Mind Ya Mental Podcast (Dr. Raquel Martin)

In this episode of the Mind Your Mental Podcast, host Dr. Martin welcomes Jessica Schrody, a multifaceted content creator and entrepreneur. They delve into the complexities of parenting, the challenges of homeschooling, and the transition back to traditional schooling. The conversation also explores Jessica's engagement and the dynamics of her relationship, as well as the struggles of balancing personal and professional life. They discuss the impact of social media and consumerism on mental health, the journey of sobriety, and the importance of authenticity in content creation. Throughout the episode, humor and candidness shine through as they navigate the ups and downs of motherhood and personal growth. In this conversation, Jessica Schrody and Dr. Martin discuss the complexities of parenthood, emphasizing the importance of informed consent and the challenges that come with parenting. They explore the necessity of teaching children boundaries and the impact of social media on personal values and financial independence. The dialogue also touches on the struggles of content creation and maintaining integrity in a monetized world, while highlighting the significance of emotional health and the realities of parenting.

Takeaways 

• AI technology is evolving rapidly and unpredictably.
• Parenting can be both humorous and challenging.
• Homeschooling presents unique challenges and rewards.
• Transitioning from homeschooling to traditional schooling can be complex.
• Engagement brings new dynamics to parenting and relationships.
• Marriage requires constant communication and effort.
• Content creation should be authentic and aligned with personal values.

Bio

Jessica Schrody is a full-time writer, content creator, and founder of She Really Had A Baby. In 2017, Jessica started a blog as a creative outlet to share her experiences and insights as a single mother in Los Angeles. Once she shifted to video content and creating parody raps, she quickly gained recognition across all social media platforms as a safe space where mothers can come to laugh and relate to the varying pains and satisfactions of motherhood.  With her unique way of developing her personal story into content that all moms can enjoy, Jessica has successfully turned her fears about motherhood into her purpose. She Really Had A Baby has become a community where mothers of all relationship statuses can come and laugh, cry, and be proud of whatever kind of mama they are.

Dr. Kojo Sarfo discusses his experience as a mental health practitioner and content creator on social media, focusing on topics such as ADHD, autism, bipolar disorder, depression, trauma, and thought disorders. He emphasizes the importance of providing accurate and relatable information in a fun and engaging way. Dr. Sarfo also shares his personal experience with ADHD and the challenges of being an entrepreneur. He highlights the need to break down complex concepts and deliver content in bite-sized, easily understandable pieces. The conversation touches on the impact of late ADHD diagnoses and the sense of grief and missed opportunities that can come with it. The conversation covers various topics related to ADHD, including medication, parenting, common misconceptions, communication, and accommodations. Dr. Raquel Martin shares her experiences as a neuropsychologist and highlights the importance of understanding and supporting individuals with ADHD. Kojo Sarfo emphasizes the need for open communication and dispels myths surrounding ADHD. They discuss the impact of ADHD on relationships and the importance of getting on the same page. The conversation also touches on the stigma surrounding mental health and the need for more education and awareness. In this conversation, Dr. Raquel Martin and Kojo Sarfo discuss the importance of educating people on how to consume information and navigate social media. They emphasize the need for individuals to challenge and question the content they come across, rather than blindly accepting it. They also highlight the significance of setting boundaries and advocating for oneself in order to maintain good mental health. The conversation touches on the power of direct communication, the impact of projection, and the importance of self-reflection. Kojo shares details about his upcoming comedy shows and where to find him on social media.

Takeaways

• Providing accurate and relatable information about mental health on social media is crucial
• Content creators should strive to make their content fun and engaging to capture and maintain the audience's attention
• Breaking down complex concepts into bite-sized, easily understandable pieces is essential for effective communication
• Late diagnoses of ADHD can lead to a sense of grief and missed opportunities
• There is a need for more representation of black mental health professionals in the content creation space Medication for ADHD should be approached with open communication and consent, especially when it involves children.

Bio

Dr. Kojo Sarfo, DNP, PMHNP-BC, is a multifaceted professional based in Los Angeles, CA, known for his roles as a comedian, actor, content creator, and writer. Leveraging his background as a psychotherapist and mental health nurse practitioner, he utilizes his platform with over 3.5 million followers and 20 million monthly views on social media to promote mental health awareness through engaging content. Dr. Kojo is the author of “Feeling Good” and hosts "Late Night w/ Dr. Kojo," a popular weekly live show.

Under his media company, Sarfo Entertainment, Dr. Kojo has produced acclaimed short films and documentaries, including the impactful "Strength In Numbers." He has collaborated with notable brands such as CVS Pharmacy, GoodRx, and Cherokee Uniforms, and has partnered with The Academy of Motion Picture Arts and Sciences. Dr. Kojo is actively involved in the White House Office of Public Engagement’s Healthcare Leaders in Social Media Roundtable and is a regular contributor to ABC7's "Mental Health Mondays."

In addition to his media ventures, Dr. Kojo hosts "Dr. Kojo & Friends," a monthly comedy show in Hollywood, CA, blending his talents in comedy with his commitment to mental health advocacy and community engagement.

Today, we're joined by Eric Capehart, who brings a unique perspective on the intersection of sports, coaching dynamics, and mental health. Eric's insights are particularly focused on how coaches might inadvertently create negative dynamics by pitting players against each other and what can be done to foster a healthier team environment.

Show Notes:

Key Discussion Points:

1. Impact of Coaching Strategies:

   • Eric discusses the potential negative effects of coaches using competition among players as a motivational tool. He expresses concerns about how this can harm team dynamics and individual mental health.

2. Advice for Coaches:

   • The conversation highlights the need for coaches to understand the individual motivational triggers of their players to foster a positive and supportive team environment rather than one driven by internal competition.

3. Supporting Athletes' Mental Health:

   • Eric emphasizes the importance of mental health support for athletes, suggesting that coaches also need access to mental health resources given their crucial role and the pressures they face.

4. Building Healthier Team Dynamics:

   • Tips and strategies are discussed on how to build a team culture that prioritizes cooperation and collective growth over competition, which can lead to stress and isolation among players.

5. Personal Development Beyond Sports:

   • The importance of helping athletes develop identities outside of their sports careers to ensure long-term well-being and success, both in and outside of sports arenas.

Guest Bio:

Eric Capehart is a mental performance consultant and certified professional coach that helps athletes overcome mental barriers and optimize their performance.

You can find Eric Capehart on Instagram and LinkedIn

Join the Movement: Dr. Martin invites listeners to become part of the Mind Ya Mental community, offering exclusive access to webinars, book clubs, podcasts, and a platform for connection and growth among like-minded individuals.

You can follow Dr. Martin on Social Media at Instagram, TikTok, Facebook, LinkedIn, YouTube, and at her website www.raquelmartinphd.com

This week we're joined by Trell Thomas.  During the episode he discusses the inspiration behind the Black Excellence Brunch, which was inspired by the Sunday dinners of his childhood in South Carolina. He emphasizes the power of food and connection in creating a sense of love and community. Trell also highlights the importance of creating a luxurious and inclusive experience for attendees, providing a space where black people can be celebrated, discussed, and pampered. He advises individuals to give themselves grace and surround themselves with supportive people. Trell shares his evolving definition of success, which focuses on how he feels and the freedom to be himself. He aims to provide a space where individuals can take off their masks and be authentic. 

Takeaways

• Creating a space where people can unmask and be their authentic selves is crucial for mental health.
• Balancing the celebration of high-profile achievements with everyday black excellence is important for inclusivity.
• The Black Excellence Brunch serves as a healing space, providing affirmation and love.
• Acknowledging and celebrating individuals' contributions contributes to mental wellbeing.
• The Black Excellence Brunch is building a legacy and has upcoming projects to continue its impact.

Guest Bio:

Trell Thomas, the visionary behind the Black Excellence Brunch, seamlessly transitioned from a promising career in broadcast journalism, where he played a pivotal role in the Obama campaign, to celebrating Black culture and entrepreneurship. Inspired by the communal spirit of his South Carolina upbringing, Trell has elevated the tradition of Sunday dinners into an international platform that honors and uplifts Black excellence. His events, from intimate local gatherings to grand international celebrations, have become a cherished space for community, recognition, and pride within the Black community. A staunch advocate for Black-owned businesses, Trell's initiatives, including the innovative Black Excellence Boxes, underscore his commitment to elevating and supporting Black entrepreneurs, showcasing his profound impact on fostering a supportive ecosystem for Black excellence.  You can find Trell on Instagram

Join the Movement: Dr. Martin invites listeners to become part of the Mind Ya Mental community, offering exclusive access to webinars, book clubs, podcasts, and a platform for connection and growth among like-minded individuals.

You can follow Dr. Martin on Social Media at Instagram, TikTok, Facebook, LinkedIn, YouTube, and at her website www.raquelmartinphd.com

In This Episode:

• Self-Care vs. Selfishness: We explore the difference between self-care and selfishness, underlining the importance of self-care in enhancing relationships and personal well-being without being detrimental to others.
• Types of Self-Care: Various forms of self-care are explored, such as environmental self-care, which involves creating a calming and supportive personal space, and professional self-care, focusing on setting boundaries and finding career satisfaction.
• Challenges in Practicing Self-Care: Dr. Martin addresses common obstacles to maintaining self-care routines, including societal pressures and personal guilt, and offers strategies to overcome these challenges.
• Importance of Supportive Environments: The role of a supportive environment in facilitating self-care is discussed, with an emphasis on the need to cultivate relationships and spaces that encourage and respect self-care practices.
• Impact of Self-Care on Relationships: Dr. Martin delves into how effective self-care can improve interpersonal relationships by ensuring individuals are mentally and emotionally prepared to engage with others positively.

Join the phenomenal community Dr. Raquel has cultivated for people like you, who are ready to tackle personal development with a side of humor and heaps of heart.  Find Dr. Raquel Martin at "RaquelMartinPhD" on social media 

Here are some tips for effective self-care:

• Acknowledge Your Needs: Recognize what you need for your physical, mental, and emotional well-being. Understanding your own needs is the first step toward fulfilling them.
• Balance is Key: Find a balance between taking care of yourself and caring for others. Self-care should not come at the expense of your responsibilities to those around you.
• Set Boundaries: Establish clear boundaries to protect your time, energy, and emotional well-being. Learn to say no when necessary to maintain these boundaries.
• Prioritize Self-Care: Treat self-care as a non-negotiable part of your daily routine, not just an occasional indulgence. Consistent self-care practices are essential for long-term well-being.
• Self-Care is Personal: Remember that self-care looks different for everyone. What works for one person may not work for another, so tailor your self-care practices to your unique needs and preferences.
• Take Action: Implement small self-care actions daily. Whether it's a short walk, reading, or a hobby, these activities can make a significant difference in your overall well-being.
• Seek Support: Don't hesitate to seek support from friends, family, or professionals when needed. Sharing your self-care journey can provide additional motivation and accountability.
• Reflect and Adjust: Regularly reflect on your self-care practices and be willing to adjust them as your life circumstances change. What's effective today may need to be adapted tomorrow.

Candice Marie Benbow is a theologian, essayist, columnist, baker, and educator whose work gives voice to Black women’s shared experiences of faith, healing, and wholeness. Named by Sojourners as one of “10 Christian Women Shaping the Church in 2020,” she has written for Essence, Glamour, The Root, VICE, Shondaland, Madame Noire, and the Me Too Movement. Candice created the “Lemonade Syllabus” social media campaign, founded the media boutique Zion Hill Media Group, and, in memory of her mother, established The LouiseMarie Foundation to support HBCU nursing students and community mental health projects. A member of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc., Candice holds degrees from Tennessee State University, North Carolina Central University, and Duke Divinity School.

If you're interested in hearing more from Candace Benbow (and you should be), you can check her out on Instagram, X, and Threads 

Spiritual Wounds In The Black Community ft Candice Benbow

This episode delves into the intricate dynamics of faith, community, and healing within the Black community, with a particular emphasis on the experiences of Black women in religious contexts. It critically examines the role of the church, acknowledging its significance in the lives of Black individuals while also addressing the harms inflicted within these spaces. 

Highlighted Topics Include:

• The role of the church in the Black community: There is a deep connection between Black individuals and the institutional church.  Our discussion acknowledges both the positive aspects and the significant harms that have been experienced within these religious spaces. 
• Challenges faced by Black women in the church: There is a specific focus on the experiences of Black women in religious and community spaces, emphasizing how they continue to be a consistent and substantial force despite not receiving the care and consideration they deserve. This discrepancy is presented as something that leadership should feel accountable for.
• The importance of honesty and healing: The conversation touches upon the necessity of being honest about the wounds and harms inflicted within the community to engage in meaningful healing work. This includes confronting both personal and institutional sources of pain.
• Spiritual bypassing in the Black community: Spiritual bypassing, which is the idea that faith and prayer alone can prevent bad things from happening. This notion is critiqued for being particularly harmful within the Black community, where many have been raised in the church and might interpret personal misfortunes as a lack of faith.
• The intersection of faith, love, and healing: The dialogue includes references to the work of Bell Hooks and the concept of loving through communication and acknowledging harms. This approach is advocated as a means to address wounds within the community while maintaining spiritual and faith-based commitments.

Join the Movement: Dr. Martin invites listeners to become part of the Mind Ya Mental community, offering exclusive access to webinars, book clubs, podcasts, and a platform for connection and growth among like-minded individuals.

You can follow Dr. Martin on Social Media at Instagram, TikTok, Facebook, LinkedIn, YouTube, and at her website www.raquelmartinphd.com

Unlocking the Power of Black Identity 

In this enlightening episode of "Mind Ya Mental," Dr. Raquel Martin delves into the critical topic of black identity development, drawing from her rich background as a licensed clinical psychologist, professor, and scientist specializing in Black mental health. Through personal anecdotes and professional insights, Dr. Martin illuminates the complexities of navigating Black identity in a world rife with stereotypes, systemic inequalities, and racism.

Key Takeaways Include:

• Understanding Black Identity: Dr. Martin explores the nuances of Black identity development, emphasizing its importance in fostering self-esteem, academic achievement, and resilience against racism's impacts.
• Navigating Racism-Related Stress: With compassion and clarity, she addresses the emotional toll of racism, offering strategies to manage stress and reclaim one's sense of self.
• The Power of Representation: Highlighting the significance of seeing positive black figures in media, education, and community, Dr. Martin champions the role of representation in strengthening black identity.
• Community and Connection: She stresses the value of creating supportive spaces where black individuals can share experiences, celebrate diversity, and build collective strength.
• A Call to Action: Dr. Martin encourages listeners to engage in self-reflection, seek educational empowerment, and actively challenge stereotypes to nurture a robust black identity.

Join the Movement: Dr. Martin invites listeners to become part of the Mind Ya Mental community, offering exclusive access to webinars, book clubs, podcasts, and a platform for connection and growth among like-minded individuals.

Empower Your Journey: This episode is more than a conversation; it's an invitation to embark on a personal journey of discovery, empowerment, and affirmation of one's black identity in the face of adversity.  Dr. Martin has created a FREE ebook to help you with your Black identity develope which can be found at her website www.raquelmartinphd.com

You can follow Dr. Martin on Social Media at Instagram, TikTok, Facebook, LinkedIn, and YouTube

In this conversation, Dr. Raquel Martin interviews Minda Harts, author of 'The Memo: What Women of Color Need to Know to Secure a Seat at the Table.' They discuss the inspiration behind the book and the need for a resource specifically addressing the experiences of women of color in the workplace. They also explore the importance of mentorship and the different levels of mentorship that exist. The conversation touches on the challenges of transitioning from corporate work to entrepreneurship and the misconceptions surrounding entrepreneurship. They emphasize the need for transparency about the behind-the-scenes struggles and the importance of finding what works best for oneself. The conversation explores the importance of avoiding comparison, building a supportive squad, setting boundaries, and using one's voice to navigate the workplace and entrepreneurship as women of color. It emphasizes the need to embrace different definitions of success and to prioritize mental health and well-being.

Takeaways

1. The Memo addresses the specific experiences of women of color in the workplace and provides guidance on how to secure a seat at the table.
2. Mentorship is important, but it's crucial to have a working relationship with mentors and manage expectations.
3. Entrepreneurship is not the only path to success for women of color, and it's important to explore all options.
4. The transition from corporate work to entrepreneurship can be challenging, and there are behind-the-scenes struggles that are often not discussed.

Bio

Minda Harts is an accomplished bestselling author, widely acclaimed for her transformative books including "The Memo: What Women of Color Need to Know to Secure a Seat at the Table," "Right Within: How to Heal from Racial Trauma in the Workplace," and "You Are More Than Magic," her influential YA debut. A highly sought-after speaker and thought leader, Minda delivers impactful insights on leadership, diversity, and management, addressing audiences at prestigious venues such as Nike, Google, JP Morgan, Aspen Ideas Festival, and Forbes Inclusion in The Workplace. She serves as an assistant professor at NYU's Robert F. Wagner Graduate School of Public Service and is the visionary founder of The Memo LLC, a pioneering company dedicated to empowering individuals through career development.

Minda's commitment to equity and inclusion is underscored by her recognition as LinkedIn's #1 Top Voice for Equity in the Workplace in 2020, and her inclusion in Business Insider's prestigious list of the top 100 People Transforming Business in 2022. Her impactful influence extends through her weekly career podcast "Secure the Seat," where she fosters crucial conversations and shares invaluable advice. For more information on Minda Harts and her work, visit her website at www.mindaharts.com.

Join the Movement: Dr. Martin invites listeners to become part of the Mind Ya Mental community, offering exclusive access to webinars, book clubs, podcasts, and a platform for connection and growth among like-minded individuals.

You can follow Dr. Martin on Social Media at Instagram, TikTok, Facebook, LinkedIn, YouTube, and at her website www.raquelmartinphd.com

Today's episode is a gem as we explore the journey to authentic living with none other than the inspiring Tabitha Brown. Tabitha's life reflects a profound transition from conforming to societal expectations to embracing her true self, a journey marked by challenges, introspection, and a leap of faith towards personal liberation.

Key Takeaways from Our Conversation:

• The Catalyst for Change: Tabitha shares a turning point in her life, a moment of sickness and desperation, leading to a prayer that would change her course forever. This story is a powerful reminder that often, our darkest moments precede our greatest transformations.

• Unmasking the True Self: The process of shedding layers and discovering who you truly are is both daunting and liberating. Tabitha's experience highlights the importance of self-reflection, honesty, and the courage to let go of who we think we should be to embrace who we are.

• Navigating the Path to Authenticity: For those struggling with their identity in professional or personal settings, Tabitha advises a journey of self-discovery. Identifying your fears, loves, and the roots of conformity can illuminate the path to embracing your true self.

• The Power of Educational Empowerment: Understanding the origins of our self-limiting beliefs and stereotypes is crucial. By educating ourselves about the narratives that have shaped our perceptions, we can begin to dismantle the barriers to our authentic expression.

Tabitha Brown, also known as “America’s Mom,” has gained over 13 million followers through her engaging vegan lifestyle content and uplifting persona. The Emmy-winning actress from North Carolina is also a successful author, with three New York Times bestsellers, multiple NAACP Image Awards, and an honorary doctorate from Savannah College of Art and Design. She has appeared in notable TV shows like "The Chi" on Showtime, produced and hosted "It’s CompliPlated" on Food Network, and created the children's show "Tab Time." As a businesswoman, she co-founded Donna’s Recipe, a healthy haircare line, collaborated with Target, and launched her own line of McCormick seasonings. Brown inspires with her messages on faith, perseverance, and authenticity.

In this episode Dr. Martin talks about different factors that can make stressful life events more difficult to deal with and possible ways to take control over unavoidable stressors.

In this conversation, Dr. Raquel Martin and Angelica Ross discuss various topics including therapy, medication, substance use, activism, and spirituality. They emphasize the importance of being purposeful in one's actions and energy, and the need to strengthen the relationship with therapy. They also discuss the criminalization of drug use and the need for decriminalization, particularly in marginalized communities. They highlight the power of representation and the responsibility of leaders to do the work to create positive change. They also touch on the importance of recognizing power dynamics and systemic issues within one's own country. In this conversation, Angelica Ross and Dr. Raquel Martin discuss the importance of addressing powerlessness and taking control of one's own life. They explore the concept of personal choice and the need to flex our power as individuals. Angelica shares her journey of self-discovery and empowerment, including her decision to leave Hollywood and pursue her own path. They also discuss the work of TransTech, a nonprofit organization that provides resources and access to the LGBTQ+ community in the tech industry. Angelica emphasizes the importance of community care and mutual aid, as well as the need for organizing and activism in the face of systemic challenges.

Helpful Nuggets From The Episode: 

• Be purposeful in your actions and energy
• Strengthen your relationship with therapy
• Advocate for the decriminalization of drugs
• Recognize power dynamics and systemic issues
• Engage in activism in a way that works for you Addressing powerlessness is crucial for personal and democratic empowerment.
• Flexing our power as individuals and making choices that align with our values is essential.
• Community care and mutual aid are important for supporting marginalized communities.
• Organizing and activism are necessary for creating systemic change.
• Tech skills and education can provide opportunities for marginalized individuals in the industry.

Guest Bio:

Angelica Ross is an award-winning and Emmy-nominated Actress, Producer, Writer, Human Rights Advocate, Singer Songwriter and star of POSE and American Horror Story on FX and Broadway's Chicago. Host of N.O.W. (No Opportunity Wasted) Podcast. She's also the Founder of TransTech, an incubator for LGBTQIA+ Talent from marginalized communities and President of Miss Ross Inc.  You can find Angelica Ross on Instagram, https://missross.com/, and Twitter

In this episode, we're thrilled to host Tabitha Brown, an extraordinary individual whose life and work inspire millions. Tabitha wears many hats: actor, author, and entrepreneur, just to name a few. Her journey is a testament to the power of authenticity and the beauty of embracing one's full identity.

Key Takeaways from Today's Episode:

• Embracing Authenticity: Tabitha's transition from code-switching to living her truth showcases the liberating power of authenticity. She highlights how this shift not only impacted her personally but also positively influenced her parenting.

• Fostering Black Identity in Children: As a parent, Tabitha emphasizes the importance of nurturing a strong sense of identity in her children. She discusses practical ways to celebrate blackness and ensure that children grow up with a healthy self-image and respect for their heritage.

• The Power of Representation: Through her diverse ventures, Tabitha provides a rich tapestry of black identity, challenging stereotypes and showcasing the multifaceted nature of the black experience. Her work serves as a powerful reminder of the importance of representation in media and beyond.

• Parenting with Intention: Tabitha shares insights into intentional parenting, focusing on open communication, fostering critical thinking, and building a foundation of love and respect. She underscores the importance of allowing children to ask questions and feel heard within the family unit.

Tabitha Brown, also known as “America’s Mom,” has gained over 13 million followers through her engaging vegan lifestyle content and uplifting persona. The Emmy-winning actress from North Carolina is also a successful author, with three New York Times bestsellers, multiple NAACP Image Awards, and an honorary doctorate from Savannah College of Art and Design. She has appeared in notable TV shows like "The Chi" on Showtime, produced and hosted "It’s CompliPlated" on Food Network, and created the children's show "Tab Time." As a businesswoman, she co-founded Donna’s Recipe, a healthy haircare line, collaborated with Target, and launched her own line of McCormick seasonings. Brown inspires with her messages on faith, perseverance, and authenticity.

Welcome to another powerful episode of "Mind Ya Mental," the podcast that not only dives deep into mental health discussions but also fosters an amazing community. In today's episode, we explore the expansive world of mental health from the perspectives that are often sidelined, with a special focus on Black men's mental health.

Guest Spotlight: Joining us today is Rwenshaun Miller, a licensed professional counselor, mental health advocate, and founder of a non-profit organization dedicated to breaking down mental health stigma through education. Rwenshaun shares his own journey with bipolar disorder, providing insights into the unique challenges Black men face in seeking mental health support.  You can find Rwenshaun on Instagram and at https://www.thegoodstresscompany.com/

Key Discussion Points:

1. Rwenshaun Personal Journey: Rwenshaun opens up about his diagnosis of bipolar disorder in 2006 and how it reshaped his understanding of mental health. He emphasizes the importance of culturally competent care and how finding a therapist who "looked like him" made a significant difference in his treatment.

2. Challenges for Black Men in Mental Health: Rwenshaun discusses the systemic and cultural barriers that prevent Black men from expressing vulnerability and seeking help. He addresses the lack of Black male therapists and the impact of societal expectations on Black men's mental wellness.

3. The Role of Community and Therapy in Healing: The conversation delves into the power of community support and the therapeutic relationship. Rwenshaun highlights how creating a non-judgmental space allows individuals to express themselves freely and start the healing process.

4. Educational Outreach and Advocacy: Learn about Rwenshaun non-profit initiatives, including community events like mental health galas and wellness walks. These efforts aim to educate, raise awareness, and provide scholarships to Black men pursuing degrees in mental health fields.

5. Practical Tips for Emotional Expression and Advocacy: Rwenshaun provides actionable advice for Black men on how to advocate for themselves in various settings, emphasizing the importance of honest communication and self-awareness.

    

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   Dr. Martin invites listeners to become part of the Mind Ya Mental community, offering exclusive access to webinars, book clubs, podcasts, and a platform for connection and growth among like-minded individuals.

   You can follow Dr. Martin on Social Media at Instagram, TikTok, Facebook, LinkedIn, YouTube, and at her website www.raquelmartinphd.com

    

In this episode Dr. Martin discusses how friendships can evolve, change, or even diminish through different aspects of your life.

In this conversation, Dr. Raquel Martin speaks with Dr. David Johns about the critical differences between activism and organizing, particularly in the context of social justice for Black LGBTQ+ individuals and the mental health crisis facing Black youth. They discuss the alarming rise in suicide rates among Black youth, the importance of accurate data collection, and the need for community engagement and education to foster long-term change. Dr. Johns emphasizes the role of self-work and understanding systemic issues in effective activism. In this conversation, DJJ and Dr. Raquel Martin explore the complexities of data, language, and identity within the context of systemic oppression and white supremacy. They discuss the importance of understanding how language can perpetuate privilege and division, the need for community and relational organizing, and the tools necessary to combat these issues. The conversation also touches on the evolution of narratives in mental health and the importance of cultural competence in providing support to marginalized communities. In this engaging conversation, Dr. Raquel Martin and DJJ explore the complexities of parenting, particularly the tension between parental desires and children's autonomy. They discuss the significance of imaginative play, the distinction between legacy and lineage, and the importance of understanding intent versus impact in parenting. The dialogue emphasizes the need for community support and advocacy in navigating these challenges, ultimately celebrating the unique identities and desires of children.

Takeaways

• Activism and organizing are complementary tools for change.
• Activism focuses on immediate actions, while organizing builds community strength.
• Suicide rates among Black youth are rising, contrary to some data reports.
• Data collection often fails to capture the true scope of issues.
• Mistrust in data collection affects the accuracy of mental health statistics.
• Education is crucial for effective activism and organizing.
• Legislation targeting LGBTQ+ individuals correlates with increased mental health crises.

 Bio

Welcome to "Mind Your Mental," a podcast dedicated to enhancing understanding and support around mental health. Hosted by Dr. Raquel Martin, a licensed clinical psychologist, this episode features an engaging conversation with Amber Wallin, a creative entrepreneur known for her vibrant social media presence.

Key Takeaways:

1. Authenticity in Content Creation: Amber emphasizes the value of recording and sharing genuine moments from daily life, encouraging aspiring content creators not to overthink but to start with what they are already doing.
2. The Power of Storytelling: Both guests underline storytelling as a core element of engaging content, whether it's comedic, educational, or inspiring.
3. Analyzing and Planning: Amber reveals her methodical approach to content creation, including the use of analytics for scheduling posts and planning projects, demonstrating that behind-the-scenes planning can significantly enhance content quality and audience engagement.

Bio:

Amber Wallin is a comedian, host, and improviser who’s performed on The Second City and The Annoyance Theatre stages in Chicago. She’s amassed over a million followers on Tik Tok and Instagram where she annoys her family, sings to her indoor plants, and creates characters inspired by her wig collection.

You can find Amber Wallin on Instagram and TikTok

Join the Movement: Dr. Martin invites listeners to become part of the Mind Ya Mental community, offering exclusive access to webinars, book clubs, podcasts, and a platform for connection and growth among like-minded individuals.

You can follow Dr. Martin on Social Media at Instagram, TikTok, Facebook, LinkedIn, YouTube, and at her website www.raquelmartinphd.com

In this conversation, Dr. Raquel Martin and Dr. William Parham discuss the critical aspects of mental health, particularly focusing on the experiences of Black individuals in both personal and professional contexts. They explore the creation of support groups for Black women, the unique challenges faced by Black men regarding mental health, and the evolving needs of professional athletes. The dialogue emphasizes the importance of listening in therapy, reframing mental health as mental wealth, and the necessity of treating individuals as people first, before their roles as athletes. They also touch on the impact of social media, the significance of silence and reflection, and the need to rediscover one's dreams and creativity. Ultimately, the conversation highlights the journey of self-discovery and the importance of aligning personal values with one's mission in life.

Takeaways

• Support groups can empower Black women and address unique challenges.
• Black men's mental health requires tailored approaches and understanding.
• Listening is a crucial skill in therapy and client relationships.
• Mental health needs of professional athletes have evolved significantly.
• Reframing mental health as mental wealth can shift perspectives.
• Language used in therapy should be accessible and relatable.

Bio

In this conversation, Kristen and Dr. Raquel Martin discuss the intricacies of couples therapy, the challenges of organizing group therapy, and the importance of understanding the roles and boundaries of therapists. They explore misconceptions that clients may have about therapy, the significance of individual therapy alongside couples work, and the dynamics of family therapy. The discussion emphasizes the need for clear communication and the therapist's role in navigating complex relationship issues. In this conversation, Dr. Raquel Martin and Kristen explore the complexities of relationships, the impact of family dynamics on self-perception, and the nuances of addiction and emotional coping mechanisms. They discuss the importance of setting boundaries in relationships, the skills required for maintaining friendships, and how childhood experiences shape adult behaviors. The dialogue also delves into the relationship individuals have with food and substances, emphasizing the need for healthier coping strategies and the societal pressures that contribute to unhealthy habits. In this conversation, Kristen and Dr. Raquel Martin explore the multifaceted nature of fitness, the mindset of athletes, and the importance of community in personal growth. They discuss the differences between coaching and therapy, emphasizing the need for action-oriented approaches in coaching while allowing for deeper emotional exploration in therapy. The conversation also touches on building healthy relationships, recognizing red and green flags, and the significance of accountability in personal development.

Takeaways

• The organization of group therapy requires significant funding and planning.
• Couples therapy is distinct from individual therapy and requires specialized training.
• Misconceptions about therapy often lead clients to misunderstand the therapist's role.
• Therapists should maintain clear boundaries between individual and couples therapy.
• It's essential for therapists to support clients in having difficult conversations.
• Understanding family dynamics is crucial in couples therapy.
• Clients may feel apprehensive about therapy based on gender dynamics.
• Therapists should not act as referees in couples therapy sessions.
• Individual therapy can complement couples therapy for better outcomes.

Bio

Kristen is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, wellness coach and the owner of Believe. Be Free. Be Well. PLLC (B3). Her passion for mental and physical wellness are at the cornerstone of her work helping others begin again and move forward - mind, body, and spirit.

Dr. Marcus Mason, a licensed clinical professional counselor, specializes in therapy for black men and underserved demographics. He discusses the importance of creating safe spaces for black men in therapy and the challenges they face in seeking help. He emphasizes the need for effective communication and understanding in relationships, particularly between men and women. The conversation also touches on the impact of media portrayal on black love and the division it creates. Overall, the discussion highlights the importance of breaking down stereotypes and promoting mental health in the black community. The conversation explores the importance of social media in mental health and well-being, as well as the challenges faced by black men in relationships. Dr. Raquel Martin emphasizes the power of social media in providing representation and breaking down barriers in mental health. Marcus Mason agrees and highlights the need for mental health professionals who look like us and understand our experiences. They discuss the role of social media in therapy and the need for better utilization of this tool. They also delve into the theme of communication in relationships, particularly for black men, and the importance of setting boundaries and expectations. In this conversation, Dr. Raquel Martin and Marcus Mason discuss the importance of communication and advocacy in relationships, particularly for black men. They emphasize the need for open dialogue, expressing needs and boundaries, and actively listening to one another. They also highlight the lack of representation and resources for black men in mental health and society as a whole. The conversation concludes with practical tips for supporting men, such as creating a safe space, asking how to provide support, and recognizing the range of emotions men experience.

Bio

Dr. Marcus Mason, Ed.D, LCPC, NCC, is a respected Black male psychotherapist known for his impactful contributions at Minds In Motion Therapeutic Services. With a career dedicated to enhancing mental health, Marcus provides a wide range of psychological treatments and assessments to support a diverse clientele. His approach emphasizes creating lasting systemic change, particularly focused on empowering youth and adults through targeted therapeutic strategies. 

Marcus is deeply committed to fostering personal development and societal transformation, leveraging his expertise to promote psychological well-being and resilience within communities.

Takeaways

• Creating safe spaces for black men in therapy is crucial for their mental health and well-being.
• Effective communication and understanding are key in building healthy relationships.
• Media portrayal of black love often perpetuates division and stereotypes.
• Breaking down stereotypes and promoting mental health in the black community is essential. Social media can be a powerful tool for mental health and well-being, providing representation and breaking down barriers.
• Black men often face challenges in relationships, including feeling isolated and not being able to express their emotions.
  
  

Dr. Dodson's insights offer valuable lessons on representation, cultural competency, and the necessity for mental health professionals to care for themselves while serving their communities. His dedication to making therapy accessible for black men and engaging with the broader community exemplifies the positive impact that dedicated professionals can have.

Key Discussion Points:

1. Representation in Mental Health: Dr. Dodson discusses the significance of being visible as a black male clinician. His experiences underscore the need for more black men in the mental health field to provide relatable care for those seeking therapy.

2. Bridging the Gap: Highlighting the disparity between the rising symptoms of mental health issues among black men and the scarcity of black male therapists, Dr. Dodson talks about his commitment to expanding his practice to serve this community better.

3. Cultural Safety in Therapy: Emphasizing the importance of cultural connection, Dr. Dodson shares how being open about his identity as a black man helps create a safe and trusting therapeutic environment.

4. Entrepreneurship in Mental Health: The episode explores Dr. Dodson's journey of growing his practice while ensuring high-quality care, showcasing the entrepreneurial aspect of being a mental health professional.

5. Community Engagement: Plans for more community-facing events are discussed as a way to educate and directly engage with the community, addressing the mental health needs of black men and beyond.

6. Self-Care for Clinicians: Dr. Dodson touches on the importance of setting boundaries and recognizing personal limits to prevent burnout and maintain effective care.

7. Educational Advocacy: The conversation underscores the role of education and advocacy in mental health, particularly for marginalized communities, and how it can empower individuals to seek support.

Dr. Justin Dodson's Bio:

Dr. Justin Dodson is the visionary behind Navigating Courage, Counseling & Consultation, LLC. Dodson and his team of mental health professionals, specifically focusing on adult males, prioritize the cognitive and emotional well-being of adult men through personalized coaching and therapy. Navigating Counseling & Consultation also provides consultation to organizations who are looking to implement crisis response training and expand the mental health services of their employees.

Dr. Dodson achieved the groundbreaking feat of being the first African American male to attain a Master’s in Counseling from Lipscomb University. Subsequently, he went on to earn a Ph.D. in Counselor Education and Supervision from The University of Memphis, solidifying his trailblazing legacy. In his book, "The Courage of a Single Freckle, Navigating Your Black," Dodson delves into the complex intersection of mental health, race relations, implicit and explicit bias, and identity development. Dr. Dodson has been featured in People Magazine, Refinery 29, and most recently, Teen Vogue. 

You can find Dr. Dodson on Instagram, X, LinkedIn, and at his website

Join the Movement: Dr. Martin invites listeners to become part of the Mind Ya Mental community, offering exclusive access to webinars, book clubs, podcasts, and a platform for connection and growth among like-minded individuals.

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In this episode, Dr. Martin talks about the vast range of emotions, and how to express yourself so that you can receive the support you need and deserve.

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In this episode Dr. Martin discusses green flags in relationships! 

In this engaging episode of "Mind Ya Mental," Elliott Connie, a licensed psychotherapist and an advocate for solution-focused brief therapy (SFBT), shares his insights and experiences, emphasizing the therapy's potential for empowering African American communities. Key takeaways from our conversation include:

1. Understanding Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT): Elliott describes SFBT as a forward-looking approach that focuses on clients' desired outcomes rather than their past problems, offering a pathway to achieving their best possible future.

2. The Importance of Cultural Humility in Therapy: Elliott highlights the significance of incorporating cultural humility into therapeutic practices, particularly for African Americans and people of color. SFBT's client-centered nature inherently supports culturally competent care, empowering individuals by acknowledging and respecting their unique cultural identities and experiences.

3. Challenging the Status Quo: Elliott shares his journey toward integrating his cultural identity into his professional work, actively challenging the psychotherapy field's norms and advocating for greater diversity and inclusion in mental health leadership. His efforts aim to reshape the field to better serve all communities, particularly those historically marginalized.

4. Empowerment Through Possible Futures: A critical aspect of SFBT, as Elliot explains, is its emphasis on discussing the future as if it were attainable, ignoring the limitations imposed by the past. This approach can be especially transformative for Black patients, offering a way to envision and work toward a hopeful future despite systemic barriers.

5. Personal and Professional Resilience: Elliott's personal anecdotes and professional experiences underscore the resilience required to navigate and transform a field that has not always been welcoming or accommodating to diverse voices. His dedication to being true to himself and his cultural identity serves as an inspiration for current and aspiring therapists.

Elliott Connie's Bio:

Elliott Connie is an accomplished psychotherapist, acclaimed for his expertise in Solution Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT). His belief in the transformative power of human resilience led him to specialize in SFBT, an approach he has successfully applied in his practice to help clients lead more fulfilling lives. Elliott is the author of several influential books on the subject, including "The Art of Solution Focused Therapy," "Solution Building in Couples Therapy," "The Solution Focused Marriage: 5 Simple Habits That Will Bring Out the Best in Your Relationship," and "Solution-Focused Brief Therapy with Clients Managing Trauma." With a career marked by collaboration with SFBT luminaries and international lectures, Elliott aims to inspire professionals to embrace SFBT and its potential to effect positive change

You can find Elliott Connie on Instagram, YouTube, X, Facebook, LinkedIn, and at his website

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In this episode Raquel talks about signs that it may be time to seek professional help.  

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Introduction: Welcome back to another episode of "Mind Ya Mental," a podcast aimed at exploring mental health topics with the care they deserve. Before we dive in, a quick reminder: while this podcast provides valuable insights, it's not a substitute for professional mental health care. Please consult a licensed professional for any specific mental health needs.

Today, we are thrilled to have the Fredericks join us! Many of you might know them from their incredible online presence. They've managed to make a significant impact through their humorous yet insightful discussions on family life, personal growth, and the importance of mental wellness.

Discussion Highlights:

1. The Impact of Online Content on Relationships:

   • The conversation starts with a light-hearted anecdote about how laughter, induced by engaging content online, can unexpectedly disrupt the quiet moments at home.

2. Parenting Through Different Stages:

   • Our guests share their experiences and challenges of parenting through various ages, emphasizing the importance of adapting parenting styles to meet the evolving needs of children as they grow.

3. Importance of Mental Health Awareness:

   • A significant part of today's discussion focuses on normalizing mental health issues within families and the broader community. Our guests discuss how therapy has played a crucial role in their lives and how it has helped them navigate through both personal and relationship challenges.

4. Cultural Identity and Mental Health:

   • The conversation takes a deeper dive into how cultural identity impacts mental health treatment and understanding. It’s discussed how therapists who share or understand a client’s cultural background can significantly enhance the therapeutic process.

5. Breaking Stigmas Around Therapy:

   • There’s a strong emphasis on breaking down the stigmas associated with seeking mental health support, especially in the black community. The discussion highlights the importance of making mental health resources accessible and relatable.

Guest Bios:

Kevin Fredericks, more popularly known by millions across the internet as KevOnStage, is a multi-hyphenate entertainer, comedian and New York Times bestselling author. Kevin most recently toured North America and Europe headlining Live Nation's stand-up comedy tour, "The Bald Brothers 2023" and as a digital influencer has billions of views across all platforms. His production company, KevOnStage Studios, was one of the pioneers in COVID-friendly entertainment with its creation of "Keep Your Distance," a live-streamed comedy show featuring the funniest emerging and well-established stand-up comics. Kev has appeared on HBO’s "A Black Lady Sketch Show" and Springhill's "Recipe For Change: Celebrating Black Men," as well as hosted Will Smith’s "Dads Just Don’t Understand" for Facebook Watch. He's also hosted and developed several viral podcasts where he shares his gut-busting perspectives on a range of topics from relationships to pop culture to growing up "churchy." You can catch him on Instagram and Youtube

Melissa Fredericks, most widely known as MrsKevOnStage, is a multifaceted, multitalented influencer and mogul. With her quick wit, girl-next-door relatability, and thoughtful wisdom, she has made a name for herself in entertainment. Melissa does “all the things”. She is an established influencer, New York Times bestselling author, podcast and game show host, entrepreneur, and motivational speaker. She lives in LA with her husband, Kevin, 2 sons, Isaiah and Josiah, and the star of the family, their dog Monty.  You can catch her on Instagram  and Youtube

Join the Movement: Dr. Martin invites listeners to become part of the Mind Ya Mental community, offering exclusive access to webinars, book clubs, podcasts, and a platform for connection and growth among like-minded individuals.

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In this episode, we dive into the importance of nurturing black identity in our youth, especially in environments that may not always support it. As a parent juggling the complexities of raising black boys, I share personal stories and insights on fostering a positive self-image and embracing our rich heritage. We also discuss the crucial role of representation and providing a diverse portrayal of black experiences.

Key Takeaways:

• Show up authentically for your children, demonstrating self-love and the beauty of being black.
• Engage in open, honest conversations about the unique challenges and joys of black identity.
• Embrace and celebrate all facets of blackness, ensuring our children see themselves represented in all spheres of life.
• Foster an environment where children feel comfortable asking questions and expressing themselves.

Tabitha Brown, also known as “America’s Mom,” has gained over 13 million followers through her engaging vegan lifestyle content and uplifting persona. The Emmy-winning actress from North Carolina is also a successful author, with three New York Times bestsellers, multiple NAACP Image Awards, and an honorary doctorate from Savannah College of Art and Design. She has appeared in notable TV shows like "The Chi" on Showtime, produced and hosted "It’s CompliPlated" on Food Network, and created the children's show "Tab Time." As a businesswoman, she co-founded Donna’s Recipe, a healthy haircare line, collaborated with Target, and launched her own line of McCormick seasonings. Brown inspires with her messages on faith, perseverance, and authenticity.

In this episode Dr. Martin discusses three of her favorite topics, hip hop, mental health, and activism with Bridget Kelly!

Guest Bio:

Bridget Kelly is a NYC-born Grammy Award-winning artist and the inaugural signee to JayZ's RocNation label, discovered her voice early. Beyond her successful music career, she has hosted red carpets for BET, appeared on TV shows for VH1 and FUSE, and co-hosted the popular podcast 'See, The Thing Is...'. Currently, she's involved in producing and launching other content series and podcasts like 'For Better or Best'.

You can find Bridget Kelly on Instagram and X 

Join the Movement: Dr. Martin invites listeners to become part of the Mind Ya Mental community, offering exclusive access to webinars, book clubs, podcasts, and a platform for connection and growth among like-minded individuals.

You can follow Dr. Martin on Social Media at Instagram, TikTok, Facebook, LinkedIn, YouTube, and at her website www.raquelmartinphd.com

IIn today's episode, we're thrilled to welcome Elliot Connie, a licensed mental health professional and a leading advocate for Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT). Based in Dallas, Texas, Elliot's mission is to enhance mental health support, especially for African Americans and people of color, challenging the traditional psychotherapy field to become more inclusive and beneficial for diverse communities.

Key Takeaways:

1. Solution-Focused Brief Therapy Explained: Elliot provides an in-depth look at SFBT, emphasizing its future-oriented approach that focuses on helping clients achieve their desired outcomes rather than eliminating problems. This method supports clients in realizing their potential and constructing a pathway to their best selves.

2. Incorporating Cultural Humility: Elliot discusses the importance of cultural humility in therapy. He highlights how SFBT's client-centered nature is inherently supportive of culturally competent care, empowering individuals by acknowledging and respecting their unique cultural identities and experiences.

3. Challenging Traditional Psychotherapy: Elliot shares his journey of incorporating his cultural identity into his professional work, actively challenging the norms of the psychotherapy field. His efforts aim to diversify mental health leadership and reshape the field to better serve historically marginalized communities.

4. The Importance of Representation: The episode underscores the significance of representation in psychotherapy, not just visually but culturally. By presenting himself authentically, Elliot fights for the inclusion of diverse voices and perspectives in mental health care.

5. Operational Differences in Therapy: The discussion touches on how strength-based and resource-based perspectives differ in therapy practice, especially in relation to working with diverse communities. Elliot and the host explore how these approaches impact therapy outcomes and the importance of love and care in therapeutic work.

Elliott Connie's Bio:

Elliott Connie is an accomplished psychotherapist, acclaimed for his expertise in Solution Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT). His belief in the transformative power of human resilience led him to specialize in SFBT, an approach he has successfully applied in his practice to help clients lead more fulfilling lives. Elliott is the author of several influential books on the subject, including "The Art of Solution Focused Therapy," "Solution Building in Couples Therapy," "The Solution Focused Marriage: 5 Simple Habits That Will Bring Out the Best in Your Relationship," and "Solution-Focused Brief Therapy with Clients Managing Trauma." With a career marked by collaboration with SFBT luminaries and international lectures, Elliott aims to inspire professionals to embrace SFBT and its potential to effect positive change

You can find Elliott Connie on Instagram, YouTube, X, Facebook, LinkedIn, and at his website

Join the Movement: Dr. Martin invites listeners to become part of the Mind Ya Mental community, offering exclusive access to webinars, book clubs, podcasts, and a platform for connection and growth among like-minded individuals.

You can follow Dr. Martin on Social Media at Instagram, TikTok, Facebook, LinkedIn, YouTube, and at her website www.raquelmartinphd.com

We are joined by Eric Capehart, an inspiring figure whose work primarily focuses on mental health in sports, particularly among young Black men and boys. Eric shares his journey into the specialized field of psychotherapy and his insights into breaking down mental health stigmas in sports and the unique challenges of being a Black clinician.

Show Notes:

Key Discussion Points:

1. Vulnerability and Courage:

   • Eric discusses the importance of vulnerability in mental health, emphasizing that showing vulnerability is a sign of courage, not weakness. This perspective is crucial in his work, encouraging men to embrace their feelings without fear of judgment.

2. Developing a Sense of Purpose Beyond Sports:

   • Eric uses personality assessments and other tools to help athletes develop a sense of identity beyond their sports careers. This holistic approach aids athletes in planning for the future and understanding their broader potential.

3. Challenges Faced by Athletes:

   • The discussion covers the intense pressures athletes face from coaches, family, and the sports culture, which often prioritize performance over well-being. Eric highlights the need for support systems that recognize athletes as whole persons, not just sports performers.

4. Signs of Mental Strain in Athletes:

   • Eric points out key indicators of mental strain, such as inconsistent performance, withdrawal from team activities, or a noticeable drop in enthusiasm for the sport, suggesting these may signal a need for mental health intervention.

5. The Role of Therapy in Sports:

   • The conversation advocates for therapy as a crucial component of an athlete’s support team, not just for crisis management but also for maintaining mental fitness.

6. Addressing Family and Societal Pressures:

   • Eric talks about the unrealistic expectations often placed on athletes by their families and society, and how these pressures can lead to significant mental health challenges.

Guest Bio:

Eric Capehart is a mental performance consultant and certified professional coach that helps athletes overcome mental barriers and optimize their performance.

You can find Eric Capehart on Instagram and LinkedIn

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In this conversation, Dr. Raquel Martin interviews Francesca Ramsey, discussing topics such as social justice, online harassment, and content creation. They touch on the importance of accredited voices in social justice conversations and the challenges of being attacked online. They also discuss the impact of social media fame and the need for boundaries and privacy. The conversation explores the power of representation and the diversity of the Black experience in media. Overall, the conversation highlights the complexities and nuances of navigating the online world and using platforms for positive change. The conversation explores the challenges and decision-making processes involved in creative work, including the difficulty of getting stories out there and the pressure to conform to commercial interests. The importance of staying true to one's values and mission is emphasized, as well as the need to navigate the complexities of the industry. The role of therapy in managing anxiety, imposter syndrome, and negative thought patterns is discussed. The conversation also touches on the impact of social media, the concept of resistance fatigue, and the need for mental health support in creative and activist spaces. In this conversation, Franchesca and Dr. Raquel Martin discuss the challenges of public speaking, dealing with difficult emotions, and maintaining friendships. They touch on topics such as the emotional toll of public speaking, the importance of empathy, the pressure to conform in the entertainment industry, and the value of investing in friendships. Franchesca shares personal experiences and insights, highlighting the need for self-care and authenticity. The conversation emphasizes the importance of being kind to oneself and others, and the power of genuine connections.

Takeaways 

• Accredited voices are important in social justice conversations.
• Online harassment can be mentally and emotionally challenging.
• Social media fame comes with both benefits and drawbacks.
• Setting boundaries and maintaining privacy is crucial in the online world.
• Representation and diversity in media are essential for the Black experience. Getting stories out there and making a living from creative work can be challenging and involves navigating commercial interests

Bio

Franchesca "Chescaleigh'' Ramsey is a multifaceted talent whose career spans acting, writing, public speaking, and digital content creation. She gained prominence as the creator and star of the award-winning web series MTV Decoded, where she fearlessly tackles social issues with humor and insight. Franchesca's impact extends beyond her web series; she served as a writer and correspondent for Comedy Central’s The Nightly Show with Larry Wilmore, contributing her unique perspective to late-night television.

Franchesca's debut book, "Well That Escalated Quickly," became a cultural phenomenon, earning a nomination for an NAACP award and landing on Amazon’s list of best books in 2018. Her viral video “Sh*t White Girls Say…to Black Girls” catapulted her into the spotlight, amassing over 11 million views and solidifying her reputation as a thought leader on race, identity, and social justice.

Currently, Franchesca co-hosts the engaging podcast "Lemme Fix It!" alongside De’lon Grant, exploring topics ranging from personal development to societal challenges. She also contributes as a writer and co-producer for the iCarly reboot on Paramount and has made notable guest appearances on NBC’s Superstore.

In 2024, Franchesca achieved a significant milestone when her debut feature film was selected for the prestigious Sundance fellowship program, highlighting her growing influence in the film industry. With nearly two decades of experience in digital media and over a decade in television and film, Franchesca excels not only as a creative force but also as a sought-after public speaker and consultant. She engages audiences with expertise in content creation, social media strategy, identity exploration, and the power of storytelling.

Franchesca "Chescaleigh" Ramsey continues to inspire and provoke thoughtful conversations through her work, demonstrating a commitment to using her platform to promote inclusivity, representation, and meaningful dialogue in entertainment and beyond.

In this episode Raquel is joined by trauma counselor and Founder/CEO of Kuhltuhveyting Kantshes Kors, Dr. Jhanel Davis, Ed.D. and we discuss the steps that need to be taken to help acknowledge and heal from traumatic events. Dr. Davis can be found on instagram @thecalleddr_ and her business can be found on instagram @Kuhltuhveyting_Kantshes_Kors

In this conversation, Dr. Jay Barnett and Dr. Raquel Martin discuss various topics including personal experiences, relationships, boundaries, and the challenges of being public figures. They touch on the importance of safeguarding personal lives, setting boundaries, and navigating the expectations of others. They also discuss the responsibility and impact of being public figures in the mental health field, particularly as black professionals. Overall, the conversation highlights the need for authenticity, wisdom, and self-care in the face of societal pressures. Dr. Jay Barnett discusses the challenges of being a black man in the mental health field and the pressure to be all things to all people. He emphasizes the power of saying no and protecting what you say yes to. Dr. Barnett also shares his experience of being hurt by black women and offers advice on how to move forward from that pain. 

Speaker Bio:

Dr. Jay Barnett is an esteemed author, dynamic speaker, and widely acknowledged expert in mental health. Now, more than ever, he's making an incredible mark in his field with his impactful storytelling, innovative strategies, and insightful lessons. In his mental health access mission, he focuses on underserved communities and youth development. A former professional football player, Dr. Jay integrates the principles of athletic discipline into his clinical work, fostering a winning mindset. Also, he is a member of Kappa Alpha Psi Fraternity, Incorporated. He has appeared on NBC Hoda Jenna, The Breakfast Club, Sherri Shephard, and Black Enterprise Magazine. In 2023, he was the Grand Marshal for the American Psychiatric Association Moore Initiative leads efforts to establish fair access to mental health services. Dr. Jay is also founder of the Just Heal Bro Tour which focuses on the mental health of Black men.  You can find him on Instagram and via his website https://www.jay-barnett.com/

The conversation explores the importance of friendships and the shifts that can occur within them. Minaa B discusses the concept of growing together in friendships and the need for new language and tools to navigate these relationships. She emphasizes the importance of recognizing the spectrum of friendships and understanding that some friendships may be seasonal or evolve into acquaintanceships. Minaa B also addresses signs of struggling friendships, the role of reciprocity, and the need for honest communication and accountability. The conversation highlights the need to grieve and honor the shifts and endings that can occur in friendships. In this conversation, Dr. Raquel Martin and Minaa B discuss the complexities of friendships and offer insights on how to navigate them. They emphasize the importance of doing internal work and being reflective in order to maintain healthy friendships. They also discuss the need for boundaries and discernment when receiving feedback from friends. The conversation highlights the significance of communication, active listening, and understanding each other's needs. They also touch on the topics of grief, forgiveness, and the role of therapy in supporting friendships.

Takeaways

• Friendships can evolve and shift over time, and it's important to recognize and honor these changes.
• Understanding the spectrum of friendships helps in managing expectations and discerning the role of each person in your life.
• Reciprocity and honest communication are key in maintaining healthy friendships.
• Grieving the shifts and endings in friendships is a normal and necessary part of the process.
• Being open to feedback and self-reflection is crucial for personal growth within friendships. Doing internal work and being reflective is crucial for maintaining healthy friendships.

Bio

Minaa B.® MSW, LMSW, is a licensed social worker, mental health educator, and author of "Owning Our Struggles." With a background in psychotherapy specializing in anxiety, depression, and trauma, she has worked extensively in early childhood programs, private practice, and community mental health settings following her graduate studies at New York University.

As the founder of Minaa B. Consulting and a wellness coach, Minaa focuses on helping organizations cultivate psychological safety. She passionately explores the intersection of mental health and social justice, guiding individuals to build self-efficacy and resilience through community care. Her approach highlights the transformative power of relationships in both personal growth and societal change.

Minaa's expertise has garnered recognition from prominent media outlets such as Red Table Talk, Peace of Mind With Taraji, Today.com, BBC, Oprah Daily, and more. She contributes to the Mental Health Advisory Committee at Wondermind, co-founded by Selena Gomez, and serves as a relationship expert for eharmony. Minaa also hosts the enlightening podcast "Mindful With Minaa."

Minaa B. continues to shape the landscape of mental health and wellness from her base in New York City, where she resides and continues her impactful work.

Dr. Dodson's thoughtful discussion offers valuable perspectives on the mental health challenges faced by men and the importance of providing spaces for healing and growth. His commitment to helping men find their identity and voice is a testament to the transformative power of understanding and compassion in mental health care.

Key Discussion Points:

1. Identity and Masculinity: Dr. Dodson discusses the struggle many men face in defining their masculinity and identity outside societal roles. He highlights the importance of recognizing men as multifaceted beings beyond their roles as protectors or providers.

2. Pressure and Expectations: A significant challenge for black men is navigating the expectations placed on them by society and family. Dr. Dodson talks about the "pressure space" where men are expected to fulfill various roles without attending to their own needs, leading to mental health issues.

3. Vulnerability and Emotional Suppression: Many men believe that being 'hard' means they cannot be vulnerable, which often leads to suppressing emotions. Dr. Dodson emphasizes creating safe spaces for men to express themselves honestly.

4. Redefining Masculinity: The episode explores the need for men, especially black men, to redefine masculinity for themselves. Dr. Dodson encourages men to explore their interests and desires beyond societal expectations.

5. Self-Exploration and Assertiveness: Dr. Dodson suggests practical exercises for men to get to know themselves better, such as identifying moments of happiness and asserting their needs to their community.

6. Therapy as a Collaboration: Viewing therapy as a collaborative process, where the therapist and patient work together to explore and address issues, is crucial. Dr. Dodson stresses the importance of challenge and accountability in therapy.

Dr. Justin Dodson's Bio:

Dr. Justin Dodson is the visionary behind Navigating Courage, Counseling & Consultation, LLC. Dodson and his team of mental health professionals, specifically focusing on adult males, prioritize the cognitive and emotional well-being of adult men through personalized coaching and therapy. Navigating Counseling & Consultation also provides consultation to organizations who are looking to implement crisis response training and expand the mental health services of their employees.

Dr. Dodson achieved the groundbreaking feat of being the first African American male to attain a Master’s in Counseling from Lipscomb University. Subsequently, he went on to earn a Ph.D. in Counselor Education and Supervision from The University of Memphis, solidifying his trailblazing legacy. In his book, "The Courage of a Single Freckle, Navigating Your Black," Dodson delves into the complex intersection of mental health, race relations, implicit and explicit bias, and identity development. Dr. Dodson has been featured in People Magazine, Refinery 29, and most recently, Teen Vogue. 

You can find Dr. Dodson on Instagram, X, LinkedIn, and at his website

Join the Movement: Dr. Martin invites listeners to become part of the Mind Ya Mental community, offering exclusive access to webinars, book clubs, podcasts, and a platform for connection and growth among like-minded individuals.

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In this episode, Dr. Martin discusses how she adjusts to the many changes that life can throw at you.

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In this episode Dr. Martin talks about the 2019 college scandal, barriers to success, and her own experience with overcoming roadblocks.

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Dr. Kensa Gunter discusses the unique challenges faced by athletes in the world of sports. These challenges include the intertwining of athletic identity with self-worth, the constant pressure to perform at a high level, the public scrutiny and dehumanization of athletes, and the loneliness that can come from feeling misunderstood. She also highlights the importance of providing support and resources to help athletes navigate these challenges and maintain their mental health and well-being. The conversation explores the cultural shift towards acknowledging and discussing mental health in sports, particularly in the NBA. Dr. Kensa Gunter discusses the Mind Health program and the importance of humanizing mental health and positioning it as an essential element of excellence, wellness, and performance. They also discuss the need for diversity and representation in the field of sports psychology, as well as the role of media in portraying athletes in a way that respects their humanity. Dr. Gunter provides advice for athletes experiencing dehumanization or adultification and emphasizes the importance of empathy and curiosity in media interactions.

Takeaways

• Athletes often face unique challenges in the world of sports, including the intertwining of their athletic identity with their self-worth.
• The constant pressure to perform at a high level and the public scrutiny can take a toll on an athlete's mental health.
• Loneliness can be a common experience for athletes, as it can be difficult for others to truly understand their unique experiences.
• Providing support and resources to athletes is crucial in helping them navigate the challenges they face and maintain their mental health and well-being. There has been a cultural shift towards acknowledging and discussing mental health in sports, particularly in the NBA.

Bio

 Dr. Kensa Gunter is a licensed psychologist and Certified Mental Performance Consultant (CMPC) dedicated to humanizing conversations about mental and emotional health. She emphasizes the influence of social, cultural, and environmental factors on well-being and performance. Dr. Gunter offers counseling and consultation services to individuals, teams, and organizations in sport, education, and business, focusing on enhancing organizational health to foster individual development and team culture. An experienced public speaker, she has delivered keynote presentations, participated in panel discussions, and moderated conversations at national and international conferences. 

Dr. Gunter has been featured in various podcasts and print media publications. Her leadership roles span multiple professional organizations, and she has received the distinction of Fellow from both the Georgia Psychological Association and the Association for Applied Sport Psychology (AASP), where she served as President from 2020-21. Currently, she coordinates EDI efforts for APA Division 47.

In this episode Raquel is joined by Dr. Amber Thornton and they talk about their fears and anticipation about becoming new moms in the upcoming weeks.  Dr. Thornton's instagram is @dramberthornton and she can be found at her website www.dramberthornton.com

Dr. Amber Thornton is a clinical psychologist currently practicing in the DC area.  She provides both individual and family therapy to children, adolescents and adults.She is also the founder of Balanced Working Mama an organization that seeks help mamas balance work, motherhood, and wellness.  Her areas of interest include childhood trauma, complex traumas, multiculturalism and diversity in clinical psychology and parent management training.

In this episode of "Mind Your Mental," Dr. Raquel Martin explores how Black men can foster a more supportive environment for themselves and the role of therapy in breaking generational cycles of unmet needs and unhealthy patterns. The conversation delves into the importance of not letting one bad experience with therapy deter individuals from seeking help again, emphasizing therapy as a gift rather than a punishment.

Key Takeaways:

1. Recognizing Unhealthy Relationships: Identifying signs of unhealthy dynamics, including physical aggression and the inability to express needs freely. The detrimental effect of having to navigate a partner’s mood and sacrificing personal interests for the sake of the relationship is highlighted.
2. Encouraging Self-Advocacy: Stressing the need for Black men to recognize and advocate for their needs. Suggestions include engaging with supportive communities, understanding the role of therapy in generational healing, and the necessity of multiple therapy attempts if needed.
3. Advice for Allies: Encouraging allies to acknowledge the struggles faced by Black men, engage in open and supportive conversations, and refrain from making assumptions about their experiences.

Dr. Justin Dodson's Bio:

Dr. Justin Dodson is the visionary behind Navigating Courage, Counseling & Consultation, LLC. Dodson and his team of mental health professionals, specifically focusing on adult males, prioritize the cognitive and emotional well-being of adult men through personalized coaching and therapy. Navigating Counseling & Consultation also provides consultation to organizations who are looking to implement crisis response training and expand the mental health services of their employees.

Dr. Dodson achieved the groundbreaking feat of being the first African American male to attain a Master’s in Counseling from Lipscomb University. Subsequently, he went on to earn a Ph.D. in Counselor Education and Supervision from The University of Memphis, solidifying his trailblazing legacy. In his book, "The Courage of a Single Freckle, Navigating Your Black," Dodson delves into the complex intersection of mental health, race relations, implicit and explicit bias, and identity development. Dr. Dodson has been featured in People Magazine, Refinery 29, and most recently, Teen Vogue. 

You can find Dr. Dodson on Instagram, X, LinkedIn, and at his website

Join the Movement: Dr. Martin invites listeners to become part of the Mind Ya Mental community, offering exclusive access to webinars, book clubs, podcasts, and a platform for connection and growth among like-minded individuals.

You can follow Dr. Martin on Social Media at Instagram, TikTok, Facebook, LinkedIn, YouTube, and at her website www.raquelmartinphd.com

In this insightful episode of "Mind Ya Mental," we are joined by Elliott Connie, a distinguished licensed mental health professional and a fervent advocate for Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT). Elliott's dedication to enhancing mental health, especially within African American communities, is both inspiring and transformative. He challenges the traditional constructs of psychotherapy to ensure it's inclusive and beneficial for all, particularly people of color.

Key Takeaways from the Episode:

1. Introduction to Solution-Focused Brief Therapy: Elliott Connie enlightens us about SFBT, emphasizing its forward-looking approach. Unlike traditional psychotherapies that focus on diagnosing and treating problems, SFBT centers on helping clients envision and achieve their desired future, encouraging a pathway to their best selves.

2. Cultural Humility in Practice: Elliott discusses the critical role of cultural humility in therapy, highlighting how SFBT's client-centered nature inherently supports culturally competent care. This approach empowers individuals by recognizing and respecting their unique cultural identities and experiences.

3. Challenging the Status Quo: Through his journey, Elliott shares how he incorporates his cultural identity into his professional work, actively challenging the norms of the psychotherapy field. His efforts aim to diversify mental health leadership and reshape the field to better serve historically marginalized communities.

4. Representation Matters: Elliott stresses the importance of representation in the psychotherapy field, not just visually but culturally. By showing up authentically as himself, he fights for the inclusion of diverse voices and perspectives in mental health care, inspiring current and aspiring therapists.

5. The Power of Belief in Future Possibilities: Elliott's personal anecdotes underscore the transformative power of believing in one's future. By discussing futures as if they are attainable and completely ignoring the past's limitations, SFBT offers a hopeful and empowering path for clients, especially beneficial for African Americans.

6. Resilience and Determination: Elliott's resilience in navigating and transforming a field that has not always been welcoming is a testament to his commitment to making psychotherapy inclusive and effective for everyone. His dedication serves as an inspiration for therapists everywhere.

Elliott Connie's Bio:

Elliott Connie is an accomplished psychotherapist, acclaimed for his expertise in Solution Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT). His belief in the transformative power of human resilience led him to specialize in SFBT, an approach he has successfully applied in his practice to help clients lead more fulfilling lives. Elliott is the author of several influential books on the subject, including "The Art of Solution Focused Therapy," "Solution Building in Couples Therapy," "The Solution Focused Marriage: 5 Simple Habits That Will Bring Out the Best in Your Relationship," and "Solution-Focused Brief Therapy with Clients Managing Trauma." With a career marked by collaboration with SFBT luminaries and international lectures, Elliott aims to inspire professionals to embrace SFBT and its potential to effect positive change

You can find Elliott Connie on Instagram, YouTube, X, Facebook, LinkedIn, and at his website

Join the Movement: Dr. Martin invites listeners to become part of the Mind Ya Mental community, offering exclusive access to webinars, book clubs, podcasts, and a platform for connection and growth among like-minded individuals.

You can follow Dr. Martin on Social Media at Instagram, TikTok, Facebook, LinkedIn, YouTube, and at her website www.raquelmartinphd.com

In today's episode, we're diving deep into the essence of hope, faith, and the power of believing in something greater. We explore the significance of holding onto hope, even when it feels like you're the last "good sucker" out there. It's about reminding ourselves that we're not alone in striving for light, love, and positivity in the world.

We'll discuss:

• The importance of hope and belief in something greater than ourselves.
• How to cling to hope in our families, friendships, colleagues, and romantic relationships.
• The idea that we're not the only ones trying to make the world a better place.
• The power of borrowing hope from those around us when ours is running low.
• The role of the church in our lives and how it can be both a source of solace and struggle.

Candice Marie Benbow is a theologian, essayist, columnist, baker, and educator whose work gives voice to Black women’s shared experiences of faith, healing, and wholeness. Named by Sojourners as one of “10 Christian Women Shaping the Church in 2020,” she has written for Essence, Glamour, The Root, VICE, Shondaland, Madame Noire, and the Me Too Movement. Candice created the “Lemonade Syllabus” social media campaign, founded the media boutique Zion Hill Media Group, and, in memory of her mother, established The LouiseMarie Foundation to support HBCU nursing students and community mental health projects. A member of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc., Candice holds degrees from Tennessee State University, North Carolina Central University, and Duke Divinity School.

If you're interested in hearing more from Candace Benbow (and you should be), you can check her out on Instagram, X, and Threads 

Join the Movement: Dr. Martin invites listeners to become part of the Mind Ya Mental community, offering exclusive access to webinars, book clubs, podcasts, and a platform for connection and growth among like-minded individuals.

You can follow Dr. Martin on Social Media at Instagram, TikTok, Facebook, LinkedIn, YouTube, and at her website www.raquelmartinphd.com

Kizzle, founder of Express Yourself Black Men, shares his journey of starting the platform and the top three themes that come up in conversations about black men's mental health: masculinity, emotional expression, and finances. He emphasizes the importance of breaking stereotypes and having positive conversations between black men and women. Dr. Raquel Martin discusses the limitations of societal expectations on black men and the need for them to prioritize their own well-being and personal growth. The conversation explores the importance of creating space for black men to try new things, find their passions, and prioritize their own enjoyment. It also discusses the need for men to actively seek and cultivate friendships, just as they would in dating. The conversation emphasizes the importance of putting effort into building and maintaining relationships, whether they are romantic or platonic. It challenges the misconception that taking the first step in a relationship means one person will have to carry all the responsibility. Both men and women face challenges in approaching and connecting with others, but it is essential to overcome fear and rejection to find meaningful connections. In this part of the conversation, Kizzle discusses the importance of being sociable and having interpersonal skills. He shares his experience as an introvert who has learned to be extroverted in order to connect with others. He emphasizes the need for people to be able to have conversations and express themselves respectfully. Dr. Raquel Martin adds that it's important to respect boundaries and not seek external validation. They also discuss the concept of wishing someone the best and the importance of focusing on personal growth rather than seeking validation from others.

Takeaways

• Express Yourself Black Men is a platform that aims to address the mental health needs of black men and break stereotypes.
• The top three themes that come up in conversations about black men's mental health are masculinity, emotional expression, and finances.
• It is important to have positive conversations between black men and women to uplift and support each other.
• Societal expectations can limit black men's self-expression and personal growth, and it is crucial for them to prioritize their own well-being. Creating space for black men to explore new things and find their passions is essential for their personal growth and well-being.

You can check out Kizzle on Instagram as well as his podcast Express Yourself Black Man and if you are interested in his online Community, A Black Man's Safe Haven, check out the website https://expressyourselfblackman.com/safe-haven

In this episode Dr. Martin discusses Black men and mental health with Licensed Clinical Psychologist and Assistant Professor of Psychology at the University of Houston-Downtown Dr. Erlanger "Earl" Turner.  Dr. Turner often contributes to news articles and maintains a blog as a media psychologist. His research interests include ethnic minority mental health, race relations, health equity, access to behavioral health services for youth, and cultural competency in clinical practice. You can also catch Dr. Turner on his weekly podcast - The Breakdown with Dr. Earl.

In this conversation, Dr. Raquel Martin and Shahem Mclaurin discuss various topics related to mental health, therapy, and social media. They touch on the importance of centering marginalized voices, the challenges of being a therapist on social media, and the need for accessible mental health resources. They also talk about their personal journeys into the field of therapy and the role of astrology in their lives. Overall, the conversation highlights the importance of humanizing therapy and making mental health information more accessible. In this conversation, Dr. Raquel Martin and Shahem Mclaurin discuss astrology and its role in therapy and mental health. They explore the use of astrology as a tool for self-exploration and identity, and how it can be integrated into therapy sessions. They also address the potential pitfalls of using astrology to justify poor behaviors and the importance of personal growth and reflection. The conversation touches on topics such as the influence of astrology on relationships and family dynamics, the intersection of astrology and emotions, and the need for balance and critical thinking when engaging with astrology. Overall, the conversation highlights the multifaceted nature of astrology and its potential benefits and limitations in the context of mental health.

Takeaways

• Centering marginalized voices is crucial in the mental health space
• Being a therapist on social media comes with unique challenges
• Making mental health resources more accessible is important
• Personal experiences and hobbies can humanize therapists
• Astrology can be a fun and interesting way to explore personality traits Astrology can be a useful tool for self-exploration and identity assessment in therapy.
• Astrology should be used as a tool for introspection and exploration, rather than as a justification for poor behaviors.
  
  

Bio

Shahem ``5hahem" McLaurin, a dedicated Black, genderqueer licensed social worker and therapist originally from Baltimore, Maryland, now making a difference in Brooklyn, New York. With a passionate following of over 500,000, Shahem uses their platform to address critical social and mental health issues impacting people of color, individuals affected by patriarchy, and the LGBTQ+ community. Shahem is renowned for offering valuable mental health advice, support, and practical self-care tips, fostering a loyal community around their advocacy.

Shahem's career is deeply rooted in serving underserved and marginalized communities. They have led impactful programs aimed at uplifting and empowering communities of color and youth, demonstrating a steadfast commitment to advancing social justice and equity, particularly in education and incarceration reform. Shahem's advocacy aims to create transformative change, advocating tirelessly for the rights and well-being of those most in need.

Welcome to a compelling episode of "Mind Your Mental," where we explore the intersections of humor, authenticity, and support in mental health and personal development. We'll discuss how humor serves as a vital coping mechanism, the impact of authentic content creation, the significance of therapeutic relationships, the shift towards conscious parenting, and the importance of building supportive communities. Join us as we delve into these critical topics, offering insights and strategies for fostering emotional well-being and stronger connections in our lives.

Key Discussion Points:

1. Humor as a Coping Mechanism: Using humor to navigate through difficult times can offer relief and a sense of light-heartedness, making it easier to deal with life's challenges.

2. Authenticity in Content Creation: Sharing genuine experiences and personal stories resonates more with audiences than chasing trends. Authentic content builds deeper connections.

3. The Importance of Therapeutic Relationships: In therapy, the relationship between the therapist and the client can significantly impact the healing process, sometimes more than the therapeutic techniques themselves.

4. Conscious Parenting for Emotional Health: Shifting towards understanding and empathetic parenting styles helps foster healthier emotional development in children, moving away from punitive approaches.

5. Seeking and Offering Support: Whether through building a community for feedback, reaching out for advice, or providing empathy and understanding in relationships, support plays a crucial role in personal and professional growth.

Bio:

Amber Wallin is a comedian, host, and improviser who’s performed on The Second City and The Annoyance Theatre stages in Chicago. She’s amassed over a million followers on TikTok and Instagram where she annoys her family, sings to her indoor plants, and creates characters inspired by her wig collection.

You can find Amber Wallin on Instagram and TikTok

Join the Movement: Dr. Martin invites listeners to become part of the Mind Ya Mental community, offering exclusive access to webinars, book clubs, podcasts, and a platform for connection and growth among like-minded individuals.

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Welcome BACK to  "Mind Ya Mental," where we dive headfirst into the world of goals, personal development, and finding joy in the most unexpected places. Join Dr. Raquel Martin as she tackles the tradition of New Year's resolutions with humor, insight, and a refreshing take on what it means to truly transform your life, any time of the year.

In This Episode, You'll Discover:

- The Myth of January: Why setting resolutions shouldn't be confined to the start of the year and how to liberate yourself from the January pressure cooker.

- Deeper than the Diet: A hilarious yet insightful exploration of our relationships with food, and how it's often more about emotions than calories.

- The Joy of Multiplicity: Discovering happiness in diverse aspects of life beyond the usual suspects – yes, there's more to life than food and numbers on a scale!

- Values Over Vices: How aligning goals with core values can lead to more meaningful achievements and a satisfying sense of self.

- Habit Hilarity: The funny side of replacing old habits with new ones and why sometimes, the best coping mechanism is a good laugh.

- Community and Connection: A call to join Dr. Raquel's vibrant community where growth, laughter, and support go hand in hand.

Episode Highlights:

- Laugh Your Way Through Goal Setting: Forget the solemn vows of self-improvement; let's find the humor in setting and pursuing goals.

- Food for Thought (And Laughs): Anecdotes and insights into how food can be both a friend and a frenemy in our quest for well-being.

- Busting the Joy Monopoly: Why pinning all your happiness on one thing (like food) is a recipe for disappointment, and how to season your life with varied sources of joy.

- The No-Job Goal: Dr. Raquel's ultimate aim to make herself obsolete in your life by empowering you to be your own guru of personal growth.

Join the phenomenal community Dr. Raquel has cultivated for people like you, who are ready to tackle personal development with a side of humor and heaps of heart.  Find Dr. Raquel Martin at "RaquelMartinPhD" on social media 

Closing Thoughts:

Whether you're rethinking your goals, your relationship with food, or how you find joy, remember, a good laugh might just be the most therapeutic step forward.

Tune in, chuckle along, and transform your journey into one filled with laughter, learning, and a whole lot of self-love.

Join me in an amazing discussion with Natasha Alford about her book American Negra, which is released today!  Natasha Alford is an award-winning journalist, host and millennial media executive driven by the power of storytelling to inspire and change people's lives.  She is also the Vice President and Anchor at the Griot and a political analyst at CNN.  

Her book provides an amazing balance of story telling, history lessons, and inspiration that will have you immersed in this page turner.  You can purchase American Negra by Natasha Alford at Bookshop.org, Barnes & Noble, Amazon, your local bookstore, basically anywhere that sells books!.

You can find Natasha Alford on Instagram, Twitter, and her website NatashaAlford.com. 

In this episode, we delve into the themes of adaptability, the power of feedback, and the journey of creativity, featuring engaging discussions that encourage personal growth and openness to new perspectives.

Key Discussion Points:

1. Adapting to Change: Discussing the challenge of embracing change and the importance of being open to new ideas for personal growth.

2. Value of Admitting Uncertainty: Encouraging the normalization of admitting when one doesn't know, emphasizing research and informed opinions for learning.

3. Feedback for Growth: Highlighting the role of feedback in refining creative work, sharing insights from live show experiences.

4. Creating a Unique Show Experience: Insights into making live shows engaging through audience participation and varied content.

5. Navigating Feedback: Discussing the reception of feedback, distinguishing between constructive criticism and unhelpful opinions.

Bio:

Amber Wallin is a comedian, host, and improviser who’s performed on The Second City and The Annoyance Theatre stages in Chicago. She’s amassed over a million followers on TikTok and Instagram where she annoys her family, sings to her indoor plants, and creates characters inspired by her wig collection.

You can find Amber Wallin on Instagram and TikTok

Join the Movement: Dr. Martin invites listeners to become part of the Mind Ya Mental community, offering exclusive access to webinars, book clubs, podcasts, and a platform for connection and growth among like-minded individuals.

You can follow Dr. Martin on Social Media at Instagram, TikTok, Facebook, LinkedIn, YouTube, and at her website www.raquelmartinphd.com

In this week's episode, Dr. Raquel Martin and Odilakachi William Hezekiah-Onwukwe discuss the importance of emotional intelligence, particularly in the black community. They explore the challenges of scheduling and time management, as well as the impact of patriarchy and racism on black men. They emphasize the need for emotional intelligence programs for black boys and the role of emotional intelligence in fostering connection and presence. The conversation highlights the signs of emotional intelligence and the importance of empathy. This conversation explores the impact of absence on empathy, the adultification of black children, the long game of oppression, reevaluating feminism and masculinity, the importance of selfishness, societal expectations and mental health, black men's value and rest, facilitating rest for black men, recognizing signs of discomfort, and shifting expectations and listening.

Helpful Nuggets From The Episode:

• Emotional intelligence is crucial, especially in the black community, where emotions are often invalidated and not accepted.
• The impact of patriarchy and racism on black men contributes to the need for emotional intelligence programs and support.
• Accountability and self-advocacy are essential for personal growth and development.
• Emotional intelligence plays a significant role in fostering connection, presence, and empathy. The absence of connection and presence can lead to a hardening of oneself and a reduced ability to empathize with others.
• Black children are often adultified at a young age, which diminishes empathy for their childhood experiences.
• Oppressive systems have been strategically implemented over time, making it important to play the long game in dismantling them.
• Feminism and masculinity should be reevaluated to challenge societal expectations and promote equality.
• Selfishness can be healthy when it prioritizes self-care and self-awareness.
• Societal expectations around masculinity can hinder black men's willingness to prioritize their mental health.
• Creating safe spaces and actively listening can help facilitate black men's willingness to prioritize their mental health.
• Recognizing signs of discomfort and providing support can help black men feel safe to express their needs.
• Shifting expectations and projecting empathy can create a space for black men to open up about their mental health.
• Treating partners with empathy and care can foster a supportive environment for black men's mental health.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Name Pronunciation
00:21 Scheduling Challenges
05:05 Challenges of Marketing
06:25 Personal Challenges with Meetings and Time Management
09:00 Importance of Emotional Intelligence in the Black Community
13:46 The Impact of Patriarchy and Racism on Black Men
19:06 Accountability and Self-Advocacy
21:20 The Importance of Emotional Intelligence in Community Psychology
27:12 The Role of Emotional Intelligence in Connection and Presence
28:42 Signs of Emotional Intelligence
28:53 The Impact of Absence on Empathy
30:32 Childhood Development and Adultification
33:30 The Long Game of Oppression
35:58 Reevaluating Feminism and Masculinity
39:08 The Importance of Selfishness
44:51 Societal Expectations and Mental Health
48:13 Black Men's Value and Rest
53:23 Facilitating Rest for Black Men
56:21 Recognizing Signs of Discomfort
59:24 Shifting Expectations and Listening
01:00:06 Treating Partners with Empathy

Guest Bio:

Professor Odilakachi William Hezekiah-Onwukwe AKA Professor Odi is a Therapist and Mental Wellness Coach. Professor Odi specializes in behavioral health interventions that originate in finding highly personalized solutions for his clients. He has a breadth of experience in wellness and decision based interventions, with a centralization in Africentric Theory. Odi obtained his Masters of Community Psychology from FAMU in 2017, having been molded by the FAMU Community Psychology Program, a producer of multiple presidents of the Association of Black Psychologists. He has over half a decade in mental health practitioner experience, ranging from independent interventions into administrative logistics and strategy implementation. Clinically, he is eclectic. He has experience utilizing Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Dialectical Behavioral Therapy, Solution-Focused Interventions, and Mindfulness based interventions. Odilakachi aspires to be wholly present for his clients while simultaneously allowing them to guide him through what it is that they need.  You can find Professor Odi on Instagram

In this episode, we delve into the complex relationship between spirituality and mental well-being, particularly within the Black community and for Black women in religious spaces. The conversation illuminates:

• The Church's dual role as both a sanctuary and a source of pain, exploring how it has shaped the Black community's spiritual and emotional landscape.
• The specific struggles Black women face within these sacred spaces, often bearing the brunt of systemic biases without the deserved support or recognition.
• The urgent need for collective healing, acknowledging the scars left by spiritual bypassing and institutional neglect.
• The transformative power of recognizing God's love in every interaction, urging a recommitment to treating one another with the dignity and compassion reflective of divine love.

Candice Marie Benbow is a theologian, essayist, columnist, baker, and educator whose work gives voice to Black women’s shared experiences of faith, healing, and wholeness. Named by Sojourners as one of “10 Christian Women Shaping the Church in 2020,” she has written for Essence, Glamour, The Root, VICE, Shondaland, Madame Noire, and the Me Too Movement. Candice created the “Lemonade Syllabus” social media campaign, founded the media boutique Zion Hill Media Group, and, in memory of her mother, established The LouiseMarie Foundation to support HBCU nursing students and community mental health projects. A member of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc., Candice holds degrees from Tennessee State University, North Carolina Central University, and Duke Divinity School.

If you're interested in hearing more from Candace Benbow (and you should be), you can check her out on Instagram, X, and Threads 

Join the Movement: Dr. Martin invites listeners to become part of the Mind Ya Mental community, offering exclusive access to webinars, book clubs, podcasts, and a platform for connection and growth among like-minded individuals.

You can follow Dr. Martin on Social Media at Instagram, TikTok, Facebook, LinkedIn, YouTube, and at her website www.raquelmartinphd.com

In this empowering episode of "Mind Your Mental," we delve into the complexities of identity, self-discovery, and the courage to prioritize oneself. Our guest shares invaluable insights into their personal journey from navigating roles as a parent and professional to embarking on a profound path of self-discovery and healing.

Key Takeaways from Our Conversation:

• The Journey of Self-Discovery: Many of us define ourselves through the roles we play in others' lives, often losing sight of who we are at our core. Our guest challenges listeners to describe themselves without referencing their roles in relation to others, highlighting the widespread struggle of truly knowing oneself.

• The Importance of Being Selfish: In a culture that often equates selfishness with negativity, we explore how being selfish can be a crucial aspect of self-care. Allowing yourself the time and space to explore your desires, dislikes, and dreams is not only beneficial but necessary for personal growth.

• Healing as a Journey: Emphasizing that healing is not a destination but an ongoing process, our guest shares personal experiences of setbacks and breakthroughs. They remind us that we're all worthy of healing and discovering our true selves, regardless of external expectations or societal pressures.

• Confronting and Embracing Your True Self: The episode offers strategies for those feeling unworthy of the time it takes to delve into self-discovery. It encourages listeners to question why they feel compelled to conform and to recognize their inherent worthiness of living freely and authentically.

• The Role of Mental Health in the Black Community: Highlighting the unique challenges faced by the Black community regarding mental health, our conversation sheds light on the critical need for open discussions and access to mental health resources within the community.

Tabitha Brown, also known as “America’s Mom,” has gained over 13 million followers through her engaging vegan lifestyle content and uplifting persona. The Emmy-winning actress from North Carolina is also a successful author, with three New York Times bestsellers, multiple NAACP Image Awards, and an honorary doctorate from Savannah College of Art and Design. She has appeared in notable TV shows like "The Chi" on Showtime, produced and hosted "It’s CompliPlated" on Food Network, and created the children's show "Tab Time." As a businesswoman, she co-founded Donna’s Recipe, a healthy haircare line, collaborated with Target, and launched her own line of McCormick seasonings. Brown inspires with her messages on faith, perseverance, and authenticity.

In this engaging conversation, Dr. Raquel Martin interviews Fawn Weaver, exploring her journey as an entrepreneur, the impact of her book, and her unique perspective on introversion and community. They delve into the significance of Fawn's work with Uncle Nearest, the misconceptions surrounding imposter syndrome, and the importance of self-education. Fawn shares her experiences with isolation, leadership, and the power of storytelling in preserving history. In this engaging conversation, Fawn Weaver and Dr. Raquel Martin explore the themes of purpose, resilience, and authenticity in entrepreneurship. Weaver shares her journey of overcoming personal challenges and emphasizes the importance of understanding one's purpose as a driving force in life and business. They discuss the significance of authenticity in the workplace, the impact of respectability politics, and the necessity of owning one's brand and online presence. The conversation highlights the mental energy spent on masking one's true self and the freedom that comes from embracing authenticity. Weaver also touches on the intersection of faith and business, advocating for a mindset that prioritizes purpose over legacy.

Takeaways

• Fawn's book resonates with both men and women, leading to rapid readership.
• Isolation can be a choice for introverts, who thrive in their own company.
• Community should be chosen wisely to avoid draining energy.
• Imposter syndrome is often a mislabeling of justified reactions to oppressive environments.
• Fawn emphasizes the importance of self-education and reading.
• The story of Uncle Nearest highlights the significance of representation in history.
• Jack Daniel's relationship with Nearest Green challenges historical narratives.

Bio

Fawn Weaver, a USA Today and New York Times and bestselling author, is an investor, marriage advocate, TEDx alum and the founder of the Happy Wives Club, a community of nearly 1,000,000 women in more than 110 countries.

The Club's website, HappyWivesClub.com, is an upbeat blog dedicated to positively changing the tone about marriage. Twice named the Best Marriage Site on the web by About.com, HappyWivesClub.com is the go-to place for women wanting to read about the "sunny side" of marriage and get tips on taking a marriage from good to great and from great to extraordinary.

Happy Wives Club, Weaver's debut book is a journey to 12 countries and 6 continents in search of the universal secret to a happy marriage. Weaver's next book the Argument-Free Marriage, takes couples through a 28-day day challenge to creating the marriage of their dreams with the spouse they already have.

Summary

In this episode, Dr. Raquel Martin and Bishop Joseph Warren Walker III discuss the intersection of faith, spirituality, and mental health. They address the stigma surrounding mental health in the Black community and within religious contexts. Bishop Walker emphasizes the importance of integrating therapy and faith to achieve holistic healing. They also discuss the need for leaders to prioritize mental health and create spaces for open conversations. The conversation highlights the significance of addressing the root causes of mental health issues and the role of therapy in facilitating healing. The conversation between Dr. Raquel Martin and Bishop Joseph Warren Walker, III explores the integration of theology and psychology in addressing mental health within the church. They discuss the importance of creating a culture within the congregation that promotes mental health awareness and provides resources for support. They also emphasize the need for partnerships and collaborations between mental health professionals and spiritual leaders to strengthen the church's ability to address mental health issues. The conversation highlights the significance of allowing space for grief and lamentation and the importance of questioning and seeking professional help when needed.

Takeaways

1. Spirituality and faith are central to mental well-being, particularly within the Black community.
2. Stigma surrounding mental health in religious contexts can be attributed to erroneous theological teachings and a lack of understanding.
3. Integrating therapy and faith is essential for holistic healing and addressing the root causes of mental health issues.
4. Leaders in religious communities should prioritize mental health and create spaces for open conversations and support.
5. Therapy is a valuable tool for addressing trauma and facilitating healing, and it should be embraced as part of the journey towards well-being. Develop a culture within the congregation that promotes mental health awareness and provides resources for support.
6. Form partnerships and collaborations between mental health professionals and spiritual leaders to strengthen the church's ability to address mental health issues.
7. Allow space for grief and lamentation, acknowledging the need for healing and support.
8. Encourage questioning and seeking professional help when needed, recognizing that faith and intellectual curiosity can coexist.

Bio

Bishop Joseph W. Walker, III, stands as the esteemed senior leader of Mt. Zion Baptist Church in Nashville, Tennessee, where he joyfully celebrates three decades of pastoral leadership. Hailing from Shreveport, Louisiana, Bishop Walker's academic journey includes a Bachelor of Arts degree from Southern University, followed by a Master of Divinity from Vanderbilt University and a Doctor of Ministry from Princeton Theological Seminary.

In addition to his pastoral duties, Bishop Walker serves as the International Presiding Bishop of the Full Gospel Baptist Church Fellowship and brings his visionary leadership to the Board of Trustees for Tennessee State University. A prolific author, speaker, and community advocate, he is renowned for his impactful ministry that spans both local and global initiatives. Bishop Walker's commitment to faith and education is mirrored in his role as a devoted husband to Dr. Stephaine Hale Walker, with whom he shares the joy of parenting two children.

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In this episode Dr. Marin is joined by Rhonda Khan, communication coach, performer, and founder of Simply Speech Solutions.  They talk about how Rhonda has learned to cope with her diagnoses of ADHD and an eating disorder as well as her one-woman show FOOD, an emotional comedy of her journey finding peace with food, her body, and herself and her work empowering women to speak with confidence and authenticity.  Rhonda can be found at www.rhondakhan.com   Instagram: @foodtheplay

Dr. Thema and Dr. Raquel Martin discuss various topics including love, travel, and liberation psychology. They touch on the importance of context and the impact of systems of oppression on marginalized communities. They also highlight the need for mental health professionals to consider the soul and spiritual aspects of their clients. Dr. Thema explains that liberation psychology is about healing wounds, reimagining possibilities, and promoting post-traumatic growth. Dr. Raquel Martin shares her experience of wanting to focus on helping the Black community in her training and the pushback she received. In this conversation, Dr. Thema and Dr. Raquel Martin discuss the importance of integrating liberation psychology into therapy and mental health practices. They emphasize the need for therapists to be culturally competent and aware of the diverse experiences within the Black community. They also highlight the significance of authenticity and genuine connection in therapy, as well as the importance of honoring and validating clients' experiences of discrimination. Dr. Thema provides resources for further learning and encourages therapists to incorporate liberation psychology into their training and practice.

Takeaways

• Liberation psychology is a holistic approach that considers the soul and spiritual aspects of individuals, going beyond just thoughts, feelings, and behaviors.
• Context matters in mental health, including the impact of systems of oppression on marginalized communities.
• Liberation psychology aims to heal wounds, challenge internalized oppression, and reimagine possibilities for individuals, families, and communities.
• Mental health professionals should consider the unique experiences and needs of marginalized communities, such as the Black community, and provide culturally sensitive care.
• Post-traumatic growth and positive psychology are important aspects of liberati

Bio

Dr. Thema Bryant is a highly esteemed psychologist renowned for their leadership as the president of the American Psychological Association in 2023. They bring a wealth of expertise as a tenured professor of psychology at Pepperdine University, where their teaching and research intertwine psychology, theology, and the arts. Dr. Bryant's approach is deeply rooted in empowering individuals to navigate and transcend profound life challenges, particularly traumatic experiences. 

They are dedicated to recognizing and amplifying the inherent strengths of individuals within diverse cultural contexts, specializing in trauma recovery among ethnically marginalized groups, women, and individuals of faith. Dr. Bryant's influential work extends beyond academia, advocating for holistic healing and resilience through their profound understanding of psychological, spiritual, and cultural dimensions.  You can find Dr. Bryant on Instagram and her website.

Summary

The conversation explores the concept of black identity and the limitations of existing frameworks. It delves into the idea of blackness as a performance and the different responses to racism within the black community. The discussion also touches on the role of agency in black identity development and the complexities of defining blackness. The conversation highlights the importance of inclusivity and the recognition that blackness can manifest in various ways. It concludes with a conversation about code-switching and masking as survival strategies in different contexts. In this conversation, Touré discusses the importance of advocating for oneself in professional settings and the strategies to navigate power dynamics. He emphasizes the need to marshal allies and speak to decision-makers in a way that allows them to change their minds without feeling attacked. Touré also reflects on his experience of being rooted in but not restricted by race and the confidence it has given him in predominantly white spaces. The conversation concludes with a discussion on the impact of private school education and the importance of self-esteem in navigating different environments.

Takeaways

• Black identity is complex and cannot be limited to a single definition or framework.
• Blackness can be performed in different ways and responses to racism vary within the black community.
• Agency plays a crucial role in black identity development.
• Inclusivity is important in recognizing and embracing the diversity of black experiences.

Bio

Touré is a renowned writer, music journalist, cultural critic, and podcaster, known for his deep insights into music, race, and culture. He gained prominence as a co-host on MSNBC's The Cycle and has contributed to The Dylan Ratigan Show. Touré also hosted Hiphop Shop and On the Record on Fuse, and serves on the prestigious Rock and Roll Hall of Fame Nominating Committee.

A respected voice in the world of hip-hop, he has taught courses on the genre’s history at NYU’s Clive Davis Institute of Recorded Music. Touré is the author of several acclaimed books, including Who's Afraid of Post-Blackness? and I Would Die 4 U: Why Prince Became an Icon. He regularly contributes to The Daily Beast and The Grio.

Hey guys! I'm back. Thanks for your patience during my maternity leave. New episodes will be coming soon.

This episode with Dr. Dodson sheds light on the complex layers of mental health challenges faced by men, particularly Black men, offering insights and strategies for better emotional health and communication. His expertise and compassionate approach provide listeners with practical advice for navigating these challenges.

Key Discussion Points:

1. Emotional Expression and Validation:

   • Dr. Dodson addresses the common issue where Black men's emotions are often invalidated, highlighting a societal tendency to misinterpret or dismiss their feelings.
   • The episode delves into the importance of creating safe spaces for Black men to express emotions without fear of judgment or dismissal.

2. Navigating Gender Roles and Expectations:

   • A significant portion of the discussion focuses on the heavy burden of societal expectations on Black men to conform to traditional roles of providers and protectors, often at the expense of their emotional well-being.

3. Challenges of Masculinity:

   • Dr. Dodson talks about the struggle many Black men face in defining masculinity on their terms, battling stereotypes and societal pressures that discourage vulnerability.

4. Advocacy and Self-expression:

   • Practical advice is offered for men who have had their emotions invalidated, emphasizing the importance of self-advocacy and finding safe, supportive spaces for expression.

5. The Importance of Safe Spaces:

   • The conversation underlines the critical need for Black men to have environments where they can be open and honest about their feelings, without fear of being undermined or attacked.

6. Navigating Relationships and Communication:

   • Strategies for improving communication within relationships are discussed, encouraging men to express their needs clearly and constructively, and to seek relationships that offer mutual respect and understanding.

Dr. Justin Dodson's Bio:

Dr. Justin Dodson is the visionary behind Navigating Courage, Counseling & Consultation, LLC. Dodson and his team of mental health professionals, specifically focusing on adult males, prioritize the cognitive and emotional well-being of adult men through personalized coaching and therapy. Navigating Counseling & Consultation also provides consultation to organizations who are looking to implement crisis response training and expand the mental health services of their employees.

Dr. Dodson achieved the groundbreaking feat of being the first African American male to attain a Master’s in Counseling from Lipscomb University. Subsequently, he went on to earn a Ph.D. in Counselor Education and Supervision from The University of Memphis, solidifying his trailblazing legacy. In his book, "The Courage of a Single Freckle, Navigating Your Black," Dodson delves into the complex intersection of mental health, race relations, implicit and explicit bias, and identity development. Dr. Dodson has been featured in People Magazine, Refinery 29, and most recently, Teen Vogue. 

You can find Dr. Dodson on Instagram, X, LinkedIn, and at his website

Join the Movement: Dr. Martin invites listeners to become part of the Mind Ya Mental community, offering exclusive access to webinars, book clubs, podcasts, and a platform for connection and growth among like-minded individuals.

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This episode emphasizes the well-being of Black men, women, and non-binary individuals, highlighting the collective impact on the community.

Key Discussion Points:

1. Unhealthy Relationship Signs:

   • Physical aggression and the inability to communicate needs are major red flags.
   • Feeling restricted by a partner and not being able to live outside the relationship signal an unhealthy dynamic.

2. Emotional Expression and Vulnerability:

   • Societal barriers against Black men expressing emotions are discussed. Dr. Justin Dodson provides insights on recognizing and exiting unhealthy relationships.

3. Masculinity and Self-Advocacy:

   • The episode explores challenges in defining masculinity and the importance of self-advocacy and establishing healthy boundaries.

4. Support and Community:

   • Encourages supporting Black men in their mental health journey, highlighting the need for understanding and empathy from the community.

Dr. Justin Dodson's Bio:

Dr. Justin Dodson is the visionary behind Navigating Courage, Counseling & Consultation, LLC. Dodson and his team of mental health professionals, specifically focusing on adult males, prioritize the cognitive and emotional well-being of adult men through personalized coaching and therapy. Navigating Counseling & Consultation also provides consultation to organizations who are looking to implement crisis response training and expand the mental health services of their employees.

Dr. Dodson achieved the groundbreaking feat of being the first African American male to attain a Master’s in Counseling from Lipscomb University. Subsequently, he went on to earn a Ph.D. in Counselor Education and Supervision from The University of Memphis, solidifying his trailblazing legacy. In his book, "The Courage of a Single Freckle, Navigating Your Black," Dodson delves into the complex intersection of mental health, race relations, implicit and explicit bias, and identity development. Dr. Dodson has been featured in People Magazine, Refinery 29, and most recently, Teen Vogue. 

You can find Dr. Dodson on Instagram, X, LinkedIn, and at his website

Join the Movement: Dr. Martin invites listeners to become part of the Mind Ya Mental community, offering exclusive access to webinars, book clubs, podcasts, and a platform for connection and growth among like-minded individuals.

You can follow Dr. Martin on Social Media at Instagram, TikTok, Facebook, LinkedIn, YouTube, and at her website www.raquelmartinphd.com

In this insightful episode of "Mind Your Mental," we delve into the powerful themes of self-awareness, gratitude, and the transformative journey of personal discovery. Drawing on profound personal experiences and expert insights, we uncover the essential lessons that shape our understanding of ourselves and our capacity for gratitude, even in the face of life's challenges.

Key Takeaways from Our Conversation:

• Self-Discovery through Life's Challenges: The journey to self-discovery often begins in moments of adversity. Our discussion reveals how personal crises can catalyze a deeper exploration of our true selves, leading us to shed layers of conformity and embrace our authentic identities.

• The Power of Gratitude in Healing: Gratitude emerges as a cornerstone of healing and personal growth. We're reminded of the importance of cherishing life's simple blessings, such as the ability to perform everyday tasks that others may no longer be able to do, reinforcing gratitude's role in fostering resilience and contentment.

• Navigating Identity Beyond Roles: Many struggle to define themselves outside of their roles in relation to others. Our conversation emphasizes the importance of understanding oneself independently, highlighting the common struggle of articulating personal identity without reference to these roles.

• Embracing Selfishness as Self-Care: Contrary to negative connotations, selfishness can be an integral part of self-care. Prioritizing time for self-reflection and personal needs is crucial for wellbeing, challenging listeners to reconsider their perspectives on selfishness in the context of nurturing their mental health.

• Gratitude Amid Social Comparison: In an era dominated by social media, it's easy to fall into the trap of comparison. However, the practice of gratitude can ground us, reminding us to appreciate our ability to engage with the world around us, even in the digital age.

Tabitha Brown, also known as “America’s Mom,” has gained over 13 million followers through her engaging vegan lifestyle content and uplifting persona. The Emmy-winning actress from North Carolina is also a successful author, with three New York Times bestsellers, multiple NAACP Image Awards, and an honorary doctorate from Savannah College of Art and Design. She has appeared in notable TV shows like "The Chi" on Showtime, produced and hosted "It’s CompliPlated" on Food Network, and created the children's show "Tab Time." As a businesswoman, she co-founded Donna’s Recipe, a healthy haircare line, collaborated with Target, and launched her own line of McCormick seasonings. Brown inspires with her messages on faith, perseverance, and authenticity.

In this episode, Dr. Raquel Martin interviews Tiffany Aliche, also known as the "The Budgetnista" about the importance of discussing money, especially within the black community. They discuss the fear and discomfort surrounding money conversations and the impact it can have on individuals and families. They also touch on the importance of having conversations about wills and estate planning, as well as the role of a financial advisor in facilitating these discussions. Tiffany shares her journey from being a teacher to becoming a renowned personal financial educator and the impact she has made through her work. The episode highlights the need for financial education and access to financial knowledge within communities. In this part of the conversation, Tiffany discusses her transition from teaching to financial education and the creation of a nonprofit business model. She shares how she helps the community through partnerships and emphasizes the importance of education and accessibility. Tiffany also talks about releasing shame and providing psychoeducation, as well as the core principles and strategies for achieving financial freedom. She highlights the challenges faced by black women in achieving financial wellness and the role of investing in growing wealth. Finally, she mentions some of her favorite financial educators. In this conversation, Tiffany Aliche and Dr. Raquel Martin discuss the importance of community, the intersection of financial health and mental well-being, incorporating financial wellness into therapy, understanding the emotional connection to money, financial self-care, and the power of persistence and relentlessness.

Takeaways

• Open and honest conversations about money are important, especially within the black community.
• Discussing money can be uncomfortable, but it is necessary for financial well-being and planning for the future.
• Having conversations about wills and estate planning is crucial to ensure that one's wishes are carried out and to avoid potential conflicts.
• Financial education and access to financial knowledge are essential for individuals and communities to make informed financial decisions. Transitioning from teaching to financial education can open up new opportunities to help the community.
• Creating a nonprofit business model can allow for the provision of financial education to those who may not have access or resources.

Bio

Tiffany "The Budgetnista" Aliche is renowned as America's leading personal financial educator and the author of the New York Times Best Seller, "Get Good with Money." With a background in education, including a Master's degree, Tiffany has empowered over two million women to save, manage, and pay off hundreds of millions of dollars through her impactful Live Richer Movement.

Her advocacy led to the passing of The Budgetnista Law (A1414) in 2019, mandating financial education for middle school students in New Jersey. Tiffany's achievements include being an NAACP nominee and the first Black woman to feature solo on the cover of Money Magazine. She co-hosts the Webby Award-winning podcast, Brown Ambition, and has made appearances on major platforms such as Good Morning America, the TODAY show, TIME, The New York Times, and more.

In this conversation, Destini Ann and Dr. Martin discuss conscious parenting and the importance of respecting children. They explore the difference between obedience and discipline, and how conscious parenting focuses on building relationships and fostering respect. They also touch on the unique challenges faced by Black parents and the need to challenge traditional parenting norms. The conversation highlights the importance of allowing children to ask questions and express themselves, while also setting boundaries and ensuring their safety. In this conversation, Destini Ann and Dr. Martin discuss the importance of respectful parenting and empowering children. They challenge the narrative that being tough on kids prepares them for the real world, emphasizing the need to support and uplift children, especially Black and Brown children. They highlight the importance of teaching children critical thinking, problem-solving, and effective communication skills. The conversation also touches on the challenges of parenting in a school environment that may not align with respectful parenting principles. They discuss the need for parents to recognize and address their own internalized beliefs and traumas to create a safe and empowering environment for their children. The conversation concludes with a discussion about the benefits of joining parenting communities and the resources available in Destini Ann's parenting community on the School app.

Takeaways

• Conscious parenting emphasizes building relationships and fostering respect with children.
• Obedience can lead to resentment, while respect leads to relationships.
• Black parents face unique challenges and need to challenge traditional parenting norms.
• Children should be allowed to ask questions and express themselves in a respectful manner.
• Setting boundaries and ensuring children's safety are important aspects of parenting. Being tough on kids does not prepare them for the real world; it is more important to support and uplift them.

Bio

Destini Ann is a compassionate and relatable source for navigating motherhood! She takes the psychology of parenting and turns it into fun, digestible content for her community. Destini challenges the norms of parenting by offering a safe space to have tough conversations. She teaches with empathy and empowers moms to shift the culture of their homes to more intention, grace, and presence.

Welcome to another episode of "Mind Your Mental," a podcast dedicated to exploring mental health from various angles while reminding you that this show is not a substitute for professional mental health care.  In this episode Dr. Martin is joined by Amanda Seales and Akoto Ofori-Atta.  We talk about the importance of accurate representation in media, particularly for marginalized communities. PLUS we address the challenges of navigating expectations and bias in public spaces, the importance of critical thinking and accountability, and the need for safe spaces that prioritize mental health and wellness.  Finally, we talked about the prevalence of clickbait in journalism, the threat of misinformation in the upcoming election, and the importance of media literacy and fact-checking in combating misinformation.

Guest Bios

Akoto Ofori-Atta is co-founder and chief audience officer of Capital B. She was previously managing editor at The Trace, where she was responsible for the award-winning newsroom’s partnerships, special projects, and editorial operations. She previously held positions as senior editor at Essence magazine and associate editor at The Root, and is a 2015 John S. Knight journalism fellow.

Amanda Seales is a comedian, multi-hyphenate, and social justice advocate, Amanda Seales has dedicated her life to creating safe spaces with her witty insightful content.  You can find her on Instagram, TikTok, and YouTube and https://www.amandaseales.com/

Join the Movement: Dr. Martin invites listeners to become part of the Mind Ya Mental community, offering exclusive access to webinars, book clubs, podcasts, and a platform for connection and growth among like-minded individuals.

You can follow Dr. Martin on Social Media at Instagram, TikTok, Facebook, LinkedIn, YouTube, and at her website www.raquelmartinphd.com

In this episode, Dr. Martin is joined by Dr. Jessica Jackson.  Dr. Jackson graduated with a Ph.D. in counseling psychology from New Mexico State University (NMSU) with a minor in Integrated Behavioral Health.  As a practitioner-scientist -advocate, her research focus has primarily centered around culturally competent clinical practice. Tune in to listen to them discuss how substance use is often used as a coping mechanism, being a minority while training in mental health, and more. 

This episode is about sparking those challenging conversations, sometimes finding answers, and often, finding more questions. It's all part of our journey to becoming better humans and seeing the divine in everyone around us.

Here's what we're covering:

• The church's impact on the Black community: it's a sanctuary for many but has also been a place of pain for some.
• Black women's experiences in religious and community spaces.
• The necessity of confronting and healing from both individual and collective wounds.
• The concept of spiritual bypassing, and why it's particularly harmful within our community.
• And ultimately, how understanding God through the lens of love and compassion compels us to treat everyone with dignity and respect.

Candice Marie Benbow is a theologian, essayist, columnist, baker, and educator whose work gives voice to Black women’s shared experiences of faith, healing, and wholeness. Named by Sojourners as one of “10 Christian Women Shaping the Church in 2020,” she has written for Essence, Glamour, The Root, VICE, Shondaland, Madame Noire, and the Me Too Movement. Candice created the “Lemonade Syllabus” social media campaign, founded the media boutique Zion Hill Media Group, and, in memory of her mother, established The LouiseMarie Foundation to support HBCU nursing students and community mental health projects. A member of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc., Candice holds degrees from Tennessee State University, North Carolina Central University, and Duke Divinity School.

If you're interested in hearing more from Candace Benbow (and you should be), you can check her out on Instagram, X, and Threads 

Join the Movement: Dr. Martin invites listeners to become part of the Mind Ya Mental community, offering exclusive access to webinars, book clubs, podcasts, and a platform for connection and growth among like-minded individuals.

You can follow Dr. Martin on Social Media at Instagram, TikTok, Facebook, LinkedIn, YouTube, and at her website www.raquelmartinphd.com

Raquel Willis is an esteemed activist, journalist, and media strategist committed to advancing the liberation and rights of Black transgender individuals. As an executive producer with iHeartMedia's LGBTQ+ podcast network, Outspoken, she not only hosts the poignant podcast "Afterlives," which honors the lives of trans individuals lost to violence but also spearheads discussions on critical LGBTQ+ issues.

Beyond her role in media, Raquel is celebrated for her literary contributions, including the impactful book "The Risk It Takes to Bloom: On Life and Liberation." Her career highlights encompass pivotal positions such as director of communications at the Ms. Foundation for Women and executive editor at Out magazine.

A trailblazer in activism, Raquel co-founded the Transgender Week of Visibility and Action and serves on several influential boards dedicated to advocacy and policy reform. Her groundbreaking initiatives, such as the GLAAD Media Award-winning “Trans Obituaries Project” and the Gold-winning “The Trans Youth Town Hall,” underscore her commitment to amplifying marginalized voices.

Raquel's writing, known for its depth and insight, is featured across various publications, where she offers profound perspectives on gender equity, racial justice, and the intersections of identity. She continues to shape public discourse as a prominent thought leader, paving the way for greater understanding and acceptance within broader societal frameworks.

Summary

The conversation covers the topics of liberation, mental health care, gender, and Pride Month. It delves into the historical significance of Pride Month, the fight for equality, and the support of the LGBTQIA community. The discussion also addresses the intersectionality of queer liberation and Black liberation, as well as the impact of police brutality and over-criminalization. The conversation covers a wide range of topics related to the LGBTQ+ community, activism, allyship, mental health, and the importance of diverse narratives. It also delves into the concept of legacy and lineage within the Black community. Raquel Willis shares insights on elevating queer stories, the impact of violence, and the need for allyship in various institutions. Dr. Raquel Martin discusses the significance of individual legacy and the importance of embracing one's identity.

Takeaways

Liberation encompasses the freeing of individuals from restrictive notions of identity under systems of oppression.
The fight for queer liberation is intertwined with the fight for Black liberation and addresses issues of police brutality and over-criminalization.
Pride Month has historical significance tied to the Stonewall riots, highlighting the ongoing struggle for equality and recognition.
Support for the LGBTQIA community extends beyond Pride Month and involves addressing issues such as decriminalization of sex work and police brutality.
The conversation emphasizes the intersectionality of gender, race, and identity in the context of liberation and mental health care. Elevating queer stories and the impact of violence
The importance of allyship in various institutions
Understanding the concept of legacy and lineage within the Black community
Embracing one's identity and the significance of individual legacy

In this episode Raquel is joined by Saidah Murphy and they talk about her current mental health diagnoses of Bipolar Disorder, Anxiety Disorder, and Depression. Saidah is the CEO of SM Media Enterprise, a film, television, and podcast production company based in San Diego, CA. With this company, Saidah works to create a safe space where women of color can freely tell their stories and share them with the world.

Saidah also has a podcast entitled - Black Girls Need Love Too: A Healing Podcast   

Resources Mentioned: The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho "Whenever you want something, all the universe conspires in helping you achieve it" - Paulo Coelho

In today’s episode, we are thrilled to have Eric Capehart join us to discuss his journey from mentoring to counseling, specifically focusing on his work with boys and young men. Join us as Eric shares his experiences and the profound impact of mentorship on mental health within the Black community.

Key Discussion Points:

1. Mentorship to Counseling Transition:

   • Eric Capehart shares his pathway from mentoring to professional counseling, driven by the need to offer more substantial support to Black boys facing complex challenges.

2. Understanding Boys’ Behavioral Issues:

   • Eric discusses common behavioral issues and the critical role parents play in the lives of their children, emphasizing the importance of not giving up on them despite tough challenges.

3. The Role of Professional Support:

   • The conversation highlights the importance of having professional support in managing children’s issues, advocating for the inclusion of therapists and counselors as part of the family support system.

4. Advocacy for Conscious Parenting:

   • Eric touches on the concept of conscious parenting, urging parents to maintain involvement and support in their children’s lives to foster better emotional and psychological development.

5. Relate to Athletes Initiative:

   • Discussion about Eric’s initiative, "Relate to Athletes," which aims to provide support and resources to athletes, helping them manage pressures both on and off the field.

Guest Bio:

Eric Capehart is a mental performance consultant and certified professional coach that helps athletes overcome mental barriers and optimize their performance.

You can find Eric Capehart on Instagram and LinkedIn

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In this episode we talk to THE Candice Benbow author of Red Lip Theology: For Church Girls Who've Considered Tithing to the Beauty Supply Store When Sunday Morning Isn't Enough.  

Candice Marie Benbow is a theologian, essayist, columnist, baker, and educator whose work gives voice to Black women’s shared experiences of faith, healing, and wholeness. Named by Sojourners as one of “10 Christian Women Shaping the Church in 2020,” she has written for Essence, Glamour, The Root, VICE, Shondaland, Madame Noire, and the Me Too Movement. Candice created the “Lemonade Syllabus” social media campaign, founded the media boutique Zion Hill Media Group, and, in memory of her mother, established The LouiseMarie Foundation to support HBCU nursing students and community mental health projects. A member of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc., Candice holds degrees from Tennessee State University, North Carolina Central University, and Duke Divinity School.

If you're interested in hearing more from Candace Benbow (and you should be), you can check her out on Instagram, X, and Threads 

Welcome to another episode of "Mind Your Mental," a podcast dedicated to exploring mental health from various angles while reminding you that this show is not a substitute for professional mental health care. Today's episode is particularly special as it marks the end of Autism Awareness Month, and we're introducing a new format focusing on multifaceted discussions about specific topics.

Today's Topic:

Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) ASD is a neurodevelopmental disorder characterized by challenges in social interaction, speech, non-verbal communication, and often includes restricted or repetitive behaviors. These symptoms can vary widely among individuals, emphasizing the saying, "If you've met one person with autism, you've met one person with autism."

Amanda Seales is a comedian, multi-hyphenate, and social justice advocate, Amanda Seales has dedicated her life to creating safe spaces with her witty insightful content.  You can find her on Instagram, TikTok, and YouTube and https://www.amandaseales.com/

Elizabeth Booker Houston is a lawyer, comedian, political and social commentator, podcast host of the devil’s opposing council, and mother.  You can find her on Instagram and TikTok

Maria Davis-Pierre is the Founder and CEO of Autism in Black Inc. This organization aims to bring awareness to Autism and reduce the stigma associated with the diagnosis in the Black community. As a licensed therapist, Maria primarily works with parents to provide support through education and advocacy training. Her passion for working in the field stems from her personal journey when her daughter received the diagnosis at a very early age. You can find her on Instagram and https://www.autisminblack.org/

Dr. Hokehe Eko MD, MPH FAAP is a Board Certified Pediatrician, with 10 plus years of experience who is passionate about delivering the best possible care for your child.  She is a Tedx Speaker on ADHD. She treats ADHD and Autism by looking at the root causes and addressing physical and environmental factors so that children can go from fidgety to focused and the entire family can thrive. You can catch find her on Instagram and https://www.glowpediatrics.com/

Join the Movement: Dr. Martin invites listeners to become part of the Mind Ya Mental community, offering exclusive access to webinars, book clubs, podcasts, and a platform for connection and growth among like-minded individuals.

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Cited Articles (In order of appearance)

Ratto, A. B., Bascom, J., daVanport, S., Strang, J. F., Anthony, L. G., Verbalis, A., ... & Kenworthy, L. (2023). Centering the inner experience of autism: development of the self-assessment of autistic traits. Autism in Adulthood, 5(1), 93-105.

Overton, G.L., Marsà-Sambola, F., Martin, R. et al. Understanding the Self-identification of Autism in Adults: a Scoping Review. Rev J Autism Dev Disord (2023). https://doi.org/10.1007/s40489-023-00361-x

Lovelace, T. S., Comis, M. P., Tabb, J. M., & Oshokoya, O. E. (2021). Missing from the narrative: A seven-decade scoping review of the inclusion of black autistic women and girls in autism research. Behavior Analysis in Practice, 

In this episode, Dr. Martin discusses different ways to set more concrete goals so that you are more likely to achieve them.

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This week's guest is Miss PepperMint!  We discuss the intersection of identities, challenges faced by marginalized communities, and the importance of inclusive narratives in entertainment. We also highlight the significance of visibility, empowerment, the need for authentic representation in media and storytelling, and transgender justice.

Also, be sure to check out her tribute to Janet Jackson's songs, Together Again, If, and Rhythmn Nation on Youtube!

Speaker Bio

Miss PepperMint is an acclaimed actress and singer with notable appearances on RuPaul's Drag Race (Season 9) and Broadway's Head Over Heels where she was the first trans woman to originate a principal role. She has released six albums, including A Girl Like Me: Letters To My Lovers. Her other notable projects include roles in Netflix's Survival of the Thickest, Hulu's Fire Island, and Amazon’s Harlem.   Peppermint is an influential LGBTQ+ advocate, and she was the ACLU’s first Artist Ambassador for Trans Justice.  Peppermint has received numerous accolades, including a GLAAD Media Award nomination.  You can check out her out on Instagram , YouTube and https://www.peppermintonline.com/

In this episode Dr. Martin is joined by Dr. Jonathan Schettino, licensed psychologist and they talk about Agoraphobia and Social Anxiety Disorder.  Dr.  Schettino specializes in cognitive behavioral therapy for depression and anxiety and also enjoys working with clients regarding relationship difficulties, identity and phase-of-life concerns, career counseling, workplace stress and burnout, and men's issues.  He can be found at http://www.psychforward.com/

Resource mentioned:

Sapiens: A Brief History of Mankind by Yuval Noah Harari

In this insightful episode, we explore the critical role of setting and respecting personal boundaries, particularly in the context of intergenerational relationships and conversations that may not always be understood by others. The episode sheds light on the complexities of communication within families and the importance of asserting one's needs in a respectful and clear manner.

Key Takeaways from the Episode:

1. Importance of Setting Boundaries:

   • Acknowledging and respecting personal boundaries is crucial for maintaining mental well-being. It's vital to recognize when you're not in the right space for a conversation, even if it means pausing a discussion with a family member who may perceive this as disrespect.

2. Communication in Relationships:

   • Effective communication is essential, especially when it involves setting boundaries with those who might not understand them. Explaining your needs clearly—like needing to pause a heated conversation for the sake of both parties' mental health—is an important skill.

3. Handling Resistance to Boundaries:

   • Often, attempts to set boundaries can be met with resistance, particularly from older generations or those in authoritative roles who may interpret them as disrespectful. It's important to stand firm and communicate your needs respectfully and clearly.

4. Self-Care and Boundaries:

   • Prioritizing self-care by setting boundaries is not an act of selfishness but a necessity for maintaining one's health. It's important to ensure that you're in the right mental state to engage in conversations that require emotional energy.

5. Educating Others on Boundaries:

   • Part of setting boundaries effectively involves educating those around you why they are necessary and beneficial for healthy relationships. This might involve discussing the impact of mental fatigue and the importance of being fully present in interactions.

Guest Bio:

Nedra Glover Tawwab is the author of the New York Times bestsellers Drama Free and Set Boundaries, Find Peace. A licensed therapist and sought-after relationship expert, she has practiced relationship therapy for more than fifteen years. Tawwab has appeared as an expert on Red Table Talk, The Breakfast Club, Good Morning America, and CBS Morning Show to name a few. Her work has been highlighted in The New York Times, The Guardian, and Vice, and has appeared on numerous podcasts, including The School of Greatness, We Can Do Hard Things, and Ten Percent Happier. Tawwab runs a popular Instagram account where she shares practices, tools, and reflections for mental health and relationships. She lives in Charlotte, North Carolina, with her family.

In today’s episode, we are thrilled to have the incredibly talented Amber Wallin with us. Amber, known for her wit and masterful use of humor, engages in a candid conversation about the transformative power of laughter, the challenges of embracing change in a constantly evolving digital landscape, and the art of improvisation in everyday life. Join us as we explore the intersection of humor and mental health, the importance of staying open to new experiences, and the journey of personal growth amidst the feedback frenzy of the internet

Key Discussion Points:

• The Power of Humor: Amber shares insights into how humor can serve as a coping mechanism and a way to address and navigate personal and societal issues.
• Openness to Change: The conversation explores the resistance to change many face and the importance of being open to new ideas and perspectives for personal growth.
• The Role of Improvisation: Amber attributes her adaptability and quick thinking to her background in improvisation, highlighting its value in both personal and professional interactions.
• Navigating Feedback and Growth: Both Amber and the host discuss the challenges of receiving and utilizing feedback, particularly from family members who have historically been seen as knowledge keepers.
• Dealing with Trolls and Negative Feedback: Amber shares her experiences dealing with online negativity and the importance of distinguishing between constructive criticism and dismissive or harmful comments.
• Encouraging Authentic Self-expression: The episode emphasizes the importance of being true to oneself, taking risks, and using one’s unique experiences and traits as strengths.

Bio:

Amber Wallin is a comedian, host, and improviser who’s performed on The Second City and The Annoyance Theatre stages in Chicago. She’s amassed over a million followers on TikTok and Instagram where she annoys her family, sings to her indoor plants, and creates characters inspired by her wig collection.

You can find Amber Wallin on Instagram and TikTok

Join the Movement: Dr. Martin invites listeners to become part of the Mind Ya Mental community, offering exclusive access to webinars, book clubs, podcasts, and a platform for connection and growth among like-minded individuals.

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In this episode, we dive into the world of hostile workplaces, reflecting on how our interactions mirror our beliefs about the divine. It’s vital to correct our wrongs, recognizing the divine spark in each of us.

We're covering:

• The church’s influence on the Black community, acting as a sanctuary for many but also a source of pain for some.
• The unique challenges Black women face in religious and broader community spaces.
• The importance of confronting and healing from personal and shared wounds.
• The danger of spiritual bypassing within our community.
• And how embracing God through love and compassion urges us to treat everyone with dignity and respect.

Candice Marie Benbow is a theologian, essayist, columnist, baker, and educator whose work gives voice to Black women’s shared experiences of faith, healing, and wholeness. Named by Sojourners as one of “10 Christian Women Shaping the Church in 2020,” she has written for Essence, Glamour, The Root, VICE, Shondaland, Madame Noire, and the Me Too Movement. Candice created the “Lemonade Syllabus” social media campaign, founded the media boutique Zion Hill Media Group, and, in memory of her mother, established The LouiseMarie Foundation to support HBCU nursing students and community mental health projects. A member of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc., Candice holds degrees from Tennessee State University, North Carolina Central University, and Duke Divinity School.

If you're interested in hearing more from Candace Benbow (and you should be), you can check her out on Instagram, X, and Threads 

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In this episode, Dr. Martin talks about the different stages of change and how these stages impact your motivation.  

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