Relationships Uncomplicated (Idit Sharoni, LMFT Relationship Expert and Affair Recovery Specialist)

On this episode of Relationships Uncomplicated, Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov dishes out on the Do's and Dont's to learn How To Co-Parent Effectively With Your Difficult Ex. 

Alina explains the root of the anger and frustration most parents feel when they try to reason with an ex who is difficult and not willing to be on the same page when it comes to co-parenting. 

Together with Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni, they explore ways to try to "keep the peace" for your children's sake. 

Stay tuned; you don't want to miss this informative episode! 

To send us questions you'd like answered in a future podcast:

Please write your question in the following format and email idit@iditsharonicounseling.com or alina@alinagershonov.com:

1. Type of relationship (marriage, dating, etc.)
2. Length of relationship
3. Your story + your question to us
4. Remember, you will absolutely remain anonymous 

For more information about the podcast, Idit Sharoni, and Alina Gershonov visit:

www.iditsharoni.com

www.alinagershonov.com

On this episode of Relationships Uncomplicated, Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni sheds light on a question that crosses some couples' minds when they leave their therapist's office. 

"Is this therapist right for us?"

Together with Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov, Idit addresses common questions and concerns couples have when questioning if their therapist is right for them. 

Most importantly, they highlight attributes which will help you identify an experienced therapist who has the proper training to help you work through your challenges.

In addition to certifications, they share traits of an effective therapist and how you should probably feel leaving their office. 

To send us questions you'd like answered in a future podcast:

Please write your question in the following format and email idit@iditsharonicounseling.com or alina@alinagershonov.com:

1. Type of relationship (marriage, dating, etc.)
2. Length of relationship
3. Your story + your question to us
4. Remember, you will absolutely remain anonymous 

For more information about the podcast, Idit Sharoni, and Alina Gershonov visit:

www.iditsharoni.com

www.alinagershonov.com

In this episode you’ll find out if you are in a sex starved relationship, and if so, what it does to your connection & what you can do to change the situation.

As many couples believe that this is a phase that will go away or it’s the nature of a long term relationship - Miami's Relationship expert Idit Sharoni will challenge you on that and help you get things going in the right direction.

Takeaways you don't want to miss:

• What's considered a sex starved relationship / marriage?
• How it sometimes shows in a relationship?
• Who has the power to change it?
• Tips on what you can do to stop sex starving in your relationship.

For more information about the podcast and Idit Sharoni visit:

www.iditsharoni.com

Are you and your spouse equal partners in your relationship? Or has one of you become more of a parent to the other?

When a couple starts to fall into a parent-child dynamic, codependency, rather than a balanced, cooperative relationship starts to emerge. Essentially, this means that the overall patterns of communication and behavior push one partner (either the male or the female) into a parent or a child position within the relationship. 

In this episode, I do the following:

• help you take a closer look at what this destructive dynamic may look like
• share why you shouldn't promote this in your relationship
• suggest two strategies to avoid it

Links mentioned in this episode:

FREE Masterclass: Forgiving & Forgetting is NOT the Key to Healing After Infidelity www.iditsharoni.com/masterclass

for more information go to: www.iditsharoni.com

On this episode of Relationships Uncomplicated, Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni continues the conversation from Part 1 of Will You Ever Be Able To Trust Your Betraying Partner Again?

Idit shares her helpful Why Stay Inventory to assist you in assessing if it is okay for you to stay in the relationship after infidelity. 

Together with Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov, they discuss the 4 vital categories along with a rating system to help you assess your confidence in each category.

Happy Holidays and Happy Year! We'll be back January 8th! 

Links mentioned in this episode: 

Episode 33: Will You Ever Be Able To Trust Your Betraying Partner Again? Part 1

To send us questions you'd like answered in a future podcast:

Please write your question in the following format and email idit@iditsharonicounseling.com or alina@alinagershonov.com:

1. Type of relationship (marriage, dating, etc.)
2. Length of relationship
3. Your story + your question to us
4. Remember, you will absolutely remain anonymous 

For more information about the podcast, Idit Sharoni, and Alina Gershonov visit:

www.iditsharoni.com

www.AlinaGershonov.com

When we think of healing from an affair, we focus on the betrayal of the faithful partner.

We rarely think of the unfaithful partner’s wounded mind.

In fact, the unfaithful partner’s ability to recover from the affair is quite routinely ignored. 

And when it comes to women’s affairs? Well, there’s even less attention paid to healing for unfaithful women.

That’s where the expertise of Debbie Rose comes in.

Listen to my interview with Debbie to learn the steps to ending an affair.

Infidelity Recovery Free Masterclass:

Idit's infidelity recovery masterclass

Links mentioned:

Debbie's website aftermyaffair.com

Debbie's Facebook group

Idit's support community on Facebook

The book Not Just Friends by Shirley Glass

Idit's infidelity recovery online program

Contact: idit@iditsharoni.com

How do you know if you're in a toxic relationship? Chances are that if you think you are in one, then your hunch is probably right. If you feel your relationship may be unhealthy and is damaging to you and your mental and physical health, you should listen to this episode. 

Breakup specialist and practicing licensed marriage & family therapist Alina Gershonov along with co-host relationship expert Idit Sharoni share with you the top 5 Warning Signs for a toxic relationship so you can make an informed decision on where to go with your relationship. 

BONUS: Alina shares the complete "10 Warning Signs You're In A Toxic Relationship".

Please visit www.alinagershonov.com/002 to download your free bonus.

For more information about the podcast, Idit Sharoni, and Alina Gershonov visit:

www.iditsharoni.com

www.alinagershonov.com

For more information/resources on emotional and verbal abuse, please visit: https://www.morningsiderecovery.com/blog/understanding-verbal-abuse/

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-mysteries-love/201612/how-stop-verbal-abuse 

See you at our next episode,

Idit & Alina

Have you searched the internet endlessly, trying to understand why your partner cheated? If you have, then chances are you discovered misleading information and unfortunately have been misinformed.

Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni and Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov discuss the causes of infidelity on this episode of Relationships Uncomplicated, called Why Do People Cheat?

Idit & Alina also address common misconceptions about infidelity; the one that comes up the most is that the betraying partner wants to get out of a bad marriage and be with the person they are having the affair with. The truth is, most of the time, the partner who cheated does not want to leave the marriage at all. In fact, a recent study shows that only 3% of those who divorce after an affair actually end up marrying their affair partner. 

Don't get caught up in the reasons why people think affairs occur; tune into this episode to find out the 3 main reasons why people cheat which are backed by evidence-based research.

Idit's FREE guide on How To Affair Proof Your Relationship/Marriage is filled with helpful tips. Whether you suspect your partner is unfaithful or if you just want to be proactive in boundary setting, you don't want to miss it! Get it here: 

Resources:

For more information about the podcast, Idit Sharoni, and Alina Gershonov visit:

www.iditsharoni.com

www.alinagershonov.com

Freebie mentioned in this episode:

How To Affair Proof Your Relationship Guide

Do you ever think about the one that got away? 

Believe it or not, the reason why you can't let go has nothing to do with the person constantly on your mind and absolutely everything to do with you.                          

If you're intrigued, then this episode is definitely for you!

In this episode of Relationships Uncomplicated, Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov reveals 3 things that are keeping you stuck and not allowing you to let that one person go. 

Together with Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni, they reveal both the conscious and subconscious reasoning for why people still hold on emotionally.

Don't forget to send us questions you'd like us to address in a future episode!

(We'll respond to you directly first!)

Resources:

To send us questions you'd like us to answer in a podcast:

Please write your question in the following format and email idit@iditsharonicounseling.com or alina@alinagershonov.com:

1. Type of relationship (marriage, dating, etc.)
2. Length of relationship
3. Your story + your question to us
4. Remember, you will absolutely remain anonymous 

For more information about the podcast, Idit Sharoni, and Alina Gershonov visit:

www.iditsharoni.com

www.alinagershonov.com

Links mentioned in this episode:

Dr. Jennice Villhaeur's TED Talk, Why You Don't Get What You Want:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FwLeiY5f7sI

On this episode of Relationships Uncomplicated, Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni sheds light on a situation many couples with infidelity issues deal with.

This episode offers a freebie: The Step By Step Overall Healing After Infidelity Plan.

After the initial phase of shock, couples try to avoid the pain and subconsciously sweep their issues under the rug in an effort to "forgive and forget."

Despite efforts to do so, the elephant in the room will rear its head unless something is done. Together with Alina Gershonov, Idit sheds light on how to work through this phase of infidelity recovery. 

You won't want to miss out on the freebie, The Step By Step Overall Healing After Infidelity Plan. It will offer additional help if you are feeling stuck. 

Links mentioned in this episode:

Freebie:  The Step By Step Overall Healing After Infidelity Plan

For more information about the podcast, visit www.iditsharoni.com

On this episode of Relationships Uncomplicated, Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni shares why "I'm sorry" doesn't cut it when it comes to affair recovery. Idit shares a 2-part technique for how to effectively be remorseful with your partner after an affair. 

Together with Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov, they discuss what you can say to make your partner see how remorseful you are.

Download Idit's freebie below, it is a combination of the specific components of an effective remorse expression and an example of how it may be worded.

Link to Freebie: Blueprint of an Effective Remorse

To send us questions you'd like answered in a future podcast:

Please write your question in the following format and email idit@iditsharonicounseling.com:

1. Type of relationship (marriage, dating, etc.)
2. Length of relationship
3. Your story + your question to us
4. Remember, you will absolutely remain anonymous 

For more information about the podcast and Idit Sharoni visit:

www.iditsharoni.com

Have you stopped couples counseling because there was no result? Are you now in the stages of looking for a therapist but aren't sure what to look for? Do you desperately wish you had a tool to measure whether couples therapy is the right fit for you?

Couples therapist Idit Sharoni shares from her thousands of hours experience helping couples save their relationships, what are the most important components that make your couples therapy process a success. 

Listen and learn what you can do now to ensure your couples counseling has the best chances to succeed. 

For more information about the podcast and Idit Sharoni visit:

www.iditsharoni.com

In the last decades couples confront serious problems that have to do with fast track relationships. 
If you've done all the way from meeting your spouse to holding your first baby in less than 2 years, and you're experiencing serious relationship issues - than this is the episode for you.

So, before you think it was a big mistake and the only solution is divorce or breakup, see what relationship expert Idit Sharoni has to say to you. 

Hint: there is hope.

Find 5 suggestions to prevent divorce or breakup in fast-track relationships that will give you the hope you need to continue.

For more information about the podcast and Idit Sharoni visit:

www.iditsharoni.com

On this episode of Relationships Uncomplicated, Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni shares the recipe for how to have an incredible trip that makes everyone happy! Believe it or not, it is possible to have a relaxing, enjoyable, and guilt-free time with your spouse while seeing everyone you want to see back home.

Together with Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov, they explore the necessary steps you and your spouse should take before and during your trip. 

Tune in to find out how you can have the vacation of your dreams without feeling the guilt. 

For more information about the podcast visit:

www.iditsharoni.com

Have you asked yourself "Am I crazy to stay in this relationship after I've been cheated on?" then you're in the right place. If you haven't personally been in this situation and thought this questions about a friend or family member, then this episode will absolutely be helpful for you as well. 

Did you know that infidelity affects 1 in every 2.7 couples? In fact, most couples (65%-70%) stay together afterwards.  

In this episode of Relationships Uncomplicated, Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni shares research based facts about infidelity along with trends she's seen as couples therapist specializing in infidelity. Together with Breakup Expert Alina Gershonov, they shed light on the reasons why friends and family encourage the betrayed partner to leave. They also address societal norms and the shame both partners experience. Additionally, they discuss exactly what needs to happen when both partners are committed to staying and what that process looks like.

Learn how so many couples are able to thrive after an affair, and stay tuned for Episode 10, where Idit will discuss Why Affairs Happen.

Resources:

For more information about the podcast, Idit Sharoni, and Alina Gershonov visit:

www.iditsharoni.com

www.alinagershonov.com

Links mentioned in this episode: 

For more information about the book Not Just Friends by Dr. Shirley Glass

visit: https://www.shirleyglass.com/index.htm

See you at our next episode,

Idit & Alina 

In this intriguing podcast episode, the topic of love and betrayal takes center stage, prompting us to explore the complex dynamics that arise when the people we cherish deeply hurt us.

Idit Sharoni hosts her team of experts in order to shed a light on this topic. She begins with asking Alana Tokayer, a Marriage & Family Therapist and Program Specialist to describe what she notices with couples in the aftermath of infidelity grappling with this question. Alana sets the stage by highlighting the profound impact of betrayal when it comes from someone we consider our best friend, our everything.

As a therapist, Alana has witnessed couples grappling with the aftermath of infidelity, and the burning question always lingers: "How can someone who loves me betray me?" This inquiry lies at the heart of the episode, as it dives into the intricacies of understanding the coexistence of love and betrayal in modern relationships.

Alana is joined by a team of experts, including Yael Haklai-Neagu and Ana De la Cruz, both licensed Marriage & Family Therapists specializing in relationships and affair recovery. Together, they shed light on how partners can make sense of the painful dilemma caused by infidelity.

Throughout the episode, the team offers valuable insights and tips for coping with this conundrum, emphasizing the importance of questioning assumptions and challenging thought patterns that hinder healing. They discuss how love and betrayal can coexist, urging listeners to reconsider their perceptions of loyalty and love.

The episode concludes with three practical tips for healing after infidelity, shared by Alana, Ana, and Yael. These tips emphasize the significance of intentionality, open-mindedness, and reframing one's perspective to navigate the challenging journey of rebuilding trust and love after betrayal.

Listeners are left with a thought-provoking exploration of the complex interplay between love and betrayal in relationships. The episode encourages us to reevaluate our beliefs about loyalty, love, and the potential for healing and growth after experiencing infidelity. If you're seeking guidance on affair recovery or intrigued by the intricate dynamics of love and betrayal, this podcast episode promises valuable insights and a deeper understanding of these complex emotions.

Read the show notes 

Learn about our Infidelity recovery Program

Schedule a free 45-minute consultation

See our website

Feel like you don't even know what is going to make your relationship work anymore?

Let relationship expert Idit Sharoni give you a surprising strategie to help you get insight as to what can save your relationship, when everything seems like chaos. 

As promised in the episode, here's what you ask yourself:

“Suppose this episode is over, you go about your day, do whatever you planned to do for the rest of it. And then, some time in the evening, you get tired and go to sleep. And in the middle of the night, when you are sound asleep, a miracle happens and the problems in your relationship are solved just like that (snap). But since the miracle happened overnight you don’t know that the miracle has happened. When you wake up the next morning, how are you going to start discovering that the miracle happened? What would be the first thing that would tell you a miracle must’ve happened? What else are you going to notice during the day after you wake up?”

For more information about the podcast and Idit Sharoni visit:

www.iditsharoni.com

Do you hear from your spouse that they need to feel more loved? Do they tell you you're not making time for them, attending to them, or making them feel appreciated enough?

That is a very real issue for many modern relationships these days. So, how do you make your partner feel loved and cared for without jeopardising your individual needs? 

Listen to Miami's relationship expert Idit Sharoni giving you 5 tips on how to go from having a partner who feels uncared for to a relationship where both of you feel nurtured.

You may be surprised...

Links mentioned in this episode:

Episode 46: Date Night Will Not Solve Your Problems

TED Talk: The Secret to Desire in a Long-Term Relationship

Article: For a Better Marriage Act Like a Single Person

For more information about the podcast and Idit Sharoni visit:

www.iditsharoni.com

When you feel you're stuck because nothing is positively changing in your relationship, you get discouraged thinking you're in one of those change resistant relationships.

This episode is inspired by a couple that told me the following:"This is our last chance before divorce. We either change or we give up on this relationship. We’ve tried it all: talk about it, not talk about it, pray, be nice, be aggressive, you name it, we tried it. Nothing worked." 

I talk about why this couple has been so resistant to change so far, and what they (and you) can do differently. To help boost the change, I share the 2 most important components of change in relationships.

For more information about the podcast and Idit Sharoni visit:

www.iditsharoni.com

On this episode of Relationships Uncomplicated titled Things We Wish Couples With Parenting Issues Knew, Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni dishes out on the 4 vital pillars of parenting to follow through with even when you’re fighting and arguing with your spouse.

Together with Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov, they share a bit of your children's perspective and how they may view your relationship difficulties. 

You don't want to miss the valuable tips this episode is filled with, especially if you need some pointers on how to parent when you and your spouse are not on good terms due to trouble in your personal relationship.

To send us questions you'd like answered in a future podcast:

Please write your question in the following format and email idit@iditsharonicounseling.com or alina@alinagershonov.com:

1. Type of relationship (marriage, dating, etc.)
2. Length of relationship
3. Your story + your question to us
4. Remember, you will absolutely remain anonymous 

For more information about the podcast, Idit Sharoni, and   Alina Gershonov visit:

www.iditsharoni.com

www.alinagershonov.com

Being broken up with is one of the most devastating feelings. Whether it was expected or not, the heartache is just the same. You feel like your world has been turned upside down. 

Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov shares 6 steps you can begin implementing immediately to help you work through the pain.

Together with Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni, they discuss the 6 steps along with other recommendations. 

For more information about the podcast visit:

www.iditsharoni.com

On this episode of Relationships Uncomplicated, Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov shares three areas where most people feel stuck after they've healed from a breakup and begin dating again. 

This episode titled How To Attract The RIGHT Person After A Breakup will help you look deeper within if you're stuck in the dating world and are having trouble attracting quality potential partners.

Together with Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni, Alina reveals a takeaway tip to steer you closer to Going Forward and finding the one who is right for you.

Tune in to listen to expert knowledge and a new perspective that can assist you in making the changes in your life you yearn for.

Links mentioned in this episode: 

Book Recommendation- Deeper Dating: How to Drop the Games of Seduction and Discover the Power of Intimacy by Ken Page, LCSW

https://www.kenpagelcsw.com/deeper-dating-home/

To send us questions you'd like us to answer in a podcast:

Please write your question in the following form and email idit@iditsharonicounseling.com or alina@alinagershonov.com:

1. Type of relationship (marriage, dating, etc.)
2. Length of relationship
3. Your story + your question to us
4. Remember, you will absolutely remain anonymous 

For more information about the podcast, Idit Sharoni, and Alina Gershonov visit:

www.iditsharoni.com

www.alinagershonov.com

In the aftermath of infidelity, what does a hurt partner need most?

What comes to mind?

Most people, unfaithful partners, or even therapists routinely answer the same way: hurt partners need true remorse from the betrayer, to forgive, and to know why among other things. 

Of course, these are all true and important. Yet, the more fundamental and vital concern any betrayed partner needs to be addressed is for their pain to be heard. 

Relationship expert Idit Sharoni shares 6 tasks hurt and unfaithful partners can start implementing right now to facilitate hearing the pain. 

Episode Sponsor:

This episode is sponsored by Idit Sharoni's infidelity recovery and healing program: It's Okay To Stay.

‘It’s Okay to Stay’ is a complete 8-week coaching program that involves an online roadmap course and one-on-one work with an affair recovery specialist.

If you have faith in your relationship, if you want to stay together, and heal—

Idit is offering a 45-minute free consultation for couples who want to save their relationship after infidelity and need expert guidance. 

Schedule your free consultation today at www.iditsharoni.com/45  *Both partners have to be present for the consultation.

Episode Full Blog Post:

https://iditsharoni.com/what-hurt-partners-need-most-in-affair-recovery/

Links mentioned in this episode:

The Monogamy Myth.

Not Just Friends

Do you find that whenever you tell it like it is your partner takes it the wrong way? Does your partner get defensive whenever you tell them something is wrong?

On this episode of Relationships Uncomplicated, Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni challenges the need to be brutally hones with your partner. She also provides listeners with a recipe on how to say things in a way that has the potential to be heard and bring about a change. 

Tune in to learn from co-hosts Idit Sharoni and Alina Gershonov what they wish you knew to better your relationship. 

Links mentioned in this episode: 

Episode 19: Love Your Partner How THEY Want To Be Loved

To send us questions you'd like us to answer in a podcast:

Please write your question in the following form and email idit@iditsharonicounseling.com or alina@alinagershonov.com:

1. Type of relationship (marriage, dating, etc.)
2. Length of relationship
3. Your story + your question to us
4. Remember, you will absolutely remain anonymous 

For more information about the podcast, Idit Sharoni, and Alina Gershonov visit:

www.iditsharoni.com

www.alinagershonov.com

If you and your partner are navigating the challenging journey of affair recovery, understanding how to rebuild trust after infidelity is crucial. In this episode, we delve into the intricate process of earning back trust that has been lost in a relationship.

Join us as we explore the evolution of the concepts of blind trust versus open-eyed trust, drawing from experiences working with couples healing from infidelity. Our discussion takes a unique turn as we question the commonly used term "rebuilding trust" and introduce a more nuanced perspective inspired by an enlightening article by trust expert Rachel Botsman.

To shed light on this profound shift in perspective, we are joined by Dr. Yael Haklai-Neagu, one of our lead therapists at Relationship Experts. Together, we unravel the differences between rebuilding and earning trust in the aftermath of infidelity.

We draw insights from Botsman's groundbreaking ideas, emphasizing the importance of collaboration in the trust dynamic. Dr. Yael shares her thoughts on the critical roles of the Trust Giver (the hurt partner) and the Trust Receiver (the unfaithful partner) in the healing process.

The discussion extends to the obstacles that can hinder trust-building, such as entitlement and unyielding rejection. We explore the delicate balance required from both partners, acknowledging the collaborative effort needed for genuine healing.

Central to our conversation is the distinction between trust as a belief and trust as behavior. We explore actionable tips on how the unfaithful partner can act in trustworthy ways, including transparency, accountability, and consistency.

The episode concludes with practical do's and don'ts for couples seeking to earn trust after infidelity, emphasizing the importance of allowing trust to be earned and acting in consistent, intentional, and trustworthy ways.

Whether you're in the midst of affair recovery or seeking insights into trust dynamics, this episode provides valuable guidance on the journey to rebuilding and earning trust. Join us as we navigate the complexities of trust in the aftermath of infidelity and offer practical steps for couples looking to heal and move forward.

[Listen to the full episode on the podcast for a deeper exploration of trust dynamics and actionable tips for affair recovery, or read the full blog post.]

You may be surprised to find out the underlying reasons why you feel you want closure. Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov dives deep into the topic of closure on this episode of Relationships Uncomplicated

Alina challenges this common misconception that comes up for people post-breakup and also reveals the main reason why people feel they need closure. 

Together with Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni, they process what closure actually looks like at the end of a relationship and the pros/cons to even seeking it in the first place. 

Links mentioned in this episode: 

Episode 004: How To Heal After A Breakup 

Episode 022: The Difference Between Moving On & Healing 

To send us questions you'd like answered in a future podcast:

Please write your question in the following format and email idit@iditsharonicounseling.com or alina@alinagershonov.com:

1. Type of relationship (marriage, dating, etc.)
2. Length of relationship
3. Your story + your question to us
4. Remember, you will absolutely remain anonymous 

For more information about the podcast, Idit Sharoni, and Alina Gershonov visit:

www.iditsharoni.com

www.AlinaGershonov.com

On this episode of Relationships Uncomplicated, Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni enlightens us with a few truth bombs. She also shares the #1 predictor of divorce, based on decades of research conducted by the Gottman Institute. 

Together with Breakup Specialist, Alina Gershonov they explore this predictor of divorce, what it looks like in a relationship, where it stems from, and most importantly how it can be avoided.

This episode is packed with invaluable information to help your marriage improve immediately and for the long haul.

Links mentioned in this episode: 

Episode 021: Things We Wish Couples With Communication Issues Knew (Part 1) 

To send us questions you'd like answered in a future podcast:

Please write your question in the following format and email idit@iditsharonicounseling.com or alina@alinagershonov.com:

1. Type of relationship (marriage, dating, etc.)
2. Length of relationship
3. Your story + your question to us
4. Remember, you will absolutely remain anonymous 

For more information about the podcast, Idit Sharoni, and Alina Gershonov visit:

www.iditsharoni.com

www.AlinaGershonov.com

Has this ever happen to you where all you were looking for is support from your spouse and all you got was a cold shoulder? Does that happen more often than not?

Many couples go through this vicious cycle we call the pursuer distancer dynamic. It is when one partner (the pursuer) attempts to make a connection with his or her partner and is turned away by not getting the response hoped for. As a result, the pursuer continues attempting by making more gestures towards their partner usually more focused in getting their attention. This usually ends up with the pursued partner withdrawing even more and becoming the distancer making them look like they don't care. 

This vicious cycle leaves the pursuing partner feeling powerless and defeated, while the distancing partner feels upset and harassed. 

In this Episode called 'What To Do When Your Partner Doesn't Care' relationship expert Idit Sharoni lays down strategies for you to avoid these situations and move away from feeling not heard to being listened to and cared for in your relationship. 

Both hosts Idit Sharoni and Alina Gershonov make sure to get these strategies beyond just great advice. They make them easy to implement so you can start making the changes and feel heard in no time.

Resources:

For more information about the podcast, Idit Sharoni, and Alina Gershonov visit:

www.iditsharoni.com

www.alinagershonov.com

Links mentioned in this episode:

For more information about the RLT (Relational Life Therapy) founded by Terry Real please visit: https://www.terryreal.com

See you at our next episode,

Idit & Alina 

Have you recently gone through a breakup? Do you feel as though you're mourning a death? It may seem like the deep emotions you're feeling are going to last forever.

If so, then you are not alone. Many people can't see the light at the end of a tunnel after a breakup or a divorce. How can you see the light when what you're going through is grieving? Grieving a loss of a relationship is often compared with the same, if not more intense, feelings a person experiences when they lose a loved one. 

In this Episode called Why A Breakup Could Feel Worse Than A Death, Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov gives you 4 easy-to-apply tips to help you begin your healing journey. 

Together with Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni, both co-hosts offer insight to help you understand the nature of your attachment to your ex and 4 simple tips to get you going towards healing and letting go.

This valuable information will help you understand your obsessive thoughts, need for communication, and closure. 

Resources:

For more information about the podcast, Idit Sharoni, and Alina Gershonov visit:

www.iditsharoni.com

www.alinagershonov.com

Links mentioned in this episode:

Dr. Sue Johnson, founder of Emotionally Focused Therapy, explains attachment theory as it relates to romantic relationships:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q_8-TzfurEs 

See you at our next episode,

Idit & Alina 

🎙️ Welcome to Episode 82 of the Relationships Uncomplicated podcast! In this episode, titled "Overcoming Biases in Infidelity Recovery," host Idit Sharoni, LMFT delves into a topic that's often overlooked but profoundly impactful: the biases surrounding infidelity.

💔 Infidelity doesn't just shake the foundation of relationships—it's the aftermath, the fallout, and the biases that can color our perceptions and decisions. Join Idit as she explores this complex issue with therapist Alana Tokayer, MS, who brings a unique perspective gained from working closely with couples navigating the aftermath of infidelity.

🔍 Together, they uncover societal norms, personal experiences, and therapist biases that shape our understanding of infidelity and its aftermath. Discover why biases towards leaving or staying after infidelity exist, and learn valuable insights into advocating for yourself, whether with friends, family, or therapists, as you navigate the complexities of healing after betrayal.

🍵 Grab your favorite beverage, get comfy, and tune in to this enlightening conversation on bias in the aftermath of infidelity. Don't forget to subscribe to the Relationships Uncomplicated podcast for more insightful discussions on relationships and healing.

Important links:

• Infidelity Recovery Program: https://relationshipexpertsonline.com/affair-recovery-program
• Free 45-minute consultation: https://relationshipexpertsonline.com/consultation 
• Affair Recovery Website: https://relationshipexpertsonline.com
• Main website: www.relationshipexperts.com
• Show notes: https://relationshipexpertsonline.com/surviving-infidelity-overcoming-bias-in-the-aftermath

If you found today's episode valuable, consider leaving a like, comment, and subscribing to our channel for more content. Thank you for joining us on this journey of understanding and healing. #RelationshipsUncomplicated #InfidelityRecovery #SelfAdvocacy #BiasAwareness

Happy New Year and welcome back! On this episode of Relationships Uncomplicated, Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov discusses the common reasons why many people continue a sexual relationship with their ex. 

In addition, Alina reveals her top 5 reasons why you should stop having sex with your ex. Together with Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni, they encourage listeners to remember certain aspects of the relationship in an effort to encourage their listeners to think and react differently. 

You don't want to miss this episode!

Links mentioned in this episode: 

Episode 004: How To Heal After A Breakup

Episode 026: How To Stop Self-Sabotage For A Future Relationship

To send us questions you'd like answered in a future podcast:

Please write your question in the following format and email idit@iditsharonicounseling.com or alina@alinagershonov.com:

1. Type of relationship (marriage, dating, etc.)
2. Length of relationship
3. Your story + your question to us
4. Remember, you will absolutely remain anonymous 

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If you are human, you probably engaged in escalating a conflict by being defensive. In this episode, relationship expert Idit Sharoni shares what is defensiveness, how it looks inside a conversation, what it does, and how to avoid it.

You'll get tools and ideas on what you can do when you feel attacked by your partner. By the end of this episode you'll know to better react and diffuse the conflict. 

Links mentioned in this Episode:

Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse Video - The Gottman Institute

For more information about the podcast and Idit Sharoni visit:

www.iditsharoni.com

On this episode of Relationships Uncomplicated, Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov discusses common self-sabotage scenarios that arise in relationships. 

The examples mentioned are paired with the underlying reason behind the behaviors. She hopes to spread awareness to better individuals for themselves and their future partners.

Together with Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni, Alina shares possible reasons why self-sabotaging behaviors led to a breakup and what you can do differently in your next relationship.

Additionally download her Freebie below, a Guide to help identify self-sabotage to gain tools for a healthy future relationship. 

Links mentioned in this episode:

The Guide to Help Identify and Atop Relational Self- Sabotage

To send us questions you'd like answered in a future podcast:

Please write your question in the following format and email idit@iditsharonicounseling.com or alina@alinagershonov.com:

1. Type of relationship (marriage, dating, etc.)
2. Length of relationship
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4. Remember, you will absolutely remain anonymous 

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Have you felt like you and your partner are drifting apart? Does it seem like you're simply out of synch with each other? Maybe you're not getting the feeling that you're a team anymore.

If this is what you've been experiencing, then it is likely that you're at risk of other marital or relationship issues that are lurking in the corner waiting to surface.  

This episode called 'How To Stop Drifting Apart' is divided into 2 main parts for your convenience:

Part 1: A full description of how drifting apart looks like in couples and what is the usual path couples take that makes them end up there.

Part 2: 2 strategies to help you avoid future drifting apart, or fix an already drifted apart situation. The two strategies work together as a holistic approach to get you back in synch with your partner.

While relationship expert Idit Sharoni and breakup specialist Alina Gershonov have you look inside your relationship, they also get you to take a step back and see things from the outside in. This step-by-step approach will help you make changes on all aspects of your relationship that contribute to your unity as a committed couple.

Resources:

For more information about the podcast, Idit Sharoni, and Alina Gershonov visit:

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See you at our next episode,

Idit & Alina 

Idit Sharoni interviews Terry Real who is an internationally recognized family therapist, speaker, and author. He is the founder of the Relational Life Institute and wrote THE book on male depression.

Idit & Terry discuss relationships, individualism, couples therapy, and his newest book US: Getting Past You and Me to Build a More Loving Relationship where Terry reveals how individualism and patriarchy poison our most intimate relationships. 

This is part 1 of 2 parts. 

Link to show notes

Link to the book

Do you want to have a friendship with your ex? 

Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov asks thought-provoking questions to help you figure out the real reason why you still want to be friends. 

Together with Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni, they explore the differences between a true friendship and a casual, check-in friendship. 

On this episode of Relationships Uncomplicated, Alina & Idit guide you with important factors to consider internally such as emotional attachment, closure, and potential ulterior motives. 

You may find that your decision to be friends could change after listening to Idit & Alina's expert advice based on real client experiences. 

Links mentioned in this episode: 

Study mentioned: Griffith, R.L., Gillath, O., Zhao, X., & Martinez, R. (2017). Staying friends with an ex-romantic partner: Predictors and outcomes. Personal Relationships, advanced online publication.

Episode 4: How To Heal After a Breakup: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/relationships-uncomplicated/id1232273542?mt=2 

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Please write your question in the following form and email idit@iditsharonicounseling.com or alina@alinagershonov.com:

1. Type of relationship (marriage, dating, etc.)
2. Length of relationship
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4. Remember, you will absolutely remain anonymous 

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If you've recently gone through a breakup, then you may find relief in knowing that you are not the only one who feels like you're withdrawing from a drug. 

Believe it or not, the deep pain experienced after a split actually triggers the same part of the brain that is stimulated during drug addiction, according to a recent study at Stony Brook University. This makes sense, love is one of the most powerful addictions; if it's lost then the body enters a period of withdrawal. 

In this episode called Why Getting Over a Breakup Can Feel Like Drug Withdrawal, Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov and Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni explain what the physical process entails once the body's stress hormones have been released. 

In addition, the #1 tip for survival is shared to help you through this withdrawal period. You don't want to miss it!

Resources:

For more information about the podcast, Idit Sharoni, and Alina Gershonov visit:

www.iditsharoni.com

www.alinagershonov.com

Links mentioned in this episode:

Freebie: Detailed outline + helpful tips on how to ease the withdrawal period after a breakup + book recommendations here:  http://eepurl.com/cREGS9

See you at our next episode,

Idit & Alina 

Those of you in long-term romantic relationships may be feeling like something is off between you and your spouse, yet you can't quite pinpoint what's going on or how you even ended up at this point. 

Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni sheds light on this often brought up issue in couples therapy. Idit also introduces a theory and guide that's based on 40 years of research to help you learn what you can do to improve your relationship and make it work. 

Together with Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov, they discuss the key points to a strong relationship based on Dr. Gottman's Sound Relationship House Theory. 

You don't want to miss out on Idit's FREEBIE below, a full couple's evaluation based on the successfully proven and effective Gottman method!

Links mentioned in this episode:

Link to Idit's Freebie:

Full Couple's Evaluation Utilizing The Gottman Checkup

Link to the Sound Relationship House Theory: 

https://www.gottman.com/about/the-gottman-method/

To send us questions you'd like answered in a future podcast:

Please write your question in the following format and email idit@iditsharonicounseling.com or alina@alinagershonov.com:

1. Type of relationship (marriage, dating, etc.)
2. Length of relationship
3. Your story + your question to us
4. Remember, you will absolutely remain anonymous 

For more information about the podcast, Idit Sharoni, and Alina Gershonov visit:

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How many times have you heard the piece of advice that many people feel the need to share: "you and your spouse need to go out for date nights." Chances are you've heard or even told someone to do so.

Going out on date nights can be a great time, however they are not the solution to marriage problems. 

Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni shares 5 pointers on what you can begin doing now to have a healthier and happier long-term relationship/marriage.

Together with Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov, they explore topics such as unity, individuality, date nights, socializing, and much more!

Link to Article: click here 

Link to TED talk: click here 

To send us questions you'd like answered in a future podcast:

Please write your question in the following format and email idit@iditsharonicounseling.com or alina@alinagershonov.com:

1. Type of relationship (marriage, dating, etc.)
2. Length of relationship
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4. Remember, you will absolutely remain anonymous 

For more information about the podcast, Idit Sharoni, and Alina Gershonov visit:

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Have you said the following words to yourself recently? "We Need Help."

If so, then this episode of Relationships Uncomplicated, "Is It Time for Couples Counseling" is one you don't want to miss. 

Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni provides a roadmap for the process most couples go through when they are experiencing issues in their relationship. 

Did you know that the average couple waits 6.7 years to see a professional?

Idit Sharoni and Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov hope to change this number by providing essential information in this very episode.

They also share some helpful tips on how to find the right couples counselor for you!

 To send us questions you'd like us to answer in a podcast:

Please write your question in the following form and email idit@iditsharonicounseling.com or alina@alinagershonov.com:

1. Type of relationship (marriage, dating, etc.)
2. Length of relationship
3. Your story + your question to us
4. Remember, you will absolutely remain anonymous 

For more information about the podcast, Idit Sharoni, and Alina Gershonov visit:

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Have you recently asked yourself, "How did my relationship get to this point?"

If you are in a new relationship or in a committed relationship for a while and things are not going as well as you'd hoped they would in the beginning, then this episode of Relationships Uncomplicated could help you. 

Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov and Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni discuss the reasons Why We Overlook Red Flags in Relationships.

One message Idit & Alina really emphasize during this episode is that your instincts or intuition are rarely wrong. They discuss ways you can listen to it along with signs of red flags. 

If you want to find out if you are ignoring the red flags in your relationship, then take the free quiz below.

Links mentioned in this episode: 

Freebie: QUIZ: Am I Seeing The Red Flags In My Relationship?

Article mentioned: https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/prescriptions-life/201107/relationship-red-flags-are-you-ignoring-them

Episode 14: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/relationships-uncomplicated/id1232273542?mt=2 

To send us questions you'd like us to answer in a podcast:

Please write your question in the following form and email idit@iditsharonicounseling.com or alina@alinagershonov.com:

1. Type of relationship (marriage, dating, etc.)
2. Length of relationship
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4. Remember, you will absolutely remain anonymous 

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On this episode of Relationships Uncomplicated, Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni sheds light on common issues that couples are facing, compared with patterns from 10 and 20 years ago. 

Common distractions that are affecting couples in 2018 are social media and work/life balance. Stay tuned for more information on privacy, dating, monogamy, and so much more!

Together with Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov, they discuss their suggestions for maintaining a healthy relationship and surviving the new trends couples have to face. 

To send us questions you'd like answered in a future podcast:

Please write your question in the following format and email idit@iditsharonicounseling.com or alina@alinagershonov.com:

1. Type of relationship (marriage, dating, etc.)
2. Length of relationship
3. Your story + your question to us
4. Remember, you will absolutely remain anonymous 

For more information about the podcast, Idit Sharoni, and Alina Gershonov visit:

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If you're currently in the dating world, then you've likely heard of "being ghosted" or you have unfortunately experienced it yourself. 

As if ghosting isn't painful enough to deal with; icing, and simmering have plagued the dating scene even further.

Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni and Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov address these extremely hurtful and emotionally damaging ways to part in a dating relationship. Idit and Alina address the reasons why people resort to saying nothing out of fear of a confrontational conversation or ultimately hurting someone's feeling.

Also, learn just how frequently ghosting, icing, and simmering are used and the reasoning behind this non-existent form of communication. 

Get expert tips on how to deal with being ghosted, iced, or simmered and learn how to date mindfully. 

Resources:

To send us questions you'd like us to answer in a podcast:

Please write your question in the following form and email idit@iditsharonicounseling.com or alina@alinagershonov.com:

1. Type of relationship (marriage, dating, etc.)
2. Length of relationship
3. Your story + your question to us
4. Remember, you will absolutely remain anonymous 

For more information about the podcast, Idit Sharoni, and Alina Gershonov visit:

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www.alinagershonov.com

Links mentioned in this episode:

Esther Perel's blog about Relationship Accountability

Please send your questions in the above format to Idit at idit@iditsharoni.com and to Alina at alina@alinagershonov.com. We look forward to hearing from you! 

In this episode of the Relationships Uncomplicated podcast, host and affair recovery expert Idit Sharoni, LMFT delves into the intricate process of navigating healing when both partners have been unfaithful.

Titled "A Guide to Joint Recovery When Infidelity Strikes Both Ways," Idit explores the complexities of mutual infidelity, where betrayal isn't confined to one side. Drawing from her experience as an affair recovery expert, she shares insights on how couples can overcome this challenging situation and rebuild their relationship.

Through compassionate storytelling and practical advice, Idit highlights the unique opportunities for growth and healing that arise from shared experiences of betrayal. Join her as she empowers listeners to navigate the aftermath of mutual infidelity with resilience, empathy, and hope.

Ever wonder how to increase trust after infidelity has been revealed in a relationship?

In this episode of Relationships Uncomplicated, Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni reveals the first of many mistakes both partners make after their infidelity is revealed.

Together with Alina Gershonov, this series of episodes, "Staying After Infidelity," will present common mistakes both the hurt partner and the betrayed partner make, how to solve the problem, and, most importantly, how to increase trust.

The tips given during this episode are expert advice given from years of experience helping couples rebuild trust after infidelity and overwhelming emotions of betrayal have plagued a relationship.

Links mentioned in this episode: 

Freebie: Click to gain access to Step-by-step worksheet on how to increase trust and create a plan to part ways with your affair partner. 

Freebie: Click to ask for access to Idit's Closed Facebook Group: It's Okay To Stay

Book mentioned: Not Just Friends by Shirley Glass

For more information about the podcast visit www.iditsharoni.com

Today, I want to talk about who can heal your pain after infidelity. You’ll learn who really can help heal the pain, who doesn’t have the power to help, and what you can do if you’re stuck feeling unable to move past the hurt.

I dive into the topic by telling you about a contact that I recently received from a spouse who had been cheated on and wanted to be seen individually. There was nothing alarming about this at first, but the person then shared something troubling: a therapist had told this person that seeking individual help to overcome the pain was needed before the couple could healthily recover together.

The first issue that I have with this is that sending one partner off to seek help alone is very difficult. I talk about how it takes so much courage to trust anyone after infidelity and that isolating sends a bad message to the hurt partner. 

The second issue I have is that many therapists have the assumption that the pain after infidelity is individual and, therefore, the hurting individual is capable of fixing it. You must remember that forgiveness is a journey that both sides need to go on and that it needs to be earned.

The third issue I have is the sense that hurt partners who are not ready to forgive are considered unable to surrender to the process. I provide my opinion that surrender should not be expected because the situation that the couple has found themselves in is not a war. 

Therapy is not a body shop where you check your problematic spouse in to get fixed. The betraying partner needs to understand that they are the person who will help the healing.

Links mentioned in this episode: 

It's Okay to Stay - Idit's Online Course Waitlist

Idit’s It’s Okay to Stay Facebook group

 Book: How Can I Forgive You / by Janis Abrahms Spring, PhD

For more information about the podcast and Idit Sharoni visit:

www.iditsharoni.com

Are you wondering if you're healing at a normal pace? Well, in this episode I will not be telling you how long you and your spouse "should" be taking to heal. Instead, I’ll provide you with tools to make an educated estimate based on important variables. 

Links mentioned in this episode:

Infidelity Recovery Program consultation

It's Okay To Stay recovery program

Program reviews & testimonials

Ever wonder if you're spending too much time with your significant other?

On this episode of Relationships Uncomplicated, Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni and Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov address a question they received from one of their podcast listeners. 

Idit and Alina offer their different perspectives on this topic along with valuable indicators and advice on time spent together in a relationship, in addition to healthy ways of separating work life and home life. 

Don't miss out on Alina's freebie below: 10 Warning Signs of A Toxic Relationship.

We welcome your questions! See details below. 

Links mentioned in this episode: 

Freebie mentioned: 10 Warning Signs of A Toxic Relationship (click here)

Episode 4: How To Heal After a Breakup & Episode 3: How To Listen & Be Heard: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/relationships-uncomplicated/id1232273542?mt=2 

To send us questions you'd like us to answer in a podcast:

Please write your question in the following form and email idit@iditsharonicounseling.com or alina@alinagershonov.com:

1. Type of relationship (marriage, dating, etc.)
2. Length of relationship
3. Your story + your question to us
4. Remember, you will absolutely remain anonymous 

For more information about the podcast, Idit Sharoni, and Alina Gershonov visit:

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Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni and Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov give you a sneak peek into the therapy room.

Idit answers the most common question every couples therapist receives. Do you know what it is?

On this episode of Relationships Uncomplicated titled Signs Your Partner May Not Be That Into Your Relationship, Relationships Expert Idit Sharoni reveals the 9 signs to help you assess if this may be happening in your current relationship. 

Stay Tuned: you don't want to miss expert tips on what you can do if you realize your partner is not that into your relationship. 

Links mentioned in this episode: 

Episode #021: Things We Wish Couples With Communication Issues Knew (Part 1)

To send us questions you'd like us to answer in a podcast:

Please write your question in the following form and email idit@iditsharonicounseling.com or alina@alinagershonov.com:

1. Type of relationship (marriage, dating, etc.)
2. Length of relationship
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4. Remember, you will absolutely remain anonymous 

For more information about the podcast, Idit Sharoni, and Alina Gershonov visit:

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We are very excited and thankful to interview psychotherapist and hypnotherapist Douglas Flemons, Ph.D., LMFT. Both Yael (my co-host for this episode) and I, having had the opportunity to learn from him in different capacities, greatly appreciated Dr. Flemons’s willingness to meet with us and share his valuable message.

We discuss hypnotherapy, what it is, how it helps our clients, and how change can happen effortlessly.

Click here for the show notes

Links mentioned in this episode:

The Heart and Mind of Hypnotherapy: Inviting Connection, Inventing Change - Dr. Flemons recent book

Infidelity Recovery Free 45-min Consultation

Are you hurting badly now and wondering whether infidelity pain will ever go away? Are you concerned about what life will be like after you heal?

This is not unusual. This, or some form of this line of thinking, is a concern both hurt and unfaithful partners share. This is particularly true for couples who are trying to heal and go back to normal. 

Even that very word, “normal,” can be triggering. So many questions and concerns come up for couples and to help get some answers, I talked things through with a guest therapist.

Tune into this episode to learn tips to better handle the aftermath of the aftermath of infidelity.

You are also invited to learn more about our infidelity recovery coaching program. If you like what you read, schedule a 45-minute free consultation to see if it would be the best fit to enhance your healing process. 

Links mentioned in this episode:

45-minute Infidelity Recovery Coaching Program Consultation

Yael Haklai-Neagu, LMFT - senior couples therapist at Idit Sharoni - Relationship Experts

Episode #68: How to Recover From Infidelity PTSD

State of Affairs - book by Esther Perel

On this Episode of Relationships Uncomplicated, Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov shares a unique and steadfast way to answer any question your child may have about your divorce. 

Alina also shares the common emotions most children feel when they find out about your divorce. Together with Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni they also discuss how to address your children age appropriately. 

In addition to addressing some common questions, Alina and Idit share examples aloud and explain how to affirm and address what your child is feeling and what they are concerned with. 

Links mentioned in this episode: 

Episode 28: How To have The Divorce Talk With Your Kids

To send us questions you'd like answered in a future podcast:

Please write your question in the following format and email idit@iditsharonicounseling.com or alina@alinagershonov.com:

1. Type of relationship (marriage, dating, etc.)
2. Length of relationship
3. Your story + your question to us
4. Remember, you will absolutely remain anonymous 

For more information about the podcast, Idit Sharoni, and   Alina Gershonov visit:

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Are you struggling to heal after an affair when your partner isn’t fully remorseful? Join us for this eye-opening episode of "Relationships Uncomplicated," where host Idit Sharoni, LMFT, along with experts Dr. Yael Haklai-Neagu and Ana De la Cruz, delves into whether couples can recover from infidelity without genuine remorse from the unfaithful partner. Can a relationship truly heal under these conditions? Tune in to find out!

In this episode, we discuss:

• The crucial role of remorse in the healing process
• Strategies for dealing with partial or absent remorse
• Real-life examples and metaphors that illustrate the complexities of infidelity and remorse
• How to create a roadmap to healing even in challenging situations

Don't miss this engaging and insightful conversation that could transform your understanding of infidelity recovery.

Ready to take the next step? Check out our Infidelity Recovery Program: https://relationshipexpertsonline.com/affair-recovery-program

Consider scheduling a 45-minute transformative consultation: https://relationshipexpertsonline.com/consultation

Read the show notes in a blog: https://relationshipexpertsonline.com/can-trust-be-rebuilt-after-infidelity-without-full-remorse/

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On this episode of Relationships uncomplicated, Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni and Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov interview their first expert guest!

Yael Haklai-Neagu is a therapist who specializes in working with individuals and couples who are affected by any type of relocation. She shares where her passion for working with couples who are relocating came about.

Yael also sheds light on the common issues couples face along with many of the personal challenges couples and individuals face and how those changes impact the relationship overall.

Links mentioned in this episode: 

Meetup.com

Yael's website 

Yael's Facebook page

To send us questions you'd like answered in a future podcast:

Please write your question in the following format and email idit@iditsharonicounseling.com or alina@alinagershonov.com:

1. Type of relationship (marriage, dating, etc.)
2. Length of relationship
3. Your story + your question to us
4. Remember, you will absolutely remain anonymous 

For more information about the podcast, Idit Sharoni, and Alina Gershonov visit:

www.iditsharoni.com

www.AlinaGershonov.com

Have you recently gone through a breakup? If so, chances are you went from feeling a sense of relief all the way to experiencing painful moments that usually come in waves.

Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov has come up with 5 techniques you can start applying today. In addition, she offers a tool to keep you afloat when you feel hopeless. 

Alina and Idit will share with you a full Game Plan for individuals who are in their first steps towards healing after a breakup. Check out the game plan and the tools in this episode to start feeling better.

Resources:

For more information about the podcast, Idit Sharoni, and Alina Gershonov visit:

www.iditsharoni.com

www.alinagershonov.com

Links mentioned in this episode:

Free online journaling tool - www.penzu.com

Paid online journaling tool - www.mytherapyjournal.com

Mindfulness for beginners - https://www.mindful.org/meditation/mindfulness-getting-started/

See you at our next episode,

Idit & Alina 

Ever feel like getting through to your partner is too complicated? You don't feel heard and your partner has no clue how to make it better. You end up almost every time exactly where you started or even worse. 

Relationship expert Idit Sharoni along with co-host and breakup specialist Alina Gershonov Un-complicate communication rules for you. This episode is all about being an awesome listener and a great speaker in conversations with your significant other. You will find 8 easy-to-apply communication tools that will improve the next time you communicate with your partner. 

Resources:

For more information about the podcast, Idit Sharoni, and Alina Gershonov visit:

www.iditsharoni.com

www.alinagershonov.com

For more information about The Gottman Institute mentioned in the episode please visit:

www.gottman.com

See you at our next episode,

Idit & Alina

I recently met with Dr. Marie Murphy on her podcast, Your Secret is Safe With Me to discuss how an affair recovery program can help couples in the aftermath of infidelity. We also shared about how unfaithful partners can get help ending affairs or making decisions on how to proceed with an ongoing affair. 

Dr. Marie and myself discuss the most difficult shame ridden topics that most do not even try to understand about infidelity and betrayal. We look at the multidimensionality of relationships and the healing after infidelity.

You finally decided to go to couples counseling, but now you have to find a good therapist.

You Google couples counseling in your area and you start making some calls. How do you know which one is the right therapist for your relationship? Do you determine by price, availability, location? Or are there more criteria you should look for and ask your prospective therapist about?

Answers to these questions and the actual 5 questions you should ask are all in this episode presented by your host - relationship expert Idit Sharoni.

For more information about the podcast and Idit Sharoni visit:

www.iditsharoni.com

Are you in communication with your ex with the hope of getting back together? If so, then this episode will help you identify if it's a good idea or not. 

On this episode of Relationships Uncomplicated, Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov shares examples of when getting back together is a healthy thought and conversation to have, and times where it really should not even be considered as a possibility.

Together with Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni, they discuss what healthy signs are as well as what unhealthy signs of communication look like. 

Links mentioned in this episode:

Episode 002: 5 Warning Signs You're In A Toxic Relationship 

To send us questions you'd like answered in a future podcast:

Please write your question in the following format and email idit@iditsharonicounseling.com or alina@alinagershonov.com:

1. Type of relationship (marriage, dating, etc.)
2. Length of relationship
3. Your story + your question to us
4. Remember, you will absolutely remain anonymous 

For more information about the podcast, Idit Sharoni, and Alina Gershonov visit:

www.iditsharoni.com

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Why some couples seem to recover after infidelity while others can't?Miami relationship expert Idit Sharoni walks you through the 3 main components that block the healing process after learning about your partner's cheating.

Idit offers an extensive explanation that includes a roadmap to healing where she shares the 3-Phase road to healing in the aftermath of infidelity. 

Links mentioned in the episode:

Click to join Idit's FB Group - It's Okay To Stay

Episode 012

Episode 044

Episode 39

Recommended book: After The Affair by Janis Abrahms Spring

For more information about the podcast and Idit Sharoni visit:

www.iditsharoni.com

Have you been going through a difficult time in your relationship? A lot of couples report that constant arguments and fights are the main cause for relationship despair. What happens as a result is finding yourself wondering if this relationship has what it takes to heal and if it is worth saving. 

Idit Sharoni, a relationship expert and practicing couples therapist, along with her co-host, breakup specialist Alina Gershonov share with you the signs they look for in therapy and signs you can see for yourself when your relationship is worth saving.

BONUS: In this episode, Idit will share a bonus for the listeners. You can click here to get Idit's special complete Couples Guide: "7 Signs Your Relationship is Worth Saving" or go to www.iditsharoni.com/001 and get it there. 

For more information about the podcast, Idit Sharoni, and Alina Gershonov visit:

www.iditsharoni.com

www.alinagershonov.com

For more information about The Gottman Institute mentioned in the episode please visit:

www.gottman.com

See you at our next episode,

Idit & Alina

On this episode of Relationships Uncomplicated, Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov discusses the new normal when it comes to dating and that is dating multiple people at once. 

Inspired by an email from on of our listeners, together with Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni, they discuss the do's and dont's as far as early on dating as well as dating after a breakup. 

Alina shares 5 essential tips you'd want to keep in mind to avoid potentially hurting yourself and someone else. 

For more information about the podcast visit:

www.iditsharoni.com

Do you feel like your happiness is in your partner's hands?

Do you constantly go back and forth in your mind about whether you want to stay or not? 

Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov sheds light on why so many people fear leaving a relationship that’s miserable and how more fear of not finding someone or something better perpetuates your unhappiness.

Together with Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni, they explore some common factors that people in this position bring up.

In addition, Alina and Idit offer useful suggestions on how to create change in your relationship and fill you in on a therapeutic secret!

To send us questions you'd like us to answer in a podcast:

Please write your question in the following form and email idit@iditsharonicounseling.com or alina@alinagershonov.com:

1. Type of relationship (marriage, dating, etc.)
2. Length of relationship
3. Your story + your question to us
4. Remember, you will absolutely remain anonymous 

For more information about the podcast, Idit Sharoni, and Alina Gershonov visit:

www.iditsharoni.com

www.alinagershonov.com

If you are trying to piece back your relationship after it's been shattered by an affair, then this episode of Relationships Uncomplicated will be of help to you. 

This episode, called Staying After Infidelity - Mistake #2, addresses the second mistake couples make while trying to heal after infidelity.

Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni provides a breakdown of questions to avoid and questions she recommends asking when confronting your partner.

Together with Alina Gershonov, they explore possible conversation scenarios, their benefits, and potential detriments to the relationship.

Idit's Freebie is a worksheet guideline on accessing your partner's inner world- a necessary step towards rebuilding broken trust and healing your relationship. 

Links mentioned in this episode: 

Freebie: Staying After Infidelity: Mistake # 2 Worksheet Download

Access to Idit's private Facebook group: It's Okay To Stay

Episode 12: Staying After Infidelity - Mistake #1 

For more information about the podcast, visit www.iditsharoni.com

On this Episode of Relationships Uncomplicated, Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni explains key factors in order to build trust back into your relationship after an affair. 

If you feel like you will never be able to trust your partner the same way, then you are not alone. Idit reveals the difference between blind trust and open-eyed trust. 

Together with Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov, they address a question from one of their listeners and use it to point out several tips on how to rebuild trust with your betraying partner.

Links mentioned in this episode:

Book Recommendation: The State Of Affairs, by Esther Perel

Episode 008: Am I Crazy to Stay After My Partner Cheated

Episode 001: Is Your Relationship Worth Saving? 

For more information about the podcast visit:

www.iditsharoni.com

A couple wanted to know if as a marriage therapist Idit believed they could change after 20 years of marriage. 

Her answer was not what you might expect, but it was positive. In this episode relationship expert Idit Sharoni will tell you what it takes to make changes in long term relationships of 10 years and up. 

And it not only hard work...

For more information about the podcast and Idit Sharoni visit:

www.iditsharoni.com

On this episode of Relationships Uncomplicated, Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni explores if the common saying "the truth will set you free" applies to finding out the whole truth about your partner's infidelity. 

You will learn what to ask and what not to ask in order to bring you and your partner closer to healing. Also, find out which truth-seeking questions are appropriate for facilitating healing and which ones are not. 

Together with breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov, they discuss questions that address love, sex, commitment, desire, loyalty, loss and many more. 

Links mentioned in this episode: 

Episode 016: Staying After Infidelity- Mistake #2

To send us questions you'd like answered in a future podcast:

Please write your question in the following format and email idit@iditsharonicounseling.com or alina@alinagershonov.com:

1. Type of relationship (marriage, dating, etc.)
2. Length of relationship
3. Your story + your question to us
4. Remember, you will absolutely remain anonymous 

For more information about the podcast, Idit Sharoni, and Alina Gershonov visit:

www.iditsharoni.com

www.AlinaGershonov.com

On this episode of Relationships Uncomplicated, Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov offers a refreshing and different perspective on staying together for the sake of your children.

What kind of relationships do you want your children to have in the future? This very question is what sparked Alina's interest in offering a new perspective. She also shares suggestions on how to stay if you want to work on your relationship. 

Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni offers her perspective based on counseling couples on this subject matter. 

To send us questions you'd like answered in a future podcast:

Please write your question in the following format and email idit@iditsharonicounseling.com or alina@alinagershonov.com:

1. Type of relationship (marriage, dating, etc.)
2. Length of relationship
3. Your story + your question to us
4. Remember, you will absolutely remain anonymous 

For more information about the podcast, Idit Sharoni, and Alina Gershonov visit:

www.iditsharoni.com

www.AlinaGershonov.com

One of the most common yet difficult issues hurt partners experience in the aftermath of infidelity is post trauma symptoms or PTSD.

I interview relationship expert Yael Haklai-Neagu, LMFT who specializes in helping hurt partners handle their intrusive thoughts and Hypervigilance as a result of their partner's affair or betrayal. 

As a certified hypnotherapist, Yael shares tips and ideas about how you can utilize hypnotherapy to recover.

This Episode is Brought to you by It's Okay To Stay Program  - A Roadmap to Healing After Infidelity by Idit Sharoni, LMFT

Links Mentioned in this episode:

Yael Haklai-Neagu's Webpage - Yael is an expert team member at Idit Sharoni - Relationship Experts, a private practice offering marriage counseling, couples therapy, and affair recovery programs. 

In this eye-opening episode, Idit Sharoni, licensed marriage and family therapist specializing in affair recovery, dives into one of the most common mistakes couples make after infidelity: postponing the healing process.

It’s easy to fall into the trap of thinking that time alone will heal the wounds of betrayal, but the truth is, avoiding the hard work of healing can leave lasting scars on your relationship. From lingering pain and resentment to recurring trust issues, skipping this crucial step can silently erode your connection over time.

In this episode, Idit explores why healing after infidelity is non-negotiable, the hidden costs of avoidance, and how to take meaningful steps toward rebuilding trust and intimacy. Whether you’re in the early stages of recovery or feeling stuck in a “good enough” relationship, this episode offers hope, clarity, and actionable advice to help you move forward.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• What the “stabilization trap” is and how it can keep couples stuck after infidelity.
• The long-term risks of postponing healing, including unresolved pain, resentment, and recurring infidelity.
• Why time alone doesn’t heal wounds—intentional effort does.
• How to rebuild trust and connection through open communication and shared goals.
• Actionable steps to start the healing process and prevent future issues.
• Common fears about healing after infidelity and how to overcome them.

Who This Episode is For:

• Couples who’ve chosen to stay together after infidelity but feel stuck in their healing journey.
• Hurt partners struggling with lingering pain or trust issues.
• Unfaithful partners looking to understand how to rebuild trust and connection.
• Anyone curious about the process of affair recovery and how to create a stronger, healthier relationship.

Key Takeaways:

• Time doesn’t heal all wounds—effort does. Healing requires intentional action and commitment from both partners.
• Avoiding healing has hidden costs. Lingering pain, resentment, and a lack of trust can quietly damage your relationship over time.
• Rebuilding trust is possible. Open communication, emotional processing, and a shared vision for the future are key to creating a stronger relationship.

Resources and Links:

• Ready to take the next step? Check out my affair recovery program, It’s Okay to Stay and book a free consultation. Check it here: Affair Recovery Program
• Missed Episode 80: “How to Rebuild Trust After Infidelity”? Listen here: Episode 80
• Curious about Episode 78: “Can Conventional Couples Therapy Help you Heal from Infidelity”? Catch up here: Episode 78
• Read this show's blog post Read it here

Tackling a big relationship issue that has the potential to end it? You know you need an expert to help you, but how do you get the best of the best to work with you?

This episode is mind shifting because it will change your understanding about how to get help from professionals you normally can't afford or can't reach. 

The world of service is totally changing, and with it the world of couples counseling. Gone are the days where experts were out of reach, too expensive, or too far. Tune in to find out how you - yes you - can get an expert to help your relationship. 

Links mentioned:

Rekindling Desire (Esther Perel)

The Art and Science of Love (The Gottman Institute)

It’s Okay to Stay (Idit Sharoni)

Infidelity Recovery Free Masterclass:

Forgiving & Forgetting is NOT the Key to Healing After Infidelity

Contact: idit@iditsharoni.com

Welcome to the Relationships Uncomplicated podcast! Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni & Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov are sharing everything you want to know about Relationships.

In this episode Idit and Alina who are both practicing Licensed Marriage & Family Therapists in Miami, FL introduce the podcast and themselves. They discuss who this podcast is for and why you should listen to it.

Idit and Alina's mission is to untangle the knot of complicated relationships, demystify common beliefs about it, and make your life a whole lot easier so you can listen and apply immediately.

So what exactly do they mean by making your life easier? When it has to do with relationships, or marriages, they're going to break it down for you and offer uncomplicated strategies, tips and ideas about changing communication patterns, enhancing intimacy, and building trust.

If you’re in a toxic relationships and struggling or if you're considering divorce or separation, they’ve got you covered as well. They will offer advice to help you decide if this relationship is right for you and will also discuss how to heal after a breakup.

Listen to this episode to learn more about Idit and Alina and see if this can be your weekly time for enhancing your relationship and your life.

For more informations about Idit & Alina please visit:

www.iditsharoni.com/about

http://alinagershonov.com/meet-alina

See you at our next episode,

Idit & Alina

On this episode of Relationships Uncomplicated, Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov shares the necessary steps to take to recover from a codependent and unhealthy relationship.

Alina shares 5 tips you can begin to implement right now. Together with Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni, they discuss the importance of self-esteem and how to build it. 

To send us questions you'd like answered in a future podcast:

Please write your question in the following format and email idit@iditsharonicounseling.com or alina@alinagershonov.com:

1. Type of relationship (marriage, dating, etc.)
2. Length of relationship
3. Your story + your question to us
4. Remember, you will absolutely remain anonymous 

For more information about the podcast, Idit Sharoni, and Alina Gershonov visit:

www.iditsharoni.com

www.AlinaGershonov.com

Have you tried everything you can to heal after a breakup but still feel as though you haven't been able to? Chances are you have been trying to get over your ex/move on instead of putting in the work to heal your heart. 

On this episode of Relationships Uncomplicated titled The Difference Between Moving On And Healing, Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov shares her professional insight on what it feels like when you are ready to heal. 

Together with Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni, this episode addresses the necessary mindset shift in order to truly heal. Alina also reveals the biggest downside to getting over someone. Hint: it affects your future relationship. 

Links mentioned in this episode: 

Episode 4: How To Heal After A Breakup 

To send us questions you'd like us to answer in a podcast:

Please write your question in the following form and email idit@iditsharonicounseling.com or alina@alinagershonov.com:

1. Type of relationship (marriage, dating, etc.)
2. Length of relationship
3. Your story + your question to us
4. Remember, you will absolutely remain anonymous 

For more information about the podcast, Idit Sharoni, and Alina Gershonov visit:

www.iditsharoni.com

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How does handling money as a couple influences your relationship, and what can you do to avoid having it kill your marriage? 

Miami relationship expert Idit Sharoni walks you through:

• The different models of handling finances as a couple.
• The different notions behind each model and how they influence the relationship.
• The place all of this can be stemming from.
• What you can do now to make a change (even if you're already having issues with handling money as a couple).

For more information about the podcast and Idit Sharoni visit:

www.iditsharoni.com

Have you wondered whether conventional couples therapy can help you heal from infidelity? Is it effective for infidelity recovery?

Do you want helpful options in the aftermath of infidelity or an affair recovery?

You aren’t alone. Unfortunately, there isn’t much information out there to truly educate struggling couples. Though it seems that conventional or traditional couples therapy is the only way to go, there are more options to explore. Let’s discuss your infidelity recovery choices here in this episode.

Important links:

Infidelity Recovery Program

Schedule a free Consult

On this episode of Relationships Uncomplicated, Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov explains what it feels like to be in a codependent relationship. Sometimes people are unaware they are in one, however know something is not right in the relationship. 

Learn what "stereotypical codependents" experience while in the relationship as well as common stereotypes of their partners. 

Together with Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni, they discuss hope and the many opportunities for codependent recovery as well as resources that are available both online and in-person across the country. 

Links mentioned in this episode: 

Codependents Anonymous

Codependent No More by Melody Beattie

To send us questions you'd like answered in a future podcast:

Please write your question in the following format and email idit@iditsharonicounseling.com or alina@alinagershonov.com:

1. Type of relationship (marriage, dating, etc.)
2. Length of relationship
3. Your story + your question to us
4. Remember, you will absolutely remain anonymous 

For more information about the podcast, Idit Sharoni, and Alina Gershonov visit:

www.iditsharoni.com

www.AlinaGershonov.com

We're deep into creation mode, and a a result my team and myself are taking a short break. We will be back with more great episodes filled with relationship tips and ideas on January 21st, 2019. 

Until then, have a happy holiday season and a wonderful New Year!

Don't forget to check back in with us Monday, January 21st, 2019.

You don’t want to miss this article. In fact, I can’t believe we haven’t talked about this  before. Why? Because this topic is too important to skip. What I’m about to share with you has a way of hiding in the shadows of too many relationships…

First, you probably know that infidelity happens for all kinds of reasons. Sometimes it has to do with the relationship, sometimes it doesn’t. Sometimes it’s a combination of both. What you might not know is that, in the majority of cases, there is a “silent killer” lurking between partners for months, even years before infidelity ever happens. 

It’s called conflict avoidance.

How does something this destructive go undetected? Because it feels natural, even good at times. Yet, it has the power to gradually and quietly disconnect partners completely.

Fortunately, your relationship is not at the unavoidable mercy of this hidden relationship problem. I’m here to help you understand what conflict avoidance is, what it does, and how you can stop it. 

Listen to this episode to learn more.

Click to take our Conflict Avoidance Self Check

Visit the podcast show notes page.

Idit Sharoni interviews Terry Real who is an internationally recognized family therapist, speaker, and author. He is the founder of the Relational Life Institute and wrote THE book on male depression.

Idit & Terry discuss therapy in the aftermath of infidelity and his newest book US: Getting Past You and Me to Build a More Loving Relationship where Terry reveals how individualism and patriarchy poison our most intimate relationships. 

This is part 2 of 2 parts. 

Link to show notes

Link to the book

Have guilt or shame stopped you from being able to make your relationship work after infidelity? Has guilt made you more defensive than helpful or remorseful? Or, has shame made you more confused about whether to stay or leave your cheating spouse?

These are all negative outcomes of guilt, blame or shame that occur in the aftermath of infidelity. BUT, there id a positive side to guilt that actually helps the healing process. 

Listen in and find out more about this from Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni.

For more information about the podcast and Idit Sharoni visit:

www.iditsharoni.com

In this episode relationship expert Idit Sharoni discusses the symptoms of infidelity PTSD including intrusive thoughts and how to help your hurt partner get past the triggers. She also shares about whether it is even possible to help a hurt partner with this and the do’s and don’ts around that. 

On this episode of Relationships uncomplicated, Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov shares the upside to putting off the pivotal divorce talk with your family. 

How To Have The Divorce Talk With Your Kids, Alina offers insight into your children's perspective when it comes to how they may take the big news.

Together with Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni, they explore possible conversation topics along with expert advice on what to leave out of the conversation. 

Alina also shares a few pointers on what to do as well as what not to do, if you should speak to all of your children at one, and if you should speak to your children with your soon-to-be-ex together or apart.

Links mentioned in this episode:

M. Gary Neuman's book: Helping Your Kids Cope With Divorce

To send us questions you'd like answered in a future podcast:

Please write your question in the following format and email idit@iditsharonicounseling.com or alina@alinagershonov.com:

1. Type of relationship (marriage, dating, etc.)
2. Length of relationship
3. Your story + your question to us
4. Remember, you will absolutely remain anonymous 

For more information about the podcast, Idit Sharoni, and Alina Gershonov visit:

www.iditsharoni.com

www.alinagershonov.com

Do you ever feel like you're trying so hard to show your partner you care, but they just aren't seeing the effort you're putting in? 

On this episode of Relationships Uncomplicated, Relationship Expert Idit Sharoni explains how these common arguments appear in relationships. 

Together with Breakup Specialist Alina Gershonov, they share the basic assumption that causes most of the relationship distress discussed in this episode; both partners expect each other to be mind readers. 

Idit reveals easy-to-impliment argument de-escalating tips you can begin using immediately. These practical tips allow space to have a different, more productive and healing kind of conversation.

The goal of this relationship help episode is to create understanding, effective communication, and gain clarity.

Links mentioned in this episode: 

The Five Love Languages by Dr. Gary Chapman

www.5lovelanguages.com 

To send us questions you'd like us to answer in a podcast:

Please write your question in the following form and email idit@iditsharonicounseling.com or alina@alinagershonov.com:

1. Type of relationship (marriage, dating, etc.)
2. Length of relationship
3. Your story + your question to us
4. Remember, you will absolutely remain anonymous 

For more information about the podcast, Idit Sharoni, and Alina Gershonov visit:

www.iditsharoni.com

www.alinagershonov.com

Betrayed partners are exposed to a great amount of uncertainty when they learn their spouse has been unfaithful. One of the things they often hear is "Once a cheater always a cheater". Is this ture?

Listen to Miami's relationship expert Idit Sharoni expressing her thoughts and ideas about the old saying based on her experience working with coupes in the aftermath of infidelity. 

FREEBIE: Download the "5 Ways to Know if You’re Dealing w/ Always a Cheater" guide Idit created to especially for this episode listeners. Simply click the link below. 

Links mentioned in this episode:

FREEBIE: 5 Ways to Know if You’re Dealing w/ Always a Cheater

Idit’s FB Group: It’s Okay To Stay - Healing After Infidelity

Where Should We Begin Podcast Season 2 ep. 7

For more information about the podcast and Idit Sharoni visit:

www.iditsharoni.com