Les Chat Podcast - LGBTQ+ - Lesbian Latinas (LGBTQ+ Podcast by Jojo & Dayra)
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| 19 Jun 2023 | 69. The Ultimatum: Queer Love | 01:14:44 | |
We couldn't let pride month go by without out deep diving into the most popular Netflix queer reality series "THE ULTIMATUM: QUEER LOVE"!! Yes, we FINALLY discuss our thoughts on the original 5 couples, the trail couples, and the all the drama in between up until the reunion. DISCLAIMER this episode is a huge spoiler alert so if you have not yet watched or finished watching this series we suggest you do that first and tune back into this episode. Also, if you're looking to close out this pride month with a night to remember then come join us in NYC for the very last pride month celebration!! Click the link below for details on the NYC Pride Event! Link to NYC Pride Party: CLICK HERE Family meeting: 1. "I've been with my girlfriend for 2 years but we haven't be sexually intimate". 2. "My girlfriend recently told me that she want to experiment with other people and that she may never want to come out". Please rate, review, and subscribe to or follow the podcast on Apple, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts. FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:
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| 13 Jun 2022 | 22. Coming Out Later In Life Ft Kristin | 00:58:04 | |
It's never too late to do the things that make you happy even if you have to take a few losses along the way. We invited Kristin Holden on to the podcast to share her experience in what it’s like coming out in her 30's. Although it hasn’t been an easy process with telling family and friends, she still manages to find her peace and courage to live as her truest self. Kristin also shares some super helpful tips on what it take to live life on the road as a van lifer herself!
Family Meeting Questions
“I guess you can count me as a “baby gay”. I’m starting to date again but it’s been hard. My level of experience puts people off. Do you have any advice on how to overcome this?”
“Should I confront my homophobic mother?”
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| 31 Jan 2022 | 2. Two Moms Are Better Than One | 00:35:21 | |
Join us while we welcome our two good friends Joyce and Oceanna to the Les Chat podcast. Oceanna shares her story of not only coming out to her family after meeting her girlfriend Joyce, but also introducting the idea of two moms to her son. Joyce expresses how although she didn't necessarily plan to date someone with a child she couldn't be more grateful to be apart of Oceanna and her son's life. They explain in detail of how being a parent can be quite the hardship in a relationship but with a little adjustment and priorizing it can be done.
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| 11 Jul 2022 | 25. Lesbians W/ Anxiety FT Jaime Filer | 00:54:53 | |
LGBTQ+ individuals are more than twice as likely as heterosexual men and women to have a mental health disorder in their lifetime… In this episode we talk about mental and physical health with personal coach/trainer Jaime Filer who has over 118,000 followers on social media! Jaime helps LGBTQ+ women integrate their physical and mental health to decrease anxiety.. We discuss living with anxiety as an LGBTQ+ person and what we can do to support a loved one who suffers from anxiety. We dive into…
You can follow Jaime Filer on IG/Tiktok
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| 20 May 2024 | 102. Coming Out At Work | 00:44:36 | |
In ep 102, we dive deep into the experience of coming out at work, whether as gay, lesbian, bisexual, trans, or any other identity within the LGBTQ+ spectrum. Join us as we explore personal stories of coming out at work, shedding light on the challenges and triumphs. PRIDE NOCHE LATINA NYC TICKETS: https://lasreinas.ticketleap.com/pridenochelatina/t/leschatlatinpride/ - EARLY BIRD TICKETS UNTIL 5/31 Family Meeting 1. "I was dating this girl, I ended up finding out she was the girlfriend (now ex) to Salice Rose, ( a popular influencer)". 2. "My friends girl came up to me saying she found me very attractive and would try to make a move on me.." FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA:
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| 06 Mar 2023 | 56. Green Flags | 00:59:10 | |
Red flags are the signs telling us to proceed with caution and that we're playing at our own risk. Sometimes those red flags are actually telling us that it maybe it’s time to let the relationship go. Although it's usually easier to notice all the negative things that we experience, sometimes we just have to remind ourselves of all the positive things too. In this episode Dayra and Jojo tap into that positivity by discussing "Green Flags" when it comes to dating/relationships. They give examples of what they seek as green flags when dating someone such as good family connections, self awareness, acceptance of presentation, respectful of pronouns etc. Family Meeting: 1. “I caught my girlfriend sexting another girl.” 2. “How do I get over the fear of approaching my crush?” https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ PROMO CODE: LES10 FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:
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| 23 Oct 2023 | 84. Should We Take A Break? | 01:04:50 | |
Relationship breaks are perceived as a negative and selfish act. How can you claim to love your partner but want a break from your relationship? Most times one partner wants to take a break while the other partner doesn’t because it is viewed as one foot out the door to a break up. Taking a break in a relationship has a negative stigma because their purpose is never used in a positive way. In this episode we give reasons to why relationship breaks do not work, we share our personal experiences with breaks, and 5 rules to a healthy relationship break. Family Meeting: 1. "How can I get past putting other people's sexual pleasure before my own? I just want someone who wants to please me as much as I want to please them." 2. "I'm in a relationship with an amazing man. However, I'm confused and struggling with my sexuality." FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:
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| 20 Feb 2023 | 54. Muralist Artist goes on Reality TV - FT Melanie Posner | 00:49:18 | |
In today’s episode we have Melanie Posner, muralist and artist. Her name rings a bell because she was part of the reality tv show Tampa Baes from Amazon Prime Video. The show was inspired by The Real L Word! In this episode we talk about.
Tiktok Reference:https://www.tiktok.com/@therealmelpoz/video/7133654642830953770 Unfortunately, we did not answer any family meeting questions in this episode!
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| 24 Apr 2023 | 63. A Queer Baecation | 00:55:30 | |
A vacation is good for the soul and for the relationship. In episode #63 we dive into BAECATIONS! Listen, WE NEED A BAECATION so we’re just gonna reminisce but we also want to talk about our travel experience as a queer couple and everything you need to know before booking that baecation.
We dive into our traveling personality, when it’s too early to book that baecation, how often couples should go on vacation, as well as.
Safe places to travel for LGBTQ couples - Link
The worst places to travel for LGBTQ couples (There are 64 countries that have laws that criminalize homosexuality, and nearly half of these are in Africa. - link)
Family Meeting Q&A’s
Christianity/Religion & being LGBTQ+: My partner feels as if she cannot be bisexual and also a Christian.
Are we breaking up? “Lately I’ve been feeling like I want to break up with my girlfriend”.
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| 10 Oct 2022 | 36. Humor Is Oxygen | 01:03:40 | |
In this episode we discuss humor.. When asked what you want in a partner the most common answer besides physical attraction is someone that is funny! Most people don't share the same sense of humor or even know their/ partners humor type. Although humor isn’t the sole purpose of laughter, having the same understanding of what brings that sense of joy/ laughter helps to bond couples. We discuss the 9 different types of humor. We also list some big lesbian comedians and go into why some comedians are depressed and the sad clown paradox. We dive into..
Family Meeting Questions
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| 15 Jul 2024 | 108. Fem VS Femme | 00:42:06 | |
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In this episode, we dive into the nuances of LGBTQ+ terminology and culture. We start by examining the term "Golden Retriever Masc".
We explore how "femme" differs from "fem," its significance in various LGBTQ+ spaces, and its diverse subcategories, such as High Femme, Hard Femme, Femme Top, and Stone Femme.
Family Meeting
1. “I’ve been with my girlfriend for 3 years officially but romantically 5 years. She told me it’s hard to see the future meaning marriage because of her parents…”
2. “I slept w/a guy & now I’m 4 months pregnant”
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| 04 Apr 2022 | 12. Shady Business | 01:00:34 | |
In a world full of imperfection we know that NO ONE is perfect! Have you ever played or treated someone bad and then felt bad about it after? Has anyone done any shady things to you? In this episode we talk about our experiences and tell your our dirty little *secrets*.
Also, WHAT is considered a hoe phase do you think it’s necessary? Dayra says yes it’s essential! Lastly, If you came with a warning label what would it say? Warning labels would save us a lot of time when it comes to the dating scene!
FAMILY MEETING Q’s & A’s
When did you know you were lesbian? 49:15 (We also talk about this in EP1)
Have you ever been with a girl during seggs she says “get me pregnant”, What is your response?” 53:39
"Whats your opinion when a girl with 2 kids is lesbian?” 55:27 (Watch EP2)
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| 16 May 2022 | 18. Unpacking The U-haul | 01:07:15 | |
Lesbians are known to u-haul in a short time span! However, when is it an appropriate time to move in together? What are the common problems couples encounter after moving in together? How does living together affect the relationship? In this episode we discuss OUR story of living together. We talk about finances, chores, boundaries, pet peeves, alone time, etc! We end it with family Q&A’s and would you rather!
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| 08 May 2023 | 65. Stigma's About The LGBTQ+ Community | 01:06:53 | |
Why are there so many stigmas towards the LGBTQ+ community? I’m sure we’ve all heard the following statements...
And many more! Before the 1970s, most stereotypes about the LGBTQ+ community were extremely negative, doctors believed if you were gay, you suffered from a mental disorder. In 1973, the American Psychiatric Association removed homosexuality as a mental disorder, but then replaced it with "sexual orientation disturbance." Then in 1987, the (DSM) Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders removed homosexuality from their list. We also dive into stigmas regarding HIV. For as long as HIV has existed in the public eye, it has been associated with the LGBTQ+ community. We are excited to share that we are partnering up with The Black Aids Institute. The Black Aids institute is dedicated to ending the HIV/AIDS epidemic in the Black community. Some of you may be thinking to yourself “HIV doesn’t affect me because I’m a lesbian who dates women only”. However, today there are more than 1.1 million people living with HIV in the U.S and 23% of them are women. HIV affects women of color, especially black women. This is an important reminder to get tested and to get that HIV vaccine once it comes out, we’re manifesting it will be very soon! Family Meeting Q&A
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| 12 Dec 2022 | 45. Society's Beauty Standards | 00:56:41 | |
40 percent of America’s lgbtq+ community say they've been rejected by family members or close friends at some point in their lives due to their sexual orientation or gender identity. In this weeks episode we get into beauty and how we see ourselves. We also dive into… - Plastic surgery - Influence culture and how social media affects our idea of beauty. - Self esteem/confidence BEDUCATED * http://beducate.me/pd2250-leschat * Get 40% off the yearly pass * Try all the Beducated courses for 1 day free * New giftcard announcement! * Coupon Code: LESCHAT FAMILY MEETING QUESTIONS * “I recently came out as lesbian in 2018. I started dating a girl the same year and we have been together for 4 years now, which is my first girl relationship. I love her but I’m not in love with her.“ * “Some people just lie so much they cant keep up with their own lies” SUBSCRIBE TO OUR PATREON! * https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA: * IG: https://instagram.com/les.chatpodcast? igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= * TIKTOK:https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTdKotfRe/ * YOUTUBE: https://youtube.com/channel/UCD9hhixfHxSfcGZQFUw6CAQ TROVATRIP LINK: - https://trips.trovatrip.com/trips/costa-rica-with-les-chat-mar-2023 https://linktr.ee/leschat | |||
| 14 Oct 2024 | 115. Ex Girlfriend Drama | 00:45:18 | |
Join us this week as we recap Dayra's unforgettable birthday festivities and celebrate the WNBA's hot season. We’ll also share highlights from our family meeting questions and end with a fun “Who’s Most Likely To” segment. Tune in for laughs, our regular complaints and some insights. FAMILY MEETING
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| 11 Mar 2024 | 95. Questioning My Sexuality | 01:06:20 | |
Curiosity is heavy during our teenage years because we’re trying to find our identity. Those are the years where we are introduced to friendships, relationships, sex, and maybe even questioning our sexuality. As we get older we still learn how to navigate through all those things because no matter how old we are we still find ourselves searching for our identities as we continue to grow. - Is sexuality a spectrum? - Do you have to limit yourself to a label? - Is it because of growing up in a heteronormative society? Family meeting: 1. " I was with a guy/married for 10 years, came out as gay a year ago & left him. Since being out of that relationship, I have realized that he is a huge narcissist and emotionally abused me. He used to say I had saggy boobs to the point I had a breast reduction, big thighs, big arms, etc." 2. "I feel like I am being tested in my life/career. I just graduated with my masters degree & started a new job but I have never felt so lost and alone than I do right now."
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| 28 Feb 2022 | 7. Meeting Your Partners Family/Friends | 00:28:19 | |
When should your partner meet your friends? Do you introduce all your relationships to your family and friends? Do you get invited to go on your partners “girls” trip or “boys trip” If so, do you go? Does your family have a preference on who you marry?
These are all the questions we discuss in this episode! We talk about old relationships and how we navigated it.
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| 18 Jul 2022 | 26. Coping with Grief | 01:00:11 | |
Grief is expressed differently across different cultures. Some people like to be expressive and public with their emotions, while others like to keep grief private. In this episode we talk about our personal experiences with grief and how we coped with it. We discuss, - How can grief help/ allow us to grow? - When should you seek help for your grief? - How to cope with grief? Family Meeting Questions 1. When is there a “good time” to ask about grooming habits before we take that step and get intimate- while not offending her or killing the mood. 2.Dating tips and what it's like now to date? 3. Where am I supposed to meet someone special if all the dating apps are just for hooking up? Dont forget to like, comment, share, and subscribe! Follow us on instagram and tiktok @Les.ChatPodcast for more content! —————————————————————— FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA: IG: https://instagram.com/les.chatpodcast?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTdKotfRe/ YOUTUBE: https://youtube.com/channel/UCD9hhixfHxSfcGZQFUw6CAQ | |||
| 08 Apr 2024 | 98. Deep Convos & Medellin Adventures | 00:56:43 | |
Join us on this episode #98 as we reminisce about our unforgettable family trip to Medellin, Colombia. From exploring, eating and dancing to an unexpected event turned our trip into a rollercoaster ride – one of us ended up in the hospital, not once, but twice! As we talk about our highs and lows of our Medellin adventure, we delve into deep questions that would be perfect for first dates. Some of them were…
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| 06 Jun 2022 | 21. HAPPY PRIDE MONTH | 01:00:38 | |
Pride month is here and in full effect!!! Excited to celebrate an entire month full of gay festivities where we get to be our gayest selves, share an abundant amount of love, meet new fellow queer friends and give all the "YASSS BITCHHH" compliments until our voice is gone. We can't forget the people who fought the fight that got us to this point. In this episode we give a little bit of the story behind pride and how it all started as well as share how pride impacts us today.
Family meeting Q&A:
1. “Allowing your partner to heal after a traumatic experience”
2. “Have you guys talked about wanting kids? And if so, who would carry the baby?”
3. “My brother wants my gf, what should I do??” —————————————————————
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| 28 Mar 2022 | 11. Life After Heartbreak | 01:00:36 | |
To be in love is something we all crave to experience.. but not all love stories have a happy ending. Love isn't meant to be perfect but with the right person it won't always feel so hard. Dayra and I open up about our not so "happily ever after" relationships that ended in heartbreak. We speak on the red flags and signs we noticed leading up to the break ups as well as touch base on how it can negatively affect ones mental health. Although it was a rough journey, down the path of healing, both Dayra and I found the light at the end of the tunnel that lead to our inner happiness and peace followed by a lot of self-love. | |||
| 25 Jan 2022 | Les Chat Introduction Trailer | 00:00:39 | |
Listen if you want to know what to expected from this new up and coming LGBTQ+ podcast!! | |||
| 23 May 2022 | 19. Types Of Intimacy | 01:00:21 | |
Sex may be the most desirable type of intimacy to share with a partner but it certainly isn’t the only form!! Dayra and I share our top form of intimacy followed by some research on “12 different types of intimacy to experience with you partner”. We also go over the 5 E’s to help improve intimacy in a short time span from Jay Shetty’s Podcast!
We discuss our definition of intimacy and how we experience it in our own relationship.
We also go over the 3 following family meeting questions!
1. Thoughts on breaking up & making up..
2. “Feeling lost when it comes to relationships, I haven’t dated anyone in 4 years”
3. “Where do you find queer friends/ queer people to mingle with?! As a fem, how do I signal that I’m gay in public?”
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| 10 Jul 2023 | 72. Lesbian Dating & Relationships | 00:46:13 | |
In this week's episode we answer some relationship questions submitted by our fellow listeners.. 1. Being loved bombed by partners that aren’t ready to commit. 2. “Partners” that aren’t ready to commit but want you to meet their friends and do things for you. 3. Talking to other people while also figuring out your dating goals with the person you’re talking to. Family meeting: 1. "I've been talking to a girl for 6 months but she isn't ready for a relationship. Should I wait for her?" 2. "How do I continue to grow with the person I'm talking to when I always feel second to their deceased ex?" FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:
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| 02 Apr 2025 | 126. Baby Gays & Late Bloomers: Queer Drama & Lesbian LOVE | 00:42:49 | |
In today’s episode, we dive into the latest lesbian dating drama (TikTok Reference LINK with Beeca Moore & Shannon B.) and what it's really like navigating relationships in the queer community. We also talk about our Les Chat NYC meetup! Talking Points:
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| 03 Jun 2024 | 103. Coming Out With PRIDE | 00:57:14 | |
HAPPY PRIDE MONTH LES CHAT FAM!!! We show love and support to our community by sharing small queer own businesses. Also Give details on all pride events taking place in the NJ/NYC area for those looking to attend. For all the first time PRIDE event celebrators we share some tips and tricks on how to make the best of your first time!! Family meeting: 1. “Did you guys hear about the 16yr old high schooler that was not allowed into prom because she was wearing a suite and not a dress? ” 2. "I’ve seen a lot of women call themselves lesbians even though they date trans men. I don’t understand? I know labels are just something society created but if they are claiming that label themselves, then wouldn’t they be pansexual? Bisexual?" Parties in NYC!
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| 25 Apr 2022 | 15. Gay Gals & Gay Pals | 00:55:22 | |
In this episode we chat with Steve and Mateo about the differences and similarities between lesbian couples and gay couples! Steve and Matt are married and share their story on how they met.. We talk a little bit about about what we were afraid of before coming out and what made us wanna come out. What is dating like as a gay man? Do you think you can turn someone straight?…How does gay sex work for gay men, are there tops and bottoms? We educate Steve and Mateo on the lesbian terms like “pillow princess” and “gold stars”. Steve’s IG - @professorsmm Steve’s Tiktok - @professor_smm Matt’s IG - @matthhhew Matt’s Tiktok - @matthhhew97 Family Meeting Q&A's "Should couples only talk about their issues with their partners & not ask others for advice about what to do?" "Should my partner being with guys before bother me as much as it does"? "She ghosted me & posted her new gf on social media". | |||
| 11 Sep 2023 | 79. Relationship Non-negotiables | 01:16:17 | |
Having non-negotiables allows you to set boundaries for people to respect the things that you value most in life. It’s like a promise you make to yourself to not let anyone bend the rules or change your mind on what you want most. You hold yourself and them accountable when it comes to those boundaries by sticking to your word. So let us share our personal non-negotiables that we set for dating/relationships as well as 10 general examples for all couples. Family meeting: 1. How do i get my virgo girlfriend back? 2. I saw my girlfriends DM's with a guy she went on a date with but she doesn't know that I know. How do I bring it up to her? Read more about non-negotiables: https://hellorelish.com/articles/relationship-non-negotiables.html FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:
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| 24 Oct 2022 | 38. Do You Remember Your First Time? | 00:53:44 | |
Happy Monday! In today’s episode we talk about our first times!
Dayra & Jojo talk about the first time they ever kissed someone, first time they had “sexy time” with a woman, and the first time we ever got drunk or high! Dayra talks about her experience when she took an edible and how horrible her trip went.
Family Meeting Questions
1. My gf is now working with her ex, how should I feel about this?
2. The person I was dating is not okay with their sexuality.
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| 18 Sep 2023 | 80. Lesbian Couples Therapy | 00:52:02 | |
In this episode we go over The Top Mistakes Most Couples Make according to a lesbian relationship expert, Dr. Ruth L. Schwartz. We go over the following..
Family Meeting Questions
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| 21 Mar 2022 | 10. The Date That Never Ended | 00:38:05 | |
“Lesbians fall in love fast” may be the most COMMON stereotype but it isn’t completely wrong. Dayra & I share a lot of personal experiences from coming out, to old relationships, red flags, cheating, stereotypes/preferences & even had the SEX talk… but we haven’t shared the story of how we met! For some, dating during Covid wasn’t at all ideal & for others “quarantine quickies” was all that was needed. However, eager to get back to life as we knew it (before the pandemic) some of us still managed to find our person. | |||
| 15 Apr 2024 | 99. Six Different Types of Attraction | 00:35:55 | |
Join us on episode #99 as we explore the various types of attraction that shape our relationships. Have you ever found yourself questioning the nature of your attraction towards someone? Our exploration goes into the blend of emotions, whether it's physical desire, intellectual admiration, or emotional resonance. Sources: https://www.healthline.com/health/types-of-attraction WHAT KIND OF ATTRACTION AM I FEELING? 1. "I’m in a situation where I have a long term gf but my best friend recently confessed to me that she is platonically in love with me”.
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| 30 Sep 2024 | 114. September Recap | 00:40:56 | |
Join us in this catch up episode as we talk about what we’ve been up to, we celebrated JoJo’s birthday in style, we share our unforgettable experiences at a WNBA game (where we spotted Ashlyn Harris) and recount our thrilling helicopter ride over the NYC skyline. In honor of Hispanic Heritage Month, we dive into the rich cultural contributions of LGBTQ+ Latinas who have paved the way for representation in the media. From trailblazers to modern icons, we quickly highlight their impact and discuss how they've used their platforms to uplift the visibility of LGBTQ+ Latinxs. FAMILY MEETING
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| 18 Dec 2023 | 91. It's not a goodbye, it's a see you later | 01:07:17 | |
As the new year approaches, we reflect on 2023 and set intentions for the new year. We also share some bittersweet news in this episode. EP 91: We discuss our biggest accomplishments in the past year, as well as challenges and obstacles we faced. We dive into personal struggles we had in 2023 and how we plan on achieving personal goals and self improvement for the new year. Stay tuned Les Chat FAM! We will return shortly. Join our Patreon to stay connected - PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod Florida News: https://www.instagram.com/p/C06zgEoujKp/ & Florida Video: https://www.instagram.com/reel/C04QVC-s8Vz/ Family Meeting Questions
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| 04 Nov 2024 | 116. Les Chat Q&A | 00:48:26 | |
In this episode of our Q&A podcast, we catch up after a brief hiatus—Dayra just returned from her trip to Colombia! Join us as we dive into your questions, share travel stories, and discuss how life has been keeping us on our toes. & DON'T REMEMBER TO VOTE!! Family Meeting Questions
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| 09 Sep 2024 | 113. Falling For Your Friends | 00:47:35 | |
In this week’s episode, Jojo and Dayra dive into the nuanced experience of falling for a friend—or having friends express romantic feelings towards them. Through candid personal stories, they explore the emotional rollercoaster of navigating these complex situations. Family Meeting:
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| 30 May 2022 | 20. Best/Worst Scenes Of The Original L-Word | 01:09:18 | |
In this episode we talk about THE L-WORD! We focus on some scenes from the Original L-Word (2004-2009). You don’t need to watch the L-Word to understand what we’re talking about in this podcast episode.
Is there such a thing as “coming out too late” in life? Listen/watch Phyllis ask Bette if it’s too late for her to come out (she’s an older married woman with kids)...
Imagine coming out in front of your Latinx family? Remember when Carmen comes out? Or when Bette goes off on the homophobe or when Kit (the biggest Ally) disagrees with Max’s transgender “decisions”?
Family Q&A
Do y'all think you can have a successful relationship with someone who is "straight"?
In a relationship with a girl who loves and respects me, but her friends have no boundaries and I feel uncomfortable.
I can’t get an 0rga$m from p0rn but I can when I watch some tiktoks…
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| 05 Dec 2022 | 44. Creative Living Ft Toushai | 01:05:26 | |
We invite Shaina Negron aka Toushai, a tattoo artist, painter and singer who displays her artwork to more than 200,000 followers on her social media.
We talk about how her creative career started, what body painting is like and what inspired her to write her newest song “Tu no me amas”.
We also talk about false narratives the internet has about Toushai and her dating “standards.” Dayra mentions a “gay icon” towards the end and we get the scoop on the reality of dating a celebrity.
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I was in a situationship where I was putting in more effort than them. How should I move forward w/this person?
I caught my girlfriend cheating on me with someone who I thought was my friend.
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| 08 Jul 2024 | 107. Post Pride Month | 00:42:35 | |
Pride Festivities & Scandals! In this episode we catch up on NYC Pride Weekend festivities and dive into jaw-dropping internet stories. Brace yourself for a shocking Reddit tale of family drama involving an affair between a mom and her son's wife. Family Meeting “Is it wrong to hate my mother in law? I have been working with my monster in law for over 2 years” FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:
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| 21 Aug 2023 | 77. Lesbian Slang | 00:45:50 | |
Has someone ever asked you if you listened to “girl in red”? If so, they basically asked you if you’re gay. Everyday we’re coming up with new lesbian terminology! In this episode we go over some of the popular terms and what they mean. We also go over what it means to be "sapphic" and what is the difference between being a lesbian and being sapphic? Read more about Lesbian Slang: https://www.onewomanproject.org/lgbtqia/lesbian-slang-a-not-so-comprehensive-guide (https://www.onewomanproject.org/lgbtqia/lesbian-slang-a-not-so-comprehensive-guide) Beducated: https://beducate.me/pd2334-leschat (https://beducate.me/pd2334-leschat) Beducated AI Chatbot: https://beducated.com/ai (https://beducated.com/ai) Family Meeting Questions: 💖 “Is it strange that my current girlfriend is currently living with a friend that she has previously dated?” ❤️ “14 years together, married 3 years. My wife left in Feb, she said she loved me but wasn't in love with me.“ FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON: IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/ TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/ PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/ | |||
| 12 Mar 2025 | 124. Heteroflexible, Queer Choices & WNBA Drama | 00:38:33 | |
In this episode, we talk about the WNBA drama between DiJonai Carrington and NaLyssa Smith, explore what it means to be "heteroflexible," and discuss the complexities of being queer. We dive into why labels matter and how being queer is more than just a choice. FAMILY MEETING “I’ve been in a 1.5-year relationship, and recently, my partner has been hanging out with her guy friends more often. When I mention it, she says I’m being controlling. She works part-time and has a lot of free time, while I work full-time and take care of the house and pets in my free time. Am I wrong for wanting her to help with the home and pets before hanging out?” FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA:
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| 02 Oct 2023 | 82. Emotional Safety | 00:47:32 | |
What is emotional safety? It basically means being able to be vulnerable with your partner. Jojo goes into 7 ways to create emotional safety in a relationship. Jojo & Dayra both discuss what it means to feel “emotionally safe” and they talk about a previous “discussion” they had where Dayra didn’t feel safe at the moment.
Read Article for more on emotional safety: https://psychcentral.com/blog/how-do-you-create-emotional-safety-in-your-relationships
Family Meeting Questions
“I had been dating this girl for about 2 years, but I started liking her friend…”
“My girlfriend does not feel emotionally safe with me”
“My partner and I have been in a relationship for almost two years, we go months without any sort of physical intimacy, including hugs and kisses”
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| 26 Aug 2024 | 112. Understanding PDA & LGBTQ+ Challenges | 00:46:44 | |
In this episode, we explore Public Displays of Affection (PDA) from personal and societal perspectives. We start by discussing our own experiences with PDA growing up and how our views have changed over time. Then, we focus on the challenges LGBTQ+ couples face when showing affection in public. A 2021 study reveals that these couples often face discrimination and violence, which can make them hesitant to express their love openly. We share stories of real-life attacks on LGBTQ+ couples, including incidents in London, Germany, and the US. THAILAND LINK: https://trovatrip.com/trip/asia/thailand/thailand-with-jojo-torres-jul-2025 LONDON LESBIAN COUPLE: https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=2310191419297713&set=a.1441238012859729&type=3&ref=embed_post FAMILY MEETING
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| 25 Mar 2024 | 96. Facing Rejection | 01:16:43 | |
Rejection has always been the hardest pill for us all to swallow. It bears such a negative weight when we feel as though someone you show such interest in just doesn’t share that same interest in return. We then find ourselves questioning what it is about us that could be wrong. But nothing is wrong with you!! Once we accept the fact that we aren’t for everyone just like everyone isn’t for us.. rejection becomes a lot less personal.
"Google Voicemail: I started dating a girl who talks bad about her friends.." "I took the initiative to inseminate (without telling my partner) - how does this make it any different from getting pregnant by a man in the situation that both of y’all are a couple?" TO LEAVE US A VOICE NOTE VIA TEXT OR VOICEMAIL - CONTACT US AT (862) 786-8233 FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:
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| 24 Jun 2024 | 106. "I Kissed A Girl & I Liked It" FT Lilly | 01:00:38 | |
This week's episode we welcome a returning guest Lilly! Join us in this fun convo with Lily as she shares her “coming out story” .. In our discussion, we explore the nuances of dating and relationships for Lily, comparing her experiences with men to those with women. We touch upon the challenges and unique aspects of same-sex relationships, shedding light on the differences Lily has discovered along her journey. Family Meeting Questions 1. "I’ve been married to a girl for 5 years, we started having marital problems and I reached out to my high school sweetheart " 2. "My wife of 8 months suddenly wants a break from us because she feels she isn’t meant to be in a committed relationship." FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:
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| 16 Dec 2024 | 119. Graduations, Holidays & Anniversary Vibes | 00:51:40 | |
In this episode, we’re catching up on everything—JoJo just graduated from her academy (finally a secret revealed!), Dayra shares her experience pledging in college, and we chat about how crazy the holidays can be. We also celebrate our 4-year anniversary by skipping gifts and focusing on experiences. Plus, we answer your questions about the habits we've noticed since living together. Tune in for all the updates and good vibes! Family Meeting: "Was in a LTR with a man for 8 years, started dating girls last year, part of me wants to explore but I also don’t want to fumble the girl I met because she is amazing" BALI/THAILAND TRIP: https://linktr.ee/leschat Family Meeting:FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA: IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/ TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/ Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ | |||
| 17 Oct 2022 | 37. Sexuality Is Fluid | 01:00:46 | |
Jojo & Dayra welcome Kenny on this week's episode to discuss how sexuality can actually be fluid! For some, labels allow them to be seen & approached by the public with what they self- identity but for others, labels can feel like a box, not flexible enough for growth. Kenny shares with us her coming out stories at a young age, the history of her romantic relationships with women, how therapy helped her to set the boundaries necessary in a way where nothing could hinder her growth, and lastly what encouraged her to be open minded about allowing a male to potentially pursue her romantically. Family Meeting Questions
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| 20 Nov 2023 | 88. From Girlfriend To Wife | 00:55:50 | |
Marriage! A popular topic we love to talk about. Same sex marriage became legal in 2015, only 8 years ago. In this episode we dive into our idea of marriage growing up and our point of view on marriage now. We dive into
Lastly, we dive into questions to ask before getting married!
Family Meeting Questions
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| 19 Mar 2025 | 125. Dating Red Flags, Doechii Drama & Decision Fatigue | 00:38:57 | |
In this AUDIO only episode of Les Chat, we’re catching up on everything from the progress of our 75 Soft challenge (46 days to go!) to some exciting updates on our upcoming Thailand and Bali trip (don’t forget, it's the last month to sign up for the payment plan). Plus, we’re thinking about NEW merch drop, with a focus on queer pride gear just in time for Pride Month! We dive into the Doechii controversy (the Grammy-winning bisexual rap artist) From her viral dating red flag comment to the controversy surrounding an old video with her ex. Also, we’re discussing the ongoing issue of “preferences” in dating. Are straight people crashing out over bisexuality, or is there something deeper happening? And what about red flags in relationships, jealousy, disrespect, and love bombing? Family Meeting: we talk about Decision Fatigue. After 5.5 years at her current job, one listener is feeling the stress of decision-making overload. Can you really stop the anxiety from constant choices? We share tips and strategies from Mel Robbins' podcast episode, "Get back on track: 5 evening habits to wake up focused, recharged, and in control". FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA:
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| 01 May 2023 | 64. Our Legacy | 00:50:03 | |
You don't have to be famous or be known by the world to leave behind a legacy that will live beyond our existence. We all play a part in the impact and influence we have on one another's lives. It’s up to you on what you want to be remembered for. In this episode we talk about the people we looked up to that have shaped us into who we've become leading up to adulthood. We dive into how in creating this platform, we'll leave that legacy behind us and how we want to be remembered as a couple as well as an individual. Family Meeting “I’m straight but I think I’m in love with my BFF” FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:
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| 07 Nov 2022 | 40. Queen Of The Switch Up FT Ke'Alohilani | 01:17:38 | |
Jojo and Dayra welcome Ke'Alohilani AKA the viral queen of switch ups and transitions on Tiktok!! Ke'Alohilani gives us the back story of how she became the queen of switching her look between fem/masc. Although, finding it difficult in her earlier stages to find a happy medium in presenting both masc and fem (due to past relationships experiences) Ke'Alohilani didn't let it discourage her. Choosing to continue her self love journey of owning her style as well as enjoying her time being single by just dating herself. CHECK OUT HER TRANSITIONS HERE: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTRxSJk8A/ Ke’Alohilani Social Media IG: https://instagram.com/kdnaonecarterr?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kdnaonecarter?_t=8X46H4ovNVr&_r=1 Family Meeting Questions 1. I recently got out of a short relationship...Am I wrong for holding expectations for the people I date? 2. I feel like a phase after a 7 year relationship since my ex is now dating men. FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA: * IG: https://instagram.com/les.chatpodcast? igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= * TIKTOK:https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTdKotfRe/ * YOUTUBE: https://youtube.com/channel/UCD9hhixfHxSfcGZQFUw6CAQ TROVATRIP LINK: https://trips.trovatrip.com/trips/costa-rica-with-les-chat-mar-2023 https://linktr.ee/leschat | |||
| 30 Jan 2023 | 51. 10 Things I Wish I Knew Before Coming Out | 00:48:54 | |
In EP 51 we talk about 10 things we wish we knew before coming out of the closet! We get into coming out to your family and friends, as well as bisexuality, straight girls, and more! As always, in each episode, we answer questions from our regular listeners. FAMILY MEETING QUESTIONS 1. "I’ve NEVER been on a date or been with anyone and I don’t know where to start. Any tips?" 2. "I think I'm polyamorous and I have a crush on two girls who happen to be sisters" FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:
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| 27 Jun 2022 | 24. Life Without Rights | 01:04:22 | |
As pride month is coming to an end we give a quick recap on all the gay festivities we got into as well as the awesome queer guests we were able to have on the podcast as a pride month special. Following our exciting recap we speak up on the political catastrophe of Roe v. Wade recently passing the ban of abortions. Not only as a woman but women of the LGBTQ+ community & apart of the minority community we express how absolutely destructive it is to have passed this law. The pass of this ban has also brought officials to shed light on potentially reversing the legalization of same sex marriage!
Family Meeting
1. My daughter is 28 years old and has been with her gf for 7 years who cheated on her..
2. As a masc fem I love using $traps but my gf is a Virgin
3. “Should I break up w my girlfriend? I made a friend 3 years into our relationship but she doesn’t like her at all..”
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| 26 Sep 2022 | 35. Things I Wish I Knew Before Dating Women | 00:52:27 | |
We hear straight women say quite often "I'm about to start dating women" with the idea that women relationships are easier to handle. Little do most people know lesbian/wlw relationships require much more effort than expected. Dayra and Jojo run down a list of things they wish they knew before dating women that could have potentially helped better prepare them for the types of relationship they had experienced.
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| 05 Jun 2023 | 68. What's happening during PRIDE MONTH?! | 00:38:23 | |
HAPPY PRIDE MONTH!! This episode was short and sweet where we talk about what’s going on this month, what events we will be attending as well as some events YOU should attend as well! Below are some events happening in NJ/Philly/NYC and LA! 6/6/23 - 6/11/23 - LA - 7 Exclusive Events For Women Who Love Women @taste.ent @tasteofficial_ 6/9/23 - Haddon Township Pride @haddontownshipequityinitiative 6/10/23 - Sip City Queer Prom @sipcitymixer (Tickets can be found here: https://linktr.ee/leschat - use promo code "leschatpodcast" 6/10/23 - Queer Mixer in Jersey City with @jerseycityconnects 6/10/23 - Philly Pride Run @phillypriderun 6/10/23 - Brooklyn Pride @brooklyn_pride 6/10/23 - Montclair, NJ Pride @outmontclair 6/10/23 - Red Bank, NJ Pride In The Park @redbank_nj 6/10/23 - LA HoodRave @hoodravela 6/11/23 - LA Pride Village Parade @hollywoodpartnership 6/11/23 - Drag Brunch Canopy in NJ @jerseycitypride 6/15/23 - Trans Pride in Philly @sipcitymixer 6/17, 6/24 & 6/25 - Pride Party Cruise: Sparkle in the Dark @eventcruises_nyc 6/21/23 - NYC Yankees Pride Night @nycpride 6/22/23 - 6/24/23 NYC Party with @edennycpride 6/23/23 - 6/24/23 - NYC Pride Drag Brunch Cruise @eventcruises_nyc 6/24/23 - Pride 5K 6/25/23 NYC Pride Grand Finale @slateny with @nydreamgyrl 6/25/23 - NY Pride Island @brooklynarmyterminal 6/23/23 - NYC Pride NJ Drag Queen Entertainment Shows @dragqueenentertainment Jersey City Drag Shows on Fridays & Saturdays with @six26_lounge Family Meeting Questions
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| 19 Feb 2025 | 121. Raw Convo's: Right Person Wrong Time | 00:42:10 | |
Is it possible to be with the right person at the wrong time when fear of judgment and not being out holds you back from fully embracing the relationship? Family Meeting: "I’ve been dating a girl for the past year and everything has been wonderful but I’m not out yet. I come from a very religious family and I’m also a people pleaser and unfortunately care what people think. She is the woman of my dreams but I don’t know if we can have a relationship if I’m not out the closet yet." https://linktr.ee/leschat | |||
| 21 Nov 2022 | 42. Latina Mami | 01:03:58 | |
The holidays are coming and we need to talk about our hispanic culture! In this episode Jojo & Dayra talk about what it means to be hispanic and gay. We talk about our relationships with our parents and grandparents. We also talk about what it’s like being a child of immigrant parents and being the only hispanic woman in a room full white people. Family Meeting Questions
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| 10 Apr 2023 | 61. Adult Friendships | 01:09:53 | |
When we were younger, making new friends was easy and having a larger group of friends was normal. However, as we get older having only two or three close friends becomes the norm because life just seems to get in the way. In this episode we talk about how work, parenting, home chores, relationships and even the pandemic made friendships harder to maintain as an adult. We also dive into how friendships look after coming out and what it's like to be the only gay friend in the group. Family meeting: 1. My GF and I work for the same company she’s a HR manger and i’m a supervisor but we work in different buildings.The issue is that when i am venting to her about work or some gossip it always turns into a argument because her HR comes out but i have to remind her that I am venting to my GF not HR. 2. I’ve been with my girl for a year and half. She has a daughter who has ADHD. This wasn’t told to me upfront and it has caused some difficulties in the relationship. We’re good overall, but the child is an issue due to lack of respect. How do you find a middle ground or do you walk away? IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/ TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/ PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ PRECIOSA NIGHT/LGBTQ BROOKLYN PARTY ON 05/13 - TICKETS
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| 02 May 2022 | 16. Unpopular Opinions | 00:58:04 | |
We all have our own personal opinions but we don't always choose to voice them. Sometimes the subject can be a little more touchy so people shy away from those discussions in fear of being judged. However, in this episode we are choosing to STIR the pot and go over some of the most commonly controversial unpopular opinions about relationships. Some are.. is marriage only for business purposes? Do fems run the relationship? Is it okay to go through your partners phone? Is it healthy to argue? FAMILY Q&A: 1. How do you “come out” as a stemme? I have been femme presenting all my life but I’m having trouble finding my masculine style. I’m also afraid of not attracting stemmes myself if I am dressed masculine. 2. My partner had sex with their best friend in high school, but hangs out with them all the time and walks around half naked. Should that make me mad or should I get over it. 3. What can I do when my gf is frustrated? 4. So my partner of almost 2yrs has a bestfriend that doesn’t like me. Her bestfriend has NEVER met me and she claims that she dislikes me bc my gf is always with me and she’s changed her ways bc of me. Would you be mad at your gf for still talking to her best friend? | |||
| 31 Oct 2022 | 39. Les Trick Or Treat | 01:28:31 | |
Happy Halloween friends!! 🎃 Dayra and Jojo welcome two of social media’s favorite lgbtq+ creators! Yes, it’s sexy Lexie & our favorite baby gay from ep.22 Kristin! Dayra sets the tone with a les question card game as an ice breaker to get the juices flowing. Leading the conversations straight into the spicy stuff. Speaking on topics of sex parties, open relationships, dating straight women, spiritual journeys, conquering the fem/masc energy, & how the art of seduction as a dancer can affect potential relationships. Lexie’s IG: https://www.instagram.com/lexiepeterss/?hl=en & https://www.instagram.com/peterssperspective/?hl=en Kristin’s IG: https://www.instagram.com/wheretheroadforks__/?hl=en Family Meeting Questions
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| 20 Jun 2022 | 23. IVF Baby Making Journey FT EdenxJay | 01:25:22 | |
This week Les Chat are joined with Eden & Jay. A latina queer married couple from Los Angeles! They’ve appeared on the Today Show, the Jubilees Spectrum Show, and Cara Delevigne's Hulu's Documentary "Planet Sex", they’ve also modeled for Play Boy & Fenty, and were Dinah Shore influencers! In this episode we dive into how same sex couples have babies, and what to start thinking about if you’re in your 20’s and wish to have kids in the future. In this episode you can expect to learn more about: How did Eden & Jay met. Healthy relationship tips from Eden & Jay. Social media couples/relationships. IUI vs IVF (Intrauterine Insemination VS In vitro fertilisation). What is mini IVF. Choosing a sperm donor. Can you pick the gender of a baby? Family Meeting Questions 1. What was it like coming to terms with your sexuality before and even after coming out? Because even after telling people i still struggle with the entire concept im gay 2. Have either of you ever been stressed or have so much going on that sex kinda took a backseat? And if so did you cut and run or did you work it out? EDENXJAY SOCIAL MEDIA: YOUTUBE: https://youtube.com/c/EdenxJay IG: https://instagram.com/edenxjay?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTdKoPdSx/ LINKTREE: https://linktr.ee/Edenxjay —————————————————————— FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA: IG: https://instagram.com/les.chatpodcast?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTdKotfRe/ YOUTUBE: https://youtube.com/channel/UCD9hhixfHxSfcGZQFUw6CAQ | |||
| 29 May 2023 | 67. Dating Within Your Friend Group | 00:50:26 | |
It's no secret that in lesbian culture we find ourselves befriending exes or maybe even getting involved with close friends! While it seems cool and convenient at first, it can be quite the MESS. Sharing a friend group with your partner can be ideal for many reasons.. For example, you understand the friendship dynamic, you share most of the same interests, you reciprocate one another's energy, and have the same ideas of what boundaries are. However, dating someone in your friend group or befriending an ex can also be weird and create instability in your shared friend group. We share some tips on dating someone in your friend group and tips on what to if you breakup with someone who has the same friend group as you. Family Meeting Q&A: 1. "Can you be friends with an EX?" 2. "My girlfriend won't tell me why she stopped talking to her "bestie"." 3. "My girlfriend went out and broke my trust."
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| 02 Dec 2024 | 118. Dear Younger Self | 00:55:01 | |
In this episode, we reflect on the pressures of marriage, kids, and career milestones. We talk about what we've accomplished so far, and how those societal expectations shape our lives. We also dive into the movie My Old Ass, where an 18-year-old meets her 39-year-old self during a mushroom trip, offering life advice about love, family, and choices. Dayra shares why this scenario would be her worst nightmare, and we wrap up by discussing the things we wish we could tell our younger selves. Tune in for a mix of humor, honesty, and reflections on the wisdom that comes with age. Ashlynn Harris Wide Open Episode - LINK
Family Meeting: 1. "I have a serious mental illness that I’ve been dealing with for over 10 years. I’ve always taken my meds and I’ve always been fine. If I don’t have any issues managing my diagnosis there really is no reason to disclose this. Am I in the wrong if I’m in a relationship with someone for a few months or 1 year & disclose this?" 2. "I went on a date and I immediately knew I didn’t want to see her again which is why I decided to “practice” telling someone about my mental illness. " FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA:
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| 03 Jul 2023 | 71. Sibling Relationships | 01:00:21 | |
As adults we get busy with life and we tend to grow apart from those we love. If you’re a loyal listener you know we focus on lgbtq+ topics, however, in this episode we talk a little bit about family. We dive into the following…
We also dive into why siblings grow apart over time. Family Meeting Questions
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| 04 Dec 2023 | 89. Coming Out To Your Child FT Jynette | 00:57:54 | |
Coming out to your kids as “LGBTQ+” can be a hard conversation. In today’s episode we invite our dearest friend/momma to talk about her experience! We dive into
Family Meeting Questions 1. “I've been with my girlfriend for 6 years now but I met a girl who’s a coworker and I think I have fallen for this girl.” 2. “I just found out my fiance, who I have been with for 5 years, has been cheating on me for the last 2 months with my step brother.” Jynette's IG: https://www.instagram.com/fromconcept2closing/ FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:
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| 29 Aug 2022 | 32.Bi Wife Energy | 01:20:07 | |
We introduce our favorite fellow podcast friends/couple Travis and Stephanie from the Westilllikeeachother podcast. In Episode 3 of their podcast, Steph talked about identifying as bisexual and they were open to introducing a third in their relationship but said “it never worked” yet they still had some sexual experiences… we get deep with Travis and Steph asking them the most common yet important questions like...
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| 18 Apr 2022 | 14. The Baby Gays | 01:04:55 | |
We all remember our "Baby Gay" phase where we were quiet, timid, and full of questions! The most frequently asked question like.. How do I flirt with girls? How do you show that you're gay for girls to know? Where did you find your queer friends? How do you know if someone is just friends or likes you? etc. All of which are normal questions to ask. Dayra & Jojo answer those questions to help shed some light on this journey for our newly queer friends. Family meeting Q&A: “I’m a virgin baby gay and I don’t know what to do! How can I get over the fear of being bad in bed?” “How do you balance religion and being queer”? “How do you know when your partner is the one?” “What is your opinion on colorism in the LGBTQIA community?” “Can you share some tips on moving out?” | |||
| 26 Feb 2025 | 122. Lesbian Dating Myths & Realities | 00:39:20 | |
In this episode, we dive into some common myths about lesbian identities and relationships. We tackle misconceptions like the idea that being attracted to women means rejecting men, that lesbian relationships are always full of drama, or that all lesbians want kids. FAMILY MEETING “I need advice. I broke up with my ex of 3 years after she chose her 'friend' over our relationship.” Source: https://www.teenvogue.com/story/lesbian-myths-debunked FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA:
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| 19 Feb 2024 | 93. Chosen Family | 00:53:23 | |
Society has put a lot of pressure on the importance of family. Having loving parents, sharing happy memories with your siblings, feeling safe and protected by the ones you share blood with.. However, that isn’t the version of "family" that everyone gets to experience.
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1. "I am an 18 year old female and am struggling to be around my family. I'm half Black and half Latino, not to be stereotypical BUT when things happen in the family, we don’t talk about it! We “pray” and “move on ''. Very often they will bring up the topic of LGBTQ and say hateful things to intentionally hurt me(they are all very Christian). " 2. "Do you have lesbian friends that don’t want kids? As a childfree lesbian I feel bombarded by breeders, even in the LGBTQ community."
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| 09 Apr 2025 | 127. Raw Convos: Beyond Small Talk | 00:55:24 | |
In this episode, we explore how to go beyond the usual "How's work?" and ask deeper questions like, “What are you learning about yourself right now?” to build more meaningful connections. We also dive into key questions for new relationships, inspired by therapist Jeff Gunther. What counts as cheating? How do we handle privacy, exes, and boundaries? Tune in for insights on fostering communication, trust, and understanding in any relationship. List of Questions: QUESTIONS TO ASK SOMEONE AT THE START OF A RELATIONSHIP
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| 11 Apr 2022 | 13. In A World Full Of Bullies | 00:53:49 | |
Being bullied in grade school is something we all experienced at least once... For our lgbtq+ listeners, how has being gay affected how you navigate through life? We talk about our personal experiences during high school from shaving our latina mustache to our glow up experience. We talk about how WNBA Candice Wiggins was "bullied" in the league for being "straight"..
Dayra brings up current events and our thoughts on the "Don't Say Gay" bill.
FAMILY MEETING Q&A
"What do y’all think about exes commenting under someone you talk to pictures ?"
"I’m talking to someone and she is giving me mixed signals.. sometimes she tells me she misses me and sometimes she clearly ignores me. Should I cut her off?"
"What does it mean when a females tells you that you are not ready for her?"
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| 28 Aug 2023 | 78. Hypothetically Speaking | 01:02:53 | |
There’s a current trend going around where people are asking their parents hypothetical questions just to see how they would respond/react in situations that most strict parents would overreact. In episode 78, we’re now following this trend by asking each other how we would react in certain scenarios where most lesbian couples would probably OVERREACT! Dayra asks Jojo “What if I were to go out with my friends and I tell you that a guy was buying my friends and I drinks ALL night?”... And Jojo asked Dayra “What if I told you that I did not like your outfit and told you that you needed to change your outfit?”. Family Meeting Questions
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| 06 Feb 2023 | 52. That First Healthy Relationship | 01:11:52 | |
BEDUCATED COUPON CODE: LESCHAT https://beducate.me/pd2305-leschat Why does nobody talk about your first healthy relationships after having so many toxic ones?
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| 22 Apr 2024 | 100. What They Don't Tell You About Breakups | 01:11:17 | |
In EP 100, we delve into the complexities of lesbian breakups, exploring why they often hit harder than others. Drawing from an insightful article by "Amelia on Refinery 29", we examine how women tend to deeply enmesh in relationships, blurring lines between partners, friends, and family. Nicholas Rose, a psychotherapist specializing in queer relationships, sheds light on the challenges queer individuals face during breakups, especially when familial support is lacking. We confront stereotypes surrounding lesbian relationships. Additionally, we share insights on coping with breakups, from embracing emotions to nurturing oneself. LES CHAT QUEER TRIP: https://trovatrip.com/host/profiles/jojo-ygxec (takes about 2 mins) LES CHAT MEET UP: FRIDAY NIGHT, APRIL 26TH @ PORTA'S Family Meeting Questions: 1. " My girlfriend broke up with me and she stated she’s giving her life to God and she doesn’t feel right being gay anymore". 2. "Call me DELUSIONAL but i’m so determined to meet my future wife, i'm taking a flight to Manchester UK" Podcast Description: FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:
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| 22 Feb 2023 | BONUS: Bad Dates Sneak Preview | 00:02:03 | |
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| 13 Feb 2023 | 53. Queer Dating Struggles & Tips | 00:57:44 | |
In EP 53 we dive into lesbian dating and the struggles of dating when it comes to
We also get into
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| 20 Mar 2023 | 58. Embracing Our Journey | 00:46:18 | |
This episode was a little different, we introduced our "Love without limits" merch and the journey it took to get to this point. While it is still Women's History Month we talked about queer Hispanic history and some badass queer women we should all know about. Also, played one our favorite card games, “We’re not really strangers” where we both answer relationship and couple questions.
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| 23 Feb 2022 | 6. Love Languages & Astrology: Part 2 from Happy Wife, Happy Life! | 00:38:10 | |
In this episode we talk about Love Languages which comes from author Dr. Gary Chapman. We discuss our own love languages and how you can understand your partners love language. We also discuss Astrology! Lina goes over the “big three” which are your Sun, Moon and Rising as well as what phone apps she uses to learn more about ourselves as well as our loved ones. We discuss the cliche and stereotypes that come with zodiac signs. | |||
| 04 Mar 2024 | 94. Queer Baiting | 01:09:23 | |
What do you consider queer bating? In EP 94 we discuss queer baiting which is when someone uses the possibility of a queer relationship or queer representation to get audiences to watch a show/movie, etc... but they never actually follow through with it. We go into different examples (Karol G, Bad Bunny, Harry Styles, etc) as well as the history on queer baiting in the 1940’s-1960’s with the “Lavender Scare”. LOVE CRAVE VIBRATOR NECKLACE LINK Family Meeting:
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| 07 Aug 2023 | 75. Before I Came Out | 00:55:20 | |
What was life like before coming out for us? Since Dayra came out later in life she had a lot to say about this, comparing gay dating vs straight dating, how we dressed compared to now, and even finding ourselves in welcoming spaces with people who make us feel comfortable to be ourselves. FAMILY MEETING QUESTIONS 1. "I came out when I was 18 and have only had one brief relationship and an series of hookups and situationships with women. I’m sick and TIRED of dating apps and want to meet someone organically but don’t know how?!" 2. "My straight best friend for 3 years is giving gay vibes, I don't see her as more than a friend but I still feel kinda awkward around her. Do you think it's just girls being girls or something else?" FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:
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| 27 Mar 2023 | 59. Pronouns With Teacher Robi | 00:59:32 | |
Nairobi, also known as Robi is a middle school art teacher who has gone viral on TikTok for the way they manage their classroom, funny conversations with students, tiktok dances, outfit of the day and more! Pronouns are not something we’ve touched on in this podcast because we wanted someone to come in and educate us and talk about their experience. Robi identifies as non-binary and goes by they/them. So what are pronouns?! It’s what you use to address other people when you’re not using names. The most common pronouns are she/her/hers, they/them/theirs, and he/him/his. It’s important to respect pronouns because you wouldn’t call someone a different name other than the one they have. In this episode we dive into 💜Robi’s teaching experience/why they became a teacher 💛What students address them as and how Robi corrects them or doesn’t correct them when they say the wrong pronoun, such as “Ms Robi” 💗And more! Family Meeting:
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| 26 Jun 2023 | 70. Is It Cheating? Queer Women Edition | 00:45:18 | |
Les Chat about cheating again! There are no “universal rules” around cheating, what is cheating and what is not cheating is up to you and your partner. In this episode we go over this TikTok video where she goes over “cheating” scenarios (video link: https://www.tiktok.com/@kristy.ca/video/7239822376970587398 - for queer couples) and we go over it in this episode.
If you would like to listen to our last cheating episode (The Cheater & The Cheated) tune into episode 8.
Below are some questions we go over..
IS IT CHEATING IF: Your partner still listens to a playlist that their ex made them?
IS IT CHEATING IF: Your partner STILL hangs out with an ex that still has feelings for them?
IS IT CHEATING IF: Your partner uses a strap that used to belong to them and their ex
Family Meeting Story
“My gf cheated on me emotionally..”
“I cheated on my BF and I am GAY AF."
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| 22 Aug 2022 | 31. Interracial Dating FT Brennah | 01:23:18 | |
Happy Monday everyone! In this episode we feature Brennah, 25-year-old owner and chef of LesbiVeggies, a Black-owned, LGBTQ+ friendly, all-vegan restaurant in Audubon, NJ! We talk a little bit about her entrepreneur journey but we also get into some interesting topics on dating outside our race, dating stories, zodiac signs, pronouns and lesbian stereotypes! We also discuss, - How our home background/environment affected us being comfortable with our sexuality. - Some differences we learned in dating/being friends with people of other ethnicities/races - Do lesbian recruit straight women? - Are most lesbians are vegans? - Are marcs the better cooks? Check out this article by Edible Philly on LesbiVeggies! - https://ediblephilly.ediblecommunities.com/eat/brennah-lambert-expanding-vegan-lifestyle-lesbiveggies https://www.veganrestaurantaudubon.com/ IG: @brennahlambert_ @lesbiveggies Family Meeting Questions:
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| 06 Nov 2023 | 86. Being An Ally | 01:05:59 | |
The coming out process isn’t always a positive experience for a lot of LGBTQ+ people. Not only do they struggle with the process of figuring themselves out but they also bear the weight of all the negativity they may face when sharing their truth with family and friends. So as an ally, how do you provide a safe space for those to disclose to you their sexuality/ gender identity without fear of judgment. Family Meeting Questions 1. “I caught my having sex with her coworker (a man) and he claimed he's her boyfriend” 2. "My wife and I had been married for two years but recently I found out she cheated on me a few months before we moved to another state". PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod The Night Orlando Pulse Nightclub Became A Warzone Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/episode/74wSQ2yJVLpWOhVXczBVfr?si=ce771ad066cd4ee4 Sources FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:
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| 25 Sep 2023 | 81. TV Lesbianships | 00:54:38 | |
We love to see LOVE on the big screen, especially WLW relationships. In this episode, Jojo shares some of her favorite TV lesbian relationships that she just can’t get enough of, as well as a list of other queer related TV shows for you to check out. To end on a juicy note, Dayra brings out the new couples question card game called pillow talk and let’s get naked from the “open up”. Card game link: https://theopenup.com/ List of WLW Tv shows: https://sesamebutdifferent.com/blogs/chia-poppys-corner/hottest-lesbianships-of-all-time-on-tv-plus-where-to-watch-them Family Meeting Questions
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| 12 Aug 2024 | 111. Single Vs. Relationship You | 00:55:30 | |
It is human nature to want love. To find someone you can connect and build with. Learning how to express, give, and receive love is a big part of our journey. However, when is the right time to find or build that love with someone? THAILAND TRIP DETAILS: LINK Family Meeting: 1. "My gf & I are going on 8 months. First 6 months were long distance... She left her ipad home one day, found sexual deleted messages w/ a guy…a guy she was hanging with when we were long distance. " 2. "As a newly gay woman, how do you date women?" FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA
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| 14 Aug 2023 | 76. Flirting Styles | 00:59:12 | |
We’re often asked to give tips on how to flirt whether you’re out in public or on social media. Flirting is supposed to be fun. It’s not meant to be hard or done with the intention of finding the love of your life. So we share 5 types of flirting styles we learned to help you find your groove. You can stick to the style you’re most confident with or learn a new one to master! Flirting Styles: http://news.ku.edu/2013/09/11/new-book-outlines-five-types-flirting-styles Family Meeting 1. "I've been dating a woman for a month and a half. From the first moment we exchanged messages in an app, I felt a connection. When should the title of girlfriend be used?" 2. "I’m 23 years old and still live with my strict sister and her family. I don’t want to lose the girl I’m talking to but my sister also never tries to understand my point of view when I talk about how I shouldn’t have to be asking her for permission to go out" FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON: IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/ TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/ PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/ | |||
| 13 Nov 2023 | 87. Queer Holiday Survival Guide | 01:09:12 | |
The holidays can be a little intimidating, especially for queer people who may or may NOT feel safe in places or with people (family) they are going to visit. We’re gonna chat about how you can make the most out of this holiday season to keep your sanity! 1. "Lesbian relationships and being friends with an ex. I feel this is more common among lesbian relationships and it’s not really talked about." 2. "I’ve been together with my girlfriend for 4/5 months, she’s met my family and friends, has been over to my home etc but I haven’t met any of her family yet nor friends. Seems like she’s waiting for the “right time”, I’m starting to feel like I’m being kept a secret for some strange reason." FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:
Thanksgiving/ Holiday Game Ideas: 1. https://www.instagram.com/reel/CmHJncIjbm-/?igshid=ZDhmZGIxNmQ%3D&epik=dj0yJnU9dWktVFdsdDU0MHNHdFlEa2NKZy1SbURLNkxpNjVLanMmcD0wJm49c0l6ZkxXdzRCQmtRY3hKTlI2MFE5ZyZ0PUFBQUFBR1ZRN01F 2. https://www.tiktok.com/@iamjaritza/video/6900182129725000966?lang=en 3. https://www.pinterest.com/pin/798333471454643864/ 4. https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cjb0pZtgJt7/?igshid=MDJmNzVkMjY%3D&epik=dj0yJnU9akhkem9IZEJNNWFHOGRYQk95NWlFY056cXlEX1JYU20mcD0wJm49bVNiTVpsOHNvbzZNMnFoVFk5TUhuZyZ0PUFBQUFBR1ZRN0tN | |||
| 05 Mar 2025 | 123. Raw Convos: Why Love is Blind is Lowkey Gay | 00:46:59 | |
Is Love is Blind secretly a lesbian reality show for straight people? We break it down and give you our raw, unfiltered thoughts Welcome to Raw Conversations with Les Chat Podcast (the audio version only), your bi-weekly Wednesday deep dive into all things personal growth, relationships, and any random thoughts we have! In this episode, we’re sharing an update on our 75 Soft Challenge, we have 59 days to go, and we’re reflecting on the 16 days we’ve already conquered! Then, we dive into Love is Blind Season 8 and unravel all the drama. Is everyone secretly a little gay? We’re unpacking the idea that marriage and LGBTQ+ relationships might not always mix with traditional views? Was Sara’s “push” on LGBTQ+ issues portrayed unfairly, or was Netflix just trying to make her look annoying? We wrap up with a Q&A session answering some of your questions. "As a masc and fem presenting couple, do we make new friends with the opposite type? Jojo with fems, and Dayra with masc, what does that dynamic look like in real life?" FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA:
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| 09 Jan 2023 | 48. Tales Of A Lesbian Long Distance Relationship | 00:38:25 | |
HAPPY NEW YEAR LES CHAT FAMILY! Can you believe we almost make a year since we started Les Chat? We started our podcast back on January 24th of 2022 and we’re so grateful for all of you! We are BACK like we never left with Season 2 of Les Chat Podcast and we’re coming in with new segments! This podcast episode is a little different from previous episodes. In this episode, Dayra reads a story submitted by a listener. The story gets JUICY, we talk about
Let us know what you think about this format, if you like this, we can start sharing more stories in our podcast episodes. FAMILY MEETING QUESTIONS:
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| 15 May 2023 | 66. 7 First Date Conversation Starters & Date Ideas | 00:44:14 | |
Instagram is full of insightful post that we can all relate to so this week’s episode we leave the topic of discussion to instagram. We chose 2 popular IG post “7 questions to ask on a first date” and “7 first date ideas” to share along with our own thoughts about them. Family Meeting Story - "She has slept with over 100 people". IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/ TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/ PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/ | |||
| 14 Nov 2022 | 41. Serial Lover | 00:41:02 | |
Dating around is necessary in the early stages when trying to figure out what you want in a partner. Although people don’t find “dating around” fun, there are some who actually love the idea of the dating stages. Jojo & Dayra define what a serial dater is as well as some potential signs to look for in a serial dater.. For those who love the idea of love and romantic relationships we introduced “serial monogamy” & the signs of those who can’t just stay single. Family Meeting Questions
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| 09 Oct 2023 | 83. Six Relationship Check-In Questions To Ask Your Partner | 00:55:34 | |
We say that communication is the key to a successful relationship but what does that look like in practice? Dayra shares some questions that help practice monthly check-ins with your partner. Dayra also mentions the new found research behind lab grown babies and how IVG could transform reproduction. Questions to ask your partner:
Family Meeting Questions: 1. "Is it normal to not have any serious romantic experiences at 21 years old?" 2. "What are your thoughts on being ghosted?" FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:
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| 18 Nov 2024 | 117. Mental Health Challenges | 01:03:44 | |
In this episode, we talk about the mental health challenges LGBTQ+ Latinas face, including cultural stigma and the pressure of balancing multiple identities. We also discuss the difficulties of finding mental health care that understands both cultural and LGBTQ+ needs, and how we can break the stigma around mental health in these communities. Tune in for an honest conversation about healing, support, and the importance of visibility in both Latinx and LGBTQ+ spaces. Family Meeting Question 1. "I met this girl recently and when we met I instantly felt a vibe. The day we met I added her on IG and saw she has a gf. We have met up a few times because I give her private boxing lessons. I have a crush, what is your opinion of why she never mentions her gf?" 2. "I was a part of a Christian group at 21 and experienced religious trauma from conversion therapy. I left that group and came out officially at 28. I went through therapy and now at 31 I’m in a place to start dating. I met a girl and she’s great.. Should I get wifed up or keep my options open?" AutoStraddle Post LINK FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA:
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| 29 Jul 2024 | 110. Long vs. Short Term Relationships | 00:45:43 | |
Are long-term relationships really the best? This episode explores why some people find short-term relationships more impactful and fulfilling.
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• "After a yr and half of officially being together, she broke up with me, without a real explanation 'why', she just said its probably best we stay friends, we haven't spoke since that day"
• " Met this girl, 2 months later & I’m very in love with her and we’re inseparable and I feel like we’re flirting and our friends are also saying that.. I used to think that she's straight, but now i’m very confused"
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| 15 Aug 2022 | 30. Leschat About Boundaries | 01:13:15 | |
Leschat about setting boundaries and what makes setting boundaries so difficult? Jojo & Dayra go over examples of how they've had to set boundaries in the past with partners, family, friends, the workplace, etc.. We’ve all been in situations where we find it difficult to set boundaries with a friend because we’re worried about coming off rude or offensive. Dayra is the queen of boundaries! Setting boundaries is about taking care of your own needs. Setting boundaries might mean you might lose people, most people don't like boundaries because they like having power, give that power back to yourself instead.. Setting boundaries is a form of self respect and you deserve to be respected. Family Meeting Questions 1. "I have a girlfriend who was in an open relationship with her boyfriend. They broke up and now it’s just us, she lied & ...." 2. "My fiance's family is super catholic and they don’t know she’s gay..." 3. "Is it always this emotional being with a woman? If so, Idk if I want this anymore" Don't forget to like, comment, share, and subscribe! DM/Email us for any questions or topics discussion you'd like to hear from us. FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA: IG: https://instagram.com/les.chatpodcast? igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= TIKTOK:https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTdKotfRe/ | |||
| 03 Apr 2023 | 60. Relationship Fighting Styles | 01:01:17 | |
What’s your fight style? Similar to “love languages” we also have “fighting styles”. Relationships are often associated with the idea of love and happiness.. How do I keep my partner happy? How do I show them I care and understand? How can we “fight” without it turning into a screaming match?
There are SO many different online articles and online quizzes on fight styles but we focused on the top 3 by Jay Shetty, “Venting, Hiding, or Exploding”.
We also dive into other popular fighting styles/languages and how you can find neutrality and peace.
Family Meeting:
”I’m an 18 year old fem lesbian and she’s a 21 year old bi fem, is the age difference an issue?”
"Hello,I’m a closeted bisexual and really want to come out. But I’m afraid that my friends will look differently at me. “
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FIGHT STYLES QUIZ
https://what-is-your-fight-style.scoreapp.com/?fbclid=PAAaZ4Nd872HcXNhv0xj6WBRQsJmTP4oUdDqlMbYPUP4Tv_G5qv-y7El4dmN4
SOURCES
https://www.yourtango.com/love/six-fight-languages
https://www.thehealthjournals.com/5-anger-languages/
TOPIC ON NASHVILLE SHOOTING
https://www.reuters.com/world/us/after-school-shooting-some-trans-tennesseans-face-backlash-2023-03-31/
https://www.instagram.com/teachingisintellectual/?hl=en
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| 27 Feb 2023 | 55. Am I A Lesbian? The Master Doc | 01:03:13 | |
The “Lesbian Masterdoc” is a google document that asks you to consider if you are a lesbian. This is the same master doc that Kehlani read that made her realize she may be a lesbian. It’s written like a blog post and it goes through bullet points to help you understand the difference between heterosexuality and compulsory heterosexuality which is the idea that heterosexuality is assumed and forced upon women, which may make women feel forced into being attracted to men, even when they might not be. You may not relate OR you may REALLY connect with this google doc. We review a few sections from the chapter and discuss our thoughts on “Am I Lesbian?”, such as…
Family Meeting Questions 1. “I've been with my girlfriend for 10 months and I still haven't seen her n@ked or haven't gotten to really be intimate with her. " 2. “I have heard Dayra say that she has a few health problems related to IBS. I’ve been going through similar issues and feel like there are no answers for what is truly wrong with my health." Copy of “Am I A Lesbian Google Doc” - FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:
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| 17 Jul 2023 | 73. The Best Of Breakups | 01:04:12 | |
In today’s episode, we talk about the good things that come after breakups. Breaking up can be quite devastating, especially for the person who doesn’t expect it, but believe it or not, it's not as awful once we redirect our energy into the things that make us feel whole again. Family Meeting: 1. "I have a friend and we’ve been flirting and everything, now her family is in the way ….so i’m confused idk what to think what should i do?" 2. "I've been in the closet for 30 years! And I’ve finally started dating..." 3. "I’ve had the same best friend for over 20 years but I don’t like her current partner..." Sources:
YOUTUBE VIDEO: https://youtu.be/Cw2qD87KDHc - Breakups don’t have to leave you broken FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON: IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/ TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/ PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ | |||
