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| 07 Oct 2024 | 148 Dealing With A Narcissist | 00:44:21 | |
How do you identify narcissism or cope with a narcissist? Ron Deal talks with counselor Laurel Slade-Waggoner about strategies in a relationship when someone seeks to control, manipulate, shift blame, gaslight, or behave in other narcissistic ways. Show Notes and Resources
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| 15 Jul 2024 | 142 Troubled Teens & Addiction Help | 00:44:28 | |
How do we help kids who are struggling with addictive behaviors? Ron Deal speaks with Dr Adrian Hickmon, who says we start by understanding the pain and void underneath their addiction, and then we must face the facts and determine the help they need. Show Notes and Resources
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| 30 Dec 2024 | 154 From Their Perspective: Adjusting to a Bigger Family, Luke Landwer | 00:25:18 | |
Luke Landwer was young when his parents divorced, and he enjoyed time with just his mom for many years. When she remarried to a man with six kids, the adjustments for Luke were many. At just 11 years old, his conversation with Ron Deal is insightful as he articulates how adjusting to new rules, a new house, new people, was a challenge. He yearns for more time with his dad, but distance prevents it at times. He recognizes the blessings of a large family, however, with step-grandparents who love him and siblings around who prevent the loneliness he experienced in days past. Show Notes and Resources
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| 17 Jun 2024 | 140 A Home Built From Love & Loss | 00:47:18 | |
After losing her husband in a tragic accident, Sabrina McDonald looked forward to her young kids having a dad again. But she wasn’t prepared for the challenges that followed. Her kids felt threatened by her new spouse and competed for her attention. Her dream of being part of a family again didn’t happen quickly. And stepparenting felt awkward and unfamiliar in the beginning. In this episode, Sabrina shares her lessons of love and loss with Ron Deal and how God met her in the wilderness, showed her that brokenness didn’t mean ugliness, and encouraged her to keep going despite her fears and uncertainty about the future. Today, she rejoices to have found familyness again after remarriage. Show Notes and Resources
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| 12 Aug 2024 | 144 Hope Is What the Dr. Ordered | 00:48:46 | |
The dynamics of blended family life can bring hopelessness, and we lose the ability to see a future where God can make our situation better. But there’s always hope for a brighter tomorrow. In this episode, Ron Deal speaks with Dr. Lee Warren, a neurosurgeon who has experienced personal trauma and loss, and explains the difference between our mind and our brain and how to use our mind to face hard things in a constructive manner. As we transform our thoughts and consider our feelings against the Truth of what God’s Word says, we find hope again for healing, for purpose, for change. Show Notes and Resources
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| 02 Dec 2024 | 152 From Their Perspective: Losing a Dad and Life with a Stepdad with Davis & Campbell Faulkner | 00:50:10 | |
What’s it like to be a teenager in a blended family? How do you manage the confusing emotions of your childhood and teenage years while also adjusting to new family dynamics? Davis and Campbell Faulkner lost their dad in a traffic accident when they were very young. Their mom remarried and they’ve navigated feelings of loss, fear, anxiety, grief, abandonment, and more as they’ve adjusted to a new stepdad and life in a blended family. Listen to their insightful conversation with Ron Deal and learn how they’ve coped and found gratitude for their current journey in the midst of loss. Show Notes and Resources
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| 18 Nov 2024 | 151 Practicing Gratitude in Your Blended Family | 00:32:46 | |
Gratitude doesn’t always happen naturally in blended families, but it is worth pursuing and can move us toward unity in relationships. As we take every thought captive (2 Corinthians 10:5), consider our perspective about the circumstances we find ourselves in, and allow ourselves to be transformed by the renewing of our minds (Romans 12:2), we posture ourselves toward an obedient heart that discovers blessings, even in hard seasons. Show Notes and Resources
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| 06 Dec 2021 | 70: Having an Ours Baby | 00:59:03 | |
Many stepcouples want to have a baby together. Is it a good idea? Are there negative implications? In this episode, Ron Deal talks with Heidi Farrell about how an "ours" baby impacts the family and other children, what research shows on this important topic, and what dynamics should be considered before making a decision. Heidi Farrell See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 20 Dec 2021 | 71: Have Serious Fun, And Make Each Day Count | 00:46:49 | |
The benefit of "fun" is often overlooked when we consider how to build healthy stepfamily relationships. But Ron Deal's podcast guest, Dr. Jim Burns, says it's an important piece that can help connect relationships.. Listen to their conversation about why and how intentional play can benefit your family. Jim Burns, his ministry and his new book, Have Serious Fun See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 03 Jan 2022 | 72: Ridding Your Soul of Shame | 00:59:44 | |
Shame is a common theme in blended families, perhaps stemming from a previous divorce, failed relationship building in your current stepfamily, or the negative stigma associated with a non-traditional family. Learn how shame develops and what you can do to release your shame as you listen to Ron Deal's interview with Dr. Curt Thompson. Curt Thompson See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 17 Jan 2022 | 73. Waiting to Be Wanted in Your Blended Family | 00:50:36 | |
Are you good at waiting? What about waiting to be wanted by someone you care about in your blended family? That's a hard reality for many in the early years of stepfamily life. In this episode, listen to Ron Deal's conversation with stepmom Cheryl Shumake on how to persevere through the waiting during the wilderness years. Show Notes and Resources Cheryl Shumake and Stepmom Sanity Your generous support of FamilyLife helps create podcasts like the FamilyLife Blended® Podcast. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 31 Jan 2022 | 74: You ask, We answer | 00:40:28 | |
Do you have stepfamily questions? We have answers! Listen to Ron Deal's discussion with Gayla Grace on important topics like finding your place as a stepparent, being a childless stepmom, reasonable parenting standards, adding a new baby to a stepfamily, coping with a narcissistic bio parent in the other home, and more. Send us your questions for a future podcast: blendedquestions@familylife.com or 407-826-2606 See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 14 Feb 2022 | 75. Dancing in the Bedroom | 00:43:28 | |
The subject of sexuality and sexual desire in marriage brings up lots of questions. In this episode, Ron Deal interviews Dr. Michael Sytsma, a pastor and sex therapist, who talks about how to pursue the heart of intimacy with one another. You'll hear teaching on how to manage differences in sexual desire in marriage, how we can reflect who Christ is in our sexual lives, and how to form deep intimate connections in the process. The (Nearly) Complete Guide to Better Married Sex online course See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 28 Feb 2022 | 76: Moving from Roommates to Soulmates in Marriage | 00:57:38 | |
Life has a way of moving us into roommates in marriage when we want to be soulmates. Ron Deal talks with Dr. Greg Smalley about how to stay deeply connected with one another, even during seasons of exhaustion or busyness, with intentional behavior that includes protecting sacred moments, guarding against distractions, working through conflict, and connecting in small ways every day. Learn more about Greg Smalley See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 14 Mar 2022 | 77: Grace-filled Parenting in Blended Families | 00:39:11 | |
Blended and Blessed is a marriage event specifically designed for couples in a blended family. This podcast episode features a dynamic speaker from Blended and Blessed 2021, author and stepmom Laurie Short, with nuggets of wisdom and real-life stories from her stepfamily journey. Show Notes and Resources Blended and Blessed All Access Pass Email us / Call us: 407-826-2606 See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 28 Mar 2022 | 78: From Our Perspective | 00:43:54 | |
Kids in stepfamilies often lose control over many aspects of their lives after their parents remarry. In this episode, Ron Deal talks with two stepsiblings about their own experiences, their hard adjustments to stepfamily life, and how parents can give children a voice and open lines of communication to aid relationship building in their home. Show Notes and Resources Learn more about Blended and Blessed live event and livestream Say “Thank you” with a donation Send us your questions for a future podcast. Call us at 407-826-2606 or send an email to blendedquestions@familylife.com Learn more about FamilyLife Blended. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 25 Apr 2022 | 80: From Toxic Competitors to Business Partners | 00:57:38 | |
Relationships between biological moms and stepmoms can be malicious, competitive, and wounding. But they don't have to be! Listen to Ron Deal's discussion with two women who found healing for their toxic relationship through God's grace, forgiveness, and acceptance that led to a long-term, loving friendship and benefited not only themselves, but also their son and stepson. Show Notes and Resources Stepfamily Network See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 16 Dec 2024 | 153 From Their Perspective: Talking With A Young Adult, Amelia Dellaripa | 00:35:22 | |
Living in a blended family as a young adult can bring challenges and blessings. For Amelia Dellaripa, it brings many more blessings. In this podcast episode, Ron Deal talks with Amelia about her blended family of seven and how they developed love and acceptance for one another over time. Show Notes and Resources
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| 29 Jul 2024 | 143 Ghosts of Marriage Past—Dealing with Relationship Baggage | 00:27:44 | |
Ghosts of marriage past—triggers from past hurt that we carry into a new relationship—are common for blended family couples. But emotional ghosts don’t just appear from relationship baggage. We can be triggered by childhood wounds, grief, or other hurts that leave a residue on our heart and create hypersensitivity to getting hurt again. As a result, we guard our heart and resist vulnerability in our relationships. In this episode, Ron Deal speaks with Gayla Grace about how to recognize our ghosts and take responsibility to move past our fears. Ron and Gayla both share ghosts they’ve wrestled with and how to have conversations with your partner that build trust in your relationship. Show Notes and Resources
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| 01 Feb 2021 | 48: Sending & Receiving Kids Between Homes | 01:26:39 | |
Stepfamily life often includes kids with two homes. Moving between those homes is not just physical for kids, but emotional, psychological, and relational. Ron Deal's panel discussion on this episode gives valuable tips on how to create smooth transitions and a secure environment when kids move between homes. Learn about Joel Hawbaker and his resources. https://reallifeleading.com/blended-families See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 05 Dec 2022 | 100: FamilyLife Blended: The Birth of a Movement | 00:42:21 | |
How did Ron Deal get started in blended family ministry? When was FamilyLife Blended birthed and what role does Nicole Burns play? What about Gayla Grace's start in stepfamily ministry? Listen to Ron Deal and Gayla Grace tell their stories and how they intersect with FamilyLife. Listen to episode 21- Stepfamilies and The Holidays See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 19 Dec 2022 | 101: Christmas: Recovering Joy | 00:45:51 | |
It's the most wonderful time of year! Wait ... is it really? We want Christmas to be a season that feels magical. But too often, we feel disappointment, stress, sadness, and loneliness. Listen to Ron Deal's conversation with author and former co-host of FamilyLife Today Bob Lepine on how to find lasting joy this holiday season. Empowered to Love Registration See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 02 Jan 2023 | 102: Working Smarter, Not Harder | 00:35:16 | |
What does it mean to work smarter, not harder? How do we apply that to our relationships and why is it important? Listen to Ron Deal and Gayla Grace talk about unique blended family dynamics and the value of strategic and intentional behavior as we build relationships. Empowered to Love Registration See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 16 Jan 2023 | 103: Alienated: One Child’s Journey to Reconnect (A Parental Alienation story) | 00:51:18 | |
Parents who are alienated from their children due to the behavior of a former spouse face devastating loss. But there is hope for redemption! Listen to Ron Deal's conversation with Dr. Richard Marks on how Marks re-connected with his mother as an adult and has enjoyed a healthy, thriving relationship with her for 30 years. Learn more about Dr. Richard Marks See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 30 Jan 2023 | 104: Kids, Culture, Phones, and the Other Home | 00:51:15 | |
Every parent undertands the power a smartphone carries with kids. What rules, principles, or contracts should you put in place to manage their use? David Eaton, author of Smartphone Sanity, talks with Ron Deal about 8 major concerns to consider that will keep smartphones from invading your home and hijacking your child. Learn about Axis. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 13 Feb 2023 | 105: Stepfamily Relationship Building: Stepping Stones for Success | 00:41:00 | |
What are key stepping stones every stepfamily needs that will lead to healthy relationship building? Ron Deal and Gayla Grace discuss how perseverance, flexibility, commitment, Christ-likeness and other core attributes work together to create familyness. Share a positive moment in your family's journey with others. Write to us at BlendedQuestions@familylife.com or call 407-826-2606 to share a positive moment for your family! See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 27 Feb 2023 | 106: Scripture for Families in Need of Encouragement | 00:39:33 | |
Do you have a roadmap to follow on your blended family journey? We'd like to encourage using God's Word to guide you, encourage you, and empower your steps. Listen to Ron Deal and Gayla Grace, along with stepcouple guests, talk about the value of scripture for families who are in need of hope, guidance, comfort, and encouragement in their homes. We would love to hear about your family's "Promised Land Moment!" Call 407-826-2606 or write to us at blendedquestions@familylife.com See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 10 Apr 2023 | 109 Who Comes First in a Blended Family? | 00:57:18 | |
Stepfamilies are fundamentally different than biological families, which can create tension and ambiguity for everyone involved. In this episode, Ron Deal speaks with Dr. Patricia Papernow about key principles for healthy relationship building in blended families which navigating complex dynamics and competing priorities between the marriage and the children. Step-Insiders and Step-Outsiders See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 24 Apr 2023 | 110: Growing Up Blended: Dr. Darrell Bock | 00:59:36 | |
When complicated circumstances show up in blended families, relationship-building slows down. Ron Deal speaks with Dr. Darrell Bock about how the death of his mom when he was a teenager, a dad who traveled weekly with work, and a new stepmom with three kids created tension and uneasiness for everyone. Blended and Blessed information and registration See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 08 May 2023 | 111: Custody Battles and Court Conversation | 00:52:16 | |
Litigation creates stress and anxiety for stepfamilies, but there are ways to experience peace and bring kindness to others in the midst of it. Listen to Ron Deal with Scott and Vanessa Martindale on how to resist negative emotions and find resolution in custody cases that best meets the needs of your child. Find more FamilyLife Blended resources. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 22 May 2023 | 112: Stepmom Help: Pro Tips from Jen & Bill | 00:57:24 | |
Do you struggle with 2nd wife syndrome? Are you confused with your role and often feel you can't measure up to the expectations? Ron Deal speaks with Bill and Jen Rogers on the valuable role stepmoms play and offers encouragement and pro tips for those stuck in the trenches. Free download: Top 10 Pro tips See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 05 Jun 2023 | 113: Bonus Dad Pro Tips from Mike | 00:47:59 | |
Men want harmony in their homes, but the dynamics of blended family life can threaten peaceful relationships. Mike Haney speaks with Ron Deal on how stepdads can create meaningful connections with their stepchildren through warm and inviting behavior, a perspective for long-term bonds, and mindfulness toward a role that less is more. The Summit on Stepfamily ministry See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 19 Jun 2023 | 114: Men in Blended Families: Why You Need a Strong Support System | 00:40:52 | |
Former NFL player Jeff Kemp has spent decades connecting with men. He understands the common struggles which include insecurity, comparison, and shame. He shares with Ron Deal how men can best cope by understanding their identity in our Father God, and why healthy male friendships are valuable in everyday life. Get Jeff Kemp's Men Huddle Playbook See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 03 Jul 2023 | 115: Stepchildren and Marriage: How to Build Trust | 00:46:12 | |
Blended family life doesn't often start with every relationship experiencing harmony. But it's not unusual to develop it along the way. Listen to Ron Deal speak with Gil and Brenda Stuart about how disappointment and confusion in their family relationships with 7 kids eventually morphed into redemption and joy. Gil and Brenda Stuart See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 17 Jul 2023 | 116: Divorce Grief– Breaking Soul Ties | 00:58:14 | |
Do you have wounds from a previous relationship that you carried into your new family? We call these ghosts of marriage past. Unresolved residue also happens with our kids and affects our ability to form trust and intimacy with others. Ron Deal speaks with Moe and Paige Becnel about how to wrestle with our ghosts and lessen their power. Show Notes and Resources The Smart Stepfamily online series See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 31 Jul 2023 | 117: Trusting God in Difficult Times | 00:55:27 | |
No one wants to walk through grief and suffering. But God uses hard times to grow our character, develop perseverance, and find hope in Him. Ron Deal talks with Davey and Kristi Blackburn about how to trust God's faithfulness during painful seasons and find healing and restoration through Him. Show Notes and Resources 10th Anniversary DVD Edition of The Smart Stepfamily See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 14 Aug 2023 | 118: Blended Family Dynamics – The Enneagram Types Explained | 01:13:46 | |
The enneagram gives us insight into our unique gifts and the contributions we can make with those around us. But it shouldn’t be the ultimate source of our identity. Ron Deal talks with Jeff and Beth McCord about interpreting core enneagram types alongside the truth of the Gospel as we relate to others. Show Notes and Resources Dive deeper into the 9 different Enneagram types See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 28 Aug 2023 | 119: Parenting Teens During the Loneliness Epidemic | 00:44:22 | |
Children want to be heard and seen. Ron Deal had a conversation with Dr Mark Mayfield about how parents can help teens with loneliness. They offer wisdom and practical help for sensitive, serious topics such as suicide and address the role parents have as children navigate their overwhelming feelings and confusing thoughts. Blended Family resources See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 11 Sep 2023 | 120: Blended Family Christmas: Tips to reduce holiday stress | 00:38:56 | |
The holidays can be a stressful time juggling visitations, planning family activities, and managing all the feelings in the Christmas season. Emotions in blended families are often magnified during Christmas. Gayla Grace and Ron Deal offer practical ways to be sensitive and promote positivity so your holiday can be a truly joyous time. Gift a copy of The Smart Stepfamily See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 25 Sep 2023 | 121: Lessons from Adoptive Parents | 00:53:44 | |
Blended families come in all shapes and sizes. Each family is unique with its own complexities. Chris and Yodit Brooks share their stories growing up in a blended family as well as wisdom they've gained from raising both their adopted and biological children. Family stories matter. The Smart Stepfamily on Right Now Media See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 23 Oct 2023 | 123: How To Overcome Co-parenting Conflict | 00:56:52 | |
High-conflict co-parenting is a common struggle in blended families. Ron Deal speaks with Diane Dierks and Rick Voyles on how to improve co-parenting conflict as you prioritize what you're fighting for, change your response, and consider your kids first. List of counselors See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 06 Nov 2023 | 124: Helping Your Kids With Their Emotions | 00:53:34 | |
Helping your kids with their emotions is a critical life skill, yet we often don’t equip kids with these valuable skills. Ron Deal speaks with Michelle Nietert, LPC, about common feelings kids in blended families experience and how parents can help. Show Notes and Resources Learn about our blended events and resources. Ron's personal speaking schedule. Give a tax-deductible donation to FamilyLife Blended ministry. Register now for Blended and Blessed Live Event and Livestream. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 20 Nov 2023 | 125: How To Be Thankful in a Blended Family | 00:29:10 | |
Have you ever wondered how to be thankful in a hard season in your blended family? Listen to Ron Deal and Gayla Grace talk about finding joy, regardless of our circumstances, as we focus on God’s faithfulness, His provision, and His promises. Thank you for sending a gift to be matched dollar for dollar! See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 04 Dec 2023 | 126: Strained Relationships with Adult Kids | 00:44:53 | |
When relationships with our adult kids and stepkids become strained or estranged, our hearts hurt. How did we get here? How do we fix it? Ron Deal talks with Dr. Charlotte Melcher Smith about common themes that contribute to strained relationships and what parents can do to help. Show Notes and Resources Dr. Charlotte Melcher Smith's book, Life's Third Tri See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 18 Dec 2023 | 127: Getting Remarried? | 00:43:03 | |
Getting remarried in later life after the death of a spouse or divorce? How do you know if you’re ready? Should you consider the feelings of your adult children? Ron Deal talks with Jim and Shirley Mozena about the risks, as well as rewards, of a later-life remarriage and what to consider as you date. Show Notes and Resources Access The Smart Stepfamily for free! See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 01 Jan 2024 | 128: Organize Your Life | 00:48:27 | |
Do you have trouble organizing your life? Your family calendar? Well, help is on the way! Ron Deal speaks with James and Ginger Dellaripa about challenges of blended family management including schedules, co-parenting, custody, and more. Listen to gain valuable insights in getting your life organized. Show Notes and Resources Get organized for 30 days free! Use the code: FLB30 See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 15 Jan 2024 | 129: Stepparent Vs Bio Parent: Seeing Conflicts Differently | 00:34:11 | |
Conflicts are inevitable on family journeys. Rodney and Annetta Whitney share their journey, confusing dynamics, and their light bulb moments with Ron Deal. Stepparent, if you feel like an outsider, keep having hard discussions and don't give up. Show Notes and Resources Grab your copy of The Smart Stepfamily See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 29 Jan 2024 | 130: Coping With Traumatic Events | 00:51:33 | |
Trauma and suffering can impact families in unexpected ways. Joel and Vaneetha Risner share with Ron Deal the positive effects of loss and suffering and how it helped to ground their faith, trust God in deeper ways, and bond their blended family. Show Notes and Resources Check out the podcast on YouTube! See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 12 Feb 2024 | 131: God’s Purpose and Intent for Sexuality | 00:44:55 | |
Do you wonder about God's purpose and intent for marital sexuality within marriage? What about the symbolism the Bible presents on this topic? Do you need help on how to nurture and protect this aspect of marriage? Listen to Ron Deal's message: God's Purpose and Intent for Sexuality. Get more information on Blended and Blessed See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 26 Feb 2024 | 132: Growing Up Blended: Navigating Loss | 00:40:33 | |
Our past affects our present. And when we experience complicated blended family dynamics as a child, we're forever changed. Listen to Scott Kedersha share with Ron Deal how his blended family upbringing has impacted his parenting and marriage as an adult. Show Notes and Resources Join us for Blended and Blessed to learn how to build unity in your family! See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 11 Mar 2024 | 133: Remarrying After Loss | 01:08:46 | |
Remarriage after widowhood carries unique challenges and unwanted transitions. Expectations that aren’t realistic often show up, creating even more grief and heartache. But hard dynamics in the beginning can move toward bonded relationships and family unity with time and effort. In this podcast episode, Ron Deal talks with Rod and Rachel Faulkner Brown about their blended family challenges after Rachel was widowed twice, had two children with her second husband, and then married Rod with two young children in tow. Blended and Blessed Info See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 26 Mar 2024 | 134: Being a Stepparent: Is it a Blessing? | 00:30:35 | |
Are there blessings in blended family life? Yes! But they might not show up in ways we expect or as quickly as we’d like. In this 2023 Blended and Blessed presentation, Cheryl Shumake talks about the many bonus blessings she has experienced and the strength God gave her during seasons of weariness to keep going when she wanted to quit. Show Notes and Resources Get the Blended and Blessed All-Access Pass See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 08 Apr 2024 | 135: Growing Up Blended: Kim Walker Smith’s Story | 00:58:15 | |
Singer/songwriter Kim Walker-Smith grew up in a blended family with multiple stepparents, instability, abuse, and isolation. She shares her story with Ron Deal in this podcast episode, beginning with her mom’s first divorce when she was a young child. It didn’t take long for her mom to marry again, divorce, and marry again. Show Notes and Resources Register for Blended and Blessed! See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 20 Jul 2020 | 34: Finding Support for Your Family | 01:06:25 | |
Are you looking for support for the unique dynamics and challenges that stepfamily life brings? Have you wondered where you can go to get help? Then this episode is for you! Ron Deal talks with Gil and Brenda Stuart on how to find a church that will support you as a stepcouple, how to know if you need counseling and where to go, and what to do if not everyone is willing to go. It might be as simple as attending a small group at your church with other couples on a similar journey. But you must commit to go! Listen in as we talk about the value of finding the right support for your stepfamily and your part in making it happen. Show Notes and Resources Learn more about Gil and Brenda Stuart. https://gilandbrenda.com/ See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 03 Aug 2020 | 35: Second Wife, Second Life | 00:47:48 | |
As a second wife or husband, have you ever felt second best? Or treated as second class by others? How can you be first in your spouse's heart when you're not the ONLY? In this episode, Ron Deal talks with Lore Ferguson Wilbert about how to combat your insecurities that naturally arise in second marriages. Perhaps there's a lack of trust, shame, or feelings of competition with your partner's former spouse. Whatever the reason, insecurities dissipate when we look to God as our source of love for our identity. We can respond from His wellspring of love even in the midst of hard emotions, offering compassion for our spouse instead of competition with someone who isn't even in the picture anymore. Show Notes and Resources Learn more about Lore Wilbert at Sayable.net. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 17 Aug 2020 | 36: Crisis Counselor Tips for Managing Crisis | 01:01:27 | |
Stepfamily life often includes a variety of crises, some big, many small. How do you effectively manage those crises and come out on the other side with connected relationships and renewed commitment? Crisis counselor Jennifer Ellers became a stepmom and had to survive her own crisis of expectation. She and her husband, Kevin, join Ron Deal in this episode and offer tips and tools they've learned from their years in a stepfamily. Show Notes and Resources Learn more about Kevin and Jennifer Ellers. http://institute4compassionatecare.com/ and http://www.crisisresponse.org/Our-Instructors/ See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 31 Aug 2020 | 37: Co-Parents, Teachers, and Your Child’s Education | 01:05:26 | |
Parents, stepparents and school representatives (teachers, counselors, and administrators) all play a role in helping school-home relationships thrive. But not everyone knows how to play that role. Ron Deal is joined by school counselor Allison Weatter, principal Steven Helmick, and teacher Nan Deal, along with stepmom and author Gayla Grace, for a panel discussion on this important subject. As a parent or stepparent, how can you help teachers understand your unique stepfamily dynamics and relate to your child better? As a teacher or school counselor, how can you better advocate for and look out for your students who live in stepfamily or single parent homes? Kids wear different backpacks to school with baggage they're carrying from life experiences. Listen in for some great ideas on how to help lighten their load as a parent, stepparent, or school representative. Show Notes and Resources Learn more and register for the Summit on Stepfamily Ministry. https://www.summitonstepfamilies.com/ See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 14 Sep 2020 | 38: Daily Practices for Happy Stepcouples | 01:03:15 | |
Whatever we invest ourselves on a regular basis-our habits-not only become commonplace, but actually shape our decisions and our relationships. What are the habits-the daily practices-of your marriage? And how can they make your blended family marriage stronger? In this episode, Ron Deal talks with marriage and family therapist and stepfamily coach, Jayna Haney, and her husband Mike about intentional daily habits that have strengthened their marriage and stepfamily relationships over time. Show Notes and Resources Learn more about Mike and Jayna Haney. https://www.thebridgeacross.com See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 28 Sep 2020 | 39: Grandparenting and the Blended Family | 00:58:01 | |
For most of us, grandparents are fabulous! They are the adults who love us, but don't have to discipline us, and because they don't have to take us home, relish the chance to spoil us. Stepgrandparenting can be all that if everyone agrees that it can-and everyone wants it to happen. Listen in on this episode while Ron Deal talks with Gordon and Carrie Taylor about the unique aspects of grandparenting in blended families. Show Notes and Resources Learn more about Gordon and Carri Taylor's ministry Opportunities Unlimited. http://www.cgtaylor.com/ See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 12 Oct 2020 | 40: Battle of the Moms | 00:49:52 | |
Our world expects moms and stepmoms to be against each other. The social media club of "let's bash the mom or stepmom and commiserate together" is alive and well. But when a mom and stepmom don't play that game-when they find a way past resentment and appreciate what each offers the children, and cooperate on behalf of the child-people take notice and the world celebrates a small victory. In this episode, Ron Deal speaks with Jessica Patterson, a licensed counselor and mom and stepmom about how to mitigate the battle of the moms. Learn more about Jessica Patterson. https://www.newlifecounselingcenter.com/ See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 26 Oct 2020 | 41: Raising Kids in a Toxic Culture | 01:14:02 | |
We can't help but live in a social culture. For blended families, that culture often includes multiple homes, ambiguous roles of parents and stepparents, and lots of moving parts. Listen in while Ron Deal talks with pediatrician Dr. Meg Meeker on how parents and stepparents can protect their kids from the culture and make a lasting impact on those in their home. Learn more about Dr. Meg Meeker's book: Raising a Strong Daughter in a Toxic Culture: 11 Steps to Keep Her Happy, Healthy, and Safe. https://www.amazon.com/dp/1621575039/ See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 09 Nov 2020 | 42: Military Stepfamilies: Mission Ready | 01:00:25 | |
Did you know the military has a high-rate of couples in stepfamilies? Did you know that military personnel marry, divorce, and remarry at a younger age and more frequently than civilians do? Todd Gangl, co-founder of Military Ready Stepfamily, talks with Ron Deal about the added stressors military stepfamilies experience and how these families can create a healthy stepfamily culture that gives everyone the opportunity to bond, even amidst the challenges. Learn more about The Military Ready Stepfamily and how to create a Stepfamily Care Plan. https://www.themilitaryreadystepfamily.com/ See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 23 Nov 2020 | 43: Growing Up in a Blender: Who’s my Daddy? | 01:11:06 | |
Imagine you have a relationship with your father for many years, then find out there are family secrets that will dramatically change your relationship and life. Stepfamily instability can bring confusion and shame to both children and adults. But God works in and through imperfect people and families. Listen to Ron Deal's conversation with Ray and Robin McKelvy and how God's love and grace brought resilience and redemption to their stepfamily story. Show Notes and Resources Episode 2: Life in a Blender with Dave and Ann Wilson. https://www.familylife.com/podcast/familylife-blended-podcast/2-life-in-a-blender-dave-and-ann-wilson/ See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 07 Dec 2020 | 44: Overcoming Emotional Abandonment in Marriage | 00:59:45 | |
Do differences in your marriage ever make you feel disconnected? Blended family couples have so many things related to step-ness that they need to manage, the last thing you need is to be irritated with one another about differences-or drift away from each other. In this episode, Neil and Sharol Josephson speak with Ron Deal and offer valuable tips on managing and overcoming a drift in marriage. Show Notes and Resources Learn more about Neil and Sharol and FamilyLife Canada. https://www.familylifecanada.com/ See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 21 Dec 2020 | 45: Adult Stepfamilies: Joys and Challenges with the Holidays | 00:49:17 | |
Blended family Christmases with adult children don't always go so well, especially in the early years. Adult children bring their own needs, wants, opinions, and agendas to the family and when those wants clash with the wants of the parents, conflict erupts. In this powerful episode, Ron Deal speaks with Bob and Vicki Maday and two of their adult daughters about their holiday challenges and how they worked through their differences to find a win-win for both the parents and the children. Show Notes and Resources Read various articles on Adult Stepfamilies with topics including: money, dating, and the holidays. https://www.familylife.com/articles/topics/blended-family/ See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 04 Jan 2021 | 46: Autism and the Blended Family | 01:24:13 | |
Did you know that 1 in 6 children have some form of learning disability and some form of developmental disability, according to the CDC? Dr. Stephanie Holmes is a professional counselor and mom to a child with autism and talks with Ron Deal to give tips, understanding, and perspective on raising kids with autism in a blended family. Show Notes and Resources Learn more about Stephanie Holmes and her ministry. counselorstephanieholmes.com See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 18 Jan 2021 | 47: Lessons From the School of Hard-Knocks | 00:49:00 | |
The journey into a blended family is full of bumps and bruises—for someone anyway. Unpacking those for yourself, your kids, your new spouse is part of readying yourself and your family for stepfamily living. In this episode, Craig and Gina Morgan talk with Ron Deal and unpack some of their baggage and invite you to do the same as you listen. Get Craig and Gina's book, "Building Blocks to Making the Family WHOLE Again." https://www.amazon.com/Building-Blocks-Making-Family-WHOLE/dp/1733804013 See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 12 Feb 2021 | 49: Blended Kingdom Families podcast | 00:54:06 | |
People of faith want their family to be a Kingdom family—centered in God's Word and rooted in truth and grace. Listen to Ron Deal's conversation with Scott and Vanessa Martindale, founders of Blended Kingdom Families, on how to create a blended kingdom family and why that's important. Learn more about Scott and Vanessa Martindale and their ministry, Blended Kingdom Families. https://www.blendedkingdomfamilies.com/ See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 01 Mar 2021 | 50: Parenting Troubled Children in Stepfamilies | 01:15:41 | |
How do you help a child or stepchild who feels lost, or angry, or who really fights against the family? And what if their anger or hurt is justified—and you deserve it, but everyone else doesn't? In this episode, Ron Deal speaks with Danny Huerta, Vice President of Parenting and Youth at Focus on the Family, about parenting troubled children in a stepfamily. Show Notes and Resources Learn more about Focus on the Family's parenting resources. http://focusonthefamily.com/parenting See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 15 Mar 2021 | 51: Growing Up in a Blender: Play the Long Game | 01:02:14 | |
When blended family variables create tough dynamics to parent through, we might consider giving up on those relationships. But Jim Ramos, raised in a blended family, speaks with Ron Deal about he was impacted by his parents and stepparents and the value of playing the long game in our stepfamilies. Show Notes and Resources Learn more about Jim Ramos and Men in the Arena. https://meninthearena.org/ See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 29 Mar 2021 | 52: Blended and Blessed Backstage | 00:57:16 | |
Blended and Blessed® is a one-of-a-kind annual event for stepfamily couples, single parents, dating couples with kids, and those who care about blended families, with valuable teaching by trusted and respected experts. Get a glimpse of the upcoming event as you listen to fun and informative interviews from previous speakers including Ron Deal and Shaunti Feldhahn. Learn more about our Blended and Blessed Livestream Event. https://www.blendedandblessed.com/. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 12 Apr 2021 | 53: Managing Yourself in the Midst of the Unknown | 00:44:02 | |
If self-control is a fruit of the Spirit, how do we allow the Spirit to cultivate that fruit in our lives? Pastor Rob Bugh answers that question and speaks with Ron Deal on the value of self-control, particularly in blended family relationships, and how his lack of it contributed to much heartache in the early years of his blended family. Show Notes and Resources Get Rob's book: When the Bottom Drops Out: Finding Grace in the Depths of Disappointment. https://www.amazon.com/When-Bottom-Drops-Out-Disappointment/dp/1414363494. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 26 Apr 2021 | 54: The Power of God at Work in Stepfamilies | 01:09:52 | |
Marriage, while typically a two-person dance, gets complicated when couples try to manage a stepfamily maze with multiple lives around them. Ron Deal talks with Dave and Ann Wilson about how to navigate stepfamily struggles that create marital stress by sharing life with other stepfamilies and holding onto God's hand, relying on Him for answers and help to persevere. Learn more about our Blended and Blessed Livestream Event. https://www.blendedandblessed.com/. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 10 May 2021 | 55: The Smart Stepmom | 01:07:22 | |
What does it mean to be a smart stepmom? Laura Petherbridge answers that question as she speaks with Dennis Rainey, Bob Lepine, and Ron Deal on how to navigate a role that can be confusing, lonely, and frustrating. She offers principles to help stepmoms feel encouraged and empowered in the important role they play. Get The Smart Stepmom book. https://shop.familylife.com/product/the-smart-stepmom-updated/. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 24 May 2021 | 56: Adult Stepfamilies | 01:20:57 | |
Blended families that form when children are in their late teens or adult years are adult stepfamilies. We often mistakenly think these families have few adjustments to make. Listen to Ron Deal's conversation with Terry and Carol Moss, Brandon Moss, and Nina Thomas on how they've navigated multiple transitions in their adult stepfamily. Learn more about blended family resources. https://shop.familylife.com/product-category/marriage/blended-family/. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 07 Jun 2021 | 57: The Smart Stepdad | 01:09:20 | |
How do you know if you're ready to be a stepdad? Ron Deal gives insight into the stepdad role as he talks with Bob Lepine and Dennis Rainey about this important position that can be daunting, but rewarding. Listen to his encouragement about the realities of being a stepdad and the value of stepping out in faith and relying on God's wisdom when ready to take the risk. Show Notes and Resources Get your copy of the Smart Stepdad. https://shop.familylife.com/p-5666-the-smart-stepdad.aspx. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 21 Jun 2021 | 58: Investing for Life After Kids | 01:01:43 | |
We could spend 1/3 of our lives without a paycheck since it's expected we can live into our mid-80's and beyond. How do we know if we're preparing adequately for retirement? Ron Deal talks with financial planner Greg Pettys on this topic and how to account for blended family variables. Show Notes and Resources Get your copy of The Smart Stepdad https://shop.familylife.com/p-5664-the-smart-stepfamily-guide-to-financial-planning.aspx. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 05 Jul 2021 | 59: Conversations to Improve Your Family | 01:00:30 | |
Little things can create big changes in blended family homes. In this episode, Jed and Jenny Jurchenko share with Ron Deal how they created positive change in their home by taking small, positive steps to grow their most important relationships and give examples in their book, 131 Conversations for Stepfamily Success. Show Notes and Resources Get your copy of Jed and Jenny's book. https://www.amazon.com/131-Conversations-Stepfamily-Success-Intimacy/dp/1543236731. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 19 Jul 2021 | 60: Grace-filled Stepparenting | 00:59:59 | |
Stepparenting is a marathon, not a sprint. And getting to the finish line with strong relationships requires a lot of grace, personal strength, and wisdom as you accommodate people's grief and feelings along the way. Listen to Ron Deal talk with Jere and Laurie Short on this important topic. Show Notes and Resources 60: Grace-filled Stepparenting https://laurieshort.com/. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 02 Aug 2021 | 61: Love Mercy: Divorce & Remarriage in the Bible | 01:27:20 | |
What does the Bible teach about divorce and remarriage? How do we consider Truth and Grace when we apply it to God's people? Listen to Ron Deal's conversation with Dr. Rubel Shelly on a subject that's hard to understand in Scripture and often disagreed upon in Christian circles. Show Notes and Resources Get Dr. Rubel Shelly's book, Divorce and Remarriage: A Redemptive Theology. https://www.amazon.com/Divorce-Remarriage-Redemptive-Rubel-Shelly/dp/0891123628. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 16 Aug 2021 | 62: Pressure to Perform: When it Feels Like the World is Watching | 01:06:41 | |
The end of your marriage doesn't mean the end of God's favor. But when you're in ministry, it can feel that way. Drs. Bobby and Janice Love speak with Ron Deal about how to manage the spotlight of ministry and the pressure that follows when you walk through divorce and remarriage, offering personal stories and suggestions to help. Learn more about Rev. Dr. Bobby and Dr. Janice Love. http://www.stepwithlove.org. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 30 Aug 2021 | 63: Growing up in a Blender: Shelby Abbott | 00:58:12 | |
Sometimes in stepfamilies, we take things out on each other that really are about someone or something from the past. We have something to say to a parent from the past, but instead fight that battle with a child—or spouse—in our present. Listen to Ron Deal talk with Shelby Abbott on how to keep unresolved issues of the past from damaging relationships in the present. Learn more about Shelby Abbott. https://shelbyabbott.com/. 51: Growing up in a Blender: Play the Long Game with Jim Ramos – https://www.familylife.com/podcast/familylife-blended-podcast/51-growing-up-in-a-blender-play-the-long-game/ Your generous support of FamilyLife helps create podcasts like the FamilyLife Blended® Podcast. https://donate.familylife.com/blended/?cru_source=D000BLENDGandcru_medium=DesktopHeaderNavandcru_campaign=Blended. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 13 Sep 2021 | 64: Seasons and Rhythms: Strengthening Your Family Throughout the Year | 00:52:03 | |
Special days give families an opportunity to honor each other, celebrate one another, and strengthen their identity as a stepfamily. Ron Deal and his guests present ideas on how to creatively take advantage of your family calendar in ways that will strengthen family relationships throughout the year. Learn more about the Summit on Stepfamily Ministry. https://www.summitonstepfamilies.com/. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 27 Sep 2021 | 65: Turn Your Season and Your Life Around | 00:30:21 | |
Pro baseball player Darryl Strawberry has experienced fame, fortune, and notoriety. But he's also walked through addiction, divorce, and anguish. Today, he's far more interested in talking about Jesus than baseball as he and his wife Tracy, parents of 9 kids in their blended family, share with Ron Deal about the importance of keeping Jesus at the center to find healing and redemption. Finding Your Way – Darryl and Tracy's website See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 11 Oct 2021 | 66: A Healthy Sex Life: What Couples Should Know | 01:00:38 | |
What does a healthy sex life really look like? How do you find healing if you've experienced sexual brokenness? Listen to Ron Deal's conversation with Dr. Juli Slattery on what makes a good lover, the importance of bringing God into that equation, and how sexuality is a tangible way of helping us understand God at a deeper level. Authentic Intimacy – Dr. Juli Slattery's website See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 25 Oct 2021 | 67: Blended with Grit: Widowhood and Forming a New Family | 01:12:34 | |
Remarriage after widowhood creates unique struggles. Listen to Ryan and Jess Ronne, parents and stepparents to 8, share with Ron Deal about how insecurities can create conflict in a new marriage after widowhood and how they found beauty from ashes as they worked through their struggles and insecurities. Show Notes and Resources JessPlusTheMess.com See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 08 Nov 2021 | 68: Preparing to Blend: Getting ready for life after the wedding | 00:55:40 | |
Preparing to blend a family can be a daunting endeavor. But you can—and should—get smart about stepfamily living ahead of time to create a strong family. Listen to Ron Deal talk with two stepcouples about what they did during their pre-married season that helped them prepare to blend their families. JonathanPitts.net See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 22 Nov 2021 | 69: Good Co-Parenting: Conflict and Cooperation with Your Ex | 01:14:58 | |
Children need healthy relationships with both parents after divorce, which requires good co-parenting. Listen to Ron Deal's conversation with Dr. Mary Jeppsen on how co-parent anger dramatically impacts a child and how former spouses can keep conflict at a minimum and cooperation at a maximum in order to co-parent well. Show Notes and Resources Learn more about Dr. Jeppsen. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 11 Apr 2022 | 79: Advice to Children: What Experts Might Say to Your Kids | 00:56:29 | |
Would you like your kids to hear helpful advice from several experts about their blended family struggles? This podcast is for you! Listen for yourself first, then with your child—young or old—to encourage dialogue about their feelings that can help build a bridge for long-term relationship building. Learn more about Lauren Reitsema. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 09 May 2022 | 81: Bonus Moms: Refined for Good | 00:49:53 | |
God loves the work of refining our character, particularly as we engage in family relationships. We become more and more like Christ as we learn how to love, forgive, show kindness, and be family to one another. In this episode, Ron Deal talks with Summer Butler and Gayla Grace about the value of God's refining fire for stepmoms. Show Notes and Resources Gayla Grace See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 23 May 2022 | 82: It’s All Fun and Games | 00:46:35 | |
Krista Smith-Larson is a blended family mom who produces games that help draw out matters of loss and stepfamily transition in order to bring about hope and healing. Listen to her dialogue with Ron Deal and learn about games that can benefit your stepfamily. Krista's games with purpose. Get yours here. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 06 Jun 2022 | 83: Unsung Heroes | 00:52:06 | |
Stepdads take on a heroic challenge as they parent someone else's child, which often includes frustration and defeat. Stepdad Gil Stuart talks with Ron Deal about his video series, Unsung Heroes, which captures the value of vulnerability, courage, and humility in forming lasting relationships as a stepdad. Learn more about Gil Stuart and Restored and Remarried See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 20 Jun 2022 | 84: Relationship Essentials – Tools for Healthier Relationships | 00:54:24 | |
Critical relationship skills are needed in every important relationship, especially in stepfamily life. In this episode, Ron Deal talks with a dynamic mother-daughter duo, Joneen Mackenie and Laueren Reitsema, on gaining a larger toolbox of wisdom and skills for strengthening relationships. Learn about My Relationship Center See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 04 Jul 2022 | 85: Terrible Loss, Unexpected Love | 01:00:34 | |
When remarriage happens after the death of a spouse, the stepcouple faces unique and hard-to-navigate circumstances related to grief and leftover feelings from those experiences. Ron Deal talks with Bill and Evelyn Thompson, who both lost their spouses prior to remarriage, on how to blend a stepfamily after death and what they wish they'd done differently in their early years of dating and remarriage. Bill and Evelyn will be speaking at this year's Summit on Stepfamily Ministry! Learn more. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 18 Jul 2022 | 86: Bi-Polar Value Differences Between Homes | 00:58:49 | |
Are you steering your kids toward Christ while the other home is steering them toward the world? Ron Deal talks with Kara Powell and Gayla Grace about how to manage bi-polar value differences between homes and how to understand and answer the three important questions every teenager is asking. Learn more about Fuller Youth Institute and Kara's new book, 3 Big Questions That Change Every Teenager See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 01 Aug 2022 | 87: Well Blended | 00:51:05 | |
Do you need help growing unity and building character in your stepfamily? Our convenient online course, Well-Blended, can help! Listen to Ron Deal and Dave and Ann Wilson talk about how it can help you build robust, resilient relationships in the unique mash up that is your family. Show Notes and Resources Get the Well-Blended online course. Please leave us a voicemail review (407-826-2606) or email it to us! Learn more about all of FamilyLife Blended's resources. Learn more about the Summit on Stepfamily Ministry. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 02 Aug 2022 | 88: Bonus Q&A: Stepfamily Questions with Don and Sandi | 00:41:21 | |
Veteran stepcouples have a wealth of knowledge on best practices for stepfamilies. Listen to Ron Deal's conversation with Sandi Patty and Don Peslis, married in 1995 with a blended family of 8 children, on wise solutions to challenges like: managing the visitation schedule after high school, forming good relationships with stepsiblings, pros and cons of an "ours" child, and other common issues stepfamilies face. Check out our audio resources, videos, books, and virtual and live conferences See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 03 Aug 2022 | 89: Bonus Q&A: Blended Questions with Kirk | 00:33:49 | |
Do you struggle to find unity as a couple or need help setting boundaries with an ex-spouse and co-parenting successfully? Or maybe you could use a few tips on navigating the teen years with your stepdaughters. Listen to Ron Deal's conversation with Kirk McGregor on these common stepfamily topics and more. Check out all FamilyLife Blended has to offer. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 04 Aug 2022 | 90: Bonus Q&A: You Ask, We Answer | 00:31:39 | |
Do you have stepfamily questions for the experts? We have answers! Listen to Ron Deal and Gayla Grace discuss everyday issues that frequently show up in blended family homes—along with practical solutions—to help you find harmony in your relationships. Check out all FamilyLife Blended has to offer. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 05 Aug 2022 | 91: Bonus Q&A: More Answers to Questions Blended Families Ask | 00:26:55 | |
Our bonus episode offers another question and answer format with Ron Deal and Gayla Grace to address those hard-to-navigate circumstances in your blended family with solutions that offer nuggets of wisdom and practical suggestions. Find a therapy provider. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLife’s Privacy Policy | |||