Bayis Pnimi [men] (Mayer Kiss)

(BPM) Introduction.

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(BPJ) Introduction.

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(BPM#1).

• essence of Shalom Bayis;
• the effort & hard work can be empowering, encouraging & uplifting

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(BPJ #1).

• many tips to improve intimacy in your marriage

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(BPM#2).

• working on yourself;
• a crucial key to Sholom Bayis and a happy life;

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(BPJ #2).

• How to avoid being just "roommates" and to truly connect as husband & wife;

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(BPM#3).

• honoring & loving your wife as a state of being;
• becoming part of your essence;

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(BPJ #3).

• 6 topics to keep private between husband & wife;

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(BPM#4). Acceptance & flexibility. 

• Choosing our response;
• Hashem is tailoring our marriages to what we truly need;

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(BPM#5). 

• Understanding your wife's inner world

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(BPM#6). 

• honoring your wife;
• sharing things with her;
• putting her mind at ease;
• expressing closeness;

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(BPM#7). 

• taking responsibility;

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(BPJ #4).

• ways to re-ignite the emotional and sexual connection with one another;

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(BPJ #5). 

4 habits of joy filled marriages. Part #1.

• enhancing the bond of simcha between husband and wife;

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(BPJ #6). 

4 habits of joy filled marriages. Part #2.

• why simcha can be difficult;
• learning ways to make it alot easier;

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(BPJ #7). 

• being compassionate to the vulnerable risk to the one who initiates sex;

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(BPM #8). 

• expressing love & appreciation constantly;

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(BPM#9). 

• Sharing. Part #1.
  • a true skill in enhancing marriages and developing a deep connection

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(BPM#10). 

• Sharing. Part #2.
  • a true skill in enhancing marriages and developing a deep connection
    • sharing beautifully even in disagreements

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(BPM#11). 

• growing with your wife;
• setting a personal example;
• seeing the intrinsic good in your wife;
• how you can influence each other in positive ways;

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(BPM#12). 

• constructive criticism;
• parents & in-laws;
• becoming one;

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(BPM#13). 

• understanding feminine nature;
• embracing learning it to connect deeply with your wife;
• incorporating that sensitive side is healthy for Sholom bayis and personal growth;

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(BPM#14). 

• how the skill of empathetic listening can transform your marriage, and bring deep connection and joy;

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(SB #257). 

There are numerous shiurim in the main SB groups that adresses the topic discussed in SBJ #7.

Here is one of those shiurim here that will complement what was discussed here.

• coping with typical solvable problems #3 (sex).

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(BPJ #8). 

4 habits of joy filled marriages. Part #3.

http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/Habit1-PlayTogether.pdf

• Habit #1
  • play together;
  • special events;
  • relational sex;
  • friendship;
  • stop talking about problems 30 minutes before going to bed;

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(BPJ #9). 

4 habits of joy filled marriages. Part #4.

http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/Habit2-ListenForEmotion.pdf

• Habit #2
  • listen for emotion-opening relational circuits;
  • validate with empathy before solving problem;
  • not to simply say "I understand"

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(BPJ #10). 

4 habits of joy filled marriages. Part #5.

http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/Habit2-ListenForEmotion.pdf

• Habit #2
  • listen for emotion-opening relational circuits;
  • validate with empathy;
    • excerises

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(BPJ #11). 

4 habits of joy filled marriages. Part #6.

http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/Habit3-AppreciateDaily.pdf

• Habit #3
  • appreciate daily;

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(BPJ #12). 

4 habits of joy filled marriages. Part #7.

http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/Habit4-nurtureARythm-bedroom.pdf

• Habit #4
  • nurture a rythme;

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(BPJ #13). 

Part #1.

• what married sex shouldn't be, and to get to the state of what it should be;

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(BPJ #14). 

Part #2.

• what married sex shouldn't be, and to get to the state of what it should be;

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(SB #207). 

There are numerous shiurim in the main SB groups that adresses the topic discussed in SBJ #7.

Here is one of those shiurim here that will complement what was discussed here.

• how often to be physically intimate?

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(BPJ #15). 

• what is healthy foreplay;
• emotional intimacy even in niddah period;
• what men really need (beyond actual sex);
• low sexual drive is very often emotional based;

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(BPJ #16). 

• the gift of empathy;
• it's a skill that can be learned;
• to be willing to receive empathy and how it leads to deep emotional intimacy which is a key to marriage;

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(BPJ #17). 

• times when your spouse needs special support;
• how that caring and attention can create special emotional healing;

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(BPJ #18). 

• when your spouse says "I don't love you anymore";
• not to be scared by lack of feelings for your spouse;
• using healing words;
• reversing negative behaviors you may have seen by your parents, while growing;

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(BPM#15). 

• being a sensitive compassionate husband in regards to finances;
• keeping halacha with kindness and not place extra fear in the home;
• instruction with gentleness;

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(BPM#16). 

• criticism is poison to a marriage;
• navigating family ties;
• loyalty to your wife;
• sensitivity regarding wife's clothing;
• be a gentle husband ALWAYS;

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(BPJ #19). 

Talking comfortably about sex with your spouse. Part #1.

• ways to reconnect physically after being physically distant;
• how sexual intimacy can awaken emotional intimacy;

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(BPJ #20). 

Talking comfortably about sex with your spouse. Part #2.

• dont expect your spouse to read your mind about sexual needs,playfulness,expessing needs doesnt contradict tznius,taking turns initiating sex,accepting each other's sexual nature & working together forva very healty balance"

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(BPM#17). 

Healthy approach to physical intimacy. Part #1.

• definition of mitzvas onah;
• 3 components to human sexuality;

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(BPJ #21). 

• five things that lead to a sexless marriage;
• how to reverse it and to create a vibrant healthy and healing sexual life as a couple;

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(EX #1). 

Very insightful lecture from torahcafe.com on love languages & marriage.

The Five Love Languages

Rabbi Avrohom Plotkin & Mrs. Goldie Plotkin

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(EX #2). 

Very insightful lecture from torahcafe.com on love languages & marriage.

King Solomon’s Seven Secrets for a Successful Marriage

Rabbi Avrohom Plotkin & Mrs. Goldie Plotkin

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(BPJ #22). 

• how to be fully present when engaged in physical intimacy;

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(EX #3). 

Still Going Strong: Sexuality in Older Adults | Tuuli Kukkonen | TEDxGuelphU

One important reason for posting this is to emphasize that the physical sexual connection of older couple is healthy & important.

Truth be told many of these aspects that can enhance intimacy for older couples (see 11 :22 into to the video) are tools that are healthy to use for younger couples as well.

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(BPM#18). 

Healthy approach to physical intimacy. Part #2.

• frequency of onah;

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(BPJ #23). 

• emotional barriers to great physical intimacy and how to overcome it;
• not to neglect emotional connection and developing deep friendship, and respect;

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(EX #4). 

Episode 2: Anxiety - Out of the Shadows (A Jewish Approach to Mental Health)

A new monthly podcast Out of the Shadows: A Jewish Approach to Mental Health.

A very important topic that effects all of life including married and family life.

Its takes courage to acknowledge these issues and be willing to get the help.

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(BPM#19). 

Healthy approach to physical intimacy. Part #3.

• frequency of onah;
• showing extra emotional love many hours prior to onah;
• regarding onah during a healthy pregnancy;

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(BPJ #24). 

• benefits of married sex;
• to work towards relaxing prior to it;
• working towards trust and feeling safe with one another to allow vulnerability and openness;

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(EX #5). 

Orthodox Jewish Couple Responds to Questions on Love and Intimacy

Rabbi Dovid Vigler & Mrs. Chana Vigler

Orthodox Jewish couple addressing questions about love & intimacy.

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(BPM#20). 

Healthy approach to physical intimacy. Part #4.

• vast difference of sexual nature between husband and wife;
• a husband must grow to develop accomodating toward his wife's sexual needs;
• healthy view on love and lust;

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(BPJ #25). 

• Hashem wants us to enjoy healthy marital intimacy, and to be grateful and filled with simcha through all the physical and spiritual pleasure, including onah;

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(BPJ #25a). 

• Insight from Rav. Cahan;

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(BPM#21). 

Explaining Pius, which is the arousal of physical love;

• first through warm emotional talking with love and appreciation;
• then second part to begin engaging in hugging, kissing, ect.;

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(BPJ #26). 

• particulars of onah;
• understanding and working with each other's different sexual nature;
• not to shy away from mutually working together to accommodate each other sexually;

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(BPM#22). 

Guidance in knowing, understanding, and loving your wife. Part #1.

• how you drive your wife away and to reverse it;
• avoiding unrealistic expectations;
• learning skills;
• understanding men vs. women differences;

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(BPJ #27). 

"Eight Dates" by John/Julie Gottman.

Part #1.

• skills of 8 guided conversation to heal and allow marriages to thrive;
• overview of the basic principles;

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(BPM#23). 

Guidance in knowing, understanding, and loving your wife. Part #2.

• wife's deep intuition;
• consequence of poor marriage;
• how we CAN create a strong healthy marriage;
• rely on accurate healthy knowledge and behavior, not just feelings;
• hold yourself accountable;
• help your wife feel good about herself;
• sharing "values";

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(BPJ #28). 

"Eight Dates" by John/Julie Gottman.

Part #2.

http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/4SkillsOfIntimateConversations.pdf

• importance of these date nights to have a great marriage;
• The four skills of Intimate Conversation;

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(BPM#24). 

Guidance in knowing, understanding, and loving your wife. Part #3.

• talk honestly with your wife;
• accepting her as she is;
• your behavior consistent with your words;
• you actions showing how you really care;
• loving your wife when she is wearing plain clothing;
• being vulnerable to her;

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(BPJ #29). 

"Eight Dates" by John/Julie Gottman.

Part #3.

• The Art of Listening;
• Date #1: Lean on me. [Trust & Commitment] - Part 1;

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(BPM#25). 

Guidance in knowing, understanding, and loving your wife. Part #4.

• being a good listenerl;
• believing you can have a full and happy life with your wife;
• encourage her;
• learn from her;
• value her words;
• value her primary importance to you;
• list 5 major needs of your wife and fulfill them;
• praise her;
• protect her;

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(BPJ #30). 

"Eight Dates" by John/Julie Gottman.

http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/Trust-SBJ30.pdf

Part #4.

• Date #1: Lean on me. [Trust & Commitment] - Part 2;
  • cherishing each other;

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(EX #6). 

Sex: The Jewish Perspective

Rabbi Mark Wildes 

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(BPM#26). 

Guidance in knowing, understanding, and loving your wife. Part #5.

• learning to hug and hold your wife;
• genuine love not based on superficial affection or sexual passion, but on giving and recognizing her instrinsic value;
• to learn to hold her in high esteem as a Tzelem Elokim and a beloved daughter of Hashem;

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(BPJ #31). 

"Eight Dates" by John/Julie Gottman.

http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/99Ways-SBJ31.pdf

Part #5.

• Date #1: Lean on me. [Trust & Commitment] - Part 3;
  • cherishing each other;
  • having fun together;
  • comfort each other;
  • learning together;
  • providing for one another;

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(BPM#27). 

Guidance in knowing, understanding, and loving your wife. Part #6.

• lower and higher levels of mature love;
• not to be envious of others;
• taking HER viewpoint into account;
• don't be discouraged when your wife is cautious or skeptical of the loving changes you made towards her, but to keep at it;

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(BPJ #32). 

"Eight Dates" by John/Julie Gottman.

http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/99Ways-SBJ31.pdf

Part #6.

• Date #1: Lean on me. [Trust & Commitment] - Part 4;
  • you have taught me alot;
  • I respect your wisdom;
  • you accept me in spite of my faults;

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(EX #7). 

This shocked me: What rabbis know about sexuality and intimacy.

Rabbi Simon Jacobson at Meaningful Life Center.

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(BPM#28). 

Guidance in knowing, understanding, and loving your wife. Part #7.

• ways to fulfill your wife's needs, and how by doing so, she shines and you become a better person and husband as a result;

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(BPJ #33). 

"Eight Dates" by John/Julie Gottman.

http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/99Ways-SBJ31.pdf

Part #7.

• Date #1: Lean on me. [Trust & Commitment] - Part 5;
  • I admire your skills;
  • how brave you are;
  • how you loved and helped my relatives;
  • enjoyed intimacy together;
  • how you make me feel safe;

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(BPJ #33a). 

An insight from Rav Yehuda Cahan in regards to the shiur "Eight Dates" by John/Julie Gottman. Part #7.

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(EX #8). 

Rabbi Asher Vaknin Wednesday Night Couples Class. Live streamed.

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(BPM#29). 

100 ways to love your wife her way. Part #1.

http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/100WaysToLoveYourWife.pdf

• aligning with what she needs;

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(EX #9). 

Excellent audio on coping with anxiety.

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(BPJ #34). 

"Eight Dates" by John/Julie Gottman.

http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/99Ways-SBJ31.pdf

Part #8.

• Date #1: Lean on me. [Trust & Commitment] - Part 6;
  • l felt loved and& cared by you;
  • expessing in healthy ways your physical desire towards your spouse and beauty during intimacy;
  • you are a thoughtful person;
  • you have comforted me when I was afraid;

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(BPM#30). 

100 ways to love your wife her way. Part #2.

http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/100WaysToLoveYourWife.pdf

• complement her often;
• be creative in your expression of love;
• family goals;
• let her buy things;
• forgive her when she offends you;

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(BPJ #35). 

"Eight Dates" by John/Julie Gottman.

http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/99Ways-SBJ31.pdf

Part #9.

• Date #1: Lean on me. [Trust & Commitment] - Part 7;
  • when I doubted yourself, you were in my corner;
  • I love the fact that your not arrogant;
  • I am grateful that I can be proud of you;

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(EX #10). 

A Man's Role in Marriage—Spiritual, Mental, Emotional, Social, Physical

SoulWords—Rabbi Shais Taub

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(EX #11). 

How Do Woman Have The Power To Build Or Destroy A Marriage

Rabbi Vaknin

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(BPM#31). 

100 ways to love your wife her way. Part #3.

http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/100WaysToLoveYourWife.pdf

• accept her admit mistakes;
• pray for her;
• learn to enjoy what she enjoys;
• do not belittle her feminine qualities;

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(BPJ #36). 

"Eight Dates" by John/Julie Gottman.

http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/99Ways-SBJ31.pdf

Part #9.

• Date #1: Lean on me. [Trust & Commitment] - Part 8;
  • cherishing each other
    • appreciate that I can be myself with you
    • that you work very hard
    • you are my best friend
    • I love our spiritual connection;

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(BPM#32). 

100 ways to love your wife her way. Part #4.

http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/100WaysToLoveYourWife.pdf

• integrating in healthy way some feminine qualities in you in right measure;
• choosing carefully your words;
• respect and healthy regard, and responsibility when one is required to interact with women;

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(EX #12). 

This video is a VACCINE against stress

Rabbi Simon Jacobson at Meaningful Life Center

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(BPJ #37). 

"Eight Dates" by John/Julie Gottman.

http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/99Ways-SBJ31.pdf

Part #10.

• Date #2: Agree to Disagree. [Adressing conflict.] - Part 1;
  • its a marriage myth to believe that if you never disagree then you have a good relationship;
  • sharing these conflicts deepen the marriage bond;

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(BPM#33). 

100 ways to love your wife her way. Part #5.

http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/100WaysToLoveYourWife.pdf

• being sensitive to her and to other people;
• the important little things;
• special nights with her INCLUDING nights when she is a nidda;
• overview of applying these 100 ways in your life;

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(BPJ #38). 

"Eight Dates" by John/Julie Gottman.

http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/99Ways-SBJ31.pdf

Part #11.

• Date #2: Agree to Disagree. [Adressing conflict.] - Part 2;
  • managing disagreement;
  • within these perpetual problems that can't ever seem to resolve, lie the greatest opportunities for growth & intimacy;

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(EX #13). 

The Difficult Conversation About Intimacy (with Rabbi Dr. Simcha Feuerman).

Living Lchaim

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(BPM#34). 

• regaining your wife's love and trust in you, that she is priority #1 in your life;
• evidence wives need before they believe their husbands;
• to have patience when she is reluctant believing that you changed;

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(BPJ #39). 

"Eight Dates" by John/Julie Gottman.

http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/Valuing differences BPJ 39-40.pdf

Part #12.

• Date #2: Agree to Disagree. [Adressing conflict.] - Part 3;
  • differences in neatness, organization, punctuality;
  • multi-tasking vs. single focus;
  • differences in emotionality;

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(EX #14). 

The Secret to A Successful Marriage! II STEVE HARVEY

Steve TV Show

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(BPM#35). 

• reasons why a wife can become less important to her husband and how to correct it;
• making your wife feel safe and important;
• meeting your wife's needs;

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(BPJ #40). 

"Eight Dates" by John/Julie Gottman.

http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/Valuing differences BPJ 39-40.pdf

Part #13.

• Date #2: Agree to Disagree. [Adressing conflict.] - Part 4;
  • wanting time together vs. time alone;
  • differences in physical intimacy frequency and style
  • finances;
  • chinuch;

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(BPM#36). 

• how being kind and tender towards your wife helps heal her emotional wounds, depression, and anxiety;
• its a skill to practice and learn;

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(BPJ #41). 

"Eight Dates" by John/Julie Gottman.

http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/Valuing differences BPJ 39-40.pdf

Part #14.

• Date #2: Agree to Disagree. [Adressing conflict.] - Part 5;
  • differences in dealing with grief;
  • high energy vs. low energy;
  • hashkafah;
  • summary of very important points;

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(BPM#37). 

Ways you can hurt your wife-husband.pdf

Ways you can hurt your wife and to correct it.

Part #1.

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(BPJ #42). 

"Eight Dates" by John/Julie Gottman.

http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/Valuing differences BPJ 39-40.pdf

Part #15.

• Date #3: Let's get it on. [Sex & Intimacy] - Part 1;
  • being open about your desires;
  • finding your own normal as a couple;
  • not looking at others;
  • acts that enhance physical intimacy;

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(BPM#38). 

Ways you can hurt your wife-husband.pdf

Ways you can hurt your wife and to correct it.

Part #2.

• express genuine sorrow when you offend your wife;
• sincerely work to change your ways;

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