Sounds Fake But Okay (Sounds Fake But Okay)
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| 24 Mar 2019 | Ep 76: Aces in Space | 00:57:18 | |
Hey what's up hello! This week Kayla and Sarah sit down and talk about aces in space. What are the benefits of only sending aces to space? What would be the best planet for aces to colonize? How to periods work in space? How does zero gravity even work??? All this and so much more! Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 31 Mar 2019 | Ep 77: April Fools' Day | 00:50:18 | |
Hey what's up hello! This week, Kayla and Sarah talk about the upcoming holiday - April Fool's Day. The gals talk about all the things you shouldn't do on April Fools' Day, including coming out as a 'joke,' outing someone else, or getting braces. Take a listen and please don't prank us (Sarah will get very mad)! Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 14 Apr 2019 | Ep 78: What Do You Assume? | 00:53:41 | |
Hey what's up hello! This week we read your assumptions about us and see if they're true! Does Sarah want a QPR? What would our superpowers be? Is having a podcast overwhelming! Listen to find out! Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 17 Apr 2022 | Ep 212: We're Back! | 00:37:51 | |
Hey what's up hello! We're back after our long hiatus! We have so much to tell you about what's been going on :) Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 21 Apr 2019 | Ep 79: Queerness and Gaming feat. A Friend | 00:59:51 | |
Hey what's up hello! This week Kayla and Sarah talk to the infamous Perry Fiero (aka Piano Fiano) about queerness and gaming. How good is representation in online games? What's the state of homophobia in the community? Hit this this ep up to find out. Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 24 Apr 2022 | Ep 213: Am I The Asshole? pt. 3 | 00:49:04 | |
Hey what's up hello! We're back once again to definitively decide if the people of Reddit are in fact assholes. Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 01 May 2022 | Ep 214: On Being Biromantic Demisexual | 00:44:25 | |
Hey what's up hello! As some of you noticed, Kayla came back from our hiatus with a fancy new intro. Today, we talk about the difficulties of figuring out your romantic identity when you're already on the asexual spectrum. Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 08 May 2022 | Ep 215: Being an Aspec Outside Observer | 00:52:39 | |
Hey what's up hello! As aspecs, we can often feel like outsiders when it comes to things like sex or dating. While sometimes this feels incredibly isolating, other times it allows us to take a unique and useful position as objective, outside observers. Let's discuss! Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 28 Apr 2019 | Ep 80: Queer Women In Positions of Power | 00:52:03 | |
Hey what's up hello! This week Kayla and Sarah talk about what it's like being a queer woman in a position of power. They talk about how being a woman has affected their leadership style and how their experiences of directing a musical and a movie were influenced by their identities! Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 15 May 2022 | Ep 216: Aspecs Explain Romantic Tropes | 00:44:41 | |
Hey what's up hello! This week, Sarah and Kayla try to sell you on all the best romantic fanfiction tropes. Why? Because we love them. P.S. - PLS DO NOT TELL KAYLA WHAT I GOT HER FOR HER BIRTHDAY SHE WON'T KNOW FOR ANOTHER FEW DAYS Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 22 May 2022 | Ep 217: Weddings | 00:57:13 | |
Hey what's up hello! Kayla was in her sister's wedding last week and you know what that means! Time to talk about weddings and all their traditions from an aspec perspective. Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 29 May 2022 | Ep 218: Reacting to r/ShowerThoughts | 00:43:49 | |
Hey what's up hello! This week we needed something silly, so we took to Reddit and reacted to the world wide web's shower thoughts about sex and dating. Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 05 Jun 2022 | Ep 219: Breath and Sexual Arousal?? | 00:43:37 | |
Hey what's up hello! The internet tells us that our breath can tell us about sexual arousal. We know everything we read on the internet is true, so this week your local aspec podcasters discuss. Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 12 Jun 2022 | Ep 220: Aspecs Describe the Difference Between Hot, Sexy, Pretty, and Cute | 00:49:07 | |
Hey what's up hello! On today's episode, two aspecs try to explain the difference between a person being hot, sexy, pretty, or cute. What a wild ride! Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 19 Jun 2022 | Ep 221: Femcels | 00:47:18 | |
Hey what's up hello! It's femcel summer (apparently?) and we're here to discuss what that means from an aspec perspective. Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 26 Jun 2022 | Ep 222: 2022 Corporate Pride Roundup | 00:57:08 | |
Hey what's up hello! As pride comes to an end, we're taking a look back at the best and worst (but mostly worst) corporate pride and rainbow washing activities of 2022. Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 05 May 2019 | Ep 81: Sexuality Quizzes | 00:49:54 | |
Hey what's up hello! This week Kayla and Sarah talk about quizzes that are supposed to tell you what your sexuality is. They take the Kinsey Scale test and tests about asexuality and demisexuality! Listen in to see if they're ~really~ aspec. Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 31 Jul 2022 | Ep 223: Pet Names for Partners | 00:42:14 | |
Hey what's up hello! We are back, and we are talking about pet names. Why are they a thing, and why are they like THAT? Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 07 Aug 2022 | Ep 224: Ghosting | 00:49:51 | |
Hey what's up hello! Ghosting. What is it, why is it a thing, and why is Sarah an apologist? There's only one way to find out, besties. Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 14 Aug 2022 | Ep 225: Libras Are Obsessed with Romance | 00:45:55 | |
Hey what's up hello! Sarah's an aro. Sarah's a libra. Libras are apparently romance-obsessed. Sarah doesn't like this. Let's discuss. Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 21 Aug 2022 | Ep 226: Allonormativity and Amatanormativity | 00:40:56 | |
Hey what's up hello! On this week's episode, we define allonormativity and amatanormativity and share how we've experienced these in our own lives.
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| 28 Aug 2022 | Ep 227: Are Soulmates Real? | 00:48:54 | |
Hey what's up hello! This week we're talking about soulmates, starting with the chilling story of a woman who left her husband after meeting her soulmate in a love-at-first sight fiasco. Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 12 May 2019 | Ep 82: Feminism and Research | 00:46:14 | |
Hey what's up hello! Did you know Kayla is in a ~feminism~ class??? This week she talks about her research project about feminism and asexuality and what she found while researching asexuality. Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 04 Sep 2022 | Ep 228: r/AreTheStraightsOK? | 00:49:10 | |
Hey what's up hello! You've read the title and you know what that means - we're diving back into Reddit! This week we answer the age old question, are the straights ok??? Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 11 Sep 2022 | Ep 229: Refusing Compulsory Sexuality by Sherronda J. Brown | 00:48:09 | |
Hey what's up hello! In honor of Refusing Compulsory Sexuality: A Black Asexual Lens on Our Sex-Obsessed Culture by Sherronda J. Brown coming out on September 13th, we're having a little book club! Order Refusing Compulsory Sexuality: https://bookshop.org/a/101336/9781623177102 Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 18 Sep 2022 | Ep 230: Rating Bad Pickup Lines | 00:46:54 | |
Hey what's up hello! On this week's ~late night~ episode, two aspecs rank the worst and best(?) pickup lines. Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 25 Sep 2022 | Ep 231: Ace Voices feat. Eris Young | 01:01:11 | |
Hey what's up hello! Today we chat with Eris Young about their upcoming book Ace Voices: What It Means to Be Asexual, Aromantic, Demi Or Grey-Ace Eris Young. Out December 21, 2022. Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 02 Oct 2022 | Ep 232: Relaxcast pt. 2 | 00:46:31 | |
Hey... what's up... hello. Today marks the valiant return of the relaxcast: motivational edition. Will it actually be relaxing? Or motivational, for that matter? Only time will tell. Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 09 Oct 2022 | Ep 233: Writing Gay Porn feat. Dalton King | 01:31:05 | |
Content Warning: If you are sex-repulsed, this may not be the episode for you Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 16 Oct 2022 | Ep 234: Aspec Culture Shock | 00:46:00 | |
Hey what's up hello! Today we're talking about the culture shock we have as aspecs from learning that Netflix and chill isn't just chilling and what Cake By The Ocean is really about. Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 23 Oct 2022 | Ep 235: The Split Attraction Model | 00:55:08 | |
Hey what's up hello! Today we're revisiting a topic we very briefly and poorly addressed all the way back in episode 9 (NINE!) of this silly little podcast: the Split Attraction Model (SAM). Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/the-split-attraction-model Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 19 May 2019 | Ep 83: Personal Growth and the Future | 00:45:37 | |
Hey what's up hello! This week Kayla and Sarah talk all about their growth over the past four years and what the future will hold now that they graduated college! Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 06 Nov 2022 | Ep 236: Aspec Microlabels Pt. 1 | 00:51:08 | |
Hey what's up hello! This week we're doing the first episode of a new micro series on aspec microlabels! Today we discuss the labels -flux, abro-, -spike, aego-, apothi-, auto-, bellus-, and caed-. Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 13 Nov 2022 | Ep 237: Reading r/Confessions | 00:47:14 | |
Hey what's up hello! Today we return to Reddit to see what the wild people of r/Confessions need to get off their chests. TW: Discussion of sex and sexual content. Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 20 Nov 2022 | Ep 238: Aphrodisiacs | 00:47:40 | |
Hey what's up hello! Today we try to find out what aphrodisiacs are and if they even work in the first place. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/aphrodisiacs Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 27 Nov 2022 | Ep 239: Are We Soulmates??? | 00:53:04 | |
Hey what's up hello! Today we seek to once and for all find an answer to the age-old question: are Kayla and Sarah soulmates? Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 04 Dec 2022 | Ep 240: Kink, BDSM, and Asexuality feat. Evie Lupine | 01:17:19 | |
Hey what's up hello! Today we chat with kink educator Evie Lupine about kink, BDSM, and the intersection of her kinky and asexual identities. Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 11 Dec 2022 | Ep 241: Same Podcast, One Year Apart (The Third Year) | 01:03:55 | |
Hey what's up hello! For the last episode of 2022, we're doing the third installment of same podcast one year apart where we answer the same questions every year! Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 26 May 2019 | Ep 84: Wikipedia Rabbit Hole | 00:47:36 | |
Hey what's up hello! This week Kayla and Sarah go down the rabbit hole and play the Wikipedia game! It doesn't take many clicks to get from a random Wiki article to Hitler, but how many will it take to get to asexuality? Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 08 Jan 2023 | Ep 242: Catfishing | 00:51:27 | |
Hey what's up hello! We're back! And to kick off the new year we're talking about catfishing - What is it? Why does it happen? And also why does Nick Cannon have so many kids??? Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 15 Jan 2023 | Ep 243: Signs We Were Aspec | 00:44:20 | |
Hey what's up hello! Today we look back on our lives and search for overlooked signs from our past that we were aspec. Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 22 Jan 2023 | Ep 244: Amatonormativity in Small Talk | 00:55:25 | |
Hey what's up hello! This week, we have some small talk about small talk. We've noticed that all too often, small talk topics turn to dating and romance, so we're here to come up with some new aspec friendly small talk topics! Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 29 Jan 2023 | Ep 245: Nudity in Art | 00:42:03 | |
Hey what's up hello! This week, we talk about nudity in art. When is it art, and when is it porn? Is porn art?? Where is the line???? Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 05 Feb 2023 | Ep 246: Taking Up Space as an Aspec | 00:41:57 | |
Hey what's up hello! Today we talk about how important it is to take up space as an aspec/queer person, how to advocate for yourself, and how long it truly takes for Sarah's laundry to get done. Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 02 Jun 2019 | Ep 85: Queer Education in Schools feat. A Friend | 01:05:47 | |
Hey what's up hello! This week Kayla and Sarah are joined by special guest Amanda (Sarah's sister's girlfriend) to talk about what it's like being a queer teacher! What's the benefit of teaching kids about gender and sexuality early? How do you even do that?? Listen and find out! Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 12 Feb 2023 | Ep 247: Thinking About Sex & Romance (Or Not) | 00:52:44 | |
Hey what's up hello! Today we talk about what things aspecs and allos alike can think about instead of thinking about sex and romance. Because who wants to do that, really? Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Preorder SOUNDS FAKE BUT OKAY: www.soundsfakepod.com/book Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 19 Feb 2023 | Ep 248: Sounds Fake But Okay Book Preview! | 00:54:29 | |
Hey what's up hello! Today we're talking about our book Sounds Fake But Okay: An Asexual and Aromantic Perspective on Love, Relationships, Sex, and Pretty Much Anything Else and giving you a little preview of the first chapter! Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 26 Feb 2023 | Ep 249: The TikTok Algorithm | 00:36:55 | |
Hey what's up hello! Today we're talking about the TikTok algorithm. Is it making us all gay???? Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 05 Mar 2023 | Ep 250: Alcohol Consumption & Aspecs | 00:54:20 | |
Hey what's up hello! Today we're theorizing about why aspecs have been found to have a lower alcohol drinking rate than allos. We talk about Kayla's alcohol habits compared to Sarah's and why we do or don't drink.
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| 09 Jun 2019 | Ep 86: It's the Year of, like... Realizing Things | 00:47:31 | |
Hey what's up hello! This week Kayla and Sarah do a 6-month check in on their New Year's Resolutions! Did they give up on their goals after one month like everyone else? Did they realize all their hopes and dreams and change their lives? Find out! Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 12 Mar 2023 | Ep 251: Trans Rights | 00:44:35 | |
Hey what's up hello! This week we're talking about the trans rights violations currently on the rise in America. Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 19 Mar 2023 | Ep 252: Sex and Romance Mad Libs | 00:59:38 | |
Hey what's up hello! This week we're doing sex and romance-based mad libs, because that's basically what allos sound like sometimes anyway.
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| 26 Mar 2023 | Ep 253: What's In and What's Out? | 00:50:32 | |
Hey what's up hello! Spring is here, a new season has begun, and so it's time to decide what's in and what's out! Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 02 Apr 2023 | Ep 254: Ace Notes feat. Michele Kirichanskaya | 00:48:59 | |
Hey what's up hello! Today we're chatting with Michele Kirichanskaya about her new book Ace Notes: Tips and Tricks on Existing in an Allo World. Buy Ace Notes: https://bookshop.org/a/101336/9781839975226 Follow Michele: @MicheleKiricha1 Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 09 Apr 2023 | Ep 255: We Are Changed to Deer at the Broken Place feat. Kelly Weber | 01:04:15 | |
Hey what's up hello! Today we're joined by Kelly Weber to talk about their new asexual poetry book "We Are Changed to Deer at the Broken Place"! Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 16 Apr 2023 | Ep 256: I Have Beef With the Moon | 00:58:27 | |
Hey what's up hello! This week we talk about everything and nothing. Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 23 Apr 2023 | Ep 257: The Friendship Recession | 01:02:01 | |
Hey what's up hello! This week, we're talking about the friendship recession. Is it real? What could be causing it? Let's talk about it! The friendship recession | Richard Reeves: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VpOan0hqdNA Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 30 Apr 2023 | Ep 258: Am I The Asshole? pt. 4 | 01:00:17 | |
Hey what's up hello! We're back with yet another reading of r/AmITheAsshole. This might be the most assholey one of them all. Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 07 May 2023 | Ep 259: Asking ChatGPT About Asexuality and Aromanticism | 00:49:42 | |
Hey what's up hello! This week we ask ChatGPT some questions about asexuality and aromanticism. The responses were of... varying quality. Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 16 Jun 2019 | Ep 87: What Is Asexuality? | 00:59:41 | |
Hey what's up hello! This week’s episode is very special. It’s a full rundown of what asexuality is. If you are asexual and struggle to give the long talk that explains asexuality to loved ones, you can use this to do the talking for you. If you’ve just learned what asexuality is or if you were sent here by a loved one, hopefully, this episode begins to help you to learn and understand. Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 21 May 2023 | Ep 260: Microlabels Pt. 2 | 00:59:42 | |
Hey what's up hello! We're back for part 2 of our aspec microlabels series with an added bonus of would you rather! Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 28 May 2023 | Ep 261: Aces in Racing feat. Michael Klein | 00:52:14 | |
Hey what's up hello! Today we're chatting with Michael Klein, the first ever (out) ace racecar driver!! Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 04 Jun 2023 | Ep 262: Celebrating Pride | 00:47:15 | |
Hey what's up hello! Happy pride! Today we talk about pride month and give you some unique ways to celebrate. Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 11 Jun 2023 | Ep 263: Gender Detachment | 00:52:21 | |
Gender detachment! What is it? Does Sarah experience it? Why is Kayla holding a betting pool on Sarah's gender and why is she refusing to allow Sarah to dictate the currency of said pool on account of "insider trading"? Much to discuss. Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 18 Jun 2023 | Ep 264: Just a Silly Little Q&A | 00:55:45 | |
Hey what's up hello! Today we're doing a little Q&A! We answer questions about how the podcast has changed, the book, QPRs, and so much more! Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 25 Jun 2023 | Ep 265: Free From Desire feat. Aline Laurent-Mayard | 01:24:55 | |
Hey what's up hello! Today we have the absolute honor of talking to Aline Laurent-Mayard about their Tribeca Film Festival 2023 Audio Nonfiction Award-Winning podcast "Free From Desire: Asexual in the City of Love." Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 23 Jun 2019 | Ep 88: Reading Sarah's Childhood Novel | 01:05:02 | |
Hey what's up hello! This week, Sarah reads the novel she wrote when she was 8 years old, and Kayla reacts. By some twist of fate, the novel is named "Aven Swords," so Kayla and Sarah do their best to read the amazing book with an asexual lense. Please come along and cringe while Sarah reads! Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 02 Jul 2023 | Ep 266: r/RelationshipProblems | 01:01:04 | |
Hey what's up hello! Today we're going back to Reddit once again to try to help people with their relationship problems as a couple of aspec girlies. Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 09 Jul 2023 | Ep 267: Love Languages | 00:56:36 | |
Hey what's up hello! Supposedly we haven't done a full ep before about the love languages? Sounds fake. So we're doing it today!
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| 16 Jul 2023 | Ep 268: Sex and Romance Trivia | 00:52:51 | |
Hey what's up hello! This week we're doing sex and romance trivia. Will we finally learn how long sex is supposed to last???? Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 23 Jul 2023 | Ep 269: Compulsory Heterosexuality | 00:59:25 | |
Hey what's up hello! This week we're diving into a discussion on compulsory heterosexuality, the lesbian master doc, and how comp het, comp allo, and amatanormativity are related. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/compulsory-heterosexuality Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 30 Jun 2019 | Ep 89: Reactions to Pride and Taylor Swift's Video | 00:55:00 | |
Hey what's up hello! This week we talk about the commercialization of pride and what it means for companies and the queer community. We also watched the very controversial Taylor Swift music video "You Need To Calm Down" and talked about our thoughts on Taylor and what it meant for her to make a video like this. *Correction: In this episode, we mentioned that Lady Gaga is straight when she is, in fact, bisexual and has unfortunately often faced bi erasure. We're sorry Lady Gaga! Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 27 Aug 2023 | Ep 270: The Barbie Movie | 01:06:15 | |
Hey what's up hello! We're back from summer break which means it's FINALLY time to talk about the Barbie movie and the fact that Barbie is absolutely aromantic asexual. Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 03 Sep 2023 | Ep 271: Accidental Flirting | 01:06:33 | |
Hey what's up hello! This week we're talking about a fear that so many aspecs share - flirting with someone without realizing that's what you're supposedly doing. Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 10 Sep 2023 | Ep 272: Aspec Shark Tank | 00:53:39 | |
Hey what's up hello! In what might be our most chaotic episode yet, this week we bring you aspec Shark Tank. Sarah has come up with 11 of the best(?) aspec business ideas and Kayla is here to invest. Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 17 Sep 2023 | Ep 273: Am I The Asshole? pt. 5 | 00:58:33 | |
Hey what's up hello! Would you even believe that we're back with an r/AmITheAsshole episode??? Sarah's been saving up the best AITA the internet has the offer and it made for the most shocking installment of the series yet. Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 24 Sep 2023 | Ep 274: Microlabels pt. 3 | 00:55:39 | |
Hey what's up hello! We are back with our third (and final??) installation of the aspec microlabels series. Also, something about plantains.
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| 07 Jul 2019 | Ep 90: Why Are Millennials Having So Little Sex? | 00:48:23 | |
Hey what's up hello! This week we talk about the article Why Are Young People Having So Little Sex? by The Atlantic. How have millennials ruined something else?? Who's fault is it?? Porn? Old people? Tinder? Homework? Asexuality?? We try to figure it all out. Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 01 Oct 2023 | Ep 275: Dating Coaches | 00:56:14 | |
Hey what's up hello! This week we're talking about dating coaches. Are they a scam? What do they actually do? What does this say about late stage capitalism in the year of our Lord 2023?
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| 08 Oct 2023 | Ep 276: Dating Later in Life | 00:59:20 | |
Hey what's up hello! This week, inspired by the first episode of The Golden Bachelor, we're discussing dating later in life (i.e. when you're 60+). Why do people date when they're older? Why is there societal pressure to "get back out there"? And why are nursing home so horny??? Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 15 Oct 2023 | Ep 277: Cuffing Season | 01:00:58 | |
Hey what's up hello! The weather is getting colder and it's time to cuddle up with your boo thang! Or so the allos say. Today we learn about cuffing season strategies and science. Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 22 Oct 2023 | Ep 278: The Ick | 00:50:05 | |
Hey what's up hello! This week we're talking about "the ick." What is it? Is it real? And what gives us the ick?? Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 29 Oct 2023 | Ep 279: Aspec Quizzes | 01:01:56 | |
Hey what's up hello! It's silly little aspec quiz hours. What kind of aspec are we? Will a random internet user simp for us? This week we ask all the most important questions. Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 05 Nov 2023 | Ep 280: Romanticizing | 00:55:27 | |
Hey what's up hello! This week we're talking about romanticization - why we do it, the pros and cons of romanticizing relationships, and what we should romanticize other than romance. You know it's about to get silly. Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 12 Nov 2023 | Ep 281: Being Ace feat. Madeline Dyer | 00:57:19 | |
Hey what's up hello! This week we're chatting with Madeline Dyer about her new anthology Being Ace: An Anthology of Queer, Trans, Femme, and Disabled Stories of Asexual Love and Connection. Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 10 Jul 2017 | Welcome to Sounds Fake But Okay | 00:05:16 | |
Hey what's up hello! Welcome to Sounds Fake But Okay Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 19 Nov 2023 | Ep 282: Am I The Asshole pt. 6 (Wedding Edition) | 01:03:44 | |
Hey what's up hello! We're back with another fan favorite Am I The Asshole but this time it's all about weddings. Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 26 Nov 2023 | Ep 283: SFBO the Audiobook Sneak Peek | 00:24:16 | |
Hey what's up hello! We finally have an audiobook! Read in our own voices!!! As a special treat, today we give to you a sneak preview of chapter one. Buy the audiobook: www.soundsfakepod.com/book Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 14 Jul 2019 | Ep 91: 36 Questions to Make You Fall in Love | 01:03:12 | |
Hey what's up hello! This week Kayla and Sarah talk about the 36 questions. Psychologists at UC Berkley came up with a set of 36 questions that you answer with a stranger. After you answer them, you fall in love instantly! Or so they say. Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 03 Dec 2023 | Ep 284: This Author Loves Butch Orcs | 00:52:06 | |
Hey what's up hello! This week we manage to talk about everything and nothing at the same time. Toxic old men named Gerry, wedding presents, butch orcs, chilis. You name it, we covered it. Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 10 Dec 2023 | Ep 285: Same Podcast, One Year Apart (The Fourth Year) | 01:01:07 | |
Hey what's up hello! To wrap up another year of the podcast, we're back recording the fourth edition of "same podcast, one year apart" a la Billie Eilish x Vanity Fair. Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 14 Jan 2024 | Ep 286: Am I The Asshole pt. 7 (Aspec Edition) | 00:51:56 | |
Hey what's up hello! We're back from our long winter's nap and ready to judge some assholes!!! This time, we're reading some aspec specific stories. Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 21 Jan 2024 | Ep 287: Celebrity Sexuality Speculation | 01:08:39 | |
Hey what's up hello! Today we're talking about the pop culture phenomenon that is speculating about celebrity's sexualities, demanding that celebrities come out, and accusing celebrities of queer baiting. Yikes! Our friend's article about BTS and queerness: https://www.them.us/story/park-jimin-bts-padya-paramita-personal-essay Video essay about homophobia in K-pop: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xGW-Snfu-30&t=1353s&ab_channel=KaterinaRose Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 21 Jul 2019 | Ep 92: Mental Health and Sexuality | 00:46:22 | |
Hey what's up hello! This week Kayla and Sarah talk all about mental health and how it relates to sexuality. Why is it that queer people are more likely to have mood disorders? Is this also true for asexual people? Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 28 Jan 2024 | Ep 288: Compersion | 00:53:52 | |
Hey what's up hello! Today we're talking about compersion. What is it? Where did the term come from? Is only for poly folx? Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 04 Feb 2024 | Ep 289: The Other Significant Others feat. Rhaina Cohen | 01:04:23 | |
Hey what's up hello! Today we're talking to author Rhaina Cohen about her book, The Other Significant Others: Reimagining Life with Friendship at the Center. It's a real platonic delight. Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 11 Feb 2024 | Ep 290: Hating Your Partner | 00:55:02 | |
Hey what's up hello! Just in time for Valentine's Day, this week we're talking abou the phenomenon of straight people hating their partners! Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 18 Feb 2024 | Ep 291: Am I The Asshole pt. 8 (Asshole Edition) | 00:44:01 | |
Hey what's up hello! We're back reading r/AmITheAsshole. Some of them may be fake but oh boy are they full of assholes! Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 25 Feb 2024 | Ep 292: Separating Aromanticism from Asexuality | 00:50:52 | |
Hey what's up hello! As Aro Week 2024 comes to an end, we talk about the way aromanticism is often linked with asexuality and how that can ultimately harm the aromantic community. Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||
| 03 Mar 2024 | Ep 293: Can AI Help You Date? | 00:47:33 | |
Hey what's up hello! Today we're talking about how artificial intelligence has invaded the world of dating from AI dating coaches to AI dating profile assistants. Cosmo articles: https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a46584514/bias-ai-dating-technology/ | https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a46585109/ai-dating-tips/ | https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a46575786/ai-dating-common-questions-concerns-experts/ Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book | |||