Stress Bucket Solutions (Gin Lalli)

Can you curate your life? Is what you're doing now in line with your vision of how your life should be? 

Find out more about my solution-focused work with individuals and organisations, my book and online course on my website: www.ginlalli.com

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Another interview with one of my clients; Camila - who was pleased to hear I wouldn't be changing her personality, just emptying her stress bucket. 

You can join my private FaceBook group and follow me on Facebook for some live videos on how to empty your stress bucket - the Solution-focused formula I use with clients.

I'm also on Twitter and LinkedIn 

You can send me a direct voice message here if you want - you never know, I might feature you in the next episode????

All my details and more information about what I do, including press articles and my blog, can be viewed on my website www.ginlalli.com 

You can buy the print and ebook versions of my book here:

Amazon: https://lnkd.in/g8QEmk3Z

Waterstones: https://lnkd.in/g3KzJpZH

Book Depository: https://lnkd.in/gKrkYG7n

Blackwells: https://lnkd.in/gBHWcBnz

Barns & Noble (US): https://lnkd.in/gkpwHHXR

A client told me that the good thing about their week was that they got angry! Find out why that's good in this episode.

Find out more about my solution-focused work with individuals and organisations, my book, and online course on my website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.ginlalli.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

You can also join my ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook group⁠⁠⁠

Want to know why you can't sleep? Although I'm solution focused this behavioural model I've just learned about is really useful for you to be able to understand your sleep issues. 

You can join my private FaceBook group and follow me on Facebook for some live videos on how to empty your stress bucket - the Solution-focused formula I use with clients all the time.

I'm also on Twitter and LinkedIn 

You can send me a direct voice message here if you want - you never know I might feature you in the next episode????

All my details and more information about what I do, including press articles and my blog, can be viewed on my website www.ginlalli.com 

Solution focused questioning is subtle but very powerful. In this episode, I give you some examples of the solution focused questions I use in sessions with clients, but that you can also use on yourself every day. You'll start to see a shift in the way you think and limit what goes into your stress bucket.  

You can join my private FaceBook group and follow me on Facebook for some live videos on how to empty your stress bucket - the Solution-focused formula I use with clients.

I'm also on Twitter and LinkedIn 

You can send me a direct voice message here if you want - you never know I might feature you in the next episode????

All my details and more information about what I do, including press articles and my blog, can be viewed on my website www.ginlalli.com 

You can buy the print and ebook versions of my book here:

Amazon: https://lnkd.in/g8QEmk3Z

Waterstones: https://lnkd.in/g3KzJpZH

Book Depository: https://lnkd.in/gKrkYG7n

Blackwells: https://lnkd.in/gBHWcBnz

Barns & Noble (US): https://lnkd.in/gkpwHHXR

If we can be more open about what happens in therapy sessions will that reduce the stigma? In this episode, I explain why I am passionate about being open about the solution-focused formula.

Find out more about my solution-focused work with individuals and organisations, my book, and online course on my website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.ginlalli.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

You can also join my ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook group⁠⁠⁠

Finishing off that first chapter of my book How To Empty Your Stress Bucket

I would love for you to join me at my virtual book launch on 2 December - here's the link to register; https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/gin-lalli-book-launch-celebration-tickets-213683090877?aff=efbneb

You can join my private FaceBook group and follow me on Facebook for some live videos on how to empty your stress bucket - the Solution-focused formula I use with clients all the time.

I'm also on Twitter and LinkedIn 

You can send me a direct voice message here if you want - you never know I might feature you in the next episode????

All my details and more information about what I do, including press articles and my blog, can be viewed on my website www.ginlalli.com 

Next chapter of reading from my book How To Empty Your Stress Bucket - it's only a short one but still valuable.

You can join my private FaceBook group and follow me on Facebook for some live videos on how to empty your stress bucket - the Solution-focused formula I use with clients all the time.

I'm also on Twitter and LinkedIn 

You can send me a direct voice message here if you want - you never know I might feature you in the next episode????

All my details and more information about what I do, including press articles and my blog, can be viewed on my website www.ginlalli.com 

You can buy the print and ebook versions of my book here:

Amazon: https://lnkd.in/g8QEmk3Z

Waterstones: https://lnkd.in/g3KzJpZH

Book Depository: https://lnkd.in/gKrkYG7n

Blackwells: https://lnkd.in/gBHWcBnz

Barns & Noble (US): https://lnkd.in/gkpwHHXR

A purpose in life is to have an intention, a sense of resolve and determination. But how do we find it and how can we use it to limit what goes into the stress bucket? Find out more in this week's episode.

Simon Sinek; Start with Why

You can join my private FaceBook group and follow me on Facebook for some live videos on how to empty your stress bucket - the Solution-focused formula I use with clients.

I'm also on Twitter and LinkedIn 

You can send me a direct voice message here if you want - you never know I might feature you in the next episode????

All my details and more information about what I do, including press articles and my blog, can be viewed on my website www.ginlalli.com 

You can buy the print and ebook versions of my book here:

Amazon: https://lnkd.in/g8QEmk3Z

Waterstones: https://lnkd.in/g3KzJpZH

Book Depository: https://lnkd.in/gKrkYG7n

Blackwells: https://lnkd.in/gBHWcBnz

Barns & Noble (US): https://lnkd.in/gkpwHHXR

Don't wait until your stress bucket overflows before you get help. Try and be honest with yourself and look out for these signs in yourself and others. 

You can join my private FaceBook group and follow me on Facebook for some live videos on how to empty your stress bucket - the Solution-focused formula I use with clients all the time.

I'm also on Twitter and LinkedIn 

You can send me a direct voice message here if you want - you never know I might feature you in the next episode????

All my details and more information about what I do, including press articles and my blog, can be viewed on my website www.ginlalli.com 

You can buy the print and ebook versions of my book here:

Amazon: https://lnkd.in/g8QEmk3Z

Waterstones: https://lnkd.in/g3KzJpZH

Book Depository: https://lnkd.in/gKrkYG7n

Blackwells: https://lnkd.in/gBHWcBnz

Barns & Noble (US): https://lnkd.in/gkpwHHXR

Good luck to all of you doing exams right now - here are some tips to manage your stress and ace that exam!

Find out more about my solution-focused work with individuals and organisations, my book, and online course on my website: ⁠www.ginlalli.com⁠

You can also join my ⁠Facebook group

We hear people say that you should "work on yourself" but how do you do that? In this episode I'll explain how - and you don't need to start journaling!

Find out more about my solution-focused work with individuals and organisations, my book, and online course on my website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.ginlalli.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

You can also join my ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook group⁠⁠⁠

In this episode, I explain why you should be getting better quality sleep - the cycles of sleep should be understood by everyone.

Find out more about my solution-focused work with individuals and organisations, my book, and online course on my website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.ginlalli.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

You can also join my ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook group⁠⁠⁠

Jules' was literally shaking with anxiety and was off work. Listen to how she got her life back, got back to work, and how her kids are kind of pleased and at the same time annoyed that they've got their mum back!!!! She has created generational change in her family and you can too. She is an inspiration.

Find out more about my solution-focused work with individuals and organisations, my book, and online course on my website: ⁠⁠⁠www.ginlalli.com⁠⁠⁠

You can also join my ⁠⁠⁠Facebook group⁠

If you want to follow Jules' journey of Solution Focused Therapy with me you can find her on ⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠ or ⁠⁠Instagram ⁠⁠ and⁠⁠ FaceBook ⁠

What to expect from me and Stress Bucket Solutions 

In today's episode, Ffion talks all about her fear of sickness. But not only that she talks about how she began to understand that undlerying anxiety, or a full stress bucket was affecting so many areas of her life.

But to feel empowered she needed to do this alone....so 2 months later, because she was doing so well, she wanted to re-record her interview.

I thought it would be good for you to hear both her interviews though - so you could hear the difference that solution focused work makes for life...the changes continue even after we've finished our 10-week programme.

I hope you enjoy this extra-long episode!

Find out more about my solution-focused work with individuals and organisations, my book, and online course on my website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.ginlalli.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

You can also join my ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook group⁠⁠

When people say that men don't talk about their mental health I strongly disagree - they do - they just want solutions, not to go over the problems. I see a lot of male clients for this reason as solution focused work really appeals to that sort of mindset, so hear from Stuart in this episode. How he changed his life and started changing the world around him by seeing the positives everywhere he went - even when he was going to Tescos!

Find out more about my solution-focused work with individuals and organisations, my book, and online course on my website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.ginlalli.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

You can also join my ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook group⁠⁠

There are some limitations to working with a therapist online but the advantages hugely outweigh that. If you're looking to work with a therapist online please don't let the technology or assumption that you need to be face to face stop you - it's a great way to be able to access the therapist you need. 

You can join my private FaceBook group and follow me on Facebook for some live videos on how to empty your stress bucket - the Solution-focused formula I use with clients all the time.

I'm also on Twitter and LinkedIn 

You can send me a direct voice message here if you want - you never know I might feature you in the next episode????

All my details and more information about what I do, including press articles and my blog, can be viewed on my website www.ginlalli.com 

Where do Phobias come from in the brain, how do we develop them and what can you do to overcome them?

In this episode, I explain all about the brain function of fears and phobias - rational and irrational. Did you know we're only born with 2 fears - all the rest are learned, which means you can UNlearn them too!

You can join my private FaceBook group and follow me on Facebook for some live videos on how to empty your stress bucket - the Solution-focused formula I use with clients all the time.

I'm also on Twitter and LinkedIn 

All my details and more information bout what I do, including press articles and my blog, can be viewed on my website www.ginlalli.com 

Do you want to hear from one of my clients? In this episode one of my first ever clients, Carri, shares her story on her journey from anxiety and panic attacks to happily married and successful woman who is living her best life every day. Thanks Carri for sharing your story so openly and honestly. 

You can join my private Facebook group and follow me on Facebook for some live videos on how to empty your stress bucket - the Solution-focused formula I use with clients all the time.

I'm also on Twitter and LinkedIn 

You can send me a direct voice message here if you want - you never know I might feature you in the next episode????

All my details and more information about what I do, including press articles and my blog, can be viewed on my website www.ginlalli.com 

It's not an exact science but hear from the hive mind of therapists of what we think about the speed of therapy results.

Find out more about my solution-focused work with individuals and organisations, my book, and online course on my website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.ginlalli.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

You can also join my ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook group⁠⁠⁠

Take note of how your body reacts to stress. Over a long period of time, this cannot be sustained so if you thought that mental illness was invisible - think again.

Another interview with a client of mine. Hear Sarah's story of how solution focused work has changed her life.

Sarah is a dynamic woman in her early fifties but was struggling with feeling fulfilled and motivated. Hear how we got her back on track and living life to the fullest again.

You can join my private FaceBook group and follow me on Facebook for some live videos on how to empty your stress bucket - the Solution-focused formula I use with clients.

I'm also on Twitter and LinkedIn 

You can send me a direct voice message here if you want - you never know, I might feature you in the next episode????

All my details and more information about what I do, including press articles and my blog, can be viewed on my website www.ginlalli.com 

You can buy the print and ebook versions of my book here:

Amazon: https://lnkd.in/g8QEmk3Z

Waterstones: https://lnkd.in/g3KzJpZH

Book Depository: https://lnkd.in/gKrkYG7n

Blackwells: https://lnkd.in/gBHWcBnz

Barns & Noble (US): https://lnkd.in/gkpwHHXR

The deep relaxation we do in solution focused sessions is extremely restorative. Different types of rest give you different feelings of relaxation. Are you really relaxing? 

Find out more about my solution-focused work with individuals and organisations, my book and online course on my website: www.ginlalli.com

You can also join my Facebook group

People are under the impression that solution focused work is too positive. That's not the case, it's just about getting into the positive part of your brain to meet life's challenges. Find out more in this episode.

You can view my video course here and here's a code for £50 off till the end of August 2022; VIP50

You can join my private FaceBook group and follow me on Facebook for some live videos on how to empty your stress bucket - the Solution-focused formula I use with clients.

I'm also on Twitter and LinkedIn 

You can send me a direct voice message here if you want - you never know I might feature you in the next episode????

All my details and more information about what I do, including press articles and my blog, can be viewed on my website www.ginlalli.com 

You can buy the print and ebook versions of my book here:

Amazon: https://lnkd.in/g8QEmk3Z

Waterstones: https://lnkd.in/g3KzJpZH

Book Depository: https://lnkd.in/gKrkYG7n

Blackwells: https://lnkd.in/gBHWcBnz

Barns & Noble (US): https://lnkd.in/gkpwHHXR

I strongly believe that our current mental health crisis is due to a lack of sleep. So do yourself a favour and follow these sleep tips to ensure that you sleep well because it really does empty your stress bucket. 

You can join my private FaceBook group and follow me on Facebook for some live videos on how to empty your stress bucket - the Solution-focused formula I use with clients all the time.

I'm also on Twitter and LinkedIn 

You can send me a direct voice message here if you want - you never know I might feature you in the next episode????

All my details and more information about what I do, including press articles and my blog, can be viewed on my website www.ginlalli.com 

We've all been there - you could demolish a packet of chocolate biscuits in 5 mins when you've been triggered, but where does it come from and what can you do about it? Find out in this episode.

Find out more about my solution-focused work with individuals and organisations, my book, and online course on my website: ⁠⁠www.ginlalli.com⁠⁠

You can also join my ⁠⁠Facebook group⁠

Seeing as it was Valentines Day I wanted to address all things love.

In this episode, I'll explain why you don't need to LOVE yourself before you can love others. All relationships, romantic and platonic, help you along the way - but we're all on a journey of self-improvement and there is not necessarily a goal you need to reach! 

You can join my private FaceBook group and follow me on Facebook for some live videos on how to empty your stress bucket - the Solution-focused formula I use with clients all the time.

I'm also on Twitter and LinkedIn 

You can send me a direct voice message here if you want - you never know I might feature you in the next episode????

All my details and more information bout what I do, including press articles and my blog, can be viewed on my website www.ginlalli.com 

I'm not afraid to say that sometimes therapy doesn't work. I can't guarantee results, but I do guarantee, that if you can show some commitment to the process, that I will do the best job I can for you to empty your stress bucket for life! To ensure you get the most out of therapy I advise you to consider these things first. 

You can join my private FaceBook group and follow me on Facebook for some live videos on how to empty your stress bucket - the Solution-focused formula I use with clients all the time.

I'm also on Twitter and LinkedIn 

You can send me a direct voice message here if you want - you never know I might feature you in the next episode????

All my details and more information about what I do, including press articles and my blog, can be viewed on my website www.ginlalli.com 

Do you agree with people taking time off 'for the benefit of their mental health?' What are they doing in that time off? 

In today's episode, I explain how negative thoughts are natural and actually taking time away from what your purpose is not good for your mental health.

You can join my private FaceBook group and follow me on Facebook for some live videos on how to empty your stress bucket - the Solution-focused formula I use with clients all the time.

I'm also on Twitter and LinkedIn 

You can send me a direct voice message here if you want - you never know I might feature you in the next episode????

All my details and more information about what I do, including press articles and my blog, can be viewed on my website www.ginlalli.com 

Next chapter of the book. A long one this one so settle in for it. 

You can join my private FaceBook group and follow me on Facebook for some live videos on how to empty your stress bucket - the Solution-focused formula I use with clients all the time.

I'm also on Twitter and LinkedIn 

You can send me a direct voice message here if you want - you never know I might feature you in the next episode????

All my details and more information about what I do, including press articles and my blog, can be viewed on my website www.ginlalli.com 

You can buy the print and ebook versions of my book here:

Amazon: https://lnkd.in/g8QEmk3Z

Waterstones: https://lnkd.in/g3KzJpZH

Book Depository: https://lnkd.in/gKrkYG7n

Blackwells: https://lnkd.in/gBHWcBnz

Barns & Noble (US): https://lnkd.in/gkpwHHXR

When was the last time you did absolutely nothing?

Don't feel guilty, you're not switching off - you're switching over.

In this episode, I explain what is happening when you daydream and why I encourage you to do it more. 

You can find out more about me and what I do on my website which has all my contact details. I love hearing from you so please don't be shy and get in touch.

And don't forget to join my private Facebook Group How To Empty Your Stress Bucket.

You are the expert of you so here's some advice on how to find the right solution for you. 

Find out more about my solution-focused work with individuals and organisations, my book and online course on my website: www.ginlalli.com

You can also join my Facebook group

This is such a powerful question and one I challenge you to begin using regularly. In this podcast, you'll find out why I love this question and also why I'm "a therapist that doesn't want to hear about your problems!" 

In this episode, I continue to read from my book and give you an excerpt of the first chapter. I hope you enjoy it, mistakes and all. 

You can join my private FaceBook group and follow me on Facebook for some live videos on how to empty your stress bucket - the Solution-focused formula I use with clients all the time.

I'm also on Twitter and LinkedIn 

You can send me a direct voice message here if you want - you never know I might feature you in the next episode????

All my details and more information about what I do, including press articles and my blog, can be viewed on my website www.ginlalli.com 

I spoke with Dr Laura Wyness on episode 115 about nutrition and mental health and we touched upon mindful eating/ As it's such a vast subject we decided to dedicate a whole episode to it. I hope you enjoy it and it will get you thinking about mindful eating.

You can listen to Laura's podcast Food Connections here and have a look at her short course on mindful eating too. 

Check out Laura's website too: https://www.laurawyness.com/

And the charity for eating disorders that she mentioned can be found here: https://www.beateatingdisorders.org.uk/

You can join my private FaceBook group and follow me on Facebook for some live videos on how to empty your stress bucket - the Solution-focused formula I use with clients.

I'm also on Twitter and LinkedIn 

You can send me a direct voice message here if you want - you never know, I might feature you in the next episode????

All my details and more information about what I do, including press articles and my blog, can be viewed on my website www.ginlalli.com 

You can buy the print and ebook versions of my book here:

Amazon: https://lnkd.in/g8QEmk3Z

Waterstones: https://lnkd.in/g3KzJpZH

Book Depository: https://lnkd.in/gKrkYG7n

Blackwells: https://lnkd.in/gBHWcBnz

Barns & Noble (US): https://lnkd.in/gkpwHHXR

Here's a really useful metaphor to explain how you can create powerful change in your own mind if only you can give your 'secretary' a detailed, positive image, and bypass the health and safety officer.

Find out more about my solution-focused work with individuals and organisations, my book, and online course on my website: ⁠⁠⁠www.ginlalli.com⁠⁠⁠

You can also join my ⁠⁠⁠Facebook group⁠

It's good to be back....what's coming up this season?

Find out more about my solution-focused work with individuals and organisations, my book, and online course on my website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠www.ginlalli.com⁠⁠⁠⁠

You can also join my ⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook group⁠

Solution-focused work is not for everyone, you need to understand its limitations. In this episode, I talk about some of the limitations of solution-focused work so that you have a balanced idea of what it's all about. 

You can join my private FaceBook group and follow me on Facebook for some live videos on how to empty your stress bucket - the Solution-focused formula I use with clients all the time.

I'm also on Twitter and LinkedIn 

You can send me a direct voice message here if you want - you never know I might feature you in the next episode????

All my details and more information about what I do, including press articles and my blog, can be viewed on my website www.ginlalli.com 

You can buy the print and ebook versions of my book here:

Amazon: https://lnkd.in/g8QEmk3Z

Waterstones: https://lnkd.in/g3KzJpZH

Book Depository: https://lnkd.in/gKrkYG7n

Blackwells: https://lnkd.in/gBHWcBnz

Barns & Noble (US): https://lnkd.in/gkpwHHXR

Imagine your brain is a business - what roles do the CEO, the Health & Safety Officer and the award-winning secretary have to play in making sure this business, your brain, works efficiently? In this episode, you'll find out what - and also how your subconscious can work 4 times harder than doing a maths test. 

When it comes to sleep don't get obsessed with the number of hours...focus on the quality of your sleep instead. 

You can join my private FaceBook group and follow me on Facebook for some live videos on how to empty your stress bucket - the Solution-focused formula I use with clients.

I'm also on Twitter and LinkedIn 

You can send me a direct voice message here if you want - you never know I might feature you in the next episode????

All my details and more information about what I do, including press articles and my blog, can be viewed on my website www.ginlalli.com 

You can buy the print and ebook versions of my book here:

Amazon: https://lnkd.in/g8QEmk3Z

Waterstones: https://lnkd.in/g3KzJpZH

Book Depository: https://lnkd.in/gKrkYG7n

Blackwells: https://lnkd.in/gBHWcBnz

Barns & Noble (US): https://lnkd.in/gkpwHHXR

Do not make assumptions about therapy - and stop listening to some random person who once had a bad experience with therapy. In this episode, I bust the myths around therapy that could be stopping you from getting the help you need and changing your life.

Find out more about my solution-focused work with individuals and organisations, my book, and online course on my website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.ginlalli.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

You can also join my ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook group⁠⁠⁠

So what happens 1 year after you've emptied your stress bucket? Is it still empty or do you need more sessions?

Find out how Helen went from strength to strength once she had completed her 10-week programme. You can hear her original interview in Season 1; episode 123

Find out more about my solution-focused work with individuals and organisations, my book, and online course on my website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.ginlalli.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

You can also join my ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook group⁠

I don't expect you to be positively solution focused all the time - it would be exhausting. What we do in sessions is brain training, preparing you for the challenges which come in ALL our lives. 

Find out more about my solution-focused work with individuals and organisations, my book and online course on my website: www.ginlalli.com

You can also join my Facebook group

An interview with my client Claire - have a listen to why Claire felt that she really wasn't talking to a therapist, she was just having a conversation that she was then able to take into her life, and how she noticed changes within the first 2 or 3 weeks. 

Thanks, Claire for agreeing to do this.

You can join my private FaceBook group and follow me on Facebook for some live videos on how to empty your stress bucket - the Solution-focused formula I use with clients all the time.

I'm also on Twitter and LinkedIn 

You can send me a direct voice message here if you want - you never know I might feature you in the next episode????

All my details and more information about what I do, including press articles and my blog, can be viewed on my website www.ginlalli.com 

Final part of my book........Tricky to describe but I'll do my best

You can join my private FaceBook group and follow me on Facebook for some live videos on how to empty your stress bucket - the Solution-focused formula I use with clients all the time.

I'm also on Twitter and LinkedIn 

You can send me a direct voice message here if you want - you never know I might feature you in the next episode????

All my details and more information about what I do, including press articles and my blog, can be viewed on my website www.ginlalli.com 

You can buy the print and ebook versions of my book here:

Amazon: https://lnkd.in/g8QEmk3Z

Waterstones: https://lnkd.in/g3KzJpZH

Book Depository: https://lnkd.in/gKrkYG7n

Blackwells: https://lnkd.in/gBHWcBnz

Barns & Noble (US): https://lnkd.in/gkpwHHXR

Another chat with one of my lovely clients. A lot of you will be able to relate to Kirsty - trying to be a superwoman yet overwhelmed with everything. Listen out for the moment when she realized her anxiety was under control at McDonalds drive-thru! 

You can join my private FaceBook group and follow me on Facebook for some live videos on how to empty your stress bucket - the Solution-focused formula I use with clients all the time.

I'm also on Twitter and LinkedIn 

You can send me a direct voice message here if you want - you never know I might feature you in the next episode????

All my details and more information about what I do, including press articles and my blog, can be viewed on my website www.ginlalli.com 

You can buy the print and ebook versions of my book here:

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Book Depository: https://lnkd.in/gKrkYG7n

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The next chapter of my book, the 3 P's.

You can join my private FaceBook group and follow me on Facebook for some live videos on how to empty your stress bucket - the Solution-focused formula I use with clients all the time.

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You can send me a direct voice message here if you want - you never know I might feature you in the next episode????

All my details and more information about what I do, including press articles and my blog, can be viewed on my website www.ginlalli.com 

You can buy the print and ebook versions of my book here:

Amazon: https://lnkd.in/g8QEmk3Z

Waterstones: https://lnkd.in/g3KzJpZH

Book Depository: https://lnkd.in/gKrkYG7n

Blackwells: https://lnkd.in/gBHWcBnz

Barns & Noble (US): https://lnkd.in/gkpwHHXR

First of all, here's the link to Homestart Aberdeen to book onto my talk " How To Empty Your Stress Bucket" - it's a great charity so all donations will be really beneficial - Please click this link to register and don't forget to donate whatever you can manage.

In today's episode, I talk about bad habits, where they originate in the brain and some tips on how you can break them! So if you want to stop biting your nails or stop drinking too much then this is a good one for you.

You can join my private FaceBook group and follow me on Facebook for some live videos on how to empty your stress bucket - the Solution-focused formula I use with clients all the time.

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All my details and more information about what I do, including press articles and my blog, can be viewed on my website www.ginlalli.com 

Ever woken up in the middle of the night, your mind is racing, and you can't get back to sleep again? Or you're really tired and go to bed but as soon as your head hits the pillow you are wide awake? In this podcast, I explain what is happening and what you can do about it. 

In this episode, I explain why procrastination (if I can at least pronounce it!)  is just a survival response and I share some tips on how you can overcome it - it's all about seeing the mountain!  

And here's the link to Tim Urban's Ted Talk that I mention - well worth a watch. 

In today's episode, I interview international speaker, best-selling author and coach Michael Heppell.

I love what Michael says about the ego, work-life balance and how he keeps his stress bucket empty. You can find out more about Michael on his website michaelheppell.com

You can join my private FaceBook group and follow me on Facebook for some live videos on how to empty your stress bucket - the Solution-focused formula I use with clients all the time.

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You can send me a direct voice message here if you want - you never know I might feature you in the next episode????

All my details and more information about what I do, including press articles and my blog, can be viewed on my website www.ginlalli.com 

You can buy the print and ebook versions of my book here:

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Waterstones: https://lnkd.in/g3KzJpZH

Book Depository: https://lnkd.in/gKrkYG7n

Blackwells: https://lnkd.in/gBHWcBnz

Barns & Noble (US): https://lnkd.in/gkpwHHXR

You're allowed to feel sad in the intelligent brain - just don't get emotionally hijacked! In this episode, I explain why you needn't feel like everything has to be 'rainbows and unicorns' all of the time. Grief, nervous anxiety and passion can all be positive responses from the intelligent brain. 

You can join my private FaceBook group and follow me on Facebook for some live videos on how to empty your stress bucket - the Solution-focused formula I use with clients all the time.

I'm also on Twitter and LinkedIn 

You can send me a direct voice message here if you want - you never know I might feature you in the next episode????

All my details and more information about what I do, including press articles and my blog, can be viewed on my website www.ginlalli.com 

I'm happy to give away all my knowledge in this podcast and my book - because I want to take away the mystery of therapy. Find out more in today's episode. 

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What do we know from science about the gut-brain connection that could help stop a panic attack? Well, you'll find out in this episode. 

You can join my private FaceBook group and follow me on Facebook for some live videos on how to empty your stress bucket - the Solution-focused formula I use with clients all the time.

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All my details and more information about what I do, including press articles and my blog, can be viewed on my website www.ginlalli.com 

When you're doing nothing you're not switching off....you're switching over. Learn to love doing nothing in this overstimulated world.

You can join my private FaceBook group and follow me on Facebook for some live videos on how to empty your stress bucket - the Solution-focused formula I use with clients.

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You can send me a direct voice message here if you want - you never know I might feature you in the next episode????

All my details and more information about what I do, including press articles and my blog, can be viewed on my website www.ginlalli.com 

You can buy the print and ebook versions of my book here:

Amazon: https://lnkd.in/g8QEmk3Z

Waterstones: https://lnkd.in/g3KzJpZH

Book Depository: https://lnkd.in/gKrkYG7n

Blackwells: https://lnkd.in/gBHWcBnz

Barns & Noble (US): https://lnkd.in/gkpwHHXR

*** This podcast contains a relaxation exercise. Do not listen to this if you are driving or operating machinery ***

This is the intro to the relaxation I use during sessions and that my clients fall asleep to. I hope you enjoy it.

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Don't despair if you're not keeping up with your New Years' resolutions. Understand that it's a primitive brain response and that once you begin to rationalise it in your intelligent brain you'll be a wee bit kinder to yourself.

You can join my private FaceBook group and follow me on Facebook for some live videos on how to empty your stress bucket - the Solution-focused formula I use with clients all the time.

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You can send me a direct voice message here if you want - you never know I might feature you in the next episode????

All my details and more information about what I do, including press articles and my blog, can be viewed on my website www.ginlalli.com 

You can buy the print and ebook versions of my book here:

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What are you afraid of when it comes to getting therapy? Do you think I'll change your personality? 

In this episode, I try to address the reluctance to get therapy and I can't make you do anything you don't want to. I believe you have the solutions that work for you inside you already. 

You can join my private FaceBook group and follow me on Facebook for some live videos on how to empty your stress bucket - the Solution-focused formula I use with clients all the time.

I'm also on Twitter and LinkedIn 

You can send me a direct voice message here if you want - you never know I might feature you in the next episode????

All my details and more information about what I do, including press articles and my blog, can be viewed on my website www.ginlalli.com 

You can buy the print and ebook versions of my book here:

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Waterstones: https://lnkd.in/g3KzJpZH

Book Depository: https://lnkd.in/gKrkYG7n

Blackwells: https://lnkd.in/gBHWcBnz

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Continuing with recording the audio version of my book here's the next chapter. Hope you enjoy it. 

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You can send me a direct voice message here if you want - you never know I might feature you in the next episode????

All my details and more information about what I do, including press articles and my blog, can be viewed on my website www.ginlalli.com 

You can buy the print and ebook versions of my book here:

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Another interview with one of my clients - Sound levels in this episode are variable so hope you can forgive me for that. But Chris's story is fascinating and she has some really great insights - she blows my mind with her analogy of tectonic plates! 

You can join my private FaceBook group and follow me on Facebook for some live videos on how to empty your stress bucket - the Solution-focused formula I use with clients all the time.

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You can send me a direct voice message here if you want - you never know I might feature you in the next episode????

All my details and more information about what I do, including press articles and my blog, can be viewed on my website www.ginlalli.com 

Although I've talked in the past about the Solution Focused formula, in today's episode I'd like to take you through an actual solution-focused session. It's something you could easily try on yourself. 

You can join my private FaceBook group and follow me on Facebook for some live videos on how to empty your stress bucket - the Solution-focused formula I use with clients all the time.

I'm also on Twitter and LinkedIn 

You can send me a direct voice message here if you want - you never know I might feature you in the next episode????

All my details and more information about what I do, including press articles and my blog, can be viewed on my website www.ginlalli.com 

You can buy the print and ebook versions of my book here:

Amazon: https://lnkd.in/g8QEmk3Z

Waterstones: https://lnkd.in/g3KzJpZH

Book Depository: https://lnkd.in/gKrkYG7n

Blackwells: https://lnkd.in/gBHWcBnz

Barns & Noble (US): https://lnkd.in/gkpwHHXR

You know those moments when a realisation just comes to you? As if by magic? Well, in this episode I explain what's going on in the brain to create them and how you can get more of them!  

You can join my private FaceBook group and follow me on Facebook for some live videos on how to empty your stress bucket - the Solution-focused formula I use with clients all the time.

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All my details and more information about what I do, including press articles and my blog, can be viewed on my website www.ginlalli.com 

It's really difficult to know how to help a loved one with their mental health issues. But as a supportive friend, relative or partner here are a few things that could help. 

Another client interview - hear from Helen who's turned her life around "a full 360" with the solution focused approach.

You can join my private FaceBook group and follow me on Facebook for some live videos on how to empty your stress bucket - the Solution-focused formula I use with clients.

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You can send me a direct voice message here if you want - you never know, I might feature you in the next episode????

All my details and more information about what I do, including press articles and my blog, can be viewed on my website www.ginlalli.com 

You can buy the print and ebook versions of my book here:

Amazon: https://lnkd.in/g8QEmk3Z

Waterstones: https://lnkd.in/g3KzJpZH

Book Depository: https://lnkd.in/gKrkYG7n

Blackwells: https://lnkd.in/gBHWcBnz

Barns & Noble (US): https://lnkd.in/gkpwHHXR

Whether you can demolish a packet of chocolate biscuits in 3 minutes or have 4 packets of monster munch in 1 sitting we've all know what it feels like to want to mindlessly eat. But why does this occur and how is it related to your stress levels? 

In today's episode, I interview someone who has been following this podcast since the beginning and has emptied their stress bucket just by following my advice and yet never seeing me 1 to 1 for a session - which means you can do it too. Find out how Jane now has better perspective, is sleeping well, and managing the challenges of her life like never before after being convinced that the solution focused process was a good fit for her.

Find out more about my solution-focused work with individuals and organisations, my book, and online course on my website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.ginlalli.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

You can also join my ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook group⁠⁠

Your stress bucket does not need to be empty all the time. It's perfectly normal to feel sad, nervous and passionate too - you're only human after all. 

You're going to hear from Eloise today - superwoman extraordinaire who runs her own linguistics company.

She's honest about the brick wall she slammed into after a phenomenally successful year and how SFT got her through it. Should everyone in business have a therapist? Warning - she's like me; she talks fast when she gets excited to put on your seat belt and get ready for the ride!

You can check out Eloise on her website https://www.olimcomms.com/ and be envious of her gorgeous hair, she also just started her own podcast

Find out more about my solution-focused work with individuals and organisations, my book, and my online course on my website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.ginlalli.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

You can also join my ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook group⁠⁠

Many people put off therapy because they think it's just talking and they should be able to do this on their own.

And they're right, it is just talking, but therapists have been trained to use a lot of powerful questioning to create change within you. Don't underestimate the power of a professional. That's why you should respect the privacy of someone who has already emptied their stress bucket. Find out more in this episode.

Find out more about my solution-focused work with individuals and organisations, my book, and online course on my website: ⁠⁠⁠www.ginlalli.com⁠⁠⁠

You can also join my ⁠⁠⁠Facebook group⁠

You hear of people who are in therapy for years at a time and this can put people off, so I'm often asked this question. Obviously, I can only talk about Solution Focused work but compared to other therapies it can work quite quickly if you are motivated. In this episode, I explain how and why it works for some people, and also how it does not for others. 

You can find out more about me and what I do on my website which has all my contact details. I love hearing from you so please don't be shy and get in touch. 

And don't forget to join my private Facebook Group How To Empty Your Stress Bucket.

There is a huge link between stress and digestive issues. In today's episode, I explain briefly why that is and what you can do ensure that the next time you see the metaphorical polar bear you do not 'evacuate your bowels!'

I also share some tips on some breathing exercises. I hope you enjoy this episode.

You can find out more about me here 

The next chapter of my book, How To Empty Your Stress Bucket, focuses on a brilliant metaphor to help you understand how the primitive brain can throw a tantrum like a toddler and take control of you quite easily. I hope you enjoy it. 

You can join my private FaceBook group and follow me on Facebook for some live videos on how to empty your stress bucket - the Solution-focused formula I use with clients all the time.

I'm also on Twitter and LinkedIn 

You can send me a direct voice message here if you want - you never know I might feature you in the next episode????

All my details and more information about what I do, including press articles and my blog, can be viewed on my website www.ginlalli.com 

You can buy the print and ebook versions of my book here:

Amazon: https://lnkd.in/g8QEmk3Z

Waterstones: https://lnkd.in/g3KzJpZH

Book Depository: https://lnkd.in/gKrkYG7n

Blackwells: https://lnkd.in/gBHWcBnz

Barns & Noble (US): https://lnkd.in/gkpwHHXR

Contrary to popular opinion I'm not always positive, calm, and collected; I have my moments.

Hear about what happened to me on my holidays for my big birthday and how I handled it - could you learn something from this?

Find out more about my solution-focused work with individuals and organisations, my book, and online course on my website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.ginlalli.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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If you’re finding that "nothing helps," it’s not a sign that you’re failing or that the techniques don’t work. It’s a signal that it’s time to take a different approach and empty that stress bucket.

Find out more about my solution-focused work with individuals and organisations, my book, and online course on my website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.ginlalli.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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Don't put yourself in a box and give yourself a label - it's a self-fulfilling prophecy!

Find out more about my solution-focused work with individuals and organisations, my book and online course on my website: www.ginlalli.com

You can also join my Facebook group

It can be easy to change when you understand the logical levels that create this. Environment - Behaviour - Capabilities - Beliefs/Values - Identity.

But should we turn this around? In this episode I explain how I teach this to clients but only once their stress bucket is fairly empty - it can be quite intense! 

You can find out more about me and what I do on my website which has all my contact details. I love hearing from you so please don't be shy and get in touch.

And don't forget to join my private Facebook Group How To Empty Your Stress Bucket.

In this episode, I talk about anti-depressants and anti-anxiety medications. I take a non-judgemental view on them and here's why. Please note I am not a medical professional (anymore!) and all medications should be taken and stopped under the supervision of your GP.

You can join my private FaceBook group and follow me on Facebook for some live videos on how to empty your stress bucket - the Solution-focused formula I use with clients all the time.

I'm also on Twitter and LinkedIn 

You can send me a direct voice message here if you want - you never know I might feature you in the next episode????

All my details and more information about what I do, including press articles and my blog, can be viewed on my website www.ginlalli.com 

You can buy the print and ebook versions of my book here:

Amazon: https://lnkd.in/g8QEmk3Z

Waterstones: https://lnkd.in/g3KzJpZH

Book Depository: https://lnkd.in/gKrkYG7n

Blackwells: https://lnkd.in/gBHWcBnz

Barns & Noble (US): https://lnkd.in/gkpwHHXR

You've made the decision, and it resonates with you, now you need to book that introductory call. You don't need to be anxious about that because in this episode I explain what I ask and why I'm asking it.

Find out more about my solution-focused work with individuals and organisations, my book, and online course on my website: ⁠⁠⁠www.ginlalli.com⁠⁠⁠

You can also join my ⁠⁠⁠Facebook group⁠

Do you want the Solution Focused formula to empty the stress bucket? It's 3 easy steps that you can do easily to help eliminate anxiety, stress and depression. This episode will help you with that but if you want to join some live sessions I'm doing them over in the private Facebook Group. Feel; free to come along and join in. 

You can find out more about me, my contact details and social media links here. 

Today on World Menopause day I'd like to take you through the solution focused approach to menopause and how I help my clients, and myself, to manage this time in our lives. I hope this episode helps you or someone you know. 

You can join my private FaceBook group and follow me on Facebook for some live videos on how to empty your stress bucket - the Solution-focused formula I use with clients.

I'm also on Twitter and LinkedIn 

You can send me a direct voice message here if you want - you never know, I might feature you in the next episode????

All my details and more information about what I do, including press articles and my blog, can be viewed on my website www.ginlalli.com 

You can buy the print and ebook versions of my book here:

Amazon: https://lnkd.in/g8QEmk3Z

Waterstones: https://lnkd.in/g3KzJpZH

Book Depository: https://lnkd.in/gKrkYG7n

Blackwells: https://lnkd.in/gBHWcBnz

Barns & Noble (US): https://lnkd.in/gkpwHHXR

Another interesting interview with one of my previous clients. Paola had huge anxiety and fear a few years ago, manifesting itself into phobias of flying and going on trains. Hear how she overcame them with solution focused work, how she changed her life and is about to embark on a massive adventure.

You can join my private FaceBook group and follow me on Facebook for some live videos on how to empty your stress bucket - the Solution-focused formula I use with clients all the time.

I'm also on Twitter and LinkedIn 

You can send me a direct voice message here if you want - you never know I might feature you in the next episode????

All my details and more information about what I do, including press articles and my blog, can be viewed on my website www.ginlalli.com 

You can buy the print and ebook versions of my book here:

Amazon: https://lnkd.in/g8QEmk3Z

Waterstones: https://lnkd.in/g3KzJpZH

Book Depository: https://lnkd.in/gKrkYG7n

Blackwells: https://lnkd.in/gBHWcBnz

Barns & Noble (US): https://lnkd.in/gkpwHHXR

Welcome back to season 4 - we're back to the old format of short sharp episodes to make you think.

This week it's all about how to accept the events in our life and deal with them, not avoid them, which only leads to more stress and anxiety.

Find out more about my solution-focused work with individuals and organisations, my book, and online course on my website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.ginlalli.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

You can also join my ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook group⁠⁠⁠

"Whether you think you can or you think you can't, you're right" Henry Ford.  Your mind looks for confirmation of what it believes, it's not about being right or wrong, it just needs the confirmation.  If you can reframe your self-talk you can notice changes in your thoughts and feelings. Learn how to re-direct your subconscious. 

The end of the pandemic and coming out of lockdown seems like the goal we’ve all been waiting for and the end of a long struggle.

However, we’ve got used to being in a bit of a bubble so the thought of going out into noisy crowds and social spaces are also raising anxiety levels. In this episode, I give you some tips on how to manage this transition. 

You can join my private FaceBook group and follow me on Facebook for some live videos on how to empty your stress bucket - the Solution-focused formula I use with clients all the time.

I'm also on Twitter and LinkedIn 

You can send me a direct voice message here if you want - you never know I might feature you in the next episode????

All my details and more information bout what I do, including press articles and my blog, can be viewed on my website www.ginlalli.com 

You've got to get honest with yourself and think about if you're comfortable with your anxiety or if are you ready to choose another 'type of difficult' that may also require you to do the work.

Find out more about my solution-focused work with individuals and organisations, my book, and online course on my website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.ginlalli.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

You can also join my ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook group⁠⁠⁠

***Trigger Warning*** In today's episode I talk about the very sensitive subjects of suicide and depression. Please skip this episode if you find these subjects difficult to think about.

However, I do talk about the solution focused process of helping people and the reasons why we should celebrate every small win, I hope this episode helps you or someone you know. 

Find out more about my solution-focused work with individuals and organisations, my book and online course on my website: www.ginlalli.com

You can also join my Facebook group

Following on from last week's episode today I talk about what is happening with the stress bucket that makes some people sleep for 9 or 10 hours but wake up feeling exhausted. If this sounds like you then you'll want to listen to this episode. 

Find out more about my solution-focused work with individuals and organisations, my book, and online course on my website: ⁠⁠⁠www.ginlalli.com⁠⁠⁠

You can also join my ⁠⁠⁠Facebook group

No one likes change, even if it's good for you. Find out why and more in this week's episode.

Find out more about my solution-focused work with individuals and organisations, my book, and online course on my website: ⁠⁠www.ginlalli.com⁠⁠

You can also join my ⁠⁠Facebook group

If you want to follow Jules' journey of Solution Focused Therapy with me you can find her on TikTok or Instagram and FaceBook

A wee reset on the 3 P's with additional tips and hints - are you doing your 3 P's yet?

Find out more about my solution-focused work with individuals and organisations, my book, and online course on my website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.ginlalli.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

You can also join my ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook group⁠⁠⁠

Not all stress is bad for you, and there's no such thing as work-life balance, so how can you make sense of work-related stress. Listen to this episode to hear my views on it and see if it helps you think about work and life in a new way.

You can always email me at gin@ginlalli com if you want to #BeLike Harley and suggest a topic for me to make an episode on. 

The very first session I have with clients is called the breakthrough session. This is where we lay down the groundwork for our sessions and I explain the therapy plan I have devised for you. Find out exactly what goes on in the breakthrough session in today's episode.

You can join my private FaceBook group and follow me on Facebook for some live videos on how to empty your stress bucket - the Solution-focused formula I use with clients all the time.

I'm also on Twitter and LinkedIn 

You can send me a direct voice message here if you want - you never know I might feature you in the next episode????

All my details and more information about what I do, including press articles and my blog, can be viewed on my website www.ginlalli.com 

You can buy the print and ebook versions of my book here:

Amazon: https://lnkd.in/g8QEmk3Z

Waterstones: https://lnkd.in/g3KzJpZH

Book Depository: https://lnkd.in/gKrkYG7n

Blackwells: https://lnkd.in/gBHWcBnz

Barns & Noble (US): https://lnkd.in/gkpwHHXR

Motivation and desire are not enough to create change. And yet we do things all the time without thinking, don't we?

In this episode, I explain why that is and how we can take that principle and apply it to creating change in our own mental well-being.

You can join my private FaceBook group and follow me on Facebook for some live videos on how to empty your stress bucket - the Solution-focused formula I use with clients all the time.

I'm also on Twitter and LinkedIn 

You can send me a direct voice message here if you want - you never know I might feature you in the next episode????

All my details and more information about what I do, including press articles and my blog, can be viewed on my website www.ginlalli.com 

Following on from the last episode I want to tell you exactly what you can expect from my 10 week programme - and I'm a bit Lucy Goosey about the 10 weeks ;)

Find out more about my solution-focused work with individuals and organisations, my book, and online course on my website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.ginlalli.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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Thought I'd throw in the next chapter quickly so we can crack on with the book.

Control is one of the major things about anxiety - when our anxiety is high we feel we've lost control, we're on a constant drive to get some of that control back. Listen to my chapter about control and the solution focused take on it. 

You can join my private FaceBook group and follow me on Facebook for some live videos on how to empty your stress bucket - the Solution-focused formula I use with clients all the time.

I'm also on Twitter and LinkedIn 

You can send me a direct voice message here if you want - you never know I might feature you in the next episode????

All my details and more information about what I do, including press articles and my blog, can be viewed on my website www.ginlalli.com 

You can buy the print and ebook versions of my book here:

Amazon: https://lnkd.in/g8QEmk3Z

Waterstones: https://lnkd.in/g3KzJpZH

Book Depository: https://lnkd.in/gKrkYG7n

Blackwells: https://lnkd.in/gBHWcBnz

Barns & Noble (US): https://lnkd.in/gkpwHHXR

In this episode, I chat with my friend, registered nutritionist Dr Laura Wyness on all things connecting the gut to the brain. Hear her opinions on how we've overcomplicated nutrition and how we can make it easier to store more serotonin in our gut. 

Laura shared many valuable resources which are listed below but please check out Laura's website and her podcast first. 

The Eat Well Guide 

Veg Meals in 30 minutes by Anita Bean

Megan Rossi the gut health doctor 

The Female Factor by Hazel Wallace

Love Food Hate Waste

Women Positively Ageing by Barbara Bray 

You can join my private FaceBook group and follow me on Facebook for some live videos on how to empty your stress bucket - the Solution-focused formula I use with clients.

I'm also on Twitter and LinkedIn 

You can send me a direct voice message here if you want - you never know I might feature you in the next episode????

All my details and more information about what I do, including press articles and my blog, can be viewed on my website www.ginlalli.com 

You can buy the print and ebook versions of my book here:

Amazon: https://lnkd.in/g8QEmk3Z

Waterstones: https://lnkd.in/g3KzJpZH

Book Depository: https://lnkd.in/gKrkYG7n

Blackwells: https://lnkd.in/gBHWcBnz

Barns & Noble (US): https://lnkd.in/gkpwHHXR

My favourite subject - SLEEP! Good quality sleep is the one thing you can do now, for free, to help limit what goes into your stress bucket.

Fancy dipping yourself in ice-cold water? Or going for a swim in a freezing loch? Use this episode to decide if it's for you or not.

Find out more about my solution-focused work with individuals and organisations, my book, and online course on my website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.ginlalli.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

You can also join my ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook group⁠⁠⁠

My opinion on manifesting and why, if you're not careful, it could be very damaging. 

You can join my private FaceBook group and follow me on Facebook for some live videos on how to empty your stress bucket - the Solution-focused formula I use with clients.

I'm also on Twitter and LinkedIn 

You can send me a direct voice message here if you want - you never know, I might feature you in the next episode????

All my details and more information about what I do, including press articles and my blog, can be viewed on my website www.ginlalli.com 

You can buy the print and ebook versions of my book here:

Amazon: https://lnkd.in/g8QEmk3Z

Waterstones: https://lnkd.in/g3KzJpZH

Book Depository: https://lnkd.in/gKrkYG7n

Blackwells: https://lnkd.in/gBHWcBnz

Barns & Noble (US): https://lnkd.in/gkpwHHXR

Time to talk about the Stress Bucket. There are many different ways to describe stress but here's my take on it.