As UR Big Sister Podcast (Aja MyQueen)

Hey guys! Welcome welcome welcome!! First I’d like to thank Aaron for joining me this episode, second I’d like to thank you for listening and third I’d like to thank everyone who participated in the Q+A! That’s actually really fun !

Hope to be back soon :)

Hey guys!! Today we will be talking about TikTok drama… there’s always something going on 🥹 A couple weeks ago a Black creator said,”a white audience is better than a black audience” and people have been pissed ever sense. While this can be all fun and games I think people take it too far & they did just that. Why do you think the world needs your (very repetitive) opinion? I’ve seen 10 stitches saying the SAME thing, I’ve seen people say it’s “constructive criticism” all while picking her physical appearance apart. A lot of gas lighting and not enough one on one sessions with a professional. What she said definitely was insane but I wonder if all this was necessary. Is it really ever though? Lol do we ever get anything productive out of these situations?

Hey guyssss! Today we will be talking about confidence and ways we can enter the new year on a good note. I wish you all so much good, thank you all for being here!

Hey friends! Today we will be talking about our comfortability (or lack thereof) in having the mental health conversation with people who are close to us. Why is it that we have a hard time opening up to the people we are the closest to? What can we do to be better people to the ones we love who are struggling? How can we who are struggling communicate that we are going through a hard time? I hope you guys enjoy! Aaliyah’s Instagram: https://instagram.com/_aaliiyaaah?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

Topics: -Black women can’t be passionate - Fannita & TikTok drama -Your content sucks bc you act too cool. Hope you guys enjoy!!! Instagram & TikTok : @ajamyqueen & @asurbigsister

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Hi guyssss, this episode is going to be out looks again haha SHOCKER. I talk about how I dress the way I like on a budget, my experience as a child being the ugly duckling and more! Thank you in advance 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

Happy new year! This episode we will be talking about my New Years resolutions, straight people who think everyone wants them and why I haven’t been such a good friend and ways I am changing that. Thank you a lot for listening. Don’t forget that every Friday, there will be new content on YouTube which will give you the visual version of this episode. Thank you again 🥰

Hey guys! I don't know what to say, I got work in the morning. I hope you guys enjoy today's episode.

Hello y’all! I hope you guys enjoy this episode. My brother and I had a discuss any and everything under the sun. Thank y’all for listening!

Hey frennnnsss! You cannot believe what happened 🙄

Hey guys! I hope y’all enjoy today’s episode. It’s literally me just ranting and stuttering through the whole episode but if you can see through the lines you’ll get what I’m saying lol

hey y'all,

some of this ep made NO sense... so pls be in a kinda high-like state of mind. Jaden smith levels. enjoy the episode lolol

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I hope your guys enjoy, mental health is so important to me, so I thought I’d get a male’s point of view.

Hello frennns today we will be talking about adulthood, my perspective on what it is to be an adult & our relationships with the children around us. Hope y’all enjoy!! Purchase your tshirt here: https://ajamyqueen.squarespace.com/ajamyqueenimheretobeprettytshirts/p/i-here-to-be-pretty-t-shirts

Hey friends! Let’s talk self sabotage 🫶🏾

Heyyy friends!  Monday Morning Motivation... we are going to talk about gossiping and one of the reasons why I think we do it. we all can and will get caught up in it but I always like to ask why and why is it so addicting once we get started. I hope you enjoy!

hey there!  My first story time in a very long time. I never want to be the spokesperson for anything but I am a huge believer in body positivity. I have noticed such a change in myself when I started accepting and loving the skin that I am in. Each one of these scars tells a story, the story could have been over but it isn't. These scars allowed me to be here, allowed me to share a part of myself.

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Heyyyyy y'alllll, I am so happy to be back! Today we are talking about how we don't have to hate our 20s. I have come up with a couple of things we can do to make it a more enjoyable experience, so get your pen and paper and lezzz talk! I hope y'all enojoyyyyyy :)

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Thank you for being here 🤍

Greetings straight from my job! I hope you guys take something from this episode. Maybe it’ll encourage you to step up and be a better person in your love ones’ lives. We all have room for improvement so no judgement!

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Happy Valentine’s Day 🥰🥰🥰

I’m on my 10th episode!!!!!! 🎉🎉🎉🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳 I hear somewhere that said people usually give up by the 7th. I think I’m lying but I’m not too sure. ANYWAYS, enjoy the episode.

Hey guyssss! AWW I like today's episode. We will first do a mental health check (I think we are going to continue this) then we will be talking about new music from Sir and Tyla which leads into revisiting old albums. I spent my workout listening to Born Sinner and I have some thoughts about how the album makes me feel as a grown a$$ women. Then we end the episode talking about being a proud cry baby and now seeing my sensitives as a strength. I hope you guys enjoy :) CONTACT: Business/ Collaboration Inquiries Email: asurbigsister@gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_ajamyqueen/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ajamyqueen?lang=en Podcast TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@asurbigsisterpodcast Affordable Therapy: www.openpathcollective.org Check out the visuals on YouTube every Thursday CHAPTERS: 0:00- 02:15 INTRO 2:16- 09:30 MENTAL HEALTH CHECK IN 09:3-17:44 RAPPERS IN WOMEN'S BUSINESS 17:45-33:55 A PROUD CRY BABY

Heyyyy friends! Today we will be talking about how the desirability effects how we live. I will be talking about it from a person experience and from what I have observed. Hope you enjoy 🫶🏾

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Hey guyssss! Today we will be talking about why outside isn’t fun anymore. Is outside really the problem? Have we taken the main character trope a little too far to where social interactions become more and more difficult? Then we close it out with an article I read about people not being about to financially afford to be social. I take it a little deeper and get into our mental capacities in making new connections, do we have the room mentally to create new friendships? Let’s chat 😉

Hey friends!!!!! Today is Monday Morning Motivationnnnnnnn !! I just wanted to remind you and myself that we are valuable beings that deserves to be our best selves. Sometimes what I feel like people leave out is the fact that people aren't lazy, it's the fact that we don't really understand our inherent value which reminds us that we don't have to be/do anything to be deserving. We just are :) Thank you much for listening to me. I appreciate you more than you know!

Hey y'all, so today we are talking about a lot (ofc). we touch on having the option to leave someone you COULD HAVE BEEN DUMB ABOUT. we then move on to how being an adult isn't THAT bad... Then end off with whyyyy you might be obsessed with high school even though you are well out that mf... hope you enjoy.
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Hey friends! In this episode we will be talking about what it like for us to show up for ourselves and what it looks like versus what it use to. I really hope you enjoy!! Allura's Instagram: https://instagram.com/itsallurasworld?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= Absolutely Not: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/absolutely-not-podcast/id1668726921

Muahhhhh no bars

HAPPY PRIDE MONTH ❤️💛💚💜🧡 caught them tail end of June & decided to record a pride themed episode highlighting blackness and gayness (is that even a word) enjoy!

Hey y’all! So happy to be here! This episode we will be talking about managing friends and how as an adult out expectations change when choosing who we invite into our lives! I really hope you enjoy :)

Heyyyyyyyyyyyyyy! As y’all can see I have changed the name of the podcast, it’s definitely more fitting to who I now am. As if to me means “BOY BYE” and lately that’s been the vibe lol this episode we have my friend THE Jessica Blanco to help us talk about coping after a break up, understanding why we grow attraction for a person and also what happens if he/she/they aren’t that into you. I hope you all enjoy 🤍 to follow us you can find me Instagram and TikTok and Jessica here https://instagram.com/blanc16?utm_medium=copy_link

Heyyy guys !! Today we will be talking about our openness (or lack their of) to speak to our friends when we see them on a destructive path. Are you unapproachable? Can you friends call you out on your shiii? Do you have friends around you who are willing to tell you that you are crashing out?? Let’s talk 😉

Hey guys!!!!!! Welcome welcome, today’s episode we will be talking about stalker behavior, how no one is entitled to like you (sorry) then we end it with a Q&A I REALLY hope y’all enjoy. Thank you so much for being here 🫶🏾

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Don’t come in this mf shitting & farting!

HEYYYYY Y'ALL Welcome to episode 146 !!! Where we will be talking about being scammed by a homeless dude, being the brokest friend in the group and how to navigate being in a body that you don't like right now. BUSINESS INQUIRIES CONTACT: ALWAYSAJA1995 @gmail.com FOLLOW ME ON: INSTAGRAM & TIKTOK: @AJAMYQUEEN @ASURBIGSISTER WATCH ON YOUTUBE: CHAPTERS: 0:00-6:29 INTRO 6:29-14:04 Q&A 14:04-20:02 WHEN YOU ARE THE BROKEST FRIEND, BE THE MOST ENJOYABLE

Hey guys! I hope y’all enjoy 🫶🏾

Hey guys, I put this together for anyone who struggles with their confidence (which I think is majority of people but that is another conversation for another time) but I come across people who ask me about how I maintain my confidence so here we are lololol. I hope you enjoy :)

Heyyyyy frennnns! Today we will be talking about beings big sister, uncomfortable conversations with white people and why people lie on social media. Thank you for listening! I truly appreciate you 🫶🏾🫶🏾

Thank you for listening !

Howdy!!!!!! This episode I will be talking about the importance of being yourself & doing what you are called to do despite not feeling accepted. I hope y’all enjoy 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

Hey guys! I’m so sorry for the late upload. This will be the last time that’s happens. However, I’m giving y’all a great episode so you gotta forgive me. This episode covers the whole debacle about Chloe showing some ass, interracial dating and more! Enjoy ☺️

Hey y'all, how you zoinnnnn ??? today we will be talking about a lot. I go on many rants here so just stay with LOL its a good episode!

Hey y’all! Welcome welcome, come lay on auntie’s breast. This episode we will be talking about Instagram shutting down and why I think a social media shut down should be put in place on a daily basis. Of course y’all gonna get some stories you didn’t ask for as well but I hope you enjoy :)

All this for Tarte? ok

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Heyyyy y’all, happy 2024 🎉🎉🎉 today we will be talking about willingly leaving people behind who aren’t willing to better themselves. We also get into how I saw adulting now versus how it actually is. Planning fun is so wild to me… you mean to tell me I have to actually be intentional about the life I want to experience??? 🙃🙃 I then kinda touched on my “radical” beliefs that feel so basic to me until I compare them to my upbringing. The questions I am now asking myself about my experience that I once was so sure of. You mean to tell me I shouldn’t have been smacked across the face by an adults? Okay thxxx for that 😭😂 I hope you guys enjoy this episode xoxoxoxo

WTF IS LIFE ?!!!??!

Hello beautiful people, I hope you enjoy today's conversation :) Chapters: 0:00-02:46 Intro 02:46-05:26 The death of Michael Jackson 05:26- 07:39 Eminem is WHITE 07:39- 09:59 My Michael Jackson nightmare 09:59-15:14 I am taking up space 15:14- 17:09 This week's affirmation 17:09-17:25 Outro CONTACT: ALWAYSAJA1995@gmail.com FOLLOW ME ON:

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Heyyyyy frennns! I had a lot to say today <3 hope you

WHY TF IS TREY SONGZ ON MY TIMELINE ????!!!!

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There is a SPECIFIC experience we have as Black girls when navigating in different social circles, so letsss talk about it 😉

Welcome to episode 149, I hope you enjoy :)




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0:00-1:36: INTRO

1:36-4:23 JHENE AIKO AND BOHO BRAIDS

4:23-28:48 GO WHERE YOU ARE CELEBRATED NOT TOLERATED




Hey guysssss!!! So this episode we will be touching on jealousy, why we feel jealous and ways we can use jealousy productively. Thank y’all for watching 🤍

we have been here before 🙄 hope you enjoyyyy <3

I’m sorry about the messy transition this week. I hope you all enjoy this episode. It’s a little all over the place but that’s where my brain has been lately. Thank everyone for listening!

Heyyy guys! Welcome to episode 129! Today we will be talking about that new Glorilla song (THE BEST SHIIII I HAVE EVER HEARD) then we get into the time I had to cuss out a bus driver for trying tf outta me. Lastly, we get into the smart, dumb girl syndrome lol how the smartest people can get played. We all have our sweet spots… things we are weak for, things we have never experienced, that some d head could use for their benefit. Let’s chatttt Contact: asurbigsister@gmail.com

I done been through a lot to get here y'all so just listen please lol

Helllloooo beautiful people, Today we are mostly talking about the huge mistake I have made as a content creator. For so long I thought all I had to do was "THE WORK" when in reality... it takes the work and also being front facing. Going outside and showing people who I am. Networking has been so hard for me given the fact that I don't have too much confidence in what I do. HOWEVER, how do I build that confidence staying inside? YEP doesn't make sense... so let's chat!

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Hey y’all ! My beautiful friend and I got together, very high and talked about who our parents were to us as children and who we see them to be now as adults. Love you down Ms Jessica Blanco 💕💕

Today is Thursday?? 🙃

Jessica Blanco comes back this week with a special message about closure. Enjoy

Heyyyy friends! This episode I am joined by my beautiful to talk about forgiveness. We talk about what makes us resentful, why we choose to forgive and more. Thank you sooo much for listening !

SHE'S BACKKKKK. New name, new b!tch*muahhhh*

Thank y’all for sticking around.

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HEY Y'ALL WELCOME TO EPISODE 147 LOL TODAY WE WILL BE TALKING ABOUT TAKING YOURSELF OUT ON DATES, BEING ENVIOUS OF PEOPLE THAT YOU SEE WINNING, THE 2024 ELECTION AND MORE... I HOPE YOU ALL ENJOY :) BUSINESS INQUIRIES CONTACT: ALWAYSAJA1995@gmail.com FOLLOW ME ON: INSTAGRAM & TIKTOK: @AJAMYQUEEN @ASURBIGSISTER

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Today we will be talking about a conversation I had with my friend. We discussed my lack of communication when I am not in the best place... you'll be surprised at what she said back LOL.

*faints*

How to be unbothered 101

Heyyyy guys !! Today we are talking about A LOT 😂😂😂 first, my boss got me messed up… ALREADY! MLK day is interracial couples’ favorite holiday. We then get into the topic of over sharing. Has anyone said something to you that you wish you could unhear? Lmaoooo. Lastly, why we gotta fake it to make it? Like itssss tewwww much energy to be fake all day but I’m scared that might be only way to deal with people, regularly. LeZzzz talk 😉

hey guys! so this episode we will be talking about my deepest annoyances & how I’m sick of this shit but at the same time I’m coming to places of acceptance and finding where I should draw boundaries. I love you, I thank you and I’ll see you soon 🤍

We talking talking today 🫶🏾 NY Post article: https://nypost.com/2023/06/30/im-obsessed-with-myself-everyone-should-be-the-same/?utm_campaign=applenews&utm_medium=inline&utm_source=applenews

Hey frennnsss! Today we will be talking about meeting the fam for Thanksgiving, sometimes it can be rough. The anxiety, hoping they like you… SHIIII hoping you like them, can be a lot. Then, we are going to talk about age gaps and how we kinda just let people slide who do things that we say we are against but ya know… money, power, popularity… the fun stuff. I hope you guys enjoy 🙂

Hey guys! I hope you enjoy this episode. I think this is how I will continue the format of the show. If you ever wanna hop on and speak your piece, DM me on Instagram (@alwaysajaa) love y’all !!

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We talk being in my insecure era, OJ Simpson kicking the bucket & why people start to lie after people pass away . Then we end it with tips on how to be de Lu Lu with the helps of JOJO Siwa and Jennifer Lopez

*deep negro sigh*

Hey y'alll, Today we will talking about how people JUST LIKING us, isn't enough. We are likable people, so that's light work... I hope you enjoy today's episode! Thank you for being here :) Watch here: https://youtu.be/76XEHvj8M3g

We talkinnnnn babyyyyy 🫶🏾

Everyday I have to talk myself out of beating the dog 💩 out that 🐕 that sent that email.

General admission means general admission for a reason. SIT YOUR ASS DOWN or yo seat will get took

HEYYY Y'ALL !! Today we will be talking about how much I can't stand my neighbor (the b*tch who owns the dogs that attacked me in 2022) which made me think about the beautiful kids playing outside. Whyyyyy can't I be 8 again??? This question brought me to talking shiii about my aint shiii uncle (my fave thing to do) We then get into how people get away with being trash just because of money and access. Then OF COURSE we talk about the Menendez Brothers doc on NetFlix... we are everywhere today girls!

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Hey frannnnnssss! We will be answering some of your questions today :)

Hello beautiful people, I hope you enjoy :)

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How you doinnnn? Today’s episode we will talk about boundaries. Ways I have fallen short of setting boundaries and how important they are in all relationships in our lives. Always with love, never any judgement (only sometimes) 🤍

It’s a Bonus episode yall !! Hey frennnnsss ! This is a bonus episode for y’all 🫶🏾 today we will be talking about stepping into a new chapter in our live and all the feelings that come with that 🙄 thank you guys for listening and like always… THANK YOU FOR BEING HERE! Follow Damon Logan : https://instagram.com/damonlogan?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA== Follow Feel less crazy: https://instagram.com/less.crazy?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA== Tickets to Damon Logan’s show: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/june-10th-tickets-640250314927

Heyyyy y’all… today we’re talking about a lot! So hold on, it’s a rollercoaster ride we’re on (Jonas Brothers lyric 😉) how would y’all feel if you ran into an op in public… do you duck like me or do you act fake… like me? LMAO. How has rap impacted your life? Has the music been something that inspires you positively? I may be thinking too deep but some of us need to lay off the hectic shiiii & but damn Barney on. Calm that damn nervous system. We then end the episode with some talk about self compassion. How I grew up effecting my inner dialogue and the relationships I have with people. I want to thank you guys for watching and hope you enjoy today’s episode 💕

Destiny and I haven’t spoke in over a year. Her and I got together and decided to make peace with how our friendship ended. Although we always (and will always) have love for each other, there was a moment in our friendship where we both felt out of place. Destiny and I talk about our past relationship, being a woman, race & everything in between. Take a listen!

Hellllooooo beautiful people, Today we are talking about being a big cry baby, ONCE AGAINNNNN! I believe we can use our sensitives as a super power. we just have to embrace them & allow them to guide us to where we need to be. our feelings give us information about a person, place or thing and it's extremely important to listen to them. I hope you guys learn something from my experience & can now embrace the super powers within you, without shame. Thank you guys so much for being here!! I hope you enjoy :) NAZIR’S ROAD TO RECOVERY: https://www.gofundme.com/f/nazirs-journey-to-recovery-your-help-needed BUSINESS INQUIRIES CONTACT: ALWAYSAJA1995@gmail.com FOLLOW ME ON: INSTAGRAM & TIKTOK: @AJAMYQUEEN @ASURBIGSISTER

Helllloooooo beautiful people, I hope you guys enjoy this episode! My sister crazy lmaooooo BUSINESS INQUIRIES CONTACT: ALWAYSAJA1995@gmail.com FOLLOW ME ON: INSTAGRAM & TIKTOK: @AJAMYQUEEN @ASURBIGSISTERFOLLOW SARAI:  @TheDoll_FreddieSarai  https://www.instagram.com/thedoll_freddiesarai?igsh=MXFmOG05ZW10dmdlaw==Intro by: Dj J-ME LEELISTEN TO MY PODCAST HERE:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/as-ur-big-sister-podcast/id1516894263https://open.spotify.com/show/2jaOYDJBwAlpj88rQJuuPa?si=8OPrsBLFSqOX1PC3pIf6_w