Men, Sex & Tantra (Tanja Diamond)

The Journey Begins - Men, Sex, and Tantra is all about masculine empowerment. Join us while we explore topics, related to sex, women, intimacy, relationships, and Tantra, and leave you with practical to-do's.

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Being confident as a man is a big deal… both to men AND women.

But… have you ever stopped to wonder what confidence actually is? Especially when it comes to sexual confidence.

Tanja and Robert dove into this topic today. These episodes are concise. Today is only 15 minutes.

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This week’s episode has to do with the sexual education we received as boys. Some boys grew up in an overly sexualized environment where porn, women, and sex may have been overly encouraged, while others of us were raised amongst layers of shame and secrecy.

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This week Tanja and Robert talk about sex… specifically, what does it mean to have ENOUGH sex, and what does it mean to have GOOD sex.

Well… what does it mean to you?

Take a listen and let us know in the comments.

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Do you truly appreciate and adore women?

Many men think they do, but secretly they are harboring pain or resentment toward women, and this ends up creating distance between you and what you want. (and what women want!)

Listen to today’s episode to get a more clear picture of what you’ve been doing (or not doing) to create the reality of your love life.

What energy do you bring to your connections with women? Does it close or repel them? Or magnetize them to you?


This episode goes deep into how you can create the experiences that you want with women in your life.

Most men we talk to believe that when it comes to dating and sex, looks matter to women.

Do you think that’s true? Or untrue?

In today’s episode, Tanja and Robert unpack the reality of male physical appearance, and what you can do to become the sexiest version of yourself.

What IS sexual trauma?

Most people think of it as an overt act of violence that only a few men experience, but the truth is much different than that.

Join Tanja and Robert as we explore exactly what sexual trauma can look like for different men, and why you should care.

“Intimacy” can be a confusing word for many men.

When a woman says she wants more of it, what exactly does this mean, and how can you provide that for her?

What happens when there is more intimacy in a relationship?

Better sex, and more passion, fulfillment, and ease… to name just a few.

Even if you think you have a good grasp on what intimacy means, in this episode, you’ll learn how to create even more of it, and elevate your connection to the next level.

Tanja takes on a new cohost for season 2 of Men, Sex and Tantra

Do you feel unattractive? There are people, especially teenagers who want to make out with somebody but have trouble and fear rejection.

In this episode let us define and understand involuntary celibacy.

Why is it happening and how to deal with it?

Is there such a perfect size? There can be the truth about this as part of an individual’s sexual preference.

But it is possible that something is missing which should be considered in order to achieve that orgasm and experience.

Let’s find out more as we listen to this week’s episode.

Should a man really lead in a relationship? It's the popular thing to say and it's certainly the societal norm to promote... but why?

Are you premature during sex? It's a topic men have on their minds a lot and it's the #1 topic men want to talk about when they hire me for sex coaching. Come find out what our take on it is and why you might be surprised at what you hear.

Are you masculine enough? It's a question that gets debated by men and women all over social media. Who gets to decide? What's with all this polarity stuff. Come find out what Michael and I have to say.

In this episode, Tanja introduces her new co-host for season 3, John Herbert, and how they met.

John talks about his amazing experiences and wonderful journey and how his career changed from one to another bringing him to what he is today.

Let’s join them as they bring us on a new journey of life-changing talks and topics.

There are a lot of reasons for frustrations in a relationship and why men don’t feel like talking about it.

In this episode, Tanja and John Herbert shared tips and explained the need for men to take that step to have the awareness to share their feelings and thoughts through conversation.

Are you looking for a date or a relationship online?

You may be thinking of how to make yourself look good and attractive on your social media profile to let them know your personality and create an impression.

Let’s find out what Tanja and John have to say.

Can men keep their words?

The honesty and truthfulness of men in their thoughts and actions… This is what women count on.

But let’s listen more, as Tanja and John Herbert talk about this topic.

Can our sexual desires go wrong?

We have our own sexual desires which are programmed into us. But it should not lead to porn but to a feeling of satisfaction and love.

Let’s have a clearer understanding as Tanja and John discuss more of this.

Do you believe that you need sexual healing?

In this episode, Tanja and John talk about how important to go through the programs and lessons to achieve sexual healing which is not only for those who had sexual trauma but for all individuals who are seeking a great sexual relationship of love and intimacy with their partner.

Welcome my new season 4 co-host Ean Wood as we explore the topic of your ideas about your sexual self and brussel sprouts. (Seriously, brussel sprouts are the bomb).

Ean takes on a story he hasn't talked about in public before because you know I like to tackle the edgy stuff!

Tanja and Ean check out the visual aspect of sexuality and explore the idea that using your vision for picking partners as well as self satisfaction could indeed be making you blind to possibilities.

Tanja and Ean dive into overstimulation outside of bedroom wreaks havoc on your sex life and what to do about it.

Tanja and Ean could go head to head on this one - The topic of cuming as a medication tool, good or bad? And what about all the pleasure you're shorting yourself...

Tanja and Ean go deep into the topic of "taking" from women even if you think you are a selfless lover and giving her what she needs.

We hear the word embodiment thrown around a lot in spiritual communities and neo Tantra spaces, but what does it really mean and how can you take advantage of the power of it in your life. It's not the woo woo when you get down to it.

In fact knowing about it and embodying it, LOL, leads to a much better sex life.

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Every good lover understands it's all about your putting your partner first, right. Or is it?
The art of receiving well is a vital component to increasing your pleasure and your partner's pleasure.
Super-charge your sex life.

Yes you read that right!
In what's sure to be one of the most talked about and share episodes, the art of recieving a blow job is vital information!
Many men are just getting it all wrong and we're here to change all that.

Ah kissing... Did you know some people won't date you again if you don't kiss well? Well we're here to stop that from happening. The art of kissing is an essential skill to help you become the master lover you want to be!!

When we say turned on we mean more than just being horny. We mean full life turn on that makes taking a breath orgasmic... yep

Introduction to Ed Coambs a financial intimacy expert. Money and sex are linked in ways you might not expect, come check it out.
Find out more about Ed here www.healthyloveandmoney.com

Can you get financially naked with your partner? Your money story impacts your sex life and we want to show you how to make sure it affects it on a good way.

Are you a saver and righteous about it? Are you a spender and feel you're way is the right way to live? Find out how your ideas about the right way to do IT (and we do mean sex and money) are keeping you from having the best sex you can.

I wanted to do something different this season and pull back the curtain on what women wished you knew, so I made a post on my FB page and asked women to come and speak candidly about men, dating, and sex.

I had no idea what we were going to talk about before we started so these next few episodes should be very interesting, no editing, totally off the cuff! These women are from different countries and are of different ages, so pay attention to what they say and let's find out if there is a theme going on. Today we talk with Mandy.

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I wanted to do something different this season and pull back the curtain on what women wished you knew, so I made a post on my FB page and asked women to come and speak candidly about men, dating, and sex.

I had no idea what we were going to talk about before we started so these next few episodes should be very interesting, no editing, totally off the cuff! These women are from different countries and are of different ages, so pay attention to what they say and let's find out if there is a theme going on. Today we talk with Sasha.

For a low introductory coaching call, click here
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I wanted to do something different this season and pull back the curtain on what women wished you knew, so I made a post on my FB page and asked women to come and speak candidly about men, dating, and sex.

I had no idea what we were going to talk about before we started so these next few episodes should be very interesting, no editing, totally off the cuff! These women are from different countries and are of different ages, so pay attention to what they say and let's find out if there is a theme going on. Today we talk with Judy.

For a low introductory coaching call, click here
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I wanted to do something different this season and pull back the curtain on what women wished you knew, so I made a post on my FB page and asked women to come and speak candidly about men, dating, and sex.

I had no idea what we were going to talk about before we started so these next few episodes should be very interesting, no editing, totally off the cuff! These women are from different countries and are of different ages, so pay attention to what they say and let's find out if there is a theme going on. Today we talk with Tina

For a low introductory coaching call, click here
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I wanted to do something different this season and pull back the curtain on what women wished you knew, so I made a post on my FB page and asked women to come and speak candidly about men, dating, and sex.

I had no idea what we were going to talk about before we started so these next few episodes should be very interesting, no editing, totally off the cuff! These women are from different countries and are of different ages, so pay attention to what they say and let's find out if there is a theme going on. Today we talk with Amber.

For a low introductory coaching call, click here
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I wanted to do something different this season and pull back the curtain on what women wished you knew, so I made a post on my FB page and asked women to come and speak candidly about men, dating, and sex.

I had no idea what we were going to talk about before we started so these next few episodes should be very interesting, no editing, totally off the cuff! These women are from different countries and are of different ages, so pay attention to what they say and let's find out if there is a theme going on. Today we talk with Diane.

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Do you buy into the Seduction community BS? Tanja takes this episode on solo to talk about why what you know about getting sex and love might be all wrong

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Faking Orgasms, why do women do this, and can men really tell? I think it's pretty sad women do this at the alarming rate they do AND how we can all make a difference in how we approach sex so they don't feel they need to.

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We hear about this so-called "spark" but what is it really? Sexual chemistry is not about how someone looks, or a good reason to have a relationship. Understanding sexual chemistry and how it works is vital to a good sex life.

Questions you want me to answer email me Tanja@tanjadiamond.com

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I get a lot of questions about sexual compatibility and what it really means. It is definitely important but one of the things that can usually be worked on in a relationship. Sadly most people don't give it much thought until it causes problems for them.

Questions - email me Tanja@tanjadiamond.com

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Today I have a new guest with me and his moniker is the Intellectual Sniper, or sniper for short. We are dropping into the world of dating, confidence, nice guys, Bar Kings, and more over the next 5 episodes.

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Tanja and Sniper get real about the life of a Bar King and the upside and downsides of this way of scoring women. Are you or so you want to be a King of the Bar scene? Check this out!'

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Dating and especially that first date can be harrowing. What are some of the best do's and don't when it comes to making the date great? Well, I found out a surprising question every man should ask before the first date in this episode. Sniper and Tanja dive into the dating scene.

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Sniper and Tanja dive into masculine confidence. Sniper says it's the #1 thing men want to know about and don't want to talk to women about.

I certainly get a lot of phone calls from men about it and so I would say men might not want to talk to their interests about it, but they want to know from the pros, men or women who work with men on this topic.

Confidence is sexy and we are going to let you in on some ways to get more of it.

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What is a nice guy? Why do we think nice guys should finish last? Because they are actually dangerous.
Lean in and find out the difference between nice and kind and why one is what women are looking for and the other is what we all hope to avoid.

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Yep, they say every man does it, and it's no big deal, but internet porn is causing so many problems in the bedroom. It's being cited as a big reason for divorces as well. Come hang out and find out the true cost of internet porn.

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What if sex were just an activity, like going to the zoo. Imagine a world where you could say, Hey, want to go to the zoo, and your partner was like... naw it's kinda cold and rainy, I'll stay home> You were totally ok with that and went to the zoo on your own, and everyone was ok.

Let's check it out... we need to have a more light-hearted approach to sex, just sayin'

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Tantra, Tantra, Tantra, so misunderstood and misused. Let's get clarity, shall we?

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We talked about Tantra last time; let's talk about Tantric sex and get that clear. Is it all medications, eye gazing, and long orgasms, or??

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Tanja Talks with a new guest, Michiel Doorn, from 2nd Life Strategies.

Tanja and Michiel get together, have some laughs, and talk about a piece of Michiel's Nobel Peace prize, his mission, and some ego banter.

Michiel Doorn has authored numerous publications and two books, one in Dutch and one in English: The Mantis and the Mirror. A gifted speaker and teacher who has lectured at two universities, Michiel writes and speaks in understandable and inclusive ways, making complex topics simple but not simplistic.

MIchiel Doorn can be found at https://the2nd.life/

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Tanja and Michiel get real about how European men and American men differ regarding dating, women, and life.

Although you might find this hard to listen to at times, I believe it's critical to understand the dynamics as a man you might be missing.

I'd love to know what you think. Are American men Man Babies?

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Tanja and Michiel tackle polarity because, face it, there can never be enough times we talk about it! So much confusion surrounds the topic, and I think things are getting more extreme and not helping anyone.

MIchiel Doorn can be found at https://the2nd.life/

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Tanja and Michiel talk about women and what they want. Call this the Euro version because here we get into the fact being friends is NOT a bad thing and the real meanings behind trust, connection, and intimacy.

I've seen men and women struggle with the definitions of these seemingly simple words, so we get into it.

MIchiel Doorn can be found at https://the2nd.life/

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I have a new guest with me Darshan Gregory, and we tackle the topic of Sacred Masculinity.

You know how I tend to get picky when it comes to spiritual words just thrown around like we all know what they mean? So check out what happens with the topic of Sacred Masculinity because most of the time, people can't explain what they mean by these terms, which seem unattainable.

You can contact Darshan at heartspace33healing@yahoo.com or find him on FB https://www.facebook.com/darshan.gregory.333


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Tanja and Darshan believe men can be clueless, but this is a societal and programming problem, not a lack of caring on men's part.

Between childhood programming, societal pressures, and ignorance, as a man, you will have to WANT to change things if they aren't working for you.

Here are some practical tools to get you started to a better life and sex.

Find Darshan at heartspace33healing.com and on FB at https://www.facebook.com/darshan.gregory.333

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Tanja and Darshan wrap up Sacred masculinity with why you want to access your feelings with a nice little incentive; it's called Feeling MORE sexual and other pleasure.

Yes, the 15-30 seconds of pleasure you feel now called ejaculation is such a paltry amount of pleasure you have access to!!

Get in the know, increase her desire, your desire, and find out why we get excited about the outcomes... no pun intended.

Find Darshan at heartspace33healing@yahoo.com or FB https://www.facebook.com/darshan.gregory.333

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Tanja's new guest is James Deirmendjian https://www.facebook.com/fightfitt

Philosopher, and founder of Fit Fight Training, James is a sports-performance coach for BJJ fighters and first responders.

I invited him to the show because he had some exciting things to say about men, desire, and aggression... and some pretty fancy vocabulary to boot.

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James D and Tanja dive into the idea of the Irish proverb, “You don't give a man a weapon until you've taught him how to dance.”

There are so many instances where this is applicable, and of course, sex is one of them. Do you use your penis as a weapon.?.. Learning to balance empty and full is the name of the game.

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Life doesn't always give you a break or even provide you with what you want. Dealing with challenges can leave you feeling angry and frustrated, blaming others for those feelings. The inability to deal with these negative feelings will impact your relationships and career.
Rejection can be crippling, and we talk about strategies to make sure it doesn't stop you.

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It seems straightforward that your family relationships impacted your intimacy abilities, but maybe you have never seen how. James D lets us in on how the relationship with his brother impacted his dating and sex life. A very candid and vulnerable share and interesting look into the complexity of relating.

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Join me and my new guest, Strider John Peterson, as we explore masculine containment. How to show up as a protective man and not be confused about what that means. Create safety when protecting.

Reach Strider here https://linktr.ee/striderjohnpeterson

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Erotic Authenticity - Strider and Tanja break down what this means. Tanja believes that just because it feels good doesn't mean you should do it—what does it mean to be erotically authentic? There is a lot of juice in this episode.

To contact Strider https://linktr.ee/striderjohnpeterson

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Energetic Ethics? What the heck is that when it comes to objectification? Strider has a 5-second rule of looking at someone, and Tanja gets into the nitty gritty of checking someone else out at the gym.

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Shibari is the ancient Japanese art of tying knots. Strider is a fan, and this episode has some twists and turns as Tanja weaves the episode into some other considerations when entering the kink world.

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Lukasz Darmosz is Tanja's new guest, and the conversation about tattoos, energy, hidden messages in water, and the intention you carry surprises them both.

Lukasz can be found IG @lukdraki
Website www.lukaszdarmosz.com

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Lukasz and Tanja take a trip to fairyland. Fairyland is the new age blissed-out scene where spiritual seekers go to live in ungrounded unconditional love and high vibration.
Is it a great place to hang out? Or should you avoid it at all costs?

IG @lukdraki
Website www.lukaszdarmosz.com

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Lukasz and Tanja tackle the real reason you are flagging in the sex department. How you are inadvertently tanking your testosterone and sex life and what to do about it. Phylates are a big culprit, along with soy and deodorant.

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Website www.lukaszdarmosz.com

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Lukasz and Tanja discuss sexual empowerment and the poly world. Do you need to be sexually open to lots of sex and people to be liberated and sexually healthy? You might be surprised at what two very sex-positive people have to say about it.

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Website www.lukaszdarmosz.com

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Hey lovebirds and laughter lovers! 🎙️ Tanja here, and boy, do I have a treat for you! In this episode, we dive into the wild ride of balancing dating, intimacy, and marriage. We chat about those hilarious six-minute comedy sets (yeah, I’m an amateur comedian now!), and the joys and challenges of setting outrageous goals like climbing the Empire State Building.

Ever felt like your dreams were met with a chorus of “Are you crazy?” from friends and family? We get it. Join me as I break down all the complicated stuff, share some laughs, and give you a sneak peek into my new program that’s already got 24 amazing people on board.

It’s casual, it’s fun, and it’s all about living your best life, even if it feels like pure craziness sometimes. So grab your favorite drink, sit back, and let’s dive into the fun and chaos of love, life, and chasing dreams together!

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Meet Alberto Bercich who's becoming a Neo Tantra Certifued Coach in my Program.
He reveals why he's doing it and what he has learned in the process. 

Lots of gems dropped in this episode

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Hit me up to be a guest on the show, no need to be a men's coach or sex expert, just be a man who needs info and wants to share. Tanja@tanjadiamond.com 

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Alberto is with me again and we are tackling the self love dilema. What actually is it and how do you make it happen? 

There are 4 pillars to self love, self commitement, self trust, self respect and self love. Explore the way to fall in love with yourself and why it matters.

Hit me up to be a guest on the show, no need to be a men's coach or sex expert, just be a man who needs info and wants to share. Tanja@tanjadiamond.com 
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What is the difference between addiction and strategies? Are your strategies working for you or hurting you. Alberto discusses his journey through different addictions.


Hit me up to be a guest on the show, no need to be a men's coach or sex expert, just be a man who needs info and wants to share. Tanja@tanjadiamond.com 
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My guest today is Farren West, one of my friends and clients. He shares his path since his divorce 5 years ago and how he was stuck in the nice guy space and suffered unhappiness for many years. 

Hit me up to be a guest on the show, no need to be a men's coach or sex expert, just be a man who needs info and wants to share. Tanja@tanjadiamond.com 
Tanja's Last Longer For Sex Program can be found here lastlongerforsex.com
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