Bare Marriage (Sheila Gregoire)
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| 03 Feb 2022 | Episode 131: The woman who was crying in the shower is here! | 00:58:52 | |
We are so honoured to have on the podcast today the woman who wrote that letter we discussed back in episode 129. She joins us to share her story, give some updates, and shed some light on what toxic teachings in practice actually resulted in. To Support Us:
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| 21 Mar 2019 | Episode 11: A New Take on Resolving Conflict | 00:37:04 | |
Today I talk about what I have learned and observed about resolving "conflicts in marriage" and present some insights on a more productive approach. I also talk about some tricks to help you and your spouse communicate love to one another, and Rebecca and I delve into cellphones and the millennial mental health crisis. Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
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| 10 Feb 2022 | Episode 132: All About the Sexual Response Cycle | 01:02:47 | |
Too many people don’t understand the sexual response cycle–so let’s spell it out and figure out why this lack of info has become so prevalent in evangelicalism! The Intimately Us app!
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| 17 Feb 2022 | Episode 133: Birth Control & Lust Control | 00:57:27 | |
Special thank you to our guest Patrick Weaver for joining us today! We look forward to having him on the podcast again in the future! Our Patreon! Support us for as little as $5 a month and help us get our research into peer reviewed journals. Plus you can join our rocking Facebook group and get unfiltered podcasts!
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| 24 Feb 2022 | Episode 134: What Guys Can Do If They've Messed Up | 01:03:39 | |
Because our church culture teaches guys that they need sex the way newborn babies need to be fed in the middle of the night or the way an invalid needs water brought to them, men often don’t realize that they are being the selfish ones. They’re taught this is an absolute need they have, a life and death need, and so if she doesn’t want sex, that must mean she’s being selfish.
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| 29 Mar 2019 | Episode 12: The Burden of the Household | 00:16:03 | |
Everyone is sick today, so we have a short episode of Rebecca and Connor talking about the psychological burden of being in charge of chores. They talk about their own journey through sorting out the division of tasks and responsibility, and give some advice on how you can find a healthier balance in your marriage too! Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
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| 03 Mar 2022 | Episode 135: How Much Sex Have We Rescued? Plus, Elizabeth Fisher Good! | 00:57:18 | |
It’s the one year anniversary since The Great Sex Rescue was published!
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| 10 Mar 2022 | Episode 136: The Uncomfortable Truth About Waiting for Marriage for Sex | 01:02:15 | |
Does waiting for marriage really guarantee a great sex life? Sheila, Rebecca, and Keith weigh in on this week's podcast! To Support Us:
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| 03 Apr 2019 | Episode 13: Speak Up in Your Marriage | 00:28:19 | |
All too often, big problems later on in marriage arise as a result of bad habits and poor communication earlier on. Let's talk about how to fix our marriages before they are broken. Rebecca also joins me to talk about why so many Christian women are having trouble finding a husband, and I address dealing with a spouse's sexual history. Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
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| 17 Mar 2022 | Episode 137: New Research Blows Away the Evangelical Idea About Lust | 00:56:38 | |
We saved some of our most important findings from our men’s survey for this special podcast!
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| 24 Mar 2022 | Episode 138: Echoes of Menstruation (...really, Focus on the Family?!) | 01:00:58 | |
Rebecca noticed that in Focus on the Family’s PluggedIn movie review for Turning Red, they had put references to menstruation under “sexual content”, including cramps and pads. And they warned that some people may hear an “echo of menstruation” in the title of the film. To Support Us:
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| 11 Apr 2019 | Episode 14: Seriously? Are Women Actually Stumbling Blocks? | 00:34:18 | |
Today I tackle the issue of modesty. We often warn women not to be stumbling blocks for men, and lay the blame for men's lust at their feet, but what if that is actually creating a stumbling block for our women? I also address whether you should fake orgasm every time, and Rebecca and I discuss wedding vows Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
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| 31 Mar 2022 | Episode 139: How Many Men Are Sexually Safe? | 00:50:55 | |
We talked about the findings from our survey, as described in this post last week on how many Christian guys are sexually safe. To Support Us:
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| 07 Apr 2022 | Episode 140: A Victim of Bill Gothard's Story: Escaping a Cult & Finding Freedom with Emily Elizabeth Anderson | 00:59:17 | |
Today Emily Elizabeth Anderson from Thriving Forward joins us to tell her story, and to tell what she’s passionate about now. And especially how she found the actual Jesus after she left what she now sees as a cult.
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| 14 Apr 2022 | Episode 141: The Most Misunderstood Women in the Bible - and Research! ft Mary DeMuth | 00:54:49 | |
We misunderstand women in the Bible–and we misunderstand gender aspects of research!
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| 18 Apr 2019 | Episode 15: Women and Porn, Creepy Men, and More | 00:39:30 | |
We talk plenty about men struggling with porn, but today I address the growing number of women who are struggling with it. Rebecca and I also talk about whether to get involved if your child is dating a non-Christian, and how you can make yourself less of a target for sexual harassment from creeps you don't know. All that on today's podcast and more! Also, don't forget to check out the blog if you want more, at tolovehonorandvacuum.com! Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
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| 21 Apr 2022 | Episode 142: No, Christians Don't Always have Better Marriages and Sex Lives--a response to Josh Howerton | 01:11:10 | |
Last month Josh Howerton, lead pastor at Lakepointe Church in Dallas, wrote a Twitter thread sharing research with 5 reasons Christians are doing better than the media gives us credit for. Matt Chandler, head of The Acts29 Network and lead pastor at The Village Church, retweeted it.
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| 28 Apr 2022 | Episode 143: Do You Know Your Attachment Style? (Start Your Engines) | 00:58:42 | |
Attachment research is the science of how we relate to others. We can all have different attachment styles, based on whether we’ve got insecure attachment or secure attachment with our primary caregivers or loved ones (or even God!) Links to things mentioned:
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| 25 Apr 2019 | Episode 16: Forgiveness, Healing, and Lust | 00:32:16 | |
I don't think we always talk about forgiveness in a way that is actually helpful. Today I talk about what it really means to heal and move past something. And while I talk about forgiveness, I also address some reader question and comments regarding men lusting after other women, and the harm behind the mentality that every man will have this struggle. Join us on the blog for even further discussion at To Love Honor and Vacuum! I would love to hear your thoughts. Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
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| 05 May 2022 | Episode 144: How To Misuse Statistics for Dummies - feat Wendy Snyder | 00:54:47 | |
In the last of our three podcasts with Joanna where we talk stats, we tackle a few more ways that research is often handled poorly, using the research around spanking as one example.
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| 12 May 2022 | Episode 145: Connection Not Punishment: A Better Way to Parent feat. Wendy Snyder | 00:58:28 | |
What if discipline and spanking aren’t synonyms?
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| 19 May 2022 | Episode 146: Let's Talk Attachments Styles and Marriage with guests Milan & Kay Yerkovich | 00:54:47 | |
How do our attachment styles–or love styles–affect our marriage?
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| 26 May 2022 | Episode 147: The Porn Triage | 01:01:23 | |
Can we have a nuanced discussion about porn and the likelihood of recovery?
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| 02 Jun 2022 | Episode 148: Is Sex a Yes Space For Men? And What Does That Do to a Woman's Libido? | 00:57:30 | |
Have we made sex–and marriage–into a “Yes Space” for men? To Support Us:
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| 09 Jun 2022 | Episode 149: Groomed for an Abusive Arranged Marriage: Alyssa Wakefield's Story Part 1 | 01:01:23 | |
What if you grow up in what you now call a sex cult, and you marry because your dad told you to?
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| 02 May 2019 | Episode 17: Can We Stop with Gender Stereotypes Already? | 00:40:21 | |
Today, my daughter and I talk about gender differences and gender stereotypes. God created man and woman, but culture created masculine and feminine. We address how the ways that we look at masculinity and femininity are restrictive and work against inclusivity. And a strict adherence to gender stereotypes can also really damage our marriages. I also talk about whether it is selfish or frivolous to spend time and energy improving your sex life (I think you know my stance). For all this and more, including a report that we wrote up on the discourse following my Love and Respect posts, check out the podcast extras at To Love Honor and Vacuum! Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
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| 16 Jun 2022 | Episode 150: Escaping a Sex Cult: Alyssa Wakefield's Story Part 2 | 01:02:47 | |
Let’s face the fact that fundamentalist Christianity in North America is basically a sex cult.
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| 23 Jun 2022 | Episode 151: Why John Piper Should Stop Speaking on Marriage -- and turning the other cheek! | 00:59:14 | |
Recently John Piper had a podcast telling a woman how to deal with a “harsh” husband.
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| 30 Jun 2022 | Episode 152: What is Killing Women's Libido? | 01:01:44 | |
We wrap up what can cause women’s libidos to plummet–and what men can do about it! Links to things Mentioned in This Podcast: The Great Sex Rescue
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| 07 Jul 2022 | Unconditional Respect is NOT a Thing! (Rerun Summer Episode) | 00:55:39 | |
Unconditional respect isn’t a thing. Follow Sheila on Instagram: @sheilagregoire To Support Us:
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| 14 Jul 2022 | Can We Stop Talking About Girls Being Stumbling Blocks and Causing Men to Lust? (Rerun Summer Episode) | 00:53:29 | |
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| 21 Jul 2022 | Duty Sex isn't Sexy! (Rerun Summer Episode) | 00:57:00 | |
Links to things mentioned: And his book The Sexually Healthy Man: https://amzn.to/3p4JmyF Benjamin Young's Twitter Thread: https://twitter.com/BJYoung1990/status/1353521004073652224 Benjamin Young's ministry Guard the Gift: https://guardthegift.com/ The Great Sex Rescue: https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/great-sex-rescue/ Our Previous Podcast on Marital Rape and Consent: https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2020/04/podcast-marital-rape-consent/ Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
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| 28 Jul 2022 | Do You Know What Your Wife Has Been Taught About Sex? (Rerun Summer Episode) | 00:49:21 | |
What if your wife has been taught toxic things about sex–and you don’t even realize it? The Great Sex Rescue: Our new book, that looks at how harmful some of these messages have been
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| 04 Aug 2022 | Episode 153: Josephine Butler: The Hero You Never knew | 01:07:59 | |
Have you ever heard the name Josephine Butler? Josephine Butler, Patron Saint of Prostitutes (it's a great read for the summer!)
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| 09 May 2019 | Episode 18: Remebering Rachel Held Evans: Don't Let the Church Drive You Away From Jesus | 00:37:40 | |
In the wake of Rachel Held Evans' passing, Rebecca and I talk about her work and ideas about prioritizing authentic living-in-Christ over strict adherence to doctrine. While different doctrines can be a source of division for Christians, Jesus' universal love ties us all together. And all too often, kids fall away from church because doctrine was the centre rather than a relationship with Christ. Check out my blog, To Love Honor and Vacuum, for podcast extras and more great content! Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
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| 11 Aug 2022 | Episode 154: Katharine Bushnell: Another Hero you NEED to know ft. Kristen Kobes Du Mez + Julie Coleman | 01:02:10 | |
Time for another hero of the faith! Well, three, actually!
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| 18 Aug 2022 | Episode 155: The Rise of Lonely Men - Plus How to be Inspiring! | 00:55:06 | |
We’ve got some wonderful inspiring stories to share with you today–plus a new research study with implications for dating. To Support Us:
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| 25 Aug 2022 | Episode 156: How The Authors We Critiqued Responded to The Great Sex Rescue | 01:18:57 | |
One of the most frequent questions I’ve had since The Great Sex Rescue was published has been: “Have any of the authors responded to your critiques?” Links to things mentioned:
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| 01 Sep 2022 | Episode 157: Celebrities for Jesus -- Who should we follow? ft Katelyn Beaty | 00:53:07 | |
Evangelicalism has a problem with celebrity culture. Our Patreon! Support us for as little as $5 a month and get access to an awesome Facebook group, unfiltered podcasts, and more. Or if you don’t want to support long term, considering leaving something in our tip jar!
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| 08 Sep 2022 | Episode 158: Pastors Plagiarizing: An Example Using Josh Howerton--with Scot McKnight's commentary | 01:00:32 | |
Should pastors be allowed to plagiarize in their sermons? Note: The sermon we're referring to I originally saw because it was listed on this page. That sermon has since been removed. It is the only sermon from 2022 that can no longer be found on the Lakepointe Church site, on YouTube, and on their podcast archives. It was there a few weeks ago; it's now gone. I have no idea why, unless he got wind of what we were doing (some people did know, and there have been "breadcrumbs" in Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
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| 15 Sep 2022 | Episode 159: How Christian Marriage Books Set Me Up For Failure ft. Natalie Hoffman | 01:05:08 | |
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| 22 Sep 2022 | Episode 160: How Marriage Advice can be Misdiagnosed | 00:58:45 | |
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| 29 Sep 2022 | Episode 161: Should Pastors be Expected to Give Sex Advice? | 01:11:34 | |
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| 06 Oct 2022 | Episode 162: Why We Need a New Standard for Healthy Teaching Today | 00:54:10 | |
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| 13 Oct 2022 | Episode 163: Let's Talk Ogling and Dressing for Attention - Research Deep Dive Episode! | 01:09:04 | |
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| 20 Oct 2022 | Episode 164: Scary Body Language & Telling on Yourself | 01:07:13 | |
Links to things mentioned: The study on Who Cheats More: https://ifstudies.org/blog/who-cheats-more-the-demographics-of-cheating-in-america The Dennis Prager Facebook Video: https://www.facebook.com/prageru/videos/868111834352628/ The Great Sex Rescue: https://baremarriage.com/great-sex-rescue/ The podcast with Alyssa Wakefield https://baremarriage.com/2022/06/groomed-for-an-abusive-arranged-marriage-alyssa-wakefields-story-podcast/ The podcast with Natalie Hoffman https://baremarriage.com/2022/09/podcast-how-christian-marriage-books-set-up-for-failure-with-natalie-hoffman/ Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
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| 27 Oct 2022 | Episode 165: The 3 Types of Libido | 01:04:56 | |
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| 03 Nov 2022 | Episode 166: A Deep Dive into Ephesians 5 - Why Hierarchy in Marriage Doesn't Work | 01:01:00 | |
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| 10 Nov 2022 | Episode 167: 'Unwanted' - Discovering our Route to Sexual Healing ft. Jay Stringer | 00:59:52 | |
Links to things mentioned: https://patreon.com/baremarriage The Great Sex Rescue: https://baremarriage.com/great-sex-rescue/ Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
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| 17 Nov 2022 | Episode 168: The Myth of the Magical Penis | 00:51:50 | |
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| 01 Dec 2022 | Episode 169: Learned Helplessness & Sex ft. Sam Tielemens | 00:55:46 | |
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| 23 May 2019 | Episode 19: Sex Ed for Adults | 00:33:03 | |
On the blog I have been talking about sex and theology, so I'd like to bring it all together and take a look at what we can learn from the way God made our bodies, marriage, and sex! Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
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| 08 Dec 2022 | Episode 170: Does God Hate Divorce? plus The Women Carved in Ebony | 00:57:18 | |
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| 15 Dec 2022 | Episode 171: Identifying Spiritual Abuse and Trauma ft Dr. Foluso and Johnna Harris | 01:23:24 | |
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| 22 Dec 2022 | Episode 172: We Are Not Spiritually Homeless Anymore! A Personal Christmas Update | 00:40:28 | |
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| 05 Jan 2023 | Episode 173: The Strike at Putney: What Would Happen if Women Just Stopped? | 01:13:12 | |
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| 12 Jan 2023 | Episode 174: Why You CAN Trust Your Emotions ft. Becky Castle Miller | 01:07:24 | |
Links to things mentioned: Patreon: She Deserves Better (our new book coming in April; you can pre-order it now!) The Great Sex Rescue (on for just $2.39 on ebook this month, and the paperback is on sale too!) Becky Castle Miller Website: https://www.beckycastlemiller.com/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/bcastlemiller Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wholeemotion/ Marc Alan Schelske's podcast on emotional maturity: Scot McKnight's and Becky Castle Miller's New Testament books: Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
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| 19 Jan 2023 | Episode 175: How Emerson Eggerichs Misuses Scripture in Love & Respect ft. Nijay Gupta | 01:12:57 | |
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| 30 May 2019 | Episode 20: Horrible Scorecards for Wives | 00:39:51 | |
Some of our readers have shared some sin checklists and score cards for wives that are being used by their churches as resources for marital counselling. They are both hilarious and concerning, so that is what I, Rebecca, and her husband (Connor) are talking about on today's podcast. To read more, and to take a look at these checklists yourself, visit my website here! Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
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| 26 Jan 2023 | Episode 176: Bring Back 'Vanilla' Sex! | 00:51:21 | |
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| 02 Feb 2023 | Episode 177: The Bible vs. Biblical Womanhood ft Philip Payne | 00:57:27 | |
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| 09 Feb 2023 | Episode 178: Fixing Conversations Together! ft. Ngina Otiende & Philip Payne | 00:49:03 | |
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| 16 Feb 2023 | Episode 179: Why Did a Church Put a Marital Rape Victim under Church Discipline? | 01:07:20 | |
Today I want to tell you the story of an amazing woman who was the victim of her marriage AND her church that knew all the gory details, and yet chose to put her under discipline when she decided to end the marriage. In the first half of the podcast there is graphic descriptions of what her husband did to her. I did mention during the podcast when this was about to occur, so that people could fast forward if they chose to. But the description is horrendous. I wanted people to know what she was facing, and to understand her pastor knew this too. Plenty of autistic people are able to relate emotionally with their spouses, even if they do it in different ways. And they value connecting. What is shared in this podcast is merely her story, and we understand that it is not the case with many neurodivergent people, who can have loving marriages.
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| 23 Feb 2023 | Episode 180: Exodus Cry: What We Need to Know about Sex Trafficking | 00:55:16 | |
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| 02 Mar 2023 | Episode 181: How Does Dating Affect Teens? Let's look at the data! | 00:54:50 | |
Should we kiss dating good-bye? In purity culture, we made dating a sin. But what does the data actually say about how dating affects teen girls? In today's Bare Marriage podcast, we share our findings from our survey of 7000 women!
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| 09 Mar 2023 | Episode 182: 'Do Girls Talk Too Much?' Another claim that was made up | 00:51:57 | |
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| 06 Jun 2019 | Episode 21: Resolving Conflict With 5 Why's | 00:34:56 | |
Today, my husband joins me as we talk about how there is often a deeper root to conflict than it first seems. One technique for finding that root is the 5 "why" method. I also address a reader question about the sexual difficulties in her new marriage, and I discuss a revelation I had thanks to a Twitter argument! For more, check out the blog post on To Love Honor and Vacuum! Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
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| 16 Mar 2023 | Episode 183: What Modesty Messages Did to Us | 00:58:30 | |
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| 23 Mar 2023 | Episode 184: Why do WOMEN also push the Modesty Messages? plus Why Churches Need to Recognize Date Rape | 01:13:08 | |
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| 30 Mar 2023 | Episode 185: Trauma, EMDR, and 'Himpathy' ft. Jenna Mountain | 01:07:38 | |
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| 06 Apr 2023 | Episode 186: Shame, DARVO & Spiritual Bypassing - Let's get to the bottom of it! ft. Jasmine Holmes | 00:54:11 | |
Things mentioned in our Podcast!
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| 13 Apr 2023 | Episode 187: 'Nice Guy' Syndrome & Drawing Boundaries: What Girls Need to Know | 00:58:54 | |
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| 20 Apr 2023 | Episode 188: What We're Fighting For: A Glimpse 20 Years Down the Road | 00:56:03 | |
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| 13 Jun 2019 | Episode 22: How Sex Can Start Off Badly | 00:35:39 | |
I just released the honeymoon course on my blog this week, so Rebecca and I have been talking about how marriages can get off to a great start, or a not so great start. I also address when and how to have conversations about sex while dating or engaged, and I share my thoughts on masturbation. If you want to check out the honeymoon course, click here! And of course, if you want to check out this podcast's blog post, click here! Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
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| 27 Apr 2023 | Episode 189: Non-Toxic Masculinity ft. Zachary Wagner | 01:19:08 | |
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| 04 May 2023 | Episode 190: 'Pink' and 'Blue' Faith -- Plus we take a submission quiz! ft. Aimee Byrd | 00:54:43 | |
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| 11 May 2023 | Episode 191: Finding a Healthy Church with Beth Allison Barr | 00:58:42 | |
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| 18 May 2023 | Episode 192: How 'Every Young Man's Battle' Makes Everything Worse ft. Andrew Bauman & Zachary Wagner | 01:18:34 | |
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| 25 May 2023 | Episode 193: Tell Her Story: The Forgotten Women of the Bible with Nijay Gupta | 00:59:31 | |
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| 01 Jun 2023 | Episode 194: Male-Centric Sex vs. the Female Sexual Response Cycle | 01:06:51 | |
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| 08 Jun 2023 | Episode 195: How To Support Your Wife in an Equal Relationship feat. Todd Korpi | 00:49:43 | |
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| 20 Jun 2019 | Episode 23: Emotional Needs and Emotional Affairs | 00:29:58 | |
Today I continue my conversation from the blog about the importance of identifying your and your spouse's emotional needs, and I get into how it can help you resolve conflict. I also address a reader question about how to move forward when you have had an emotional affair with someone outside your marriage, and I also give my boardgame recommendations! Find the link to the emotional needs download, the board game post, and more right here! Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
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| 15 Jun 2023 | Episode 196: New Research on the Effects of Obligation Sex! (It's Bad...) | 00:57:54 | |
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| 22 Jun 2023 | Episode 197: How The Power of a Praying Wife Can Go Horribly Wrong | 01:19:55 | |
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| 29 Jun 2023 | Episode 198: The 4 Ways Complementarian Marriages Can Go Wrong (Keith Takes on the Danvers Statement) | 01:02:17 | |
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| 06 Jul 2023 | Episode 199: Jane Austen, Pride & Prejudice, and Marriage Advice! | 01:10:34 | |
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| 13 Jul 2023 | Episode 200 Special! - Our "Brio Magazine Deep Dive" PJ Party! | 00:58:54 | |
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| 27 Jun 2019 | Episode 24: I Was Naive But Now My Eyes Are Open | 00:44:52 | |
Events on the blog lately have woken me up to some of the disturbing realities of our culture, and so I talk with various members of my staff and family about these big issues on my mind recently. If you want all of the extras, check out the post here! Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
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| 17 Aug 2023 | Episode 201: What Does a Biblical Marriage Look Like? | 01:07:50 | |
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| 24 Aug 2023 | Episode 202: The Barbie Movie, South Korean Women, and the Evangelical Church | 00:55:05 | |
Links to things mentioned: https://patreon.com/baremarriage Our Limited Edition Merch--it's only available until the end of the month! Check out these great beach towels: https://sheilawraygregoire.com/product-category/limited-edition/ And don't forget our Biblical Womanhood merch that's available year-round: https://sheilawraygregoire.com/product-category/be-a-biblical-woman-collection/ The Instagram Reel on Ken vs. Allan: https://www.instagram.com/reel/CvNIHFxN86G/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA== The Atlantic: The real reason South Korean women aren't having babies: https://www.theatlantic.com/ideas/archive/2023/03/south-korea-fertility-rate-misogyny-feminism/673435/ The New York Times: Women in South Korea are on Strike Against Being Baby-Making Machines https://www.nytimes.com/2023/01/27/opinion/south-korea-fertility-rate-feminism.html Carolyn Custis James' book Malestrom https://amzn.to/47HWqSh Information on the Bechdel Test: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bechdel_test Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
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| 31 Aug 2023 | Episode 203: Parenting without Yelling: Discipline & Kindness Can Go Together! ft. Wendy Snyder | 01:05:13 | |
Links to things mentioned: Check out last year's podcasts with Wendy: Part 1 and Part 2 https://baremarriage.com/2022/05/podcast-how-to-misuse-statistics-for-dummies/ Find Wendy on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/freshstartwendy/ Join our AMAZING Patreon group--we're launching our book study in our Patreon community this month as a test run! https://patreon.com/baremarriage Check out our Limited Edition Merch--it goes away the end of August! https://sheilawraygregoire.com/product-category/limited-edition/ Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
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| 07 Sep 2023 | Episode 204: Untangling Toxic Teachings on Suffering ft. Rebecca Davis | 01:04:14 | |
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| 14 Sep 2023 | Episode 205: Do Complementarian Men Make the Best Husbands? A response to Nancy Pearcey | 01:21:42 | |
Links to things mentioned: Our podcast going over these same points (for those who would rather listen!): Leonardo Cruz' critique of how Nancy Pearcey handled history scholars https://leo-cruz.medium.com/nancy-pearcey-pt1-44f98c2a3602 Our book The Great Sex Rescue, based on our survey of 20,000 women https://baremarriage.com/great-sex-rescue/ The IFS report that showed that conservative highly religious men were far more likely to perpetrate intimate partner violence (p. 36): https://ifstudies.org/ifs-admin/resources/reports/worldfamilymap-2019-051819.pdf The book The Scandal of the Evangelical Mind Check out our Biblical Manhood merch! https://sheilawraygregoire.com/product-category/biblical-manhood/ Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
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| 21 Sep 2023 | Episode 206: A Deep Dive into 'For Women Only' by Shaunti Feldhahn ft. Meghan Tschanz + Devi Abraham | 01:28:00 | |
Links to things mentioned: Our summary of all the issues in this podcast, plus a downloadable one sheet! https://baremarriage.com/2023/09/review-of-the-problems-with-for-women-only-by-shaunti-feldhahn-with-download/ Our post that does a deep dive in the problematic survey questions that Shaunti Feldhahn asks: Find Meghan Tschanz’s podcast series on For Women Only: Part 1; Part 2; Part 3; Part 4 https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/for-women-only-part-2/id1438368947?i=1000626549865 https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/for-women-only-part-3/id1438368947?i=1000627185380 https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/for-women-only-part-4/id1438368947?i=1000628046603 Follow Meghan on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/meghantschanz/ Devi Abraham’s podcast Where Do We Go From Here, including my latest episode with her! https://open.spotify.com/episode/18eiTmiHvMimq3Oog80lq1 Follow Devi on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/devi_writes/, and the Where Do We Go From Here on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wheredowegopod/ We take apart the “love and respect survey question at the end of this podcast: https://baremarriage.com/2020/12/unconditional-respect-in-marriage-is-wrong-podcast/ Our book The Great Sex Rescue! It’s on MAJOR SALE in paperback on Amazon right now! Our podcast with Meghan Tschanz about her bo Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
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| 28 Sep 2023 | Episode 207: The Ultimate Anti 'Obligation Sex' Episode | 01:01:07 | |
Links to things mentioned: Check out our Biblical Womanhood merch, and our new Biblical Manhood merch! https://sheilawraygregoire.com/product-category/biblical-womanhood-collection-merchandise/ https://sheilawraygregoire.com/product-category/be-a-biblical-woman-collection/ https://sheilawraygregoire.com/product-category/biblical-manhood/ Our Great Sex Rescue Toolkit–to help talk to your pastor, small group leader, women’s ministry leader, or anybody about the issues with the obligation sex message (it’s Pay-What-You-Can): https://sheilawraygregoire.com/product/great-sex-rescue-toolkit/ Our Obligation Sex Series that has run all month: https://baremarriage.com/2023/09/10-things-obligation-sex/ Our 4-Step Plan to Rebuild after Obligation Sex: https://baremarriage.com/2022/11/the-sex-recovery-series-4-point-plan-to-rebuild-your-sex-life/ 10 Questions to Ask if Your Wife Doesn’t Want Sex: https://baremarriage.com/2020/09/10-questions-for-husbands-to-ask-if-your-wife-doesnt-want-sex/ The Good Guy’s Guide to Great Sex–to help men especially get a more biblical, intimate view of what sex is supposed to be: https://baremarriage.com/good-girls-guys-guide-great-sex/ Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
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| 05 Oct 2023 | Episode 208: What Happens When a Pastor Sets Out to Prove Complementarianism? ft. Terran Williams | 00:56:10 | |
Links to things mentioned: Check out our new Biblical Manhood Merch! https://sheilawraygregoire.com/product-category/biblical-manhood/ Terran Williams’ Book How God Sees Women: https://amzn.to/3PJjwQ2 Terran’s book What’s So Amazing About Scripture: https://amzn.to/3ROMSiZ Terran’s series on Mike Winger’s videos on complementarianism/egalitarianism: https://terranwilliams.com/what-winger-presently-gets-wrong-egalitarian-silver-bullet-galatians-328/ (all of his articles are linked at the bottom of this one) Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
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| 12 Oct 2023 | Episode 209: Why Don't Evangelical Sex Teachers Know What They Don't Know? | 01:08:51 | |
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| 19 Oct 2023 | Episode 210: The Enneagram and Marriage ft. Christa Hardin | 00:56:44 | |
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| 26 Oct 2023 | Episode 211: Bullied for Leaving an Abusive Husband ft. Naghmeh Panahi | 01:09:32 | |
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| 02 Nov 2023 | Episode 212: Do Women Really Initiate 70% of Divorces for Frivolous Reasons? | 00:58:28 | |
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