Himeros Backstage (Davey Wavey)

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about Himeros.tv's OnlyFans creator retreat, navigating three-way relationships, compersion, cruising and more.

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone to discuss the Rhode Island swinger scene, what to do if you're getting attention from someone you don't find attractive, and what advice they would give to older gay men and college boys. 

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about the personas we create for ourselves, Daddy energy, and how family trauma is reflected in our sexual preferences.

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about solstice rituals, why a mumu might be the perfect clothing item, how to feel comfortable taking up space in the world, and eroticizing our fears.

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells to discuss weed butter recipes, milking, exercising control or surrendering during sex, and why sex parties and slings can be freeing. 

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about popper storage, rim seats, soft cocks, and how we might change the toxic relationship we have with our erections. Plus: a surprise guest appearance by Davey's mom!

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by writer and journalist Duane Wells and tantric coach Matthew Shur in a conversation about Davey's scary spider encounter, their most romantic memories, songs they like to f*ck to, and Matthew's path to tantra.

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about the horrors of cold winters, their earliest experiences of sexuality, childhood conflicts over which they're still seeking mastery, furries and more!

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about animal energies, play-fighting, and using sex as a conflict resolution tool.

Creator of Himeros.tv David Jacques (Davey Wavey) is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone to discuss Speedo bulges, what they'd be willing to do to have sex with a hot Olympic gymnast, and what it means to be an authentic gay politician. 

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about Davey's Illinois bathroom incident, having sex when feeling blue or depressed, and how different forms of connection have lifted them up during periods of sadness. 

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about unfortunate bowel control incidents, finding a good therapist, breaking the rules to have sex, and what they're thankful for this year.

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by writer and journalist Duane Wells and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about how crucial lighting becomes as you get older, what makes porn authentic, and how formulaic porn has impacted their sex life. 

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Matthew Shur in a conversation about Austrian manners, their visit to a chocolate factory, reconnecting with your inner child, and what it means to be a pig. 

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by writer and journalist Duane Wells and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about their ideal day of sex, the positive and negative impacts of porn, embracing "weird" sex, and morph suits.

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells to discuss whether reusable straws will save the world, Martha Stewart as the latest Sports Illustrated swimsuit model, challenging top/bottom stereotypes, and why Duane hates chatty sex.

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by writer and journalist Duane Wells and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about Paris Hilton's new book, what they see when they look in the mirror, and how difficult it is to see ourselves as we really are.

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart in a conversation about things they would like everyone to question about sexuality, zeroing in on individual body parts during sex, hairless balls, and more.

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about the Himeros film shoot in Wales, their go-to sex tactics and routines, watching yourself have sex and more.

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about unexpected kindness in rural Rhode Island, whether humankind is learning from its past mistakes, and how to tune in to your body by experimenting with new sensations.

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about King Charles' coronation, Himeros.tv's upcoming White Lotus remake, self-image, and whether other people can help you see your own beauty.

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by porn stars Leander and Jake London in a conversation about faking orgasms, sex with trans men, Jake's first porn shoot and more!

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells to discuss advent calendars, Himeros.tv's 12 Days Of Pleasure, how to get started with poppers, and to answer questions about casting for porn shoots.

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about bulge concealment in drag, gooning, and their experiences with religious leaders abusing their power.

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells to discuss why inviting your parents to a gay porn set is a bad idea, what we should do about the rise in STDs, and how sex can be healing. 

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about poppers, pup play, jock straps and other costumes and props they use during sex.

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about toxic masculinity in the Superbowl, Mossy's new job at Circus of Books, consent and boundaries, and transphobia in the gay community.

Creator of Himeros.tv David Jacques (Davey Wavey) is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about Pride in LA, Himeros's fairytale-inspired video series, and whether it's possible to have sex with other men without being gay. 

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Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about serving or being served, transformative life experiences, what they're hungry for, and spit during sex.

Himeros.tv creator David Jacques (Davey Wavey) is joined by drag queen Mossy Stone and queer confidence coach Alex Ray in a conversation about dopplebangers, why so many couples look alike, and how we might look beyond our usual "types". 

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by bestselling author Kyle Langan in a conversation about spirituality and sex, religion, sex workers and life in West Hollywood. Kyle is an award-winning blogger, and founder of the lifestyle website, www.HamptonstoHollywood.com. His latest novel, Confessions of a Callboy, became an Amazon bestseller and Amazon's #1 Erotic Thriller in early June 2022. 

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Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about trying to be more masculine, masculinity within the gay community, authenticity on Instagram, and more.

Himeros.tv creator David Jacques (Davey Wavey) is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone to discuss Mossy's magical low-budget wedding, their fears about Project 2025, and whether attention-seeking can be healthy.

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Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about plastic surgery and self-worth, what they wish they could tell their past closeted selves, and what they would have done differently when coming out. 

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about transgender athletes, selfish lovers, the thrill of the hunt and more!

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about Finn's new boyfriend, Himeros.tv's Sean Cody parody, their first porn experiences, paying for sex and more!

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about the movie Bros, Davey's crush on Luke Macfarlane, and how to be more open to new sexual experiences.

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about online censorship, accessing pleasure that doesn't depend on a partner, and how it feels to completely let go during sex.

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by writer and journalist Duane Wells and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about sex party logistics, whether their online personas reflect their real selves, code-switching, and how to go from friends to lovers. 

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about incest, requirements for attraction, the controversial nature of tattoos, and Duane and Davey's upcoming trip to Wales (Are they staying in a castle or a manor house? Tune in to learn the difference)

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about sex in the army, their relationship with their fathers, and how they've managed to fill the gaps created by unavailable dads.

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by YouTube sensations and OnlyFans creators Bria and Chrissy. They compare primal sex sounds, discuss Chrissy's erotic journey after being the victim of revenge porn, the differences between the way men and women consume porn, and why Davey would be a good porn star.

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about AI blow jobs, what they'd like to manifest for themselves and the world, and when they felt the existence of magic.

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about getting comfortable with being alone, public nudity, and how to feel less shame about our naked bodies.

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart in a conversation about facing their own mortality, role playing, consensual non-consent and more!

Himeros.tv creator David Jacques (Davey Wavey) is joined by drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about Missouri's SIRenity Farms Campground, sneaky sex and the connections between shame and kink. Plus: Mossy reads lyrics written for his old Christian rock band!

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about suspicious women on Tinder, their experience of spying and being spied on, and why acting out our fantasies isn't always satisfying.

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about setting boundaries, being a better lover to yourself, spitting during sex, and Davey's trip to Sweden.

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about Taylor Swift's songwriting skills, the inevitability of death, their favorite films, and which archetypes they find difficult to embody.

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart in a conversation about Davey's first experience with poppers, their unmet childhood needs and how they manifest in their adult lives, and how to cope with the existential anxiety of adulthood.

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about the dangers of tapioca balls, why Lensa AI is problematic, society and porn's emphasis on youth, and under what circumstances they would agree to be featured in a porn scene.

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone to discuss nipple size, jerk-off parties, the power of taking a pause to recenter yourself during sex, and whether it's time for Davey to retire his YouTube persona. 

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and life coach Craig Cullinane to discuss Craig's time as Director of the Body Electric School, how they've visualized and manifested their goals and desires, and their stories about being obsessed with another person.

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about tight holes, how authentic OnlyFans really is, and how to relate to someone else's kinks.

Journalist Duane Wells interviews gay porn stars Leander, Ethan Chase, Ugo Mason, Jake London, Jake Mason, Dillon Diaz and Jonas Jackson on the set of Himeros.tv's "Weird Sex" film shoot. 

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about Mossy's new potential career as a harmonica player, where the economy is going (and whether we need to start doom prepping with poppers), boredom in sex, and which famous men they'd like to dom. 

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart, writer and journalist Duane Wells and pornographer Ed in a conversation about being told to "man up", playing with gender roles in sex, how porn can change us, and the potential for growth in monogamous relationships.

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about having sex with women, the benefits of meeting guys IRL, and which commonly-held beliefs they would like to turn upside down. 

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about Republicans and their new obsession with drag queens, Davey's feelings after watching his 2nd grade performance as the Wizard of Oz, which gay tribes they belong to, and how the gay community could be more supportive and inclusive.

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Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about their changing relationship with religion, faith and homosexuality, why the Church is obsessed with sex, and how hot Jesus is.

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about Davey's broken heart, our invisible queer history, and how to access the wisdom held by our gay elders.

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about taboo fantasies like rape and kidnapping, how to shed our shame around these desires, the appeal of inter-species sex, and the Internal Family Systems therapy framework.

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about Taylor Swift's relevance, how our mothers are connected to our sexuality, finding the balance between artistic freedom and popular appeal, and the highs and lows of 2023. 

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and porn stars Ethan Chase, AJ Sloan, Jordan Starr, Alex Mecum, Leo Louis, Edward Terrant and Cain. On the set of Himeros.tv's "Seventh Circle" shoot in Germany, they talk about working with Himeros's different sex coaches, and the challenges that come with being vulnerable and authentic.

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about muffing, parents who cross boundaries, the benefits of getting banned on Grindr, and disciplining brats. 

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart to discuss embarrassing cum stories, being comfortable or uncomfortable with nudity, how we limit ourselves, and more.

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by writer and journalist Duane Wells and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about stereotypes in mainstream porn, aspects of themselves they don't see represented in porn, and Mossy's journey to becoming The Literate Drag Queen.

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by writer and journalist Duane Wells and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about the mystery ingredients in Herbalife shakes, their Easter holidays, and what they've been wrestling with in sex and in life.

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about stolen cultural artefacts, male fragility, taking on the role of a sacred intimate, and more!

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about how much bad news humans can actually handle, why seeing real couples in porn is sexy, and why Davey keeps being banned from dating apps.

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about their recurring dreams, sex and creativity, ecstatic sex and common fantasies.

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about Davey's snake hole accident, how innocence can be appealing, Tinder bots, and more! 

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by filmmaker, producer, and intimacy coordinator Clara Ritger in a conversation about the bitter Connecticut cold, Clara's work as an on-set intimacy coordinator, and how labels can both empower and limit us.

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells to discuss Davey's fight with the postal service, Republicans vs gender identity, how the pandemic has changed them, and why we should devote entire afternoons to sex.

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by writer and journalist Duane Wells to discuss the film Red, White & Royal Blue, how to communicate desires and boundaries, figuring out what you want, and how to manage competing desires within a relationship. 

Creator of Himeros.tv David Jacques (Davey Wavey) is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and queer confidence coach Alex Ray to discuss the presidential debate, what fairytales tell us about ourselves, and the evolution of consent. Find Alex on OnlyFans: alexxx.gay

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about the Hera archetype, manifestations of jealousy, and why straight people are boring.

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about the digestive consequences of Davey's trip to Costa Rica, using the term f*ggot in sex, and how they might benefit from working with a sexual surrogate. 

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by writer and journalist Duane Wells and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about cuffing season, their experiences with addiction, and how to achieve drug-free ecstatic states during sex.

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about dressing authentically, gang b*ngs vs c*m dumps, and how to practice compersion in a non-monogamous relationship.

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by friend (and first Himeros.tv member) John to discuss being gay in their respective generations: Coming out, being gay in the military, the evolution of LGBTQ representation in the media, and how the queer community has changed over their lifetime. 

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart in a conversation about how to make dating fun, feeling seen or unseen, why it's hard to be vulnerable and authentic with your partner, and more!

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about foreskin regeneration, horse fairs, how our society cultivates shame in children, and why we might want to avoid the terms "open" or "closed" when defining a relationship. 

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about the recent increase in average penis size, why cum is so important to gay men, and what they can do to feel sexier about their bodies. 

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about the second season of The White Lotus, why the show resonates with them and other gay men, their experiences with foot play, and what makes feet hot.

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about why getting old means wanting to stay away from crowds, the global rise of conservatism, and some occasions when they've taken something too far.

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coaches Finn Deerhart and Court Vox in a conversation about embracing our middle-aged bodies, Finn's brief experience as a go-go dancer, and threesome advice for beginners. Plus: a bonus astronomy lesson from Davey!

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Matthew Shur in a conversation about the practice of eye-gazing, ways they find themselves being performative during sex, and how Himeros.tv's models balance performance and authenticity on a porn shoot.

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer Alexander Cheves in a conversation about giving sex advice, taboo fetishes, unfulfillable fantasies, and why fisting can be a religious experience.

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by YouTuber and OnlyFans creator Bria Kam to discuss the terms f*ggot and dyke, the healing power of using degrading language during sex, and the differences between gay and lesbian porn. 

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by writer and journalist Duane Wells and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about New Year's resolutions, Mossy's journey into polyamory, what they had to unlearn from their religious upbringings and more!

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by coach Alex Ray in a conversation about the significance of shooting gay porn during a solar eclipse, why gay men often feel like they're not enough, and how they've both started living more authentically and letting their own light shine. 

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about pelvic thrusting, the pleasures and pains of ass-eating, their self-pleasure goals and more!

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about affirmation in a dom/sub relationship, holding space for big feelings, and how we can normalize crying and expressing emotions for men.

Himeros.tv creator David Jacques (Davey Wavey) is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about poop shame, the dos and don'ts of queer hygiene, and what to do when shitty accidents inevitably happen in the bedroom.

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and intimacy and BDSM coach Sir Ezra in a conversation about mindfucking, their relationship with pleasure and pain, and how they balance structure and chaos in their lives.

Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about facing our demons, finding pleasure in our fears, and whether blending gay porn with horror is a good idea. 

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about consent, sexual violence, Duane's time in Sweden and more.

Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about Davey's horrific cruise ship experience, the symbolism and prejudice surrounding big dicks, and how their relationship with their penis has changed over time.