MIXUNDERSTOOD (Hanna-Lee Sakakibara)

Summary:

Imagine working in Hollywood as a mixed actor at a time when showing the ‘mixing of races’ on screen was prohibited, with interracial marriage being banned in more than 30 states in America. Or, having your scenes in your movies be stand alone shots so that you could be easily removed to cater to audiences who would reject your participation in non-menial roles due to your skin color. These are just two examples of the struggles that these incredible, resilient powerhouses faced. We start with Lena Horne and explore her remarkable life, from her beginnings in the famed Cotton Club to becoming a pioneering figure in black history. How, as a mixed race actress, she broke barriers, redefined Hollywood norms, and left an indelible mark on both the entertainment world and society! We then get straight into Fredi Washington, an extraordinary figure who navigated and challenged the rigid racial boundaries of her time, as a multiracial actress, writer and activist. Her legacy is not only in her cinematic achievements such as ‘Imitation of Life’ (1934) but also in her tireless fight for racial equality and representation in the media.

Grounded, inspired and empowered is how we felt after recording this episode! 

 

 

Episode Breakdown:

 

Lena horne

Introduction to Lena Horne. An overview of her 70-year career as a singer, actress, dancer, and civil rights activist, including her awards and notable works.

Her mixed heritage, its impact on her career, and her role as a pioneer in breaking racial barriers in Hollywood.

Early life and career beginnings including the history behind her name 'Calhoun', her multiple moves, different schools, her parents divorce and her first job at the Cotton Club.

Lena’s initial Broadway appearance in 1934, leading to her joining Noble Sissle's Society Orchestra, where she began to hone her unique singing style.

Personal life and early struggles: Her time in Pittsburgh, early marriage and children, resulting in a divorce and the split of her two children. 

Becoming the first African American woman to tour with an all-white band, and facing discrimination during these tours.

Her journey to being scouted by MGM studios, leading to becoming the first black actress to sign a long term contract with MGM.

The unique clauses she had in her contract against playing demeaning roles and the subsequent backlash she faced from black actors for doing this.  

Hollywood’s decision to market her as a Latina. Despite her disagreement, playing a Latina woman in her MGM debut film, ‘Panama Hattie’, where she was darkened up with custom made makeup called ‘Light Egyptian’. 

Discussion about modern make-up companies continuing to perpetuate colorism by putting people from certain parts of the world in the same color box by calling their foundation shades things like, ‘Punjab’ and ‘Barcelona’. 

A quote from Horne reflecting her identity struggles amidst her career challenges.

How her scenes and songs were often isolated for easy removal in Southern screenings where audiences would have objected to a black woman performing in the film in a ‘non menial’ role. 

Playing roles in All-Black Musical Films, such as 'Stormy Weather' where she sang the title song. These were the only movies she played a character ‘that was involved in the plot.’ 

Becoming the highest-paid black actor in the mid-1940s. 

Missed opportunities in film roles due to racial prejudices in Hollywood including 

MGM’s 1951 remake of ‘Till the Clouds Go By’. Many say that Lena Horne did not get the role of mixed race character Julie LaVerne, due to to the production’s code ban on showing interracial relationships (as the character marries a white man).

Horne's activism against segregation, her support for the equal treatment of black soldiers leading to her claim of being somewhat blacklisted from the industry for 7 years. 

Her successful music career, highlighted by her record-breaking live album at the Waldorf Astoria.

Her marriage to a white man, the societal backlash and threats, and the need to hide it for three years. 

Her continuous activism for black rights and the personal tragedies she faced.

Her comeback with her one-woman show 'Lena Horne: The Lady and Her Music' in 1981, leading to a Tony Award.

Our reflection on Lena Horne's Legacy and thoughts on her resilience, the challenges she faced, and her status as a trailblazer for the black community and women.

 

Fredi Washington

Introduction to Fredi Washington as an American stage and film actress, civil rights activist, performer and writer. 

Overview of her early life including her heritage, being born to parents of both European and African American ancestry.

A look at her most notable work - Imitation of Life released in 1934, (nominated for 3 Academy Awards including Best Picture) for which she received critical acclaim.

On why it has been recognized under Time Magazine’s 25 most important films on race. 

Our synopsis of the film and reflections of Fredi Washington’s character of Peola.

How, contrary to her character of Peola in ‘Imitation of Life’ (a light skinned black woman who chooses to pass as white), Fredi Washington in real life identified as black. 

The difficulty that the film faced with gaining approval from the censor board due to the Hays Code forbidding Hollywood from showing the mixing of races on screen. 

A deep dive into the censor board’s issue with the film, namely Fredi Washington’s character of Peola and how Peola’s choice to identify across the racial boundaries was enough to stop the film from being released. 

What the studio did to get around the ‘problem’.

Fredi Washington’s life after Imitation of Life. How playing a biracial character went against her as it caused her to be caught in the space between preventing her from  fitting into casting boxes.

Her activism and journalism work including being a founder of the Negro Actors Guild of America, a group that advocated for less stereotypical roles and better treatment for black actors. 

Washington’s influential writings for The People’s Voice which included important criticisms of racism and sexism in the media. 

Personal anecdotes including her link with Duke Ellington and how she used being able to ‘white pass’ to go to all white ice cream parlors for his band.

A discussion about her courage and integrity in a time when she could have chosen to pass as white, but didn't.

Closing thoughts after learning about both women 

 

Links:

Lena Horne

https://www.biography.com/musicians/lena-horne

https://www.pbs.org/wnet/americanmasters/lena-horne-about-the-performer/487/

https://scalar.usc.edu/works/castles-made-of-sand-racial-ambiguity-and-mid-twentieth-century-american-musicians-1/racial-ambiguity-in-the-age-of-integrationism-lena-horne

https://www.nytimes.com/2010/05/10/arts/music/10horne.html

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lena_Horne

https://www.nytimes.com/2016/03/20/books/review/the-black-calhouns-by-gail-lumet-buckley.html

https://en.geneastar.org/genealogy/hornel/lena-horne

https://www.imdb.com/name/nm0395043/bio/?ref_=nm_ov_bio_sm

 

 

Fredi Washington

'Imitation of Life' Film: 

https://www.amazon.com/gp/video/detail/amzn1.dv.gti.6aa9f72e-9712-bed3-8dc5-1af32270541e?autoplay=0&ref_=atv_cf_strg_wb

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fredi_Washington

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Imitation_of_Life_(1934_film)

https://mixedracestudies.org/?tag=fredi-washington

https://www.history.com/news/fredi-washington-black-actress-hollywood-jim-crow-era

https://www.hollywoodreporter.com/news/general-news/hays-code-loving-hollywood-s-89632/

https://cup.columbia.edu/book/hollywoods-censor/9780231143585#:~:text=From%201934%20to%201954%20Joseph,with%20censoring%20the%20American%20screen.

https://broadcast41.uoregon.edu/biography/washington-fredi

 

 

 

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Hosts: Amy Maghera -Taub, Hanna-Lee Sakakibara

Music: Mathias Kunzli - www.mathiaskunzli.com

 

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In the latest instalment of our "Mixed Actors in the Entertainment Industry" series, we sit down with power house Manager and Producer, Matilda Comers.

We dive into Matilda's unique vantage point on representing mixed actors, how she feels the industry has changed when it comes to diversity, and her personal multicultural story. 

We also tackle a pressing and complex question for actors: Should we set our own limits in playing diverse roles or let the industry decide for us? (How much of the onus should be on us, if any, especially when we have limited information when going up for roles).

 

Episode breakdown:

• Introduction to Matilda Comers and how we met
• Matilda’s own rich multicultural background and journey. From Sudan to the UK, Australia, and finally, America
• Our shared experience of childhood reluctance to speaking/learning our ethnic languages in an effort to blend in
• How not knowing Japanese and Hindi from a young age has affected us as actors and our opportunities
• The stereotypical ideas that can often shape casting decisions and therefore the challenges faced by individuals with mixed ethnicities 
• How the industry can lack nuance and understanding of people of diverse backgrounds
• Instances of when we've integrated our unique backgrounds into our roles and auditions
• The progress as well as the gaps in representation across different ethnic groups in the industry
• Is the onus on actors to determine their limits in portraying diverse roles, in an effort to help make sure that groups are represented authentically?
• Dilemmas that actors can face when they don’t fit neatly into a box
• Mixed Families On-Screen: A reflection on the evolving portrayal of diverse families in TV, film, and commercials.
• On opportunities to play mixed roles and how it feels to play a mixed character 
• Matilda’s promise to Mother Teresa

 

Special Guest: 

Matilda Comers

Manager/Producer

Matilda started out as a Promotions and Digital Editor at Universal Music Group, Australia. 

She then became the Director of Australians in Film, where she ran prestigious programs such as  The Heath Ledger Scholarship.

Following this she transitioned into producing and among other things notably co-produced together with Australians in Film; the LA version of the AFI-ACTA Awards Show, recognised as the Australian equivalent to the Oscars.

In 2016, she co-founded Fictious, a talent management and production company, in collaboration with partner Will Howarth.

 

Instagram: @fictiousmgmt

 

Additional info on the Podcast: 

Hosts: Amy Maghera -Taub, Hanna-Lee Sakakibara

Music: Mathias Kunzli - www.mathiasjunzli.com 

 

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Identity is not a destination but a journey, especially for transracial adoptees. In this Episode we are diving into the conversation around transracial and transcultural adoption. I am honored to host Patrick Samuel Young Armstrong, a multifaceted individual, a podcaster, speaker, creator and a new father. Patrick's journey as a Korean-American, transracial and transcultural adoptee is a profound exploration of identity and acceptance. From a childhood marked by rejection to a transformative awakening at 30, Patrick's story is one of reclaiming and embracing his heritage and humanity all while fostering community within the adoptee and Asian American realms. Join us for a heartfelt conversation with Patrick.

 

Shownotes:

• Patrick’s first childhood memory

The circumstances surrounding his birth in Korea, and the subsequent adoption to Indiana at just three months old

• Patrick shares his recent efforts to connect with his birth mother and the unexpected developments in that search, shedding light on the emotional and personal challenges of tracing his roots
• The unexpected news from the adoptive agency and what followed.
• Why Partick wrote 40 letters to his birth mom.
• What happens when the protective layers we've built are stripped away, revealing an emotional void? Patrick discusses the tension between control and agency on the adoption journey
• The complex emotions of becoming a father for the first time. Reflecting on seeing his DNA in his child
• The tools and coping mechanisms that have been essential in navigating these life changes, including the crucial role of therapy
• Patrick shares about his first 30 years of navigating life as an Asian American adoptee in a predominantly white community. Growing up in a colorblind household, experiences of subtle and overt racism were often minimized or dismissed by family members, leading to internalized rejection of identity.
• The profound impact of rejection, particularly in the context of adoption, and how it shapes personal identity and emotional well-being. We reflect on the lack of historical research on adoption and the misconception that adopted children will seamlessly integrate into their new families.
• Patrick’s turning point triggered by a scene in the movie "Always Be My Maybe" 
• Patrick shares about his  journey of self-discovery and embracing his heritage and identity.
• The multifaceted nature of the foster care system ranging from loving homes to systemic issues that undermine the foster kids experience.
• The emotional and transformative journey of personal growth and mutual support between Patrick and his adoptive  mother.

 

Connect with Patrick!

Instagram: @patrickintheworld

 

Podcasts:

1. The Janchi show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-janchi-show/id1529913015
2. Conversation Piece: https://www.conversationpiecepod.com/
3. Check Other

 

Studies:

 “Too Korean to be white and too white to be Korean” : 

https://www.holtinternational.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/12/Too-Korean-to-be-White.pdf

 

The adoptee consciousness model:

https://intercountryadopteevoices.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/06/adoptee-consciousness-model.pdf

 

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Hello! We are so excited to bring you the trailer to our new podcast, Mixunderstood - a show that aims to better understand what it is to be multiracial and multicultural. Are you mixed? Not mixed? Know someone who is mixed? Have a child who is mixed? Or simply just want to learn about mixed people? All are welcome here! 

In this episode, we sit down with Rahul Arjun John Yates, founder of HumSub Global Teen and co-creator of Mixed-Desis: Stories of Multi-racial South Asians as he opens up about his unique journey as a multiracial teen in Los Angeles. Growing up with an Indian Punjabi mother and a White father, Rahul navigated the complexities of multicultural identity, which eventually led to the creation of a global platform supporting mixed-race youth.

Listen as Rahul shares heartfelt stories of feeling more connected to his Indian heritage through dance and poignant moments of questioning his identity, offering a relatable perspective for anyone grappling with the intricacies of mixed heritage. The conversation takes a deep dive into Rahul's efforts to celebrate both sides of his cultural background, highlighting the internal conflicts and external challenges he faced. Hear about the amusing tale of his 19-year-old cat Shah Rukh, and how Rahul's work in India through a Harvard program has strengthened his connection to his roots.

This episode explores phases of Rahul’s life where he felt "not Indian enough," and how these experiences have shaped his mission to foster a supportive community for multiracial youth through HumSub Global Teen. In a candid discussion, Rahul recounts the creation of a platform during the pandemic, which has since become a vital space for mixed-race teens. He emphasizes the importance of parental support, especially from his mother, and shares the rewarding journey of writing Mixed Desis.

Rahul’s story is not just about embracing a mixed identity but also about providing resources and inspiration for others on similar paths. Tune in for an episode filled with empathy, empowerment, and insightful guidance on navigating the complexities of multicultural identity.

Find Rahul:

www.humsubglobalteen.com

@humsubglibalteen

Book: www.amazon.com/Mixed-Desis-Stories-Multiracial-Asians-ebook/dp/B0CQ93G46D

 

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In today’s Episode we have a special appearance from someone you already know pretty well, It's a pre-recorded conversation with my former co-host and dear friend, Amy, before she embarked on her next adventure which is around the corner - Baby number 2! 

In this oh so  intimate discussion, Amy and I delve into our experiences growing up in mixed-race households, exploring the impact our parents' marriage had on us as children as well as our own mixed marriages. We'll also touch on the landmark Loving vs. Virginia case, a pivotal moment in history that legalized interracial marriage in the United States.

Last but not least - We have an EPIC voicemail story from one of our listeners.. So stick around to the end if you wanna crack up with me!!

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Music by Mathias Kunzli www.mathiaskunzli.com

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In this episode, I chat with sisters Kim Serena and Mareike Matthies. Raised in Munich, they now navigate the challenges of intercultural family life, with partners from Venezuela and Italy, bringing a rich mix of languages and cultures into their homes. Through their project, "A Couple of Cultures," Kim and Mareike help other intercultural couples by sharing personal stories and professional tips on raising bilingual kids and blending different cultural backgrounds.

Kim and Mareike stress the importance of communication and tolerance in maintaining harmony in multicultural families. They also offer practical tips for nurturing strong dual cultural identities in children, providing valuable lessons for anyone living in a multicultural world.

 

Show notes:

• Introduction to Mareike and Kim
• 3 Fun facts about Mareike and Kim
• How the German sisters met their husbands from Italy and Spain and the moves they made to make the intercultural relationship work. 

• Taking change and potentially transient lifestyle in multicultural families. 
• Being aware of the roles that each partner plays if you happen to be living in the home Country of one of the partners and making a conscious effort to perhaps switch up those roles and move to another country for a chapter. 
• Growth and balance in a relationship.
• The culture that you create as a couple. 
• Working together to make sure that the needs of each partner are met.
• Local vs global community and how both are important. People that will understand your multi cultural lifestyle demands and needs as well as local friends.
• Long-distance travel with young children 
• ​​The importance of preemptively discussing big questions such as language, religion, and the involvement of grandparents. Avoiding judgment and valuation in everyday parenting, particularly when it comes to advice from grandmothers with their own cultural biases
• The intricacies and challenges of raising children in a multicultural household.
• Making the most of an intercultural partner in the sense of challenging why you do things the way you do. Asking yourself if doing things a certain way is a conscious choice or just an automatic thing your culture does. Doing this gives you the option to choose how you want to do things and being exposed to your partner's culture can give you more options. 

• Communication - Debriefing after the event - What happened? Why did you react that way? And that way learning to decipher where the behavior is coming from - Personality, parents, environment, culture etc..
• The sisters share funny anecdotes from their multicultural family life

 

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Mareike and Kim:

https://www.acoupleofcultures.com

Instagram: @acoupleofcultures

 

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In this episode, we sit down with licensed psychologist Dr. Jennifer Noble, also known as Dr. Jenn, and delve into the challenges and limitations that might arise when raising mixed race kids and learn how to ownership of the process.

We also have a second surprise visit by my former co-host Amy Maghera! 

Dr. Jenn shares invaluable insights on supporting mixed race kids, navigating racial identity, and overcoming microaggressions. Hanna-Lee opens up about her own fears and hesitations about becoming a parent from a multicultrual perspective. This episode is packed with practical advice!

We also take a playful quiz from Dr. Jenn’s website to wrap up the conversation. 

• Introduction to Dr. Jenn
• 3 Fun Facts about Dr. Jenn
• Challenges Parents of Mixed Kids Face
• Parenting Mixed Kids during the Pandemic: A George Floyd Example
• Reservations and Tactics for Supporting Mixed Kids: Race, Microaggressions, and Identity
• A Parent's Journey: Changing Perspectives on Race and Mixed Experiences
• Hanna-Lee's Multicultural Parenting Fears and Inner Conflict
• Navigating Mixed Identity: Avoiding the "Right Answer" Trap
• Connecting Kids to Your Story vs. Group Rules
• Learning and Growing with Your Kids: Embracing Culture and Language
• Being a Cultural Ambassador: Shared Parenting Roles
• Technical and Financial Considerations of Multicultural Parenting
• Grieving the Loss of Culture: Acknowledgment and Acceptance
• Amy and Hanna-Lee Take the Quiz on Dr. Jenn’s Site
• Closing anecdote from Dr Jenn, about fully being who you are and letting people around you adjust.

 

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Connect with Dr Jenn!

@drjennpsych

https://www.drjenntherapy.com/www.drjennpsych.com

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We are taking a little side chat, a break from our season's theme of mixed relationships and family dynamics, because guess what? Mixunderstood and yours truly, Hanna-Lee, went to our first event for mixed people!

This episode is a bit different from our usual format. I had the incredible opportunity to attend the Free to Be Fest, a celebration of the mixed experience, right here in downtown LA.

The Free to Be Fest is an amazing event that showcases the richness of mixed identity and belonging. This year, it featured two short films and a TV pilot, all centered around the theme of mixed identity and belonging. I was fortunate enough to interview some of the attendees, including mixed individuals and allies, capturing their stories, insights, and thoughts on what it means to be mixed in today's world.

I recorded this episode on an outdoor rooftop in the heart of downtown LA, so you might hear some background noise from the event and the occasional siren. Please bear with me, as the conversations I had are truly worth it.

A special shoutout to Dr. Jenn, the brilliant mind behind this festival and a former guest on the podcast (check out Episode 20). Her passion and dedication to celebrating mixed identity made this event possible.

Interviewees: 

 

Maris Lidaka - @marislidaka Founder of @blendedfutureproject 

Film - “Gabriella”

 

Eloase Joy @mixed_and_chill

 

Lauren Lola @akolaurenlola

Books: “A Moment’s Worth” & “Dasig”

 

Punita Khanna:

www.Humsubglobalteen.com

Book: Mixed Desis - Stories of Multiracial South Asians

 

Thomas Lopez - www.multiracialamericans.org

 

Aute Porter - www. auteporter.com

 

Larz Broussard - www.larzbroussard.com

 

Camille Tenerife - https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/camille-tenerife-los-angeles-ca/931678

 

Conroe Brooks @conroebrooks

Tv pilot: “Alt Black” 

 

Sarah Shuman and David Ramos

Film: www.tsehaitheshort.com

 

Thank you Paola Morales del Castillo, Iris Tumi, Julie & Ariana 

And Thank you Dr Jenn!!!

 

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To finish our mixed actors in the entertainment industry series, we share our own  stories! We get into our first jobs, cringe worthy moments, career highs and lows, acting in different accents and languages, dodgy auditions, having an identity crisis at the most inappropriate times, bizarre situations and more. 

  

Additional info on the Podcast:

Hosts: Amy Maghera -Taub, Hanna-Lee Sakakibara

Music: Mathias Kunzli - www.mathiaskunzli.com

 

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In this episode, we explore the remarkable story of Emi and Philip, a multicultural couple whose relationship has spanned continents and navigated countless challenges. Meeting in the U.S. in the early 2000s—before the convenience of Zoom calls and smartphones—Emi, who is Japanese, and Philip, who is English/Australian, embarked on a long-distance relationship that tested their resolve, patience, and commitment.

Their journey takes us through the logistical and bureaucratic hurdles of maintaining a relationship across oceans, navigating time differences, visa issues, learning each other's languages and accents, and staying flexible around constant career changes.

Their focus on "making it work" and staying attuned to each other's needs is inspiring and encouraging for anyone who might be currently in a long-distance relationship.

But this episode isn’t just about the logistical challenges. At its heart, it’s about two individuals searching for that elusive place where they can both fully be themselves. Through sacrifices, cultural and familial expectations, and the ever-present struggle of belonging, they continued to seek a home where their identities and experiences could be fully embraced.

Join us as we uncover the emotional and cultural complexities of their journey, filled with moments of humor, frustration, and ultimately, a breakthrough in finding a place where they both could thrive.

In This Episode, We Talk About:

• The challenges of navigating long-distance relationships with limited technology.
• Overcoming cultural and familial expectations to be together.
• The impact of living in different countries on their identities and relationship.
• The struggles of finding work and fitting into new societies as immigrants.
• The journey of finding a place where they both can be fully themselves.

This is our last interview for Season 2. Next week, I’ll be sharing a final short episode with my personal reflections on this season, so make sure to listen in!

 

Guests:

Emi Nishimura & Philip Canavan

@emi_canavan & @lostinthemosh

@japanscreenadvocacy

 

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What would you do to keep your family together during the most challenging times? In this episode, we’re discussing a story of sacrifice, resilience, and the lengths one woman went to in order to stay with her family. During World War II, more than 120,000 Japanese Americans were forcibly removed from their homes and incarcerated in camps across the United States. In the midst of this, one woman made an unthinkable choice. Elaine Buchman Yoneda, a Jewish American, voluntarily entered one of these camps, Manzanar, to stay with her Japanese American husband Karl and their three-year-old son Tommy.

In this episode, I’m joined over Zoom by author Tracy Slater, currently in Canada, to discuss Elaine Yoneda's remarkable journey, explored in Tracy’s upcoming book, preliminarily titled Nine Months in Manzanar, set for release in 2025 by Chicago Review Press. 

Discover how Tracy uncovered this untold story and learn about the totem that guided her through the writing process. We delve into the split-second decisions Elaine faced, not only concerning her son Tommy but also other critical choices. 

We touch on the broader implications for interracial families under the shifting “mixed blood” policy and examine the political views and personal responses to the trauma experienced by those in Manzanar, including how these tensions affected Elaine, Tommy, and others. 

The conversation also covers Carl’s unique identity and feelings toward Japan, the complexities and contradictions in the lives of the Yoneda family, and the importance of acknowledging human contradictions in both personal identities and society.

This episode offers a thought-provoking discussion, shedding light on overlooked aspects of American history and the importance of understanding our collective past.

Guest: Tracy Slater – Author of the upcoming book, preliminarily titled Nine Months in Manzanar (2025), and previously, The Good Shufu: Finding Love, Self, and Home on the Far Side of the World.

www.tracyslater.com

@good_shufu

 

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 In today's unique episode, we're exploring the remarkable story of Gonzalo Guerrero and Zazil Ha, one of the earliest mixed-race couples in Latin American history. Gonzalo, a Spanish sailor, and Zazil Ha, a Mayan princess, came together to create a family that symbolized the merging of Spanish and indigenous cultures, marking the origins of the mestizo identity. This episode provides a vivid picture of the early 1500s in the Yucatan Peninsula, a time when European powers were driven by exploration and conquest. Join us as we journey through the lush and culturally rich world of the Maya and discover how these two extraordinary individuals found each other amidst the turbulence of their time.

 

References/sources:

https://www.thehistorycorner.org/articles-by-the-team/99yobciicyzjpl78wsb7maikyubro6#:~:text=Gonzalo%20Guerrero%20was%20born%20in,%E2%80%9D%20(Cuba%2C%20nowadays).

 

https://latinamericanpost.com/americas/heritage-en/the-father-of-the-mixed-race-a-story-of-romance/

 

https://belize.com/belize-is-cradle-of-latin-americas-mestizo-ethnic-group/

 

https://www.thevintagenews.com/2019/03/25/gonzalo-guerrero/

 

https://ancientmayaculturaltraits.com/2023/09/30/maya-bloodletting-and-elite-initiation/

 

https://es-m-wikipedia-org.translate.goog/wiki/Gonzalo_Guerrero?_x_tr_sl=es&_x_tr_tl=en&_x_tr_hl

=en&_x_tr_pto=sc

https://allthatsinteresting.com/famous-interracial-couples/4

 

https://www.ancient-origins.net/history-famous-people/gonzalo-guerrero-father-first-mestizos-and-army-captain-mayans-006129

 

https://www.thehistorycorner.org/articles-by-the-team/99yobciicyzjpl78wsb7maikyubro6

 

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How does a transracial adoptee navigate the intricate tapestry of identity, culture, and belonging? Join us as Maria Fernanda, a passionate advocate and voice for adoptees, shares her heart-wrenching yet empowering journey from Quito, Ecuador, to her adoptive home in the United States. Maria's story is one of resilience and determination, as she unveils the emotional complexities of birthdays as an adoptee, the painstaking process of uncovering adoption records, and the profound impact of reclaiming her identity and reconnecting with her birth family.

Maria discusses her transformative work in co-creating Adoptees of Latin America plus Extended Latin Americas and Guia Nova, emphasizing the significance of community and support for those navigating similar paths. She opens up about the challenges of growing up in a family of a different race, the emotional nuances of international adoption, and the intense moments of "coming out of the fog" to face the realities of her past. Her journey is marked by poignant reunions with her birth mother, navigating medical documentation as an adoptee, and the emotional roller coaster of finding her biological family amidst a global pandemic.

This episode is a testament to the importance of keeping adoptees' voices central in adoption conversations, highlighting the critical need for empathy, understanding, and trauma-informed care. 

This episode marks the first of a two-part series.

 

Show notes:

• When Maria Fernanda found out she didn't really know her birthday
• We talk about the mix of feelings that come up around birthdays, especially for someone like Maria who was adopted.
•  
• The privilege of having access to personal documents in the Adoptee community
• Maria Fernand’s adoptive family dynamics
• Mari Fernanda challenge the "savior" narrative often associated with adoptive parents, emphasizing the importance of recognizing the birth families' circumstances and humanity
• The importance of centering the voices of adoptees and their first families, rather than solely highlighting the adoptive parents' actions.
• The complexities of growing up as a mixed-race adoptee in a predominantly white environment.
• Growing up as a mixed-race adoptee in a mostly white environment comes with its own set of challenges. A racist encounter Maria had outside her dance class is just one example
• The diverse experiences within the same household, highlighting how each adoptee's journey is unique.
• Maria Fernanda’s moment of "coming out of the fog” as she became a young mom.
• The emotional and logistical challenges faced by adoptees in navigating medical and personal history documentation
• The frustration of filling out forms at the OBGYN that lack an option for adoptees, highlighting the need for medical professionals to be more informed and empathetic.

 

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Summary:

Join us as we eagerly explore the lives of these two iconic mixed actresses, during the glitz and glamor days of old Hollywood. We discover Oberon's journey, from her upbringing under false family pretenses to crafting a fabricated backstory to hide her biracial identity. We get into the societal pressures and Hollywood's Hays Code that influenced her concealment, and discuss the impact of her unacknowledged South Asian heritage on her legacy. Transitioning to Rita Hayworth, we share her transformation from a dancer in a family of performers to a Hollywood sensation, while of course digging deep into the extensive changes she underwent to erase her ethnic roots. We talk about how Hollywood selectively retained aspects of her ethnicity and the control she faced from a young age, as well as the challenges both actresses faced and the moulding both underwent to ‘fit in’ to be successful.

Episode Breakdown:

 

Merle Oberon:

Introduction to Merle Oberon's notable works.

Exploration of her early life and the societal attitudes towards mixed-race individuals.

Her entry into acting and the necessity to fabricate her background story.

Her concealed biracial identity and reasons behind it.

Skin lightening creams and how the notion of lighter skin being better is still the message in some cultures - Amy’s experience in the Bollywood industry.

Hollywood's Hays Code regarding race representation.

Posthumous revelation of Oberon's true identity and its significance.

 

Rita Hayworth:

Introduction to Hayworth's major works and background.

Her early life as a dancer in a family of performers.

Memories from our lives in relation to the topic of dance

The reality of coming from an entire family of dancers for Rita Hayworth and having no choice but to become a dancer from such a young age

Growing up in the spotlight and her journey to Hollywood 

The role her Father played in manufacturing of her image 

Continued by film studios including raising her hair line to make her look more ‘white’.

The public's reception of her transformation and Hollywood's selective embrace of her ethnicity.

The story of when Rita Hayworth’s face was put on an atomic bomb and others reactions to her anger

Personal reflections on learning about the lives and struggles of these two Hollywood icons as multiracial, multicultural actresses in the present day.

 

Links:

Merle Oberon

https://www.theguardian.com/film/2023/mar/06/merle-oberon-oscars-best-actress

https://mixedasianmedia.com/issue-007/8-hapa-women-who-made-history-merle-oberon

https://www.hollywoodreporter.com/movies/movie-news/hollywood-flashback-merle-oberon-oscars-secret-1235343125/

https://variety.com/2002/film/reviews/the-trouble-with-merle-1200547709/

https://www.npg.org.uk/collections/search/person/mp63299/merle-oberon-estelle-merle-obrien-thompson

https://www.bbc.com/news/world-asia-india-61079732

https://www.vanityfair.com/hollywood/2017/07/last-tycoon-jennifer-beals-merle-oberon?redirectURL=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.vanityfair.com%2Fhollywood%2F2017%2F07%2Flast-tycoon-jennifer-beals-merle-oberon

https://www.hollywoodreporter.com/movies/movie-news/michelle-yeoh-first-asian-actress-oscar-nominee-2023-1235308034/

https://www.huffpost.com/entry/hays-code-interracial-relationships-hollywood_n_58fa812ee4b06b9cb916fffd

 

Rita Hayworth: 

https://www.smithsonianmag.com/smart-news/how-margarita-cansino-became-rita-hayworth-180965275/

https://daily.jstor.org/the-making-of-rita-hayworth/

https://www.adriennelmclean.net/

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rita_Hayworth

https://www.yours.co.uk/leisure/nostalgia/the-life-and-loves-of-rita-hayworth/

https://www.vanityfair.com/hollywood/2020/09/rita-hayworth-biography-trauma

 

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Hosts: Amy Maghera -Taub, Hanna-Lee Sakakibara

Music: Mathias Kunzli - www.mathiasjunzli.com

 

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What’s it like to be mixed when it comes to celebrating the holidays? 

In this episode we share our own stories about the joys, challenges, and quirks of our diverse holiday experiences. We talk about how it feels to live away from our families and explore the unique experiences that come from navigating the festive season within our own interracial and intercultural marriages, and how these blend into our holiday traditions.  

We also discuss the often unspoken aspect of holidays - the pressure to conform to societal norms and the reality that sometimes, Christmas just isn't the joyous barrel of laughs that it’s made out to be. Whether our holidays are tinged with sadness, stress, or unconventional fun, we embrace it all.  

Annnnnnd you can join our conversation! Next week, we'll be featuring some of the stories and experiences of our listeners. What do the holiday celebrations look like in your household? Do you have a unique holiday tale or tradition that you’d like to share? If you haven’t already then send us a voice message in an email to mixunderstoodpod@gmail.com, or leave us a voicemail at (424) 272-1089. We're so excited to hear how you celebrate your holidays in your own special way!

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In this Episode we're spotlighting Shola Oz, the author of the children’s book “I am whole” 

Growing up as a first-generation immigrant in the bustling and diverse city of London, Shola learned early on to embrace and celebrate people from all walks of life.

Shola's path to authorship was anything but conventional. Motivated by the lack of positive representation for mixed-race children, she was inspired to write "I Am Whole" after persistent, rhyming lines kept appearing in her dreams. This passion project transcended her immediate circle, resonating particularly in the US, and underlining the global hunger for inclusive narratives.

Inspired by raising her own multicultural and mixed-race daughter, "I Am Whole" aims to take away the focus on color and identification with one culture over another by focusing on language, family and traditions.  

join us as we dive into Shola's personal journey and the heartwarming stories from her mixed family, From navigating the pressures of conforming to beauty standards in a predominantly white corporate world to embracing her natural hair, Shola's story is one of empowerment and self-acceptance. We explore the cultural significance of Nigerian naming traditions and the heartfelt desire to reconnect with her roots. Shola's journey is a testament to the power of authenticity, resilience, and the importance of celebrating one’s identity.

 

Show notes:

 

• Three fun facts about Shola - Horror, Thai & Moulin Rouge…
• Shola’s unexpected inspiration for her Children’s book
• Insights from “I am whole book” which focuses on embracing multiple cultures through language, family, and traditions rather than solely on skin color
• The experience of writing a children's book for mixed-race kids by a mother who is not mixed race herself.
• Shola’s personal experiences in an interracial and intercultural relationship, highlighting conversations about race and micro-aggressions with her Italian English husband.
• Shola’s mixed family experience in England vs Ital.
• Shola’s experiences as a black woman in London vs Overseas.
• Shola shares about what she did to assimilate as a Black woman in the corporate world particularly the pressures to conform to certain beauty standards.
• Why did Shola change her daughter’s name when she was 2 years old.
• The meaning behind her daughter's name.
• The cultural significance and traditions surrounding naming ceremonies in Nigerian culture, particularly for twins.
• Shola’s sense of home vs her mother’s sense of home as a Nigerian immigrant. 
• Writer’s block and Hanna-Lee’s pitch for a second book.
• Shola’s book recommendations
• A special impromptu song from Shola…

 

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@Iamwholebook

Email: iamwholebook@gmail.com

https://www.amazon.com/Whole-Multi-Racial-Childrens-Celebrating-Diversity/dp/183834330X

 

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Joining us today are Dawn Ellinwood and Elimu Nelson, an inspiring interracial couple who, after navigating the challenges of each raising their own children and primarily dating within their own racial backgrounds, now find themselves together, in their 50s, maintaining a strong connection despite their semi-long distance relationship. Tune in to hear about Dawn’s experience around transracial adoption as a mother to her two daughters from her previous marriage. Also, discover Elimu's journey of being caught between racial perceptions as a young boy and evolving into an adult who embraces his black identity, prioritizing connection in relationships. Together, they gracefully navigate the complexities of their relationship, offering insights into the dynamics of blended families and the unspoken rules of dating across racial lines. Stay tuned as we explore how their relationship has fostered healing, support, and joy in their lives

 

Show notes:

• Introduction to Elimu and Dawn. They’re favorite films What makes Elimu cry, the duo personas: Boris and Natasha 
• How they met. 
• Dawn’s surprising connection to BLM and Elimu’s quest to change black Hollywood
• Dawn’s relationship to birth and motherhood and reasons for going through a transcultural and transracial adoption process. 
• Dawn shares one of the main things that people don’t take into account around adoption 
• The challenges of being a parent to an adoptee from a different “race” and being able to help them navigate situations they have never experienced, or the adoptees feeling misunderstood. Seeing your limitations as a parent.
• Your adopted kids wanting to look like you. Perceiving your race as the better one. Growing up as a minority in your area.
• Talking about race without also making it the main focus
• Staying in conversation with the kids. Asking questions. Giving answers. Being willing to have the hard conversations.
• Finding others who can support them who understand - like Elimu
• Elimu’s experiences as a Black man in America. Always looking over his shoulder.
• Elimu on growing up in Milton Massachusetts and why he was treated differently from other black kids in his school
• Elimu shares a racist encounter when he was 7 - “You stick with your kind and I’ll stick with mine” 
• Navigating wanting to people please white people, but be in with the black people
• Elimu as a kid and how he had a fear of Black people being raised in a predominantly white neighborhood and seeing how black people were depicted in the media - feeling ashamed of his fear.
• Understanding where racism comes from. Not excusing is. 
• Have the hard conversations around race as an interracial couple. Recognizing  and acknowledging that one partner has more privilage.
• Judgements, fears and stigmas around interracial dating. 
• Having multiple perspectives on interactions - maybe they aren’t as racist or maybe they are. 
• Dawn talks about “Us” vs “Them" mentality, whether in politics, race, religion or area of the country.
• Questioning the belief systems that have been handed down to us, and taking the extra step to break the cycle rather than succumb to it, when it comes to racism. 
• Elimu's view on Stereotypes 
• the unspoken rules of race in interracial dating. 
• Unspoken familial expectations
• Elimu talks about the advantage of dating within one's "race"
• Discussing relationship parameters . What’s the expectation of dating each other. How will they handle the “smoke.” not avoiding situations but also not rocking the boat. The transitional phase in the relationship
• Dawn’s reservations before dating Elimu
• Elimu’s dating history of dating woman of color and what changed when he met Dawn
• Dawn meeting Elimu’s parents and why Elimu’s father sent Dawn Caviar for her birthday

 

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In today's episode, we dive into the fascinating journey of Tina and Nacho, a couple whose whirlwind romance began on Tinder in Miami and has taken them across continents to settle in Buenos Aires. Their story is one of adaptability, resilience, and navigating cultural clichés as they merge their lives together.

Join us as we explore what it’s like to be in a long-distance international relationship and the realities of moving to a new country for your partner. Tina, from Germany, and Nacho, from Argentina, have faced numerous logistical challenges, from living in shared spaces in Miami to transitioning to Tina's childhood home in Germany, before embarking on an adventure in a cozy camper van and finally settling in the vibrant city of Buenos Aires.

We kick off with three fun facts:

Tina's quirky relationship with wobbly foods, Nacho's confession about soccer, and what they adopted into their relationship during their year and a half of traveling across Europe in a camper van. Then, we delve into their decision to get married after seeing each other only four times, exploring how their family and friends reacted and their differing accounts of whether Nacho proposed.

As we transition to their practical life in Buenos Aires, Tina and Nacho share the humorous and eye-opening experience of navigating healthcare with Tina's improving Spanish and Nacho's assistance. This leads us to a discussion about cultural differences and navigating clichés, examining how they've managed to maintain a sense of normalcy amid the challenges of adapting to a new culture.

We explore the initial struggles and misunderstandings due to differing cultural expectations, particularly around timeliness and expressions of affection, and how these experiences have influenced their relationship and perspectives on their home countries and identities. 

Tune in as we discuss closing the gap of long distance, making a relationship work across countries, and the realities of moving to a foreign land for - Amor! 

 

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Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/international-love-story/id1514145436

 

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In this week’s SEASON FINALE we go out with a bang by  sharing a multicultural mashup of holiday stories from you, our amazing listeners! We truly felt rejuvenated and enriched after this episode and we hope you will too!

 

From how they do things in a British/Columbian/American household with post midnight Christmas eve parties, to the intricacies of how an intercultural Hungarian and Indian couple celebrate, to a Polish Ashcanazi Jewish Father and a Jamaican Mother learning about each others traditions and continuing them for their children, even when the other isn’t around, to how they do it in Finland with a deep respect for those who have past and saunas on Christmas day! It’s a multicultural feast and full of so many different perspectives with stories from people from all sorts of backgrounds and ages. We can’t wait for you to listen to it! 

Thank you to our special guests!

 

Blake Pearlman 

Michelle Boucher 

Arun Entwistle

Cherisse Merren 

Gabriella and Rakesh (instagram @ourinterculturallife )

Chloe Campbell

Mari Sakakibara

Naomi Sakakibara

Petra Sprecher 

Mike Cantrell

Ariel Taub 

Noam, Peja and Mayumi Sedan

Wendy Cardona

If you’d like to join our new Patreon Programme as we get ready for Season 2, please see the link at the bottom of this page! 

 

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Step into the world of cross-cultural dating with First-generation Japanese-American Mami Sugita!

In this episode, Mami opens up about her whirlwind journey through relationships that span continents, cultures, and a whole lot of soul-searching.

Mami shares candid insights into the challenges and misunderstandings that shaped each romantic encounter. But beyond the typical relationship hurdles, Mami delves into the nuances of navigating different cultural expressions of affection and love as well as relationship status and commitment.

Growing up, Mami navigated the complexities of her dual heritage, often feeling caught between two worlds and like she wasn't fully accepted in the Japanese world. As she searched (the world!) for that perfect partner that would accept her for who she was, she ultimately realized it was up to her to cultivate self love and self acceptance. 

Join us as we travel through Mami's cross cultural dating timeline!

 

Episode Breakdown:

 

• Introduction to Season 2 of Mixunderstood: introducing the themes and topics to be explored.
• Fun facts about Mami and Hanna-Lee’s friendship including anecdotes about Mami's supportive role in Hanna-Lee's life and Mami's passion for travel.
• Mami’s upbringing as the first born to Japanese immigrants including her responsibilities in bridging language barriers and navigating dual cultural identities.
• Mami's cross cultural dating journey: Her first boyfriend and what changed after that.
• The challenges and cultural dynamics in each relationship, such as struggles with communication styles and cultural expectations.
• Discuss how Mami's cross-cultural dating experiences ultimately led her to prioritize self-acceptance and embrace imperfection.
• The growth and transformation in Mami's current relationship with her Italian partner, including improvements in communication and alignment of familial values.
• The concept of "Wabi Sabi" and its significance in Mami's perspective on relationships and imperfection.

 

Music by Mathias Kunzli www.mathiaskunzli.com

Editing: Favio Esquivel & Hanna-Lee Sakakibara

 

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After much thoughtful consideration, Amy, my most wonderful co-host and friend, has decided to step down from the podcast. While I will miss her terribly - I'm truly beyond grateful for the episodes we've created together. We've poured our everything into season 1 and it's one of the most fulfilling endeavors we've ever had.

Change is a natural part of life, and even though it's very hard for me to bid farewell to Amy, I'm excited about the new opportunities and creative directions that lie ahead for the podcast. Our time with Amy has been filled with laughter, thought-provoking discussions, and so many memorable moments, and I want to express my deepest gratitude to her for being an integral part of this journey.

I'm committed to ensuring that Mixunderstood continues to be a source of inspiration, entertainment, and valuable insights for all of you. Due to this change I will need more time as I prepare season 2, currently looking at a March release.

Thank you for your continued support, and please join me in wishing Amy all the best in her future endeavors as she gets ready to welcome baby #2!! 

Stay tuned for more exciting content, and let's embrace the next chapter of MIXUNDERSTOOD together!

Your host,

Hanna-Lee

 

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Find Amy Maghera on Instagram: @amy.maghera

 

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We’re kicking off our “mixed actors in the entertainment industry” series.

Lowe shares insightful and personal stories about navigating her career in the ever changing landscape of Hollywood being of both Chinese and Scottish heritage. 

We dive into diversity issues and casting complexities in the industry with mixed actors, as well as colorism and the importance of fair representation in media.

What do you do when your reps are asking you to “play up/down” one side of your identity because it’s “in”?

What roles are available for mixed actors and can a mixed actor play a monoracial role and vice versa? 

How far have we really come with portraying diversity on screen and how can we as actors take things into our own hands? 

 

Episode breakdown:

• Introduction to Yan-Kay Crystal Lowe
• Overview of her multicultural upbringing in Vancouver, Hong Kong and the USA
• Childhood anecdotes of growing up Scottish and Chinese
• How the industry perceives Crystal versus who she is and how she feels internally
• Diversity or lack thereof, in the industry, past and present
• Fitting into casting dynamics as a white passing mixed-race actor 
• Can mixed people play monoracial roles and vice versa? 
• Discussions about Colorism and fair representation in media 
• Ways that we can try to achieve diversity on screen
• Articles about recent instances of white washing in Hollywood films
• Emotional considerations around acting in accents from our different cultural backgrounds.
• Crystal reclaiming her name and knowing her worth as an artist.

 

Special Guest: 

Yan-Kay Crystal Lowe

Actor/Director

Crystal AKA Yan-Kay Lowe is a Chinese-Scottish-Canadian actor, director and writer.

She started her acting career at 15 years old and was quickly cast in numerous tv series including stargate SGI, The Twilight Zone and many more. As her film career blossomed she became one of Hollywood's most in demand 'scream queens' starring in numerous films including the beloved franchise, Final Destination, Children of the Corn: Revelation and Black Christmas . 

She has starred in the Canadian produced series Primeval as Toby Nance, as well as the hit Hallmark series  Signed, Sealed, Delivered, where she was nominated for multiple awards for best actress for her portrayal of the quirky and lovable Rita Haywith. . 

She has written, directed and produced numerous award-winning short films and was nominated for best international director for her short film, The Curtain. 

Most recently she's been selected as the first recipient of the new Hallmark women's director program.

Instagram: @officialcrystallowe

 

Links to resources:

2019 NBC News article on ‘Colorism’

https://www.nbcnews.com/news/nbcblk/colorism-reveals-many-shades-prejudice-hollywood-n959756

USD Student Media article

https://uofsdmedia.com/robbed-of-representation/

Interview with Alex Chester (Editor - in - Chief of the HAPA Mag)

https://www.mixedlife.net/eveything/2020/7/15/the-mixed-race-casting-debate-who-can-be-cast-in-what-roles

Art’s and entertainment section of THE GENERAL CONSENSUS- Hamilton-Wenham Regional High School’s student-run newspaper - Ella https://hwrhsgeneralconsensus.com/10771/arts-entertainment/from-yellowface-to-whitewashing-in-hollywood/

 

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Hosts: Amy Maghera -Taub, Hanna-Lee Sakakibara

Music: Mathias Kunzli - www.mathiasjunzli.com 

 

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Join us as we get right into the nuanced experiences of four mixed-race actors: Collin McCalla, Kyla Nova, Amy Ward and Lorenzo Silva as they navigate the complex landscape of Hollywood casting.

We explore the challenges they face when their identities intersect with industry stereotypes and casting conventions. We examine the delicate balance between diversity in casting and authentic representation, raising questions on ethnicity, identity, and the evolving standards of storytelling in film and television.

How should Hollywood balance the quest for authenticity in casting with the fluidity of mixed-race identities?

Where do mixed-race actors fit in an industry striving for diversity, but still grappling with rigid perceptions of ethnicity? Should there be a threshold for how much an actor's ethnicity should align with the character's, and who decides this threshold?

What happens when you’re unable to get cast as the ethnicity/ies you actually are because you don’t look it and in fact look more like another ethnic group? 

 

Episode breakdown:

• Introductions to Collin McCalla and Kyla Nova and their mixed heritage.
• Personal anecdotes from McCalla and Nova on casting experiences that overlook their unique backgrounds, including sometimes being placed under the umbrella of other ethnicities
• The dilemma of playing roles not matching one's own ethnicity and Hollywood's generalizations of race and culture. 

• Where do mixed actors fit in when there is a gap between their ethnic background and how they are perceived?

•  How far should filmmakers  go to assure diverse actors are properly portrayed and represented? Should they base castings off of biology or appearance? 

• Amy Ward's experiences with being of Korean and Irish descent and her thoughts on casting limitations for mixed actors.

• Reflecting on the scarcity of mixed-race representation when we were children and the impact on personal and cultural identity.
• The historical context of diversity in Hollywood, referencing Anna Mae Wong's era versus the current climate.
• What happens when you can’t get cast as your own ethnicity because you don’t look it. Are you therefore ‘allowed’ to play a role that’s of another ethnicity if you look like it?
•  Discussion about casting an actress with Native American ancestry but who identifies as an Asian American - Can she play a native American role with references to an example from an article on globalcomment.com
• Discussions on the backlash and boundaries in casting, exemplified by Amy Ward's portrayal of Anna Mae Wong.
• How strict should we become about who can play what because we could end up shutting the door in the faces of people who should be in the room.  
• Lorenzo Silva’s unique situation and his perspective on ethnic authenticity 
• A affirming summary from Amy Ward 

Special Guests: 

Collin McCalla, Kyla Nova, Amy WArd, Lorenzo Silva

 

Instagram: @jcmccalla, @kylanova11, @grimgaiety, @lorenzosilvadolla

 

 Links:

‘Casting an Asian-American in a Native American Role Does Not Help Diversity in Hollywood’

https://globalcomment.com/casting-asian-american-native-american-role-not-help-diversity-hollywood/

Hollywood: The True Story of Anna May Wong and The Good Earth

https://www.vanityfair.com/hollywood/2020/05/hollywood-ryan-murphy-anna-may-wong

 

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Hosts: Amy Maghera -Taub, Hanna-Lee Sakakibara

Music: Mathias Kunzli - www.mathiasjunzli.com 

 

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In part 1, we explored what it was like for Maria Fernanda growing up as a mixed-race transracial adoptee. We delved into the emotional complexities of birthdays as an adoptee, what it was like growing up with white parents, and being in an interracial relationship and getting pregnant unexpectedly. Becoming a young mom was a turning point for Maria Fernanda, who says it was the moment of “coming out of the fog” when she started to want answers and began the arduous journey of searching for her “First mother.”

Now, in part 2, we delve deeper into the emotional and challenging journey of uncovering adoption records that seemed almost impossible to access. Our exploration follows the relentless efforts to contact consulates, embassies, and a now-defunct adoption agency, leading to a surprising breakthrough. This realization highlights the systemic barriers many adoptees face when seeking answers, underscoring the ongoing struggles within the adoption process. Join us as we continue Maria's story of resilience, determination, and the importance of community and support.

 

• Maria Fernanda’s emotional journey of searching for biological family members:
• Efforts to find her mother and brother through online messages and social media.
• Maria Fernanda’s first hand experience with a scam and the Importance of caution to avoid scams. 
• Maria Ferdanda’s determination and resilience in navigating the complexities of searching for one's roots amidst a global pandemic. The Detective work she did to find clues and put the pieces of info together. Inspired by the movie "Lion," using Google Earth to investigate further.
• Initial dead ends and emotional highs and lows in the pursuit.
• How she finally was able to be connected with her first mother after decades of separation and begin the reunion process.
• The Immediate and profound connection despite language barriers as well as the challenges of communication through a translator.
• Mix of joy and pain in such reunions, impact of past trauma.
• Delays in in-person meeting due to the global pandemic.
• Maria Fernanda’s first trip back to Quito with her family to meet her birth family.
• Challenges faced by adoptees, particularly from Latin America, in navigating identity and reunions with biological families.
• The ongoing challenges around being an adoptee. Her personal experience of proving citizenship for a child's college application, highlighting bureaucratic hurdles.
• Maria Fernanda’s Creation of Adoptees of Latin America plus Extended Latin Americas and the Guia Nova mentoring program.
• Need for supportive communities that understand the unique grief and joy adoptees experience.
• The mental health impacts of adoption and importance of trauma-informed care and supportive networks.
• The role of community in acknowledging and processing trauma and loss, ensuring adoptees can thrive.

 

Find Maria Fernanda:

Instagram: 

@abutterflyseries

Adoptees of Latin America+ Extended Latin Americas: https://www.asa-extendedlatinamericas.com/creators

Guia Nova:

Instagram @guianovamentoring

 

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It’s our first episode ever! We are so excited that you are here! Get a glimpse into who we are and join us as we delve into why we are doing this podcast, share research around the multiracial population and reveal the personal stories of our name changes. 

Here is a breakdown of the discussion

• Introduction to us
• The term 'third culture kid'
• Reasons why we felt compelled to do this podcast
• Data and research into the growing multiracial population
• Our own artistic projects to do with being multiracial and multicultural
• The stories of our own name changes and our journeys toward embracing our names and identities
• Our experiences about our desires to conform to Western ideals of beauty and naming and a reflection on past wishes to be blonde and have more "acceptable" names.
• How we both have tendencies to adapt to others' expectations, allowing mispronunciations and misunderstandings to avoid confrontations.

Links to resources:

https://www.washingtonpost.com/nation/2021/10/08/mixed-race-americans-increase-census/

https://www.census.gov/library/stories/2023/09/2020-census-dhc-a-race-overview.html

https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/121920.Third_Culture_Kids

https://students.ubc.ca/sites/students.ubc.ca/files/Importance_of_Names_Guide_v2.pdf

https://hbr.org/2022/01/why-getting-someones-name-right-matters

 

Watch Hanna-Lee's One Woman Show - Improbable

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aE-mWbwd1_Q - 

 

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In this episode, we sit down with Punita Khanna, a first-generation Indian Punjabi immigrant and co-author of Mixed Daisies: Stories of Multiracial South Asians. As the mother of Rahul, featured in Episode 27, Punita reflects on her journey of raising a mixed-race child in a context where such families were relatively rare.

Punita shares her experiences of feeling like an outsider—facing discrimination as a brown person in the United States and struggling with acceptance in India. Despite these challenges, her unwavering dedication to providing Rahul with the best opportunities, resources, and community support shines through.

Being the first mixed child on both sides of their families, Punita discusses the dynamics of raising a mixed-race child in a predominantly white society, including recognizing her husband John’s white privilege and the contrasting parenting styles between her Indian heritage and his more relaxed American approach.

Punita also reflects on marrying and having a child later in life, her efforts to expose Rahul to various cultures and religions, and giving him the freedom to choose his own path. She shares her journey as a breast cancer survivor and passionate advocate for breast cancer awareness within the South Asian community. Her story highlights the importance of early detection, the challenges of dealing with a lack of representation in healthcare narratives, and her decision to shield Rahul from the emotional burden of her illness.

Ultimately, this episode is a monoracial South Asian mother’s love letter to her mixed-race son. It sheds light on the many overlaps between their journeys as they find acceptance, build community, and cultivate resources and spaces for mixed families and individuals.

Punita and Rahul’s Book! Mixed Dasis: Stories Of Multiracial South Asians

 www.amazon.com/Mixed-Desis-Stories-Multiracial-Asians-ebook/dp/B0CQ93G46D

 

Mentions:

www.humsubglobalteen.com

Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother

by Amy Chua

 

Recommendations from Punita:

 

Raising Mixed Race: Multiracial Asian Children in a Post-Racial World

by Sharon H. Chang

Raising Multiracial Children: Tools for Nurturing Identity in a Racialized World

by Farzana Nayani

 

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In this episode, biological anthropologist, Dr Stephanie Meredith chats with us about race as a social construct and how even though it’s not a biological reality, the impacts of racial categorizations are still very, very real. We also delve into funny, strange and gobsmacking personal stories around racial perceptions.

Episode breakdown:

• The history of racial classifications and their arbitrary nature, based on physical traits
• The Human Genome Project's findings on genetic similarity
• How other species have a lot more genetic diversity than we do
• The history of the census, when it comes to racial categories and how they have changed
• The impacts and consequences of racial classification, i.e how people are treated and how their bodies move in the world - health, opportunity, experience.
• Why the government still needs race data
• Stories of Dr Stephanie Meredith’s dual heritage
• How other people perceive us when it comes to race
• Mixed race children paying less preferential attention to any one skin tone 

Special Guest: 

Dr. Stephanie Meredith , Ph.D.                                                      

Assistant professor, Anthropology                                                       College of the Canyons Chair, member and credentials Committee American association of Biological Anthropologists  Website: www.stephanie-meredith.com                                    Instagram: @dr.brachydactyl

 

Links to resources:

Fatal invention by Dorothy Roberts

https://www.amazon.com/Fatal-Invention-Dorothy-Roberts-2012-10-11/dp/B01K0SWV80/ref=sr_1_2?crid=9M4HXH7ZAQI0&keywords=fatal+invention+dorothy+roberts&qid=1696218513&sprefix=fatal+invention+%2Caps%2C129&sr=8-2

PBS Documentary Series: Race the Power of an Illusion 

https://vimeo.com/133506632?gclid=CjwKCAjwseSoBhBXEiwA9iZtxn4ex5XLBSvC1SjSQlwnZfLaepjbp8pyXw4zBGllLs0KLPQ0sT9xAhoCR9cQAvD_BwE&gclsrc=aw.ds

Current census

https://www.census.gov/topics/population/race/about.html

Census.gov - a comment on the current racial categories

https://www.census.gov/quickfacts/fact/note/US/RHI625222#:~:text=The%20racial%20categories%20included%20in,biologically%2C%20anthropologically%2C%20or%20genetically.

Nelson Mandela - Long Walk to Freedom

https://www.goodgoodgood.co/articles/nelson-mandela-quotes#:~:text=On%20love,human%20heart%20than%20its%20opposite.%E2%80%9D

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In a world that is rapidly embracing AI, what happens when it begins to replace actors? As the SAG actors union strike crosses its 100th day, we dive deep into the pivotal role AI plays in the ongoing negotiations. Joanna Ke's compelling article - “ Why AI Replacing Actors is a Threat to Diversity and Cultural Progress '', poses a question we hadn't fully grasped: How does AI's involvement in the entertainment industry potentially undermine diversity and cultural progress? Why are actors so concerned, and is their battle truly just about pay? Are we looking at a mere industry debate, or a broader conversation about human rights in the AI age? SAG’s fight for actors took on a whole new meaning for us after this conversation, as we realised that this is about protecting our rights as human beings, which goes far beyond the entertainment industry. 

 

Episode breakdown:

• Introduction: Meet Joanna Ke, a multifaceted voice in the industry 
• A dive into Joanna's mixed Taiwanese, Irish and Polish heritage and how it shaped her identity
• How Joanna gets cast in Hollywood
• Her realisation of Hollywood's lack of complex female and mixed-race characters while working as a script consultant. Her drive to create her own work
• Inauthentic representation - How unregulated AI could amplify Hollywood's diversity and representation issues
• The essentiality of genuine representation and the pitfalls of 'approved', tailored looks, especially when it comes to mixed race people and people of color.
• References from futurist Sinead Bovell including the term: The 'Illusion of Diversity': Diverse avatars vs. actual diverse workforce – Is this morally right? As well as Cultural Ethics: The fine line between representation and cultural appropriation in AI.
• The SAG union's fight for AI regulation and what's at stake for actors.
• How actors faces and bodies are already getting scanned for AI use 
• How unregulated AI and owning background actors likenesses and images could stifle emerging, diverse talent 
• Why don’t companies hire actual diverse models and actors instead of creating AI avatars to “promote” diversity ?
• The importance of using AI as a tool to help cultural progress rather than hinder it 
• Dwane Johnson “The Rock’s” avatar (whitewashing) controversy and its implications for lesser-known mixed actors.
• Keanu Reeves' AI clause and its significance.
• Erasing real bodies and falsifying emotions. The potential loss of human nuance in AI-driven performances. The impact this could this have on society especially if we can’t differentiate between what is real and what is AI 
• Exploring the potential positive impacts of regulated AI.
• Update on the union's AI regulation efforts
• How we can help the progression of diversity and use AI as a tool to help us 

 

Special Guest: 

Joanna Ke

Filmmaker / Writer / Actor

Joanna is an award-winning filmmaker that thrives in the industry as an actor, writer, script consultant, and producer. She champions diverse stories led by women both behind and in front of the camera.

Under her production company, Saint Joan productions, Joanna wrote, produced, and starred in the fantasy action film Protectress, which won 11 awards, in the film festival circuit,  including Best Fantasy, Best Action, and Best Performance.

Joanna runs the twitter account @femcharacters, highlighting the unfortunate way women are often portrayed on screen. She has been a regular contributing writer for two industry blogs, We ScreenPlay & Ms in the Biz. 

 

Instagram: @joanna_ke

Website: joannake.com

 

 

Links:

Joanna Ke’s Article: https://mixedasianmedia.com/why-ai-replacing-actors-is-a-threat-to-diversity-and-cultural-progress

 

Sinead Bovell - I study the future. We should pay attention to avatars

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RtId9uJzHfg

 

Background Actors and what’s at stake in the actors strike

https://www.huffpost.com/entry/sag-actors-strike-ai-background-actors_n_64b1b07de4b0ad7b75f2f616

 

Keanu Reeves on AI Technology

https://deadline.com/2023/02/keanu-reeves-calls-out-scary-deepfakes-ai-technology-1235260761/

 

Justine Bateman - SAG’s AI consultant and a resource for AI updates in the industry

instagram 

@_justinebateman_

 

 

 

 

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Aghhh aren’t those teenage years hard enough without the added complexity of being mixed? We chat about our adolescent insecurities, heartbreaks and embarrassing stories, as well as the challenges and beauties of blending traditions and identities during hose critical identity forming years.  We also share research and data about child and teen development for people of mixed heritage. If you’re a parent of a mixed child/teen or know one, this episode is for you too! 

We discuss:

• Developmental theories for multiracial children and teens
• Mental health studies of mixed adolescents 
• Emotional needs of multiracial children
• The role of the parents of mixed kids
• The landscape of our teenage years and what we both did to fit in 
• Our Mothers’ techniques to keep an eye on us
• Teenage fashion choices
• Heartbreaks and crushes
• Stories of facing racism at a young age
• Insecurities: Unwanted body hair, eyebrows, boobs!
• Writing diaries and having good friends that saw us without labels

Links to resources: 

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Biracial_and_multiracial_identity_development

https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/multiracial-identities-and-resilience-to-racism-the-role-of-families#Support-and-self-esteem

https://adaa.org/find-help/by-demographics/multiracial-comm

https://www.aacap.org/AACAP/Families_and_Youth/Facts_for_Families/FFF-Guide/Multiracial-Children-071.aspx

https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/131481-whenever-two-people-meet-there-are-really-six-people-present

https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/700564-if-you-are-always-trying-to-be-normal-you-will

https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/876-to-be-yourself-in-a-world-that-is-constantly-trying

https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/8945949-the-universe-took-its-time-on-you-crafted-you-to

 

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Hosts: Amy Maghera -Taub, Hanna-Lee Sakakibara

 

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From humorous and humbling moments like falling off stage to profound revelations, Majid shares his experiences of changing his stage name to fit in and later, of reclaiming his Iranian heritage. We delve into the nuances of identity, the mixed-race experience, and the pressures to change oneself or chip away parts of yourself in order to meet the expectations of others and fit neatly into society’s categories.  Episode breakdown:

• Introduction to Actor, Theatre director and writer Majid Mehdizadeh-Valoujerdy 
• An exploration into Majid's decision to initially change his stage name to Luke Jerdy to appear more British and his eventual return to his Iranian name. A look into the motivations, fears, and catalysts behind these decisions.
• A reflection on the impact of his name changes on his personal and professional identity
• His journey from identifying as white to acknowledging his mixed-race heritage
• Recounting his experiences growing up in a mixed Iranian and British family and facing bullying in school, as well as the challenges of hiding an interest in acting
• A discussion about the seeming commonality among mixed individuals of feeling unable to fully embrace all aspects around identity
• A conversation about his Iranian side and feelings around not being as connected to one side of your heritage.
• Majid’s thoughts on playing Iranian roles and the colorism/stereotypes around those castings.
• The advantages and challenges Majid faces in the industry after having reclaimed his Iranian name
• Discussion on the pressures mixed actors have faced in the past to conform to certain names or identities, referencing the article titled: ‘How ethnic actors changing their names perpetuates Hollywood’s racism’
• A look at how the industry is changing to embrace diversity, yet still grappling with present and past underlying biases 
• A conclusion with ‘The Bill of Rights for People of Mixed Race Heritage’ by Dr Maria P.P. Root

  Special Guests: Majid Mehdizadeh-Valoujerdy Majid is a father and a husband, an actor, theater director, writer and teacher. Amongst many notable credits he played the lead role of Albert in ‘War Horse’, in London’s West End, he also wrote and performed his own one man show ‘Young Man’s Angry Movements’, across prestigious theaters in the UK, he played series regular Jesse Donovan on the UK TV show ‘Hollyoaks’. At the beginning of July he finished playing a lead role in the Neil LaBoute play ‘The Shape of Things’ at the Park theater in London and he recently wrapped filming on Season 14 of Doctor Who.Directing wise, he made his professional directing debut in July 2022 at the Blue Elephant Theatre, London, where he directed a new play, Give Me the Sun, by Mamet Leigh. The creative team was made up entirely of Middle Eastern and North African artists. He has taught and directed at RADA, LIPA, Mountview, Drama Studio London and is now teaching at UEL on their Acting for Stage and Screen Course.   Instagram: @majidmvj   Links: how-ethnic-actors-changing-their-names-perpetuates-hollywoods-racism https://thewildcattribune.com/14421/opinion/how-ethnic-actors-changing-their-names-perpetuates-hollywoods-racism   Sir Ben Kingsley's identity is as colourful as his characters

https://www.radiotimes.com/tv/drama/sir-ben-kingsleys-identity-is-as-colourful-as-his-characters/

Bill of Rights for People of Mixed Heritage - Maria P.P. Root

https://www.apa.org/pubs/videos/4310742-rights.pdf

 

 

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Some of you might recall today’s guests from Season 1’s finale episode about Holiday Tales from around the world. 

They are the sweetest couple you’ve ever met -  Gabriella & Rakesh Zope. Gabriella is a psychologist from Hungary, Rakesh an Ayurveda doctor from India, and they currently live in Budapest.

Together, they’ve worked to integrate their different expertise to guide and support intercultural couples through the intricacies of relationship and the journey into parenthood. 

In this Episode we talk about their intercultural relationship as well as their insights on celebrating differences and building a foundation so strong that no challenge can sway you from each other. 

 

Show notes:

• Gabriella and Rakesh's 3 fun facts!  Chinese spirit animals, cleaning habits and their take on eating dessert before the main meal...
• Love at first site - How the met 
• Why is took a year for them to get together - The impact of traditional expectations on modern love
• The cultural difference when it comes to the pace of the relationship and the timing of marriage
• How they’re families received them - needing parents approval or not in different cultures. 
• Gabriella’s father’s initial rejection of the marriage / challenges they faced
• Cultural vs personality differences and how to tell the difference. Rakesh shares the role of Ayurvedic personality types in understanding relationship dynamics.
• Rakesh talks about Subtle cultural expectations. Gabriella shares how she experienced it on her first visit to India. Having conversations around expectations and well as Being willing to be flexible around generational cultural expectations. 
• How can you be yourself and respect other cultures at the same time -  Setting boundaries.
• Reverting back to the roles you play back home. Re-aligning with your home environment that might look differently than the home environment you created with your partner.
• Bring caught in the middle between the struggles of your partner adjusting and your family adjusting. Being able to listen during these times and noticing when someone is venting or when someone is looking for a solution to the problem.
• Intension is not always bad, but sometimes words can create turbulence. How to convey the messages to each other without hurting each other. Focusing on keeping the communication open during challenging times and not letting the emotions take over the expressions. 
• Rakesh talks about tools to better control the emotions and choosing what you want to express.
• Tools that help you build resilience in relationships and endure difficult situations. 
• Building a daily meditation practice to help you be less reactive while experiencing negative emotions. 
• The challenges of balancing individual and collective cultural identities.
• Rakesh takes us through a 5 minute calming breathing exercise.
• Gabriella shares their approach and excercises to resolving conflicts in relationships without raising our voices or placing blame.

 

Contact Gabriella and Rakesh on Instagram @ourinterculturallife

For more breathing/mediation exercises you can reach out to Gabriella and Rakesh or they recommend checking out:

https://www.artofliving.org/us-en

 

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Welcome to the second season of MixUnderstood, as we continue to explores the interracial and intercultural experiences. In our first season, we shared our personal stories as well as our collective journey in the entertainment industry, all centering around what it means to be 'mixed.'

In this new season,  we'll delve deeper into the intricacies of interracial relationships, diverse family dynamics, and so much more. 

With Amy embarking on a new personal journey, I’m thrilled to carry on the torch this season and keep the dialogue open for us to learn, grow, and evolve together. So, hold on tight as we journey into the complexities of what it means to be 'mixed' – the joy, the struggles, the laughs, and the tears. Welcome to MixUnderstood Season Two!! Officially kicking off on Tuesday, April 30th!!!

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I'v gathered some highlights from our upcoming episodes just for you...Hope you enjoy them and I'm looking forward to sharing the rest of Season 2 with you!

Mark your calendars and See you soon!

Hanna-Lee

 

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Ever wondered how a fiercely independent academic from Boston could end up embracing the traditional role of a Japanese housewife? Tracy Slater, acclaimed author of The Good Shufu: Finding Love, Self, and Home on the Far Side of the World, joins us to unravel her incredible journey. From teaching in men's prisons to becoming a shufu in Japan, Tracy's story is one of transformation, self-discovery, and unexpected love.

In this episode, we explore how Tracy navigated the logistics of moving to Japan, adapting to a new culture, and balancing her career shift with the demands of a new lifestyle. Tracy shares her experiences of culture shock, her willingness to let life shape her path, and the adjustments she made to embrace new roles and responsibilities.

Discover how Tracy and her husband, Toru, balanced their different cultural backgrounds and overcame the challenges of living between two countries. We dive into the emotional and practical aspects of her journey, including caring for her terminally ill father-in-law, her efforts to conceive a child, and the impact of these experiences on her sense of self.

Tracy’s memoir captures the irony and profundity of her mid-40s transformation, offering insights into intercultural marriages and the subtleties of non-homogeneous social relationships. She shares heartwarming and humorous anecdotes about adapting to her new life, including a memorable story from her first week in Japan.

Join us for a deeper understanding of how culture shapes relationships and provides valuable lessons for anyone navigating mixed identities or intercultural marriages. Stay tuned for future discussions on Tracy's upcoming book about mixed families in America's World War II concentration camps.

 

More about Tracy:

www.tracyslater.com

 

Tracy’s Mixed-Marriage Memoir:

The Good Shufu: Finding Love, Self, and Home on the Far Side of the World

 

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When my father passed away, it felt like losing a lifeline to my Japanese heritage. Navigating the grief and identity crisis that followed, I dreamt up Mixunderstood as a way to reconnect and heal. This season finale is a heartfelt reflection on how this podcast became a sanctuary in my journey of personal growth, even as I faced burnout, and the profound conversations that have shaped it, including an unforgettable exchange with Punita Khanna about our shared experiences with cancer in our families.

Creating Mixunderstood has been more than just a creative project; it's been a transformative experience that has encouraged me to embrace my mixed identity with newfound confidence. Inspired by our amazing guests and the vibrant community, I've started looking into learning Japanese and have even launched Fusion Friday, an educational social media series collaboration with Mixed Asian Media that celebrates mixed culture and identity. Through these efforts, I am building a language around the mixed-race experience and finding comfort in spaces that once felt foreign. As I wrap up this season, I hope to explore even more themes like mental health and racial imposter syndrome in the future.

Massive thank you to all of our guests and contributors to Season 2!! 

Thank you to YOU wonderful listeners! 

Your support has been integral to this journey, and I’m deeply grateful for every message and contribution. This episode is dedicated to my father.

Thank you for being part of Mixunderstood.

Let's continue this exploration together.

 

Chapters

(00:00) - Reflecting on Season Two

(04:53) - Discovering Identity Through Podcasting

(13:58) - Embracing Mixed Identity Through Conversation

(24:50) - Staying Connected Through Podcasting

Highlights

(04:53) Podcast Origins (102 Seconds)

(10:31) Identity Crisis Sparking Podcast Creation (97 Seconds)

(13:45) Podcast Impact on Mixed Identity (86 Seconds)

(20:42) Dedication to Father and New Season (123 Seconds)

 

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Music by Mathias Kunzli www.mathiaskunzli.com

 

 

Keywords

Mixed Identity, Japanese Heritage, Grief, Identity Crisis, Personal Growth, Burnout, Conversations, Cancer, Mental Health, Racial Imposter Syndrome, Fusion Friday, Language, Community, Creative Project, Healing, Reflection, Season Finale, Podcasting, Identity, Cultural Spaces, Learning, Joy, Connections, Hope, Balance, Support, Contributions, Music, Transformative Experience, Curiosity, Questions, Future Episodes,