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25 Jan 2023
Welcome to Sex, Love & Everything In Between
00:12:12
Welcome to Sex, Love & Everything in between.
We’re Meg & Jacob O’Neill and what a gift to have you here.
This podcast has been a long time cummmmmming.
This is going to be the place where we have allllll the very, very, very real & unfiltered conversations about sex, love & everything in between.
In this first episode we introduce ourselves & give you a bit of a taster of what this show is all about.
We’ve been together over 8 years now and our sex life has expanded & evolved A LOT during this time. We spend this episode diving into the many, many ways our sex life has changed (for the better!) & how we meet the ‘practice of sex’ differently these days.
We talk about….
The first time we had sex
Sex as a performative action for women vs for pleasure
Expanding our definition of sex
Male-centric sex + pleasure
Porn
How a linear view of sex can leave women feeling broken
Female arousal
The emotional experience of sex
Jacob’s learning around holding space for Meg’s emotions and heart
Moving from having sex for pleasure to having sex for intimacy
Ep 4: "I didn't like my engagement ring." - Our imperfect engagement story
01:14:54
"I didn't like my engagement ring." - Our imperfect engagement story
Okay, friends. This is a vulnerable one.
We got engaged back in December 2021. It was beautiful & magical. And VERY IMPERFECT.
Meg DID NOT like her engagement ring. And for the first time, we share the full story of how it all unfolded. And why it brought us even closer together.
Here's the truth... Tension is unavoidable in a relationship. When you're living & building a life with someone... of course there are going to be moments of hurt, disagreement, discomfort, stickiness.
This episode is devoted to learning how to lean into those moments of conflict & use them as a portal to DEEPER CONNECTION.
And as always we share the real, raw, honest behind the scenes of conflict & tension in our relationship.
We explore...
The inconvenient times Meg likes to 'process' tension
Meg's NEED for physical comfort
Embracing and owning your “too muchness” as a woman
Being Jacob & Meg as individuals in a deep relationship
Seeing your partner as an important part in your evolution
Jacob growing up feeling responsible for other people’s feelings
Meeting your own shadows and taking ownership of your feelings
Coming together as a team on the other side of conflict
Ep 10: Porn, masturbation & the art of self pleasure
01:12:30
From porn & masturbation to trying to have sex in Jacob’s childhood home & our relationship to self pleasure… this is one juiiiiiicy conversation.
Meg & Jacob take you on a behind the scenes look into their own journey of exploring their bodies & pleasure as teens to what ‘touching themselves’ looks like these days.
We cover:
Jacob’s childhood bathroom
How our journey with porn and masturbation has changed
Conscious prom consumption
Understanding sexual energy and how to use it
Our commitment to quantity over quality
How we cultivate the hunger for sexual exploration
Meeting shame on the journey to becoming a SEXUALLY ALIVE HUMAN
Ep 12: Monogamy + navigating desires outside of our relationship
01:09:52
Join us for this beautiful, juicy and full conversation as we begin unpacking so much around desire.
This conversation starts with the question “Have either of you ever desired another man or woman whilst in the relationship?”
The short answer is yes.
There is so much around desire that needs to be unpacked that can allow you to bring yourself more fully into your relationships and ultimately choose each other in a deeper way without becoming a running commentary of everything you desire.
We dive into…
Acknowledging that desire happens in monogamous relationships
Bringing desire for someone else into your relationship
Creating distorted channels to have needs met
Meg feeling safe to speak about her desire towards someone else
Choosing each other in a deeper way
Our different experiences with contact dance
Navigating jealousy with an open heart
Beginning conversations so your partner feels seen
There is a BIG difference between ‘good sex’ & sex that cracks your fucking heart wide open. One is simply about the body and the genitals. The other requires SO MUCH MORE. And today we talk ALL about it.
Join us for a very deep & juicy conversation.
We riff on…
Meg’s recent ‘dark night of the Soul’
Big shifts in Meg’s business/ brand
Being devoted to the truth of the moment
How to have sex that ‘cracks your heart open’
The importance of letting your heart arrive during sex
The #1 practice for women who desire mind-blowing pleasure
Staying in the darkness to find liberation
Allowing space for partners self-pleasure
The stigma around sharing your emotions as a man
Releasing the end goal of sex
Why women often struggle to orgasm
The sex that is possible when a man brings safety to the relationship
Carnal desire and animalistic sex
Being devoted to being honest and releasing resentment in yourself and relationship
Ep 14: The Nice Guy, emasculation & wanting your man to 'be more Masculine'
01:19:51
This is for the woman who aches for her man to ‘be more Masculine’.
For the woman who so deeply desires to feel her man as an unshakably trustworthy force in their relationship & the world.
When we met, and in the early stages of our relationship, Jacob was the nice guy, which on the surface level often seems like a great thing, but since then, as our relationship evolved and grew we’ve been on a journey away from Jacob being the nice guy, and that’s what we’re sharing today.
We dive into…
A woman’s role in emasculation
The dynamics of our early relationship
Meg the puppeteer
How Jacob being the nice guy made him willing to go against his internal compass
The archetype of a nice guy
The belief that a woman knows better
Meg’s discovery that she wanted a man who she could push and he wouldn’t fall over
Finding “no” sexy
Moving beyond the surface level of what you want in a partner
Wanting your man to lead
Jacob standing his ground and following his calling
How Meg allows space for Jacob to be a man that leads
Often in relationships we withhold or lean back in moments of tension and when we feel disconnected and wait until the storm passes. And this becomes a cycle that leads to resentment or a neutral relationship.
If you want a long term relationship that reaches the depths of intimacy and cracks your heart open this is for you.
Join us for this juicy conversation and a little story from us about leaning back into your partner and into your relationship in moments of tension.
We dive into…
Consciously building a relationship with discomfort
Why rites of passage and initiations are important in modern day culture
Jacob’s relationship with authority
Expectations around sex
Being present and attuning to the truth of the moment
Expressing how you feel in the moment
Why we teach that someone doesn’t have to be right and someone wrong in tension
Releasing the part of you that wants to be right
Seeing your partner as a teammate
Jacob’s journey to communicating in the moment or shortly after
Feeling conflicted emotions simultaneously
What to do when you lean in and your partner leans back
The feminine comes alive when she gives herself fully to whatever wants to move through her whether that’s deep sensitivity, tenderness, grief or any other feeling.
There is an art to loving a woman and providing her with the safe, emotional space that she needs to open her heart and fully be in the moment.
This is for anyone who has been, is or will be in a relationship with a woman or as a woman.
We dive into…
The different operating systems of men and women
Providing information to your man
The heart as the doorway to a woman’s p*ssy
Emotionally holding space for a woman
Bein willing, as women to open your heart and speak into the relationship
Why f*cking with closed hearts is a no for our relationship
Owning your needs and desires
Staying attuned to whether your woman’s heart is there
The responsibility of a man in a relationship
The goal of orgasm inhibiting a man’s ability to inhabit his body
Meeting your partner in the experience
Honouring your woman’s emotional range
How to stay with an love a woman in her emotions
Releasing distractions and offering a depth of presence
If you’re a woman in a relationship with a man… this episode is a MUST listen.
We often hear A LOT about how men should love and treat women, but what about the other way around?
How can we as women really love up on our men?
Not in the way we want to be loved. But truly honour & understand how they desire to be loved.
In this episode, we will explore the art of loving a man and offer some practical tips and insights for women who want to deepen their connection with their man.
We dive into…
A man’s desire to serve something greater than himself
Having patience for the emotional process
Redefining vulnerability and courage for men
The overarching narrative of “boys don’t cry” in our culture
Bringing awareness to tension in the body through physical touch
Your man is not a hairy woman
Offering your love to a man through non sexual touch
Creating a sense of nourishment and safety
Offering respect
Creating experiences for your man to honour you and show you his gifts
Celebrating your man for the things that he already does
Ep 19: How to navigate 'monotony' in a long term relationship
01:13:01
Today we want to talk about one of the biggest paradoxes of long-term relationships:
We want spontaneity, energy, mystery, the unknown.
AND
We want comfort, safety, certainty, continuity.
So how can you hold space for BOTH in your long-term relationships?
In this episode, we will explore how to navigate a season of 'monotony' in long-term relationships, and also share how we keep the more spontaneous energy alive.
In this episode, we talk about:
The mundane things we find sexy in each other
Moving through anxiety in your relationship
What it looks like to be on autopilot within your relationship
How to avoid sabotaging or creating drama
The safety in peaceful love and how to be content in tranquility
Creating significant moments of love and connection
How to create intensity, spontaneity or creativity in your relationship
Ep 21: Healing the 'high achiever' + business as an initiation
00:50:38
We’re going to take you on a journey.
This is a lot about healing and learning to love the parts of you that are scared.
In this episode we’re talking to the high achiever’s out there who have maybe been struggling with a difficult time in their life where they don’t feel like they’re getting th A+’s that they strive for.
We dive into…
Meg’s high school and uni days as a ‘high achiever’
Tying your worth into external achievements
Societal expectations and navigating perfectionism
Consciously meeting the shadow parts of you
How business allows Meg to hold space for the little girl that had to get an A+
Navigating the fear of failure in business
The conditioning of women to find their value in beauty
The season of business that we’ve been in recently and feeling really wobbly in life
Seeing an invitation back to faith in something greater than ourselves
Today we are exploring the dance of expansion and contraction in relationships.
In this episode we’re exploring the balance between masculine and feminine leadership, moving beyond the limitations in our heads and practicing a deeper devotion to love
We dive into…
Trusting that it’s safe to lean into tension
Balancing power and polarity
The role of attunement and integrity in honouring the natural flow of living
Ep 30: How to be a powerful woman AND love your man really well
01:32:50
This episode was inspired after seeing a teacher online share how much she hated all this talk of ‘women need to stop emasculating men’.
And how she felt this was just another way in which women were taught to stay small & subservient.
I ( Meg!) STRONGLY FUCKING DISAGREE.
I stand for women in their power. Women taking up space.
Women in their full spectrum.
And I also stand for women loving, celebrating & revering men really fucking well.
These can co-exist.
Learning how to celebrate & love a man really well is NOT about playing small or caging up your voice or truth or needs.
NO.
You can be a POWERFUL, FULL SPECTRUM WOMAN and love your man really well.
And this is exactly what today’s episode is all about.
We dive deep into…
A common challenge powerful women face in relationship
Why men guard their hearts
What to do when you don’t/ are struggling to trust your man
Why women emasculate & what to do instead
Being your partner’s BIGGEST CHEERLEADER
Reminding your man he’s a powerful muttthhhaaa-fucker
Having a kink for ‘being right’ & knowing better’ in your relationship
How to love men really well
Meg’s love of men
The story of Jacob’s first men’s circle
And much, much more
Big love,
Meg & Jacob xx
02 Aug 2023
Ep 31: The Healing Power of Sex (and crying during sex)
01:05:52
Before sitting down to record this episode…
Meg cried & cried & cried whilst having sex with Jacob.
It was a deeply healing experience for her.
And so, we decided to have a whole conversation about the healing power of making love.
Cause here’s the truth…
Sex isn’t just about two (or more) bodies rubbing up against each other.
Sex is here to liberate us!
When we truly let the full spectrum of emotions be welcome in sex…
When we truly allow whatever is ALIVE to be felt & met…
Sex shifts from being simply about ‘getting off’...
To a powerful tool for healing & liberation.
In this episode we dive deep into…
Meg’s experience with crying during sex
Welcoming the full spectrum of emotions during sex
Why you might be experiencing numbness in your Pussy/ vagina
How the Pussy holds & stores unfelt emotions/ experiences
Trauma & the importance of meeting it in the body
The power of a self pleasure practice in healing & integrating trauma
Meg’s journey with self pleasure as a healing tool
How making love can be a portal to deep healing
Why you cannot BYPASS your emotions on the way to deeper pleasure & orgasm
How a man can show up for a woman in the bedroom
The Masculine practice of holding space & pressing your awareness into your partner
What is means to live a tantric life
And much, much more
Big love,
Meg & Jacob
09 Aug 2023
Ep 32: Self pleasure, butt stuff & integrating sexual shame
01:19:31
Come on a deep journey into the world of self pleasure with us.
From understanding the difference between masturbation & self pleasure to what we think about vibrators & anal play… we riff on a whole lot in this episode.
We also go deep into our own journeys with self pleasure & the importance of integrating sexual shame on the way to SEXUAL LIBERATION.
Here’s what you’ll hear us riff on in this conversation…
The last time we self pleasured
The difference between masturbation & self pleasure
Our experience from ‘masturbation’ to self pleasure
Masturbating in secret & sexual shame
Jacob’s experience of self pleasure & what it’s brought up for him
Exploring anal play as a man
What Meg thinks about vibrators
Why you can’t bypass your way to deeper orgasms
The healing power of a self pleasure practice
Self pleasuring in front of your partner
The weirdest places we’ve self pleasured
And much, much more
Big love,
Meg & Jacob xx
16 Aug 2023
Ep 33: The Number 1 Killer of Relationships
01:03:34
Resentment - This is the one thing all relationships are faced with. Whether its early on in the relationship or 10 years in.
And the hardest thing about resentment is it builds up over time. You’ll hear of examples from Meg and Jacob on this throughout the podcast and what they do to navigate the tension and dissolve the resentment. The result being a clear and open channel for the love to flow freely between their hearts. Its definitely a practice that requires devotion!
Meg shares a powerful question you can ask yourself when experiencing a trigger.
Jacob has multiple processes and realisations about himself.
We dive deep into how resentment is created and the danger of unspoken expectations.
Jacob shares how manipulation and unspoken desires were driving his acts of service.
The Chicken Soup Saga.
Asking for what you want in your relationship teaches your partner how to support and love you better.
Here’s what you’ll hear us riff on in this conversation…
Meg loving Jacob and him pushing her away.
Jacob getting bullied as a teenager led to resilience in business.
A woman's deepest fear is to be perceived as a B*itch.
Self Inquiry - What am I making this mean?
You can’t hold resentment and experience a fully alive relationship
Keeping the channel clear between two hearts.
Withholding your love from your partner.
Manipulation as a way to passively punish your partner.
Taking things personally and pushing your partner away.
Testing your partner instead of actually communicating what you want.
And much, much more
Big love,
Meg & Jacob xx
23 Aug 2023
Ep 34: Are you the Homemaker or the Whore?
01:01:10
The world's taught us there's only two types of women...
"The one you'd wife".
And...
"The one you'd fuck".
The homemaker.
And...
The whore.
The 'good girl'.
And...
The slut.
And, as women we're conditioned to think we've got to fit in one of these boxes.
Usually we choose the 'good girl'.
Because, well…are we really given any other fucking choice?
Our society demonises the s.xually ALIVE woman (a.k.a. the whore).
Our society makes us believe that a woman rippling with Eros is NOT a respectable woman.
BEING HER DOES NOT FEEL SAFE! 🤯
This dichotomous way our society sees women is deeply harmful. It makes us feel that the only way to be a 'good woman' is to divorce ourselves from our body & s.xuality.
It has created a world of 'watered down' women. Palatable women. Tame women.
Women who have caged up SO MUCH of themselves in a bid to be loved.
When a woman is told she has to be either the 'homemaker' or the 'whore'...
She does NOT live life feeling FREE to let the many faces of the Goddess move through her.
No.
She lives dissociated from so many of the parts that make her HER.
She lives disconnected from her truth & power.
But, , please know this...
🍆 You can be a cock-worshipping wh*re & a devoted Mother.
🍌 You can give amazing bl*w jobs & make amazing banana bread.
⛓️ You can do the freakiest, wildest, most 'taboo' things in the bedroom & still be a compassionate, kind & loving daughter/ leader/ sister/ partner/ wife.
You do NOT have to choose.
You can be the homemaker & the whore & EVERYTHING IN BETWEEN.
In today’s episode we dive deeeep into this concept & why it’s harmful to both men & women.
We riff on…
The Madonna/ Whore complex. What it is. And why it’s harmful.
Why our world is full of exhausted/ depleted women
What happens when a woman rejects parts of herself
The burning of witches & how the same kinda thing is still happening in our culture
How women are conditioned to think being the ‘cool girl’ = being desirable/ attractive to a man
That time Jacob called Meg ‘high maintenance’ & what happened
Why a Full Spectrum Woman is truly unstoppable
The power of a woman anchored in Her Pussy
Why viewing women in this dichotomous way hurts men
Porn & shadowy ways of trying to access ‘the whore’
And much, much more.
This is one potent episode.
Enjoy, my loves.
Big love,
Meg & Jacob
P.S. The doors to Full Spectrum Woman: The Revolution are officially OPEN.
If you’re ready to unleash your full spectrum & be the homemaker, the whore & everything in between… THIS IS THE PLACE TO DO IT!
Full Spectrum Woman is a transformative initiation like nothing else, combining deep teachings, masterful coaching & life-changing embodiment work, to liberate women into the fullest expression of their sex, relationship & entire Life.
Join us for AUD$199/ month until Friday 25th August.
26 Aug 2023
Ep 35: The path of the Full Spectrum Woman
01:05:53
Meg birthed Full Spectrum Woman back in 2020.
Over the last 3 years this experience has become a deeply trusted space for women to remember & reclaim the parts of themselves the world taught them were wrong, shameful or not welcome.
Their rage.
Their chaos.
Their pleasure.
Their sensuality.
Their depth.
Their fullness.
A deeply trusted space for women to come ALIVE in their sexuality, transform their relationships & move through the world as the powerful Feminine beings they are!!!
And now... she’s back!!!!!!
But not just as a 3 month course...
She’s a whole fucking revolution. ✊🔥💥⚡
AND…
In this episode Jacob interviews Meg (the OG FSW) to find out all about this movement.
They riff on…
What it means to be a Full Spectrum Woman
Meg’s deepest prayer for the world
Meg’s journey into reclaiming her sexuality & FULL SPECTRUM as a woman
The medicine journey that changed it ALL
Why Meg started Full Spectrum Woman back in 2020
Why women come into Full Spectrum Woman
How women leave Full Spectrum Woman
And much, much, much more.
Doors are open to Full Spectrum Woman: The Revolution now.
This is the place you’ll gather alongside other revolutionary women as you walk this path.
She’s a transformative membership like nothing else, combining deep teachings, masterful coaching & life-changing embodiment work, to liberate you into the fullest expression of your sex, relationship & entire Life.
THIS IS THE PLACE YOU’LL COME TO…
🔥 Unleash your fullness
🔥 Awakened your sexual aliveness
🔥 Experience the sxx, relationships & Life you deeply desire.
We start this episode by recalling Meg’s Feral Ways earlier in the week and how important it is to honour the wild unexplainable energy that sometimes moves through a woman's body.
Remembering your power as a woman and embracing your full spectrum.
The discomfort of expressing your wild after being indoctrinated by society.
Learning to trust your voice and your unique expression.
Jacob starts the discussion on the Dark Masculine by sharing the first time he called on his dark masculine energy and how much it changed his life.
We define the dark masculine and how important it is for men to build a relationship with their inner beast. We go into the damage it can do as well as the way men can bring it to their work and their relationships.
We go into martial arts, as a way to express the dark masculine, butt stuff as a way to understand the safety and surrender required for penetration to occur and how owning your desires helps you understand and acknowledge your dark masculine energy.
06 Sep 2023
Ep 37: BDSM, embodied surrender & the dangers of falling in love with your partner’s potential
01:20:20
Are you chasing the shadows of "What Ifs"?
Have you been blinded by the potential of "what your partner could be"?
If this rings true, then this episode is for you.
Meg and Jacob dives deep into discussion about the hazards of falling in love with a partner's "potential". And why integrity and accountability is so important when facing the TRUTH about the state of relationships.
We riff on…
Why Meg needed a spanking this week
BDSM as a path to embodied surrender
That time Jacob promised to cook pizza & didn’t
That time we got our aura photos taken
That time Meg & Jacob nearly broke up
The power of invitation vs expectation
Being a woman that advocates for what we desires
Being a woman willing to face the TRUTH of the relationship
Waiting until your partner changes before you LOVE them = conditional love
And much much more
Jacob invites you to experience The Gathering of Men
This doesn't just apply in the bedroom but what is some everyday thing that your man does that sets your world on fire? We're talking both the grand gestures and those tiny, game-changing moves.
There's nothing that revs a woman's engine more than a man who is capable.
A man that knows how to take charge.
A man that is in his fullness and is comfortable in alignment with himself.
We will be sharing the messages we received, all straight from the hearts of women who know exactly what they want, and what makes their world spin.
We riff on:
Knowing the energetics of sex
The power of owning your fullness and what it means to be a man
Why family connection is important
What it feels like to have your man lead
The wildness of a man
and many more
Jacob invites you to experience The Gathering of Men
Ep 40: Navigating tension, setting boundaries and honouring your partner's desires
01:02:09
How do you deal with conflict or tension in your relationship?
Join us for another real and raw conversation that dives into how Meg and Jacob get through tension filled weeks and how they communicate through all of this.
It's all about vulnerability, being able to trust each other to communicate openly and honestly. No more suppressing and stonewalling and making sure that you listen in the channel between your hearts to help you through these situations.
If you're yearning for a long-term connection that delves into the deepest levels of intimacy, that truly opens up your heart, then this is tailored just for you.
We riff off on:
Podcasting with your partner
Assessing each other's capacity to effectively communicate
Embodying rage and moving that energy
Why Meg needed to break some plates
Why it's important to recognize and respect personal space in your day to day life as a couple.
Ep 41: Self pleasure, The Dark Feminine & the art of anal w/ Lola Richie
01:51:06
It’s a first here at Sex, Love & Everything in between.
This week instead of Jacob, we have my glorious friend & fellow sex coach, Lola Richie.
I literally told Lola before we recorded… I want this to just be like everyone is listening to one of our usual conversations.
And it was.
In this mammoth of an episode we spoke about…
The very unusual way we first met
Our love of sex in front of a mirror
Lola’s recent journey from polyamory to monogamy
Performative pleasure vs embodied pleasure
Self pleasure as a healing modality
Why mind-blowing orgasms aren’t just about ‘the mechanics’
The importance of honouring Pussy
Having discernment around sexual partners
Why we love anal sex
Anal as a portal to deep surrender
How to get the most pleasure from anal sex
MORE ABOUT LOLA:
Known for her playful, sassy, fiery energy, Lola is a highly respected Somatic Sexologist and Yoni Massage Therapist.
She is incredibly passionate about the intersection of sex, art, the wild, and the sacred, working with Visionary Leaders to create audacious lives drenched in erotic aliveness and deep embodiment.
Her unique approach weaves the science, psychology, and spirituality of sex, creating a delectable fusion where ancient practices like yoga, meditation, and tantra intertwine with cutting-edge research in neuroscience, psychology, and somatic theory.
Lola loves to spark open, raw, provocative conversations, and create a safe space for you to explore your wildest fantasies, integrate your shadows, and bring your deepest heart’s desires to life.
Ep 42: When Less is More: The Benefits of Space in a Loving Partnership
01:10:43
Jacob is back from his exciting TGOM retreat, where he joined 150 men from all corners of Australia for an unforgettable experience.
Meg and Jacob are eager to share how taking time apart has strengthened their relationship. They reminisce about their 'Single Saturdays' and how this practice of creating space within their relationship has deepened their love and appreciation for one another.
Spending time apart allowed them to reconnect with their own unique selves, passions, and individual identities. It gave them the opportunity to miss each other and rekindle the desire for each other's company.
Meg and Jacob have realized that creating space in their relationship is not about growing apart emotionally or neglecting one another. It's about celebrating their individuality and supporting each other's personal growth. It's about encouraging each other to thrive as both a couple and as unique individuals.
So, if you're in a relationship, consider the benefits of taking some time apart. It could be a solo retreat, a day for your own hobbies, or your version of 'Single Saturdays.'
This practice can be transformative. By giving each other the gift of space, you might just find that it strengthens your bond and brings you closer together. As it turns out, absence truly can make the heart grow fonder.
They riff of on:
The TGOM Men's retreat
Why not talking to each other can benefit your relationship and sex life
Creating space for intimacy in relationships through boundaries and polarity.
Ep 43: The #1 skill that WILL transform your relationship
00:56:17
In this episode, Meg & Jacob unveil a very powerful skill that when practiced will deeply transform a relationship forever. Come discover how complaints hold the key to your partner's unspoken desires, and learn the magic of turning complaints into portals to deeper love & intimacy. Join Meg & Jacob as they explore the importance of vulnerability, clear communication, and the transformative power of expressing your desires in partnership. Get ready to deep dive into a skill that will truly transform the way you relate forever.
In this episode, Meg & Jacob riff on...
Complaints = The Hidden Treasure Map to Desires. Why mastering this skill will save you time, energy & a whole lot of suffering
Why women often feel more comfortable complaining than expressing their true desires in partnership
Communication examples for turning your complaints into helpful information your partner can use to love you better The most powerful question you can ask your partner.
And much, much more
Questions to deepen into:
Think of a complaint you have in your relationship... now, contemplate what the DESIRE underneath this complaint is?
Where are you making your partner 'read between the lines' in order to understand your desire(s)?
Can you be clearer & more vulnerable in sharing your desires with them?
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LINKS:
Come say hi on Instagram - @sexloveeverythinginbetween Meg: @the.meg.o Jacob: @thejacoboneill
Ep 44: Faking orgasms & taking ‘too long’ in the bedroom
01:08:09
Ever faked an orgasm or felt like you were "taking too long" in the bedroom?
Well, you’re not alone. This is an absolute pandemic amongst women.
And in this week's episode, Meg and Jacob shed light on the truth about female arousal and anatomy.They reveal that there's no such thing as "taking too long" – it's all part of the natural arousal and design of the female body. Tune in to unravel the mysteries of Female arousal & the secrets to a more fulfilling sex life.
What you’ll hear in this week’s episode…
●Understanding female arousal and the guilt associated with taking time in the bedroom ●Why women fake orgasms ●Why there’s not such things as ‘taking too long’ ●The difference between male & female arousal ●Why women struggle to advocate for themselves & use their voice in the bedroom ●The importance of letting go of the goal & giving a woman permission to take as much time as she needs ●Hearing & embracing your partner's feedback/ desire without taking them personally. ●Communication. Communication. Communication. Communication. ●Why Meg hates sex scenes in films, TV & movies ●And much more
If you’re a heterosexual man… this episode is about to change the way you make love to a woman forever.
In this episode, Jacob & Meg explore what it takes to be an incredible lover to a woman. They share 4 top tips for meeting & honouring a woman’s body, Pussy & arousal.
IMPORTANT NOTE: Although the framework offered up in this episode is a powerful guide to pleasuring & worshiping a woman's body…
Do not forget… every woman is different. And every individual woman is different in each moment.
So ATTUNEMENT to her body in the moment is EVERYTHING.
What we deep dive into in this episode…
The doorway to a woman’s Pussy & pleasure is her heart
Creating a safe space for emotional vulnerability
Using breath to become fully present with the moment & her body
The power of attunement
The Sacred Pilgrimage to a woman’s Pussy
Why going straight for the Pussy is NOT it
The power of non-erogenous and non-genital erogenous zones
Slowing all the way down
The clitoris is BIGGER than you think .
Why stimulating just the clitoris head is NOT the most powerful way to a woman’s pleasure
Staying present to her breath, sound & movement
Welcoming feedback without taking it personally, fostering a culture where communication & feedback is welcome & celebrated
How to know when a woman’s body is ready to be penetrated
A lot of people come to us wanting to know how to spice up their sxx life & bring the passion back into their long term relationship. And our advice is always VERY unsexy. 😉
We don’t suggest sxx toys, playing in BDSM or learning about polarity. (Although all these things can be powerful + fun!)
⚡️⚡️⚡️ For us, how a couple fights most affects how they fuck. ⚡️⚡️⚡️
So, when someone comes to either of us with the desire of re-igniting the fire in their intimacy…
We suggest learning how to ‘fight better’.
And in this week’s episode we dive deep into why how you fight affects how you fuck.
We dive deep into…
The power of honouring rage & anger in partnership
Why sex toys & BDSM won’t help you sex life if you’re holding onto resentment
The importance of keeping the channel between the hearts clear
Why our society normalises contempt & resentment in relationships
The power of curiosity in moments of tension
Conflict holds INFORMATION on how to love your partner better. Are you looking for that information?
And much, much more
Come join us THIS Sunday 12th November 4pm AEST for FROM CONFLICT TO DEEPER CONNECTION: https://bit.ly/3MuKEle
15 Nov 2023
Ep 47: Mismatched Libidos, Mutual Masturbation & More
01:15:02
One of the biggest challenges inside longterm partnerships… ‘Mismatched libidos’. When one partner feels like they could have sex ALL THE TIME! And the other… well, feels like sex is a bit of a chore.
Meg & Jacob dive deep into how to navigate differing sex drives in relationship & why it can actually be a portal to deeper intimacy & connection.
In this episode we explore…
How health & hormones directly affects libido
Why Meg doesn’t like the term ‘mismatched libidos’
The common pattern of ‘shaming’ our partner for their high/ low libido
The power of curiosity when navigating differing sexual desire
The truth about a woman’s libido & desire
How lack of safety & attunement locks up a woman’s libido & desire
Men - Are you creating a safe environment for her to tap into her sexual desire?
How taking sex off the table can lead to MORE SEX!!!
The first time Meg & Jacob mutually masturbated
And much, much more!
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22 Nov 2023
Ep 48: Meg’s Birthday Initiation - Getting it Really Wrong and Getting It Really Right.
01:09:06
It is Meg’s Birthday! We give you the full rundown of what we got up to for her birthday. As always, it included the full spectrum of emotions! We go deep into the power of holding space for your partner's emotions. Taking risks and trusting your capacity to meet the moment.
We also reminisce on birthdays past and how they have always had an initiatory essence to them.
Some key questions that came up were:
* How can individuals work on receiving love and celebrating their own birthdays?
* How can taking risks deepen a relationship?
* How can tension be held without making it mean something about the other person?
* How can partners honor and acknowledge the risks taken by their significant other?
* How can surprises be celebrated even if they don't quite land as expected?
In this episode we explore…
Meg’s Birthday Surprise
Dealing with discomfort during a challenging experience.
The emotional releases that come with birthday surprises.
The importance of taking risks in your relationship.
The ability to be with tension and your partner's emotions.
Communication & attunement in relationships.
Our Guatemala trip and the hiking saga
Jacob learning to receive love on his birthday.
And much, much more! --- Sign up for Ignite your Intimacy: https://bit.ly/3R0ihxU
29 Nov 2023
Ep 49: Meg was a stripper for a night
01:04:41
In this episode, we dive into Meg’s experience of embodied stripper school and the strip show she performed. We also speak about what it was like for Jacob to witness his wife strip on stage and the dynamic that Meg and Jacob have cultivated for this to be a normal thing in their relationship.
We also deepen into a conversation around showing up authentically and not giving a fuck what other people think.
Some key questions that came up were:
* How did it feel for Jacob to witness other women getting naked?
* How did it feel to witness other women's performances?
* How did it feel for Meg to be on stage and perform?
Jacob potentially doing the male version of stripper school.
Sharing personal content on Instagram
Potential criticism & judgement from viewers.
Women's version of the nice guy - The Good Girl.
Feminine embodiment and empowered sexuality as a deeply healing practice for a woman's lineage.
Celebrating Vulnerability and Respectful Communication
The importance of honouring desires outside your relationship.
Overall, the meeting highlighted the importance of celebrating vulnerability, respectful communication, and deep connection in building a positive and supportive community.
If you want him to do the male version stripper school
06 Dec 2023
Ep 50: Feminine testing & ‘The Nice Guy’
01:11:06
This episode dives deep into why women feel the need to ‘test’ their men. And why trying to be a ‘nice guy’ doesn’t make a woman feel safe.
Here’s some of what we chat about…
Getting a puppy
How our families are complete opposites
What is Feminine testing & why do women do it?
Why it’s incredibly sexy when a man is unwavering in his belief
The power of playfulness in moments of Feminine testing
Asking for respect vs. Commanding respect
The risk of bringing play & lightness to these moments
Stubbornness vs. Being unwavering as a man
The Masculine art of holding a deeper level of consciousness
You can be a powerful woman AND enjoy the experience of being led & deeply supported by your man
Meg trying to tell Jacob what to wear. And why it NEVER works
Why the NICE GUY isn’t a safe guy
The Nice guy is trying to please his Mother & not upset his Father
And much more
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⚡ Want more? Here are some of the offerings & courses you can join us in…
The Desire Date: A sexy date night experience for couples ready to re-ignite passion & deepen intimacy.
Ignite Your Intimacy: A 4 week course for couples ready for a sexier, wilder, more ALIVE relationship… NOW!
Jacob & Meg also coach individuals & couples. Reach out to them via Instagram for more information.
13 Dec 2023
Ep 51: How to communicate fantasies and desires in your relationship
01:06:59
In this episode, we are delving into the nitty-gritty of intimacy, shaking things up and challenging what's considered the norm.
It's not just about desires; we want to open up your vulnerability and amp up the connection that will bring sexy, edgy and safe vibes to your relationships.
Jacob and Meg discuss the need for a safe space to explore desires – no judgment, just genuine curiosity. And guess what? These talks aren't reserved for the bedroom; they spill into everyday life where being real is just the way to be. We're sharing stories that'll make you reflect on what your desires really mean. It's not just about finding yourself; it's about growing and feeling genuinely fulfilled.
We riff off on:
Bringing fantasies into long-term relationships.
Dog training and parenthood.
Exploring desires and expanding sex life in long-term relationships.
Sexual desires and boundaries in a non-judgmental relationship
Men's desires and the importance of embracing vulnerability.
Meg questions what she is making a desire mean when it feels repulsive or dirty, encouraging listeners to examine their own beliefs and values around sexuality.
Meg on the importance of consent and creating a safe space for partners to express themselves without judgment.
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Jacob & Meg also coach individuals & couples. Reach out to them via Instagram for more information.
20 Dec 2023
Ep 52: Money, Business and the Coaching Industry
00:58:05
In this episode, we are going deep as we share the rollercoaster ride of business, money, and personal growth.
We reflect on past financial struggles, emphasizing the value of personal growth and community. We talk about our journey in starting and growing our coaching business, embracing the idea that it's a process, not a destination.
We riff off on:
Self-doubt and finding service as a solution.
Entrepreneurship, risk-taking, and trusting oneself.
Jacob and Meg discuss the importance of investing in high-quality branding and web design for their businesses, despite the potential for higher costs.
Meg discusses the importance of trusting oneself and taking risks in business.
Jacob and Meg reflect on their past financial struggles, including a time when they had no money and had to rely on $50 sent by a relative.
Meg reflects on the beauty of life and the importance of stopping to breathe into what is present, rather than constantly pursuing what's next.
Jacob shares his realization that he's been on a 15-year journey of self-discovery since high school, and how he's come to appreciate the value of reflection and responsibility
Meg emphasizes patience as key to long-lasting success.
Jacob emphasizes the importance of depth over speed in various aspects of life, including business and personal growth.
Jacob is passionate about serving people and sharing his knowledge, seeing his work as a lifelong journey rather than a short-term coaching gig.
Jacob emphasizes the importance of taking ownership of one's label and setting boundaries in coaching, while also acknowledging the need to relate with clients and provide value.
Meg and Jacob share their experience of adopting a dog and feeling a sense of family and emotional connection.
Jacob and Meg are excited for parenthood and share their gratitude for listeners
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Jacob & Meg also coach individuals & couples. Reach out to them via Instagram for more information.
27 Dec 2023
Ep 53: Licking Pussy 101 with Eleanor Hadley
00:50:44
In this episode, certified sex educator Eleanor Hadley joins the podcast to reveal the secrets behind her popular course "Tongue Tactics." Together with Meg, they explore the importance of slowing down and savoring moments in sexual encounters, and share juicy details on how to raise your game when it comes to pleasuring and licking p*ssy.
Their discussion extends to crucial aspects such as safety, consent, and the art of communication in sexual relationships, fostering an environment where open dialogue thrives.
They also riff of on:
Eleanor discusses her work as a certified sex educator, including her popular course "Tongue Tactics."
Eleanor emphasizes the importance of slowing down and taking one's time during sexual encounters to ensure maximum pleasure for all parties involved.
Meg emphasizes the importance of feeling someone's excitement and reverence when receiving oral sex, as it creates a sense of safety and openness to pleasure.
Eleanor highlights the impact of societal shame and insecurity on women's ability to receive pleasure, and the importance of complimenting and validating their bodies.
Vulva stimulation techniques: warming up the vulva before penetration to build pleasure and avoid jarring sensations.
Different Oral techniques for enhanced pleasure.
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Jacob & Meg also coach individuals & couples. Reach out to them via Instagram for more information.
03 Jan 2024
Ep 54: Blowjobs 101 with Eleanor Hadley
00:51:41
Brace yourselves for another sizzling episode with Meg and the incredible Eleanor Hadley!
Eleanor, the brains behind the viral "Tongue Tactics" course, spills the beans on mind-blowing BJ moves that will set your sex life on fire. From the illusion of deepthroating to a pepper grinder dance, she's got the 'magic sequence' of oral down pat.
But that's not all – Meg and Eleanor dive into the essentials of communication, consent, and the crucial role of connection in the bedroom. It's not just about the moves; it's about the vibes.
They also riff off on...
Meg shares her journey of overcoming discomfort with giving blow jobs to feel powerful and pleasure her partner.
Eleanor discuss techniques for pleasing a partner during oral sex, including varying depth and rhythm.
Eleanor also discusses the importance of building up to a "magic sequence" in oral sex, using a variety of techniques to keep the partner engaged and interested.
Using mirrors and eye contact during oral sex to feel powerful and to get even more turned on
They discuss the importance of women taking up space in sexual relationships and feeling comfortable with their own desires.
They unpack the Madonna-whore complex and how it affects women's sexual liberation and self-perception.
Meg advocates for embracing awkwardness and discomfort to access new parts of oneself and enjoy sex more fully.
Eleanor shares their perspective on dating and relationships, emphasizing the importance of self-work and being true to oneself.
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Jacob & Meg also coach individuals & couples. Reach out to them via Instagram for more information.
11 Jan 2024
Ep 55: Psychedelics, Plant Medicine and Healing with Family
01:09:21
Jacob's just blown out his birthday candles and is back for this episode!
Meg spills the beans on their latest adventure with psychedelics and plant medicine while celebrating Jacob's birthday.
They get real about how plant medicine isn't just a trip; it's a deep dive into self-love, uncovering those shadowy corners of ourselves that usually stay hidden.
They also go all in on birthdays, discuss family dynamics, and the importance of learning how to move *with* life.
This episode is a journey into the good stuff: healing, growth, and the messy, beautiful ties that bind us all.
We also riff off on:
Meg O'Neill reflects on her newfound appreciation for dogs
Jacob O'Neill reflects on the importance of feeling and surrendering to emotions, rather than trying to understand them beforehand, and witnesses Meg's process of grief and liberation.
Grief is an embodied letting go, leading to infinite joy
Jacob O'Neill agrees, noting that plant medicine doesn't back down from the hard stuff and requires active participation for release and liberation
Jacob O'Neill emphasizes the importance of integrating spiritual experiences into daily life, rather than just seeking new experiences or trying to change others
Meg O'Neill encourages listeners to let go of their need to be different from their family and embrace their unique relationship with them
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Jacob & Meg also coach individuals & couples. Reach out to them via Instagram for more information.
17 Jan 2024
Ep 56: Holy fuck kinda love w/ Chelsey Jo Huntsman and Oren Harris
01:29:00
Hello beautiful humans! We have an amazing guest couple today on the podcast. Today, we are talking with Chelsey Jo Huntsman and Oren Harris!
Oren and Chelsey are the facilitators of 'Holy Fuck: Relationship Church'. An incredible online experience restoring union, reclaiming God, remembering love, and redeeming sex.
In this episode, we dive deep into the transformative power of divine union. Inspired by the raw authenticity and unwavering commitment to Chelsey and Oren's sacred connection, Meg and Jacob explore the beauty of reverence and inspiration in relationships.
We also discuss profound insights on honor, integrity, and trust, as we share what the true meaning of a 'God' man is. We also embrace the magic of slowing down and feminine wisdom, unlocking the whispers of the soul. Meg and guests invite you to challenge societal norms, recognizing the immense potential for growth in relationships.
We also riff of on:
What true reverence is in a relationship and what that looks like
Trust, control, and leadership in a romantic relationship
Masculine and feminine energy, emotional honesty, and leadership
Jacob shares his journey of learning to embrace his fire and masculinity, and how he now approaches relationships with a more open and vulnerable approach
Oren emphasizes the importance of attunement to the "intelligent field" in leadership, suggesting that true leadership involves a symbiotic effortless flow between individuals
The importance of putting ego aside and leaning into love in difficult conversations
How to navigates conflict with partner by prioritizing love and communication
Jacob emphasizes the importance of men connecting with their inner selves and spirit to access true intimacy and trustworthiness in their relationships
Oren emphasizes the importance of slowing down and being present in order to be more effective and powerful in life and relationships
Chelsey discusses the idea of God moving through their body, emphasizing the importance of slowing down and receiving the energy
Meg discuss the importance of trusting the moment and leaning into conflict as a portal for deeper connection and intimacy
and many more...
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⚡️More about Oren and Chelsey: Holy Fuck: Relationship Church ---> https://www.chelseyjohuntsman.com/hflovesexgod Chelsey Instagram ---> @chelseyjohuntsman Oren Instagram ---> @orenharris
Jacob & Meg also coach individuals & couples. Reach out to them via Instagram for more information.
24 Jan 2024
Ep 57: The hottest moments of 2023
01:20:04
Lovers, we've got a special episode for you today. We are celebrating the podcast's first year anniversary today and we are so grateful for everyone that has been a part of this year long journey - especially our listeners!
Hold on tight as we dive into the depths of intimacy, love, and relationships. We spill the beans on our most popular episodes, including the surprisingly high demand for all things "Anal". But that's not all, we dive into creating deep connections, patience, acknowledging desires, just to name a few.
In this episode we also riff of on:
Jacob and Meg express gratitude to listeners for connecting with them through their podcast and sharing their experiences
Podcast creation, healing, and personal growth
Intimacy, pleasure, and spirituality in sexual practice
Honoring boundaries and deepening intimacy in heterosexual relationships
Gender roles, decision-making, and trust in relationships
Desires and BDSM exploration in a relationship
Looking back on Pussy Licking and Blowjob techniques that your lover will enjoy
and many, many more.
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Ep 58: Nailing Valentine's Day, acts of significance & more
01:14:31
Have you ever wished for a little more romance in your life? We've got your back! We're chatting about how to sprinkle some extra love into your relationship and make your partner feel extra special.
We also share a touching dialogue about the power of 'acts of significance'—a love language that speaks volumes through the simple, everyday acts of care and support. Meg and Jacob will be talking about uncovering and fulfilling those deep desires for more romance and receive more moments that will sweep your partner off their feet.
We also riff of on:
Meg O'Neill agrees and adds that women want to feel more understood and heard in their desires, and speaking up can bring more intimacy and connection to the relationship.
Meg O'Neill loves when her partner listens to her and shows appreciation, as it makes her feel known and understood.
Jacob O'Neill expresses a desire for more romance and feeling valued in their relationship, while Meg O'Neill emphasizes the importance of nourishing and valuing one's partner.
Jacob O'Neill wants to feel appreciated for being in service to the universe, not just for personal achievements or gifts.
Meg O'Neill nourishes Jacob by acknowledging and valuing his contributions, such as booking massages for him when he's exhausted.
Jacob encourages men to ask themselves what investing in a relationship-deepening experience would mean to their partner, and how it could feel for them to receive it.
Jacob O'Neill celebrates his partner's love and encourages them to be bold in expressing their feelings.
and many, many more...
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Jacob & Meg also coach individuals & couples. Reach out to them via Instagram for more information.
14 Feb 2024
Ep 59: Fatherhood, Personal Growth and Designing your Life with Lino Hola
01:34:07
Jacob welcomes Lino Hola, head coach and Director of Men's Medicine, into the podcast today!
They dive into the heartwarming world of personal growth, love, and what it means to truly value family and relationships. They get real about their own paths to becoming better versions of themselves, shedding light on the power of opening up and being real. It's all about the magic that happens when you put service and genuine living at the forefront of everything you do. Jacob gets passionate about why family matters so much and how creating a life filled with purpose and connection is the ultimate goal.
They also riff of on:
Jacob's on a mission to pour his heart into growing the men's medicine circle, creating a space where guys can really open up and support each other.
Lino's looking ahead, focusing on making choices that are all about taking responsibility and aiming for those long-term wins.
Jacob's committed to keeping the lines of communication open, especially when the going gets tough, standing by his community and offering a shoulder to lean on.
Lino's taking time to face and work through past hurts, understanding that healing comes from acknowledging and processing those deep-seated emotions.
When it comes to changes in family dynamics, especially after welcoming kids, Jacob's all about keeping the conversation real and transparent with his partner.
Lino's toying with the idea of sharing the ups and downs of the men's medicine journey on a podcast, opening up about the lessons learned along the way.
Jacob's embracing the profound duties of manhood and fatherhood, approaching each role with humility and a whole lot of love.
...and many, many more.
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22 Feb 2024
Ep 60: Q+A - Navigating defensiveness during conflict, opening the heart & more
00:57:14
What does it truly mean to connect, to be there for each other in the messiness of love and life?
In this episode, Jacob and Meg went deep into the tangle of feeling defensive, the struggle to stay open when every bit of you wants to just close up tight, and how to navigate the choppy waters of relationship conflicts.
Breaking down those walls we've so carefully built around our hearts is no small feat, especially when it comes to the ones who hold the biggest pieces of our hearts.
We also riff off on:
Meg O'Neill shares her personal practice of choosing to open instead of waiting for her partner to be less defensive in conflicts.
Jacob O'Neill agrees and adds that defensiveness is a coping mechanism, and accepting it can help move through conflicts more effectively.
Jacob O'Neill acknowledges his defensiveness and resistance in a conflict, recognizing that it's exhausting and takes up energy.
Vulnerability and openness in relationships.
Opening hearts in relationships.
Jacob O'Neill emphasizes the importance of letting go of control and embracing the journey of opening one's heart.
Opening up in relationships despite ego's resistance.
Meg O'Neill shares her personal practice of opening up to her partner without conditions, even when there's tension or closure.
Meg O'Neill highlights the power of body language in shifting energy and deepening connection.
Consistency in small moments leads to deeper relationships and personal growth.
Meg O'Neill expresses her desire for deeper connection and intimacy in her relationship, while Jacob O'Neill shares his passion for his work and the importance of communication in their partnership.
Jacob O'Neill shares his fantasy of being with a wild woman who commands him and feeds him dark energy, while Meg O'Neill discusses the importance of feminine manipulation in relationships.
Relationships require work, but sometimes it's time to let go.
Embrace discomfort and heartbreak on the path of femininity, as it leads to greater truth and fulfillment.
and many, many more!
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28 Feb 2024
Ep 61: Business, Boundaries, and Blended Families with Nick Perry
01:23:25
Get ready for a new episode with our guest - Nick Perry, founder of Rythm Health.
Nick has spent over a decade exploring the connection between Holistic Health practices – spiritual, mental, emotional and physical – and an individual's sense of self and purpose in the world.
It's a solid hour with Nick and Jacob as they get real about what it means to be a man today, how to navigate the complexities of blended families without losing your cool, the rollercoaster of being a dad, and keeping it together with your partner.
They're talking about the big stuff - love, making it work when things get tough, and why saying what you need is a game changer.
They cover topics like:
Jacob's plan to use AI to bring stories to life.
Sharing the real stuff online to really connect with people.
Finding mentors to help steer through rough relationship waters.
Being clear about what you need from your partner.
Nick's journey to really know himself within his relationships.
Sticking with personal growth to build stronger bonds.
Setting up real talk sessions for couples to get and stay close.
Introducing ways for couples to talk it out and really hear each other.
Coaching for guys and couples looking to level up their relationship game.
And many more!
Tune in to hear Nick and Jacob share laughs, lessons, and life hacks for everything love and life throws your way.
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06 Mar 2024
Ep 62: Anger and Emotional Expression in a Relationship
00:58:01
How do you embrace and navigate the raw power of emotions in your relationship, especially anger?
This episode is a deep dive into the essence of true emotional intimacy, showcasing the importance of creating a safe space where every emotion is welcomed without judgment. Meg and Jacob talked about the art of expressing feelings without projection and the transformative impact of fully embracing each other's emotional spectrum.
If you want to build a relationship that thrives on authenticity, vulnerability, and mutual respect, allowing you both to grow and connect on profound levels, this episode is a must for you.
We also riffed off on:
Embracing anger and wholeness in identity.
The pivotal role of responsibility and humility in business growth.
The transformative power of addressing "unsexy" tasks like taxes for long-term success.
Celebrating memorable moments of connection and engagement at personal events.
Exploring intimacy through playful and humorous experiences with chocolate and blindfolds.
Navigating the dynamics of nudism, relationships, and personal comfort zones.
The importance of cleanly expressing emotions in relationships to deepen intimacy.
Recognizing the necessity of emotional expression and the right to take up space within a partnership.
And many more!
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Join Meg, Jacob, and special guest Damien Bohler in this podcast episode where they unpack the dynamic interplay of polarity in relationships, what dominance means and how Gene Keys frameworks can help deepen the relationship with your partner.
Damien is a master at synthesizing complex subjects into digestible, actionable insights, shares his expertise on a wide array of topics including Authentic Relating, Attachment Theory, Polarity, and much more. His passion lies in weaving these diverse threads into a dynamic tapestry that enriches our understanding of relationships and propels us toward thriving in life and love.
This conversation takes you through the journey of embracing one's true self in the realm of creative expression and the transformative power of understanding and negotiating the delicate balance of energies in love. It's an exploration of how embracing our authentic selves and understanding the essence of polarity can deepen our connections and enrich our interactions.
They also riff of on:
The transformative impact of polarity in relationships
Embracing and negotiating masculine and feminine energies
Understanding gender dynamics and their influence on relationships
The crucial role of personal responsibility and benevolent dominance
The Gene Keys framework and its implications for personal growth
Practical insights into fostering adoration and acknowledgment in love
And much more...
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We had so much fun at our Podcast Party that was held at a few weeks ago! Thank you all to those that attended live and we cannot wait to host one again.
In this episode of Sex, Love and Everything in Between, Meg and Jacob talk about the podcast and how far we have come this past year. We dove into the topic of relationships, vulnerability, and taking risks.
We also riff off on:
Emphasizing the need to move beyond complaining and into action
Revealing your true desires
Difference between feminine expression of desire and emasculating or critical criticism
The importance of cleaning and expressing emotions in a healthy way, rather than blaming or projecting them onto others
And many, many more...
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We were thrilled to welcome back Lola Richie and Eleanor Hadley to our Live Podcast Party.
In this episode, we dove into some of the audience's most pressing questions, exploring topics from the ultimate positions for maximizing pleasure, to our personal favorite pleasure tools, and broaching the delicate conversation with a partner about exploring pleasure with other women while still desiring a monogamous relationship.
We also riff off on:
Female pleasure anatomy and different techniques for better clitoral and vaginal stimulation
The Magic of the "Slide and Grind"
Creating intimacy and connection through deep presence, eye contact and reverence during sex.
Feelings of emptiness after sex and "just left feeling empty in the end."
and many more.
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In the thrilling finale of our EPIC podcast party, Meg and Jacob take center stage.
Here's a sneak peek into the questions that sparked deep discussions:
What made you both stay and work on the relationship when you were five years in and things were challenging?
Were there points within your relationship that you did feel like "I've done this"?
How do you guys deal with issues of hurt and shame in your relationship?
What's your perspective on what men desire from women?
How do you maintain quality relationships over a long period of time? Especially without growing apart or forgetting the relationship?
Dive in with us as Meg and Jacob peel back the layers of their relationship, offering up their heartfelt stories and wisdom.
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Ep 67: Q+A - Our Wild Pregnancy, birth plan & more
01:15:28
Meg and Jacob are excited to be parents!
In this episode, Meg and Jacob share their experiences and anticipations about the dynamics of their relationship, especially with the impending arrival of their first child. They delve deeply into discussions about intimacy, responsibility, and the transformative journey from partners to parents.
They also answered questions around their conception journey like:
Did Meg experience any pregnancy symptoms?
How does Meg navigate through the changes in identity from maiden to mother?
How do you think having a baby will impact your intimacy?
What are the top parent qualities they see in each other?
They also riff off on:
Jacob and Meg shared their emotional challenges over the past few months, including grief, disconnection, and Meg's pregnancy.
Meg discussed her preparation for pregnancy, including gut and thyroid work, to ensure her body was ready for conception.
Meg and Jacob are opting for a 'wild' pregnancy and medically unassisted home birth, with a doula present but no medical professionals involved.
Meg feels fiercely certain in her choices for her pregnancy and wants to experience birth and motherhood without medicalization.
Both Jacob and Meg expressed excitement for the initiation of birth and their journey into parenthood together.
Jacob looks forward to being present, patient, and helping their future children understand and explore life.
...and many, many more.
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24 Apr 2024
Ep 68: Clean Feminine expression vs. Projection
01:03:49
What does it truly mean to channel clean feminine energy into nourishing the men in our lives?
In this episode, Meg and Jacob focuses on the transformative power of a woman's trust and support in her man, illustrating how such faith can significantly enhance both partners' growth and the overall dynamic of the relationship.
Dive into the delicate balance of power and responsibility within a relationship, highlighting the critical role that emotional support and trust play in fostering an environment where both partners can thrive. Megan and Jacob share insights and personal experiences, offering practical advice on how women can create a nurturing space that encourages their partners to embrace both their strength and vulnerability.
They also riff off on:
The importance of trust in a relationship and how it allows a man to rise into his masculine power
Creating a safe and nourishing environment for both men and women in a relationship
The role of women in supporting their partner's growth and evolution through their words, actions, and energy
Communicating emotions, needs, and desires cleanly without projection or blame
The significance of micro moments in building trust through small actions and choices
How nourishing a partner with trust can unlock their potential to fully commit to the relationship
and many, many more...
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01 May 2024
Ep 69: Libido, Desire, and more with Eleanor Hadley
01:19:22
What does it truly mean to differentiate arousal from desire?
In this episode, we welcome returning guest, Eleanor Hadley, as she discusses the intricacies of desire, arousal, and the misconceptions surrounding sexual response.
Join Meg and Eleanor dive into insights and personal reflections, providing actionable advice on how individuals can more accurately interpret their body's signals and communicate their needs and desires more effectively.
They also riff off on:
• The difference between desire and arousal, and how they are separate but related concepts • The idea of responsive desire versus spontaneous desire, and how most women experience responsive desire • The brakes and accelerators analogy for understanding how our sexual inhibition and excitation systems work • Taking sex "off the table" to help women feel more comfortable being intimate without pressure or expectation of sex • The importance of understanding our own personal brakes (turn offs) and accelerators (turn ons) • How sensitive our brakes and accelerators are impacts our experience of sexuality • Mapping our bodies through self-pleasure to better understand and communicate our own pleasure zones
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08 May 2024
Ep 70: How to date if you desire deep partnership
01:26:01
What are your thoughts on dating apps and on dating?
In this episode, Meg and Jacob dives in and discusses what to do when you meet someone in a dating app and how to cultivate a relationship when dating.
They share valuable insights from their own dating experiences and reminisce the first few months in their relationship.
They also riff off on:
Holding your fucking standard and only being available for what you truly deeply desire in a relationship
Bringing your desires vulnerably to the motherfucking table early on so you can see if a potential partner is able to meet you in the way you want to be met
Practicing the art of discernment to taste when something is off and see if a partner's words and actions integrate
Trusting the feeling, not necessarily the form, and only pursuing relationships that honor what you deeply desire
Getting really clear on who you are and what you want before entering the dating scene
Men becoming the man they know they are here to be and developing vision and integrity for their lives so they can provide stability for a potential partner
Meg's hand written card and manifestation entries from a decade ago
Jacob reminiscing about Meg's very 'Maiden' crystal and moon bathing days
And many more...
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15 May 2024
Ep 71: Feminine business, Shamanism & taking a Masculine cleanse w/ Taj Savitri
01:26:38
Discover what it truly means to walk the feminine path with integrity and the power of a Masculine cleanse with Taj Savitri.
Taj is an amazing CEO, Mexican medicine woman, business priestess, and co-founder of Tulum’s intentional community, Mother Tree.
In this episode, join Meg and Taj as they have a heartfelt conversation about feminine empowerment and spirituality. They dive into the journey women experience as they transition from the maiden to the mother archetype. They talk about how major life events like death or loss can help women anchor more firmly into their truth, becoming more discerning and "unfuckwithable," able to see through the nonsense.
Meg and Taj emphasize the importance of women being intentional in their relationships and connections, whether it’s in their personal life, business, or other areas. They highlight that embracing destruction, chaos, and discomfort is a vital part of the feminine experience.
This episode covers the necessity of letting life guide women through tough transitions and seasons, even if it means taking a break from certain aspects of their business.
They also riff off on:
Meg and Taj discuss the transition from "maiden" to "mother" archetypes and how it relates to becoming "unfuckwithable" and having stronger discernment
They emphasize the importance of being precise and intentional in relationships, business, and who you connect with
They touch on how embracing destruction, chaos, and discomfort is part of the feminine experience
Meg and Taj talk about allowing life to guide you through uncomfortable transitions, even if it means letting go of business for a period
They both share personal experience with burnout and rebuilding business in a more "regenerative" way
They dove deep into the topic of building strong foundations through a process that listens to natural cycles, not something fast or "extractive"
Taj talks about the "masculine cleanse" being undertaken and bringing internal masculine energy into balance
and many, many more.
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22 May 2024
Ep 72: Ageing, injectables & beauty standards
01:05:26
In this deeply emotional and raw episode of Sex, Love, and Everything in Between, Meg and Jacob has a conversation about the struggles and beauty of aging in today’s world.
Meg shares her recent, deeply personal experiences with feeling insecure about her appearance and how society plays a deep part in the perception of beauty. She opens up about how these societal pressures can erode self-confidence, making women feel small, unworthy, and unattractive.
She talks about an upsetting incident that made her realize the importance of speaking out about feelings of insecurity and dealing with criticism.
Meg's brave decision to start these tough conversations provides strength and support for other women facing similar issues.
They also riff off on:
Meg seeing a screenshot of her mouth posted by an injectable nurse saying it needed fixing.
Meg realizing how much the beauty standards affect her and all women.
Meg crying in her car after seeing the screenshot, feeling grief for all women.
Meg feeling grief for how many women are affected by beauty standards daily
Jacob telling Meg her radiance comes from within, not her looks
Meg feeling a part of her wanted to contract and be small from insecurity
Meg realizing how much her own value was tied to beauty and youthfulness
Meg wanting to be a voice for aging women after her experiences
Jacob saying Meg's goal should be to be a woman who is deeply felt by life
Meg looking forward to the journey of aging and the wisdom she can share later in life
and many more...
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29 May 2024
Ep 73: Preparing for the initiation of fatherhood w/ Tyran Mowbray
01:16:45
Fatherhood is a monumental shift, an initiation into a new realm of responsibility, love, and personal evolution.
In this episode, Jacob welcomes Tyran Mowbray, a men's health and sexuality mentor who integrates consciousness, embodiment, and spirituality into practical exercises and rituals. He specializes in masculinity, relationships, and sexuality, helping men break down barriers of self-criticism and eliminate shame around their natural, healthy masculine expression.
Jacob and Tyran dive into their personal stories, sharing the highs, lows, and lessons that have shaped them. They discuss the pressures of traditional masculinity, the importance of creating healthy spaces for men to explore risk-taking, and the transformative power of personal growth and self-reflection.
The conversation covers their hopes, fears, and dreams for their children, emphasizing the need to lead by example while acknowledging their own imperfections. They also share lighter moments and heartwarming family stories, highlighting the bonds they’re building with their partners as they step into fatherhood.
They also riff off on:
Jacob and Tyran discuss their life experiences and shared aspirations, focusing on integrity, values, and self-reflection.
Jacob shares his experiences with traditional masculinity and risky behaviors, emphasizing the need for healthy spaces for men.
They discuss the role of extreme challenges in personal growth and how these experiences have shaped them.
Jacob emphasizes personal growth and leading by example while acknowledging his imperfections.
Jacob shares his past experiences with relationships and their impact on his approach to fatherhood.
Jacob humorously recounts his proposal and its impact on his family.
Jacob opens up about his fears, insecurities, and journey towards self-acceptance.
Jacob and Tyran reflect on the transformative journey of fatherhood and the importance of being present.
and many, many more.
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05 Jun 2024
Ep 74: How to be CLAIMED in partnership
01:37:01
In this episode, Meg and Jacob share their journey of transforming their relationship through leadership and surrender. Meg opens up about moving from being fiercely independent to yearning for Jacob's leadership. She talks about how she used to take charge but eventually felt a deep desire to let Jacob lead as she connected more with her feminine side.
Jacob shares small but bold steps he took, like closing Meg’s laptop when she worked late, to shift their dynamic. They discuss how these actions helped them grow—Jacob learned to lead with confidence, and Meg learned to relax and trust, feeling more secure in his leadership and how this made her feel safe and fully claimed.
They also riff off on:
Meg’s initial independence and control in their relationship.
Her deeper longing to surrender to Jacob’s masculine power.
Awakening through embodiment practices and deeper intimacy.
Confronting control issues and believing she always knows better.
Jacob’s journey to step into his power and vision.
Importance of cultivating receptivity in the feminine.
Expressing discomfort openly and embracing vulnerability.
Jacob taking small risks to shift their dynamic.
Growth required for Jacob to lead confidently and Meg to relax without resistance.
Encouraging couples to evolve together through successes and challenges.
And many more..
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12 Jun 2024
Ep 75: Being an UNAPOLOGETIC woman w/ Amy Rushworth
01:10:01
Ready to break free from the "good girl" trap and own your true, unapologetic self?
Join Meg O'Neill as she welcomes Amy Rushworth for an engaging, down-to-earth chat about their journeys in empowering women.
Amy Rushworth is a Coach, Breathwork Facilitator and Somatic Healer. Her expertise and burning passion lies in helping you activate the unapologetic woman within.
They dive into moving past those outdated "good girl" and "cool girl" labels by embracing every part of ourselves. They reveal how owning what we think of as weaknesses can actually set us free from societal expectations. Meg gets real about being okay with people seeing her as a "villain" and putting her truth first over worrying about others' opinions. Amy backs her up, highlighting the need for discernment in relationships and knowing when it's about clarity versus people-pleasing.
This episode shines a light on the power of being vulnerable yet unapologetic in relationships. If you struggle to embrace the parts of yourself that don’t fit societal norms, or if you feel shame about showing up authentically on social media, this episode is for you.
They also riff off on:
Moving beyond "good girl" and "cool girl" conditioning through embracing all parts of oneself.
Owning perceived flaws or weaknesses to break free from societal expectations.
The importance of vulnerability in relationships and intimacy for unapologetic women.
Facing challenges like online harassment and learning to set boundaries while remaining visible.
Focusing on healing and reconnecting with joy outside of work after a difficult period.
Embracing spirituality, femininity, and personal expression authentically without rules or guilt.
Empowering women to create and speak their truth without fear of embarrassment or being "cringy"
and many more.
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19 Jun 2024
Ep 76: How to love your man when he's not feeling 'enough'
01:08:34
"“The fear of not measuring up can be overwhelming, especially when it feels like everything is on the line” - Jacob
In this podcast episode, Meg and Jacob tackle the raw and vulnerable feelings of inadequacy that we all face in relationships.
They talk about what it looks like to fully show up in a relationship, how to best support each other and how recognizing and honoring each other’s struggles without making them feel wrong is crucial.
They also riff off on:
Healing the "worthiness wound" in men.
Meg shares insights on how women can support their partners in feeling enough in relationships.
Jacob shares his vulnerability about not feeling good enough, leading to a deeper understanding of their issues.
Jacob expresses gratitude for Meg's unwavering support and healing energy
Meg emphasizes the importance of loving men with their imperfections, rather than expecting them to be perfect.
Jacob and Meg discuss how their unworthiness stories impact their relationships, leading to a deep conversation about responsibility and accountability.
Meg O'Neill encourages women to love their partners unconditionally to awaken their full potential.
and many more..
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26 Jun 2024
Ep 77: Being a Kingmaker, Feminine range & more w/ Madelyn Moon
00:47:45
What does it take to be a Kingmaker?
Madelyn Moon and Meg O'Neill explore the powerful role of the feminine in relationships, showing how you can uplift your partner and become a true Kingmaker.
Madelyn Moon, a leading voice in feminine-masculine relationships, is dedicated to empowering women to liberate their expressive, artistic hearts in relationships and beyond. Her work and story have been featured in numerous podcasts and publications including BBC, Huffington Post, Teen Vogue, and more. As the host of the top-ranked podcast, The Madelyn Moon Show, and author of the best-selling book on conscious intimacy, Artist of Love, Madelyn brings a wealth of experience and insight to the conversation.
A Kingmaker helps their partner feel strong, respected, and empowered. Madelyn explains how to embrace your full feminine range, avoid actions that might emasculate your partner, and foster mutual growth.
The episode delves into shadow work—embracing hidden parts of yourself to unlock freedom and joy. Meg shares her role as a vision holder in her relationship, leading with integrity and care.
Good communication is essential. Madelyn emphasizes asking your partner directly how they feel to ensure mutual respect and value.
They also riff off on:
Madelyn Moon integrates humor and creativity into her teaching, emphasizing the integration of all aspects of oneself for personal growth and healthy relationships.
Embracing shadow work to access hidden parts of oneself and achieve personal freedom.
Exploring primal desires and energies as a pathway to intimacy and connection in relationships.
The concept of "kingmaker" versus "king breaker" dynamics in relationships, avoiding subtle forms of emasculation.
Importance of owning and integrating all aspects of oneself, including those seen as negative, for personal growth and deeper connections.
Embracing feminine leadership and expanding emotional expression in relationships.
Cultivating radiance and body awareness through feminine expression and somatic practices.
Discussing the impact of emasculation on relationships and the importance of radical attunement instead of punishment.
Refining emotional expression and receiving feedback from partners to deepen understanding and connection.
Madelyn Moon's emphasis on feminine consciousness and integrity in relationships, encouraging speaking one's truth and trusting in positive actions.
and many more.
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Ep 78: Unleashing your Dark Feminine w/ Nadine Lee
01:05:01
Ever wondered how to truly connect with your body and your erotic energy?
In this episode, Meg O'Neill sits down with the incredible Nadine Lee, who is on a mission to help women reconnect with their bodies and embrace their full sexual expression. Nadine Lee is a teacher of the feminine tantric arts, feminine embodiment coach and the best-selling author of Sex Priestess: Liberate your Eros, Embody your Feminine Power & Become a Force of Awakening. She is the founder of Tantric Alchemy, a community devoted to supporting individuals step into the woman or man you came here to be.
Nadine believes in the power of the "dark feminine"—those shadow parts of us, like our sexuality and deep emotions, that society often tells us to hide. Embracing these parts is a key to personal growth and empowerment.
Nadine explains how women can move from feeling like they need to be the "good girl" to embracing their "wild girl" energy, standing up for themselves with confidence and assertiveness. She talks about how connecting with our dark feminine energy helps us set strong boundaries and demand respect in our relationships. It’s about moving from waiting to be chosen to choosing for ourselves.
Meg and Nadine emphasize the importance of safety, consent, and discernment in relationships. They encourage embracing your full sexual expression and dark feminine energy for pleasure, empowerment, and personal growth.
They also riff off on:
Activating sexual energy and channeling it into creativity and dharma is the tantric path for women.
Embracing the dark feminine energy for personal growth and empowerment.
Meg discusses the shift from maiden energy to dark feminine qualities in dating.
Men want powerful women who can call them forth, not settle for their bullshit.
Nadine shares their inner masculine journey, including working with stillness and meditation to fill emotional voids from father wound.
Meg and Nadine discuss the reverence for eroticism in ancient cultures and how it's been lost in modern society.
and many, many more
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10 Jul 2024
Ep 79: Learning to love each other better
01:08:52
How do you love your partner better?
Meg and Jacob O'Neill dive into why knowing each other's love language isn't enough. They share how staying curious about each other's needs and desires creates a foundation for a strong, long-lasting relationship filled with intimacy and closeness.
Meg and Jacob discuss their experiences with long-distance love, gender roles, and the power of open communication. They reveal how small acts, like understanding your partner's favorite meal or how they prefer things organized, can significantly enhance your connection. It's about truly listening and valuing each other's unique preferences.
Through stories of tackling household chores and cooking, they show how stepping out of comfort zones and encouraging each other's growth deepens their bond. Jacob learns to let go of control, while Meg finds new ways to show appreciation.
Meg and Jacob also challenge the idea of rigid formulas in relationships, advocating for flexible frameworks that allow for growth and change. They emphasize attunement, presence, and living in the moment to foster deep connections.
They also riff off on:
Meg O'Neill discusses her experience mowing the lawn for the first time, despite never having done it before.
Jacob O'Neill acknowledges his control issues, admitting he's a "little bit of a control freak" and learning to surrender some control in relationships.
They share stories about their upbringing and how it has influenced their attitudes towards cleanliness and organization.
Meg feels undermined by Jacob's constant redoing of her work, leading her to feel like she can't do anything right and that it's not worth trying.
Jacob and Meg discuss food preferences and cooking styles, with Jacob preferring simple dishes like steak and vegetables.
Meg O'Neill highlights the danger of relying too heavily on labels and formulas in relationships, and instead advocates for attunement and presence.
and many more.
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17 Jul 2024
Ep 80: Normalising 'clunky' sex in long term relationships
01:02:42
Ever felt clumsy in bed? You’re not alone.
Join Meg and Jacob O’Neill as they dive into the messy, beautiful reality of long-term relationships and intimacy. They explore how those awkward, clunky sex moments are completely normal and can actually lead to a deeper connection.
In this episode, they talk openly about their struggles, desires, and how personal growth in sex can bring you closer. They emphasize the importance of quality time together, reflecting on a day filled with connection, exploring each other’s bodies during pregnancy, and the impact of small, meaningful moments.
Meg and Jacob also tackle the tough stuff: frustration, hurt feelings, and finding ways to reconnect. They share how staying curious, addressing emotions, and embracing the messiness of intimacy can transform your relationship.
They also riff off on:
How much Jacob and Meg loves high quality food -- and Buchi Kombucha
Meg shares personal stories of clunky sex experiences in long term relationships.
Meg and Jacob encounters a clunky moment during sex leading to an open conversation after
Meg and Jacob shares juicy details about trying 69, with Meg preferring deep receptivity and Jacob liking the intertwined mess of giving and receiving.
Meg emphasizes the importance of investing time and energy into improving one's sex life, rather than accepting it as static and unchanging.
Honoring clunky sex moments can lead to more animalistic, wild quickies for women.
Jacob and Meg discusses surface-level vs. deep pleasure in sex and masturbation.
and many more.
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24 Jul 2024
Ep 81: Relating with all of life with Velan Cadden
01:15:02
How do our energetic cycles and unresolved resentment affect our relationships?
Join host Jacob O'Neill and special guest, Velan Cadden, as they dive into the complexities of resentment in relationships and its impact on men's energetic bodies. In this profound episode, Jacob and Velan explore themes of cultural change, personal growth, and the subtle rhythms that govern our connections.
Velan focuses on men's development and relationships. He shares his unique insights into managing emotions, tracking subtle signals in the body, and avoiding conflicts. Velan’s work emphasizes the importance of awareness, vulnerability, and the somatic practices that help men navigate their internal and external challenges.
Discover how awareness and choice can help manage emotions and avoid conflicts, and learn about the significance of attuning to deeper layers of vulnerability in relationships and organizations.
This episode also delves into understanding women's cycles and their impact on relationships, the importance of creative expression, and the inner work required for true intimacy.
They also riff off on:
Jacob and Velan discusses relationship to beast, both internal and external, and importance of tracking subtle signals in body to avoid rage and conflict.
Jacob explores the importance of consciously cultivating the "beast" in men for deeper intimacy and fulfillment.
They share insights on recognizing and healing deeper emotional patterns through self-awareness and empathy.
Jacob shares his experience of deepening his awareness and vulnerability in his relationship, which has allowed him to connect with others on a deeper level.
Jacob reflects on the importance of slowing down and connecting with oneself, citing the benefits of feeling life's texture rather than just reacting to external stimuli.
Understanding woman's cycle can reveal aspects of man's own rhythm and energy.
Finding relief from sexual energy through creative expression, movement, and nature.
and many more...
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03 Aug 2024
Ep 82: Healing your relationship to the Masculine & why we love in person work
01:00:40
In this episode, Meg and Jacob O’Neill share their real struggles with anger, emotions, and diving deep into the messy, beautiful reality of love and intimacy.
Meg opens up about how women often hold in anger, leading to bottled-up feelings and frustration. She and Jacob discuss their different ways of handling anger and how it shapes their relationship. It’s a powerful reminder that communication is a key driver to deeper intimacy and more meaningful connection with your partner.
Imagine the magic of connecting face-to-face. Meg describes hosting an in-person event as “glorious” and “life-changing.” These gatherings create deep bonds and healing, especially for women seeking more in their relationships. Jacob reflects on the healing power of coming together especially when healing core parts of you and doing "inner work" in the support of a community.
They stress the need for honesty, vulnerability, and focusing on women’s empowerment in relationships. Meg talks about how relaxing and letting go are key to feeling deep pleasure and connection. She encourages you to create a “blueprint” in your body for this feeling.
They also riff off on:
Meg O'Neill discusses how women often internalize anger and frustration in relationships.
Internalized anger leads to the suppression of emotions and a lack of expression.
Jacob O'Neill reflects on the power of coming together for healing and growth.
Meg and Jacob talks about how the most powerful healing occurs in subtle moments rather than loud or intense releases.
Meg O'Neill shares the importance of expressing hurt in a safe space for women.
Meg and Jacob discuss the importance of clearing emotional baggage for personal growth and liberation.
Meg O'Neill encourages women to create a blueprint of their immersive experiences to recall and practice later.
Trust and support are crucial in creating meaningful experiences.
Relaxation and letting go are keys to feeling deep pleasure and connection.
The importance of balancing online work with in-person interactions to enhance the depth of connections.
Highlighting the ceremonial nature of gatherings designed to deepen understanding and connection among participants.
and many, many more.
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08 Aug 2024
Ep 83: Healing Through Rage, Pregnancy, and Intimacy with Angel Drake
01:16:19
Meg O'Neill sits down with the incredible Angel Drake, who’s just weeks away from giving birth, for a deeply personal conversation that touches on everything from pregnancy surprises to the raw emotions of womanhood. Angel, Founder and CEO of The Somatic Healing Institute, shares her journey through pregnancy, she talks about the physical and emotional highs and lows, offering a real, unfiltered look at what it means to carry life.
They explore the profound power of being a woman, especially when it comes to embracing our authentic selves. Forget the pressure to be the "good girl"—Meg and Angel discuss how truly freeing it is to let go of society’s expectations and fully embody who we are. They also share the transformative experience of rage rituals, where women can safely express their deepest emotions and find healing.
This episode is filled with wisdom on healing from the past, embracing embodiment, and seeing birth as a spiritual journey.
They also riff off on:
Meg and Angel share the unexpected joy and fun of not knowing their baby’s gender until birth. Turns out, the surprise adds a lot of excitement and a few good laughs.
Meg talks about the not-so-glamorous side of pregnancy, including the infamous "lightning crotch," bringing humor to the real challenges of carrying a child.
Meg and Angel discuss the power of rage rituals where women can safely express their deepest frustrations. It’s cathartic and might just be the key to emotional freedom.
They break down the pressure on women to always be "good girls," encouraging listeners to embrace their true, messy, and authentic selves instead.
Angel shares her journey of fully inhabiting her body and shedding the weight of societal norms because who has time to be anyone but themselves?
Meg and Angel discuss how true intimacy is about staying curious and connected with your partner, even when life gets messy and complicated.
Both women share funny and relatable moments about pregnancy brain, proving that growing a human can lead to the most amusing experiences.
hey tackle the tricky topic of polarity, advocating for a better understanding of masculine and feminine energies in relationships because it’s not as simple as it sounds.
Meg and Angel explore the deep work of healing past trauma, showing that inner work is essential for truly fulfilling relationships.
They both have a beautiful discussion on birth as a sacred ceremony and the importance of surrendering to the experience, making it a spiritual journey.
and many more.
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14 Aug 2024
Ep 84: Unleashing Intimacy: Allan McGrath on Sacred Masculinity and Sexual Power
00:58:16
In this episode, Jacob O'Neill is joined by Allan McGrath, an intimacy mentor who’s been guiding men and women toward deeper connections for over a decade. Allan reveals the power of sexual energy, not just as a physical act, but as a pathway to higher purpose and profound personal transformation.
Together, they explore the art of polarity in relationships, the magnetic dance between masculine and feminine energies, and how couples can harness this dynamic to enhance their intimacy. Allan also shares his unique approach to helping women embrace their feminine essence through sexual yoga and the teachings of sacred intimacy.
They also riff off on:
Alan McGraw helps people deepen their connections by understanding sexual polarity.
Jacob O'Neill explains how balancing different aspects of ourselves can enhance intimacy in relationships.
Jacob reflects on balancing masculine and feminine energies for growth.
Jacob and Allan discuss using polarity and tantra for healing.
Jacob shares a moment of feeling overwhelmed by his wife’s love, illustrating deep connection.
Jacob talks about using sex for transformation and liberation.
Jacob reflects on prioritizing his partner’s pleasure and managing ejaculation.
Jacob discusses managing ejaculation and its impact on energy.
Jacob and Allan emphasize the importance of self-awareness in men’s work and intimacy.
and many more.
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21 Aug 2024
Ep 85: The Erotic Mother
01:09:31
Buckle up because this episode is one hell of a ride. Meg and Jacob O’Neill are pulling back the curtain on their most intimate, raw, and downright hilarious moments as they dive into what it really means to be an Erotic Mother. Spoiler alert: it’s not all soft whispers and sweet kisses—sometimes it’s about wanting to be treated like a “dirty little whore” (yep, she said it), even when there’s a baby on board.
This conversation is for every woman who’s ever felt the pull between her wild erotic self and the nurturing mother inside her, and for every couple trying to keep the spark alive amidst the chaos of daily life.
So, if you’re ready for some real talk, a few belly laughs, and a powerful reminder that you can be all of it—the nurturer, the lover, the wild woman—this episode is for you.
They also riff off on:
Meg admits to loving being dominated and being treated as a "dirty, little whore"
Meg emphasizes the importance of presence and the need for space to reconnect, suggesting that they need to create a container for intimacy.
Jacob reflects on the power of getting out of their regular environment to reset their connection and the importance of being present without distractions.
Meg suggests the idea of a lockbox to store their phones during intimate moments, which Jacob finds intriguing but impractical.
Meg and Jacob explore the societal pressure of fitting into the "homemaker-whore" complex, where women are expected to be either a homemaker or a whore.
Jacob shares his realization that removing distractions and creating a safe environment is crucial for intimacy to flourish.
and many more.
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28 Aug 2024
Ep 86: What Women Crave Most...
00:51:59
This week, we're diving headfirst into the heart of what makes intimacy tick—not just the close quarters but the deep, electrifying presence that makes every moment resonate.
As Meg and Jacob juggle the excitement of a "Baby O'Neill Barbecue" and the everyday hilarity of their lives (like debating the etiquette of drying camping gear on the front lawn), Meg and Jacob unravel the layers of what true connection means. It's not just about physical closeness but about feeling your partner's presence so intensely that nothing else matters.
Meg opens up about craving Jacob's undivided attention—his presence so potent, it's like being touched without a single finger laid. Jacob brings his characteristic warmth and wit as he greets you, the listeners, pulling you into their vibrant, unfiltered world where sex, love, and the spaces in between are discussed with no reservations.
They also riff off on:
Meg expresses a deep desire for Jacob’s presence, not just physical closeness, emphasizing the need for depth in their interactions.
They discuss the balance between traditional roles and maintaining individuality, particularly as they prepare for their new baby.
The couple shares light-hearted moments about drying camping gear and being perceived as "gypsies" by neighbors.
They talk about the challenges of maintaining intimacy during daily routines and the impact of distractions like technology.
Jacob and Meg prefers the term 'Baby O'Neill Barbecue' than baby shower.
Both discuss the importance of the quality rather than the quantity of presence in their relationship, emphasizing deep connection.
They explore the necessity for personal space and growth, especially Jacob’s perspective on men needing time away for personal development.
Both stress the importance of communication in managing expectations and desires within the relationship, particularly around time spent together.
And many more...
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04 Sep 2024
Ep 87: Becoming a father and the responsibility of masculine leadership
01:23:51
What does it take for a man to balance fatherhood, community leadership, and integrity?
In this episode of Sex, Love & Everything in Between, Jacob O’Neill sits down with Ryan Hubbards, founder of Cool to be Conscious, to explore the challenges of becoming a dad and leading a cultural movement. From the emotional growth required for fatherhood to the importance of grounding in modern men’s work, this episode dives deep into what it means to live with integrity.
They riff off on:
• Jacob introduces Ryan Hubbards and discusses the movement’s cultural significance and integrity.
•Ryan reflects on vulnerability and loneliness in personal development.
•Jacob and Ryan explore challenges in balancing family with leadership.
•Jacob shares the importance of creating harmony at home.
•Jacob and Ryan discuss personal growth through fatherhood.
•The significance of a supportive brotherhood and community leadership.
•The importance of building a relationship with nature for personal development.
•Balancing leadership with maintaining personal integrity.
•Addressing sexual energy and boundaries in community settings.
•Jacob and Ryan discuss the importance of vulnerability and commitment in relationships.
And many, many more...
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In today’s episode, Meg and Jacob O'Neill dive into the ultimate rite of passage: preparing for the birth of their first child.
As Meg approaches 38 weeks, they reflect on the emotional and physical journey of pregnancy and the intensity of the birth process. This isn't just a logistical challenge—it's a deep, spiritual initiation that’s asking both of them to surrender to the unknown. With Jacob humorously navigating the "holy grail" of nursing chairs and Meg embodying trust in her body’s wisdom, they explore what it really means to meet this moment with presence, humor, and raw authenticity.
They riff off on:
The surreal experience of waiting for their lives to change, with no fixed schedule for when the baby will arrive.
Meg's powerful intention not to manifest a "perfect" birth, but to fully surrender to whatever comes.
The deep trust they’ve developed with their birth keeper, Leslie, and how she nourishes Meg in ways she never knew she needed.
The unexpected healing that’s emerging for both of them, especially Jacob as he reflects on the masculine role in the birth process.
and many more...
If you're ready to hear the real, unfiltered truth about birth, surrender, and embracing every aspect of this intense rite of passage, this episode is for you.
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18 Sep 2024
Ep 89: Harmonising humanity, honouring nature and death as our greatest teacher
01:10:32
Hey lovers, welcome back to Sex, Love & Everything in Between!
This week, Jacob O’Neill sits down with a powerhouse guest, Samson Odusanya, to dive deep into the themes of masculinity, pain, and what it truly means to create harmony in a world obsessed with control and balance.
Jacob kicks off with a heartfelt intro about how he connected with Samson through mutual friends and was blown away by his depth, presence, and the way Samson weaves truth into everything he shares. Together, they explore how modern society’s obsession with quick fixes and control often disconnects us from the natural flow of life—and how true harmony is about embracing change and flowing with the seasons of life.
They riff off on:
•The importance of voluntary discomfort and leaning into challenges as a way to grow as men.
•Samson’s powerful perspective on harmony vs. balance and how the latter is an illusion.
•Jacob’s emotional story of family, legacy, and the strength of the women in his lineage, beautifully illustrating the power of love and resilience through death and rebirth.
•How pain, both physical and emotional, is a necessary part of life’s initiation process, especially for men on their path to becoming fathers, husbands, and leaders.
This episode is a raw, vulnerable, and transformative conversation that will resonate with anyone looking to deepen their connection to themselves, their family, and the world around them.
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Ep 90: Q+A: Kink, keeping the passion alive & communicating desires
01:07:37
We’re back with another juicy episode of Sex, Love & Everything in Between!
In this episode, Meg and Jacob dive deep into a raw, vulnerable conversation about opening up new desires in the bedroom. Whether it's craving some playful kink or yearning for more sensual connection, this episode gets into the nitty-gritty of how to invite your partner into your fantasies in a way that feels aligned and safe for both of you. Let’s talk about being bold, breaking through the "routine," and tapping into what really turns you on—without guilt or judgment.
Meg vulnerably shares her experience navigating her pregnancy with trust and surrender, while Jacob reflects on how personal rituals can deepen the bonds we share. They show us that intimacy goes way beyond the physical—it's about inviting your partner into your inner world.
They riff off on:
How to express new desires and fantasies without making your partner feel like they’re doing something “wrong”
Building a foundation of trust and communication that lets you be both wild and vulnerable
Leading with curiosity and openness—because that’s where the magic lives!
Using everyday moments to create deeper intimacy, even when life is busy
The importance of taking ownership of your pleasure and inviting your partner to join you there
and many more...
If you're ready to hear the real, unfiltered truth about birth, surrender, and embracing every aspect of this intense rite of passage, this episode is for you.
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02 Oct 2024
Ep 91: From Corporate to Tantra w/ Anthea Balfour
01:16:02
“I can have it all and nothing. I can be it all and nothing.”
It’s not about controlling the moment; it’s about surrendering to the tension and letting it transform you.
In this episode of Sex, Love & Everything in Between, Jacob gets raw and real with the incredible Anthea Balfour, a somatic psychotherapist and tantric healer, diving into the space where masculine strength meets vulnerability.
Anthea shares how Tantra and shadow work guide us into meeting the scariest parts of ourselves—our deepest fears, desires, and vulnerabilities—and how integrating this helps us heal and create true intimacy with ourselves and others. Through her work, Anthea has witnessed men and women transform their relationship to power, pleasure, and emotional integrity.
They also riff off on:
•Understanding why men struggle to hold space without trying to fix or perform
•The power of Tantra in helping us embrace our shadows and cultivate emotional and energetic integrity
•How men can heal their fear of power and sex through the support of women
•Breaking free from routine and stepping into true discipline—without losing your edge
•How women can invite men into deeper connection without emasculating them
•The fear women secretly harbor around strong men and how we can heal it
•Building emotional integrity that actually fortifies your love life
and many more...
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09 Oct 2024
Ep 92: Masculine leadership w/Jose Alejandro - Finding harmony in your vision and your relationship
01:10:17
This isn’t about suppressing what you’re feeling; it’s about expanding your capacity to be with whatever life throws your way.
In this episode of Sex, Love & Everything in Between, Jacob O’Neill sits down with life & embodied leadership coach, impact-driven brand strategist, somatic practitioner, men's work facilitator and apprentice rite of passage guide, Jose Alejandro, for a candid conversation on navigating the complexities of modern manhood. They dive deep into what it means to show up fully in relationships and life, even when it feels overwhelming.
Jose opens up about the struggles men face when balancing the demands of relationships and personal growth, and how rites of passage can help cultivate resilience, emotional regulation, and a sense of purpose.
They also riff on:
•Jacob’s raw confession about the anxieties of becoming a father
•Why integrating emotions isn’t just about intellectual understanding, but somatic practice
•Jose’s transformative journey from corporate burnout to embodied leadership
•The dangers of bypassing embodied practices for intellectual solutions
•The power of boundaries as acts of love
•Finding clarity and power through rites of passage
•The importance of checking in with yourself and owning your emotional state
•Why “holding it all together” doesn’t mean doing it all
And so much more…
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16 Oct 2024
Ep 93: What is your Relationship Archetype w/ Rory Kilmartin
01:03:05
In this week’s episode of Sex, Love & Everything in Between, Jacob O’Neill invites relationship researcher Rory Kilmartin to dive deep into the hidden dynamics that drive conflict and connection in our relationships. If you’ve ever felt like you’re caught in the same arguments over and over again, it’s time to explore what might be going on beneath the surface.
Rory has spent over 30 years researching human relationships, uncovering the invisible forces that shape how we relate to others—and ourselves. He’s turned one of life’s great mysteries into a body of knowledge that few have even come close to understanding. Through his years of conversations, interviews, and study with elders from around the world, Rory has decoded why good people sometimes create difficult dynamics—and how to finally make sense of it all.
Could your archetypal nature be dictating your relationship struggles? Rory’s groundbreaking work invites you to discover which archetype you unconsciously embody, and how this shapes your behavior in ways you may not even realize. Find out how knowing your archetype can transform your most important relationships.
🔥 Key points they riff on:
•How uncovering your archetype can explain every argument you’ve ever had
•Why understanding these hidden dynamics leads to instant clarity and harmony
•The difference between reacting from survival vs. responding from maturity
•Why you think you’re being loving—but your partner perceives the opposite
•Moving from confusion to clarity in all your relationships, from romance to family
Rory’s work isn’t just another relationship theory—it’s a practical guide to transforming the way you understand and engage with others. If you’re ready to break free from old patterns, this episode is for you.
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23 Oct 2024
Ep 94: The healing power of Yoni Massage with Kiki Maree
01:50:57
In this week’s episode of Sex, Love & Everything in Between, Meg O’Neill sits down with Kiki Maree, a master of Yoni massage and Tantric healing. Together, they explore how these sacred practices can help you reconnect with your body, release hidden pain, and rediscover your own pleasure.
Kiki shares her deep knowledge of Yoni massage—not just as a form of touch, but as a healing practice that allows women to let go of trauma stored in the pelvis. Whether it’s past emotional wounds or the physical aftermath of childbirth, Yoni massage creates space for healing and empowerment in a way that feels natural and intuitive.
Meg and Kiki also dig into the power of Tantric massage. This isn’t about sex—it’s about using sexual energy to balance your emotions, open yourself up, and connect more deeply with yourself and others.
🔥 They also riff off on:
•Yoni Healing: What it means to heal from the inside out and take control of your pelvic health.
•Tantric Rituals: Using sexual energy for emotional and spiritual balance.
•Pelvic Wellness: Why tuning into your pelvic health is key to experiencing deeper pleasure and connection.
•Meg’s Personal Journey: How Yoni massage helped her prepare for childbirth, both physically and emotionally.
•Self-Empowerment: Simple ways to reclaim your body and deepen your relationships.
and many more...
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06 Nov 2024
Ep 95: Our Birth Story Part 1
01:15:09
In this week’s episode of Sex, Love & Everything in Between, Meg O’Neill shares the story of her journey to becoming a mom. From finding out she was pregnant to making big choices like having a wild pregnancy (no doctors, no scans, just trusting her body), Meg opens up about what it felt like to prepare for their baby, Oisin, to come into the world.
Meg and Jacob talk about learning to handle their worries, staying strong together, and trusting that everything would be okay. Meg explains how they created a safe, loving space at home to welcome their son, showing that birth isn’t just about the moment he arrives, but the whole journey leading up to it.
They also riffed off on:
•Choosing a Different Path: Why Meg and Jacob decided on a wild pregnancy and free birth.
•Handling Fear with Love: How Jacob faced his worries and stayed present for Meg.
•Staying Calm in the Unknown: Meg’s biggest practice was trusting the timing, even when it was hard.
•Creating a Safe Space: Why having a calm, loving home made all the difference.
•Perfect Timing: The special way Oisin chose to come into their lives, making everything feel just right.
and many more.
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Welcome to this week’s episode of Sex, Love & Everything In Between! Join Meg and Jacob O’Neill as they share the raw and beautiful story of their unassisted home birth. They take you through every moment, from the gentle flow of early labor to the deep, powerful sounds that welcomed their son, Oisin, into the world.
Meg opens up about how she tapped into the ancient wisdom of her body, fully embracing the intensity of each surge. “Letting the ancient wisdom of my body vocalize through me,” she shares, highlighting the beauty of surrendering to this incredible experience. Jacob reflects on his role as a steady support, creating a safe space for Meg during this transformative journey. Together, they dive into themes of trust, simplicity, and the healing power of being witnessed by another mother.
Whether you’re curious about free birth, what labor really feels like, or the deep connections between birth and ceremony, this conversation is a heartfelt reminder of the strength and intuition that come with bringing new life into the world.
They also riff off on:
How Meg’s embodiment practices guided her through labor
Meg describes the deep sounds that emerged during labor—not screams, but a guttural expression of her body’s wisdom.
The importance of having a supportive birth keeper
Jacob’s thoughts on masculinity and supporting a birthing partner
The unexpected turns during labor that brought both joy and confrontation.
Tips for creating a sacred and distraction-free space for birth
and many more!
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20 Nov 2024
Ep 97: The Sacred Role of Brotherhood in Modern Fatherhood with Adam Jackson
01:08:14
The mask you wear isn’t the man you are - discover how authentic brotherhood and fatherhood transform modern masculinity in this week's newest episode with Adam Jackson.
Jacob sits down with Adam Jackson, co-founder of Sacred Sons, for an intimate and unfiltered conversation about what it truly means to be a man, father, and leader in today’s world. From birth portals to brotherhood circles, we dive deep into the journey of authentic masculinity.
This episode is a powerful reminder that true strength comes not from doing it all alone, but from having the courage to be seen, supported, and held by your brothers. Whether you’re a father, on your men’s work journey, or simply seeking deeper connection, this conversation will inspire you to step more fully into your authentic power.
They also riff off on: • The sacred initiation of becoming a father • Why men need to take off their masks and get real • How men’s circles create profound transformation • The power of receiving vs always giving • Moving from lone wolf to supported brother • Birth as a ceremonial portal • The ancient technology of men’s circles • Learning to ask “is there more?” and “how can I support you?” • Balancing service to family with service to community
and many more.
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We're getting deep and real about bringing Oisin earthside, answering all your questions about birth, fear, and how partners can dance together in this sacred ceremony of birth. Meg shares her journey of complete surrender while Jacob reveals how he learned to hold space without getting in the way.
This isn't your typical birth story - it's a raw, unfiltered look at what happens when you trust your body's ancient wisdom and let go of everything you think birth "should" be. Whether you're preparing for your own birth journey, supporting someone who is, or just curious about what unassisted birth really looks like, this conversation will change how you think about birth forever.
They also riff off on: • Why we chose to birth without fear (and how we got there) • The delicate dance of masculine presence in birth • How to support without saving • What real surrender feels like in labor • Creating an unbreakable birth bubble • Building trust before the big day • The art of holding space (without hovering) • Preparing your nervous system for birth • Protecting your sacred space and so much more...
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Meg shares her raw truths about the sacred transition from maiden to mother in this intimate postpartum conversation.
Join Meg and Jacob as they talk about their first 8 weeks of parenthood, sharing how they’ve created a deeply nourishing postpartum experience through community, sacred partnership, and the art of receiving. From body changes to sleep , they answer your burning questions about the reality of a newborn.
This is a raw, unfiltered look at how intentional preparation and community support can transform those early weeks with a baby, into a time of expansion rather than depletion. Whether you’re preparing for parenthood, supporting new parents, or simply curious about conscious parenting, this conversation will change how you think about the postpartum period forever.
They also riff off on: • How to create and receive community support • The truth about postpartum body changes • Co-sleeping and nighttime parenting • The transition from maiden to mother • Creating sacred postpartum rituals • The power of meal trains and community care • Navigating relationship changes • Physical healing and recovery • Finding rhythm instead of routine and so much more…
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