Dear Shandy (Sharleen Joynt & Andy Levine)

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Is it a dealbreaker if a guy asks you to Venmo him for your first date together? Is it reasonable to expect your date to be as invested in safe sex as you are? Where's the line between sharing the laughs and respecting your partner? Finally, a beautiful letter written by a Shandy. Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!  Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.prose.com/SHANDY for your free in-depth hair consultation and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order of custom hair care! - Go to https://www.fahertybrand.com/DEARSHANDY and use code DEARSHANDY for 20% off your Spring staples! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get your first dermatology visit for only $5! 0:00 - Q1: My Date Asked Me To Venmo Him Back For Our First Date—Is This Weird? 11:40 - Q2: How Can I Make Sure HIs Parents Like Me? 24:50 - Q3: I'm East Asian And My New Guy Has A History Of Mainly Dating East Asians—Am I Being Fetishized?  38:18 - Q4: Is It Reasonable In A New Relationship To Expect Both Partners To Make An Equal Effort In Protection? 56:37 - Q5: My Boyfriend's Upset I Shared His "Personal Medical Information" With Our Friends—Am I The Asshole? 1:09:49 - A Shandy's Letter If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Shandy is back with your recap of Episode 9 of Katie Thurston’s season of The Bachelorette! Thanks to our sponsors! Visit http://www.hellotushy.com/SHANDY for 10% off and free shipping on your Hello Tushy bidet! Visit http://www.grove.com/SHANDY for a free natural product starter set with your first order! Sharleen is a veteran Bachelor recapper, having recapped for 7 years (!) on her blog, All The Pretty Pandas, and for Flare magazine, since her own appearance on Season 18. Andy, meanwhile, has never watched a full season (this is no joke—he even fast-forwarded through most of Sharleen's own season). But, being married to the "Recap Queen", even he has gleaned a thing or two. Hear Shandy break down Season 17 of The Bachelorette with Sharleen's insider perspective, Andy's unfiltered male perspective, and Shandy's combined analytical minds.  If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! What should you do if you've always dreamed of living elsewhere but your partner has no interest in moving? If your baby name is stolen by someone close to you, is it cause for confrontation? And is refusing to put down the toilet seat a simple act of laziness or a sign of something more? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!  0:00 - Q1: I’m Secretly Dating My Brother’s Friend After He Explicitly Told Me Not To—How Should I Proceed? 7:52 - Q2: I've Long Dreamed Of Moving But My Partner Has No Interest—Help! 21:25 - Q3: My Brother-In-Law Used Our Baby Name For His Dog—Should I Just Get Over It?  51:59 - Q4: My Husband’s Vocal Fry Drives Me Up The Wall—Should I Mention It? 1:02:04 - Q5: My New Guy Actively Refuses To Put Down The Toilet Seat—Should I Be Concerned?  If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by caller Marcela. Marcela struggles between waiting for the light at the end of the long distance relationship tunnel, versus wanting to live life to the fullest as a single and unattached woman. Where's the line between holding out for something good and heeding FOMO's siren song? Listen on for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.betterhelp.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first month of therapy! - Go to https://www.franklyapparel.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for $15 off your first purchase! If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by newly engaged lovebirds Derek Peth and Saffron Vadher! These two are on the private side, so we're thrilled they agreed to come on and share their relationship with us in true double date fashion. Derek and Saff can usually be found in NYC, but today, they join us from their house in Iowa. They share the serendipitous story of how they met (spoiler alert: Shandy plays a key role!), how they complement each other, what early hurdles they overcame, and of course, how they FIGHT! Finally, the Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game! Who knows who better? Thanks to our sponsor - HELLO TUSHY! Visit http://www.hellotushy.com/SHANDY for 10% off and free shipping on your Hello Tushy bidet! More Derek & Saff https://www.instagram.com/pethderek https://www.instagram.com/saffron/ If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Shandy is back with your recap of Episode 4 of Katie Thurston’s season of The Bachelorette! Come join us to dissect Tre vs Andrew S, new arrival Blake Moynes, and of course, THOMAS. Thanks to our sponsors! Visit http://www.FranklyApparel.com/SHANDY for $15 off your first purchase! Visit http://www.hellotushy.com/SHANDY for 10% off and free shipping on your Hello Tushy bidet! Sharleen is a veteran Bachelor recapper, having recapped for 7 years (!) on her blog, All The Pretty Pandas, and for Flare magazine, since her own appearance on Season 18. Andy, meanwhile, has never watched a full season (this is no joke—he even fast-forwarded through most of Sharleen's own season). But, being married to the "Recap Queen", even he has gleaned a thing or two. Hear Shandy break down Season 17 of The Bachelorette with Sharleen's insider perspective, Andy's unfiltered male perspective, and Shandy's combined analytical minds.  If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise Season 8 recaps! Today we're breaking down episodes 6 and 7! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.TryFirstleaf.com/SHANDY to get your first 6 bottles for $39.95 plus free shipping! - Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions with one tap! - Go to https://www.TakeCareOf.com and enter code SHANDY50 for 50% off your first Care/Of order! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get your first dermatology visit for only $5! Our Word Watch sponsors! - Go to https://www.franklyapparel.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for $20 off your first purchase! - Go to https://www.feals.com/SHANDY to become a member and get 40% off your first three months with free shipping! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 0:47 - Overall Thoughts On Episodes 6 & 7 1:48 - Episode 6 Kick Off 2:23 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party 27:23 - Danielle 29:47 - Rose Ceremony 31:46 - The Next Day 32:03 - Danielle’s Date With Michael 41:49 - Jesse Addresses The Group 52:20 - Credits 53:17 - Episode 7 Kick Off 54:29 - Evening 1:02:48 - Jesse Addresses The OG Ladies 1:05:53 - The Next Day 1:07:20 - Shanae’s Date With Tyler 1:16:22 - Sarah’s Date With Logan 1:17:42 - Evening 1:19:49 - The Next Day 1:20:37 - Rodney’s Date With Eliza 1:25:34 - Credits 1:26:05 - Andy’s A-Game 1:26:39 - Shandy Word Watch 1:28:39 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Support Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today's topic came hotly requested and we're thrilled to be joined by a familiar face: Whitney Bischoff Angel, winner of The Bachelor Season 19! As an experienced fertility nurse, as well as a woman who has gone through the egg freezing process herself, Whitney is more than qualified to answer the Shandies' burning fertility questions! Whitney shares the leading contributing factors to infertility, whether or not the age 35 is overblown as being THE age when fertility begins to drop, the step-by-step process of egg freezing (as well as the cost!), and her thoughts on the media's messaging around fertility in general. Whitney really is a wealth of knowledge and this conversation was both so enjoyable AND informative for us. We hope you think so, too! More Whitney Bischoff Angel Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/whitb624 Ova Clinic - https://ovaeggfreezing.com/ Thanks to our sponsor! - Go to https://www.manscaped.com and use code SHANDY to get 20% off + free shipping! If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's Caller Day! Our first caller, Mel, was dumped for not being vulnerable enough. Is there a "vulnerability" timeline? Our second caller, Kate, is in a happy relationship but is perturbed by how little she misses for her partner when they're apart. Could this be a clue to a deeper relationship concern?  Thanks to our sponsor - POSTMATES! Download the Postmates App and use the code: DEARSHANDY for $5 off your first 5 orders! If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Shandy is back with Bachelorette Season 18 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 4. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.postmates.com (or use the app!) and use code SHANDY to get 50% off your first 5 orders of $50 or more! - Go to https://www.betterhelp.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first month of therapy! Sharleen is a veteran Bachelor recapper, having recapped for 7 years (!) on her blog, All The Pretty Pandas, and for Flare magazine, since her own appearance on Season 18. Andy, meanwhile, never saw a full season before becoming a recapper here on Dear Shandy. Hear Shandy break down Season 17 of The Bachelorette with Sharleen's insider perspective, Andy's unfiltered male perspective, and Shandy's combined analytical minds. If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Support Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Shandy is back with Bachelorette(s) Season 19 recaps! Today we're breaking down episodes 9 and 10, aka Fantasy Suites Part 1 and 2! Thanks to our sponsors! -Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get your first dermatology visit for only $5! -Go to https://www.feals.com/SHANDY to become a member and get 40% off your first three months with free shipping! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:24 - Overall Thoughts On Episodes 9 & 10 2:45 - Episode 9 Kick Off 5:45 - Erich’s Overnight 10:13 - Evening 13:36 - The Next Morning 16:35 - Meanwhile, Tino 16:53 - Aven’s Overnight 18:06 - Meanwhile, Jesse Chats With Tino 22:44 - Evening 26:50 - The Next Morning 27:59 - Tino’s Overnight 29:30 - Evening 33:39 - Johnny’s Overnight 39:30 - Jesse Chats With Jason 40:43 - Erich 55:11 - Episode 10 Kick Off 59:44 - Gabby Chats With Jesse 1:02:09 - Jason’s Overnight 1:05:20 - Evening 1:17:49 - The Next Morning 1:19:00 - Gabby Chats With Jason 1:24:19 - Zach’s Overnight 1:25:47 - Evening 1:26:27 - The Next Morning 1:29:29 - Zach Chats With Jesse 1:32:35 - Rose Ceremony 1:33:49 - Gabby Visits Erich 1:35:16 - Cliffhanger 1:36:35 - Andy’s A-Game 1:37:30 - Shandy Word Watch 1:39:43 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Support Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! How much should you consider an ex's feelings when dating within the same circles? Is the opposite of hate truly indifference, and if so, does my partner "hating" his ex mean he isn't over her? And one Shandy requests that Shandy "snaps her out of" her 1.5 situationship—will they oblige? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!  Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.nutrafol.com and use code SHANDY for $15 off your first month's subscription! - Go to https://www.fahertybrand.com/DEARSHANDY and use code DEARSHANDY to get 20% off your order! - Go to https://www.warbyparker.com/SHANDY to try 5 pairs of glasses at home for free! - Go to https://www.hellofresh.com/SHANDY18 and use code SHANDY18 for 18 free meals plus free shipping! 0:00 - Q1: I Have A Crush On My Tour Guide—Should I Make A Move? 7:20 - Q2: My Guy Feels Hatred For His Ex—Will He Ever Get Over Her? 21:04 - Q3: How Much Should I Consider My Ex’s Feelings When Considering Dating In His Circle? 33:22 - Q4: My Normally Gentle Boyfriend Showed A Flare Of Anger Towards Me—Is This A Red Flag? 53:31 - Q5: The Guy I’ve Been Seeing For 1.5 Years Won’t Commit—Snap Me Out Of It? If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today's happy couple requires no introduction: Kaitlyn Bristowe and Jason Tartick! We had high expectations for this "double date" and Jaitlyn did not disappoint. They share their first impressions of each other (and how those have changed), how they complement each other, what early hurdles they overcame, and of course, how they FIGHT! Finally, the Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game! Who knows who better? Thanks to our sponsor - HELLO TUSHY! Visit http://www.hellotushy.com/SHANDY for 10% off and free shipping on your Hello Tushy bidet! More Kaitlyn & Jason https://www.instagram.com/kaitlynbristowe https://www.instagram.com/jason_tartick If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're thrilled to be joined by the power couple behind The East Family Youtube and media empire, Shawn Johnson East and Andrew East! Shawn and Andrew share the behind-the-scenes of how they met, how they complement each other, their early relationship hurdles, and of course, how they FIGHT! Finally, the Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out! More Shawn: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shawnjohnson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@shawnjohnson More Andrew: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andrewdeast TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@andrewdeast Redirected Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/redirected/id1366095841 More Shawn & Andrew: The East Family Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ15Zl-v8-ghTgEOTpxHdGw Couple Things Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/couple-things-with-shawn-and-andrew/id1485740243 Uniqorn Coffee: https://uniqorncoffee.com Teddy & Bear Toy Shop: https://www.instagram.com/teddyandbearkids If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today is all about YOUR questions... the broader ones, that is. What are our thoughts on prenups, and do we have one? How should a woman deal with a man who doesn't satisfy her? After our meeting, did Andy go on dates with anyone else, or did he immediately close down the shop? And did Sharleen play it cool? Find out the answers to your burning questions in our first ever Q&A sesh! If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Join us every Thursday for a new episode of Dear Shandy! Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever watched a reality TV dating show and wondered what that poker-faced host is REALLY thinking? As Temptation Island fans and general admirers of its host Mark L Walberg's piercing commentary, we're thrilled he agreed to join us for a Confessions episode! Temptation Island brings on four straight real-life couples who are at crossroads in their relationships, separates them for a month, and has them live with (very forward) straight singles of the opposite sex. It originally debuted in 2001, at the start of the reality TV boom, and was rebooted in 2019. As the host of a show with an obviously controversial concept, how does Mark navigate the usual trappings of reality TV "trash"? Does he make his own personal predictions about the couples and their outcomes? Does he pick favorites among them? How much does he really know when heading into a "bonfire"? How has Mark's own marriage informed his ability to spot and call out destructive relationship behavior? Mark is a very open and endearingly honest guest, and whether or not you're a fan of Temptation Island, his perspectives on relationships, love, and life are worth listening to. In case you're interested in dipping your toe into Temptation Island, Sharleen's favorite season is Season 4 (or Season 1 of the reboot), and Andy's is Season 5 (or Season 2 of the reboot).  Thanks to our sponsors! Go to http://www.Grove.co/SHANDY and get a FREE gift with your first order of $30 or more! Visit http://www.hellotushy.com/SHANDY for 10% off and free shipping on your Hello Tushy bidet! More Mark https://www.instagram.com/markwalberg https://twitter.com/marklwalberg Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Shandy is back with Bachelorette Season 18 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 7. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY to get 35% off all bedding and loungewear! - Go to https://www.betterhelp.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first month of therapy! - Go to https://www.manscaped.com and use code SHANDY to get 20% off + free shipping! Sharleen is a veteran Bachelor recapper, having recapped for 7 years (!) on her blog, All The Pretty Pandas, and for Flare magazine, since her own appearance on Season 18. Andy, meanwhile, never saw a full season before becoming a recapper here on Dear Shandy. Hear Shandy break down Season 17 of The Bachelorette with Sharleen's insider perspective, Andy's unfiltered male perspective, and Shandy's combined analytical minds. If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Support Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 28 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 7! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.skims.com/SHANDY and get free shipping on orders over $75! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE! - Go to https://www.shopbeam.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout for up to 40% off! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsors... - Go to https://furanostudio.etsy.com and use code SHANDY20 for 20% off! - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/DEARSHANDY50 and use code DEARSHANDY50 to get 50% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:39 - Episode 7 Kick Off 4:00 - Daisy’s 1-On-1 8:19 - Evening 12:02 - The Final Group Date 15:06 - Evening 24:30 - Kelsey A’s 1-On-1 26:33 - Evening 31:59 - Rose Ceremony 33:56 - Andy’s A-Game 35:46 - Shandy Word Watch 38:51 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

By extremely popular demand, Shandy is back to recapping Love Is Blind, Season 6! Today we're breaking down the third Netflix release, episodes 10 and 11! Thanks to our sponsor... - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY for 15% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 0:59 - Amy & Johnny 6:22 - AD & Clay 17:30 - Laura & Jeramey 24:50 - Sarah Anne 33:01 - Chelsea & Jimmy 53:43 - Jessica 57:46 - Trevor 59:33 - Chelsea & Jimmy, Cont’d If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 28 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 8, aka Hometowns! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 for 50% off! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsor... - Go to https://furanostudio.etsy.com and use code SHANDY20 for 20% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 4:13 - Kelsey’s Hometown 14:20 - Rachel’s Hometown 28:14 - Daisy’s Hometown 36:20 - Maria’s Hometown 48:34 - Rose Ceremony 52:53 - Andy’s A-Game 53:19 - Shandy Word Watch 55:00 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 28 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 9, aka Fantasy Suites! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.cbdistillery.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! - Go to https://jennikayne.com and use code DEARSHANDY to get 15% off your first order! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com:/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout for up to 35%! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsor... - Go to https://www.lomi.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for $50 off your Lomi! - Go to https://furanostudio.etsy.com and use code SHANDY20 for 20% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:58 - Episode 9 Kick Off 2:31 - Rachel 8:38 - Kelsey 15:13 - Daisy 23:56 - Cliffhanger 30:39 - Andy’s A-Game 32:00 - Shandy Word Watch 35:20 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 28 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 10, aka Women Tell All! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://oakessentials.com and use promo code SHANDY15 for 15% off your first order plus a free gift! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 0:30 - Women Tell All Kick Off 4:17 - The Hashing Out Of Drama 12:11 - Lexi Hot Seat 12:55 - Jenn Hot Seat 16:39 - Maria Hot Seat 24:23 - Tulum/Last Week’s “Cliffhanger” 29:59 - Rose Ceremony 31:17 - Rachel Hot Seat 35:32 - Joey Hot Seat 36:16 - Bloopers 39:32 - Previews 40:05 - Shandy Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 28 recaps! Today we're breaking down the Finale and After The Final Rose! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE! - Go to https://www.skims.com and get free shipping on orders over $75! - Go to https://www.babbel.com/DEARSHANDY to save 55% off your subscription! - Go to https://www.FastGrowingTrees.com and use code SHANDY at checkout for an additional 15% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:39 - Finale Kick Off 3:07 - Joey’s Family 10:31 - Daisy’s Final Date 17:52 - Kelsey’s Final Date 22:15 - Proposal Day 24:51 - Daisy & Kelsey 28:18 - The Breakup 35:27 - The Proposal 37:14 - After The Final Rose 42:07 - Bachelorette 51:10 - Andy’s A-Game 52:12 - Shandy Word Watch 53:32 - Night One Predictions 54:58 - Special Introduction If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In keeping with tradition, we're doing something a little different to ring in the New Year. This topic has been requested for awhile now, so today, inspired by Episode 1 (How We Met) and Episode 21 (Our Proposal Story), we're doing another throwback! We're going back in time to January 2015 thru September 2017, to what happened after Andy proposed. Listen on to hear why we waited 2.5 years for a wedding, what expenses got out of hand, how "influencer"-dom played a role, "The Moment" that made it all worthwhile, and in retrospect, what we would have done differently! 0:00 - Introduction 2:35 - City Hall 5:33 - Considering A Wedding 10:23 - Choosing A Venue 14:15 - Postponing 14:54 - Deciding To Hire A Planner 15:38 - The "Influencer Wedding" 20:49 - Thoughts On Having A Planner 21:43 - The Dress 34:10 - Tasting 35:23 - The Cake 35:33 - Our Cake Topper 36:31 - The Dress, Continued 38:06 - Wedding Day 41:02 - The Big Reveal 42:37 - Our City Hall Officiant 43:57 - "The Most Important Day In Your Life" 46:03 - Wedding Day, Continued 46:47 - The Ceremony 50:11 - Cocktail Hour/Reception 50:38 - The Moment 53:50 - Wedding Favors 54:06 - Jewish Traditions 54:30 - In Retrospect: Regrets, Surprises, Things We're Happy About 1:08:48 - Overall Takeaways If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Support Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

By extremely popular demand, Shandy is back to recapping Love Is Blind, Season 6! Today we're breaking down the finale, episode 12! Thanks to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 0:42 - Chelsea & Jimmy 16:53 - Bachelorette Party 18:24 - AD & Clay 42:55 - Amy & Johnny 47:07 - Ending Moments & Thoughts If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

By extremely popular demand, Shandy is back to recapping Love Is Blind, Season 6! Today we're breaking down the Reunion! Thanks to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com:/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 35%! - Go to https://www.lomi.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save $50! - Go to https://prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping + Surprise For Andy 1:33 - Overall Thoughts 6:13 - Sharleen’s Best Dressed 7:56 - Amy & Johnny 9:25 - Jeramey, Sarah Ann & Laura 19:11 - Trevor 25:04 - AD & Clay 31:52 - Highlights 36:36 - Jessica & Jimmy 40:05 - Megan Fox 43:31 - Chelsea 45:39 - Brittany & Kenneth 48:26 - Matthew 50:13 - Chelsea & Kwame 50:56 - The End If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's GOLDEN Love Fest time! 🎉 Today Shandy is joined by none other than the Golden Bachelor himself, Gerry Turner, and his blushing bride, Theresa Nist! The world stopped to watch these two fall in love late last year, then again when they tied the knot on live television in January, and Shandy is beyond thrilled to host this exclusive post-wedding interview! (Psst: turns out Theresa is a Shandy!!!) Today Gerry and Theresa describe how they complement each other, their love languages, what their early hurdle has been (spoiler alert: it's ongoing!), and of course, how they fight! Finally, a delightful Newlyweds Game revealing many fun tidbits about this beautiful couple! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.earthbreeze.com/SHANDY for 40% off your subscription! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase! More Gerry: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/goldengerryturner/ More Theresa: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/theresa_nist/ Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Gerry & Theresa! 2:34 - First Impressions  6:32 - Three Adjectives 8:13 - How They Complement Each Other 13:00 - Gerry Becoming Golden Bachelor 15:29 - Love Languages 16:46 - Early Hurdle 22:24 - How They Fight 25:27 - Common Misconceptions 28:01 - Beliefs That Have Changed 30:29 - Love Advice 32:17 - The Newlyweds Game 44:14 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's GOLDEN Love Fest time! 🎉 Today Shandy is joined by a couple whose love story they are very familiar with, as Charity's season was hotly recapped here at Dear Shandy! The world fell in love with Charity & Dotun's relationship, and Shandy is thrilled to have them join for what can truly be described as a double date! Today Charity and Dotun give the juiciest, most satisfying and SPECIFIC answers about their first impressions, common misconceptions, beliefs that have changed, and of course, how they fight! Finally, a hilariously exhausting Newlyweds Game, exhausting because too much fun was being had! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.shopbeam.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout for up to 40% off! - Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! - Head to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 to get 50% off! More Charity: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/charitylawson TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@charity.lawson More Dotun: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dotunolubeko TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@dotunolubeko Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Charity & Dotun! 4:20 - Is Shandy Together? 5:23 - First Impressions 20:20 - How They Complement Each Other 23:10 - How Their Partner Is Different Than They Imagined For Themselves 31:50 - Early Hurdle 35:59 - How They Fight 42:25 - Most Common Misconception 49:49 - Beliefs About Relationships That Have Changed 55:33 - The Newlyweds Game 1:14:53 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Shandy is back with Bachelor Season 26 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 2. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY to get 35% off all bedding and loungewear! - Go to https://www.nutrafol.com and use code SHANDY for $15 off your first month's subscription, plus free shipping! - Go to https://www.hellofresh.com/SHANDY14 and use code SHANDY14 to get up to 14 free meals, plus 3 free gifts! 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:20 - Overall Thoughts On Episode 2 2:34 - Episode 2 Kick Off 5:50 - Group Date #1 31:15 - Susie's 1-On-1 37:08 - Group Date #2 54:24 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party 1:07:53 - Shandy Word Watch 1:10:10 - Shandy's Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Support Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Just 3 weeks after our Love Fest with Gerry Turner and Theresa Nist, the couple announced in a Good Morning America interview that, after only 3 months of marriage, they're getting divorced. Many of you wanted to hear our take on this bombshell news, particularly in the wake of such a recent Love Fest. So today, in a first-of-its-kind bonus episode, we're answering your burning questions Q&A style. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save 35%! - Go to https://www.babbel.com/DEARSHANDY to save up to 60% off your subscription! - Go to https://www.lomi.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save $50! - Go to https://www.FastGrowingTrees.com and use code SHANDY at checkout for an additional 15% off! Our Love Fest with Gerry and Theresa: https://youtu.be/hWCr91mBGb0?si=y_xga_xJH9MhReo3 Referenced "bet" of Andy's: https://www.instagram.com/reel/Ce-GWUtDbhq/?igsh=Znhkamk2bGhrNDAw Time Stamps: 0:00 - Introduction 2:41 - How Shocked Is Shandy? 6:46 - When Did You Record The Love Fest With Gerry & Theresa? 7:29 - Was Dear Shandy The Source Of The Tea That They Were Living Apart? 10:07 - Why Do You Think It Didn’t Work Out? 16:20 - When Recording The Love Fest, Did You Sense Anything Was Off? 20:28 - Do You Think They Were Honest On Your Love Fest? 20:39 - Did ABC Push Them To Come On Dear Shandy? 21:20 - Is There A Dear Shandy Love Fest Curse? 26:07 - Did Andy Bet Money On How Long They Would Last? 27:00 - Do You Think 3 Months Was Enough To Determine It Wouldn’t Work? 27:10 - If You Two Met At Gerry & Theresa’s Age And Lived Far Apart, What Would You Have Done? 29:00 - Does This Make You Love The Golden Bachelor Less? 29:44 - Do You Think Gerry Will Get Back Together With Leslie? 30:25 - Should Golden Bachelor Follow A Love Is Blind Format And Cast People From The Same City? 31:06 - Should The Franchise Scrap Golden Bachelorette? 32:27 - Why Do You Think They Did The Televised Wedding & Do You Think Production Feels Guilty? 34:37 - Bonus Question  35:03 - Closing Thoughts If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Shandy is back with The Bachelorette, Season 20 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 5! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.fabfitfun.com/DEARSHANDY and get 20% off your new membership! - Go to https://www.hellofresh.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 for 50% off plus free shipping! - Go to https://www.skims.com and get free shipping on orders over $75! - Go to https://www.athenaclub.com and use code DEARSHANDY for 25% off your first order! Our Word Watch sponsor! - Go to https://www.skims.com Andy’s Official Bachelor Instagram Repost: https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cu3LiITOncv Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:29 - Episode 5 Kick Off 3:51 - Joey’s 1-On-1 7:28 - Evening 15:48 - 2-On-1 Date 20:04 - Evening 27:12 - Dotun’s 1-On-1 29:54 - Evening 36:24 - Sean  38:51 - Group Date 47:06 - Evening 51:26 - Credits 53:07 - Andy’s A-Game 53:46 - Shandy Word Watch 56:10 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Support Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! How important is "niceness" in a partner, and is it enough? If you have a massive crush on someone out of town, how do you escalate from casual, sporadic dates to long-distance relationship? If you and your partner agree to boycott an establishment and he lies about having caved, is this a red flag? Finally, an epic Am-I-The-Asshole question, board game edition! Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.cbdistillery.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! - Go to https://oakessentials.com and use promo code SHANDY15 for 15% off your first order plus a free gift! - Go to https://www.FastGrowingTrees.com and use code SHANDY at checkout for an additional 15% off! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Introduction 0:54 - Q1: Is “Nice” Enough? 7:06 - Q2: My BF Lied About Visiting An Establishment We Had Agreed To Boycott—Is This A Red Flag? 21:28 - Q3: I Have A Huge Crush On A Girl & Don’t Know How To Escalate Things—Help! 42:37 - Q4: The Transient Nature Of My Career Has Left Me Unmotivated To Date—Help! 53:08 - Q5: Am I The Asshole, Board Game Edition If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today's call touches on an interesting moral dilemma that many have likely considered, but far fewer have acted on. As "the other woman", which is more ethical: To tell your ex-lover's girlfriend about his cheating ways, or to stay out of their relationship and let her learn those tough lessons on her own? How far does "Do Unto Others" extend, or is it better to trust in karma? And in playing a role in the indiscretion, does one surrender the right to moral high ground? Shandy definitely wants your take on this one! If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

She's baaaack! For the first time ever, and by popular request, we've brought BACK a Hot Topic guest to pick up where we left off! Our first episode with Maria Avgitidis—4th generation matchmaker and host of the Ask A Matchmaker podcast—was such a hit that you asked for more! In case you missed our Confessions Of A Matchmaker episode with Maria, aka Part 1, it's here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dear-shandy/id1525795747?i=1000597672805 Today Maria returns to answer follow up questions from Part 1, but also to give us her tough-love and honest take on the rules of dating. Sharpen your pencils, Shandies, because Dating School is in session! How is swipe culture affecting dating today? What's Maria's 12-Date Method, and her Pre-Date 3-2-1 Prep? Who pays on the first date, and does she believe in living together before getting engaged? Finally, what is Maria's "controversial" opinion, and will Shandy agree or disagree? As always, Maria's brutal honesty is a breath of fresh air and Shandy's delighted to welcome her back! Thank you to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! - Go to https://www.FastGrowingTrees.com and use code SHANDY at checkout for an additional 15% off! - Go to https://jennikayne.com and use code DEARSHANDY to get 15% off your first order! - Go to https://www.shopbeam.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout for up to 40% off! More Maria: - Agape Match: https://agapematch.com - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/matchmakermaria - Ask A Matchmaker Podcast: https://plinkhq.com/i/1521530338?to=page Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome BACK To Matchmaker Maria! 2:41 - How Does She Define Her 93% Success Rate? 8:49 - What’s The Most Awkward Conversation She’s Had To Have With A Client? 11:38 - Decisions Paying Clients Make That Frustrate Her 16:21 - What Would She Say To People Who Think Her Matchmaking Fees Are Too High? 24:46 - How Swipe Culture Affects The World Of Matchmaking 29:01 - The 12-Date Rule 40:30 - Pre-Date 3-2-1 Prep 47:44 - Who Pays On The First Date? 52:29 - Maria’s Controversial Opinion 56:30 - What If Someone Never Gets Asked On A Second Date? 59:39 - Living Together Before Getting Engaged 1:09:01 - Moving For Love & “Importing” 1:14:53 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

At the heart of so many relationship questions we've received—and relationships in general—is a common thread: EMPATHY. This "healing force", as our esteemed guest calls it, has the power to not only heal our relationships with others, but with ourselves. So why do so few of us understand its powers? Today we're honored to be joined by THE foremost expert on empathy, Dr. Judith Orloff, dubbed “the godmother of the empath movement.” Dr. Orloff is a board-certified psychiatrist and the New York Times best-selling author of several books, including 2017's landmark "The Empath’s Survival Guide" and her latest, "The Genius of Empathy: Practical Skills to Heal Your Sensitive Self, Your Relationships, and the World". Today she helps dispel the misconceptions around empathy, demonstrates how to draw healthy boundaries, and explains the transformative, healing power of SELF-empathy. She explains why it's OK that your partner isn't the same empathy "type" as you, whether or not you can have too much empathy, and how to approach someone whose beliefs you fundamentally disagree with. Today's conversation is the warm hug you needed and will hopefully inspire healing in your more complicated relationships, especially the one you have with yourself. Thank you to our sponsor! - Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions with just a few taps! More Dr. Judith Orloff: - The book, "The Genius Of Empathy": https://bit.ly/3U6uCRk - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/judith.orloff.md - Website: https://drjudithorloff.com Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To The Legendary Dr. Judith Orloff! 3:41 - What Is Empathy & Empathy Vs Compassion 5:10 - What Are Her Thoughts On The Term “Empath” Becoming Mainstream? 6:52 - The Biggest Misconceptions About Empathy 10:32 - Drawing Boundaries 16:19 - Is Empathy Something We’re Born With? Nature Vs Nurture 17:31 - Can One Really Become *More* Empathic? 20:38 - The Empathy Types 23:13 - Mismatched Empathy In Relationships 29:19 - Tips For Self Empathy 31:24 - How Can I Make Empathy Work In A Way That Isn’t Ultimately To My Disadvantage? 34:04 - Is Self Awareness A Prerequisite to Self Empathy? 34:54 - Tips For Avoiding Empathy-Deficient Types 37:10 - When It Feels Like Someone Doesn’t Deserve Empathy 39:19 - Empathy Vs Enablement 43:29 - Is There Such A Thing As Too Much Empathy? 45:12 - Sharleen’s Takeaways 46:11 - Tips For Empathizing With Someone Whose Beliefs You Fundamentally Disagree With 49:06 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Shandy is back with Bachelor Season 26 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 3. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.truebill.com/SHANDY to cancel unwanted subscriptions and save $$$ with one tap! - Go to https://www.hellotushy.com/SHANDY for 10% off plus free shipping! - Go to https://shop.analuisa.com/SHANDY for 10% off your jewelry purchase! - Go to https://www.thefab.co/shandy for 25% off Fabulous Premium! 0:00 - Overall Thoughts On Episode 3 1:18 - Cassidy's FWB-Gate, Continued 15:59 - Rose Ceremony 26:06 - Group Date #1 35:52 - Sarah's 1-On-1 58:21 - Group Date #2 1:13:53 - Shandy Word Watch 1:16:29 - Shandy's Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Support Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you have a tumultuous relationship history, is "boring" maybe a good thing? If you feel yourself becoming resentful in your relationship because your sacrifices outnumber your partner's, what to do? And not one, not two, but THREE heavy-hitting platonic friendship questions! What does Shandy consider a "friendship-reconsidering" level crime? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.FastGrowingTrees.com and use code SHANDY at checkout for an additional 15% off! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE! - Go to https://www.earthbreeze.com/SHANDY for 40% off! - Go to https://quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Q1: Does Healthy = Boring? 10:35 - Q2: My Friend Accused Me Of “Bitching & Complaining” And Our Friendship Is Suddenly Over—What Happened?! 23:50 - Q3: My Friend Moved Out Of Town And Now Zoom-Joins Our In-Person Hangs—Am I The Asshole For Disliking This? 33:46 - Q4: Should I Let My Friend’s Outrageous Wedding Request Make Me See Her Differently? 46:03 - Q5: I’ve Sacrificed More For This Relationship Than My Boyfriend Has And Am Feeling Resentful—Help! If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode is a surprise all around because Shandy had absolutely zero intention of recapping their experience officiating their friends' wedding. However, on Instagram you requested this with a fiery passion that couldn't be ignored! So today is all about Shandy as WEDDING OFFICIANTS! As you may know, on Saturday April 26th, 2024, Shandy officiated the wedding of Nick Viall and Natalie Joy, their longtime friends. This episode will contain reflections on the experience, tips (and regrets!) for those planning their own weddings/officiant speeches, unexpected moments, and overall takeaways! Listen on for this unique Dear Shandy episode! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.FastGrowingTrees.com and use code SHANDY at checkout for an additional 15% off! - Go to https://www.skims.com/SHANDY and get free shipping on orders over $75! - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 to get 50% off! - Go to https://prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase! 0:00 - Introduction 2:37 - How/When Did Nick & Natalie Ask You To Be Officiants? 5:58 - How Did You Make The Decision To Officiate As A Couple? 6:10 - Was One Of You The “Official” Officiant? 8:13 - Would You Have Accepted For Any Couple In Your Life Or Only A “Special” Couple? 9:05 - How Did You Prepare? 11:27 - What Sort Of Planning Did You Do With The Couple? 14:50 - Humor 17:20 - How Much Did You Share With The Couple Beforehand? 17:43 - Have Either Of You Ever Officiated A Wedding Before? 17:47 - Since You’ve Known Nick Longer Was It Difficult To Make It Feel Equally Personal For Natalie? 18:59 - Were You Nervous? Who Was More Nervous? 22:55 - Overall Tips/Regrets 25:31 - Did It Make You Nostalgic For Your Own Wedding? 28:58 - Do You Feel More Responsible To Stay Together Now? 29:38 - Can Shandy Officiate My Wedding? 30:40 - How Did You Enter The Ceremony? 30:58 - The Couple’s Vows 31:07 - Unexpected Moment 33:05 - Was The Baby A Part Of The Ceremony? 33:23 - Did Nick Cry? 34:08 - Did You Cry? 35:06 - How Are You Friends With Nick? 38:28 - Did You Ride The Mechanical Bull? 39:09 - Was There Anyone Who Made You Starstruck? 40:22 - Did They Tell You What To Wear? 40:47 - Sharleen’s Looks 44:04 - Did You Bring Ruby? 44:50 - People Article Misspellings 46:44 - What Was Your Favorite Things About Savannah? 48:02 - Overall Thoughts If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Caller sessions are BACK, baby! This is our SECOND Caller episode of 2024 (!) and we're thrilled we're joined by a lovely (and lively!) caller named Erin. Erin, whose relationship began with beautifully romantic gesture. However, 2+ months in, there are still kinks that need ironing. Erin is quick to defend her boyfriend, but when are excuses just... excuses? Listen on for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.lomi.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save $50! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! - Go to https://www.FastGrowingTrees.com and use code SHANDY at checkout for an additional 15% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Caller Erin! 42:39 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Is marriage necessary, or even at all what it's cracked up to be? If your partner struggles in the friendship department, how can you help? How should you respond to a question you hate being asked? And finally, an epic Am-I-The-Asshole question! Where does Shandy stand on unintentional door slamming? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://jennikayne.com and use code DEARSHANDY to get 15% off your first order! - Go to https://www.earthbreeze.com/SHANDY for 40% off! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com:/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY to save 35%! - Go to https://www.FastGrowingTrees.com and use code SHANDY for an additional 15% off! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Introduction 1:40 - Q1: To Marry Or Not To Marry? 9:11 - Q2: I Feel Weird Contributing To My Friend’s “Honey Fund” As A Wedding Gift—Thoughts? 18:06 - Q3: Strangers Constantly Ask Me A Question I Hate—How Should I Respond? 31:58 - Q4: My Fiancé Has No Friends—How Can I Help Him? 48:45 - Q5: Am I The Asshole—Door Slamming Edition If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Attachment Styles are at the core of SO many relationship dynamics yet so few of us know much beyond "secure", "anxious", and "avoidant". Isn't it about time we learned WHY we behave the way we do so we can learn how to stop getting in our own way? We're thrilled today to be joined by Eli Harwood, aka  @attachmentnerd , therapist, author, and attachment theory expert! Eli has amassed a massive following on Instagram with her attachment expertise and analysis. She is the author of "Securely Attached: Transform Your Attachment Patterns Into Loving, Lasting Romantic Relationships" and the upcoming "Raising Securely Attached Kids: Using Connection-Focused Parenting To Create Confidence, Empathy, and Resilience", so we could not be in better hands! Today Eli breaks down those famed Attachment Patterns (spoiler alert: there's WAY more to this than secure, anxious, and avoidant!) and how and why we as adults behave the way we do in our relationships. (As Andy puts it at one point, Attachment is "EVERYTHING"!) We learn how much of a role gender plays, why some of us are different in platonic vs romantic relationships, and how much is nature vs nurture. There are also parenting questions for our caregiver Shandies out there! Shandy also gets personal with their own experiences that have shaped their own attachment patterns. Finally, the big question: HOW DO WE HEAL? Eli has the answers you've been waiting for and manages to deliver them in the most relatable and easy-to-understand way. As Shandy puts it, you just might see your childhood flash before your eyes! Listen on for a masterclass in YOURSELF. 🤯 Thank you to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.babbel.com/DEARSHANDY to save up to 60% off your subscription! - Go to https://www.shopbeam.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout for up to 40% off! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! - Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! More Eli Harwood, Aka Attachment Nerd: - Books: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/series/0DV/attachment-nerd/ - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentnerd - TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentnerd - Website: https://attachmentnerd.com Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Eli Harwood, Aka @AttachmentNerd! 3:20 - What Is Attachment Theory? 6:21 - Can I Have More Than One Attachment Style? 9:48 - Attachment Pattern Breakdown 20:38 - Are Our Attachment Styles Set In Stone? 22:43 - Where Or How Do We Heal These Wounds? 26:32 - More Attachment Pattern Breakdown 31:39 - Can I Have BOTH Polar Opposite Attachment Styles? 34:21 - Does The Caregiver’s Gender Matter? 34:31 - How Much Is Nurture Vs Nature? 36:47 - Is There A Connection Between Which Caregiver And Which Type Of Adult Relationship (Eg. Romantic Vs Platonic) ? 38:38 - Shandy Asks Questions For “Friends” 43:23 - Where Does Attachment Rank In Terms Of Difficulty To Change? 45:53 - Is Finding Your “People” A Form Of Healing? 46:28 - Does The Anxious-Avoidant Romantic Dynamic Ever Work? At What Point Is It Not “Worth It”? 57:51 - Tips For Anxious Types When They Spiral In The Wrong Direction 1:02:44 - How To Know If A Child Is Securely Attached 1:04:56 - How Self Aware Is The Parent Who Even Asks These Questions? 1:07:24 - Is Your Grief As Bad As You Think It Is? 1:07:43 - 4 Steps For Raising Securely Attached Kids 1:11:00 - Andy Plays Devil’s Advocate 1:15:36 - What If Your Child Is Behaving Inappropriately? 1:19:39 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! You met your boyfriend shortly after getting laid off—with a new job lined up, is it morally wrong to never tell him about the layoff? If you're single and sharing an Airbnb with couples and even some families, should you pay the same amount for a room in the rental, even if there's only one of you? If your friend unexpectedly invites her boyfriend on your planned girls trip, are you the a-hole if you pull out? And finally, what to do if you simply *dislike* your best friend's fiancé?? Where does Shandy stand on unintentional door slamming? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE! - Shop the Skims t-shirt shop at https://www.skims.com/SHANDY and get free shipping on orders over $75! - Go to https://HelloFresh.com/SHANDYSWEET for FREE dessert for life! - Go to https://prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today! - Go to https://www.babbel.com/DEARSHANDY to save up to 60% off your subscription! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Introduction 0:53 - Q1: If I Have New Job, Is It Morally Wrong Not To Tell My Boyfriend I Got Laid Off From My Previous Job? 6:22 - Q2: I’m The Single Friend In A Large Trip Of Couples And Their Kids—Am I Being Unreasonable About This Airbnb Split? 14:21 - Q3: My Friend Added Her Boyfriend To Our Girls Trip—AITA For Wanting To Pull Out? 30:53 - Q4: My Boyfriend Bailed On Driving Me To My Hometown & I Had To Pay $$$ For A Flight Instead—AITA For Wanting Him To Help Cover The Cost? 46:07 - Q5: My Best Friend’s Fiancé Is Just “OK”—How Do I Get Over The Fact That She Deserves Better? If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Shandy is back with Bachelorette(s) Season 19 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 4. Thanks to our sponsors! -Go to https://www.fahertybrand.com/DEARSHANDY and use code DEARSHANDY for 20% off your Spring staples! - Go to https://www.feals.com/SHANDY to get 50% off your first month of premium CBD delivered directly to your door! Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get your first dermatology visit for only $5! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:27 - Overall Thoughts On Episode 4 2:36 - Episode 4 Kick-Off 8:13 - France!!! 11:37 - 1-On-1 Dates 27:12 - Gabby's Group Date 35:22 - Rachel Confronts Her Guys 38:57 - Rachel's Group Date 49:36 - Logan 50:00 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party 1:00:24 - Rose Ceremony 1:02:19 - Andy's A-Game 1:03:42 - Shandy Word Watch 1:05:02 - Predictions: Gabby 1:07:08 - Predictions: Rachel If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Support Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ask and you shall receive! By extremely popular demand and for the very first time, Shandy is recapping Netflix's Perfect Match! Today we're breaking down the first batch of season 2, meaning episodes 1-6! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://jennikayne.com and use code DEARSHANDY to get 15% off your first order! - Go to https://oakessentials.com and use promo code SHANDY15 for 15% off your first order plus a free gift! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Introduction 1:02 - Episode 1 19:49 - Episode 2 34:56 - Episode 3 46:21 - Episode 4 1:06:26 - Episode 5 1:15:33 - Episode 6 1:29:41 - Andy’s A-Game 1:32:48 - Sharleen’s Best Dressed 1:34:17 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ask and you shall receive! By very popular demand and for the very first time, Shandy is recapping Netflix's Perfect Match! Today we're breaking down the third and final batch of season 2, aka the grand finale! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to http://www.OliveandJune.com/SHANDY for 20% off your first Mani System! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 3:04 - Finale 30:05 - Final Tribal 39:08 - Credits 39:34 - Overall Thoughts If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Shandy is officially on the Dawg Side! As you may know, 3 months ago we adopted a small dog named Ruby! We hadn't planned on doing a fur baby episode, but it came so hotly requested (and we were so touched by the enthusiasm!), we couldn't help but oblige. Today we're answering YOUR questions all about our pup, her adoption story, and whether or not the famed Cat Person (Andy) has been converted. Warning: unfettered gushing ahead! Thanks to our sponsors! - Head to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 to get 50% off your first box, plus 20% your next month! - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY for 15% off! - Go to https://www.cbdistillery.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! - Go to https://www.shopbeam.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout for up to 40% off! 0:00 - Introduction 1:35 - Ruby’s Adoption Story 10:28 - Andy’s Adjustment To Dog Person 12:23 - Ruby’s Personality 14:52 - Tips For Fellow Germaphobes 16:10 - What Took You So Long? 20:22 - But I Thought Andy Was A Cat Person? 21:05 - Does Ruby Give Cat Vibes? 21:12 - What Are Your Favorite Dog Toys? 21:58 - Has Andy Been Giving Ruby More Attention Than Sharleen? 24:38 - Who Watches Ruby When You’re Away? 24:50 - What Is Your Favorite Thing Ruby Does? 26:34 - Have There Been Any Hurdles/What Have You Learned About Yourself? 31:26 - What Kind Of Food Do You Feed Ruby? 31:31 - How Does Ruby React To Sharleen’s Singing? 32:02 - Who Is The Stricter Parent? 32:42 - Nicknames 33:34 - Where Does Ruby Sleep? 34:39 - Is Having A Dog What You Expected? 37:36 - What’s Been The Hardest Part Of Having A Dog? 39:12 - Did You Buy Pet Insurance? 39:15 - Who Is Ruby’s Favorite? 40:44 - How Has Ruby Changed Since You Got Her? 41:04 - How Has Ruby Changed Your Life? 46:44 - In Conclusion If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ask and you shall receive! By very popular demand and for the very first time, Shandy is recapping Netflix's Perfect Match! Today we're breaking down the second batch of season 2, meaning episodes 7-9! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.pestly.co and use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your order! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://www.skims.com/SHANDY to shop the Skims t-shirt shop and get free shipping on orders over $75! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Introduction 2:30 - Episode 7 17:03 - Episode 8 29:30 - Episode 9 1:04:57 - Andy’s A-Game 1:06:25 - Sharleen’s Best Dressed 1:06:51 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If your guy says ILY in the heat of the moment but later on "forgets" this happened, is that a sign you need to end things? If your 19 year old sister starts dating a 34 year old, can you express your disapproval or should you back off? And if your family sells a possession of your grandparents that you wanted and even offered to pay for, should you hold onto that grudge and confront them? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.lolavie.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off! - Go to https://HelloFresh.com/SHANDYAPPS and use code SHANDYAPPS to get FREE appetizers for life! - Go to https://www.shopbeam.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout for up to 40% off! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com:/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save 30%! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Introduction 3:29 - Q1: Was He Sleep-Talking When He Said He Loved Me? 13:10 - Q2: Was I The A-Hole For Fact-Checking My Guy? 20:54 - Q3: I Hate That My 19 Year Old Sister Is Dating A 34 Year Old—Am I Just Being An Age Gap Hater? 33:31 - Q4: Am I The A-Hole For Not Wanting To Visit My Friends In New York? 41:29 - Q5: Have I Been Using My Hardships As An Excuse To Not Be “30 And Flirty”? 53:09 - Q6: My Aunts Sold A Belonging Of My Grandparents That I Really Wanted—Should I Let This Grudge Go? If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Caller sessions are back in session! Today we're joined by two lovely callers: Our first caller, Ali, has found herself PLANNING the reunion of an old friend group. However, she's been feeling ostracized and like maybe she's outgrown this circle. Should she simply not attend the reunion that she's planned, or is that more trouble than it's worth? Our second caller, Kat, is a Shandy who we've actually met in person (in Switzerland!) Her close relationship with her aunt has been strained lately and she's not sure why or what to do. Is it better to let this sleeping dog lie, or should she confront her beloved aunt? Listen on for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today! - Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://www.earthbreeze.com/SHANDY for 40% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Caller Ali 18:25 - Shandy Debrief 26:11 - Welcome To Caller Kat 44:23 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Shandy is back with their world famous recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 6 of Jenn Tran's season of The Bachelorette, Season 21! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY for 15% off science driven skincare! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsor... - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save 30%! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 3:27 - Episode 1 Kick Off 7:04 - Limo Exit Wins/Fails 15:24 - Jenn’s Toast 15:58 - Notable 1-On-1 Time 20:17 - Truth Or Dare 22:36 - Notable 1-On-1 Time, Cont’d 35:31 - First Impression Rose 37:14 - Andy’s A-Game 38:41 - Fashion 40:40 - Shandy Word Watch 43:40 - Shandy’s Predictions 53:32 - Wild Cards If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Shandy is back with their world famous recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 2 of Jenn Tran's season of The Bachelorette, Season 21! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! - Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsors... - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY for 15% off! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save 30%! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 4:28 - Episode 2 Kick Off 4:54 - Group Date #1 20:57 - Marcus’ 1-On-1 26:58 - Group Date #2 38:47 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party 47:05 - Rose Ceremony 37:38 - Fashion 49:50 - Andy’s A-Game 51:49 - Shandy Word Watch 55:40 - Shandy's Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Shandy is back with their world famous recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 3 of Jenn Tran's season of The Bachelorette, Season 21! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save 30%! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE! - Go to https://prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today! - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY for 15% off! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsors... - Go to https://www.cbdistillery.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY for 15% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:55 - Episode 3 Kick Off 2:53 - Spencer’s 1-On-1  8:09 - Group Date #1 28:34 - The Next Day 28:50 - Group Date #2 32:24 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party 41:48 - Rose Ceremony 43:13 - Andy’s A-Game 45:39 - Fashion 49:23 - Shandy Word Watch 52:24 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Shandy is back with their world famous recaps, and we're joined by a very special guest, Wells Adams, bartender extraordinaire and host of Your Favorite Thing podcast! Today we're breaking down episode 4 of Jenn Tran's season of The Bachelorette, Season 21! Thank you to our sponsors... - Shop the Skims Soft Lounge Collection at https://www.skims.com/SHANDY! - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 for 50% off your first box plus 20% off your next month! - Go to https://www.pestly.co and use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your order! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsors... - Go to https://www.furanostudio.com and use code SHANDY30 for 30% off! - Go to https://www.cbdistillery.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! Catch Wells on his own podcast, Your Favorite Thing, co-hosted by Brandi Cyrus: - iTunes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/your-favorite-thing-with-wells-brandi/id1270288526 - Spotify: open.spotify.com/show/4eP4DEMKMf8nKqFDfricmB - Youtube: www.youtube.com/@yftpodcast Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:55 - Episode 3 Kick Off 2:53 - Spencer’s 1-On-1  8:09 - Group Date #1 28:34 - The Next Day 28:50 - Group Date #2 32:24 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party 41:48 - Rose Ceremony 43:13 - Andy’s A-Game 45:39 - Fashion 49:23 - Shandy Word Watch 52:24 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If the guy you're seeing is TOO good-looking, how to escape the insecurity spiral? If you've planned your friend's bachelorette party AND bridal shower and she can't even remember your birthday, is it worth the confrontation or does she get a bride pass? And if he was the right guy at the wrong time, when circumstances change, could the time be right? Finally, Shandy gives a pep talk to a Shandy newly out of a situationship of 14 YEARS. Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.skims.com/SHANDY to shop the Skims t-shirt shop! - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 to get 50% off your first box plus 20% off your next month! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Introduction 1:32 - Q1: The Guy I’m Seeing Is TOO Attractive—Help! 14:41 - Q2: I’ve Planned Her Bachelorette AND Bridal Shower And She Can’t Even Wish Me A Happy Birthday?? 22:31 - Q3: Was It Right Guy But Wrong Timing? If So, What If Circumstances Have Changed? 33:20 - Q4: My Future Sister-In-Law Doesn’t Seem To Like Me—What Should I Do? 43:21 - Q5: I’m Newly Out Of A 14-Year On-And-Off-Again Situationship—Help Me, Shandy! If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We're thrilled to debut a new series in our episode lineup, A Day In The Life! These are episodes dedicated to meaningful, intimate conversations with your favorite people! Our first ever A Day In The Life guest is none other than Dave Neal, standup comedian and host of The Rush Hour podcast! This is a man who never seems to sleep, and our curiosity finally got the best of us so we decided to ask him for ourselves: Where does he find the time to do so much? What's the hardest thing about running his empire? Where is the weirdest place he's ever recorded, and what has been a "pinch me" moment in his meteoric growth? Listen on to find out! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.pestly.co and use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your order! - Go to https://www.lolavie.com and use code SHANDY at checkout for 15% off! More Dave Neal: - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dnealz/ - The Rush Hour Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bachelor-rush-hour-with-dave-neal/id1651903715 - Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@DaveNealComedian - Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@TashaAndDave Our Love Fest with Dave and Courtney: https://open.spotify.com/episode/58ISPLY0eDbs3aZgU6ajjP?si=LfM1QAuZTr6voWSAbrI5Qg Referenced video of Dave watching The Bachelor with Gilbert Galon (our producer Gabby's brother): https://youtu.be/eDvnH94Awfs?si=rPT0Dl06I0alykw4 Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Dave Neal! 6:42 - A Day In Dave’s Life 8:30 - Is It Ever Too Much? 15:22 - How Does His Online Business Affect His Comedy And Vice Versa? 18:52 - What’s The Hardest Part Of The Dave Neal Empire? 41:10 - The Clayton Echard Story 50:05 - Has He Ever Recorded In His Underwear 51:56 - Does He Have Help? 53:35 - Dave Neal Vs Reality Steve 57:35 - Imposter Syndrome 1:05:04 - Anyone He’s Been Starstruck To Have Met 1:12:38 - What Did Dave Neal Want To Be When He Grew Up? 1:14:43 - His Top 3 Podcasts  1:18:26 - How Did A Baseball-Loving, American Shirt-Wearing, Blue-blooded American Male Get Into Reality Dating TV? 1:20:03 - Rapid Fire Questions 1:26:32 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If your boyfriend still has "favorited" photos of his ex on his phone, is that cause for concern? Are you shallow if you'd like your partner to make a cosmetic change? If your mother-in-law's perfume stays in the house long after she's gone, is it worth saying something? And whatever happened to taking things slow? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout to save 40%! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping (Sort Of?) 1:39 - Q1: My Boyfriend Still Has Photos Of His Ex On His Phone—Is This A Red Flag? 6:09 - Q2: My Brother’s Girlfriend Is Sensitive That He Used To Date My Friend—Should I Distance Myself In The Friendship To Support My Future Sister-In-Law? 9:45 - Q3: Is “Taking Things Slowly” A Lost Art? 21:38 - Q4: I Love My Husband Except For One Cosmetic “Flaw”—Should I Bring It Up Or Am I Just Shallow? 36:47 - Q5: A Friend Called Me By The Wrong Name—Should I Correct Him Or Is This A Fluke? 41:03 - Q6: At What Point Do You Weigh Stability Against Happiness? 59:35 - Q7: My Mother-In-Law’s Perfume Is Stinking Up Our House—Help! If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If a guy you meet online copies something from your dating profile and pastes it to his while you're still dating, is it a secret message or just straight-up plagiarism? If you know you're bi-curious but your (straight) wedding isn't far away, is it now or never to act on your curiosity? And if your sister purposely reads your journal and finds the not-so-nice things you wrote about her, who's the A-hole? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.skims.com/SHANDY to shop the Skims t-shirt shop! - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 to get 50% off your first box plus 20% off your next month! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:35 - Q1: Is Imitation—Of My Bumble Profile—Really Flattery? 13:17 - Q2: AITA If I Give My Friend Unsolicited Career Plan Advice? 26:58 - Q3: Might Bi-Curiosity Kill This Cat? 46:02 - Q4: I Vented About My Sister In My Journal & She Found And Read It—Help! 59:05 - Q5: To What Lengths Should My Friend Go To Get Paid Back By Her Ex? If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Shandy is back with their world famous recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 5 of Jenn Tran's season of The Bachelorette, Season 21! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY for 15% off! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase! - Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsors... - Go to https://www.fastgrowingtrees.com and use the code SHANDY for 15% off your order! - Go to https://www.furanostudio.com and use code SHANDY30 for 30% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:39 - Episode 5 Kick Off 11:58 - Rose Ceremony 14:04 - The Next Day 15:28 - Jonathon’s 1-On-1 25:40 - Group Date 40:50 - Grant’s 1-On-1 45:14 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party 47:41 - Rose Ceremony 2 48:15 - Previews 48:45 - Andy’s A-Game 49:43 - Fashion 57:33 - Shandy Word Watch 1:00:55 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Shandy is back with their world famous recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 6 of Jenn Tran's season of The Bachelorette, Season 21! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com:/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 40%! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase! - Go to https://www.earthbreeze.com/SHANDY for 40% off! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsors... - Go to https://www.lomi.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for $50 off your Lomi! - Go to https://www.fastgrowingtrees.com and use the code SHANDY for 15% off your order! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 3:14 - Episode 6 Kick Off 7:08 - Marcus’ 1-On-1 19:48 - Group Date 44:27 - The Next Day 46:00 - Jeremy’s 1-On-1 51:12 - The Next Day 1:04:34 - Rose Ceremony 1:05:52 - Andy’s A-Game 1:06:06 - Fashion 1:11:44 - Shandy Word Watch 1:15:36 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If your long distance boyfriend suddenly stops texting you without warning to go play video games, is that a sign of disrespect or a silly nothing burger? If your friends say they'll visit but routinely show up late (or not at all), what's a Shandy to do? If your dating situation makes you feel like one of the final two women on The Bachelor, how long is too long to give him to make his choice? And if your friend's public breastfeeding makes you uncomfortable, is it OK to say so? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com:/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 40%! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Introduction 3:04 - Q1: My Boyfriend Didn’t Make Me Feel Prioritized—Am I Overreacting? 12:21 - Q2: Our Friends Are Chronically Tardy And Have Even Stood Us Up—Help! 21:33 - Q3: I Feel Like I’m Final Two On The Bachelor—How Long Do I Give Him To Decide? 46:06 - Q4: I Told My Friend She Should Be Done Breastfeeding—AITA? 55:56 - Q5: My Brother’s Habit Is Driving Me Nuts—Tell Me What To Do, Shandy! If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Shandy is back with their world famous recaps! Today we're doing double, we're breaking down both Episode 8 and Men Tell All of Jenn Tran's season of The Bachelorette, Season 21! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.pestly.co and use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your order! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsors... - Visit http://www.fastgrowingtrees.com and use the code SHANDY for 15% off your order! - Go to https://www.skims.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your purchase of $75 or more! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 0:53 - Episode 8 Kick Off 2:27 - Devin’s Overnight 12:50 - Jonathon’s Overnight 19:05 - Marcus 24:30 - Marcus’ Overnight 38:03 - Episode 9 Kick Off 41:58 - Rose Ceremony 46:00 - Men Tell All 51:00 - Sam M’s Hot Seat 56:10 - Jonathon’s Hot Seat 56:47 - Secret Lives Of Mormon Wives Promo 58:10 - Grant 1:00:53 - Jenn  1:14:03 - Andy’s A-Game 1:14:40 - Fashion 1:19:20 - Shandy Word Watch 1:22:28 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Callers are back in session! Today we're joined by lovely Elaine. She's on the exciting precipice of transitioning from grad school to career, but she feels a sense of obligation to her longtime boyfriend who's followed her to support her dreams. When it comes to the sacrifices we make for a relationship, is there such a thing as quid pro quo? Listen on for the Shandy take! Are you interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy's new PRIVATE sessions! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Caller Elaine! 34:39 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's that time again, Shandies!!! We're back with volume 4 of our very special biannual UPDATES! When listening to our caller episodes and Q&As, if you find yourself wondering "where are they now?", today is all about filling in those blanks! We called out for updates from our question-asking Shandies and many were kind enough to provide their subsequent chapters, the good and the bad! Come join us in the living room where we're on the edge of our seats! Thanks to our sponsors! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Introduction 1:30 - Episode 61: Q2, from M: https://youtu.be/kNoYuDE8Pp0?si=nLXIbkxAV-AOfquD 5:54 - Episode 139: Caller Emily: https://youtu.be/wHMVz9lKNCA?si=232hcGf_EwATI4pJ 12:59 - Episode 182 - Q3, from M: https://youtu.be/FgJZYlWYlos?si=pbqYK3YhbUFHew6H 26:01 - Episode 206: Q5, from Jess: https://youtu.be/r4HxaRb6V6o?si=vlKL7Ma_UISDEvBv 32:15 - Episode 235 - Caller Cierra: “https://youtu.be/Kb6eHaAoyKs?si=CqKfWSoOsXQQOqX8 37:19 - Episode 245 - Q1, from Anonymous: https://youtu.be/4qeFKaVTQxA?si=aYNdxdgdE6ISqHLu 44:57 - Episode 247 - Caller Elizabeth: https://youtu.be/-vDRYxqpFPs?si=aF2s7oW8YzXDKOVF 48:48 - Episode 274 - Q4, from Carlie: https://youtu.be/U9h3heqGdpQ?si=upXNLSNZ4cm7sT-X 54:18 - Episode 277 - Q4, from J: https://youtu.be/0Ry4ja3wptk?si=4zFWEjzMkytrQCxV 57:35 - Episode 281 - Q3, from Anonymous: https://youtu.be/cUZ57oKjNMk?si=61lkrg5pihkvuWQW 1:04:36 - Episode 306 - Caller Erin: https://youtu.be/T5abB9KuNIU?si=4TnKBUHQt2A51mJ7 1:08:26 - Episode 309 - Q4, from J: https://youtu.be/jOI51eF3XRs?si=Z8XbR6nEHfznFLDT 1:15:48 - Episode 316 - Q5, from L: https://youtu.be/SfJyODiCxR0?si=W9NO-Y2admzFLUkR If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today's guest has come hotly requested by many of you and we're so happy to dissect the not-so-happy topic of childhood trauma with her. Anna Runkle, aka the one and only  @CrappyChildhoodFairy , is the author of the upcoming book "Re-Regulated" (releases October 1, 2024 - preorder below). She has amassed a whopping 860K+ Youtube subscribers with her content covering how to heal from Complex PTSD—or as she has coined, Childhood PTSD. If you struggle with regulating your emotions, if you get stuck in “looping,” repetitive, negative thoughts, if you struggle with anxiety, depression or overwhelm, or if you always find yourself with unavailable or inappropriate partners, it's highly possible a childhood of neglect or abuse might be to blame. Anna knows the experience well because she lived it herself. Today she breaks down the symptoms of CPTSD as well as her tried and true techniques to regulate your emotions and regain control of your life and your relationships. Listen on to heal! Thank you to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.pestly.co and use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your order! More Anna Runkle, Aka Crappy Childhood Fairy: - Preorder Anna’s Book, Re-Regulated: https://re-regulated.com - Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@CrappyChildhoodFairy - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/crappychildhoodfairy - Free Daily Practice Course: http://bit.ly/CCF_DailyPractice Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Anna Runkle, Aka The Crappy Childhood Fairy! 3:00 - What Is CPTSD? 4:18 - Loneliness And How It Relates To Childhood 5:59 - Can One Truly Heal Childhood Trauma? 7:15 - Anna’s Story 15:25 - What Do These Patterns Look Like? 17:40 - Anna’s Techniques 20:35 - Is To Heal To Find Closure Or Forgiveness? 26:25 - What An Adult Child Should Do About A Parent Who Still Exhibits The Behavior From Their Crappy Childhood 30:53 - What If The Adult Child Is The Sole Provider For That Parent? 32:50 - “My Codependent Mother Wants To Be My Friend. Is It Ok To Tell Her I Need A Parent?” 34:47 - Does Childhood Trauma Affect One’s Own Decision To Have (Or Not Have) Children? 39:00 - Anna’s Own Twice Daily Practice 44:33 - Analysis Paralysis 48:24 - “Why Don’t I Remember My Childhood?” 49:09 - Narcissism 50:16 - The Word “Because” 53:35 - The Parent’s Perspective 57:22 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by one of Bachelor Nation's most iconic women, Krystal Nielson and her partner, Miles Bowles! You may remember Krystal from Arie's season of The Bachelor and season 5 of Bachelor In Paradise. We learn how Krystal and Miles balance each other out, how parenthood has changed their lifestyle, and of course, how they FIGHT! Finally, a Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game with questionable scoring but sufficient entertainment to make it A-OK. Who knows who better? Watch on to find out! More Krystal: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachkrystal_ Website: https://www.krystalnielson.com More Miles: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/milesbowles Pül Smartcap: https://www.instagram.com/pulhydration If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today Shandy is joined by a Bachelor Nation POWER COUPLE who has been married for nearly a year. You got to know Caelynn on Colton Underwood's season of The Bachelor, and Dean on Rachel Lindsay's season of The Bachelorette, but it was on season 6 of Bachelor in Paradise where we saw them escape reality TV, hand-in-hand! Today Caelynn and Dean chat their true first impressions of one another, the ways in which their partner isn't what they might have predicted for themselves, what the biggest misconceptions about them are, and of course, how they fight! Finally, a relaxed but very fun Newlyweds Game! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! More Caelynn: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/caelynnbell TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@caelynnbell Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@CaelynnBell More Dean: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/deanie_babies TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@deanie_babies Blog - https://www.deaniebabies.com/ Caelynn & Dean: Podcast - https://www.instagram.com/help_i_suck_at_dating Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome Caelynn & Dean Bell! 3:42 - Their New Surname 8:25 - First Impressions 21:13 - The Podcast 26:33 - How They Complement Each Other 33:39 - How Their Partner Is Different Than They Imagined For Themselves 40:07 - How They Fight 45:22 - Common Misconceptions 52:01 - What They’ve Learned Through Working Together 58:18 - Beliefs About Relationships That Have Changed 59:15 - The Newlyweds Game 1:12:00 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's that time of year again... Dear Shandy is officially 4 years old! And what better way to celebrate than to answer YOUR questions! We polled you over on Instagram and received a particularly fabulous selection of Qs about us, our relationship, the podcast, and of course, the random stuff in between! Thank you, Shandies, for another year of making us feel seen, understood, and like we're in the company of found family. We love you guys! Come join us in our living room to chat! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://farmacybeauty.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off your order! - Go to https://eatfungies.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off plus free shipping! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 40%! - Go to https://www.prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE! Previous Anniversary Q&As... 1 Year Anniversary Q&A: https://pdst.fm/e/chrt.fm/track/38G817/traffic.megaphone.fm/BOOJE9711623600.mp3?updated=1694617411 2 Year Anniversary Q&A: https://pdst.fm/e/chrt.fm/track/38G817/traffic.megaphone.fm/BOOJE8112889855.mp3?updated=1694627652 Time Stamps: 0:00 - Introduction 1:47 - What Advice Would You Give Aspiring (But Intimidated) Podcasters? 3:58 - What’s The Best, Most Non-Intrusive Way To Approach You In Person? 6:00 - If You Could Only Watch One TV Show For The Rest Of Your Life, What Would It Be? 15:38 - Is Andy Tired Of Watching The Bachelor Yet? 18:51 - Which One Of You Would Win Survivor?  22:01 - What Animal is Truly The King Of The Jungle? 24:15 - If Asked, Would You Both Host A Reality TV Show? 25:07 - What Type Of Natural Disaster Are You Most Afraid Of? 28:31 - At 4 Years Of Podcasting, What Is More Frustrating Than When You Started And What Is Less? 35:37 - When Are Andy And Thomas Reuniting? 35:36 - When Wiping, Do You Bunch Or Fold Your Toilet Paper? 36:26 - Describe Yourself As A Kitchen Utensil 37:51 - Do You Break Your KitKats Or Bite Into Them With Disregard For The Breaking Line? 40:25 - What Is Something New That Ruby Has Brought Out In Your Relationship? 43:15 - How Did You Choose Ruby’s Name? 44:07 - I Know Sharleen Loves Video Games But Has Andy Ever Played One And Enjoyed It? 47:46 - If You Could Each Go Back And Tell Your Partner’s Younger Self Something, What Would It Be? 51:45 - How Many 3-Year Olds Do You Think You Could Fight Off Before They Overtook You? 55:29 - If You Could Drop Everything Right Now, Money Is Not An Object, Where And How Would You Go And Live? 58:40 - Thank You If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If the guy you're into goes radio silent, is is possible to salvage things? Is it possible a few years of experience could turn an ex from a bad lover into a good one? And what are Shandy's thoughts on a sexless marriage of 8 years? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsor! - Go to https://www.hellofresh.com/SHANDY16 and use code SHANDY16 to get up to 16 free meals, plus 3 free gifts! 0:00 - Q1: I'm 23 And Stuck In A Cycle Of Situationships—Should I Take Myself Off The Market For Now? 12:21 - Q2: My Crush Has Gone Radio Silent—What's My Next Move? 25:36 - Q3: I Have Anxiety Over Interacting With My Ex-Best Friend At An Upcoming Wedding—Am I Overreacting? 33:14 - Q4: I Have Been In A Sexless Marriage For 8 Years—Give Me Guidance! 55:01 - Q5: My Longtime Friend And Ex Was Bad In Bed Then But It's Been Years—Is It Worth Risking The Friendship To Pursue Romance Again? If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 2 of the first ever Golden Bachelorette season! Thanks to our sponsors! - If you’re 21+, go to https://bit.ly/viiashandy and use code SHANDY to receive 15% off! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase! Our Word Watch sponsors! - Go to http://fastgrowingtrees.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your order! - Go to https://www.eatfungies.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping & Random Question 3:11 - Episode 2 Kick Off 8:52 - Group Date #1 18:26 - Chock’s 1-On-1 25:34 - The Next Day 27:40 - Group Date #2 34:40 - BBQ 46:59 - Rose Ceremony 52:26 - Andy’s A-Game 55:21 - Shandy Word Watch 57:19 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Shandy is back with Bachelor Season 26 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode7. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.stance.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first purchase! - Go to https://www.thefab.co/shandy for 25% off Fabulous Premium! - Go to https://www.hellotushy.com/SHANDY for 10% off plus free shipping! - Go to https://www.truebill.com/SHANDY to cancel unwanted subscriptions and save $$$ with one tap! 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:24 - Overall Thoughts On Episode 7 3:12 - Episode 7 Kick Off 6:08 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party 12:54 - Rose Ceremony 15:45 - Vienna, Austria 20:52 - Susie's 1-On-1 27:02 - Group Date 56:58 - Serene's 1-On-1 1:01:44 - Rose Ceremony 1:04:43 - Shandy Word Watch 1:06:30 - Shandy's Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Support Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today we're breaking down the hotly-anticipated series premiere of the Golden Bachelorette! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.keepertax.com/shandy for a free trial plus 10% off your subscription! - Shop the Skims Soft Lounge Collection at https://www.skims.com/SHANDY - Go to https://farmacybeauty.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off your order! - Go to https://www.huel.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your order! - Go to https://www.fatty15.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout for 15% of your 90 day subscription starter kit! Our Word Watch sponsor! - Go to https://www.eatfungies.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! Time Stamps: Coming soon! If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Does breaking a promise more than once make you a "bad" friend? What about costing your friend $$$ because you bailed on her birthday? If your roommate won't stop "complaining" about getting hit on—after always wanting to get hit on—how should you proceed? And another GYM question!!! Woohoo! Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.eatfungies.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off plus free shipping! - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY for 15% off science-driven skincare! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! - Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Introduction 4:35 - Q1: Am I Delusional For Wanting To Be Friends With This Ex? 11:47 - Q2: Am I A Bad Friend If I Break My Promise Twice? 27:06 - Q3: My Friend Bailed On My Birthday Trip At The 11th Hour—How Do I Address This? 45:53 - Q4: My Roommate Keeps “Complaining” About Getting Hit On—What Should I Say? 1:05:45 - Q5: This Gym Guy Is So Honest But Also Confusing—What’s My Next Move? If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Shandy is back with their world famous recaps! Today we're breaking down the shocking FINALE of Jenn Tran's season of The Bachelorette, Season 21! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your first order! - Go to https://mudwtr.com and use code SHANDY to get up to 43% off your entire order, Free Shipping and a Free Rechargeable Frother! - Go to https://www.skims.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your purchase of $75 or more! - Head to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 to get 50% off your first box plus 20% off your next month! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsors... - Visit http://www.fastgrowingtrees.com and use the code SHANDY for 15% off your order! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:00 - Jenn’s Family In Hawaii 27:58 - Devin’s Final Date 30:26 - Doctor Odyssey 31:42 - Marcus 38:19 - Neil Lane 40:26 - Record Scratch 1:00:33 - Proposal 1:13:09 - Golden Bachelorette Preview 1:13:43 - Andy’s A-Game 1:19:12 - Fashion 1:22:32 - Shandy Word Watch 1:23:35 - Night One Predictions 1:24:35 - Overall Thoughts If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you name your friend your baby's guardian but she doesn't live up to the role, is it OK to rescind the title? Does not wanting to attend your friends' kids' birthday parties make you an A-hole? How to choose between Mister Nice Guy and Mister Good In Bed? And finally, the age old question: Just HOW does one go about hitting on their COUSIN?!?!! Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Introduction 2:19 - Q1: I Celebrate My Friend’s Birthdays But She Often Forgets Mine—Is She A Hypocrite Or Are We Not As Close As I Think? 11:43 - Q2: Am I The Asshole For Not Wanting To Attend My Friend’s 2-Year Old’s Birthday Party? 16:32 - Q3: My Baby’s Guardians Have Really Disappointed Me—Can I Rescind Their Role? 37:37 - Q4: How Do I Hit On My Cousin? 46:26 - Q5: Mister Nice Guy Vs Mister Good In Bed—How Do I Choose? 59:25 - Q6: To Dye Or Not To Dye My Grey Hair? If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! When in a relationship, is it inappropriate to get dinner alone with your opposite-sex friend and his parents? Is closure within reach when the object of your affection was hot and cold to begin with? And if your boyfriend tells you your singing annoys him, is that a nothing burger or dealbreaker territory? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com:/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 40%! - Go to https://huel.com and use code DEARSHANDY for 15% off your order! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 5:00 - Q1: In A Relationship, Is Getting Dinner Alone With An Opposite-Sex Friend And Their Parents Appropriate?  13:00 - Q2: Should I Reach Out To My Hot-And-Cold Date For Closure? 23:20 - Q3: Am I The Asshole For Feeling Neglected By My Friend Since She Met Her New Boyfriend? 33:23 - Q4: My Boyfriend Told Me My Singing Annoys Him So Now I Don’t Sing Around Him—Does This Matter? 55:22 - Shandy’s Favorite Flavors If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If your FWB relationship is firmly in the past, should you still tell your current partner about it? How important is it to have a social life outside of one's relationship? And how reasonable an excuse is "bad timing"? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Q1: My Partner Wants To Replace Our Planned Couple Getaway With Yet Another Annual Family Visit—Am I Being Difficult? Q2: My Boyfriend And I Are In A Healthy Long-term Relationship But We Both Don't Have Any Close Friends—Is This Normal? Q3: Should I Tell My New Partner About My Former Friend Group FWB? Q4: My Boyfriend Insists That I Should Change My Name If We Get Married But I Love My Name—Thoughts? Q5: My Ex And I Ended On Bad Terms And I Want To Tell My Story But It Involves Sharing A Secret Of His—Right Or Wrong? Q6: The Guy I've Been Hooking Up With Blames "Timing" For Us Not Making It Official—Is This BS? Referenced book (with the pie chart): Breakup Bootcamp by Amy Chan - https://amzn.to/3xiCCDf Sharleen's blog post about not changing her name: http://www.alltheprettypandas.com/blog/2016/to-change-or-not-to-change If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by caller Sarah, whose ex broke things off around 6 months ago. While things ended with a lot of question marks on Sarah's end, he did tell her he'd like to remain friends. Should Sarah take his recent text as a sign to embark on a platonic friendship? Listen on for the Shandy take! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Caller Sarah! 11:32 - Shandy Sleuthing 37:06 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Support Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you find yourself in a flirty dynamic with your (married) boss, is this pre-mistress territory? If your sister is interested in your brother-in-law but you question their compatibility, how honest should you be? If your friend sleeps with the ex of another friend of yours, is this friendship-ending messy behavior? And how do you make friends if you're not "pretty"? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE! - Go to https://huel.com and use code DEARSHANDY for 15% off your order! - Go to https://HelloFresh.com/FREESHANDY for 10 free meals! - Get a free travel bag with your first OneSkin order over $79 with code TRAVELGIFT at https://www.oneskin.co! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 4:49 - Q1: Am I About To Become The Mistress? 18:39 - Q2: My Sister Is Interested In My Brother-In-Law—What Should I Do? 29:37 - Q3: My Friend’s Recent Behavior Disgusts Me—Is She Too Messy? 45:39 - Q4: Can I Avoid Visiting My In-Laws? 1:01:40 - Q5: I Wish I Had More Friends & Think It’s Because I’m Not “Pretty”—Shandy’s Advice? If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever found yourself wondering "where are they now?" when listening to our caller episodes and Q&As? Well... drumroll, please... UPDATES ARE BACK, BABY! This is our second ever installment of what we hope to make a biannual tradition. We called out for updates from our question-asking Shandies and many were kind enough to provide their subsequent chapters, good or bad! Come join us in the living room where we're on the edge of our seats! Thanks to our sponsors! - Head to https://www.moshlife.com/SHANDY to save 20% off plus FREE shipping on your first 6-count Trial Pack! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Introduction 0:55 - Episode 32: Q3, from Gabby - https://youtu.be/GvYfIlViSnk 5:40 - Episode 40: Q1, from Claire - https://youtu.be/GLK2kbK78j4 11:05 - Episode 80: Q5, from Aria - https://youtu.be/550ahd6ZtF4 24:42 - Episode 95: Q3, from Christina - https://youtu.be/JjSsIJaFGzI 28:28 - Episode 107: Caller 2, Danielle - https://youtu.be/pFIEaZXDV50 31:03 - Episode 125: Q2, from H - https://youtu.be/Y0GLNYRq2qo 33:27 - Episode 125: Q5, from S - https://youtu.be/Y0GLNYRq2qo 35:20 - Episode 129: Q5, from Lisa - https://youtu.be/0HD8P34ITQI 38:54 - Episode 140: Q1, from Danielle - https://youtu.be/Et2s0pt-7lI 42:25 - Episode 146: Q3, from C - https://youtu.be/ygmeFYPyYMk 47:04 - Episode 166: Caller 1, Ray - https://youtu.be/JWaxbrWEwMw 48:24 - Episode 182: Q1, from Roni - https://youtu.be/FgJZYlWYlos 54:07 - Episode 182: Q4, from Anonymous - https://youtu.be/FgJZYlWYlos 1:00:56 - Episode 184: Q3, from Bass - https://youtu.be/5G1JlNLmwLE 1:04:48 - Episode 197: Q4, from Snooty - https://youtu.be/dtHws_MFWho 1:09:47 - Episode 197: Q5, from The Mistress - https://youtu.be/dtHws_MFWho 1:14:37 - Episode 214: Q5, from Mrs Missus - https://youtu.be/LDTzewx3uQU If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 3 of the first ever Golden Bachelorette season! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your first order! - Go to https://factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 to get 50% off your first box plus 20% off your next month! - Go to https://huel.com and use code DEARSHANDY for 15% off your order! - Go to https://eatfungies.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off plus free shipping! Our Word Watch sponsors! - Go to https://cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for up to 40% off! - Go to https://fastgrowingtrees.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your order! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 3:37 - Episode 3 Kick Off 6:02 - Pascal’s 1-On-1 13:18 - Sharleen’s Frant 25:14 - Group Date 39:45 - Jonathan’s 1-On-1 49:13 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party 57:20 - Gerry 1:03:21 - Rose Ceremony 1:03:53 - Andy’s A-Game 1:04:09 - Shandy Word Watch 1:07:48 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 4 of the first ever Golden Bachelorette season! Thanks to our sponsors! - Shop Skims Bras at https://www.skims.com/SHANDY for free shipping on $75+! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! - Get a free travel bag with your first OneSkin order over $79 with code TRAVELGIFT at https://www.oneskin.co! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! Our Word Watch sponsors! - Get 15% off OneSkin with the code SHANDY at https://www.oneskin.co! - Go to https://cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for up to 40% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 4:15 - Episode 4 Kick Off 5:04 - Group Date 22:59 - The Next Day 26:00 - Jordan’s 1-On-1 33:50 - Guy’s 1-On-1 39:33 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party 51:19 - Rose Ceremony 53:35 - Andy’s A-Game 54:26 - Shandy Word Watch 57:27 - Shandy’s Predictions 1:03:30 - F***, Marry, Kill If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 5 of the first ever Golden Bachelorette season! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://farmacybeauty.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off your order! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com:/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 40%! - Go to https://prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today! - Go to https://sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your first order! - Go to https://fatty15.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout for 15% of your 90 day subscription starter kit! Our Word Watch sponsors! - Get 30% off with code SHANDY30 at https://www.furanostudio.com! - Get 15% off OneSkin with the code SHANDY at https://www.oneskin.co! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 3:50 - Episode 5 Kick Off 12:41 - Keith’s 1-On-1 18:43 - Mark 24:55 - Back On The Date 32:58 - Group Date 39:46 - Mark’s 1-On-1 47:47 - The Next Day 50:27 - Rose Ceremony 56:06 - Andy’s A-Game 57:44 - Shandy Word Watch 1:00:36 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 6 of the first ever Golden Bachelorette season! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to http://lomi.com/SHANDY and use the promo code SHANDY for $50 off your Lomi - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! Our Word Watch sponsors! - Get 30% off with code SHANDY30 at https://www.furanostudio.com! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 3:27 - Guy’s Hometown 13:14 - Pascal’s Hometown 28:50 - Jordan’s Hometown 37:09 - Chock’s Hometown 49:00 - Rose Ceremony 1:00:14 - Andy’s A-Game 1:00:38 - Shandy Word Watch 1:02:11 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 7 of the first ever Golden Bachelorette season! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to http://www.goodamerican.com/shandy and use code SHANDY to get $50 off your first pair! - Go to https://joinbilt.com/SHANDY to earn points by paying rent right now! - Go to https://hexclad.com/SHANDY for 10% off your order! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE! - If you’re 21+, go to https://bit.ly/viiashandy and use code SHANDY to receive 15% off! - Go to https://jennikayne.com and use code DEARSHANDY to get 15% off your first order! Our Word Watch sponsors! - Get 30% off with code SHANDY30 at https://www.furanostudio.com! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 5:36 - Episode 7 Kick Off 11:58 - Guy’s Overnight 39:45 - Pascal 42:04 - Pascal’s Overnight 51:51 - Andy’s A-Game If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you find out your therapist used to be your mother's therapist, should you "break up" with them, and if so, how? If your friend keeps asking bothersome requests of you, is there a way to get them to stop? If your partner is against marriage, is that a dream you should let go? And if you tend to play photographer to your friend group but are saddened when they never seem to reciprocate, is this a fixable friendship dynamic? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://jennikayne.com and use code DEARSHANDY to get 15% off your first order! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com:/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save 40%! - Go to https://fatty15.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout for 15% of your 90 day subscription starter kit! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today! Time Stamps: 0:00 - A Very Random Introduction 3:15 - Q1: How Do I Break Up With My Therapist? 11:15 - Q2: How Do I Get My Friend To Stop Asking Me This Question? 21:04 - Q3: I Love My Partner But She Never Wants Marriage Or Kids—How Do I Bury These Dreams? 32:38 - Q4: I’m The “Paparazzi” In My Friend Group But It’s Never Reciprocated—Help! 52:18 - Q5: How Do I Befriend My Online Match-Turned-Coworker? If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ask and you shall receive! By extremely popular demand, Shandy is back to recapping Love Is Blind! Today we're breaking down the first batch of season 7, episodes 1-6! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.branchbasics.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY to get 15% off plus free shipping! - Go to https://www.storyworth.com/DEARSHANDY to save $10 on your first purchase! - Go to https://www.lolavie.com and use code SHANDY15 to get 15% off your order! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today! - Go to https://www.sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your first order! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:46 - Garrett & Taylor 16:12 - Ashley A & Tyler 25:13 - Monica & Stephen 40:06 - Marissa & Ramses 48:41 - Alex & Tim 1:01:40 - Leo & Brittany 1:12:09 - Hannah & Nick 1:34:23 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ask and you shall receive! By extremely popular demand, Shandy is back to recapping Love Is Blind! Today we're breaking down the first batch of season 7, episodes 7-9! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.masterclass.com/SHANDY for up to 50% off! - Go to https://fromourplace.com/SHANDY to get up to 40% off your order! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE gift AND a 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 + 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first subscription! - Go to https://www.lomi.com/SHANDY and use the promo code SHANDY to get $50 off your Lomi! - Go to https://www.goodamerican.com/shandy and use code SHANDY to get $50 off your first pair! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 4:51 - Garrett & Taylor 18:08 - Monica & Stephen 36:10 - Marissa & Ramses 1:02:29 - Hannah & Nick 1:14:10 - Ashley & Tyler 1:25:39 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today we're breaking down Men Tell All for the first ever Golden Bachelorette season! Thanks to our sponsors! - Shop Skims Bras at https://www.skims.com/SHANDY - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 to get 50% off your first box plus 20% off your next month! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a free gift + a 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first subscription! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! - Go to http://www.lomi.com/SHANDY and use the promo code SHANDY to get $50 off your Lomi! - Go to https://www.jennikayne.com and use code DEARSHANDY to get 15% off your first order! Our Word Watch sponsors! - Go to https://www.fromourplace.com and enter code SHANDY at checkout to receive 10% off sitewide! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:18 - Men Tell All 36:50 - Bloopers 41:30 - Preview 44:02 - Andy’s A-Game 46:52 - Shandy Word Watch 48:34 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today we're breaking down the grand Finale of the first ever Golden Bachelorette season! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com:/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save 40%! - Go to https://farmacybeauty.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off your order! - Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your first order! - Go to https://helixsleep.com/DEARSHANDY to get 27% off Sitewide + 2 FREE Dream Pillows with any mattress purchase! - Go to https://fromourplace.com/SHANDY to get up to 40% off your order! Our Word Watch sponsors! - Go to https://www.fromourplace.com and enter code SHANDY at checkout to receive 10% off sitewide! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 3:34 - Finale Kick Off 10:25 - Bora Bora 43:55 - After The Final Rose 50:08 - Grant If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Callers are back in session! Today we're joined by not one, but TWO lovely callers: Sally and Cat! Sally's situation is from several years ago but she still wonders if she was the A-hole for sharing what her husband told her about their mutual acquaintance. Where is the line when it comes to "breaking" the Bro Code, and are you the A-hole if you're the one to then share that information? Cat, meanwhile, is at a crossroads with two platonic friendships. She has felt disappointed by both friends, and being a direct person, she's willing to air her grievances head on. But with the passing of time and different priorities, are some friendships simply meant to fade? Listen on for the Shandy take! Are you interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy's new Off The Record sessions! Thanks to our sponsor! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Caller Sally! 21:21 - Shandy Debrief 26:22 - Welcome To Caller Cat! 56:49 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

HAPPY THANKSGIVING, SHANDIES!!! It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! We're all told not to quit growing up, but when you're an adult making adult decisions, is it ok to be a "quitter"? Is there anything wrong with a "sexless" but otherwise happy marriage? And if your friend who owes you $1000 then has the audacity to ghost you, what should you do? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 4:50 - Q1: Is It OK To Be A Quitter? 10:58- Q2: Is A Sexless Marriage Destined For Failure? 25:20 - Q3: My Friend Owes Me $1000 And Is Now Ghosting Me—Help! If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today we're joined by Love Is Blind's Meg and Mason, aka the couple we WISH we got to watch make it to the altar! Shandy is thrilled to welcome Meg and Mason IN STUDIO for this candid conversation! Today Meg and Mason dish on their relationship (are they or aren't they dating??), what it was like watching the show back, and whether or not they wish they'd stayed on all season. Meg shares how it *really* felt watching back Mason and Madison's scenes, and they share whether or not Madison is the reason they broke up. We learn what got cut from the Reunion as well as their true thoughts on those "receipts"! Lots of fun (and tea) in this conversation—we loved chatting with these two and think you will too! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to http://fastgrowingtrees.com/SHANDY and use SHANDY at checkout for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! - Go to https://sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY for 40% off your first order! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE $76 gift with your first subscription! More Meg: - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/meggofueggo - TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@meggofueggo More Mason: - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/masonhoracek - TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@masonhoracek Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Meg & Mason! 4:29 - Why Now And Not Then? 8:11 - Their Private “Big Reveal” - good spot for thumbnail 10:09 - First Impressions 13:46 - Did They Date Other People? 15:56 - Watching It All Back 20:09 - Madison 35:25 - Mason’s Response To Viewers Who Felt He Led On Both Women 38:05 - Do They Wish They’d Stayed On The Show For The Experience? 42:26 - The Reunion 55:32 - The Receipts 57:44 - How Mason Ended Up On The Show 59:52 - How They Complement Each Other 1:01:40 - Would They Have Met Without The Show 1:03:43 - How They Fight 1:05:57 - The Newlyweds Game 1:14:58 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Shandy is back with Bachelorette(s) Season 19 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 11, aka the Finale, Part 1! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to www.franklyapparel.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for $20 off your first purchase! - Go to https://www.hellofresh.com/SHANDY16 and use code SHANDY16 to get up to 16 free meals across 7 boxes, plus 3 free gifts! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout to save 35%! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:37 - Overall Thoughts On Episode 11 4:17 - Episode 11 Kick Off 4:54 - Zach Speaks With Rachel 11:16 - Rose Ceremony 12:39 - Live: Zach And Rachel 18:46 - Aven Meets Rachel’s Family 32:21 - Rachel Chats With Her Friends 37:02 - Rachel Chats With Aven 47:34 - Erich Meets Gabby’s Family 51:15 - Tino Meets Rachel’s Family 56:46 - Aven’s “Last Shot” 1:06:04 - Rachel 1:11:54 - Live: Aven And Rachel 1:14:00 - Gabby’s Final Date With Erich 1:22:24 - Shandy Word Watch 1:24:13 - Shandy's Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Support Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ask and you shall receive! By extremely popular demand, Shandy is back to recapping Love Is Blind! Today we're breaking down the FINALE and REUNION for season 7, aka episodes 10-12! Thank you to our sponsors... - Shop the Skims Holiday Shop at https://www.skims.com/shany! #skimspartner - Get a free travel bag with your first OneSkin order over $79 with code TRAVELGIFT at https://www.oneskin.co! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 3:20 - Alex & Tim 9:47 - Hannah & Nick 31:13 - Marissa & Ramses 48:10 - Reunion: Monica & Stephen 50:07 - Reunion: Leo & Brittany 51:23 - Ashley & Tyler 1:04:03 - Garrett & Taylor 1:09:45 - Special Announcement If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If your maid of honor feels you should have a dry wedding to accommodate your mutual friend, are you the A-hole for taking issue with that? Is it normal for your boyfriend to follow numerous "Instagram models", or is it just today's culture? If you dig up past dirt on your husband's phone, who's more wrong: him for lying, or you for spying? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.masterclass.com/SHANDY for up to 50% off! - Go to https://www.prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save 40%! - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY for 15% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 3:18 - Q1: My Maid Of Honor Thinks I Should Have A Dry Wedding To Accommodate Our Mutual Friend—Help! 7:45 - Q2: I Hate That My Boyfriend Follows Several Instagram Models—Am I Overreacting? 24:01 - Q3: I’ve Sleuthed My Husband’s Phone And Found A Past I Can’t Get Over—Help! 43:52 - Q4: I Can’t Stand My In-Laws’ Gift Giving Etiquette—Am I Wrong? If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

At long last, we're joined by Carolina from season 29 of The Bachelor! Today Carolina dishes the behind-the-scenes dirt on being the season's "villain" and shares the many things Grant told her off camera. She also provides loads of juicy context for the season's most polarizing scenes. Did Grant act like a player? What did Rose *really* tell Carolina off camera? Have she and Dina patched things up? And is Mean Girl Mob Mentality a thing? We devoured this candid conversation with the open book that is Carolina and we think you will too! Thanks to our sponsors! - Head to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50OFF and use code SHANDY50OFF for 50% off your first box plus free shipping! - Go to http://fastgrowingtrees.com/SHANDY and use SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Head to https://www.functionhealth.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY to skip the waitlist! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today! More Carolina: - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itscarolinasofia - TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@itscarolinasofia Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Carolina! 1:37 - Was She Ever A Contender For Bachelorette? 2:43 - Did She Know She’d Become The “Villain”? 6:32 - Was There A Moment When Things “Turned”? 9:24 - That Dancing Group Date 11:44 - Things Grant Said 15:15 - Relationship Management 18:03 - The Season’s “Great Leader” Culture 24:16 - Rose & The “Player” Vibes 35:12 - Juliana 38:44 - The Scotland Group Date 43:10 - Dina 48:50 - Women Tell All 51:06 - True Friends 51:57 - Her Honest Thoughts on Grant 53:49 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's our last non-recap episode of 2024 and today's all about reflecting on past year! In keeping with tradition, we're answering YOUR questions about our personal bests and worsts of 2024. THANK YOU, lovely Shandies, for yet another year of being the friends we've never met (but in some cases have!) Happy, happy holidays and see you in 2025! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://fromourplace.com/SHANDY to save over 35% on your order now through January 12! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today! - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/50SHANDY and use code 50SHANDY to get 50% off your first box plus free shipping! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE gift AND a 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first subscription! - Go to https://sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your first order! - Go to https://helixsleep.com/DEARSHANDY to get 20% off Sitewide + 2 FREE Dream Pillows with any mattress purchase! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Introduction 4:01 - Favorite Place Visited 8:07 - Best Animal Encounter 9:17 - Favorite Meal 10:14 - Best Movie 11:00 - Best Escape Room 12:19 - Best Experience 16:09 - Favorite Pair Of Andy’s Socks 16:20 - Best Food With Cheese Eaten 19:34 - Best Thing You Spent Money On 21:28 - Worst Movie 23:21 - Worst Book 26:25 - Least Favorite Show That We Recapped 26:35 - Biggest First World Problem 28:53 - Worst Reality TV Villain 30:26 - Biggest Podcast-Related Lesson Learned 38:23 - Most Memorable Fan Encounter  41:38 - Will You Consider Becoming Full-Time Podcasters in 2025? 44:53 - Hardest Lesson 49:00 - New Routines 54:40 - Proudest Moment 57:15 - F*ck, Marry, Kill: Japan, Ireland, New Zealand? Items mentioned: 5-minute journal: https://amzn.to/4iDIHkK Nodpod eye mask: https://bit.ly/41EpJEO If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Shandy is back with Bachelor Season 26 recaps! Today we're breaking down the premiere. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.truebill.com/SHANDY to cancel unwanted subscriptions and save $$$ with one tap! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get your first dermatology visit for only $5! - Go to https://www.feals.com/SHANDY to get 40% off your first 3 months of membership, plus free shipping! 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:55 - Overall Thoughts On Clayton's Season Premiere 2:42 - Clayton Surprises His Mom 7:14 - Jesse Palmer 8:13 - Getting To Know Clayton 11:46 - Intro Videos 20:34 - Salley 26:39 - Andy's Burning Question 28:53 - Shandy's Limo Exit Wins And Fails 36:11 - Clayton's Toast 36:54 - Notable 1-On-1 Time 53:05 - First Impression Rose 53:57 - Rose Ceremony 56:37 - Shandy Word Watch 58:53 - Shandy's Predictions 1:04:42 - Wild Cards If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Support Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps, *finally* recapping Netflix's The Ultimatum for the first time ever! Today we're breaking down the third batch of season 3, aka the Finale and Reunion! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.masterclass.com/SHANDY for up to 50% off! - Go to https://helixsleep.com/DEARSHANDY to get 20% off Sitewide + 2 FREE Dream Pillows with any mattress purchase! - Go to https://joinbilt.com/SHANDY to earn points by paying rent right now! - Go to https://fatty15.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for an additional 15% off their 90-day subscription Starter Kit! - Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 to get 50% off your first box plus 20% off your next month! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 3:51 - Cliffhanger: Sandy & JR 10:44 - Ultimatum: Zaina & JR 14:37 - Ultimatum: Mariah & Caleb 20:34 - Ultimatum: Sandy & Nick 29:54 - Ultimatum: Aria & Scotty 33:58 - Reunion: Mariah & Caleb 39:54 - Reunion: Aria & Scotty 46:23 - Reunion: Zaina & JR 56:26 - Nail QR code 58:57 - Vanessa & Dave 1:14:57 - Reunion: Sandy & Nick 1:19:53 - Final Thoughts If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps, *finally* recapping Netflix's The Ultimatum for the first time ever! Today we're breaking down the second batch of season 3, aka episodes 6-8! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! - Go to https://jennikayne.com and use code DEARSHANDY to get 15% off your first order! - Go to https://lolavie.com and use code SHANDY15 to get 15% off your order! - Go to https://acorns.com/SHANDY or download the Acorns app to start saving and investing for your future today! - Go to https://oakessentials.com and use promo code SHANDY15 for 15% off your first order plus a free gift! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:43 - Trial Marriages, Cont’d 2:01 - Zaina & Scotty 7:54 - Aria & Caleb 11:33 - Sandy & JR 17:29 - Nick 24:17 - The Changeover 37:55 - Second Trial Marriages 38:46 - Sandy & Nick 53:01 - Zaina & JR 1:00:19 - Mariah & Caleb 1:04:07 - Aria & Scotty 1:10:40 - Shandy’s Predictions 1:11:51 - Who We Think Is The Cuckold Couple 1:12:55 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices