
Awakening Worth in Childless Women (Sheri Johnson)
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02 Feb 2022 | 50: Birthing a Baby Isn't the Only Kind of Birth That Creates Purpose | 00:17:07 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! Society tells us that women are meant to procreate and having or raising a child is the ultimate purpose in life. While I bought into this belief in my early days as a childless woman, I now believe it's total rubbish. In this episode, I'm going to share with you:
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10 Feb 2022 | 51: Finding Meaning in Childlessness with Veronica Santini | 00:42:40 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! Veronica Santini was devastated by a Premature Ovarian Syndrome diagnosis at 32 and found herself walking the childless path not long after. But her commitment to nurturing herself through yoga, slowing down and a personal healing journey has allowed her to embrace her beautiful childless life. She now finds meaning in her struggle by helping others heal too. Where to find Sheri: | |||
15 Feb 2022 | 52: Childless But Not Infertile with Emily Robbins | 00:45:10 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! Each of us has our own unique path through childlessness. Many have arrived here through infertility or pregnancy loss. But some haven't. Some haven't found a partner. Some couldn't afford to have a child on their own. Or that simply wasn't right for them. There are so many reasons a woman ends up on the childless journey. Where to find Sheri: | |||
23 Feb 2022 | 53: Not All Childless Women's Groups Are Healing | 00:22:21 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! One of the benefits of social media apps is the ability they have to gather like-minded people. It's easy to find them, follow them and join their groups. It's hard to imagine life without social media groups and followings now, but even just a few years ago, they weren't so prevalent. Where to find Sheri: | |||
03 Mar 2022 | 54: The Difference Between Giving Up and Had Enough | 00:18:19 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! The path to motherhood can be daunting for some of us. The road through infertility, adoption, or a marriage in which one partner doesn't want kids are all rocky. Same for a single woman or a same-sex couple who wants children. Every decision along the way is tough, each let down is heartbreaking, and vast array of emotions you feel every step of the way can be overwhelming. Where to find Sheri: | |||
10 Mar 2022 | 55: My So-Called Selfish Life with Therese Shechter | 01:01:07 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! Documentary film-maker, Therese Shechter, paid a visit to the podcast this week to discuss her most recent passion project, "My So-Called Selfish Life". Therese considers herself to be on the child-free end of the spectrum but her film appeals to the childless-not-by-choice and by-choice alike. Where to find Sheri: | |||
15 Mar 2022 | 56: 5 Big Mistakes Childless Women Make (and How to Fix 'Em) | 00:25:30 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! On my own journey through childlessness, I realized I was making some big mistakes that were blocking me from feeling joy in my life. I also noticed that I wasn't the only one. In this episode, you'll learn:
sherijohnson.ca/56 Where to find Sheri: | |||
24 Mar 2022 | 57: Finding Worth as a Childless, Unmarried Woman with Civilla Morgan | 00:53:20 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! Civilla Morgan has been hosting the podcast, Childless Not By Choice since 2015. This time, she's the guest and bearing all with me. We discuss:
Show notes: sherijohnson.ca/57 Where to find Sheri: | |||
31 Mar 2022 | 58: Embodied Possibilities for Childless Women with Sarah Jane Smith | 00:45:38 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! Many childless women feel a deep inner shame and mistrust of their bodies and are unable to show themselves compassion as a result. There's a disconnect between the mind, body and spirit.
For Sarah Jane's free gift: How to Re-Establish Trust With Your Body, visit the show notes for this episode at: sherijohnson.ca/58 Where to find Sheri: | |||
07 Apr 2022 | 59: Healing Through Childlessness by Owning Her Voice with Jobi Tyson | 00:44:57 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! Jobi Tyson is one of those women who knows how to rise. She has a heartbreaking story of infertility that ultimately ended with a hysterectomy. But she soon found healing and empowerment by owning her voice.
Show notes at: sherijohnson.ca/59 Where to find Sheri: | |||
13 Apr 2022 | 60: Finding a Therapist Who Gets It with Katie Maynard | 00:44:47 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! Katie Maynard is a licensed psychotherapist who has had her own experience with infertility and now childlessness. She's a therapist who "gets it" when it comes to the unique grief and challenges we face as childless women. What a gift as a client when seeking help, to speak with someone who understands.
offers a triad of services: working with individual clients, supporting the clinical growth of other therapists, and creating change in the mental health community around the lack of training and competence with childless clients. Where to find Sheri: | |||
20 Apr 2022 | 61: How to Love Yourself Through Loss with Becky Barber | 00:50:54 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! It's not easy for women to love themselves through loss. We're so accustomed to caring for others and shoving our own needs aside that when it comes time for us to support ourselves, we don't feel worthy.
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27 Apr 2022 | 62: The Worthy Project with Meadow DeVor | 01:04:49 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! We all struggle, at least a little, with self-worth. We may not realize it (I didn't) or call it that, but we have all felt undervalued at some point. Meadow DeVor has created a formula for understanding self-worth and how to build it, and she lays it all out in her book, the Worthy Project.
There are so many gems in this episode. We go deep on the whole motherhood journey, infertility, childlessness, and even the similarities between the mothers and the childless women. Where to find Sheri: | |||
04 May 2022 | 63: How Your Beliefs May Be Keeping You From Loving Your Childless Life with Lana Manikowski | 00:57:42 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! Are you struggling to love your life again as you step onto the childless path? Do you think it's possible that it could be your own beliefs that are getting in the way? My guest on this episode put me in the hotseat and demonstrated how my own beliefs were making me feel triggered and annoyed by my own family.
Shownotes: sherijohnson.ca/63 Where to find Sheri: | |||
11 May 2022 | 64: How "Being Strong" Actually Hinders Your Healing | 00:19:53 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! Think of how often you hear people talk about being strong when it comes to the toughest parts of life. We try to be strong. We tell other people they ARE strong.
Show notes: sherijohnson.ca/64 Where to find Sheri: | |||
18 May 2022 | 65: The Spiritual Side of Awakening Worth with Susan Mason-Apps | 01:12:11 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! Susan Mason-Apps is my guest today and she’s an extra special guest. Susan is my coach, healer, mentor and visionary. She is the founder of the Magical Life Institute and the Inner Journey Alchemy process. I’ve been working with Susan for over a year now. I went her process, and let me tell you, it was extraordinary. It’s hard to put into words, really. I think you’ll get a sense of what she does as we talk. She started her career as a Forensic Biologist and it was fascinating to hear more about that. But for the last 20 years, she’s been offering healing and coaching services through various energetic healing modalities. On this episode we really get into the spiritual side of self-worth and I can’t wait for you to hear it. Where to find Sheri: | |||
25 May 2022 | 66: Applying the 5 Stages of Grief to Childlessness | 00:25:32 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! I think for most of us, there’s potentially a long process of coming to the realization that you are going to be a childless woman. There’s no one big moment. And yet, it still catches us totally off guard. You grow up assuming you’ll become a mother one day. You have no reason to believe that you won’t be. Whenever you meet a childless couple, you don’t even really register it or think about what their life is really like. You’ll never be that person so it doesn’t even enter your mind. And yet, there IS a moment when you suddenly realize, oh my goodness, I’m here. I AM a childless woman. Not going to be, but am already. Where to find Sheri: | |||
02 Jun 2022 | 67: Patriarchy and Pronatalism and Their Impact on Childless Women, with Jody Day | 01:07:22 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! There is so much systemic prejudice towards childless women ingrained in our society today that stem from ancient patriarchal and pronatalist views and government policy. Most of us don't even realize the extent. I didn't realize it and received a bit of an awakening right on the show.
Show notes: sherijohnson.ca/67/ Where to find Sheri: | |||
13 Aug 2023 | 68: How to Know if You Are Stuck in Disenfranchised Grief as a Childless Woman | 00:17:52 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! Many childless women feel the heaviness of grief as they begin to accept a very different future than they imagined they'd have. In this episode, you will discover:
Exclusive podcast for navigating grief as a childless woman: Key topics: Where to find Sheri: | |||
13 Aug 2023 | 69: The Key to Redefining Your Legacy with BonnieRuth Rolf | 01:03:00 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! In this engaging episode, BonnieRuth Rolf shares the story of how she and her husband were able to deepen their relationship and navigate grief as a childless couple. They are now developing a beautiful property in Texas to cater to other childless couples who want to do the same.
Where to find BonnieRuth and The Legacy Place retreat center: Key topics: Where to find Sheri: | |||
13 Aug 2023 | 70: Venting is Actually Counterproductive to Healing From Childless Grief | 00:13:40 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! When you feel angry and hurt by seemingly insensitive comments and advice from friends and family, it's only natural to want to let it all out in some way. But it may do more harm than good, to both yourself and the person you're venting to, when done incorrectly.
Exclusive podcast for navigating grief as a childless woman: Key topics: Where to find Sheri: | |||
13 Aug 2023 | 71: Unravelling the Concepts of God and Motherhood In the Face of Infertility, with Colette Eaton | 00:43:15 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! Listen to this eye-opening interview with Colette Eaton, an author who is passionate about sharing new and fresh ways to engage with Faith and God. Even if you are not religious, this episode will help you to uncover the root cause of some of your emotions as a childless woman.
Colette's Website: https://coletteeaton.com/ Where to find Sheri: | |||
21 Aug 2023 | 72: How to Find Connection With Other Childless Women with Stephanie Joy Phillips | 00:55:54 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! Have you ever had a deeply personal dream not come true? Have you felt pressured by societal expectations conflicting with your own path? Join us on a journey with Stephanie Joy Phillips, the incredible head and founder of World Childless Week, who will share with us her journey of not becoming a mother. As a child, Stephanie dreamed of motherhood, but life led her in a different direction - to create a community for childless women, providing support for those who share her experience.
Stephanie shares how writing and reaching out to others can alleviate the weight of grief and fortify your emotional strength. We celebrate World Childless Week's incredible expansion since its inception in 2017 and the invaluable emotional refuge it provides for those affected by childlessness. Let's honor every woman's worth, whether they are a mother or not, and learn more about this often misunderstood community. Where to find Stephanie: Where to find Sheri: | |||
28 Aug 2023 | 73: Letting Go Of Your Childless Identity is Crucial for Embracing Your Future | 00:14:53 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! If you're a woman without kids, you are likely keenly aware of some of the judgments out in the media and in the world about childfree women being selfish, lonely and unable to truly know unconditional love.
Key Links from this episode: 5 Secrets to Embracing Your ChildFREE Life: Where to find Sheri: | |||
04 Sep 2023 | 74: Moms Don't Have a Monopoly on Busy with Dr. Jennifer Reimer | 00:53:59 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! This is an extra-special episode as my twin sister, Dr. Jennifer Reimer, joins me. As two women who were childless until our 40s, we unravel the deep societal pressures, personal grief, and associated triggers on the pregnancy loss and infertility journey that we travelled at the same time. We came to a pivotal moment within weeks of each other: the decision to do IVF or not. This is where our paths split.
Where to find Jennifer: Where to find Sheri: | |||
11 Sep 2023 | 75: Who Will Take Care of Me When I Get Old? With Jody Day | 01:09:46 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! Jody Day is back for a second episode on the podcast! Our first conversation was so eye-opening for me, I had to have her back after I had actually digested all of what she shared with me.
Book: The Dance of the Dissident Daughter by Sue Monk Kidd Where to find Sheri: | |||
18 Sep 2023 | 76: How to Get Past Envy as a Childless Woman | 00:25:12 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! Navigating a sea of baby showers and first birthdays can feel isolating, especially as a woman who has not had children. If you've found yourself avoiding friends with young ones or feeling a twinge of envy every time a pregnancy announcement pops up on your feed, you're not alone. In this episode, we're confronting those feelings head-on, not as something to be ashamed of, but as a step towards finding peace.
Follow Sheri on Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
Book: Atlas of the Heart: Mapping Meaningful Connection and the Language of Human Experience by Brené Brown Where to find Sheri: | |||
22 Sep 2023 | 77: The Missing Ingredient to Creating a Bright Future (and Present!) | 00:18:46 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! There's this misconception out there that if you can get past the grief of your unexpected childless circumstances, your future will somehow just appear brighter. But unfortunately that's not true in most cases.
What if I told you that you could still have a bright future without children? It's all about identifying your desires and taking actionable steps towards achieving them. To support you on this journey, I'm introducing my Women of Worth group immersion. It's a group coaching experience that will support, empower and guide you towards embracing your childless future and present. Where to find Sheri: | |||
29 Sep 2023 | 78: How To Respond to "You're So Lucky You Don't Have Kids" | 00:24:53 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! Has someone ever said to, "you're so lucky you don't have kids"? If you wanted kids, of course you don't feel very lucky to have that unfulfilled dream. Sometimes I wonder if parents say things like this - or complain about their kids - to us childless women because they want us to feel as though we're not missing out on anything great. But then, of course, they swoon over their kids in the next breath.
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09 Oct 2023 | 79: Navigating the World of Finance Without Children with Dr. Jay Zigmont | 00:59:49 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! Did you know that most financial plans and planning software are geared entirely to the traditional parenting path? I hadn't really thought about how my saving, spending, retirement and estate planning might be totally different than that of my child-rearing friends. Until I met Jay Zigmont.
Dr. Jay is a CERTIFIED FINANCIAL PLANNER™, Childfree Wealth Specialist, and author of the book “Portraits of Childfree Wealth.” Dr Jay is the co-host of the Childfree Wealth podcast. His Ph.D. is in Adult Learning from the University of Connecticut. Where to find Sheri: | |||
16 Oct 2023 | 80: The 5 Big Mistakes Childless Women Make on the Healing Journey | 00:29:33 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! If you've found yourself stuck in grief and triggers unable to get past it, today's episode is for you.
If you're ready to start implementing some of the things you'll discover, continue your journey by downloading my free secret podcast series: 3 Secrets to Processing Grief so You Can Reimagine Your Future Where to find Sheri: | |||
23 Oct 2023 | 81: Three Unique Tools for Coping with Childless Grief, with Lisa Hohenadel | 00:46:43 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! Lisa Hohenadel uses an intriguing behavioural therapy method to help childless women work through the grief and triggers. It's called Dialectical Behaviour Therapy or DBT. I've never come across this particular type of therapy before and I wanted to hear more about how Lisa uses it in her coaching practice.
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30 Oct 2023 | 82: Expecting Empathy From Loved Ones May Be the Worst Way to Get Support | 00:27:53 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! If you’re grieving your dream of becoming a parent, you probably assumed at least someone amongst your family and friends would provide you with the support and empathy you need. And yet, my own experience, and that of most of my clients, is that their closest friends and family - and sometimes even their partner - are not able to offer empathy or understanding. This is why looking for support among those closest to you – or worse, expecting it from them – might not be the best way to get the support you need. Here's what you'll discover in this episode:
Impact Question: Have you deemed yourself, or your grief, not worthy of receiving support? If you've answered yes, send me a DM with the word "support" and I'll show you how to get the support you need, whenever you need it. Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching Website: sherijohnson.ca Where to find Sheri: | |||
06 Nov 2023 | 83: Navigating Step-Parenting as a Childless Woman, with Gail Miller | 01:01:26 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! Are you feeling like you're navigating uncharted territory as a step-parent without any children of your own? I'm not a step-parent myself, but I've learned from my clients that it can be complicated with its own set of challenges and emotions.
Where to find Gail: Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching Where to find Sheri: | |||
11 Nov 2023 | 84: Prontalism Explained And How it's Impacting You | 00:24:57 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! If you are a childless woman who feels triggered by how mom-focused and kid-centric our society seems to be, you might be stuck in the pronatalist ideology. If you're stuck here, you often feel like you are somehow worth less than mothers, you get irritated when someone asks if you have children, you feel as though you're treated differently at work, at church or even in your social circles. Breaking free of the societal norms and expectations that stem from pronatalism is a key piece to feeling worthy in the world. This is why I do what I do. Ultimately, when we are able to shift our mindset as childless women, the world we see begins to change.
My journey is not just about sharing experiences but also about extending an invitation to you. Together, we can challenge these outdated ideologies and empower ourselves to define our worth. If you want me to show you how, DM me "episode 84" on Instagram. Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching References from this episode: Where to find Sheri: | |||
16 Nov 2023 | 85: 10 Tips to Get You Through the Holidays as a Childless Woman | 00:41:50 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! The holidays are probably one of the toughest times for childless women. Grief can hit at unexpected moments and the triggers seem to be all over the place. They hit our social media feeds, our shopping excursions, and the middle of the football game on TV. Even a quick trip to the grocery store can seem daunting.
Head to Sheri's Instagram Account and DM her "ep 85" if you'd like a copy of the free guide that goes along with this episode. Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching References from this episode: Atlas of the Heart by Brene Brown Where to find Sheri: | |||
28 Nov 2023 | 86: How to Prepare Emotionally for Holiday Gatherings | 00:35:43 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! If you’re already worried about feeling grief and triggers while at a family gathering or social event through the holidays, this episode is for you. I’m going to give you some solid steps for preparing yourself before, during and after so you can breeze through them like a woman of grace.
If you want to go deeper, head over to my Instagram account and send me a DM with the words "episode 86" to get a copy of my holiday guide for childless women. Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching References from this episode: Where to find Sheri: | |||
04 Dec 2023 | 87: How to Let Go of Being Pitied as a Childless Woman | 00:23:06 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! No one likes to be pitied. And childless women who wanted kids are no different. I certainly don't like it and I did feel as though people pitied me when I first began to accept that I would never be a mom. But when my clients started asking how to get past pity, I realized that I didn't feel it at all anymore and had to really dig into how I shifted my perception. Because the people around me certainly haven't changed. I did. On this episode, you're going to find out:
I’m really curious to hear how this episode lands for you. It’s a tough topic and one that comes up a lot. If it has for you, then my next question for you is this: are you going to continue to just plow through and hope that you just wake up on the other side of it all ? Or will you take some action, and figure out a way to let go of feeling pitied? If you are the latter, head over to Instagram and send me a DM at @sherijohnsoncoaching with the words “ep. 87” . I’ll give you the step by step. Where to find Sheri: References from this episode: Where to find Sheri: | |||
12 Dec 2023 | 88: Behind the Scenes of a Happy Childless Holiday | 00:30:41 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! When we want something, it's not actually that thing that we want. It's the feeling that we imagine we'll have when we have the thing. When I wrapped my head around this concept, I could use it to determine exactly what I wanted to feel and how to bring those positive emotions into the holidays.
If you want to find out more about how you can find Meaning Beyond Motherhood, DM me "focus group" to join my free focus group for childless women. Where to find Sheri: Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching References from this Episode: Where to find Sheri: | |||
18 Dec 2023 | 89: Feeling Like You Don't Belong as a Childless Woman is Not Grief | 00:28:38 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! It's pretty normal to feel like you don't belong when you're a childless woman. We grow up thinking that eventually, we'll belong to the mom club. And then it leaves us with a pretty big feeling of exclusion when we don't get to join.
If you are ready to start taking action toward developing your own sense of belonging, DM me "ep 89" and I'll share how you can take this deeper! Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching References from this Episode: Work by Dr. Kelly-Ann Allen : Making Sense of Belonging Where to find Sheri: | |||
22 Dec 2023 | 90: Special Holiday Gift, Raise Your Vibration Meditation | 00:24:24 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! It's 3 days before Christmas as I record this special episode. This is not my usual all-talk episode or guest interview. Today, in this heartfelt episode, I'll guide you through a visualization exercise that promises to lift your spirits and shift your emotional state towards love and joy. Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching Where to find Sheri: | |||
08 Jan 2024 | 91: 5 Obstacles Keeping You From a Joyful 2024 | 00:21:32 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! I used to start every year during my pursuit of motherhood thinking, "this is going to be my year". And it never was. Once I came to terms that my future was going to be childless, it started to look pretty dismal. And yet, I wanted to feel optimistic about the year ahead. What I didn't realize was that I had some obstacles in my way that needed breaking down. Consciously.
Join me, and let's step into 2024 with courage, grace, and the freedom to craft a life of meaning, motherhood aside. Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching Kate Northrup's Plenty podcast, Episode 17: How to Increase your Capacity to Receive Love Where to find Sheri: | |||
12 Jan 2024 | 92: How to Turn Grief Into Growth, With Kirsten Frey | 00:53:23 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! I continue to be enlightened and inspired by my good friend, Kirsten Frey. She returns for a second time on this episode to share her expertise on recovering from grief and opens us up to the multitude of different kinds of loss.
Kirsten Frey is a Transitional Life Coach, Advanced Grief Recovery Specialist and Reiki Guide. Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching
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23 Jan 2024 | 93: This is Why I Didn't "Just Adopt" | 00:36:13 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! Embarking on the path of adoption or deciding against it—either one is a journey laden with emotion and complexity. Today, I open my heart to you in a candid narrative of my own experiences with the profound choice of not adopting.
If you're struggling with the tangle of societal expectations, judgment, fears and your own true desires that keep people from making a decision, DM me "ep 93" on Instagram and I'll guide you through it. Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching Where to find Sheri: | |||
29 Jan 2024 | 94: 3 Keys to Overcoming Regret and Fear of Regret on the Childless Path | 00:25:55 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! A feeling of regret and fear of future regret are two things I hear so many childless women talk about. We regret decisions and choices we made in the past that have led to our current circumstances. We also are afraid to make decisions in the present because we might regret them later.
It's entirely possible to step into peace and acceptance of your path without feelings of regret. If you want that, send me a DM on Instagram with the words "ep 94" and I'll show you how. Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoaching Where to find Sheri: | |||
05 Feb 2024 | 95: Leaving a Legacy is Not As Important As You've Been Led to Believe | 00:21:10 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! Legacy. It's a word I hear a lot in the childless community. What kind of legacy will I leave now that I'm not having kids? As though having kids is the only way to leave a legacy.
To get Sheri's FREE guide to Create Your Best Life Even Without Kids, click here. Where to find Sheri: | |||
08 Feb 2024 | 96: Childlessness and the Transformation of Our Species, with Maria Hill | 00:56:50 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! As a leader in the childless space, Maria Hill brings a ton of wisdom to this episode. Her story of parental and societal expectations as a woman growing up in the 60's shed so much light on what we are going through now as childless women.
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16 Feb 2024 | 97: Challenging Pronatalism's Effect on Purpose and Fulfillment | 00:28:12 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! I'm doing a solo episode today and pulling back the curtain on pronatalism even further. In this episode, I will peel away the layers of this pervasive belief system, examining how it shapes the sense of purpose and self-worth in those of us without children. By uncovering historical and contemporary pressures from society, government, and religion, we pave the way for acceptance and a redefined sense of meaning and purpose beyond traditional expectations.
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26 Feb 2024 | 99: Why You Need Energetic Womb Healing, with Dr. Jennifer Reimer | 01:04:23 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! The moment I sat in quiet meditation with an energy healer, I never anticipated the floodgates of emotional pain that would open from my womb space. That pivotal encounter ignited a journey into womb healing, leading me to create womb healing retreats that help women to release emotions stored in the womb space.
This one is more than just a conversation; it's an invitation to transform your deepest wounds into unparalleled strength. Where to find Sheri: | |||
22 Feb 2024 | 98: What We REALLY Need to Be Talking About on International Women's Day | 00:27:55 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! This episode is a bit controversial. I think there's this an expectation that if you are a woman, you are onboard with everything International Women's Day stands for. But I'm not known for just getting on board with something simply because of an expectation. Do I want women to rise? Yes. Do I want there to be equitable pay in the workforce? Yes. Do I want to see more women at the top? Absolutely!
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08 Mar 2024 | 100: From the Partner's Perspective, with Mike Johnson (my hubby) | 00:43:58 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! Celebrating 100 episodes today! My husband, Mike Johnson, and I mark this special occasion together on the podcast with a conversation that makes its way through life without children from HIS perspective. As we share the narrative of our journey, from the heartbreak of miscarriage to the multitude of decisions along the fertility treatment path, we peel back the layers of our different perspectives. Where to find Sheri: | |||
31 Mar 2024 | 101: How Childless Women Will Change the World | 00:27:18 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! As I embark on the next 100 episodes on the Awakening Worth Podcast, I spend this session reflecting on the deeper reason I keep hitting record and why you should keep hitting the play button.
What if we, the childless women, are the ones who can break down and break free of this centuries old ideology? What if it's us, who can lead the transformation of our society and deeply impact the lives of not just other childless women, but women in general? Where to find Sheri: | |||
07 Apr 2024 | 102: Navigating Anger as a Childless Woman | 00:28:24 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! Anger is an emotion that comes up a lot with my childless clients who wanted kids. Anger can be a really complicated emotion because it's not only an emotion in and of itself, but it can also disguise other emotions.
If you are ready to let go of anger so you can feel at peace with your path, send me a DM on Instagram or an email at sheri@sherijohnson.ca with the word "anger". Where to find Sheri: | |||
14 Apr 2024 | 103: What To Do When Your People Just Don't Get It | 00:38:19 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! Have you ever come away from a conversation thinking "gosh, "people just don't get it"? Either they say something insensitive or simply can't empathize with your childless circumstances.
DM me or email me the word "empathy" if you're ready to find true connection and empathy within a community that understands you. Where to find Sheri: | |||
21 Apr 2024 | 104: What If NOT Having Children Was the Norm in Society? | 00:19:22 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! In our current society, women without kids make up anywhere between 15 and 25% of the adult female population, depending on the country. Recently, I started to wonder what life would look like - what grief would look like - if that were reversed.
It's this kind of reality that I'm creating inside the Women of Worth group immersion. A place where childless women feel a sense of belonging, meaningful connection, an open space to create their best lives, even without kids. Where to find Sheri: | |||
30 Apr 2024 | 105: Unleashing Your Inner Rebel | 00:27:26 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! It's hard to fit in when you are in the minority. Childless women over 40 make up roughly 20% of the population (depending on what country you live in). Sometimes I wonder how many of them are living in the larger cities because it sure feels like everyone around me in my little town are parents.
If you want to take one step towards your best life, download my free PDF guide to Create Your Best Year, Even Without Kids. Where to find Sheri: | |||
05 May 2024 | 106: The Wisdom of Aging As a Childless Woman | 00:18:55 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! Menopause is a huge transformational time for women and another topic that we don’t talk about enough. Women may joke about their memory, or hot flashes or complain about heavy periods. But they don’t talk about the deep stuff. The vulnerable stuff. Or the scary stuff. There is SO much going on for women during perimenopause and midlife, and childless women experience it, quite often, right alongside trying to start a family before it’s too late. That, to me, adds a whole other element.
DM me "AGING" on Instagram @sherijohnsoncoaching if you are ready to let go of societal norms so you can love your childless midlife. Where to find Sheri: | |||
10 May 2024 | 107: 5 Steps for Navigating Mother's Day as a Childless Woman | 00:30:24 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! These are 5 steps you haven't heard before. You've probably heard people talk about staying off social media and opting out of Mother's Day emails. Maybe doing something nice for yourself and saying "no" to the celebrations. These are all valid things you can do to avoid feeling the pain of Mother's Day as a childless woman who wanted to be a mother. Where to find Sheri: | |||
17 May 2024 | 108: The Hidden Things You Didn't Know You Were Grieving | 00:30:23 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! Many childless people don't even realize they are grieving. Who would have known you can grieve the loss of an imagined future? What I find is that many women without kids, even those who choose not to have them, feel some sort of grief and it's not always the loss of that future. Identifying what specifically you're grieving is key to processing it. Where to find Sheri: | |||
26 May 2024 | 109: The Unsung Sisterhood of Women Without Kids, With Ruby Warrington | 01:06:43 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! It is so clear to me that Ruby Warrington is a thought leader in the childfree/childless space! She has authored, Women Without Kids: The Revolutionary Rise of an Unsung Sisterhood, and in my view, the whole book was revolutionary. She discusses concepts that were swirling around vaguely in my head and my mind was blown when I saw them so well articulated on the pages of her book. Where to find Sheri: | |||
02 Jun 2024 | 110: Purpose is Not Something You Find (Part 1) | 00:27:50 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! Download your free guide to Finding Purpose Beyond Parenthood: Getting Through Grief and Triggers to a Life of Meaning and Joy! Where to find Sheri: | |||
11 Jun 2024 | 111: Purpose is Not Something You Find (Part 2) | 00:32:17 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! Download your free guide to Finding Purpose Beyond Parenthood: Getting Through Grief and Triggers to a Life of Meaning and Joy!
If you are an action taker and want to discover more about how to live your purpose-filled life, download my free PDF guide, Finding Purpose Beyond Parenthood: Getting Through Grief and Triggers to a Life of Meaning and Joy! Where to find Sheri: | |||
17 Jun 2024 | 112: How to Get Through Emotions After Speeches Like Harrison Butker's | 00:34:43 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! Harrison Butker's commencement speech at Benedictine College ruffled a LOT of feathers, especially within the childfree community. There were a lot of insults thrown at him, arguments started on social media comment sections, even calls to cancel his NFL contract. Were they justified? In my opinion, it doesn't really matter.
If you want to find your own true purpose and worthy "vocation" as Harrison calls it, download my free PDF, Finding Purpose Beyond Parenthood: Getting Through Grief and Triggers to a Life of Meaning and Joy! Where to find Sheri: | |||
23 Jun 2024 | 113: Why I Decided Against IVF | 00:34:33 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! There was a time when I didn't quite feel like I had found a place within the childless community and the reason was that I had not done IVF. It seemed as though so many of the women there had tried IVF and they had this common language and terms that I wasn't familiar with.
If you're struggling with the decision between whether to quit trying to become a mom (in some way, shape or form) and embracing your life without kids, send me a DM on Instagram with the word DECISION. I'll show you how you can get off the fence. Where to find Sheri: | |||
30 Jun 2024 | 114: Navigating Loneliness As a Childless Woman | 00:21:54 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! Feeling lonely is one of the most common complaints I hear from childless women so if you're feeling lonely, you are definitely not the only one!
If you are done with feeling lonely and ready to have an amazing summer, even without kids, I'm opening up the Women of Worth program to a small group of women. It's only open to women who are ready to take action. Where to find Sheri: | |||
08 Jul 2024 | 115: Let's Talk Terminology for Women Without Kids | 00:24:02 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! Childless? Childfree? Woman Without Kids? Take your pick! Where to find Sheri: | |||
15 Jul 2024 | 116: How to Answer The "Insensitive" Questions and Comments | 00:25:47 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! Do you have kids? Who's going to take care of you when you're old? What's your purpose then? You can borrow my kids anytime! Where to find Sheri: | |||
21 Jul 2024 | 117: Stop Waiting For Time to Change Everything | 00:08:15 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! "Time heals all wounds" is the biggest lie we've been told about grief. I used to believe this lie, myself. After any sort of big emotion, I thought time would eventually clear it away. Where to find Sheri: | |||
28 Jul 2024 | 118: 7 Signs You Might Need a Mindset Tweak | 00:24:10 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! If you want to be able to answer questions like “do you have kids” with authenticity instead of awkwardness, you must shift your mindset. It's not enough to just rehearse how you'll respond. And if you're anything like I used to be, what you're rehearsing might feel more defensive and hurt than empowering. Where to find Sheri: | |||
04 Aug 2024 | 119: How To Shift Your Reaction to "Miserable Childless Cat Ladies" | 00:28:31 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! If you are anything like me, you're probably tired of hearing about JD Vance and the comments he made publicly about childless women being miserable cat ladies and having no stake in America's future.
If you're ready to take take a more empowering stance when it comes to insensitive comments and questions and find out how to let these triggers roll off your back, send me a DM on Instagram to @sherijohnsoncoaching with the word “powerful”. I’ll give you the steps on how to do it. Where to find Sheri: | |||
12 Aug 2024 | 120: Do You Have Kids? How to Respond with Grace | 00:31:17 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! So many childless and childfree women hate this question. A simple "no" answer often leads to awkward silences or the other party trying to back track or fill the space. But what if you could answer this question with ease and grace and both you and the person asking the question could walk away from the conversation feeling good?
If you want to find out how to answer ALL the insensitive questions and remarks about women without kids, send me a DM at @sherijohnsoncoaching with the words "episode 120" and I'll give you the next steps! Where to find Sheri: | |||
19 Aug 2024 | 121: The Keys to Responding to "You're So Lucky You Don't Have Kids" | 00:27:01 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! This might be one of the most "triggering" remarks that parents make to people who don't have kids. If you wanted kids, you sure don't feel very lucky, right? In fact, you might feel pretty unlucky.
If you are someone who wants to be prepared for ALL the insensitive remarks and questions - whatever comes your way - send me a DM to @sherijohnsoncoaching with the words "episode 121" and I'll show you what you can do next. Where to find Sheri: | |||
23 Jan 2020 | 1: Let Go of Guilt After Miscarriage or Infertility | 00:13:30 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! Many women feel a sense of guilt after a miscarriage or prolonged infertility. As though they might have been able to prevent the loss or improved their chances of having a baby somehow. Perhaps if they'd done something differently, things would have been better. I felt this way too. Listen to this episode to find out how to let it go. Where to find Sheri: | |||
06 Feb 2020 | 2: How to Make Peace With Your Body When it Feels Broken | 00:07:36 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! When you've been through a miscarriage or months of infertility, your body starts to feel broken. Listen to this episode to find out how to release frustration towards your body, or your female body parts, so it can heal and you can move on to your next pregnancy. Where to find Sheri: | |||
13 Feb 2020 | 3: 6 Tips For Keeping Your Relationship In Tact After a Miscarriage | 00:14:28 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! Your marriage or partnership can take a beating after a miscarriage or a period of infertility. Use these 6 tips to make sure your relationship stays rock solid through tumultuous times. Where to find Sheri: | |||
19 Feb 2020 | 4: Stuck in a Decision? Here's How to Move Forward | 00:13:09 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! After a miscarriage or while on a fertility journey, there are so many decisions to make. It can get overwhelming and impossible to figure out the direction to go. You get "stuck". Paralyzed. And can't move forward. Here's how to change that. Where to find Sheri: | |||
27 Feb 2020 | 5: What To Do When You're Asked, "When Are You Having Kids?" | 00:13:07 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! Questions like, "so when are you having kids?" can bring up a lot of anger in someone who's struggling with infertility or has just had a miscarriage. I know it does. I see a ton of posts about it on social media and I hear about it from my clients. But what if I told you that there's a way to feel comfortable with these types of questions? That you could answer them with ease and grace and not get angry? Have a listen to this episode to find out how. Where to find Sheri: | |||
18 Mar 2020 | 6: You CAN Improve Your Health During a Pandemic | 00:14:58 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! Most of what we've heard during these crazy times is fear and negativity. But there are actually ways that you can take advantage of the quarantines and isolation and allow your body, mind and spirit to heal. You might even give your fertility a boost or prepare your body for your next pregnancy. Have a listen to find out how. Where to find Sheri: | |||
27 Mar 2020 | 7: Keeping Busy Won't Make Grief Go Away | 00:14:53 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! Why do we think staying busy will help us feel better after a miscarriage? Think about it. It might take your mind off your grief for a brief period of time, but it just resurfaces, and sometimes at the worst possible moments. Where to find Sheri: | |||
01 Apr 2020 | 8: Fertility treatment postponed? Do these 5 things while you wait. | 00:15:39 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! It feels a bit like we've lost sight of everyone's problems in the world except for the massive one that no one can stop talking about. COVID19 is kind of all-consuming and I think it's left a lot of people in the lurch. People like you. Women who are on a fertility journey and now have to wait even longer for a treatment. Women whose biological clock is ticking and they just want to get moving. Women who've had their dreams crushed in one fell swoop. But you don't have to just sit back and wait. Why not take control over what you can? Right now. Where to find Sheri: | |||
08 Apr 2020 | 9: You're not alone if you're feeling these 5 emotions after a miscarriage | 00:13:49 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! We all expect to feel a deep, deep sadness after a miscarriage. We've seen other people go through grief and we've watched them experience that sadness. But have you noticed that you feel all kinds of other emotions besides sadness? I sure did after my 3 miscarriages. Jealousy, emptiness, numbness, anger...the list goes on. Grief isn't an emotion itself, it's a process that encompasses many emotions. Where to find Sheri: | |||
15 Apr 2020 | 10: 10 Things I Wish I Knew When I Miscarried | 00:22:48 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! I was so naive when I had my first miscarriage and I received no guidance from the doctors or nurses who treated me, from friends and family. From anyone. I had to navigate through my miscarriage, and the grief afterwards, alone. Then I made my way through a second miscarriage, and then a third. And by the end of all of that, I had learned a thing a two. All things that would have helped had I known them from the beginning. I want to share them with you, in case you are just starting your own journey with loss. Where to find Sheri: | |||
22 Apr 2020 | 11: My Miscarriage Story #1 | 00:19:49 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! If you've had a miscarriage, you'll know that it's a lonely experience. But it can be so healing to hear someone else's story. A story a bit like your own. With the same struggles, the same heart break. Where to find Sheri: | |||
29 Apr 2020 | 12: When It's Too Soon to Go Back to Work After a Miscarriage | 00:21:56 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! Find out how to know when it's too soon to go back to work. Most women go back too early and there's a good reason why. I'm going to share those reasons with you, as well as the reasons you shouldn't go back too soon. Where to find Sheri: | |||
05 May 2020 | 13: How to Get Through Mother's Day After a Loss | 00:15:38 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! Mother's Day has gotta be one of the hardest days of the year if you've had a miscarriage or if you're struggling with infertility. It certainly is for me. Where to find Sheri: | |||
13 May 2020 | 14: The Story of My Second Miscarriage | 00:23:15 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! In this episode, I tell the story of my second miscarriage, which was entirely different from my first, physically and emotionally. Each one came with its own emotions, its own lessons, its own grief. If you've had a miscarriage, you'll definitely be able to relate as I tell the story of how it all went down. I'll share the lessons I learned along the way too so that you might learn from them as well. Where to find Sheri: | |||
20 May 2020 | 15: Four Miraculous Tools for Healing From Miscarriage | 00:32:36 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! I share with you my absolute best tools for healing after a miscarriage or infertility in this episode. I call them miraculous because they really are. They changed my entire life. And drastically. After my first miscarriage, I had no idea how to heal emotionally from my loss. I did what I'd heard others say to do: keep busy, get back to work, avoid talking about it. And none of that worked. I believe that I simply learned to adjust to the empty feeling inside of me. I didn't actually heal from it. I want you to heal. Once I learned the tools that would help me heal, I used them voraciously. And they worked. They still work. I use them all the time, whenever I feel a trigger, whether it stems from my losses or from something else. Where to find Sheri: | |||
27 May 2020 | 16: 6 Myths that Prevent Healing from Miscarriage | 01:03:31 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! Society tells us all kinds of things about how best to heal from miscarriage. Many of them are myths and don't actually help at all. Where to find Sheri: | |||
03 Jun 2020 | 17: 7 Steps to Healing Any Emotional Trigger After a Miscarriage | 00:31:01 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! Do you have emotional triggers that keep you feeling angry or hurt by friends or family? Of course! We all have them after a miscarriage. Where to find Sheri: | |||
10 Jun 2020 | 18: 3 Simple Strategies for Emotional Healing After a Miscarriage with Cassie Vesey-Wells | 00:49:52 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! Cassie Vesey-Wells, shares some expert advice with us this episode. She's a trained counsellor with a practice focused on fertility, grief and loss. Cassie starts by sharing her own story and experience with 3 miscarriages, which I know you are going to resonate with. She then shares the simplest of simple strategies for emotional healing that have helped her and her clients. These strategies are so easy, you’ll wonder why you haven’t been doing them already! Where to find Sheri: | |||
17 Jun 2020 | 19: 4 Emotions Your Partner is Feeling After Your Miscarriage | 00:17:10 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! One of the complaints I here most often after a miscarriage is how challenging it is to keep your relationship together. It might feel like your partner is moving forward more quickly than you after your miscarriage. Or at least grieving very differently. And it can lead to misunderstandings and resentment. Where to find Sheri: | |||
30 Jun 2020 | 20: The #1 Belief That is Stalling Your Emotional Healing After a Miscarriage | 00:13:34 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! After I had my first miscarriage, I didn't join a support group. I didn't look for online resources for navigating grief after a miscarriage. I didn't go to therapy, at least not right away and not because I thought I needed help recovering from my miscarriage. I did nothing to try to help myself heal. Where to find Sheri: | |||
07 Jul 2020 | 21: 3 Secrets I've Been Afraid to Tell You 5 Years After My Miscarriages | 00:12:25 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! My last miscarriage was 5 years ago. 3 years later, I shifted my business toward helping women recover emotionally and spiritually from grief following a miscarriage. Since then, I've been holding in a few secrets. I was afraid of what you'd think if you knew these secrets. But in this episode, I'm opening up my heart and sharing all.
Where to find Sheri: | |||
15 Jul 2020 | 22: 3 Steps to Living an Unconventional Life | 00:16:25 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! After 3 miscarriages and 6 years of infertility, my husband and I have embraced an unconventional life. It's one without children of our own, but it's full of love and happiness. Where to find Sheri: | |||
22 Jul 2020 | 23: 5 Things I Did Wrong After My Miscarriages | 00:22:21 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! I did a lot of things wrong after my miscarriages. I did a lot of things right too, by the way. But it took me a long time to realize what I was doing wrong. In fact, most of these things were still in check after my second and then my third miscarriage. I didn’t really learn until later. You might be just a few days or weeks after your miscarriage or perhaps it's been years. What I’ve learned is that it doesn’t matter, you’ve likely been doing at least one of these things wrong as well. Everyone does. I want to share 5 things I did wrong with you now so that you don’t have to wait to figure them out on your own and can start changing them now. I'm also going to share what I wish I would have done instead. Where to find Sheri: | |||
05 Aug 2020 | 24: How to Use Art to Fast Track Healing After a Pregnancy Loss with Sabrina Fletcher | 00:59:13 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! Sabrina Fletcher, like me, turned her pain into a business that serves other women who are going through the same thing she went through. She's the TFMR Doula and Pregnancy Loss Doula at The Undone path. Sabrina had a pregnancy loss due to a medical termination. I know there are women out there who have had this kind of loss, but she was the first person I’ve met who’s had a termination for medical reasons (or TFMR). Sabrina helps moms and families who have gone through a medical termination of wanted pregnancies to process and integrate grief. She uses a few different tools to do this but we’ve honed in on one of them today. She’s melded together art and one of my favourite tools, journaling. Where to find Sheri: | |||
12 Aug 2020 | 25: How to Know if You've Healed After a Pregnancy Loss | 00:17:49 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! It's hard to know if you've healed emotionally after a loss. When you're in it, you can't see the forest for the trees. Where to find Sheri: | |||
18 Aug 2020 | 26: The Story of My Third Miscarriage | 00:22:51 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! I had three miscarriages before deciding, with my husband, to stop trying. This is the story of my third loss. I journeyed through relief, excitement, hope, denial and then grief. I'll share my story and the lessons I learned along the way. Where to find Sheri: | |||
26 Aug 2020 | 27: How to Navigate the Back-to-School Season After a Miscarriage | 00:23:05 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! Just seeing all the first day of school pictures on social media broke my heart, knowing that I would never go back-to-school shopping for my three babies or take pictures of their happy little faces. I would never greet them after school and hear all about their first day back.
Where to find Sheri: | |||
21 Oct 2020 | 28: 3 Secrets to Shifting Your Body Image After a Miscarriage | 00:19:54 | |
Send me a text and tell me what you're struggling with the most! So many women feel a multitude of emotions about their body after a miscarriage. Shame. Embarrassment. Body hate. In this episode, I'll share:
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