#teakink with Dominatrix Eva Oh (Dominatrix Eva Oh)
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| 23 Jul 2024 | #teakink Season 5: Interviews | 00:03:09 | |
Season 5 of the #teakink Podcast is all about the interviews. Eva Oh welcomes sex industry professionals, kink community photographers, masochists, fans and more to her play space sofa for a conversations that offer a deeper look into her world and its inhabitants. | |||
| 26 Mar 2024 | Escorting | 00:23:17 | |
Eva Oh dedicates a #teakink episode to her experience working as an Escort, Brothel and Massage Worker. Leave a voice note question or story about anything for Eva to respond to on the next season here: https://bit.ly/teakinknote More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - What is an Escort? (00:50) - How I Became an Escort (03:50) - My First Escort Photoshoot, in the middle of nowhere (07:00) - A Bad Feeling (08:00) - A Better Feeling (09:15) - Job Satisfaction (10:15) - These Ease of My First Booking (11:00) - Escort Agency and Dungeon Loyalty (12:20) - What the Job of Escorting Is - to me (13:20) - Girl Friend Experience VS Porn Star Experience (15:20) - Brothels (18:50) - Massage Parlours (20:20) - How I Structured My Work Life (21:00) - My Physical Gratification (21:50) - Missing the Workplace | |||
| 19 Sep 2023 | Ars*hole Tax: How I Set My Rates | 00:27:17 | |
Curious about the intriguing world of a Dominatrix and it's relationship to money? Listen in as I discuss the evolution of my rates, the rationale behind the changes, and the crucial balance between wealth accumulation and personal values. I also share the peaks and troughs of my career, including dealing with overwork and burnout, and how and why I pivoted to provide my clients rich, relationship-driven experiences. We will navigate the potential relationship between money and isolation, and how wealth can sometimes create a divide from reality. I also shed light on the importance of wealth redistribution, especially when it's in the hands of women. Let's redefine the power dynamics of wealth together. More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:15) - I Like Taking Money From Rich Men (01:01) - Should Anyone Be This Rich? (01:30) - The Evolution of My Rates (04:30) - Burnout as a Catalyst (07:00) - Wealth and Fairness (08:50) - Valuing Ourselves (10:55) - The Sexism in Money, The Caring Industries (12:15) - Ar*sehole Tax (15:20) - What is Money? (16:20) - My Relationship to Work, Money and Self-Care (19:55) - Reprogramming my Wealthy Clients (25:13) - Freedom, Wealth Redistribution, and Women's Impact LINKS: Financial Literacy, https://www.investopedia.com/guide-to-financial-literacy-4800530 UN Women, Economic Impact - https://www.unwomen.org/en/what-we-do/economic-empowerment/facts-and-figures TED Talk - How Economic Inequality Harms Societies, https://www.ted.com/talks/richard_wilkinson_how_economic_inequality_harms_societies?utm_campaign=tedspread&utm_medium=referral&utm_source=tedcomshare TED Talk - Universal Basic Income, https://www.ted.com/talks/steven_shafarman_the_case_for_universal_basic_income?utm_campaign=tedspread&utm_medium=referral&utm_source=tedcomshare | |||
| 25 Mar 2025 | Power Miniseries III: Money and the Dominatrix | 00:23:48 | |
In the final episode of the #teakink Power Miniseries, Eva Oh unpacks the intricate relationship between money and power in domination. From her early survival mindset to financial stability, she reflects on how her understanding of wealth has evolved—and whether the one paying is truly the one in control. Does money dictate power, or is it all about perception? With insights on findom, greed, and the illusions wealth creates, this episode challenges conventional ideas about financial dominance and self-worth. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:21) - Power Miniseries III: Money (01:06) - My Relationship to Money Pre-Domination (02:00) - Findom was Not a Category (02:55) - My Evolution from Survival to Wealth (04:20) - What is ‘Real’? Lifestyle vs Professional Domination (06:55) - Does the Person Paying Have the Power? (09:15) - The Power of Perspective (10:50) - How My Understanding of Money Has Changed Over Time (13:10) - Wealth Does Not Correlate to Quality of Personhood (19:20) - Money, Existential Anguish, Greed and Weakness (21:40) - The Miniseries Format Experiment | |||
| 28 Nov 2023 | My Brush with Toxicity in Celebrity Relationships | 00:43:21 | |
You’ve witnessed my dating successes, and now, I’ll dissect my former toxic relationship that was entrenched in the strange world of celebrity culture. It all starts in the dimly lit Thai restaurant located across my former apartment. Unbenounst to me, the minute I locked eyes with my date, the man, the enigma, who would trigger the emotional rollercoaster that ultimately became my life. Our relationship was defined by deception, gaslighting, and misogyny. This is the story about a relationship that chipped away at my confidence and trust, and how I overcame it.
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| 29 Aug 2023 | Becoming an AI Companion: The First Episode of a Series? | 00:26:57 | |
What happens when a seasoned Dominatrix steps into the world of AI companionship? Brace yourself as I, Eva Oh, navigate the murky waters of digital domination. We will delve into the technologies behind creating AI companions. From collecting OnlyFans chats to photos and audio samples, companies are asking to gather myriad inputs to create a digital doppelgänger of me. However, how does this sync with my stand on image ownership and personal attachment? Exhilarating and unnerving, join me as I recount my unique experience with a tech billionaire-owned company in Singapore, muse over possible government regulation, and contemplate the future of synthetic relationships.
More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com
HIGHLIGHTS:
Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.
(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:15) - Should I Become an AI Companion?
(03:53) - AI Companies Approaching
(08:03) - Chinese Tech Billionaires, Will I Win?
(11:34) - Exploring AI Avatars and Personal Attachment
(15:20) - Why am I Considering This? Why Do I Do Anything?
(15:59) - Engaging with Our Own Humanity Through AI Companionship
(18:04) - Challenging Societal Norms
(19:27) - Using Our Rights
(21:39) - Why Work At All?
(21:58) - Centre of Humane Technology, Lawyers, Information and Risk
(23:37) - Risk, Thrill Values as Motivators?
(26:23) - Journaling
LINKS:
'Your Undivided Attention' Podcast, https://www.humanetech.com/podcast
Center for Humane Technology, https://www.humanetech.com/
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| 24 Sep 2024 | Goddess Faye: The Digital Harem, Nerdiness and BDSM, TeamLab, AI and Cyborg Domination | 00:45:40 | |
When Eva Oh posted a question on AI and sex work to Instagram a wave of opinions came back, but a referenced musing via Google Docs from Goddess Faye clearly stood out - and now we have quite the episode of the #teakink Podcast on Bizarre Ladies, the potential viscerality of the digital, emotional design in session, nerdiness and BDSM, TeamLabs, Cyborg Dominatrix Dreams, brain tissue, VR Porn, Web3, Digital Harems and more! Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - Meet Goddess Faye aka Sensory Girl (01:20) - From Tumblr to Dominatrix and Pro Deviant (02:45) - Bizarre Ladies (03:18) - Sitting on Wet and Messy Things (04:55) - The Visceral Meets The Digital (09:27) - Emotional Design in Session (11:12) - Nerdiness and BDSM (12:10) - Technology in Session (15:00) - My Ultimate Fantasy and TeamLab (17:45) - Our Cyborg Dominatrix Dreams (20:20) - Brain Tissue, AI and Sentience (22:50) - VR Porn Needs to Evolve (23:35) - Next Innovations in the Sex Industry? (25:20) - Web3 Concerns (28:00) - Truthfulness (30:30) - The Unknown of AI (32:00) - Curator of Your Mind (33:40) - How Will AI Change BDSM and the Dominatrix (34:30) - The Digital Harem (35:25) - Consent, Chatbots and Submissive Control (36:50) - AI as a Good Submissive (39:15) - The Dehumanisation of Sex Workers (42:30) - Skin in the Game | |||
| 14 May 2024 | The Difference Between Women, NB and Other Sex Work Clients? | 00:13:15 | |
Is there a difference between women, non-binary and other clients? Do they apply for a session differently, have differing kinks or play styles? Eva Oh reveals how her bias is the key defining factor in her work with a wide range of individuals as a Dominatrix in this episode of the #teakink Podcast. | |||
| 03 Dec 2024 | Matthew of Baron Books: Joan Collins, Sex Shops, Imprisonment and The Death Book | 00:59:28 | |
Matthew of Baron Books joins Eva Oh on her play space sofa to indulge us on the pornographic origins of Baron and how the influence of powerful women shaped his views on identity and sexuality. They also chat sex shops, cruising apps, The Death Book, medical fetish, feeders, Versace, Bruce La Bruce and so so much more. | |||
| 08 Apr 2025 | David Chambers - Coaching Men, Love, and the Fear of Feeling | 01:19:36 | |
On this episode of the #teakink Podcast, Eva Oh sits down with David Chambers, a coach helping men deepen their capacity for love. They unpack his past in the pick-up artist community, why he initially resisted becoming a coach, and what actually makes a good one. From the parallels between coaching and domination to men’s fears around love and attunement, they explore what holds people back from empathy and connection. Plus, they dive into Vipassana, the patriarchy, universal basic income—and whether aliens might just save us all. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:00:21) - Why David Chambers Helps Men to Love More Deeply (00:01:50) - How Love Has Changed For David Since He Became a Coach (00:06:25) - Why and How David Started to Change His Experience of Life (00:11:00) - Who Asks for David’s Help and Why? (00:12:10) - David’s Own Coaches (00:14:25) - Eva’s Initial Mistrust of Coaches (00:16:40) - David’s Pick Up Artist Coaching and Community (00:22:35) - David Didn’t Want to be a Coach (00:23:20) - What Makes a Good Coach (00:25:40) - A Dominatrix Coaching Circle? (00:27:50) - Managing Client Numbers as a Coach (00:30:20) - Parallels between Dominatrix and Coaches (00:31:25) - The Benefits of Coaching in Groups (00:34:00) - David’s Fear of Expressing Love (00:36:30) - What are Men Afraid of and How to Work with Their Fears (00:41:25) - Men’s Approaches Towards Women and ‘Attunement’ (00:53:10) - Eva’s Perspective Building ‘Walking Exercise’ with Her Clients (00:56:40) - Why People Hide from Feeling Empathy (00:59:10) - The Patriarchy, Reparations, Gisèle Pelicot and What Do We Do About It (01:08:00) - Leaning into Challenge, Disagreement and Moving Out of Reaction (01:10:00) - Vipasanna Meditation and Rewriting Our Relationship to Pain (01:14:00) - Universal Basic Income and Greed (01:15:00) - Will Aliens Save Us?! | |||
| 12 Nov 2024 | Teas by Eva Oh | 00:19:43 | |
Eva Oh launches her own loose leaf teas! A Jasmine Silver Tip and an Aged Port Oolong. Watch her pour herself a tea ceremony as she takes us through the history of how and why #teakink began. A tale of Domme friends, secrets, censorship and platforming the margins. | |||
| 02 Apr 2024 | The Ultimate Sex Party Episode | 00:22:54 | |
What is a sex party? How do you find one? Do you have to have sex there? Eva Oh dishes out her international sex party experience in a #teakink episode with a lot of valuable information gathered through deep, hard and extensively serious research. Leave a voice note question or story about anything for Eva to respond to on the next season here: https://bit.ly/teakinknote More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: | |||
| 25 Feb 2025 | Flashback - My Origin Story: From Corporate Slave to Dominatrix | 00:37:26 | |
Ever wondered about breaking free from those conforming roles we play? I'm Eva Oh, and I'll take you on my unconventional journey into the world of the Dominatrix. It started with a joke from my ex about my assertiveness. Little did I know this would lead me to becoming one. Brace yourself as I guide you through uncharted territory, on how I quit the corporate world, to sharing my first day on the job as a Dominatrix, and recounting my exhilarating first session. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:15) - Becoming a Dominatrix (01:39) - Women's Assertiveness and Societal Perceptions (04:51) - From Strategic Consultant to Dominatrix (08:51) - First Day as Mistress, New Experiences (15:06) - A Special First Shadowing Experience (21:10) - Exploring BDSM and Personal Enjoyment (27:56) - Work Dungeon to Personal Business Transition (33:40) - The Power of Non-Judgmental Intimacy (35:35) - Sex Work and Society's Perception | |||
| 27 Feb 2024 | Aging and Dating, Becoming “Mommy” | 00:21:00 | |
Nobody told Eva Oh that there would be an influx of younger folk interested in dating women much older than them. Eva is called “mature” by a date for the first time and “Mommy” by multiple admirers and it stirs thoughts on how she could best approach this surprise. A #teakink episode that makes obvious the difference between the conversations we have around older men dating younger women versus the far more swept under the rug world of the older dating woman. Leave a voice note question or story about anything for Eva to respond to on the next season here: https://bit.ly/teakinknote More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: | |||
| 14 Jan 2025 | Ali Bushell - Kink in Therapy, Taboo Desires, the Shadow Archetypes of Therapists and Hearing Voices | 00:56:57 | |
Ali Bushell, therapist and Internal Family Systems (IFS) practitioner, joins us on the #teakink Podcast for a deep dive intotherapy, kink, and self-discovery. From his work with sex workers to exploring fetish in therapy, Ali shares insights on topics like power, violence, and the parts of ourselves we exile. We unpack shadow archetypes of therapists, the brain as a sexual organ, and the complexity of integrating the self through practices like Vipassana and IFS. Ali's book, 'The Sex Party Handbook': https://shorturl.at/dZeF6 Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:23) - Meet Ali Bushell, Therapist and Internal Family Systems Practitioner (00:40) - How We Met, Ali's Sex Worker Outreach (03:12) - How Sex Workers Can Find Therapists (14:20) - Defining Sex and the Brain as a Sexual Organ (16:05) - Kink in Therapy (24:30) - Power and Violence (26:20) - An Extreme Example? Is it ok That I Enjoyed What I Enjoyed with My Father? (31:00) - Exiled Parts of Ourselves (33:00) - What is Therapy, to Ali (37:50) - Shadow Archetypes of Therapists: Savers, Narcissists and Robots (39:20) - Vipassana, Hearing Voices and Integrating the Self (44:50) - How Ali Found Internal Family Systems (IFS) and Uses It (49:40) - You Can't Un-Kink (52:09) - Sex Negativity and Turning the Lights Off (53:50) - The Kinsey Scale, How Homosexual or Heterosexual are We? | |||
| 26 Sep 2023 | The Pits of Working and Playing with Couples | 00:28:28 | |
I’ve had some trouble working and playing with couples since I first started working as a Dominatrix in 2011. In this episode, hear the story of Fisting Bob, a regular at the dungeon I used to work in, and the strange turns our professional relationship took when I started getting letters from his wife. Follow me into the Piss Pit at Berghain with two dear friends of mine who may have rescued my faith in playing with couples. Find out more about the exploration of our desires and how the BDSM community can give space to the negotiation that can facilitate their satiation. Watch me rethink my past and maybe reframe the opinion that started this episode in the first place. More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:15) - What is a Relationship Unicorn? (00:52) - Meet Fisting Bob (07:06) - A Bad Decision? (15:13) - Exploring Desires and Negotiating Boundaries (16:59) - The Piss Pit at Berghain (24:00) - Reflections on Reacting and Seeking Reassurance (27:21) - Changing My Perception on Being a Unicorn | |||
| 03 Oct 2023 | TV Contracts and Influencer Marketing: Am I a Sell Out? | 00:26:22 | |
I, Eva Oh, have found myself at a crossroads - TV show proposals, brand collaborations, and even the prospect of becoming an AI companion have me reflecting on the trajectory of my unconventional career. On this episode I delve deep into the pros and cons; and why now, more than ever, there's a sudden interest in stories like mine. My choices today will reshape the narrative of my life tomorrow, and that's a responsibility I do not take lightly. So, come along as I contemplate the chaos and ponder over whether it's the right time for me - a Dominatrix - to step into the mainstream. More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:15) - TV Producers, Talent Managers and Agents Approaching (01:40) - Why Would a Sex Worker Say Yes? (02:20) - What Disgusts Me About the Idea (03:50) - My Words and Voice (05:05) - What I Enjoy About Interviews (06:30) - Why the Media are Interested in Representing Sex Workers Now (08:20) - How Should I Join the Narrative? (08:44) - From Dominatrix to Executive Producer (10:30) - Sex Workers Mistrust of the Media (11:10) - Seeing it as an Opportunity (11:55) - TV Hesitation vs AI Enthusiasm (12:30) - The Chaos of Sex Worker Meets Influencer Culture (14:25) - How Meditation Plays it's Part (15:25) - Embracing the Chaos (16:30) - Am I a Sell Out? (18:10) - Community and Personal Gain (18:55) - The Case for RuPaul’s Drag Race (22:55) - Am I Going to Regret This? (24:00) - Self-compassion | |||
| 23 Jan 2024 | Becoming an AI Companion: Part 2 with Åste Amundsen, Experience Designer and Researcher | 01:04:17 | |
Award-winning Dominatrix Eva Oh meets with Åste Amundsen, Experience Designer and Researcher, to find out more about the potential of her AI Companionship and its overarching effect on our lives. Listen in on a conversation that explores the evolution of human interaction, parallels to the early internet and sex work, chatbot rights, the ‘Interaction Arms Race’ and Åste’s Sex Chatbot Reverse Turing Test. Eva asks, can designing her AI Companion be done ethically or does that even matter? More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Links: | |||
| 05 Sep 2023 | I Love Men Crying: Sports and the Dungeon, the Intersection | 00:34:24 | |
Ready to challenge perceptions of men, emotions, and sports? Join me in exploring the intriguing links between the fervor of a pub during a match and the emotional liberation I witness in my work as a Dominatrix. This episode uncovers the beauty of unfiltered emotions, the spaces that allow them, and the power they hold. We'll delve into the story of my first profoundly moving session — a testament to human vulnerability. We’ll journey through sports tribalism, my admiration for teams like Manchester City, and the importance of allowing ourselves to express our emotions. Let’s unravel the complexity of men's emotions, the societal pressure they face, and the courage it takes to allow oneself to truly feel. More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:15) - My Discovery. Men Crying at the Pub. (06:30) - Tribalism (07:55) - Manchester City (08:45) - Parallels to the Freedom of Emotion in My Work (12:32) - The First Time a Man Cried for Me (16:00) - What Does Everyone Want? (17:15) - What is Sexuality? (19:40) - How Will Emotion be Integrated in a Tech-driven World? (22:45) - My Emotional Sadism (25:15) - My Masochism and Meditation (26:20) - Freedom (31:15) - Everyone’s Problem | |||
| 05 Dec 2023 | My #teakink Tokyo Event, Shibari Living Rooms and Other Finds | 00:32:02 | |
Eva Oh Revisits an adventurous journey through Tokyo's kink scene, discovering the city's unique take on sex, modesty, and voyeurism. From erotic shower shows to theatrical shibari and BDSM hostess bars, uncover the hidden stories and personal anecdotes of Tokyo's sexual tapestry. By the end, you’ll have heard stories about Eva’s friendships, an tattoo’d submissive with an amusing relationship with pain, and what she plans to do next in Japan as a tourist. | |||
| 13 Aug 2024 | 'Floor': From Service Top to Submissive, a Peek into a Submissive Mind | 00:46:45 | |
Eva Oh places her feet on the chest of a submissive #teakink Podcast listener for an interview on the submissive mindset. With 'Floor', Eva leads a conversation on how he discovered his submissive identity, his journey from service top to submissive, his early desires to role play as the floor, his craving for connection and how he became a part of Eva's Domme Training Sessions. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:21) - A Submissive Listener Now Under My Feet (02:35) - Is My Persona My Reality? The Sub's Perspective (05:00) - How We Know Each Other (06:39) - Becoming a Part of My Training Sessions (12:20) - What is a Session with a Dominatrix? (13:45) - A Hint at What a Session With Me is Like (16:00) - Discovering the Submissive Identity (17:20) - Finding the Community (19:50) - From Service Top to Submissive (22:15) - Wanting to Role Play as the Floor (24:40) - Thank You Graham Norton (25:20) - A Fetish in Hiding (28:40) - What it's Been Like Looking for a D/s Dynamic (31:40) - Craving Connection (34:45) - 24/7 Power Dynamics (43:00) - The Importance of Communication (45:00) - Finding Satisfaction | |||
| 28 Jan 2025 | Mathilde Friis - Purity, Monstrosity, Her PhD and Slut Shaming | 00:48:36 | |
This week on the #teakink Podcast, Eva Oh sits down with Mathilde Friis, curator and PhD researcher of art, sexuality, and sex work. We follow Mathilde into her early days, researching in a sex shop, and delve into the creative process behind sex work. We discover the contradictions in how society commodifies creativity while stigmatizing sex, and explore topics like slut-shaming on social media and the range of artistic interpretations of sex work. Mathilde also reflects on purity, danger, cultural etiquette, and why sexuality continues to spark controversy, challenging societal notions of monstrosity and taboo along the way. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:23) - Mathilde Friis, Curator and PhD Researcher on Artwork, Sexuality and Sex Work (01:40) - Mathilda's Interest in the Contradictions of Sexuality (03:40) - Doing Research in a Sex Shop (05:12) - Slut Shaming Research and Social Media (06:00) - Returning to Sexuality after a Commercial Art Gallery (08:00) - The 'Working Girls' Exhibition (10:15) - The Creative Practice of Sex Work (17:00) - How Society Allows us to Define and Commodify Creativity (20:30) - Sex Worker Honesty and Range in Artistic Interpretation (24:15) - How to Work with Sex Workers When You're Not One (31:00) - Purity, Danger ad Cultural Etiquette (35:00) - Why Does Sexuality Attract Controversy? (39:10) - What is Considered a Monstrosity in Current Society? (40:18) - Commodifying the Space Around Sexuality but not Sex Itself, on Meta (43:40) - Mathilda's Ambitions for Art and Sexuality | |||
| 18 Jun 2024 | Being Clickbait and Prioritising Goals in Sex Work | 00:13:45 | |
We open with a question on PR Agencies and Sex Worker Friendships and we end up amongst the problematic nature of clickbait and hopefully a few alternative ways to drive traffic to OnlyFans and into our businesses. A #teakink Podcast episode on how to think about our personal goals whilst placing worth in the challenges that sex workers face collectively. | |||
| 04 Mar 2025 | What is a Dominatrix? | 00:14:58 | |
What is a Dominatrix, as told by a Dominatrix. Eva Oh meets some newbies to the scene who inspire her to explain the basics of the role of a Dominatrix, what happens in session, how clients make requests and where it all happens. With some additional important notes, on power. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:21) - Why Answer an ‘Obvious’ Question? (01:44) - What is a Dominatrix and What Do They Do? (03:35) - What Happens in a Dominatrix Session? (04:20) - How Do Clients Know What They Want? (05:50) - More About a Dominatrix Session (06:40) - Where Do Dominatrix Work? (08:50) - Power, A Miniseries? (10:00) - Lessons on Women, Myself, Money and Power | |||
| 02 Jan 2024 | Interview: My Main BDSM Slave, m | 00:40:37 | |
Eva Oh interviews her main BDSM slave, m. This intimate conversation offers a unique look into the Dominatrix-submissive relationship, and the extraordinary dynamics that shape it.
m sheds light on his journey from fear to complete surrender, candidly discussing his initial hesitance and intrigue, his struggle to let go, and the allure of Eva Oh’s dominating personality that finally led him to cherish the power exchange. Join us as we delve deeper into the dynamics of BDSM relationships, exploring intimacy, trust, and the profound fulfilment they can offer.
More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com
HIGHLIGHTS:
Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.
(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:18) - Meet My Main Slave, m
(00.35) - The Foot Cam
(00.56) - How We Met
(02:10) - Ruling m’s Thoughts
(02:40) - Why m Was Interested in Me
(03:55) - m ‘Letting Go’
(05:25) - m’s Second Thoughts
(06.20) - My ’Strong Personality’
(07.20) - m’s Fears and Attempted Manipulations
(08:10) - The Ruler will Rule
(08:50) - Rejection, Acceptance and Trust
(10.30) - Preconceptions Meeting Reality
(11.40) - m’s Growing Relationship to Pain and Resilience
(12.20) - Taking Lessons from BDSM into m’s Workplace
(13.30) - Love and Lust
(15.00) - m Learning Compassion
(15:30) - Why m Has Learned So Much
(16.30) - What Our Day to Day Looks Like
(19.15) - Navigating Expectations
(20.13) - Communicating Needs and Understanding Each Other
(22.35) - Sexuality and Intimacy
(27.00) - m’s Concept of BDSM before Meeting Me vs Now
(29.55) - m’s Hopes for The Future
(31.00) - m’s Question for Me, Why Do I Accept Him?
(35.30) - The Importance of Hearing the Submissive Voice
(39.00) - How Vanilla Relationships Fit, or Don’t
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| 06 Feb 2024 | Season 3 Begins. My Voice Notes are Open! | 00:10:08 | |
Eva Oh kicks off Season 3 on a reflective note, indulging us in how she’s found the podcast so far and what she’s found to be her biggest reward. Eva reveals more on how she creates each episode; and opens up her voice notes - for you to ask questions and share stories that she will respond to and create a whole #teakink season out of next! Leave a voice note here: https://bit.ly/teakinknote More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: | |||
| 17 Sep 2024 | Miss Gold: Sexuality and Parenthood, Fantasy and How to Photograph a Sex Party | 00:41:14 | |
Prolific Kink Photographer Miss Gold invites Eva Oh into the contents of her mind on this episode of the #teakink Podcast. We discover Miss Gold's start in fine art, her first steps into fetish, the importance of fantasy in her work, her sexuality and parenthood, and she reveals to us the intricacies of photographing sex parties as an insider. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - You Don't Deserve to See Miss Gold's Feet (01:20) - From Fine Art to Fetish Photography (02:30) - Sex Party Photography Highlights: Latex Pig Masks (04:00) - Fantastical Fantasies (06:20) - How Miss Gold Found Kink (08:00) - How to Photograph a Sex Party (10:00) - Editorial Photography Meets BDSM (12:00) - The Issues of Non-Kinksters Documenting Kink (16:30) - The Surge of Sex Parties (19:35) - Sex Influencer Culture (21:40) - Sexuality and Parenthood (26:00) - Being Pregnant at Sex Parties (28:00) - Discussing Sexuality with Our Children (31:50) - The Contents of Miss Gold's Mind (36:00) - Future Plans, Documenting Our Kink History | |||
| 17 Dec 2024 | Crazy Rich Sex Parties | 00:25:50 | |
Eva Oh has been getting invited to more and more crazy rich sex parties to manage BDSM dungeons and entertain guests with kinky installations. Enter the clandestine operations of sex parties for the uber wealthy - where multiple day productions cost millions, where guests and staff are flown in all expenses paid from across the world, and where Eva often sits in between the gratitude of a gig and the spectacle, shock and concerns of extreme wealth. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:23) - Crazy Rich Sex Parties and NDAs (02:30) - Where and How? (03:30) - Who Runs and Attends Them? (04:20) - Staffing, Recruitment and Production Companies (08:14) - What Do I Do at Them, BDSM Show and Tell (09:40) - Consent Concerns (13:30) - The Overwhelm of Extreme Wealth (15:55) - Crew Bonding, Catering and Naps (17:50) - Theatre, Campness and Value (19:15) - A Story, The Labyrinth of a Guest Experience | |||
| 05 Mar 2024 | The Berlin Travel Guide That I Owe You | 00:34:35 | |
The Berlin Travel Guide that Eva Oh didn’t give you in Season 2 when she got sidetracked with a salacious story. But here it is! Club culture, sex clubs, sexuality learning spaces, kink festivals, bondage furniture makers, kink gear and fashion stores. Dig into Eva’s favourite places in Berlin, Germany - all from the comfort of her hotel bed after a successful weekend in Berlin herself. Leave a voice note question or story about anything for Eva to respond to on the next season here: https://bit.ly/teakinknote More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - Good Morning-ish from Berlin (00:59) - Why Do I Come to Berlin (04:00) - Club Culture, We Must of Course Talk about Berghain (09:00) - My First Berlin Sex Clubs and Playing with a Stranger (14:00) - Kit Kat Club, My Many Experiences There (19:55) - The German Fetish Ball (23:20) - Sexuality Learning Spaces, Karada House (24:30) - EURIX Rope Week (27:00) - Bondage Furniture Makers (28:40) - Kink Gear and Fashion Stores (31:00) - Playing with the Door Person at a Swingers Club | |||
| 10 Dec 2024 | Deborah of the Museum of Sex Objects: Meretrix Whips, Rage, Freedom and Cat Ladies | 00:54:03 | |
The Current Keeper of the Museum of Sex Objects, Deborah Sims, joins Eva Oh for a fascinating discussion on women and freedom on the #teakink Podcast. We discover more about the origins of the Museum, WeWork Dominatrix Dungeons, Coven Garden Industrial Spanking, and the museum's objects - including a whip made from Meretrix hair of Roman times. Deborah and Eva chat rage, 'Poor Things', historical patterns of sexual and female liberation and the importance of remembering our history - including cases of forced female circumcision in Notting Hill not that long ago.
Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh
More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com
HIGHLIGHTS:
Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.
(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:23) - Meet Deborah Sims, the Keeper of the Museum of Sex Objects
(02:15) - The Objects, from Roman times to Today
(05:50) - Why the Museum Came About, Untold Stories and Straightjacketed Women
(11:10) - The Intersection of Freedom, Desire and Cat Ladies
(15:30) - Rage and Forced Female Circumcision in Notting Hill
(20:35) - 'Poor Things', Female 'Hysteria' and Roe vs Wade
(21:30) - Historical Patterns of Sexual and Female Liberation?
(27:10) - The Importance of Remembering History
(30:10) - Matriarchal Sex Cults and 18th Century Industrial Spanking
(33:40) - Societal Challenges and Hopes for the Museum
(37:40) - Coco de Mer and the Ladies of Covent Garden
(40:30) - Sexy Soho Walking Tours and the WeWork Dominatrix Dungeon
(43:05) - Manet's 'Olympia'
(44:45) - The Unpaid Sexual Labour of Marriage vs(?) Sex Work
(48:50) - Rethinking Censorship on Social Media, Awareness and Freedom | |||
| 12 Dec 2023 | My Ticklish "Dentist" | 00:23:47 | |
Eva Oh sets the record straight about a lie spread by a former client: a dentist with a tickle fetish, a penchant for luxury credit cards, a yellow sports car, and dubious musical talents? Eva also shares insights into the art of spanking and a surprising revelation about her feet. | |||
| 12 Mar 2024 | My Darling Laura Desiree | 00:32:26 | |
Listen in on an intimate conversation between Eva Oh and her dear and accomplished friend Laura Desiree that spans erotic callings, orgasms, banned erotica, stigma, drive and their favourite philosophy podcasts.
Leave a voice note question or story about anything for Eva to respond to on the next season here: https://bit.ly/teakinknote
More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com
HIGHLIGHTS:
Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.
(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:18) - My Darling Laura Desiree
(00:40) - Disrupting Laura’s Structure
(02:04) - What Laura is Up To
(02:50) - Laura’s Event, ‘Eros Unbound’
(05:40) - Our Orgasms
(07:00) - Voice, Sound and the Erotic
(08:15) - Laura’s Erotic Calling
(10:00) - Porn vs the Personal
(12:15) - More On Our Orgasms, ‘Under the Skin’ and Astral Projection
(13:55) - Laura’s Banned Erotica
(15:00) - The Shared Stigma, Sex Workers and Sex Educators
(18:25) - What Motivates Laura’s Drive
(21:00) - Sex Workers Becoming Activists and Educators
(23:50) - Eva Oh vs an FBI Agent
(24:40) - The Meaning of Podcasting and a Platform?
(29:00) - Our Favourite Philosophy Podcasts
(29:40) - Limitations Birthing Creativity and Laura’s Tragedy
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| 04 Feb 2025 | MJ of Joyride: Sex Parties, Irish Sexuality, Sex Tech and Male Porn Habits | 00:55:08 | |
MJ has been on a deep and fast ride into sexuality since an accident catalysed a self-investigation in 2019. She has since brought forth the Joyride Sex Parties and Socials, studied with the Institute for Sexuality, and has plans for expanding the world of sex tech. Join MJ and Eva Oh for a #teakink episode through MJ's discoveries, sex doll brothels, Irish sexuality, the sexual concerns of cis-het men, boundaries and pleasure. | |||
| 21 Aug 2023 | #teakink with Dominatrix Eva Oh (Trailer) | 00:00:24 | |
Welcome to my world, unfiltered. Get the #teakink.
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| 27 Aug 2024 | A Mid-Season Memoir Reading by Eva Oh: Golden Showers | 00:10:06 | |
We take a mid season pause from the #teakink Podcast Interviews to feature a reading from Eva Oh's memoir in progress. A chapter on perfecting the mechanics of golden showers on a client called 'French Frank', and how Eva discovers a sense of joy that she had never experienced before, in her very first session as a Dominatrix. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - A Reading from My Memoir in Progress (01:15) - Chapter 7, Golden Showers | |||
| 03 Sep 2024 | Playful's Amanda and Filip: Platforming Voices and the Berghain Darkroom with Eva Oh | 00:44:10 | |
Playful Magazine, Podcast, TV... Amanda and Filip of Playful get into bed with Eva Oh to talk about their vision for Playful, platforming sex workers, discovering the fluidity of their sexualities, Filip in lingerie and a surprising experience that they had with Eva in the Berghain Darkroom. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - Meet Amanda and Filip of Playful (02:00) - What is Playful (03:30) - How They Choose Their Guests (04:15) - Platforming Sex Workers (07:30) - The Playful Vision (09:40) - Music and Sex (11:30) - Featuring the Path Less Travelled (14:19) - Exploring The Fluidity of Their Sexualities (17:55) - What Makes a "Relevant" Man (19:25) - Peeing on People Together (20:20) - The Story of Eva in the Darkroom at Bergahin (30:25) - Berghain's Sexual Evolution (35:20) - Getting More Naked (39:20) - More Female Friendly Cruising Spots (41:20) - Playful TV | |||
| 19 Nov 2024 | Venus: Lesbian Wrestling, Self Defence and Being Present in Fighting and F**king | 00:46:16 | |
Venus is the organiser of Sex and Rage, a martial artist, fetish wrestler and soon to be stunt performer. In this conversation between Venus and Eva Oh we learn about Venus’ progression from stripping into fetish wrestling, the origins of Sex and Rage, Venus’ Lesbian and Bisexual Strip Club, the various personas that she embodies; and the importance of power, presence and play. | |||
| 18 Mar 2025 | Power Miniseries II: Why Does the Dominatrix Exist? | 00:14:15 | |
In the second episode of the #teakink Power Miniseries, Eva Oh examines the existence of the Dominatrix—not just as a profession, but as a cultural phenomenon. Why is female power so rare that it becomes fetishized? What does the Dominatrix reveal about society’s relationship with female agency? And how can one navigate this space without reinforcing the very dynamics it critiques? Eva dissects the contradictions, the intrigue, and the deeper implications of wielding power in a world that still struggles to accept it. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:21) - Power Miniseries II: Why Does the Dominatrix Exist? (05:10) - The Fetishisation of the Rare Concept of Female Agency (07:55) - How Do I Not be a Part of the ‘Problem’ | |||
| 07 Nov 2023 | Season 1 Recap: Why Did I Do This, Am I Crazy? | 00:18:53 | |
The Season Finale! It’s been a raw ride of experiences, emotions, and lessons learned and I shared much more with you than I bargained for. Do I regret it? In this season finale I reminisce over what I’ve revealed - my turning into an AI, my sex party adventures, encounters with clients gone wrong and more… It’s been challenging but I hope my life's insights and my world have spoken to you, or at least inspired a little joy. Shall I do another season? More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:15) - How I Created the Podcast This Season (01:30) - Which Episodes Were Tough! (02:10) - What Did I Want From It? (03:00) - Leaving a Rating Really Helps! Thank you (03:15) - Why I Started This Podcast (04:50) - What Surprised Me (06:10) - Vulnerability and Community Support (07:58) - A Fun Opportunity to Investigate My Own Mind (09:40) - Major Motivations (10:40) - A Reflection on the ‘Arsehole Tax’ Episode and Money (13:15) - Getting to Share My History (14:20) - How Should I Move Forward? (15:30) - The Risks (18:10) - Thank You for Listening. See You Next Season? | |||
| 26 Nov 2024 | Miss May at E1 Darkroom: Filth, Deep Cleaning, Dating and Domination in Germany vs the UK | 00:42:02 | |
Eva Oh joins Miss May at her playspace, E1 Darkroom, to talk dating, polyamory, the draw of filth and intensity, the 'ick' of the stereotypical 'dominant' man, the rarity of a good service sub and the deep deep importance of cleaning. | |||
| 09 Apr 2024 | Would a Sex Worker Date You? | 00:24:46 | |
When people ask Eva Oh how her dates or partners “handle” her job and industry, it’s a frustrating time. Although she has come to understand the societal shortcomings that inspire this question, she has also learned of the incredible skills that sex work can offer the individuals who choose to work in it - and so perhaps the more important question is, ‘Would a Sex Worker Date You?’. Listen to this eye opening episode of the #teakink Podcast to find out. Leave a voice note question or story about anything for Eva to respond to on the next season here: https://bit.ly/teakinknote More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - Would a Sex Worker Date You? (01:00) - Unfortunate Case Studies (05:11) - Sex Work and Elevated Communication Skills (06:30) - Do You Deserve the Empathy? (08:55) - How Sex Work Has Changed Me (14:49) - Understanding Society’s Shortcomings (16:25) - A Better Case Study (18:00) - “I Never Thought I Could Have a Relationship Like This” (19:50) - How and Why Monogamy Was Constructed? (22:14) - Why I’ve Become So Picky, What I Deserve | |||
| 07 Jan 2025 | Vex of Four Chambers - Burnout, Lactation and Leaning into Despair | 01:19:19 | |
Eva Oh and Vex of Four Chambers dive into a conversation about the sometimes messy and always fascinating intersections of sex, art, and identity. From how performance challenges embodiment in sexuality, to how burnout hits when your work revolves around desire. We journey through Vex's cyber goth era and chatroom nostalgia to inducing lactation for a porn series, as she opens up about her values, and the shifts shaping porn today.
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| 15 Apr 2025 | Plastic Surgery, Aging, and the Sci-Fi Future of Beauty | 00:31:09 | |
Beauty tweaks, social media pressure, and the ever-creeping desire to look "young"—Eva Oh unpacks it all in this #teakink Podcast episode. She shares her experiences with Botox, fillers, and surgical consultations (including a BBL consultation that took a wild turn), while reflecting on the way aging is framed in society. From hitting the MILF category to the futuristic possibilities of augmentation, this is a candid take on cosmetic work, self-image, and where it’s all headed. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:21) - My Procedures and Dolly Parton (02:25) - How I Discovered Cosmetic Procedures and Treatments (07:24) - The Creep of Social Media (08:25) - COVID and Noticing My Wrinkles (10:50) - What I Do for My Skin and Trying Fillers (12:40) - Botox (13:15) - My Surgeries (18:10) - A BBL Consultation Goes South and Turns Into... (20:10) - Why Do I Want to Look 'Young' (24:30) - Hitting the MILF Category (26:50) - The Sci Fi Future of Augmentation? (29:40) - Things to Think About Around Plastic Surgery | |||
| 24 Oct 2023 | Bali: Corruption, Sex Coaches and Cold Plunges | 00:30:01 | |
Can moving to a tropical paradise truly transform your life? I found myself drawn to Bali after a period of burnout, yearning for a slower rhythm amidst nature. I would travel overseas to see my clients and communities once a month. But my idyllic existence quickly gave way to a harsher reality when borders shut for COVID, and I filled the gap by launching myself into the local expat community. Venture with me as I discover a realm of sex coaches and their tantric swinger nights, lost start up founders and their cold plunges and a healthy mass of the generally dysfunctional. I also land myself in the midst of corruption, theft and a growing awareness of the injustice that underpins the islands existence; and spoiler alert, I eventually leave to find a kink community that satisfies what I am looking for, for now… More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:15) - Why Bali? (01:35) - My Jungle Home (03:05) - Healing a Burnout (04:00) - Naivety Against Corruption and Wealth Inequality (05:50) - Moving to Canggu (08:02) - The Exoticisation of the Other (09:00) - Running Away (10:15) - Misogyny and Safety (11:05) - Corruption (12:05) - Dysfunction (14:20) - The Bali Kink Community (16:25) - The London Kink Community (17:05) - What is a Life Coach? (17:50) - Sex Coaches (18:50) - Tantric Temple Swinger Nights (19:50) - Loneliness and Cold Plunges (20:10) - Start-up Founders and Finding Themselves (24:00) - Discovering What I Actually Needed (28:00) - I Just Want to Fit In? | |||
| 30 Apr 2024 | Rivalry in the Sex Industry | 00:22:44 | |
Eva Oh’s naivety shielded her from the initial realities of competition and sabotage in the sex industry, but she had to learn some hard lessons eventually. In this episode of the #teakink Podcast Eva answers a question on how rivalry in the industry exists, revealing a slightly rough journey from competition within the brothel styled system of the Dungeon, to gossip over social media; and how she continues to navigate how to best align herself with those who share her values in the present day.
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| 17 Oct 2023 | Coming Out to Mum: A Dominatrix's Double Life | 00:21:25 | |
For years, I lived a double life. My conservative, Christian mother knew nothing of my profession as a Dominatrix until a revelation seven years in the making unfolded, with surprising results. In this candid, personal episode, I share about the fear, the tension, and ultimately the liberation that came with breaking my silence. I explore the delicate dance of withholding the truth, the strain it put on my relationship with my mother, and the unexpected acceptance that emerged. Disclaimer: Some long pauses towards the end due to tears :) More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:15) - Coming Out to Mum About Being a Dominatrix (01:35) - Bible Study, Christianity, Conservatism (03:55) - Hiding My Job and What it Did to Our Relationship (04:40) - Why Did I Tell Her After 7 Years? (05:30) - Sex Worker Friendly Therapy (07:15) - Planning the Coming Out (08:30) - Executing the Plan, Not As Expected (10:04) - Mum’s Questions About the Job (12:15) - My Answers (16:16) - My Mother’s Insight, Humour and Compassion (20:15) - How The Coming Out Settled | |||
| 05 Nov 2024 | Miss Juni, Aspiring Dominatrix: A Mentoring Session with Eva Oh | 01:12:01 | |
Watch one of Eva Oh’s mentoring sessions live on the #teakink Podcast. Miss Juni is an aspiring Dominatrix who booked a mentoring call with Eva Oh but ended up on her sofa with her questions instead. From red flags, to client application processes, socialising with clients, and setting rates; Eva and Juni cover a lot of ground. We also get an insight into Juni’s motivations, her use of OnlyFans as a space for trans activism and her thoughts on sissification from a trans perspective. | |||
| 20 Feb 2024 | Motherhood and Kink? | 00:24:10 | |
A bartender tells Eva Oh that she reminds him of his Mother, a Dominatrix. He shares more about what his childhood looked like with BDSM slaves around and Eva is inspired to imagine parenthood as a Dominatrix and Sex Worker. Her investigation finds her clients jumping at the chance to “provide” and proves to be a revealing exercise in societal stigma and suffering. Leave a voice note question or story about anything for Eva to respond to on the next season here: https://bit.ly/teakinknote More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: | |||
| 10 Sep 2024 | Polly: Escorting, Her PhD, Wild Swimming and the State of Queer Cruising | 00:50:15 | |
In this episode of the #teakink Podcast we meet Polly - an escort, academic, and community organiser with SWARM who shares the ins and outs of what a kink escort booking looks like, her thoughts on the state of academia, and her love for grimy leather bars and wild swimming. Eva Oh joins her on a campaign for queer cruising spaces and also shares a story of the time she got Root Beer Float Waterboarded. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - Meet Polly - Sex Worker, Academic, Community Organiser (02:15) - Non-Monogamy Circles and Sex Worker Friends (03:12) - Polly's First Steps into Sex Work (05:11) - Thinking About Oneself as a "Brand" (07:35) - Polly's First Booking, the Tiniest Double Ended Dildo (09:40) - What Does a Booking Look Like (13:40) - Finding the Kink Community and Grimy Leather Bars (17:40) - The State of Academia (20:15) - SWARM, Sex Worker Grassroots Organisation (25:50) - The Correlation Between Academia and Sex Work (28:15) - Polly's Ideal Week (32:50) - Wild Swimming (36:35) - Queer Cruising (39:50) - Personal Responsibility in Sex Spaces (41:30) - Kink Group Getaways and Murder Mysterys (44:25) - How to Cruise (47:45) - Root Beer Float Waterboarding | |||
| 13 Feb 2024 | My Ultimate Fantasy | 00:31:47 | |
What is Eva Oh’s ultimate fantasy? Find out in this deeply revealing episode. A fantasy born out of graphic novels, porn channels and a lifetime of stimuli - Eva invites us into her masturbatory mind in fascinating detail. Inside we find a dystopian landscape, a robotic facility and otherworldly plays on light, texture, movement and sound. Leave a voice note question or story about anything for Eva to respond to on the next season here: https://bit.ly/teakinknote More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: | |||
| 14 Nov 2023 | Small P**** Humiliation, The Season 2 Kickoff! | 00:24:44 | |
Can you recall the terrorizing thrill of a teacher reprimanding you in front of the whole class, the sensation of your heart pounding in your ears, your cheeks burning from embarrassment? Good. Now, imagine someone voluntarily seeking that thrill, craving it.
This episode, I’ll explain how I incorporate humiliation in my practice as a Dominatrix, as I breakdown why humiliation is so popular amongst submissives, and the different ways people engage with that emotion. I’ll also provide insights from my unique approach to domination, and how I use humiliation to potentially shatter individuals' self-perceptions. Experience the unexpected as I share personal experiences, including instances where I humiliate clients about their small penises at dungeons and nude beaches.
More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com
HIGHLIGHTS:
Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.
(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:15) - Welcome to My Sofa
(01:00) - An Introduction to the Humiliation Kink
(02:40) - Why is Humiliation So Popular, Societal Shame
(05:40) - How to Use Humiliation, Taking Care
(06:50) - My First Humiliation Session, Small Penis Humiliation
(11:55) - Why is Small Penis Humiliation is Popular, Feelings of Inadequacy in the Pressures of Expectation in Society
(15:45) - A Humiliation Session at the Nude Beach
(21:45) - Why I Enjoy Humiliation, and How I Integrate It
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| 30 Jul 2024 | Missy Fatale: Sex, Death, Nudity | 00:42:32 | |
We kick of the #teakink Interview Season with Eva Oh’s dear friend Missy Fatale, International Burlesque Siren and fellow female dominant. From an intrigue in sex, death and nudity, to coming up against the patriarchy as a child, we discover how Missy moves from the world of fine art into the liberation of performance, the struggle of surrender as a Femdom; and how a mainstream audience responds to fetish on the stage. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com Missy's Links: instagram.com/missy_fatale instagram.com/vintageartsagency vintageartsagency.com instagram.com/haus_of_fatale vintageartsagency.com/hausoffatale HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - Who is Missy Fatale? (02:05) - Sex, Death and Nudity (03:30) - Patriarchy as a Child (05:05) - Discovering Dominance (06:50) - From Fine Art to the Liberation of Performance (13:25) - Fetish in Performance Art (14:50) - Social Media's Effect on Performance (16:15) - Vintage Arts Agency, House of Fatale, Fatalism (17:00) - Bringing the Dungeon to the Stage (18:20) - How Audiences Respond (20:20) - Fetish as Life (23:20) - Attempting Surrender as Dominant Women (27:15) - What Female Dominance Means to Us (31:45) - Using Terms as Opposed to them Using Us (33:25) - Marie Kondo-ing Life (34:25) - The State of Fetish in the Performance Industry (38:20) - Eva Oh, Missy's House Dominatrix (39:55) - Missy Fatale's Final Act | |||
| 19 Dec 2023 | How to Build My BDSM Dungeon | 00:27:52 | |
Eva Oh breaks down the psychology that goes into designing BDSM dungeons. Why did she design her former dungeon in Bali to resemble an execution room, and why she is intrigued by last words, death, and performance? And for listers who are architects, see what Eva’s aspirations for her next dungeon are. | |||
| 20 Aug 2024 | Ezada Sinn: Femdom, Motherhood, Masturbation and much More | 00:42:47 | |
Ezada Sinn graces Eva Oh with her incomparable mind in this episode of the #teakink Podcast. Shot during Ezada's Femdom Summit in Bucharest, the Femdoms chat on the links between communism and women's power, Ezada's ideal relationship structures, raising children as a kinkster and the link between latex body bags and floatation tanks. We also get an insight into the origins of Ezada's personal fetishes and even an early masturbation ritual... Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - The Glorious Ezada Sinn (01:50) - The Femdom Summit, A Vision for Femdom and Bucharest (06:15) - Femdom Sightseeing (08:20) - Romanian History, Communism and Women's Power (11:05) - Discovering Dominance (13:10) - Ezada's Ideal Relationship/s, The Inverted 50s Household (18:10) - Raising a Family with a D/s "Village" (20:30) - Renegotiating Dynamics and Protocol with Life Changes, like Raising Children (23:30) - The Importance of Talking About Kinksters and Sex Worker with Children (27:55) - The Origins of Ezada's Fetishes (30:20) - Ezada's First Masturbation Ritual (32:00) - Latex Body Bags and Floatation Tanks (34:24) - Femdom Friendships (40:00) - Ezada's 'Talking Matriarchy' Podcast | |||
| 22 Oct 2024 | Miss Mummy: Adult Babies, Regression and Social Conditioning | 00:50:33 | |
‘Miss Mummy’ specialises in regression sessions for Adult Babies out of her specially built adult sized Nursery. Eva Oh joins Miss Mummy in the crib to discuss the motivations, vulnerability and stigma behind her practice; her Adult Baby counselling service; and the potential parallels between her work and that of a professional Dominatrix. | |||
| 01 Oct 2024 | A #teakink Fan, 'M': Parasocial Relationships and The Impact of the Podcast | 00:49:59 | |
Eva Oh invites 'M', a fan of #teakink - onto the Podcast. Eva's been curious about why you have been interested in the podcast as much as you have, and even though it turns out to be a little bit of an awkward episode hearing about herself - M's kindness and eloquence reveals a lot about the impact that #teakink has been able to have, what insights are possible through it and it lays a lot of groundwork on what more #teakink could become in time to come. Thanks 'M'! Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - Eva Oh Invites M, a Listener of #teakink - onto #teakink (01:30) - How M Found Me (02:20) - Getting Feedback on How I Communicate (04:20) - How has #teakink Impacted M? (06:20) - Questioning Priorities and Values (09:24) - Learning About Dominatrices (11:25) - M's Favourite Episode (14:50) - Parasocial Relationships and Podcast Hosts (16:10) - Why I Did This Episode (16:40) - I Want to be a Resource (20:25) - Making Sex Workers Visible (28:10) - M Introduces Herself - Research, Japan, Investment Banking (37:15) - Writing Women's Stories (39:50) - M's Experience with Kink and Hentai (46:45) - Different Times for Monogomy and Non-Monogamy (47:30) - What is Shareable About #teakink? | |||
| 12 Sep 2023 | Sex Work is Damn Hard Work | 00:32:42 | |
Curious about how a Dominatrix runs her business? Join me on a revealing journey into the sex work industry. As a Dominatrix since 2011, I'll uncover the complexities, from bookings to emotional labor. This episode goes beyond sessions, touching on banking challenges, service gaps, and the role of sex worker organizations. Discover the resilience that drives us forward. Despite hurdles, I'll explain why this profession brings me a unique gratification. More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:15) - The Scope of My Job (01:45) - The Interest in Sex Work (02:40) - The Intricacies and Evolution of My Work Responsibilities (04:50) - What a Receptionist Shielded Me From (09:30) - Why I Do Sex Work Despite the Challenges (11:05) - Dungeon vs Indie (11:50) - Navigating Societal Stigma (12:30) - Marketing and Perceiving Yourself (14:00) - Navigating Space and Community Challenges (15:55) - Interpersonal Session Skills (17:00) - Feeling Safe in My Workplace vs In Public, Workplace Wins (20:05) - Financial Exclusion and Structural Violence in Banking for Sex Workers (25:45) - The Power of Resilience, Community and You (27:43) - My Internship at a Sex Work Organisation (28:30) - Learning About the Backpage Shutdown Impact on Sex Workers (30:00) - The Data for Decriminalisation by Amnesty International vs Puritanism (31:17) - Why I Love My Job LINKS: Amnesty International publishes policy and research on protection of sex workers’ rights, https://www.amnesty.org/en/latest/news/2016/05/amnesty-international-publishes-policy-and-research-on-protection-of-sex-workers-rights/ Human Rights Watch, Why Sex Work Should Be Decriminalized, https://www.hrw.org/news/2019/08/07/why-sex-work-should-be-decriminalized ‘Global Network of Sex Work Projects’, https://www.nswp.org | |||
| 04 Jun 2024 | Gender Fluidity in Sex Work | 00:14:06 | |
It’s been a rich experience discovering more about gender fluidity for Eva Oh through her sex worker community and the many requests around it at the dungeon. But it’s a process still in progress, and on this episode of the #teakink Podcast Eva attempts to break her experience down. Including some pointers on the challenging balance of our choices of gender presentation, profit and personal sanity. | |||
| 28 May 2024 | Boundaries in Sex Work | 00:21:28 | |
Eva Oh has had a complicated and sometimes rough time in figuring out where her boundaries lie. From the mishap of falling in love with a client, to being asked about personal trauma during a session - it hasn’t been a straightforward path in her work as a Dominatrix. The process of establishing and defining healthy boundaries is an ongoing one for Eva, and maybe it doesn’t need to be so complex - but for her it is, and we hear all about it’s nuance in this episode of the #teakink Podcast. | |||
| 21 Nov 2023 | Dating as a Dominatrix: Power, Peril, and Passion | 00:36:02 | |
Let's unpack the intricacies of dating as a Dominatrix! It’s been a ride filled with thrills, dangers, self-discovery, and power. I start with recollection about when my newfound dominance found an eager partner I wasn't quite ready for. That story leads into my debatable luck on dating sites before pre-dating apps existed, my discovering the swinger community, what it’s like developing crushes on clients, and ultimately, you’ll see how how my dating habits today are influenced by the hard lessons I learned on the way. | |||
| 16 Jan 2024 | My #teakink Berlin Event, but mostly The First Time I Paid to Submit | 00:27:40 | |
Eva Oh revisits Berlin and takes us into an industrial neighborhood where two Dominatrixes would unlock an otherworldly BDSM experience. Later in the episode, Eva reflects on how Berlin has impacted her personally and professionally. And perhaps most importantly, Eva wonders if her professional kink life feeds into her private kink life, and where those boundaries lay. All that and more on this episode of #teakink. | |||
| 08 Oct 2024 | Our 'Interview Season' Ends, or does it? | 00:05:25 | |
This episode wraps the special 'Interview' Season of the #teakink Podcast. It's been quite the ride, with deeply insightful and generous guests that included heavy masochists, sex work academics, a submissive called 'Floor' and many more. Will Eva Oh continue? Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - Masochism, Survival, Gratitude for People's Sharing (03:40) - Reflections on Reading My Memoir (04:20) - A Rewarding "Hobby", Thank You for Listening | |||
| 23 Apr 2024 | Season 3 Mishaps, Season 4 Begins | 00:05:04 | |
Welcome to Season 4 of the #teakink Podcast, where Eva Oh answers all the questions! Responding to your voice notes, Eva will lead us into insights on her work as a Dominatrix in the sex industry including episodes on rivalry, mentorship, boundaries, gender fluidity, the importance of play, and loneliness. She also reveals a few mishaps of the last season of the #teakink Podcast, including a slightly touchy update on slave m; and some plans for future seasons ahead. More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - Season 3 Ends, Season 4 Begins (00:58) - Highlights of Season 3 (01:30) - Season 4, Your Questions Shall be Answered (02:15) - Mishaps (02:40) - Changes with slave m (03:58) - Thinking About Future Seasons, Interviews Maybe? | |||
| 31 Dec 2024 | A Flashback - Your Favourite Episodes, Tears and Where to from here | 00:20:43 | |
A New Year Begins on the #teakink Podcast. Indulge in a flashback episode, where Eva Oh looks back through the seasons. Their highs and tears, special interviews, the most popular episodes and where it may all go from here. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:23) - Happy New Year! Podcast Flashback Time (02:20) - The Experiment of Season 1, My First Experiences as a Dominatrix (06:24) - The Storytelling of Season 2 - Slave m, Klub Verboten, My Worst Relationship Ever (11:30) - Season 3 - Major Highlight Episode, Would a Sex Worker Date You (13:32) - Answering Your Questions Through Season 4 (14:41) - Season 5, Interviews That Took Us Far (16:40) - The Format Now (20:00) - Wishing You A Sweet New Year and Always, Thank you for everything | |||
| 22 Aug 2023 | My Origin Story: From Corporate Slave to Dominatrix | 00:37:26 | |
Ever wondered about breaking free from those conforming roles we play? I'm Eva Oh, and I'll take you on my unconventional journey into the world of the Dominatrix. It started with a joke from my ex about my assertiveness. Little did I know this would lead me to becoming one. Brace yourself as I guide you through uncharted territory, on how I quit the corporate world, to sharing my first day on the job as a Dominatrix, and recounting my exhilarating first session. I reflect on society's view of sex work too. This episode is just the start of a series where I share experiences, insights, and lessons I've learned. Come along for the ride! More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:15) - Becoming a Dominatrix (01:39) - Women's Assertiveness and Societal Perceptions (04:51) - From Strategic Consultant to Dominatrix (08:51) - First Day as Mistress, New Experiences (15:06) - A Special First Shadowing Experience (21:10) - Exploring BDSM and Personal Enjoyment (27:56) - Work Dungeon to Personal Business Transition (33:40) - The Power of Non-Judgmental Intimacy (35:35) - Sex Work and Society's Perception | |||
| 12 Jun 2024 | More Men Crying | 00:09:02 | |
What’s one of Eva Oh’s favourite things? Men crying. Eva answers a fan's question on whether she’s ever made a man cry through a reflection on one of the most popular episodes of the #teakink Podcast yet, ‘I Love Men Crying”. Reminding us of the potential of surrender and the importance of responsible emotional freedom.More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com#teakink Episode, “I Love Men Crying”: https://podcast.teakink.com/episodes/i-love-men-crying-sports-and-t(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:18) - A Question on How I Make Men Cry(00:45) - I Love Men Crying, Clearly(01:45) - Crying at a Distance(03:00) - The Physicality of a Session(04:55) - The First Time I Made a Boy Cry(06:00) - The Importance of Surrender(07:57) - Men Crying Compilation Videos(08:25) - I Wish You (Responsible) Emotional Freedom
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| 02 Jul 2024 | Bondage and Bubbles: Play in BDSM | 00:11:15 | |
A cute story from a #teakink Podcast listener on bondage and bubbles reminds Eva Oh of the magic and importance of play as conduit for expressing and understanding the potential of our humanity. | |||
| 15 Oct 2024 | #teakink Podcast, Here to Stay | 00:04:02 | |
#teakink Podcast started out as a seasonal experiment in sharing an often sidelined perspective - that of a sex worker. And Oh, has our host Eva Oh shared. Stories and secrets of the sweet, the challenging and the titillating. But it’s time to share the platform and so from here, this is no longer an experiment. The #teakink Podcast has found its format - to share valuable and underrepresented perspectives from around the world. Eva Oh sits down with international sex workers, sex industry professionals, those adjacent and who champion them; with some solo episodes from our host when the mood strikes. Welcome to the #teakink Podcast, now here to stay. | |||
| 30 Jan 2024 | How I Play, Season 2 Ends with Some Practical Tips! | 00:26:21 | |
In the riveting season finale of #teakink, Eva Oh delves deep into her career as a Dominatrix, sharing her approach to play, scene negotiation, and offering invaluable advice for BDSM newcomers. | |||
| 08 Jan 2024 | Inside Klub Verboten - The Most Wanted Kink Sex Party in the World [Video Special] | 00:21:11 | |
In this very special video episode of #teakink, Eva Oh brings us into the inner workings of Klub Verboten, the most wanted kink sex party in the world that hosts over 3000 bodies a month in London and Berlin. At Klub Verboten you may see a leather clad human puppy being led around on a leash, or a couple in latex chatting by the bar, or a mass of a more-some gyrating on the dance floor. But how does this all emerge, and do so in a way that can inspire such freedom? It takes a lot thought, structure, dungeon furniture, campaigning against oppression and an ever growing team of very dedicated people. In this episode Eva Oh reveals why the party means so much more to her than ‘just’ sex and she chats with a board member and a safeguard from the team who make it all happen.
A special video episode produced by Viscerals. Sound by Zak Nicholls. Music by Simao.
More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com
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Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.
(00:00) Welcome to Klub Verboten, the most wanted kink sex party in the world
(01:43) What Happens Inside Klub Verboten (KV)
(02:45) We Meet Ayo, A KV Safeguard
(03:04) How to Get in to KV, and stay in
(04:00) What are Safeguards
(04:50) Safeguard Training and The Good Night Out Campaign
(05:50) What Safeguards See and Do in the KV Playspace/Dungeon
(07:40) How Ayo Became a Safeguard
(09:00) the Team Behind KV
(10:20) The Dress Code and Why it’s Important
(12:10) Vanilla (Non-Kink/Queer) VS Kink Club Spaces
(14:25) We Meet a Caged Gimp, a KV Board Member
(15:50) Why the Gimp was Searching for a Space like KV
(16:25) The KV Advisory Board
(17:40) ‘Contemporary’ Kink Culture
(18:45) What is Possible Inside KV
(19:55) The Queer Kink Community
(20:30) We Release the Gimp
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| 16 Apr 2024 | Eva Oh, The Educator? Mentor? Influencer? | 00:16:19 | |
When Eva Oh inched her way onto social media, she didn’t quite imagine the titles that would soon be getting used on her. Not the titles that she was used to, of Dominatrix or Mistress, but Educator, Mentor and Influencer. In this episode of the #teakink Podast Eva walks us through her mild disgust with some of the terms, the gossip that she catches wind of about them, and a few theories as to why things are the way that they are. Leave a voice note question or story about anything for Eva to respond to on the next season here: https://bit.ly/teakinknote More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - Educator? Mentor? Influencer? (01:56) - Playing the Influencer Game, A Mild Disgust? (03:20) - My Mentoring Calls (06:00) - Not As Intimidating as I Look? (09:00) - Great Feedback from Isabella Sinclaire (10:30) - When Gatekeeping is Better or Worse? (11:15) - Desperation for Power Amongst Those Stripped of It (12:15) - Educational Courses? (14:40) - How I Became How I Am | |||
| 11 Feb 2025 | Isabella Sandak-Lewin: Sex Tech, the Orgasm Gap and Pole Dancing at Cambridge | 01:03:13 | |
Biomedical engineer and sex tech entrepreneur Isabella Sandak-Lewin joins Eva Oh on the #teakink Podcast to break down the gaps in medicine’s understanding of female sexuality. From the forgotten science of the female orgasm to the struggles of innovating in sex tech, Isabella shares her journey of developing a wearable sex toy and a diagnostic tool for BV. They explore the orgasm gap, cross-dressing, pole dancing at Cambridge, and the link between sexuality and personal freedom. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:23) - Isabella Sandak-Lewin - Biomedical Engineer and Sex Tech Entrepreneur (01:53) - The Forgotten Interaction of Body, Medicine and Sexuality (05:40) - Medicine Forgot the Female Orgasm (10:15) - The Orgasm Gap (12:40) - Isabella's Wearable Sex Toy (18:13) - Isabella's BV and More Diagnosis Tool (24:40) - Adolescence, Ballet and Eating Disorders (29:30) - Cross-Dressing and How Women and Men are Perceived (34:00) - How Isabella Claimed Her Sexuality (38:35) - Fem Tech and Sex Tech Struggles (40:00) - 'Coming Out' About Sex Tech (45:00) - The Link Between Sexuality and Personal Freedom (50:00) - Pole Dance, Cambridge University and Castration (58:35) - COVID and Saying Yes | |||
| 25 Jun 2024 | Navigating Social Situations as a Sex Worker | 00:16:54 | |
It can be a complicated experience navigating social situations as a sex worker. Do we reveal our occupation to the dinner table? Might people react poorly? What can we say to protect ourselves, or shed light on our jobs, and should this even be our weight to carry? Eva Oh gives us some options on how to navigate society and their preconceptions on this episode of the #teakink Podcast. | |||
| 26 Dec 2023 | The Cucked Cuckolding the Cuck | 00:24:25 | |
Eva Oh reflects on an intimate story concerning an ex-lover, a cousin, and a client who enjoys being a human ashtray and cuckold. She weaves a story of youth, anger, excitement, regret, and reconciliation, and reveals why she wants you, the listener, to have a transparent view into her life on #teakink. | |||
| 07 May 2024 | Finding Mentorship and Training in Sex Work and Beyond | 00:23:26 | |
Eva Oh dived head first into a BDSM dungeon with no kink or sex work experience - but she wouldn’t be where she is today if she hadn’t paid attention to the many kind (and not so kind) individuals along the way. In this episode of the #teakink Podcast Eva introduces us to a few key people who have helped her develop her place in the industry, her opinion on Dominatrix Schools and Workshops and why she offers her Mentoring Calls and Training Sessions at this stage of her career. Book a Mentoring Call or Training Session: https://eva-oh.com/training (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink | |||
| 10 Oct 2023 | Society is Ashamed: At the Dinner Party | 00:26:28 | |
Ever wondered how people respond to a woman who chooses an unconventional path for her livelihood? I once met a man so profoundly disturbed by my line of work, he became aggressive and then splurged on two million dollars worth of watches to soothe himself. What does it mean to face aggression and intimidation, not as a result of any personal wrong-doing, but merely from the threat your profession poses to societal norms? On this episode of the #teakink Podcast we explore the array of reactions I’ve received as a Dominatrix. We discuss how these responses are shaped by societal expectations and how I’ve learned to navigate them. This conversation serves as a deep reminder of how society struggles with open discussions around sexuality and the unique strength it takes to be a woman who doesn't back down in the face of such intimidation. More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com
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| 31 Oct 2023 | How I Get What I Want: Navigating Desire, Power and Contentment | 00:26:43 | |
What if the key to attracting wealth, in all its forms, is contentment rather than raw manipulation? In this episode I open up on what I've learned about honesty, assertiveness, observation and communication - to get what I want. More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:15) - Mind Tricks (01:15) - My Own Mind (02:10) - Contentment as a Tool, Over Ourselves and Others? (05:05) - My Values (07:30) - How My Family Factors In (09:20) - I Have What I Want (10:15) - People Are Drawn In (10:35) - How Being A Dominatrix Has Added To My Success (11:32) - How My Skills (With Manipulation?) Could Be Problematic (12:10) - Being Observant and Not Judging Too Soon (13:00) - Breakdown of the Ego Can Lead to Generosity (14:00) - Centring My Pleasure, with Less Attachment (15:40) - Understanding What You Actually Want (16:55) - Pandering to Ego as a Tactic? (19:25) - Figuring Out How My Assertiveness Fits in the World (21:15) - Bringing the Skills of the Dungeon into My Daily Life (22:25) - A Recap (24:35) - Choosing When to Use My Skills (25:55) - A Reflection on the #teakink Podcast | |||
| 11 Mar 2025 | Power Miniseries I: Lessons from a Dominatrix | 00:24:50 | |
In the first episode of the #teakink Power Miniseries, Eva Oh unpacks the nature of power through the lens of domination and submission. What is power, really? How does context shape who holds it, and what happens when those dynamics shift? She reflects on how her time as a Dominatrix reshaped her own sense of power—both in and out of the dungeon—and how others reacted to that transformation. With power being both intoxicating and treacherous, Eva explores the risks, the artistry, and why true power demands self-investigation. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:21) - Power Miniseries I: Lessons from a Dominatrix (02:05) - What is Power? (03:30) - Context and Power in Domination and Submission (07:25) - How Being a Dominatrix Changed My Power (11:15) - How Others React to the Changes (16:20) - The Art and Danger of Playing with Power Dynamics (22:54) - Power: Delicious, Dangerous, Needs Self-Investigation | |||
| 09 Jul 2024 | Sexologist vs Pervert, Eva Oh? | 00:14:40 | |
A somewhat academic question reveals the more visceral leanings of Eva Oh’s view on kink. On this episode of the #teakink Podcast Eva reveals why she tends to avoid pathologising the kinks of those who work with her, the neurology of foot fetishes, the potential meaning of what a ‘desire template’ is and more things that she often sets aside to prioritise getting gloriously filthy. | |||
| 16 Jul 2024 | The Loneliness in Sex Work | 00:14:03 | |
Sex Work can feel isolating because of society’s shortcomings and even simply within the logistics of the job. A question on how to manage feelings of isolation when on tour or travelling for work as a sex worker leads Eva Oh to reveal an insight into her touring history, and the habits, community and secrets that have kept her grounded - including a travelling totem and room service spaghetti bolognaise… | |||
| 18 Feb 2025 | Jane Grey - Authenticity, Validation, Business Models and Anaesthetising the Ego for Joy | 01:12:04 | |
Meet Jane Grey, Dominatrix and Co-Founder of the Scene and Unscene events. Listen in as Jane opens up about how validation, agency and recognition, drivers behind her acting career, influence her approach to domination; about her plans for the Edinburgh Fringe Festival; and how acting school shunned female sexuality. Eva Oh and Jane discuss the place of acting in a session, if they might be able to submit and how they've tried to escape the ego through the names that they've chosen. We hear about cultural theatrics and how they could shape a Dominatrix's ability and the different ways these two Dominatrices structure their businesses. A very thorough episode of the #teakink Podcast. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:00:23) - Jane Grey - Dominatrix, Event Organiser and on a Good Path (00:02:20) - How The Scene and UnScene Events Came About (00:09:15) - The Scene Difference, the Bartenders Bar for Kink (00:14:00) - Authenticity as a Purpose (00:16:10) - How Acting and Drama School Shuns Sexuality (00:20:15) - Validation, Agency, Recognition and the Similarities in Acting and Domination (00:25:10) - South East Asian vs British Theatrics and Social Cohesion (00:27:35) - Growing Star Quality in Professional Domination through Improv Classes (00:29:00) - Moving Around and Growing Adaptability (00:30:35) - Anaesthetising the Ego for Joy (00:32:00) - The Stage vs The Session vs Being a Woman, Is There a Difference? (00:36:30) - How to Go From Personal Kinkster to Professional Dominatrix (00:38:30) - The De-Centring of Our Names - 'Oh' and 'Jane Grey' (00:44:30) - Finding Our Version of Dominance, Visually (00:46:05) - Eva Craving Submission? (00:50:20) - Our Visit to the Edinburgh Fringe Festival and Jane's Show Plans (00:54:50) - Who Do We Tell About Our Job? (00:57:00) - Jane's Subscription Model (01:00:30) - Eva's Cis-het Male Clients vs Her Femme Friends (01:03:50) - The Evolution of Eva's Business Model (01:04:50) - Jane's Plans with the WMH&I Branding Agency, Show Writing and Event Planning (01:09:00) - Eva's Plans on Labours of Love | |||
| 01 Apr 2025 | Flashback - Interview: My Main BDSM Slave, m | 00:40:37 | |
Eva Oh interviews her main BDSM slave, m. This intimate conversation offers a unique look into the Dominatrix-submissive relationship, and the extraordinary dynamics that shape it. m sheds light on his journey from fear to complete surrender, candidly discussing his initial hesitance and intrigue, his struggle to let go, and the allure of Eva Oh’s dominating personality that finally led him to cherish the power exchange. Join us as we delve deeper into the dynamics of BDSM relationships, exploring intimacy, trust, and the profound fulfilment they can offer. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - Meet My Main Slave, m (00.35) - The Foot Cam (00.56) - How We Met (02:10) - Ruling m’s Thoughts (02:40) - Why m Was Interested in Me (03:55) - m ‘Letting Go’ (05:25) - m’s Second Thoughts (06.20) - My ’Strong Personality’ (07.20) - m’s Fears and Attempted Manipulations (08:10) - The Ruler will Rule (08:50) - Rejection, Acceptance and Trust (10.30) - Preconceptions Meeting Reality (11.40) - m’s Growing Relationship to Pain and Resilience (12.20) - Taking Lessons from BDSM into m’s Workplace (13.30) - Love and Lust (15.00) - m Learning Compassion (15:30) - Why m Has Learned So Much (16.30) - What Our Day to Day Looks Like (19.15) - Navigating Expectations (20.13) - Communicating Needs and Understanding Each Other (22.35) - Sexuality and Intimacy (27.00) - m’s Concept of BDSM before Meeting Me vs Now (29.55) - m’s Hopes for The Future (31.00) - m’s Question for Me, Why Do I Accept Him? (35.30) - The Importance of Hearing the Submissive Voice (39.00) - How Vanilla Relationships Fit, or Don’t | |||
| 24 Dec 2024 | Conor Aphilia - Rope, Mascuinity and Questioning the Norm | 00:56:51 | |
Today on #teakink Podcast, meet Conor - Shibari Artist, Rope Studio Owner, ex-Publisher and a multi-facted mind whom Eva Oh always adores to sit with. Listen in to their conversation which spans Conor's entering into kink, masculinity and fibromyalgia, kink as therapy, Antwerp, women clients, the link between kink and gambling - and so so much more.
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| 21 May 2024 | Long Distance BDSM Relationship Games | 00:13:51 | |
From installing CCTV, to office lingerie tasks and Airbnb Hosting - Eva Oh shares ideas on the wide range of long distance relationship building activities that she has implemented over her years as a Dominatrix. | |||
| 06 Aug 2024 | Cherry Velour: Torture Porn, Fear and Desire | 00:52:03 | |
Eva Oh sits down with Cherry Velour to talk torture porn, discovering fear, creating consensual non consent scenes, the challenge of sensual pleasure, the torture of the patriarchy, submission as a symptom, shattering the ego - and an impressive number of other points that they manage to squeeze into an hour of the #teakink Podcast. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:21) - Meet Cherry Velour (00:30) - Cherry's Torture Porn (03:20) - What is the Sound of Torture? (06:20) - Can a Desire for Torture Meet Reality (07:50) - Discovering Fear (10:00) - Creating Consensual Non Consent Scenes (12:15) - Why is Fear Interesting (13:40) - Maggots and Cold Bodies of Water (15:38) - The Challenge of Sensual Sexual Pleasure (21:03) - The Desire for a 24/7 Power Dynamic (23:20) - The Torture of the Patriarchy (26:00) - Too Few Perverts in Denmark? (27.50) - The UK, A Country of Bottoms and Subs? (31:00) - Submission as a Symptom (32:55) - A Special Breed of Dominant (35:30) - The Benefits of Being Thoughtful About Kink (39:50) - Shattering the Ego (44:30) - What's next for Cherry Velour? | |||
| 29 Oct 2024 | Jake Dean: International Gay Escort and Escort Agency Owner | 00:54:14 | |
Jake Dean sits down with Eva Oh to chat week-long escort bookings, contentment, client demographics, the concept of ‘high end’ and the whorearchy; and so so much more. Eva shares her tips for managing long term client engagements, decompression and a family heirloom that grounds her as a part of the process. | |||
| 19 Mar 2024 | Assisting a London Dominatrix | 00:18:18 | |
A Dominatrix from London walks into the dungeon that Eva Oh is training at, and she chooses Eva to assist on an enlightening session. Eva sees things that take her years to understand. Quite the raucous episode of the #teakink Podcast. Leave a voice note question or story about anything for Eva to respond to on the next season here: https://bit.ly/teakinknote More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - Glorifying a Dominatrix from London (02:45) - She Chooses Me (05:10) - Entering Her Session, Two Slaves - Engorged… (08:40) - Is He Okay? (10:50) - It Took Me A Few Years to Get It! (12:40) - Still Learning, The Value of My Presence (15:10) - She Leaves. Everyone Complains in the Workplace. (17:30) - Time for a Raucous Session? | |||
| 21 Jan 2025 | A Dominatrix in Dubai | 00:26:34 | |
Eva Oh visits Dubai and is reminded of her first trip there in a previous life before her career as a Dominatrix. A life that included research work in Afghanistan, time at the United Nations and perhaps a thread that is still very consistent. A thread of curiosity, naivety, fearlessness and navigating the edge of life to feel out what could be. Watch this #teakink episode for an insight into Eva’s life before becoming a Professional Mistress.
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