Kingdom Sexuality (That Sounds Fun Network)

Shout out to our incredible patrons for choosing today's episode! If you want to learn more about the Patreon perks go to patreon.com/kingdomsexuality! Ever wonder what the top three sex positions are? And some unique techniques to take them to the next level?? Then you're not going to want to miss this one! Links from today’s episode: Intimately Us App Married Dance Use the code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Holiday Episode number 3 is here! And we’re ramping up to Christmas, which means this season is probably already so full for you!! So cue this very timely episode! The question we're answering in today's episode is: How do I "keep my love on" with my husband when busy seasons roll around?  It's a great question that we decided to sum up in 5 points: 1.) Be on the same team 2.) Take time as a couple to unplug and play 3.) Steal time away- just the two of you 4.) apologize right away, and ultimately 5.) Remember the Reason for the Season!  Join the community over @kingdomsexuality! You'll see weekly challenges, sex positions, live videos, and so much more!  Have a topic suggestion for Paris and Alana? Feel free to shoot them an email at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com or DM them on Instagram!

Big thank you to this episodes sponsor, Faithful Counseling! Looking for some affordable Christian counseling? Use this link to get 10% off your first month! You're not going to want to miss this incredible episode where Alana and Kyle sit down with Dr. Juli Slattery and talk about her new book: God, Sex, and Your Marriage. They talk about how, when it comes to Christian sexuality and marriage, there are common issues like a lack of intimacy and communication and that being "sexually active" isn't the same as being "sexually intimate." Juli explains how, to build intimacy, couples can talk openly and seek help if needed. And how, in a Christian marriage, it's about finding a balance of passion and pleasure, not just ticking off "marital duty" boxes. God cares about our sexual growth and maturity, focusing on respect, understanding, and having fun along the way! You won't want to miss this one! If you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of the KS content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for the team? Send a DM or email them at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com. Don't forget to check out their website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and the new Facebook Group! They're also on Patreon now! So support Kingdom Sexuality there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts! Links from today's episode: Juli Slattery's website: authenticintimacy.com God Sex and Your Marriage book Java with Juli Podcast

In their last episode, Alana and Paris shared what the bible says in regards to women’s bodies and how purity culture twists what the bible says to put shame and confusion on so many of us. In today's episode they dive a little deeper into this and encourage us to ask ourselves what other lies we’ve come to believe, maybe without even realizing it, around sexuality.  Don't follow Kingdom Sexuality on Instagram yet? Come join the community @kingdomsexuality! You'll see when new episodes are released, weekly sex positions, couples challenges, and more!

Prepare to have a very jolly Christmas, because Alana and Kyle are giving you Kingdom Sexuality's very first SEX CHALLENGE!! Not sure what a sex challenge is? Basically, it's committing to being intimate for a set number of days in a row. In this episode they go through a bunch of FAQ's when it comes to sex challenges. Questions like: Does it HAVE to be sex every day? How do I bring up the idea of a sex challenge to my spouse? What happens if I'm not in the mood one of the days? And so much more!! If you join the 12 Days of Christmas sex challenge we would LOVE to hear how it went for you! So be sure to join our Facebook group: Kingdom Sexuality Community and share how it's impacted your marriage!  Be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality, that's where you'll find even more of our content! Weekly sex positions, content specific to men, connect questions, couples challenges, and so much more!! Have a topic suggestion for us? Send us a DM on Instagram or shoot us an email at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com! And be sure to leave us a review and you might just hear it in the next episode.  Links from today's episode: Intimately Us App

Does your sexuality need a life preserver? Has purity culture, church culture, LACK of of information, or trauma creeped its way into your sex life and you feel like you're about to drown? In this interview Paris and Rusti interview Sheila Gregoire, author of "The Great Sex Rescue" ( and many others, check out her new revised version of 'The Good Girls Guide To Great Sex' ) and chat with her about her study of over 20,000 women with the goal of getting to the heart of our struggle with sexuality. You guys are NOT going to want to miss this one!  If you're not already be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality where you'll find weekly couples challenges, connect questions, sex position ideas, and so much more! Have a topic suggestion for us? Send us a DM on Instagram or an email: kingdomsexuality@gmail.com! 

Big thank you to this episodes sponsor, Faithful Counseling! Looking for some affordable Christian counseling? Use this link to get 10% off your first month! As Christians we can sometimes find it difficult to navigate certain things in our marriage. We see things in the movies but wonder "is this okay for our marriage?". So if you've ever wondered that when it comes to "talking dirty" in the bedroom, you're going to want to tune into this episode! Shout out to our incredible Patron's who chose this weeks episode topic! Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website

Feel in the dark about understanding how ovulation & conception actually works? Do you know as women we typically only have a 24 hour window to conceive every month, providing our cycles are healthy & monthly? If that's came as a shocker, or you're wanting to educate youreslf on your cycle as a woman come hang with Paris for 18 minutes as she debunks some big misconceptions around this topic, covers a series of ovulation & natural fertility boosting tips & tricks, & walks you through the Follicular phase in a simple, easy to understand way. 

Welcome to the Womanhood Diaries, where Paris & Alana talk openly about the real, raw & vulnerable aspects of being women. In this episode, Paris takes menstrual talk to a fun level: debunking PMS, what a healthy monthly hormonal cycle looks like, cleanliness, hormone friendly menstrual products, hormones, & the effect of environment on hormones. Paris believes knowing HOW your body was created to function hormonally, cyclically, & well starts with debunking myths, sharing truths, & getting the un-talked about stuff talked about. Get ready for empowerment, encouragement, & better intimacy in embracing this part of your cycle! For more information on holistic hormonal support, supplements, oils, & dietary info mentioned by Paris in the podcast, please follow &/or reach out to Paris on her IG handle parissimpson_andtribe 

It's almost 2021 and Alana and Paris are keeping the theme on strong for intentionally incorporating sexual goals within our marriages. They talked through spicy Christmas traditions in past episodes and now with New Years coming in hot, it’s about time to sit down together as a couple, and create sexual goals within your marriage. Whether you are a new year's resolution kind of couple or not, creating intentional sexual resolutions, whether year by year, short term, long term, or all of the above, this stuff is so important!  Make sure you're following Kingdom Sexuality on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see weekly challenges, sex positions, live videos, and so much more! Come join the community! And if you'd like to share a topic suggestion feel free to DM on Instagram or send an email to kingdomsexuality@gmail.com!! 

Engaged & heading into marriage? Is your upcoming wedding night leaving your mind frazzled with questions about sexual intimacy? Grab your fave hot drink & feel like you're part of a living room chat with Paris & Alana as they interview Kyler & Britt from "Love Your First Year" ministry. From walking you through wisely preparing your future marriage together and not falling into the common rut of the wedding day being THE ultimate focus of your engagement & losing track of your relationship through it, to wedding night intimacy & the emotional & sexual vulnerability that comes with that, hang out with these 4 as they walk you through common mishaps & encourage you how to navigate this huge season of your life  with your fiancé & Jesus. Also...did we say we have a beautiful, biblical, ULTIMATE premarital counselling course to offer you, too? Yes, yes we do! GET THE ULTIMATE LYFY PREMARITAL COACHING COURSE by Kyler & Britt here with code KINGDOM15 here: https://course.loveyourfirstyear.com/a/45244/v6Bo5tzF FOLLOW Kyler & Britt on IG @loveyourfirstyear & us @kingdomsexualityministry for a life-giving breath of fresh air to your marriage & sex life, engaged & dating relationship, all rooted in God's truths. 

It seems like couples are either very pro shower sex, or anti-shower sex, which one are you?? Tune into this hilarious episode as Alana, Tiera, and Kyle share the pros and cons of shower sex, what lube to use, and positions that make it easier!! If you and your spouse don't actually shower together yet, that's a great place to start when it comes to this! Schedule a time to just be in the shower together! Then, as you get more comfortable, try something new! Shower sex can be a really fun way to spice things up. If you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of the KS content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for the team? Send a DM or email them at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com. Don't forget to check out their website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and the new Facebook Group! They're also on Patreon now! So support Kingdom Sexuality there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts! Links from today's episode: COCONU- Oil Based Lube YES! Oil Based Lube (use the code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for a discount!) Tandem Episode 103: OPPOSITES: Sizes

Tune into this episode where Kyle interviews Dr. Cameron Staley to talk about his new porn recovery programs: The Life After Pornography online program and the Life After Pornography Coach app! Dr. Staley has a background in porn research and ACT therapy for overcoming porn addiction. If pornography is a struggle for you, or someone you know this is definitely an episode for you to listen to and share!!  Be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see more of our content! From weekly connect questions, "Hump Day" Wednesdays, to Thursday's for the men- there will be something for you!  Covenant Eyes is also an incredible program that helps by restricting access to pornographic websites on your devices, helping you to end your pornography addiction! Use to code "KS30" when you sign up to get your first 30 days free!! 

Along with being a great episode on the when's and if's of family planning- it's also an exciting episode where Alana and Kyle get to introduce Kingdom Sexuality's NEWEST MEMBER!! Tiera is a wealth of knowledge when it comes to the topic of fertility and women's health and KS is absolutely thrilled to have her apart of the team! Her sextimony will be coming in a few weeks, so this episode doesn't go too in depth into who Tiera is- instead it's an episode where the team chats about "how do you know when you're ready to have kids?" and "how do you know when to be done growing your family?". Questions that KS gets often from followers.  And if you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of our content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for us? Send a DM or email us at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com. Don't forget to check out our website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and our new Facebook Group! We're also on Patreon now! So support us there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts! Kyle and I are SO excited to have Tiera join us on the team. God has brought her to us at the perfect time and we feel so confident that she's the exact person we needed to come alongside us on this beautiful journey. We can't wait for you guys to get to know her better! -Alana

Today on the KS podcast Alana and Kyle have a couple of very special guests with us to help us close out our opposites series. Abe and Elaine Romero join in today to chat about what it looks like for them to have a commuter marriage! Living in different states how can they stay connected emotionally? Sexually?? What advice do they have for other long distance marriages? How can couples be cultivating connection when they're in different locations? They chat through this, and more! You won't want to miss it. Check out Abe and Elaine's IG pages: @commutermarriagesupport and @marriage.isajoke! Make sure you follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see all of our content! We share weekly sex positions, connect questions, couples challenges, and so much more!  Links from todays episode: -Ultimate Intimacy -Intimately Us

Time to tune into another Q&A episode!! Alana and Paris discuss some of your most asked questions like: how to stay connected (non-sexually) with your spouse when you have little ones, how to bring up the topic of intimacy with your spouse without it being awkward, what to do if you're struggling with arousal, and so much more! If you're a fan of Q&A's feel free to send us more questions on our Instagram account! Go follow us @kingdomsexuality! That's where you'll see weekly couples challenges, Wednesday "hump day" positions, connection questions, and so much more!  Links mentioned in today's episode: Great Sex Rescue- Sheila Wray Gregoire  Nitty Gritty Wedding Night Run Down Taking Charge of Your Fertility

The incredible Kingdom Sexuality patrons were the ones who chose this weeks episode, so a huge THANK YOU to them!! Do you ever struggle with your thoughts during sex? Thinking about a past relationship experience, something you saw in porn, or even just your mind is wandering thinking about what's for dinner tomorrow?? This episode is for you! Alana, Kyle, and Tiera chat about what we do when/if we struggle with wrong thoughts during sex or if our mind wanders during intimacy. They also share some tips and things you can do to get your mind back in the zone during sex! The team gets really practical here, sharing simple tips like: make eye contact, be aware of your senses, and how "mindfulness" could also be a big help!  And if you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of the KS content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for the team? Send a DM or email them at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com. Don't forget to check out their website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and the new Facebook Group! They're also on Patreon now! So support Kingdom Sexuality there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts! Links from today's episode: Come As You Are

Tune into this incredible PART TWO episode of “Ask A Pastor”! The KS team had the pleasure of interviewing Pastor Chris de Monye and asking him all of the questions you sent in on Instagram! Don’t miss it.   Links from today’s episode: Dwellbible.com/kingdom chris@thisisvillagechurch.com @chrisdemonye 7 Primal Questions Question Time Stamps: 1:20 - Is there a place for me to be a pastor if I had sex before marriage?   5:25 - Is it okay to separate or leave my spouse because of porn/erotica usage? 12:17 - How to get my spouse to invest more emotionally in our marriage? I’m tired of doing it all 17:18 - Lots of questions about why churches don’t talk about sex in a healthy way but more in a fear mongering/purity culture way. How do you think churches should handle speaking about sex? 33:45 - Why is monogamy the norm when in reality it’s a new concept? 39:15 - How to create mentorship/discipleship opportunities for couples? ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Every couple goes through crises in their marriage, whether it's big or small. But are we equipped to stay connected when life gets shaky? Is our first response to choose connection with our spouse when our negative emotions come bubbling up or do we disconnect from them- creating a gap between us? Listen in as Alana and Paris discuss some roots of crisis that often show up in our marriages and some reminders for you to stand on when you’re in the thick of it. This episode is packed FULL of valuable information, you’re not going to want to miss it!! Be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality and join the community! You’ll see weekly sex positions, couples challenges, date night ideas, and so much more!!

This one is for the long distance lovers out there! Finally, after numerous requests for advice for couples doing their relationship long distance, we decided to tackle it! We put up a questions box in our stories over on our @kingdomsexuality Instagram account, asking YOU: how to do remain intimate and connected with your spouse if you're doing the long distance thing? So this episode is us sharing that list with you! Advice and tips from couples who have experience doing months of long distance.  To those of you going through this season currently, we love you and just want you to feel so encouraged. Please feel free to reach out- we'd love to know how we can pray for you during this season!  If you're not already, be sure to follow along over on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see giveaways, weekly sex positions, challenges, and so much more! And check out our website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and subscribe for exclusive monthly content! 

The highly anticipated, long awaited oral sex episode is here! Alana and Kyle will be doing more in depth episodes on fellatio and cunnilingus in the coming episodes but Seth and Melanie Studley did a FANTASTIC job starting off this series. You're not going to want to miss this one. They chat about questions like: How would a couple, who’s struggled with the idea of oral sex, introduce it into their marriage? What should the conversations look like? What considerations should be given to hygiene prior to oral? How does a woman work on getting her mind in the zone for oral sex? We're excited for you to tune in!  Connect with Seth and Melanie Studley: Instagram- @anatomyofmarriage Website- www.anatomyofus.com And if you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of our content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for us? Send a DM or email us at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com. Don't forget to check out our website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and our new Facebook Group! We're also on Patreon now! So support us there for some exciting and exclusive perks!  Links from today's episode David Schnarch: Passionate Marriage

In case you were unaware... Valentine's Day is fast approaching! So with that in mind, Alana and Kyle thought it would be a fun idea to share some date night ideas! There's something for those of you who want to stay in, those who want to go out, and those of you who want something spicy. But they don't just end it there, they also touch on something that might be prevalent in your life around this time in February... what if your spouse just isn't into Valentine's Day? How do you navigate that? Where does there need to be compromise and heart inspection? Tune in! And if you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of our content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for us? Send a DM or email us at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com. Don't forget to check out our website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and our new Facebook Group! We're also on Patreon now! So support us there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts! Links from today's episode: Intimately Us App Married Dance (use the code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off!)

Last week the Kingdom Sexuality Team went over a bunch of things that sex is! So this week, Alana and Rusti chat about some of the things that sex is NOT. Things like: sex is not a form of currency, it's not something you have do so you're spouse doesn't have their needs met somewhere else, and it's not always clean and comfortable! Sex is a bunch of things, but there are a lot of things that sex is not. So listen in as we get super honest and open about some lies floating around about intimacy!  Be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see more! We post weekly "hump day" sex positions, couples challenges, connect questions, and so much more! 

Join Alana and Paris as they end of their premarital series tackling a big question: "but what if we've already had sex before marriage??". They go through 3 main points 1. Boundaries and Repentance, 2. Guilt and Shame, and 3. God is our Father not a Punisher. Alana and Paris drive home the heart of who God is, and how EVERYONE is redeemable. Regardless of the lines you've crossed or how far you've done, or how many people you've been with- His grace IS fully sufficient for you! God will ALWAYS welcome you back with open arms looking at you as whole, pure, and deeply loved. Follow us on Instagram @KingdomSexuality if you're not already to see sneak peeks of what series are coming next, weekly sex positions, couples challenges, and so much more! 

Wow, we've made it to an exciting milestone: Episode 100! In this bonus episode, Kyle interviews Alana about what these first 100 episodes have been like, how they've grown her, and how this whole podcast even began! Oh, and make sure you listen to the end to hear about the exciting 100th episode giveaway that's they'll be releasing on Instagram @kingdomsexuality!  Thank you so much for listening to our episodes and following along with us over the years. We appreciate the likes, shares, reviews, and messages so much- you guys are seriously such a blessing to the entire KS team. We can't wait to see where the next 100 episodes take us, and we're excited to see what God has in store for this little ministry!!

You asked, they answer! The KS Team answers questions sent in on Instagram, and they do not hold back! Tune in now! Links from today’s episode: My Counselor Online (You get $25 off your first month when you sign up with our link!) Unite & Ignite membership KS Shop 180: Pregnancy and Postpartum Q&A She Comes First Married Dance use the code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off! (Oralicious was mentioned in this episode) Covenant Spice Passionista ⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

The KS team is joined by Sofia Friesen, Canadian Program Director of Ally Global, and she chats with the KS team about the incredible work that Ally is doing to prevent human trafficking, how it actually happens, and how you can keep your family safe from it. Links from today’s episode: Ally.org @allyglobal Thepreventionproject.ca  KS donation link ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Don't miss this in depth episode that covers SO many good topics! Alana and Kyle tackle the questions you sent us on Instagram- we had put up stories asking what women would want to ask a man, or what questions men would want to ask us. And they were really great questions, so we're going to break it up into a bunch of parts and tackle them over time! So if your question didn't get answered this time, make sure you listen to our upcoming episodes and we'll likely answer in the future! Kyle and Alana discuss a lot about cultivating emotional intimacy, communication, orgasms, pornography effects on your spouse, and so much more!!   Be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see more of our content! You'll find weekly connection questions, Wednesday "hump day" sex positions, "Men's Day" Thursday's, and so much more! Links from today's episode: Purity Culture Episode 1 Purity Culture Episode 2 The Womanhood Diaries: Orgasms Let's Chat Orgasms- the how, techniques, + more.

Well, we said this episode is coming and here it is! You wanted to hear more information about cunnilingus? Listen in! It's a longer episode but Alana and Kyle tackle SO much really valuable information. Things like: how do you even begin to start talking about oral sex with your spouse? and why do some women struggle when it comes to receiving oral sex? Kyle and Alana also ran a big survey before doing this series and gathered a bunch of data. You’ll hear it woven in throughout this episode and NEXT week’s episode as well. They got almost 4,500 responses, so the data is from a decent-sized sample and data set! Also, if you haven't listen to episode 112: Deep Dive Into Anatomy it's recommended to go listen to that one first, as there's quite a bit of anatomy talk in this episode and the one to come.  And if you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of our content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for us? Send a DM or email us at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com. Don't forget to check out our website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and our new Facebook Group! We're also on Patreon now! So support us there for some exciting and exclusive perks! Links from today's episode: She Comes First - US Link - Canadian Link Opposites: Wants

Did you know there's multiple orgasmic spots in a woman? God created us so incredibly, ladies! In this episode, Paris + Alana go over clitoral + g-spot orgasms, techniques on orgasm, & chat the real + raw on this hot topic.  Join the community over @kingdomsexuality! You'll see weekly challenges, sex positions, live videos, and so much more!  Have a topic suggestion for Paris and Alana? Feel free to shoot them an email at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com or DM them on Instagram!

Tune in to hear the KS team tackle some big questions around selflessness- questions like: What does selflessness actually look like in the bedroom? How do I bring up the need for more selflessness without offending my spouse? and I’m already exhausted—how can I be selfless when I have nothing left to give? Links from today’s episode: Subscribe here! Keeping Score Episode Intimacy with Small Kids episode Resetting Your Mindset episode Awaken Love book Intimately Us App The Flirtation Experiment book ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Special thanks to the sponsor of this episode, Dwell! Go to dwellbible.com/kingdom to get your 25% off discount.

Want to get to know the KS Team better? They put a questions box over on Instagram asking "what are some things you assume about us, individually and as a team?". So in this hilarious episode Kyle's wife, Samantha, presents the assumptions to each team member and they share whether or not it's accurate or not! This episode is a hoot, so tune in! Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠Instagram⁠ ⁠Facebook Group⁠ ⁠Patreon⁠ ⁠Website

Is it time to do a check-in on your communication? Wanting to take your communication to the next level? Tune into this episode and start the new year off with some killer skills in this area! Links from today's episode: Better Help 2024 Marriage Resolution Guide Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to hear YOUR review at the beginning of an episode??? Leave one on Apple Podcasts or send us a DM on Instagram- you might just hear it in the next one!

Join the KS team as they answer questions that our female followers sent in over on Instagram! QUESTION TIME STAMPS: 4:12 “How can I switch things up if my spouse doesn’t like lingerie/games/toys/etc?” 7:23 “Newly married, we cannot get him inside of me, how to loosen?” 9:47 “Husband has a very low drive and can go weeks without sex and I can’t- advice?” 16:00 “I’ve been married for a month and I haven’t had a climax, any advice?”  17:36 “My husband hasn’t finished in over a month now, what do I do?” 19:50 “Ways to put more focus on my husband, make him feel desired?” 23:00 “Why don’t I like kissing more? My husband likes to make out but its so… wet.” 24:32 “How to restore desire during a season of high stress?” 27:34 “Is it normal to have no libido at all? Ways around this to get turned on.” 29:37 “Best advice for first time wedding night sex, worried I won’t be able to relax enough.” 31:32 “Thoughts on writing erotica for my wife to read as foreplay?” 32:48 “How to take the reins more? Not initiating, but to control intimacy more. Feels weird to be in charge and I don’t want to just lay there” Links from today’s episode: Vaginismus Episode @painfree.intimacy Let’s Get Checked: KINGDOM for 25% off Christian Counselling $25 off your first month with our link! Spontaneous Sex vs Scheduling Sex Spontaneous Desire vs Responsive Desire The Penis Book KS Prayer Bundle Better Sex Through Mindfulness Starting Life Together Bundle Ultimate Wedding Night Guide Awaken Love ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Setting boundaries? Leaving & cleaving? Our roles as future spouses? Being unequally yoked? What to read, who to surround ourselves with, & counselling? There is a LOAD of your questions in here as you prepare for marriage, & Paris & Alana walk you through this & more importantly, walk you through it with God's direction & the mindset of excitement, intention, & preparation for this next season of life!

Mindset. Body Image. No sex drive. Pregnancy friendly sex positions. Postpartum intimacy cultivation. You asked the questions, + Paris interviews Alana as she journeys through her second pregnancy! 

Are you engaged and wondering how to make your future marriage one that is set up for success? This episode is for you! Plus, check out the resource the KS team just released! Get the guides individually for $47 or the bundle of all three for $97! The first 10 people to order the bundle using the code LIFETOGETHER3 will get all 3 bundles for the price of one! Links from today’s episode: The 'Starting Life Together' Bundle The Ultimate Engagement Guide The Ultimate Wedding Night Guide The Ultimate Newlywed Guide ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to hear YOUR review at the beginning of an episode??? Leave one on Apple Podcasts or send us a DM on Instagram- you might just hear it in the next one!

Happy Valentine's Day, Kingdom Sexuality listeners! They decided to switch things up and go a different route for this Valentine's Day episode! Listen in as Alana and Rusti chat about the slightly less glamorous side of intimacy. They go over an array of sticky situations that can occur, common hiccups that can throw a wrench in your sexy plans, embarrassing things that are totally normal to occur during lovemaking sessions. So buckle up, get ready to laugh and let's go! Follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality and join the community! You'll see weekly sex positions, couples challenges, connect questions, and so much more!!

Listen along as Alana & Paris each share three ways couples can go about "spicing up" their love lives! In a sexual rut or not, these tips are a great way to help reignite the flame between the sheets, and can just help build connection with your spouse overall! Don't forget to follow us on Instagram (@KingdomSexuality) to build community, see couple challenges, new weekly "hump day" sex position ideas, & so much more!  The books Paris recommends are: Intimacy Ignited and Sheet Music.  And friends, feel free to email us: kingdomsexuality@gmail.com or DM us on Instagram with prayer requests, questions, comments, and episode topic suggestions! We'd love to hear from you! 

YOU ASKED and WE ANSWERED! Here are some of the questions we've received on our Instagram account about the three of us! So we; Alana, Paris, and Rusti, share more about who we are! We chat about what we do on the daily, if we were virgins when we got married, what our love languages are, favourite part about doing this ministry, and more! Put in your headphones and get to know us better!!  Feel free to share some of your own answers with us over on Instagram @kingdomsexuality! Over there you'll see us share weekly sex positions, connect questions, and so much more! Have any more personal questions for us? Shoot them our way either in our DM's or email us at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com! 

Is your sex life moving forward or backwards? Maybe it's time to go back to the basics! Tune in as the KS team shares some VERY exciting news at the beginning of this episode and tackles the fundamentals of a healthy sex life. Shout out to our incredible Patron's for choosing today's episode! Links from today’s episode: That Sounds Fun Network Website My Counselor Online (get $25 off when you sign up using our link!) Episode 189 with Josh Spurlock (Founder of My Counselor Online) Episode 192 with Josh Spurlock Figuring Out What I Like Guide KS Shop ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Ladies, do you notice your energy or mood change throughout your cycle? Did you know there are certain times in your cycle your body is more "ready" to be intimate?? Tune into this casual chat with Alana and Tiera as Tiera guides us through the female cycle and how it impacts pleasure! Links from today's episode: - Taking Charge of Your Fertility Book - Beloved Fertility use the code KSFOLLOWER to get $50 off any package! - TempDrop Fertility Tracker Use code AFKINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off! Want more? Come hang out with us! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website

Tune into this amazing episode that was requested by YOU! Alana and Rusti chat about some "do's and don't's" when it comes to conversations with your friends about your intimate life! What's okay to share? How do I even bring this topic up with friends? What if everyone judges me for asking this question? They cover all those questions and more! Be sure to listen till the end to hear the "practical application" side as Rusti and Alana share some things that you could bring up in conversation with trusted friends.  Are you following us on Instagram? Check out our page @kingdomsexuality to see weekly sex positions, connect questions, discounts on amazing products, and so much more! Have a topic suggestion? Shoot us a DM on Instagram or an email to kingdomsexuality@gmail.com! 

Tune into this incredible episode where Alana and Paris interview Dan Purcell from Get Your Marriage On! about all things sexual confidence. Dan shares so much incredible wisdom around navigating confidence in the bedroom and what you can do if that's something your spouse struggles with! Be sure to follow Dan @getyourmarriageon, and be sure to check out the "14 Days of Sextimacy" challenge as well, he shares more on that over on his account. Be sure to follow the KS Team on Instagram @kingdomsexuality! You'll see weekly sex positions, couples challenges, connect questions, and so much more! Links from todays episode: -Great Sex Rescue: Sheila Wray Gregoire -Celeste David: Marriage Labratory -Intimately Us App

Postpartum is a season of life that can leave women feeling one of two things: "what's the big deal?! I LOVED this season!" or, "this terrifies me beyond words." We have covered postpartum, ways to prepare yourself for it through a support network, caring for your mentality, being grounded in Jesus, hormone prep, intimacy with your man WITHOUT having sex, & amazing food & supplements to keep your body nourished & upbeat. However, sometimes this season just hits HARD, fast, & furious, and we feel alone, worthless, & live in a very, very dark place inside our heads & hearts. Not because we want to, may I add...but because sometimes it's just HARD. Today, we host an incredible guest speaker, Bethany Fontaine, as she shares to raw struggles of her personal postpartum battle. Find & follow Bethany on social media on: Instagram https://www.instagram.com/bethanyfontaine/?hl=en Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC86cc9AQwyEPj9fwnItDtaQ

Listen in as Alana and Rusti share their hearts and chat about spiritual gifts, what it looks like using them in your marriage, and how to begin walking in a missional marriage. They also share some advice for those in the relationship who are the ones running hard after Jesus and how to navigate life if your spouse isn't on the same page as you yet. If you’re not following us on Instagram be sure you check us out @kingdomsexuality! You’ll see weekly challenges, “hump day” sex positions, exciting discounts, and so much more!! Have a topic suggestion for the KS Team? Shoot us a DM or an email at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com!

Looking for a way to help "porn proof" your devices? Check out ⁠Covenant Eyes⁠! Use the code KS30 for your first 30 days free! Let's get to know the latest KS team member, shall we? In this episode, Alana chats with Kyle and he shares his journey of overcoming a pornography addiction. Kyle goes into detail explaining his struggles, when he realized he needed to seek professional help, and gives really practical tips to overcome a pornography addiction. Have any porn related questions you'd like answered? Feel free to direct your messages to Kyle on the Kingdom Sexuality Instagram account @kingdomsexuality or shoot him a DM on his personal account @kyleenns.  And if you're not following the KS team already, go check out the Instagram account! That's where they'll share latest episodes, Wednesday "Hump Day" positions, connect questions, Thursday's "for the men", and so much more!  Links from today's episode: Covenant Eyes (use the code KS30 for your first 30 days free!) 30 Prayers For Your Husband Ebook 30 Prayers For Your Wife Ebook

Are you in those first fresh years of marriage? When everything is shiny and bright with the future wide ahead of you? Such a precious and exciting time in life! But it can also be a season filled with unmet expectations, struggle, and unanswered questions. Like many, maybe you're sitting there wondering: "Why don't I want sex as much as I thought I would?" or "How can I go about telling my spouse if I'm not feeling completely satisfied where things are at right now?". Pop in your headphones and listen in as Paris and Rusti chat though those questions and so much more!  Be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see when that new resource is live!! You'll also see weekly couples challenges, connect questions, Wednesday "Hump Day" positions, and more! 

Get ready for a spicy conversation where Rachel & Zach interviewed the KS team about intimacy in marriage and what the word of God has to say about sex! Time to experience the fullness of God's design for marriage and intimacy! Links from today’s episode: Purpose Podcast Faith Promise Church ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to hear YOUR review at the beginning of an episode??? Leave one on Apple Podcasts or send us a DM on Instagram- you might just hear it in the next one!

Whether you're single or married- you're going to want to listen to this incredible episode! We had an amazing time picking the brain of our beautiful guest, Jody Nagyl. We chat about how singles can steward their season of singleness wisely, how single people can navigate sexual desires honorably, and how married women can support and walk alongside our single friends in an empowering, encouraging way! Follow Jody on Instagram here: @jodynagyl - and be sure to follow along with Kingdom Sexuality on Instagram @kingdomsexuality for weekly challenges, sex positions, reels, and a beautiful community!

Curious how Kingdom Sexuality began? What about their stories brought the team together? And what does the future hold? Listen to the end to hear some exciting news! Links from today’s episode: Blog post about KS boundaries  KS Shop Starting Life Together Guide Unite & Ignite Episode 206 with Dr. Dave Currie Kyle’s Sextimony My Husband Was Addicted To Porn part 1 The Impact Of His Porn Addiction On Me part 2 That Sounds Fun Network Website ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Tune into this incredible PART ONE episode of “Ask A Pastor”! The KS team had the pleasure of interviewing Pastor Chris de Monye and asking him all of the questions you sent in on Instagram! Don’t miss it.   Links from today’s episode: Intimacy Through Grief Episode chris@thisisvillagechurch.com @chrisdemonye Time Stamps: 10:40 - How to balance marriage, job, kids, work. We have little desire left at the end of the day for each other 16:27 - Why do I need to have sex if I’m married? 22:06 - Sex seems like yet another item on the list of things that given to men and not women. What are your thoughts on that? 24:50 - How to address my spouse’s fantasies that are not biblical (ie. threesome, etc)? 30:58 - How to address my spouse’s fantasies that are biblical but I’m hesitant? ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Gearing up to your wedding night and not sure what to expect? Do you have some big questions but don't know who to get to answer them? Tune into this fun episode where Alana and Rusti share the nitty gritty's about the wedding night! They discuss pain, condoms, lube, and so much more! If you're engaged and getting married soon you're not going to want to miss this one!  We also have an amazing in-depth resource coming for you soon, so keep your eye's out for that!! Be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see our latest posts, reels, and giveaways!  Links from today's episode: COCONU (use our code: kingdomsexuality for a discount!) GLYDE CONDOMS Love Your First Year: Premarital Course

Men and women's bodies are vastly different from one another. So naturally, they each require different things to achieve an orgasm. But why doesn't anyone ever talk about this?! Alana and Paris both share how they went into marriage assuming that reaching climax would just happen to women like it does to men. Nope. But what a gift, that as husband and wife that you get to learn how to get her there together. And that's one of the biggest things Paris and Alana hope you take away from this episode: Understanding that achieving an orgasm is a skill that women have to learn. So plug in your headphones and buckle up as they tackle 5 big lies that are commonly believed about orgasms!  Be sure to follow Kingdom Sexuality on Instagram (@kingdomsexuality) to see weekly challenges, sex positions, tips, giveaways, & so much more! It's a safe space to ask questions, be challenged, and cultivate community.  Find the book Paris and Alana mention here: Sheet Music by Dr. Kevin Leman 

Struggle to initiate sex in your marriage? Or are you the spouse that is always initiating?? Tune in to hear Alana, Kyle, and Tiera chat about some practical ways you can learn to initiate and what ways women vs men prefer when it comes to this! Links from today's episode: Awaken Love The Flirtation Experiment  Better Help: Counseling ⁠Get on the waitlist for ⁠February’s Unite & Ignite membership!!⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to hear YOUR review at the beginning of an episode??? Leave one on Apple Podcasts or send us a DM on Instagram- you might just hear it in the next one!

Odds are good that you and your spouse feel loved in different ways. In this episode, Alana and Kyle chat about the 5 love languages and how to navigate it when you and your spouse's love languages aren't the same. Like, what do you do when your spouse's love language is gifts but you have zero interest in buying gifts? Or if your love language is acts of service but you're left frustrated waiting for your spouse to take out the garbage? Or your spouse loves to touch you, but the thought of PDA makes you uncomfortable? Alana and Kyle are going to chat all about that today. If you're not already be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality! You'll see weekly couples challenges, connect questions, "hump day" sex positions, and so much more! Have a topic suggestion for us? Shoot us an email at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com Links from today's episode: Gary Chapman's 5 Love Languages Book 46: Communicating During Sex

Today's episode is another classic Q&A episode where we take questions you guys have sent us and we discuss our answers. You won't want to miss this spicy episode! 2:00 How do I help my wife be more confident to initiate more? 8:40 How do you maintain intimacy through stressful times? 11:10 How do I help my wife get out of her head during sex? 14:55 How to not be grossed out by bodily fluids in mouth during oral sex? 19:07 How soon can/should sex be re-introduced postpartum? 20:02 We struggle to communicate what we need/want. Any tips? 25:50 How do I talk to my spouse about doing something new? 28:43 Is filming sex with my spouse okay? 31:37 How to keep sex fresh when TTC for 2 years? 35:16 Advice for a husband and wife that want to finish together? 40:16 How do you know if you’re orgasming? 42:41 Our “long sex” is great but we don’t always have time, how to have good <30min sex w/o warmup?   Links from today’s episode: Flirtation Experiment- Lisa Jacobson, Phylicia Masonheimer Awaken Love- Ruth Buezis  My Counselor Online Better Sex Through Mindfulness  Dr. Lorri Brotto Coconu Lubricant Her Turn Sex Challenge Anatomy Of Us: Makin’ Sex Tapes ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Buckle up for this in depth chat on both male and female anatomy!! Kyle uses his medical knowledge of the body to discuss everything anatomy! And when we say everything, we mean everything!! Some of this information might not seem relevant, but it is actually so helpful when it comes to bringing more pleasuring to a woman! Like, did you know the "g-spot" is actually just a clitoral cluster?? And did you know that the vagina gets longer when a woman becomes more aroused?? Husbands, you're going to want to listen to this one so you are able to bring your understand your wife's body to the next level! We also chat about what women want men to know about their anatomy and what men wish women knew about their bodies!  Be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see more of our content! You'll see weekly sex positions, couples challenges, Thursday content for men, and so much more! Have an idea of what you'd like to hear us talk about? Send us a DM or an email at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com! Links from today's episode: She Comes First: -US LINK -CANADIAN LINK Come As You Are: -US LINK -CANADIAN LINK

You asked and they answered!! Alana, Tiera, and Kyle answer an assortment of questions sent in by YOU, their listeners and followers! You won't want to miss it! Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Website⁠

Paris & Alana each write 3 intimate, intentional questions down to ask one another, the catch? Neither of them know the questions they're about to be asked & answer on the spot! Join them to hear about how they're prepping now for future sex talks with their children, love languages, favourite sex positions, & more! Come hang with us on IG @ https://www.instagram.com/kingdomsexuality/?hl=en

Is there a type of sex you'd like to try but you're not sure how to go about asking your spouse for it? Maybe you'd like to try something a bit more rough or passionate, or slow and sensual- what does that conversation look like?? Tune in to find out! Links from today’s episode: Better Help Counseling Types of Sex episode ⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to hear YOUR review at the beginning of an episode??? Leave one on Apple Podcasts or send us a DM on Instagram- you might just hear it in the next one!

What does your dream date look like? What does your spouses dream date look like? Are they similar or super different? Tune in as Alana, Paris, and Rusti share what their dream dates were and what their husbands were! Have the chat with your spouse, then after doing the date try out some new sexual technique! The KS team goes through 4 different techniques that can be helpful to try in the bedroom, so listen in to hear those after they share their dream dates!  Be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see when we're uploading new episodes, weekly sex positions, couples challenges, and so much more! Have a topic suggestion for us? Send us a DM on Instagram or shoot us an email kingdomsexuality@gmail.com, we'd love to hear what your dream dates were!! 

What does sexual confidence even look like as a godly woman? In this episode, Paris & Alana confront huge myths the enemy condemns us wth in the confidence realm, such as false confidence & idols, to hiding from our full calling to truth. Paris & Alana open this heart felt message with God's powerful truths over us a women to direct & encourage us to walk fully in sexual confidence & freedom within marriage.  Join the community over @kingdomsexuality! You'll see weekly challenges, sex positions, live videos, and so much more!  Have a topic suggestion for Paris and Alana? Feel free to shoot them an email at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com or DM them on Instagram!

Shout out to our Patreon's for choosing this weeks episode! Join the KS team as they tackle a big topic: period sex. Do you have questions around the topic of sex while the woman is on her menstrual cycle? The team answers questions like: doesn't the Bible say period sex is bad? How do you keep things less messy? Are there risks to it? Link from today's episode: GotQuestions .org link Nixit Canada: https://nixit.ca/?rstr=28289 Nixit USA: https://nixit.com/?rstr=29068 Use code KINGDOM for 15% off! Splash Blanket BeLoved Fertility (if you have questions for Tiera)   ⁠Get on the waitlist for ⁠February’s Unite & Ignite membership!!⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to hear YOUR review at the beginning of an episode??? Leave one on Apple Podcasts or send us a DM on Instagram- you might just hear it in the next one!

Looking for a way to help "porn proof" your devices? Check out ⁠Covenant Eyes⁠! Use the code KS30 for your first 30 days free! Here's part two of our episode with Samantha Enns, Kyle's lovely wife! Alana asked her the questions that our followers sent over on Instagram. Sam tackles some big questions like "Did you struggle with comparison, knowing what he'd seen?" and "Did his addiction impact your sex life? How?". Again, we are so sorry for those of you who are going through this. We're praying that Sam's vulnerability and Kyle's testimony will encourage you.   Be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see more of our content! You'll see weekly "hump day" sex positions, content for the men on Thursdays, connect questions, couples challenges, and so much more!   Links from today's episode:  Covenant Eyes use the code: KS30 for 30 days free!

Trigger warning: the KS team talks about miscarriage during this episode and wanted to disclose that and send love to those who have experienced loss or those currently going through it. Shout out to the patrons who chose this weeks episode! Want to become a patron and get all the sweet perks? Tap here! This episode is a tough one, but one that's been requested for a long time. Praying that it's helpful in whatever you've walked through, or can help in the future. Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠

Want to safeguard your home’s digital spaces? Then it's time to look into Covenant Eyes! Use our code KS30 to get your first 30 days free! Kyle and Tiera had the privilege of interviewing Dr. Dave Currie, a certified Sexual Recovery Therapist and a registered clinician with the American Association of Sexual Addiction Therapy! You won't want to miss it! Links from today’s episode: IA test Dr. Currie’s website: doingfamilyright.com  ReGroup for Men Flair for Women The Ideal "I Do" - Building Strong: Pursuing the Marriage You’ll Love ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

We all know the beautiful season of giving is nearing, so Kyle and Alana start off the episode by diving into some fun sexy stocking stuffers! But on top of that, they also go more into: what can you be giving your spouse that's worth even MORE than a physical gift? Things like the gift of being present, the gift of exploration, and the gift of selflessness. Putting off our selfish nature OUTSIDE of the bedroom and seeing how it transforms things INSIDE the bedroom.  Be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see more of our content! We share weekly sex positions, couples challenges, content for men, and so much more! And don't forget to leave us a review on Apple Podcasts and you might just hear it at the start of our next episode!  Links from today's episode:  US Amazon Store Canadian Amazon Store Mentionables (use the code KINGDOM for 10% off!) COCONU (code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 15% off!) Married Dance

We often create individual goals for ourselves but do we make marriage/intimacy goals as a couple? Tune in to hear some practical goals you can implement this new year! Links from today’s episode: Dwellbible.com/kingdom Marriage Resolution Guide Intimately Us App Better Help My Counselor Online: You get $25 off your first month when you sign up with our link Amazon Shop ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Buckle up for this incredibly insightful episode where Tiera takes the lead and gives us the run down of numerous birth control options! If you're in the process of deciding what's right for you- hopefully this will help! *disclaimer: we are not medical professionals, you should consult your doctor for more information* Link from today's episode: BeLoved Fertility (where you can contact Tiera with questions) TempDrop Use code AFKINGDOMSEXUALITY for 11% off! Mira Fertility Use code KINGDOM for $40 off your order! Daysy code DaysyUS+835 for $20 off! Take Charge of Your Fertility book SKYN Condoms ⁠Get on the waitlist for ⁠February’s Unite & Ignite membership!!⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to hear YOUR review at the beginning of an episode??? Leave one on Apple Podcasts or send us a DM on Instagram- you might just hear it in the next one!

Time to talk expectations... but around sex. Did you go into your marriage with set expectations when it came to sex? How did you find navigating it? Do you and your spouse talk about expectations now? Expectations not shared are usually expectations unmet. So how can we navigate having these conversations well? Tune in as Tiera, Kyle, and Alana chat about healthy "sex-pectations". If you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of the KS content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for the team? Send a DM or email them at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com. Don't forget to check out their website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and the new Facebook Group! They're also on Patreon now! So support Kingdom Sexuality there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts! Links from today's episode: Faithful Counseling

What does intimacy during the postpartum season look like? How is it possible to keep heat in the sheets during this new stage in life? And why are so many new mamas going into the "fourth trimester" feeling unprepared? Alana and Paris chat about this and so much more in this highly requested postpartum episode! Listen till the end to hear them share 5 tips for keeping the connection and intimacy alive during this postpartum season. Have any other topic suggestions? Questions? Or want to make sure you see when new episodes, live chats, and giveaways are happening? Join the community over on Instagram! Follow us @KingdomSexuality to see weekly couples challenges, sex positions, encouragement, and so much more! 

Here at Kingdom Sexuality we know that we can only disciple as far as we've experienced, which is why we're SO excited to do interviews! In Canada, roughly 1 in 6 couples experiences infertility- so this is a big topic that we want to cover! So listen along as Alana interviews her good friend, sister-in-law, and co-blogger Melinda on her and her husbands infertility journey and how it impacted their intimate life and what they did to keep their connection during that time.  You can follow along with Melinda's sweet little family over on Instagram at: @melindasara89 or  @linensandvines.  

Merry Christmas from all of us on the Kingdom Sexuality team! Tune in as we chat all things giving and receiving! Are you a cheerful giver? Do you receive gifts well? Or compliments?? Listen to the episode to hear more! Links from today's episode: Better Help Love Language Gift Guide episode ⁠Get on the waitlist for January's Unite & Ignite membership!!⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to hear YOUR review at the beginning of an episode??? Leave one on Apple Podcasts or send us a DM on Instagram- you might just hear it in the next one!

Shout out to our incredible Patrons for choosing this weeks episode! If you'd like to have a say in what episodes we release, become a patron! Ever wonder what should be done with your hair... down there?? Tune into this highly requested episode where the KS team chats through: what you can do with your pubic hair, do you have to do anything with it, and can going bare be linked to watching porn? Links from today’s episode: Mistletoe Episode Manscape Trimmer Bikini Line Trimmer Razors Laser Hair Removal Device Get on the waitlist for ⁠⁠March's Unite & Ignite membership!!⁠⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to hear YOUR review at the beginning of an episode??? Leave one on Apple Podcasts or send us a DM on Instagram- you might just hear it in the next one!

Struggle to know how to have those conversations with your kiddos? The KS team got to sit down with Mary Flo and Megan, owners of the company Birds & Bees, which is an online course all about equipping you as a parent to tackle the talk of the birds and bees! If you have kiddos, you need to tune in! Link from today's episode: Birds & Bees Course (KINGDOM20 for 20% off!) Guys Stuff book Care & Keeping of You book Birds-bees.com   ⁠Get on the waitlist for ⁠March’s Unite & Ignite membership!!⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to hear YOUR review at the beginning of an episode??? Leave one on Apple Podcasts or send us a DM on Instagram- you might just hear it in the next one!

Ready to have a Pelvic Floor Physical Therapist answer YOUR questions?? Callie Teel, PT, DPT is a dedicated follower of Christ and a long time Kingdom Sexuality fan. She has a passion for helping women overcome dysfunction and embrace the sexual beings God created them to be. She graduated from Texas Tech university Health Science Center with her doctorate in physical therapy and then trained to become a pelvic health specialist. She now works in Amarillo Texas, helping women with all kinds of things like; pain with intimacy, difficulty climaxing, pre and postpartum care, incontinence, constipation and so much more. She did a beautiful job answering your questions and sharing her wealth of knowledge with us- this is an episode you're not going to want to miss!! Callie and a coworker created their own podcast “Pelvic Service Announcement” to educate and empower others about their pelvic health! Be sure to check it out!  And if you're not, be sure to follow us on Instagram as well @kingdomsexuality where you'll see all of our latest updates, weekly sex positions, connect questions, discounts on great products, and so much more!! 

There are times when our spouse does something small and simple and it means the WORLD to us. Likewise, sometimes little things can be a big thing in a negative way! Tune in as the KS team shares both sides AND some intimacy examples as well! ⁠Get on the waitlist for ⁠March's Unite & Ignite membership!!⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to hear YOUR review at the beginning of an episode??? Leave one on Apple Podcasts or send us a DM on Instagram- you might just hear it in the next one!

Huge thank you to Dwell for sponsoring today's episode! Go to dwellbible.com/kingdom to get it for 25% off! Is shame from your past still showing up in your marriage? In this episode, the KS team is talking about how shame, whether from past choices, guilt, or lies from the enemy, can quietly sabotage intimacy and connection. We’ll walk through a powerful self-check quiz, explore how God offers true freedom, and share practical ways to step into healing and grace in your marriage. Watch the episode on YouTube!! Links from today’s episode: Dwell Bible App My Counselor Online: You get $25 off your first month when you sign up with our link! Better Help ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

In this episode, Alana & Paris speak some big, freeing, & healing truths on forgiveness. This is a precursor episode heading into our pornography series, so be sure to catch this before we go into BIG stuff. Tune into this to be encouraged & set your feet on the healing journey towards kicking shame & deep roots to the side & walking in our gift of freedom through forgiveness through the Father!

The newlywed season is such a sweet season in life! We get this precious time to learn so much about each other. But how do we navigate the difficulties well? Tune in to find out! Links from today’s episode: Spontaneous vs Responsive Desire Love Language Quizzes Engagement Guide Wedding Night Guide Newlywed Guide Starting Life Together Bundle ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to hear YOUR review at the beginning of an episode??? Leave one on Apple Podcasts or send us a DM on Instagram- you might just hear it in the next one!

It's time to get back to the basics as the KS team dives into The Sex Fundamentals! We'll be covering so many great topics- the taboo ones, the curious ones, and the ones no one will talk about. Join us as we cover things like sexual confidence, how the topic of God and sex mesh, getting out of slumps, and more! Welcome to the Kingdom Sexuality podcast.

The KS team is joined by Dr. Andrew Bauman, a licensed mental health counselor and writer whose work focuses on sexual health, abuse, and wholeness with men. Don't miss this incredible interview! Huge thanks to Covenant Eyes for sponsoring this series on pornography! Use our code KS30 to try it out for 30 days free! Links from today’s episode: ⁠Unwanted Jay Stringer⁠ ⁠My Counsellor Online⁠ :get $25 off when you use our link ⁠Covenant Eyes: KS30 For 30 Days Free⁠ ⁠Stumbling Towards Wholeness⁠ ⁠Birds & Bees Course⁠ KINGDOM20 for 20% off ⁠How Not To Be An *ss⁠ ⁠Christiancc.org⁠ ⁠Andrewjbauman.com⁠  ⁠⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Join the KS Team as they explore the challenges faced by newlywed couples in navigating changing family dynamics and dealing with finances in this new season. They discuss the concept of "leaving and cleaving," highlighting three important aspects: financial leaving, emotional leaving, and spiritual leaving. Alana, Tiera, and Kyle also emphasize the importance of open communication and setting boundaries with families, while maintaining empathy and understanding. Additionally, the Team provide insights into managing finances as a married couple, including tithing, joint bank accounts, bill payments, regular financial check-ins, and aligning spending priorities. Overall, this episode aims to equip newlyweds with practical tools to navigate the complexities of family dynamics and financial management in their marriage journey. If you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of the KS content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for the team? Send a DM or email them at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com. Don't forget to check out their website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and the new Facebook Group! They're also on Patreon now! So support Kingdom Sexuality there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts! Links from today's episode: Ruthless Elimination of Hurry book Love Your First Year (use code KINGDOM15 for a discount!) Faithful Counseling

Tune into our final pornography series episode with Nick Stumbo, Executive Director at Pure Desire Ministries. Nick shares how porn impacted him as a pastor and how he decided to find healing! Special shout out to Coventant Eyes for sponsoring this pornography seriers! Use our code KS30 to get your first month FREE! Find healing TODAY!!! Links from today’s episode: Covenant Eyes (KS30 for your first 30 days free!!) Pure Desire Parent Resource: use code  PARENTS29 for a discount! Puredesire.org Pure Desire podcast ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Shout out to our Patron's for deciding on today's episode! If you'd like a say in what episodes are released consider becoming a patron today! Does modesty look difference once we're married? Do boundaries and rules we had while we were dating/engaged still stand? Tune in to find out! Link from today's episode: Kim & Darlene Interview Kait’s IG post ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to hear YOUR review at the beginning of an episode??? Leave one on Apple Podcasts or send us a DM on Instagram- you might just hear it in the next one!

You're not going to want to miss this incredible episode on navigating sexual rejection! It's time to have a real moment with yourself next time your partner initiates intimacy and you decline the offer... take a moment to ask yourself: WHY though? If I'm too tired to do this or am I just wanting to do something else? Is this really a 'not tonight's moment' or can it simply be a 'not right now, let me decompress from a hard day' moment?Are you up for other things? A naked body massage, cuddling and kissing, etc. We're NOT saying you have to say "yes" every time if you're not actually in the mood. But sometimes it's VERY easy to 'just say no'. We have to remember that this isn't something that if you tell them no they can go ask one of their buddies if they want to go and do this with them. This is something only you can give. It's a gift that only you can give them they cannot find satisfaction in anything else without breaking God's covenantal design for marriage. Be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see more of our content! And check out our website to see our KS merch and incredible ebooks! Links from today's episode: Emotional Intimacy Episode

Do you have a time of day preference when it comes to sex? Does your spouse? And are they the same? Alana and Kyle tackle the age old debate of morning sex vs. evening sex! (Don't worry, they don't forget about afternoon delights!) But more seriously, how do you navigate this if you're not a night owl but your spouse would rather stay up super late- when do you incorporate your intimacy? Tune in, and maybe if you've never thought about what time of day you prefer you and your spouse can have that conversation! If you're not already be sure to follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality! That's where you'll see more of our content: weekly sex positions, couples challenges, connect questions, and so much more! Plus we even have a day dedicated to the men! Have a topic suggestion for us? Shoot us an email at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com.

Huge shout out to this episodes sponsor Married Dance! They're an amazing,Christian-owned, sex toy shop! Check them out and use our code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off! Been itching to hear more of our thoughts on the topic of sex toys?? Then this is the episode for you! Alana, Kyle, and Tiera tackle the topic more in depth and build off of last weeks episode. Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Website⁠

Ever feel like you're drowning trying to do it all? Drink enough water, get exercise, be a good wife and mother, and still get some sleep? Join the KS team as they unpack whether or not you have to try to get it all done! Links from today’s episode: HER TURN Sex Challenge: use the code HERTURNPOD to get it 50% off ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to hear YOUR review at the beginning of an episode??? Leave one on Apple Podcasts or send us a DM on Instagram- you might just hear it in the next one!

The media shows us, when it comes to cleaning up after sex, that you can just kiss your partner and roll over for snuggles and snoozing. But alas. If you've been married for any length of time you'll know that there's a bit more to it than that. Or, if you're engaged and no one has ever told you what it looks like to "clean up" after being intimate- this episode is for you. Alana, Tiera, and Kyle really casually and practically go through what it looks like to properly clean up after intercourse. They also share how YOU, their followers on Instagram, clean up after sex! Excited for you to take a listen! If you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of the KS content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for the team? Send a DM or email them at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com. Don't forget to check out their website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and the new Facebook Group! They're also on Patreon now! So support Kingdom Sexuality there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts! Links from today's episode: DudeWipes Drip Stick

Does your desire for sex happen suddenly, or does it take your body a bit of time to warm up to the idea? It turns out both are normal! Tune in to hear more!! Link from today's episode: Come As You Are book ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to hear YOUR review at the beginning of an episode??? Leave one on Apple Podcasts or send us a DM on Instagram- you might just hear it in the next one!

The great debate is finally happening. The Kingdom Sexuality Team finally discusses the pros and cons of scheduling sex vs keeping sex spontaneous! You won't want to miss it!! Links from today's episode: ONE Extraordinary Marriage Episode 133: Intimacy When You Have Small Kids Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website

We so often hear that this is what makes a marriage go from good to great- the level of communication they have. So how does a couple go about having awesome communication? Especially when it comes to talking about sex!?  How often are you communicating with your spouse about your sex life? Often? Seldom? Never?? It's about time we normalize talking about our intimate life with our spouse. Join Alana and Paris as they chat through 5 tips to help you begin talking about sex with your spouse! They make it really practical and easy to begin having those conversations. And even though it may feel a tad awkward the first time you sit down to chat, like with anything- the more you practice and have those talks more regularly the easier it will get!  Are you following us on Instagram? Join the community over @kingdomsexuality! You'll see weekly challenges, sex positions, live videos, and so much more!  Have a topic suggestion for Paris and Alana? Feel free to shoot them an email at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com or DM them on Instagram!

Continuing on with the premarital conversation from a few weeks ago but in a new light: "what if we've already had sex?" Today's guest and former KS host, Rusti, talks us through her story and journey to finding healing from the shame of her past. Links from today’s episode: Intimate Issues Starting Life Together Bundle ⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to hear YOUR review at the beginning of an episode??? Leave one on Apple Podcasts or send us a DM on Instagram- you might just hear it in the next one!

We put a questions box in our Instagram stories asking for some "Get To Know Us" questions and we got SO many incredible ones! A good bulk of the questions were around how the podcast came to be, why we started this, and why we want to talk about sexual intimacy! So we decided a nice way to tackle all of those questions was to give our testimonies... with a twist. Cue... our SEX-TIMONIES!  If you're not already be sure to follow us on Instagram @KingdomSexuality to see weekly sex positions, live videos, giveaways, and so much more! 

Looking for a way to help "porn proof" your devices? Check out Covenant Eyes! Use the code KS30 for your first 30 days free! If you're looking for a sure fire way to have multiple orgasms every time you're intimate with your spouse... the KS Team is sorry to disappoint. In this episode, Tiera, Kyle, and Alana chat about the mythical creature of multiple orgasms and whether it's really possible to achieve. They reveal the results of a survey they conducted and they also talk about the role of cervical position and cycle in women's ability to have multiple orgasms, and the different types of multiple orgasms in men. The KS Team also give some tips for trying to achieve multiple orgasms, such as trying different types of stimulation and not pushing yourself too hard. So, if you're curious about the elusive multiple orgasm, give this podcast episode a listen! If you're not already be sure you check Kingdom Sexuality out on Instagram @kingdomsexuality. That's where you'll see even more of the KS content! Weekly sex positions for you to try, connect questions, content geared towards men, and more!! Have a topic suggestion for the team? Send a DM or email them at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com. Don't forget to check out their website www.kingdomsexualityministry.com and the new Facebook Group! They're also on Patreon now! So support Kingdom Sexuality there for some exciting and exclusive perks! And, don't forget to leave them a review on Apple Podcasts! Links from today’s episode: TempDrop use code AFKINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off! Penis Book Married Dance use code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off! Kyle’s articles: -https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4896089/ -https://doi.org/10.1016/j.jsxm.2021.09.010 -https://doi.org/10.1080/00224499.2020.1743224 -https://doi.org/10.1016/j.sxmr.2015.12.004 -https://doi.org/10.1016/j.jsxm.2021.06.017

Tune in as we tackle Christmas/intimacy/marriage questions that YOU sent in! Wishing you and your family a very Merry Christmas, from the KS team! Question Time Stamps: 2:22 I want to have sex in my childhood bedroom while visiting my parents. My husband thinks it’ll be weird to have sex in my parents home. Is it really that weird? 5:27 What are some fun intimacy gifts? 8:01 Are lingerie sets good to buy as gifts? 9:58 What is the best place to put mistletoe? 12:20 How to prioritize my husband while trying to please family during the holiday season? 18:27 Any cheaper, sexy overnight stays in the Midwest? 20:38 How to handle all the baby pressure from family when we’re not there yet? 22:30 What are some fun, romantic holiday traditions we can start as a couple? Links from today’s episode: KS Discount page Mentionables Honouring Intimates: Use code KINGDOM for 20% off Married Dance: Use the code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off Adventure Challenge: Use code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off Everylove Intimates: Use code KS69 for $30 off each subscription box KS Shop Episode 133: intimacy when you have small kids  ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Are you and your spouse different sizes height-wise or weight-wise? Then this is the episode for you! Kyle and Alana chat about how to navigate this and what positions are ideal for you guys! If you and your spouse are different sizes, please know that you can still have a beautiful, sexy, and flourishing sex life! It may take a bit more patience as you attempt different positions, but it will be so worth it!  Follow us on Instagram @kingdomsexuality to see more of our content! We post weekly "hump day" positions, content specific to men, couples challenges, connect questions, and so much more!! Have a topic suggestion for us? Or something you'd add to today's episode? Feel free to send us a DM or an email at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com!

After being freshly pregnant and now in the postpartum season Alana, and the KS team, answer YOUR questions on pregnancy and postpartum! Links from today’s episode: Spontaneous vs Responsive Desire ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to hear YOUR review at the beginning of an episode??? Leave one on Apple Podcasts or send us a DM on Instagram- you might just hear it in the next one!