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11 Jul 2023No. 55: The Price of Being Petty - Is It Truly Worth It?00:56:21

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Friends and Kin in this conversation we are going to talk about something that has our culture in a chokehold. I am talking about being petty and the way folks take PRIDE in being PETTY. When I say YOU - I am talking to me, you, you, you and anybody else that it is for. And that is for any and all of us who need to stop being PETTY!

 

I dive into the different ways being petty may show up in our behaviors, what could be at the root of those behaviors and how being petty can and does effect our all of relationships. I also touch on ways to shift that behavior when you are in the moment to opt out of being negative and unkind. Because, let’s be honest - being petty is just being unkind

Be sure to check out the jam for this week, it’s a FAVORITE of mine & the link for the book that our quote for 

"GO WHERE YOU ARE LOVED. NOT WHERE YOU ARE TOLERATED..."

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I love you guys so much & I’m honored to share my time & energy with you – ESPECIALLY IF YOU KEEP COMING BACK! I can’t wait until the next time we get to do this again!

 

 And as always, "Thank you for your support..."

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xoxo

MeMe

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23 Jan 2024No. 80: The Current State of Urban Education - An Educators' Round Table. Part TWO of THREE.01:14:58

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FYI: THIS, JUST LIKE ALL EPISODES OF HAND ME MY PURSE, CONTAINS PROFANITY. THIS PODCAST IS FOR ADULTS AND CONTAINS ADULT CONTENT. Now that we've gotten that out of the way...

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Friends and Kin this series has been in the making for a long time! I have been wanting to sit down and speak with a table full of veteran educators for a while. I wanted to discuss the state of education and get a pulse on what they feel is going on. It’s important to me to provide a safe and brave space for people to share their stories with the world - and so I did. In part two the educators spoke about how they are navigating the world of urban education.  

 

I had 7 fellow educators to join me in conversation about what is going on in schools as we know it. We all work in Baltimore City School District - a community riddled with violent crime, trauma (direct trauma, vicarious trauma, generational trauma, etc.), lack and sometimes just flat out hopelessness. Tune in to hear part ONE of a three part series with these open, honest, caring and brilliant educators. Be sure to listen and get ready for parts two & three in the upcoming weeks!

 

"GO WHERE YOU ARE LOVED. NOT WHERE YOU ARE TOLERATED..."

 

 

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05 Mar 2024No. 84: From Grief to Gratitude + IT'S GRATITUDE CHALLENGE TIME!01:09:45

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Friends and Kin this episode is around a topic that is a recurring theme here on HAND ME MY PURSE. AND THAT’S GRATITUDE!!! Gratitude is the key to the streets. There are so many conversations that I have had about it & I know for a fact, this won’t be the last conversation had on this podcast where I will talk about GRATITUDE. It’s at the very nucleus of so many aspects of our lives! 

 

I enjoyed having this conversation - with myself, and well with you! I went into some thoughts about how grief, stress and just EVERYDAY LIFE has led me to a space where I am a bit off kilter. It’s time for a full on reset. I have named my grief and given it a song! It was nice to change the narrative and shift it a little bit - so that I am not focused on the negative aspects of grief. It is a great conversation about how to switch from grumpy to GRATEFUL. ALSO, IT’S TIME FOR A GRATITUDE CHALLENGE!!! 

 

We will start on March 12th & go until April 21st! I CANNOT WAIT!!! Please please join me! It’s a great time for a reset.

 

"GO WHERE YOU ARE ADORED. NOT WHERE YOU ARE TOLERATED..."

 

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13 Jun 2023No. 51: Allow Me To Reintroduce Myself + The Rebirth of Hand Me My Purse.00:51:21

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Hello Everybody & again, if you’re new here - WELCOME! In this inaugural episode with iHeart Media, I am sharing some fundamental information about Hand Me My Purse.  It’s a great slow walk into exactly who I am and what this show is all about. 
I have also inserted my very first trailer/episode, which I released on March 1, 2020 - it’s been THREE YEARS leading up to this moment. I never imagined this would be my reality, but now that we are here - LET’S GOOOOOOO!!!  I am hopeful that you will join me for this journey, because I promise you it’s gonna be a time to remember!!!
In this episode, I am sipping on some champagne to celebrate this new situation!!! It’s a celebration BIT**ES!!! Raise your glass and toast with me.  *clink*
What are you sipping on? 

"GO WHERE YOU ARE LOVED. NOT WHERE YOU ARE TOLERATED..."

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I love you guys so much & I’m honored to share my time & energy with you – ESPECIALLY IF YOU KEEP COMING BACK! I can’t wait until the next time we get to do this again!

 

 And as always, "Thank you for your support..."

(said exactly like the 80s Bartles and Jaymes commercials)

 

xoxo

  MeMe

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J O I N * T H E * S Q U A D

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16 Jan 2024No. 79: The Current State of Urban Education - An Educators' Round Table. Part ONE of THREE.01:29:15

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FYI: THIS, JUST LIKE ALL EPISODES OF HAND ME MY PURSE, CONTAINS PROFANITY. THIS PODCAST IS FOR ADULTS AND CONTAINS ADULT CONTENT. Now that we've gotten that out of the way...

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Friends and Kin this episode has been in the making for a long time! I have been wanting to sit down and speak with a table full of veteran educators for a while. I wanted to discuss the state of education and what they feel is going on. It’s important to me to provide a safe and brave space for people to share their stories with the world - and so I did.  In this episode get to know the educators you will be hearing from, as they dive right into what they believe is one of the biggest obstacles schools in underserved communities are facing today.

 

I had 7 fellow educators to join me in conversation about what is going on in schools as we know it. We all work in the Baltimore City School District - in a community riddled with violent crime, trauma (direct trauma, vicarious trauma, generational trauma, etc.), lack and sometimes just flat out hopelessness. Tune in to hear part ONE of a three part series with these open, honest, caring and brilliant educators. Be sure to listen and get ready for parts two & three in the upcoming weeks!

 

"GO WHERE YOU ARE LOVED. NOT WHERE YOU ARE TOLERATED..."

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And as always, "Thank you for your support…" 

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xoxo

MeMe

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12 Mar 2024No. 85: Are You Living For Yesterday, Today or Tomorrow? + LIVING IN THE RIGHT NOW!01:16:02

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FYI: THIS, JUST LIKE ALL EPISODES OF HAND ME MY PURSE, CONTAINS PROFANITY. THIS PODCAST IS FOR ADULTS AND CONTAINS ADULT CONTENT. Now that we've gotten that out of the way...

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Friends and Kin this episode is around a topic that is a recurring theme in my life and it’s something I am actively working on AND THAT’S STAYING PRESENT!!! 

 

I talk in detail about how through therapy I have learned (and I learned it slowly, and truthfully I’m still learning)that there is power and FREEDOM in uncertainty. If you are one who truly believes in a higher power than yourself and you possibly have an understanding of what true faith is - how is it that you really think you are in control of anything? Listen with the intention to take a step back & look at your life - are you living in the present moment? Of course, I share some techniques to help us stay focused on the present and keep us grounded.

 

Also, Friends & Kin - it’s for the HAND ME MY PURSE GRATITUDE CHALLENGE!!! Will you be joining me for this round? Make sure to listen to episode No. 84 for the details!!! We will be doing our gratitude challenge for 40 DAYS - from March 12th to April 21st. Feel free to also take a listen to the following episodes to get some insight on how we do gratitude challenges around these parts: No. 36 + No. 37 + No. 44. Check those out & get ready because it’s going down - IN A GOOD WAY!!!🤓

 

"GO WHERE YOU ARE ADORED. NOT WHERE YOU ARE TOLERATED..."

 

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And as always, "Thank you for your support…" 

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xoxo

MeMe

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04 Jul 2023No. 54: Maintaining Healthy Friendships + Going To Paris To See King Beyoncé w/My Bestie Crystal - PART TWO.01:27:20

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FYI: THIS, JUST LIKE ALL EPISODES OF HAND ME MY PURSE, CONTAINS PROFANITY. THIS PODCAST IS FOR ADULTS AND CONTAINS ADULT CONTENT. Now that we've gotten that out of the way...

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Friends and Kin this episode is final episode of the TWO part show that I did with one of my best friends. Crystal & I have been friends since we were Freshman at Morgan State University! That’s 25 years of friendship. Our friendship is a healthy balance of Libra/Scorpio + Capricorn energy that is a ball of fun. 

This conversation is all about our big trip to Paris to see King Beyoncé that had a lot of funny and INTERESTING moments! From the strange ladies on the plane talking so loud you would have thought they were on the playground to me knocking a basket of rolls on the floor - intentionally. 🤓🤣

We talk about the experience seeing Beyoncé live and both of us HIGHLY recommend that EVERYBODY that is FINANCIALLY ABLE go to experience, what I believe will be her LAST live performance! It was such an amazing time & although Crystal and I don’t see eye to eye on love for Paris, we had one of the best times ever on vacation - and we travel together several times a year! 🛫🛳️

This vacation was absolutely amazing & I can’t wait to get back to France. I want to visit some other cities, outside of Paris next.

 

See the links below for MeMe’s Jam, to see the clip of Bella Noches that Crystal & I talked about, if you need to find a therapist AND to find me anywhere on Blue Ivy’s internet! 

Love y’all & see you next Tuesday!

"GO WHERE YOU ARE LOVED. NOT WHERE YOU ARE TOLERATED..."

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I love you guys so much & I’m honored to share my time & energy with you – ESPECIALLY IF YOU KEEP COMING BACK! I can’t wait until the next time we get to do this again!

 

 And as always, "Thank you for your support..."

(said exactly like the 80s Bartles and Jaymes commercials)

 

xoxo

MeMe

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17 Oct 2023No. 69: How Comparison & Competition Is Keeping Us From Joy + Detachment As A Way To Release Insecurity.00:53:56

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Friends and Kin this episode is a little all over the place but all about how society has it set up to keep us insecure. We live in a world that wants us in a space where we are constantly comparing ourselves with others and feeling that we need to compete with other people. We have to navigate this differently. There needs to be a mindset shift, but this type of transformation does not come easily.

 

I dive into how ways we can shift our mindset to focus on OURSELVES and the present moment to really enjoy what we have. I talk a lot about how the philosophy of detachment can be helpful in focusing on WHAT REALLY MATTERS - and here’s a hint… IT’S NOT COMPARING OURSELVES WITH SOMEONE ELSE. The real tea is that what matters is how we can be our best self. That helps us to be a better human for the people we love and care about, not for the people that we should not be concerned with. FOCUS ON YOU & COMPETE ONLY WITH YOUR YESTERDAY. xoxox

 

"GO WHERE YOU ARE LOVED. NOT WHERE YOU ARE TOLERATED..."

 

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xoxo

MeMe

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27 Feb 2024No. 83: Closing Out Black History Month w/Jonathan McCrory + The National Black Theatre. PART TWO.01:08:53

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Friends and Kin in this episode I was blessed enough to be in conversation with a Black unicorn, Jonathan McCrory of the National Black Theatre! His story is one of overcoming, perseverance and understanding WHO you are. What an amazing way to close out Black History Month!

 

In this two part conversation we learn all about my guest. We learn where he comes from, the obstacles and blessings that he navigated during his journey and what he is up to currently. It was a spiritually uplifting conversation that I am truly excited to share with you. Here’s a little bit about Jonathan:

 

Jonathan McCrory is a Tony Award and Emmy Award nominated producer, 2x Obie Award-winning, Harlem-based artist who has served as Executive Artistic Director at National Black Theatre since 2012 under the leadership of CEO, Sade Lythcott. He has directed numerous professional productions and concerts. He has been acknowledged as an exceptional leader additionally through Craine’s New York Business 2020 Notable LGBTQ Leaders and Executives. In 2013, he was awarded the Emerging Producer Award by the National Black Theatre Festival in Winston Salem, North Carolina, and the Torch Bearer Award by theatrical legend Woodie King Jr. He is a founding member of the collaborative producing organizations Harlem9, Black Theatre Commons, The Jubilee, Next Generation National Network and The Movement Theatre Company. McCrory sits on the National Advisory Committee for Howlround.com and was a member of the original cohort for ArtEquity. A Washington, DC native, McCrory attended the Duke Ellington School of the Arts and New York University’s TISCH School of the Arts.

 

Enjoy this conversation, as I had such a wonderful time speaking with Jonathan about his life and his work. His story, the work he is doing as well as the work of the National Black Theatre should be something that we know about & THAT, friends & kin is exactly why I am sharing his story with you. Even though, Black History Month is over on the calendar - we should live a life where we strive to learn more and more about our history and the heroes of our communities today. 

 

"GO WHERE YOU ARE ADORED. NOT WHERE YOU ARE TOLERATED..."

 

 

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MeMe

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07 May 2024No. 93 - Ambiguous Mother Loss + Self-Mothering + Happy Mother's Day ❤️01:16:49

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Friends and Kin this may possibly be my most vulnerable episode to date.  Or maybe transparent. This episode is just in time for Mother’s Day - intentionally. It’s all about MOTHER LOSS & SELF-MOTHERING.  When I tell you that I was really locked in - sis was LOCKED IN! I don’t wanna give too much about this episode away, but as the main discussion ended, I gave some tips on how to work on self-mothering yourself - especially for those who are dealing with ambiguous mother loss… I EXPLAIN ALL OF IT IN THE EPISODE!!!

 

GO LISTEN!

 

HAPPY MOTHER’S DAY TO EVERYONE WHO NURTURES OTHER HUMANS IN SOME WAY OR ANOTHER! 🩷🩵

 

"GO WHERE YOU ARE ADORED. NOT WHERE YOU ARE TOLERATED..."

 

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xoxo
MeMe

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26 Mar 2024No. 87: A Conversation with The Professional Homegirl - Eboné Almon. PART TWO.01:03:05

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Friends and Kin this episode is absolutely a win. It is part one of a two part series wherein, I have an amazing conversation with Eboné Almon, the creator and host of The Professional Homegirl Podcast. Eboné is a native of Memphis, and is just an all around sweetheart. We had such a good time talking and laughing and just being PROFESSIONAL HOMEGIRLS! This is the start of an amazing friendship and I’m so excited!

 

Eboné has coloring books - THAT ARE SO AWESOME, hoodies, beanies, t-shirts & more! You can get them HERE!!! Guess what, there is a PROMO CODE that she has for my friends & kin to save 15% on some merch.  HANDMEMYPURSE the code is live for 15% off of anything on her site.

 

I CANNOT WAIT TO GET MY HANDS ON SOME OF THOSE COLORING BOOKS! THEY ARE SO COOL! 

 

The WE GOT TO DO BETTER QUOTE was amazing“I have known the joy and pain of friendship. I have served and been served. I have made some good enemies for which I am not a bit sorry. I have loved unselfishly, and I have fondled hatred with the red-hot tongs of Hell. That's living.”     - Zora Neale Hurston

 

Enjoy part two of this conversation and don’t forget…

 

"GO WHERE YOU ARE ADORED. NOT WHERE YOU ARE TOLERATED..."

 

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12 Dec 2023No. 76: Who is Sweet Daddy Grace - The Man, The Myth, The Legend w/Marcy DePina. PART THREE.01:17:57

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Friends and Kin in this episode Marcy DePina & I conclude our conversation about the man, the myth, the legend - Sweet Daddy Grace. I am so grateful to have had the opportunity to be in conversation with Marcy DePina, creator + host of the, “SWEET DADDY GRACE” podcast. Who is Sweet Daddy Grace, you ask… Well go back and listen to episode No. 74 and No. 75 before listening to this one, then just sit back and get ready to learn all about the genius that was a millionaire who created the model for the modern day mega church. A Black man (because that’s exactly what he was) from the island country of Cape Verde, West Africa. 

 

Marcy & I have a very candid conversation that flowed like water down a river about this powerfully eccentric man and all of his accomplishments, accolades, scandals and so much more. If you don’t know who he is - trust me, you will know so much more about him after this series about his life and Marcy’s research in creating this podcast. It’s a beautiful conversation and it just might intrigue you enough to go learn something else for yourself! 

ENJOY!

 

"GO WHERE YOU ARE ADORED. NOT WHERE YOU ARE TOLERATED..."

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xoxo

MeMe

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06 Jun 2023Introducing "Hand Me My Purse"00:02:58

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14 May 2024*RETRO EPISODE* No. 31: Politics in Baltimore City + The Freddie Gray Uprising + Skewed Perceptions & Healing w/Stephanie Rawlings-Blake02:21:04

Hey Friends & Kin! Here is one of my favorite retro episodes that I wanted to share with you! For the full show notes you can find the episode wherever you listen to your podcasts! Have a wonderful week & I look forward to YOU looking forward to the next episode of Hand Me My Purse! ❤️✌🏾

 

xoxox

 

MeMe.

 

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06 Feb 2024RETRO EPISODE No. 13: The Culture of Dating in the Black Community w/B. Jamelle01:31:33

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In the spirit of LOVE & BLACK HISTORY MONTH, I decided to go back into the vault. This episode is a retro conversation from, “The Catalogue”. It is one part of a series of conversations I had with some friends about the culture of dating in the Black Community. My guest Bianca & I discuss the shifts in dating within our community, as we recognize the MAJOR shift is what Bianca calls “THE NEW MONOGAMY”. We discuss some HOT TOPICS such as: polyamory, dating from a place of emotional ego, the conceptual origins of the “Strong Black Woman” & the “Absentee Black Man” and how all of these things created a shift in the way Black men and women engage with one another. 

 

We laugh, dig down into our soul of wonder and get real REAL about some things that may make some folks uncomfortable. We draw on the notion that in order to heal – we have to get to the nucleus of the issue and the only way TO IT is straight THROUGH IT.

 

"GO WHERE YOU ARE ADORED. NOT WHERE YOU ARE TOLERATED..."

 

 

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And as always, "Thank you for your support…" 

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xoxo

MeMe

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27 Jun 2023No. 53: Maintaining Healthy Friendships + Going To Paris To See King Beyoncé w/My Bestie Crystal - PART ONE.01:16:07

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FYI: THIS, JUST LIKE ALL EPISODES OF HAND ME MY PURSE, CONTAINS PROFANITY. THIS PODCAST IS FOR ADULTS AND CONTAINS ADULT CONTENT. Now that we've gotten that out of the way...

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Friends and Kin this episode is part ONE of a TWO part show that I did with one of my best friends. Crystal & I have been friends since we were Freshman at Morgan State University! That’s 25 years of friendship. Our friendship is a healthy balance of Libra/Scorpio + Capricorn energy that is a ball of fun to experience & for anyone who gets the chance to witness the joy. 

 

This conversation is all about how we manage and maintain a healthy friendship even after 25 years. We discuss what it takes to have an authentic friendship & the key components to keep it healthy and stress-free. Be sure to listen in and stay tuned in next week for part TWO where we discuss our big trip to Paris to see King Beyoncé that had a lot of funny and INTERESTING moments! 

 

See the links below for MeMe’s Jam and if you need to find a therapist OR find me anywhere on Blue Ivy’s internet! Love y’all & see you next Tuesday!

 

"GO WHERE YOU ARE LOVED. NOT WHERE YOU ARE TOLERATED..."

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I love you guys so much & I’m honored to share my time & energy with you – ESPECIALLY IF YOU KEEP COMING BACK! I can’t wait until the next time we get to do this again!

 

 And as always, "Thank you for your support..."

(said exactly like the 80s Bartles and Jaymes commercials)

 

xoxo

MeMe

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14 Jan 2025No. 96: Happy New Year + Peekaboo + HMMP Comes Full Circle00:59:42

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Friends and Kin… 

I’m back baby!!! 

PEEKABOO!!! 

Happy New Year and welcome back into the fray & if you’re new here - I am so happy to have you! So happy and SO DAMN GRATEFUL! 🙏🏾✨

To keep it short and simple this episode is jam packed with what’s been going on with me in the 7 months that I have been absent.  I also discuss all of the shifts the show will see - there are so many changes, I cannot even begin to list them here! So I shall not…

The most exciting change is the new beverage residency concept here at Hand Me My Purse. For the first quarter of the year, we will have a local tea company by the name of  HOLMES HYDRATION - and their tea blends are quite supreme. In this episode I was sipping on a blend focused on, “gut health digestion and inner serenity”… Don’t we all need all three of those handled!!! INDEED. 

Also, I forgot to mention in the episode that you can save 20% off on the Holmes Hydration website (click here) if you use the special code:  HANDMEMYPURSE - WE LOVE A PROMO CODE!!!

Please do yourself a favor and go check them out. Trust me, it’s worth it!!! 

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31 Oct 2023No. 70: Making Delicious Fall Cocktails + Navigating Heavy Grief in your 40s with The Bedroom Bartender Part ONE00:50:15

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Friends and Kin this episode is part one of a heavy conversation that I had with my homegirl, Gina of The Bedroom Bartender! We both made a cocktail that was Autumn inspired, even though it’s been Summertime on the East Coast for the past week and a half. This portion of the conversation is relatively light, so part one is fun and you should try to make both of the cocktails that we made. I had a healthy gut version of a Hot Toddy & Gina had some mulled wine! Get a pen and some paper to take notes for the recipes!

 

Make sure to tune in next week for part two of our conversation… And maybe bring some tissues cause it’s gonna get heavy…. Heavy and helpful!

 

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30 Jan 2024No. 81: The Current State of Urban Education - An Educators' Round Table. THE FINALE.01:03:30

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Friends and Kin this series has been in the making for a long time! I have been wanting to sit down and speak with a table full of veteran educators for a while. I wanted to discuss the state of education and get a pulse on what they feel is going on. It’s important to me to provide a safe and brave space for people to share their stories with the world - and so I did. In part three the educators & I spoke very candidly about the ways in which they feel hopeful about the next phases of urban education.

 

I had 7 fellow educators to join me in conversation about what is going on in schools as we know it. We all work in Baltimore City School District - a community riddled with violent crime, trauma (direct trauma, vicarious trauma, generational trauma, etc.), lack and sometimes just flat out hopelessness. Tune in to hear part ONE of a three part series with these open, honest, caring and brilliant educators. Be sure to listen and get ready for parts two & three in the upcoming weeks!

 

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20 Jun 2023No. 52: Celebrating The Joy of Blackness in June + The Power of Song.00:36:13

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Friends and Kin, this is episode No. 52 of Hand Me My Purse the podcast! For those of you who are new to this show - WELCOME! Take off your coat, and your shoes, sit down and stay awhile… This conversation is centered around celebrating Juneteenth & Black Music Month. This is a month that was created by former president Jimmy Carter to celebrate Black people’s contributions to music! I touch on how our ancestors used music and the gift of song to make their way to freedom. I dive into the beautifully tragic reality that makes up how enslaved Africans made it to the Western world and how even though our ancestors endured this - they still had a song in their spirit. We in turn continue to sing their song, to express through music the songs written onto our DNA.

 

I hope you enjoy this episode! Leave a rating and review for the show! Check out the links below for the Jam No. 52 & some links of music for some LEGENDS I mentioned ins the episode, Big Mama Thornton & Sister Rosetta Tharpe. These two women are absolute ancestral embodiments of BLACK GIRL MAGIC!!!✨

 

Oh, and what are y’all sippin’ on? 

 

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24 Oct 2023Taking The Week Off + It's My Birthday - LET'S CELEBRATE!!!00:03:45

Hey there Friends & Kin, it's my 44th birthday week and I am going to Disneyworld! Y'all know I have been navigating some serious grief and seven days before my flight I booked a trip to go away for my birthday. Everybody has a place or a thing that is an instant place of joy for them - if you don't know your place or thing, you'd better identify it.  Mine is DISNEY THEME PARKS and the beach.  I decided to go see Mickey & Minnie - they always know how to make me feel better. There is something about just being in a Disney theme parks, that reminds me of absolute joy and happiness. I recognize some people don't get it, but it's my happy place. 
I will be back next week with a really amazing two part conversation with a friend of the show.  Part one is light and fun, part two is heavy and helpful. Part two is RAW. See you all next week and I love you all so much. Happy Birthday to me - have a drink for me! It's a celebration!

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28 Nov 2023No. 74: Sweet Daddy Grace - The Man, The Myth, The Legend w/Marcy DePina. PART ONE.01:04:43

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Friends and Kin in this episode I am so grateful to share with you all PART ONE of a conversation with Marcy DePina, creator + host of the, “SWEET DADDY GRACE” podcast. Who is Sweet Daddy Grace, you ask. Well sit back and get ready to learn all about the man, the myth, the legend that was a millionaire who created the model for the modern day mega church. A Black man (because that’s exactly what he was) from the island country of Cape Verde, West Africa. 

 

Marcy & I have a very candid conversation that flowed like water down a river about this powerfully eccentric man and all of his accomplishments, accolades, scandals and so much more. If you don’t know who he is - trust me, you will know so much more about him after this series about his life and Marcy’s research in creating this podcast. It’s a beautiful conversation and it just might intrigue you enough to go learn more! 

 

ENJOY!

 

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09 Apr 2024No. 89: Self-Deception & Self-Awareness + Missing Out On Living A FULL Life w/Ebony Vaughan - PART ONE.01:10:24

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Friends and Kin this episode is part one of a conversation all about SELF-DECEPTION & SELF-AWARENESS. My guest today is a friend of the show and an actual good friend of mine, Ms. Ebony Vaughan. Ebony has been on the show before! She and I were in conversation on episode No. 34 where we talked about self-love, self-worth and the authentic journey to freedom. Listen HERE to check that episode out. 

 

In this episode we uncover the necessary tools for self-awareness as well as how you miss out on living your in the fullness of life by smothering yourself with the cloak of self-deception. In this state you tend to miss the beautiful bounty that God has for you. We really went in on the ways that a lack of authenticity can stop you from living a FULL LIFE. Please do yourself a favor and check this episode out and get ready for next week’s continuation of this REAL conversation!

 

Also, I told y’all I would add a link to the FEELINGS WHEEL

 

And I did! 🤓 

 

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04 Jun 2024No. 95: SEASON FOUR FINALE + LET'S GET INTO THIS SEASON'S TEA! 🍵🫖01:18:10

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Friends and Kin this episode is the SEASON 4 FINALE!!! This is all about SEASON 4! The ups. The downs. The wins. The losses. The energy. The confusion. The experience.  And what an experience it has been! I get into detail about what I have learned. What I will do different going forward vs. what I did. I have quite a few emotional moments as I was overwhelmed with gratitude & filled with JOY

 

I am pretty vulnerable in this episode about my process during Season 4 as I adjusted to life under the iHeartMedia umbrella. Having a solo podcast is not for the faint of heart. It’s a lot of work & a lot of focus. Please take the time to listen to this - I cry a few times! Of course I did! One thing I’m going to do is cry! 🤣  

 

GO LISTEN! ENJOY! GIVE ME SOME FEEDBACK! 

MAKE SURE YOU SUBSCRIBE and/or FOLLOW THE SHOW ON WHATEVER STREAMING SERVICE YOU USE TO LISTEN TO YOUR PODCASTS - SO YOU CAN BE IN THE LOOP WHEN I RETURN FROM THIS LITTLE BREAK! 🤓

 

I am taking a break between seasons, but I will absolutely be back with more to say! OF COURSE I WILL… Y’all be good until we are together again!!! Stay Tuned! 🤓🧡✌🏾

 

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05 Jan 2024No. 77: HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!! - HELLO 2024 + THE FOCUS NEEDED TO HAVE A SUCCESSFUL NEW YEAR.01:30:17

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Friends and Kin HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!! Y’all it is 2024… WOW!!! Well, this episode is all about preparing for this new year that is upon us. It’s all about focusing on how to make this year the b best year that we can by being GRATEFUL & remaining in a state of GRATITUDE. Also, by being intentional about how we navigate - from something one would see as minuscule to a major moment or decision. It is such an important aspect of JOY & I don’t think a lot of people really understand that. It’s at the very nucleus of our JOY! And if we are going to be INTENTIONAL about JOY, we must first be INTENTIONAL about being GRATEFUL.

 

I also dive into how my aunt, my cousin and I pick a word to focus our attention and intentions on each new year. This year my word is DISCIPLINE. Do you do this? It’s so helpful and super intentional. What New Year practices or rituals do you do with your loved ones - or solo? 

 

Also, if you’re in the DMV area, please check out Alexandra Healing Spa! Her services are STELLAR and she is a very gifted practitioner. She does it all! Check out her website below and if you book a service or schedule an appointment - use the promo code: HANDMEMYPURSE at your checkout OR mention it at the start of your appointment to receive 15% off of your first services!!! YOU WILL THANK ME LATER!!! 

 

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19 Sep 2023No. 65: Self-Awareness + Who In The World Are You? NO, FOR REAL?01:10:24

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Friends and Kin in this episode, we are talking about something that a lot of people think they have down to a science, but folks are really clueless about & that is *drumroll please* SELF-AWARENESS. People do NOT think outside of themselves on a regular basis. Some people carry on like they don’t even know the world exists outside of their realm. BUT IT DOES. And if we are going to be INTENTIONAL about HOW WE LIVE OUR LIVES, we must first be INTENTIONAL about being WHO WE ARE AND HOW WE SHOW UP IN THE WORLD.

 

I dive into how doing simple things can help you to develop self-awareness in your life and how to incorporate different techniques into your daily living that will help to develop self-awareness in your life. The real question to ask yourself is - WHO IN THE WORLD AM I? No, seriously - who are you in the world & who in the world are you? Literally & Figuratively. I even included a series of questions to ask yourself when you want to do an evaluation of where you are with self-awareness. It might be time for a check-in!

 

 

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04 Apr 2024No. 88: HAPPY 4th BIRTHDAY HAND ME MY PURSE + Missy Elliott is A NATIONAL TREASURE!!!01:09:12

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Friends and Kin LET’S START BY SAYING HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO HAND ME MY PURSE the podcast!!!! My baby is 4 years old on this day - April 1st, 2024. It’s been such an amazingly invigorating journey & I don’t play on stopping any time soon! I am learning so much about SO MUCH. Learning about myself and actively going through my healing journey right before your eyes. Working through grief, gratitude & growth. This show has been the catalyst for so many wonderful experiences. 

 

I chose to not just do ONE jam for this episode. I decided to do FOUR + a bonus in celebration of HMMP’s birthday! I was on Spring Break & decided to go to Virginia Beach because it was in my budget. I was able to be close to the water, smell some new air, see some new faces, taste some different foods and just GET AWAY… I’ve said many times on the show that my mother’s father is from this area, the Tidewater Region - Newport News to be exact. Missy is as well, she’s from Portsmouth - so you know in my mind, we cousins. Even though I know we aren’t. Anyway, I love her and I feel like people don’t adore her and cherish her genius the way we should. So I decided to do so. Get into my 4 favorite Missy Elliott songs + a lil’ something I bet you’ve never heard before (which I made the actual jam)! I can’t wait for y’all to listen - all the links are down there. ⬇️⬇️⬇️

 

This episode was really a reflection. A reflection of the past 4 years and the evolution of Hand Me My Purse. I appreciate all of you for taking this ride with me… YOU ARE LOVED. ❤️

 

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18 Jul 2023No. 56: Addicted to External Validation + DOPAMINE By Any Means Necessary00:57:28

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Friends and Kin this episode is gonna make a few people a little upset, but at this point we know that I am not concerned about that. Clearly, I am not here to offend anybody. That’s not my focus and I am not that rude nor concerned with being malicious to DESIRE to just go around offending people - especially people I don’t know in real life. However, some things just need to be said outright. 

This conversation is all about seeking external validation. I get into the root causes of seeking external validation - especially on social media. If you’re unsure about where to start - you know I always have a link below to help guide you to where to find a therapist in your area. I hope you enjoy the episode and check out the jam of the week!!! 

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10 Jan 2024No. 78: Ancestral Veneration + Why It's Important + How to Get Started.00:55:30

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Friends and Kin this episode is very personal for me. I am swiftly approaching the anniversaries of my Grandparents transitioning/leaving the earthly realm & I really do not want to be super sad.  As a result I am seeking out ways to honor them and hold their spirit up. If you’ve listened to this podcast for a while, you already know how close I was to my grandparents. They were my riders. The chose me over and over and over again. They were an integral part of my life just as I was to theirs.

 

In this episode I dive into how it’s important and the steps to take to create your own experiences around honoring and celebrating your ancestors. Go take a listen and get ready to take some notes if this is something that piques your interest - we are because of them. They deserve to be celebrated…

 

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13 Feb 2024RETRO EPISODE No. 12: The Culture of Dating in the Black Community w/Kandis01:21:22

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This episode is one of a three part series of conversations around the culture of dating in the Black community. This series is about looking at some of the shifts in the current climate of dating. Our guest today, my friend Kandis, and I share some personal stories and experiences we have had dating - particularly with dating ONLINE. I also share some experiences with online dating that listeners have submitted for this episode. 

 

Auntie MeMe's Jam: "What's Love Got To Do With It" by Auntie Supreme, Tina Turner.

 

We Got To Do Better: "I am love. I may not have always made the right choices, but I did my best. I have so much love to give and everyone around me can feel it. I am given a clean slate every single day to be the best version of me that I can be. I am forgiven. I am love."

 

Today's absolutely delicious drink was made possible by: Cane Collective 

 

BE SURE TO CHECK THEM OUT. THEY CREATE MAGIC... AND THEY'RE A BLACK OWNED BUSINESS!!!

 

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16 Apr 2024No. 90: Self-deception & Self-Awareness + Missing Out On Living A FULL Life w/Ebony Vaughan - PART TWO.01:24:16

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Friends and Kin this episode is part two of a conversation all about SELF-DECEPTION & SELF-AWARENESS. My guest today is a friend of the show and an actual good friend of mine, Ms. Ebony Vaughan. Ebony has been on the show before! She and I were in conversation on episode No. 34 where we talked about self-love, self-worth and the authentic journey to freedom. Listen HERE to check that episode out. 

 

In this episode we uncover the necessary tools for self-awareness as well as how you miss out on living your in the fullness of life by smothering yourself with the cloak of self-deception. In this state you tend to miss the beautiful bounty that God has for you. We really went in on the ways that a lack of authenticity can stop you from living a FULL LIFE. Please do yourself a favor and check this episode out and if you missed last week’s conversation - run, don’t walk to listen to it! It’s such a REAL conversation!

 

Also, I told y’all I would add a link to the FEELINGS WHEEL… And I did! 🤓 

 

Click here for the Feelings Wheel! 

 

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14 Nov 2023No. 72: Self-Accountability + How To Live Unafraid To Take Responsibility for Our Actions. PART ONE.00:48:27

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Friends and Kin this episode is going to ruffle a few feathers. I decided to make it a two part situation. Because it could be heavy - not heavy like the last episode. Not saddening, but a lot to process. Especially when we have to sit in what role we may play in keeping this kind of energy alive in our communities. It’s a LOT to process. Don’t take anything personally, cause everything ain’t about you! Love you!

I am talking about self-accountability AND the role that our cultural norms and communities may play in the lack of self-accountability. I offer another lens to look at the issue, just a different perspective that could be connected to how and why we may sometimes run from owning our active roles and responsibilities in situations we encounter.

Part two will be focused on how to remedy feeling like you cannot just own your behaviors and actions. So be sure to tune in for episode No. 73.

In true HMMP form, let’s figure out how to be better. ❤️

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05 Dec 2023No. 75: Who is Sweet Daddy Grace - The Man, The Myth, The Legend w/Marcy DePina. PART TWO.01:09:21

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Friends and Kin in this episode I am so grateful to share with you all PART TWO of my conversation with Marcy DePina, creator + host of the, “SWEET DADDY GRACE” podcast. Who is Sweet Daddy Grace, you ask. Well sit back and get ready to learn all about the man, the myth, the legend that was a millionaire who created the model for the modern day mega church. A Black man (because that’s exactly what he was) from the island country of Cape Verde, West Africa. 

Marcy & I have a very candid conversation that flowed like water down a river about this powerfully eccentric man and all of his accomplishments, accolades, scandals and so much more. If you don’t know who he is - trust me, you will know so much more about him after this series about his life and Marcy’s research in creating this podcast. It’s a beautiful conversation and it just might intrigue you enough to go learn something else for yourself! 

ENJOY!

 

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12 Sep 2023No. 64: The Freedom in Being Single + Chopping It Up w/My Friend Kandis + A Good Laugh is Always Needed. PART TWO.01:46:32

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Friends and Kin this episode is part two of my conversation with my homie & big time friend of the show, Kandis. As per usual we are laughing, disagreeing, telling all of the jokes - and of course, discussing dating and being single! Tune in for some good laughs but also some serious dialogue around what it’s like to be single in 2023. We talk about some things that people don’t really want to admit - like the freedom in being single! 

 

Listen, being single is extremely freeing and allows you to navigate this planet as you wish. So many people are hellbent on being attached to someone else or something else, but there is a peace in not being bound. Not to say that being in a healthy relationship is BAD, however, there is something to be said about being free to be until we (the singles of the world) meet the person that makes us feel FREE in a HEALTHY, committed union. Until I meet him, I will be focusing on myself and becoming the best version of ourselves that we can be!

 

We Got To Do Better: “I DON’T BELIEVE THAT LIFE IS SUPPOSED TO MAKE. YOU FEEL GOOD , OR TO MAKE YOU FEEL MISERABLE EITHER. LIFE IS JUST SUPPOSED TO MAKE YOU FEEL.” - writer, GLORIA NAYLOR 

 

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21 Nov 2023No. 73: Self-Accountability + What Often Keeps Us Away From Taking Responsibility of Our Actions. Part Two.01:18:22

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Friends and Kin this episode is part two of a conversation about SELF-ACCOUNTABILITY. In the last episode or part one of this discussion we talked about that self-accountability is. We discussed what it looks like, smells like and just the flat out truth about what it is at its core. We also touched on what could be at the nucleus of the lack of self-accountability in certain communities. COMMUNITIES BEING ANY GROUPING OF PEOPLE - FAMILIES, FRIEND CIRCLES. I went over in particular how it can sometimes show up in the Black comunity and WHY... Agree or disagree - it happens a lot and there may be reasons associated with that behavior.

 

In this episode I dive more into how we are going to combat this and stop this behavior. I talk about deflection versus reflection and I share some information I found on Faith Evans’ internet about how not taking self-accountability and deflecting is a form of gaslighting, narcissism and even emotional abuse. Tune in to see how we can all work on being more reflective and focus on being our best self in spite of mistakes and so called “failures” we may experience in life. 

 

HAVE A HAPPY DAY OF GRATITUDE WITH YOUR LOVED ONES. AND IF YOU DON’T HAVE ANY FAMILY OR FRIENDS TO SPEND THE DAY WITH - KNOW YOU ARE LOVED. xoxoxo.

 

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10 Oct 2023No. 68: Smiling Depression - Did You Know This Was An Actual Thing?00:54:19

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So FRIENDS & KIN, I am gonna be extremely transparent for this episodeIf you have been listening to this show since its inception then you know around September-ish, sis gets a bit of the blues. Not a heavy depression where I don’t want to leave my bed but we have to remember that depression manifests itself in so many different ways. 

 

There are symptoms that we would never think to associate with depression. In this episode I go over what some of these symptoms can be, and let me be honest - after I read these symptoms, I was shocked! I learned there is such a thing called - HIDDEN DEPRESSION! During this episode I dive into what Hidden Depression looks like, because I can promise you - we have been hoodwinked when it comes to our perception of depression. Tune in and learn yourself something GOOD!

 

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29 Aug 2023No. 62 : Back To School Is Upon Us + A Message from American Educators to Parents.01:32:29

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Friends and Kin it’s that time of year again! Time for the kids to go BACK TO SCHOOL!!!! In this episode, I talk about getting ready for back to school. Now be advised, THIS MESSAGE WILL BE FOR EVERYBODY!!! If you don’t have kids, do have kids even if you work with kids - directly or indirectly. It’s for EVERYONE. Because we are ALL affected directly and/or indirectly, whether you are aware of it or not.

You are probably wondering - HOW AM I IMPACTED IF I DON’T HAVE ANY KIDS… LISTEN, we are ALL impacted. Think about it… 

 

Traffic - when kids are in school the roads are so congested!

Stores - the lines are longer, parents are frustrated with buying school stuff making them very testy and annoyed in stores & stores are always out of things we’d usually have easy access to. 

 

But the TRAFFIC, MAN. SHEESH!

 

I also polled some educators across the country, about the state of education - TODAY. As in right now. It was such an amazing way to hear from mouths of the people actually out in the trenches. Please listen to this episode. I really enjoyed this episode & I hope you do too!

 

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15 Feb 2022No. 39: Valentine's Day is for YOU + Sex & Expectations + Unintentional Emotional Manipulation02:13:30

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Happy Black History Month - AGAIN!!! It's the shortest month of the year & also the year that America and some countries around the world choose to celebrate the history of Black people on this planet - particularly in the United States. It's also Valentine's Day time. It has come and gone, but it's hot on our lips and in our brains, podcasts live FOREVAAAAA!

This episode is another fun time with Kandis!!! Remember Kandis from episodes No. 12 and No. 28 - we tend to have an amazingly HILARIOUS time when we are together. So trust me - LISTEN. There were a lot of truth bombs and a-ha moments, as we discussed everything about dating and Valentine's Day - from love, sex buddies, expectations for gifts, BDSM, SELF-LOVE and even UNINTENTIONAL EMOTIONAL MANIPULATION. Not to mention the ACCOUNTABILITY WE NEED TO TAKE IN HOW PEOPLE TREAT US. We talked about so many things that it would be a disservice to yourself and your momma and your future partner to not listen. We even got sidetracked a few times and talked about BBL's, Game of Thrones, Submission vs. Surrender and SO MUCH MORE.

I truly hope you enjoy this episode & thank you for rocking with Hand Me My Purse for the first year of her life. Yes, my podcast is a girl. The future is female & so is my podcast. Now please go leave a review, I love you for it!

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01 Mar 2022No. 40: First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage + Surviving Divorce As Black Women + Cousins Chopping It Up.01:55:59

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I just want to acknowledge that TWO YEARS AGO on March 1st, I RELEASED THE TRAILER FOR MY PODCAST, HAND ME MY PURSE. Today’s episode is pretty damn special. My baby is about to officially turn two. On April 1st of 2020 I LAUNCHED this show, officially. So this is like a soft birthday leading up to Hand Me My Purse’s OFFICIAL BIRTHAVERSARY. I am feeling like a proud Mama. Thank you to everybody who has supported the show by listening, sharing it with your people, posting it on social media, leaving a review or rating the show, sending a kind word of encouragement or simply cheering me on. Y’all have no idea how much of an impact you have made on ME and on this show - this includes the listeners. Your support is the fuel that keeps this engine running. Sometimes when I am having a bad day or I get to feeling burnt out, I read reviews or a text/DM from someone about the show and it literally brightens my entire day.

I am so grateful, and so humbled by your support and encouragement. You are a blessing to me. Hand Me My Purse is exactly what it is and will grow to become something FAR BEYOND MY WILDEST DREAMS, because of your simple and intentional acts of kindness. I pray God blesses each and every one of you immensely. I appreciate you and I love you so much for your support.
 
This is a whole conversation with my cousins - about marriage, divorce and the real life situations/circumstances surrounding marriages that end in divorce. It was a real situation!!! My cousins and I discuss marriage from a realistic point of view and spill the tea around divorce, marriage and dating post the end of marriage vows.


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01 Apr 2022No. 41: Hand Me My Purse is TWO YEARS OLD w/Lyndsay + The Slap Seen Around The World + When Is It Okay To Protect Black Women + Hot Topics with Gen. X & Gen. Z01:58:56

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On the 2nd birthaversary (YES BIRTHAVERSARY) of Hand Me My Purse the podcast, I felt it was only fitting to have my very first guest back on the show with me. My little cousin Lyndsay & I are both two years wiser, two years older and so is my show! We talked about everything from the slap seen around the world, to when it will be a good time to protect Black Women, Cory Booker & Ketanji Brown-Jackson, dating, SEX, parenting and so much more. It was a Gen X + a Gen Z party, wherein I learned we actually see things through a similar lens. I am hoping this means the kids will be alright.

The drinks I mentioned in this episode are linked more than once in here in the show notes, but I wanted to mention that it is founded by TWO WOMEN!!!! How amazing is THAT!!!! I will continue to drink
Onda Sparkling Seltzer. #GIRLPOWER

Thank you to everybody who has supported the show by listening, sharing it with your people, posting it on social media, leaving a review or rating the show, sending a kind word of encouragement or simply cheering me on. Your support is the fuel that keeps this engine running.

I am so grateful, and so humbled by your support and encouragement. You are a blessing to me. Hand Me My Purse is exactly what it is and will grow to become something FAR BEYOND MY WILDEST DREAMS, because of your simple, consistent and intentional acts of kindness. I pray God blesses each and every one of you immensely. I appreciate you and love you so much for your support.
 
"GO WHERE YOU ARE LOVED. NOT WHERE YOU ARE TOLERATED..."

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19 Apr 2022No. 42: Comin' From Where I'm From + The Importance of Knowing Your Roots + My Family’s African Ancestry Reveal w/Dr. Gina Paige.01:12:45

Hey Friends & Kin!

This episode is a special one. Joining me for this episode is Dr. Gina Paige (from episode No. 29), Co-Founder + President of AfricanAncestry.com and my FAMILY!

Over the summer during my family reunion in Las Vegas, I participated in a Facebook Live (linked here) event with African Ancestry and Dr. Paige, wherein my family took a DNA test during our conversation.  We ended up doing one test for each of my great grandparents:  my great grandmother’s MATERNAL line & my great grandfather’s PATERNAL line. It was amazing and I was so honored to be able to share with the African Ancestry family that experience during our family reunion.

Dr. Paige, not too long ago, came to do an IN-PERSON African Ancestry DNA reveal for my family. It was AMAZING. Such a wonderful time for finding out who, what, how and where we were BEFORE the Trans-Atlantic Slave Trade. Before our ancestors were captured and brought AGAINST THEIR WILL to America – that is what we found out on that very day. I am so excited and proud.  I feel like my ancestors are all smiling down on me DAILY and that they are so pleased with me for making sure my family got to experience such a monumental moment. TOGETHER.

As ALWAYS, I am so grateful and so humbled by your support and encouragement. You are a blessing to me. Hand Me My Purse is exactly what it is and will grow to become something FAR BEYOND MY WILDEST DREAMS - ALL because of your simple, consistent and intentional acts of kindness. I pray God blesses each and every one of you immensely. I appreciate you and love you so much for your support.
 
"GO WHERE YOU ARE LOVED. NOT WHERE YOU ARE TOLERATED..."

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08 May 2022RETRO EPISODE - No. 5: How to Cope w/Mother Loss + Be Brave.00:48:15

FYI Friends & Kin, I am sharing an episode with you again.  It is a Flashback to the Episodes of the Past - a retro episode from Season One. This particular episode makes sense for its re-release date of today, as it is MOTHER'S DAY of 2022! This is hands down, STILL, one of my all time favorite episodes of Hand Me My Purse. I hope you enjoy this episode and that it brings your some form of peaceful energy. I pray everyone one of you are at peace on this Mother's Day and I pray your spirit is light. God bless each of you and enjoy this oldie but goodie!
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Hey Friends & Kin!

Well, Mother's Day is upon us. For some it's a great time - for some of us... Not so much! I am having a real ass conversation about Mother Loss. Yes, it's a thing. My therapist, Dr. Demisse, gave me some strategies to share with my friends & kin for this Mother's Day episode. She is pretty awesome & is also a listener and fan of, "Hand Me My Purse."

Mother Loss - the actual or perceived absence of typical mother-child experiences with a maternal figure. For some, but not all, this maternal figure is a specific person.

This episode I am drinking on Jose Cuervo's Coconut Pineapple Ready to Serve Margarita! It's pretty damn DELISH!

Auntie MeMe's jam this episode is, "Dear Mama" by 2Pac. Our question for Straight Facts is of course loaded with drama & comes to us from Jamie of New Orleans! Hey Jamie!

Make sure you listen to the very end because I announce a giveaway contest that will be happening on the Hand Me My Purse. Instagram page next week!!!


I would love, love, LOVE if you would please submit questions for the
"Straight Facts" segment, as well as photos, stories & quotes of/about your favorite or NOT SO FAVORITE auntie to:
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16 May 2022No. 43: Being an Indie Music Artist + Recreating Yourself FOR Yourself + “How I Do” turned Twenty w/Res + A GIVEAWAY01:08:32

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Friends & Kin, in this episode I get to sit in conversation with one of my homegirls.  My friend, artist, singer, musician, DJ - RES. If you are a lover of music and you were here for the start of the Neo-Soul/Alternative R&B movement of the early 2000s, (and are at least ALMOST 40 years old) you should be familiar with her debut album, "HOW I DO".

Res and I talk candidly about being a creative, the difference between being an artist signed to a major label versus being an indie artist - the pros and cons. We also discuss what she is up to now and the plans for her upcoming album, "RESet,  along with so much more!

You want to make sure you listen to this episode because there is a GIVEAWAY associated with this episode and it will happen QUICK! If you live in the DMV area, Res will be performing at CITY WINERY in DC on Saturday, May 21st.  I will be there! The giveaway is for two free tickets to the show.  Please make sure to follow me AND Res on Instagram (see below for links) and enter the giveaway! I hope to see you at the show & if you're there, come say, "Heeeeeeey!".

From this episode's, "WE GOT TO DO BETTER" segment:

“I am even more certain that to create dangerously is also to create fearlessly, boldly embracing the public and private terrors that would silence us, then bravely moving forward even when it feels as though we are chasing or being chased by ghosts”
– Edwidge Danticat

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01 Jun 2022No. 44: Focusing on the Present Moment + Gratitude Challenge Part Deux + Considering Buddhism???00:50:21

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Friends & Kin… How are y’all doing? No for real. How are y’all FEELING – in this moment? This episode is about just that. THE MOMENT. Staying present. All too often we are so focused on either the past or the future, when what really matters is what is happening RIGHT NOW. OUR Right now is the key to the streets. It is where all the magic happens. However, we overlook all these magical moments because we are stuck in the thick of what already occurred or the possibilities of what COULD occur. Meanwhile… Life is passing us by. Second by second. Minute by minute. Hour by hour. Day by day…  Before you know it, it’s been YEARS.  Years have passed you by & you look back at what you’ve been doing all that time. NOT FOCUSING ON THE HERE AND NOW.

It’s time again for the Hand Me My Purse GRATITUDE CHALLENGE - PART DEUX! That’s right it’s time to be intentional about being grateful. I said it in January during episode No. 37 – the first gratitude challenge reflection that I would be doing this again… Well it’s about that time. If you aren’t familiar with the HMMP gratitude challenge – it’s quite simple and produces AMAZING results. Don’t believe me – go listen to episode No. 37.


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15 Jun 2022No. 45: The Bastardization of Juneteenth + Radical Black Joy + Gratitude Challenge Part TWO.00:53:40

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Happy Almost Juneteenth!!!  I am so excited about Juneteenth and the Hand Me My Purse Gratitude Challenge starting TODAY! Today being June 15th. 

In this episode, friends & kin we are going to hit on a few things. 

ONE:  JUNETEENTH IS UPON US. And that’s exciting. Or is it?  Are black people still excited about JUNETEENTH now that it’s a FEDERAL holiday? I know personally, I am very annoyed at the bastardization of the holiday our ancestors created to celebrate their emancipation from being enslaved.

TWO:  I want to take a brief look at the magic that is BLACK JOY. The shit is pure magic. There is a title of a poem that reads, “joy is an act of resistance”. I would add onto that, BLACK JOY IS AN INTENTIONAL RADICAL ACT OF RESISTANCE. For all of the sadness, anger, rage, disappointment, violence, and downright evil we encounter and live through daily... We still find ways to feel and share our joy.  And that my friends is FUCKING PHENOMENAL to me. It says so much about our bones. 

THREE:  It’s time for the HAND ME MY PURSE GRATITUDE CHALLENGE. That is a major win for anyone who participates. It's next level intentional living. I can promise you that your entire life will experience a SHIFT as a result of doing this challenge. Y'all stay doing those ridiculous Tik Tok dance challenges - join in on a challenge that can change your mindset!


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01 Jul 2022No. 46: Roe vs. Wade Overturned + R. Kelly Sentenced to 30 Years + The Fine Art of Knowing When to Let Go.01:09:26

Hey Friends & Kin!
 
 FYI:  THIS, JUST LIKE ALL EPISODES OF HAND ME MY PURSE, CONTAINS PROFANITY. THIS PODCAST IS FOR ADULTS AND CONTAINS ADULT CONTENT.
Now that we've gotten that out of the way...
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Friends and Kin in this episode, we are going to discuss LETTING GO – signs that it’s time to let go and a few things to consider before letting go.  However before I get into that discussion I just wanted to mark two moments in history:

ONE: The supreme court overturned Roe vs. Wade… WHAT THE ENTIRE FUCK. Regardless of whether you are pro-life or pro-choice, let’s get one thing straight.  In this country there are so many oxymorons. Emphasis on the MORON part. This means that freedom to have an Abortion is no longer a federal constitutional right. This is disgusting MAINLY because the government should NOT have a say so in what anyone chooses to do with their bodies.
 
 TWO:  Let’s mark that Mr. Robert Kelly – also known as R. Kelly has been sentenced to 30 years in prison. A court in New York sentenced him to FEDERAL racketeering & sex trafficking. Well, well, well… I read an article on CNN about the sentencing which took place on Wednesday, June 29th that was quite interesting.  Now don’t get me wrong, I know that there are a lot of folks that still support the R. – I am not one of them. Just so we are clear. Make sure to read the article I linked right HERE. It is an interesting read.

Back to LETTING GO, one of the monumental things I learned (yes I learn things doing this podcast!) with this episode is this:  Love is all about FREEDOM. The end of love is NOT the end of LIFE – it should be the beginning of an understanding that love sometimes leaves for a reason, but never leaves without a lesson. (I LOVE THAT!)

"GO WHERE YOU ARE LOVED. NOT WHERE YOU ARE TOLERATED..."

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15 Jul 2022RETRO EPISODE - No. 10: Spiritual Healing w/Camille Adrienne of THE SMUDGED LIFE + The Science of Energy, Vibes & Crystals01:18:09

FYI Friends & Kin, it's RETRO EPISODE TIME!!! Today is Flashback Friday!!! I am sharing one of my FAVORITE episodes to this DAY! I hope you enjoy this episode and that you learn something about something NEW.  This episode is PACKED with AMAZING INFORMATION!!! Learn yourself something GOOOOOD.  God bless each of you and enjoy this oldie but goodie!
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Hey Friends & Kin!

FYI:  THIS, JUST LIKE ALL EPISODES OF HAND ME MY PURSE, CONTAINS PROFANITY. THIS PODCAST IS FOR ADULTS AND CONTAINS ADULT CONTENT.
Now that we've gotten that out of the way...

This is a conversation all about spiritual healing & holistic wellness.  My guest, Camille Adrienne of The Smudged Life gives us the lowdown on ALLLLL things spiritual & all things healing - then backed it up with science. We talked about energy, frequencies, vibrations, God, crystals, sage, meditation, yoga, prayer, Flaming Hot Cheetos and some more! We laughed. She got a little emotional. It was a very colorful conversation with so much amazing information.  Also, there is a lovely surprise toward the end of the episode - so listen to it ALL. 

Auntie MeMe's jam for this episode is, "She's Strange" by Cameo. Our question for Straight Facts was sent to us by Roscoe of Baton Rouge, LA.

"Saying no to things that make you feel like shit is a heroic act of self-love.
" - @bondiguru

Find the amazing Camille Adrienne on
IG & here is the link to buy the Smudged Life Starter Kit...

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I love you guys so much & I’m honored to share my time & energy with you – ESPECIALLY IF YOU KEEP COMING BACK! I can’t wait until we get to do this again!

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06 Aug 2022RETRO EPISODE - No. 11: Dating, Love & Lust in the Time of Coronavirus + Protect Meg.01:01:33

FYI Friends & Kin, it's RETRO EPISODE TIME AGAIN! It's the summertime and Sis needs some moments of REST.  Taking good care of myself is a priority - gotta "walk it like i talk it"! This episode is so necessary right now, as it hits on the importance of PROTECTING BLACK WOMEN. Breonna Taylor. Britney Griner.  The fight is not over. 
PROTECT. BLACK. WOMEN.
God bless each of you and enjoy this oldie but goodie!
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Hey Friends & Kin!
 
This conversation is all about dating during this current global pandemic. What are folks doing?  I get some insight from women AND men, from all backgrounds – including those in different types of relationships. I also address the situation w/Meg the Stallion & He Who Shall Not Be Named. 

Auntie MeMe's Jam for this episode is, "Come Through and Chill " by Miguel.

The following quote from We Got To Do Better comes from
The Storyteller - an app created by Morgan Harper Nichols

“You are free to hope - there is more to come. You have been waiting for so long.  You have been waiting for answers, longing for closure for the things that shattered your heart.  Breathe deep and trust: grace will meet you on the journey toward healing.  Grace will meet you on the journey of discovering who it is that you were meant to be in this season. It’s okay if you don’t get it right all the time.  It’s okay if you don’t get everyone’s approval.  Decide whose wisdom you will listen to and let the other voices disappear into the background.” 

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And as always, "Thank you for your support..."
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15 Aug 2022RETRO EPISODE - No. 6: Joy in Black Girl Land + Friendship Woes on Insecure00:55:30

Friends & Kin, it's still summertime. I am still resting, mentally preparing for the upcoming school year.  Taking good care of myself is a priority - gotta "walk it like i talk it"! This episode is another one of my Top 10 most listened to episodes! I hope you enjoy it and MAKE SURE YOU STICK AROUND FOR THAT STRAIGHT FACTS QUESTION - it's SOME KIND OF WILD!
God bless each of you and enjoy this oldie but goodie!
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Hey Friends & Kin!

In this episode we are talking about friendship, sisterhood, Molly & Issa and a whole lot of other dope ish. TUNE IN!!!

Friendship -  a close association between two people marked by feelings of care, respect, admiration, concern, or even love.

This episode I am drinking on Green Pu'erh Tea! I have to say it's the best pu'erh I've ever had! Usually pu'erh is YUCKY and too heavy, but this is nice. I'm pleased.

Auntie MeMe's jam this episode is, "What About Your Friends" by TLC. Our question for Straight Facts is A HUM DINGER & comes to us from Ms. LaVeaux of Las Vegas! Hey Girl Hey!


I would love, love, LOVE if you would please submit questions for the
"Straight Facts" segment, as well as photos, stories & quotes of/about your favorite or NOT SO FAVORITE auntie to:
 hello@handmemypurse.com - using #STRAIGHTFACTS as the subject line.

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And as always, "Thank you for your support..."
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xoxo
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05 Sep 2022RETRO EPISODE - No. 7: Gratitude in Practice + How It Can Change Your Life.00:46:15

Friends & Kin, Summertime is coming to an end. Taking a much needed break this summer has been exactly what my spirit needed.  On September 15th, I will be back with a brand new episode.  School has started and I am still trying to nestle back into my work/life balance routine. Taking good care of myself is a priority - gotta "walk it like i talk it"! BE SURE TO LISTEN TO THE STRAIGHT FACTS SEGMENT - I HAVE AN UPDATE FROM THE LAST RETRO EPISODE QUESTION - WHICH WAS EXTREMELY JUICY!

God bless each of you and enjoy this oldie but goodie!
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Hey Friends & Kin!

Today's episode is all about GRATITUDE & how to put it into practice. Why is it so important? What do I do to express gratitude? How do I benefit from doing so? What's the tea?

grat·i·tude

/ˈɡradəˌt(y)o͞od/
noun
1.    the quality of being thankful; readiness to show appreciation for and to return kindness.

This episode I am drinking on Deep Eddy Lemon Vodka & bubly Pineapple Seltzer.  This is my FAVORITE SUMMERTIME DRINK... It's so refreshing and light. Yummers.

Auntie MeMe's jam this episode is, "COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS" by DAMIAN MARLEY & NAS. Our question for Straight Facts is coming to us from "Friendless in Seattle" & it is pretty heavy but a real situation that many of us have had to deal with in friendships.  Also we have an update to last week's question us from Ms. LaVeaux of Las Vegas!

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xoxo
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I love you guys so much & I’m honored to share my time & energy with you – ESPECIALLY IF YOU KEEP COMING BACK! I can’t wait until we get to do this again!

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xoxo
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15 Sep 2022No. 47: End of Summer Recap + Coping with Mild (not spicy) Depression + Learning How to Be Still.00:59:01

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Friends and Kin in this episode, we are going to discuss BEING STILL – what does that even mean?  I am absolutely going to clarify all of that.  We will get into this and also some strategies for doing just that. BEING STILL. 

This is a very simple conversation about what I’ve been up to since we last were together, earlier this summer. School is now back in session and I am slowly RE-adjusting to that life.  During the Summer of '22, my life has seen so many transitions and I am not even mad about it.  The world seems to be on fire, at every turn - yet there is still joy to be had. Joy to be experienced. Gratitude to be felt from our crowns to our soles. I also talk about some of the ways I have dealt with a MILD depression – it wasn’t spicy, but MILD. The biggest strategy was to BE STILL. Also, I share a few tips for making it through those tough times…

What have my friends + kin been up to? 

"GO WHERE YOU ARE LOVED. NOT WHERE YOU ARE TOLERATED..."

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xoxo
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I love you guys so much & I’m honored to share my time & energy with you – ESPECIALLY IF YOU KEEP COMING BACK! I can’t wait until we get to do this again!

And as always, "Thank you for your support..."
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xoxo
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09 Oct 2022No. 48: LIFE be LIFE-ing + Different Types of Self-Care + Self-Care in PRACTICE on a BUDGET.00:57:41

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 FYI:  THIS, JUST LIKE ALL EPISODES OF HAND ME MY PURSE, CONTAINS PROFANITY. THIS PODCAST IS FOR ADULTS AND CONTAINS ADULT CONTENT.
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Friends and Kin please forgive me as this episode is coming to you a little late. My sincerest apologies. Life has been absolutely LIFE-ING like a MUGG over here, mayne. I have found myself really having to dig in deep when it comes to self-care and making sure I don’t go over the edge. 

This conversation is all about how even though LIFE IS DOING WHAT IT DOES, we still must take the time out to care for ourselves. Time may be limited. Finances may be limited. Energy may be limited. However, it is up to YOU/ME/US to ensure we are taking the best possible care of ourselves in order to show up in the world as OUR BEST VERSION OF OURSELVES. 

I dive into the different types of self-care, my current favorite self-care routines ON A BUDGET and one of my favorite accounts to check out as a form of social media self-care. It's all about figuring out what brings you JOY and A SENSE OF PEACE. So listen in and start to process for YOURSELF what you need to do to create a self-care toolkit for you! YOU DESERVE, MY DARLING... YOU DESERVE.

What have my friends + kin been up to? 

"GO WHERE YOU ARE LOVED. NOT WHERE YOU ARE TOLERATED..."

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xoxo
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And as always, "Thank you for your support..."
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xoxo
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15 Jan 2023No. 49: Happy New Year + Compassion Fatigue - WHAT IS IT? + I.S.O. Radical Joy.00:57:29

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First of all – HAPPY NEW YEAR! It’s been a minute, friends & kin, but I’M BACK BABY!!!  Sis was on some ol’ other ish. I was DEEP in the trenches of life, trying to navigate celebrating some really MAJOR things that should be celebrated and deal with heavy grief + just regular ol' LIFE = being ABSOLUTELY OVERWHELMED.  However, I'm back and working hard to climb out of the muck into the sunshine!

In this episode I am looking at a different way to approach new year’s resolutions and goals and a real serious look at compassion fatigue vs. burnout – they are NOT THE SAME! I share how to identify compassion fatigue as well as some strategies for dealing & healing with the condition. And yes it is a condition. I also discuss why I have decided to focus on RADICAL JOY in 2023. When you are on the brink of being extremely overwhelmed – you gotta go hard in the paint. No light work, just LIGHT WORK… You see what I did there?

The Straight Facts question for this episode is SPICY!  And it's from a brother! I love when the fellas ask questions, but this one is rather messy.  I was excited to respond. Thanks Jamal from Philly!

We Got To Do Better:  “When I dare to be powerful — to use my strength in the service of my vision, then it becomes less and less important whether I am afraid.”
-Audre Lorde
 

What have my friends + kin been up to? 

"GO WHERE YOU ARE LOVED. NOT WHERE YOU ARE TOLERATED..."

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And as always, "Thank you for your support..."
(said exactly like the 80s

I love you guys so much & I’m honored to share my time & energy with you – ESPECIALLY IF YOU KEEP COMING BACK! I can’t wait until we get to do this again!

And as always, "Thank you for your support..."
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xoxo
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16 Mar 2023No. 50: Gaining an Ancestor + Big on the Self-Love + Being Single Isn’t The End of the World01:00:34

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 FYI:  THIS, JUST LIKE ALL EPISODES OF HAND ME MY PURSE, CONTAINS PROFANITY. THIS PODCAST IS FOR ADULTS AND CONTAINS ADULT CONTENT.
Now that we've gotten that out of the way...
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Friends & Kin, what a WHIRLWIND life has been for the past two months.  I gained an ancestor & almost lost my mind.  I am still in the throws of grief and trying to adjust to this new way of living a somewhat normal life, yet I feel lost in the sauce.  And I mean completely LOST IN LE SAUCE! Keep me in your prayers, please.

This episode of Hand Me My Purse is, at its core, about LOVE. The love we have for ourselves.  It's about relationships and the true work that must be done to prepare us for entering a space where we are truly ready to be open to a healthy partnership/relationship with someone else - romantically.  I talk about the benefit of choosing to be single, as we get ready - IF WE EVEN WANT TO BE READY.  SINGLE? COUPLED? The choice is OURS TO MAKE.

The Straight Facts question for this episode is something else, and my response is SOMETHING ELSE TOO! Please, go listen!  What would you do in this situation?

For the We Got To Do Better segment in this episode,  we have two quotes!  They were too connected to not share them both.  I explain in the episode.  Here they are:

"The greatest lie ever told about love is that it sets you free." -Zadie Smith

"Nobody's as powerful as we make them out to be." -Alice Walker

What have my friends + kin been up to since January? 

"GO WHERE YOU ARE LOVED. NOT WHERE YOU ARE TOLERATED..."

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01 Jun 2023IMPORTANT UPDATE: A Quick Message From MeMe + BIG TING A GWAN.00:04:08

🗣️ HEEEEEEEEY FRIENDS & KIN! 👋🏾

It's been a minute. ⏱️  Sis has been BUSY BUSY BUSY as a bee! 🐝  Auntie MeMe has been working day & night like the Jackson 5 back in the 70s, man.  I don't have TOO much to say just yet, but I do want to express my sincere gratitude for your patience.  Now if you will just hold tight for a little while longer, I promise I have some important news for you coming very soon. 

There will be a BRAND SPANKING NEW EPISODE ON JUNE 13th & I PROMISE YOU WILL WANT TO TUNE IN ON THAT DAY.  I AM SO HAPPY TO SHARE SOME EXCITING NEWS WITH YOU ALL!  PLEASE PUT JUNE 13th ON YOUR CALENDARS SO YOU DO NOT FORGET TO TUNE IN!!! 📆 

Be sure to follow me on INSTAGRAM & TWITTER for any upcoming news (June 13th definitely check out IG!!!) 👀

Just remember, change is good. Life is good. I remain grateful.  Thank you so much for always rocking with me and tuning in.  Stay tuned - the best is yet to come!!!

Love always + another lifetime,

MeMe. 🧡

"GO WHERE YOU ARE LOVED. NOT WHERE YOU ARE TOLERATED..."

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01 Mar 2020No. 1: Welcome to Hand Me My Purse the Podcast + Take Off Your Coat & Stay Awhile.00:14:43

What's up y'all! Here is the trailer episode of Hand Me My Purse the podcast.  In this shortened episode, you will hear me lay out some groundwork about the show.  I will tell you a little bit about myself, the foundation of the show's concept as well as some of what to expect from Hand Me My Purse. Please stay tuned for the official launch of Hand Me My Purse and stick around for what's to come!

Thank you for your support... (a*la 80s Bartles and Jaymes commercials LOL)
https://youtu.be/xqTkzxL89xg

xoxo
MeMe
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  • Music:  Gloomy Tunes
  • Producer:  Sasson Anderson


I love you guys so much & I’m honored to share my time & energy with you – ESPECIALLY IF YOU KEEP COMING BACK! I can’t wait until we get to do this again!

And as always, "Thank you for your support..."
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01 Apr 2020No. 2: Coronavirus Be Damned + How to Cope During a Pandemic + Self Care ACTIVATE!00:41:26

Welp, here we are. In the middle of a global pandemic! Never in my lifetime did I think I'd live to see something like this. This is a check-in with my friends & kin, about how we are coping in the black community.

How are you feeling? How are you coping? Are you taking time to focus on your breathing? What self-care rituals have you put in place?  If you haven't thought about any of these things, you need to just pull up a chair and listen to this episode - QUICK... 

In this episode we are going to look at a few ways to cope with such a drastic life change and some healthy strategies to incorporate into our everyday life as we navigate through this strange, uncharted territory.  Maybe grab a pen & piece of paper to jot some of these ideas down, or put it in the notes via your phone.

Thank you for your support... (a*la 80s Bartles and Jaymes commercials LOL)
https://youtu.be/xqTkzxL89xg

xoxo
MeMe
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  • Music:  Gloomy Tunez
  • Producer:  Sasson Anderson

I love you guys so much & I’m honored to share my time & energy with you – ESPECIALLY IF YOU KEEP COMING BACK! I can’t wait until we get to do this again!

And as always, "Thank you for your support..."
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xoxo
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01 Apr 2020No. 3: Manifest Yourself a Hot Girl Summer + Summertime Wellness Prep w/my Little Cousin Lyndsay.00:57:25

In this episode we have our very first guest - my little cousin Lyndsay. We are dishing about how to prepare for a HOT GIRL SUMMER during this global pandemic we have going on.  Start NOW to prepare and the Universe will hear your cry and feel your energy manifesting good energy. 

We use a reputable source - URBAN DICTIONARY, to get clarification on what in fact a HOT GIRL SUMMER truly entails.  In addition, we will review some things you can do right now in the . midst of CoVid-19 in order to prepare for said HOT GIRL SUMMER, so that when June hits... WE READY!!!


Thank you for your support... (a*la 80s Bartles and Jaymes commercials LOL)
https://youtu.be/xqTkzxL89xg

xoxo
MeMe
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  • Music:  Gloomy Tunes
  • Producer:  Sasson Anderson

I love you guys so much & I’m honored to share my time & energy with you – ESPECIALLY IF YOU KEEP COMING BACK! I can’t wait until we get to do this again!

And as always, "Thank you for your support..."
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xoxo
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15 Apr 2020No. 4: Black Girl Moisturization Essentials: Vaseline vs. Shea Butter. A Battle Royale.00:33:55

Hey Friends & Kin!

In this episode I am discussing two beauty products that are staples in a black household. Vaseline vs. Shea Butter. I will address whether one is better than the other & how they are similar.  I'll also share some information and tips on how to maximize both of their effects.

This episode I am drinking on Canada Dry's new BOLD GINGER ALE! It's pretty darn spicy and delicious - EXTREMELY GINGERY... Is that a word?

Auntie MeMe's jam this episode is, "Shining Star" by Earth, Wind & Fire. Our question for Straight Facts is a good one, that I am sure everybody can relate to - one sided friendships.


Products mentioned in this episode:

  1. Vaseline
  2. Raw Shea Butter 
  3. Jergens Original Lotion
  4. Palmer's Cocoa Butter Formula
  5. Neutrogena Hydro Boost Body Gel Cream
  6. Neutrogena Hydro Boost Whipped Body Balm
  7. The Body Shop - Olive Body Butter

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01 May 2020No. 5: How to Cope w/Mother Loss during Mother's Day Season + A Special Giveaway00:48:15

Hey Friends & Kin!

Well, Mother's Day is upon us. For some it's a great time - for some of us... Not so much! I am having a real ass conversation about Mother Loss. Yes, it's a thing. My therapist, Dr. Demisse, gave me some strategies to share with my friends & kin for this Mother's Day episode. She is pretty awesome & is also a listener and fan of, "Hand Me My Purse."

Mother Loss - the actual or perceived absence of typical mother-child experiences with a maternal figure. For some, but not all, this maternal figure is a specific person.

This episode I am drinking on Jose Cuervo's Coconut Pineapple Ready to Serve Margarita! It's pretty damn DELISH!

Auntie MeMe's jam this episode is, "Dear Mama" by 2Pac. Our question for Straight Facts is of course loaded with drama & comes to us from Jamie of New Orleans! Hey Jamie!

Make sure you listen to the very end because I announce a giveaway contest that will be happening on the Hand Me My Purse. Instagram page next week!!!


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15 May 2020No. 6: Joy in Black Girl Land + Friendship Woes on Insecure00:55:30

Hey Friends & Kin!

So this week was pretty awesome in Black Lady Land, even though we had a couple of not so awesome moments. Today we are talking about friendship, sisterhood, Molly & Issa and a whole lot of other dope ish. TUNE IN!!!

Friendship -  a close association between two people marked by feelings of care, respect, admiration, concern, or even love.

This episode I am drinking on Green Pu'erh Tea! I have to say it's the best pu'erh I've ever had! Usually pu'erh is YUCKY and too heavy, but this is nice. I'm pleased. 

Auntie MeMe's jam this episode is, "What About Your Friends" by TLC. Our question for Straight Facts is A HUM DINGER & comes to us from Ms. LaVeaux of Las Vegas! Hey Girl Hey!

Make sure you visit the Hand Me My Purse. Instagram page on Monday - 5|18|2020 to participate in the conversation about Molly & Issa after Sundays' episode of, "INSECURE".


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01 Jun 2020No. 7: Gratitude in Practice + How It Can Change Your Life.00:46:15

Hey Friends & Kin!

Today's episode is all about GRATITUDE & how to put it into practice. Why is it so important? What do I do to express gratitude? How do I benefit from doing so? What's the tea?

grat·i·tude

/ˈɡradəˌt(y)o͞od/
noun
1.    the quality of being thankful; readiness to show appreciation for and to return kindness.


This episode I am drinking on Deep Eddy Lemon Vodka & bubly Pineapple Seltzer.  This is my FAVORITE SUMMERTIME DRINK... It's so refreshing and light. Yummers.

Auntie MeMe's jam this episode is, "COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS" by DAMIAN MARLEY & NAS. Our question for Straight Facts is coming to us from "Friendless in Seattle" & it is pretty heavy but a real situation that many of us have had to deal with in friendships.  Also we have an update to last week's question us from Ms. LaVeaux of Las Vegas!


Make sure you visit the Hand Me My Purse. Instagram page on or after Monday - 6|1|2020 to participate in the conversation about the latest episode of, "INSECURE". Last night's episode was OFF THE CHAIN!!! The last time we talked about the show was on May 18th & we have some catching up to do. Last night I was screaming at the television with JOY AND ELATION!!! 

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15 Jun 2020No. 8: Sippin' on Hennessy For My Ancestors + Self-Care for Juneteenth w/The Bedroom Bartender.01:03:01

Hey Friends & Kin!

Today's episode is our 1st w/a guest interview. Gina, Soul Creator of The Bedroom Bartender joined us for a lovely conversation. We discuss so many things from JUNETEENTH & why it is so important to celebrate our ancestors, supporting black businesses, self-care, Drake mimosas & we also play a new game - "What is Auntie Drinkin'?"

What exactly IS Juneteenth...

"On June 19, 1865, General Gordon Granger rode into Galveston, Texas, and announced enslaved people were now free. Since then, June 19 has been celebrated as Juneteenth across the nation.The June 19 announcement came more than two and a half years after Abraham Lincoln issued the Emancipation Proclamation on January 1, 1863. So technically, from the Union's perspective, the 250,000 enslaved people in Texas were already free—but none of them were aware of it, and no one was in a rush to inform them..."

Auntie MeMe's jam this episode is, "Juneteenth Jamboree" performed by Gladys "Fatso" Bentley. Our question for Straight Facts is from Stefaney in Jacksonville.

Make sure you visit the Hand Me My Purse. Instagram page on or after Monday - 6|15|2020 to participate in the conversation about the season finale of "INSECURE"...

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01 Jul 2020No. 9: Self-Care & Spiritual Healing In Action via Ancestral Discoveries + How I Spent Juneteenth.00:59:56

Hey Friends & Kin!

Today's episode is a follow-up about what I actually did on Juneteenth & a conversation about self-care in ACTION. In real time. It gets real. I MEAN REAL. I cried, I laughed. I was very transparent about my family, my healing & my current self-care journey that I am actually in the middle of AS WE SPEAK. Or well AS I TYPE!

What exactly IS Juneteenth... Go listen to the episode No. 8 & read the show notes for said episode! It will give you tons of information. Or click THIS link for more information.

Auntie MeMe's jam this episode is, "ONE is the magic number" by Jill "my smile is made of diamonds and sunshine" Scott. Our question for Straight Facts was sent to us by Keisha from New Jersey.

"The sooner we stop pretending to be immune to feelings that scare us, the sooner life will begin to make sense." - Chidera Eggerue

Find the amazing Chidera Eggerue on
IG & on Twitter & buy "What A Time To Be Alone"... HERE

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15 Jul 2020No. 10: Spiritual Healing w/Camille Adrienne of THE SMUDGED LIFE + The Science of Energy, Vibes & Crystals01:18:09

Hey Friends & Kin!

This is a conversation all about spiritual healing & holistic wellness.  My guest, Camille Adrienne of The Smudged Life gives us the lowdown on ALLLLL things spiritual & all things healing - then backed it up with science. We talked about energy, frequencies, vibrations, God, crystals, sage, meditation, yoga, prayer, Flaming Hot Cheetos and some more! We laughed. She got a little emotional. It was a very colorful conversation with so much amazing information.  Also, there is a lovely surprise toward the end of the episode - so listen to it ALL. 

Auntie MeMe's jam for this episode is, "She's Strange" by Cameo. Our question for Straight Facts was sent to us by Roscoe of Baton Rouge, LA.

"Saying no to things that make you feel like shit is a heroic act of self-love.
" - @bondiguru

Find the amazing Camille Adrienne on
IG & here is the link to buy the Smudged Life Starter Kit...

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01 Aug 2020No. 11: Dating, Love & Lust in the Time of Coronavirus + Protect Meg.01:01:33

Hey Friends & Kin!
 
A conversation about dating during this current global pandemic. What are folks doing?  I get some insight from women AND men, from all backgrounds – including those in different types of relationships. I also address the situation w/Meg the Stallion & He Who Shall Not Be Named. 

Auntie MeMe's Jam for this episode is, "Come Through and Chill " by Miguel.

The following quote from We Got To Do Better comes from
The Storyteller - an app created by Morgan Harper Nichols

“You are free to hope - there is more to come. You have been waiting for so long.  You have been waiting for answers, longing for closure for the things that shattered your heart.  Breathe deep and trust: grace will meet you on the journey toward healing.  Grace will meet you on the journey of discovering who it is that you were meant to be in this season. It’s okay if you don’t get it right all the time.  It’s okay if you don’t get everyone’s approval.  Decide whose wisdom you will listen to and let the other voices disappear into the background.” 


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15 Aug 2020No. 12: The Culture of Dating in the Black Community: Part ONE w/Kandis.01:18:56

Hey Friends & Kin!

Let me start off by saying:  THIS, JUST LIKE ALL EPISODES OF HAND ME MY PURSE CONTAIN PROFANITY. THIS EPISODE ALSO CONTAINS SOME SEXUAL REFERENCES. THIS PODCAST IS FOR ADULTS AND CONTAINS ADULT CONTENT.

Now that we've gotten that out of the way...
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This show is the first in a three or four part series of episodes around the current state of the culture of dating in the Black community. This show is about looking at some of the shifts in the current climate of dating.  Our guest today, my friend Kandis and I share some personal stories and experiences we have had dating - particularly with dating ONLINE. I also share some experiences with online dating that listeners have submitted for this episode. 

Auntie MeMe's Jam for this episode is, "What's Love Got To Do With It" by Auntie Supreme, Tina Turner.

We Got To Do Better: 
"I am love. I may not have always made the right choices, but I did my best. I have so much love to give and everyone around me can feel it. I am given a clean slate every single day to be the best version of me that I can be. I am forgiven. I am love."

Today's absolutely delicious drink was made possible by:  Cane Collective 
BE SURE TO CHECK THEM OUT. THEY CREATE MAGIC... AND THEY'RE A BLACK OWNED BUSINESS!!!


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01 Sep 2020No. 13: The Culture of Dating in the Black Community: Part TWO w/B. Jamelle01:29:19

Hey Friends & Kin!

Let me start off by saying:  THIS, JUST LIKE ALL EPISODES OF HAND ME MY PURSE CONTAIN PROFANITY. THIS PODCAST IS FOR ADULTS AND CONTAINS ADULT CONTENT.

Now that we've gotten that out of the way...
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This is the second episode in a series of conversations about the culture of dating in the Black Community.  My guest Bianca & I discuss the shifts in dating within our community, as we recognize the MAJOR shift is what Bianca calls “THE NEW MONOGAMY”. We discuss some HOT TOPICS such as:  polyamory, dating from a place of emotional ego, the conceptual origins of the “Strong Black Woman” & the “Absentee Black Man” and how all of these things created a shift in the way Black men and women engage with one another. 

We laugh, dig down into our soul of wonder and get real REAL about some things that may make some folks uncomfortable. We draw on the notion that in order to heal – we have to get to the nucleus of the issue and the only way TO IT is straight THROUGH IT.


Today's absolutely delicious drink was made possible by:  Cane Collective 
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15 Sep 2020No. 14: The Culture of Dating in the Black Community: Part THREE w/Aaron of Cane Collective01:25:36

Hey Friends & Kin!

Let me start off by saying:  THIS, JUST LIKE ALL EPISODES OF HAND ME MY PURSE CONTAIN PROFANITY. THIS PODCAST IS FOR ADULTS AND CONTAINS ADULT CONTENT.

Now that we've gotten that out of the way...
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This is the third episode in a series of conversations about the culture of dating in the Black Community.  My guest is Aaron, one of the owners/founders/creators of the infamous CANE COLLECTIVE that I speak about on plenty of my episodes.  We ate, I drank & we were merry as we sat down to have a conversation that is often approached with apprehension.  We discussed relationships between Black Men & Black Women. The conversation flowed smoothly and was nothing but positive and encouraging. It went so well we talked for over two hours - SO, I had to split the discussion into two episodes. This is PART ONE of TWO. Enjoy, as we talk about some serious topics, we LAUGH, disagree as well as find common ground  and all from a heart of love for our people.

We ate dinner provided by: Miss Maryland Crab. BE SURE TO CHECK THEM OUT. THE FOOD WAS DELICIOUS... AND THEY'RE A BLACK OWNED BUSINESS!!!

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01 Oct 2020No. 15: SELF LOVE is the ULTIMATE BLACK LOVE.00:55:51

Hey Friends & Kin!

A conversation ALL about how we can & should be loving up on ourselves as well as each other – especially during these dark times. I give three simple "soft rules" for how to love on ourselves FIRST; looking at how SELF LOVE is really the ultimate form of BLACK LOVE. I also then took to these internets & got some feedback from my Friends & Kin (aka listeners of the show) about the joys of Black Love. It’s so BEAUTIFUL & so GOOD that I had to share what I found or what YOU shared with me. By the time I’m done, y’all better be smiling and feeling all warm & fuzzy inside!

The following quote for, "We Got To Do Better" comes from
The Storyteller - an app created by Morgan Harper Nichols

“Let any hint of unexpected peace remind you: YOU ARE LOVED. You are seen. And even when it feels like nothing is changing, you are where you need to be.  And love will still find you. Yes, love will still find you. For it is not some far off thing. It is running wild within you… Love will still find you, even when it does not seem that way. You are not a burden. You are not too much. You are free to feel and trust:  even here, you are worthy of love.” 


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15 Oct 2020No. 16: P-Valley & Displaced Oshun Theory + Black Folks & Spirituality + Artists in Hibernation + California Girls United01:38:41

Hey Friends & Kin!

A very transparent, no holds barred conversation with artist, momma, educator & all around DOPE AF sista – Marcia Jones. We dish about our love for the STARZ television series,  P-Valley & it’s spiritual connection to Africa (SPOILER ALERT).  Marcia breaks down the concept that she birthed, "Displaced Oshun Theory" - it's good stuff.  We also discuss the state of Black TV,  toxic mommas , Tyler Perry, Black folks & religion/spirituality (the Holy Ghost, the Orishas & MORE!!!).  We talk about SO MANY THINGS!!!

There is a conversation around how and why we both walked away from practicing our art & Marcia shares how she feels about her connection to Africa as a Black American with heavy Native American roots -  speaking of Indigenous People’s Day...

We talk about so so so so many things!!! TRUST ME YOU WANT TO LISTEN TO IT ALL. It's an absolutely MANIFICENT conversation. Believe what I'm saying to you.

We Got To Do Better.: “You can fall, but you can rise also.” – Angelique Kidjo

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01 Nov 2020No. 17: Navigating Unhealthy Relationships + Parenting in The Black Community + Pussy Power w/My Therapist02:00:00

Hey Friends & Kin!

Let me start out by saying there is a LOT of profanity in this episode. If you don’t think you can handle that – SKIP THIS ONE! But PLEASE, don’t skip it because it is absolutely AMAZING…

This episode is a little lengthy, but I can guarantee it won't feel like it because the conversation flows like water. This is a BEAUTIFULLY RAW CONVERSATION with my actual therapist! Yes, the therapist I talk about almost EVERY single episode.  We end up discussing so many things - from navigating unhealthy relationships, Cardi B. & Lil’ Kim’s mental health issues, Pussy Power, WAP (I showed her the music video for the first time), different ways of parenting without violence & I have a breakthrough in the midst of it all. I can promise you that it is worth every single second of your ear time. So, if you want to hear a conversation between a girl and her therapist that is thought provoking and may shift how you process some of your ways of navigating through life
- PRESS PLAY!!!

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I love you guys so much & I’m honored to share my time & energy with you – ESPECIALLY IF YOU KEEP COMING BACK! I can’t wait until we get to do this again!

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15 Nov 2020No. 18: Season One Finale + Zoom Party Sippin' + CoVid Won't Stop The Celebration.01:46:55

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This episode is a celebration of the completion of the INAUGURAL season of Hand Me My Purse the podcast. I was able to be in conversation with some of my avid listeners, via a Friday Night Zoom Party – including some of my cousins, guests of the show this season, and people I’ve never met but that LOVE Hand Me My Purse. The common denominator is that they all love Hand Me My Purse and are regular listeners.  We got a chance to really chop it up and dive deep into what Hand Me My Purse was all about in Season One, what they’d love to see in Season Two and we even did the “STRAIGHT FACTS” segment together. It was like those reality show reunions, without the drama and fighting. It was a celebration. We ALL had something to sip on and it was a STRAIGHT UP good time.  I talked about the Hand Me My Purse origin story and shared some of my favorite moments of the season.  We laughed, we drank all different kinds of beverages, we were merry and my guests got to ask me questions about the process, or really anything they wanted to ask. In this final episode of Season One, I stayed true to the tagline for Hand Me My Purse - it was a conversation with everyone’s favorite auntie… Me! 

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24 Dec 2020BONUS EPISODE: Coronavirus Holiday Drinking w/The Bedroom Bartender + Black Superpowers + Season Two Is Coming.00:37:42

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This episode is a quick check in with my FAVORITE bartender & mixologist - Gina of The Bedroom Bartender.  It's the HAND ME MY PURSE Holiday Adult Beverage episode.  We are in the midst of a pandemic (or as Raegan calls it - A PANINI) & we have to find ways to make sure we can maintain or create traditions.  The goal is to not go insane this holiday season.  A holiday during this Coronavirus Pandemic so weird & kinda hard to fathom, even thought we are LIVING THROUGH IT - so let's have fun and make the best of it by SIPPING ON SOME JOYFUL ADULT BEVERAGES. It's what we do here at HAND ME MY PURSE - we DRANKS!!! 

Gina gives us PLENTY of options for enjoying the holiday and entertaining folks in person (small groups only that you are safe around) & on ZOOM! We had a good time, Gina curated and created a drink and helped me make it.  And well, I was tipsy by the time I was done. It was fun. A highlight for my Christmas week! I hope you enjoy & try some of the drinks Gina told us to try.  If you do, PLEASE LET ME KNOW via Instagram DM or a post about Holiday drinking that I am sure you will find on Instagram as well. 

Happy Holidays from your FAVORITE AUNTIE, MeMe Walker. 

Also, I created the music all by myself. I am proud of myself. LOL 

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I love you guys so much & I’m honored to share my time & energy with you – ESPECIALLY IF YOU KEEP COMING BACK! I can’t wait until we get to do this again!

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xoxo
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15 Jan 2021No. 19: SEASON TWO PREMIERE + God Save the Queen (Mary Jane Blige) + Heaux Tales00:51:46

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WELCOME TO SEASON TWO OF HAND ME MY PURSE THE PODCAST...

Today I wanted to just talk about some light and good energy things. Nothing heavy, just talk. I don’t want to boggle anyone down with anything too deep.  The damn year just started and Honeychile, about a week or so ago white supremacists were climbing walls, breaking into government buildings & stealing things. They were “STORMING THE CAPITOL” as they so eloquently put it. Nobody has room for a lot of heavy energy - this episode I will just keep it LIGHT like a feather, but still relevant and relatable!

This episode is a conversation about Queen Mother, Mary Jane Blige: her legacy, the gifts she’s given to us. This week she celebrated her 50th birthday & from the looks of it she is living her best life and looking better than EVER. Set goals, not resolutions. Realistic goals with a plan to execute and achieve!  I also take a dive into Jazmine Sullivan’s new album, “Heaux Tales”.  The album really gives listeners a glimpse into what being a woman looks like when we talk in depth about matters of love, trauma, lust & insecurities.  The album is PHENOMENAL & there is something on there that I can imagine EVERY woman can relate to.

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MeMe
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01 Feb 2021No. 20: The Aftermath of an Uprising + Storming the Capitol + Activism for Clout w/ Gregory Butler02:18:53

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This episode is a conversation about the discrepancies around authentic protesting & its long-term effects on our lives. My guest & I took a deep dive as we discussed so many of our thoughts around race, politics, the former “leader” of America (I use the term LEADER loosely), police brutality, protests, the savages that “stormed the capitol” on January 6th & so much more.  My guest, Gregory Butler shares w/us the results of choosing to rebel during civil unrest & what that can look like – LOUD AND IN LIVING COLOR. Gregory is known for his participation in the Freddie Gray Uprising. Learn how he got the name, “Gas Mask Greg”. In this discussion he shares, firsthand the events that led up to the day of the uprising & What took him over the edge? We talk about trauma, loss, anxiety, rage and the desire for liberation.  The topic of how we both feel about the Black Lives Matter protests of 2020 came up and it may not be met with smiles. Please don’t think the conversation is heavy & not funny – it’s Hand Me My Purse, for goodness sake. We laugh, share vulnerabilities & definitely some very strong opinions. I hope you enjoy this episode, it was pretty dope & I'm honored that Gregory saw fit to share his story with me!

MeMe’s Jam was a special one.  Please find it in your heart to support this amazing artist – you will see how you can do just that in her IG bio, which you can find here.

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I would absolutely LOVE if you would submit questions for the "Straight Facts" segment, as well as photos of, stories, memories & quotes about your auntie to:  hello@handmemypurse.com - using  #STRAIGHTFACTS as the subject line. Or DM me on INSTAGRAM (see below).

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xoxo
MeMe
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15 Feb 2021No. 21: Black History Month + Valentine's Day + Heaux Tales = ALL THINGS BLACK LOVE w/Dr. D.01:58:06

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I am super excited to welcome a very special guest back to Hand Me My Purse.  Today I am having a conversation with my therapist about LOVE, particularly BLACK LOVE during Black History Month.  We also discuss plenty of the things connected to black people joyfully & effectively loving one another. From marriage, dating, sexual freedom vs. sexual repression, Black Girls being stripped of their innocence, parenting, racism and how it has affected Black People’s ability to love, slut shaming and SO MUCH MORE. The conversation got heavy often but of course it was relatable and enlightening.

We also talked about the latest album from Jazmine Sullivan, "HEAUX TALES" - that I am STILL listening to on REPEAT. My therapist actually loved the album and we talk about a few of the tracks on the album and and some points allow the song topics to lead the discussion on Black Love.

This is one of those episodes that you DO NOT want to miss & you DEFINITELY want to listen to the ENTIRE episode.

"GO WHERE YOU ARE LOVED. NOT WHERE YOU ARE TOLERATED..."

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I would absolutely LOVE if you would submit questions for the "Straight Facts" segment, as well as photos of, stories, memories & quotes about your auntie to:  hello@handmemypurse.com - using  #STRAIGHTFACTS as the subject line. Or DM me on INSTAGRAM (see below).

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And as always, "Thank you for your support..."
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xoxo
  MeMe
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J O I N

I love you guys so much & I’m honored to share my time & energy with you – ESPECIALLY IF YOU KEEP COMING BACK! I can’t wait until we get to do this again!

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xoxo
MeMe
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01 Mar 2021No. 22: 365 Days Later + Living With Intention + Normalizing Black Joy.00:46:19

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This episode is a light conversation about it being ONE YEAR since I released my very first episode, the trailer for my podcast, “Hand Me My Purse.” - meanwhile we are STILL in a damn pandemic.  I also wanted to chat with y’all about living with intention, seeking out joy and peace of mind – with strategic focus and celebrating wins for ourselves as well as for other people.  It’s not a heavy conversation, just a quick check in. On March 15th I will be releasing TWO episodes around inequity, capitalism & racism. It’s gonna get heavy and I have some amazing guests with LOTS of knowledge and information FOR ALL OF US – so TUNE IN. It’s gonna be a truly authentic conversation that you won’t want to miss.

"GO WHERE YOU ARE LOVED. NOT WHERE YOU ARE TOLERATED..."

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I would absolutely LOVE if you would submit questions for the "Straight Facts" segment, as well as photos of, stories, memories & quotes about your auntie to:  hello@handmemypurse.com - using  #STRAIGHTFACTS as the subject line. Or DM me on INSTAGRAM (see below).

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And as always, "Thank you for your support..."
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xoxo
  MeMe
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I love you guys so much & I’m honored to share my time & energy with you – ESPECIALLY IF YOU KEEP COMING BACK! I can’t wait until we get to do this again!

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xoxo
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15 Mar 2021No. 23: Housing Inequities Black People Are Faced With - Part One + White Friends Who Are About That Life + A Chat w/Tenisha & Paul Austin.01:22:44

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in·eq·ui·ty

/inˈekwədē/ - noun

  • lack of fairness or justice.

In this episode, I have a candid and flat out RAW conversation with one of my oldest friends, Tenisha Austin & her husband, Paul about their experience in dealing with housing inequities. Unfortunately, their story is one of many, however I knew I wanted the world to hear it – firsthand, raw & uncut.  This story has gone viral and is showcased nationwide on several news circuits, but this conversation is different. It’s a conversation amongst friends. A conversation wherein we discuss racism, capitalism, oppression, wealth building and so much more - and of course, there were plenty of laughs had – we have been friends for almost 30 years! I hope Tenisha & Paul’s story finds its way to the ears that need to hear it and to those who can benefit from learning what to do if you’re ever in a situation such as the one they encountered. Please stay tuned in to my Instagram page for details around PART TWO of this series. It's gonna be EPIC.

"GO WHERE YOU ARE LOVED. NOT WHERE YOU ARE TOLERATED..."

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I would absolutely LOVE if you would submit questions for the "Straight Facts" segment, as well as photos of, stories, memories & quotes about your auntie to:  hello@handmemypurse.com - using  #STRAIGHTFACTS as the subject line. Or DM me on INSTAGRAM (see below).

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And as always, "Thank you for your s

I love you guys so much & I’m honored to share my time & energy with you – ESPECIALLY IF YOU KEEP COMING BACK! I can’t wait until we get to do this again!

And as always, "Thank you for your support..."
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xoxo
MeMe
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24 Mar 2021No. 24: Housing Inequities Black People Are Faced With - Part Two + How the Government Strategically Segregated a Nation + A Chat w/Bree Jones of Parity Homes.01:38:47

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EQUALITY vs. EQUITY:  Equality means each individual or group of people is given the same resources or opportunities. Equity recognizes that each person has different circumstances and allocates the exact resources and opportunities needed to reach an equal outcome. 

Part two of my conversation around housing inequity.  This episode my guest is Bree Jones, the founder of PARITY HOMES, which is an equitable development company proudly headquartered in West Baltimore. The focus of Parity Homes is to acquire and rehabilitate abandoned properties by the block, to create affordable home ownership opportunities.  Bree shares with me the how and why around the birth of her organization. We discuss the history and roots of housing inequity, gentrification and flat out oppression around owning property for Black Americans in the United States in addition to a focus on the city of Baltimore. 


"GO WHERE YOU ARE LOVED. NOT WHERE YOU ARE TOLERATED..."

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I would absolutely LOVE if you would submit questions for the "Straight Facts" segment, as well as photos of, stories, memories & quotes about your auntie to:  hello@handmemypurse.com - using  #STRAIGHTFACTS as the subject line. Or DM me on INSTAGRAM (see below).

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I love you guys so much & I’m honored to share my time & energy with you – ESPECIALLY IF YOU KEEP COMING BACK! I can’t wait until the next

I love you guys so much & I’m honored to share my time & energy with you – ESPECIALLY IF YOU KEEP COMING BACK! I can’t wait until we get to do this again!

And as always, "Thank you for your support..."
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xoxo
MeMe
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01 Apr 2021No. 25: HAPPY BIRTHDAVERSARY TO HAND ME MY PURSE THE PODCAST! + A Zoom Kickback w/The Homies.01:16:31

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Happy Birthday + Anniversary (BIRTHDAVERSARY) to HAND ME MY PURSE the podcast. A fun filled conversation via a zoom kickback that included a few wild topics. It was literally like a house party - equipped with board games, a lot of trash talking, laughter, joy & just down right blackness. It was a wonderful time to be had by all! Next year the celebration will be LIVE and IN PERSON! I am claiming this NOW & I WANT YOU THERE!!!

Support my friends & kin that were on the show with me this episode.  I have linked some info down below. :o)

Enjoy & thank you for rocking with Hand Me My Purse for the first year of her life. Yes, my podcast is a girl. The future is female & so is my podcast. Now please go leave a review, I love you for it!!! xoxox

"GO WHERE YOU ARE LOVED. NOT WHERE YOU ARE TOLERATED..."

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I would absolutely LOVE if you would submit questions for the "Straight Facts" segment, as well as photos of, stories, memories & quotes about your auntie to:  hello@handmemypurse.com - using  #STRAIGHTFACTS as the subject line. Or DM me on INSTAGRAM (see below).

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I love you guys so much & I’m honored to share my time & energy with you – ESPECIALLY IF YOU KEEP COMING BACK! I can’t wait until the next time we get to do this again! Now go tell a friend to tell a friend! 

And as always, "Thank you for your support..."
(said exactly like the

I love you guys so much & I’m honored to share my time & energy with you – ESPECIALLY IF YOU KEEP COMING BACK! I can’t wait until we get to do this again!

And as always, "Thank you for your support..."
(said exactly like the 80s Bartles and Jaymes commercials)

xoxo
MeMe
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15 Apr 2021No. 26: Identifying Your Shadow Self + R.I.P. DMX + This Is America + Triggered by Tina Turner00:58:23

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A conversation about how a 26 year veteran police officer confused her firearm with a taser & murdered an innocent black man, the unfortunate passing of Earl Simmons a.k.a. DMX and the work it takes to identify, acknowledge and accept your true shadow self. I will break down what your shadow self is and how to do what is called “shadow work”. It’s a discussion around authenticity and showing up as you are without being wrapped up in how your true self will be received by the masses. I share how I recently had to deal with my own shadow self and do the work it takes to heal.

Enjoy & thank you for rocking with Hand Me My Purse for the first year of her life. Yes, my podcast is a girl. The future is female & so is my podcast. Now please go leave a review, I love you for it!!! xoxox

"GO WHERE YOU ARE LOVED. NOT WHERE YOU ARE TOLERATED..."

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I would absolutely LOVE if you would submit questions for the "Straight Facts" segment, as well as photos of, stories, memories & quotes about your auntie to:  hello@handmemypurse.com - using  #STRAIGHTFACTS as the subject line. Or DM me on INSTAGRAM (see below).

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I love you guys so much & I’m honored to share my time & energy with you – ESPECIALLY IF YOU KEEP COMING BACK! I can’t wait until the next time we get to do this again! Now go tell a friend to tell a friend! 

And as always, "Thank you for your support..."
(said exactly like the 80s Bartles and Jaymes commercials)

xoxo
  MeMe
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I love you guys so much & I’m honored to share my time & energy with you – ESPECIALLY IF YOU KEEP COMING BACK! I can’t wait until we get to do this again!

And as always, "Thank you for your support..."
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xoxo
MeMe
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15 May 2021No. 27: The Trauma Trifecta + An Unexpected Wellness Break + Recreating the Narrative Around Mother’s Day00:55:19

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A very transparent conversation about what happens when you set an intention & it manifests without you fully understanding what is going on.  In this episode I will talk about what happened to the May 1st episode of Hand Me My Purse. & why it wasn’t released. I delve into what the energy around Mother’s Day 2021 was like for me and how an intention I set on Mother’s Day of 2020 set the stage for this year’s holiday.  I am so happy to be back with my Friends & Kin after my very unplanned mini break.  We outchea - I’m back and I’m better. No seriously, I feel so much better.

MeMe’s Jam for this episode is “By Your Side” by Helen Folasade Adu.  This song, in my mind, is a love letter - a lovesong to myself. For those times when I am faced with some heavy energy or I just feel like I am struggling to find JOY. This song ALWAYS lifts my spirit to a higher place. Listen to the lyrics & see what I mean.

Enjoy & thank you for rocking with Hand Me My Purse for the first year of her life. Yes, my podcast is a girl. The future is female & so is my podcast. Now please go leave a review, I love you for it!!! xoxox

"GO WHERE YOU ARE LOVED. NOT WHERE YOU ARE TOLERATED..."

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I would absolutely LOVE if you would submit questions for the "Straight Facts" segment, as well as photos of, stories, memories & quotes about your auntie to:  hello@handmemypurse.com - using  #STRAIGHTFACTS as the subject line. Or DM me on INSTAGRAM (see below).

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I love you guys so much & I’m honored to share my time & energy with you – ESPECIALLY IF YOU KEEP COMING BACK! I can’t wait until the next time

I love you guys so much & I’m honored to share my time & energy with you – ESPECIALLY IF YOU KEEP COMING BACK! I can’t wait until we get to do this again!

And as always, "Thank you for your support..."
(said exactly like the 80s Bartles and Jaymes commercials)

xoxo
MeMe
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01 Jun 2021No. 28: Choosing NOT to Have Kids + Women Proposing to Men + Creating a Safe Space for Black Men w/Kandis01:53:00

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Now that we've gotten that out of the way...
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This episode is with my friend Kandis, that you may remember from No. 12:  The Culture of Dating in The Black Community - PART ONE.  We had an amazingly intense conversation between two friends about a myriad of topics, to include but not limited to the social media buzz around women proposing to men, having kids vs. not having kids, Black Men feeling like Black Women are a safe space (or not), interracial dating and healing the father wound - just to name some of what we talked about.

We had a heavy discussion that included so much laughter, because that's what we do! We disagreed on a LOT of things, but this is a great example of how to communicate in a healthy way.  You don't have to always agree to respect other people's perspectives and opinions.  This was only a small portion of the conversation, as we talked for over three hours.  Maybe I will share the rest of the conversation another time so you can hear all of it.

I truly hope you enjoy this episode & thank you for rocking with Hand Me My Purse for the first year of her life. Yes, my podcast is a girl. The future is female & so is my podcast. Now please go leave a review, I love you for it!!! xoxox

"GO WHERE YOU ARE LOVED. NOT WHERE YOU ARE TOLERATED..."

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I would absolutely LOVE if you would submit questions for the "Straight Facts" segment, as well as photos of, stories, memories & quotes about your auntie to:  hello@handmemypurse.com - using  #STRAIGHTFACTS as the subject line. Or DM me on INSTAGRAM (see below).

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I love you guys so much & I’m honored to share my time & energy with you – ESPECIALLY IF YOU KEEP COMING BACK! I can’t wait until we get to do this again!

And as always, "Thank you for your support..."
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15 Jun 2021No. 29: Juneteenth 2021 + Tracing our African Roots via DNA Genetic Testing w/Dr. Gina Paige of AfricanAncestry, Inc.02:04:20

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For this year’s Juneteenth episode, I got to be in conversation with, my dream guest, Dr. Gina Paige, the Co-Founder and President of African Ancestry. This is a genetic testing service that identifies our African ancestry down to the country and ethnic group.  Dr. Paige and I speak candidly about many topics, such as:  gentrification, the differences in genetic testing options, the curation of one’s own identity and why AfricanAncestry.com is the ORIGINATOR and leader in genetic technology.

 This was a great conversation, it felt like it was with my homegirl. Just two sistas, relaxing and running our mouths about the state of some important black affairs.  I learned so much and I'm so grateful for the opportunity to speak with Dr. Paige. 

 Listen in closely to the end of the discussion to find out how to get a discount on the tests this week. This test is the ONLY option for those of us who are interested in knowing where our African ancestors come from. It helps us to re-connect to our lineage, to our ancestral story.

"GO WHERE YOU ARE LOVED. NOT WHERE YOU ARE TOLERATED..."

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I would absolutely LOVE if you would submit questions for the "Straight Facts" segment, as well as photos of, stories, memories & quotes about your auntie to:  hello@handmemypurse.com - using  #STRAIGHTFACTS as the subject line. Or DM me on INSTAGRAM (see below).

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And as always, "Thank you for your support..."
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01 Jul 2021No. 30: MY LIFE + Queen Mother Mary Jane Blige + Healing Childhood Trauma + Bill Cosby is Outside.01:08:37

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A conversation about something that I couldn't stop thinking about after watching, "MY LIFE" - the documentary on Queen Mother Mary Jane Blige & her Sophomore album of the same title.  I was heavily focused on the way we carry childhood trauma with us for decades, sometimes even when we think we have healed those broken places. A 9 step method to help prepare you for beginning the journey toward HEALING your own childhood trauma. You must do more work than these 9 steps, but it's a great start!

If you have not seen the documentary, it can be found on Amazon Prime and IT IS SO WORTH IT!!! It’s so delightful.  It filled me with JOY and sadness and curiosity, anger and of course PRIDE. Queen Mother Mary Jane Blige is the epitome of GRACE.  She is ultimately the human personification of the Black Girl Experience in America. As a Black Woman. As a Black Girl. Without even knowing that I connected so much to her story, I knew I was connected to her as a human.

Queen Mother Mary Jane Blige is an INTERNATIONAL TREASURE and we are blessed to have experienced her in our lifetime.  GO WATCH THE DOCUMENTARY - A$AP, NO ROCKY!!!

I truly hope you enjoy this episode & thank you for rocking with Hand Me My Purse for the first year of her life. Yes, my podcast is a girl. The future is female & so is my podcast. Now please go leave a review, I love you for it!!! xoxox

"GO WHERE YOU ARE LOVED. NOT WHERE YOU ARE TOLERATED..."

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I would absolutely LOVE if you would submit questions for the "Straight Facts" segment, as well as photos of, stories, memories & quotes about your auntie to:  hello@handmemypurse.com - using  #STRAIGHTFACTS as the subject line. Or DM me on INSTAGRAM (see below).

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And as always, "Thank you for your support..."
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15 Jul 2021No. 31: Politics in Baltimore City + The Freddie Gray Uprising + Skewed Perceptions & Healing w/Stephanie Rawlings-Blake02:18:23

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In this episode I had a relaxed but extremely informative conversation with former Mayor of Baltimore City, Stephanie Rawlings-Blake (better known as SRB) – who just so happens to be my big cousin.  We talked & laughed about so many things from how she got into politics to dating metrosexuals and we definitely discussed the Freddie Gray uprising in Baltimore City as well as why she decided to end her political service to Baltimore City.  It was a good time. So many laughs, so many, “A HA!” moments, and SRB most definitely cleared up a lot that folks were wondering about.  She is definitely political royalty in Baltimore City & if you don’t know why – Google her, and her Daddy! 

 I am grateful for this conversation with my cousin & I hope you enjoy it as well.  Don’t miss out on this episode – it’s DEFINITELY one for the books! 

I truly hope you enjoy this episode & thank you for rocking with Hand Me My Purse for the first year of her life. Yes, my podcast is a girl. The future is female & so is my podcast. Now please go leave a review, I love you for it!!! xoxox

"GO WHERE YOU ARE LOVED. NOT WHERE YOU ARE TOLERATED..."

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xoxo
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I love you guys so much & I’m honored to share my time & energy with you – ESPECIALLY IF YOU KEEP COMING BACK! I can’t wait until we get to do this again!

And as always, "Thank you for your support..."
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xoxo
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15 Aug 2021No. 32: Friendship + Family Reunions + Generational Trauma + Sleeping on a Costa Rican Jungle Floor w/My Longtime Friend Mumbi.01:41:46

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In this episode I have a hilariously authentic conversation with my longtime friend & avid listener + supporter of the show, Mumbi.  In this episode we talk about traveling, relationships, friendships, generational trauma and so much more. This was an opportunity for you, my listeners to see me through someone else's eyes - someone that is very close to me. It was such a delightful experience to have such a candid one-on-one conversation on this show with one of my FAVORITE people on the planet.  Black women are magical beings…

I truly hope you enjoy this episode & thank you for rocking with Hand Me My Purse for the first year of her life. Yes, my podcast is a girl. The future is female & so is my podcast. Now please go leave a review, I love you for it!!! xoxox

"GO WHERE YOU ARE LOVED. NOT WHERE YOU ARE TOLERATED..."

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xoxo
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I love you guys so much & I’m honored to share my time & energy with you – ESPECIALLY IF YOU KEEP COMING BACK! I can’t wait until we get to do this again!

And as always, "Thank you for your support..."
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xoxo
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01 Sep 2021No. 33: Back To School During The Pandemic & The Trauma It Brings + A Look At Your Mindset + Fresh Starts and Resets.01:04:08

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In this episode I discuss the importance of recognizing your mindset.  I talk a little about going back into the school building in the second wave of a pandemonium. The way educators are impacted by the trauma their students face and how it can show up in their lives.  I also address how being open to a "fresh start" can literally shift your thought process and affect your mindset.  It's an episode wherein I was very transparent and vulnerable about my life over the last seven days.  Shit is real, and sometimes shit is painful. No pun intended. ;o)

I truly hope you enjoy this episode & thank you for rocking with Hand Me My Purse for the first year of her life. Yes, my podcast is a girl. The future is female & so is my podcast. Now please go leave a review, I love you for it!!! xoxox

"GO WHERE YOU ARE LOVED. NOT WHERE YOU ARE TOLERATED..."

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And as always, "Thank you for your support..."
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xoxo
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I love you guys so much & I’m honored to share my time & energy with you – ESPECIALLY IF YOU KEEP COMING BACK! I can’t wait until we get to do this again!

And as always, "Thank you for your support..."
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xoxo
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02 Oct 2021No. 34: Self-Worth + Self-Love + The Authentic Journey to Freedom w/Ebony Vaughan01:30:03

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Whoooooo WEE!!! I am BACK & I AM BETTER, Friends & Kin.  September tends to be a trigger laden month for me & 2021 did NOT disappoint!

In today's episode, I have a very special guest - my friend, Ebony Vaughan.  The AUTHOR, MINISTER, SOCIAL WORKER, THERAPIST & MY PERSONAL CHAMPION.  This episode is an amazing conversation about self love, self-worth, and beginning the journey to finding & defining FREEDOM on your terms.

Ebony & I had such an introspective discussion about self-love, self-worth & the path to true freedom.  She has the amazing ability to bring the truth to the surface in a simple conversation, causing your spirit to be convicted.  She talks about the key elements of personal freedom and how to start the journey.  We also discussed what self-love & self-worth look like in the most simple form. Enjoy & take notes.  Also if you are in the DMV area & looking for a therapist - Ebony's information is listed below... DO YOURSELF A FAVOR AND GET YOUR LIFE!!!

I truly hope you enjoy this episode & thank you for rocking with Hand Me My Purse for the first year of her life. Yes, my podcast is a girl. The future is female & so is my podcast. Now please go leave a review, I love you for it!!! xoxox

"GO WHERE YOU ARE LOVED. NOT WHERE YOU ARE TOLERATED..."

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And as always, "Thank you for your support..."
(said exactly like the 80s Bartles and Jaymes commercials)

xoxo
  MeMe
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I love you guys so much & I’m honored to share my time & energy with you – ESPECIALLY IF YOU KEEP COMING BACK! I can’t wait until we get to do this again!

And as always, "Thank you for your support..."
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xoxo
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01 Nov 2021No. 35: Scottsdale owes me NOTHING + Happy Birthday to ME + Gratitude Check-In…01:10:13

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So, Friends & Kin, ya girl received a scholarship to attend her VERY FIRST podcast conference, SHE PODCASTS LIVE. A conference specifically for WOMEN PODCASTERS & the WOMEN who make them happen. I met so many awesome people! I learned a few things & got to see people that I LOVE while I was on the WEST COAST! THAT WAS THE MAJOR BONUS!!! SCOTTSDALE OWES ME NOTHING! What an amazingly beautiful trip filled w/ALL OF THE GOOD THINGS. Happy EARLY birthday to me! My birthday month blessed me w/all of the love.  September emotionally drained me, but October filled me right back up with a LOVE SUPREME...

Scottsdale, AZ. THANK YOU FOR A GOOD TIME. Los Angeles, my second home - THANK YOU FOR AN AMAZING TIME.

In this episode I also do a gratitude check-in with you.  Self-Gratitude in particular.   I announce that I will be starting a gratitude challenge this month for my friends & kin to close out 2021.  I am praying that you ALL will be joining me in this mindset shift to end 2021 as we prepare to bring in 2022 with INTENTION! Make sure you are following me on Instagram for details coming soon.

I truly hope you enjoy this episode & thank you for rocking with Hand Me My Purse for the first year of her life. Yes, my podcast is a girl. The future is female & so is my podcast. Now please go leave a review, I love you for it!!! xoxox

"GO WHERE YOU ARE LOVED. NOT WHERE YOU ARE TOLERATED..."

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And as always, "Thank you for your support..."
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xoxo
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15 Nov 2021No. 36: Season Two Is a WRAP w/My Therapist, Dr. Demisse + Living without Fear + Gratitude Challenge is Underway.02:00:30

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So, Friends & Kin, we did it again... ANOTHER SEASON IN THE BOOKS! SEASON TWO IS A WRAP. I am so grateful for Hand Me My Purse & all of the people and energy that has come with it. I am beyond blessed. I love sharing with you and I love and appreciate all my Friends & Kin SO MUCH!!!

In this episode I sit with one my favorite people - my therapist, Dr. Demisse.  We sat and spent time chatting about her favorite thing to tell me ALL THE TIME, "DO WHAT YOU WANT TO DO & DON'T DO WHAT YOU DON'T WANT TO DO!"... Dr. Demisse takes the time to break down exactly what that looks like in practice.  It seems like something that is really really easy, however - LET ME TELL YOU THAT IT IS NOT!!! It is HARD WORK, however the reward is SO WORTH THE WORK...

Have you been participating in the Hand Me My Purse gratitude challenge that started on 11/11? We are going to close out 2021 on a GRATEFUL NOTE.  If you didn't start on 11/11, just join us now, START WHERE YOU ARE WITH WHAT YOU HAVE.  The goal is to create a mindset shift to end 2021 as we prepare to bring in 2022 with INTENTION! Make sure you are following me on Instagram for check-ins.

I truly hope you enjoy this episode & thank you for rocking with Hand Me My Purse for the first year of her life. Yes, my podcast is a girl. The future is female & so is my podcast. Now please go leave a review, I love you for it!!! xoxox

"GO WHERE YOU ARE LOVED. NOT WHERE YOU ARE TOLERATED..."

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And as always, "Thank you for your support..."
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I love you guys so much & I’m honored to share my time & energy with you – ESPECIALLY IF YOU KEEP COMING BACK! I can’t wait until we get to do this again!

And as always, "Thank you for your support..."
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xoxo
MeMe
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29 Dec 2021BONUS EPISODE: Coronavirus Holiday with Omarion/Omicron + Reflection to Prepare for 2022 + Season Three Is Coming.00:37:46

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So, Friends & Kin, 2021 is coming to a close. Omarion aka Omicron is on the rampage and waging war against ALL HOLIDAY JOY! However in the words of the great African-American prophet, Jadakiss, "WE GON' MAKE IT..." - so fret not.

In this episode I wish everyone a HAPPY KWANZAA! HABARI GANI?! I also give you a few tips to prepare for the new year BEFORE January One.  Let's not wait until the new year to PREPARE FOR THE NEW YEAR. There are a few days left, use them to your advantage and get yourself a PLAN!!! If you fail to plan then you plan to FAIL... or something like that!
 
 Did you participate in the Hand Me My Purse gratitude challenge that started on 11/11?  If you didn't start on 11/11, it is okay - I am looking for you!!!  I want to have you on a show to talk about your experience during the challenge.  Please DM me on Instagram or Twitter, the links are listed below! HAPPY HOLIDAYS & HAPPY NEW YEAR FROM YOUR FAVORITE AUNTIE - MeMe Walker!!!

I truly hope you enjoy this episode & thank you for rocking with Hand Me My Purse for the first year of her life. Yes, my podcast is a girl. The future is female & so is my podcast. Now please go leave a review, I love you for it!!! xoxox

"GO WHERE YOU ARE LOVED. NOT WHERE YOU ARE TOLERATED..."
 
 Also, I created the music all by myself. I am proud of myself. LOL 

·       KRx (Kid Relief)- Instagram

·       FIND A THERAPIST.

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xoxo
MeMe

I love you guys so much & I’m honored to share my time & energy with you – ESPECIALLY IF YOU KEEP COMING BACK! I can’t wait until we get to do this again!

And as always, "Thank you for your support..."
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xoxo
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15 Jan 2022No. 37: SEASON THREE PREMIERE + Gratitude Challenge Reflection + Hello 2022.01:57:57

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Happy New Year!!!  I am so elated to be able to share my time and energy with you again.  I have missed my friends and kin! Sis is definitely glad to be back like I never left!

Welcome to 2022 - the year of prosperity. It's going to be a LITUATION, here at Hand Me My Purse, so let's get ready to have an AMAZING YEAR - TOGETHER!

This episode is a conversation with myself and 4 ladies that participated in the very first, Hand Me My Purse gratitude challenge that started in November.  We talked about how our lives were affected during and after focusing on gratitude for more than a moment.  At first - it was daunting for some of us. Then for some of us it was exciting to start.  However, the sweet spot was the reflection. It was the aftershock of being able to focus on being grateful for what we HAVE, for MORE than a moment. Across the board it was life changing, and that makes me so happy.  I am forever grateful to these ladies for their participation in my little ol’ challenge, and for their courage to share so much of themselves in this episode.  We are blessed beyond measure and CLEARLY we are grateful for it all.

I truly hope you enjoy this episode & thank you for rocking with Hand Me My Purse for the first year of her life. Yes, my podcast is a girl. The future is female & so is my podcast. Now please go leave a review, I love you for it!

"GO WHERE YOU ARE LOVED. NOT WHERE YOU ARE TOLERATED..."

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And as always, "Thank you for your support..."
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xoxo
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01 Feb 2022No. 38: Happy Black History Month + What You Love About Blackness + A Collaborative Love Letter to Black People00:55:02

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Happy Black History Month!!! It's the shortest month of the year & also the year that America and some countries around the world choose to celebrate the history of Black people on this planet - particularly in the United States.

This episode is a CELEBRATION!!! *cue Rick James* I asked some of my friends and kin (that's you guys) to answer a few questions for me about how they felt about blackness - more particularly what do they love about being black. I then asked them to write a love note to Black people. The answers were so beautifully written that I literally felt warm and filled with joy.  I shared some of the responses in this episode, because I wanted to kick off Black History Month with ALL LOVE FOR MY PEOPLE.

I truly hope you enjoy this episode & thank you for rocking with Hand Me My Purse for the first year of her life. Yes, my podcast is a girl. The future is female & so is my podcast. Now please go leave a review, I love you for it!

"GO WHERE YOU ARE LOVED. NOT WHERE YOU ARE TOLERATED..."

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And as always, "Thank you for your support..."
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xoxo
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01 Aug 2023No. 58: The Difference Between Loneliness + Being Alone + Choosing Solitude - It Ain't The Same!00:42:49

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In this episode we have a candid and off the cuff conversation about LONELINESS. I take a deep dive into what happens when you work on healing it by going straight to its core! People don't seem to understand just how serious loneliness can be if we just continue to brush it aside like it's not a big deal. There are so many health risks, and not just our mental and emotional health. Loneliness can adversely affect our physical health just as well.  

I discuss the difference between LONELINESS and SOLITUDE or BEING ALONE. There is a MAJOR difference and if you aren't aware of what those differences are, well you need to just tune in and get some of this good information. Go get some tea, then come and get the tea!

 

We Got To Do Better: ”We have to declare ownership of our lives. With conviction & with a force equal to the law of gravity behind it, declare “I AM IN CHARGE OF ME, OF MY THOUGHTS & ACTIONS - AND I HAVE THE POWER TO LIVE MY HEART’S DESIRES.” - Susan L. Taylor

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I love you guys so much & I’m honored to share my time & energy with you – ESPECIALLY IF YOU KEEP COMING BACK! I can’t wait until the next time we get to do this again!

 

 And as always, "Thank you for your support..."

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21 May 2024No. 94: A Fun Time Conversation with My Producers (WE ARE Rando Banjo & The Dirty Throats) + Kendrick vs. Drake + Understanding LGBTQ+ identities + MANY OTHER CURRENT HOT TOPICS!02:01:26

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Friends and Kin this episode is a one of a kind experience to get a glance into conversations that my producers & I have on a regular basis. It’s a glimpse into the world of RANDO BANJO + THE DIRTY THROATS. That would be myself, my Executive Producer - Taylor & my Producer - Evan. This conversation was so much fun and so… AUTHENTICALLY UNCONFINED!!! That’s how I prefer my conversations actually - very authentic & very unconfined.

We talked about so many interesting things from understanding the identities in the LGBTQ+ community, Kendrick vs. Drake, taking accountability in our current society and so much MORE!  We even sing an impromptu song - that I have to say was absolutely PHENOMENAL! I LOVE THESE GUYS & THE DYNAMIC OF OUR RELATIONSHIP IS EXTREMELY GENUINE. So sit back and listen to us discussing so many hot topics all while having a good ol’ time!

I opened the show with this quote & wanted to share it again, so that it could be seen with your eyes… “Bless the daughters who sat carrying the trauma of mothers. Who sat asking for more love and not getting any, yet carried themselves to light. Bless the daughters who raised themselves….” - @soulfulvibesco on Instagram

GO GRAB YOURSELF SOMETHING TO SIP ON & ENJOY THE SHOW…

 

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15 Aug 2023No. 60 - Black Women & Incarceration + Been Down, But We UP w/Amber of The Been Down Project. PART TWO.01:28:04

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This is part TWO of my conversation with Amber of THE BEEN DOWN PROJECT! My new play cousin from L.A. in the 90s! If you haven’t already listened to part ONE of this conversation, I highly suggest you do that FIRST. In part two we dive deeper into her time in PRISON (not jail. there’s a difference…) and learn about her new venture BLOOM, the only restaurant in DC that is BLACK OWNED, WOMAN OWNED & QUEER OWNED! I am going to definitely have the Amber & her business partner on the show in the near future to tell us more about BLOOM.

 

Amber & I got to chat about some serious things, and some fun things. Like me, Amber has lived a HELLUVA LIFE. Very very colorful & she tells us all about them. One of the main focuses of Hand Me My Purse. is to tell the stories of people who don’t get heard often & an educated Black woman serving time in federal prison for a white collar crime is one of those stories. So sit back, relax and enjoy yourself as me and my new cousin, Amber dive into her story. I am excited to share with you!

 

The Straight Facts segment had a question that was LOADED. It was such an amazing question and was VERY layered, yet beautiful. It was sent in to us from Kay of Milwaukee. Thank you so much for such a great question, Kay! 💕🤓

 

Also just so you know, the music for Hand Me My Purse. is provided by none other than West Baltimore’s own… Gloomy Tunez.

 

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30 Apr 2024No. 92 - A Conversation with Death Doula, Alua Arthur about Grief, Death & The Fullness of Life. PART TWO.00:59:28

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Soooooooooo, this episode is a bit of a doozy. The topic is heavy, but it is so necessary. I had the pleasure of being in conversation with Alua Arthur, a beautiful black woman who is a Death Doula. The title alone, “DEATH DOULA”. That is a heavy title. I had a delightful conversation with Alua about her new book, “briefly perfectly human” which can be purchased here. The book is ABSOLUTELY AMAZING… It caused me to look at my life and really begin to think about how I value the fullness of my life. Do yourself the favor of 1. LISTENING TO PART ONE OF THIS CONVERSATION. 2. LISTENING TO THIS EPISODE (PART TWO). 3. PURCHASING HER BOOK!!!

 

The conversation was one that brought about an actual physical response for me in REAL TIME. The concept of grief, and in the way we began to discuss it on the show did something to my mind and my spirit. Also, I’m pretty sure my Grandmother made a guest appearance while we were talking…

 

Take some time and listen to part one of this conversation - No. 91 & then tune into this episode, which is part two! Run don’t walk to wherever you get your podcasts! 

 

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23 Apr 2024No. 91: A Conversation with Death Doula, Alua Arthur about Grief, Death & The Fullness of Life. PART ONE.01:06:00

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FYI: THIS, JUST LIKE ALL EPISODES OF HAND ME MY PURSE, CONTAINS PROFANITY. THIS PODCAST IS FOR ADULTS AND CONTAINS ADULT CONTENT. Now that we've gotten that out of the way...

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Soooooooooo, this episode is a bit of a doozy. The topic is heavy, but it is so necessary. I had the pleasure of being in conversation with Alua Arthur, a beautiful black woman who is a Death Doula. The title alone, “DEATH DOULA”. That is a heavy title. I had a delightful conversation with Alua about her new book, “briefly perfectly human” which can be purchased here. The book is ABSOLUTELY AMAZING… It caused me to look at my life and really begin to think about how I value the fullness of my life. Do yourself the favor of 1. LISTENING TO THIS EPISODE & 2. PURCHASING HER BOOK!!!

 

The conversation was one that brought about an actual physical response. The concept of grief, and in the way we began to discuss it on the show did something to my mind and my spirit. Take some time and listen to part one of this episode & then next week tune into part two! Run don’t walk to wherever you get your podcasts! 

 

"GO WHERE YOU ARE ADORED. NOT WHERE YOU ARE TOLERATED..."

 

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And as always, "Thank you for your support…" 

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MeMe

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