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03 Jul 2024121 | navigating culture and religion with Sunita Theiss00:51:32

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇

Dr. Tay and Sunita Theiss, an Indian neurodivergent mom, discuss Sunita's journey through autism diagnoses for herself and her children, the impact of South Asian cultural values on her parenting, and the integration of neurodivergent needs within religious communities. Sunita shares her personal experiences, the challenges of advocating for her child's needs within faith-based settings, and practical strategies for creating more inclusive communities. Together, they discuss the importance of accommodations, self-advocacy, and intentional parenting.

00:00 Introduction and Guest Overview

00:54 Host's Background and Podcast Mission

01:57 Sunita's Family and Personal Journey

02:51 Navigating Neurodivergence in the Family

05:22 Cultural Influences and Misattributions

11:44 Parenting Approaches and Self-Advocacy

21:40 Accommodations and Long-Term Support

26:41 Meeting Online and Family Backgrounds

27:11 Integrating Different Upbringings

27:42 Reparenting and Healing

28:29 Family Time and Dinner Table Dynamics

31:21 Parenting Strategies and Research

33:28 Navigating Neurodivergence in the Family

37:01 Cultural and Community Reactions

41:30 Supporting Neurodivergent Families in Religious Communities

49:00 Final Thoughts and Resources

RESOURCES

⚡️ connect with Sunita on Instagram @sunitatheiss, visit her website, and read her Substack

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

*PDA is a theorized profile of autism and not a clinical diagnosis. however, it has been a helpful conceptualization for many parents to learn about how their child's brain is wired. our knowledge of PDA is currently unfolding and I do my best to share up-to-date, balanced information. to learn more about PDA, please listen to episode 110

21 Feb 2024100!!!!!! | celebrating 100 episodes of autism education: the importance of consistency + a HUGE giveaway announcement00:34:19

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇

this is a special episode to celebrate 100 episodes of autism education here on the podcast. I emphasize the parallel of how consistency and time got me here and how that perfectly describes the autism parenting journey!

at the end, I announce a big giveaway - a chance to win a three-month group therapy scholarship.

RESOURCES

⚡️ 10K GIVEAWAY POST - DETAILS TO ENTER >>

https://www.instagram.com/reel/C3nsfwixnXq/?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

31 Dec 2024148 | Counting Down the Top 10 Episodes in Autism and Parenting for 202400:23:15

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇

In this final episode of 2024, Dr. Tay recaps the top 10 most downloaded podcast episodes of the year, reflecting on the amazing growth and impact of the show. The podcast, focused on autism and parenting, has garnered significant attention with an average of 1,400 downloads per week recently, and a total of over 55,000 all-time downloads. Highlighted episodes include deep dives into PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance), autism in females, low demand parenting, sensory regulation at home, and various therapeutic approaches. Dr. Tay also discusses future plans for monetization to enhance the podcast's reach and quality, including potential ads and sponsorships that align with the listeners' interests. Listeners are encouraged to provide feedback and topic suggestions for future episodes. Happy New Year and looking forward to the exciting developments in 2025!

00:00 Welcome and Episode Recap Introduction

00:51 Podcast Analytics and Listener Engagement

02:32 Future Plans and Monetization

03:58 Top Episode #1: What is PDA?

05:18 Top Episodes #2-5: PDA and Beyond

10:48 Top Episodes #6-10: Autism Insights and Alternatives

19:26 Honorable Mentions and Listener Appreciation

20:37 Closing Remarks and Future Outlook

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

11 Dec 2024146 | a mindset shift to presume competence in her autistic adult son with Betsy Hicks00:55:28

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇

Dr. Tay hosts Betsy Hicks (@betsyonthego) who discusses her journey parenting her 31-year-old non-speaking autistic son, Joey. The conversation delves into Betsy's experiences with autism awareness over the years, the impact of nutrition on Joey's behavior, and the significant breakthrough they experienced with Spelling to Communicate. Betsy shares the process and emotional experience of Joey moving out and gaining independence, emphasizing the importance of following one's intuition as a parent. Dr. Tay and Betsy also address the challenges and nuances of parenting within the autism community and the role of social media in providing support and spreading awareness.

00:00 Introduction and Guest Overview

02:23 Betsy's Journey Begins

03:40 Discovering the Impact of Diet

04:27 A New Chapter with John

05:55 The Shift in Understanding Autism

07:34 Spelling to Communicate

09:14 Reflections and Insights

15:25 Navigating Social Media and Advocacy

29:27 Joey's Progress and Moving Out

31:54 Realizing Children's Independence

33:44 Joey's New Caregiver: Nick's Story

35:29 The Apartment Community's Support

42:03 Navigating Section 8 Housing

45:39 Balancing Caregiving and Independence

49:25 The Importance of Nutrition

54:30 Wrapping Up and Final Thoughts

RESOURCES

⚡️ Follow Betsy @betsyonthego on TikTok and Instagram and learn about her resources betsyonthego.com

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

19 Feb 202499 | is Taylor Swift neurodivergent? and why it matters00:10:38

In this mini episode, Dr. Tay discusses:

  • Taylor Swift's potential neurodivergence and its relevance to your autistic child.
  • embracing neurodivergence in parenting and advocating for acceptance.

RESOURCES

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.

DISCLAIMER >> anything shared on this podcast should not be considered clinical advice, and you should consult with your team of medical, mental health, and developmental providers if you need support.

02 Feb 20238 | Dina Daniels and the journey of becoming an advocate00:49:16

join the evolve Facebook community to participate in the weekly Q+A >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

Dina is a mother of an autistic son as well as two other neurodivergent children. she shares about her journey of advocating for her son's autism diagnosis for years (yes, you read that right!) as well as what inspired her to start sharing the unleashed version of her family's life on TikTok.

this episode will help you: 

  • learn how to best advocate for your child during the diagnostic process
  • identify shifts in parenting that can help you increase your communication with your child
  • understand the importance of supporting your own well-being in the autism journey

connect with Dina >>

TikTok @unleashedpartyof5

Instagram @unleashedpartyof5

and explore Lovevery Play Kits and BrainPop (use DINA15 for 15% off) as mentioned by Dina in the episode!

learn more about my Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered >> drtaylorday.com

other places you can learn from me >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

25 Nov 2024143 | an episode for family + friends: supporting your autistic loved one this holiday season00:35:00

In this special mini-episode Dr. Tay, a child psychologist specializing in autism, discusses how extended family members can better support parents of autistic children during the holiday season. Drawing on over a decade of experience and direct feedback from parents, Dr. Tay shares practical advice, such as understanding triggers, recognizing the effort parents put into preparing for events, and ways to offer meaningful help. This episode is what your loved one wants you to know! A special thank you to the parents who submitted their insights and are featured on this episode.

00:00 Introduction to the Podcast

01:12 Understanding Autism and Neurodiversity

02:21 Holiday Support for Autistic Children

03:29 Parental Insights and Requests

06:38 Common Misunderstandings and Challenges

15:07 Sensory and Social Considerations

18:38 Creating a Supportive Environment for Neurodivergent Children

19:05 Offering Help and Dropping Judgment

20:21 Understanding Meltdowns and Neurodivergence

21:11 Challenges in Getting Diagnoses and Support

21:51 Validating Parents' Efforts and Experiences

23:23 Navigating Family Traditions and Accommodations

27:18 Grief and Emotional Complexity in Parenting

32:08 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

RESOURCES

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

15 Feb 202310 | the ABCs of challenging behavior00:34:20

join the evolve Facebook community to participate in the weekly Q+A >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

a commonly asked question I get as a child psychologist specializing in autism is "how do I reduce challenging behaviors?" this episode will introduce you to the ABCs - antecedents, behaviors, and consequences. at the heart of this episode is identifying the function of your child's behavior before you try to intervene.

this episode will help you: 

  • identify what happens before the behavior (antecedent) and after the behavior that is reinforcing it (consequence)
  • understand how to track data to discover patterns about when and why your child's challenging behaviors occur
  • get clarity on what your child is trying to communicate (because yes even their challenging behaviors are communicative!) and learn how to use the data to intervene

learn more about my Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered >> drtaylorday.com or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you are wanting to schedule a consult call

other places you can learn from me >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

22 Feb 202311 | why positive thinking doesn't work (and what to do instead)00:38:50

join the evolve Facebook community to participate in the weekly Q+A >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

how many times have you been told about the power of positive thinking?

the way our culture has shifted, we've started to think about positive thinking as magic fairy dust. but will it actually set you up for success?

in this week's episode, we explore how you can truly accept and embrace your current reality to find joy even amongst the challenges.

this episode will help you: 

  • learn where positive thinking came from
  • understand how positive thinking can sabotage you more than help you
  • give you 4 ways you can actually create more joy

in this episode, I shared about the new group coaching program I am launching! ready to dive in? sign up here: https://drtaycoaching.com/founding-member-checkout.

have questions about the program? send me a DM or book a consult call using the link above.


other places you can learn from me >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

03 Jan 202491 | manifestation, slowing down, and loosening expectations with autism parent Marisa Hohaia00:44:13

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇

Dr. Tay and anti-hustle coach + autism parent Marisa Hohaia discuss:

  1. her family's autism journey, the impact of her son's diagnosis on her work, and her philosophy of living that helps them navigate through their life
  2. the importance of enjoying the present moment and letting go of expectations in the autism journey, emphasizing how not getting caught up in a rigid vision for the future can open up more room for joy and progress in the present.
  3. manifestation in the context of autism parenting, suggesting that while parents can't directly shape or control their child's journey, they can manifest and attract necessary support, resources, and growth experiences.

RESOURCES

⚡️continue to learn from Marisa >>

follow on Instagram

check out resources on her website breakupwithbusy.com

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

*please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most.

14 Jul 202342 | beyond the diagnosis Q+A: navigating emotions, therapy choices, and advocacy00:13:02

answering YOUR questions on today's episode!

we had a little bit of a different format inspired by my weekly AMA (ask me anything) on Instagram. we chatted through one family's current circumstances regarding parental acceptance and therapy decision-making. we explore the intricacies of this emotional journey, with tips on how to support each other through this process and acknowledge the importance of experiencing emotions at your own pace. we also chat through the sometimes daunting task of selecting the right therapeutic support for an autistic child.

RESOURCES

⚡️ book referenced in this episode >> An Early Start for Your Young Child with Autism

⚡️ other episodes to dive further into themes from today >> on emotions [6, 15, 34]; on ABA [26]; on acceptance [28]

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.

DISCLAIMER >> anything shared on this podcast should not be considered clinical advice, and you should consult with your team of medical, mental health, and developmental providers if you need support.

10 Jan 202492 | POP CULTURE MINI SERIES: getting “delulu” in autism parenting / the power of self-belief00:20:30

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇

Dr. Tay discusses:

  1. the concept of getting “delulu” in the context of autism parenting
  2. believing in your autistic child's communication and developmental potential through various methods
  3. the transformative effect of applying 'getting delulu' to personal growth and aspirations

RESOURCES

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

29 Sep 202375 | can my child see a psychologist? (and why would they?)00:19:24

answering YOUR questions on today's episode!

on today's Dr. Tay breaks down the different specialty fields and what types of providers can diagnose vs. do therapy. we focus on the field of psychology, as psychologists are uniquely positioned to provide comprehensive care, including diagnosis and therapy services. the other fields covered in this episode include psychiatry, developmental behavioral pediatrics, neurology, mental health therapists, and school psychology.

NOTE: in this episode, I do not touch on the therapists who focus on developmental skills, such as speech-language therapy, occupational therapy, and physical therapy. these types of therapists provide great support services but are unable to diagnose autism. basically any profession with the title "therapist" are typically unable to diagnose autism.

RESOURCES

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

DISCLAIMER >> anything shared on this podcast should not be considered clinical advice, and you should consult with your team of medical, mental health, and developmental providers if you need support.

23 Sep 2024133 | PDA and ODD: clarifying the differences00:16:08

In this mini episode, Dr. Tay discusses the distinction between Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA) and Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD). Inspired by conversations with parents in her group therapy program, she delves into the complexities and overlaps between the two diagnoses. Dr. Tay emphasizes the importance of understanding PDA within the framework of anxiety and highlights the stigmas associated with ODD, especially in racialized communities. She also touches on the limitations of behavioral approaches and the significance of adopting neurodiversity-affirming practices.

00:00 Introduction and Life Updates

00:45 Exploring PDA and ODD

02:03 Nuances and Misconceptions

02:49 Clinical Perspectives and Research

05:33 Therapeutic Approaches and Stigma

09:52 Evidence-Based Practices

14:46 Conclusion and Future Episodes

*PDA is a theorized profile of autism and not a clinical diagnosis. however, it has been a helpful conceptualization for many parents to learn about how their child's brain is wired. our knowledge of PDA is currently unfolding and I do my best to share up-to-date, balanced information. to learn more about PDA, please listen to episode 110

RESOURCES

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.

DISCLAIMER >> anything shared on this podcast should not be considered clinical advice, and you should consult with your team of medical, mental health, and developmental providers if you need support.

29 Nov 202384 | building community: an autism mama's story with Jamie Lin Brown00:43:13

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇

in this episode, Dr. Tay is joined by Jamie Lin Brown, an autism mama, to discuss the importance of building a strong community for parents of autistic children. the conversation focuses on the need to view the child holistically, integrating physical, mental, and emotional aspects of their growth. Jamie shares her own experiences and suggests how parenting communities can offer emotional support and practical advice. they also touch on the idea of maintaining personal well-being as an autism parent and not losing one's self in the journey. the episode highlights that while each child's autism journey may be unique, common connections can be formed between families sharing similar experiences.

CHAPTERS

02:25 Jamie's personal journey with autism

08:10 the challenges and triumphs of autism parenting

13:33 the role of holistic approach in autism

21:08 the power of community in the autism journey

30:57 the importance of building relationships

40:45 the Importance of self-care in autism parenting

RESOURCES

⚡️ ways to connect with Jamie Lin Brown >>

join the Intentional Autism Mama Community on Patreon

Jamie Lin Brown's website

follow Jamie on Instagram

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

15 Sep 202369 | "can a child outgrow autism" Q+A00:16:04

69 | "can a child outgrow autism" Q+A

answering YOUR questions on today's episode!

Q: can a child outgrow autism?

A: Dr. Tay addresses a misconception that a child can outgrow autism, emphasizing how autism is a lifelong disability and it is how your child's brain is wired. we discuss the DSM diagnostic criteria and how a child may need different supports at different times.

RESOURCES

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.

DISCLAIMER >> anything shared on this podcast should not be considered clinical advice, and you should consult with your team of medical, mental health, and developmental providers if you need support.

01 Nov 202380 | the power of stillness: navigating autism parenting with intention and self-care00:41:58

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇

in this episode, Dr. Tay discusses the importance of stillness and how it can benefit parents navigating the autism parenting journey. she shares her personal experience with breathwork and therapy, highlighting the power of slowing down and regulating the nervous system. Dr. Tay emphasizes the need for parents to create moments of stillness to refill their energy and prevent burnout. she also provides practical tips for incorporating stillness into daily life, such as meditation, journaling, and intentional self-care. through intentional stillness, parents can find clarity, trust their instincts, and take intuitive action in supporting their autistic child.

RESOURCES

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

16 Jun 202330 | navigating autism and friendship Q+A00:10:02

answering YOUR questions on today's episode!

Q: do friendships look different for autistic individuals? how do I support them in making friends or recognize if they don't actually want them?

A: yes, friendships for autistic individuals can differ due to their interests and understanding of social rules. to support them, help them find common interests with peers, teach social skills without forcing "social masking," respect their boundaries, and ask questions to understand their preferences and needs.

RESOURCES

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.


DISCLAIMER >> anything shared on this podcast should not be considered clinical advice, and you should consult with your team of medical, mental health, and developmental providers if you need support.

22 Jan 2025151 | school vs. clinical: autism diagnosis and eligibility differences with Briana Drimmer01:02:16

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇

In this episode, Dr. Tay is joined by school psychologist Briana Drimmer to explore the complexities of school eligibility criteria for autism. They discuss the differences between medical diagnoses and educational eligibility, the role of an IEP team, and how to advocate for your autistic child within the school system. The episode also covers the educational impact, specially designed instruction, and other common eligibility categories such as OHI and ED. Tune in to learn how to effectively navigate the school system and ensure your child receives the support they need.

00:00 Introduction to School and Autism Eligibility

00:36 Meet Briana Drimmer: School Psychologist

01:34 Navigating School Systems vs. Clinical Diagnoses

04:21 Understanding the IEP Team

05:31 The Process of School Evaluation for Autism

08:13 Challenges and Denials in the Evaluation Process

14:52 Eligibility Criteria for Autism in Schools

21:58 Differences Between DSM and IDEA Criteria

30:58 Understanding Educational Impact Beyond Grades

31:05 Communication and Social Challenges

31:35 Emotional and Adaptive Skills

31:59 Mobility and Academic Examples

32:27 Curiosity and Broader Definitions

32:59 Specially Designed Instruction

35:10 Accommodations vs. Special Education

36:27 The Role of 504 Plans

38:21 Specialized Academic Instruction

39:24 Behavioral and Counseling Services

42:33 Navigating School Systems and Advocacy

51:10 Co-Occurring Diagnoses and Eligibility

57:32 Final Thoughts and Resources

RESOURCES

⚡️ Follow Briana on Instagram @educationallypsyched

⚡️ Check out her resources on Teachers Pay Teachers

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

21 Aug 2024128 | ACT and neurodiversity affirming approaches in ABA with Unfurling Littles00:53:20

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇

In this episode, Dr. Tay hosts Maggie of Unfurling Littles and explores Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA) from an Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) lens. They discuss how to incorporate neurodiversity-affirming practices into ABA to create a compassionate, child-led approach. Maggie shares her journey into the field, her own lived experience as an autistic individual, and practical examples of how ACT principles can be applied within ABA for the benefit of both children and their families. The episode also addresses common concerns about traditional ABA and offers insights on fostering mindful play and regulation.

00:00 Introduction and Podcast Overview

00:46 Guest Introduction: Maggie from Unfurling Littles

02:33 Maggie's Journey into Early Childhood Special Education

03:43 Challenges and Criticisms of ABA

06:28 Maggie's Personal Neurodivergence Story

08:29 Founding Unfurling Littles and Professional Challenges

10:59 Navigating ABA and Neurodiversity Affirming Practices

14:38 Introduction to ACT (Acceptance and Commitment Therapy)

16:39 Implementing ACT in Family and Child Goals

21:26 Balancing Family and Child Values in Therapy

27:08 Practical Applications of ACT in Therapy

29:25 Measuring Engagement and Joy in Child Interactions

29:59 Integrating Child-Led Approaches in Therapy

30:27 Present Moment Awareness and Neurodiversity Affirming Practices

32:04 Mindfulness in Neurodiversity Affirming Care

34:16 Handling Dysregulation with ACT Principles

36:32 The Importance of Validating Emotions

40:41 Healing Through Neurodiversity Affirming Practices

44:33 The Evolution and Future of ABA

50:49 Connecting with Families and Resources

52:45 Final Thoughts and Next Steps

RESOURCES

⚡️ connect with Maggie on Instagram @unfurling_littles and her website https://www.unfurlinglittles.com

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

Note: PDA is a theorized profile of autism and not a clinical diagnosis. however, it has been a helpful conceptualization for many parents to learn about how their child's brain is wired. our knowledge of PDA is currently unfolding and I do my best to share up-to-date, balanced information. to learn more about PDA, please listen to episode 110

08 May 2024112 | a parent's path to supporting her PDA teen with Steph Curtis00:34:50

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Dr. Tay and Steph Curtis discuss:

  1. the nuances of raising a child with pathological demand avoidance (PDA), emphasizing early detection, adapting parenting techniques, and understanding unique needs.
  2. the journey to find the right educational setting for a child with PDA, dealing with societal pressures, and the critical role of flexibility and individualized approaches.
  3. leveraging community support and personal growth through blogging and writing, highlighting the value of connecting with community and the intersection of PDA with conditions like ADHD and anxiety.

RESOURCES

⚡️ resources referenced in today's episode

Steph's Blog

PDA in the Family: Life After the Lightbulb Moment

Sasha's Animation About her School Experiences

⚡️ connect with Steph Curtis, mom to two autistic daughters, writer, and PDA pioneer

Instagram @stephstwogirls

YouTube @stephstwogirls 

Facebook @stephstwogirls

X @stephstwogirls

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

*please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most.

**also PDA is a theorized profile of autism and not a clinical diagnosis. however, it has been a helpful conceptualization for many parents to learn about how their child's brain is wired. our knowledge of PDA is currently unfolding and I will do my best to share up-to-date, balanced information. To learn more about PDA, please listen to episode 110

11 Oct 202377 | a deep dive into gestalt language processing and AAC with speech-language pathologist Katja Piscitelli00:51:35

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Dr. Tay hosts speech-language pathologist Katja Piscitelli on the podcast to explore Gestalt Language Processing and Natural Language Acquisition (NLA). They discuss how this form of language processing is a common and natural pathway to language development for autistic and non-autistic children alike. Katja shares her experience of discovering this language phenomenon, and how it can be a powerful tool in supporting language development. they also discuss the role of Augmentative and Alternative Communication (AAC) in language development. The conversation includes pointers on how to identify if your child is a Gestalt Language Processor and the importance of patience and consistent modeling in language development.

CHAPTERS

0:00.00 - welcome Katja Piscitelli and her story of becoming a speech-language pathologist

0:03:33 - what is Gestalt Language Processing (GLP)

0:07:52 - what is Natural Language Acquisition (NLA)

0:08:50 - stage 1 of GLP and how to support

0:21:37 - what is Augmentative and Alternative Communication (AAC) and how to adapt for GLPs

0:36:41 - stage 2 of GLP and how to support

0:40:41 - stage 3 of GLP and how to support

0:46:28 - stage 4, 5, and 6 with developing grammar

0:49:23 - ways to connect with Katja

RESOURCES

⚡️ follow Katja on Instagram and Facebook to keep learning more from here

⚡️ additional resources for GLP

www.meaningfulspeech.com

www.communicationdevelopmentcenter.com

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

04 Sep 2024129 | from diagnosis to adulthood: author Carrie Cariello's insights00:50:04

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In this episode, Dr. Tay speaks with Carrie Cariello, a mother of five, including an autistic young adult. Carrie shares her family's journey, advocacy work, and the unique challenges and triumphs of raising an autistic child. They discuss practical strategies for fostering independence, the importance of community, navigating the education system, and marital dynamics. Carrie also shares insights into the transition to young adulthood, including finding supportive college programs. This episode offers hope, practical advice, and a reminder that families are not alone in their journey.

00:00 Introduction and Guest Overview

02:09 Meet Carrie Cariello: A Journey Through Autism

03:00 Carrie's Family and Early Diagnosis

04:07 From Writing to Advocacy

06:40 Navigating Challenges and Safety Concerns

08:59 Parenting Strategies and Splinter Skills

17:50 Redefining Family Dynamics

27:48 Parenting Challenges and Triumphs

28:41 Navigating Discomfort and Fix-It Mode

29:16 Dinner Time Dilemmas

31:28 College Program Search

36:24 Balancing Marriage and Parenting

40:12 Encouraging Independence

45:48 Final Thoughts and Resources

RESOURCES

⚡️ connect with Carrie >>

Instagram @carrie_cariello 

Facebook @whatcolorismonday

Website Link: https://carriecariello.substack.com

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

*please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most.

18 Jan 20236 | navigating autism when your circle is unsupportive00:28:57

join the evolve Facebook community to participate in the weekly Q+A >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

this week's episode was inspired by a member of my Facebook community. she said "how do you deal with family that thinks your child is normal and they think I blow things out of proportion?" i'll break down the steps for navigating your child's diagnosis/identity when your circle is unsupportive.

this episode will help you: 

  • learn effective communication with family members and friends about autism
  • understand the importance of gaining permission before you educate
  • set appropriate boundaries when necessary

learn more about my Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered >> drtaylorday.com

other places you can learn from me >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

06 Dec 202385 | neurodivergence and the state of autism research: insights from Autistic researcher Chelsea Verrette00:53:10

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Dr. Tay hosts Autistic autism researcher Chelsea Verrette, who provides her insights on the current state of autism research. we discuss the importance of language in discussions about neurodivergence and the gaps in the existing literature. the conversation centers on shifting from a deficit-based model to incorporating the neurodiversity framework into research and life. Chelsea also shares her perspectives on navigating the educational system, helping children learn about their diagnosis, and building community. at the end of the episode, Chelsea shares a sneak peek into her research around neurodivergent individuals' response to marketing, suggesting that top marketing tactics may be harmful for the neurodivergent community.

CHAPTERS:

02:28 Chelsea's journey into autism research

12:22 understanding autism and its impact

24:52 understanding neurodiversity and belonging

29:40 the need for neurodivergent representation in research

36:11 the impact of marketing and communication on neurodivergent individuals

49:08 the importance of community and support for neurodivergent individuals

RESOURCES

⚡️ ways to connect with Chelsea Verrette >>

Chelsea's resources, including her Discord community and daily text affirmations

follow Chelsea on Instagram

follow Chelsea on LinkedIn

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

19 Jul 202344 | the transforming power of autism on family dynamics: a personal conversation with my mom00:51:34

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this is part two of my family's story. on this episode, I invited my mom, Letty, onto the podcast to share her perspective and reflect on what it was like listening to episode 16 | "I see you" - my story and introduction to autism, and why I chose my career path. she provides a raw and vulnerable account of my brother's early diagnosis, therapy, and beyond. we touch on the emotional impact, the societal pressures, the transformative effect on family dynamics, and the joys and lessons learned along the way.

we hope you enjoy this candid conversation! I want to give a shout-out to my mom for her willingness to share so openly. this was truly special for both of us! if you find value, please share it with another autism parent or on your social media 🤍 we want to be able to help more families like yours and ours!

RESOURCES

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As and connect with other parents >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.

03 Jul 202337 | daring to embrace fear: personal stories and applications to parenting00:12:33

in this mini episode, Dr. Tay explores the theme of fear and vulnerably shares her personal fears - originally around the fear of being seen and now the fear of making mistakes and not having all the answers (aka imperfection). she applies the lessons to your parenting and also details how leaning into fear has progressed her brand / business to serve autism families like yours.

RESOURCES

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.

DISCLAIMER >> anything shared on this podcast should not be considered clinical advice, and you should consult with your team of medical, mental health, and developmental providers if you need support.

13 Mar 2024104 | why sensory experiences impact your autistic child’s eating with Brittyn Coleman00:46:27

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Dr. Tay and Brittyn Coleman, Registered Dietitian, discuss:

  1. the overlap between sensory experiences and eating for autistic children
  2. sensory-friendly strategies to diversify diets and support gut health
  3. offering practical advice for parents on supporting their autistic children with feeding therapy and neurodivergent affirming approaches

RESOURCES

⚡️ connect with Brittyn Coleman

visit her website (including her 5-day workshop + membership)

Instagram @autismdietitian

TikTok @autismdietitian

Facebook @autismdietitian

YouTube @autismdietitian

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

*please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most.

25 Jan 20237 | candid conversation on neurodiversity00:30:52

join the evolve Facebook community to participate in the weekly Q+A >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

in this week's episode, I sit down to candidly discuss neurodiversity, cultural shifts around autism, and even some of my story as an expert in this field who has become committed to constantly learning and evolving. I hope to bring more awareness to this topic shared through what I see as a well-rounded perspective and to help encourage more understanding and acceptance.

this episode will help you: 

  • learn what neurodiversity is and understand some of its evolution
  • explore how neurodiversity is different than how autism has been previously conceptualized
  • learn how I discuss neurodiversity with my patients and their families as well as things I've learned from the autistic community

a great additional resource on neurodiversity as referenced in this episode is Uniquely Human: A Different Way of Seeing Autism by Barry M. Prizant, PhD.


learn more about my Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered >> drtaylorday.com

other places you can learn from me >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

17 Jan 202493 | navigating your relationship: parenting and neurodivergence with Pasha Marlowe, MFT00:54:23

93 | navigating your relationship: parenting and neurodivergence with Pasha Marlowe, MFT

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Dr. Tay and Pasha Marlowe, marriage and family therapist / neurodiversity coach, discuss:

  1. challenges in family relationships when children or partners are neurodivergent
  2. the role of communication and balancing individual needs in neurodivergent families
  3. insights on redefining perceptions and thriving in neurodiversity

RESOURCES

⚡️Connect with Pasha Marlowe >>

on LinkedIn, Instagram, TikTok, and Facebook

https://pashamarlowe.com

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

30 Aug 202362 | facing parenting fears about vacations with travel specialist and autism mom Kayla Castro00:49:56

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Dr. Tay welcomes Kayla Castro to the podcast, a certified autism travel professional and parent to an autistic child. this episode focuses on the fears, challenges, and joys of traveling as an autism family. Kayla shares her family's story and provides practical advice on how to navigate travel with autistic family members. the conversation includes tips on how to make travel more accessible, including the use of the Disability Access Service Pass at Disney and the TSA Cares Initiative. Kayla also discusses tools and strategies to prepare your child for travel. the episode offers a comprehensive guide to autism-friendly travel.

CHAPTERS

(0:00:00) - introduction and description of a certified autism travel professional

(0:05:00) - sharing her family's autism story and their travel experiences

(0:10:48) - IBCCES and certified autism centers (learn more here)

(0:12:17) - Disability Access Service Pass at Disney and Accessibility Cards for other theme parks

(0:21:36) - TSA Cares Initiative and other flying accomodations

(0:28:29) - sunflower lanyard (get yours here)

(0:32:00) - preparation for trips, including front-loading, YouTube, and picky eating

(0:35:10) - a deeper discussion around fear

(0:41:30) - travel services Kayla provides for families

RESOURCES

⚡️connect with Kayla on Instagram and via email. and visit her website to learn more about her services and offerings and read her blog.

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

*please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most.

18 Aug 202357 | SCHOOL IS IN SESSION - PART 4: answering your questions about special education and IEPs00:44:40

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today is a special Q+A episode. Dr. Tay brought back special education attorney Ashley Barlow to answer your questions. we address the following topics:

  1. 504 vs. IEP for your autistic child
  2. how to prioritize learning vs. coping and self-advocacy
  3. how to navigate finding the best schools
  4. re-evaluation of autism
  5. how to measure progress
  6. educational funding and what influences special education decisions
  7. thoughts on half days for therapy
  8. prioritizing friends in the classroom
  9. considerations for homeschooling
  10. meeting with your teacher before school

RESOURCES

⚡️ ways to connect with Ashley >>

learn more about her free and affordable resources at ashleybarlowco.com

follow her on Instagram @ashleybarlowco and Facebook Ashley Barlow Co

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

*please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most.

07 Feb 202496 | key autism parenting mindset shifts00:26:13

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Dr. Tay discusses:

  1. emphasizing flexibility in parenting autistic children, adapting to their unique needs.
  2. encouraging parents to accept uncertainties and learn alongside their child.
  3. understanding and embracing neurodivergent perspectives over conventional expectations.

RESOURCES

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

05 Mar 2025158 | unshaming neurodivergence: a deep dive into parenting and self-discovery with Isabeau Korylak @neurofriendlybeau00:33:28

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In this episode, Dr. Tay connects with Neurofriendly Beau, a neurodivergent ADHD coach and parent of a neurodivergent child. They discuss the challenges and dynamics of parenting when the parent and child have different neurotypes. Beau shares insights on her late ADHD diagnosis and limitations of the diagnosis process as well as details her journey through parenthood, and the importance of adaptable and understanding approaches that go beyond traditional neurotypical standards. They also dive into the need for safety, individual accommodation, and the critical importance of modeling self-compassion and advocacy for children. Beau also presents her personal struggles and strategies for co-existing with Autism/ADHD (AuDHD) in an insightful and relatable manner, making this a deeply valuable episode for parents and guardians navigating similar journeys.

00:00 Introduction and Guest Overview

00:58 Host's Background and Podcast Purpose

01:59 Guest's Introduction and Initial Conversation

03:27 Guest's ADHD Diagnosis Journey

09:49 Parenting and Neurodivergence

17:34 Collaborative Parenting Approach

18:06 Addressing Self-Sabotaging Thoughts

18:59 Unique Solutions for Daily Challenges

20:03 Navigating Screen Time Concerns

22:01 Modeling Problem-Solving for Kids

24:58 Embracing Neurodivergent Parenting

25:57 The Importance of Self-Advocacy

27:44 Shame and Neurodivergence

31:25 Resources and Support for Parents

32:39 Conclusion and Next Steps

RESOURCES

⚡️ follow Beau on Instagram @neurofriendlybeau and check out her website here, including to learn about her coaching services

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

⚡️ continue learning from me and submit any questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

27 Sep 202374 | the power of love and advocacy in autism with Theresa Noye00:48:39

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Dr. Tay welcomes Theresa Noye, an autism mother, author, and self-love coach, to the podcast. Theresa shares her journey of her son's diagnosis, from non-speaking to now a college student studying strategic communications. she also discusses the transformative power of love and advocacy and sheds light on the importance of self-care and family care. the episode also delves into racial disparities and seeing your child as an individual. Theresa used the inspiration of her own story to write a book and then start coaching other Black women on self-love.

RESOURCES

⚡️ Theresa's book "Hello Autism: How to Love, Like, and Learn from Your Special Needs Child"

⚡️ connect with Theresa on LinkedIn, Facebook, and Instagram and/or book a free epiphany session to learn more about her self-love coaching

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

*please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most.

12 Jun 2024118 | how to support sensory regulation at home with occupational therapist Courtney English00:47:38

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Dr. Tay and Courtney English discuss:

  1. importance of sensory systems
  2. introduction to sensory profiles
  3. how to support sensory regulation at home

RESOURCES

⚡️ connect with Courtney English on Instagram @courtneyenglish.ot and on TikTok @courtneyenglish.ot

⚡️ get access to Courtney's resources here, including learning about your child's sensory profile

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

*please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most.

28 Feb 2024102 | an autism vocabulary list with Dr. Donna Henderson00:50:12

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Dr. Tay and Dr. Donna Henderson define the following:

  1. PDA
  2. interoception and emotions
  3. neurocrash
  4. autistic burnout
  5. RSD
  6. autigender

RESOURCES

⚡️ connect with Dr. Donna Henderson, clinical neuropsychologist

https://www.drdonnahenderson.com/

her book along with Drs. Sarah Wayland and Jamell White "Is This Autism? A Guide for Clinicians and Everyone Else"

Donna's practice: https://stixrud.com/

⚡️ additional resources mentioned by Dr. Henderson

https://www.kelly-mahler.com/

neurodivergentinsights.com

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

*please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most.

26 Jun 202334 | letting go of perfection and embracing your emotions00:07:55

in this mini episode, Dr. Tay discusses the idea that constantly trying to be perfect, to have all the answers, and to "fix" everything can actually be counterproductive to your child's progress. we'll also touch on the importance of being present with your emotions and finding time for stillness in your daily life.

RESOURCES

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.

DISCLAIMER >> anything shared on this podcast should not be considered clinical advice, and you should consult with your team of medical, mental health, and developmental providers if you need support.

24 Jul 2024124 | navigating social media, research, and BIPOC representation in the autistic community with Kaligirwa @blackspectrumscholar00:55:43

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Dr. Tay is joined by Kaligirwa @blackspectrumscholar, an AuDHD communication researcher, to discuss the intersection of neurodiversity and research, with a particular emphasis on BIPOC representation within the autism community. Kali shares her personal journey of discovering her autism diagnosis and her efforts to highlight the representation of Black autistic individuals on social media. The conversation covers broad topics such as the history of autism subtypes, the diagnostic challenges faced by BIPOC individuals, and the complexities of clinical diagnosis. Dr. Tay and Kali also delve into the importance of evolving our understanding and terminology around autism to build greater acceptance and support as well as how to use social media as a tool to learn while also knowing its limitations.

00:00 Introduction and Guest Overview

01:19 Host's Background and Podcast Purpose

02:22 Guest's Personal Journey with Autism

04:49 Challenges and Representation in Autism Research

07:14 Social Media and Misinformation

11:31 Navigating Research and Personal Experience

26:11 Discussion on Autism Subtypes and Diagnosis

30:53 Understanding PDD-NOS and Stigma

31:47 Challenges with DSM-5 Levels

32:58 Regional Differences in Diagnoses

33:44 Functional Assessment Over Levels

35:24 Issues with Profound Autism Label

37:18 Spiky Profiles and Individual Differences

39:22 BIPOC Representation in Autism Conversations

39:55 Cultural Barriers to Diagnosis

42:57 ODD and PDA: Shifting Perspectives

49:53 Complexities of Diagnosing Anxiety

51:24 Finding Affirming Practitioners

53:28 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

RESOURCES

⚡️ connect with Kaligirwa on Instagram and TikTok @blackspectrumscholar and check out her resource library

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

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TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

29 May 2024116 | nurturing growth through relationships: an introduction to RDI with Dr. Sarah Wayland00:56:11

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Dr. Tay and Dr. Sarah Wayland discuss:

  1. her journey and insights into using relationship-based dynamic intelligence (RDI) to enhance family bonds and your autistic child's growth
  2. the role of co-regulation and autonomy in parenting your autistic child
  3. practical advice for parents on integrating RDI principles into daily life

RESOURCES

⚡️ connect with Sarah Wayland, Ph.D., parent coach + founder of Guiding Exceptional Parents on her website and on Facebook and LinkedIn

⚡️ learn more about Relationship-based Dynamic Intelligence (RDI™) and working with Dr. Wayland

⚡️ purchase her book along with Dr. Donna Henderson and Jamell White "Is This Autism? A Guide for Clinicians and Everyone Else"

⚡️ reference another great resource from Dr. Wayland: Behavior Revolution

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

*please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most.

15 May 2024113 | the art of low demand parenting: redefining connection and shifting expectations with Amanda Diekman00:45:24

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Dr. Tay and Amanda Diekman discuss:

  1. what a low demand lifestyle is
  2. the three layers of a demand
  3. how to find joy in this parenting journey

RESOURCES

⚡️ connect with Amanda Diekman

Instagram @lowdemandamanda 

Facebook @lowdemandamanda

www.amandadiekman.com

Get the book

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

31 Jan 202495 | an autistic PDA parent's journey towards self-discovery with Katherine L'Etang00:48:21

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Dr. Tay and Katherine L'Etang of @theneurodiversitymom discuss:

  1. The journey of self-realization as an autistic woman and navigating life with autistic children.
  2. Learning about neurodiversity and how to become an advocate.
  3. Insights into PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance), a profile of autism, and adopting a neuroaffirming low demand lifestyle.

RESOURCES

⚡️⚡️ connect with Katherine L'Etang

Instagram + TikTok @theneurodiversitymom

https://www.theneurodiversitymom.net/

⚡️ also discussed in this episode was Erin of @spinsandstomps roadmap (PS she was on the pod too - episode 68). download it here 👇🏼

https://www.spinsandstomps.com/resources

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

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TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

23 Oct 2024138 | 7 themes I’m seeing for autistic kids as a child psychologist00:40:52

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In this episode, Dr. Tay discusses the key themes she is seeing in clinical practice. Dr. Taylor Day is a licensed psychologist specializing in neurodiversity affirming care and shares insights regarding common referral questions as well as what many families in her group therapy program are navigating.

00:00 Introduction to Common Themes in Clinical Practice

01:21 Understanding Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA)

03:19 Challenges Faced by Parents and Families

04:41 The Role of Clinical Care vs. Social Media

07:12 The Importance of Tailored Clinical Approaches

16:23 Second Opinion Evaluations and Autism Diagnosis

20:52 Navigating the Broken System

21:27 Scholarships and Financial Aid

21:50 Late Autism Diagnoses in Children

23:02 Parents Exploring Their Own Neurodiversity

24:54 Parents' Mental Health Matters

29:46 Advocacy as a Skill

32:43 Challenges in Schools with Neurodiversity Affirming Care

36:41 Conclusion and Community Support

RESOURCES

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

*PDA is a theorized profile of autism and not a clinical diagnosis. however, it has been a helpful conceptualization for many parents to learn about how their child's brain is wired. our knowledge of PDA is currently unfolding and I do my best to share up-to-date, balanced information. to learn more about PDA, please listen to episode 110

22 Sep 202372 | the art of advocacy: navigating the tough conversations with others about autism00:14:22

answering YOUR questions on today's episode!

Q: how do I respond when someone makes fun of my autistic child?

A: Dr. Tay shares tips and strategies for navigating this difficult topic, with a focus on creating collaborative conversations and managing your own emotions in these situations.

RESOURCES

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.

DISCLAIMER >> anything shared on this podcast should not be considered clinical advice, and you should consult with your team of medical, mental health, and developmental providers if you need support.

12 Feb 2025154 | sex education for autistic youth with Dr. Michelle Fardella00:42:17

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Dr. Tay is joined by Dr. Michelle Fardella, a clinical and school psychologist from Canada, to discuss the critical topic of sex education for autistic youth. The conversation covers various aspects, including the importance of proactive sex education, teaching body autonomy, consent, and addressing misconceptions. They delve into barriers faced by autistic youth in accessing comprehensive sex education and emphasize safety and appropriate teaching methods. Additionally, the episode touches on gender identity, sexual orientation, and provides practical resources for parents and educators. Trigger warnings and the importance of seeking support are also highlighted to ensure a safe and informative discussion.

00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview

00:29 Meet Dr. Michelle Fardella

02:43 Trigger Warning and Sensitive Topics

03:57 Dr. Fardella's Background and Passion

06:26 Challenges in Sex Education for Autistic Youth

08:09 Importance of Tailored Sex Education

10:27 Parental Mindset and Barriers

18:03 Starting Early: Teaching Consent and Safety

20:01 Navigating Discomfort and Finding Safe Persons

23:43 The Accidental Exposure to Pornography

23:58 Discussing Pornography with Young Children

25:11 Proactive Conversations About Intercourse

26:04 Addressing Misconceptions from Pornography

28:13 Honesty in Answering Kids' Questions

30:10 Resources for Teaching Sexual Health

32:46 Masturbation: Education and Safety

36:00 Gender Identity and Sexual Orientation

41:04 Conclusion and Additional Resources

RESOURCES

⚡️ find resources for talking about these topics on Dr. Michelle’s blog >> https://www.wondertreepractice.ca/post/a-caregiver-s-guide-to-teaching-sex-education-to-neurodivergent-youth

⚡️follow WonderTree Practice on Instagram and learn more about their services here if you’re in Ontario

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

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TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

01 Sep 202363 | Q+A: my child just got diagnosed. now what?00:25:33

in today's episode, I am answering a frequently asked question. we dive into next steps after your child gets diagnosed. we cover: processing your emotions, reading the report, deciding on intervention approaches, navigating the school system, and learning about neurodiversity. dr. tay also shares insights on what she says to parents during the feedback session.

RESOURCES

⚡️ resources to learn more about neurodiversity >>

Start Here: A guide for parents of autistic kids

Autistic Self-Advocacy Network (ASAN)

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.

DISCLAIMER >> anything shared on this podcast should not be considered clinical advice, and you should consult with your team of medical, mental health, and developmental providers if you need support.

01 Mar 202312 | autism consultant Molly Johnson on visual supports01:01:09

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have you ever wondered about the best ways to use visual supports for your autistic child?

today we're hearing from a special guest, Molly Johnson. Molly has her master's in education and is a former autism teacher. she now has become "the autism consultant" on Instagram. she teaches parents about visual supports, potty training, and behavior and coping - and we talk about it all in this episode.

this episode will help you: 

  • learn the rationale behind visual supports and why they are so effective
  • understand the most effective ways visual supports are used for autistic children
  • consider how can parents can help integrate the things they are doing at home with things happening in the classroom

connect with Molly on Instagram @theautismconsultant

and find Molly's courses on potty training, behavioral coping, and resources for visual schedules and communication boards here: https://www.theautismconsultant.us/linkinbio


other places you can learn from me >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

20 Mar 2024105 | navigating homeschooling for your autistic child with Malia Phelps Waller00:40:34

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Dr. Tay and Malia Phelps Waller discuss:

  1. transitioning to homeschooling: Malia's journey from public schooling to a play-based homeschooling approach during the pandemic.
  2. homeschooling methodologies: discussions on unschooling, Montessori, and eclectic styles, emphasizing child-centered education.
  3. practical homeschooling aspects: navigating state regulations, curriculum choices, and integrating real-world experiences for learning.

RESOURCES

⚡️ connect with Malia Phelps Waller homeschool mama, special educator and BCBA

Malia's Website

Instagram @maliaphelpswallerhomeschool

Facebook @maliaphelpswallerhomeschool

Download Malia's Homeschool Toolbox

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

*please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most.

06 Mar 2024103 | how to discuss your child's autism diagnosis with Dr. Liz Angoff of Explaining Brains00:44:09

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Dr. Tay and Dr. Liz Angoff, an educational psychologist, discuss:

  1. the importance of parents embracing and understanding neurodiversity and how they can help their child understand how their brain works
  2. empowering strategies and how-tos for parents to discuss autism with their child, including relatable metaphors and AI tools
  3. emphasizing ongoing, open conversations with your family about autism (including with siblings)

RESOURCES

⚡️ connect with Dr. Liz Angoff

Instagram @explainingbrains

https://explainingbrains.com/autism

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

*please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most.

14 Aug 202355 | SCHOOL IS IN SESSION - PART 3: remix of episode 12 with former special education teacher Molly Johnson00:14:21

in this mini episode REMIX, Dr. Tay has pulled excerpts from "episode 12 | autism consultant Molly Johnson on visual supports" to highlight the discussion on educational advocacy and working with your child's teachers and IEP team. Molly Johnson has her master's in education and is a former autism teacher. she now has become @theautismconsultant on Instagram.

RESOURCES

⚡️ submit your questions for a special upcoming Q+A episode on educational rights and helping your child transition back to school (either via Instagram DMs or the Evolve Facebook group)

⚡️learn more about Molly's membership: https://www.theautismconsultant.us/membership

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.

DISCLAIMER >> anything shared on this podcast should not be considered clinical advice, and you should consult with your team of medical, mental health, and developmental providers if you need support.

18 Oct 202378 | what it means to be 2E: identifying and assessing twice-exceptional kids with Dr. Nicole Michaeli00:41:44

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Dr. Tay welcomes Dr. Nicole Michaeli, a pediatric psychologist specializing in comprehensive evaluations, to the podcast. we discuss the twice-exceptional (2E) profile of children who are gifted and have learning or developmental disabilities. the episode includes discussions about asynchronous development characteristic of 2E children as well as strengths and support needs in the context of a neurodiversity framework. Dr. Nicole discusses the importance of a tailored approach to foster the growth of 2E children, addressing the emotional impact they often experience. she also explores intriguing findings from brain imaging studies that differentiate these children from their peers. the episode offers practical advice and actionable steps for 2E children, with a specific focus on how giftedness can present in autistic children.

RESOURCES

⚡️connect with Dr. Nicole Michaeli

Instagram @drnicolephd

TikTok @drnicolephd

My Child Assessment website (her practice in West Los Angeles)

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

*please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most.

13 Sep 202368 | AAC and Gestalt Language Processing with Erin @spinsandstomps - finding her daughter's voice00:48:38

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Dr. Tay has Erin from @spinsandstomps on the podcast. Erin shares about her daughter Riley's journey to getting an autism diagnosis as well as understanding her daughter's ways of communicating. Erin discusses the transformative power of an AAC (Augmentative and Alternative Communication) device in Riley's life and how she identified that she was a Gestalt Language Processor (GLP). specifics on AAC devices particularly for GLPs were detailed in this episode. we also cover broader issues that many autism parents face, including access to diagnostic services and decisions about therapy services.

CHAPTERS

(0:00:00) - introduction and beginning of the discussion on AAC devices for autistic children.

(0:14:26) - navigating autism and accessing services for autistic children.

(0:22:56) - AAC and Gestalt Language Processing

(0:35:50) - AAC devices and their role in promoting self-directed communication in autistic children

(0:41:56) - conclusion including understanding autism, the use of AAC devices, and the importance of love and education in raising an autistic child.

RESOURCES

⚡️ connect with Erin to learn more about her family's journey as well as helpful resources on Instagram @spinsandstomps and her website.

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

12 Apr 202318 | sensory processing with occupational therapist Dr. Sam Goldman00:35:17

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we talk a lot about sensory aspects in autism, but how do you know if your child has challenges with that and what should you do?

sensory elements and factors can really impact your autistic* child's daily life, and sometimes these can be triggers for things like emotion dysregulation, attention, or even difficulty with transitions.

this week, I'm joined by Dr. Sam Goldman, an expert in autism and the sensory systems. in this episode, we cover the eight (yes, eight!) senses. we also discuss different types of sensory difficulties and examples of how this may be showing up in your child's life.

this episode will help you: 

  • understand what occupational therapy will help to address
  • learn how to identify sensory challenges
  • discuss how to support your child in sensory regulation

follow Dr. Sam Goldman @drsamgoldman to stay connected. she also has her program, Making Sense of Eating, for parents to work on sensory elements of eating as well as her podcast (check out her recent series on all things sensory, Sensory 101 - Sensory 404)

more resources from Dr. Sam mentioned in this episode>>

Self-Regulation Freebie for parents

Favorite books: Sensational Kids, The Out-of-Sync Child


want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered >> drtaylorday.com or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you would like to schedule a consult call.


other places you can learn from me >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay


*please note: in this episode, both identity-first (autistic child) and person-first language (child with autism) are used. although as clinicians and practitioners we are slowly learning to shift our language and take the lead from the autistic community, the stance of this podcast is that we ultimately want to honor what each child and family prefer.

04 Dec 2024145 | seclusion rooms exposed: the need for awareness and advocacy00:19:06

In this heartfelt mini-episode, Dr. Tay sheds light on the disturbing practice of using seclusion rooms for dysregulated children, often presented under names like 'calm down rooms' or 'regulation rooms.' Highlighting the traumatic impact of these practices, Dr. Tay empowers parents with information on how to identify and advocate against the use of these rooms. The episode includes practical tips for parents on educating themselves about state laws, inquiring about school policies in IEP meetings, and proposing proactive, humane solutions. Dr. Tay calls for community unity in advocating for neurodiversity-affirming care and ensuring autistic children are treated with dignity and respect.

00:00 Introduction to a Difficult Topic

00:29 Understanding Seclusion Rooms

01:42 Real-Life Stories and Impact

02:56 Advocating for Change

08:32 Proactive Strategies and Solutions

15:35 Final Thoughts and Call to Action

RESOURCES

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

20 May 2024114 | beyond stereotypes: recognizing autism in females00:37:55

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Dr. Tay discusses the highly requested topic of how autism often presents in females, particularly those with low support needs. This episode would still be an informative listen if you have a son who presents with high masking autism, as the more nuanced traits are discussed.

RESOURCES

⚡️ want more on this topic? listen to Dr. Donna Henderson's episode on girls (note: this episode was recorded for psychologists / neuropsychologists but still could be a good listen)

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

16 Feb 202498 | why my love life applies to you + your autism parenting journey00:14:37

in this mini episode, Dr. Tay discusses

  1. lessons learned from her dating experience
  2. the importance of vulnerability and growth

RESOURCES

⚡️ No Bad Parts by Richard Schwartz

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.

DISCLAIMER >> anything shared on this podcast should not be considered clinical advice, and you should consult with your team of medical, mental health, and developmental providers if you need support.

08 Feb 20239 | goodbye to status quo: lessons and insights inspired by my personal evolution (part 1)00:34:51

join the evolve Facebook community to participate in the weekly Q+A >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

are you the type of person who likes to see the behind the scenes? and get to know the person behind the professional?

one year is all it took to put myself on a completely different trajectory. this week, we'll explore the lessons and insights inspired by my personal evolution in becoming a clinical psychologist that focuses on children and autism. and i'll walk through the career pivots I've made to create intentional space for parents of autistic children to have more support.

this episode will help you: 

  • get to know me from the point of my career. dive into my training, my previous job as a researcher and academic, and why I launched the dr. tay brand.
  • hear some of my biggest lessons and insights I share with families.
  • empower you to change the status quo in your life.


learn more about my Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered >> drtaylorday.com

other places you can learn from me >>

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TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

27 Mar 2024106 | insights from autistic voices: the Aut2Ask survey00:51:26

Dr. Tay and Elizabeth Duttera from @aut2ask discuss:

  1. Elizabeth's personal advocacy sparked by her late diagnosis and how individual stories can highlight broader issues within the autism community.
  2. insights from the Aut2Ask survey
  3. struggles with accessing affordable support and the necessity for systemic and policy changes to provide better resources for autistic individuals.

RESOURCES

⚡️ complete the Aut2Ask Survey

⚡️ connect with Elizabeth >>

Instagram @aut2ask

X @aut2ask 

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

22 Dec 202389 | my candid thoughts as an autism sibling on fairness00:13:15

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in a candid, impromptu episode of her podcast, I address a social media video that portrays being a sibling of a neurodivergent child as unfair. while I acknowledge the challenges of parenting autistic children, I offer a different perspective based on my personal experience as a sibling and my professional insight. I discuss the importance of seeing the beauty in diversity, focusing on quality over quantity of time, and fostering empathy, resilience and advocacy skills among all children. I encourages parents to start dialogues about neurodiversity within their homes and emphasize that the goal should not be about achieving fairness but about being mindful and present for each child’s unique needs.

RESOURCES

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

16 Oct 2024137 | understanding trauma-informed care with Rachel Archambault @ptsd.slp01:00:52

⚠️ DISCLAIMER >> this episode dives into trauma-informed care but highly sensitive topics are discussed, including Rachel’s personal experiences with a nationally publicized traumatic event while working at a school in 2018

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In this podcast episode, Dr. Tay hosts Rachel Archambault, a speech-language pathologist specializing in trauma informed practices. They delve into the definition of trauma informed care, its importance in neurodiversity affirming practices, and how trauma can impact autistic individuals and their families. Rachel shares her personal experience with trauma, highlighting how professionals and parents can proactively adopt trauma informed approaches. The episode also covers practical tips for discussing traumatic events with children and ensuring that care providers are sensitive to trauma. Resources like the NASP guidelines and social stories are recommended for further support.

00:00 Introduction and Theme Overview

02:41 Guest Introduction: Rachel Archambault

03:41 Rachel's Traumatic Experience

07:03 Impact and Aftermath of Trauma

10:42 Trauma Informed Care in Schools

14:17 Supporting Children Through Trauma

16:48 Collaborative Efforts and Resources

23:26 Drills and Trauma: A Delicate Balance

31:00 Big T vs Little T Trauma

32:17 Understanding PTSD and Trauma Symptoms

33:31 Personal Experiences with Trauma

33:54 Listening and Validating Trauma

35:02 Trauma in Autism and Communication Challenges

36:03 Bodily Autonomy and Abuse Risks

38:54 Trauma Informed Care: Key Elements

47:49 Recognizing and Preventing Trauma

54:22 Proactive Trauma Informed Approaches

57:04 Resources and Final Thoughts

RESOURCES

⚡️ connect with Rachel

Instagram @ptsd.slp

Facebook @ptsd.slp

LinkedIn @rachel-archambault

Website: www.ptsdslp.com

Email: rachel@ptsdslp.com

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

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*please note:

1) in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most.

2) PDA is referenced in this episode. it is a theorized profile of autism and not a clinical diagnosis. however, it has been a helpful conceptualization for many parents to...

05 Apr 202317 | all things sleep with sleep consultant Courtney Zentz00:45:00

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does your child struggle with sleep?

sleep is such a foundational piece to brain development, it is essential for mental health, and, yes, many autistic children struggle with falling and staying sleeping.

this week, I'm joined by Courtney Zentz, pediatric sleep expert and certified sleep coach. Courtney shares her personal experiences with postpartum anxiety and depression and how she got into helping parents create better sleep routines and environments for kids with sleep difficulties.

this episode will help you: 

  • understand some of the reasoning behind sleep difficulties in children
  • gain tips and tricks for how to tackle nighttime and sleep
  • understand how you can work on this at home, but also know when support is needed

follow Tiny Transitions for more information and help with sleep @tinytransitions or visit tinytransitions.com.

more resources from Courtney mentioned in this episode >>

Freebie Resource Library: https://tinytransitions.com/learn/ 

Free Preliminary Sleep Assessment: https://tinytransitions.com/contact_sleep_consultant 

connect with Raline Sexton, autism sleep specialist: https://tinytransitions.com/slumber-squad/raline/ 


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21 Jun 202332 | did TV make my child autistic?00:23:43

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the short answer: TV did NOT make your child autistic!

on this episode, Dr. Tay explores the idea of how TV can be beneficial for autistic children and their families, and how to leverage it in a way that promotes development. we also discuss why TV did not make your child autistic and why we need to stop parent shaming and creating guilt with this misinformation.

RESOURCES

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

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29 Jan 2025152 | how US policy updates impact the neurodiversity movement00:43:15

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Dr. Tay shares a real-time update on US policy changes and their impact for autistic individuals and neurodiversity affirming supports. This episode was recorded and published on Jan 29th, 2025 and addresses topics such as DEI, Medicaid, NIH, gender recognition, ICE, and Elon Musk. This episode is not intended to be a news source but instead encourages you to stay informed and presents the implications for the neurodiversity affirming movement. If you feel passionate about neurodiversity and autistic supports, this is a must-listen.

RESOURCES

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

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12 Mar 2025159 | understanding apraxia and its connections to autism with Jordan LeVan @fightingformyvoice01:02:55

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In this episode, Dr. Tay discusses apraxia with Jordan Levan, a disability advocate and founder of The Apraxia Foundation. They explore the differences between apraxia and dyspraxia, signs and symptoms, and the importance of early diagnosis. Jordan shares his personal journey with childhood apraxia of speech, the types of therapeutic approaches available, and how to integrate neurodiversity affirming approaches into therapeutic supports. They also talk about the resources and support provided by The Apraxia Foundation, specifically AAC devices and speech therapy services, emphasizing a comprehensive understanding of each child’s needs.

00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview

00:40 Meet Jordan LeVan: Disability Advocate

02:59 Jordan's Personal Journey with Apraxia

04:06 Challenges and Advocacy in Childhood

07:10 Speech Therapy and Treatment Approaches

15:29 Understanding Apraxia and Its Types

23:11 Dyspraxia Explained

31:56 Understanding Co-Occurring Conditions with Childhood Apraxia

32:29 The Importance of Knowing Your Child's Full Disability Profile

32:47 Personal Experiences with Late Diagnoses

34:11 The Impact of Historical Treatment of Disabilities on Parents' Fears

36:58 The Role of Comprehensive Evaluations in Diagnosing Childhood Apraxia

41:54 Challenges in Diagnosing Childhood Apraxia in Autistic Children

44:37 Therapeutic Approaches for Childhood Apraxia

48:53 The Importance of Consent in Speech Therapy

56:37 Introduction to the Apraxia Foundation

01:00:50 Connecting with the Apraxia Foundation and Final Thoughts

RESOURCES

⚡️ connect with Jordan on Instagram @fightingformyvoice and visit his website

⚡️ learn about his nonprofit @theapraxiafoundation and visit the website

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

⚡️ continue learning from me and submit any questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

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05 Feb 2025153 | a new era of pediatric care with Dr. Mona Amin @pedsdoctalk00:49:07

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In this episode, Dr. Tay, a licensed child psychologist and parental coach, speaks with Dr. Mona Amin, a board-certified pediatrician known for her social media presence as PedsDocTalk. They discuss critical aspects of navigating the journey of raising an autistic child, including effective strategies for interacting with pediatricians, advocating for necessary accommodations, and understanding the nuances of autism diagnosis. Dr. Mona shares insights on the importance of continual learning for clinicians and collaboration between professionals and parents. The conversation also addresses handling common challenges such as anxiety, behavioral issues, and medical fears in autistic children. This episode is a valuable resource for parents and professionals alike, providing practical tips and underscoring the significance of empathy and communication in pediatric care.

00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction

00:31 Meet Dr. Mona Amin

02:50 Dr. Mona's Online Education Journey

05:32 Navigating Autism Diagnosis

07:44 State Differences in Autism Diagnosis

10:58 Screening Tools and Challenges

15:11 Parental Advocacy and Pediatrician Collaboration

19:27 Collaborations and Resources

25:38 Accommodations for Autistic Patients

26:28 Understanding Accommodations for Autistic Children

26:57 Creating a Low-Stim Environment

27:50 Effective Communication with Autistic Children

28:28 Handling Medical Procedures with Care

31:47 Addressing Anxiety and Medical Fears

32:18 Role-Playing and Preparation at Home

33:04 Strategies for Reducing Stress in Medical Settings

34:31 Training Medical Staff for Better Care

40:08 Procedures and Special Considerations

41:26 Addressing Sleep, Feeding, and Behavior Issues

47:10 Final Thoughts and Resources

RESOURCES

⚡️ continue learning and connecting with Dr. Mona @pedsdoctalk on Instagram, TikTok, YouTube, podcast, and her website.

⚡️ watch Dr. Mona and Andi Putt @mrsspeechiep's YouTube video on autism characteristics and signs here.

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

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11 Aug 202354 | understanding and managing aggressive behavior Q+A00:16:56

answering YOUR questions on today's episode!

Q: how do I deal with my child's aggression when our attempts aren't working?

A: Dr. Tay starts off the episode urging parents to understand the function of aggression - that it is a form of communication and may serve as a form of sensory regulation for your autistic child. she provides tips and strategies beyond traditional behavioral approaches and emphasizes the importance of modeling what you want your child to do instead. there is also a brief discussion around the pathological demand avoidance (PDA) profile.

RESOURCES

⚡️ if you have not listened to episode "10 | the ABCs of challenging behavior", you are strongly encouraged to listen to that episode first.

⚡️supplemental episodes referenced in today's podcast are episodes 2, 3, 18, and 41.

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

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LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.

DISCLAIMER >> anything shared on this podcast should not be considered clinical advice, and you should consult with your team of medical, mental health, and developmental providers if you need support.

19 Apr 202319| how to support your non-autistic children in the autism journey00:23:58

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this week's episode is an inspired follow-up to episode 16, where I shared my personal story. I provide three tips for increasing support for your non-autistic children. specifically, we dive into the importance of talking about autism, focusing on quality time, and establishing boundaries for all of your children.

and the prequel to these three steps is to support yourself first (more coming soon on the podcast!). in the meantime, learn more about how your brain thinks. by doing so, you can begin to shift your sabotaging thought patterns to ones that serve you. take the free habits of thinking assessment and we can set up a free call to review your results.

want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered >> drtaylorday.com or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you would like to schedule a consult call.

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18 Sep 202370 | why we need to always presume competence00:15:12

in this mini episode, Dr. Tay delves into the transformative concept of presuming competence in autistic children, highlighting the profound effect our expectations and assumptions can have on their development and growth. it explores real-life stories and experiences, showing how the lack of presumed competence can limit a child's potential and create barriers to inclusion. the episode ends by urging listeners to continually challenge their thinking about autism and competence, emphasizing that every child's potential should be seen, nurtured, and heard.

RESOURCES

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.

DISCLAIMER >> anything shared on this podcast should not be considered clinical advice, and you should consult with your team of medical, mental health, and developmental providers if you need support.

22 May 2024115 | PDA and IEPs: bridging the gap between home and school for autistic learners00:52:24

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Dr. Tay, Jessica Hanzo, and Lisa Baskin Wright discuss:

  1. navigating the IEP process
  2. working with your child's school to have a shared understanding of PDA (pathological demand avoidance), a theorized profile of autism
  3. proposing appropriate accommodations and support strategies for PDA learners

RESOURCES

⚡️ keep learning and purchase the course Supporting PDA Learners: Centering Connection, Autonomy and Equality in the IEP Process 

⚡️ connect with Jessica Hanzo, LMFT on Instagram @pda.project and visit her website

⚡️ connect with Lisa Basking Wright, IEP coach on Instagram @lisabaskinwright, on Facebook, and visit her website

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

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TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

*please note: PDA is a theorized profile of autism and not a clinical diagnosis. however, it has been a helpful conceptualization for many parents to learn about how their child's brain is wired. our knowledge of PDA is currently unfolding and I do my best to share up-to-date, balanced information. to learn more about PDA, please listen to episode 110

13 Sep 2024131 | the privilege of choice: nuanced discussion around ABA00:17:28

Dr. Tay shares a mini-episode where she dives into the complexities and controversies surrounding Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA) therapy in the autism field. She presents a balanced perspective on ABA, emphasizing the importance of informed consent and considering the diverse needs and privileges of families. Dr. Tay also highlights different neurodiversity affirming modalities under the ABA umbrella, upcoming podcast guests, and her own experiences, urging the need for more nuanced conversations in the field.

00:00 Introduction and Personal Update

00:52 Welcome to the Parenting Space

01:05 Diving into ABA Therapy

01:22 Controversies and Perspectives on ABA

01:41 Upcoming Podcast Guests and Topics

04:55 Informed Decision-Making for Families

05:42 Advocating for Neurodiversity Affirming Practices

07:06 Changing the Field from the Inside Out

08:55 Accessibility Issues in Neurodiversity Affirming Therapy

09:18 Challenges in Child Care for Working Parents

10:02 Intersectionality and Racial Perspectives in ABA

11:05 Safety and Compliance for Non-White Children

12:08 Balancing Family Needs and Therapy Approaches

12:43 Open Dialogue and Future Conversations

13:34 Supporting Families Through Free Resources and Memberships

14:47 Encouraging Informed Consent and Advocacy

15:37 Conclusion and Future Episodes

RESOURCES

⚡️ listen to episodes 26, 59, and 128, which further discuss ABA and varying approaches. and check out the Making the Shift episode on ABA that inspired this episode!

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

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⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.

DISCLAIMER >> anything shared on this podcast should not be considered clinical advice, and you should consult with your team of medical, mental health, and developmental providers if you need support.

07 Aug 2024126 | AAC part 2 with speech therapist Rachel Madel00:49:36

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Dr. Tay and Rachel Madel, a speech language pathologist specializing in AAC, dive into the benefits of Augmentative and Alternative Communication (AAC) for autistic children, both non-speaking and verbally fluent children. They dispel common misconceptions about AAC, discuss various high-tech and low-tech AAC tools, and emphasize the importance of modeling and integrating AAC into daily routines. They also explore the impact of AAC on motor planning, literacy, and overall communication skills. Rachel shares practical tips for parents starting the AAC journey, highlights the significance of robust systems, and challenges the use of PECS. The episode includes insights on how technology can enhance communication, even among children with well-developed spoken language, and offers various resources for further learning.

00:00 Introduction to AAC and Its Importance

00:47 Meet Rachel Madel: AAC Specialist

02:34 Understanding AAC: Tools and Techniques

06:07 The Role of Technology in AAC

09:37 Starting the AAC Journey: Tips for Parents

14:21 Addressing Misconceptions About AAC

19:57 Motor Planning Challenges: Apraxia vs. Dyspraxia

26:08 Popular AAC Apps and Tools

30:01 The Importance of Core Words in AAC

30:20 Grammar and Literacy in AAC Systems

31:04 Modifying AAC Systems

32:54 Motivating Children to Use AAC

36:04 The Role of Modeling in AAC

39:00 Why Not PECS?

43:54 Introducing AAC to Verbal Children

46:46 Resources and Final Thoughts

RESOURCES

⚡️ connect with Rachel on Instagram @rachelmadelslp, find resources on her website www.rachelmadel.com, and listen to her podcast Talking with Tech

⚡️ get on the waitlist for Rachel's course, AAC Ally

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14 Aug 2024127 | launching “EVOLVE the membership”: in-depth neurodiversity affirming education + support00:35:48

👉🏼 ENROLL NOW >> http://drtaylorday.com/membership

If you find value in this podcast and want even more support, tune in to learn about “EVOLVE the membership.” This new membership offers a lower-cost, flexible alternative to traditional clinical services, designed to provide accessible support and education for autism families. I share personal insights about my journey from academia to entrepreneurship, the challenges faced in balancing multiple roles, and the motivation behind creating this membership. Making this launch happen even while I’m in Europe (and truthfully it feels quite sentimental!).

What’s included in the membership:

⚡️a comprehensive video library

⚡️community support

⚡️expert masterclasses

⚡️ resources

⚡️and if you’re a founding member, you get the opportunity to shape what’s in the membership and what I create.

👉🏼 MORE DETAIL HERE + ENROLL NOW >> http://drtaylorday.com/membership

00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview

00:32 Launching a New Membership

02:24 Personal Journey and Professional Growth

04:42 Challenges and Expanding Services

06:51 The Evolve Membership Details

09:46 Balancing Personal and Professional Life

12:02 Advocacy and Real-Life Stories

18:03 Membership Benefits and Pricing

31:35 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

17 May 202323 | overcoming the obligation cycle as a parent of an autistic child00:25:29

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are you in obligation as a parent of an autistic child?

you deserve to not feel constant stress as a parent. yes, you have extra responsibilities as an autism parent but these don’t have to create a feeling of obligation.

in this episode, we're exploring the difference between obligation vs. responsibilities and how your thoughts about your to-do list affect the way you feel and therefore affect the way you take action.

this episode will help you learn:

  • the steps and stages of the obligation cycle
  • how you can start to make changes to get yourself out of the cycle
  • three strategies you can implement on a day-to-day basis

want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? >> schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.


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03 May 202321 | the 3 key components that make up quality autism care: what I believe your family deserves!00:32:53

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have you ever asked yourself if your autistic child is getting the highest quality care? if you should be doing more? if what you are doing is best for your child?

in this episode, we're talking about the components of autism care to help you understand what to advocate for in terms of your child, yourself, and your family. I'm giving you a look behind the scenes and what I believe is essential for a high level of care for neurodivergent children and their families so you, too, know what to look for and where to advocate for more support.

this episode will help you learn:

  • the concepts of evidence-based care and neurodiversity affirming care
  • why the work you do outside of your sessions is the most important piece
  • what you can do if you feel you're not getting the right support for your child or family

want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? >> schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.

book referenced in this episode >> An Early Start for Your Young Child with Autism


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28 Jun 202335 | unlocking better healthcare for neurodivergent children with developmental behavioral pediatricians Dr. Ayesha Cheema-Hasan and Dr. Angelica Robles00:36:34

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on today's episode, I am joined by developmental behavioral pediatricians Dr. Ayesha Cheema-Hasan and Dr. Angelica Robles of Coralis Health. we are aligned in our missions to provide high- quality care for families with neurodivergent children and to address system-wide issues in accessing autism care.

we discuss the importance of advocating for your child and trusting your gut, as well as the roles of various medical professionals in diagnosing and providing intervention for autism. listen in as we touch on the differences between pediatricians and developmental behavioral pediatricians, the autism evaluation process, and medication vs. behavioral management.

CHAPTERS

(0:00:00) - introduction and the field of developmental behavioral pediatrics

(0:12:36) - the importance of advocating for your child and the role of various providers in diagnosing and treating neurodevelopmental disorders

(0:20:48) - accessing evidence-based care, details about the evaluation process, and the importance of understanding transition points in a child's life

(0:28:39) - the role of medication and specialists in working with autistic youth.

RESOURCES

⚡️learn more about Coralis Health and Drs. Cheema-Hasan and Robles' mission >> coralishealth.us

⚡️connect on Instagram with Coralis Health, Dr. Ayesha Cheema-Hasan @devpedsmd, and Dr. Angelica Robles @developmentalpedsdoc

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

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10 Jul 202340 | the two key (but possibly missing) components of effective intervention00:10:09

in this mini episode, Dr. Tay shares two critical components your child needs to effectively benefit from intervention - regulation and engagement. we review different forms of dysregulation and discuss the importance of engagement for learning. practical tips and personal anecdotes from Dr. Tay's work as a child psychologist are shared.

RESOURCES

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

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TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.

DISCLAIMER >> anything shared on this podcast should not be considered clinical advice, and you should consult with your team of medical, mental health, and developmental providers if you need support.

27 Nov 2024144 | REPLAY of “preparing for the holiday season: mindful approaches and tips for families with autistic children”00:30:29

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in this episode, Dr. Tay talks about helpful tips and strategies for autism families navigating the holiday season. we discuss the importance of preparing for potential disruptions to routines, setting realistic expectations, giving choices, and setting boundaries. Dr. Tay addresses several elements including helping your child anticipate upcoming events, being mindful of safe foods, empowering your child by involving them in the process, and handling comments from others. there is an emphasis on the importance of being present during these moments and cherishing the progress that your child has made since the last holiday season.

RESOURCES

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

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21 Dec 20222 | regulating your emotions and supporting your child's emotional development: part 100:23:38

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have you ever noticed that when your child is emotionally dysregulated, you have less patience or you feel more on edge? the answer is not to shove down your feelings and move on. in this episode - part 1 of an in-depth conversation - we'll explore how as a parent of an autistic child effective emotional processing starts with you.

this episode will help you: 

  • understand co-regulation and how children learn effective emotion regulation
  • explore reasons for greater emotion dysregulation in autistic children than in their neurotypical peers
  • examine real-life scenarios on how emotion dysregulation may show up for your child and how your reactions may exacerbate it

sign up for the masterclass on emotion regulation here (launching in January 2023)

learn more about my Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered >> email me at taylor@drtaylorday.com


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23 Aug 202359 | early intervention: harnessing the power of parents and redefining success00:38:41

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this episode is aimed at redefining what early intervention for young autistic children can look like, with a shift from trying to "cure" autism to instead supporting and affirming neurodivergence. we dive into leveraging Naturalistic Developmental Behavioral Interventions (NDBIs) to accomplish that goal.

the presented approaches emphasize the effectiveness of parental involvement and how to embed learning into everyday activities, and are an alternative to the more widely known yet controversial ABA (check out episode 26 for more information on this). strategies shared are centered on engagement and connection with your autistic child, such as staying within the child's attentional zone, using imitation for language development, and narrating the child's activities. emphasis is also placed on acknowledging all forms of communication, slowing down to give children time to think and process, and providing neurodivergent affirming care.

RESOURCES

⚡️book and corresponding website referenced:

An Early Start for Your Young Child with Autism

Help Is In Your Hands

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.

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05 Jul 202338 | redefining {autism} parenting through Human Design with Allison Cullen00:47:51

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in this episode, Dr. Tay and guest Allison Cullen (@youdowoo), take listeners on an in-depth exploration of Human Design - a unique blend of biochemistry, genetics, chakras, energy (through the role of neutrinos), and personality. the discussion unfolds to reveal how understanding Human Design can transform parenting and family dynamics. Allison explains the 5 different energy types that can equip parents to understand themselves and to connect with their children on a deeper level. the episode touches upon the emerging paradigm in which neurodivergence and energy communication will be even more prevalent, and how the science of Human Design can help individuals redefine themselves, their passions, and their relationships.

CHAPTERS

0:03:51 - an introduction to Human Design and the science behind it

0:10:46 - the 5 different energy types and applications to parenting

0:28:53 - how Human Design relates to autism and the unfolding paradigm shift (including for non-speaking autistic individuals)

0:41:25 - parenting yourself

RESOURCES

⚡️grab your free Human Design chart & cheat sheet here: https://youdowoo.mykajabi.com/human-design-cheat-sheet

⚡️to dive in even further, book a 60-minute HD reading with Allison (use the code DRTAY20 for 20% off): https://youdowoo.mykajabi.com/60-minute-human-design-reading

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

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27 Dec 202390 | reflecting on 2023 and prepping for 2024 as an autism parent00:40:53

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in this episode, Dr. Tay discusses reflecting on 2023 and prepping for 2024. she emphasizes the importance of self-reflection, setting realistic and progressive goals, and taking inventory of strengths and support needs for oneself and your autistic child. she talks about her own personal journey, shares the most popular episodes of her podcast for the past year, and her ongoing learning from professionals and Autistic voices alike. the discussion also delves into challenges faced in the previous year and how they shape resilience. Dr. Tay concludes by highlighting the need to be more intentional, to live in alignment with one's values, and to focus on internal measurements of success. she also shares some sneak peeks of what is to come in 2024 for her practice.

RESOURCES

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

26 Apr 202320 | dietary supports with naturopath Dr. Nina-Marie Rueda00:39:01

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have you ever wondered if you need to be changing your child's diet once they've been diagnosed as autistic? how do you know when dietary supports are needed?

in this episode, I sit down with Dr. Nina-Marie Rueda, a naturopath and nutritional expert who works with families of neurodivergent children. in our conversation, we get into the nitty gritty on myths and truths about dietary recommendations for autistic children, the importance of a healthy conversations around food and mealtime, and common problems that may result from nutritional and physiological imbalances.

this episode will help you learn:

  • the definition of a naturopath and what health factors are assessed by naturopathic doctors
  • theories on dietary shifts to best support neurodivergent children
  • a breakdown of what different nutritional tests mean and example recommendations for dietary changes for maximum nutritional benefit

connect with Dr. Nina-Marie on Instagram @doctorninamarie.

want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered >> drtaylorday.com or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you would like to schedule a consult call.

other places you can learn from me >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay


*please note: in this episode, both identity-first (autistic child) and person-first language (child with autism / ASD) are used. although as clinicians and practitioners we are slowly learning to shift our language and take the lead from the autistic community, the stance of this podcast is that we ultimately want to honor what each child and family prefer. Dr. Nina-Marie shares her perspective as a parent as well as some of the families she has worked with.

22 Nov 202383 | preparing for the holiday season: mindful approaches and tips for families with autistic children00:28:32

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in this episode, Dr. Tay talks about helpful tips and strategies for autism families navigating the holiday season. we discuss the importance of preparing for potential disruptions to routines, setting realistic expectations, giving choices, and setting boundaries. Dr. Tay addresses several elements including helping your child anticipate upcoming events, being mindful of safe foods, empowering your child by involving them in the process, and handling comments from others. there is an emphasis on the importance of being present during these moments and cherishing the progress that your child has made since the last holiday season.

RESOURCES

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

10 May 202322 | physical therapy and autism with Cynthia Hughell00:29:58

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have you ever wondered what physical therapy addresses?

in this episode, I'm speaking to physical therapist Cynthia Hughell about the ins and outs of physical therapy for autistic children. we discuss different areas that can be addressed and understand how to best support your child's body to avoid physical stress and strain.

this episode will help you learn:

  • about developmental milestones and when to seek physical therapy for your child
  • common areas physical therapists address in sessions with autistic children
  • a physical therapist's approach to toe walking
  • what parents can do outside of physical therapy sessions

connect with Cynthia on TikTok @vidakidstherapy for more free physical therapy content.

want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? >> schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.


other places you can learn from me >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay


*please note: in this episode, both identity-first (autistic child) and person-first language (child with autism / ASD) are used. although as clinicians and practitioners we are slowly learning to shift our language and take the lead from the autistic community, the stance of this podcast is that we ultimately want to honor what each child and family prefer.

25 Sep 202373 | harnessing the power of YET00:13:34

in this mini episode, Dr. Tay explores the transformative power of "yet" in parenting an autistic child. discover the power of 'yet' as a tool for staying present, believing in your child's potential, and reducing worry. as an action item, you are encouraged to journal your current worries and shift them to include "yet."

RESOURCES

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.

DISCLAIMER >> anything shared on this podcast should not be considered clinical advice, and you should consult with your team of medical, mental health, and developmental providers if you need support.

13 Dec 20221 | why this podcast is needed00:30:10

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recent research shows that one in 44 children are autistic, meaning as parents, many of you are looking for support specific to your autistic child. evolve with dr. tay is designed to be a source for reliable and reputable information for autism parents that is easy to understand. 

this episode will help you: 

  • understand the diagnostic process and the limitations of current resources
  • address your emotions as a parent
  • learn how to sort through advice to find valuable and accurate information
  • be proactive in getting what you need to serve your autistic child, your family, and yourself

and this is just the introduction to the podcast... so much more to come!

learn more about my Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered >> email me at taylor@drtaylorday.com

other places you can learn from me >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

08 Sep 202366 | "I'm feeling depressed" Q+A: unmasking the silent battle for autism parents00:14:42

answering YOUR questions on today's episode! or really the unasked question of how do I deal with depression and anxiety as a parent of an autistic kiddo? this conversation is intended that remind you that you are not alone in your experiences, dispel stigmas around seeking mental health support, and offer practical advice on getting help.

RESOURCES

⚡️ check out episode 44 where my mom shares about navigating her experience with anxiety and depression

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.

DISCLAIMER >> anything shared on this podcast should not be considered clinical advice, and you should consult with your team of medical, mental health, and developmental providers if you need support.

16 Aug 202356 | a culinary adventure: how cooking can help autistic children with Chef Sofya Stearns00:27:37

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Dr. Tay welcomes Sofya Stearns, founder of Izabella's Gourmet Chow, to the podcast to share her journey of using cooking as a means to explore cultures, support autistic children, and promote healthy eating. Sofya also shares tips on making cooking fun and safe for kids, such as using plastic knives and transforming ordinary foods into extraordinary creations. throughout the episode, she emphasizes the importance of making cooking a fun exploration and a journey rather than just a task.

RESOURCES

⚡️ learn about Izabella's Gourmet Chow and virtual cooking classes for your child.

⚡️ connect with Chef Sofya on social media, including 5 recipes she put together for you >>

Instagram @izabellasgourmetchow

TikTok @izabellasgourmetchow

Facebook Izabella's Gourmet Chow

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

*please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most.

11 Sep 2024130 | navigating fatherhood and autism with Rob Gorski00:59:33

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In this episode, Dr. Tay welcomes Rob Gorski, known as The Autism Dad on social media, to discuss his experience as a father raising three autistic children. They explore the unique challenges and opportunities of fatherhood in the autism community, the grief process associated with diagnoses, and the importance of leaning into emotions. Rob shares his journey of starting a blog, the evolving support needs of his children, and the importance of self-care and mental health for parents. They also discuss the societal expectations for dads and the need for more inclusive and supportive conversations around fatherhood and autism.

00:00 Introduction and Today's Special Guest

00:58 Dr. Tay's Background and Podcast Mission

02:01 Rob Gorski's Family and Autism Journey

03:22 Challenges and Insights on Autism Diagnoses

08:48 Support Needs and Progress of Rob's Children

12:42 Navigating Parenting and Personal Challenges

13:39 The Role of Dads in Autism Parenting

18:05 Emotional Struggles and Mental Health

28:38 Understanding the Impact of Parental Emotions

29:34 Embracing Imperfection in Parenting

31:10 Navigating Social Media and External Judgments

32:54 The Importance of Repair and Recovery

34:50 Challenging Parenting Norms and Expectations

39:03 Advocating for Your Child's Needs

44:06 The Power of Vulnerability and Self-Care

48:33 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

RESOURCES

⚡️ connect with Rob on Instagram @theautismdad and on his website

⚡️ listen to our recent episode on Rob's podcast about autism in girls

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

*please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language they have been exposed to the most.

25 Aug 202360 | DR. TAY'S BIRTHDAY EPISODE: hope, acceptance, and personal growth without a crystal ball00:27:28

in this personal and reflective episode, Dr. Tay shares her journey and growth as she approaches her 34th birthday. she discusses her experiences as a single woman and her dedication to helping families of neurodivergent children despite not having any of her own. drawing parallels from her own life, she introduces the concept of a crystal ball and reasons that knowing the future will not actually give us the peace we desire. through her introspective dialogue, she underscores the importance of accepting uncertainties, finding hope, and not letting worries 'hijack' our present joys. this episode will hit home if you have worries about your autistic child's future!

RESOURCES

⚡️ if you want to give me a birthday present, share an episode on your social media (and tag me!) and/or leave a 5-star review! THANK YOU 🩷

⚡️book referenced in the episode >> No Bad Parts by Richard Schwartz, PhD

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered, including group therapy? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

22 Mar 202315 | the emotional journey of getting an autism diagnosis with Chelsea Farmer00:48:59

[please note: some explicit language is used in this episode so please be aware if you're listening around children.]

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are you in the diagnosis process right now and that process is really long and extended? maybe you're in the stages of first concerns or you're even post-diagnosis, and you're asking yourself, "now what?"

in this episode, I'm joined by Chelsea Farmer, an autism parent with a passion for sharing her life and encouraging others who are on their own autism journeys. we discuss our shared goals to normalize the emotions that arise throughout the diagnosis process and the healing that can follow.

this episode will help you: 

  • identify how to navigate early concerns and the diagnostic process
  • highlight many of the emotions that parents commonly experience throughout the autism journey
  • learn how to shift to a healing and acceptance journey post-diagnosis

Chelsea is someone who is willing to share so openly and remind others they are not alone in this journey and I am blessed to be able to share our conversation. follow Chelsea for more autism experiences and encouragement on Instagram @chelseamfnfarmer.


in this episode, I mention my diagnostic services and my group coaching program to support autism parents! to learn more about these services, DM me or email at admin@drtaylorday.com.

other places you can learn from me >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

15 Dec 202387 | staying present in the midst of hardships: my personal story applied to autism parenting00:33:37

in this mini episode, I discuss my journey of unexpectedly navigating my dog Charlotte's cancer diagnosis, paralleling it with lessons for an autism parenting journey. I discuss the importance of 'living in the present moment' by constantly grounding oneself in available data and of accepting and acknowledging emotions instead of suppressing them. I share my personal experience dealing with anticipatory anxiety and how I have been countering it with grounding practices. I remind you to trust the process, enjoy life's moments despite challenges, and to remember that it's okay not to have everything together all the time and how that doesn't make anyone less of a person or parent.

13 Nov 2024141 | building inclusive and sensory-friendly classrooms to promote regulation and learning00:53:52

In this episode, Dr. Tay invites Alyssa Campbell of Seed & Sew to discuss the importance of supporting autistic students at a classroom-wide level, particularly focusing on their nervous system and sensory regulation. Alyssa, with her extensive background in early childhood education and emotional development, shares insights and practical strategies for creating sensory-friendly environments and understanding individual sensory profiles. They explore the benefits of proactive versus reactive strategies in educational settings, the vital role of teachers and parents in advocating for proper supports, and the importance of normalizing neurodiverse needs to foster inclusive learning spaces for all students. The episode is filled with actionable insights that are beneficial for educators, parents, and anyone involved in the care and development of autistic children.

00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview

00:48 Meet Alyssa Campbell: Expert in Emotional Development

01:58 Dr. Tay's Background and Mission

03:33 Alyssa's Journey and Collaborative Emotion Processing Method

04:12 Understanding Sensory Regulation and Nervous System

18:00 Practical Applications in the Classroom

20:34 Supporting Sensory Needs in Education

25:19 Parental and Teacher Collaboration

25:58 Understanding Early Childhood Sensory Responses

27:17 Proactive Strategies in Schools

35:13 Supporting Teachers and Parents

38:32 Managing Diverse Needs in the Classroom

45:55 The Role of Occupational Therapy

49:26 Resources and Final Thoughts

RESOURCES

⚡️check out Alyssa and her parent-friendly resources, including the sensory quiz here: https://www.seedandsew.org/parents

⚡️check out her resources for teachers and schools, including her certification here: https://www.seedandsew.org/seedcertificationteachers

⚡️follow her on Instagram @seed.and.sew and listen to her podcast Voices of Your Village

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

*please note: PDA is referenced in this episode. it is a theorized profile of autism and not a clinical diagnosis. however, it has been a helpful conceptualization for many parents to learn about how their child's brain is wired. our knowledge of PDA is currently unfolding and I do my best to share up-to-date, balanced information. to learn more about PDA, please listen to episode 110

24 Apr 2024110 | what is PDA?00:54:03

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Dr. Tay provides an introduction to PDA (pathological demand avoidance, also known as persistent or pervasive drive for autonomy). In this episode, we discuss:

  1. what PDA is as a theorized profile of autism
  2. varying perspectives about PDA
  3. co-occurring conditions and their overlap with PDA
  4. support strategies and how to continue learning

RESOURCES

⚡️ download my free PDA guide

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

30 Oct 2024139 | all things psychiatry: a follow-up Q+A with Dr. Arielle Rubin00:44:47

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In this podcast episode, Dr. Tay welcomes back Dr. Arielle Rubin, a triple board certified psychiatrist, to discuss the role of psychiatry for autistic children with co-occurring mental health conditions. This is a follow-up to episode 94, where Dr. Rubin answers parent-submitted questions.

00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview

00:15 Recap of Episode 94

00:53 Challenges in Psychiatry

01:12 Disclaimer and Podcast Purpose

02:25 Welcome Dr. Arielle Rubin

02:38 Dr. Arielle Rubin's Background

03:57 Breaking the Status Quo in Psychiatry

04:22 Community Support for Families

06:18 Diving into Parent Questions

06:51 Stimulant Medication for ADHD

11:11 Alternatives to Atypical Antipsychotics

14:55 When to Consider Psychiatry

20:08 Tips for Discussing PDA with Psychiatry

23:24 Genesight Testing for Kids

27:42 Considering Mental Health Programs

29:09 Inpatient Psychiatry: When and Why

30:53 Residential Treatment Centers

32:04 Intensive Outpatient Programs and Partial Hospitalization

35:19 Medications for Rumination and Aggression

39:36 Medications to Avoid and Supplement Interactions

42:53 Final Thoughts and Resources

RESOURCES

⚡️ listen to episode 94 on Apple or Spotify

⚡️ follow Dr. Rubin on Instagram, join the Autism Roadmaps Community, and sign-up for her newsletter

⚡️ download the Supplement Guide for Autism and Mental Health referenced in the episode

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

*please note:

1) in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most.

2) PDA is referenced in this episode. it is a theorized profile of autism and not a clinical diagnosis. however, it has been a helpful conceptualization for many parents to learn about how their child's brain is wired. our knowledge...

19 Jun 2024119 | navigating neurodiversity and inclusion in education with Chandele Morris00:47:59

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Dr. Tay and Chandele Morris, an inclusive educational consultant and author, discuss the barriers in the educational system, the importance of understanding neurodiversity and tangible steps to be better advocates for autistic children. Chandele shares her experiences as a former educator and a parent of an autistic/ADHD child, emphasizing the need for inclusive education and the significance of updating educational training. The episode also highlights practical strategies for creating inclusive classrooms and the role of community and resources in supporting neurodivergent children.

00:00 Introduction to the Educational System and Advocacy

00:41 Meet Chandele Morris, an Inclusive Educational Consultant

02:25 Understanding Neurodiversity in Education

03:29 Challenges in Teacher Training and Awareness

05:45 The Need for Systemic Change in Education

09:24 Inclusion vs. Segregation in Classrooms

15:41 Real-Life Examples and Solutions for Inclusion

27:10 Fidgets and Sensory Breaks in Classrooms

28:01 Inclusive Classroom Practices

29:01 Understanding Neurodivergence in Families

29:38 AAC Devices and Communication

31:24 Teaching Empathy and Inclusion

36:25 Challenges in Changing Educational Systems

41:36 Finding Community and Support

44:06 The Role of Children's Books in Neurodiversity

46:38 Conclusion and Next Steps

RESOURCES

⚡️ connect with Chandele Morris

Instagram @Diversityofminds

TikTok @Diversityofminds  

Facebook @Diversityofminds

⚡️ check out Chandele's books

The Beauty of Us All

I'm Just a Kid: A Social Emotional Book about Self-Regulation

⚡️email Morrishousepublishers@gmail.com to schedule an author visit, professional development, or order bulk copies of books

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

*please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most.

31 Jul 2024125 | AAC part 1 with Lilly's Voice00:47:42

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In this episode, Dr. Tay welcomes Stefanie, the president and co-founder of the nonprofit Lilly's Voice. Stefanie shares the inspiring story of her non-speaking autistic daughter, Lilly, whose journey with augmentative and alternative communication (AAC) devices led to the creation of the nonprofit. Lilly’s Voice provides AAC devices to children who have communication differences for families who cannot access these tools through conventional means, such as through school funding, insurance, or other grant mechanisms. Lilly’s Voice also provides education on AAC. The episode covers the importance of AAC, debunks common myths, and emphasizes best practices for parents to support their children's communication. Stefanie also discusses fundraising efforts and the impactful work of Lilly’s Voice.

00:00 Introduction to Lily's Voice Nonprofit

02:19 Meet Stephanie: The Inspiration Behind Lily's Voice

03:32 The Journey to AAC: Challenges and Discoveries

05:51 Launching Lily's Voice: A Nationwide Nonprofit

08:34 Understanding Apraxia and the Role of AAC

12:11 Debunking Myths About AAC

20:01 Navigating the Process of Acquiring AAC Devices

25:48 How Lily's Voice Supports Families

27:18 App Limitations and Popular Choices

28:02 Guidance for Parents on Choosing Apps

30:20 Personal Experiences with AAC Apps

31:28 Best Practices for AAC Devices

34:55 Learning and Customizing AAC Devices

40:12 Fundraising and Support for Lily's Voice

45:25 Encouragement and Final Thoughts

46:39 Conclusion and Next Steps

RESOURCES

⚡️ learn more about Lilly's Voice, apply for a scholarship, and learn about AAC on their website

⚡️ connect with Stefanie through the nonprofit’s Instagram account @lillysvoice and Lilly’s personal page @afriendforlillybug

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

09 Aug 202353 | SCHOOL IS IN SESSION - PART 2: replay of "autism and special education rights with attorney Ashley Barlow"00:36:55

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I often see in my work as a child psychologist that parents don't understand what their rights are and what their autistic children should be receiving through the educational system.

in this episode, we dive into IDEA, specially designed instruction, IEPs, 504s, and more. we talk specifically about the history of special education and what as a parent you can advocate for. it's important to recognize that a clinical diagnosis isn't the same as an educational diagnosis, so we're going through that educational process with my expert guest, Ashley Barlow, an attorney and former teacher. Ashley also has experience navigating special education as a parent, as her 13-year-old son, Jack, has Down Syndrome.

this episode will help you learn:

  • why the public education system has to provide support for your autistic child
  • the differences between an IEP and a 504 plan
  • interest-based negotiation and knowing your rights as a parent
  • specific steps for how you can advocate for your autistic child

RESOURCES

⚡️ submit your questions for a special upcoming Q+A episode on educational rights and helping your child transition back to school (either via Instagram DMs or the Evolve Facebook group)

⚡️ ways to connect with Ashley >>

learn more about her free and affordable resources at ashleybarlowco.com

follow her on Instagram @ashleybarlowco and Facebook Ashley Barlow Co

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approachᵀᴹ and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email admin@drtaylorday.com if you have questions.

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

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19 Dec 2024147 | my epic fail and where to go from here00:27:06

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇

Dr. Tay discusses the pressures of modern life, the need for human connection, and the importance of being present. She reflects on her experiences from the past year, including her professional milestones and personal growth, emphasizing the importance of celebrating accomplishments instead of always striving for more. Dr. Tay also talks about her upcoming plans, including the highly-anticipated membership launch. As she recaps the year, Dr. Tay invites listeners to focus on their own growth and wins, and to remember that epic fails do not define them, but how they recover and move forward does.

00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview

00:22 Personal Reflections and Social Media Insights

02:19 The Importance of Slowing Down

03:27 Taylor Swift and Personal Growth

07:13 Holiday Season Reflections

10:41 Epic Fail and Business Update

13:33 Neuro Affirming Care and Personal Growth

14:10 Balancing Work and Personal Life

15:00 The Membership Journey

17:17 Reflecting on Achievements and Failures

23:35 Parenting and Personal Development

24:42 Wrapping Up and Looking Forward

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

15 Mar 202314 | q&a: autism levels, finding professionals, and supporting your needs00:45:32

join the evolve Facebook community to participate in the weekly Q+A >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

this week, I'm opening the floor to my community of autism parents. I know there's not always an easy place for parents to ask questions, so we're going to answer a few submissions I received in this episode!

this episode will answer: 

  • what are the levels of autism? should my child have a level? (2:09)
  • how do I find the right speech, sensory, OT, or family therapist? (8:24)
  • what can parents do to support their own needs when childcare is limited? (13:49)
  • when is it appropriate to share your child's autism diagnosis with extended family and friends, particularly on social media? (21:42)
  • what is something you wish every parent with a newly diagnosed child knew? what can I expect walking into my child's evaluation? (33:37)
  • how can I differentiate my child's spectrum behaviors versus when he/she being a kid? (38:05)

find my book recommendation here: Uniquely Human by Dr. Barry Prizant

in this episode, I shared about my group coaching program designed for you! to learn more about this offer or other services I provide, DM me or email at admin@drtaylorday.com.


other places you can learn from me >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

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