An Older Gay Guy Show (Joey Hernandez- Gay Personal Trainer)

Age is just a number, right? So maybe there are some dreams that we used to have when we were 'younger' that we kind of pushed back for someday in the future, or maybe we just gave up on those dreams altogether. But do we have to? We aren't dead (or at least in most cases, LOL), so......can we still make those dreams come true? I'm telling you about one of mine, how I'm going to do it, and I ask YOU to conjure up those forgotten dreams of your own. Maybe it isn't too late for any of us!

 For today's episode, I have re-edited some recording that I did 4 years ago about how to focus your own search for Happiness. I hope you enjoy it.

 To finish off this series about all things Dark Shadows, we are joined once again by Radical Ryan Hunter of The Radical Retro Rewind ?! Podcast. Ryan is very knowledgeable and passionate about retro things, and he is a dedicated Dark Shadows fan.

We speak of:

The Dark Shadows films (1970's & 2012)

The 33 Dark Shadows paperback novels

The Dark Shadows newspaper comics

The Lara Parker Dark Shadows novels

The Big Finish Audio Dramas

The Dark Shadows comic books

This concludes our 4-part series. Thank you for listening.

Radical Retro Rewind ?! Podcast

YouTube video of Ryan visiting Collinwood from the films

As we continue with Sweeps Period 2024, I have a fascinating conversation with Michael Andor Brodeur, to discuss his new book Swole: The Making of Men and the Meaning of Muscle. Unbeknownst to me, Michael and I must have literally been circling around each other in Boston in the 1990's. We went to some of the same gyms, we went to the same nightclubs, we had common friends. And yet we did not know each other existed until this Interview. I thoroughly enjoyed myself as we reminisced about our childhoods and the vibrant gay life of Boston during that decade. Michael also traces our toys, cartoons and comics that started many of us young men thinking about guys with muscle. And we talk about the early days of Bodybuilding and how that shaped our lives. I think you will enjoy this topic. 

Michael on Instagram

Michael on TikTok

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And..... THANK YOU !

I've had a really tough few days. This is a tribute episode.

This episode is def rated R.  I tell a story about my time on Cape Cod as a Funeral Director and Embalmer when I was hanging out with the young 'townies'. We had a special pond.

In this show, I want to continue the 'Your Personal Trainer' series with an episode about overeating and specifically, when we eat because of emotions; whether that is depression, celebration, or even boredom.

Please note: If you feel you overeat regularly, it will eventually begin to affect your overall health. So please, consult a professional that deals with overeating and binging. 

Coming up next in the 'Your Personal Trainer' series will be 'Sauna for Longevity'. Look for that episode in late October.

In the penultimate episode of this year's Sweeps Period I am joined by Sasha Korbut, an up and coming LGBTQ+ filmmaker, to discuss his short film Incomplete. Sasha contacted me after I left a comment on his YouTube channel speaking of how his film really touched my heart. I hope you enjoy this Interview.

'Incomplete' on YouTube

Sasha Korbut on Instagram

Also, my own '11 Rules for Getting A Second Date' (or for impressing on the first one).

One of the dangers of getting old is the possibility of losing friends and family and isolating yourself in desperation to try to avoid pain. This can deprive you of some wonderful years of your life. Others find the endless search for a life partner to be depressing and debilitating. It seems that no matter what you do, you find yourself alone. And being alone for any length of time, no matter who you are, will eventually lead to loneliness. Loneliness can be crippling.

As we slowly start putting society back together as we all get vaccinated for Covid-19, the Senior Gay Community is something we all need to think about and work at sustaining.  Many older gay men have been isolated during these past 13 months and are now rightfully feeling hesitant about re-joining social situations where crowds might soon be gathering. How will our older LGBTQ brothers and sisters still get together for much needed friendships and reunions, and what will be the lasting community be like?

So I had what I am referring to as a Fan Event, because this is probably the closest to an actual Meet-&-Greet that I will ever have. My husband Paco and I hosted two of my long-time fans for a day of hiking and dinner. Henry and Christopher join me for a relaxed (that means with wine) discussion about their thoughts of how they came to be together as a couple for 40 years. We laugh quite a bit and have fun. This wonderful visit came about because I have corresponded with these two listeners for quite some time. We were honored to host these two wonderful men. I hope you enjoy the show. There is an echo at times as we were in my new studio and I haven't put up sound-proofing yet.

In this full episode, I am continuing the I See Dead People series. In today's show, I tell 4 bizarre and humorous stories about my time as a Licensed Funeral Director and Embalmer:

The Potomac River Crash

The Prisoner

The Blizzard

The Mausoleum 

In addition, I answer some common questions about the Funeral Business and I put to rest a couple of long-believed Old Wives Tales. 

I hope you enjoy these stories. A Part 4 will conclude this series with the most horror I encountered as a Funeral Worker, coming in November. 

In this second episode I remind you of what you should have done between these two episodes, and then move on to development of Minor Characters and Filler between your Milestones. We then talk about the voicing and appearance of your Characters and how to join all the scenes together so that you have a good continuous story and a world that you have created.

I'm so excited to bring you this incredibly fun and funny 3-part series with Radical Ryan Hunter of the Radical Retro Rewind Podcast and YouTube channel.  In this series, we will cover all things Dark Shadows, from The Original Series to the 1991 re-boot and many, many more Dark Shadows memories will be discussed. I have waited literally years to be able to have this kind of discussion about my all-time favorite childhood show. Thank you for joining us!

In Part 1, we have an overview of the original series, and then Ryan and I get into our favorite 'likes' and 'dislikes' from that 5 year show. 

Parts 2 & 3 will be coming out on June 9th and June 16th, respectively.

Radical Retro Rewind Podcast latest episode: Radical Retro Rewind Podcast (also found on most podcast applications)

Radical Retro Rewind YouTube videos: Radical Retro Rewind YouTube

This is a previous show from 2018 that I have edited to put out this year again. Many of us (myself included) are striving to lose a few more pounds, even during the Holiday Season. This episode discusses subtle changes that you can make when planning and consuming your Thanksgiving Dinner that can help keep you on track, so you don't lose any of the hard work that you have put in during these last months. Please keep an open mind and give it a listen. Even choosing to do one or two things that I outline can make a big difference whether you won't gain any additional body fat, or if the Holiday goes completely off-the-rails.

More info on the LIVE Show will be coming next week.

LGBTQ author Ste7en (yes, the 7 is on purpose) joins me to discuss his brand-new memoir The Last Alias, a book discussing his very successful career as an Anime director, writer and producer. We talk about his cult-hit Ghost Stories and how that influenced his life. The Last Alias also dives into his previous 'straight' life and his discovery of multiple aspects of his personality that allowed Ste7en to live as his authentic self.

Today we conclude our special 3-part series of all things Dark Shadows!  In this episode we discuss the much-improved, with higher production values, and a new younger cast; reboot of Dark Shadows with the 1991 Revival Series. This series only lasted one season, but during its run, it was able to condense the Barnabas origin story, including Victoria Winter's trip to 1795, into 12 cohesive and beautifully told episodes. 

If you want to start getting to know Dark Shadows, start with this 12 episode reboot. Then, if you like the story, then visit the Original Series, as discussed in the last two episodes of this podcast series. 

In this episode, I bring some nutrition and health info to you that is very important for those of us over the age of 40. But, those of you under 40, listen up also, as this info can help you prepare for aging yourself.

This show contains a lot of information: A discussion about Metabolic Syndrome (Pre-Diabetes), 5 signs that indicate you might be moving toward this condition, how to evaluate your own body fat and an introduction to the Mediterranean Diet. 

I hope you enjoy the show. 

I am looking for guests for this season. If you feel you have a story to tell that relates to the older gay community, please contact me and let me know you'd like to come on. It is a pre-recorded interview that can be edited, so please have no fears about doing the show. It will be fun and relaxing. Contact me via: AnOlderGayGuyShow@gmail.com

In this serious episode I tell you two stories from my past that are extremely personal. I would not normally be this open, but I know of people who will be alone these holidays and I worry. Thankfully the thoughts I had during this time are far behind me, but I've never forgotten the things I learned during these very difficult days. I hope this helps someone.

As we move towards the conclusion of Sweeps Period 2023, I offer up a double-STORYTIME episode. The title of this show is 'Nutball' and it tells two tales of youthful pastimes that often included drinking and toking. I describe two different ways that I played a torturous game for fun. 

The first story is titled 'Can You Sink the Ball or Sink My Balls?'

The second tale is titled 'Thwapping My Nuts'

I hope you enjoy these STORYTIMES.

This episode is a serious topic that I think is very timely.  I specifically do not mention what the topic is (I call it a Mystery Topic) because I want the maximum number of guys that I can draw in to hear this important subject. I would appreciate you taking the time to hear this episode. Thank you! ~Joey

In the conclusion of this two-part series, Artie talks about some of his tv show appearances on General Hospital, Modern Family, Pushing Daisies and more, and we continue our discussion about his Bad Boy YouTube series. This is a fun and funny episode and I know you will enjoy it.

Podcast Awards: The 2021 People's Choice Podcast Awards will be telecast on Thursday, September 30th, International Podcast Day. The show will be on YouTube at 9:00 pm East Coast time and 6:00 pm West Coast time. An Older Gay Guy Show is nominated in the LGBTQ category. If you are available, please give it a watch. We need as many viewers as possible. The LGBTQ category will probably be 20-30 minutes into the show.  Wish me luck ! My huge gratitude to all who voted for me this year. 

Link to Podcast Awards:  https://www.podcastawards.com/

Artie O'Daly and Co. (Bad Boy series) https://www.youtube.com/c/ArtieODalyCo

This is part 1 of a 2-part series on 10 Habits that can help give you a heathy life as you age. In this first part, I give an overview, some necessary disclaimers and talk in depth about the first 3 Habits. The remaining 7 will be discussed in the final installment of this series, coming in a couple of weeks.

The main content of this episode is from a draft that I had back from the first year of this show. It was never used. Due to it being done 6 years ago, the audio is not the best as I was working with my first microphone and studio set-up. I currently use my 3rd set-up for recording new episodes so there are big differences.      

Thank you for listening !

- Joey

This is a re-edited episode of my most popular show with new content added.  I hope you enjoy this conversation about Gym Showers and how they have changed over the years, as guys grew more modest.  

Don't miss the STORYTIME in the middle of this episode. It is one of my favorite stories and telling it brought back so many wonderful memories. Be sure to hear it !

The show concludes with my updated thoughts about locker rooms and showers.

A favorite story from my younger days. This is one of those guy things that I don't think you would see today. But back in the late 70's, it really was a different world.  Sweeps Period 2023 continues with this STORYTIME.

If you enjoy 'An Older Gay Guy Show' podcast and would like to show your support, I ask you to take five minutes to vote for me in the 2023 People's Choice Podcast Awards. There is no cost to you and it would mean very much to me. Below are the instructions for voting.

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Sgt. Ron's tales about his time in the military and living as a closeted gay man continue, picking up where Part 6 left off. If you have not had a chance the hear Part 6, please do so first, as this episode picks up from mid-story.

The Gay Military Series concludes with Part 8 coming in just a couple of weeks.

 

I am pleased to present the conclusion of the 2-part Interview with Davey Wavey. In this episode we continue to talk about our thoughts on Gay Porn, and Davey tells us all about his porn company, Himeros.tv

Himeros.tv Preview with Older Guys

Himeros.tv Home Touring Page

Himeros.tv Dick Special

This episode is the final installment of my 'Life-Enhancing Habits' series. This episode covers the remaining 7 suggestions to help you live a longer and more vibrant life. 

Don't miss my BIG announcement coming in a short message episode on Tuesday, June 1st !

In this concluding episode of the 3-part series, actor, author and musical creator David Pevsner discusses his time as a Mature Escort and tells us about his OnlyFans and how he uses it as an expression of his erotic images. 

David Pevsner Website

Damn Shame on Amazon and Kindle

David Pevsner on OnlyFans

David Pevsner on Twitter

David Pevsner on Twitter (erotic)

David Pevsner on Instagram

I recently re-connected with my friend from high school, Bob. I reminisce about our teenage years and my 'seduction room'.

Today I am starting a new series that I'm calling Your Personal Trainer.  I often hear from guys that have basic workout and nutrition questions. I know hiring a Personal Trainer can be an expensive proposition, especially with the fees that will probably have to be charged by Trainers to compensate for all the lost work and income due to the Covid-19 Pandemic. 

So, with that in mind, I thought running this series can be beneficial to those that wish they could have a Personal Trainer to give them basic information and to do what Trainers do best; Motivate and Encourage you, as you go along. Obviously without having the option to work with you in person, it will limit how some of this training will have to be. But, I have faith that the information and me kicking your ass a bit will help you at least get started eating healthier and getting you to move! I will give you some basic at home exercises to do down the road a bit, and there will also be more advanced exercises that will have to be done in a gym, for those of you desiring these programs.

So, no matter your experience, from absolute beginners (my favorite guys!) to the more advanced training, there will be something for everyone. I truly hope you enjoy these episodes and that you will participate so we all can get these Pandemic Pounds off so we can enjoy a beautiful, active Summer. My best to all of you!  ~Joey

My former client Matt Mercurio returns for the conclusion of his 2-Part Series. In this episode we talk a lot about the music of the 1970's-2000's and our love of gay club dancing. Some of the topics we discuss are: K-Tel Compilation Records, Napster, Casey Kasem's American Top 40 Countdown, Vinyl, Cassettes, CD's, MP3s, Taping Songs Off the Radio, Matt's Famous Chart Keeping since 1983, Apple Music, Flag Waving on the Dance Floor and much more!

In Part 4 of our 5-Part Series, Sgt. Ron continues his amazing story-telling and discusses his time in Turkey. This is a funny and fascinating tale, giving us insight into what it was like as a gay man in the Military in the 1980's and 1990's. 

A discussion about the history of Body Image.  From the 1970's through today, Body Image has been something that male and female, gay and straight have often dealt with through bombardment from TV, Films, Magazines, Porn and other media. I also address my own personal struggles with this.

 

 This is a STORYTIME episode about an experience that I had in High School. I hope you find this story funny, as it is yet another example of the fact I don't always make wise decisions. 

- Joey

A theme I have done before, but it deserves more attention. With many believing there exists a fracture in the Gay Community due to lack of physical socializing because so many bars and clubs have closed, it becomes more important that we watch out for each other. That includes the prevailing gay-to-gay bullying that has only increased with the advent of the internet. Let's pause for a few minutes to understand how this type of behavior is more prominent when we are with our friends and within our own  cliques. Can we stop behaviors that prey on weaker people within the community when we might think we are being funny and clever?

 Today, as we continue with Sweeps Period 2024, Renato Poliafito will be joining us to talk about his new baking book Dolci!. Additionally, Renato speaks about his interesting childhood bouncing between countries, his previous books, his bakeries, as well as his new pasta restaurant, which opens in just a month from now.

A joyous celebration of Italian, American and Italian-American tastes and traditions, Dolci! is a compendium of molto delizioso baked goods from both sides of the Atlantic. Baker Renato Poliafito pays homage to pastries of the Old World and the New. Renato puts his own unique spin on the baking traditions of both countries with recipes of his own invention that are a mash-up of Italian flavors and American innovation. 

Dolci! on Amazon

I hope you enjoy this unique episode.

Happy Holidays everyone! I hope you are all doing well. In today's episode, I bring you a newly re-edited story from my old shows.  This is a story about a very fun and unusual New Year's Eve that I had when I was 29 years old. It is a tale of five of us guys that went up to a Winter chalet for partying and sports (mostly partying).  I used one small part of this true-life story in my gay erotic sports novel 'Northridge High Football Camp' that I did as an audiobook on the Jockstrap Stories podcast.

Please note: I will be alone at home this Christmas and I am trying to set up something as an online social on Christmas Day itself, for anyone who might be alone and wanting some company. I will let you know more details as they firm up. 

In today’s episode, I bring back a re-edited show from the early years of An Older Gay Guy Show and I talk about how bodybuilders prepare for contests and my role as their prep guide. Along the way I will discuss the intense body shaving aspect of their contest preparation and the rigors of learning to flex properly. 

Towards the end of this episode I tell you a STORYTIME about two college-age guys that were flexing in the locker room of my gym when they thought no one else was around. 

I hope you enjoy this episode, which will be followed up with a Guys Flexing Part 2 as the final episode of this year’s Sweeps Period. In Part 2 of this series I will tell two more STORYTIMES about unusual things that happened when guys that wanted to do body prep had their body shaving end up going in an unexpected way. This is a funny and erotic episode that I will conclude the 2023 Sweeps Period with, and that will be on Monday, September 11th.

VOTING CLOSES MONDAY NIGHT, JULY 31st !!!!

If you enjoy 'An Older Gay Guy Show' podcast and would like to show your support, I ask you to take five minutes to vote for me in the 2023 People's Choice Podcast Awards. There is no cost to you and it would mean very much to me. Below are the instructions for voting.

VOTING CLOSES MONDAY NIGHT, JULY 31st !!!!

1-  Click the link below or go to PodcastAwards.com

2- Select the Blue Box that says 'Nominations Voting Now Open. Click here to vote'.

3- Fill out the 'Sign Up to Nominate'. Fill out this short form that is used just to verify that you are a real person with your own email. All info you provide is deleted once the awards are concluded for this year. It also allows you to put your name in the pool of potential judges. You can accept or decline judging if you are selected. It is rare to be selected as a judge.

4- Once you sign up, it will take you to 'Make Your Nominations' page. 

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6- VERY IMPORTANT - SAVE YOUR NOMINATION AT THE BOTTOM OF THE PAGE !! (The LGBTQ category will disappear once you save your vote)

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As Sweeps continues, today I have a story that is both heart-breaking and heartwarming. This is a story of survival and hope. Angel Finally Found His Wings is a book you will never forget. It was valorous of Ron to tell his story, and as he mentions, it took over a decade to put the words together to properly tell the terrifying circumstances that befell him. Please listen as he tells us about his journey and the book that has become the end result. 

Angel Finally Found His Wings on AMAZON

A brief overview of the primary diseases that we face as the LGBTQ+ community. Citing 3 highly regarded organizations, some basic warnings and suggestions are mentioned in this shorter episode.

In this Interview episode, I am joined by Actor/Writer/Producer Gian Carlo Durland, Independent Filmmaker. Gian Carlo currently has two film projects of interest to the older LGBTQ+ community. Please enjoy this lively discussion about his excellent film Ripples of Water, the difficulties of being over 40 in the gay community and Clutter Luck, his YouTube episodic 'Roadshow' parody.

I have lived a very interesting life as an out and proud Gay Personal Trainer. Along my 33 years (and counting) career I have encountered just about every possible kind of person and situation. In this first part of a two part series, I talk about how I started out and became a Personal Trainer that was known to be gay. I have worked at many gyms and fitness clubs over the years and my choices of my lifestyle created the life I truly wanted.

In part two (next week) I will talk about when I built my own gym downstairs in my house to train clients and started going to people's houses for training sessions. Working exclusively on my own created some very humorous and erotic situations. After listening to this first part, make SURE you DON'T MISS part two, it will make you laugh and shock you with some of the intentions of my clients. (all names changed to protect the innocent.....and guilty!)

In celebration of this show's 9th season kicking off, I bring you a new series that I will do periodically throughout the year. Reddit Stories, will be actual messages posted on a public forum about various subjects of interest. In this first episode, I offer 4 stories from Reddit readers, about gang showers; in school, at work, and in gym facilities. 

In future Reddit Stories episodes, I will comment on each one. I did not in this due to difficulty in talking.

Summer is a wonderful season. Family gatherings, vacations, graduation parties, 4th of July....so many!  I know you have worked hard this past year in losing weight and you have looked forward (maybe with a bit of hesitation) to the sunny, warm weather that will allow you to finally take off your shirt.

But sometimes navigating these parties, can be difficult. You desire to be proud of what you have accomplished and yet there is a growing desire to partake of the delightful food.

I have a few suggestions. Thank you for coming by my show today!

~Joey

 This episode concludes the Gay Military Life series by Sgt. Ron.  I want to thank Ron so very much for sharing his fascinating life with us, both in this series, as well as his Gay Prison Guard stories.  

If you have not had a chance to hear the Gay Prison Guard series, I invite you to listen to Ron's tales of the many years he worked in a penitentiary as a Prison Officer.  The series is available in my back catalogue. 

'D. Pumps' on Joey After Dark as mentioned in the commerical.

2023 Sweeps continues with a re-edited episode about Jock Feet. I speak about my attraction to certain feet and also what isn't attractive and is too severe for my taste. 

A quite funny STORYTIME about an experience I had in Montreal about 20 years ago starts at 34:45. If you want to skip right to the story, feel free, but I really think the entire episode should be heard in order to fully understand how and where all of this feet stuff began.

I hope you enjoy this episode !  And, thanks for listening. ~Joey

As we continue with Sweeps Period 2023, this STORYTIME episode is a re-edited show from a few years ago, about a hike that my dog and I went on to a local swimming hole in Western Massachusetts. We were quite surprised at what we found. 

This show has erotic content, so please be forewarned. 

This episode talks about 5 important Rules that will help you make sure that he will want that second date with you !

This is Part 1 of a fun conversation that I had with Matt Mercurio, an ex-client and best friend of mine from 25 years ago. Matt was one of the first clients that I had when I moved my training business into Boston gay gyms.

Two unbelievable things happened to me this week, and unfortunately, they ending up being related. Sit back and listen to a couple of stories that have taught me a most important lesson in life. Learn from my mistakes, please!

Sweeps continues with another episode with Sgt. Ron, who tells us some tales from his time at Eglin Air Force Base. This is Part 6 of the series and will continue with Part 7 coming in September. Enjoy his storytelling. 

https://youtu.be/AaL8KyU-q0w

 

Well, here is your chance. Most of us are still locked up in our homes and have done just about everything to occupy our time. This is the PERFECT time to try out your writing skills.
This episode (and Part 2 coming in a couple weeks) discusses my own method for writing my gay sports novel 'Northridge High Football Camp' and it's sequel 'The Guys of Northridge'. I can't say how other authors have produced their work, but the method that I used I think is a very learnable technique. So why not give it a try?
In this Part 1, I talk about the genre of your book, about establishing your main characters and creating milestone scenes to bring your characters toward the conclusion of your story.

Welcome! Today I have a STORYTIME episode with 3 true-life short stories about my time at The Boston Conservatory of Music.  These take place in the 1970's, and as you shall see, it was a VERY different time in the world. I think you will find these tales funny and a bit shocking! 

The 3 stories are titled:

1.   The Asshole Conductor

2.   The Dance Belt Adjustment

3.   The Orgy Ring-Leader

There is also a 4th STORYTIME about my second year at The Conservatory when I was a Musical Theater major. You will find this story almost unbelievable, and what happened would not only never be allowed today, but it would result in numerous lawsuits, and probably an indictment to the teacher.

The link to An Older Gay Guy Show on YouTube can be found below.

Link:  The Drama Teacher's Underwear

 In part 2 of this five-part series, Sgt. Ron tells us about his first experiences in gay life, and the interesting men that he met in his early days as a gay man.

This is the final episode of my 2023 Sweeps Period and it is a STORYTIME that served as a working model for my book 'Northridge High Football Camp'. I wrote this story in 1992 and I copyrighted it in 1994. If you are a fan of the Jockstrap Stories podcast, you may recognize many of the characteristics of the main protagonist in this story that ended up being part of the character development of Vinnie Manta, the main protagonist in 'Northridge High Football Camp'. I also used some of the description when I created the character of Tony Marino. This story was part of a planned series called Campfire Stories. I will probably continue with that series in the future.

Don't miss the FINAL LIVE Pride48 Streaming Weekend. This is it! No more!

The weekend runs Friday evening, September 15th thru Sunday night, September 17th. An Older Gay Guy Show will be on Saturday the 16th 2:00 pm-3:00 pm Eastern Daylight Time.

Erotic Stories, a Vintage TV Trivia Contest and more!  Please join us !!

Link to Pride48:   Pride48

 I am about to turn 65. Gone are the early days of my gay life and the methods that I used to find and meet potential dates or hook-ups. Almost a quarter of the way through the 21st century, new methods and dating philosophies have emerged. Guys my age are sometimes asking themselves if they should follow or still remain with past methods. 

In the 1970's, during my High School years, a couple of friends and I left a lame party and decided to drive to New York City, where none of us had been, on New Year's Day. This is that story and the unusual way we killed time on the road. 

If you like An Older Gay Guy Show Podcast, please consider taking 5 minutes and vote for this show for the Podcast Awards. It is no cost to you, and you can support this show by voting for it. The instructions for voting are as follows:

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Closing music by James Taylor Jr. 'Boy in a Dress'

Boy In A Dress

James Taylor Jr. Music

In this episode we will talk about a subject that is often not discussed, but rather many older men suffer with in silence.

The episode begins with 3 emails in our 'Listener Mail' segment. The last email you do not want to miss !

Erectile Disfunction as it relates to older guys being able to get somewhat hard, but maybe not as hard as in our youth, and possibly not hard enough for sexual performance, is discussed.

I speak about a Japanese study of men that cannot get fully erect, we review ED oral medications, and I then give my own experiences and what I think has benefitted me the most. We end with some additional facts that may help you make a decision about which method might be right for you. 

In Part 2 of the ongoing 'Your Personal Trainer' series, I review your 'homework' from Part 1 and then we talk intensely about one food we need to eliminate, one food group we need to expand, and the beginning of exercise via a YouTube channel that is excellent (with a HOT AF host).

The following link is to BarbarianBody's 5-minute home abdominal workout: (it may be clickable or you may have to copy and paste)

https://youtu.be/kCbQz-XNcVE

Starting out my 2022 Sweeps Period, this is a re-edited episode that is my absolute favorite from An Older Gay Guy Show. This took place in the early 1980's while I was working as a Funeral Director & Embalmer on Cape Cod. It is the most memorable and unique experience that I ever had in the Funeral industry. It is a story that I shall never forget, and I hope you get a laugh and that it touches your heart, as it did mine. 

It is that wonderful time of year when I get ready to roll out important and very entertaining episodes for what I refer to as my Annual Sweeps Period. I have some great shows planned for this year's celebration and all I ask is for you to take five minutes and go and vote for An Older Gay Guy Show podcast for the 2024 People's Choice Podcast Awards.

During the month of July, the nomination phase goes on. This is the time that each year, you wonderful listeners and fans of the show can give a thank you back for the free content I offer to you each year. The nomination process is as follows:

1) Go to PodcastAwards.com

2) Click the big blue box 'Nominations'

3) Fill out the short registration (all your info is deleted the day after the awards)

4) Go to the Nomination Page and scroll down to the LGBTQ category.

5) Click on An Older Gay Guy Show

6) Lastly, SAVE your votes at the bottom of the page!

Thank you in advance! I very much appreciate it.

Boy In A Dress

James Taylor Jr. Music

For the month of July, during the Nomination Period for the 2024 People's Choice Podcast Awards, all episodes will be true-life erotic STORYTIME episodes.

These episodes are erotic in content. If you do not like hearing such stories, please do not listen to this episode.

This show is one of the few that I was able to salvage from the Joey After Dark Podcast, and tells the tale of an encounter I had about 5 years ago with a number of the hottest jocks at my gym. This story takes place in the gym steam room. I think you will enjoy it. 

If you like An Older Gay Guy Show Podcast, please consider taking 5 minutes and vote for this show for the Podcast Awards. It is no cost to you, and you can support this show by voting for it. The instructions for voting are as follows:

1) Go to PodcastAwards dot com Podcast Awards

2) Click the big blue box 'Nominations'

3) Fill out the short registration (all your info is deleted the day after the awards)

4) Go to the Nomination Page and scroll down to the LGBTQ category.

5) Click on An Older Gay Guy Show

6) Also go to the first category 'People's Choice' and vote for An Older Gay Guy Show in this category as well.

6) Lastly, SAVE your votes at the bottom of the page! Saving your votes is SO IMPORTANT !

Thank you in advance! I very much appreciate it.

Closing music by James Taylor Jr. 'Boy in a Dress'

Boy In A Dress

James Taylor Jr. Music

 The true story of the oddest, most bizarre person I have ever known in my life. 

This episode is Part 2 of the 3-Part Series with Susan Bratton, the Intimacy Expert. In this episode we take a deep dive into open relationships and other intimacy issues. 

Relationship Magic

The Sexual Soulmate Pact

Better Lover

Susan Bratton on Instagram

This episode is my personal experiences and opinions. Do not view this as any kind of therapy or professional guidance. If you feel you are depressed or if you ever have suicidal thoughts, please seek out professional help. I have been able to overcome my grief and relationship issues only through professional therapy and prescribed medications. This show is only my personal opinions.

 Today I have Part 3, which is the conclusion of the series, with Susan Bratton, the intimacy expert. And boy, today’s show is chocked full of so many helpful suggestions that we as gay men, can really utilize.

We take a deep dive into Erectile Dysfunction and Dick Pumps and Susan gives her opinions on such useful topics as Acoustic Wave Therapy, Testosterone Replacement Therapy, the Gains Wave, the Phoenix, and much more. And of course she does it with her charismatic, fun filled energy. 

Susan Bratton on Instagram

Better Lover

Relationship Magic

The Sexual Soulmate Pact

The Whopper Dick Pump

Pumping Guide

This is an episode about Procrastination and Lack of Motivation. Often these things can be directly tied to lack of physical or mental energy to take on the task. How can we stay energetic? Well, Energy Builds Energy.

I have quite the treat for you today. I bring you an interview with my first female guest ever, and guys, she is such a joy to have on. She is knowledgeable about so many of the issues I have addressed on this show over the years, but not only does she know her stuff, she is also funny, entertaining and sexy as all hell. I adore her. 

Today is part 1 of a 3-part series with the amazing Susan Bratton, an Intimacy Expert. During this series we will talk about many types of relationships, the male sexual experience, penis enlargement and health, tips on having a successful dating life and so much more. 

Whether you enter Susan’s world through a sexual health problem you need to solve, intimacy skills you want to learn, or bedroom communication techniques to ignite your connection and pleasure, she offers a world of good to apply to your love life.

Relationship Magic

The Sexual Soulmate Pact

Better Lover

Susan Bratton on Instagram

 

I am about to turn 65 years of age in just a few days. A Senior Citizen! Who would have thought? In the last 5-10 years I have found myself getting increasing fear about many things in every day life.

Is Social Media to blame? Or are my fears possibly irrational and don't actually pose a threat to me? See if you possibly have some of the same fears (I'll bet you have different ones). 

The next episode, coming out next week, will be 'Sleeping Bareassed - Part Two'.

A show reminiscing about my early life in the 1960's and 1970's and various things and situations that helped me discover who I was. If you grew up in the 1970's, many of these things will be familiar to you.

** Please note: My Host Site had been hacked and the data was temporarily lost. I haven't been able to put out a show since all this happened. I cut my break short to produce a couple of shows to have ready when the host came back online and I could upload files. This is a show that was made about 4-5 weeks ago.**

** If you did not know what was going on that kept me from putting out new shows, you are not following An Older Gay Guy Show on Facebook. You do not have to have a Facebook account to follow my Page. Everything concerning the show is updated there constantly. FOLLOW An Older Gay Guy Show on Facebook to stay up-to-date with the show! **

An Older Gay Guy Show on FACEBOOK

A double episode of two short stories. The first is a funny experience I had just a few days ago while walking to the store, and the second part is a fascinating story about a real-life castle that was near my house when I was growing up. This residence was literally a full castle, with turrets, parapets and towers and as construction of the main castle was completed, the owner dug a moat, with plans to fill it with water and connect the working drawbridge. It was amazing, and I put some photos of the castle on 'An Older Gay Guy Show Facebook Page'.

Here is the link:  An Older Gay Guy Show Facebook Page

In today's episode, we speak with Dr. Gary Bucher, the Medical Director and Founder of the Anal Dysplasia Clinic Mid-West, a medical practice dedicated to the anal health of men and women with HPV-related anal disease.

This episode contains important information that will save lives. Please take a few minutes to hear this very valuable show about anal screening. I also speak to how this has affected my life for the last 30 years. Learn from my mistakes. 

Can gay men have a friendship/bromance with an ex easier than a straight couple? Are you friends with any of your exes? I examine an article by author Jeremy Helligar as a prequel to the episode coming up titled 'Monogamy vs. Open Relationships'.

Don't miss the 'Golden Girls' Trivia Questions at the end of the podcast!

There is a new video on 'An Older Gay Guy Show' YouTube Channel that shows my first (and maybe last?) experience with Waxing My Nose Hair! The video also contains a workout segment and a talk about my frustrations of an aging body. (for Feet Lovers, the last segment has me barefoot with my feet closest to the camera!)

Today we return to conclude the STORYTIME that I started a couple of weeks ago. After answering some questions that a listener had posed to me, we continue the Naked Hiking story right where we left off: the two Donovan brothers and I were merrily hiking through the woods of Vermont bareassed, heading for a private swimming hole with a waterfall that bordered the Solomon farm. 

I hope you enjoy the conclusion of this STORYTIME.

 

This episode is the first in a two-part series about sleeping naked.  In this show I tell you two STORYTIMES about how I came to be someone that sleeps bareassed most of the time. At the conclusion, I go over 5 reasons why sleeping naked can be a healthier option.

I hope you enjoy the shows!  ~Joey

- Joey

2022 Sweeps Period continues with an episode about sleep...or lack thereof. Most Americans do not get enough sleep and it is affecting health, both physical and mental. In reference to a magazine article I read a few years ago, I used the suggestions I mention in this episode as a way to successfully change my sleep habits by 80%. I hope you enjoy the information in this show. Thank you for joining me. 

The 2022 Sweeps Period has several episodes to go, so it will run into early October.

Today we start a new 3-part series with actor/author David Pevsner. Over the course of these 3 shows, David discusses his book 'Damn Shame', and talks in depth and quite honestly, about his amazing life. If you are in our age range (60's) this first episode will be a re-visit to your childhood. As the series goes along, David gets very candid about his struggles and successes in theater and his unique ways of making money during tough times. This is a fascinating series of episodes. 

'Damn Shame' on Amazon & Kindle

David Pevsner Website

GooglePlay