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02 Feb 2021129. Rebuilding Trust In Your Relationship After Betrayal00:53:33

Safety, trust, and vulnerability. These are some of the pillars of long-term relationships. That is why infidelity could inflict a deep wound within us - for betrayal stands at the opposite end of what relationships stand for: open-heartedness, transparency, and communication. Licensed marriage & family therapist Jennifer Lehr is the founder and owner of WeConcile, through which she helps couples heal from pain and reconnect in their relationships. She stresses that infidelity is such a powerful force that it completely changes a relationship - but through work, transparency, and the willingness to own up to vulnerabilities, couples may be able to reconcile and begin their relationship anew.

In this episode, Jennifer and I explore the different aspects of betrayal in relationships. We highlight the difference between privacy and secrecy and explain how the latter can become destructive to a relationship. We discuss whether the cheated person should ask detailed questions about an affair. We also underscore the role of transparency and vulnerability in healing and reconciliation after a betrayal and emphasize the importance of supporting each other’s growth in a relationship.

 

“Infidelity is a tsunami - it completely changes the landscape of a relationship. Rebuilding is a definite process that involves responsibility and remorse, and transparency.” - Jennifer Lehr

 

This week on Relationships! Let’s Talk About It:

  • The slippery slope of emotional infidelity
  • The many forms of betrayal
  • Creating safety and trust in long-term relationships
  • Taking ownership of infidelity and how defensiveness makes betrayal challenging to heal
  • The difference between privacy versus secrecy and their relationship to trust
  • The importance of cultivating reliability
  • The need for transparency after infidelity
  • Why it takes so long to rebuild trust after a betrayal
  • Grieving and mourning a relationship after an affair
  • Working through patterns and histories of cheating
  • Being a grown-up and aligning with our integrity
  • How secrecy can be a form of control and manipulation
  • Jennifer’s philosophy of reconciliation and rebuilding trust after infidelity
  • Accepting remorse and how it’s different from forgiveness
  • Influencing the precipitating factors of infidelity
  • The role of a couple’s therapist in rebuilding trust in relationships
  • How defensiveness creates a break in the progress of healing
  • The reason power and control moves are a form of betrayal

 

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Thanks for tuning into this week’s episode of Relationships! Let’s Talk About It - the show to help you forge deeper, more meaningful connections and relationships with those around you. If you enjoyed this week’s episode, please head over to Apple Podcasts, subscribe to the show, and leave us a rating and review.

You can check out the original songs I have sung in my podcast at Pripo’s Podcast Songs.

If you have a relationship question you’d love to have answered, contact us. Your question may be featured on a future episode!

Don’t forget to visit our website, like us on Facebook at HeartShare Counseling, join our Relationships! Let’s Talk About It Facebook group, and follow us on Twitter and Instagram. Share your favorite episodes on social media to help others build better, more meaningful relationships.

And if our content has helped you forge deeper connections and more meaningful relationships, be sure to help support the show by visiting our Support the Podcast page!

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03 May 2022159. Adult Tantrums and How to Deal with Them00:40:35
Corey Costanzo is the Co-Owner of Asheville’s Still Point Wellness Spa, a licensed addiction counselor, trauma specialist, master didgeridoo player, colleague, and good friend.

In this episode, Corey and I have a conversation about Adult tantrums, especial mantrums (male tantrums). We have uncontrolled outburst and expressions of anger. Adult temper tantrums can be sometimes be used as a mechanism to manipulate others, cover up  fear, shame or guilt with anger or get attention, as  well divert attention from another issue.

“adult tantrums usual show up as a disproportionate expression of anger to the circumstance  ” - Corey Costanzo

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Let’s Talk About It!

 

Thanks for tuning into this week’s episode of Relationships! Let’s Talk About It - the show to help you forge deeper, more meaningful connections and relationships with those around you. If you enjoyed this week’s episode, please head over to Apple Podcasts, subscribe to the show, and leave us a rating and review. 

Check out our Guided Audio Practices and Meditations at Relationships! Let’s Learn About It.

You can check out the original songs I have sung in my podcast at Pripo’s Podcast Songs.

Don’t forget to visit our website and follow us on Twitter and Instagram. Share your favorite episodes on social media to help others build better, more meaningful relationships.

And if our content has helped you forge deeper connections and more meaningful relationships, be sure to help support the show by visiting our Support the Podcast page!

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29 Aug 2023193. Empower Yourself and Your Relationships Through Dance and Movement00:57:18

In this episode, I have a conversation with Misa Terral. Misa Terral is founder of Soulpower Dance, offering transformational classes for embodiment, joy, and self-healing. Her training as a licensed Occupational Therapist specializing in sensory integration, a certified Death Doula, and in nature-based spirituality cultivated her unique style of teaching and empowering others. She facilitates programming for the nonprofit Dance to Be Free, taking the healing power of dance to prisons. You can find her soon on SoulpowerLiving.com

Dance and Movement are wonderful ways for us to embody our authenticity and express ourselves. It can boost confidence in ourselves which will in turn affect our relationships in a positive way. Misa shares her journey on how dance and movement helped heal an eating disorder as well as describing how this expression allows for “mistakes” and not being perfect, but instead find our true expression.

“Dance can be a good outlet for you or a tool that you can use to explore your emotions.” 

- Misa Terral

Connect with Misa Terral:

Website under construction: www.soulpowerliving.com

www.dancetobefree.org

Facebook: www.facebook.com/soulsweatwithmisa

Instagram: www.instagram.com/soulpowerdance

 

Let’s Talk About It!

 

Thanks for tuning into this week’s episode of Relationships! Let’s Talk About It - the show to help you forge deeper, more meaningful connections and relationships with those around you. If you enjoyed this week’s episode, please head over to Apple Podcasts, subscribe to the show, and leave us a rating and review. 

Check out our Guided Audio Practices, Meditations and Workshops at Relationships! Let’s Learn About It.

You can check out the original songs I have sung in my podcast at Pripo’s Podcast Songs.

Don’t forget to visit our website and follow us on Twitter and Instagram. Share your favorite episodes on social media to help others build better, more meaningful relationships.

And if our content has helped you forge deeper connections and more meaningful relationships, be sure to help support the show by visiting our Support the Podcast page!

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03 Mar 202081. The Challenges of Workplace Relationships00:49:39

Thomas Doochin is the CEO of Daymaker, an organization that helps employees cultivate a deeper connection with their community, team, and themselves through the intentional acts of giving and service. Daymaker helps people realize and foster their intrinsic goodness and generosity by helping employees and their companies connect with under-resourced communities. Through this experience of generosity and service, Daymaker aims to bring givers and the people they serve closer, and inspire them to explore the feeling of aliveness and connection.

Thomas joins me again today to discuss forming relationships with our colleagues in a work environment. We share our personal experiences of forming deep friendships with colleagues and bosses and discuss how it could be challenging to bring in our humanness and develop meaningful connections in the workplace. We describe how differences in age, experience, and hierarchy can prevent an employee from being their authentic selves. We also discuss how good workplace relationships can transform the working environment as well as explain why it is difficult to bring our relational skills into the workplace.

 

“There is an opportunity each day in our workplaces to be simply aware of how we are reacting to those who are around us.” - Thomas Doochin

  

This week on Relationships! Let’s Talk About It:

  • The challenges of bringing our humanness to the workplace
  • The accidental nature of a work environment
  • How our personal values and desire for workplace productivity can be misaligned
  • How hierarchy and age difference can impede workplace relationships
  • Overcoming the barriers between management and employees
  • What our work colleagues can teach us
  • Why it’s difficult to bring social and relational skills to the workplace
  • How our social and relational skills can transform our work environment
  • The importance of finding and upholding common values with the people we work with
  • The value of bringing space in workplace relationships

 

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Let’s Talk About It!

Thanks for tuning into this week’s episode of Relationships! Let’s Talk About It - the show to help you forge deeper, more meaningful connections and relationships with those around you. If you enjoyed this week’s episode, please head over to Apple Podcasts, subscribe to the show, and leave us a rating and review.

If you have a relationship question you’d love to have answered, visit our podcast page to leave us a voice message. Your question may be featured on a future episode!

Don’t forget to visit our website, like us on Facebook at HeartShare Counseling, join our Relationships! Let’s Talk About It Facebook group, and follow us on Twitter and Instagram. Share your favorite episodes on social media to help others build better, more meaningful relationships.

And if our content has helped you forge deeper connections and more meaningful relationships, be sure to help support the show by visiting our Support the Podcast page!

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21 Jan 202075. Dealing With Family Dramas: Standing Up For Yourself00:51:52

Everybody has family dramas. But while no family is entirely healthy, it’s always great to be in a family where there’s less drama. My wife, Yvonne Rainbow Teplitsky, brilliant artist, founder and owner of Artsy Goddess Studio, hails from Denmark. With my American background and her upbringing from a different culture, we’ve had our share of family drama with our relatives. How can a couple stand up for themselves and their happiness amidst the expectations of their family?

In today’s episode, Yvonne and I share how we handled family drama and stood up for the decisions we made for ourselves. We explain how deciding for your happiness can get genetically or energetically passed down to the next generation and change your family’s narrative. We reflect on how standing up for our decisions made us happy and set the tone for the rest of our lives together.

We also discuss why we shouldn’t make decisions to satisfy other peoples’ expectations and highlight how setting up boundaries can break family drama. I also answer a listener’s question about whether she should invite her relatives to her wedding next fall and why planning your wedding shouldn’t be about protecting other people or their feelings, but about celebrating the love you share with your partner. I explain what you should consider when deciding who to invite to your wedding celebration to stay authentic and true to yourself and your feelings as well as my philosophy on the younger generations often surpassing their parent’s ability to set boundaries.

 

“ We felt into our hearts and co-created what this family was going to be about.” - Yvonne Rainbow Teplitsky

 

This week on Relationships! Let’s Talk About It:

  • Why you shouldn’t make decisions based on other peoples’ expectations
  • The impact on our children when we stand up for ourselves
  • How setting up a boundary can shift a family’s pattern and break family drama
  • The reason decision-making has to be outside of other peoples’ expectations
  • Why you shouldn’t offer an explanation when you say no
  • The long-term effects of choosing our happiness
  • How Rainbow and I handled family drama when we were getting married
  • Why we decided against a church wedding
  • The family drama over the birth of our son and how we handled it as a couple
  • How standing up for our decisions set the tone for the rest of our relationship
  • The way Rainbow supports me whenever I need to make a decision

 

Listener Question of the Week:

  • Should I invite my relatives to my wedding?

 

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Let’s Talk About It!

 

Thanks for tuning into this week’s episode of Relationships! Let’s Talk About It - the show to help you forge deeper, more meaningful connections and relationships with those around you. If you enjoyed this week’s episode, please head over to Apple Podcasts, subscribe to the show, and leave us a rating and review.

If you have a relationship question you’d love to have answered, visit our podcast page to leave us a voice message. Your question may be featured on a future episode!

Don’t forget to visit our website, like us on Facebook at HeartShare Counseling, join our Relationships! Let’s Talk About It Facebook group, and follow us on Twitter and Instagram. Share your favorite episodes on social media to help others build better, more meaningful relationships.

And if our content has helped you forge deeper connections and more meaningful relationships, be sure to help support the show by visiting our Support the Podcast page!

 

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23 Apr 201936. Understanding Racism: Relationships are at the Heart of This Work00:40:58

Connie Burns has been a counselor for three decades, specializing in therapies focusing on trauma and the body. Residing in the Blue Ridge Mountains, she is extremely passionate about issues on racism and environment conservation. A combination of the current ideological disconnect in Western society and the ever-looming threat of climate change spurred her into action, as she now takes a more active role in leading discussions on shattering existing racist norms in American society.

 

Connie joins me today to discuss the inherent racism in Western culture, particularly in terms of white supremacy. We share our individual experiences with racism growing up and share our personal perspectives. We discuss how we process our thoughts and emotions revolving around racism, as well as the need for openness in order to successfully break down the socially erected barriers of skin color. We also discuss the importance of taking a stand in the face of racist practices and cultural inequality.

 

“It makes a difference when there are more people speaking up and saying, ‘Yeah, this isn’t right.’” - Connie Burns

  

This week on Relationships! Let’s Talk About It:

 

  • How Connie realized the need to become more politically involved around the time of the 2016 elections.
  • How her activism is rooted in her affiliation with Indivisible and how the progressive platform encouraged her to form a small activist group of her own.
  • The reality behind racism and why now, more than ever, the white race should start opening up about racial issues.
  • The impact of racism on medical research and how white men being the “prototype” is actually a destructive pattern.
  • The inherent problem in resorting to sniping at one another instead of trying to understand the other’s position when it comes to discussions on ‘woke ideologies.’
  • How Connie used her grief about the world’s various issues to stay open and take an active role in resolving said issues.
  • How — and more importantly, why — white people must work on their resiliency towards being called out, opting to be curious instead of getting defensive when the other party gets offended.
  • How Connie’s experiences while growing up in an integrated neighborhood in Indianapolis and being bullied helped shape her understanding of racism.
  • How my experience with “reverse discrimination” and being able to travel around the world has made me more comfortable with other races and aware of the inherent racism in all of us.
  • The reality that race doesn’t actually exist beyond being a social construct, and how it was only created to maintain the status quo.
  • A secondhand account on how white people can and should stand up for the discriminated when racism happens right in front of them — and how that inspired me to do the same thing years later.

 

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Join Us for The Power of Appreciation Workshop for Couples

 

Join Pripo and his wife, Yvonne Rainbow Teplitsky, on Saturday, April 27, 2019, in Asheville, NC to learn the secrets of unlocking the Power of Appreciation in your relationships. Genuine appreciation, regardless of how simple or profound, has been proven to bring an immediate shift in the quality and closeness of loving relationships. The Power of Appreciation Workshop for Couples will teach you the necessary skills and fundamental process of enriching your relationship with your partner, deepening the connection, and enhancing the flow of positive.

 

To learn more about The Power of Appreciation Workshop for Couples, and to register, visit HeartShare Counseling & Consulting PC or call (828) 712-8398.

 

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Don’t forget to visit our website, join us on Facebook at HeartShare Counseling and Relationships! Let’s Talk About It, and follow us on Twitter and Instagram. Share your favorite episodes on social media to help others build better, more meaningful relationships.

 

And if our content has helped you forge deeper connections and more meaningful relationships, be sure to help support the show by visiting our Support the Podcast page!

 

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14 Mar 2023181. The Role of Body Image in Relationships00:50:43

In this episode I have a conversation with Jackie Dobrinska. Jackie is a teacher, coach, and spiritual director who has married two decades of mystical practices with 15 years of expertise in physical health, including diet, herbalism, and Ayurveda. She works with people to live from their truest essence. In addition to coaching individuals and leading group workshops, she is currently the Director of Education, Community & Inclusion for Ram Dass' Love, Serve, Remember Foundation.

We have a conversation about body image. Are you satisfied with what you see when you look in the mirror? Regardless of what you may think, both men and women, of all ages, are affected by negative body image. How an individual evaluates one’s self has a great deal to do with the quality of one’s interpersonal relationships. How we actually embody our body is a better barameter to understand our relationship with our body’s and how we relate to others.

“The first step is to be present with your own body” 

- Jackie Dobrinska

Contact: Jackie Dobrinska

Website: ASimpleVibrantLife.com

Related Podcasts:

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Practicing Self-Care in Relationships

How Depression Effects Relationships

HeartShare: Change Your Thoughts, Change Your Relationships

 

Let’s Talk About It!

 

Thanks for tuning into this week’s episode of Relationships! Let’s Talk About It - the show to help you forge deeper, more meaningful connections and relationships with those around you. If you enjoyed this week’s episode, please head over to Apple Podcasts, subscribe to the show, and leave us a rating and review. 

Check out our Guided Audio Practices, Meditations and Workshops at Relationships! Let’s Learn About It.

You can check out the original songs I have sung in my podcast at Pripo’s Podcast Songs.

Don’t forget to visit our website and follow us on Twitter and Instagram. Share your favorite episodes on social media to help others build better, more meaningful relationships.

And if our content has helped you forge deeper connections and more meaningful relationships, be sure to help support the show by visiting our Support the Podcast page!

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04 Feb 202077. The Power And Effects Of Words00:56:44

Trish Kruger is a duo-licensed professional counselor and clinical addiction therapist. Trained in trauma-informed care and motivational interviewing, Trish believes in the value of talk therapy, mindfulness, and expressive arts which she includes in her practice. She completed her graduate degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling at Western Carolina University and currently works at Blue Ridge Treks, a community of mental health therapists in Asheville, North Carolina.

 

In today’s episode, Trish and I share stories from our professional and personal lives regarding the power and effect of words. We illustrate how our central nervous system responds to the words we use and receive. We explain how a slight change in the words we use can create belief systems and open us up to new possibilities. We also discuss the different challenges the younger generation faces and how self-compassion, compounded with Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy techniques, can help them.

 

 “Every belief started as an experience. We begin telling ourselves a story. As that story gets rooted deeper in our brain, we develop a pattern.” - Trish Kruger

 

This week on Relationships! Let’s Talk About It:

  • Our experiences with growing up with sarcasm
  • How Trish’s son teaches her about the power of words
  • How words and affirmations create belief systems
  • How our physiology responds to thoughts
  • How the central nervous system responds to the words we receive
  • The four steps of classical Cognitive Behavioral Therapy
  • The importance of self-compassion and how CBT skips over the self-compassion stage
  • The power of words of affirmation and visualization and how the central nervous system responds to them
  • How to use reframing techniques to improve relationships
  • Why the word “should” is a violent word and a constructive alternative to replace it
  • Working with the unique challenges that the younger generations face
  • Why parents need to learn to say ‘I’m sorry’
  • The difference between apologizing and making amends
  • The brain science behind the power of gratitude
  • Using breath to bring awareness over the words we use

 

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Let’s Talk About It!

 

Thanks for tuning into this week’s episode of Relationships! Let’s Talk About It - the show to help you forge deeper, more meaningful connections and relationships with those around you. If you enjoyed this week’s episode, please head over to Apple Podcasts, subscribe to the show, and leave us a rating and review.

 

If you have a relationship question you’d love to have answered, visit our podcast page to leave us a voice message. Your question may be featured on a future episode!

 

Don’t forget to visit our website, like us on Facebook at HeartShare Counseling, join our Relationships! Let’s Talk About It Facebook group, and follow us on Twitter and Instagram. Share your favorite episodes on social media to help others build better, more meaningful relationships.

 

And if our content has helped you forge deeper connections and more meaningful relationships, be sure to help support the show by visiting our Support the Podcast page!

 

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17 Aug 2021142. HeartShare: Making Your Relationship A Priority00:34:48

Life is becoming busier and busier. The further society progresses, the more it seems that we have more to juggle: work, family, friends, education, health, finances, Netflix series, mortgages. Between these and many other modern-day distractions, it’s difficult for many of us to put effort into our relationships - and easy to say, “I don’t have time!” I get it. But we have to understand that cultivating and nurturing our relationships isn’t solely about time. It’s also about keeping boundaries, protecting what’s truly important, and consciously giving your attention to you, your partner, and your relationship.

 

In this episode, I discuss the importance of making your relationship a priority and how to do it in spite of the world’s busyness. I discuss our tendency to prioritize our relationships in the beginning and lose our focus over time. I reveal the many reasons it’s difficult for us to prioritize our relationship and explain how we can stay deeply connected with our partner - even when doing individual things. I share the exercise questions I use to assess whether I’m giving my wife the quality attention she deserves. I also underscore the role of self-care and self-development in maintaining and prioritizing relationships and highlight what it means to have a shared experience with your partner.

 

“Every relationship requires effort. The happiest ones are given plenty of attention.” - Pripo Teplitsky

 

This week on Relationships! Let’s Talk About It:

 

  • Why it’s difficult to prioritize our relationships
  • The importance of prioritizing ourselves and bringing a healthy sense of self into the relationship
  • Maintaining your connection with your partner in micro-moments
  • Cultivating a relationship in the mundane life
  • The value of checking-in with your partner and why it’s different from asking for permission
  • Nurturing a relationship through kindness, generosity, and respect
  • How our partner or family sometimes doesn’t get the best of us
  • Keeping boundaries to maintain and protect relationships
  • The myth of spontaneity and why relationships need time & effort
  • How to make time for your relationship when you’re busy
  • What an authentic shared experience is and how to have one with your partner
  • Focus, attention, and reserving a mental space for your partner
  • Exercise questions to assess the quality of attention you give in your relationship

 

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Let’s Talk About It!

 

Thanks for tuning into this week’s episode of Relationships! Let’s Talk About It - the show to help you forge deeper, more meaningful connections and relationships with those around you. If you enjoyed this week’s episode, please head over to Apple Podcasts, subscribe to the show, and leave us a rating and review.

 

Check out our Guided Audio Practices and Meditations at Relationships! Let’s Learn About It.

 

You can check out the original songs I have sung in my podcast at Pripo’s Podcast Songs.

 

Don’t forget to visit our website and follow us on Twitter and Instagram. Share your favorite episodes on social media to help others build better, more meaningful relationships.

 

And if our content has helped you forge deeper connections and more meaningful relationships, be sure to help support the show by visiting our Support the Podcast page!

 

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05 Jan 2021125. The Shame/Fear Dynamic In Couples00:50:55

There are many moments in a couple’s life that shame and fear show up shrouded in subtlety. While men predominantly feel shame and inadequacy, women tend to go through fear and anxiety. Because of this experiential difference between men and women, it becomes a challenge for couples to understand and navigate the dynamics of shame and fear in relationships. As such, Juan Santos - the owner of Santos Counseling and author of Couple’s Workbook: Making Your Relationship Work - recommends that couples seek self-discovery and strive to cultivate an environment of safety where they both can open up to vulnerability in their relationship.

Today, Juan and I illustrate how shame and fear interact and feed off of each other. We discuss the underlying factors of the shame/fear dynamic and describe how societal expectations exacerbate men’s experience with shame in adulthood. We explain how childhood upbringing influences the way people navigate moments of shame in their lives. We also underscore the power of compassionate touch in soothing and calming moments of vulnerability between couples and highlight the role of compassion and kindness in the self-exploration of shame and fear.

 

“We have to do work on ourselves to be able to feel comfortable with witnessing shame, so we know how to make space for others” - Juan Santos

 

This week on Relationships! Let’s Talk About It:

  • Feeling shameful about feeling shame
  • Growing up in a culture of shame and men’s experience with shame and vulnerability
  • Compassion and empathy as antidotes to fear
  • Natural reactions to men’s expressions of shame and vulnerability
  • Soothing vulnerability through intentional and compassionate touch
  • Sexual shame and social expectations of sexual performance
  • Being ashamed of not understanding the emotional world
  • Providing for togetherness and understanding women’s experience with fear
  • Decreasing resentment through compassion and connection
  • The subtle ways couples shame each other
  • Understanding and creating “soft start-ups” to conversations
  • The power of visualization in cultivating the kind of people we want to be in relationships
  • Why we need self-compassion when we explore and work on our shame
  • Making space for others to share their shame and vulnerabilities

 

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You can check out the original songs I have sung in my podcast at Pripo’s Podcast Songs.

If you have a relationship question you’d love to have answered, contact us. Your question may be featured on a future episode!

Don’t forget to visit our website, like us on Facebook at HeartShare Counseling, join our Relationships! Let’s Talk About It Facebook group, and follow us on Twitter and Instagram. Share your favorite episodes on social media to help others build better, more meaningful relationships.

And if our content has helped you forge deeper connections and more meaningful relationships, be sure to help support the show by visiting our Support the Podcast page!

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27 Oct 2020115. HeartShare: People Pleasing00:37:49

It’s natural for us to want to care for the people we love and make them happy. Many of us are also naturally compassionate and find fulfillment in altruistic endeavors. But there is a fine line between being selfless and being a people-pleaser. It’s essential that we discern whether our proclivities towards catering to others’ needs come from an authentic desire to help or from a place of fear and insecurity.

In this episode, I discuss the vital role of compassion in realizing our tendency to be people-pleasers and in transforming ourselves and our relationships. I illustrate how insecurity, fears, and low self-worth can foster the people-pleasing pattern and underscore the dangers of being a people-pleaser. I explain why honesty is one of the greatest gifts we can give to other people and how we can weave kindness into it. I also reveal how we can overcome our people-pleasing tendencies through setting boundaries and being true to our needs.

 

“When we constantly strive to please, it’s unlikely that we’ll thrive in relationships because we start to feel invisible, even though we’re the ones creating the experience.” - Pripo Teplitsky 

 

This week on Relationships! Let’s Talk About It:

  • The relationship between codependency and people-pleasing
  • The role of compassion in the process of self-transformation
  • How a compassionate person differs from a people-pleaser
  • The fear of rejection and other factors that influence the people-pleasing pattern
  • Why people-pleasers find it difficult to set healthy boundaries
  • Conflict avoidance and how authenticity took me out of a people-pleasing episode
  • The connection between people-pleasing and manipulation
  • Bringing kindness into honesty and how it can benefit our relationships
  • The value of focusing on curiosity when interacting with people
  • Why I think history may have caused women and mothers to people-please more
  • How people-pleasers may attract controlling people
  • Losing autonomy and a sense of self to people-pleasing
  • Why people-pleasing can also be selfish
  • How parents can model authenticity for their children
  • What it takes to overcome our people-pleasing patterns

 

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07 Dec 2021149. Aftermath of a Fight or Regrettable Incident00:58:24

Aftermath of a Fight or Regrettable Incident

Most people do not have a good way to process the conflicts and fights after the fact. Typical attempts not only fall flight but most of the time spiral right back into the unproductive and disconnecting experience instead of healing and connecting ways.

In this episode my wife Yvonne Rainbow and I explore ways we have and do handle the aftermath of fights or conflicts we experience. We also discuss the modeling that each of us have experienced in our own families of origin to understand some of our templates that we’ve brought to our relationship and needed to transform. 

Yvonne Rainbow Teplitsky is the founder of Artsy Goddess Studio, where she actively carries out her role in helping others and the planet heal. Yvonne is passionate about art, as seen in the upcycled clothing she creates from second-hand materials, as well as the visual arts she creates, such as murals, paintings, and tapestries. Yvonne also helps women transform through voice empowering workshops and helps couples through workshops and retreats that she co-facilitates with me.

 

“If each of us just first owned our part of the conflict after coming back together, we would stop pointing fingers at each other” 

- Yvonne Rainbow Teplitsky

 

 

 

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09 Jul 201947. Dealing With Grudges00:30:38

Are you guilty of holding grudges? Let’s face it - holding grudges is a common practice for most of us, but it can be detrimental to your relationships as well as your health. Over time, grudges can easily transform into anger, resentment, high stress levels, and even depression. This resentment is often what causes many relationships to end.

 

So how do we deal with and move past the grudges we may have against others to begin the process of healing and moving forward?

 

On today’s episode, I discuss how holding a grudge can impact your relationships. I share my personal experiences of dealing with grudges and how holding grudges can impact the people around you. I explain the physiological process involved in holding onto anger and resentment and how holding onto long-term grudges can impact your health. I also share the common personality characteristics of people who frequently hold grudges and share strategies you can use to help yourself and your partner move past grudges for a healthier relationship.

 

 

 

“Resentment is actually the feeling of the act of holding a grudge.” - Pripo Teplitsky

 

 

 

This week on Relationships! Let’s Talk About It:

 

  • The impact that holding grudges can have on your relationships.
  • My experiences of growing up with a family that held grudges.
  • How modeling grudges in your family and intimate relationships can affect children and their ability to deal with conflict.
  • The importance of teaching and modeling remorse and good conflict resolution strategies.
  • The physiological process involved in feeling resentful.
  • How holding grudges affects your health.
  • Common personality traits and characteristics of people who frequently hold grudges.
  • Why grudges often lead to feelings of anger and higher levels of stress.
  • How holding a grudge affects more than just you and the person who has wronged you.
  • The story of my father holding a grudge against my mother and stepfather and how it made me feel.
  • The importance of developing communication and conflict resolution skills to help you work through and let go of grudges and resentment.
  • How apologizing and showing remorse can help grudge holders move forward and heal to improve their relationship.
  • How negative past experiences can sometimes lead to transferred feelings and emotions that are causing a grudge.
  • Identifying when to give your partner space, how much space they need, and when to let go of the relationship.
  • How forgiveness helps grudge holders let go and move forward.
  • How to begin the forgiveness process.

 

 

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14 Feb 2023179. Sexual Healing and Freedom Through Hypnosis00:55:09

In this episode I have a conversation with Laura Callahan, BA., CHt. Laura is a clinical hypnotherapist specializing in assisting clients with sexual dysfunction, trauma resolution, anxiety and fertility issues. She is also a Certified HypnoBirthing® Educator. She works with clients via Zoom throughout the US, Canada and elsewhere around the world!

We have a conversation about Sexual Freedom through Hypnosis. Sex and intimacy can be a major source of anxiety in people’s lives. More than 40% of people have a sexual dysfunction issue, and it is believed that about two-thirds of sexual dysfunction and issue have a psychological cause. Hypnosis can help in a positive way. It can help people overcome past trauma, change unhelpful beliefs, and assist in accepting our bodies and sexuality.

“The mind is the most powerful sex organ!” 

- Laura Callahan

Contact Laura Callahan

Website: www.lauracallahanhealing.com

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04 Jun 2024212. Keeping Your Relationship Fresh Through Travel & Adventure00:53:25

Dave Bluth is an Asheville-based entrepreneur who is passionate about assisting people on their journey's and living his life in a humorous, authentic and joyful way. Dave has owned Blueblaze Real Estate since 2006 and his goal is to ensure clients "Live the life they love, and love the life they live.".  Dave has been married to his lovely wife Beth for 24 years and has a 20 year old daughter at George Washington University.  

In this episode, Dave and I have a conversation about the importance of adventure and travel to keep your relationship fresh. We speak of the benefits and also the challenges to navigate like, transitions, travel stress and good communication.

Connect with Dave Bluth:

Blueblaze Real Estate Group

828-273-3349

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25 Sep 201801. Introducing Myself: What is Connection00:37:00

Relationships are critical for creating a healthy, happy, and fulfilling life. They are all around us - from the people we interact with on a day-to-day basis to the animals and nature in our environment. Our relationships are built on the connections we forge with the people, places, and things in our life - whether that be the connections with our friends and family, our pets, or the emotional bonds we tie to items such as heirloom effects that have been passed down from generation to generation.

 

On today’s episode, I share who I am, my background, and why I decided to launch the Relationships! Let’s Talk About It podcast. I share what you can expect from each episode and guest conversation featured on the show as well as my intention to help more people forge deeper, more meaningful, and authentic relationships with those around them. I also explain what it truly means to build deep connections with your spouse or significant other as well as tips on how to forge more meaningful connections within your relationships.

  

“You cannot connect with somebody else if you are disconnected from yourself.” - Pripo Teplitsky

 

 

This week on Relationships! Let’s Talk About It:

 

  • The impact that building connections can have on your relationships.
  • How being authentic and vulnerable leads to creating deeper connections and more meaningful relationships.
  • How your self-worth and self-compassion impacts the connections you forge with those around you.
  • The impact of creating eye-contact while building connections and relationships.
  • How hand-holding creates a deeper connection with your spouse or significant other.
  • The role that compatibility plays on your relationships.
  • The importance of listening and being present with your partner.
  • The impact that playing and participating in fun activities with your partner can have on your connection and relationship.
  • How showing appreciation of yourself and those around you helps develop stronger bonds throughout your relationships.

  

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04 Oct 2022170. Defensiveness00:59:26

It’s natural to get defensive when you feel threatened, or criticized...but your defensiveness may not serve you, your partner, or your relationship. The sad thing is many of us react defensively without even thinking about it. It creates an atmosphere of contention, tension and most of the time blame that eventually leads to a loss of trust, alienation, and separation. Owning our defensiveness is the first step to changing that automatic reaction.

In this episode, I have a conversation with my friend Gregg Levoy and we dive into this topic. Gregg is a frequent seminar leader who holds workshops in the faith-based, human-potential, educational, governmental, and business industries. He is a Passionate Living Expert who has penned bestselling books such as Vital Signs: The Nature and Nurture of Passion as well as Callings: Finding and Following An Authentic Life which has been named as one of the Top 20 Career Publications by the Workforce Information Group. He regularly shares his insights and expertise as a frequent contributor to Psychology Today.

“I’m realizing that winning isn’t the objective, even though it feels good” 

- Gregg Levoy

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Circling: A Powerful Communication Tool

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The Loss of Touch

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08 Sep 2020108. Under Stress, We Regress00:49:31

A lot of people are in tremendous stress as a result of the global pandemic. Some people find themselves falling back to some old behavior patterns that they thought they had already let go. This is what’s called regression: a defensive mechanism for coping with stress. It’s a common phenomenon many of us experience unconsciously. Corey Costanzo - a licensed addictions counselor and good friend of mine - believes that a significant part of managing our regressive responses to stress is mindfulness. Corey is a licensed massage and bodywork therapist, somatic experiencing practitioner, and co-owner of Still Point Wellness, a premier Esalen Massage and Salt Water Floatation spa in Asheville.

 

Today, Corey and I discuss our tendency to regress when we are under stress. We highlight the different ways regression can manifest in our lives and how they can impact our relationships. We share some of the tools you can use to learn how to recognize regressive tendencies and manage them. We also draw from our personal experiences with regression and illustrate how we work with it, as well as emphasize the parents’ roles in teaching children how to cope with stress and negative experiences.

 

“It’s important for everybody to figure out the resources to be able to stand up in the face of uncomfortable sensations and thoughts.” - Corey Costanzo

 

This week on Relationships! Let’s Talk About It:

  • How a stunted developmental stage can result in adult regression
  • The collective stress resulting from the pandemic and how stress triggers regressive behavior
  • Substance use and addiction as a form of regression and the importance of bringing regressive behavior into the consciousness
  • Regression and self-sabotage
  • The difference between a regressed response versus a partnered response
  • The value of communicating our needs and meeting them ourselves
  • How mindfulness can help the awareness of regression and recognition of stress
  • The neuroscience of stress and meditation and how our brain regresses to primitive lifeforms when we’re stressed
  • Corey’s experiences with regression and how he transforms them
  • How our regressive behaviors are exhibited when we’re with family
  • My tendency to shut down and get defensive under stressful situations
  • Experiencing tension, anxiety, and regression in the body
  • What it means to resource for ourselves
  • Regression in children and teenagers and how parents can model calm and mindfulness for their kids
  • The importance of seeking support in times of stress

  

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25 Aug 2020106. HeartShare: Is Your Relationship Stuck On Autopilot?00:34:02

When something is enduring and permanent, we can often take it for granted. This happens in long-term relationships, too, and when we take it for granted, we assume it will take care of itself. We go full-on autopilot in our relationship, abandoning all semblance of control, and think that by the end of it all, our partners will still be there. There are so many ways that we put our relationship on autopilot - some of them we’re not even aware of until it’s too late.

 

Today, I explore the different ways we go on autopilot in our lives, whether in our relationship with our partners or ourselves. I describe the relationship between mindfulness and going on autopilot, explain how we become unhappy when our mind wanders, and discuss how we can avoid it through introspection. I also highlight the importance of slowing down to directly experience our lives and share some questions you can ask yourself to help you disrupt your tendency to autopilot your life and relationships.

 

“The alternative to being on autopilot is being conscious. It’s about having a deep awareness of our relationships and our environment.” - Pripo Teplitsky

  

This week on Relationships! Let’s Talk About It:

  • Going on autopilot mode in our relationships and life
  • How the wandering mind can bring unhappiness and how we go on autopilot in our relationship with ourselves
  • Self-diagnosing our tendency to be on autopilot
  • The dangers of creating meaning out of our experiences and assuming what our partners feel, think, or experience
  • Consciousness as an antidote to autopiloting in relationships
  • How conscious people know themselves more deeply
  • How the power of introspection can help disrupt our unconscious daily routine
  • Being closer to somebody else than our partners
  • Why it takes effort and work to be intimate in the relationship
  • The benefits of slowing down to directly experience what’s in front of you
  • Bringing intent and curiosity into our lives to overcome autopiloting
  • The difference between having a narrative and a direct experience
  • How meditation can bring more conscious awareness and alleviate getting stuck on autopilot

 

 

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28 Jul 2020102. Leading With Love, Humor & Employee Autonomy00:48:07

Trusting employees is crucial to the growth of a company. Whether you’re leading a Fortune 500 company or a three-person podcast production company that operates remotely, you need to foster good relations by giving employees autonomy and freedom. That’s the wisdom of Kate Astrakhan, an audio engineer and technical podcast producer. She is the founder of Podcast Network Solutions, a podcast post-production company that testifies her love of storytelling and audio broadcast. Through her company, Kate demonstrates what it means to be an empowering leader whose actions are based on faith and values systems.

 

In this episode, Kate and I discuss how she leads her business and the people she works with. We explore how appreciation can encourage positive behavior and how giving autonomy and freedom empowers their genius. We describe the role of trust in business relationships and emphasize the value of helping employees through tough times. We also examine the impact of letting employees work on what they love and encouraging employees to grow in their area of genius.

 

“Let your team be the mayors of their world. Empower them to rule their area of genius in service to clients and company.” - Kate Astrakhan

 

This week on Relationships! Let’s Talk About It:

  • The fear of going out of the box
  • The best thing about podcasting for Kate
  • The impact of giving employees autonomy to make decisions
  • How encouraging employee development and growth benefits a business
  • The role of trust in allowing employees to flourish and its relationship with reliability
  • How Kate uses her value systems as the foundation of everything she does
  • The power of emotionally supporting employees
  • Motivating individuals in a team and directing workers to let them do what they love
  • How appreciation can magnify the behavior you want to see from an employee
  • Why Kate decided to start a business and become her own boss
  • Kate’s advice to business leaders who want to motivate their employees
  • The pitfall of leaders who micromanage their team
  • Producing a podcast as a birthing process and personal practice
  • How trust in a business partnership can foster innovation, especially in a crisis like COVID-19

  

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19 May 202092. HeartShare: Stop Playing The Blame Game00:32:04

If there’s another big contagion going around, it’s blame. Its infectious nature is so profound that it goes back and forth between a couple, trapping them in a cycle of criticism, pain, and disempowerment. No one wins in a relationship that plays the blame game - it has no positive impact on any of the parties involved. It’s sometimes difficult for people to see themselves tethered with the chains of blame, but to be able to co-create a relationship, one must rise to the challenge of letting go of blame and criticism.

In this episode, I discuss how blame erodes a relationship’s creative potential and how to overcome it. I illustrate blame and criticism’s addictive nature and describe the physiological stimuli we feel when we attack or blame another person. I discuss how chronic blaming could destroy your partner’s self-esteem and self-worth and how it could set you up for an unhealthy relationship in the future. I also share how we learn to blame another person through our parents as well as highlight how we can foster an environment where our children can learn responsibility instead of criticism. 

 

“Blame is an endless loop. The antidote is curiosity, connection, appreciation, and responsibility.” - Pripo Teplitsky

 

This week on Relationships! Let’s Talk About It:

  • What blame is, how it fuels anger, and how it’s based on a relationship’s inequality
  • Blame as a defense mechanism to avoid responsibility
  • How blame hurts our partners and erodes the relationship
  • The addictive nature of blaming and criticism
  • How chronic blaming can be a form of emotional abuse and lead to low self-esteem
  • The vicious cycle of blame
  • How we learned to blame other people and how we can teach our children to be more responsible
  • The importance of learning the difference between blame and responsibility
  • How taking responsibility impacts our relationships
  • The role of honesty in taking responsibility

 

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29 Jan 201924. Following Personal Passions and Taking Risks Can Nurture Your Relationships00:43:33

Gregg Levoy is a distinguished author, speaker, seminar leader and a frequent expert guest on various national news networks such as CNN, ABC-TV, NPR, and PBS. He is a regular contributing writer for Psychology Todayand the author of the books Vital Signs: The Nature and Nurture of Passion as well as Callings: Finding and Following An Authentic Life, the latter being one of Workforce Information Group’s "Top 20 Career Publications." Additionally, he also conducts workshops for business, educational, governmental, faith-based, and human potential industries.

 

Gregg joins me today to share how taking risks can inspire others and benefit the relationships in your life. We discuss how to transform and enhance stagnant relationships as well as the significant role that creativity plays in improving your relationships. We also share stories of the risks that people in our lives have taken that inspired us to take various risks as well as the ways to nurture your relationships by identifying your individual passions.

  

“Say yes to yourself so you can say yes to your relationships because they will all benefit from your enlivenment and they will suffer from your dispassion.” - Gregg Levoy

  

This week on Relationships! Let’s Talk About It:

 

  • Why people’s relationships become stagnant.
  • Risks that enhance your relationship.
  • What a vision quest is and how it affected my relationship with my wife.
  • How taking risks can empower you to establish new limits in your mind and help you clearly define what you really want.
  • How Gregg got inspired to travel to new places.
  • The main reason I started a podcast.
  • An inspiring message about pursuing a dream regardless of age.
  • Why part of my mission is to encourage people to take risks.
  • The individual steps to take when you’re stuck in a stagnant relationship.
  • The essence of stepping out in the relationship to bring the fire back.
  • What percentage of your needs should be met by your primary relationships.
  • How Gregg inspired one of his colleagues to take risks as he quit his day job to become a freelance writer.
  • How to instill passion and inspiration when taking risks.
  • The meaning of his father’s advice, “Don't take courses. Take professors.”
  • The significant risk of moving into the town where his twin brother lives after their mother’s efforts to separate them.
  • How his decision to divorce affected the people around him.
  • How my traveling and storytelling impacted my son’s desire to travel and have his own stories.
  • My wife’s inspiring risks and adventures that I never thought she would do and the impact of sharing these with others.
  • The legacies we want to leave.

 

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13 Oct 2020113. Authentic Relating00:47:30

Benjamin Haynes is a wonderful example of today’s young generation. He is a meditator, yogi, and evangelizer of “authentic relating.” I was impressed by his presence, groundedness, and the intentional manner in which he spoke when we met about a year ago. After graduating from UNC-Chapel Hill and teaching in Malaysia under a Fulbright grant, Benjamin recently joined Authentic Relating Training, an organization dedicated to the practice and production of authentic relating programs.

 

In today’s episode, Benjamin and I explore the meaning and purpose of authentic relating. We discuss what led him to authentic relating and share tips to help you relate with others with presence and authenticity. We illustrate how meditation can impact our lives and benefit the way we communicate with each other. We also emphasize the power of leading with presence and the value of focusing on what matters.

 

“Authentic relating transforms yourself and your relationships through communication.” - Benjamin Haynes

 

This week on Relationships! Let’s Talk About It:

  • My first meeting with Benjamin
  • How he cultivated his groundedness and authentic relating
  • Benjamin’s introduction to meditation, how he built it into a daily practice, and how it has benefited him
  • The relationship between meditation, mindfulness, and authentic relating
  • Taking authentic relating to another level and the three different levels of a conversation
  • The power of taking pauses in conversation
  • Gender dynamics and its relationship with communication
  • How the dynamics of Benjamin’s relationship with his father has changed over time
  • The challenges of a parent-child relationship
  • The need to face our fears and take risks and what made me transition from the corporate world to my counseling practice
  • How authentic relating can lead to a more profound connection between people
  • How Benjamin’s fascination with mindfulness led him to Authentic Relating Training
  • Integrating non-violent communication and mindfulness
  • The importance of leading with presence, coming with curiosity, and focusing on what matters

 

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23 Jan 2024203. Heartshare: Following Through on Commitments in Your Relationships00:47:36

In this solocast I talk about the importance of following through on commitments. It’s basically keeping your word. If you say you'll do something, do it. Whether it's taking out the trash, meeting your partner for dinner, or attending their work event, follow through reliably. The key is consistently matching your actions with your words. Follow-through breeds trust and reliability in relationships. Essentially, partners who do what they say they'll do don't just gain trust; they earn it. Their actions give evidence that they are worthy of trust. This firm foundation is key for relationships to go the distance.

Only make commitments you know you can reasonably keep. Don't say yes to everything.

 - Pripo Teplitsky

Related Content: Other Podcast Episodes

HeartShare: Attitudes of Connection

HeartShare: How Practicing Humility Helps Your Relatiopnships

Compromising in a Relationship

HeartShare: Change Your Thoughts, Change Your Relationships

How to Have the Partner You Most Want to Have

Micro-Moments in Relationships

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05 May 202090. Maintaining Connection Through Conflict: Relationships in a Pandemic00:46:53

Conflict is a truth for every couple. Every relationship has its fair share of arguments from time to time. While the threat of COVID-19 persists around the world, couples are spending more time in close proximity while quarantined together and find themselves in more bouts of conflict. In fact, my wife, Yvonne Rainbow Teplitsky, and I recently had a special conflict situation. Rainbow is an artist and fashion designer. She is the founder and owner of the Artsy Goddess Studio, where she facilitates voice-empowering workshops and Wisdom Women’s Tents.

 

Today, Rainbow and I share a recent conflict we had, how we stayed connected through it, and what insights we realized during that time. We explain how the lack of alone time can fuel impatience and highlight the importance of repair and reset after a conflict. We also describe how our practice of deliberate appreciation, acknowledgment, and validation has empowered our relationship over the years, allowing us to stay connected through conflict.

 

“Don’t get your emotions involved in the unloading. Just be there and witness.” - Yvonne Rainbow Teplitsky

 

 

This week on Relationships! Let’s Talk About It:

  • The fixer and the listener, and how we sometimes just want to be witnessed
  • How not getting our regular doses of alone time has affected us
  • Understanding the importance of repairing a relationship after conflict
  • How making agreements can support a relationship’s repair
  • Responding the right way when a person is venting, and why you shouldn’t make it about yourself
  • Our process of getting back to understanding, acknowledgment, and validation
  • How practicing HeartShare appreciation has fueled our relationship’s foundation
  • The power of setting intent
  • How we’re nurturing ourselves during the COVID-19 pandemic

 

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21 Apr 202088. The Need For Patience: Relationships in a Pandemic00:45:58

Patience is one of the pillars of our everyday lives that must be cultivated. At a time where uncertainty about our future plagues the air, we can feel an anxiety that could drain our patience. We may feel irascible and get frustrated easily, even with people whom we love. Recently, my wife, Yvonne Rainbow Teplitsky, and I had a bout of impatience with each other and worked through it. After all, we need patience now more than ever, as it will foster the love that will see us through this crisis. Yvonne is the founder and owner of the Artsy Goddess Studio, where she facilitates workshops and day-long retreats.

In today’s episode, Rainbow and I discuss the need for patience amid the COVID-19 crisis. We illustrate how the pandemic is making people lose their patience and describe how impatience can affect our relationships. We share our recent experiences with impatience in our relationship and how we dealt with it. We also explain how insecurity can cause impatience as well as describe the steps you can take to cultivate patience for yourself and others.

 

“Frustration is something we all experience - it’s not something to feel ashamed or guilty of, as long as we don’t take it out on each other.” - Yvonne Rainbow Teplitsky

 

This week on Relationships! Let’s Talk About It:

  • The difference between patience and passivity
  • How impatience can show up in small things
  • How we’re using eye contact to avoid impatience
  • Practicing meditation to cultivate patience
  • The effect of impatience on our partners and relationships
  • The relationship between stress and impatience
  • Why we need to be patient with ourselves and how to purposefully develop patience
  • The addictive nature of anger and its relationship with impatience
  • Cooking together as a shared experience
  • The impact of parents’ impatience on their children
  • How insecurity and a sense of inadequacy cause impatience
  • How a lack of communication causes passive-aggressiveness
  • How patience can inspire and heal our partners

  

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23 Jul 201949. Our Relationship With The Natural World00:27:24

Counseling and connecting with people for over 30 years, Connie Burns is a body-centered psychotherapist who specializes in body and trauma therapies. She has a passion for teaching people how to reconnect with their relationships - relationships with their own bodies, other people, and the natural world. Connie was urged to act on her strong convictions about the current division and conflict happening in western culture as well as the imminent threat of climate change.

 

Connie joins me today to share the different ways that we are connected to the natural world and how this crucial connection affects us. We dive deep into how our culture has lost that meaningful sense of connection to who we are, how society is disconnected from the natural world, and the challenges it poses on our relationships with others. We also discuss the incredible benefits of being connected to ourselves, to others, and to the natural world as well as how it can take our relationships to a deeper and more authentic level.

 

“The sacred sons of omnipresent love - we don’t have access to that when we don’t have access to our bodies, and that’s tragic.” - Connie Burns

 

This week on Relationships! Let’s Talk About It:

 

  • How people are disconnected from their bodies.
  • Why anger is the emotion that women are most disconnected from.
  • Why getting cut off from anger is detrimental.
  • What makes people more vulnerable to predation.
  • The connection between being disconnected from our bodies and the rampant abuse in women and children.
  • How being disconnected from our bodies encourages genocidal thoughts and behaviors in our culture
  • How today’s western culture conditions people toward happiness, but not joy, satisfaction, or connection.
  • How to access your body in a healthy way.
  • Leveraging the awe and calm that nature brings to help resolve and repair marital conflicts.
  • The connection between nature and human beings.
  • How to be more accepting of who you are by observing the relationships of the natural world.
  • The value of diversity and how to cultivate it.
  • How retreats and body massages allow you to reconnect with your body and with others.
  • The difference between pleasurable sex and divine sexual intimacy.

 

 

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01 Jun 2021137. HeartShare: How To Be The Partner You Want To Be00:31:31

If someone asked you to define your perfect partner, how would you respond? Oftentimes, our knee-jerk response focuses on different characteristics and personality traits like ‘I want someone kind, caring, compassionate, supportive, and patient.” But, before we begin to describe our ideal intimate partner - we need to look within ourselves and ask: “Am I being the person I want my partner to be?” and “Am I being the partner I want to be?”

The old adage, ‘treat others the way you want to be treated’ rings true in nearly every relationship and - more often than not - the quest to find the intimate partner you most want lies in doing your own inner work.

In today’s episode, I discuss why it’s difficult - if not impossible - to find the intimate partner you want the most if you avoid looking within yourself and changing your own behaviors. I discuss how the characteristics and values you seek in an intimate partner are often the same characteristics and values you want in yourself and how reflecting on your life and relationships can help you become the kind of partner you want to be. I discuss why it’s crucial to be compassionate with yourself as you shift your behavior and the importance of finding opportunities each day to show up as the kind of partner you want to become. I also explain how taking time to take care of yourself can help you become a better partner and attract the intimate partner you most want to have.

“How you relate to other people is a reflection of who you are in your higher self; how you connect.” - Pripo Teplitsky

This week on Relationships! Let’s Talk About It:

  • Adopting the characteristics and values you want in your partner
  • Envisioning the person you want to be and how you want to be by learning from past mistakes and experiences
  • How envisioning yourself on your deathbed and reflecting on your life can help you become the kind of partner you want to be
  • How I learned to become more patient with my wife, Rainbow, by focusing on becoming the kind of partner I wanted to be
  • Embracing self-care, self-love and being compassionate with yourself for the times when you’re not acting like the partner you want to be
  • How setting boundaries can help you avoid criticizing your partner or showing disinterest in the challenges they face
  • Asking yourself what you are doing to make it more difficult to find the partner you most want
  • Why people often try to exert their power when they feel under-valued and how it impacts relationships
  • Practicing the values and characteristics you want to have with your family and in your friendships
  • How changing your behavior, characteristics, and values can inspire change in your partner

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22 Feb 2022154. When to Let It Go00:54:22

We all have held on to conflicts, resentments, arguments, grudges, and anger. The decision of whether to bring up and try to resolve a conflict is a tricky one. When is the right time? How should you do it? What if your partner is not open to talk about it? Is it healthy to just let it go and move on? And if you decide to let go of a conflict, what do you do instead?

In this episode I have a conversation with my wife, Yvonne Rainbow Teplitsky. She is the founder of Artsy Goddess Studio, where she actively carries out her role in helping others and the planet heal. Rainbow is passionate about art, as seen in the upcycled clothing she creates from second-hand materials, as well as the visual arts she creates, such as murals, paintings, and tapestries. Yvonne also helps women transform through voice empowering workshops and helps couples through workshops and retreats that she co-facilitates with me.

“Pretending to let it go is just another form of avoidance” 

- Yvonne Rainbow Teplitsky

Related Podcasts:

Aftermath of a Fight or a Regrettable Incident 

The Importance of Apologies

The Art of Apology

Maintaining Connection Through Conflict

 

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25 Jun 201945. Do the Right Thing00:35:42

Corey Costanzo is a Somatic Therapist, a Licensed Addiction Counselor, and a Licensed Massage and Body Work Therapist. He is the co-owner of Still Point Wellness, an award-winning Salt Water Floatation and Esalen Massage spa in Asheville, NC. He earned his Bachelor’s degree in Psychology from the University of Vermont and a Master’s degree in Clinical Psychology with a special focus on somatic/body psychology from Santa Barbara Graduate Institute.

 

Corey joins me today to discuss the aspect of integrity and doing the right thing when faced with difficult decisions. We discuss the difference between following what our bodies and hearts tell us to do versus following our thoughts. We explain how practicing mindfulness and self-inquiry can help you determine whether you’re making the right decisions based on your values and integrity and how these practices can help you be more in-tune with your spouse, partner, or others in your relationships. We also discuss how our past experiences shape the way we make decisions and influence our decisions on doing the right thing.

 

“When the right thing is done, it can turn into some of the most profound growth experiences in life.” - Corey Costanzo

 

This week on Relationships! Let’s Talk About It:

 

  • How volunteering at a men’s detention center has impacted Corey’s perspective on doing the right thing.
  • How Corey knows when he has made a good decision that is in alignment with his values.
  • How to use your body as a checks-and-balances resource to guide your decisions.
  • How mindfulness, self-inquiry, and breathing practices help you make better decisions that are in alignment with your core values and integrity.
  • Making good relational decisions versus simply compromising.
  • How to balance understanding your partner’s reality and sharing your own perspective without being judgmental.
  • Corey’s recent experience of planning his sister’s surprise birthday party and how he realized he was making decisions based on his preferences instead of what his sister would want.
  • The importance of being disciplined to think beyond yourself when making decisions that will impact others.
  • Rewarding children for showing empathy and claiming ownership of their mistakes.
  • What it means for parents to set ‘hard-core boundaries’ for their children and why Corey believes there is a more effective way to teach children to do the right thing.
  • How your unique experiences, personality, and character structure influences your decision-making skills.
  • An effective strategy for rebuilding trust that has been broken in a relationship.
  • How to identify if your behavior and actions are in alignment with the relational agreements you’ve made.
  • How learning from your previous mistakes and poor decisions helps you make better decisions in the future.

  

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17 Nov 2020118. Mending Political Divides Among Each Other00:50:59

Our country is rife with political conversations that tend to divide people. These exchanges can become more challenging when political differences occur in families and close relationships, where a divergence of ideals can strain connection. When the writer, teacher, and food activist Lee Warren recently witnessed one of her peers using aggressive language towards people of the other political spectrum, the experience spurred her to write Can We Love Our Political Enemies?, a piece where she curates an online conversation about having empathy for people who think differently.

Lee is the co-founder and managing partner of SOIL - the School of Integrated Living - an organization that teaches organic food production, regenerative systems, and community living. She is a sustainability professional whose experience spans over 25 years and whose interests include rural wisdom, sustainable economics, community, and conscious dying.

In this episode, Lee and I explore how we can connect with and love people who have political ideals different from ours. We discuss holding friends to a higher standard of empathy and illustrate how social media tends to exacerbate division among people. We describe what it’s like to experience political differences within families and close relationships and explain how fear and trauma can influence our politics. We also highlight the need to bring curiosity into our ideological differences and discuss how we can use non-violent communication to hold political dialog.

 

“If we want community, the thing to do is to build real, human coalitions between people who have different perspectives and values.” - Lee Warren

 

This week on Relationships! Let’s Talk About It:

  • The experience that led Lee to write Can We Love Our Political Enemies?
  • Holding up our friends to a higher standard of empathy
  • How social media promotes division among people
  • How Lee realized that she was stuck in an echo chamber and had to break off of it
  • The difficulty of experiencing political differences within families
  • Using non-violent communication and curiosity to explore contradictory political values
  • How biology can influence our discourse
  • The importance, and privilege, of choosing curiosity over hatred
  • Our negativity bias and why human beings don’t look for commonality first
  • Getting exaggerated, extreme stories about our “political enemies” and how the media exacerbates our fear of the Other
  • Building coalitions in small towns and rural America
  • Land-based wisdom and the value of listening to other peoples’ personal stories
  • Building the muscle of curiosity and using self-soothing techniques in holding political conversations

 

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04 Jun 201942. What do men want in relationships00:48:50

Vijay Director has provided coaching and consultation services for over 25 years and across a broad spectrum of specialized areas. From relationships and intimacy to sports performance, meditation, and business, he has had extensive experience in supporting men in need of guidance and emotional reassurance. An entrepreneur in the fields of natural living, therapy, as well as arts, health, and spirituality, Vijay also runs a non-denomination, non-profit learning center and has led support groups for men for three decades. Additionally, he is currently on the cusp of completing his first book.

 

Vijay joins me today to discuss the need for women to understand men’s shame and feeling of inadequacy. We discuss the need for affirmative acknowledgment and appreciation as well as non-sexual physical contact as affirmation of love and support. We share our thoughts on the challenges that men face, particularly with regard to anger and healthy masculinity. We also discuss men’s need for softness in complaints, as opposed to harsh criticism.

 

“Men are looking to be in relationships and be in spaces where they can avoid shame or have that shame healed in some ways.” - Vijay Director

  

This week on Relationships! Let’s Talk About It:

 

  • Vijay’s perspective on the most important thing that men are looking for in their relationships.
  • The varying physical needs of men, especially in different age groups.
  • The “touch-starved” and “touch-phobic” culture of men and how touch is misinterpreted and underestimated as a result.
  • The complexities, pre-requisites, and challenges involved in sexual intimacy.
  • The comedic notion of men as “bears with furniture,” and the grain of truth behind it.
  • The nine ways anger comes out sideways and the physical ways it manifests in men.
  • The societal pressure that leads men to express sadness as anger.
  • How men can gently invite women to be with their sadness.
  • The reality behind men’s feelings of inadequacy and insecurity.
  • Balancing the roles of men and women in society and what men and women are asking from each other in modern-day relationships.
  • The definition of “owning the masculine,” and how men’s need for direct answers can lead to complications.
  • Resistance as a kneejerk response to change and why it takes time for men to determine how they really feel about it.
  • How a sudden surge of long-distance heartbreak led Vijay to an unexpected realization and ecstasy.
  • Insights on what happens to men whose needs grow with their relationships.

 

 

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16 Jun 202096. The Importance of Apologies00:49:58

An apology, meaningfully and thoughtfully given, transforms. It transforms us, empowering us to take ownership of our actions and behavior. It transforms relationships between couples, paving the way for love and intimacy. It transforms relationships between peoples, giving them the courage to take responsibility for the past and standing up for racial equality and justice.

These are lessons I keep learning in the life I share with my wife, Yvonne Rainbow Teplitsky. Rainbow is an artist, fashion designer, and founder of the Artsy Goddess Studio. Together, Rainbow and I continue to hone our skills in the art of apology. We consistently learn about the truths of apologies and forgiveness, whether it’s from our daily interactions with each other or from social and human rights movements like the Black Lives Matter movement.

In today’s episode, Rainbow and I discuss why apologizing is as essential in relationships as appreciating. We illustrate how upbringing and social and cultural environments can affect our attitudes toward taking responsibility and asking for forgiveness. We reveal the foundation of giving meaningful and profound apologies and underscore the role of empathy in this foundation. We also share how we apologize to each other and explain how apologizing brings connection and healing.

 

“A happy marriage is between people who are willing to apologize and forgive.” - Yvonne Rainbow Teplitsky

 

This week on Relationships! Let’s Talk About It:

  • The value of asking for forgiveness in today’s social climate
  • How important and impactful apologies have been in our relationship
  • Why we emphasize apologizing as much as appreciation in committed relationships
  • How Rainbow used to find apologies dreadful but now sees it as an opportunity for connection
  • Why the inability to apologize is a source of dysfunction in relationships
  • How apologizing paves the way for understanding, intimacy, and empowerment
  • The pillars of giving a profound and meaningful apology
  • The importance of waiting to be ready before apologizing
  • Why an apology shouldn’t come with defending or explaining a behavior
  • How culture, upbringing, and social environments create negative behaviors around apologizing and taking responsibility
  • Creating a bridge for connection by apologizing first
  • Why learning to receive an apology is as important as giving it
  • Sharing feelings of hurt, discomfort, or shame without disconnection and how to respond to its expression

 

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29 Dec 2020124. New Love... Taking Risks To Be Real01:08:54

The willingness to take risks, to be authentic, and to be open to vulnerability is critical to a new relationship. To author and speaker Gregg Levoy and musician and former Silicon Valley tech executive Cindy Nelson, being able to work with each other’s darkness and light - not to mention their “crazies” - allows them to go deeper in their connection with each other. Gregg & Cindy both began their relationship in May 2020. At the height of the pandemic, Gregg & Cindy navigated their budding relationship slowly, bearing the openness to balance out infatuation and romance with gentle doses of reality, indeed demonstrating that “love” is not only a feeling, but also a verb.

In this episode, Greg, Cindy, and I share the story of how they met and illustrate their unique way of connecting with each other. We discuss the value of catching and addressing issues while they’re still small and describe how couples can use non-violent communication to resolve conflict. We also highlight how couples can cultivate safety in each other and explain why it can be beneficial to see a couples’ therapist early on in the relationship.

 

“As we share our vulnerabilities, we become more capable of handling them, sharing them with somebody else, and putting our hearts in their hands.” - Gregg Levoy

 

This week on Relationships! Let’s Talk About It:

  • How meeting during the pandemic helped Greg & Cindy take their time in their relationship
  • Greg & Cindy’s first meeting in person after months of written correspondence
  • The dynamics of new relationships and how Cindy & Greg knew they wanted to pursue their connection further
  • Purposefully balancing out infatuation and romance with gentle doses of reality
  • The first question Cindy asked in person and how Greg established that he wanted somebody with depth
  • Greg & Cindy’s “crazies” and the importance of being open to vulnerability
  • The power of intentional touch and its impact on a new relationship
  • Establishing the need for some time alone and how Greg & Cindy satisfy each other’s love languages
  • The right time to bring the “love is blind” adage into a relationship
  • How taking risks and exploring vulnerability brings more love, intimacy, and safety
  • How Cindy’s mindfulness practice helps her navigate her relationship with Greg
  • Working through challenges while they’re still small
  • Using non-violent communication to work through conflicts and avoid kitchen-sinking
  • Expecting potential challenges and milestones in new relationships
  • Navigating the extrovert-introvert scale between Greg & Cindy
  • Making peace with and respecting your partner’s history and previous relationships
  • Why it could be beneficial to see a relationship therapist earlier in a relationship

 

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10 Oct 2023196. HeartShare: Micromanaging in Relationships00:44:05

In this solocast I talk about micromanaging. Micromanaging in a relationship is when one partner excessively controls or monitors the other partner's actions, often to the point of interfering with their independence and decision-making ability It is a form of control and manipulation when it is a constant in your relationship. Micromanaging often stems from a lack of trust or insecurity. It can also stem from OCD (obsessive-compulsive disorder) tendencies.

Micromanaging in a relationship is unhealthy, exhausting, and will affect your happiness

 - ~Pripo Teplitsky

 

Related Content: Other Podcast Episodes

HeartShare: Change Your Thoughts, Change Your Relationships

How to Have the Partner You Most Want to Have

Micro-Moments in Relationships

Body Awareness Can Help Us Relate

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15 Aug 2023192. How to Listen Without Being Defensive00:57:32

In this episode, I have a conversation with Cathy Courtenay. Cathy is a relational coach and facilitator. She works with both couples and individuals who are striving to find deeper connection and intimacy both with themselves and each other. She helps her clients to see the patterns of relating that are holding them back from what they truly desire. Cathy also facilitates the practice of the Circling Method where she creates a safe space for people where they can stand in their truth and experience what is real for them. Responding to life’s call to find truth, Cathy is committed to a mission of helping uplift humanity and develop profound compassion and empathy in the world.

Most of us are challenged to listen non-defensively when we are triggered or our conversations start to get intense. Listening without getting defensive is a skill that can be learned. First awareness is key, know that ourselves or the other is activated. Self-soothing is another step in the process in order to regulate ourselves so that we can listen with curiosity and the intent to understand, not defend.

 

“If neither partner is resourced in the moments right after activation, that’s when it gets really tricky."

~Cathy Courtenay

 

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Related Content: Other Podcast Episodes with Cathy

Single Parenting: The Challenges and Rewards

Developing a Healthy Relationship with Yourself

Control Issues

Relationship Sabotage

Couples Communication: Circling Techniques

Difficult Conversations

 

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03 Dec 201968. Food and Diet Can Influence Relationships00:56:30

Mollie Curry is a ‘true Earth’ person. In addition to being a wilderness ranger, communitarian, permaculturist, home herbalist, and gardener, she is a natural builder who aims to help the planet and its people come to greater balance. Through her work, Mollie fosters more profound connections with herself, society, the Earth, and spirit. She was first involved in the art of natural building in the mid-90s when she moved to the Earthhaven Ecovillage in North Carolina.

 

After years of honing her skills and working as a ranger for the Forest Service, Mollie met her husband, Steve Kemble, at the Lama Foundation, a spiritual community in New Mexico. They eventually moved to Asheville, NC. where she combined her business, Earth Circle Natural Building, with her husband’s to create MudStrawLove, an organization dedicated to training people in natural building techniques.

 

In today’s episode, Mollie and I discuss how health and diet can affect relationships. We discuss what caused her addiction to sugar and what made her decide to choose a healthier diet. We discuss the cycle of shame that came with her sugar addiction and how that shame affected her relationship with her husband. We also discuss the psychological aspects of eating habits and why distressed couples eat unhealthy food.

“There are so many ways of being fed. If you feel an emotional eating impulse, you can go outside and take ten deep breaths. That’s a way of being fed as well.” - Mollie Curry

 

This week on Relationships! Let’s Talk About It:

 

  • The factors that caused Mollie’s addiction to sugar
  • How physical health affects psychological health
  • The shame cycle of sugar addiction
  • How self-deprecation impacts relationships
  • Mollie’s turning point towards a healthier lifestyle
  • How emotional and social factors influence eating habits
  • Why couples in distressed relationships eat unhealthily
  • How emotional distress can impact the immune system
  • The power of appreciation in relationships
  • How our environment affects the way we eat
  • How cooking can be a chance for emotional connection and bonding

 

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12 Mar 2024206. Fathers & Sons: Healing the Generations00:52:10

Jared Hinton M.A, M.A.T,  LCMHC is a psychotherapist in private practice in Asheville, NC. Jared is a husband, father, and a person in long-term recovery. His work focuses on helping individuals and couples heal from patterns of ancestral, familial, and relational trauma. Jared is a graduate of Naropa University's Contemplative and Buddhist Psychology program and a student of the Appalachian Gestalt Institute in Asheville.

In this episode, Jared and I have a conversation about parenting and fatherhood. We discuss our own involvement with our sons and our relational schemas with our fathers. Jared shares his journey into fatherhood after years in recovery, which gave him a foundation and practice in the journey of emotional regulation and renewal We explore such questions as; What do sons wish they had received from their fathers? What might honest, healing conversations between fathers and sons look like? What does it look like to heal intergenerational trauma and dysfunction?

“Being the dad that I want to be on a daily basis is not overshadowing the small things; like cuddling my son in bed or helping him regulate when he’s having a tough time.

- Jared Hinton

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26 Mar 201932. Conscious Dating00:44:26

Phoenix Bartalos is a healer at Blossom and Be, a Nonviolent Communication Coach, a Shadow Work® Facilitator, and a Licensed Massage and Bodywork Therapist among many other training and certifications he has acquired in the previous years. With over 25-years of experience in personal growth, he offers healing services relating to physical, mental, and emotional health throughout the Asheville, North Carolina region. Additionally, Phoenix coaches couples on the foundations of a healthy relationship and helps single people discover and equip themselves on how to open up to others to cultivate conscious relationships.

 

Today, Phoenix and I explore the reasons for engaging in conscious dating as we reflect on the things we will repeat - and those that we won’t - in our future relationships. We emphasize the importance of working on ourselves and loving ourselves as well as the physical science of setting boundaries. We discuss online dating and what to watch for when looking at online profiles. We also explain how to assess compatibility, especially regarding communication, as well as vital elements such as self-forgiveness and self-love.

 

“Step one is learning to love yourself. Conscious dating - being in a conscious relationship - that means being conscious of who I am.”- Phoenix Bartalos

  

This week on Relationships! Let’s Talk About It:

 

  • How Phoenix shifted the relationship patterns that wasn’t working in his past relationships
  • What it means to be conscious of who you are
  • The medium for self-awareness and self-understanding
  • Why it’s relevant to have more in-depth conversations with guy friends
  • How to filter people when considering online dating
  • How to establish friendship without the influence of sexual relationship
  • Debunking the myth “You complete me”
  • What to do when you notice the red flags
  • Why conscious dating or conscious coupling is getting more popular these days
  • How Phoenix helps couples overcome the challenges they are going through
  • How to prepare for the process of conscious dating
  • The source where most arguments come from
  • Defining the purpose of conflict
  • Where your love for self can start
  • The role that your past plays in conscious dating
  • How Phoenix’s relationships benefitted after he grieved his father’s abandonment
  • Three things he offers people who are entering conscious dating after they have gone through breakups

 

 

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To learn more about The Power of Appreciation Workshop for Couples, and to register, visit HeartShare Counseling & Consulting PC or call (828) 712-8398.

 

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12 Feb 201926. HeartShare: Constructive Criticism?00:29:41

You will often see the words disapproval, judgment, and faults when you do a Google search on the definition of the word criticism. Many people believe that offering constructive criticism helps improve and build relationships - whether personal or professional. With the negative words associated with the word criticism, why are we surprised that many relationships fail to achieve their goal of finding solutions to the challenges they encounter?

 

Today, I share what appreciation is and how it is related to criticism. I discuss the big distinction between complaints and criticism, how to test yourself to know if you’re being critical, and the difference between judging-type questions and learning-type questions. I share stories of how criticism creeps up in my own personal relationships, how I ‘dial down’ my inner critic, and how it impacts your external behaviors and criticism. I also share the formula for resolving differences, what relationship hygiene is and the relevance of doing it, and how your habits affect your ability to be positive or negative in your relationships.

 

“Love does not survive critical judgements from a loved one.” - Pripo Teplitsky

  

This week on Relationships! Let’s Talk About It:

 

  • The difference between constructive criticism and constructive feedback.
  • Why we need to wipe out criticism as much as possible.
  • One defining aspect of criticism.
  • Examples of critical statements versus statements of constructive complaint.
  • Causes of relationship erosion between couples who have been together for many years.
  • The difference between advice-giving and criticism.
  • Why people do not change when criticized.
  • How habits of criticism creep up in my marriage and how my wife and I handle these situations.
  • How criticism fuels habitual anger.
  • How to dial down the inner critic in you.
  • The story of how I learned best through a coach who gave encouraging feedback, focused on the solution and positivity.
  • How children interpret their parents’ constant criticism.
  • What matters in a relationship - getting things done versus contributing to each other’s happiness and well-being.
  • Different approaches when you desire to give unsolicited advice.
  • Why it’s crucial to stick to one complaint at a time.
  • What happens when you try to focus on more than one complaint per discussion.
  • Why the transformational process is more significant than the resolution process.
  • Why you should avoid discussions when you’re busy and stressed out.
  • How to practice changing the way you think about the people in your life.
  • The relevance of creating habits to be more positive, open, and curious.

 

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To learn more about The Power of Appreciation Workshop for Couples, and to register, visit HeartShare Counseling & Consulting PC or call (828) 712-8398.

 

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05 Dec 2023200. Feeling Seen and Heard00:54:41

n this episode I have a conversation with my wife, Yvonne Rainbow Teplitsky. She is the founder of Artsy Goddess Studio, where she actively carries out her role in helping others and the planet heal. Rainbow is passionate about art, as seen in the upcycled clothing she creates from second-hand materials, as well as the visual arts she creates, such as murals, paintings, and tapestries. She also helps women transform through voice empowering workshops and helps couples through workshops and retreats that she co-facilitates with me.

The longing to be seen, heard and considered is normal and vital. But if you don’t feel heard or understood by your partner (or vice-versa), chances are, neither you nor your partner are really present to each other as much as you could be. We don’t want others necessarily to agree with all our feelings, but what we crave is that they at least validate them. Rainbow and I talk about how this shows up in our relationship.

“The best way to understand people is to listen to them”

- Yvonne Rainbow Teplitsky

Related Podcasts:

Giving Your Partner the Benefit of the Doubt

Repair is Key to a Successful Relationship

Aftermath of a Fight or a Regrettable Incident 

The Importance of Apologies

The Art of Apology

Maintaining Connection Through Conflict

 

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14 May 201939. Helping Men Learn to Connect with Women00:53:58

Cathy Courtenay is a dating consultant for men. She uses her learnings from the art of circling to provide personal and spiritual guidance to men who want coaching in the dating and relationship world. Her experience with somatic bodywork and dance, combined with her expertise in marketing and parenting, have provided her with a unique set of skills that allow her to process human emotions and experiences, transforming them into valuable lessons for her clients.

 

Cathy joins me today to discuss vulnerability, presence, authenticity, self-awareness, and other aspects of dating that can help men better understand what women truly want. We discuss her philosophy and approach when it comes to dating and relationships and how our separate professions allow us to gain deeper insight into other people and learn to “fall in love” with their truths. We also share our insights on self-validation, the emotional barriers that prevent men from having meaningful relationships, and the biggest missteps men commit in pursuing and understanding women.

 

“In terms of masculine and feminine and our roles, we’re in a different paradigm than we were even 10, 15, 20 years ago.” - Cathy Courtenay

  

This week on Relationships! Let’s Talk About It:

 

  • How Cathy began her practice as a dating consultant for men.
  • The meaning of the practice of circling and what it entails.
  • Why getting to know somebody beyond the surface is a gift.
  • How Cathy’s experiences with men inspired her to follow this track.
  • The process she follows in dating consultation.
  • The common mistakes men make in dating.
  • The concept of men having to “lead” in dating.
  • Attuning to someone’s frequency, and how it provides a sense of safety.
  • How attraction figures into her line of work and how she deals with the possibility of her clients getting attracted to her because of the attention she gives.
  • How she brings a lot of herself into her work to be able to help her clients.
  • Her experiences growing up in South Africa in the thick of apartheid — and how that shaped her desire to put her energy into fighting injustice and teaching people how to be more open to love.
  • Self-validation and why people are scared to open themselves up and reveal what’s inside.
  • How I teach my clients to deal with anger and shame through self-compassion.
  • The emotional barriers and shortcomings deeply ingrained in men that prevent them from having successful and meaningful relationships with women.
  • The importance of giving space for vulnerability and dealing with pain and suffering without trying to “fix” or change a person.

 

 

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18 Oct 2022171. Repair is Key to Relationship Success00:47:11

The idea of “repair attempts” in a conflict has been especially important in understanding what matters about the way that couples manage conflict. John Gottman, (relationship expert and researcher) describes repair attempts as “any statement or action — silly or otherwise — that prevents negativity from escalating out of control.” An argument can be avoided and hurt feelings diffused by using repair attempts.  If done successfully, they can help de-escalate conflict and keep things from getting out of hand.

In this episode I have a conversation with my wife, Yvonne Rainbow Teplitsky. She is the founder of Artsy Goddess Studio, where she actively carries out her role in helping others and the planet heal. Rainbow is passionate about art, as seen in the upcycled clothing she creates from second-hand materials, as well as the visual arts she creates, such as murals, paintings, and tapestries. She also helps women transform through voice empowering workshops and helps couples through workshops and retreats that she co-facilitates with me.

“Everyone makes mistakes, it’s what you do next” 

- Yvonne Rainbow Teplitsky

Related Podcasts:

Aftermath of a Fight or a Regrettable Incident 

The Importance of Apologies

The Art of Apology

Maintaining Connection Through Conflict

 

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25 Sep 201805. HeartShare: The Art of Listening00:37:44
One of the most common complaints in distressed marriages, partnerships, and relationships is that one - or both - people feel as though the other is not really listening to them. Mastering the art of listening is a critical component for improving your communication skills - and ultimately - your ability to deepen your connection with your partner and the people around you.
 
On today’s episode, I discuss the importance of honing your listening skills and how it can impact and improve your relationship with your partner as well as your friends, family, and colleagues. I explain what reflective listening is and how monitoring your self-talk can impact your ability to become a good listener for others. I also explain what it means to listen with empathy and how being present, curious, and interested in a conversation you are engaged in can impact the way the speaker feels as well as how it can help deepen the connection with them.
 
 
 
“Listening and empathy skills are the hallmarks of good communicators.” - Pripo Teplitsky
 
 
 
This week on Relationships! Let’s Talk About It:
 
  • What is “true listening?”
  • How being authentically curious and interested in your partner impacts your listening skills.
  • What it means to “listen with the ears of the heart.”
  • How monitoring your self-talk during a conversation impacts your ability to be a present and empathetic listener.
  • How to become a reflective listener.
  • The difference between agreeing with the speaker vs. validating and acknowledging their experience and emotions.
  • The importance of eye contact.
  • Why it’s important to resist the temptation to engage your thoughts that might interrupt the speaker’s train of thought.
  • Resisting the urge to fill moments of silence.
  • The importance of being honest when you’re distracted during a conversation.
  • Getting clear on what the speaker expects from the listener.
  • The correlation between your listening skills and intimacy.
  • How breathing impacts your ability to listen and be present in a conversation.
  • How deep listening creates authentic connections between individuals and partners.
 
 
 
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To learn more about The Power of Appreciation Workshop, and to register, visit HeartShare Counseling & Consulting PC or call (828) 712-8398.
 
 
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20 Jun 2023188. Fantasy vs. Reality and the Effects on Relationships01:00:09

In this episode I have a conversation with Eric Ingersoll. Eric is a relationship transformation guide. He knows transformation from the inside out, because he is walking this path himself. Once a brooding indie-rock musician using sexual fantasy to try and meet his needs for aliveness and acceptance, he has since learned the relational skills that empower him to get his needs met in his real-life relationships. By cultivating a magical blend of intimacy and autonomy, he and his wife are falling more deeply in love with each passing day. They now work as a team supporting individuals and couples that want to cultivate more aliveness and connection in their own lives. You can learn more about their work at ericandzucu.com.

Eric discusses how living in fantasy most of his life took him away from reality and made it difficult for him to create authentic intimate relationships. Through the continuous work around feelings of shame and inadequacy, and finding compassionate communication tools, Eric is now living a life that is more fulfilled, present, authentic and enriching. If you find you are continually living out relationships in the safe zone of your mind, give this a listen.

 

“Fantasy just became too painful, it conflicted with reality” 

Eric Ingersoll

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Contact: Eric Ingersoll

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Grateful Living: Transforming Your Emotions and Relationships

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20 Sep 2022169. Focusing on the “WE” in Your Relationship: Being a Team00:54:08

Most couples struggle at times of how to build and feed the “US” or “WE” in their relationship vs. their individual needs and desires. Thinking of your partnership as a team shifts your focus. Suddenly it’s not “me versus you”, it’s “us”. The next step however, is shifting the thinking of this focus and putting it into action. In this episode, I have a conversation with Cathy Courtenay. Cathy is a relational coach and facilitator. She works with both couples and individuals who are striving to find deeper connection and intimacy both with themselves and each other. She helps her clients to see the patterns of relating that are holding them back from what they truly desire. Cathy also facilitates the practice of the Circling Method where she creates a safe space for people where they can stand in their truth and experience what is real for them. Responding to life’s call to find truth, Cathy is committed to a mission of helping uplift humanity and develop profound compassion and empathy in the world. “Being on the same team takes the frailty out of the relationship” - Cathy Courtenay Connect with Cathy Courtenay: Cathy Courtenay Website Cathy Courtenay on Facebook Related Content: Other Podcast Episodes with Cathy Developing a Healthy Relationship with Yourself Control Issues Relationship Sabotage Couples Communication: Circling Techniques Difficult Conversations Falling in Love Let’s Talk About It! Thanks for tuning into this week’s episode of Relationships! Let’s Talk About It - the show to help you forge deeper, more meaningful connections and relationships with those around you. If you enjoyed this week’s episode, please head over to Apple Podcasts, subscribe to the show, and leave us a rating and review. New Live Online Coaching Groups starting in October. Check out our Guided Audio Practices, Meditations and Workshops at Relationships! Let’s Learn About It. You can check out the original songs I have sung in my podcast at Pripo’s Podcast Songs. Don’t forget to visit our website and follow us on Twitter and Instagram. Share your favorite episodes on social media to help others build better, more meaningful relationships. And if our content has helped you forge deeper connections and more meaningful relationships, be sure to help support the show by visiting our Support the Podcast page! Theme music “These Streets” provided by Adi the Monk

04 Aug 2020103. Couples Communication: Circling Techniques00:55:37

Cathy Courtenay is a Conscious Relating Coach who brings her heart and listening skills to everything that she does, whether it’s dance or Body-Mind Centering. She is a true gift to the relational world, and through leading the Art of Circling, Cathy cultivates a safe space for people where they can stand in their truth and experience what is real for them. Responding to life’s call to find truth, Cathy is committed to a mission of helping uplift humanity and develop profound compassion and empathy in the world. 

In this episode, Cathy and I explore and demonstrate the art of circling and how it can cultivate relational skills between couples. We discuss how society has conditioned us to be solutions-oriented and how we tend to be uncomfortable with simply being present for another person. We describe the different kinds of noticing and illustrate how we make assumptions on or judge our experiences. We also underscore the role of curiosity in practicing the art of circling and detail how couples can establish circling as a daily practice.

 

“The more curiosity you can bring in, the greater the ability there will be for more understanding, connection, and intimacy.” - Cathy Courtenay

 

This week on Relationships! Let’s Talk About It:

  • The art of circling and how it can help couples develop relational skills
  • The importance of authentic communication between couples amid the pandemic
  • How circling can help us sit with our experiences, whether they’re good or challenging
  • Our tendency to correct and fix people in contrast to just being present with them
  • Demonstrating two exercises in the art of circling
  • The importance of expanding and practicing our emotional vocabulary
  • Practicing the art of circling without the need to solve a problem or arrive at a goal
  • The two different types of noticing and what it means to observe without judgment
  • Falling into the blame game when we feel shame and why we need to own our experiences
  • Establishing the practice of circling as a daily habit
  • Why it can be challenging for some people to practice the art of circling

 

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14 Jul 2020100. Couples Appreciation01:07:43

If a relationship is a garden, what is the number one thing you could do to make it thrive? You might think it’s sex, but the number one relationship booster is appreciation. Appreciation is the most potent tool couples can use to cultivate their relationship with each other, their friends, and their family. My 25-year-long relationship with my wife, Yvonne Rainbow Teplitsky, has grown through mindfully and intently expressing our appreciation.

 

Rainbow is a brilliant artist, designer, and founder of the Artsy Goddess Studio whose practice of appreciation - not only in her relationship with me but with all of the people around her - has grown and blossomed like the flowers in her garden.

 

In this episode, Rainbow and I explore how appreciation has defined and deepened our 25-year-long relationship. We share how we began to consciously practice appreciation and how couples can establish appreciation as a practice. We discuss how consistently and meaningfully expressing appreciation can nip the bud of affairs in relationships and explain how a couple can escape the blame game through cultivating appreciation. We also illustrate how appreciation can magnify the potential in people as well as share an example of how Rainbow and I express our appreciation for each other.

 

“Appreciation expands and grows. Plant their seeds and see them bloom into flowers.” - Yvonne Rainbow Teplitsky

 

This week on Relationships! Let’s Talk About It:

  • How appreciation made a profound difference in our relationship
  • Why appreciation is the most essential tool couples have to maintain and strengthen their relationship
  • What a HeartShare Appreciation is and the different levels of appreciation
  • The importance of expressing appreciation as soon as you feel it
  • Cultivating appreciation as a practice in the relationship
  • The value of knowing and communicating how you want to be appreciated and what you want to be appreciated for
  • Why it’s okay to appreciate your partner for the same things
  • How we began to bring appreciation as a practice into our relationship
  • The challenge of receiving kindness and appreciation from other people
  • Appreciation as a tool to affair-proof a relationship
  • John Gottman’s ratio of positive and negative interactions
  • Getting out of the relationship criticism loop through the power of appreciation
  • How appreciation makes us more open and accepting of challenges, accountability, and responsibility in relationships
  • Deepening our connection with our son by modeling appreciation

 

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26 Mar 2024207. Transformational Themes for a Healthier Self and Your Relationships: Coaching Programs00:18:06

In this podcast, I introduce my coaching programs for individuals and couples. I present specific themes that I have discovered working with clients over 20 years, as well as my own life, that, when addressed can help transform our own life and our relationships.

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24 Sep 201958. HeartShare: Emotional Availability in Relationships00:39:48

Knowing ourselves well involves understanding ourselves so we can be emotionally available in our relationships. It’s about knowing what triggers us to pull back, stonewall, and protect ourselves from the potential pain that was brought about by our circumstances. Being emotionally available to others allows us to establish honest and healthy relationships, even during conflict.

 

Today, I share what emotional availability is and the steps you can take to increase your emotional availability with others. I discuss why people are emotionally unavailable in relationships, how to deal with the challenges associated with it, and what you can do to make others feel comfortable with opening up and being emotionally available. I also share how my perspective of the male emotional world has changed since my childhood and how my family and I experienced a deeper level of connectedness, honesty, and love in spite of a family conflict.

 

 

“This is one way to transform the world - by being emotionally available.” - Pripo Teplitsky

 

 

 

This week on Relationships! Let’s Talk About It:

 

  • Why it’s difficult to be available to others and ourselves.
  • How the movie Brian’s Songchanged my view of how men feel.
  • The wrong notion men have about emotions.
  • Effective and ineffective ways to engage men to be emotionally available.
  • How men and women connect and bond differently on an interpersonal level.
  • The role that parents play in their children’s understanding of emotional availability.
  • What parents can do to teach their children emotional availability.
  • How emotionally unavailable people deal with conflict.
  • What it means to “speak your truth” and “find your truth while speaking.”
  • How to “take care of your own cup” so you can be available to somebody else.
  • Why most parents are not emotionally available to their kids.
  • How parents unintentionally teach co-dependence to their children.
  • How my father-in-law’s emotional unavailability affected my wife’s self-esteem and self-worth.
  • Why living a life of constant guardedness is a picture of notliving a full life.
  • The inner work you can do to be more available emotionally.

 

 

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02 Jul 2024214. Bringing Up Issues00:56:32

Corey Costanzo is the Co-Owner of Asheville’s Still Point Wellness Spa, a licensed addiction counselor, trauma specialist, licensed massage therapist, master didgeridoo player, colleague, and my good friend.

In this episode, Corey and I have a conversation about healthy ways to bring up issues. Many people bring up issues in dysfunctional ways with harsh start-ups, criticisms, accusations and demands, or just bad timing. There are better ways to bring up issues.

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19 Mar 201931. Releasing Tension: The Courage to Feel00:46:41

Gregg Levoy is a Passionate Living Expert and seminar leader that frequently holds workshops for the business, educational, and governmental as well as faith-based and human-potential industries. He is the author of the bestselling books Vital Signs: The Nature and Nurture of Passion and Callings: Finding and Following An Authentic Life, with the latter named as one of the "Top 20 Career Publications" by the Workforce Information Group. Additionally, he is a frequent contributing author and blogger at Psychology Today.

 

Gregg joins me today to discuss different ways of releasing the tension when you’re faced with relationship challenges. We explore the significance of acknowledging what we feel and the various manners of expressing our emotions. We discuss the negative impact of self-directed anger, share stories of traumatic experiences we’ve had in our lives, and discuss the strategies we used to ‘get the steam out’ and release the tension. We also share how these methods help put things into perspective and allow us to reconnect with ourselves and our partners as well as explain how giving yourself - and your partner - personal space can positively impact your relationship.

 

“When you’re sick and tired of being under the spell and being caught in your dramas with each other, do something different. And that takes consciousness and cojones.” - Gregg Levoy

 

 

This week on Relationships! Let’s Talk About It:

 

  • The “pillow exercise” and how to use it to express your anger towards others in a beneficial way.
  • Why self-directed anger is one the primary components of depression.
  • Having the courage of “shaking off” trauma and drama.
  • How Gregg and his ex-wife honored the good things they had a week before they separated.
  • The difference between wallowing in your pain and using it as a cathartic release.
  • My experience of working through the traumatic experience of losing a child.
  • Why it’s hard for people to allow themselves to truly connect with their feelings and emotions.
  • The importance of feeding the love and appreciation in your relationships.
  • Giving yourself - and your partner - the space and time to calm down when feelings of tension and anger are high.
  • How separation and space help your relationship thrive.
  • What “a spark needs a gap” means and how it relates to relationships.
  • Why a lot of couples are petrified of having space away from their partner.
  • Why breakthroughs happen when you get in touch with your emotions and allow yourself to cry.
  • Why it’s important to allow people to truly feel their emotions instead of comforting them or trying to “fix” the problem.
  • The story of the girl who was “banished” to her room for crying and showing negative emotions.
  • Having the courage of naming the emotions you feel.
  • How being vulnerable strengthens relationships.
  • Why the greatest human addiction is the addiction to being right and how it impacts your relationships.

 

 

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25 Feb 202080. HeartShare: Understanding Jealousy00:44:39

Jealousy is a human experience. Whether we were the ones receiving it or the ones feeling it, we’ve all had our fair share of jealous feelings and behaviors. Despite the commonality of this emotion, jealousy could bring on challenges and issues in a romantic relationship that, when aggravated, could create distrust and eventually end the relationship. Couples need to take the necessary steps to overcome jealousy and cultivate a relationship that is connected, open, and loving.

Today, I share my thoughts on jealousy, its causes, and its effects. I explain how jealousy can force our partners to put up boundaries or even commit actions that foster distrust. I reveal how insecurities and low self-esteem can cultivate our tendency to be jealous and share some evolutionary perspectives on why we feel jealous. I share my personal experiences with jealousy and highlight the steps we can take to overcome these feelings. I also answer a listener’s question about how to move forward in a relationship without bringing emotional baggage, why couples need to focus on their willingness to examine and work through emotional hurts and difficulties, as well as highlight the importance of celebrating successes in overcoming emotional baggage. 

 

“No matter how jealous we feel, we need to find a way to come back to ourselves. Know that no matter how strong these feelings are, they will come and pass.” - Pripo Teplitsky

  

This week on Relationships! Let’s Talk About It:

  • The detrimental impact of jealousy on our relationships and how they push our partners to put up boundaries
  • The definition of jealousy and how it’s different from envy
  • Common evolutionary explanations of jealousy
  • The biggest driver and causes of jealousy
  • How working on your sense of self can help soothe feelings of jealousy
  • How open and honest communication can help couples overcome jealousy
  • Why paranoid and obsessive tendencies can trap a person into jealousy
  • How jealousy can make us block our partners
  • Using humor and light-hearted conversations to address feelings of jealousy and anxiety
  • How our inner critic perpetuates destructive thoughts and feelings
  • Dealing with jealousy through acceptance and self-compassion

 

Listener Questions - Let’s Talk About It:

  • How do you move forward in a new relationship without bringing emotional baggage?

 

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13 Nov 201813. HeartShare: The Art of Apology00:53:33

When was the last time you said ‘I’m sorry’ and truly meant it? It is often easy to say the words, but to truly feel sorry - to be vulnerable, take accountability, and try to change a bad behavior or habit - it can often prove more difficult. We tend to say ‘I am sorry’ when we feel embarrassed about mistakes or trying to appease another person.

 

The art of apologizing is a critical skill we must learn in order tobuild deep, meaningful relationship with those around us. And while we often try to avoid conflict in our day-to-day lives - especially with those closest to us - it’s important to remember that it is through conflict and differences that we learn, grow, and improve ourselves and our relationships.

 

On today’s episode, I discuss the art of apologizing and why it is critical for deepening your relationships. I explain why conflict is necessary for self-growth and understanding and the connection between self-compassion, accountability, and a sincere apology. I also explain how a sincere apology can impact the healing process following a hurtful event, why it’s okay to take time to truly feel sorry before apologizing, and how it can often lead to acceptance and forgiveness.

  

“One of the greatest gifts of exploring apologies is the lesson of humility.” - Pripo Teplitsky

 

This week on Relationships! Let’s Talk About It:

 

  • The importance of only apologizing when you truly feel sorry.
  • How to handle situations when you’re not ready to apologize.
  • The importance of taking time to digest and understand your partner’s perspective in a hurtful situation.
  • Why it is often difficult to take accountability for hurting others.
  • The connection between self-compassion, accountability, and a true apology.
  • The difference between feeling remorse and feeling embarrassed or ashamed.
  • What is required before true forgiveness can occur?
  • How apologizing can impact your relationships with your
  • How apologizing can help heal wounds and build bridges in estranged family relationships.
  • The importance of empathizing with how the other person feels.
  • The importance of expressing your regrets when apologizing.
  • Identifying strategies for changing poor behavior or habits.
  • Examples of effective, heartfelt apologies.
  • Setting realistic expectations when apologizing and asking for forgiveness.
  • The difference between accepting an apology and true forgiveness.
  • The importance of always accepting an apology - even if you can’t forgive the behavior.
  • Expressing the qualities you seek in an apology with your spouse or partner.
  • How sincere apologies can impact the healing process.
  • The impact that accountability and apologizing have had in political disputes.
  • The importance of apologizing even when you don’t feel accountable, wrong, or that you’ve intentionally hurt the other person.
  • Exercises to help you improve your apologizing skill to deepen your relationships and begin the healing process.

 

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04 Jul 2023189. Rebuilding Trust Through Non-Violent Communication00:58:06

In this episode I have a conversation with Zucu Ingersoll. Zucu is a relationship facilitator and relational healing guide. She is a perennial (and stumbling) student of the spiritual paradigms and practical skills that lead to deeply satisfying relationships. She and her beloved work as a team supporting individuals, couples, and groups who long for relational healing and the deepening of authentic connection You can learn more about their work at ericandzucu.com.

Zucu shares some past incidences in her relationship with her husband Eric where they needed to repair their relationship, learn the skills to deepen their intimacy and communication and rebuild trust. One of those ways was/is through learning and practicing non-violent communication. Zucu’s emphasis on cultivating curiosity, empathy, loving compassion and warmth is vital to this process.

 

“For me, getting my needs for trust and intimacy met, is by embodying warmth and curiosity in my connections” 

Zucu Ingersoll

Contact: Zucu Ingersoll

ericandzucu.com.

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Fantasy vs. Reality and the Effects on Relationships

Non-Violent Communication

Non- Violent Communication II : And How to Overcome Negativity Bias

Non- Violent Communication: Relationship Repair

Understanding the Shame Cycle

The Shame/Fear Dynamic in Couples

 

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23 Aug 2022167. Non-Violent Living: Reducing Contempt00:48:51

Benjamin Haynes is a wonderful example of today’s young generation. He is a meditator, yogi, and evangelizer of “authentic relating.” I was impressed by his presence, groundedness, and the intentional manner in which he spoke when we met about 3 years ago. After graduating from UNC-Chapel Hill and teaching in Malaysia under a Fulbright grant, Benjamin recently joined Authentic Relating Training, an organization dedicated to the practice and production of authentic relating programs.

In today’s episode, Benjamin and I explore contempt directed within us and projected outward to others and how this creates emotional violence. We talk about how we focus on non-violent living in our lives.

“Emotional violence is likely to leave marks on the outside or inside of the body”

Benjamin Haynes

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09 Oct 201808. The Importance of Self-Inquiry in Building Healthy Relationships00:51:53

Gregg Levoy is anauthor, speaker, and seminar leader. He is the acclaimed author of Vital Signs: The Nature and Nurture of Passion and Callings: Finding and Following An Authentic Life, the latter of which is among the Workforce Information Group’s "Top 20 Career Publications". He previously worked as a Behavioral Specialist at USA Today. Currently, he is a regular contributing author and blogger for Psychology Today. He frequently holds workshops about the business, educational, governmental, faith-based and human-potential industries as well as keynote presentations for audiences at prestigious organizations such as the Smithsonian Institution, the Environmental Protection Agency, and Microsoft.

 

Gregg joins me today to discuss the importance of self-inquiry and knowing your true self and how it impacts your ability to build healthy relationships. We discuss the importance ofnot just of listening, but also of having genuine conversations with yourself, especially in uncovering things you never knew about your character, your relationships, and the world around you. We share how being authentic means paying attention to signs within and around you — and preparing to hear self-truths from ourselves that may not always be pleasant.

 

“It’s really that age-old idea that ‘you can’t love other people until you love yourself.’” - Gregg Levoy

 

This week on Relationships! Let’s Talk About It:

 

  • Knowing yourself through dreamwork, journaling, and asking questions about yourself.
  • How to be a generous listener.
  • Why having an ongoing, conversational relationship with yourself is critical.
  • The meaning of self-reflection and understanding why some people don’t turn their “receivers” on.
  • What dreams actually tell you on a conscious level.
  • How — and why — Gregg turned down an opportunity of a lifetime because of a dream.
  • The benefit of journaling.
  • The value of curiosity, not just about the world, but about each other.
  • The crucial difference between evoking and provoking.
  • “The alien game” and learning about yourself, your partner, and the world.
  • The concept of “dating cities,” and how “I like myself here” can be applied in multiple relationships in your life.

 

Connect with Gregg Levoy:

 

 

Join Us for The Power of Appreciation Workshop

 

Join Pripo and his wife, Yvonne Rainbow Teplitsky, on Sunday, November 11, 2018, in Asheville, NC to learn the secrets of unlocking the Power of Appreciation in your relationships. Genuine appreciation, regardless of how simple or profound, has been proven to bring an immediate shift in the quality and closeness of loving relationships. The Power of Appreciation Workshopwill teach you the necessary skills and fundamental process of enriching your relationship with your partner, deepening the connection, and enhancing the flow of positive.

 

To learn more about The Power of Appreciation Workshop, and to register, visit HeartShare Counseling & Consulting PCor call (828) 712-8398.

 

Sponsored by Still Point Wellness

 

Still Point Wellness is Asheville’s premier spa experience. Enjoy effortless relaxation and rejuvenate your body through Still Point’s world-class services including Esalen Massage®, Salt Water Floatation also known as sensory deprivation, Cranial Sacral Therapy, and Somatic Psychology. Experience the healing powers of deep relaxation like never before!

 

Schedule your first appointment by visiting www.StillPointWell.comor call (828) 348-5372.

 

Mention the code:Pripoto receive 10% off your first Salt Water Floatation and Esalen Massage®!

 

 

Let’s Talk About It!

 

Thanks for tuning into this week’s episode of Relationships! Let’s Talk About It- the show to help you forge deeper, more meaningful connections and relationships with those around you. If you enjoyed this week’s episode, please head over to Apple Podcasts, subscribe to the show, and leave us a rating and review. Don’t forget to visit our website, follow us on Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram, and share your favorite episodes on social media!

 

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25 Sep 201804. Sound and Attunement Healing in Relationships00:42:02

Corey Costanzo is the co-owner of Still Point Wellness, an award-winning spa in Asheville, North Carolina. He is a licensed clinical addictions counselor, trauma and anxiety specialist, music therapist, and mindfulness meditation teacher. He earned his master’s degree in Clinical Psychology with a focus on Somatic Psychology. Additionally, he is a certified Esalen Massage and Somatic Experiencing Practitioner as well as a very talented didgeridoo player.

 

Corey joins me today to share how he is using sound and vibration as a tool to heal and transform the lives of those around him. He explains how sound helps in becoming more attune with your partner and its impact on the connection you build with them. He also explains how harmonics and vibrations influence partnerships, strategies to become more attuned to yourself as well as your partner, and how he uses the didgeridoo as a guided meditation tool in his philanthropic work.

 

“Attunement is a beautiful ingredient to the recipe of a successful relationship - and a successful life.” - Corey Costanzo

 

This week on Relationships! Let’s Talk About It:

 

  • How he uses sound and healing as meditative tools to impact the healing and transformation process.
  • Using the didgeridoo as a healing instrument in guided meditation sessions.
  • The “Inside Out” meditation strategy and how it works.
  • The history of the didgeridoo.
  • How his guided meditation sessions with the didgeridoo at a men’s detention center helped transform the lives of incarcerated men and trauma sufferers.
  • The connection between emotional attunement and harmonic attunement.
  • How attunement can be positive or negative.
  • How being attuned to yourself - your knowing, alignment, and groundedness - impacts your ability to be attuned to others.
  • Strategies to become attuned to yourself, your energy, and your personal space.
  • The power of mental imagery, visualization techniques, and self-attunement.
  • Designing your life with awareness and thought through mindfulness and attunement techniques.

 

 

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Sponsored by Still Point Wellness

 

Still Point Wellness is Asheville’s premier spa experience. Enjoy effortless relaxation and rejuvenate your body through Still Point’s world-class services including Esalen Massage®, Salt Water Floatation also known as sensory deprivation, Cranial Sacral Therapy, and Somatic Psychology. Experience the healing powers of deep relaxation like never before!

 

Schedule your first appointment by visiting www.StillPointWell.com or call (828) 348-5372.

 

Mention the code: Pripo to receive 10% off your first Salt Water Floatation and Esalen Massage®!

 

Let’s Talk About It!

 

Thanks for tuning into this week’s episode of Relationships! Let’s Talk About It - the show to help you forge deeper, more meaningful connections and relationships with those around you. If you enjoyed this week’s episode, please head over to Apple Podcasts, subscribe to the show, and leave us a rating and review. Don’t forget to visit our website, follow us on Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram, and share your favorite episodes on social media!

 

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11 Jun 201943. Fatherhood: My Kind of Yoga00:50:23

Breah Livolsi Parker is a graphic facilitator, authenticity coach, and TEDx speaker who lives by the mantra, “Be who you are… it is so much more than enough.”She is the creator of What’s Right With Me - an audio workbook that is the foundation of her individual coaching sessions and workshops. She is passionate about empowering those around her to fulfill their deepest desires, rediscover their dreams, and unlock their individual uniqueness and innate gifts to truly make a difference in the world.

 

Breah joins me today to discuss why I consider fatherhood as my kind of yoga. We discuss my relationship with my son and my philosophy on freedom, control, and trusting your child’s life path - as well as your path as a parent. We discuss why children often feel uneasy sharing various experiences and discussions with their parents and how I created an environment where my son feels secure about discussing any subject with me. We discuss how mothers can encourage their spouse to establish a relationship with their children and the impact that a father’s influence can have on their children. Breah also shares how becoming a grandmother has allowed her to try different parenting techniques that she wishes she used while raising her children.

 

“Trust in your child’s life path - and trust in your path as a parent.” - Pripo Teplitsky

  

This week on Relationships! Let’s Talk About It:

 

  • How my childhood upbringing and relationship with my father influenced the way I raised my son and the relationship we have.
  • The importance of parents instilling confidence and trust in their children - and trusting in their life’s path.
  • Why many parents turn to “controlled parenting” techniques and the impact of worrying over uncontrollable situations.
  • Why children may feel the need to avoid telling their parents about certain experiences or decisions they make.
  • Understanding and accepting that children learn their boundaries and integrity through experimentation and life experiences.
  • How I set firm boundaries with my son in a loving manner, without yelling or getting angry.
  • Developing trust and confidence in your child’s ability to make good decisions.
  • Why I would tell my son to “stay focused” instead of “be careful” in certain situations.
  • A positive way to address your child’s mistakes and poor decisions.
  • How establishing a connection and closeness with your children will help create a safe and trusting environment that leads them to feel comfortable with opening up to you.
  • How my wife encouraged my relationship with my son.
  • Why I chose to live with my father during my childhood.
  • How my father’s parenting style differed from my mother’s.
  • Why many parents feel that “letting go” is one of the most difficult aspects of parenthood.
  • The impact of raising children in a non-stressful environment.
  • How men modeling positive and healthy interactions with their spouse teaches their children how to treat others.
  • Approaching parenthood from a place of love and understanding instead of discipline and trying to “fix a problem.”
  • Why it’s important for fathers to express - and own - their emotions around their children.
  • The difference between telling your children you love them and being loving toward them.
  • How becoming a grandmother allowed Breah to try different parenting techniques that she wishes she used with her children.

 

Let’s Talk About It!

 

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Don’t forget to visit our website, like us on Facebook at HeartShare Counseling, join our Relationships! Let’s Talk About It Facebook group , and follow us on Twitter and Instagram. Share your favorite episodes on social media to help others build better, more meaningful relationships.

 

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23 Oct 201810. Non-Violent Communication00:47:20

R010 Non-Violent Communication

 

Steve Torma is the co-founder of The REAL Center, an organization that has been committed to encouraging compassionate relationships since 2007. He is the former President of Earthaven Ecovillage in Black Mountain, NC, and was a core faculty member for The Asheville Tantra  School. He has established a thirty-year career of helping countless people find healing, direction, and meaning in their lives through his mastery of Non-Violent Communication (NVC), Radical Honesty, Body Electric, Cuddle  Party, Restorative Circles, Permaculture, and Creation Spirituality.  

 

Steve joins me today to discuss non-violent communications and how being in sync with our feelings can help us better understand our needs and gain insight on why we make the decisions we make. He explains how our relationships are affected by how well - or how poorly - we know our own feelings, particularly in the way we translate our thoughts into words. He also briefly touches on the four gateway feelings in his line of work — anger, depression, shame, and guilt — and what each of those things really means for the individual.

 

“Thoughts are obviously important, but to be able to communicate what’s in your body — that kind of aliveness is one of the main things that creates connection.’” - Steve Torma

 

This week on Relationships! Let’s Talk About It:

 

  • Learning how to feel exactly what is going on with your body.
  • The profound difference between thinking and feeling.
  • Having a solid emotional vocabulary.
  • Starting with feeling awareness, and realizing that feelings give us important information.
  • Understanding why we make the choices we make — why we feel what we feel.
  • Distinguishing between needs and wants by learning how to feel one’s needs.
  • How — and why — the foundation of a dysfunctional relationship is not knowing your partner’s needs.
  • How to effectively train people to be more attuned to their feelings.
  • The definition of self-directed neuroplasticity: Why it is possible for people to change.
  • Why pain is NOT suffering.
  • The four parts of the training process for non-violent communications.
  • Creating a connection between two people through the verbalization of feelings.
  • The significance and power of acknowledging what and how we are feeling.
  • The value of understanding the thoughts behind your anger. 
  • The meaning of feeling a “sweet pain.”
  • Understanding the basic principle of NVC.
  • Healing shame by realizing its roots.
  • Seeing through the eyes of compassion.
  • The truth behind how nature designed us, with regard to stress.

 

Connect with Steve Torma:

 

 

Join Us for The Power of Appreciation Workshop

 

Join Pripo and his wife, Yvonne Rainbow Teplitsky, on Sunday, November 11, 2018, in Asheville, NC to learn the secrets of unlocking the Power of Appreciation in your relationships. Genuine appreciation, regardless of how simple or profound, has been proven to bring an immediate shift in the quality and closeness of loving relationships. The Power of Appreciation Workshop will teach you the necessary skills and fundamental process of enriching your relationship with your partner, deepening the connection, and enhancing the flow of positive.

 

To learn more about The Power of Appreciation Workshop, and to register, visit HeartShare Counseling & Consulting PC or call (828) 712-8398.

 

Sponsored by Still Point Wellness 

 

Still Point Wellness is Asheville’s premier spa experience. Enjoy effortless relaxation and rejuvenate your body through Still Point’s world-class services including Esalen Massage®, Salt Water Floatation also known as sensory deprivation, Cranial Sacral Therapy, and Somatic Psychology. Experience the healing powers of deep relaxation like never before! 

 

Schedule your first appointment by visiting www.StillPointWell.com or call (828) 348-5372. 

 

Mention the code: Pripo to receive 10% off your first Salt Water Floatation or Esalen Massage®! 

 

Let’s Talk About It!

 

Thanks for tuning into this week’s episode of Relationships! Let’s Talk About It - the show to help you forge deeper, more meaningful connections and relationships with those around you. If you enjoyed this week’s episode, please head over to Apple Podcasts, subscribe to the show, and leave us a rating and review. Don’t forget to visit our website, follow us on Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram, and share your favorite episodes on social media!

 

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29 Oct 201963. HeartShare: Curiosity Can Improve Your Relationships00:35:45

When you put two people together - people who grew up with different values and belief systems, who lived out different customs and principles - the natural outcome of this human partnership can be both fascinating and frustrating. Each person’s unique experiences can either build up or tear down relationships, depending on whether the people involved would choose to judge or be curious about the other person’s experience. If you take the time to be curious, you would be amazed about how it could change the level of your relationships for the better.

 

Today, I share how your curiosity builds up your relationship with your partner and those around you. I discuss how curiosity allows you to reexamine the conflicts in your relationships as you stay away from assuming, concluding, and judging the other person. I also share the different ways you can ask your partner, “How’s your day?” as well as how my own curiosity led me to bring a certain level of freshness and newness into my relationships.

 

“Wondering and curiosity creates fertile ground to create open discussions.” - Pripo Teplitsky

 

This week on Relationships! Let’s Talk About It:

 

  • Why couples have conflicting recollections of how a particular event happened.
  • The one thing that can improve the conflicts that couples have.
  • The result when couples form incorrect assumptions of what’s going on with the other person.
  • How a scene in the movie City of Angels shows the perfect example of being curious about your partner’s experience.
  • The reason why breakups in relationships happen, according to research.
  • One of the most sincere ways to inquire about your partner’s day.
  • What a “Gotcha” moment is and why it’s unhealthy to have them in relationships.
  • Examples of questions of curiosity.
  • How to make other people feel cherished by you.
  • How to cultivate a curious mind.
  • The different, interesting ways my friend trains his curiosity to see the world from a different perspective.
  • The process that can help you move out of conflict faster than any other tool presented out there.
  • How my adventure in Asheville allowed me to bring more novelty in my life.

 

 

Let’s Talk About It!

 

Thanks for tuning into this week’s episode of Relationships! Let’s Talk About It - the show to help you forge deeper, more meaningful connections and relationships with those around you. If you enjoyed this week’s episode, please head over to Apple Podcasts, subscribe to the show, and leave us a rating and review.

 

If you have a relationship question you’d love to have answered, visit our podcast page to leave us a voice message. Your question may be featured on a future episode!

 

Don’t forget to visit our website, like us on Facebook at HeartShare Counseling, join our Relationships! Let’s Talk About It Facebook group, and follow us on Twitter and Instagram. Share your favorite episodes on social media to help others build better, more meaningful relationships.

 

And if our content has helped you forge deeper connections and more meaningful relationships, be sure to help support the show by visiting our Support the Podcast page!

 

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24 Dec 201971. What Is A Generous Conversation00:43:20

Gregg Levoy is devoted to helping people find and sustain their passions in life. His books, Vital Signs: The Nature and Nurture of Passion and Callings: Finding and Following An Authentic Life, reflect his mission of helping people feel alive through their passion. He is currently a regular contributing author to Psychology Today and holds workshops and keynote presentations at organizations such as the Smithsonian Institution, the Environmental Protection Agency, and Microsoft. A former reporter and adjunct professor of journalism at the University of New Mexico, Gregg has mastered the art of generous conversations and understands how to hold space that lets people feel understood and validated.

In today’s episode, Gregg and I discuss what it means to have a generous conversation. We discuss how curiosity interplays with listening to create great communication skills. We share tips and exercises to improve listening skills and explain how to set boundaries with talkative people. We also explain how generous conversations impact other people as well as share our own experiences with using listening skills and promoting a generous conversation.

 

“Communication is shared understanding and “co-mmunication.” - Gregg Levoy

 

This week on Relationships! Let’s Talk About It:

  • What makes a great conversation
  • Why curiosity is a key aspect of excellent listening skills
  • How to deal with people who talk too much
  • Why many people in relationships don’t enjoy the conversations they have with their partner
  • Ways to practice conversational skills
  • Why people are scared of telling a talkative person to slow down
  • How to use supportive language in response to someone who had a bad experience
  • How to leverage silence in business negotiations
  • How couples can cultivate connection through silence and presence
  • How culture influences a person’s tendency to be talkative
  • The impact of a generous conversation

 

Resources Mentioned:

 

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Let’s Talk About It!

 

Thanks for tuning into this week’s episode of Relationships! Let’s Talk About It - the show to help you forge deeper, more meaningful connections and relationships with those around you. If you enjoyed this week’s episode, please head over to Apple Podcasts, subscribe to the show, and leave us a rating and review. 

 

If you have a relationship question you’d love to have answered, visit our podcast page to leave us a voice message. Your question may be featured on a future episode!

 

Don’t forget to visit our website, like us on Facebook at HeartShare Counseling, join our Relationships! Let’s Talk About It Facebook group, and follow us on Twitter and Instagram. Share your favorite episodes on social media to help others build better, more meaningful relationships.

 

And if our content has helped you forge deeper connections and more meaningful relationships, be sure to help support the show by visiting our Support the Podcast page!

 

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Relationships! Let’s Talk About It is produced by Auxbus. You can create your own great podcast - faster and easier - at Auxbus.com

12 Jul 2022164. Developing a Healthy Relationship with Yourself00:55:25

It can be difficult to be in a relationship if you don’t have a great deal of self-love. Remember that self-love is important for enjoying a happy, healthy, and respectful relationship. When you are secure, confident, and feeling good about yourself you feed positive energy into the space between you. One's relationship with oneself is crucial to proper development.

In this episode, I have a conversation with Cathy Courtenay. Cathy is a relational coach and facilitator. She works with both couples and individuals who are striving to find deeper connection and intimacy both with themselves and each other. She helps her clients to see the patterns of relating that are holding them back from what they truly desire. Cathy also facilitates the practice of the Circling Method where she creates a safe space for people where they can stand in their truth and experience what is real for them. Responding to life’s call to find truth, Cathy is committed to a mission of helping uplift humanity and develop profound compassion and empathy in the world.

The relationship with myself determines everything. 

- Cathy Courtenay

Connect with Cathy Courtenay:

Related Content: Other Podcast Episodes with Cathy

Control Issues

Relationship Sabotage

Couples Communication: Circling Techniques

Difficult Conversations

Falling in Love

 

Let’s Talk About It!


Thanks for tuning into this week’s episode of Relationships! Let’s Talk About It - the show to help you forge deeper, more meaningful connections and relationships with those around you. If you enjoyed this week’s episode, please head over to Apple Podcasts, subscribe to the show, and leave us a rating and review. 

Check out our Guided Audio Practices, Meditations and Workshops at Relationships! Let’s Learn About It.

You can check out the original songs I have sung in my podcast at Pripo’s Podcast Songs.

Don’t forget to visit our website and follow us on Twitter and Instagram. Share your favorite episodes on social media to help others build better, more meaningful relationships.

And if our content has helped you forge deeper connections and more meaningful relationships, be sure to help support the show by visiting our Support the Podcast page!

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03 Sep 201955. Q & A Session With My Daughter-In-Love00:53:01

My daughter-in-love, Emma Olyff, is in a relationship with my son, Zander. Currently living in the Netherlands, she is attending Maastricht University with Zander, where she is studying psychology. She is also the founder and jewelry designer at Emwa Jewelry, an artisan jewelry company she started from her passion for handmade jewelry.

 

Today, Emma joins me for a Q & A session about relationships. We discuss the role of guilt when apologizing to others and how to avoid getting pulled in by other people’s emotions to keep your own groundedness. We also discuss why couples should be both friends and lovers and how to make a habit of creating moments that will sustain your relationship.

 

“We need to have a vision - the vision of repair - because guilt makes us stay in paralyzation.” - Pripo Teplitsky

 

 

 

This week on Relationships! Let’s Talk About It:

 

  • Two significant parts of an apology that make apologizing easier and more sincere
  • Physical gestures you can do to deal with anxiety
  • How to avoid allowing your guilt to overshadow the empathy you have for your partner
  • How long you should wait before apologizing and handling the issue at hand
  • How to capture the moment-by-moment connections in a long-term relationship
  • The difference between constructive criticism and constructive feedback
  • The ultimate purpose of giving constructive feedback
  • Circumstances where you should learn to get comfortable with the uncomfortable
  • Understanding and performing individual and collective responsibilities in a relationship when dealing with the effects of negative past experiences
  • The best time to bring up and discuss unhealthy patterns in a relationship
  • How to work with each other to learn each other’s triggers
  • How to do the inner work of speaking to your heart and accepting vulnerability to avoid blaming others
  • The significance of celebrating relational wins and improvements
  • How to reinforce positive experiences to pursue more of them

 

 

Resources Mentioned:

 

 

 

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Thanks for tuning into this week’s episode of Relationships! Let’s Talk About It - the show to help you forge deeper, more meaningful connections and relationships with those around you. If you enjoyed this week’s episode, please head over to Apple Podcasts, subscribe to the show, and leave us a rating and review.

 

If you have a relationship question you’d love to have answered, visit our podcast page to leave us a voice message. Your question may be featured on a future episode!

 

Don’t forget to visit our website, like us on Facebook at HeartShare Counseling, join our Relationships! Let’s Talk About It Facebook group, and follow us on Twitter and Instagram. Share your favorite episodes on social media to help others build better, more meaningful relationships.

 

And if our content has helped you forge deeper connections and more meaningful relationships, be sure to help support the show by visiting our Support the Podcast page!

 

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Relationships! Let’s Talk About It is produced by Auxbus. You can create your own great podcast - faster and easier - at Auxbus.com

07 Sep 2021143. The Stories We Tell Ourselves: Do You Dare to Change Yours?01:05:58

“Our life is a story”, yet some of our individual stories that we tell ourselves also limit us which can therefore reinforce our core limiting beliefs of ourselves as well as others in our lives. These stories may have originated in childhood  or conditioned by society and have stayed with us throughout our lives. Some of the stories we tell ourselves do serve us, yet there are those that hold us back. We need to ask ourselves, “Are these stories true?” “Is this still my reality?” and if so “Do I dare to change them?”.

In this episode, I have a conversation with my friend Gregg Levoy and we dive into this topic. Gregg is a frequent seminar leader who holds workshops in the faith-based, human-potential, educational, governmental, and business industries. He is a Passionate Living Expert who has penned bestselling books such as Vital Signs: The Nature and Nurture of Passion as well as Callings: Finding and Following An Authentic Life which has been named as one of the Top 20 Career Publications by the Workforce Information Group. He regularly shares his insights and expertise as a frequent contributor to Psychology Today.

 

“We need to challenge the stories that hold us back” - Gregg Levoy

 

 

Related Content:

Revealing is Healing: Embracing Vulnerability

New Love...Taking Risks To Be Real

The Loss of Touch

What is a Generous Conversation

 

Connect with Gregg Levoy:

 

 

 

 

 

 

Let’s Talk About It!

 

 

Thanks for tuning into this week’s episode of Relationships! Let’s Talk About It - the show to help you forge deeper, more meaningful connections and relationships with those around you. If you enjoyed this week’s episode, please head over to Apple Podcasts, subscribe to the show, and leave us a rating and review.

 

Check out our Guided Audio Practices, Meditations and Workshops at Relationships! Let’s Learn About It.

 

You can check out the original songs I have sung in my podcast at Pripo’s Podcast Songs.

 

Don’t forget to visit our website and follow us on Twitter and Instagram. Share your favorite episodes on social media to help others build better, more meaningful relationships.

 

And if our content has helped you forge deeper connections and more meaningful relationships, be sure to help support the show by visiting our Support the Podcast page!

 

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11 Aug 2020104. The Loss of Touch00:44:41

Gregg Levoy is a lecturer and seminar leader in the areas of business, education, and human potential. As a speaker, Gregg has delivered workshops and keynotes for organizations such as Microsoft and the Smithsonian. He is an eloquent writer whose books, Vital Signs: Discovering and Sustaining Your Passion for Life and Callings: Finding and Following an Authentic Life, reflect his mission of helping people find and sustain their passions in life and has been rated among the Workforce Information Group’s Top 20 Career Publications.

In this episode, Gregg and I explore the challenges and grief we experience in the time of COVID-19 due to the loss of touch. We discuss how the pandemic has us in “stranger danger” mode and how avoiding physical touch in light of social distancing can affect us mentally and physically. We illustrate what it’s like to experience social distancing for a single person who lives alone and describe alternative ways we can satisfy our need for physical touch while we’re isolated. We also discuss how we, as a society, may need to relearn and re-approach how we consent to physical touch and how we can address the difficult emotions we feel due to the loss of physical connection.

 

 

 

“We’re grieving the loss of physical connection. That arm slung across the shoulder is worth its weight in gold. They’re not just toss-away gestures.” - Gregg Levoy

 

 

 

This week on Relationships! Let’s Talk About It:

 

  • Why the loss of touch during the pandemic is heightened for people who live alone
  • Harlow’s monkey experiment and why physical touch is like a social glue
  • The science of physical touch and how its lack compromises our immune systems
  • Why physical touch is more essential than the other senses
  • Exploring our relationship with touch
  • Alternative means of giving others and ourselves physical touch in light of social and physical distancing
  • The grief we feel over the loss of physical touch
  • How physical and social distancing can benefit the dating scene
  • Why some people aren’t comfortable with physical touch
  • How and why the people in the U.S. were touch-deprived even before the pandemic
  • Learning the ways of consenting to touch in light of COVID-19
  • Being in touch with difficult emotions due to the pandemic, social isolation, and loss of touch

 

 

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11 Dec 201817. Taking Risks with Strangers: Don't Suffer with Just ChitChat00:59:04

Moe Bruce is passionate about investing in deep and meaningful connections and intimacy, engaging with others, building relationships, and being present in the moment. For 20 years, she has been a coach and consultant for CEOs and global leaders in large and small international organizations and has built profound connections with strangers throughout America and Europe. She’s always had a deep curiosity about how people live their lives as well as what she can learn from them.

Moe joins me today to discuss how to take risks with strangers by going beyond the regular chitchat our society is so used to. We discuss the inspiring experiments she conducted throughout New York and Europe while building connections with strangers as well as how the workplace is hungry for vulnerability, transparency, and truth.  We discuss an observation she had about me and how my answer revealed something enlightening and personal as we experience the magic that comes from being open and present in the moment.

 

“If you want a connection, you can have it. If you’re willing to be vulnerable and revealing and curious, you can make it your world. You don’t have to suffer chitchat.” - Moe Bruce

 

This week on Relationships! Let’s Talk About It:

 

  • What Moe does while in contact with strangers.
  • How her 3-phrase experiment in New York impacted her.
  • The impact that her “Being Loved” experiment in Berlin had on her and the people around her.
  • Why she doesn’t allow ‘chit chat’ in her conversations and connections with strangers.
  • How she leads conversations with strangers to make them feel comfortable, connected, and open.
  • How being open and willing to share things about yourself in conversations helps you build deep connections with others.
  • What the Modality of Circling is.
  • How to make the conversation “your world” as well.
  • When it’s okay not to put limits on what to reveal and how to make distinctions about things to share.
  • The effect of being vulnerable and having closer connections in the workplace.
  • What the courage to be vulnerable requires.
  • Strategies she used to connect with strangers in Atlanta during an experiment.
  • The impact that being present can have on those around you.
  • How she makes a game out of connecting and communicating with others to relieve the pressure of “doing it right” or doing it a certain way.
  • How building meaningful connections with strangers helps builds hope for humanity.
  • How she discovered the Strategy of Circling.
  • The backstory of circling and how to do it.
  • How circling can help parents in their relationship with their children.
  • How she felt reborn after a circling session.
  • How her curiosity about my openness led us to the most transformational moment of my life

 

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21 May 2024211. Interdependence vs. Codependence00:55:38

Corey Costanzo is the Co-Owner of Asheville’s Still Point Wellness Spa, a licensed addiction counselor, trauma specialist, licensed massage therapist, master didgeridoo player, colleague, and my good friend.

In this episode, Corey and I have a conversation about healthy interdependence in a relationship versus unhealthy codependence.

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17 Mar 202083. The Importance of Rituals For Relationship Transformation00:57:05

Trish Kruger is a professional counselor and therapist currently working at Blue Ridge Treks, a community of mental health therapists in Asheville, North Carolina. She is dual-licensed as a counselor and addiction therapist trained in trauma-informed care and motivational interviewing. With a diverse background in yoga, art, and entrepreneurship, Trish values mindfulness, expressive art, and talk therapy in her practice.

In this episode, Trish and I discuss the role of rituals and ceremonies in transforming relationships. We share some of our personal experiences with bringing rituals into the transition periods of our lives and how they help us honor those processes. We illustrate how we work with clients and help them create rituals for divorce, coming of age, and others. We also discuss how meaningful rituals can help us heal in times of grief and difficulty and describe rituals from the perspective of neuroscience.

 

“There’s so much ritual hidden in our culture. If we can consciously bring ritual in times of transition, it can help people start the next phase in an opened, renewed way.” - Trish Kruger

 

This week on Relationships! Let’s Talk About It:

  • How rituals can give us a sense of purpose
  • The loss of rituals and ceremonies in our culture
  • Why my wife and I decided to perform our own marriage ceremony
  • How a divorce ritual helped Trish and her former husband transition into friendship
  • The shame that comes with divorce and how rituals can help heal it
  • Rituals and ceremony from the perspective of neuroscience
  • How rituals can create new neural pathways
  • The different ways men and women relate to rituals
  • The importance of intent and personal meaning when creating rituals
  • The medicine wheel and the different transition periods during the day
  • Why our culture needs transformational rituals for men
  • How rituals can empower us in times of grief

 

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04 Dec 201816. HeartShare: Understand and Manage Differences in Your Relationships00:45:00

There’s a common expression that says, “You wouldn’t want to marry yourself!” This expression sounds funny to many, but if you look closely, it expresses a deeper issue people face in relationships. Having differences is inevitable, but whether you choose to be accepting or critical, curious or judgmental, interested or disrespectful towards the other person makes the difference in the status of your relationships.

 

On this episode, I discuss the differences in people’s relationships and how to navigate them through real-life stories and examples. I emphasize the importance of the “how” versus the “what” when negotiating differences, the difference among needs, wants, and preferences as well as how to effectively communicate using these. I also explain how to train your mind to see traits you can like and appreciate about the other person and discuss the difference between a complaint and criticism as well as ways of dealing with differences in money, expectations, and non-negotiables.

 

 

“Differences call for understanding and negotiating.” - Pripo Teplitsky

 

 

 

This week on Relationships! Let’s Talk About It:

 

  • The wrong notion about compatibility being synonymous with similarity
  • The role that differences play in relationships
  • Why we choose somebody that’s different from us
  • The essence of choosing well and carefully in partnerships
  • How women typically choose men
  • What to do when projecting expectations towards your partner
  • The role that the foundational aspects of communication and connection play in your relationship
  • Two vital learner type questions to ask yourself as you assess your response to your partner
  • A story of a couple who didn’t think alike but loved alike
  • The antidote to relationships who are facing problems regarding their differences
  • Why disgust is one of the major poisons in relationships and examples of how we show it
  • Redefining self-esteem in relationship negotiations
  • The mystery of the wine colored French beret
  • How the differences can be a tremendous gift in a person’s growth
  • Examples of basic commonalities you don’t need to negotiate
  • Questions to ask yourself when assessing your relationships
  • Facing challenges regarding non-negotiables
  • The power of appreciating somebody for who they are
  • The difference between a complaint and a criticism
  • Dealing with differences in money
  • How to work through expectations

 

 

 

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24 Mar 202084. HeartShare: The Fear Of Commitment00:35:47

Commitment: that big ‘c’ word that causes cold feet for some people. In many ways, it’s a projection of future scenarios that a person creates in their mind. Will their partner change? Will they be able to make decisions for themselves? Will they be able to meet new people and do the things that they like? If you’re someone who constantly asks these questions before entering a relationship, you may have a fear of commitment. But whether you have this fear or not, it’s worthwhile to look inward and meditate on the meaning of commitment and your relationship with it.

In today’s episode, I explore the fear of commitment, its causes, and the ways we can overcome it. I share my personal experience with the fear of commitment in my 20s and explain how that eventually led to my current relationship. I reveal how being afraid of boredom, change, and the lack of freedom can make a person not want to commit as well as underscore the importance of shared values in a relationship. I also discuss the vital role that creativity plays in relationships and how we can cultivate the courage to overcome our fear of commitment.

 

“When we fear commitment, we see a future where we feel trapped. We must focus on the kind of intimacy we want and envision ourselves responding to it.” - Pripo Teplitsky

 

 

 

This week on Relationships! Let’s Talk About It:

  • The meaning of commitment
  • My experience with fear of commitment
  • Why the fear of commitment could be about fear of losing your own freedom
  • The role of authentic communication in a long-term relationship
  • The importance of having shared values with your partner
  • Why seeking perfection from a partner is not attainable
  • The fear of boredom and creating excitement in long term relationships
  • Being in love with an artist and how creativity can keep a relationship alive
  • How fear of change can accompany the fear of commitment
  • Ways to overcome the fear of rejection or approval
  • The signs that tell you when your partner is afraid of commitment
  • Developing fearlessness and overcoming the fear of commitment with courage

 

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12 May 202091. Intentions: Setting The Tone Of Your Relationships: Relationships in a Pandemic00:47:19

Many people are well-acquainted with the power of intention to manifest their projects, their desires, even their businesses. But intent could be also be taken into our relationships and used to transform us into better individuals, partners, and human beings. At the beginning of our relationship, my wife, Yvonne Rainbow Teplitsky, and I set the tone of our life together by creating our foundations through intent. Rainbow is the founder and owner of the Artsy Goddess Studio. A brilliant artist born and raised in Denmark, Rainbow brings creativity not only in her work but also in our relationship, where she cultivates ‘intentional coziness’.

In this episode, Rainbow and I share stories of how we met, how we built the foundation of our relationship through intention, and the role of improv in our life as a couple. We discuss how we continue to create intent in our relationship, especially while we spend our time in quarantine. We illustrate how conscious intent impacts our everyday interactions and help us become the people we want to be. We also share how you can use visualization to create and manifest intent into your life as well as describe how your intentions program the brain.

 

“Intention brings up how we want to co-create our relationship together.” - Yvonne Rainbow Teplitsky

 

This week on Relationships! Let’s Talk About It:

  • How we consciously set intentions in light of the pandemic
  • Using visualization as a tool to set an intention
  • How setting an intention built the foundation of our relationship
  • Transforming intent into how we want to behave in our relationships and respond to conflict
  • Bringing improv into our life and relationship
  • Resetting the tone of your relationship through evaluating its foundations
  • How Rainbow used intention-setting before we became a couple
  • The neuroscience of setting intentions and how it helps us become the partners we want to be
  • The benefits of communicating intent with your partner
  • Co-creating intent in a couple’s sexual life
  • Rainbow’s intention-setting routine
  • The difference between setting intentions and goal-setting

 

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22 Dec 2020123. Relationship Sabotage00:58:43

Whether we’re in the dating stage or have been married for many years, there are many ways that we conduct self-defeating behaviors that can undermine our relationships. Some of these behaviors are so deeply rooted in our history that it can become challenging to uncover. Yet, it is human to have self-sabotaging tendencies, stresses Cathy Courtenay, a Conscious Relating Coach who guides people through connecting with themselves. With all our complexities and nuances, it may look impossible to form intimate relationships; but, through self-awareness and healing work, Cathy stresses it is possible to overcome our inclinations to sabotage and create healthy, fulfilling relationships.

In this episode, Cathy and I discuss the many ways we sabotage ourselves in our relationships, uncover their underlying causes, and share advice on how they can be managed. We dissect our personal challenges with self-sabotage in our relationships and discuss the steps we take to manage them. We also highlight the role of self-esteem and self-awareness in cultivating intimacy in relationships and healing self-sabotaging patterns.

 

“If you are self-sabotaging in your relationship to a point where it creates harm and damage, there may be a trigger from your past that needs to be looked at.” - Cathy Courtenay

 

This week on Relationships! Let’s Talk About It:

  • How insecurities and the need for constant reassurance lead to self-sabotage
  • Owning our vulnerabilities as the first step to mending insecurities
  • The role of self-awareness in managing self-sabotaging emotions and behavior
  • The dangers of knee-jerk responses from the lower brain and suppressing emotional experiences
  • My subtle tendencies to sabotage in my marriage and Cathy’s inclination to hyperfocus on what’s wrong
  • How Cathy uses appreciation practices to magnify the things for which she is grateful
  • Why we need to shift how we view masculinity and femininity
  • Anchoring on corrective experiences to heal the wounds of the past
  • Codependency and sabotaging a relationship through doing your partner’s work
  • The importance of taking responsibility for your part of a problem
  • The pursuer versus the distancer and how their difference can sabotage a relationship
  • Strategies and skills to handle anxious-avoidant relationship patterns
  • The relationship grid and the connection between intimacy and self-esteem
  • Engaging in unhealthy and excessive behaviors as a mode of self-sabotage
  • How holding grudges can lead to poor communication and passive-aggressive behavior
  • The fear of entrapment and managing differences in relationships
  • Recognizing and managing the desire to control

 

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22 Oct 201962. HeartShare: Having Privacy vs. Keeping Secrets00:32:06

Honesty and open communication greatly contribute to the health of any relationship, especially intimate ones. Being open can be a struggle for couples who have different expectations about keeping secrets and where to draw the line when it comes to their privacy. Does the mantra “I’ll show mine if you show me yours” establish a healthy foundation of trust in a relationship? What kind of attitude should we have to foster and maintain trust in our relationships to save ourselves from all unnecessary hurt and heartache?

 

Today, I dive into the differences between privacy and secrecy. I share how my wife and I dealt with privacy and secrecy in our relationship and how these circumstances affected our openness towards each other. I explain how keeping secrets diminishes your ability to build strong connections with your partner. I also discuss the different types of infidelity that can occur between couples, aside from sexual infidelity, as well as what it takes for couples to gain back the trust they lost due to keeping secrets.

 

“Trusting one another to be in a relationship and to show up with trust and honesty can be one of the greatest risks that you take in a relationship.” - Pripo Teplitsky

 

This week on Relationships! Let’s Talk About It:

 

  • How ‘snooping’ and secrecy can be a learned behavior
  • The true meaning of privacy in relationships
  • How my wife and I showed respect for our son’s privacy
  • The different ways to share private experiences in relationships
  • Why couples should have a private life that is apart from anyone, including families
  • Situations when your partner could feel like you violated your sacred space as a couple
  • How to identify when privacy has turned into secrecy
  • Factors that motivate people to keep secrets
  • Why secrets diminish intimacy and prevent you from establishing a connection to your partner
  • The impact that secrecy can have on your relationship
  • The constant component in infidelity and keeping secrets
  • The illusion that couples believe when keeping secrets from their partner
  • What it takes to repair your relationship after trust has been broken
  • How keeping secrets from your partner increases stress and impacts your overall health

 

 

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28 Mar 2023182. Grateful Living: Transform Your Emotions and Relationships00:54:34

In this episode I have a conversation with Frederic Terral. He began his career with The Walt Disney Company, working on film, video & digital media projects. He is seasoned creative director who has led numerous branding initiatives for Fortune 500 companies, non-profits, startups and government agencies. He launched pockitudes.com in 2016 to share the practice he developed to support his mental well-being. Today he continues to develop new products and speak about his journey to positive mental wellness to groups throughout the country.

We have a conversation about the power of gratitude and how that focus and practice can change states of depression, anxiety, shame, etc, to a more uplifting and positive way of living and behaving. Frederic shares his journey of turning his life in a different direction. The consistent practice can take many forms including the daily ritual of writing in a gratitude journal. We also discuss how appreciation and gratitude are complimentary feelings and the benefits can transform states of being.

“The key, for me, is to let this tiny act become a habit, a habit to be grateful and choose happiness.” 

- Frederic Terral

 

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15 Jan 201922. HeartShare: Talkaholics and How To Deal With Them00:34:26

Have you ever felt trapped in a conversation with someone who can’t seem to run out of things to say? You start to wonder when the monologue will end so you can carry on with your life and make the most out of your time. If bumping into a talkaholic feels like your time has been stolen from you, then it’s time to speak the truth and be authentic in your encounters.

 

In today’s episode, I explain the different factors that contribute to the making of a talkaholic. I share stories of my interactions with people who talk excessively as well as how I have experimented on my responses under those circumstances. I also share strategies you can use when dealing with talkaholics, including actual phrases you can practice and experiment with to discover the best way for you to handle these situations.

 

“Don’t have the fear to interrupt. Allow yourself to do that - experiment with interrupting.” - Pripo Teplitsky

 

 

 

This week on Relationships! Let’s Talk About It:

 

  • The declaration my wife made during a significant time in her life that inspired me to be more authentic in my conversations.
  • How my siblings and I rescued each other from our talkaholic Uncle Harry.
  • What makes a talkaholic.
  • How Excessive Talking Disorder is a symptom of several mental, physical, and emotional health issues.
  • The effect on talkaholics when they listen to another person.
  • How people with genuine self-confidence and self-esteem respond in conversations.
  • What an arrogant person thinks that causes him or her to keep on talking.
  • The possible effect of having even one dominant parent at home.
  • Why it’s crucial to know the cause of a talkaholic’s excessive talking.
  • How to still have compassion while maintaining your boundaries.
  • Steps to take when confronting a talkaholic.
  • Good starter sentences when confronting a talkaholic at work and at home.
  • Ways to help others be aware of and cope with their excessive talking.
  • Defining what a conversation is.
  • Expressions I use as a therapist that work well and bring about empathy from the other person.
  • When to leave the conversation.
  • What to do if you intend to stay and not confront the person.
  • How to use your imagination as a way to deal with a talkaholic.
  • What ‘mindfulness presence’ is and how to practice it.
  • Questions to ask when talking with a talkaholic.
  • How to experiment with interrupting.
  • How to take advantage of the pause.
  • How to deal with talkaholics if the person is someone you have a relationship with.
  • What happens when you do not do something to take care of yourself and be authentic.
  • Why five minutes is a good allotment for a back and forth conversation.
  • How to condition each other through the back and forth continuity of your discussion.
  • The story of how a female talkaholic trained herself to pause and give chance to others.
  • Different ways to set boundaries.

 

 

 

 

 

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07 Jan 202073. Body Awareness Can Help Us Relate00:41:21

Al Bailey has been a student of the healing arts for over 30 years. Al uses his wisdom on the relationship between mind and body to help his clients return to their authentic breathing and facilitate healing and self-awareness. In addition to being a licensed massage and bodywork therapist, Al is the owner of BreatheAboutLife, a center for inner healing. Through BreatheAboutLife, he provides NOWON Bodywork, life-coaching, and Mind/Foot Circle Walking sessions to his clients to bring them to the ultimate healing.

 

In today’s episode, Al and I discuss how body awareness can help us relate and gain more insight into ourselves and the world. We explain how the body can speak through inflammation and disease. We describe the effects of craniosacral work and self-awareness on relationships and health. We also illustrate how a lack of self-awareness can create addictions as well as underscore the importance of self-care in improving compassion for others.

 

“Understanding comes from practicing the awareness that we’ve gained. Watching the breath is an awareness. When you practice that awareness, you gain more insight.” - Al Bailey

 

This week on Relationships! Let’s Talk About It:

  • The importance of understanding our body
  • How the body stores insight, wisdom, and information
  • How the ego and suppressing emotions can create disease
  • How couples create a “single body” and how they can make it healthy
  • What is Mind/Foot Circle Walking and how it helps bring awareness
  • The effects of regular craniosacral bodywork sessions and how it changes relationships
  • How to take control of emotional pain
  • How I managed pain while meditating for the first time
  • Why Al encourages people to find work that they love
  • The importance of self-care in enriching compassion for others
  • How a lack of self-awareness can cause addiction
  • Morning and night routines to help you reconnect with your physical and mental alignment

 

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02 Apr 201933. Managing Conflict in Partnerships00:51:31

My wife, Yvonne Rainbow Teplitsky is the founder of Artsy Goddess Studio, an upcycled clothing design business in Black Mountain. Yvonne empowers women to express themselves and helps them discover and connect with their unique authenticity as the host of women’s gatherings at her home each month and through voice empowering workshops. In addition to her work with empowering women, she also works with me to co-facilitate couple’s workshops designed to support couples and partners while helping them develop deeper connections and stronger relationships.

 

Yvonne joins me today to share a behind-the-scenes glimpse of our relationship and share how we manage conflicts and settle disagreements in our marriage. We dive into the origins of our unhealthy response patterns and identify the unhealthy behaviors that should be dealt with as soon as possible. We also discuss what to do when someone flares up and share several great strategies that will help you manage conflicts in your relationships and transform behaviors for the better.

  

 “Our relationship is a living organism that has its own life. We have to nourish that.” - Yvonne Rainbow Teplitsky

 

 

This week on Relationships! Let’s Talk About It:

 

  • How we handled conflicts in our relationship early on.
  • Why managing conflict is a better focus than resolving conflicts.
  • Why conflicts around money are often considered ‘unresolvable’.
  • How my perspective on money - and its use - differs from Yvonne’s and how we manage this conflict instead of trying to resolve it.
  • The importance of being curious and interested about your partner’s perspective on a conflict or problem.
  • The impact of wallowing and getting stuck in a problem or conflict.
  • The importance of feeding positivity into your relationship - especially during a conflict.
  • The art of apologizing and how it helps you manage conflicts in your relationship.
  • The importance of taking accountability and responsibility for your mistakes during a disagreement.
  • An example of how we resolved a conflict related to my frequent mistake of putting dirty dishes with clean dishes in the dishwasher.
  • The importance of understanding the underlying issues that come up during a disagreement or conflict.
  • Why contempt is considered the number one poison in a relationship.
  • Why it’s important for parents to model healthy communication during conflicts.
  • How Yvonne’s upbringing led to how she used to manage and deal with conflict.
  • How to set safe guidelines around how you will manage disagreements in your relationships.
  • The difference between having an intense emotion around a problem or issue and yelling.
  • Why yelling is notan effective way to address problems, issues, or conflicts and what to do instead.
  • Strategies we use to calm down during a heated disagreement.
  • Why stress does not always equate being productive or working hard on your relationship.
  • The importance of couples encouraging each other to take care of themselves and nurture themselves.
  • Guarding yourself against the Four Horsemen.
  • What cross-complaining is and some examples.
  • Why you shouldn’t bring up “deal breakers” during a heated conversation - unless you’re truly ready to end the relationship.
  • Tips on how to ensure that you share the power, time, and space with your partner.
  • The power of touch and the right attitude when touching your partner.
  • Why it’s important to talk about agreements on how you will fight and when to do it.

 

 

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Playful Voice Empowering Workshop

 

Embrace the power of your voice. Join my wife and facilitator, Yvonne Rainbow Teplitsky, for the Playful Voice Empowering Workshop, an empowering experience to unlock your natural superpower in a safe group environment. Using gentle movement and supportive expressive techniques such as guided voice strategies, Yvonne takes you on an empowering journey - teaching you how to use your voice to quickly and effectively recenter and realign with your awareness, release emotional energy, and accelerate your spiritual connection.

 

Embark on an empowering inner-journey and discover the power of your voice. Join Yvonne for the Playful Voice Empowering Workshop, conveniently held at the beautiful Light Center dome in Black Mountain, NC.

 

Location: United Research Light Center in Black Mountain, NC.

Date:April 7, 2019

Time:2pm to 4pm

Fee:$15 - $20

 

All are welcome. No previous experience necessary. For more information, visit the Artsy Goddess Studio website.

 

 

Join Us for The Power of Appreciation Workshop for Couples

 

Join Pripo and his wife, Yvonne Rainbow Teplitsky, on Saturday, April 27, 2019, in Asheville, NC to learn the secrets of unlocking the Power of Appreciation in your relationships. Genuine appreciation, regardless of how simple or profound, has been proven to bring an immediate shift in the quality and closeness of loving relationships. The Power of Appreciation Workshop for Couples will teach you the necessary skills and fundamental process of enriching your relationship with your partner, deepening the connection, and enhancing the flow of positive.

 

To learn more about The Power of Appreciation Workshop for Couples, and to register, visit HeartShare Counseling & Consulting PC or call (828) 712-8398.

 

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20 Feb 2024205. Using Astrology in Relationships00:58:15

Nastassja Noell is a lichenologist who traverses outside the fenced pastures of science. As a biologist, an artist, writer, and astrologer, Nastassja's work grapples with living in times of profound change. She feels that the Earth is birthing something new through each of us. 

Nastassja has studied astrology for the past 10 years, and has found that astrology provides a map of change, where each transit is a portal for each of us to become our own compass."

In this episode, Nastassja and I have a conversation about using astrology to understand relationships. Astrology provides clues about human behavior and is a powerful tool for having more harmonious relationships. We discuss  how Synastry is the art of relationship astrology. It is a fascinating and illuminating study of how individuals interact with one another.

Exploring astrological insights can offer valuable perspectives on building and maintaining healthy relationships.

- Nastassja Noell

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Nastassja's website is https://beinglichen.org. To schedule an astrological reading with her,  click the moon glyph located at the bottom of every page.

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29 Sep 2020111. Foundational Trust in Long Term Relationships00:55:46

Questions about the meaning of trust and how couples can establish it in their relationships frequently come up in my practice as a couples counselor. Trust is a cornerstone of long-term relationships. My wife, Yvonne Rainbow Teplitsky, is a fashion designer, artist, and owner of the Artsy Goddess Studio. In the 25 years I have shared with her, trust - in each other, and ourselves as individuals - has carried us through better or worse. Part of Rainbow’s mission is to help heal ourselves and the world we live in. And sincere apologies, she says, not only bring healing to couples but are also an essential ingredient to a relationship’s longevity.

 

In today’s episode, Rainbow and I emphasize the importance of trust in relationships. We discuss the value of trusting yourself in bringing the kind of partner you want to be in a relationship. We share some of the challenges and issues we have navigated throughout our life together and underscore the need to trust that each person will help move the relationship through conflict. We also illustrate the power of cultivating friendship with your partner and how appreciation can drive a relationship through the years.

  

“Apologizing well is a huge key to good long-term relationships. It brings so much healing.” - Yvonne Rainbow Teplitsky

 

This week on Relationships! Let’s Talk About It:

  • How longevity allows a relationship to go deeper and create foundational trust
  • Open and honest communication as a key to friendship between a couple
  • How welcoming our vulnerabilities in deep conversations fostered trust in our relationship
  • Giving each other the space to speak and using “I” statements
  • What it means to trust yourself in a relationship and advocate for what you want
  • Cherishing the good times and paying attention to your partner’s likes and preferences
  • The role of trust in moving through crises, navigating grief, and financial crises
  • Choosing each other and the partner you want to be
  • Trusting in working through challenges and how overcoming issues makes a couple stronger
  • Capturing beautiful moments, giving compliments, and the power of appreciation in long-term relationships
  • Navigating parenthood and raising a child
  • Growing together in the relationship and allowing each other to grow on their own
  • Trusting in your connection when you’re apart and not physically together

 

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10 Mar 202082. Letting Go of Family Relationships: Whether Toxic Or Not00:45:22

Families are complicated. As much as we want to always be there and support our loved ones, sometimes our relationships could be toxic. It’s difficult to draw a boundary between you and a relative, but how do you know it’s time to cut off ties with a family member? Or how do you know when to maintain the relationship? My wife, Yvonne Rainbow Teplitsky, the founder & owner of Artsy Goddess Studio, has her own experiences of challenging family relationships where issues and misunderstandings have stacked on one another.

In this episode, Rainbow and I answer a listener’s question about drawing boundaries with an important family member and explain why it’s important to not force conflict resolution and instead opt for cultivating space. We share our experiences and vulnerabilities with family issues and cutting-off friends and relatives. We describe how toxic behavior in the family affected us as children. We reveal the common characteristics that define toxic behavior such as manipulation and lying, as well as illustrate how guilt can prevent us from letting go of toxic people. We also discuss the importance of looking inwards when considering challenging relationships and cutting ties with family.

 

“Cutting ties with family members is one of the hardest decisions that we may ever face in life.” - Pripo Teplitsky

 

This week on Relationships! Let’s Talk About It:

  • The difference between toxic relationships and family dramas
  • Rainbow’s experiences growing up with family issues
  • The effect of family conflict on children
  • The inevitability of conflict and the best time to learn about conflict resolution skills
  • Why it can be challenging to cut ties with family members
  • The power of creating connections with an estranged family member
  • What makes a relationship one-sided
  • My experience with a toxic family member
  • Why you should consider creating space instead of severing relationships
  • How we are met with resistance when we force conflict resolution
  • Manipulation, deceit, victim-playing, and other aspects of toxic behavior
  • Why toxic people attach to loving and kind ones
  • How guilt prevents us from cutting ties with family members
  • How family loyalty can create toxic relationships
  • Why friendships can be difficult to end

 

Listener Questions - Let’s Talk About It:

  • At what point do you let go of relationships that may no longer feel fulfilling, even if it means hurting other family members?

 

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12 Nov 201965. Time Apart vs. Time Together: What's Healthy?00:51:06

Yvonne Rainbow Teplitsky is a talented artist who creates tapestries and paintings from a variety of materials. Born and raised in Denmark, she now runs her up-cycled clothes design business in the USA, Artsy Goddess Studio, in addition to facilitating voice-empowering workshops in Black Mountain, NC, co-facilitating couples' workshops with me, and hosting a women’s circle in our home. Yvonne does many things outside of our marriage and remains open and curious about life. Doing her own things means she spends a lot of time outside of our relationship.

Spending time apart is as vital as spending time together in a relationship. After all, some space creates the spark. Yet many couples fear being apart, with one person (or both people) in the relationship worrying that the other might find something—or someone—better. And, at the other end of the spectrum, some couples make little time to feed their relationship.  How do you find that sweet spot, that balance between being alone and being together?

In today’s episode, Yvonne and I discuss how we navigated as a couple in the past 25 years and found the sweet spot between spending time apart and together in our relationship. We discuss the challenges we faced in maintaining that balance and how we managed it. We share how our relationship has changed through the years and how we adapted to those changes. We stress the importance of spending alone time, what we do when we’re together and apart, and how couples can improve the time they spend together. We also share something that’s unique to our relationship and why we maintain it.

 

“It feels so enriching to be away from each other for a day, two days, or more.” – Yvonne Rainbow Teplitsky

 

 

This week on Relationships! Let’s Talk About It:

 

  • How relationship cycles affect time spent together and apart
  • Why every couple should explore and find out what works for their relationship
  • Should couples spend all their time together?
  • How talking to other people about your partner affects your relationship
  • The impacts of spending too much time together and away from each other
  • Why building trust is important to spend time away from each other
  • Why Yvonne goes away for three months every summerand how we stay connected while we’re apart
  • What couples should do -and talk about -when they’re together
  • Doing routine work as a couple
  • Reuniting and reconnecting after some time apart
  • Bringing curiosity in the relationship
  • The value of stepping into your own life and individuality

 

 

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20 Oct 2020114. Codependency00:49:16

Codependency is rather insidious: though many people are familiar with the term, they don’t know how it manifests in families and impacts relationships. Awareness, Corey Costanzo stresses, is key to healing it. Corey is a licensed addictions counselor and bodywork therapist, somatic experiencing practitioner, a master didgeridoo player, and a good friend of mine. Together with his wife, Robin, Corey co-owns Still Point Wellness, a premier Esalen Massage and Salt Water Floatation spa in Asheville, North Carolina.

Today, Corey and I explore the hallmarks of a dysfunctional family and how it breeds codependency. We illustrate the dynamics of codependent relationships and their children and explain why dysfunctional families find it difficult to navigate difficult emotions and situations. We describe the characteristics of codependent behaviors and illustrate their impact on relationships. We also share our experiences in dealing with codependent relationships and emphasize the role of awareness in breaking the cycle of codependency.

 

“Codependency is an emotional and behavioral condition that affects an individual’s ability to have healthy, mutually satisfying relationships.”  - Corey Costanzo

 

This week on Relationships! Let’s Talk About It:

  • Codependency as a learned behavior in families and how it can be passed to generations
  • The relationship between codependency and addiction
  • The consequences of codependent behavior
  • Codependent relationships between children and parents
  • Why parents need to deal with their own emotions
  • The characteristics of a dysfunctional family
  • What makes families afraid of discussing difficult emotions and experiences
  • Detachment and fear of connection in dysfunctional families
  • Experiencing codependence in my family and learning to talk about emotions
  • How Corey cultivated trust between himself and a teenager in his practice
  • Breaking the cycle of codependency in couples
  • Witnessing our partners’ experiences with emotions
  • What enmeshment in a relationship looks like and what it takes to be differentiated
  • Relationships with people with diagnosed mental illness and how to navigate them
  • The fear of abandonment and the experience of isolation in codependent relationships
  • The characteristics of codependent people and how codependency manifests in a couple’s sex life

 

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12 Jan 2021126. The Anger Habit01:00:08

Whether we are its origin or its receiver, we all experience anger throughout our lives. While anger isn’t necessarily “bad,” it is a critical emotion to understand, for what we do with anger has the opportunity to bring our loved ones closer or push them away from us. And like other emotions, we become more accustomed to anger the more we express it without restraint, creating a toxic habit that can lead to contempt in our relationships. Anger becomes more difficult to manage when it becomes a habit, for habits are executed without much conscious effort. Although the anger habit can be hard-wired in a person’s brain, bodywork therapist and Still Point Wellness owner Corey Costanzo suggests that a person can break free from anger’s chains through awareness, conscious work, and education.

In this episode, Corey and I define anger as the need to be in control of external factors. We reveal how helplessness leads to frustration and, eventually, anger. We highlight different means of expressing anger in a healthy, non-destructive way. We discuss how anger impacts relationships and creates codependent dynamics in family systems. We also uncover the other emotions behind the mask of anger and underscore the power of appreciation as an antidote to the anger habit.

“Anger is an emotional pathway that gets hard-wired in the brain. With a bit of awareness, work, and information, you can shift out of the anger habit.” - Corey Costanzo

 

This week on Relationships! Let’s Talk About It:

  • Anger as an emotional pathway and contraction in the body
  • The roots of anger
  • Why anger is a false sense of power and how it disempowers other people
  • The first door to frustration and how it translates to anger
  • A pet pig named Ginger and Corey’s recent experience with anger and frustration
  • The feeling of justification whenever we express our anger
  • How Corey shifted his expressions of anger and frustration
  • The difference between feeling your anger versus expressing it without a filter
  • How unmanaged anger creates a codependent dynamic in family systems and relationships
  • Feelings of helplessness, frustration, anger, and how they all lead to contempt in relationships
  • Why anger isn’t a bad emotion and how expressing a specific emotion creates more of it
  • The value of visualizing our moments of anger
  • Creating an environment where we can express difficult feelings in a healthier way
  • Sitting with anger and how it’s different from ruminating on it
  • The power of breath in dissipating anger
  • Using anger, frustration, and other challenging emotions as biomarkers to detect the need to shift something
  • How anger impacts children, their behavior, and the development of their nervous system
  • The different styles of anger and how to manage them through awareness

 

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13 Aug 201952. Taking A Leap Of Passion In Your Career00:54:30

Josh Kugler is the Director of Software Engineering at American Pinball and has extensive experience in the technology sector. He has worked with Fortune 50 companies as well as highly successful startups. He is a passionate executive who helps build startups while leading and sharing his knowledge and experience in sales, service, and cutting-edge technology. Josh also has an excellent eye for identifying opportunities - whether internally or externally - through creativity, innovation, and problem-solving.

 

Josh joins me today to discuss taking a leap of passion in your career. He discusses the difference between doing something you love versus something you dislike. We share stories of how we changed our career paths in pursuit of our personal passions. We also discuss the pros and cons of balancing your passion and pursuing your career.

 

 

“Sometimes, doing what our parents want us to do can be a good thing, but more often than not, it’s probably not. You have to choose your own path.” -  Josh Kugler

 

This week on Relationships! Let’s Talk About It:

 

  • Why Josh made the shift from working for a Fortune 50 Company to helping different startups.
  • How he got inspired to playball Pinball.
  • When I pursued my passion, I received support from Josh and my sister.
  • How his decisions impacted his life and the lives of others.
  • How his father’s ethics and values influenced his lifestyle.
  • What made it easier for him to pursue a more passionate job.
  • What allowed him to take the financial risk to pursue his passion.
  • How he and his wife raised their daughter to prepare her for the path of her life.
  • How a parent's voice and opinion influence the possible outcome and direction of their child’s future.
  • Different ways children respond to their parent’s death that affect the trajectory of their lives.
  • Why it’s more difficult to pursue a career passion than career security.
  • How doing something you love affects you emotionally and relationally.
  • The role that close relationships play in your success for doing something you love.
  • How to make a shift in your professional and personal life.
  • How to balance your passion and your job.

  

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18 Feb 202079. What Makes A Relationship Worth Doing The Hard Work00:56:10

At a very young age, Cathy Courtenay felt an urge to find truth and has since been living her life responding to its call. Cathy brings her heart into everything that she does, whether it’s leading the Art of Circling, Body-Mind Centering, or working with her clients as a Conscious Relating Coach. She helps people fully stand in what’s real for them, and all of her work ultimately teaches authenticity and sovereignty that creates a greater space for a love that helps uplift humanity.

Cathy joins me today to discuss the elements that make a relationship worth the hard work. We share some of our professional and personal and experiences with learning the meaning of hard work in relationships. We reveal why individuals need to understand their own values and find common relationship values. We illustrate the importance of self-awareness and communication skills, especially during conflict situations. We also explain why hard work in relationships doesn’t need to be a struggle as well as highlight why you need to ask yourself if you become a better person through the relationship.

“It’s a spiritual experience to connect with a partner who’s deeply appreciating, and seeing and loving who they are in the world.” - Cathy Courtenay

 

This week on Relationships! Let’s Talk About It: 

  • The impact of self-awareness in relationships 
  • The role of compassion and love in healing and repairing your relationship after conflict 
  • The importance of having shared values in a relationship 
  • Why the individuals in a relationship need to explore their personal values 
  • Connection, the feeling of being met, and other elements that make a relationship worth doing the hard work 
  • How openness and curiosity affects a relationship 
  • How and why it’s essential to maintain your sovereignty and differentiation in relationship
  • What trauma bonding is and what should be done when a partner has had a traumatic experience
  • How to identify when it’s time to move on
  • Why “hard work” doesn’t necessarily need to be a struggle 
  • Why some couples lack sexual intimacy in their lives 
  • The power of appreciation and how to bring back sexual intimacy 
  • Why you need to ask yourself if you become a better person through the relationship

 

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26 Jan 2021128. Revealing Is Healing: Embracing Vulnerability01:02:34

There is something beautiful and affirming about being truly seen and known. To be understood and accepted for who we are, despite our flaws and shortcomings, is a common aspiration in relationships, one which requires us to embrace vulnerability. Greggy Levoy, speaker and author of Vital Signs and Callings, suggests that the choice to show your cards and lower your defenses - despite the fear and anxiety of shame and losing control - is the kind of vulnerability that builds trust and safety in relationships. And when we embrace our vulnerabilities, we open ourselves to healing.

 

Today, Gregg and I contemplate the power of vulnerability. We discuss vulnerability’s capacity to create trust between relationships and encourage others to embrace their vulnerability. We explain how vulnerability feels like weakness when considered from the inside out but looks like courage when examined from the outside in. We describe how we can default to vulnerability through compassion and the difficulty of accepting love and appreciation. We also highlight the healing power of vulnerability and underscore how we can create space for someone when we are on vulnerability’s receiving end.

 

“Vulnerability and trust are intimately related. By lowering your drawbridge, you encourage your partner to do the same.” - Gregg Levoy

 

This week on Relationships! Let’s Talk About It:

  • The relationship between vulnerability and trust
  • How embracing vulnerability encourages others to be open with their own
  • A communal way of expressing vulnerability
  • Why accepting flaws and shortcomings is part of saying ‘yes’ to a relationship
  • Understanding why people hesitate to be vulnerable
  • How our childhood experiences with vulnerability persist into our adult relationships
  • The importance of considering the recipient of your vulnerability
  • Our tendency to equate vulnerability and love
  • The sweet moment of being accepted with your vulnerability
  • The healing power of revealing and vulnerability
  • The role of confession in the therapeutic world
  • What it means to have a confiding relationship
  • How self-compassion creates strength in moments of vulnerability
  • What we need to do when someone opens up about their vulnerabilities
  • The human impulse of comforting other people

 

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31 Mar 202085. Navigating Your Relationships: Relationships in a Pandemic00:57:57

Human beings are resilient creatures. Amidst the fear, stress, and anxiety brought about by the COVID-19 pandemic, people relate to each other kindly and meaningfully, from checking-in online to singing together on balconies. But social distancing and quarantines can challenge even the happiest and most stable relationships. My wife Yvonne Teplitsky—the founder & owner of Artsy Goddess Studio—and I have been spending time in quarantine together. Like many couples in quarantine around the world, we’ve had our share of ups and downs while sharing this experience.

In today’s episode, Yvonne and I share our experiences with spending time together while being self-quarantined and how we’re navigating it as a couple. We discuss how we cancelled a trip to Florida in light of COVID-19 and how a quarantine can exacerbate relationship issues. We highlight the importance of communication and intentionally making space to talk about fears and anxiety about the crisis. We also discuss how appreciation can keep us grounded and connected to our partners as well as illustrate how allowing ourselves to feel joy can help us in these trying times.

 

“It’s like we’ve all been turned upside-down and shaken. Everything is getting reset and we’re asking: “What am I about now and how do I want to continue?’” - Yvonne Teplitsky

 

This week on Relationships! Let’s Talk About It:

  • The importance of intentionally making space to talk about fears and anxiety over the coronavirus crisis
  • Creating new routines, setting boundaries, and navigating alone time versus together time while in quarantine
  • How to check-in with your partner instead of placing blame
  • How we respond to and ease each other’s anxiety over the COVID-19 pandemic
  • Cultivating communication skills and things to talk about with your partner while in self-quarantine
  • How to stop bickering and relationship escalations through staying connected
  • The power of bringing humor and joy into your relationships
  • The relationship challenges of being in extremely close quarters
  • Microboredom and how we can respond to boredom while in quarantine
  • The value of physical intimacy in a time of crisis

 

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26 May 202093. HeartShare: Men And Emotional Honesty00:36:30

When your partner asks you about what you’re feeling, what’s your typical response? Do you attempt to change the subject or joke around? Freeze for a while? Or maybe start blaming your partner? Everyone can find it challenging to open up their inner world of emotions - but a lot of men find it particularly difficult to do. It’s understandable why the topic of emotions and feelings can be puzzling for men. Yet, emotional honesty is a crucial aspect of cultivating intimacy, connection, and trust in a relationship; it’s an essential tool that everybody needs to develop to become relational heroes.

 

In today’s episode, I discuss the difficulty men experience when they share their emotional world in their relationships. I reveal the significance of emotional honesty in cultivating connection and intimacy in relationships. I explain why men avoid the topic of emotions and opening up to their partners and explain how a person should respond when someone shares their feelings, despite the difficulty of expressing them. I also highlight the importance of cultivating emotional truth within our friendships and share a story about a friend who honestly shared their feelings and emotions.

  

“This path of emotional honesty is the way of the relational hero.” - Pripo Teplitsky

 

This week on Relationships! Let’s Talk About It: 

  • What it means to be emotionally honest
  • How and why men avoid expressing their feelings and emotions
  • The relational dread and fear that men feel when they’re asked to open up their feelings
  • The vulnerability that comes with being emotionally truthful and how shame prevents us from sharing our emotions with our partners
  • Responding and validating our partners when they attempt to share their feelings despite their difficulty in expressing emotions
  • How our childhood upbringing influences how we express, contain, or avoid our emotions
  • Speaking our emotional truth without anger, blame, or judgment
  • The difference between emotional honesty, behavioral honesty, and outbursts of anger
  • Developing your distress tolerance to cultivate emotional honesty
  • The impact of emotional honesty on intimacy
  • The importance of practicing emotional honesty within friendships

  

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25 Sep 201802. Alternative Relationships00:48:31

Lee Warren is an herbalist, writer, teacher, and food activist with an avid interest in rural wisdom, alternative relationships, sustainable economics, and women’s issues. She is the co-founder, designer, and builder of Earthaven Ecovillage, an off-grid, sustainable-built, co-housing neighborhood in Black Mountain, North Carolina. She is the founder and Manager of Imani Farm, a 5-acre pasture-based co-op farm as well as the Managing Partner of S.O.I.L. - the School of Integrated Living - which teaches organic food production, regenerated systems, and community living.

 

Lee joins me today to discuss the dynamics of monogamous and alternative relationships, why she believes many first-marriages often result in divorce and the importance of being open to experimentation and exploring new possibilities. We discuss the difference between open relationships and polyamory and the qualities that make up healthy, loving, and successful relationships. She explains why she believes there’s a lack of abundance regarding love, touch, sexual expression, and sensuality in today’s society and culture. She also explains how your intrapersonal relationship impacts your interpersonal relationships and how “emotional foreplay” can improve relational communication and understanding between men and women.

 

“We need to be experimenting on every level.” - Lee Warren

 

This week on Relationships! Let’s Talk About It:

 

  • Her perspective on monogamous and alternative relationships.
  • Divorce statistics involving monogamous marriages.
  • Values and qualities of successful relationships.
  • The difference between open relationships and polyamory.
  • How much of your needs should be met by your primary partner?
  • Finding rich, diverse, loving relationships without involving the sexuality factor.
  • Why she believes we live in a culture of ‘lack’ regarding love, touch, sexual expression, and sensuality.
  • How the primary partnership relationship model can sometimes contract the feeling of freedom.
  • How society, culture, and economics incentivizes being in a nuclear family.
  • Intentional communities and how they inspire and encourage experimentation and explore new possibilities.
  • How community-life inspires a culture of sharing, openness, and experimentation.
  • What are the “Zones of Intimacy” and how they relate to the relationships we develop?
  • Skills we need to teach the younger generations to improve the relational evolution.
  • Why intrapersonal relationships are critical for developing successful interpersonal relationships.
  • Why men and women need to understand how each gender processes thoughts and feelings and how it can improve your relationships.
  • What “emotional foreplay” is and how it can impact your relational communication.
  • The benefits of having a primary, monogamous relationship without living together and how it affects the relationship dynamics.

 

 

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22 Jan 201923. HeartShare: Increase Your Emotional Intelligence00:38:42

Respect, trust, and honesty are some of the factors that contribute to a healthy relationship. But there is one essential ingredient in the success of any relationship that many do not consider - emotional intelligence. To be able to understand and identify your emotions. To manage them well as you respond to the emotions of others. That beats being the top performer in class or at work because these abilities allow you to impact one of the things that matter most in life - your relationships.

Today, I discuss what emotional intelligence (EQ) is and the impact that having a high EQ can make in your life and the people around you. I share tips on how to show emotional intelligence in various relationship aspects such as with partners, colleagues, and children. I explain how men can contribute to their relationships in a positive way when they understand and increase their EQ. I also share why self-awareness is crucial in developing emotional intelligence and why self-regulation is the most important thing you can do to make the world a better place.

  

“Developing emotional intelligence is the very first step to relationship success.” - Pripo Teplitsky

  

This week on Relationships! Let’s Talk About It:

 

  • What emotional intelligence is and why it is significant in relationships.
  • The essential role that self-awareness plays in enhancing emotional intelligence.
  • Why you need to have a good emotional vocabulary and the benefits of learning emotional words.
  • What the “sacred pause” is and the importance of pausing when cultivating your emotional intelligence.
  • How to increase your self-awareness.
  • The significance of knowing what makes you tick.
  • How to increase your capacity to self-regulate.
  • The difference between being a doormat husband vs. accepting your partner’s influence.
  • What the “Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse” are in relationships.
  • Telltale signs that a man is resisting his wife’s influence.
  • Why men may reject their partner’s influence.
  • How a wife can increase the positivity in her marriage.
  • The relationship between emotional intelligence and being a good leader at work.
  • The greatest modeling parents can do to their children.

  

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08 Oct 201960. HeartShare: Relationship Advice: Rethink Giving Advice00:31:51

It’s an instinct for us to give advice - whether we are asked for it or not - as we show care and concern for others, especially to those who are close to our hearts. Our intentions may be good, but more often than not, giving unsolicited advice causes more harm than good. Learning how to shift our mindset about showing care and offering help as well as learning other life skills can prove to be more helpful over providing a “quick fix” through unsolicited advice.

 

Today, I discuss the difference between solicited and unsolicited advice and why we should reconsider giving the latter. I discuss why people feel the need to offer unsolicited advice and the role that timing plays in providing help to others. I also share how I deal with unsolicited advice in my personal and professional life and share tips on how to handle advice given by people you love.

 

 

“Advice assumes that our perspective is the right one and that the way that we see things will work perfectly for others.” - Pripo Teplitsky

 

This week on Relationships! Let’s Talk About It:

 

  • How to avoid giving unsolicited advice and still get the point across to the other person.
  • How to know if the other person is ready to hear your advice.
  • How setting a firm boundary about homeschooling my son helped me and my mom learn to respect each other’s boundaries around unsolicited advice.
  • Why men need to stop giving unsolicited advice to their partner when their driving.
  • How to tell others that you’re not up to hearing unsolicited advice.
  • Why unsolicited advice from loved ones can be threatening.
  • How rephrasing my concern towards my son’s wake board helped me practice and model good parenting.
  • How giving unsolicited advice to teenagers or your own children affect the way they see themselves.
  • Different ways to address concerns with your children or teenagers without having to give unsolicited advice.
  • Why giving unsolicited advice can be detrimental to others.
  • The appropriate approach to provide space for others to open up.
  • The intent to understand vs. the intent to reply.
  • How to make people experience having powerful and lasting impressions on the decisions they make.

 

 

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05 Apr 2022157. A Healthy Divorce00:52:59
Separation and Divorce can be an emotional difficult time. The emotions of sadness, anger, grief and fear are typically experienced.  Most divorces are rife with conflict among separating and divorcing partners. It takes a tremendous toll not only on the people divorcing but also their children, family and friends. Is it possible to have a healthy divorce? One that honors not only each person but the union that was once filled with love and hope. Consciously Uncoupling is a mindful, respectful and loving approach to ending a relationship.

In this episode I have a conversation with Becky Boisvert. An inveterate adventurer, Becky (she/her) has grown to see life itself as the adventure. When that adventure beckoned the transition out of her marriage, Becky created a process to help guide her and her former spouse, Sanne, through the terrain of separation and eventual divorce. Many who get to know Becky and Sanne are deeply inspired by the ease and consciousness with which they engaged this process.

Since then, Becky has begun coaching individuals and couples through threshold experiences in life like the lead-in to marriage, divorce, health crises, and more, as well as holding mediations for more deeply embedded conflict. Becky is deeply devoted to supporting herself and others in transforming the grit and hardships in life into opportunities for healing.

 

“If we came together once in love, we have the power to uncouple with dignity” 

- Becky Boisvert

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26 Feb 201928. Encourage Your Partner's Authenticity00:49:58

Originally from Denmark, Yvonne Rainbow Teplitsky is a remarkable artist that enjoys creating tapestries, paintings, and other things from different materials. She is the owner of the upcycled clothing design business, the Artsy Goddess Studio. Rainbow facilitates playful voice empowering workshops and encourages women to express themselves from a deeper authentic place within by hosting a monthly gathering of the Red Tent Women’s Circle in her home. In addition to being an inspiration to women, Rainbow also helps and supports couples as she works with me in co-facilitating couple’s workshops.

 

My wife, Rainbow, joins me on this episode to share our life as a couple and how we encouraged each other in being authentic. We discuss her struggles with shyness earlier in her life and how she now inspires others to find and accept their own unique voice. We also discuss how Rainbow encouraged and supported me in one of the biggest authentic turning points in my life - which is a very personal story that I never shared publicly in the past.

 

“We are genuinely interested in hearing what the other has to say.” - Yvonne Rainbow Teplitsky

 

 

This week on Relationships! Let’s Talk About It:

 

  • Why encouraging your partner’s authenticity is a relational foundation.
  • How meeting at Esalen Institute made a huge difference in our lives.
  • The story of Rainbow’s sense of fashion and how she turned this uniqueness into a business.
  • How she inspired me to find my unique style in clothing.
  • The Seal song that brought us together.
  • How her past shyness led her to teach workshops today.
  • How she helps people open up to their authentic voice.
  • When she fell deeper in love with me after the vision quest and meditation retreats.
  • The true story of my name “Pripo” and why I didn’t want to tell others about it.
  • How Rainbow supported me when our families struggled to adjust to my authenticity.
  • How Rainbow’s name came about.
  • How we responded to our son’s desire to change his name.
  • How she dealt with our son’s curiosity about new words.
  • The story of how she supported me in letting go of my long and beautiful hair.
  • What made her decide to speak her truth when encountering talkaholics.

 

 

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Join Pripo and his wife, Yvonne Rainbow Teplitsky, on Saturday, April 27, 2019, in Asheville, NC to learn the secrets of unlocking the Power of Appreciation in your relationships. Genuine appreciation, regardless of how simple or profound, has been proven to bring an immediate shift in the quality and closeness of loving relationships. The Power of Appreciation Workshop for Couples will teach you the necessary skills and fundamental process of enriching your relationship with your partner, deepening the connection, and enhancing the flow of positive.

 

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26 Jul 2022165. Money and Relationships00:57:40

Shaun Rawls - is highly sought-after keynote speaker and author of “F”-IT-LESS -  Rawls spent 25 years working in real estate, ultimately building Atlanta’s #1 residential real estate firm, The Rawls Group of Keller Williams. Having met many of his professional goals, Rawls made a deliberate choice to shift his attention out of the daily operations of his firm and into new ways he could add even more value to others. Through his work and book, Shaun helps other people evaluate and define what’s important for them and outline actions so they can work on being the best version of themselves.

In this episode, Shaun and I discuss different ways of dealing with money in our relationships that can bring us more understanding or further apart. It’s well known that money is one of the most common subjects for couples to argue about so how you talk about money is key. We also touch on concept of “financial infidelity” and why it is detrimental to building trust and reliability and why having shared values and goals around money can be key to building relational health.

“Keeping financial points  in a relationship is a dead end game” - Shaun Rawls

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24 Nov 2020119. Codependency: Ways To Overcome00:54:46

Once a person recognizes codependent patterns in their relationships, the next important step is to learn how to overcome them. Our friendships can be a source of good modeling and influence our journey through healing codependency in our lives. My friend, Corey Costanzo, is one such friend who encourages my positivity in the world. He is a licensed addictions counselor, bodywork therapist, and somatic experiencing practitioner who owns Still Point Wellness, the premier Esalen Massage and Salt Water Floatation spa in Asheville, North Carolina. Through the years, Corey and I have worn many hats together: as colleagues who consult with one another and as fathers who celebrate each other’s parenting. Ours is a friendship that has seen joy and appreciation - truly, a fine piece in overcoming codependent tendencies.

In this episode, Corey and I discuss the hallmarks of codependent patterns and behaviors in relationships and the tools a person needs to break them. We discuss how childhood upbringing and family dynamics can inform codependent behavior later in life and illustrate how friendships can support the healing of codependent relationships. We highlight the role of education in raising awareness of codependent patterns as well as overcoming them. We also underscore the power of the breath in realizing, managing, and healing codependent behavior and explain how meditative practices can help us self-soothe difficult emotions.

 

“The antidote is loving oneself, self-respect, and self-awareness.” - Corey Costanzo

 

This week on Relationships! Let’s Talk About It:

  • The signs of codependency and how people develop them
  • Codependency as a learned behavior and how it shows up in families struggling with addiction and long-term illnesses
  • How codependency lives in the subconscious patterns of a family system
  • The role of awareness in overcoming codependency
  • The characteristics of people with codependency issues
  • The difficulty of codependent people going through relational conflict
  • Why education is an essential piece in overcoming codependent patterns
  • Cultivating a sense of self and its power in overcoming codependency
  • The fear of being independent in relationships and what we lose from becoming codependent
  • The importance of aligning with your personal values and building self-worth
  • Putting up boundaries to break codependent patterns
  • What ruminating is and how negative emotions can impact physical health
  • Meditating with difficult emotions and other methods to manage negative feelings
  • The power of the breath in regulating emotions and gaining awareness of codependent patterns
  • How utilizing the breath gives you the agency to speak your truth
  • Attraction to the “bad boy” type and picking people as projects to fix
  • Why people stay in codependent and emotionally abusive relationships
  • How codependency can be a spiritual issue
  • Bringing awareness to the potential of love and compassion to heal

 

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08 Dec 2020121. HeartShare: Contempt - The Biggest Predictor of Relationship Failure00:31:20

If appreciation is the number one relationship booster, what is the biggest thing that can undermine a relationship? The answer: contempt - that pattern of feelings and behaviors that expresses disgust and scorn towards a person or a group of people, ultimately dehumanizing them. The severity of contempt’s impact on people can make it seem like it’s easy to recognize; yet, contempt enters relationships as subtle as poison administered in careful, incremental drops.

In this episode, I discuss how contempt can usher a relationship to its failure. I share John Gottman’s definition of contempt and describe what causes it to sneak into intimate relationships. I highlight some behaviors that cultivate the seeds of contempt and explain why it’s so difficult to resolve. I also reveal how we can heal and reverse contempt in relationships and discuss how kindness and compassion can be antithetical to contempt.

 

“Contempt is a deep, slow poison in relationships. It goes for the kill by attacking a person’s sense of self.” - Pripo Teplitsky

 

This week on Relationships! Let’s Talk About It:

  • The contagious nature of contempt and how it sneaks into intimate relationships
  • Contempt in inter-personal relationships and how it bred the Holocaust
  • How contempt makes partners seem more like opponents than a couple
  • Examples of contemptuous remarks and body languages
  • Contemptuous communication in social media and how it hinders productive dialog
  • John Gottman’s “bid for connection” and how ignoring your partner’s efforts can undermine a relationship
  • Withdrawing as a response to contempt and how neediness can lead to stonewalling
  • The power dynamics of contempt in a relationship
  • What makes patterns of contempt challenging to detect and reverse
  • The importance of building an environment of admiration, kindness, respect, and empathy
  • Recognizing the mask of contempt and what it conceals
  • Why apathy, not hate, is the opposite of love
  • The relationship between contempt and substance abuse
  • Contempt as a means to avoid vulnerability
  • The contagious nature of compassion and how it can heal our relationships

 

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21 Nov 2023199. The impact of Trauma on Relationships00:57:50

Corey Costanzo is the co-owner of Asheville’s Still Point Wellness Spa, a licensed addiction counselor, trauma specialist, licensed massage therapist, master didgeridoo player, colleague, and good friend.

In this episode, Corey and I have a conversation about how trauma effects relationships. Living through traumatic events may result in expectations of danger, betrayal, or potential harm within new or old relationships. People who experience trauma may become anxious or frightened in relation to others, experience them as having power or control, or easily feel abandoned or rejected. Still, others may become overprotective or dependent. Though it’s challenging, you can heal the trauma and change the effect it has on your life and relationships.

We are not made the same, and we all heal in our own way, our own time."

Corey Costanzo

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05 Feb 201925. Women Working in Male Dominated Workplaces00:42:51

Mana Vermeulen-McLeod is a fascinating woman who can talk about everything from hairstyles to the different types of chainsaws. She is a tree worker, carpenter, and conflict mediator at Earthaven Ecovillagewhere she has resided since 2007. Originally from Holland, Mana is an advocate for The Work that Reconnects, a staff member at the Southeast Wise Women’s Herbal Conference, and a student adviser for Gaia University. After a decade of being part of her community and facilitating conflict resolution, Mana currently focuses on supporting and helping others create the life they want, grounded in authenticity, through her life coaching practice.

 

Mana joins me today to share her experience as a woman working in male-dominated workplaces and discuss the physical challenges women face in the tree-working and carpentry industry. We dive into stories on the challenges she and her husband faced while working together as colleagues in the tree industry and how their relationship grew and flourished. We also discuss the other side of the coin on this topic as Mana flips questions back at me, since my work in therapy is a female dominated industry where I use a lot of feminine energy such as nurturing, listening, and empathy.

  

“Masculine energy the container. The feminine energy is what is inside of that container that gets to blossom if it’s in a good and safe container.” - Mana Vermeulen-McLeod

  

This week on Relationships! Let’s Talk About It:

 

  • Her first few experiences as a woman carpenter and how she gained experience in the industry.
  • When mentoring and apprenticeship are more educational compared to “formal” education.
  • How much of her overall experience was good and positive.
  • How she keeps it light in the workplace so she can be part of the “boy’s club.”
  • The pattern she recognized that she needs to change.
  • Why she felt relief when she eventually gave up the impulse to lead her husband while working together.
  • How having boundaries allowed her to blossom.
  • How she responds to situations when she gets downplayed by others for being a woman.
  • How her Arkansas tree work employment paved the way for more employment opportunities for women.
  • Why it’s important for her to calmly talk about her husband and maintain friendships among her colleagues.
  • The significance that the male and female energy play regarding decision-making on which trees to cut or nurture.
  • The pay structure and what it’s going to take for women to acquire higher compensation.
  • Why she’d rather work with men in tree work and how she sets boundaries.
  • One of the rewarding niche markets she landed in when she did carpentry.
  • The different attitudes men and women have towards leaders or instructors.
  • Advice for men on the crew regarding how to treat women.
  • The new and different path she’s currently leading.
  • How she balanced the feminine and masculine sides of her herself.
  • What Authentically You is about.

  

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20 Aug 201953. A Father-Son Conversation00:42:42

My son, Zander Teplitsky, is currently living in the Netherlands while attending college at Maastricht University. Zander and his girlfriend, Emma, recently came home to visit over summer break, and we’ve shared so many interesting conversations.

 

Zander joins me today for a father-son conversation about our relationship and how we cultivated our relationship through honesty, communication, and appreciation. We discuss how we continually inspire and motivate each other and why Zander inspired me to start a podcast. We discuss why it’s important for parents to cultivate a level of friendship with their children, the qualities Zander believes helps our relationship thrive, and how communication, honesty, and appreciation helps build trust and respect between parents and their children. We also discuss how allowing your children to make mistakes helps cultivate a sense of freedom while enabling them to learn and grow independently as well as how Zander developed his positive outlook on life and his perspective on the world.

 

“We try really hard every day to be as present with each other, and as loving, and as honest as we can.” - Zander Teplitsky

 

This week on Relationships! Let’s Talk About It:

 

  • How Zander discovered podcasts and why he inspired me to start podcasting.
  • The qualities of our relationship that Zander believes helps it thrive.
  • Why I believe parents can - and should - cultivate a friendship with their children.
  • How communication and honesty help develop trust in your relationship with your children.
  • How building a foundation of appreciation with your children impacts their willingness to respect your boundaries.
  • Why Zander proactively tries to let go of negative or judgmental thoughts of himself or others.
  • The importance of cultivating appreciation early in your relationship with your children.
  • How allowing your children to make mistakes cultivates a sense of freedom.
  • How Zander developed his positive perspective on the world and its future.
  • How attending the International People’s College impacted his perspective on the world.
  • How our family helps each other reframe our thoughts and emotions.
  • The recent family conflict we had and how we worked through it.

  

 

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