Calm it Down (Chad Lawson)

We all have that one t-shirt. You know the one I'm talking about—it's the one you've had for years and years, and it's seen better days. It's comfortable, sure, but it's also stained, full of holes, and maybe a little bit smelly. Just like an old t-shirt, our emotional baggage can be stained with the negative experiences of our past. It can be full of holes from all the times we've been hurt. And it can be so threadbare that it doesn't provide any warmth or protection anymore. Sound familiar? That's because that old t-shirt in your closet is a lot like your emotional baggage. Listen in and let me explain.

We’ve all been there, struggling and feeling like we have to fight our own battles alone. We put on a brave face and tell ourselves everything is fine, but often times the truth is that we could really use some help. Asking for help has long been viewed as a sign of weakness or failure, leaving us feeling stigmatized or embarrassed when it comes time to reach out for assistance. But why? Why can't seeking help from others be seen as an admirable act of courage — something expected rather than shamed? Let's find out by uncovering the secrets behind this four letter word: Help. Together, let's explore how understanding the stigma surrounding asking for assistance can empower us to take control of our lives!

We take a few lessons from the star of the Peanuts comic strip, Snoopy, as he shows us a most creative way of processing our thoughts.

2 words; social media. Our lives are consumed by it. We've successfully entered a world where reality is wrapped in horseback rides at sunset, helicopter views over manhattan, champagne, and caviar dreams. But what's behind the photo filtered life? Why are we so obsessed with the world of other's who have their own path already. Listen in as we ponder what Van Gogh would have thought and he to let go of the lie that we don't measure up.

In the Disney classic film, Finding Nemo, we learn from the character, Dory, a superpower technique in calming the mind. And while we all know 'Just Keep Swimming'  we're saving that song for something else down the road. Dory shows us a secret in keeping our head above water that even she didn't know about. While this episode is the official trailer for Calm it Down, it also outlines what this podcast is about. Simple, positive, encouraging techniques to calm the waters in the midst of a storm.  Even though the podcast is centered around emotional awareness, our website offers additional resources and support relating to emotional and mental health. In addition to these resources found at calmitdownpodcast.com  website, we also encourage you to engage in conversations at our social media platforms such as Facebook & Instagram. 

Every now and then we need just a little push. Be it a first step or crossing the finish line, sometimes we just run out of steam. Today, in celebrating the 25th episode, we fill our minds and hearts with words of wisdom from some of the most revered individuals to have walked the same steps you’re probably taking today. Listen in as we reflect where we are from 25 weeks ago and take some words of encouragement as we look towards the next 25 weeks ahead.

Ever catch a whiff of grandma's apple pie and suddenly you're eight again? That's nostalgia's magic, and we're diving in deep. We'll explore how these trips down memory lane can boost your mood (and even make you feel warmer – thanks, science!). But before you start binge-watching childhood shows, we'll chat about balancing past cherished moments with present living. Join me to discover how to use your personal greatest hits as fuel for the future, not just a highlight reel on repeat. This memory lane trip as we Calm it Down in 3...2...1.

Imagine if we had a switch that could instantly ease our nerves. We could flip it whenever we felt anxious or stressed, and breathe a sigh of relief as calmness washed over us. Of course, such a thing is only a fantasy. But that doesn't mean we can't find ways to calm ourselves in the moment. Sometimes, all it takes is a deep breath. Listen in as we learn you have everything you need with you RIGHT NOW to calm the mind and aid in easing your anxiety.

Change. We change. Our activities, our elements, even our shoes change. I mean, if you’re still wearing your shoes from 5th grade, I hand it to you. But honestly, dealing with change is simpler than you my realize. In this episode, I show you 3 simple steps to putting the anxiety of the unknowns to rest. The first one may just surprise you.

We plan, we schedule, we assume we're in control of our destiny but what do we do when those plans turn to poop? Life certainly has its share of disappointments, it's own rainy days without the umbrella. But it's how we deal with the rain that determines if we're splashing puddles for fun or stomping them out of self-pity. Listen in as I have some insights to share as well as some words of wisdom by #1 best selling author, Ryan Holiday, from his number 1 selling book, The Obstacle is the Way.

Ever felt lonely, even when you're not alone? This episode dives into why we all feel lonely sometimes and what we can do about it. I talk about the challenge of making friends as adults and share ideas on how to connect with others more easily. Let's find out together how one new friend could change everything as we Calm it Down in 3...2...1. Episode Sponsors: In this episode, I've teamed up with Wild Health, a revolutionary approach to personalized healthcare. Using precision medicine, they tailor health recommendations based on your unique genetic makeup. Discover how to optimize your health for the better. Use promo code CALM for 20% off your membership at WildHealth.com/CALM. Also, we introduce Incogni, your ally in protecting digital privacy. They contact data brokers on your behalf to remove your personal information, safeguarding you from data leaks and cyber-criminals. Secure your privacy with a 60% discount on an annual plan by using code CALMIT at incogni.com/CALMIT.

Ever find yourself lost in old photos, feeling that bittersweet pull of yesterday? Join us as we explore turning nostalgia from a maze into a guide. You'll discover how to embrace those memories while staying anchored in today's moments as we Calm it Down in 3...2...1.

This is the first episode in a month-long series on mental health awareness. In May, which is mental health awareness month, we are talking about self harm and suicide. This episode has a tip on how to get through moments when all you can think about is leaving. There is something better than just finding an exit. I will show you how to find peace in the chaos and stay for the big show; ie life. Listen as we learn how to take things one moment at a time.

Everyone should know the warning signs when our bodies are telling us we're under too much stress but what to do about it is rarely taught. Which means it’s usually swept under the rug and never mentioned. Why is that? We know how to cook 3-4 meals, make 2-3 cocktails even but when it comes to stress or anxiety we panic, completely shut down and just hope it never comes back....but it always does. Today, you're going to learn 2 very important life-lessons to pull out when the stress is pulling you down. Listen in, it's easier than you thought and more powerful than you'd ever imagined.

Aaahhhh, Summer. The sun, the surf, the sandcastles. It’s finally here. Blanket? Check. Shades? Check. Sunscreen? Don’t forget the sunscreen! Can’t forget the sunscreen. A day of bliss can turn into a week of burns! Before running for the waves take a sec to ready yourself; both physically and emotionally. Just as you take the time to apply the SPF 9 million this summer, remind yourself the importance of your emotional sunscreen as well. Giving yourself space, ‘coverage’ if you will. Volleyball and bonfires are great but so are quiet walks looking for seashells. This episode, Summer, Shades & Sunscreen, I share how to keep from getting the emotional sunburn by taking just a few simple steps you may have overlooked with the sun being so bright.

We often find ourselves lost in the expectations of others, societal norms, and the dreams of our loved ones. It's easy to forget that our lives should be a reflection of our selves; what we imagine our life to be. But what if we could reclaim our lives and chart our own course? This is the journey of self-discovery that we embark on in this episode. Join me as we explore the process of untangling the web of external influences, embracing our individuality, and making intentional choices that align with our authentic selves. Get ready to be inspired, to embrace your uniqueness, and to chart a path towards a life that's truly your own. Let's Calm it Down in 3...2...1.

We are never given more than we can handle. So when you feel like life is giving you too much to handle, know that it chose you for a reason. It saw the strength in you to be able to deal with whatever situation it throws your way. Be grateful for the chance to help others through their time of need and ask yourself what strength you can bring to them. Life will always find a way to keep going, no matter how hard things seem at first. You just have to be willing to see the good in every situation and find the strength within yourself to get through it and to realize for THIS particular moment you're in, Life Chose You.

I go searching for inspiration in the most random of places, birthday cards. All in hopes of finding what really to tell a 10-year-old.

Are you tired of constantly chasing after happiness and feeling like you're never quite satisfied? Well, in this episode, I explore the difference between contentment and complacency, and how the Finnish have mastered the art of being the happiest country in the world for the 6th straight year! What is in the WATER up there!? Join me as I share some tips on how to cultivate contentment in your life, and why it's so important to avoid becoming complacent.

Do we ever stop to wonder where our moments of joy and happiness come from during our daily routine? Today's podcast episode aims to explore this thought-provoking question. We're taking a break from the usual rush to understand our emotions better. We'll find out that the source of our happiness isn't as hidden as we may think. By understanding it, we can tap into it more, bringing more joy into our day-to-day lives. Tune in to discover more about your happiness and where it truly comes from.

When's the last time you felt truly present in your life? Like R-E-A-L-L-Y taking each moment in instead of just racing to the next thing. In a society that glorifies busyness, it's easy (and often) to lose sight of what really matters.  Join me as we explore how to reclaim our time and energy by aligning our days with our deepest values. I share some practical thoughts for saying no to draining obligations and yes to the things that give us life. If you're ready to hop off the hamster wheel and start investing in what feeds your soul, this episode is for you. If so, let's Calm it Down in 3…2…1. Episode Sponsor: Miracle Made Sleep better with Miracle Made's NASA-inspired temperature-regulating sheets. Infused with silver, they prevent 99% of bacterial growth and stay fresh 3x longer. Save over 40% plus get a free towel set with promo code CALM at TryMiracle.com/CALM.

Have you ever felt like life’s a crumpled fitted sheet—messy, imperfect, and far from the neat rectangle you imagined? In this episode, we unpack The Beautiful Mess Theory—how the chaos and wrinkles in your story hold unexpected beauty and meaning. Learn to embrace imperfection, reframe the messy moments, and uncover the gold seams in your life as we Calm it Down in 3...2...1.

Ever pondered why perfection seems overrated? In this episode, "Perfectly Overrated: You're Doing Better Than You Think," I turn this idea on its head. Just like the unique charm in a lopsided mug or a hat-shaped bowl, life's almost whimsical imperfections make us who we are. Listen in as I dive into an art form where 'perfect' isn’t always the goal, and exploring how the lessons from a potter's wheel can help us embrace our own wonderfully imperfect lives. Join me, as we reshape our perspective on perfection. Remember, you're doing better than you think! Let’s find out how in 3…2…1.

Ever wondered how the perfect melody can drift you off into dreamland? Well, in today's episode, we're exploring the fascinating rhythm of rest and how calming music can help you sleep faster and better. Listen in as I share the science behind soothing tunes and how they work their magic to slow down your heart rate and whisk you away to a peaceful slumber. So, whether you're battling bedtime woes or simply want to level up your relaxation game, join me in this cozy conversation while you'll also hear NEW music from my latest EP, drift! Let's unlock the secrets of music together and make those sweet dreams a reality. Tune in now as we Calm it Down in 3...2...1.

Ever feel like you're on an endless treadmill chasing perfection? Well, what if we ditched that impossible standard and embraced "better" instead? In this episode, we'll explore how focusing on progress rather than perfection can lead to more joy and growth. Join me to discover how this simple mindset shift can transform your approach to life's ups and downs as we Calm it Down in 3...2...1.

Ever lie awake replaying a moment you wish you could undo? Regret can feel like a heavy backpack you never meant to carry—but what if it’s actually a compass pointing you toward growth? In this episode, learn how to turn past missteps into meaningful insights and carry wisdom instead of shame. Let’s reframe regret together as we Calm it Down in 3...2...1.

In today's episode we take a little inspiration from Mr. Rogers and a lot from Brad Montague's fantastic book "Becoming Better Grownups". When we stop to think about our influences, those who made us into the persons we are, our character traits, our demeanor, our achievements, you'll be surprised by the list of who's who in your life and by how many you truly have been crafted after.

Grief. Even the word bears a heaviness like no other. We've all had a loss in some way or form. But perhaps there's a different way of looking at the word 'grief'. Because in order to grieve, you actually need something first. And that something may not be what you thought it would be.

You. You've been 'there' since day one. You know your best days, your not-so-best days, your struggles, your success. And while some days you feel nothing good comes from anything, I want you to know that you are changing lives; realize it or not. You are the difference in someone else's life. The influence they need right now. The whisper of hope. You. You Matter.

Ever found solace under a cloudy sky? In this episode of Calm it Down, we delve into the hidden beauty of life's grayer days. Discover how embracing these moments can bring unexpected growth and tranquility. Join me for some reflection into understanding and appreciating the quiet, profound lessons hidden in the clouds. Tune in to uncover the strength in stillness and the wisdom in life's softer shades as we Calm it Down in 3...2...1.

Ever thought you could find some real-life wisdom in Harry Potter? In this episode of 'Calm it Down,' we're getting into just that. It's all about finding your own light, even when things feel kinda dark. I’ll share with you some ways to ‘shed some light’ with ideas like 'Shadow Mapping' and making a 'Gratitude Nightlight' to spot the happy moments hiding in everyday life. So, come hang out, find out how to brighten up your world a bit, and grab some ‘bright’ ideas (pun intended) on riding out the ups and downs as we Calm it Down in 3...2...1.

Can't quite put your finger on what you're feeling? You're not alone. In this episode, we explore why naming our emotions matters and how it can change everything. Learn simple ways to check in with yourself and understand what those feelings are really telling you, as we Calm it Down in 3...2...1.

Have you ever felt completely overwhelmed by life's challenges? In this episode of "Let's Calm it Down," we'll talk about finding hope, even when everything feels hopeless. September is Suicide Awareness Month, and this episode is dedicated to those moments when you're searching for light in the darkest times. We'll explore how even the smallest glimmer of hope can be a powerful guide, and how sometimes hope shows up in unexpected places.  With warmth and understanding, I'll remind you that your own light can brighten not only your path but also the world around you. Listen in, and let's rekindle that inner spark together, helping you become a light for yourself and others as we Calm it Down in 3…2…1.

Drowning in a sea of what-ifs and worries? This episode shows you how to sort through the mental noise and figure out which concerns actually deserve your attention. Learn practical ways to turn anxious thoughts into meaningful action - or simply just letting them go. Ready to breathe a bit? Ready to breathe a little easier? Ready to let go of worry? Let’s Calm it Down in 3...2...1.

Ready to get colorful with your feelings? I want to show you how to think of your emotions as a palette, filled with blues of sadness, reds of passion, and every hue in between. Listen in to this Summer Short as we dig into how to mix and balance these colors to paint a picture of a life truly felt. Get your brushes ready; we're about to create an emotional masterpiece!

Ever notice how “I’m fine” is often code for “I’m anything but fine”? It’s like the emotional equivalent of a shrug—polite, noncommittal, and packed with more baggage than an airport carousel. We all do it, don’t we? Smile, nod, and hope no one pries too deep. In this episode of Calm it Down, we’ll unpack the art of hearing what’s not being said—the sighs, the subtle shifts in tone, the “I’m fine” that’s one breath away from a breakdown. Together, we’ll explore how to truly listen, not just with our ears but with our whole selves. Because sometimes the most important thing you can hear is what someone doesn’t say.

Some nights you just lay there asking yourself "did I do the right thing today? Did I turn right when perhaps I should have turned left? The mind spinning the spiral of questions of should haves. But today, I'm going to share with you something that has guided from day one and will do so for the rest of life; your gut. That intuition, that inner voice giving you the road map one step at a time. Sometimes we doubt the turns and that's okay. Detours eventually get us where we need to be; when we're supposed to. Listen in as we pull out the compass of our intuition and follow our gut to where it takes us. And yes, sometimes that means following it to some chocolate chip cookies ;) This episode is sponsored brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/CALMITDOWN and get on your way to being your best self.

What would you do if movie magic became reality? If, in the movies, we could always get what we wanted by just wishing hard enough or following our hearts, life would be a dream. However, as we all know, this is not the case. In real life, things don't always go according to plan. We make mistakes and sometimes life doesn't turn out the way we hoped it would. Just like in the movies, though, there is still much to be learned from these less-than-perfect moments. But listen in as you'll see there's a reason for this. And guess what, it's a great one. You won't be disappointed

Ever feel like part of you is stuck in the past, holding onto old wounds? In this episode, we’re diving into inner child healing—reconnecting with your younger self, honoring past hurts, and finding the joy that’s always been yours. I’ll share stories and simple tools to help you let go of old baggage, heal, and rediscover the light within you. Let’s embrace your inner firefly and reignite that radiant, resilient spirit as we Calm it Down in 3…2…1.

Have you ever felt drained after hanging out with certain people? It's like they somehow managed to suck the energy right out of you! Well, it turns out that the company we keep can seriously impact our well-being. In this Summer Shorts episode, we're going to talk about "mindful companionship" - a fancy way of saying "choose your friends wisely." We'll explore how setting healthy boundaries and letting go of toxic relationships can help you create a personal ecosystem that's all about positivity and growth. Join me as we dive into the importance of surrounding yourself with people who lift you up and support your journey. Get ready to discover the freedom that comes with putting your own well-being first and nurturing relationships that truly nourish your soul. So, grab a snack, get comfy, and let's talk about how to create a social circle that's got your back as we Calm it Down in 3…2…1.

Sure, sure, you’ve heard the Rolling Stones’ “You Can't Always Get What You Want”?, since you were knee-high but do you KNOW the story behind it!? Who would have thought we would tackle the subject of depression with Mick Jagger as our inspiration?!

 Join me as we start a 3 part series breaking down what depression really is and what we can do about it. Listen in as you may “just get what you need.” (Sorry, couldn’t resist!)

Ever feel like you're navigating a maze of emotions without a map? In today's episode, we explore the ultimate guide you didn't know you had: compassion. Believe it or not, it's the emotional GPS you've been searching for, and it's about to make your journey a whole lot smoother. Tune in and let's find our way together as we Calm it Down in 3…2…1. This episode is sponsored by OneSkin & BetterHelp Get 15% off OneSkin with the codeCALMathttps://www.oneskin.co/#oneskinpod BetterHelp.com/CALMIT - To get 10% off your first month

It would be redundant to say this year has been one besieged with perplexities and uncertainties. Covid, civil unrest, emotional distress, a people divided to great extremes politically, take your pick. Even for those who have never considered themselves emotionally strained or anxious, it has been mentally taxing to the point of breaking down for a much-needed cry. But why though? What is it about crying that we consider 'weak' or 'at the breaking point'? For some, stress release comes from jabbing a boxing bag, others through baking. What is it about crying that turns heads and says "Oh, dear. That person isn't well." In today's episode "It's Okay to Cry" we learn not only why we cry, but how we should embrace this emotional reset.

Do you ever feel like you're constantly in a hurry? Like you never have enough time for everything? Overwhelmed and stressed out? If so, then you may be experiencing what's called "hurry sickness." Unfortunately, hurry sickness is becoming increasingly common as our society becomes more and more fast-paced. But what is hurry sickness and why is it such a big deal? And most importantly, what can we do to address it and prevent burnout? Listen in to find out.

Unicorns and suicide have something in common: they're both based on fiction. We like to think of suicide as something that doesn't happen to real people, that it's a myth. But the truth is, suicide is all too real. Every day, people of all ages and backgrounds take their own lives. And while we may not know them personally, their deaths have a ripple effect, touching the lives of those who knew and loved them. September is Suicide Awareness Month. If we're going to prevent suicide, we need to stop treating it like a myth and start acknowledging the very real pain and suffering that leads someone to take their own life. Only then can we hope to provide the support and resources that those in need so desperately deserve.

What happens when we let ourselves embrace the quiet? In a world that's always buzzing with noise, finding moments of stillness can feel impossible—but what if those moments are the key to real peace? In this episode, I explore the power of silence and how it can help us reconnect with ourselves, boost creativity, and calm the chaos in our minds. Join me as we discover how a little quiet time can go a long way in finding balance and clarity.

Searching for our true selves can be both intimidating and exciting. Despite the pressures of everyday life, remembering to pause and recognize moments when we feel in tune with our most honest selves can be incredibly rewarding. It may sound simple, but sometimes it’s hard to recognize when these moments are occurring. A good place to start is by paying attention to what brings you joy, whether that's spending time alone, engaging in a physical activity or simply having a conversation with someone. These experiences have the potential to reveal different parts of your personality and foster an even deeper understanding of who you are beneath all of the expectations and responsibilities that life throws at us. So let’s embark on this journey together as we look for ways to authentically express ourselves and ultimately reach a place of lasting fulfillment.

How often have you ever thought "I'm probably the only one that thinks, acts, lives this way." As much as I want to talk about it with someone, anyone, I should just keep it to myself, smile, nod my head and wait to breakdown behind closed doors. It feels like we're carrying a heavy burden, but we don't want to tell anyone about it. We’re afraid that if we speak up, people will think we’re ‘not of sound mind’. So we keep quiet and carry on as best as we can. But the truth is, this shame is crippling us. It’s holding us back from living the life we want to live. And it’s time to break free from it. So how do we do that?

What’s the first animal that comes to mind when I say “break through”? What animal literally kicks its way free in order to move into the next cycle of life which we gaze at bewilderedly in its beauty? 

 No, this isn’t an episode about science or about rare species, but how a most beautiful animal has a story that will resonate with all of us.

Dishes. The pile up, we ignore them. Or, we rush through them to just ....well....rush through them. Who would have ever thought a Vietnamese Monk would offer such introspective insight with a sink full of dirty dishes. And to be honest, after learning, I can honestly say my life hasn't been the same since. I have a feeling yours won't be either. Listen in as we find a quieting mind amongst the pots and pans.

What is your favorite picture? The one at your desk or hanging on a wall that always seems turn any day of rain into sun. While that picture is your emotional go to, what if I told you there's more pictures waiting to be made. But sometimes it's easier to live in yesteryear than in the moment at hand. Listen in to this episode of Calm it Down podcast where I share some thoughts about what really makes the perfect picture.

You know that silence just before an orchestra's first note? In this episode, 'The Sound of Stillness’ we explore the amazing power of silence in our noisy world.  Imagine your thoughts as a symphony, each one playing its part in the grand composition of your life. Listen in to discover how to become the maestro of your own inner orchestra and why silence could be your most captivating performance yet. Let’s hear the silence as we Calm it Down in 3…2…1.

In life, we all experience disappointing moments. Times when things don't go our way and we don't get the outcome we were hoping for. These moments can be really tough to deal with and can sometimes make us feel like a disappointment to others and ourselves. But today, we're going to learn the difference between disappointing and being a disappointment. There's a much wider gap than you would ever imagine. Listen in, share with a friend and most importantly, give yourself some grace.

Feeling like the past year was a rollercoaster you didn’t sign up for? Ready to step into the new year with a little less stress and a lot more calm? Join me as we cross the Bridge of Hope—a simple, feel-good breathing exercise and visualization to let go of what’s heavy and embrace what’s ahead. Let’s Calm it Down in 3…2…1.

Who are we without the titles, trophies, and applause? We spend so much time chasing success, but does it define us? In this episode, we explore what truly makes us who we are—beyond achievements, beyond expectations. Because in the end, it’s not what we do, but who we are that truly lasts. Let’s find where we really are as we Calm it Down in 3…2…1.

Let's be real - trying to be perfect is exhausting. In this episode, we're ditching perfectionism and focusing on something that actually works: being better than we were before. Instead of piling on guilt and worry, we'll explore building habits that stick and setting goals that matter. Our mantra for 2025? "Better, Not Perfect." Come join me - as it might just change how you think about being ‘Perfect' while we Calm it Down in 3...2...1.

Ever catch yourself rushing to fix someone's problems, only to realize maybe that's not what they needed? We all want to help those we care about, but sometimes our well-meaning support misses the mark. In this episode, we explore the delicate balance between being there for others and giving them space to grow. Learn practical strategies for offering the kind of help that truly helps as we Calm it Down in 3...2...1.

Great. Everything is….great, supposedly. The pressure to look great, to feel great, to post something great but what if I just don't feel great. What if at my core I’m just sad. A study from 2017 stated an estimated 17.3 million adults in the United States had at least one major depressive episode. That was 2017. WAY before we pulled out the KN95s. This episode I’m going to share three reasons why feeling sad perhaps isn’t so bad after all; for a season.

Who would've thought we would learn so much from Pink Floyd's 1979 album, The Wall. As life happens, we get the various bumps, setbacks and punches below the belt. All of these and more lead to us "protecting ourselves" but what if it's that 'protection' that's hindering us from being our full potential? This wall, this shield we build around ourselves may not be what we think it is. Listen in to this archived episode as we break down the ideas behind 'The Wall' in our hopes to no longer be Comfortably Numb.

There's something about sitting down to a plate of food that can make us feel immediately guilty. We think about all the things we could have done differently - we shouldn't have had that extra slice of cake, we should have gone for a run before breakfast, we should be eating more greens. But what if, instead of beating ourselves up every time we eat, we took a moment to appreciate how miraculous and nourishing the food is? Just think about all the incredible things that had to happen for that meal to end up on our plates. The seed had to be sown, the sun had to shine, the rain had to fall, the crop had to be harvested. And that's just the journey of the food itself! Then somebody had to cook it, and somebody else had to serve it. So many people and so many processes came together to create this one meal, and it is truly a gift. If we can remember that every time we eat, maybe it will help us break the cycle of shame that food so often brings. Today, we talk about one of my very favorite things; food!

Wish. Has there ever been a word so empowering yet so debilitating? It’s the bedrock of fairy tells just as much as the downfall of dreams. “I wish things were different.” “I wish I could.” “I wish my life were like theirs.” As soon as the word Wish comes out of our mouths it’s as if we’ve given up. In this episode of Calm it Down Podcast, we direct our attention to the man whose kingdom was built on the wishes of others; Walt Disney. Listen in as we hear how life is more than wishes and fairy dust. But don’t fret, there’s plenty of room for the happily ever after.

Do you reach for your phone the second you're alone? What if that solo time could actually be a source of strength? In this episode, we explore how to turn moments of solitude into inner peace and creativity. We'll break down the difference between loneliness and solitude, and share simple ways to embrace quiet moments. Ready to make alone time your best friend? Let’s Calm it Down in 3...2...1

A question we rarely stop to think about. We wake up, brush our teeth, maybe have breakfast and before we know it we're on the treadmill of the day until we turn out the light at night. Do we ever stop to think about "where" does our happiness, our joy, those little perks in the day come from? Take a moment to listen in and pause. It's well worth taking the interest in as we find out where the well of happiness is hidden in our emotional valley.

Have you ever felt like you're drowning in a sea of never-ending bad news? In the age of everything in front of us with a screen, we're constantly bombarded with content across the emotional spectrum, from cute puppy pics to devastating tragedies, often without warning. As I explore how to stay engaged and empathetic in this 24/7 news cycle world while still making space for the joyful, "G-rated" moments that make life worth living, I invite you to join me on this journey of finding balance. Together, let's discover how to care for our well-being, focus our efforts to make a meaningful impact, and savor the simple pleasures that bring us hope and resilience as we Calm it Down in 3...2...1. Episode Sponsor: Wild Health offers personalized, preventative healthcare using your unique genetic, biometric, and lifestyle data. Their Precision Medicine approach provides tailored nutrition, exercise, and supplement recommendations to optimize your health and longevity. Get 20% off your membership with code CALM at WildHealth.com/CALM.

Why are you here? What’s left in life? What’s your purpose? My word so much pressure in finding our p-u-r-p-o-s-e. So much so there’s even such a thing as Purpose Anxiety (no, seriously). 

Take a breather from the rollercoaster and listen in as we talk about a different approach to the life you ‘should be’ living.

We often strive to be perfect in all that we do; but perfectionism can lead us down a path of constant dissatisfaction, feelings of guilt and worry. This year, instead of focusing on being perfect, let's focus on being better—better than where we were last year and better at taking care of ourselves. It's time to start aiming for progress rather than perfection and focusing our energy on developing better habits that will help us reach the goals we truly desire. This week, we start the new year with the mantra Better, Not Perfect. Join me and let’s take a step forward.

Have you ever found yourself chasing happiness, only to feel like it's always just out of reach? I used to believe that joy was like a rare unicorn, attainable only through grand adventures and major milestones. But what if true, lasting happiness is closer than we think? In this episode, we'll bust some common myths about what brings joy and explore how to cultivate contentment in the here and now. Join me as we discover that the magic of happiness lives within us, waiting to be uncovered.

Great. Everything is….great, supposedly. The pressure to look great, to feel great, to post something great but what if I just don't feel great. What if at my core I’m just sad. A study from 2017 stated an estimated 17.3 million adults in the United States had at least one major depressive episode. That was 2017. WAY before we pulled out the KN95s. This episode I’m going to share three reasons why feeling sad perhaps isn’t so bad after all; for a season.

Have you ever argued so passionately over something trivial—like the "correct" way to load a dishwasher—that you started narrating your own life in third person? “And there she stood, a hero against chaos, demanding order among the spoons.” This episode dives into the absurdity of always needing to be right and the unexpected joy of being wrong. Let’s embrace the ridiculous, as we Calm it Down in 3...2...1.

What would you do if movie magic became reality? If, in the movies, we could always get what we wanted by just wishing hard enough or following our hearts, life would be a dream. However, as we all know, this is not the case. In real life, things don't always go according to plan. We make mistakes and sometimes life doesn't turn out the way we hoped it would. Just like in the movies, though, there is still much to be learned from these less-than-perfect moments. But listen in as you'll see there's a reason for this. And guess what, it's a great one. You won't be disappointed

Today's episode is an encore presentation of one of my personal favorites, and a fan-favorite as well: "Regret is so 15 minutes ago." As you may know, I'm currently on tour and just finished playing two incredible shows in Canada (Quebec & Toronto). Right now, I'm in the City of Angels, Los Angeles, for a couple of days, before heading to Red Bank, NJ, and Washington DC on March 16th and 18th, respectively. If you're in any of those areas, be sure to come and say hi! But for now, let's dive into regret. It's a feeling that we've all experienced at some point in our lives, but it's all about the perspective we bring to it. In this episode, we'll explore how to move past regret and focus on the future. Thanks for tuning in, and I appreciate your support as always. Stay tuned for more exciting updates, and remember, regret is so 15 minutes ago!

Have you ever wondered which creature truly symbolizes the spirit of a “breakthrough”? Imagine an animal, which seems to be trapped, though patient while still determined to kick free and begin a new, vibrant existence. As it unfolds, we're left spellbound, witnessing a scene that's both poignant and powerful. This isn't your typical nature story; it's a reflection of our shared battles and victories. Listen in as I explore this inspiring tale and the parallels it draws to our own lives. Get ready to be moved. Let's find our breakthrough together as we Calm it Down in 3...2...1.

Have you ever felt like you're constantly racing through life, chasing one milestone after another, without ever feeling like you've truly "arrived"? In a world that glorifies hustle and grind, it's easy to get caught up in the endless pursuit of some imaginary finish line. But what if the most meaningful parts of our lives aren't meant to be rushed through, but savored? In this episode, we'll explore the transformative power of pressing pause - and how slowing down can actually be the key to richer, more purposeful living. Join me as we question our culture's obsession with achievement and discover the joy of embracing life's journey, detours and all as we Calm it Down in 3...2...1. This Episode is Sponsored by: Endel Endel is a game-changing app that creates personalized soundscapes to help you sleep, focus, and find calm in the chaos of modern life. Get an exclusive 7-day free trial when you visit endel.io

Do you feel guilty every time you put yourself first? Like you're somehow being selfish when you say "no" to others to say "yes" to yourself? It's time to reframe what being "selfish" really means. Just like putting on your own oxygen mask first in an airplane emergency (this will make more sense in the episode), taking care of yourself isn't optional – it's essential. Discover how healthy boundaries and self-care actually make you more available to others as we Calm it Down in 3...2...1.

Ready to get colorful with your feelings? Think of your emotions as a palette, filled with blues of sadness, reds of passion, and every hue in between. Listen in as we dig into how to mix and balance these colors to paint a picture of a life truly felt. Get your brushes ready; we're about to create an emotional masterpiece as we Calm it Down in 3...2...1. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp.

Feeling drained no matter how much you sleep? Like your spark has dimmed and you're not sure how to reignite it? This episode explores how burnout isn’t a dead end—it’s a signal. Discover simple, soul-nourishing ways to rebuild your energy, one small breath at a time. Let’s find your spark again… as we Calm it Down in 3...2...1.

Life’s every query imaginable is just a touchscreen away. Umbrella or sunscreen? Google it! Dinner reservations via phone? Open Table! Birthday present for mom? Amazon! A fix is always a click away. With a life of such ease, the one thing Amazon doesn’t stock is calm. Our anxieties are at an all-time high. Depression, debilitating. Stress, suffocating. Separation, soulless. The only place we’re not looking is within. In this week’s episode of Calm it Down podcast, Wax On, Wax Off - The Mundane Mastery of Mr. Miyagi, I share 3 incredibly useful, effortless, even mundane techniques in calming our mind, pressing through the obstacles and finding the purpose in every outcome.

In this episode, I take you on a journey through the unexpected surprises of life, much like those surprise gifts we find under the Christmas tree (socks, anyone?). I share some insights on how to turn those moments of disappointment into opportunities for growth and creativity. Listen in to learn how to embrace and find joy in life's unexpected turns. Trust me, it’s something you’ll want to unwrap as we discover how these surprising moments can become the most valuable gifts we never knew we needed. This episode is sponsored by Microdose.com. For those interested in exploring the benefits of microdosing THC for a more balanced life, visit Microdose.com and use the code CALM for free shipping and 30% off your first order. That's Microdose.com, code CALM, for 30% off.

The holiday season is a time of joy, family, and friends. But what happens when grief interrupts that? What do you do when the holidays don't feel like they used to? Today's episode explores some new traditions that can help make the holiday season a little more bearable for those who are grieving.

In this episode, I explore the balance between sticking to what's familiar and trying something new. We all face crossroads in life, but I had a listener write in and ask “What are you to do when you’ve committed your whole life to a passion and you’re no longer passionate about it?”, something I think we've all gone through at some point. We try to understand the emotional tugs of change and how to make decisions with clarity with this Part 1 of a 2 part series on Passion vs Persistence. Join me as we delve into life's twists, turns, and the beauty of choice as we Calm it Down in 3...2...1. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/CALMITDOWN and get on your way to being your best self. 

This episode comes from a listeners request and I LOVE the honesty in their asking. "What do you do when you HAVE to be around someone you just don't want to be around?" Great question. Let's face it, sometimes it's just difficult to get along with everyone! BUT, there are some things we can consider and possibly help in this "everyone be friends" landscape. Listen in as we learn a perspective we often let slide.

Insomnia. It's the ‘not so sleeping giant in the room’. Exhausted, we climb into bed knowing we'll crash as our head hits the pillow until we don't. We just lay there. One thought racing after the other. How do we stop the cycle? We all know the norms like avoiding caffeine, exercise, etc, etc. But, I’m gonna share two major techniques that have recently come to light during some groundbreaking research in the field. Join me today and every Tuesday as we Calm it Down.

Singer/songwriter Taylor Swift had a hit a few years ago called Shake it Off. In full transparency all I can remember of the song is the tag-line "shake it off" so I honestly have no idea WHAT the song is about BUT I reckon it to this episode about how, regardless we feel about it, life goes on. The show doesn't stop mid act and wait for us to recover/lick our wounds or even reflect. As you'll see in one of my most embarrassing moments in my professional career, The Show literally Goes On. Tune in to learn how sometimes we just have to laugh at ourselves and take the words of wisdom from Ms. Swift to simply shake it off.

The world we live in often pushes us to focus on the big picture! It's easy to overlook the small, everyday moments that bring joy and meaning to our lives. But what if these seemingly insignificant details are actually the key to unlocking greater presence, gratitude, and fulfillment?  In this first episode of the Summer Shorts Series, we'll explore the art of noticing the little things and discover how shifting our perspective can transform our experience of life.  Join me as we challenge ourselves to pause, breathe, and appreciate the beauty in the everyday - one tiny thread at a time.

Scars. Scars are hard. They’re a reminder of something we went through that we would rather forget. They can be a source of shame, or a source of strength. And no matter what they look like, or where they are, scars always have a story to tell. But the most interesting thing is 'how' our scars can not only empower us personally but be the hope in the lives of others.

Failure is something that we often try to avoid. We are taught from a young age that it's not okay to make mistakes, and that we should always do our best in order to be successful. But what if failure was actually the key to success? What if we stopped being afraid of failure, and started embracing it as part of the process? You are about to hear one of the most fascinating stories that seems to be absent from a lot of the history books. And once you hear of this iconic person and his path, you will be inspired to hear how sometimes we just need a little nudge of failure.

Do you ever feel like something is missing in your life? That there's a longing for something more but you're not sure what it is? In this episode of the Calm It Down Podcast, we explore the power of longing and how it can be an important signal that we're meant for something more. We'll discuss the difference between passing fancy and sincere desire, and how to begin to listen to the clues our longing provides. If you've ever felt lost or uncertain about your next steps, this episode is for you! Check it out, share it with a friend and drop me a note how you think longing is or isn't an integral part of your journey.

What’s Your Problem!? No, seriously. What is your problem? And let's be honest. Is it really a problem? After years of my asking countless couples “what has kept you together after so many years?”, one couple celebrating their 50th anniversary dropped the most unexpected words of wisdom that I did NOT see coming.

 Listen in as we not only learn ‘what IS our problem, but what to do about it.’

Feeling stuck in a cycle of negative thoughts? Believe it or not, there IS a way out! Let me show you how shifting your focus can turn your day around. We’ll dive into the idea that “where your focus goes, your energy grows,” and how this simple mindset shift can reshape your reality. I'll share practical tips on how to redirect your thoughts and bring more positivity into your life. Let's open some doors to the rooms we want to enter into as we Calm it Down in 3...2...1.

Have you ever felt like a part of you is stuck in the past, holding onto old wounds and patterns? In this episode, we'll explore the transformative power of inner child healing. Join me as I share personal stories and practical tools for reconnecting with your younger self, honoring your past hurts, and reclaiming the joy and wholeness that can be truly your's. Together, we'll discover how tending to your inner child can help you release old baggage, heal deep-seated wounds, and shine your unique light in the world. Get ready to embrace your inner firefly and rediscover the radiant, resilient spirit that's been within you all along as we Calm it Down in 3…2…1. In this episode, I also share how upgrading your sleep environment can support your inner child healing journey. Discover Miracle Made's temperature-regulating, silver-infused sheets that keep you comfortable all night long. Plus, enjoy over 40% off and get 3 free towels with promo code CALM at TryMiracle.com/CALM.

Ever feel like you’re just going through the motions, unsure of who you really are beneath the labels and expectations? In this episode, we’ll explore how to reclaim the missing pieces of your identity, let go of what doesn’t fit, and rediscover what truly makes you you. Join me as we Calm It Down in 3…2…1.

We pick up from last week's episode Understanding You - Currency, Part 1 as we turn our focus now to someone else; Understanding Someone Else - Currency Part 2. After hearing this episode, I hope you are inspired with a new perspective in being able to connect with someone besides yourself. Be it your spouse, your sibling, even a stranger. Listen in as I share a few key secrets in building relationships that will forever stay with you.

Ever feel tiny under a starry sky? Let's flip that idea on its head! What if those twinkling stars are actually in awe of you? In this episode, we're diving into a mind-bending perspective that'll have you seeing yourself in a whole new light. We'll explore how viewing yourself through the star’s eyes can brighten your self-worth and help you shine even on the cloudiest days. Let’s rediscover your inner glow and find your place in the heavens even with our feet planted here on Earth. Trust me, you won't look at the night sky the same way again!

Think about a day last week. Any day. What was your favorite day from last week? During the noise and the chaos of those seven days was there a moment that made you pause and smile? A bike ride or your favorite ice cream. Maybe something more significant like having a child or finally hitting that career achievement.   Our days are so intense, so consuming we’re exhausted before we put our feet on the floor each morning. It’s understandable all we see before us every morning are obstacles and set-backs. But when we make a habit to reflect on the things to be thankful for, to bring to mind those experiences both now and in the past, from the people who love you, to the roof over your head and the food on your table, you will come to see it’s a pretty long list of moments that truly matter.

in 1932, theologian Reinhold Niebuhr inked one of the most recognizable aspirations of serenity ever written. So much so, it became ingrained in many 12 step programs such as Alcoholics Anonymous. What do these 27 words have to offer in helping us find our calm? Listen in as you may find yourself saying it when you need it most.

Ever feel like you're starring in a movie you didn’t sign up for? In this episode, we’re diving into the wild ride of uncertainty. When the plot twists keep coming, how do you stay grounded? Together, we'll explore how to stay calm in the chaos and turn life’s unknowns into open-minded adventures instead of things to fear. And what if, instead of worrying, you asked yourself, “What if this turns out better than I imagined?” So, let’s grab some popcorn and learn to embrace the mystery, even when we don’t know how it ends. Ready to turn life’s curveballs into your own blockbuster? Let’s find out as we Calm it Down in 3...2...1.

What’s the worst that could happen? And why is it that’s generally the first thing we think about; the worst possible scenario! Listen in as we learn how to stop thinking the worst, or in technical terms, catastrophizing.

What next? Restrictions lifted almost daily as guidances continue to lend a hand towards the world reopening. It’s the hour we’ve all been waiting for. “Getting back to normal” we’ve been saying since March of last year. But suddenly we’re asking ourselves…am I ready? I just settled in. What if I don’t want to go outside, be social, shake hands or even just hug……

 As we were a year ago, we find ourselves in the same position today; new waters. And just because everyone is ready to jump in the pool that doesn’t mean you have to join them this second. 

Listen in as I share my thoughts about easing in into life post-Covid 19.

Today's episode is bitter sweet. Bitter in the sense that it's the final episode of Season One but sweet in looking back to see all that we've come through. And don't worry, Season Two will return in September. But before you apply the SPF6700 to your nose and snorkle up, I have one tiny favor to ask before you embark the golden days of Summer. Listen in as you and I make a pact agreement with each other before we come back in September.

Feeling like there's an empty space where someone you loved used to be? This episode explores grief not just as loss, but as proof of a love worth celebrating. Learn how to honor your memories while finding new ways to share that love with others. Ready to transform emptiness into purpose? Let's Calm it Down in 3...2...1.