Beyond The Pain - Estrangement (Donald Stott)

It's a tough subject, however one many of us have thought about.

Please remember:  I am NOT a mental health professional, in no way shape or form. I am just like you sharing my experiences and things I have learned along this journey called life.

If you or someone you know is having thoughts of suicide, a prevention hotline can help. The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline is available 24 hours per day at 800-273-8255. During a crisis, people who are hard of hearing can use their preferred relay service or dial 711 then 800-273-8255.

You can also, call 911, the local emergency number OR text the word “talk” to 741741 to talk to a trained crisis counselor

Article Mentioned:

https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/326769

Some parents do choose to estrange from their kids for various reasons. Would you?

*I am not a Dr, or therapist. If you need help coping, lease seek professional help.

This is a place for parents of Estranged adult children to help you cope with the fact of estrangement and that you are not alone.

Facebook Group for Estranged parents:

https://www.facebook.com/groups/2174242996162517

Podcast Page

https://redcircle.com/shows/beyond-the-pain-estrangement

Part 2 of my conversation with Aimee Palmer, founder of PEAC - Parents of Estranged Adult Children.

A great resource for us.

https://www.peacinternational.org/

This is a place for parents of Estranged adult children to help you cope with the fact of estrangement and that you are not alone.

What does your behavior have to do with things?

Podcast Page

https://redcircle.com/shows/beyond-the-pain-estrangement

In this episode, I will discuss a few signs I have noticed, that might help you identify IF you are being estranged from a family member.

*I am not a Dr, or therapist. If you need help coping, lease seek professional help.

This is a place for parents of Estranged adult children to help you cope with the fact of estrangement and that you are not alone.

Facebook Group for Estranged parents:

https://www.facebook.com/groups/2174242996162517

Podcast Page

https://redcircle.com/shows/beyond-the-pain-estrangement

This Show is for Parents of Estranged Adult Children to learn to be able to function. 

Thi9s episode discusses being about to trust your estranged children or anyone lese after you have been hurt.

Part 3

When you loook into your family and realize there has been ALL KINDS of estrangement in your family.

WOW

https://youtu.be/UXJ5O4H4Mxo

Can you predict or prevent of you have one EC, prevent the others from Estranging?

Author Nancy Lee Klune joins us to discuss her book, and touch on her personal Story

Please Visit Nancy's Blog at: http://www.grandparentsdeniedaccess.com/

Does this play into our estrangement from our adult children?

*I am not a Dr, or therapist. If you need help coping, Please seek professional help.

How do you handle it, when your Childs faith journey isn't what you would prefer?

This is a place for parents of Estranged adult children to help you cope with the fact of estrangement and that you are not alone.

You have to take some time for YOU!

*I am not a Dr, or therapist. If you need help coping, Please seek professional help.

This is a place for parents of Estranged adult children to help you cope with the fact of estrangement and that you are not alone.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-teen-doctor/202304/cutoffs-over-time-the-collateral-damage-and-the-resolution

Kenny Weiss is a coach, speaker, and author on the subject of mastering your emotions.

To find more information about Kenny and what he offers please visit his Website at: https://kennyweiss.net/

This is a place for parents of Estranged adult children to help you cope with the fact of estrangement and that you are not alone.

Podcast Page

https://redcircle.com/shows/beyond-the-pain-estrangement

Coping with YOUR life after estrangement

There are many factors in our children estranging from us.

One of them is coming from the outside, from other people or things.

This episode discusses some of those

This is a place for parents of Estranged adult children to help you cope with the fact of estrangement and that you are not alone.

What is the "Drama Triangle"?

Take care of yourself

What is the difference in the Wise Mind, logical mind and emotional mind?

What is in your toolbox?

Emotions can be a difficult thing to deal with.

Podcast Page

https://redcircle.com/shows/beyond-the-pain-estrangement

The Grief Recovery Handbook:

https://www.amazon.com/dp/0061686077/ref=cm_sw_r_api_i_M1F4Q24YD90JVRQAAM68_0

https://sandiderby.com/

*I am not a Dr, or therapist. If you need help coping, Please seek professional help.

This is a place for parents of Estranged adult children to help you cope with the fact of estrangement and that you are not alone.

This video is a Fathers story about becoming estranged from his son.

This father shares a special bond with his son

to purchase the book:

Done With The Crying: Help and Healing for Mothers of Estranged.

Click the link below:

https://amzn.to/3s6QCRN

In addition to her follow up book:

Beyond Done With The Crying: More Answers and Advice for Parents of Estranged Adult Children

https://amzn.to/3Or2a9Z

YouTube Channel:

@beyondthepain-estrangement

*I am not a Dr, or therapist. If you need help coping, Please seek professional help.

This is a place for parents of Estranged adult children to help you cope with the fact of estrangement and that you are not alone.

Parents want answers, Julies story MAY provide some answers for your situation.

This video is an adult childs story and how she made one of the hardest decisions of her life.

Julie is the author of the book: Estranged: Finding Hope When Your Family Falls Apart

Her book can be found on her website: https://momremade.com/

You can also find many other useful links on her website.

Above all, listen with an open mind, again, we want answers, this may help your situation.

to purchase these other books follow the links below:

Done With The Crying: Help and Healing for Mothers of Estranged.

Click the link below:

https://amzn.to/3s6QCRN

In addition to her follow up book:

Beyond Done With The Crying: More Answers and Advice for Parents of Estranged Adult Children

https://amzn.to/3Or2a9Z

YouTube Channel:

@beyondthepain-estrangement

Have you been effected by parental alienation?

I found this YouTube channel and found this quite compelling.

If you like this content, let me know and i will do more like this

Please check out her page and her website.

YouTube:

@TheAnti-AlienationProject

Website:

https://www.theantialienationproject.com/

Remember:

*I am not a Dr, or therapist. If you need help coping, Please seek professional help.

This is a place for parents of Estranged adult children to help you cope with the fact of estrangement and that you are not alone.

to purchase the book:

Done With The Crying: Help and Healing for Mothers of Estranged.

Click the link below:

https://amzn.to/3s6QCRN

In addition to her follow up book:

Beyond Done With The Crying: More Answers and Advice for Parents of Estranged Adult Children

https://amzn.to/3Or2a9Z

YouTube Channel:

@beyondthepain-estrangement

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCe1IFz_nc38FPxsgpcQcbAg

music

Memories in Love (ID 1144) - Lobo Loco

www.musikbrause.de

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Author Nancy Lee Klune joins us to discuss her book, and touch on her personal Story

Please Visit Nancy's Blog at: http://www.grandparentsdeniedaccess.com/

How do we deal with the Pandemic on top of our estrangement.

*I am not a Dr, or therapist. If you need help coping, lease seek professional help.

Today I am discussion what the difference is between couching a traditional therapy and how you can contact coach Sally Harris

https://www.sally-harris.com/

This is a place for parents of Estranged adult children to help you cope with the fact of estrangement and that you are not alone.

Podcast Page

https://redcircle.com/shows/beyond-the-pain-estrangement

This is a place for parents of Estranged adult children to help you cope with the fact of estrangement and that you are not alone.

Can you let things go? Will you? When?

What is in your toolbox?

Emotions can be a difficult thing to deal with.

Podcast Page

https://redcircle.com/shows/beyond-the-pain-estrangement

The Grief Recovery Handbook:

https://www.amazon.com/dp/0061686077/ref=cm_sw_r_api_i_M1F4Q24YD90JVRQAAM68_0

https://sandiderby.com/

You Tube Episode: https://youtu.be/SqT9XFt3684

*I am not a Dr, or therapist. If you need help coping, Please seek professional help.

This is a place for parents of Estranged adult children to help you cope with the fact of estrangement and that you are not alone.

to purchase the book:

Done With The Crying: Help and Healing for Mothers of Estranged.

Click the link below:

https://amzn.to/3s6QCRN

In addition to her follow up book:

Beyond Done With The Crying: More Answers and Advice for Parents of Estranged Adult Children

https://amzn.to/3Or2a9Z

To be a guest on the show or the just chat follow this link:

https://beyond-the-pain.square.site/

This is Pauls story and how he coped with this as a father of an estranged adult child.

You are the keeper of your health.

We all go through this at some point during our estrangement

*I am not a Dr, or therapist. If you need help coping, Please seek professional help.

We all are aware what roles faith, or lack of faith can play in estrangement. Lyn has a unique perspective on that and being a part of the Mormon faith.

This is a place for parents of Estranged adult children to help you cope with the fact of estrangement and that you are not alone.

to purchase the book:

Done With The Crying: Help and Healing for Mothers of Estranged.

Click the link below:

https://amzn.to/3s6QCRN

In addition to her follow up book:

Beyond Done With The Crying: More Answers and Advice for Parents of Estranged Adult Children

https://amzn.to/3Or2a9Z

Podcast Page

https://redcircle.com/shows/beyond-the-pain-estrangement

Lyn's website: https://lynsmithgregory.com/

music

Memories in Love (ID 1144) - Lobo Loco

www.musikbrause.de

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*I am not a Dr, or therapist. If you need help coping, Please seek professional help.

This is a place for parents of Estranged adult children to help you cope with the fact of estrangement and that you are not alone.

to purchase the book:

Done With The Crying: Help and Healing for Mothers of Estranged.

Click the link below:

https://amzn.to/3s6QCRN

In addition to her follow up book:

Beyond Done With The Crying: More Answers and Advice for Parents of Estranged Adult Children

https://amzn.to/3Or2a9Z

To be a guest on the show or the just chat follow this link:

https://beyond-the-pain.square.site/

Podcast Page

https://redcircle.com/shows/beyond-the-pain-estrangement

*I am not a Dr, or therapist. If you need help coping, lease seek professional help.

Did you kids find it easy to estrange?

Was it a tough decision?

Please listen to Phil, perhaps his story is your childs story.

This is a place for parents of Estranged adult children to help you cope with the fact of estrangement and that you are not alone.

Podcast Page

https://redcircle.com/shows/beyond-the-pain-estrangement

Part 1 of my conversation with Aimee Palmer, founder of PEAC - Parents of Estranged Adult Children.

A great resource for us.

https://www.peacinternational.org/

This is a place for parents of Estranged adult children to help you cope with the fact of estrangement and that you are not alone.

Many of us Give away our power to our children.

Podcast Page

https://redcircle.com/shows/beyond-the-pain-estrangement

Please visit Michelle's Website and find the links to find her book.

Losing Her, Finding me.

https://michellerohlf.com/

*I am not a Dr, or therapist. If you need help coping, Please seek professional help.

This is a place for parents of Estranged adult children to help you cope with the fact of estrangement and that you are not alone.

YouTube Channel:

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCe1IFz_nc38FPxsgpcQcbAg

Or

@beyondthepain-estrangement

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thanks!

*I am not a Dr, or therapist. If you need help coping, lease seek professional help.

If you have ever received a grievance letter, you will understand this moms pain.

This is a place for parents of Estranged adult children to help you cope with the fact of estrangement and that you are not alone.

Podcast Page

https://redcircle.com/shows/beyond-the-pain-estrangement

*I am not a Dr, or therapist. If you need help coping, lease seek professional help.

If you have ever received a grievance letter, you will understand this moms pain.

This is a place for parents of Estranged adult children to help you cope with the fact of estrangement and that you are not alone.

Facebook Group for Estranged parents:

https://www.facebook.com/groups/2174242996162517

Podcast Page

https://redcircle.com/shows/beyond-the-pain-estrangement

I'm back!

Sorry for the delay, my computer broke down in between posting the episodes.

Here is the conclusion of my interview with Tim.

Please visit the website Whitney mentioned for more information regarding the group she mentioned: https://www.helpingparentsheal.org/

This episode is taken from the book by Don Miguel Ruiz, the Four Agreements

*I am not a Dr, or therapist. If you need help coping, Please seek professional help.

This is a place for parents of Estranged adult children to help you cope with the fact of estrangement and that you are not alone.

Podcast Page

https://redcircle.com/shows/beyond-the-pain-estrangement

Is it our "duty" to inform our EC of major changes? We will explore some of the things related to this and help you to make that decision for yourself

The pitfalls and positive aspects of reconciling

This is a place for parents of Estranged adult children to help you cope with the fact of estrangement and that you are not alone.

Please check out this resource Helen Spoke about:

Alienated Grandparents Anonymous, Inc.

http://www.alienatedgrandparentsanonymous.com/

I Thought I Was the Only One Grandparent Alienation: A Global Epidemic

https://alienatedgrandparentsanonymous.com/book/

I was pleased to chat with Anne Marie about her experience with estrangement.

This episode discusses the shame we feel as estranged parents.

Welcome Tim to the show, this is part 1 of our interview.

Interview with Estranged Mother - Cheri

In this episode, I will discuss a few questions to ask regarding therapy.

*I am not a Dr, or therapist. If you need help coping, lease seek professional help.

This is a place for parents of Estranged adult children to help you cope with the fact of estrangement and that you are not alone.

Facebook Group for Estranged parents:

https://www.facebook.com/groups/2174242996162517

Podcast Page

https://redcircle.com/shows/beyond-the-pain-estrangement

Public Episode Page

This episode will focus on Social Media and how that will effect our estrangement.

Please welcome my special Guest, Dory Ableman from the Learn2Love podcast.

Dory's podcast focuses on relationships and he is very insightful.

You can find a link to his podcast and FB page in the description.

*I am not a Dr, or therapist. If you need help coping, Please seek professional help.

This is a place for parents of Estranged adult children to help you cope with the fact of estrangement and that you are not alone.

to purchase the book:

Done With The Crying: Help and Healing for Mothers of Estranged.

Click the link below:

https://amzn.to/3s6QCRN

In addition to her follow up book:

Beyond Done With The Crying: More Answers and Advice for Parents of Estranged Adult Children

https://amzn.to/3Or2a9Z

Podcast Page

https://redcircle.com/shows/beyond-the-pain-estrangement

If you'd like to be a guest on the show or just schedule a chat click this link:

https://beyond-the-pain.square.site/

*I am not a Dr, or therapist. If you need help coping, Please seek professional help.

This is a story I am reading from a listener

This is a place for parents of Estranged adult children to help you cope with the fact of estrangement and that you are not alone.

to purchase the book:

Done With The Crying: Help and Healing for Mothers of Estranged.

Click the link below:

https://amzn.to/3s6QCRN

In addition to her follow up book:

Beyond Done With The Crying: More Answers and Advice for Parents of Estranged Adult Children

https://amzn.to/3Or2a9Z

Podcast Page

https://redcircle.com/shows/beyond-the-pain-estrangement

I am not a Dr, or therapist. If you need help coping, Please seek professional help.

Kara has a story of turning heartache into love.

Giving to others, answering her "calling". and most important helping others to identify their own legacy of Love.

To tune in to the live stream and be a part of the community on May 15th follow this link: https://www.stmarysnorton.com

This is a place for parents of Estranged adult children to help you cope with the fact of estrangement and that you are not alone.

to purchase the book:

Done With The Crying: Help and Healing for Mothers of Estranged.

Click the link below:

https://amzn.to/3s6QCRN

In addition to her follow up book:

Beyond Done With The Crying: More Answers and Advice for Parents of Estranged Adult Children

https://amzn.to/3Or2a9Z

Podcast Page

https://redcircle.com/shows/beyond-the-pain-estrangement

music

Memories in Love (ID 1144) - Lobo Loco

www.musikbrause.de

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This Episode will explore many of the stags of Grief we all experience being estranged from our adult children. 

My Podcasting Journey - So Far

This is one we all struggle with especially in the beginning. How the heck do we talk to people without telling hem the whole sorted mess?

Many of us have some sort of emotional trauma, Cedric Bertelli, one of the founders of the Emotional Health Institute and using EmRes ® can help you resolve these issues.

My Website: 

https://www.cedricbertelli.com/

The site of the Emotional Health Institute:  https://www.emotionalhealthinstitute.org/

Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/EmotionalResolutionWithCedric

Instagram:

https://www.instagram.com/cedricbertelli/

YouTube: 

https://www.youtube.com/@emotionalresolution4843

LinkedIn:

https://www.linkedin.com/in/cedric-bertelli-68286224/

*I am not a Dr, or therapist. If you need help coping, Please seek professional help.

This is a place for parents of Estranged adult children to help you cope with the fact of estrangement and that you are not alone.

Stacy's original interview:

https://redcircle.com/shows/958a03f6-9ec2-41cd-b975-9baaa9bad0e5/ep/2ac40cfc-2dfd-4f52-b399-df9d7044cf4d

to purchase the book:

Done With The Crying: Help and Healing for Mothers of Estranged.

Click the link below:

https://amzn.to/3s6QCRN

In addition to her follow up book:

Beyond Done With The Crying: More Answers and Advice for Parents of Estranged Adult Children

https://amzn.to/3Or2a9Z

Continued conversation with Cheri, the mother of an estranged child.

How can you possible give back if you are empty.

How can you be open and ready if you haven't taken care of yourself?

You always hear people say, "Time Heals all Wounds" but does it?

So, today will deal with some very sensitive subject matter, suicide.

So, please be aware if this might too sensitive for you, please consider that before proceeding

Please find help

Suicide Hotlines

The United States

Crisis Text Line - Text HOME to 741741

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline - 1-800-273-8255

Trans Lifeline - 1-877-565-8860 (for the transgender community)

TrevorLifeline - 1-866-488-7386 (for LGBTQ youth)

Veterans Crisis Line - 1-800-273-8255, Press 1

Australia 

NATIONAL CRISIS SUPPORT SERVICES LIFELINE - 13 11 14 - 24/7

SUICIDE CALL BACK SERVICE - 1300 659 467 - 24/7

BEYOND BLUE - 1300 22 4636 - 24/7

FOR LGBTQI+ - QLIFE - 1800 184 527 - 3pm – 12am everyday

SWITCHBOARD VICTORIA: SUPPORT AFTER SUICIDE SERVICE

0484 088 647

Please find the directory for your country and get help.

Please Visit Sheri's website as discussed in the interview. 

https://www.rejectedparents.net/

*I am not a Dr, or therapist. If you need help coping, Please seek professional help. 

This is a place for parents of Estranged adult children to help you cope with the fact of estrangement and that you are not alone.

to purchase the book:

Done With The Crying: Help and Healing for Mothers of Estranged. 

Click the link below:

https://amzn.to/3s6QCRN

In addition to her follow up book:

Beyond Done With The Crying: More Answers and Advice for Parents of Estranged Adult Children

https://amzn.to/3Or2a9Z

This is a story from a listener to help us all remember, we are not alone.

Do you feel like you are trapped in a box?

Do you feel like you have PTSD from estrangement?

Remember, us parents are people too!

Stacy encourages us to (if you are a religious person, maybe even if not) to look up Psalm 18:19 for some comfort.

This is a place for parents of Estranged adult children to help you cope with the fact of estrangement and that you are not alone.

Podcast Page

https://redcircle.com/shows/beyond-the-pain-estrangement

My interview with Norma, gives some great insight and encouragement to all parents going through this.

Please also visit Sally Harris website below, she is the coach (and much more) Norma Spoke about.

https://sallyharris.kartra.com/page/eKz2

This Episode was live on YouTube, this is recorded.

Stay Tuned for my Next Live broadcast on YouTube

Date To be Announced

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It's a tough subject, however one many of us have thought about.

Please remember:  I am NOT a mental health professional, in no way shape or form. I am just like you sharing my experiences and things I have learned along this journey called life.

If you or someone you know is having thoughts of suicide, a prevention hotline can help. The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline is available 24 hours per day at 800-273-8255. During a crisis, people who are hard of hearing can use their preferred relay service or dial 711 then 800-273-8255.

You can also, call 911, the local emergency number OR text the word “talk” to 741741 to talk to a trained crisis counselor

Article Mentioned:

https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/326769

It is a challenge to find peace during this, we should all continue to try though.

This is a tough time of year, please take acre of yourselves and reach out if you need someone to chat with.

When you happen to find something of theirs or something they asked you to store, what do you do?