website: My Rightness Instagram: Ana Del Castillo (@ana_del_castillo) • Instagram photos and videos LinkedIn: Ana Del Castillo - CEO and Owner - My Rightness | LinkedIn TikTok: Ana_Del_Castillo (@ana_del_castillo_) TikTok | Watch Ana_Del_Castillo's Newest TikTok Videos Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/rightness?fan_landing=true&view_as=public Deborah’s Links: Send your sex and relationship questions to DeborahTantraKat@Gmail.com For a free Truth and Clarity Session Appointments 3 — Deborah Kat Coaching Website: https://www.deborahkat.com/ Email: deborahtantrakat@gmail.com Facebook: Events Near Me | Facebook Twitter: Deborah Kat (@TantraKat) / Twitter | |||
| 20 Apr 2022 | Episode 8: Anxiety in the Bedroom | 00:44:55 | |
After leaving a sexless marriage at age 30, Sky Studley felt adrift. Her body was changing, she was a single mom, and she felt more disconnected from herself and others than ever before. Sky tried therapy, but it wasn’t until she learned about sex and relationship coaching that her body was able to start processing things. Only then did her healing really start to begin. Now a Life and Relationship Coach, Sky supports people navigating big life transitions and anxiety - especially in the LGBTQIA+ and BIPOC communities. In this episode, she shares how anxiety shows up in intimacy and gives us some ways to help ourselves and others through anxious moments in the bedroom… and beyond. Join Sky and me as we discuss:
About Sky: Sky Studley, Life & Relationship Coach, is the founder of OpenSkySpace.com. Sky supports people going through major life transitions such as divorce & separation, life cycles of parenthood, opening up relationships, coming out, those at the end of life or grieving the loss of a loved one. She is also very passionate about supporting marginalized groups and provides discounted rates for lower-income BIPOCs.
Connect with Sky Website: https://www.openskyspace.com/
Connect with Deborah: Send your sex and relationship questions to DeborahTantraKat@Gmail.com
Book your free Truth and Clarity Session at https://www.deborahkat.com/appointments-3
Website: https://www.deborahkat.com/ Email: deborahtantrakat@gmail.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/deborah.tantrakat Twitter: https://twitter.com/TantraKat
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| 21 Sep 2022 | Episode 18: The Power to Create the Intimate Life You Desire with Andre Lazarus | 00:40:08 | |
You know that feeling when you're out in the world, and you feel safe? You know what I mean, right? It's that feeling that lets you breathe a little easier, and allows you to be yourself and do whatever you want—the ones that make you feel like there's no way out.
And it's also that same feeling when you're in bed with your partner and do the intense moments the way you desire. We all want this kind of safety and power in our lives. But how often do we get it? How often do we ever feel truly safe?
In today’s episode of The Better Sex Podcast, we are joined by Andre Lazarus. Andre is a Certified Intimacy, Sex, and Relationship Guide, Trained Surrogate Partner, as well as Sacred Intimate with 8+ years of experience helping individuals and couples discover their intimate and erotic power. As a multisexual being experienced in Consensual Non-Monogamous dynamics, Andre’s unique approach to sexuality, sensuality and the bond people share make him a thought leader and knowledgeable practitioner. Andre is a Certified Sex and Relationship Coach through the Somatica Institute based out of San Francisco, CA, and specializes in erotic desire, sexless relationships, sexual trauma healing, erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, BDSM, consensual non-monogamy, and more.
Tune in to this episode as Andre unravels how to move forward from trauma so that you can get to your desires and that safe place as well! We'll be talking about what it takes to create a safe space for yourself during these intimate moments—and how to get them without having to sacrifice who YOU are. Highlights:
(03:55) Andre’s Story (10:24) How Andre developed a level of attunement in his own being (14:21) The idea of older women going after what they want (16:09) What do female clients come to Andre for? (23:20) Allowing ourselves to follow our desires (24:49) Realizing the power that we hold on intense and intimate moments (31:49) Andre’s traumatic experiences + Becoming trauma-informed (37:09) How does taking people into the place where the trauma occurred and recreating it help them towards healing? (41:20) What is Andre working on these days? Links:
Connect with Andre:
Website: Coming Closer with Andre Lazarus Instagram: Coming Closer with Andre (@comingcloserwithandre) • Instagram photos and videos Deborah’s Links:
Send your sex and relationship questions to DeborahTantraKat@Gmail.com For a free Truth and Clarity Session Appointments 3 — Deborah Kat Coaching Website: https://www.deborahkat.com/ Email: deborahtantrakat@gmail.com Facebook: Events Near Me | Facebook Twitter: Deborah Kat (@TantraKat) / Twitter | |||
| 07 Apr 2022 | Episode 7: Mastering the Art of BDSM | 00:56:34 | |
I often talk about my Leather Daddy or my BDSM mentor I am beyond thrilled to have Ken as my guest. Though he’s always had a love for tying people up, Ken Zane didn’t connect with the BDSM aspect of this affinity until he was stationed in Germany. There, he found an amazing community that introduced him to BDSM play - and unlocked his passion for being Dominant. But the more BSDM communities Ken explored, the more he found a lot of other Doms played in very unsafe, inattentive ways. So, Ken did what any good soldier would do - he formed a lesson plan. Ken traveled around the country teaching Doms everything from how to build trust, use tools, and become a better communicator during play. In this episode, he takes us through some of his most essential teachings and gives us an insider look at what makes up a REALLY good BDSM dynamic. Join Ken and me as we discuss:
Connect with Ken DCBlade@aol.com is good. Connect with Deborah Send your sex and relationship questions to DeborahTantraKat@Gmail.com For a free Truth and Clarity Session https://www.deborahkat.com/appointments-3 Website: https://www.deborahkat.com/ Email: deborahtantrakat@gmail.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/deborah.tantrakat Twitter: https://twitter.com/TantraKat
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| 30 Nov 2022 | Understanding Sexual Needs through Honesty and Authenticity with Shana James | 00:47:48 | |
Are you having sex with your partner and not feeling like you have a clear understanding of their sexual needs? Are you unsure of how to ask questions, make requests, or navigate through conversations about sexuality? If so, it may be time to look toward honest and authentic sex.
Today on The Better Sex Podcast, we have Shana James, who has coached more than a thousand men and women to have passionate connections and fulfilling relationships. Whether you're single and looking to date, want a long-term relationship, or your relationship isn't satisfying, Shana quickly pinpoints the cause in her new book: Honest Sex: A Passionate Path to Deepen Intimacy and Keep Your Relationship Alive
She will talk about how she believes that it is important, to be honest with oneself and others in order to create closer connections, the importance of being able to have conversations about sex in a way that is comfortable for both parties, and shares her experience working with clients who want more foreplay or longer experiences.
Tune in now and learn more about how to be honest with your partner during this vulnerable time and still remain in sync with your long-term goals! Highlights: (03:05 ) Being committed to authenticity (05:48) The Impact of Presence (07:02) Breaking Down the Meaning of Honest and Sex (16:38) What is Sex mean to Shana? (19:21) The Making of Honest Sex (24:31) How to Ask for What You Want Sexually (31:25) Steps Toward Being Honest and Open in Sexuality (34:12 ) The Importance of Self-Pleasure in a Relationship (37:11) How to Talk to Your Kids About Sex (41:48) Understanding the word ‘Intimacy’ (50:46) Things That Both Males & Females Should Be Aware of if They Are Interested in Relationships (54:31) Co-creating More of What You Want
Links: Website: shanajamescoaching.com LinkedIn: Shana James Facebook: Shana James Book: Honest Sex: A Passionate Path to Deepen Connection and Keep Passionate Relationships Alive.
Deborah’s Links: Send your sex and relationship questions to DeborahTantraKat@Gmail.com For a free Truth and Clarity Session Appointments 3 — Deborah Kat Coaching Website: https://www.deborahkat.com/ Email: deborahtantrakat@gmail.com Facebook: Events Near Me | Facebook Twitter: Deborah Kat (@TantraKat) / Twitter | |||
| 02 Nov 2022 | Ejaculatory Control sexual Power for men with Leah Piper | 00:20:21 | |
In today’s episode of The Better Sex Podcast, we are joined by Leah Piper. Leah Piper, Founder of More Love Works and Co-Founder of the Sex Reimagined Podcast. Leah is a Certified Tantra Master Coach & Educator with a background in Positive Psychology. For 20 years she has been the primary female facilitator at the Source School of Tantra with Charles Muir.
By combining the ancient art of conscious loving with the modern science of well-being, her students have discovered that sex unlocks the keys to having a passionate, loving, and spiritually fulfilling life.
Leah has facilitated thousands of couples and individuals worldwide to elevate sex to an art form through live seminars, online courses, private VIP retreats, certification courses, and mentoring professionals in the sacred sex & relationship for nearly 2 decades.
Make your sex life better by tuning in to this episode!
Highlights: (01:56) Getting to know Leah Piper (07:03) Understanding premature ejaculation + how you can harness your sexual energy (08:58) Can you really separate orgasm from ejaculation? (09:21) Ejaculatory Control: How to do it (12:20) How to deal with your partner’s expectation (13:44) The importance of partnership to increase the sensations of desire (14:00) Erotic Blueprint Model (15:05) Why partnership really matters Links: Website: Leah Piper Twitter: Leah Alchin Piper (@leahalchinpiper) / Twitter
Books mentioned: Tantra: The Art of Conscious Loving by Charles Muir
Deborah’s Links: Send your sex and relationship questions to DeborahTantraKat@Gmail.com For a free Truth and Clarity Session Appointments 3 — Deborah Kat Coaching Website: https://www.deborahkat.com/ Email: deborahtantrakat@gmail.com Facebook: Events Near Me | Facebook Twitter: Deborah Kat (@TantraKat) / Twitter
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| 19 Oct 2022 | Embracing Pleasure through the Body M’Kali-Hashiki | 00:46:13 | |
We’re glad you’re here!
Expectations about pleasure, and the messages you get about what it means to be a sexual being, are often deep. But I want you to know that it is possible to embrace pleasure —and that it is possible to find joy in your body and in the world around you.
In today’s episode of The Better Sex Podcast, we are joined by M'kali-Hashiki. M’Kali is a Somatic Sacred Storyteller & Erotic Ritualist. She holds certifications in Sexological Bodywork; Sound, Voice, & Music Healing; and Tantric Sacred Intimacy. As a Somatic Sacred Storyteller, she helps you uncover the stories your body is holding onto, jettisoning the ones poisoning you, and helping you to reframe & retell the ones left. As an Erotic Ritualist, she designs journeys for you to commune with The Divine using your physical pleasure as the conduit of communication. Her Divine Purpose is helping folx heal their erotic wounds so they can have the joyous & juicy life that is their Divine Birthright and move further along in their path to individual & collective liberation.
In her nomadic travels across North & Central America, she teaches at colleges & universities, conferences, and the occasional adult toy store or educational center. She offers sexuality training & employee wellness/team-building skills to organizations & companies. She is also a skilled Sensitivity Reader hired to read manuscripts to make sure they avoid explicit & implicit systemic bias. Her lived experiences as a fat, black, queer, femme, and trauma survivor inform every aspect of her work.
Highlights: (03:57) How did M’Kali get here? (12:52) How M’Kali discovered the Body Electric (17:59) Breathwork as a modality of healing (24:18) The Michigan Women’s Festival (29:31) What needs to be in place to have a safe, consensual experience? (35:58) Erotic breathwork and breath play (40:53) How to use breath as a vehicle to connect with the spiritual and physical (46:00) What makes your breath work different?
Links: Website: M'kali-Hashiki She/Her/Hers "Where Presence, Pleasure, & Prayer Meet"
Twitter: M'kali-Hashiki (@MkHashiki) / Twitter
Deborah’s Links: Send your sex and relationship questions to DeborahTantraKat@Gmail.com
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| 18 Jan 2023 | Have A Better Sex Life Through The Power Of Your Mind With Louis Brantmeyer | 00:37:48 | |
When it comes to sex, sometimes you need some help. You may be wondering how you can move towards better sex, or even how you can make your current sex life better. It's hard to say exactly what steps you should take in your personal search for improving your sex life without some guidance.
In today's episode of The Better Sex Podcast, we are joined by Louis Brantmeyer, an extraordinary business coach for heart-centered coaches, powerful creator, magical manifestor, eclectic philosopher, and devotee of growth, healing, love, and science fiction. He will talk about how can we properly use our desires and some tips to make our sex better.
Tune in now and Learn how to be comfortable in the dating world!
Highlights: (01:59) Getting to know Louis More (02:46) How he helped BrainJuice go national via Whole Foods & promoting the "woo that works"? (08:21) Maximizing the use of Desires (11:40) Meaning & Distinction of “Always on call, but we're not always on duty” (18:57) The Path to Fulfillment (21:41) Sexual Abundance Back to Patriarchal Rules and Regulations(Why it didn't work for Louis?) (26:23 ) Aligning Mission and Purpose ( 27:55) What Is Co-empowered Alignment & Codependence? (34:11) A Way You Could Do to Move Towards Better Sex (41:02) Man & Woman: Whose Purpose Goes First?
Links: Website: https://louisbrantmeyer.com/ LinkedIn: Louis Brantmeyer - CEO / Founder Facebook: Louis Brantmeyer Instagram: Louis Brantmeyer (@louisbrantmeyer) Youtube: Louis Brantmeyer - CEO / Founder -
Things Mentioned:: (Audio Course) Your Wish Is Your Command Letting Go: The Pathway of Surrender A Course in Miracles: Combined Volume The 45 Days to Awakening Challenge The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships & Other Adventures Sex on the Brain: 12 Lessons to Enhance Your Love Life
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| 23 Jul 2022 | Episode 13: Sex Coaching for Men | 00:33:50 | |
When it comes to embodying our power, discovering what we want, and honoring our emotions, there are SO many awesome resources out there for women… but our men often get left out of these conversations
This week’s guest, Karen Brody, is on a mission to fix that by giving men the space, permission, and support to connect with their potential and power.
If you’re a man ready to get what you want from a relationship AND awaken your women’s desire - or if you’re a lady looking to better connect with your man - this episode is for you.
Join Karen and me as we discuss:
About Karen:
Karen Brody is a Man Coach, and the best-selling author of “Open Her: Activate 7 Masculine Powers to Arouse your Woman’s Love & Desire.” Karen ́s passion is to awaken the hidden potential and power in men, to lead in life and in love, and to give men the keys for how to awaken a woman's heart and her desire. Connect with Karen
Website: https://karenbrodycoaching.com/
Get your copy of Karen’s Best-Selling Book: https://www.amazon.com/Open-Her-Activate-Masculine-Powers/dp/0692273476/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&linkCode=sl1&tag=dlbds04-20&linkId=0ebff1548702fdae29c57d3325eb1abf&language=en_US
Connect with Deborah Send your sex and relationship questions to DeborahTantraKat@Gmail.com
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| 19 May 2022 | Episode 10: Debunking Tantra Myths with Lindy James | 00:43:05 | |
When Lindy James walked into her first Tantra event with her friends, she really didn’t know what to expect. Did Tantra require you to be naked? Would she be having sex? What the heck was she getting herself into? But instead of finding the intimidating orgies she had pictured, Lindy found a place of healing, empowerment, and freedom. She left that event knowing she needed to be a part of this world - and to make this world more accessible to others like her.
A decade later, Lindy James serves as a counselor, intimacy coach, and healer in the Tantric space. In this episode, she debunks some common myths about Tantra, explores how to use Tantra to facilitate healing, and provides strategies on how to become better at listening to what your body needs.
Join Lindy and me as we discuss:
About Lindy:
Lindy James is a counselor, intimacy coach, and sexual healer. She is a Certified Tantric Educator, Hakomi graduate, and 25-year Tantra practitioner. Lindy offers sessions in the ‘Art of Conscious Intimacy’ for individuals, couples, and groups.
Lindy James is a woman gracefully in touch with her intuitive wisdom. She believes in the importance of healing ourselves by facing the truth, developing clearer communication, and nurturing deep self-love. Connect with Lindy
Website: https://lindyjames.com/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCLfe_bopfLeqzKBQR_1scYg
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/PermissionzonewithLindyJames
Connect with Deborah: Send your sex and relationship questions to DeborahTantraKat@Gmail.com
For a free Truth and Clarity Session https://www.deborahkat.com/appointments-3
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| 19 Jan 2022 | Episode 2: Sexual Healing with Lucia Pavone | 00:48:51 | |
Episode 2: Sexual Healing with Lucia Pavone In this episode, Deborah Kat interviews Lucia Pavone, a somatic sex mentor. Lucia began her journey of sexual emancipation began over 17 years ago when she took a sensuality course. Quickly realizing that the pursuit of pleasure was her calling, she became a dedicated researcher of communication, relationships and sensuality. Since then, she’s trained and experienced over 6,000 hours of Deliberate Embodied Orgasm (full body, extended orgasm), become a trained facilitator of Sacred Dao Pelvic Healing, and has supported hundreds of people in their sexual, ancestral, and trauma healing journeys. Join Lucia and Deborah as they discuss:
About Lucia Pavone: Lucia Pavone is a rule-breaker, international speaker, Somatic sex educator, and sensuality mentor. As a modern-day temple priestess, she is passionate about supporting people to embody their sexuality, love their juicy bodies, free themselves from shame, heal sexual traumas and have a sex life worth bragging about. Connect with Lucia: Email: lusciouslovelife@gmail.com Website: www.luciapavone.net Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lusciousluciapavone/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lusciousluciapavone/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/life_luscious
Connect with Deborah: Website: https://www.deborahkat.com/ Email: deborahtantrakat@gmail.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/deborah.tantrakat Twitter: https://twitter.com/TantraKat
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| 07 Feb 2022 | Episode 3: Finding your flow through pleasure | 00:31:49 | |
Born in rural Eastern Europe, sex coach Lyuba Venable was raised with the understanding that women were to be married off and sex was only for men to enjoy. She lived by these rules... until a chance encounter with a stranger transformed her idea of what sex could be - and who it could be for. In this episode, sex coach Lyuba Venable shares her compelling journey from a subservient wife to a multidisciplinary sex coach - along with all of the orgies, orgasms, intimacy, and self-discovery in between!
Tune in to hear Lubya and I discuss:
Connect with Lyuba: Lyuba Venable is a coach, trainer and public speaker. Through her open and vulnerable speaking style, Lyuba leaves audiences inspired, open to honesty, and interested in new possibilities. Having learned from Master Mantak Chia, Charles Muir, Somatica and the Human Awareness Institute, Lyuba marries multiple disciplines together in her online workshops. With topics ranging from sex communication to energetic orgasms, participants have a safe, confidential space to share, explore, and learn how to create a juicier sex life and a deeper connection with self. TikTok: tiktok.com/@lyubabodylove Events: https://beacons.ai/lyubabodylove
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| 10 Jan 2022 | Episode 1: Welcome to The Better Sex Podcast! | 00:07:52 | |
Welcome to the first episode of the Better Sex Podcast, where we feature unfiltered conversations about sex and relationships! In this episode, host Deborah Kat explains what to expect from this podcast, provides a peek into her work as a sex and relationship coach, and explores the unexpected ways some romantic narratives can wreak havoc with our sex lives. Connect with Deborah: Website: https://www.deborahkat.com/ Email: deborahtantrakat@gmail.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/deborah.tantrakat Twitter: https://twitter.com/TantraKat | |||
| 17 Feb 2022 | Episode 4: Chemistry and Communication | 00:43:01 | |
Chemistry is essential for great sex - and it isn't as elusive or accidental as we make it out to be. In fact, how we experience chemistry can be a BIG indicator of blockages or unhealed patterns within ourselves. This week, I've invited Hema - a gifted psychic, energy healer, and certified Tantra Instructor - on to the podcast to take us through what contributes to chemistry, teach us how to use energy healing to move those past blockages and unhealed patterns, and give us the language we need to identify and communicate exactly what we want in the bedroom. Join Hema and me as we discuss:
Connect with Hema: Website: http://hemaholisticmystic.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/realhemayoga
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| 15 Jan 2025 | Navigating Sexual Communication with Tallulah Sulis | 01:03:01 | |
In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I chat with Sex Educator, Somatic Sex Therapist and Female Ejaculation Expert, Tallulah Sulis about empowering female sexuality, fostering better communication, and enhancing intimacy in relationships. As we talk, Tallulah shares a bit of her journey into somatic coaching as she learned the deep importance of nervous system regulation and discovered the concept of core erotic desires to deepen connection. Along the way, we chat about the value of slow seduction, the dynamics of initiating and responding partners, and how open, reciprocal communication can transform sexual experiences. This episode is absolutely packed with practical tools like "special attention dates" and "erotic mapping," giving you some very actionable steps to reduce pressure, explore desires, and cultivate a more fulfilling intimate life. Connect with Tallulah Free Gift TherapyInBed.com *offering free 15 min phone consult Connect with Deborah Got questions about sex and relationship? Podcast Feedback DeborahTantraKat@Gmail.com Book a breakthrough session with Deborah https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=11737312&appointmentType=60692935 Sex and Relationship tips direct to you Inbox https://deborahkat.us5.list-manage.com/subscribe?u=428b26a12a8810bb5012792c3&id=ff89fb0d94 Practice and experimentation | |||
| 28 Jun 2023 | The Art of Realtionship Repair with Dr Hazel-Grace Yates | 00:45:54 | |
In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I sit down with accomplished Sex & Relationship Educator, Dr. Hazel-Grace Yates. We took a deep dive into relationship repair - what it is, why to do it and her best tips on how to go about it. Throughout our discussion, Hazel-Grace shared their personal journey to discover and embrace their own sexuality as well as the importance of doing the work to heal in relationships. During this fun and deep conversation, they share how to do relationship repair well (for all types of relationships) and use it as a path to more juice in your sex life.
Learn more about upcoming events or how to work with Hazel-Grace here: www.drhazelgrace.com
Upcoming and OnGoing
Intimacy Through the Art of REPAIR Classes (Virtual and In-Person Denver events) Intimacy Through the Art of Repair - Intro Part 1 - June 28th - Virtual https://ITARintropart1.eventbrite.com
Intimacy Through the Art of Repair for Couples - In-Person in Denver - July 2nd https://IntimacythroughrepairJuly2Denver.eventbrite.com
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| 06 Jun 2024 | Expanding the definition of orgasm with Susan Bratton | 01:09:26 | |
In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I talk with Intimacy Expert to millions and best-selling Author Susan Bratton who brings her personal stories of receiving adoration to our discussion of expanding the definition of orgasm. During this fun and insightful conversation, we delve into the importance of knowledge, vulnerability, and meticulous scheduling to navigate different kinds of complex relationships while touching on the significance of adoration as a fundamental human desire that society often suppresses.
Susan sheds light on the benefits of oxytocin, the need for more time and stimulation to achieve arousal and the essential role of foreplay. We discuss various techniques to make intercourse orgasmic for women and Susan shares some of her expanded orgasm practices to enhance intimate experiences. Along the way we discuss how to hold sexual energy, setting personal boundaries, and the significance of ongoing sexual education. Join us for this enlightening conversation that challenges traditional views and empowers listeners to prioritize their own desires and pleasure.
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CEO of: http://personallifemedia.com https://the20store.com/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/susanbratton/ https://www.youtube.com/c/betterlover https://www.instagram.com/susanbratton Got questions about sex and relationship? Podcast Feedback DeborahTantraKat@Gmail.com Book a breakthrough session with Deborah https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=11737312&appointmentType=60692935 Sex and Relationship tips direct to you Inbox https://deborahkat.us5.list-manage.com/subscribe?u=428b26a12a8810bb5012792c3&id=ff89fb0d94 Learn Relationsh Skills in the Relationship Lab https://www.deborahkat.com/relationship-lab FB https://www.facebook.com/deborah.tantrakat | |||
| 16 Oct 2024 | Back to Women’s Pleasure with Pamela Madsen | 00:52:01 | |
In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I sit down with Pamela Madsen, a true pioneer in women’s sexual wellness and founder of the "Back to the Body Method." We dive deep into the transformative power of self-confidence, self-love, and how women can reclaim their erotic energy for more than just sexual expression—as a vital force in all areas of life.
Along the way, Pamela shares her journey, from her roots in the Bronx to creating immersive retreats in Joshua Tree that help women explore their bodies in safe, empowering environments. We talk about the holistic view of sexuality, where self-care, emotional wellness, and sexual health are all interconnected. Pamela tells us about her commitment to helping women embrace their full sexual selves.
During this conversation, we explore the importance of sovereignty of all kinds and how reclaiming control over our lives begins with understanding and accepting our own sexuality.
Join us for this candid conversation about how embracing erotic energy can lead to personal growth, confidence, and fulfillment. Connect with Pamela https://www.instagram.com/thepamelamadsen/ https://www.facebook.com/pamelalmadsen/ Learn about Back to the Body Retreats https://backtothebody.org/events?by=retreats Join the Newsletter https://back-to-the-body.mykajabi.com/newsletter Connect with Deborah Got questions about sex and relationship? Book a breakthrough session with Deborah
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| 17 Jul 2024 | Sex and the Subconscious with Kate Shelor | 00:55:29 | |
In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I talk with Hypnotherapist, Subconscious Reprogramming Expert and Relationship Coach, Kate Shelor who takes us into the complexities behind the differences between how men and women perceive and communicate love and intimacy. Kate shares some of her personal journey using hypnotherapy to overcome her personal challenges with orgasms. This led her to develop her own work bringing hypnotherapy into the realm of sex, body trauma, orgasms, and erections. Along the way we chat about the power of ‘scheduling’ intimacy, the unrealistic expectations created by the media, the differences between men and women’s communication style, and the power of hypnotherapy to assist with orgasm. Kate also gives us a therapeutic technique to help with resolving deep-seated emotional wounds as well as some practical advice to set up an environment for sexual play. This comprehensive conversation brings to consciousness the unconscious programming that can get in the way of a healthy sex life. Not only that, Kate brings us into this exploration through a conversation that takes the shame out of sexual communication.
Connect with Kate https://www.instagram.com/kateshelor/ https://www.youtube.com/c/KateShelor https://twitter.com/coachkatykaT https://www.facebook.com/OfficialKateShelor/ Got questions about sex and relationship? Book a breakthrough session with Deborah | |||
| 16 May 2023 | "The Power of Hypnosis for Better Sex with Michelle Walters" | 00:38:34 | |
In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, I sit down with clinical hypnotherapist, executive coach, and author Michelle Walters to talk about the power of the mind in shaping our reality. Michelle shares about her journey into the world of hypnosis, how it has since become her passion leading to her recently publish book, “An Alignment of Spirit”. This was such a fun conversation as we delve into hypnosis for intimacy and relationships! Personally, I’ve been curious about hypnosis for some time and Michelle answered all the questions as we explored Erotic Hypnosis, how it can help erectile dysfunction, and using hypnosis to visualize better sexual relationships. Listen in and learn how hypnosis can be a part of your journey to better sex.
[00:03:17] How hypnosis works. [00:08:53] Erotic Hypnosis. [00:09:55] Erotic Hypnotism. [00:16:35] Erectile dysfunction and hypnosis. [00:20:12] Erotic Hypnosis and Visualization. [00:27:32] Hypnosis and better sex. [00:31:15] Impossible sex and imagination. [00:35:14] Connecting with yourself.
A voracious imagination advocate, team leader, and corporate life graduate, Michelle writes and speaks on themes associated with the power of mind, positivity, and conscious and subconscious thought. Michelle is a Clinical Hypnotherapist, Executive Coach and Author. Michelle’s 2022 book on manifesting, “An Alignment of Spirit: Finding Work You Love” combines science, personal stories and activities for your subconscious that will help readers center and do the inner work necessary to find work they love.'' contact me at michelle@michellewalters.net Special gift for your listeners, a free mp3 recording from my Etsy store. Connect with Deborah Kat Deborah’s Links: Send your sex and relationship questions to DeborahTantraKat@Gmail.com For a free Truth and Clarity Session Appointments 3 — Deborah Kat Coaching Website: https://www.deborahkat.com/ Email: deborahtantrakat@gmail.com | |||
| 01 Nov 2023 | Chinese Philosophy and Female Pleasure with Shay Sun | 01:03:38 | |
In this episode I talk with Happiness Empowerment and Couples Intimacy Coach, Shay Sun. Shay tells us about their journey with understanding the changing nature of relationships over time. He shares about his exploration into Chinese Philosophy and its wisdom for the constant change of relationship as well the secrets it reveals about feminine pleasure . In this conversation, we talk about strong women, creating desire, Tantra Speed Date, and the communication needed between a couple for great sex and deeper intimacy. We also chat about shutdown and resentment between couples and some tips for healing that divide by coming back to communication. | |||
| 05 Jul 2023 | Exploring Kink Culture with Max Carey | 00:46:51 | |
In this episode I sit down with filmmaker Max Carey, whose recent film, “tOuch Kink” explores Human Sexuality and consensual kink practices. We discuss the evolution of kink culture, the importance of breaking free from societal boxes, and how the ethical guidelines used in BDSM can inform all kinds of romantic relationships beyond kink. Our conversation wanders, like Max’s tour of over 137 countries, through some of his personal story from farm-boy to kinky film director and a range of topics including informed consent, negotiation, outdated social norms and paths to deeper communication and trust in relationships. Max shares more about his film and the impact he hopes it’ll make for relationships. This was a fun conversation!
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| 30 Mar 2024 | Reframing Porn with Joseph Kramer | 01:09:04 | |
In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I talk with pioneering erotic bodywork educator Joseph Kramer, PhD. Joseph shares his transformative journey from academia to becoming a leading teacher of erotic massage and sexual embodiment. In this conversation, we delve into how pornography– which is often seen as ‘bad’-- can be used as a tool to learn the art of touch in your relationship. Along the way, we chat about methods for increased body awareness during self-pleasure, how to enhance erotic experience through breath and presence, and the value of experiencing all kinds of touch… even beyond the erotic. Joseph and I also discuss the legal recognition of sexological bodywork and its significance in innovative sex education, especially in light of health crises. This conversation dives deep into the power of getting to know your own body and desire to enhance pleasure with some useful tools to facilitate this exploration. Connect with Joseph www.sexologicalbodywork.com/links Connect with Deborah Got questions about sex and relationship? Podcast Feedback DeborahTantraKat@Gmail.com Book a breakthrough session with Deborah https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=11737312&appointmentType=60692935 Sex and Relationship tips direct to you Inbox https://deborahkat.us5.list-manage.com/subscribe?u=428b26a12a8810bb5012792c3&id=ff89fb0d94 Learn Relationsh Skills in the Relationship Lab https://www.deborahkat.com/relationship-lab FB https://www.facebook.com/deborah.tantrakat
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| 20 Dec 2023 | Navigating Difficult Marriages and the Sacred Pause Veronica L. Nabizadeh, Esq | 00:45:02 | |
In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I talk with Family, Divorce and Relationship Coach Veronica Nabizade. Veronica brings her wide range of experience from legal mediation to deep spiritual practice, and immense work on inner growth to support women in difficult marriages. Her feeling is that “if it’s worth fighting about, it’s worth fixing.” which is the heart of her work as the founder of Relationship Restart. This was an extremely rich conversation exploring leverage, personal development and the importance of self-relationship as the path towards either thriving together or divorcing with dignity. We talked about codependency in relationships and how the Enneagram can help to navigate ourselves and each other. Veronica shares a bit about her journey starting with challenges with her marriage that led her on a quest of spiritual and personal growth. She talks about the value of a “sacred pause” in a relationship including how to do it and in a supportive manner and along the way provides valuable practical tips and insights for our listeners to improve their own relationships and find harmony together. Connect with Veronica | |||
| 14 Nov 2023 | Fear, Vulnerability & Intimacy with Emily Oren | 00:49:35 | |
In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I talk with Bodyworker, Sexual Pioneer, Sound Healer, Dominatrix, and Visionary Craniosacral Practitioner, Emily Oren. Emily reflects on patterns of being absorbed into relationships and how that led to learning important insights on boundaries, self-intimacy and vulnerability. She deep dives into what boundaries are, exploring your personal boundaries and expressing them in healthy ways. During this conversation, we talk about vulnerability, self-intimacy, physical pleasure and slowing down to explore emotional intimacy. Along the way, we hear a bit about Emily’s journey as a model, artist, singer, and storyteller as we chat about women’s tendency to neglect themselves, especially women who are ambitious in their life. This is a rich conversation covering so many deep topics, and of course, Emily gives us some practices from her Heart Ninja toolbelt to deepen our self-intimacy. | |||
| 14 Feb 2024 | The Art of Fostering Connection with Noa Elan | 00:56:14 | |
In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I talk with Bloom Community CEO, Noa Elan. Noa brings an innovative and refreshing approach to finding experiences and creating connections in the dating and social world bridging online access with live, in-person events. During this conversation we dive into how a digital event & community site like Bloom can allow folks to communicate more authentically to form deeper relationships. Along the way, Noa shares her story of learning about sexuality, connection, embodiment and relationship all leading to the creation of Bloom. We talk about the nuances of consent, the value of community connection and embracing vulnerability. Noa shares her perspective on the need for creating more spaces that prioritize consent, growth and fostering both platonic and romantic relationships that are founded on depth of connection.
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| 06 Dec 2023 | Women’s Health for Better Sex with Erkeda DeRouen | 00:50:28 | |
In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I talk with Physician Healthcare Consultant, Keynote Speaker and Best-Selling Author, Dr. Erkeda. Dr. Erkeda brings us their wisdom related to sexual health and wellness, particularly women’s health issues and how to advocate for oneself with healthcare providers. We touch on the struggles women have in the healthcare system due to poor education in women’s health as well as getting support around sexual disorders. We explore pelvic floor health and how physical wellness plays a major role in our sexual wellness. Dr. Erkeda speaks about her commitment to provide more community access to wellness as it relates also to food security, financial ability and social determinants of good health. This is a valuable conversation filled with tips on how to manage women’s health issues and get the help you need when you need it. Connect with Dr. Erkeda Website: https://www.drerkeda.com/ Podcast: ProspectiveDoctor Podcast Pacemakers: https://pacemakerzapp.com/ INSTA: https://www.instagram.com/doctordgram Got questions about sex and relationship? DeborahTantraKat@gmail.com Better Sex Membership https://www.deborahkat.com/turnedon FB https://www.facebook.com/deborah.tantrakat Stay Connected Pillow Talk | |||
| 07 Jun 2023 | Sexual Responsibility with Umoh Luna | 00:48:09 | |
In this episode I sit down with astrologer, witch, and shamanistic strategist Umoh Luna. In this VERY unfiltered conversation, we explore the dynamics of sexual energy, the drama triangle, bodily autonomy and how all of this ties into sexual responsibility. We dive into all the things – shame, judgment, empowerment, victimhood and power. Juicy, right?! Umoh shares the importance of playful curiosity while exploring your own body. This curiosity is not just for you to learn yourself, but brings an element of even more depth when you bring it to the bedroom with your partner. Resources Umoh Astrology Website https://www.yourdollarsign. FB https://www.facebook.com/UmohLuna Deborah Got questions about sex and relationship? DeborahTantraKat@gmail.com Better Sex Membership https://www.deborahkat.com/turnedon FB https://www.facebook.com/deborah.tantrakat
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| 25 Apr 2023 | What Human Design has to teach us about Sex and Relationship with Baeth Davis | 00:56:15 | |
In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host Deborah Catt interviews Beth Davis, known as the Dr. Purpose, an advisor to entrepreneurs and career professionals globally. Beth uses her intuition, extensive sales, marketing, and content creation experience, along with expertise in scientific hand analysis and human design, to help clients discover and unleash their purpose and design their life around their gifts for soul fulfillment. Beth shares her journey into entrepreneurship and the importance of being present in the now. Throughout the podcast, Deborah and Beth have an unfiltered conversation about sex and relationships, exploring the topic from a variety of angles. In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I sit down with Baeth Davis– often known as “Dr. Purpose”-- with over 24 years using her intuition, business experience, expertise in scientific hand analysis and human design to help global leaders clients discover and unleash their purpose for deep soul fulfillment. You might wonder what this has to do with better sex…. Well, in this lively conversation you get a taste of Baeth's passion for purpose as we how this along with human design supports better relationships (thus, better sex!) Throughout our conversation she shares how to cultivate your relationship with your body to feel empowered both in the boardroom AND the bedroom. We also get a bit of her story along the way with loads of juicy tidbits to help you fully show up in your relationships. Connect with Baeth Davis https://yourpurpose.com Join the Facebook community: https://facebook.com/groups/ Connect with Deborah https://www.deborahkat.com/turnedon
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| 20 Mar 2024 | Confessions of a Tantric Lawyer with Kim Mukti Nirjhara | 00:52:27 | |
In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I talk with Tantric Lawyer, Kim Mukti Nirjhara. Kim blends the worlds of deep spiritual practice and the legal field, using tantric principles to navigate personal evolution through conflict resolution. Kim shares her transformative journey to discovering tantric therapy, the revitalization of her yoni, and how she came to bring together the intertwining of emotion and pleasure into working with legal disputes. During our conversation, Kim talks about her unique path of facilitating community leadership and the importance of healing sexual trauma within the body. This rich conversation touches on misconceptions of tantra, the broader uses of energetic practices in the legal environment, and her deep respect for First Nations law. Along the way, learn more about Kim’s newest book, “Confessions of a Tantric Lawyer” as well as a variety of tantric techniques you can use in your own personal practice. Connect with Kim Website: thetantriclawyer.com (with links to buy her book) Got questions about sex and relationship? Podcast Feedback DeborahTantraKat@Gmail.com Book a breakthrough session with Deborah https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=11737312&appointmentType=60692935 Sex and Relationship tips direct to you Inbox https://deborahkat.us5.list-manage.com/subscribe?u=428b26a12a8810bb5012792c3&id=ff89fb0d94 Learn Relationsh Skills in the Relationship Lab https://www.deborahkat.com/relationship-lab FB https://www.facebook.com/deborah.tantrakat
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| 28 Feb 2024 | Elevating Pleasure Through NeoTantra with Caroline Carrington | 00:48:44 | |
In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I talk with NeoTantra Educator and Pleasure and Intimacy Expert Caroline Carrington. Caroline shares her transformative journey from the corporate world to the rich and empowering realm of NeoTantra. During our conversation, we explore the differences between NeoTantra and traditional Tantra, discussing how dynamic meditations and mantras can act as profound tools for sexual mastery and deeper connection. Caroline provides valuable tips on reconnecting with the body and utilizing the chakras to improve sexual experiences. Along the way, we talk about how to improve communication, sexual stamina and increase overall pleasure. You’ll also be introduced to the powerful effects of sound and vibration during orgasm and the importance of authentic intimacy and learn about Caroline’s resources, workshops, and retreats to deepen your sexual empowerment and connection. www.JewelintheLotusCoaching.com Insta https://www.instagram.com/caroline.carrington/ Got questions about sex and relationship? Podcast Feedback DeborahTantraKat@Gmail.com Book a breakthrough session with Deborah https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=11737312&appointmentType=60692935 Sex and Relationship tips direct to you Inbox https://deborahkat.us5.list-manage.com/subscribe?u=428b26a12a8810bb5012792c3&id=ff89fb0d94 Learn Relationsh Skills in the Relationship Lab https://www.deborahkat.com/relationship-lab FB https://www.facebook.com/deborah.tantrakat | |||
| 19 Feb 2025 | Unpacking Jealousy & Pleasure with Ken Blackman | 01:01:49 | |
In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I talk with international Sex and Intimacy Educator and Relationship Coach, Ken Blackman. In this conversation, we dive deep into the nuance of jealousy and how it appears in relationships, exploring the different types of jealousy that can uniquely affect intimate connections. We also touch upon the transformative power of identifying different relationship motivations and how understanding these can shift things from transactional interactions to passionate partnerships. Along the way, Ken shares his inspiring story from being an Apple software engineer to his current mission of helping couples co-create thriving and fulfilling relationships. Ken gives us some valuable insights and practical tools to enhance sexual satisfaction through somatic pleasure and bridge the ‘orgasm gap’ – the disparity in orgasm between partners. Listen to this powerful episode and learn how to identify your own jealousy patterns to foster a more relaxed, fulfilling approach to intimacy. Connect with Ken Website - https://kenblackman.com Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/KenBlackmanPersonal Free Gift: "JEALOUSY—Everything You Need to Know" https://tally.so/r/3jPrEY Connect with Deborah Got questions about sex and relationship? Podcast Feedback DeborahTantraKat@Gmail.com Book a breakthrough session with Deborah https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=11737312&appointmentType=60692935 Sex and Relationship tips direct to you Inbox https://deborahkat.us5.list-manage.com/subscribe?u=428b26a12a8810bb5012792c3&id=ff89fb0d94 Practice and experimentation | |||
| 17 Aug 2023 | Embracing Dominance: A Journey through Kink and Femininity with Daytona Day | 00:43:25 | |
On this episode I sit down with professional Dominatrix and Coach, Daytona Day to dive into the world of Dominance & Submission (D/s). Hear how she got started in the world of fetish fashion which eventually led her to D/s and mentoring in that space. In discussing the exploration of D/s within the kink world, we look at the value of understanding both the dominant and submissive energies within yourself as a path to empowerment. Daytona brings us through the ins and outs of exploring dominant/submissive experiences including boundaries, role-play, kink psychology and living 24/7 in this lifestyle. Our conversation highlights the role of education, communication, and self-reflection in the kink journey and offers resources for those interested in exploring their own kinks and fetishes. CONNECT with Daytona Day Instagram Got questions about sex and relationship? DeborahTantraKat@gmail.com Support the Podcast Become part of the Better Sex Membership https://www.deborahkat.com/turnedon Coaching with Debroah | |||
| 19 Dec 2024 | From Conservative Roots to Liberated Lifestyle with Ayce Kypton | 00:47:56 | |
In this episode, I sit down with Certified Erotic Blueprints Coach and Somatic Sexological Bodyworker Ayce Kypton. Ayce shares his inspiring journey from growing up as a conservative, Republican Christian kid to living an erotically liberated lifestyle as a trans-masculine individual. Together, we explore his passion for somatic embodiment and reclaiming pleasure. Along the way, we dive into the importance of creating safe spaces—especially for LGBTQ individuals—to reconnect with their desires and express their needs openly. Ayce opens up about his personal journey of sexual self-discovery, revealing how approaches like the Erotic Blueprints and sexological bodywork helped shift his focus from pain to pleasure. Ayce teaches more about the five Erotic Blueprints and how they can enhance relationships and personal fulfillment. This conversation is packed with personal insights, practical advice, and a powerful reminder of the transformative impact of embracing pleasure without shame. Listen in on this engaging episode! Connect with Ayce https://www.aycekyptyn.com/somaticsexology https://www.instagram.com/ayce_kyptyn/ Connect with Deborah Got questions about sex and relationship? Podcast Feedback DeborahTantraKat@Gmail.com Book a breakthrough session with Deborah https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=11737312&appointmentType=60692935 Sex and Relationship tips direct to you Inbox https://deborahkat.us5.list-manage.com/subscribe?u=428b26a12a8810bb5012792c3&id=ff89fb0d94 Practice and experimentation | |||
| 05 Nov 2024 | “Love's Not Colorblind” & Polyamorous Communities with Kevin Patterson | 00:57:44 | |
In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I talk with Author & Polyamory Educator Kevin Patterson exploring the world of non-monogamy. During this conversation, we delve into the nuances of polyamory, debunking stereotypes, and discussing the importance of clear communication and respect in non-monogamous relationships. Kevin's personal experiences, from navigating long-term relationships to balancing family and social dynamics, offer valuable insights for anyone exploring life outside the bounds of monogamy. We also get into the challenges of balancing multiple relationship dynamics, maintaining personal interests, self-care and parenthood. Kevin speaks to race and representation in the polyamorous community, emphasizing that acknowledging racial differences can enrich our understanding of one another. Kevin’s thoughtful approach to identity, power dynamics, and personal customization of relationships promises to be both enlightening and transformative. Whether you are polyamory-curious or poly-experienced, this conversation is rich with valuable tips and perspectives to nurture healthy polyamorous relationships and foster more inclusive communities. Connect with Kevin https://www.kevinapatterson.com/ https://www.instagram.com/polyrolemodels Get the Books https://www.kevinapatterson.com/books Connect with Deborah Got questions about sex and relationship? Podcast Feedback DeborahTantraKat@Gmail.com Book a breakthrough session with Deborah https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=11737312&appointmentType=60692935 Sex and Relationship tips direct to you Inbox https://deborahkat.us5.list-manage.com/subscribe?u=428b26a12a8810bb5012792c3&id=ff89fb0d94 Practice and experimentation | |||
| 02 Jul 2024 | Liberating Erotic Shadows with Adam Chacksfield | 00:54:36 | |
In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I talk with Spiritual Teacher, Adam Chacksfield who takes us on a journey through spiritual healing and transformation of Erotic Shadows through his unique work combining non-duality and somatic practices. Adam discusses how shadow work can empower individuals to embrace their desires, set boundaries, and break free from shame stories, particularly with our erotic turn-ons and fantasies. Along the way, we hear about Adam's journey through inner transformation, exploration of the relationship between eroticism and spirituality, and development of his method for healing shadow. Adam's insights on embracing and exploring shadow aspects as a path to empowerment and connection make for a deep and intriguing discussion on embracing the full spectrum of human experience in sex and relationships. Connect with Adam http://www.adamchacksfield.com/ Got questions about sex and relationship? Podcast Feedback DeborahTantraKat@Gmail.com Book a breakthrough session with Deborah https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=11737312&appointmentType=60692935 Sex and Relationship tips direct to you Inbox https://deborahkat.us5.list-manage.com/subscribe?u=428b26a12a8810bb5012792c3&id=ff89fb0d94 Learn Relationsh Skills in the Relationship Lab https://www.deborahkat.com/relationship-lab FB https://www.facebook.com/deborah.tantrakat | |||