Books for Men (Douglas Vigliotti)

In this episode of the Books for Men podcast, host Douglas Vigliotti discusses the book The Order of Time by Carlo Rovelli. Vigliotti, who admits to having failed a physics class in college, finds the book enjoyable and accessible even for those with little knowledge or interest in physics. He appreciates Rovelli's ability to simplify complex topics without oversimplifying them, making them understandable to a wider audience. Vigliotti is particularly drawn to the book's exploration of time, a subject that fascinates him personally. He praises Rovelli's writing style, which combines scientific and philosophical elements, and highlights some of the book's key insights, such as the concept of impermanence and the idea that the world is a collection of events rather than things. Vigliotti encourages listeners to read the book themselves and shares information on how to support the podcast.

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🎙 Host Douglas Vigliotti dives into the enduring relevance of "The Prince" by Niccolò Machiavelli, a controversial Florentine Renaissance classic, and its complex nature as both satire and straightforward advice. Exploring the dark side of humanity and the unsavory aspects of power, influence, and persuasion, Vigliotti delves into what makes someone or something Machiavellian. Whether you agree or disagree with Machiavelli's philosophy, this episode will leave you pondering the intricate dynamics of leadership and human nature.

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This episode of Books for Men features Man's Search for Meaning by Viktor Frankl. A memoir about an Austrian psychiatrist's experience surviving Nazi death camps, as well as, his psychotherapeutic approach to living a meaningful life. Listen for more!

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This episode of Books for Men features LaBrava by Elmore Leonard. A crime novel set in Miami about an ex-secret service agent slash photographer-extraordinaire who falls for the starlet he loved as a kid, meanwhile, she's mixed up in a shady scheme with a rent-a-cop and a Cuban gangster. It's Leonard, a master, at his best. Listen for more!

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🎙 Douglas Vigliotti explores the powerful wisdom of legendary samurai Miyamoto Musashi in “The Book of Five Rings," a philosophical work on combat strategy that offers profound insights applicable to life beyond the battlefield. Uncover Musashi's teachings on both the physical and mental aspects of swordsmanship and discover how his Zen-like approach to understanding one's opponents can unlock new levels of empathy in your life. Prepare to be inspired as this ancient Japanese text unveils timeless lessons on efficiency, adaptability, perspective, and the power of unlearning.

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In this episode of the, It’s Not What It Seems podcast, I have an entertaining conversation with Jay Acunzo. Jay is the author of Break the Wheel: Question Best Practices, Hone Your Intuition and Do Your Best Work.

*See show notes at douglasvigliotti.com/podcast/23-jayacunzo

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In this episode of the Books for Men podcast, Douglas Vigliotti discusses the book I Remember Nothing by Nora Ephron. The book is a collection of essays and memoirs by Ephron, a prominent screenwriter known for movies like When Harry Met Sally and Sleepless in Seattle. Vigliotti praises Ephron's wit and sensibilities and describes the book as a meditation on life and death. He highlights the balance of lightness and heaviness in the essays, mentions some humorous and thought-provoking quotes from Ephron, and recommends a documentary about Ephron called Everything Is Copy. Vigliotti concludes by encouraging listeners to share the podcast to support the initiative of inspiring more men to read and reminds listeners they can connect with him on Instagram @douglasvigliotti.

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This episode of Books for Men is a short recap of all the episodes from May '23. There was (1) nonfiction book, (1) work of fiction, and (1) edition of From the Vault. I also share some big updates for BooksforMen.org, like full episode transcripts, new tabs, etc. Listen for more!

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🎙 Host Douglas Vigliotti discusses the sparse but scintillating novel "Sugar Street" by Jonathan Dee. As the unnamed protagonist settles in a new town, he grapples with the question of whether it is possible to truly lose one's identity in today's society. With thought-provoking insights and a focus on small stakes, this book explores themes of shame, guilt, identity, and the search for self.

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In this episode of the, It’s Not What It Seems podcast, I have a spiritual conversation with don Miguel Ruiz Jr. Miguel is the author of don Miguel Ruiz’s Little Book of Wisdom: The Essential Teachings. 

*See show notes at douglasvigliotti.com/podcast/12-donmiguelruizjr

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This episode of Books for Men is a short recap of all the books and authors we covered in February '23. It also shares a key update on The Books for Men Newsletter. Listen for more!

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In this episode of the, It’s Not What It Seems podcast, I have an entertaining conversation with Ryan Serhant. Ryan is the author of Sell It Like Serhant: How to Sell More, Earn More, and Become the Ultimate Sales Machine.

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In this episode of the, It’s Not What It Seems podcast, I have a fun conversation with Chip Conley. Chip is the author of Wisdom @ Work: The Making of a Modern Elder.

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Entry #41 answers a listener's question and shares the supplements I currently take in 2022. It couples well with entry #37 where I documented some of my larger health changes. It's important to remember that a supplement is just that, a supplement. They're intended to supplement your diet, workout, and/or lifestyle (not replace it.)

*Disclaimer: I am not a physician or doctor, so please consult with your healthcare provider before using anything I mention in the entry. This is just meant to be documentation of the supplements that I take and that work for me (right now.)

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Entry #2 answers a listener question—why are you doing the audio-diary format? (Great question.)

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This episode of Books for Men introduces “Bad Advice”—a new segment where I debunk advice that I think is given far too often. This edition speaks to the foundation of crappy advice. Listen for more!

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In this episode of the Books for Men podcast, host Douglas Vigliotti recaps the month of December 2023 and expresses his gratitude to listeners for their support throughout the year. He encourages them to rate, review, or subscribe to the podcast and to share it with family and friends during the holiday season. Vigliotti announces that there will be no new episode next week and that the episode summaries will now also be featured in the newsletter. He then provides a recap of the month’s books: Obvious in Hindsight by Bradley Tusk, a satire about a political tech consultant group's attempt to legalize flying cars; A Million Little Pieces by James Frey, a memoir/novel about the author's time in rehab; and The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle, a book about living in the present moment. Vigliotti concludes by wishing listeners a happy holiday season and new year, hints at upcoming plans for the podcast in 2024, and reminds listeners they can always connect with him on Instagram @douglasvigliotti.

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This episode of Books for Men features Freedom's Child by Jax Miller. A thriller novel about a mother living as a protected witness who comes out of hiding (twenty years later) to save the daughter she gave up two minutes after birth. It's not for the faint of heart. Listen for more!

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This episode of Books for Men features How to Tell a Story by Aristotle. A new translation (by Philip Freeman) of Poetics—Aristotle’s classic surviving text on the art of storytelling. Maybe the most important work ever written on the subject matter. Quite simply, what makes one story better than another story? Listen for more!

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This episode of Books for Men features The Poet by Michael Connelly. A crime novel about a small-time reporter trying to solve the murder of his homicide detective twin brother. It turns into a secret FBI hunt for a serial killer who always leaves a line or two from Edgar Allen Poe with each of his victims. It's dark and propulsive. Listen for more!

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In this episode of the Books for Men podcast, host Douglas Vigliotti discusses the book American Tabloid by James Ellroy. He acknowledges that Ellroy's writing style can be challenging at times, but admires his ability to depict the world as he sees it without pandering to the reader. He believes that Ellroy accomplishes what he intends to do with his writing, even if readers may disagree with his language or style. American Tabloid explores the events leading up to the assassination of JFK, and Vigliotti expresses his belief that the government covered up the truth about the assassination. He discusses the book's theme of the undercurrent of power and dirty work that happens beneath the surface, and how the assassination of JFK was the first domino contributing to the American people's distrust of the government. Vigliotti praises Ellroy's ability to weave real-life characters and events into a fictional narrative, creating an entertaining read. He concludes by encouraging listeners to share the podcast and connect with him on Instagram @douglasvigliotti, and provides information on how to access full transcripts and sign up for the newsletter on the website BooksforMen.org.

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Entry #39 documents my thoughts on setbacks, and shares a better way to look at them in one's life. This entry also mentions an article I wrote back in 2019 titled The Accident: Reflections, Lessons, and Details. (If you'd like to read it, click the link.)

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🎙 Douglas Vigliotti recaps the month of October 2024, discussing the classic literary novel "The Great Gatsby" by F. Scott Fitzgerald, the pragmatic acting guide "True and False: Heresy and Common Sense for the Actor" by David Mamet, and the literary noir novel "The Rope Artist" by Fuminori Nakamura. With quick summaries, insights, and key quotes from the episodes, this recap is a great starter episode for new listeners and readers seeking inspiration. Good books await!

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Entry #1 is the trailer for the new version of It's Not What It Seems. It briefly covers what you can expect moving forward with the podcast—an unpolished examination of life, art, and creativity in 2-3 minute audio entries.

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In this episode of the Books for Men podcast, host Douglas Vigliotti expresses gratitude to listeners for supporting the show and spreading the word about it. He mentions that he plans to bring back interviews later in the year and introduces the concept of "Special Edition” episodes that will focus on art, entertainment, and books. Vigliotti then provides a recap of the books featured in February 2024. The first nonfiction book discussed is The Order of Time by Carlo Rovelli, which simplifies the complex topic of time and offers philosophical musings. The second nonfiction book is Outlive by Peter Attia, which explores a proactive approach to healthcare and longevity. The one work of fiction for the month was Big Swiss by Jen Beagin, a quirky novel that delves into themes of trauma, sexuality, and accountability. Vigliotti reflects on the genre of women's fiction and its historical context. He concludes with a reminder to connect with him on Instagram @douglasvigliotti, and provides information on how to access episode transcripts and the monthly newsletter.

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In this episode of the, It’s Not What It Seems podcast, my brother Darron and I discuss June 2019’s book of the month, Stumbling on Happiness by Daniel Gilbert. *See show notes at douglasvigliotti.com/podcast/40-botmhappiness

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🎙 Douglas Vigliotti dives into the book "Be Brief and Tell Them Everything" by Brad Listi. With a focus on brevity and honesty, Listi, host of the literary podcast Otherppl, explores the uncertainty of a creative life, parenting a child with disabilities, and the challenges of writers and artists living in a modern overexposed world. Join Vigliotti as he shares three key takeaways from this thought-provoking work of autofiction and some tips to help you navigate uncertainty in your life.

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This episode of Books for Men features another edition of “Bad Advice”—a new segment where I debunk advice that (I think) is given far too often. This edition speaks to all those "shortcuts" people are hawking. Do you really need it to be easier and faster? Listen for more!

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In this episode of the, It’s Not What It Seems podcast, I share an audio article titled, An Urge Worth Fighting. I wrote this article to help you think differently competition. There’s a subtle nuance that is likely affecting your life. You can follow it word for word at douglasvigliotti.com/blog/urgeworthfighting.

*See show notes at douglasvigliotti.com/podcast/26-urgeworthfighting

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Entry #15 shares a small dilemma that writers face when they're crafting something. Or at least I do, and I'd imagine most creators across most artistic disciplines face the same challenge. It really comes down to one question—how clear should I actually make this thing?

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🎙 Douglas Vigliotti explores “The Rope Artist” by Fuminori Nakamura, an acclaimed Japanese author whose noir-tinged literary fiction delves into the dark underbelly of the human psyche. Vigliotti delves into the author's lack of appeal in the United States, distinctive minimalistic style, and powerful usage of metaphor—in this case, ropes, tethering people to their pasts and struggles. Nakamura combines the rarity of transgressive with passive, creating an entire mood on the page.

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In this episode of the, It’s Not What It Seems podcast, I have a great conversation with Herb Cohen. Herb is the author of You Can Negotiate Anything!

*See show notes at douglasvigliotti.com/podcast/7-herbcohen

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In this episode of the, It’s Not What It Seems podcast, I share an audio article titled, The Hope Model. I wrote this article to show you a 3-step process that could change your life. You can follow it word for word at douglasvigliotti.com/blog/the-hope-model.

*See show notes at douglasvigliotti.com/podcast/17-thehopemodel

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Entry #18 reminds you that anything documented on It's Not What It Seems is not meant to be advice. It's just my current thoughts, quirks, and ways of doing things. For other creators, your own taste will reign supreme. Just like a chef. 

This entry also mentions an idea known as "The Taste Gap" by Ira Glass.

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🎙 Host Douglas Vigliotti shares his insights on how to read more and make it a habit using three key strategies. He emphasizes the importance of following your interests and only reading books that truly engage you. But with a subtle mindset shift and the three methods you’ll learn in this episode, you'll discover how easy it is to accumulate pages, build a reading habit, and explore the world of literature.

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In this episode of the Books for Men podcast, host Douglas Vigliotti discusses the book Tomorrow, and Tomorrow, and Tomorrow by Gabrielle Zevin. He praises the book for its effortless read and immersive storytelling. The book is a love story that follows the lives of Sam and Sadie over 30 years (but not the kind of love story you think it is.) It’s about friendship and partnership. Vigliotti highlights the clever use of second-person narration and the incorporation of different point-of-view techniques in the novel. He also mentions some of the book's witty and thought-provoking quotes, particularly those related to artistry and the creative process. Vigliotti emphasizes that the book will resonate with creatives, artists, and gamers. He concludes by encouraging listeners to share the podcast and support the mission of inspiring more men to read.

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This will be the final episode of It’s Not What It Seems. Thank you so much for listening and your ongoing support. It was a ton of fun and an honor to do the show. As the great Dr. Seuss once said, “Don’t cry because it’s over, smile because it happened.” 

As for me, I will just be placing a larger focus on my writing––adding two new columns to the blog, working on some longform projects, and doing some collaboration work. Plus, I’m working on a new book. So I truly hope this isn’t the end for you and I. The easiest way to stay in touch and see all the new stuff that’s coming is to join my reading list at DVReadingList.com.

In this episode of the Books for Men podcast, host Douglas Vigliotti discusses the non-fiction book The Tiger by John Vaillant. The book is a narrative non-fiction about a man investigating a murder that was caused by a killer tiger attack in the Primorye region of Russia. Vigliotti praises the book for its superb journalism and the extensive research done by the author, as well as its ability to provide suspense and entertainment. He highlights the interesting aspects of the book, such as learning about tigers and the history of the region. Vigliotti also mentions a chilling section in the book where a man recounts his experience of being attacked by a tiger. He concludes by encouraging listeners to continue supporting the podcast and visit the website for more information.

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🎙 Douglas Vigliotti recaps the month of July 2024, discussing the memoir "The Year of Magical Thinking" by Joan Didion, the novels "Be Brief and Tell Them Everything" by Brad Listi and “The Secret History” by Donna Tartt, and a special edition episode that delves into the debate of listening to audiobooks versus reading books. With quick summaries and key quotes from the episodes, this recap is a great starter for new listeners and readers seeking inspiration.

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In this episode of the Books for Men podcast, host Douglas Vigliotti discusses the novel The Killing Hills by Chris Offutt. He mentions that the book is often marketed as a thriller, but he believes it falls more into the mystery genre. Vigliotti praises Offutt's minimalist prose style and well-crafted plot. He describes the book as a detective PI-type mystery set in a small town in Kentucky, with elements of noir and a focus on the human element of the characters. Vigliotti also highlights the author's sensibilities and the subtlety of the chapter endings. He encourages listeners to share the podcast and connect with him on Instagram @douglasvigliotti, and provides information on accessing full transcripts and signing up for the newsletter at BooksforMen.org.

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This episode of Books for Men features Sputnik Sweetheart by Haruki Murakami. It's about an aspiring young female writer who falls for an older woman and then mysteriously goes missing on Greek Island while on vacation with her. Line for line, nobody hits harder than Murakami. Listen for more!

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Entry #34 shares three books I just finished reading—two novels and an essay book. The books are authored by Fuminori Nakamura, Patrick Hoffman, and David Mamet. It also shares a great Mamet insight for storytellers. Oh, and I almost forgot it mentions an article I wrote back in 2019 titled A Modern-Day Dating Problem. (Lol, I know.)

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This episode of Books for Men features an edition of “From the Vault”—a new segment where I share an episode from my previous podcast, It's Not What It Seems. This is a great chat I had with Greg McKeown, author of Essentialism, a book featured on the pod earlier this month. So much gold here. Listen for more! (Original publish date: 10/7/18.) 

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Entry #48 answers a listener's question and documents my process of learning how to write better stories. If you zoom out, then you can use the approach to learn anything. It's all backboned by what I like to call "The Interest Principle." 

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This episode of Books for Men features an edition of “From the Vault”—a new segment where I share an episode from my previous podcast, It's Not What It Seems. This is an audio article that rethinks competition and offers a subtle nuance that might help you. It's equal parts challenging and inspirational. Listen for more! (Original publish date: 11/15/18. Read it here.)

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In this episode of the Books for Men podcast, Douglas Vigliotti discusses a book called The Top Five Regrets of the Dying by Bronnie Ware. The book is based on Ware's experiences as a former palliative care nurse and explores the top five regrets expressed by people on their deathbeds. Vigliotti highlights the importance of living a life true to oneself, not working too hard, expressing feelings, staying in touch with friends, and allowing oneself to be happier. He also mentions the influence of Eastern philosophy and the Law of Impermanence. The episode concludes with a call to support the podcast and connect with him on Instagram @douglasvigliotti.

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Entry #46 was fun to do. It builds off the previous entry and documents many of the things I've tested and trialed since 2016. All leading me to now, of course. Maybe in the next entry, I'll share more about what now looks like and (potentially) what the future holds for me.

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Entry #22 documents an interesting way to look at movies, shows, and books. Some art allows you to escape life, while other art brings you closer to it. In fact, I think most art is designed to do one or another. So, which do you prefer?

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Entry #28 shares reflection number eight from my Paris-to-Barcelona trip. It's about the power of walking a city. Oh, and the observation that Paris and Barcelona are totally different cities. Maybe you agree. Take a listen.

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Entry #20 answers a listener question about writing—what about grammar? In short, it matters. But probably not as much as you think it does. You need enough to prove you're not an idiot, but not so much that it prevents your voice (see entry #16) from getting on the page. (Oh, and I was kinda hoping "grammatist" wasn't a word. It is—damn it.)

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Entry #47 builds off the previous entry and shares the current "state of me." A state of transition, really. What's next? I don't know, but I'm okay with that. In the meantime, I'll sell medical devices and work on being a better writer and storyteller.

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🎙 Douglas Vigliotti discusses the National Book Award-winning memoir “The Year of Magical Thinking” by Joan Didion. Drawing on Didion’s heartfelt story of losing her husband and daughter in the same year and her subtle yet piercing writing style, Vigliotti delves into themes of grief, loss, and the idea that stories we tell ourselves shape our perceptions, emotions, and lives, raising the importance of crafting positive narratives and embracing the complex nature of hope in the face of adversity.

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In this episode of the Books for Men podcast, host Douglas Vigliotti provides a recap of the books featured in the first month of the show, August 2022. The month included three fiction books and two non-fiction books, covering a range of genres and topics. Vigliotti emphasizes the importance of "The Interest Principle," which encourages readers to pursue books that they are genuinely interested in. He also announces the upcoming release of The Books for Men Newsletter, which will feature a round-up of every episode with full book and author information, as well as quotes from each book. It will be available to subscribers on the website and aims to inspire more men to read. Vigliotti encourages listeners to share the podcast and the initiative with others.

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🎙 Douglas Vigliotti recaps the month of August 2024, discussing the Stoic classic "Meditations" by Marcus Aurelius, the literary novel "A Visit from the Goon Squad" by Jennifer Egan, and the foundational Buddhist text “The Dhammapada” translated by Eknath Easwaran. With quick summaries, insights, and key quotes from the episodes, this recap is a great starter for new listeners and readers seeking inspiration. Good books await!

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In this episode of the Books for Men podcast, host Douglas Vigliotti discusses a new novel called Obvious in Hindsight by Bradley Tusk. The book follows the story of Lisa Lim, an underling of Nick Denevito, the owner of a political consultant group, as they try to legalize flying cars in three cities—New York, Austin, and LA. Vigliotti describes the book as reading like a piece of autofiction, a genre that blends elements of an author's autobiography with a fictional narrative, saying, “There is nobody better suited to write this story than Tusk.” He praises the book for its usage of multiple point-of-views, present-tense narration, satirical elements, and its ability to make readers question the industries and decisions that shape society. He also reminds listeners that Tusk owns an indie bookstore in NYC, P&T Knitwear, and shares a favorite quote from the book. Vigliotti encourages everyone to check out the book and support the podcast by sharing it with others, and reminding them they can always connect with him on Instagram @douglasvigliotti.

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Entry #17 documents a way I like to think about books—genre, literary, memoir, or whatever really. For writers, this is just a simple strategy to evaluate stories on a bit of a deeper level. (Use at your own risk, lol.)

As mentioned in the entry, here is the link to my Lyrics I Love column and the ongoing Spotify playlist.

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🎙 Douglas Vigliotti explores the spiritual and philosophical work, "The Dhammapada," translated by Eknath Easwaran. He delves into the core teachings of Buddhism, including the Four Noble Truths and the Eightfold Path (aka The Dharma Wheel), offering insights into the myth of Siddhartha and the applicability of Buddhist principles for anyone. With thought-provoking quotes from Buddha, this episode provides a glimpse into the path of Dharma and the pursuit of wisdom and inner peace.

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🎙 In part two, Douglas Vigliotti provides an overview of Principles #5, #6, #7, and #8 from his new book, "Aristotle for Novelists: 14 Timeless Principles on the Art of Story,” an adaptation of the timeless principles from Aristotle’s esteemed “Poetics” to be used by novelists. Discover the tried-and-true principles used since antiquity to craft stories for the screen and stage—the same stories you stream and watch today!

• Principle #5: Novels have a complication and resolution.
• Principle #6: Novels are told through imitation of action.
• Principle #7: Novels consist of plot, character, reasoning, speech, music, and spectacle.
• Principle #8: Novels should contain reversals and recognitions.

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In this episode of the Books for Men podcast, host Douglas Vigliotti gives a quick rundown of the previous month's episodes. He expresses gratitude to listeners for their support and encourages them to rate, review, and share the podcast. Vigliotti also invites listeners to connect with him on his website or Instagram @douglasvigliotti for personalized book recommendations. He then provides a recap of the books featured in the previous month, starting with Born to Run by Bruce Springsteen, an autobiography that ranks among Vigliotti's top five rock memoirs. He mentions including numerous excerpts from the book in the upcoming newsletter. The next book discussed is Once Upon a Time in Hollywood by Quentin Tarantino, a novelization of the film that intertwines fictional and real events in 1969 Hollywood. Vigliotti praises the book for its entertainment value and its commentary on the film industry. The final book highlighted is The Killing Hills by Chris Offutt, a minimalist detective novel set in a small town in Kentucky. Vigliotti appreciates the author's lean writing style and recommends reading the book to experience it for oneself. He concludes by reminding listeners to visit the podcast's website for full transcripts and to sign up for the newsletter, which includes additional book recommendations and quotes.

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This episode of Books for Men is a short recap of all the episodes from April '23. It was a full month—(2) book episodes, (1) Bad Advice episode, and (1) From the Vault episode. All super solid. Listen for more!

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🎙 Host Douglas Vigliotti delves into the dark and powerful memoir "Darkness Visible: A Memoir of Madness" by William Styron. With raw honesty, Styron recounts his harrowing battle with major depression, shedding light on the often unseen and misunderstood nature of mental health issues. Through his gripping account, listeners gain a deeper understanding of the importance of addressing and supporting mental health awareness in ourselves and others.

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Entry #27 shares reflection number nine from my Paris-to-Barcelona trip. It's really about having to step back and/or slow down to make sense of things. Maybe you agree. Take a listen.

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Entry #29 shares reflection number seven from my Paris-to-Barcelona trip. How short is too short to visit an international city alone? And, fear not because we are amazingly adaptable as a species.

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In the first official episode of the Books for Men podcast, host Douglas Vigliotti introduces the purpose of the show, which is to inspire more men to read and bring together male readers. He discusses his decision to feature the novel Miles From Nowhere by Nami Mun as the first book on the podcast. Vigliotti acknowledges that the protagonist of the novel, a teenage Korean girl navigating the streets of New York City in the 1980s, may be challenging for male readers to relate to. However, he emphasizes that the point of reading is to step into the shoes of characters different from oneself and gain new perspectives. He describes Miles From Nowhere as a gritty, raw, and impactful novel that offers a snapshot of reality. Vigliotti addresses potential concerns about the book being incomplete and explains that the story is character-driven rather than plot-driven. Vigliotti also discusses the tactile nature of physical books and recommends reading Miles From Nowhere in paperback format. He praises the author, Nami Mun, for her sensibilities and lean, powerful prose. Vigliotti concludes by reminding listeners to subscribe to the podcast and share it with others who enjoy reading. As a bonus, he shares two passages from Miles From Nowhere that highlight the themes of hope and grief in the novel.

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In this episode of the Books for Men podcast, Douglas Vigliotti recaps the month of November 2023, expresses gratitude to listeners for their support, and encourages them to spread the word about the podcast. He then proceeds to summarize the three books discussed in the previous month's episodes. The first book is Vigliotti's own novel, Tom Collins, which explores the theme of consumption versus creation. The second book is The Top Five Regrets of the Dying by Bronnie Ware, which delves into the regrets people have about life on their deathbeds. The third book is City of Thieves by David Benioff, a historical fiction novel set during the Nazi siege of Leningrad. The host shares his thoughts and favorite quotes from each book and encourages listeners to listen to the podcast episodes or read the books themselves. He concludes by providing information on accessing full transcripts and the monthly newsletters at BooksforMen.org and reminds listeners they can connect with him on Instagram @douglasvigliotti.

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This episode of Books for Men is a short recap of all the episodes from March '23. It was a fun month—we shared some great books and added a brand new segment called "From the Vault." Listen for more!

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🎙 In part four, Douglas Vigliotti closes out the series by outlining the final three Principles #13, #14, and the 15th Principle from his new book, "Aristotle for Novelists: 14 Timeless Principles on the Art of Story,” an adaptation of the timeless principles from Aristotle’s esteemed “Poetics” to be used by novelists. Discover the tried-and-true principles used since antiquity to craft stories for the screen and stage—the same stories you stream and watch today!

• Principle #13: Novels should contain true characters.
• Principle #14: Novels can be criticized for impossibility, irrationality, contradiction, harmfulness, and artistic standards.
• The 15th Principle: Novelists must write, read, and have courage.

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Entry #50 announces a pivot in direction for the podcast. It will have a new name, branding, etc. This journal slash diary has been fun. It's not goodbye, just so long (for two weeks) until the transition to the new show is complete. You'll hear from me again in the first week of August!

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In today’s episode of the, It’s Not What It Seems podcast, I have an essential conversation with Greg Mckeown. Greg is the author of Essentialism: The Disciplined Pursuit of Less.

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In this episode of the, It’s Not What It Seems podcast, I have an awesome conversation with Jay Baer. Jay is the author of Talk Triggers: The Complete Guide to Creating Customers with Word of Mouth.

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In this episode of the Books for Men podcast, host Douglas Vigliotti expresses gratitude to listeners and highlights the one-year anniversary of the podcast. He shares the top three most downloaded episodes, which are all book episodes, mentioning he plans to focus on more book episodes moving forward. Vigliotti discusses the intimate nature of podcasting and the global reach it provides. He then provides a brief recap of the previous month's episodes, featuring two works of fiction, Bright Lights, Big City by Jay McInerney, and The Poet by Michael Connelly, and two episodes of “From the Vault” with Annie Duke, author of Thinking in Bets and Quit. Vigliotti recommends checking out the featured books and encourages listeners to visit the website for full transcripts and to sign up for the newsletter at BooksforMen.org.

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In this episode of the Books for Men podcast, host Douglas Vigliotti discusses the novel Lush Life by Richard Price. Vigliotti describes it as a police procedural set in the lower East side of Manhattan but also emphasizes that it is more than just a crime novel. He praises the writing style of Price, noting that it moves at a rapid pace. Vigliotti also highlights the book's multi-perspective approach, which provides a comprehensive view of the murder and the socio-economic issues of inner-city life. He believes that this novel is one of the best he has ever read and encourages listeners to read it as well. He also delves into the importance of reading a variety of books, not just the latest and most popular ones. The episode concludes with a reminder to share the podcast with others and visit the website for more information.

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This episode of Books for Men is a short recap of all the books and authors we covered in October '22. It also shares a little more about the intent of the show. Listen for more!

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In this episode of the Books for Men podcast, host Douglas Vigliotti expresses gratitude to the listeners, asks for their support in spreading the word about the podcast, and recaps the episodes from March 2024. In the first episode, he focused on women reading more than men, with the host discussing the rise of women in the publishing industry and the data that supports this trend. Vigliotti also explores why this topic is not widely discussed, including fear of ostracization, a negative cultural narrative surrounding men, and not recognizing what you don’t see. He recommends listening to the Special Edition episodes for a deeper understanding of the topic—in the second one he tackles the 10 Reasons to Read (Fiction.) The final episode of the month featured Owning Up by George Pelecanos, a piece of fiction that tackles issues facing our nation’s history. Vigliotti concludes by providing information on connecting with him and accessing the monthly newsletter with these recap episodes.

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In this episode of the, It’s Not What It Seems podcast, I have an enlightening conversation with the one and only, Seth Godin. Seth is the author of This is Marketing: You Can't Be Seen Until You Learn to See.

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In this episode of the, It’s Not What It Seems podcast, I have an entertaining conversation with Bradley Tusk. Bradley is the author ofThe Fixer: My Adventures Saving Startups from Death by Politics.

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Entry #4 piggybacks off the previous entry and offers an alternative question to ask when evaluating creative work—whether it be your own or someone else's. It also shares a  great quote from the legendary filmmaker, Brian De Palma.

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🎙 Douglas Vigliotti dives into the cult classic "Fight Club" by Chuck Palahniuk, a transgressive, minimalistic literary novel that inspired the now-iconic film of the same name. Discover how this story of an unnamed protagonist battling himself and societal norms became a defining work of 90s art and literature. Delve into the book's enduring themes of masculinity, mental health, loneliness, and disenchantment—all of which seem even more applicable today than when the book was originally published.

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🎙 Douglas Vigliotti dives into the gritty, emotional world of “Mystic River” by Dennis Lehane, a Boston crime novel about friendship, loyalty, and trauma that seamlessly blends drama and mystery. Learn why the adaptation to film was so successful, and why Lehane's distinctive "crime with heart" style is a rarity in today's literary landscape. “Mystic River” is a masterclass in storytelling and a must-read for fans who enjoy thoughtful yet tragic crime fiction.

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Introducing the new podcast from bestselling author and sales strategist Doug Vigliotti. It will inspire you to be more open-minded. In this show, you'll hear discussions with creatives, professionals, and entrepreneurs about their work, ideas, and processes. You'll also get monthly audio-articles to maybe, possibly, hopefully, help you think differently. Think audiobook, but significantly shorter. And anything else that could help you be more open-minded.

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Entry #33 documents the very strange phenomenon of magnetic people. It starts the discussion around energy transfer between two people and/or within a group of people. Abstract? A bit, but it feels too real to ignore.

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Entry #37 documents a couple of changes that I've made for 2022. These adjustments have provided me with increased clarity, more energy, and just a new day-to-day outlook. So I'm excited to share them with you and (even more so) continue to double down on them in my life.

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This episode of Books for Men is a short recap of all the books and authors we covered in September '22. Listen for more!

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🎙 Douglas Vigliotti dives into the timeless wisdom of "Meditations” by Marcus Aurelius. With a focus on the core tenets of his philosophy and Stoicism, Vigliotti explores the principles of willing acceptance, unselfish action, and objective judgment in navigating life's challenges. Join him as he uncovers practical insights, philosophical gems, and key quotes that will inspire men to live with purpose and resilience.

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Entry #7 raises a question that I've been thinking a lot about lately. In a way, as evident by my annual dry January, it's been looming for much longer than I probably convey in this entry. With that being said, I'm sure this topic will be a repeat visitor as I continue to hash out my thoughts on how, why, and when I consume alcohol.

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This episode of Books for Men features Blacktop Wasteland by S.A. Cosby. A thriller slash noir novel set in the Deep South about a reformed family man who gets pulled back into his old ways for one last heist. Just a superbly executed story, really. Listen for more!

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🎙 Host Douglas Vigliotti recaps the month of May 2024, discussing the nonfiction book "Darkness Visible: A Memoir of Madness" by William Styron, the novel "Sugar Street" by Jonathan Dee, and a special edition episode that features 5 key questions to help you read like a writer. With engaging quotes and insightful commentary, this recap episode is a great starter for new listeners and book enthusiasts seeking inspiration.

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In this episode of the, It’s Not What It Seems podcast, I have a wide-ranging conversation with my first repeat guest, Annie Duke. Annie and I had so much fun during our first conversation (Episode #4) we decided to do it all over again. 

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In this episode of the, It’s Not What It Seems podcast, I have an interesting conversation with Martin Gurri. Martin is the author ofThe Revolt of The Public and the Crisis of Authority in the New Millennium.

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Entry #16 documents the two main components of that infamous thing known as "writer's voice." Daunting? Maybe, but the hard part isn't finding it. The hard part is listening to it. Other people mentioned in this entry include Chuck Klosterman and Tyler Cowen (who was a guest on this podcast back in 2019—great episode btw, go check it out.)

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Entry #19 documents three things that I'm currently pretty bad at. In some ways, these things probably hinder me. Actually, at times, I know they do—aargh!

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This episode of Books for Men features The Plot by Jean Hanff Korelitz. A psychological thriller about a sputtering mid-list novelist who embarks on a wild goose chase to discover the truth behind a plot he stole from one of his deceased MFA students. It doubles as a satire on writing and the publishing world. Listen for more!

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Entry #45 builds off the last entry and documents an important life tactic—testing. I share something that I'm currently testing in my life. In general, I'm a big advocate for implementing testing (or trialing) periods in your life. The benefits are endless, really.

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In this episode of the Books for Men podcast, host Douglas Vigliotti expresses gratitude to the listeners, recaps the month of August 2023, and emphasizes that the show is not exclusive to men, despite its title. He shares his experience of being in Croatia and how traveling reminds him not to judge people, places, and things based on appearances but to embrace curiosity and let people, places, and things surprise him. Vigliotti then provides a recap of the three books featured in the month's episodes: The Paradox of Choice by Barry Schwartz, Shoe Dog by Phil Knight, and Tomorrow and Tomorrow and Tomorrow by Gabrielle Zine. He briefly discusses the themes and messages of each book and encourages listeners to listen to the corresponding episodes for more information. He concludes by mentioning the website BooksforMen.org, where listeners can find full transcripts of the episodes and sign up for the newsletter, and reminds listeners they can connect with him on Instagram @douglasvigliotti.

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In this episode of the Books for Men podcast, Douglas Vigliotti expresses gratitude to listeners and encourages them to continue supporting the show. He also announced that interviews with other writers will be returning in 2024. Vigliotti then provides a summary of the books discussed in October 2023, including Chronicles by Bob Dylan, I Remember Nothing by Nora Ephron, Ham on Rye by Charles Bukowski, and Lolita by Vladimir Nabokov. He highlights the significance and themes of each book and encourages listeners to listen to the corresponding episodes for more in-depth discussions. Vigliotti concludes by reminding listeners to share the podcast, offering additional resources such as full transcripts and a monthly newsletter on the website, and reminding listeners they can connect with him on Instagram @douglasvigliotti.

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This episode of Books for Men features The Thief by Fuminori Nakamura. It's a novel about a skilled Japanese pickpocket who must answer for a job he did years prior. Can you escape fate? Or is it inevitable? The story is bleak, subtle, and outright chilling. Listen for more!

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Entry #6 documents another one of my core beliefs (both personally and creatively.) It also shares a couple of quotes from the great playwright, David Mamet. I will probably revisit this idea in the future because I have more to add and I could say it a little better. With that said, I think you'll get my intention—wink, wink.

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Entry #26 starts counting down ten reflections I have about my Paris-to-Barcelona trip. I call this one "discomfort as a rule." Maybe you agree. Take a listen.

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In this episode of the, It’s Not What It Seems podcast, I share an audio article titled, The Outcome Fallacy. I wrote this article to help you think differently about the outcomes in your life. You can follow it word for word at douglasvigliotti.com/blog/theoutcomefallacy.

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This episode of Books for Men features Queenpin by Megan Abbott. A noir novel about a young woman learning the ropes from (the one and only) Gloria Denton, mob luminary and hustler extraordinaire. It's every bit as good as the classic noir that it emulates. Listen for more!

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