Lead like a girl (The Well Collab)

In the "Lead Like a Girl" podcast episode titled "Let's talk about sex, religion, and the female O with Taylor Chetty," the hosts engage in a candid conversation with Taylor Chetty, a Registered Master Social Worker and founder of Returning Home Counseling and Contracting. The episode delves into topics such as sexual education, the impact of religion on sexual health, and the importance of open discussions about intimacy.

Key Points:

• Introduction to Taylor Chetty: Taylor shares her background in supporting survivors of sexualized violence and her research on the significance of sexual education in preventing such violence.
• Sexual Education and Prevention: The discussion emphasizes the need for comprehensive sexual education in schools to empower individuals and reduce instances of sexual violence.
• Religion and Sexual Health: The conversation explores how religious beliefs can influence one's perception of sexuality and the challenges that arise in reconciling faith with sexual well-being.
• Addressing Shame and Stigma: Taylor highlights the importance of dismantling shame associated with sexual topics, advocating for open dialogues to promote healthier relationships and self-acceptance.
• Personal Well-being: Beyond her professional work, Taylor discusses her passion for fitness and self-care, underscoring the holistic approach to maintaining mental and physical health.

This episode offers valuable insights into the intersections of sexuality, religion, and mental health, encouraging listeners to embrace open conversations and challenge societal stigmas.

⏱ [00:00 - 03:00] Introduction & Guest Background

• Hosts introduce Taylor Chetty and her work in sexual education and violence prevention.
• Discussion on why this conversation is important for feminine leadership.

⏱ [03:00 - 10:00] The Role of Sexual Education in Preventing Violence

• Taylor explains how a lack of proper sexual education contributes to issues like consent misunderstandings and sexual violence.
• Why schools need to teach more than just biology—empowerment, boundaries, and consent matter too.

⏱ [10:00 - 20:00] Religion’s Influence on Sexuality & Shame

• How different religious teachings shape beliefs about sex, pleasure, and relationships.
• The impact of purity culture and how it affects both men and women in their adult relationships.
• Why open conversations can help break unhealthy cycles of shame.

⏱ [20:00 - 30:00] Dismantling Shame & Embracing Healthy Sexuality

• How society often silences women’s voices around pleasure and intimacy.
• Practical ways to reclaim confidence and autonomy over your body.

⏱ [30:00 - 40:00] Balancing Feminine Leadership & Sexual Health

• Why leaders (especially women) need to model healthy, shame-free discussions around sexuality.
• The connection between self-awareness, leadership confidence, and embracing one’s full identity.

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Mona is a long time Well Collab Woman, she tells her story of her first visit to The Well Collab and her parenting, upbringing, passions, etc.

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