Women of Impact (Impact Theory)

Normally, people are twice as happy and find their lives much more meaningful when they are with their spouse. However, current quarantines may be causing stress for some couples. The sheer amount of time spent together is uncharted territory for many relationships. On this episode of Women of Impact, host Lisa Bilyeu and her husband Tom Bilyeu discuss the tactics, strategies and rules of engagement they have used to keep their relationship strong and growing for 19 years and counting. They discuss how to avoid letting the small things frustrate you, how to lift each other up, and how to hopefully find a way to make this surprise quarantine fun and empowering. [Original air date: 4-1-20]. SHOW NOTES: How do you avoid getting annoyed with each other over small things? [3:39] How to view everything that happens as practice, and then make it fun [5:50] Don’t tell me I’ve done something wrong after I’ve done it [9:06] Why you have to take responsibility for yourself instead of matching negative energy [10:23] It’s OK to match your partner’s righteous indignation, but not their anxiety [12:42] Do not tell someone they are being irrational. Wait for emotional sobriety [16:31] How do you make space for yourself in a situation that seems impossible? [17:37] How do you deal with a partner who isn’t willing to do the work in a relationship? [21:26] Lisa talks about writing her “quarantine script” in real time [23:38] What would need to be true for this experience to be positive? [25:08] Why you shouldn’t let “dust settle” [27:06] You have to know exactly why things are bothering you [28:38] How to talk to someone who is agitated without getting them even more angry [31:55] What is one thing couples can do right now to get stronger? [34:35] Why you absolutely must take selfish time [37:13] Tom and Lisa used to do relationship theory, which you can still find on YouTube [39:21] CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS OneSkin: Get 15% off with the code LISA at https://oneskin.co  Masterclass: MasterClass always has great offers during the holidays, sometimes up to as much as 50% off. Head over to https://masterclass.com/lisa for the current offer Found Banking: Sign up for Found for FREE today at https://found.com/lisa  FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en LISTEN AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On this episode of Women of Impact, holistic psychologist and author Dr. Nicole LePera joins Lisa Bilyeu to discuss such matters and more as they explore how to identify patterns of self-sabotage and what we can do to break negative patterns so that we may develop positive change in our life. They discuss how childhood patterns are developed, how we carry them with us every today, ways we can break negative habits and patterns, the power of connecting to your emotional body, how to access your consciousness, the benefits of connecting to your senses, how to navigate relationships and your family, and our ability to expand in life. Pre-Order Dr. LePera’s book, ’How to Do the Work’: amazon.com/How-Do-Work-Recognize-Patterns/dp/006301209X [ORIGINAL AIR DATE: Oct 21, 2020] SHOW NOTES: Intro | Lisa introduces today’s guest on Women of Impact, Dr. Nicole LePera. [1:41] Observing | Dr. LePera discusses childhood patterns that still aren’t serving us today. [3:13] Judgement | Dr. LePera discusses how to identify your patterns without self-judgement. [5:22] Resistance | Dr. LePera reveals the steps on breaking through patterns to new directions. [7:51] Connecting | Dr. LePera discusses the power of connecting to your emotional body. [10:41] Childhood | Dr. LePera on how to identify childhood patterns you’re still carrying today. [12:22] Conscious | Dr. LePera shares how to escape repetitive patterns that aren’t serving us. [18:05] Grounded | Dr. LePera reveals the power of becoming aware of your senses. [20:22] Trauma Bonds | Dr. LePera discusses the importance of gaining support from others. [22:24] Relationships | Dr. LePera shares how to work through trauma bonds with your partner. [27:08] Differences | Dr. LePera shares what to do if your partner isn’t open to doing the work. [32:49] Family | Dr. LePera shares how she worked through patterns and establishing space. [36:05] ‘And’ | Dr. LePera shares how to steer away from making excuse and show up today. [41:35] Connect | Dr. LePera discusses her new book and how to follow her to connect. [44:22] CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Caraway: Visit https://www.carawayhome.com/WOI or use code WOI at checkout and get 10% off you your next purchase OneSkin: Visit https://oneskin.co and use code LISA for 15% off to make your skin look, feel, and act younger with OneSkin! FOLLOW DR. LEPERA: Website: yourholisticpsychologist.com YouTube: youtube.com/c/TheHolisticPsychologist Instagram: instagram.com/the.holistic.psychologist Facebook: facebook.com/the.holistic.psychologist/ FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en LISTEN AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Whole30 founder and NYT best-selling author Melissa Urban specializes in helping people change their relationship with food, which often means helping people change their relationships with their loved ones and with their own past. And she herself went through a pretty difficult transformation, from being addicted to heroin to becoming a nutrition and fitness expert. On this episode of Women of Impact with Lisa Bilyeu, Melissa Urban discusses every aspect of healthy eating, from the nuts and bolts of dieting to dealing with emotional urges and setting boundaries in social settings. She also talks about empathy and confidence, self-reflection and grace, and explains why sometimes it’s a good idea to ditch the scale and the mirror. [Original air date: 1-1-20]. SHOW NOTES: Melissa talks about recovering from drug addiction [3:32] Melissa credits God, therapy, and doing things one at a time for her recovery [5:09] Melissa explains why it’s so dangerous to focus on physical appearance [7:54] Lisa and Melissa discuss dealing with compliments and criticism [10:09] Melissa explains how she gained a sense of self-worth [11:40] Melissa describes the process of becoming empathetic to herself and others [13:01] Melissa talks about ditching the idea that thinness equates to health [14:40] You can’t win an emotional argument with logic, and excuses are emotional [17:10] Melissa discusses why sometimes people don’t want to take back their power [18:44] Melissa talks about how to tell that you are yo-yo dieting [21:07] Melissa explains how to tell when you are using food to deal with stress or trauma [22:40] Melissa describes the process of separating from her husband [25:02] Melissa discusses how to “bomb-proof” your confidence [29:01] Melissa advocates honest self-reflection and giving yourself grace [30:59] Melissa and Lisa talk about belief, religion and God [32:49] Melissa talks about how to deal with food and social situations [36:19] Melissa discusses setting boundaries with people who won’t listen to you [39:49] Melissa talks about food freedom and making clear, shame-free decisions [43:03] Melissa shares her superpower [45:48] CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Caraway: Visit https://www.carawayhome.com/WOI or use code WOI at checkout and get 10% off you your next purchase OneSkin: Visit https://oneskin.co and use code LISA for 15% off to make your skin look, feel, and act younger with OneSkin! FOLLOW MELISSA: WEBSITE: https://whole30.com INSTAGRAM: https://bit.ly/2EDRoKh TWITTER: https://bit.ly/2tDLc2N FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en LISTEN AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to another empowering episode of "Women of Impact." Today, host Lisa Bilyeu sits down with Dr. Mindy Pelz to uncover the transformative power of menopause. In this enlightening conversation, Dr. Pelz delves into the benefits of fasting for optimizing metabolic health, especially as we age, and the pivotal role of diet, stress management, and awareness in navigating menopause. She challenges societal norms and sheds light on the often-silent struggles women face, from managing weight and hormonal imbalances to tackling depression and anxiety. Through practical advice and personal anecdotes, Dr. Pelz and Lisa explore how menopause can be viewed as a journey towards self-authenticity and empowerment. Whether you're facing menopausal changes yourself or supporting a loved one, this episode promises invaluable insights and actionable steps to embrace this new chapter with confidence and understanding. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Women's dieting error: restricting due to societal pressure. 05:42 Eat diverse, real foods for hormone balance. 07:35 Hormones must be metabolized and reformatted by gut. 10:48 Fasting lifestyle balances gut health and calories. 13:04 Generic diets fail; bodies need personalized nutrition. 17:39 Synthetic estrogens cause health issues in women. 19:47 Liver and gut crucial for hormone detox. 26:09 Holistic approach impacts health and well-being. 26:51 Menopause confusion due to lack of education. 30:15 Hormones influence relational perspective in girls. 35:40 Communication and therapy crucial during menopause journey. 40:20 Friend thanked for emotional support warning advice. 40:53 Expect the unexpected, reduce stress during change. CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Caraway: Visit https://www.carawayhome.com/WOI or use code WOI at checkout and get 10% off you your next purchase OneSkin: Visit https://oneskin.co and use code LISA for 15% off to make your skin look, feel, and act younger with OneSkin! FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en LISTEN AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week’s guest on Women of Impact is Najwa Zebian. Najwa Zebian is a Lebanese-Canadian author, speaker, and educator. Inspired by her love of language from an early age, now she gives her voice to those who feel silenced. In this episode she talks about getting past trauma and how to know if your relationship is serving you. [Original air date: 4-24-19]. BUY NAJWA’S BOOKS: The Nectar of Pain: https://amzn.to/2W52QWu Sparks of Pheonix: https://amzn.to/2Gun0mc Mind Platter: https://amzn.to/2IPzeIN SHOW NOTES: A new way to think about ‘home’ [02:19] Does happiness just come to us? [05:48] Why we need to feel and accept our pain [07:09] How to actually feel your pain so you can move on [09:57] Boundaries you need to set up for future relationships [15:40] Najwa’s definition of self love [19:24] Why you can’t be positive all the time [21:52] The importance of taking responsibility for your health [26:30] How to find your voice [29:28] The real story behind Najwa’s International Women’s Day speech [35:08] Why you can’t doubt your truth [42:00] CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS OneSkin: Get 15% off with the code LISA at https://oneskin.co Helix: Get 25% off ALL mattresses and 2 free eco-rest pillows at https://impacttheory.co/HelixWOIDec FOLLOW NAJWA: WEBSITE: https://bit.ly/2virGWO INSTAGRAM: https://bit.ly/2adrxex FACEBOOK: https://bit.ly/2GBCOEJ TWITTER: https://bit.ly/2vjRQZm YOUTUBE: https://bit.ly/2UzlDaJ FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en LISTEN AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Big audacious dreams scare most people back into their regular full time jobs. The sad truth is that the discomfort most of us complain about is usually the comfort we seek when opportunities present themselves to go after those big dreams we secretly carry around. If this sounds familiar or feels familiar to you, then Ellen Marie Bennett’s inspirational story may be the kick you need to find your inner spark and dare to take action. She went from zero experience, being a line cook at a Michelin star restaurant, to jumping at an opportunity to make a difference that led to the multi-million dollar brand, Hedley & Bennett aprons. Her energy is infectious and willingness to dive into discomfort, fail, and figure things out along the way are beyond motivating. This episode is packed with goodies that may have you making some major moves today.  Order Ellen Bennet’s new book, Dream First, Details Later: https://amzn.to/3kgec8L  SHOW NOTES: Override Perfection | Ellen on how she showed up for the journey of life asking questions [3:02] Opportunity | The importance of not focusing on what you’re missing, just take action [6:17] Inner Dialogue | How to listen but not be overtaken by inner dialogue to light your spark [11:37] Perseverance | Ellen share the perfect response when you hit against a “no” and failure [13:24] Self Belief | Ellen on being your own cheerleader and what humble enthusiasm is [15:33] Humble Enthusiasm | Ellen explains being “excited to share and excited to learn” [16:33] Confidence Belt | Building confidence with successes & failures out of your comfort zone [21:04] Covid Shift | Applying humble enthusiasm to an operational pivot making masks [26:56] Purpose | Ellen breaks down how your ‘why’ is essential to get through the shitstorms [31:03] Imposter Syndrome | Leaning into who you are and honoring your own special sauce [33:27] Weaknesses | How to tackle leaning into areas that are not your core strengths [36:26] No Ego | Ellen on knowing how to get better and allow others to step in [39:32] What to Take On | Ellen shares how she decides what to take on and what to pass [43:40]  Follow Ellen Hedley Bennett: Website: https://www.hedleyandbennett.com/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/hedleybennett Check out our sponsor: Blinkist: Go to https://blinkist.com/woi Try it FREE for 7 days and save 25% off your new subscription. Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact? Calling all Badasses!! If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be!  Women of EXTRA Impact Subscription Benefits: New episodes delivered ad-free Exclusive access to listen to Women of Impact round table discussions, weekly motivation, previously unreleased episodes, and more!  Subscriber-only access to an additional 4 podcasts with hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists, and updated weekly. Looking to boost your confidence? Check out the Get Confident playlist.  Want to repair and heal your relationships? Start with Love Lab.  Curious about your health? We’ve got you covered in Health Hub.  And of course, weekly boosts of mini-motivation from Lisa herself that'll have you strutting through life with your head held high on the Badass Boosts playlist  Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What up homie! It’s time for part two of this incredible episode with the country’s top attorney in narcissistic negotiations, Rebecca Zung. In part one, Rebecca reveals her most effective strategy for manipulating the manipulator (ethically of course!). In the second part of this conversation we’re getting a real-world glimpse into navigating professional and personal toxic relationships with narcissists. We’re continuing this episode by ensuring that narcissists hiding among us are absolutely exposed so that the badass women among you get what you need on your terms: *Ways to respond if a narcissist is trying to use your vulnerabilities to crush you while you’re down *The secret to beating narcissists and making them shrink in any situation   *The power of the story you tell yourself will be the kiss of death or the kiss of life. As in, it can literally become your superpower (the choice is yours!) All of this is unfolding now! This is for my homies aiming for success and balance in life. Learn how to navigate a toxic partner at home and in the corporate world, because when you know the game, you can actually win! Check out Rebecca’s book, Slay the Bully, How to Negotiate with a Narcissist & Win: https://www.amazon.com/SLAY-Bully-How-Negotiate-Narcissist/dp/1637586868  Follow Rebecca Zung: Website: https://www.rebeccazung.com/  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@RebeccaZungEsq  Twitter: https://twitter.com/rebeccazung  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rebeccazung/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/rebeccazung/  SPONSORS: If you purchase an item using these affiliate links, Impact Theory may receive a commission. Try Audible FREE for 30 days! Just visit https://adbl.co/3TLkgrD or text woi to 500-500. Go to https://bit.ly/ZocDocLisa and download the Zocdoc app for FREE. Then find and book a top-rated doctor today. Post your job for free at https://bit.ly/LinkedinWOI. That’s https://bit.ly/LinkedinWOI to post your job for free. Terms and conditions apply. Give therapy a try, with BetterHelp! Visit https://bit.ly/BetterhelpWomen today to get 10% off your first month. ***Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact?*** Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP Calling all Badasses!! If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be!  *New episodes delivered ad-free *Exclusive access to listen to Women of Impact round table discussions, weekly motivation, previously unreleased episodes, and more!  *Subscriber-only access to an additional 4 podcasts with hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists, and updated weekly. *Looking to boost your confidence? Check out the Get Confident playlist.  *Want to repair and heal your relationships? Start with Love Lab.  *Curious about your health? We’ve got you covered in Health Hub.  *And of course, weekly boosts of mini-motivation from Lisa herself that'll have you strutting through life with your head held high on the Badass Boosts playlist  Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! *****Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP***** Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It is so easy to take inventory and list every person, every event, and every situation causing stress in your life. Regardless of where you are, what your social status or income, we are all having a similar experience. The stress and anguish you experience on a daily basis to co-exist and keep the peace with family, friends, and co-workers is overwhelming to say the least. What if the solution to relieving this stress and finding true happiness is much simpler than you think? Martha Beck is an amazing life coach dedicated to freeing people from suffering. She shares some shocking truths about curing unhappiness and getting in alignment with your true nature. Find out why “going harder” is usually the worst decision you can make, and how all the little white lies we tell ourselves and people around us are hurting our body, mind, heart and soul. Order Martha Beck’s new book, The Way of Integrity: https://amzn.to/3xVGmcY [Original air date: 6-30-21] SHOW NOTES: Integrity | Martha explains what integrity and being whole [0:52] Lost Integrity | Martha on living out of integrity without your true nature [1:45] 6 Symptoms | Signs that you’ve fallen out of integrity with your true self [2:45] Should | Martha shares 2 possible solutions driving actions from unseen truths [5:14] Lies | Martha breaks down the impact of self-deception on body, heart, mind & soul [6:42] What’s True | Martha on checking in with yourself and finding her integrity [10:33] Throw It Away | Martha reveals what she gained “throwing” her life away for her truth [13:16] Moment of Pause | Martha reveals the power of pausing and why it’s key to your truth [16:53] Mourning | Martha explains why losing the familiar causes you to mourn [21:27] Purgatory | Why breaking away from culture allows others to find their integrity [23:34] Looking Back | Martha explains the point of no looking back stepping into true nature [25:21] Bad Relationships | Martha shares what it takes to be true to yourself to move on [28:40] Don’t Go Harder | Martha on why doing more of what isn’t true for you makes it worst [31:37] Positive Stress | How to go with the flow of what you need and not fight yourself [34:29] One Degree Turn | Martha shares the secret to small incremental steps to what you love [38:41] In Integrity | The miracle of peace that happens when you live in your integrity [41:55] CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa OneSkin: Visit https://oneskin.co and use code LISA for 15% off to make your skin look, feel, and act younger with OneSkin!  Helix: Get 25% off and 2 FREE Dream Pillows with any CORE mattress purchase or get a FREE Bedding Bundle with any Luxe or Elite mattress at https://helixsleep.com/woi FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en LISTEN AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Do you often feel stuck? If we don’t intentionally engage our conscious mind, we end up spending 95% of our lives on auto-pilot. And according to Nicole LePera, those auto-pilot habits and subconscious thought patterns are exactly what keep us stuck. On this episode of Women of Impact with Lisa Bilyeu, holistic psychologist Nicole LePera shares tips and tactics on how to deal with your deepest triggers, how to build confidence, and how to finally get unstuck. [Original air date: 8-21-19]. SHOW NOTES: Nicole explains what consciousness is, and why it’s necessary to tap into it [2:52] The first thing anyone should do is simply observe themselves [5:10] Nicole talks about how to not judge your own thoughts [8:28] Nicole describes using meditation and journaling to change habits and thought patterns [9:28] Nicole advocates focusing on the future, and imagining change [12:04] Nicole explains how, in the moment, you can switch away from subconscious habits [14:06] Nicole talks about how sometimes time and space are your best friends [17:05] Nicole describes why our relationships contain our most powerful triggers [18:29] Nicole advocates radical honesty to deal with past trauma [21:40] Nicole tells a story about how not doing the dishes led to huge arguments [24:39] Nicole discusses the difference between confidence and ego [30:30] Nicole describes the first steps to becoming genuinely confident [33:03] Nicole advocates the importance of sleep and nutrition [37:44] Lisa and Nicole discuss the brain-gut connection [40:30] Nicole describes 3 things that people can do immediately to improve their health [45:36] Nicole shares her superpower [48:16] FOLLOW Nicole: WEBSITE: http://bit.ly/2KTAgCS TWITTER: http://bit.ly/2KPF8sO INSTAGRAM: http://bit.ly/2NbJn4B SPONSORS: Head over to https://cozyearth.com and use promo code "Lisa" for an exclusive 35% off.  Go over right now and sign up for just one dollar a month with your trial period at https://Shopify.com/lisa You can save 15%  with the code [LISA] at oneskin.co.  Go to save 20% on your annual license, use the promo code WOMANOFIMPACT. Go to https://www.heytabu.com/discount/LISA15 use code LISA15 to save 15% off your order Get 5 free AG1 Travel Packs and a FREE 1 year supply of Vitamin D with your first purchase your first purchase by going to https://drinkAG1.com/lisa. Go to https://tryviome.com/LISA and use code LISA to get 20% off your first 3 months, and take control of your gut health today! PRE-ORDER YOUR COPY OF LISA'S BOOK "RADICAL CONFIDENCE"  (NOW IN PAPERBACK & WITH A NEW CHAPTER!) & GET YOUR FREE BADASS BONUSES: https://bit.ly/radcon ***CALLING ALL BADASSES!*** If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be!  *New episodes delivered ad-free, EXCLUSIVE access to hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, and so much more!* Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! *****Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP***** Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to another enlightening episode of Women of Impact, where today’s conversation will take you deep into the world of cults and manipulative relationships. I'm your host, Lisa Bilyeu, and joining me is cult expert Rick Alan Ross. In this episode, we unravel the insidious tactics of love bombing and conditional affection, the manipulation and dependency that cults and abusive relationships foster, and the isolation and indoctrination techniques that rob individuals of their autonomy. We also delve into the intricacies of leaving such environments and the intense feelings of shame and guilt that often accompany this challenging process. We'll discuss gender dynamics in narcissistic behaviors, the rise of female cult leaders like Amy Carlson and Elizabeth Claire Prophet, and the complex realities faced by cult members. From high-profile cases like Charles Manson’s manipulation tactics and Leslie Van Houten's eventual transformation, to the impact of modern social media in cult awareness, Rick offers invaluable insights into how cults recruit even the most intelligent individuals and celebrities. Plus, we explore the critical role of intervention and the journey towards recovery, touching on compelling stories like Elizabeth Smart’s and Patricia Hearst's abductions and subsequent reprogramming. Whether you’re curious about the psychological traps of cults, or looking for ways to protect yourself and others, this episode is a powerful guide to understanding and safeguarding your autonomy. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Beware of manipulation: Love bombing and control. 04:27 Isolation limits feedback, ensuring control and dependency. 08:31 Charismatic leader controlled, abused small devoted following. 12:04 Beware online groups for cult-like behaviors. 15:19 Keith Raniere trial: witnessed downfall after lengthy battle. 18:00 Seek professional help to understand and recover. 21:32 Mark uses social media to educate against cults. 25:15 Manson incited race war due to failed fame. 29:32 Cult leaders manipulate followers into apocalyptic narratives. 33:02 Leslie Van Houten: cult recovery, family support, transformation. 35:42 Elizabeth Smart kidnapped, abused, coerced, threatened family. 39:17 Patty Hearst, SLA involvement, prison, Carter commutation. 44:22 Defining cults, coercive tactics, and family concerns. 47:29 Love-based relationships reveal truth through discussions. 51:50 Find me on Twitter @XallenRoss; culteducation.com resources. CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa OneSkin: Visit https://oneskin.co and use code LISA for 15% off to make your skin look, feel, and act younger with OneSkin!  Helix: Get 25% off and 2 FREE Dream Pillows with any CORE mattress purchase or get a FREE Bedding Bundle with any Luxe or Elite mattress at https://helixsleep.com/woi FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en LISTEN AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today we are diving into the murky world of destructive cults and manipulative relationships with our expert guest, Rick Alan Ross. In this eye-opening discussion, we'll explore the sinister techniques of love bombing and conditional affection, the perils of manipulation and dependency, and the devastating impacts of isolation and indoctrination. We'll also delve into the challenging journey of leaving these toxic environments and the intricate process of recovery. Rick will shed light on the startling realities of female cult leaders, such as Amy Carlson and Elizabeth Claire Prophet, and discuss the role of intelligence and success in cult recruitment. We’ll get a closer look at extreme cult behaviors and the manipulative power of leaders like Charles Manson, while highlighting the importance of cult awareness in today's society, especially through social media. Additionally, we'll cover fascinating stories of high-profile cases like Susan Carlson’s “Love Has Won” and the notorious cult leader Keith Ranieri of nxivm, dissecting the dual-edge sword of the internet in both aiding and exposing cult activities. Join us as we delve into the psychological entrapment of cult members and uncover interventions that can potentially save lives. Whether you're familiar with cult dynamics or learning about them for the first time, this episode promises to be both informative and chilling. So sit back, get comfortable, and let's jump right in! SHOWNOTES 00:00 Beware of manipulation: Love bombing and control. 04:27 Isolation limits feedback, ensuring control and dependency. 08:31 Charismatic leader controlled, abused small devoted following. 12:04 Beware online groups for cult-like behaviors. 15:19 Keith Raniere trial: witnessed downfall after lengthy battle. 18:00 Seek professional help to understand and recover. 21:32 Mark uses social media to educate against cults. 25:15 Manson incited race war due to failed fame. 29:32 Cult leaders manipulate followers into apocalyptic narratives. 33:02 Leslie Van Houten: cult recovery, family support, transformation. 35:42 Elizabeth Smart kidnapped, abused, coerced, threatened family. 39:17 Patty Hearst, SLA involvement, prison, Carter commutation. 44:22 Defining cults, coercive tactics, and family concerns. 47:29 Love-based relationships reveal truth through discussions. 51:50 Find me on Twitter @XallenRoss; culteducation.com resources. CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa OneSkin: Visit https://oneskin.co and use code LISA for 15% off to make your skin look, feel, and act younger with OneSkin!  Helix: Get 25% off and 2 FREE Dream Pillows with any CORE mattress purchase or get a FREE Bedding Bundle with any Luxe or Elite mattress at https://helixsleep.com/woi FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en LISTEN AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Tom Bilyeu and Lisa Bilyeu (@lisabilyeu) dive into topics such as, ambition and intimate relationships, clarifying your vision, and handling third party doubts in your relationship. Tom Bilyeu is the co-founder of 2014 Inc. 500 company Quest Nutrition — a unicorn startup valued at over $1 billion — and the co-founder and host of Impact Theory. Impact Theory is a first-of-its-kind company designed to facilitate global change through the incubation of mission-based businesses and the cultivation of empowering content.  [Original air date: 5-24-17]. CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Masterclass: Right now, our listeners get an additional 15% off any annual membership at https://masterclass.com/lisa. FOLLOW TOM: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tombilyeu/ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@tombilyeu?lang=en Twitter: https://twitter.com/tombilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TomBilyeu FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en LISTEN AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Many people spend their lives trying to fit in to their cultural narrative, their family’s expectations, or their social circle’s trends. But fitting in is rarely the path to success or happiness. In honor of International Women’s Day, this episode of Women of Impact with Lisa Bilyeu focuses on six extraordinary women who defied stereotypes, refused to fit in, and made a pronounced impact on the world as a result. Andrea Navedo, Anousheh Ansari, Noor Tagouri, Sabrina Kay, Brenda Gilbert and Najwa Zebian share their incredible stories of overcoming failures, outperforming expectations, and living a life true to themselves and their own deepest convictions. [Original air date: 3/4/20]. SHOW NOTES: Andrea Navedo believes that as a youth she needed to see herself reflected in culture [3:22] Do you want to try, and take the risk of failure, or not try and have failure guaranteed? [5:47] Anousheh Ansari says there are always problems, but she looks for the solutions [8:12] Anousheh explains why she always focuses on taking the next step [11:02] Noor Tagouri explains why she chose to wear the hijab [13:14] Noor’s parents always encouraged her to become a journalist [18:07] Sabrina Kay describes the pressure to marry the perfect man, and become a mother [19:17] Sabrina’s ambition and resilience was actually driven by fear of failure [22:32] Brenda Gilbert shares a story of standing up to a bully and what it taught her [24:29] Brenda is driven not just by the passion for her career, but by passion for other people [27:40] Najwa Zebian describes home as the place where you can be unapologetically yourself [29:31] Najwa never associated with other students in school [31:37] Najwa struggled for a long time with accepting that painful things had happened to her [33:21] FOLLOW NAJWA: https://bit.ly/2uMKKzU FOLLOW BRENDA: https://bit.ly/2PJFwwd FOLLOW NOOR TAGOURI: https://bit.ly/38klrD1 FOLLOW ANDREA: https://bit.ly/2PLph1B FOLLOW ANOUSHEH: https://bit.ly/32LItlf FOLLOW SABRINA: https://bit.ly/2VDc4vH CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Netsuite: Download the CFO’s Guide to AI and Machine Learning at https://netsuite.com/women Caraway: Visit https://www.carawayhome.com/WOI or use code WOI at checkout and get 10% off you your next purchase FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en LISTEN AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Constance Schwartz is the founder of SMAC entertainment where she manages talent like Michael Strahan, Wiz Khalifa and Snoop Dogg. She’s also a producer of television and serves as a strategic advisor to the entertainment industry. In this episode of Women of Impact with Lisa Bilyeu, she talks about how to control your emotions in pivotal situations, how to find fulfillment and success in your career, and why it pays to have a chip on your shoulder. [Original air date: 2-6-19]. SHOW NOTES: How to use that chip on your shoulder to your advantage [02:32] Why women have to command their place in the business world [04:40] How Constance got Snoop Dogg’s attention [06:45] Do you have luck or are you just a hustler? [08:41] Why talking down to yourself can actually encourage you [09:52] The worst moment Constance had to overcome in her career [12:33] Why Constance doesn’t give her employees titles [14:20] The reason Constance left the NFL [15:00] How to process failure after taking a risk [16:38] Are you too early for a trend or is it just a d idea? [18:04] Why Constance treats her employees like family [21:59] How to earn respect AND command it [25:17] The best way to handle defeat [27:35] Why you always need to invest in yourself, even if you are capable of being a top earner [29:33] The realities making sacrifices in entrepreneurship [32:19] How to “stay sober” when looking at business opportunities that are wrong for you [34:04] Why you shouldn’t be offended when people go to your business partner for answers [35:44] The strategies Constance uses to keep her pace [37:30 The future for Smac Entertainment [42:01] Constance’s superpower [46:05] FOLLOW CONSTANCE: WEBSITE: https://bit.ly/2UGhuCd INSTAGRAM: https://bit.ly/2GaiZ8F TWITTER: https://bit.ly/2Gh3SKP CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Netsuite: Download the CFO’s Guide to AI and Machine Learning at https://netsuite.com/women Caraway: Visit https://www.carawayhome.com/WOI or use code WOI at checkout and get 10% off you your next purchase FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en LISTEN AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hey everyone, it's your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome back to another heart-shaking, soul-quaking episode of "Women of Impact." Today, I have the absolute pleasure of bringing back one of my all-time favorite guests, a woman who has not only impacted my life but countless others with her raw, unfiltered honesty and boundless wisdom—the incredible Lisa Nichols. In this episode, Lisa Nichols is bringing the heat and the heart as she takes us on a deeply personal journey through her emotional struggles and the path to rediscovering herself. Imagine battling through toxic relationships, facing the depths of clinical depression, and constantly wrestling with societal pressures that try to tell you who you should be—Lisa has been there, and she’s lived to tell the tale in the most empowering way. She opens up about the courageous steps she took to reclaim her life, including relocating to escape a toxic situation and creating practices to rebuild her self-worth. We dive into the transformative power of self-reflection and forgiveness, and Lisa shares the incredible methods she used, from affirmations and mentorship to visual reminders that kept her grounded and focused on her true potential. But that's not all—Lisa and I explore the tough, gritty topics like the internal conflict of intuition versus desire, and the necessity of self-acceptance in a world that often tries to dim our light. She even introduces us to her innovative "boldness quiz," designed to help us all push past our fears and embrace our true, fearless selves. And for those of you who crave a little entertainment mixed with empowerment, Lisa gives us a sneak peek into her latest endeavor—a one-woman Broadway show that's set to inspire and transform lives. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Aging affects metabolism; hormones necessitate dietary changes. 16:06 Realizations about self-reliance in relationships. 29:27 Fear of inadequacy and underrepresentation in media. 35:04 Struggling with self-esteem and room dynamics. 52:51 Exploring pivotal life choices and decision moments. 57:49 Desire to help women in challenging times. 01:08:55 Journey to body acceptance after shaming experience. CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Netsuite: Download the CFO’s Guide to AI and Machine Learning at https://netsuite.com/women Caraway: Visit https://www.carawayhome.com/WOI or use code WOI at checkout and get 10% off you your next purchase FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en LISTEN AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hey everyone, it's your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome back to another heart-shaking, soul-quaking episode of "Women of Impact." Today, I have the absolute pleasure of bringing back one of my all-time favorite guests, a woman who has not only impacted my life but countless others with her raw, unfiltered honesty and boundless wisdom—the incredible Lisa Nichols. In this episode, Lisa Nichols is bringing the heat and the heart as she takes us on a deeply personal journey through her emotional struggles and the path to rediscovering herself. Imagine battling through toxic relationships, facing the depths of clinical depression, and constantly wrestling with societal pressures that try to tell you who you should be—Lisa has been there, and she’s lived to tell the tale in the most empowering way. She opens up about the courageous steps she took to reclaim her life, including relocating to escape a toxic situation and creating practices to rebuild her self-worth. We dive into the transformative power of self-reflection and forgiveness, and Lisa shares the incredible methods she used, from affirmations and mentorship to visual reminders that kept her grounded and focused on her true potential. But that's not all—Lisa and I explore the tough, gritty topics like the internal conflict of intuition versus desire, and the necessity of self-acceptance in a world that often tries to dim our light. She even introduces us to her innovative "boldness quiz," designed to help us all push past our fears and embrace our true, fearless selves. And for those of you who crave a little entertainment mixed with empowerment, Lisa gives us a sneak peek into her latest endeavor—a one-woman Broadway show that's set to inspire and transform lives. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Aging affects metabolism; hormones necessitate dietary changes. 16:06 Realizations about self-reliance in relationships. 29:27 Fear of inadequacy and underrepresentation in media. 35:04 Struggling with self-esteem and room dynamics. 52:51 Exploring pivotal life choices and decision moments. 57:49 Desire to help women in challenging times. 01:08:55 Journey to body acceptance after shaming experience. CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Netsuite: Download the CFO’s Guide to AI and Machine Learning at https://netsuite.com/women Caraway: Visit https://www.carawayhome.com/WOI or use code WOI at checkout and get 10% off you your next purchase FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en LISTEN AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Girls begin going through puberty as early as 8 years old. From the moment you become aware of your body and people begin commenting on your changes, shame, discomfort, and confusion begin to settle in. While we all settle into our bodies in different ways and at different ages, the harsh reality is that 53% of American girls are not happy with their bodies by 13 years of age and by 17 the amount of unhappy girls grows to 78%! Behind the onslaught of body image issues and societal pressures that mark the barometer of where you fall on the ‘acceptance meter,’ are a mounting number of quietly misdiagnosed hormonal issues. Dr. Sara Gottefried is a Harvard and M.I.T. graduate, medical physician, and NY Times bestselling author of, The Hormone Cure. She shines light on the issues women are having with being properly diagnosed, treated and even heard on health issues that have been sold as not being related. As females, the number of factors that impact our hormones, our moods, our ability to function and feel like we have worth and value is mind-blowing. [Original air date: 10-13-21]. SHOW NOTES: Misconceptions | Ways women can take ownership of their health and transparent risks [0:51] Testosterone | Why testosterone can cause problems with confidence and empowerment [4:15] Precision Medicine | How it starts with diet, lifestyle, & nutrition observed with wearables [13:34] Average Treatment | Dr. Gottfried shares reality of how medicine for the average works [16:58] After 40 | How hormonal changes affect women and allows us to speak our truth more [20:35] Food Plan | How to use elimination diet to assess how food is impacting your health, [24:15] Body Messages | Stop ignoring the messages your body is sending you [38:33] Antibiotics | The havoc antibiotics caused Dr. Gottfried’s microbiome, changing it by 87% [43:28] Feeling Shame | How shame is holding you back from being honest about your health [46:29] Confidence | Feeling okay with challenging your doctor and getting hormones checked [52:38] Gut Related | Dr Gottfried explains why gut health has everything to do with estrogen [57:10] Nutrigenomics | How genetics predict food and nutrient response to gluten, salt, caffeine [58:30] FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en LISTEN AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If you’re a human, you’ve most likely been in relationships and situations that spark regret, shame and confusion on what to do and who to be in the moment. So often, people spend time trying to please everyone around them. The way you dress, the way you style your hair, where you sit in the meeting, all of these decisions are so easily influenced by a want and desire to be given approval from the right people. But what about you? What do you want? How often are you spending time apologizing for feeling, and even better how often are you downplaying that you even feel anything? Najwa Zebian is an activist, poet and celebrated author. She joins Lisa for a second time to discuss how she came to radical self acceptance, and share the startling fact that we may actually be gaslighting ourselves when we diminish and disregard the pain we feel when vulnerability has been betrayed in the hands of the wrong person.  Najwa’s Questions for Self-Acceptance: 1. Who are you? 2. Why do I believe what I believe? 3. Why do I live my life the way that I do? 4. Why am I scared of X, Y and Z? 5. Why are you so afraid of feeling pain?  “When you build your home and other people you give them the power to make as homeless” -Najwa Zebian  SHOW NOTES:  Gaslighting Yourself | Why diminishing your painful experience lessens your self-worth [0:40] Homeless | How we build homes in others and end up homeless when they walk away [6:37] Toxic Savior | Trying to save someone doesn’t mean you’re owed anything, that’s toxic [9:47] Proof of Love | Examining the real cost of having someone love versus what you receive [16:03] Self-Aware | The need to be aware of your triggers and the filter you’ve created for life [19:56] Self-Acceptance | Self-acceptance versus indifference and know who you’re accepting [25:59] Identity Crisis | Najwa shares the personal crisis that made her question her identity [33:59] Being Hurt | Why you need to acknowledge the hurt and know healing in your power [39:30] Vulnerability | How to be open to vulnerability after being hurt even in protection mode [45:24] Unwinding Triggers | Finding the origin of your triggers and allow yourself to feel it [51:56] Self-Judgement | Not blaming or judging yourself for allowing things to happen [55:36]  Check out our sponsors:  Athletic Greens: Go to https://athleticgreens.com/lisa and receive a FREE 1 year supply of Vitamin D AND 5 free travel packs with your first purchase! Blinkist: Go to https://blinkist.com/woi Try it FREE for 7 days and save 25% off your new subscription. Best Fiends: Download Best Fiends FREE on the Apple App Store or Google Play. More than 70% of people say they have regrets related to their ideal self. Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact? Calling all Badasses!! If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be!  Women of EXTRA Impact Subscription Benefits: New episodes delivered ad-free Exclusive access to listen to Women of Impact round table discussions, weekly motivation, previously unreleased episodes, and more!  Subscriber-only access to an additional 4 podcasts with hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists, and updated weekly. Looking to boost your confidence? Check out the Get Confident playlist.  Want to repair and heal your relationships? Start with Love Lab.  Curious about your health? We’ve got you covered in Health Hub.  And of course, weekly boosts of mini-motivation from Lisa herself that'll have you strutting through life with your head held high on the Badass Boosts playlist  Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sometimes it’s not about the marriage or the kids, or anyone else. Sometimes you go all out and are in it to win just for you. Fun fact, there are 114% more women entrepreneurs now than there were 20 years ago (source). In this episode two successful badass women entrepreneurs discuss purpose, life, taking pause from everything to reconnect with yourself and listening to your gut. A woman’s journey is never easy, but Camila Alves McConaughey opens up about the fulfillment, the rejection, the pain and the success she’s found along the way following her intuition. She and Lisa jump right in to get real, get vulnerable and get practical about what it takes to start successful businesses and balance marriage and kids. Episode Photos - Courtesy of Camila Alves’ Instagram  SHOW NOTES:  Business Journey | Camila recounts rejections and obstacles starting Yummy Spoonfuls [1:17] Purpose | Knowing when to leave and understanding the purpose of your business & self [5:32] Family Effort | Camila explains the importance of involving the family with business plans [9:03] Seasons of Life | Picking the right path for the season and knowing your priorities [15:07] Take Pause | Not getting lost in the journey and quieting the negative voices [20:58] Evolving | Growing with the journey and having new goals as we reassess [24:35] Ask Questions | Camila on how to ask yourself questions and find answers and therapy [26:34] Time for You | Giving yourself time to reconnect to you and find your adventure [31:17] Intuition | Camila and Lisa discuss going with intuition & listening to you gut responsibly [34:47]  Follow Camila Alves McConaughey: Website: https://womenoftoday.com/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/iamcamilaalves Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/wotbycamila/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/camilamcconaughey/?hl=en Check out our Sponsors: Blinkist: Go to https://blinkist.com/woi Try it FREE for 7 days and save 25% off your new subscription. Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact? Calling all Badasses!! If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be!  Women of EXTRA Impact Subscription Benefits: New episodes delivered ad-free Exclusive access to listen to Women of Impact round table discussions, weekly motivation, previously unreleased episodes, and more!  Subscriber-only access to an additional 4 podcasts with hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists, and updated weekly. Looking to boost your confidence? Check out the Get Confident playlist.  Want to repair and heal your relationships? Start with Love Lab.  Curious about your health? We’ve got you covered in Health Hub.  And of course, weekly boosts of mini-motivation from Lisa herself that'll have you strutting through life with your head held high on the Badass Boosts playlist  Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Chalene Johnson has made her name as a fitness coach, an entrepreneur and a business coach. But her path to success wasn’t easy, and she has dealt with severe health issues, an addiction to work, and the constant pressures of imposter syndrome. On this episode of Women of Impact with Lisa Bilyeu, Chalene Johnson describes the challenges of building a supportive team, giving up control, and taking responsibility. She also gives clear, specific, and immediately implementable advice on how to set boundaries, focus on one thing, and eliminate distractions. [Original air date: 10-23-19]. SHOW NOTES: Chalene discusses feeling unqualified or unworthy [1:58] Chalene talks about being addicted to work [3:30] Chalene describes the process of taking responsibility and setting boundaries [7:05] Chalene explains how she and her husband set clear, specific priorities [9:05] Chalene talks about the difficulty in giving up control [12:58] Chalene shares her health challenges and how at first she thought nothing was wrong [15:39] What would Chalene tell her past self to fix her relationship with health and work? [20:54] Chalene describes imposter syndrome and how to deal with it [23:46] Chalene talks about how her support system helps her take risks [25:35] Failures make for the best stories, and everything you want is on the other side of fear [26:58] Chalene discusses how to focus on one thing [29:03] Chalene explains how she creates habits by focusing on the rewards [32:26] Chalene describes exactly how she breaks her addiction to distractions [36:08] When you say no, don’t give reasons why [37:06] Chalene explains why you need to believe that your goals are possible [38:47] Chalene advocates focusing on your direction, not your obstacles [42:25] Chalene shares her superpower [43:12] FOLLOW CHALENE: WEBSITE: chalenejohnson.com INSTAGRAM: https://bit.ly/1RhxodM FACEBOOK: https://bit.ly/2MEizJH TWITTER: https://bit.ly/2PgcpBn FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en LISTEN AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Life is going to knock you down. You are going to have setbacks. It’s almost certainly inevitable. Still, it’s on you, and you alone to push away the temptation to simply become a victim of life. Instead, you must rise above, stand tall, and continuously adapt as life throws you curveballs. On this episode of Women of Impact, Lisa Bilyeu is joined by author, reporter, host of the ‘Better Together’ podcast, and all-around badass Maria Menounos to discuss such matters and more as they explore how to overcome setbacks in life and why you need to find your voice, feel a sense of empowerment, and start putting yourself first. They discuss Maria’s incredible journey from entertainment reporter to overcoming a brain tumor, why you need to feel a sense of empowerment, the power of being open to every perspective, why hardship is a blessing, how Maria has re-defined her definition of success, why you need to live life on your own terms, the power of purpose, and much more. Listen to Maria’s all-new podcast, ‘Better Together with Maria Menounos’: mariamenounos.com [Original air date: 2-17-21]. SHOW NOTES: Intro | Lisa opens today’s episode and welcomes today’s guest Maria Menounos. [0:30] Journey | Maria shares her incredible journey of discovering she had a brain tumor. [3:00] Learning | Maria reveals what she would have done differently when looking back. [9:06] Empowered | Maria reveals how to empower yourself to start speaking your mind. [13:36] Possibilities | Maria reveals why you have to think of every perspective possible. [20:56] Hardship | Maria reveals how she pushes through pain and overcomes challenges. [23:18] Success | Maria reveals why it’s okay to radically re-define your definition of success. [28:11] Living Your Way | Maria reveals why she decided live her life on her own terms. [33:08] Dreams | Maria shares how her dreams have evolved and shifted over time. [37:48] Purpose | Maria reveals the little things that led her to finding her purpose. [41:16] Connect | Maria reveals how to stay connected and follow her for more. [43:50] CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Masterclass: Right now, our listeners get an additional 15% off any annual membership at https://masterclass.com/lisa. FOLLOW MARIA: Website: mariamenounos.com YouTube: youtube.com/mariamenounos Instagram: instagram.com/bettertogetherwithmaria Instagram: instagram.com/mariamenounos Facebook: facebook.com/MariaMenounos/ Twitter: twitter.com/mariamenounos FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en LISTEN AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, host Lisa Bilyeu is joined by ex-CIA spy Andrew Bustamante and renowned defense attorney Karen Conti for a riveting discussion on the complex interplay between power, money, and justice in high-profile cases. Focusing on Sean "Diddy" Combs, the panel unravels allegations of abuse, manipulation, and the concealed video evidence that has sparked intense debate. Our guests delve into the mechanisms of reputational protection, the ethics and legality of selective video management by hotels, and the broader implications of federal investigations that could ripple through the entertainment and financial sectors. They also touch on the societal idolization of celebrities and the reluctance to believe victims of abuse, especially in racially charged contexts. The conversation does not shy away from the darker aspects of celebrity culture, including the psychological and legal struggles victims face, and the role of powerful networks in perpetuating harmful behavior. Andrew and Karen provide insights into the strategic use of influence and blackmail, comparing Diddy's case to other notorious figures like Jeffrey Epstein and R. Kelly. SHOWNOTES -Prosecutor challenges: doubt, juror skepticism, evidence. -Normalization leads to acceptance of inappropriate behavior. -Narcissism fueled by adoration led to crime. -Hollywood power and blackmail delayed revelations. -The entertainment industry is extremely abusive. -Reputational protection industry safeguards high-profile individuals. -We define our own privacy, not others. -Diddy appears dazed; Cassie tries escaping situation. -Apology video seemed scripted and well-produced. -Professionals empathize with aggressors, differing amateurs. -Was his organization structured like a business? CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Masterclass: Right now, our listeners get an additional 15% off any annual membership at https://masterclass.com/lisa. FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en LISTEN AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, host Lisa Bilyeu is joined by ex-CIA spy Andrew Bustamante and renowned defense attorney Karen Conti for a riveting discussion on the complex interplay between power, money, and justice in high-profile cases. Focusing on Sean "Diddy" Combs, the panel unravels allegations of abuse, manipulation, and the concealed video evidence that has sparked intense debate. Our guests delve into the mechanisms of reputational protection, the ethics and legality of selective video management by hotels, and the broader implications of federal investigations that could ripple through the entertainment and financial sectors. They also touch on the societal idolization of celebrities and the reluctance to believe victims of abuse, especially in racially charged contexts. The conversation does not shy away from the darker aspects of celebrity culture, including the psychological and legal struggles victims face, and the role of powerful networks in perpetuating harmful behavior. Andrew and Karen provide insights into the strategic use of influence and blackmail, comparing Diddy's case to other notorious figures like Jeffrey Epstein and R. Kelly. SHOWNOTES -No charges yet; potential expanded investigation forthcoming. -Suing politicians or celebrities risks scrutiny, safety. -Abusers target easy victims; legal systems complicate. -Questioning celebrity adoration and accountability in society. -Karen Conti: author, radio host, crime expert. CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Masterclass: Right now, our listeners get an additional 15% off any annual membership at https://masterclass.com/lisa. FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en LISTEN AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Masculinity is being challenged on all fronts by women, men, judges, and corporate cultures everywhere. In this episode, Justin Baldoni joins me to discuss his new book, Man Enough. We discuss the problems men are facing with finding acceptance among themselves and with their female partners to be more open and vulnerable. The issues facing men today reach beyond just masculinity and ego. It’s an issue affecting women as well. Justin dives into how we as women were raised hearing and being impacted by the same stereotypes on gender roles as men were. Whether you are married, dating, or raising a son, this episode will help you start a conversation around the challenges men are having with learning to be more empathetic and open. Order Justin Baldoni’s new book, Man Enough: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0063055597?tag=authorweb-20 [Original air date: 5-19-21]. SHOW NOTES: Being Human | Responding to error, having the bar set too low, and being empathetic [4:10] Masculinity | Justin unpacks masculine culture and dominance and how to end suffering [8:04] Power | Justin explains breaks down the zero-sum game of exerting power [12:26] Enough | Justin on why feeling enough means other’s success isn’t a threat [18:50] Socialized Women | Justin discusses the behaviors women are taught [22:25] Women Leaders | Justin highlights the disparity in how women are viewed in leadership [24:40] Open Men | When men risk vulnerability but his partner can’t handle it [28:11] Patriarchal Standards| How boys and girls raised desensitized to the same stereotypes [32:11] Traditions | Justin on why questioning is important and it’s not about right or wrong [38:05] Rightful Seat | Justin shares when your ego is tied to where you sit, move your seat [43:01] CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa OneSkin: Visit https://oneskin.co and use code LISA for 15% off to make your skin look, feel, and act younger with OneSkin!  Helix: Get 25% off and 2 FREE Dream Pillows with any CORE mattress purchase or get a FREE Bedding Bundle with any Luxe or Elite mattress at https://helixsleep.com/woi Follow Justin Baldoni: Twitter: https://twitter.com/justinbaldoni TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@justinbaldoni? Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/justinbaldoni Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/justinbaldoni/ FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en LISTEN AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Gabby Reece was declared one of the five most beautiful women in the world, and she could certainly have made a career out of modeling. But she decided that being pretty wasn’t exactly what she wanted to bring to the table. So she pursued what turned her on, volleyball, and eventually became one of the world’s most successful female athletes. On this episode of Women of Impact with Lisa Bilyeu, Gabby Reece talks about how hard it is to determine precisely what you want out of life, and how difficult it is to stay focused on getting it. But she also discusses learning to be vulnerable, shares stories about childhood, marriage and motherhood, and explains why she fulfills different roles in the home than she does in her career. Check out Gabby's new podcast: https://www.gabriellereece.com/category/the-gabby-reece-show/ [Original air date: 1/29/20]. SHOW NOTES: Gabby discusses leveraging her beauty to become more successful in athletics [2:50] Being pretty is not what Gabby wants to bring to the table [5:37] How do you balance being in the present with thinking about where you’ll be in the future? [7:37] Gabby talks about how hard it is to clearly define success and stay focused on it [9:20] Gabby shares the story of her childhood trauma and how she never fit in [11:30] Gabby discusses accepting what cannot be changed [13:19] “Input from your kids is like an ice pick to the eyeball.” [16:47] Gabby credits a lot of her success to fear [19:41] Nothing in life, even a 22-year long marriage, is guaranteed [22:09] Gabby tries to bring the athlete’s attitude of excellence to her relationships too [26:05] Gabby explains why she wants to be submissive in her home life [27:57] Real alpha males need to be compassionate and honorable [30:35] Lisa and Gabby discuss differences between women and men [35:30] Gabby talks about the need to figure out what you really want [40:05] Gabby discusses her attempts to become more vulnerable and more tender [42:22] You have to lose to win [44:54] Gabby shares her superpower [47:25] CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Found Banking: Sign up for Found for FREE today at https://found.com/lisa. Caraway: Visit https://carawayhome.com/woi  or use code WOI at checkout and get 10% off your next purchase! Masterclass: 15% off any annual membership at https://masterclass.com/lisa FOLLOW GABBY: WEBSITE: gabriellereece.com INSTAGRAM: https://bit.ly/38O3Wfd FACEBOOK: https://bit.ly/2t8xZz2 TWITTER: https://bit.ly/2Rv811Y FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en LISTEN AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nobel Peace Prize nominee Amanda Nguyen has achieved stunning success passing legislation to protect the civil rights of rape survivors. On this episode of Women of Impact with Lisa Bilyeu, Amanda Nguyen describes exactly what motivated her to take on the entire legal system and its double standards about sexual assault. Along the way, she describes the importance of radical empathy, details exactly how to stay centered on your own internal compass, and advocates just showing up and being present. [Original air date: 12-4-19]. SHOW NOTES: Amanda details the experience of going through a rape kit and its legal aftermath [3:36] Amanda describes being betrayed by the criminal justice system [6:32] Amanda asks why evidence from murder trials is never destroyed, but rape kits are [9:57] Outrage fueled Amanda, but it didn’t sustain her. Hope sustains movements. [11:22] What is the difference between referring to people as victims versus survivors? [14:31] The difference between having a dream and having hope is having a plan [15:28] Amanda describes her internal compass, her North Star [16:50] Amanda explains how incredible optimism and outrage helped her deal with politics [17:47] Amanda talks about radical empathy, clear objectives and staying grounded [20:14] Amanda advocates the importance of just showing up and being present [24:27] Amanda deals with pressure simply by reminding herself that it’s not about her [27:15] Amanda talks about having already had two heart surgeries [29:36] Other survivors have been inspired by Amanda’s organization Rise to advocate [33:40] Amanda describes the experience of being seen as nothing more than a victim [35:38] Amanda talks about believing in democracy and running an efficient campaign [36:51] Amanda shares her superpower [40:35] CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Found Banking: Sign up for Found for FREE today at https://found.com/lisa. Caraway: Visit https://carawayhome.com/woi  or use code WOI at checkout and get 10% off your next purchase! Masterclass: 15% off any annual membership at https://masterclass.com/lisa FOLLOW AMANDA: WEBSITE: https://www.risenow.us/ INSTAGRAM: https://bit.ly/2P5ZZdl FACEBOOK: https://bit.ly/34PeOYI TWITTER: https://bit.ly/2LdEKFh . FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en LISTEN AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome back to another episode of "Women of Impact!" In this riveting first half, host Lisa Bilyeu sits down with the profoundly insightful Afrika Brooke. They delve deep into the nuances of honesty and accountability in our relationships. Afrika shares her powerful reflections on defensiveness in relationships, emphasizing the difference between desired and embodied values. We'll hear from Lisa as she opens up about her own journey with her husband, Tom, detailing how they navigate giving each other permission to hold one another accountable without slipping into defensiveness. Afrika and Lisa discuss the impact of direct honesty, the importance of practicing honesty to avoid self-righteousness, and how addressing insecurities can lead to true alignment with one's goals. This part of the episode sets the stage for understanding how self-awareness and emotional intelligence play critical roles in personal growth and intimate connections. Get ready to uncover groundbreaking insights that will transform the way you communicate and relate to others around you. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Understand your fears before addressing patterns. 19:01 Environment shaped my hyper independence and feelings. 26:29 Fragmented identity led to decade-long alcohol struggle. 38:24 Resentments led to manipulation in relationships. 42:04 Shame and embarrassment hinder self-awareness. 53:39 Ownership interrupts conflict through personal responsibility. 01:01:45 Apologetic demeanor affects many, especially women. CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Found Banking: Sign up for Found for FREE today at https://found.com/lisa. Caraway: Visit https://carawayhome.com/woi  or use code WOI at checkout and get 10% off your next purchase! Masterclass: 15% off any annual membership at https://masterclass.com/lisa FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en LISTEN AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Fan Favorite: This episode originally aired on June 11, 2022. What up, homies! It's your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome back to the Women of Impact podcast, where we're all about empowering women to recognize their worth and set those necessary boundaries. Today, my special guest is the incredible therapist and boundaries expert, Nedra Tawwab. Guys, if you're finding yourself in relationships where you’re constantly questioning, compromising, or downright losing your mind trying to keep the peace, listen up. Nedra Tawwab is here to reveal the key signs of manipulation, specifically gaslighting, and how to navigate these toxic situations with strength and grace. We're diving into gaslighting – what it truly means, how to spot it, and most importantly, how to stand firm in your truth without apologizing just to keep the peace. This episode is a must-listen if you're ready to reclaim your power, set healthy boundaries, and thrive in every relationship. Prepare to take notes, because Nedra is dropping some serious wisdom bombs on transforming those damaging dynamics and empowering ourselves through practical and actionable steps. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Nedra on Self-Mistreatment & Choice 00:13 Deep Dive into Gaslighting 00:56 Recognizing Gaslighting in Relationships 01:50 The Reality Behind Gaslighting Tactics 03:02 Questioning Your Sanity vs. Gaslighting 03:53 Apologizing When It's Not Your Fault 05:02 Authentic vs. Peace-Keeping Apologies 07:19 Shifting from Aggression to Assertiveness 08:22 Immediate Steps to Take Control Today 09:00 Accepting Fault and Being Human 10:00 Work Towards Communicating Boundaries 12:05 Handling Accusations with Truth Perspective 14:00 Personal Narrative and Present Change 18:55 Identifying When You Need Boundaries 21:03 Handling Dismissive Responses 23:02 Expanding Your Communication Skills FOLLOW NEDRA TAWAAB: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nedratawwab/ Website: https://www.nedratawwab.com/ CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI  Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out.  Kettle & Fire: Get 20% off at https://kettleandfire.com/lisa with code LISA Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Netsuite: Download the CFO’s Guide to AI and Machine Learning at https://NetSuite.com/women ********************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS:  apple.co/womenofimpact ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome back to the second half of this illuminating episode of "Women of Impact!" The conversation with Afrika Brooke continues as she shares her deeply personal journey of overcoming fears rooted in childhood and how these experiences shape her current approach to brave, honest expression. Lisa and Afrika dive into actionable strategies for handling disrespectful behaviors, especially within family dynamics, and stress the importance of establishing firm boundaries. Listeners will gain valuable insights into the art of pausing and reflecting before reacting, maintaining integrity while being empathetic, and building confidence through consistent, truthful actions. Lisa and Afrika also explore the concept of self-betrayal, setting the stage for practical advice on navigating social pressure, groupthink, and developing effective communication skills both personally and professionally. Tune in to discover transformative strategies for asserting yourself and living authentically, no matter the situation. SHOWNOTES [00:00] Recap of Part 1 and diving into values alignment. [05:30] Honest communication: Balancing truth and relationships. [12:15] Navigating family dynamics and setting boundaries. [18:40] Groupthink and the courage to think independently. [23:50] Vulnerability: Building stronger relationships through honesty. [28:30] Closing thoughts: The ongoing journey of self-expression. CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Found Banking: Sign up for Found for FREE today at https://found.com/lisa. Caraway: Visit https://carawayhome.com/woi  or use code WOI at checkout and get 10% off your next purchase! Masterclass: 15% off any annual membership at https://masterclass.com/lisa FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en LISTEN AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Fan Favorite: This episode originally aired on July 20, 2022. What up, guys! I'm so freaking excited to bring you today's episode with a negotiation expert for women, Dr. Linda Babcock! She's a professor of economics, an insightful author, and an unyielding advocate for putting an end to dead-end work for women. Linda is fired up about showing women how to negotiate like a freaking pro for what they actually want. Whether it's negotiating a pay raise, figuring out holidays with the family, or building the relationship of your dreams, Linda's got us covered. If this conversation hits you right in the feels, please leave a review and subscribe to the podcast to let us know what resonated most with you. Honestly, it's the best way to support us and keep bringing conversations like these straight to your ear holes. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Introduction 00:51 Why Women Are Afraid to Ask 01:04 Double Standards in Negotiation 01:50 Pushback Women Face 02:18 Learned Behavior of Holding Back 02:48 Societal Perceptions of Ambition 03:30 Establishing and Breaking Fake Lines 04:16 Celebrating Assertive Women 04:50 Women Supporting Women 05:57 Advocating for Others vs. Self 06:36 Preparation for Negotiation 08:20 Mindset in Negotiation 10:07 Asking vs. Negotiating 11:20 Research and Preparation 13:04 Importance of "Why" 15:16 Impact of Not Negotiating Salary 18:03 Saying No Strategically 22:07 Deciding What to Say No To 26:28 Effective No Strategies 28:28 Traits in Negotiation 32:05 Navigating Double Standards 34:07 Exploring Negotiation Techniques 39:48 Handling Negotiations with Close Ones 44:47 Understanding Personal Triggers 46:45 Reviewing and Learning from Negotiations CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI  Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out.  Kettle & Fire: Get 20% off at https://kettleandfire.com/lisa with code LISA Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Netsuite: Download the CFO’s Guide to AI and Machine Learning at https://NetSuite.com/women FOLLOW LINDA BABCOCK: Website: https://thenoclub.com/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/thenoclub LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS:  apple.co/womenofimpact ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Do you have a tendency to easily feel guilt, shame, or self-blame over things that are sometimes just out of your control? Are you looking to shed yourself of this guilt and start living more openly, without constantly feeling like you are doing something wrong or owing someone an apology? On this episode of Women of Impact, Lisa Bilyeu is joined by eight incredible speakers including Amy Morin, Sanja Hatter, Lilian Garcia, Natalie Ellis, Beth Manos-Brickey, Jen Cohen, Heidi Powell, and Najwa Zebian as they share five key tips for you to overcome self-guilt, self-shame, self-blame, and feelings of selfishness. They discuss why you should never downplay your successes, why you have the power to choose your own journey in life, why you need to start letting shit go, how balance in life is key, and why it’s okay to desire good things for yourself. [Original air date: 12-23-20]. SHOW NOTES: Intro | Lisa opens today’s episode about dealing with guilt, shame, and feeling selfish. [0:04] Tip #1 | Amy Morin shares why you should never downplay your successes. [1:40] Thank You | Amy Morin reveals how to say thanks and take compliments. [3:36] Be Tasteful | Amy Morin reveals when and why it’s okay to share your successes. [4:23] Tip #2 | Sanja Hatter & Lilian Garcia reveal why you should choose your own journey. [6:16] Overcoming Guilt | Sanja Hatter & Lilian Garcia reveal how to not succumb to guilt. [9:17] Not Having Kids | Sanja Hatter & Lilian Garcia discuss guilt over not having kids. [11:30] Tip #3 | Natalie Ellis reveals why it’s you start letting shit go. [12:40 ] Self-Aware | Natalie Ellis reveals why it’s okay to not be everything at once. [14:03] Self-Worth | Natalie Ellis reveals how to not let guilt bring down your self-worth. [14:56] Tip #4 | Beth Manos-Brickey, Jen Cohen, & Heidi Powell discuss why balance is key. [16:54] Tip #5 | Najwa Zebian shares why you need to desire good things for yourself. [21:55] Happy | Najwa Zebian shares why you shouldn’t feel guilty if you’re not always happy. [24:36] CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Masterclass: Right now, our listeners get an additional 15% off any annual membership at https://masterclass.com/lisa. FOLLOW AMY: WEBSITE: https://bit.ly/2pubNgM INSTAGRAM: https://bit.ly/2CYvIre FACEBOOK: https://bit.ly/2KBbvMB TWITTER: https://bit.ly/35ex8tN FOLLOW SANJA WEBSITE: https://bit.ly/2H4Glut INSTAGRAM: https://bit.ly/2Lt1xiY FOLLOW LILIAN INSTAGRAM: https://bit.ly/2LtWXBk FACEBOOK: https://bit.ly/29nP1vn FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en LISTEN AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week’s guest on Women of Impact is An Deckers. After a childhood laced with sexual abuse, she married a money-laundering linchpin more than 14 years her senior. After finding her freedom, she started her own property management agency which now does millions of dollars in revenue. In this episode she talks about her experiences & how you can find your own freedom and live a life of authenticity. [Original air date: 5-15-19]. SHOWNOTES: How she was able to overcome her circumstances and never feel like a victim despite being in a difficult marriage [4:02] You can be anyone you want to be, you don’t have to carry around baggage [7:17] How she went from absolute luxury to “regular life” and learned the true meaning of happiness [8:13 How she overcame her childhood abuse by confronting her past [9:52] What An Deckers has done that’s given her the courage to speak out about her experiences [14:46 How she was able to stay true to herself despite entering so many different environments and why she never conformed to society’s standards [16:02] An Deckers personal experience entering a relationship with Lisa’s mom and how they opened up about their relationship to Lisa and her siblings [19:41] How An was able to separate her relationship of the past from her new relationship [21:37] Lisa’s opinions on the importance of intention in a relationship [23:41] The story about how An Deckers was convicted of her husband’s crime and how Lisa’s mom showed her support through it all [25:02] How An started her business even while she was being convicted of the crime [26:04] How An was able to make the leap into being an entrepreneur with just 90 days worth of money [28:27] Why starting a company didn’t seem like a big deal after An had gone through everything she had personally [30:49] What Lisa admires about An, and how An is disciplined enough to run her own business but is also able to choose when she doesn’t want to be disciplined [32:28] An says you should do one big goal per year that really scares you [36:26] An Deckers reveals her superpower [38:48] CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS: Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Found Banking: Sign up for Found for FREE today at https://found.com/lisa. Caraway: Visit https://carawayhome.com/woi  or use code WOI at checkout and get 10% off your next purchase! Masterclass: 15% off any annual membership at https://masterclass.com/lisa FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en LISTEN AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

From America’s Matriarch of Money herself, Suze Orman’s Women & Money podcast speaks directly to every mother, daughter, grandmother, sister, and wife — and the men who are smart enough to tune in. Join Suze Orman twice weekly for unmatched personal finance expertise, and receive powerful insights and actionable advice on investing, saving, and life. https://www.suzeorman.com/podcast And right now, literally millions of Americans definitely need those powerful insights and immediately actionable advice on money. So on this episode of Women of Impact with Lisa Bilyeu, Suze Orman details exactly what steps people need to take to gain control of their finances. She guides listeners on how to create new truths about money, how to deal with shame, anger and fear, and how to eventually reach the point where saving is more pleasurable than spending. [Original air date: 5/13/20]. SHOW NOTES: What do you do when you are confronted with the truth about your situation? [3:35] What is your truth right now? Are you fearful, ashamed or angry right now? [5:47] In order to overcome shame, you have to own the situation you find yourself in [7:15] The past is the past and it’s over. It’s only valuable as a tool to learn from. [10:30] Live below your means. Always ask, “is this a want or a need?” [13:00] How do you define the difference between a want and a need? [13:57] When do you buy what you need instead of what you can afford? [16:02] Suze explains how to get more pleasure out of saving than spending [17:37] Power attracts money. Powerlessness repels money. Never be a victim. [18:18] People spend more money than they realize they are spending [19:57] Ask yourself why you get more pleasure from spending than from saving? [22:35] Right now many people have an unprecedented opportunity to save money [24:32] Suze advocates not making big financial moves right now [27:31] Why don’t you do what you know you should do? [30:05] Suze says her superpower is that she knows her own thoughts, her own motives [31:02] How do you deal with a spouse who has different financial goals and values? [34:28] The first step you need to take is to create a new truth [36:37] CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS: Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Found Banking: Sign up for Found for FREE today at https://found.com/lisa. Caraway: Visit https://carawayhome.com/woi  or use code WOI at checkout and get 10% off your next purchase! Masterclass: 15% off any annual membership at https://masterclass.com/lisa FOLLOW SUZE: WEBSITE: https://www.suzeorman.com/podcast INSTAGRAM: https://bit.ly/2Wr3UX8 FACEBOOK: https://bit.ly/2LjHlNK TWITTER: https://bit.ly/2SWiHa0 FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en LISTEN AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It’s Lisa Bilyeu and on this episode of Women of Impact I've got the amazing Stephanie Okafor with me, and oh boy, are we diving deep and getting real! This episode is all about shaking up what you think you know about submission in relationships. It's not what you think—it’s about strength, respect, and being a total badass in your partnership. Stephanie gets raw and personal, sharing her journey and some seriously eye-opening biblical insights on what it really means to be vulnerable and respectful in love. We hash out why trust and transparency are crucial, how to tackle past traumas head-on, and the magic of truly understanding each other's love languages. SHOW NOTES 00:00 Intention in relationships shapes expectations and dynamics. 05:48 Defensive response to feeling overlooked and undervalued. 11:32 Understanding and trusting each other's leadership. 17:53 Respect boundaries, avoid infidelity, nurture healthy relationships. 21:22 Healthy conversations vital for understanding beyond social media. 31:35 Balancing work, home, and personal dreams. 33:13 Supporting men's struggle with career and identity. 39:41 Prioritize love for self and others. 42:45 Hiding secrets, open up for healing. 48:00 Realizing childhood trauma affects desire for children. 53:42 Understanding behavior enables honest communication in relationships. 01:03:31 Trust and communication are crucial in marriage. 01:09:22 Christian perspective on women's role in marriage. 01:14:12 Learning healthy marriage for women is crucial. 01:18:12 Behavior reflects beliefs; address unhealthy marriage issues. 01:22:48 Mother's advice on independence and love impact. 01:27:44 Women have the right to desire what they want, and should take care of themselves. 01:35:21 Planning to stay together, aging makes spouse attractive. 01:41:06 Embrace change and growth in relationships. 01:44:39 Understanding each other like a fire analogy. 01:49:42 Pregnant woman suffers, finds relief in dream. 01:53:08 Learn manipulative tactics or become empowered, choose now. SPONSORS: Go over right now and sign up for just one dollar a month with your trial period at https://Shopify.com/lisa Go to https://butcherbox.comNYBBS and use coupon code NYBBS and you can enjoy the choice of bone-in chicken thighs, top sirloin or salmon for absolutely free in every single box for an entire year plus you get $20 off.  Go to https://www.heytabu.com/discount/LISA15 use code LISA15 to save 15% off your order Get 5 free AG1 Travel Packs and a FREE 1 year supply of Vitamin D with your first purchase your first purchase by going to https://drinkAG1.com/lisa. Go to https://tryviome.com/LISA and use code LISA to get 20% off your first 3 months, and take control of your gut health today! ORDER YOUR COPY OF LISA'S BOOK "RADICAL CONFIDENCE"  (NOW IN PAPERBACK & WITH A NEW CHAPTER!) & GET YOUR FREE BADASS BONUSES: https://bit.ly/radcon Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome back to another compelling episode of Women of Impact! Today, we're diving deep into the world of personal boundaries, narcissistic family dynamics, and the power of self-preservation. Joining us is the insightful Terri Cole, an expert in boundaries and emotional intelligence. In this episode, our host Lisa Bilyeu opens up about her journey towards self-empowerment, particularly her desire to feel strong enough to leave a relationship in the event of infidelity. We'll explore the complexities of dealing with narcissistic mothers, the importance of setting and enforcing boundaries, and how to handle inappropriate or intrusive questions with confidence. Terri brings a wealth of strategies, from using humor to deflect provocations to preparing mentally for challenging family gatherings. She also emphasizes the significance of self-awareness, self-preservation, and the necessity of clear, open communication in maintaining healthy relationships. Whether you're struggling with boundary issues, dealing with a narcissistic parent, or looking for practical tips on maintaining your mental health, this episode is packed with valuable insights and actionable advice. Then, We'll dive deep into the art of setting boundaries with in-laws, the challenges of maintaining independence in a partnership, and the importance of clear communication. Whether you're dealing with toxic family members, navigating difficult in-law relationships, or simply striving for a healthier family dynamic, this episode is packed with valuable tips and powerful stories to inspire your journey. Tune in as we explore the delicate balance of maintaining personal authenticity and protecting your mental health amidst the complexities of family expectations and societal norms. It's a conversation you won't want to miss! SHOWNOTES Challenge invasive questions with "Why ask me that?" Strategically prepare to manage family gathering interactions. Setting boundaries takes time and practice. Understanding narcissistic mothers: It's a hidden struggle. Ineffective delegation leads to disordered boundaries. Betrayed friend's trust drops relationship level. Unwillingness to discuss toxic, narcissistic relationships. Stopped engaging due to unhealthy relationship dynamics. Overcame abuse; family reacted with disbelief, slander. Boundaries clash with cultural differences, acceptance needed. CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS: Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Found Banking: Sign up for Found for FREE today at https://found.com/lisa. Caraway: Visit https://carawayhome.com/woi  or use code WOI at checkout and get 10% off your next purchase! Masterclass: 15% off any annual membership at https://masterclass.com/lisa FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en LISTEN AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Life is going to knock you down. You are going to have setbacks. It’s almost certainly inevitable. Still, it’s on you, and you alone to push away the temptation to simply become a victim of life. Instead, you must rise above, stand tall, and continuously adapt as life throws you curveballs. On this episode of Women of Impact, Lisa Bilyeu is joined by author, reporter, host of the ‘Better Together’ podcast, and all-around badass Maria Menounos to discuss such matters and more as they explore how to overcome setbacks in life and why you need to find your voice, feel a sense of empowerment, and start putting yourself first. They discuss Maria’s incredible journey from entertainment reporter to overcoming a brain tumor, why you need to feel a sense of empowerment, the power of being open to every perspective, why hardship is a blessing, how Maria has re-defined her definition of success, why you need to live life on your own terms, the power of purpose, and much more. Listen to Maria’s all-new podcast, ‘Better Together with Maria Menounos’: mariamenounos.com  SHOW NOTES: Intro | Lisa opens today’s episode and welcomes today’s guest Maria Menounos. [0:30] Journey | Maria shares her incredible journey of discovering she had a brain tumor. [3:00] Learning | Maria reveals what she would have done differently when looking back. [9:06] Empowered | Maria reveals how to empower yourself to start speaking your mind. [13:36] Possibilities | Maria reveals why you have to think of every perspective possible. [20:56] Hardship | Maria reveals how she pushes through pain and overcomes challenges. [23:18] Success | Maria reveals why it’s okay to radically re-define your definition of success. [28:11] Living Your Way | Maria reveals why she decided live her life on her own terms. [33:08] Dreams | Maria shares how her dreams have evolved and shifted over time. [37:48] Purpose | Maria reveals the little things that led her to finding her purpose. [41:16] Connect | Maria reveals how to stay connected and follow her for more. [43:50]  Check out our Sponsors Cured Nutrition: Use coupon code IMPACT at checkout to save 15% off your order at https://www.curednutrition.com/?rfsn=4704338.94d141c FOLLOW LISA:  Instagram: https://bit.ly/2TIsoKh YouTube: https://bit.ly/2IAbTcH Podcast: https://spoti.fi/2IEajGW  FOLLOW MARIA:  Website: mariamenounos.com YouTube: youtube.com/mariamenounos Instagram: instagram.com/bettertogetherwithmaria Instagram: instagram.com/mariamenounos Facebook: facebook.com/MariaMenounos/ Twitter: twitter.com/mariamenounos Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact? Calling all Badasses!! If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be!  Women of EXTRA Impact Subscription Benefits: New episodes delivered ad-free Exclusive access to listen to Women of Impact round table discussions, weekly motivation, previously unreleased episodes, and more!  Subscriber-only access to an additional 4 podcasts with hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists, and updated weekly. Looking to boost your confidence? Check out the Get Confident playlist.  Want to repair and heal your relationships? Start with Love Lab.  Curious about your health? We’ve got you covered in Health Hub.  And of course, weekly boosts of mini-motivation from Lisa herself that'll have you strutting through life with your head held high on the Badass Boosts playlist  Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome back to another empowering episode of Women of Impact! I'm your host, Lisa Bilyeu, and today we'll dive deep into the art of setting boundaries with in-laws, the challenges of maintaining independence in a partnership, and the importance of clear communication. Whether you're dealing with toxic family members, navigating difficult in-law relationships, or simply striving for a healthier family dynamic, this episode is packed with valuable tips and powerful stories to inspire your journey. Tune in as we explore the delicate balance of maintaining personal authenticity and protecting your mental health amidst the complexities of family expectations and societal norms. It's a conversation you won't want to miss! SHOWNOTES 130:53 Family dynamics complicate boundaries; break generational patterns. 132:43 Avoid discussing food-related topics; set expectations. 142:07 Hold boundaries for self-worth and safety. 143:35 Setting boundaries can revoke undeserved privileges. 152:58 Boundaries have shifted; reevaluation is essential. 154:34 Attempt to set boundaries led to escalation. 101:01:06 Shifted mindset: openness, curiosity, self-assured communication. 101:04:51 Embracing change transforms difficult family dynamics. CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS: Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Found Banking: Sign up for Found for FREE today at https://found.com/lisa. Caraway: Visit https://carawayhome.com/woi  or use code WOI at checkout and get 10% off your next purchase! Masterclass: 15% off any annual membership at https://masterclass.com/lisa FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en LISTEN AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week’s Woman of Impact, Janelle Ginestra has already achieved international fame just as a dancer. In this episode of Women of Impact with Lisa Bilyeu, Janelle talks about loving your own body, and how to ignore negativity by focusing on your own journey. [Original air date: 12-30-20]. SHOW NOTES: Janelle needed intense, honest criticism to become a successful dancer [2:40] “Don’t ever let anyone make you feel inferior, insufficient, or not enough” [5:45] Janelle and Lisa discuss vulnerability and strength [07:50] Janelle explains how she deals with competition [12:37 ] Janelle talks about body image and diversity [18:30 ] Lisa and Janelle discuss her positivity how she lives her truth [24:18] Janelle explains how she avoids burnout [27:15] Janelle advocates a strongly pro-choice political position [29:29 ] Janelle lays out three keys to success [31:39] Janelle shares her superpower [32:55] CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Netsuite: Download the CFO’s Guide to AI and Machine Learning at https://netsuite.com/women Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa FOLLOW JANELLE: INSTAGRAM: https://bit.ly/31UeC99 FACEBOOK: https://bit.ly/2xcvmdL TWITTER: https://bit.ly/2Fw2xgO FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en LISTEN AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week’s guest on Women of Impact with Lisa Bilyeu is Dr. Zelena Montminy. Dr. Zelena is a wellness architect and the author of 21 Days to Resilience. In this episode, she talks about positive psychology, how to architect your best life, and how to maintain great emotional health no matter what you face in life. BUY 21 DAYS TO RESILIENCE: https://amzn.to/2SpioSc [Original air date: 2-27-19]. SHOW NOTES: Why we shouldn't focus on being happy [02:29] Are we approaching gratitude in the wrong way? [05:25] How to let go of the need to feel perfect [07:48] The first step to feeling good enough [09:28] Why challenges are actually great [13:22] How to detach yourself from your emotions and feel them at the same time [16:00] Why being able to pivot is essential [18:26] How kids train you to be flexible [19:54] The things you're probably doing that are destroying your kid's confidence [22:12] Why "balance" doesn't exist [27:53] How to find meaning in everything you do [29:35] Tactics to become more present [31:36] The connection between what we eat and how we feel [32:47] Why we all need to prioritize sleep [35:06] Is there a difference between being resilient and being unbreakable? [38:00] Why we all de-prioritize our mental health [39:03] How to celebrate failure [40:55] The biggest thing Zelana had to change to become resilient [44:22] CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Netsuite: Download the CFO’s Guide to AI and Machine Learning at https://netsuite.com/women Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa FOLLOW ZELANA: WEBSITE: https://bit.ly/2NznxXa INSTAGRAM: https://bit.ly/2TkEJF4 FACEBOOK: https://bit.ly/2H5dcRi FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en LISTEN AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome back to another enlightening episode of Women of Impact with your host, Lisa Bilyeu! Today, we are diving deep into the art and psychology of seduction with the legendary author of "The 48 Laws of Power," Robert Greene. In this episode, we'll uncover the intricate dynamics of seduction, exploring the strategic tactics and psychological nuances that have influenced relationships throughout history and into the digital age. Join us as Robert reveals the powerful concept of the "sublime" from his upcoming book, sharing insights inspired by his near-death experience. We’ll delve into the emotional complexities of love, the impact of social media on our fantasies, and the timeless dance of masculine and feminine energies in relationships. Lisa and Robert don’t shy away from controversial topics, touching on manipulative techniques like negging and isolation, while emphasizing the importance of authenticity and emotional intelligence. Get ready to challenge your perspectives, learn how to protect yourself from manipulation, and understand the deeper layers of attraction. SHOWNOTES Spotting dangerous signs in relationships for protection. Build trust by becoming their genuine friend. Trust your gut intuition and observe cues. Analyze interactions later to understand true intentions. Supportive community with occasional negative comments reflected. Authenticity is crucial; avoid insincere niceness. Beware of isolation tactics, stay vigilant. CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Netsuite: Download the CFO’s Guide to AI and Machine Learning at https://netsuite.com/women Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en LISTEN AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hello, homies! Lisa Bilyeu here! Have you ever dreamt of hitting a 100 years old and still remembering why you walked into the room? Or better yet, still be cracking jokes and doing pushups like it's nobody's business? Well, you're not alone! We're diving headfirst into brain health, exploring adult ADHD, and tackling the truth about how marijuana use has affected my brain health. Without a healthy brain, achieving our grandest goals, spotting narcissists, and dodging toxic relationships become a whole lot trickier. So, if you're ready to join me on this journey and start facing your own hard truths, hit that play button. “Genetics are the bullet but your lifestyle is the finger on the trigger” -Dr. Daniel Amen If tearing up the dance floor and not misplacing your car keys at a hundred (or now) sounds like your cup of tea, then this episode is for you! Don't forget to drop us a rating or review, and share your wild plans for your Golden Girl years. Check out Lisa’s Adult ADHD Diagnosis and Candid Conversation with Dr. Amen: https://youtu.be/DieG5aetBL0?si=eaDSzAet0mZjbj8R Go even deeper with Dr. Amen’s episode on Women of Impact sharing Why Women Are More At Risk for Alzheimer’s here: https://youtu.be/l-uDA24isO4?si=J4pkfBvH4zJQ0wtK  And hey, don't forget to join me on Instagram Live on Thursdays at 9 AM PST. Bring your questions, your comments, or just come to say hello! Can't wait to chat with you all. Enjoy the episode, homies! Follow Dr. Daniel Amen: Website: https://danielamenmd.com/  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@AmenClinic  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doc_amen/   Follow Me Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu SPONSORS: If you purchase an item using these affiliate links, Impact Theory may receive a commission. Try Audible FREE for 30 days! Just visit https://adbl.co/3TLkgrD or text woi to 500-500. Go to https://bit.ly/ZocDocLisa and download the Zocdoc app for FREE. Then find and book a top-rated doctor today. Post your job for free at https://bit.ly/LinkedinWOI. That’s https://bit.ly/LinkedinWOI to post your job for free. Terms and conditions apply. Give therapy a try, with BetterHelp! Visit https://bit.ly/BetterhelpWomen today to get 10% off your first month. ***Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact?*** Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP Calling all Badasses!! If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be!  *New episodes delivered ad-free *Exclusive access to listen to Women of Impact round table discussions, weekly motivation, previously unreleased episodes, and more!  *Subscriber-only access to an additional 4 podcasts with hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists, and updated weekly. *Looking to boost your confidence? Check out the Get Confident playlist.  *Want to repair and heal your relationships? Start with Love Lab.  *Curious about your health? We’ve got you covered in Health Hub.  *And of course, weekly boosts of mini-motivation from Lisa herself that'll have you strutting through life with your head held high on the Badass Boosts playlist  Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! *****Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP***** Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today is the day to go from underestimated to unstoppable. It’s time to learn how to turn your setbacks into set-ups for success. Now is the time to push through failure and obstacles holding you back to build the unstoppable self-belief you need. On this episode of Women of Impact, Lisa Bilyeu is joined by one of Forbes America’s Richest Self-Made Women, Jamie Kern Lima, and CEO of the BRNGroup, Dia Simms, two women behind billion-dollar brands with incredible success stories. They discuss why most female entrepreneurs fail and what to do when you keep failing, and you can’t get back up again. Jamie shares how she managed to take on big risks and pushed through no after no. They explore the one moment, Jamie doubted herself most, yet she decided to trust her gut, thus completely changed her business. Dia shares how she failed with her first company, but what she learned made her successful 15 years later. Jamie reveals why your setbacks are actually your set-ups for success and much more.   SHOW NOTES:  Lisa introduces today´s guests, two women behind billion-dollar brands. [00:04] Dia and Jamie share why most female entrepreneurs fail. [5:17] What to do when you keep failing, and you can´t get back up. [10:10] Why entrepreneurship is actually the safer road. [12:24] Jamie shares how she managed to take on big risks and pushed through “no” after “no.” [13:21] The one moment, Jamie doubted herself most, yet decided to trust her gut, thus completely changed her business. [19:04] Why success is about taking risks over and over again and how to do that. [21:17] Dia shares how she failed with her first company, but what she learned made her successful 15 years later. [23:16] Jamie reveals why your setbacks are actually your set-ups for success. [26:20] What you will be most proud of when you´re successful. (Not what you think.) [29:09] Lisa, Dia, and Jamie share what they still struggle with today. [30:00]   Check out our Sponsors Blinkist: Go to https://blinkist.com/woi Try it FREE for 7 days and save 25% off your new subscription. FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: https://bit.ly/2TIsoKh YouTube: https://bit.ly/2IAbTcH Podcast: https://spoti.fi/2IEajGW  FOLLOW JAMIE: Website: https://jamiekernlima.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jamie-kern-lima-35574a71/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/JamieKernLima Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JamieKernLimaPage/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jamiekernlima/  FOLLOW DIA: Website: https://www.diasimms.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/diasimms/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/diasimms?lang=de Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/diasimms/?hl=en Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact? Calling all Badasses!! If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be!  Women of EXTRA Impact Subscription Benefits: New episodes delivered ad-free Exclusive access to listen to Women of Impact round table discussions, weekly motivation, previously unreleased episodes, and more!  Subscriber-only access to an additional 4 podcasts with hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists, and updated weekly. Looking to boost your confidence? Check out the Get Confident playlist.  Want to repair and heal your relationships? Start with Love Lab.  Curious about your health? We’ve got you covered in Health Hub.  And of course, weekly boosts of mini-motivation from Lisa herself that'll have you strutting through life with your head held high on the Badass Boosts playlist  Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome back to another enlightening episode of Women of Impact with your host, Lisa Bilyeu! Today, we are diving deep into the art and psychology of seduction with the legendary author of "The 48 Laws of Power," Robert Greene. In this episode, we'll uncover the intricate dynamics of seduction, exploring the strategic tactics and psychological nuances that have influenced relationships throughout history and into the digital age. Join us as Robert reveals the powerful concept of the "sublime" from his upcoming book, sharing insights inspired by his near-death experience. We’ll delve into the emotional complexities of love, the impact of social media on our fantasies, and the timeless dance of masculine and feminine energies in relationships. Lisa and Robert don’t shy away from controversial topics, touching on manipulative techniques like negging and isolation, while emphasizing the importance of authenticity and emotional intelligence. Get ready to challenge your perspectives, learn how to protect yourself from manipulation, and understand the deeper layers of attraction. SHOWNOTES Interviewed 103-year-old author Noel post-accident. Seduction involves complex emotions of pleasure-pain. Show effort specific to her interests continually. Seduction: Women's ancient strategy to gain power. Women prioritize emotions over looks in attraction. Stardom's impact diminished due to technology. Exploring the sublime in our contracted world. Acknowledge mentor's impactful work; use knowledge responsibly. CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Netsuite: Download the CFO’s Guide to AI and Machine Learning at https://netsuite.com/women Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en LISTEN AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If you’ve been dealing with any kind of self-doubt or if you’ve ever stood eye to eye with yourself in the mirror and felt disappointed, disconnected or unworthy this interview is going to speak straight to your core. Mel is sharing the power she found in giving herself a simple high and why this simple gesture that packs so much meaning may be the catalyst you need to start connecting with yourself again and start dealing with the truths and pain we’ve all ran from at some time or another. Maybe you’re still running. If you are, sit down, catch your breath, and dare to see yourself in a new light today. Order Mel’s new book, The High 5 Habit: https://www.amazon.com/High-Habit-Take-Control-Simple-ebook/dp/B096JQSWQ6 [Original air date: 9-1-21]. SHOW NOTES: The Imposter | Mel exposes feeling like a total failure leading up to her Impact Theory interview High 5 Attitude | How Mel developed a high five attitude in the middle of perceived failure Pursue Dreams | What happens when something becomes so important to you, it takes over High 5 Habit | How Mel formed the high habit standing in her bathroom on a bad day Mirror Moments | Mel breaks down the power of taking a moment in the mirror in the mornings Celebration | Mel exposes how self validation and celebration is hard wired & not to be denied Put Yourself 1st | How to acknowledge your own existence by fulfilling your own needs R.A.S. | Mel explains the reticular activity system as a hair net and a filter you control Visualization | Mel breaks down why visualizing the suck part of the process is more effective Responsibility | Mel on how you are your own responsibility and that’s liberating power High 5 Your Heart | Mel breaks down why placing your hands on your heart helps anxiety Stop Running | How being busy is a distraction from the need to face yourself, slow down! Self Relationship | Mel on the importance of loving and respecting yourself first regardless Failing to Win | Mel gives the difference between loser mentality and winning mentality Look Forward | Mel shares why you have to look at the best days ahead not what past CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Shopify:  Sign up for a $1/month trial period at https://impacttheory.co/shopifyWOIseptpod  Factor Meals: Head to https://impacttheory.co/factorWOIsept24  and use code woi50 to get 50% off your first box plus 20% off your next month. Beam Minerals: Get every essential mineral your body needs with BEAM Minerals. Head to https://impacttheory.co/beamWOIseptpod and enter code “NYBBS” at checkout for 20% off your first order. FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en LISTEN AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It doesn’t matter what culture or social climate you were raised in, you come into adulthood, womanhood carrying the burden of social demands, pressure, and expectations that weigh heavily. Maybe you’ve never questioned the beliefs you have around how a woman acts, what true love looks like, or if being your true authentic self is even an option. Who is she? What does she like? How does she feel about herself, marriage, or children? In this episode, Lisa is joined by the NYT bestselling author and clinical psychologist, Dr. Shefali. The conversation gets super real and right to the heart of breaking down belief systems that are keeping you trapped so you can rethink and discern beliefs that are uniquely empowering for you as an individual woman. Order Dr. Shefali’s book, A Radical Awakening: https://www.aradicalawakening.com/ [Original air date: 5-12-21]. SHOW NOTES: Belief System | Dr. Shefali on how beliefs restrain you from discovering who you are [2:35] Love Debunked | The idea and agenda of love as an idea that comes with expectations [5:16] Motherhood | Dr. Shefali explores Lisa’s backlash deciding to not have children [11:25] Motherhood Pressure | Dr. Shefali debunks mothers just identifying through their child [17:41] Authentic Life | Dr. Shefali explains and Lisa punctuates discerning life on your terms [23:19] Beauty & Youth | Dr. Shefali breaks down positive & negative of the standard of beauty [26:30] Feeding Insecurities | The problem with tying self-worth to the physical & being powerful [36:45] Niceness | Dr. Shefali debunks being nice and embracing the bitch and authenticity [41:17] True Essence | Dr. Shefali reveals your true essence is not destructible, false self hurts [45:20] Toxic Femininity | When good qualities of femininity is extreme and excessive [47:29] CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS OneSkin: Get 15% off with the code LISA at https://oneskin.co Helix: Get 25% off ALL mattresses and 2 free eco-rest pillows at https://impacttheory.co/HelixWOIDec Follow Dr. Shefali: Website: https://www.drshefali.com/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/drshefali Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrShefaliTsabary Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doctorshefali/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCKzsU94h-PkLBiF5xHo-SjQ FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en LISTEN AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sometimes it’s not about the marriage or the kids, or anyone else. Sometimes you go all out and are in it to win just for you. Fun fact, there are 114% more women entrepreneurs now than there were 20 years ago (source). In this episode two successful badass women entrepreneurs discuss purpose, life, taking pause from everything to reconnect with yourself and listening to your gut. A woman’s journey is never easy, but Camila Alves McConaughey opens up about the fulfillment, the rejection, the pain and the success she’s found along the way following her intuition. She and Lisa jump right in to get real, get vulnerable and get practical about what it takes to start successful businesses and balance marriage and kids. [Original air date: 4-21-21]. SHOW NOTES: Business Journey | Camila recounts rejections and obstacles starting Yummy Spoonfuls [1:17] Purpose | Knowing when to leave and understanding the purpose of your business & self [5:32] Family Effort | Camila explains the importance of involving the family with business plans [9:03] Seasons of Life | Picking the right path for the season and knowing your priorities [15:07] Take Pause | Not getting lost in the journey and quieting the negative voices [20:58] Evolving | Growing with the journey and having new goals as we reassess [24:35] Ask Questions | Camila on how to ask yourself questions and find answers and therapy [26:34] Time for You | Giving yourself time to reconnect to you and find your adventure [31:17] Intuition | Camila and Lisa discuss going with intuition & listening to you gut responsibly [34:47] CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS OneSkin: Get 15% off with the code LISA at https://oneskin.co Helix: Get 25% off ALL mattresses and 2 free eco-rest pillows at https://impacttheory.co/HelixWOIDec FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en LISTEN AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In Part 1 of this fascinating episode, Lisa Bilyeu interviews Jonna Mendez, the former CIA Chief of Disguise, to uncover the fundamental principles of deception and resilience. From disguises that save lives to trusting your instincts, Jonna shares invaluable insights into how women can navigate trust, manipulation, and danger. What can a former CIA Chief of Disguise teach you about spotting deception and staying safe? Jonna Mendez reveals the tools and strategies she used in the field to protect lives—and how you can apply them to protect yourself. In this episode, discover why body language matters, how to trust your instincts, and what it takes to remain unassuming and resilient in any situation. SHOWNOTES [00:03:16] – Introducing Jonna Mendez and her groundbreaking career. [00:09:56] – How Jonna empowered women through her work at the CIA. [00:18:08] – The duality of deception: Helping versus harming. [00:20:56] – How body language and cultural cues reveal hidden truths. [00:27:27] – Creating disguises that save lives and confuse enemies. [00:31:43] – The risks of oversharing personal information. [00:40:24] – Women in the CIA: Challenges, advantages, and societal perceptions. [00:44:00] – Jonna’s unforgettable moment: Fooling President George H.W. Bush with a disguise. CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS OneSkin: Get 15% off with the code LISA at https://oneskin.co Helix: Get 25% off ALL mattresses and 2 free eco-rest pillows at https://impacttheory.co/HelixWOIDec FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en LISTEN AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome back to part 2 of this FIREEEEE conversation with the amazingggg psychotherapist and best selling author, Lori Gottlieb. And she’s not holding back as we talk more about how to stop dating the wrong men and:  Why you need to understand the difference between compatibility and having things in common How the misconstrued idea of feminism is setting women up for failed relationships How dating changes for women as we age  What green flags and red flags to look for when learning about someone new  And so much more!! Trust me, homie, you don’t want to miss out on the final part of this convo with Lori!! And if you're loving Women of Impact, please take a moment to leave us a review or rate the show. Your feedback is incredibly valuable! Follow Lori Gottlieb: Website: https://lorigottlieb.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lorigottlieb_author/ Podcast: https://lorigottlieb.com/podcast/ Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu  Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement SPONSORS: Go over right now and sign up for just one dollar a month with your trial period at https://Shopify.com/lisa Go to https://lumen.me and use code NYBBS to get $50 off your Lumen.  Head to https://www.beamminerals.com and enter code “NYBBS” at checkout for 20% off your first order Use the promo code WOMANOFIMPACT at checkout to save 20% on your annual license, Go to https://www.heytabu.com/discount/LISA15 use code LISA15 to save 15% off your order Get 5 free AG1 Travel Packs and a FREE 1 year supply of Vitamin D with your first purchase your first purchase by going to https://drinkAG1.com/lisa. Go to https://tryviome.com/LISA and use code LISA to get 20% off your first 3 months, and take control of your gut health today! ORDER YOUR COPY OF LISA'S BOOK "RADICAL CONFIDENCE"  (NOW IN PAPERBACK & WITH A NEW CHAPTER!) & GET YOUR FREE BADASS BONUSES: https://bit.ly/radcon ***CALLING ALL BADASSES!*** If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be!  *New episodes delivered ad-free, EXCLUSIVE access to hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, and so much more!* Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! *****Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP***** Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Why do we stay in bad relationships? If you find yourself in one bad relationship after another, it could be a sign that you’d rather be with anyone than be on your own. Many people become complacent and settle for less than they deserve just because they like the idea of having someone. But how do you know if you are settling for less than you deserve? On this episode of Women of Impact, Lisa Bilyeu is joined by Certified Life & Relationship Coach, Speaker, & Bestselling Author Stephan Labossiere, a.k.a Stephan Speaks. They explore three common reasons why most women settle for an unfulfilling relationship. Stephan explains the bad advice that makes most people stay in relationships they don´t belong in. Furthermore, Stephan shares the fundamentals that every successful relationship needs and why a connection isn´t built, how to know whether you’re listening to your fear or intuition. He explains why couples lose attraction and how to recreate attraction if you feel it´s gone and what to do if your partner has changed in a negative way and how to differentiate tough times with when it’s time to break up with your partner. [Original air date: 3-17-21]. SHOW NOTES: Three common reasons why most women settle for an unfulfilling relationship. [00:20] Why Lisa stayed with her ex-boyfriend before she met Tom. [1:41] This lousy advice makes most people stay in relationships they don´t belong in. [2:01] The fundamentals that every successful relationship needs. [3:29] Why connection can´t be built, and even a great connection is not enough for a successful relationship. [11:23] How to know whether you’re listening to your fear or intuition. [14:30] Why analyzing everything is sabotaging your relationship. [15:51] This is what kills most relationships and the three things you have to learn to build a successful relationship. [17:20] Why couples lose attraction and how to recreate attraction if you feel it´s gone. [21:59] What to do if your partner has changed negatively. [29:10] How to differentiate tough times with when it´s time to break up with your partner. [34:45] This mindset is the reason for Lisa´s long-lasting, happy relationship with Tom. [36:59] Implement this communication habit to keep your relationship on track. [38:48] Why being authentic from the beginning is essential for a lasting relationship. [41:25] Stephan shares how to connect with him. [43:30] CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Caraway: Visit https://www.carawayhome.com/WOI or use code WOI at checkout and get 10% off you your next purchase OneSkin: Visit https://oneskin.co and use code LISA for 15% off to make your skin look, feel, and act younger with OneSkin! FOLLOW STEPHAN: Website: https://www.stephanspeaksshop.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/RelationshipExpert1 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephanspeaks/ FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en LISTEN AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On this episode of Women of Impact, Lisa Bilyeu is joined by award-winning fitness instructor, entrepreneur, and creator of ‘Blogilates’ Cassey Ho to discuss such matters and more as they explore why it’s critical you silence your inner negative-voice and begin to treat yourself with love, acceptance, and grace everyday, no matter your weight or size. They discuss the importance of being your true self, why you should love yourself unconditionally, how to end your negative thoughts, the four stages of your relationship with the scale, how to approach health, how to stop hating yourself and start loving yourself instead, the rules you need to set for yourself, why grace is important in growth, and the key steps you can take to get started today. [Original air date: 1-20-21]. SHOW NOTES: Intro | Lisa opens today’s episode and welcomes today’s guest, Cassey Ho. [0:47] Transformation | Cassey shares her realization that she wasn’t being truly herself. [3:02] Be Kinder | Cassey reveals why you need to be kinder to yourself. [6:05] Change | Cassey shares how you can start to break your negative thoughts. [6:41] Be You | Cassey shares why you should never let others dictate your decisions. [9:09] The Scale | Cassey shares the four relationships you have with the scale. [11:21] Health | Cassey reveals why you can’t go overboard and disregard your health. [16:01] Stopping | Cassey shares the time when she had to stop a workout YouTube video. [18:12] Love Yourself | Cassey shares how to love your body while still pushing yourself. [20:26] Journey | Cassey shares her journey to being physically and mentally healthy. [24:10] Rules | Cassey shares why you should create a flexible structure for yourself. [25:35] Adapt | Cassey shares why it’s okay to have setbacks on your journey forward. [27:18] Slipping Back | Cassey shares how to avoid fluctuating and reverting back. [28:25] Confidence | Cassey shares how accomplishing your goals builds confidence. [30:46] Comparing | Cassey shares why you shouldn’t negatively compare yourself to others. [32:31] Grace | Cassey reveals why you should give yourself grace to slip from time to time. [36:25] Get Started | Cassey reveals what you need to get started on your fitness journey. [40:28] Connect | Cassey shares how you can continue to follow and workout with her. [41:58] FOLLOW CASSEY: Website: blogilates.com YouTube: youtube.com/user/blogilates Instagram: instagram.com/blogilates Facebook: facebook.com/blogilates/ Twitter: twitter.com/blogilates LinkedIn:... FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en LISTEN AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

So, you’re up early, get the kids ready (or not), grab a coffee and you’re running out the door to start another- busy day. The problem is everyday is a busy day, and the reality is that a majority of women (and men too) never feel like there are enough hours in the day. This leads to more stress and more anxiety. Add to all this the fact that in 2020 it was estimated the average person was spending almost 2 and a half hours on social media every day. This would be okay, except that Dr. Wendy Suzki points out that continuous exposure to news and social media is contributing heavily to anxiety and stress. According to Dr. Wendy, there are healthy levels of stress you need in your life, and there are detrimental levels of stress and anxiety that do you no favors. So how do you cope with all the added stress? Avoid it? Pretend it’s not a thing, or even worse, spiral out of control ? There are free, simple, very portable and easy ways to effectively lower levels of “everyday stress and anxiety.” Dr. Wendy Suzuki is a Neuroscientist and Psychology professor that brings movement, joy and fun into brain science. This episode is best listened to before your next anxious situation or immediately after if it’s too late. Order Dr. Wendy’s new book, Good Anxiety, Harnessing the Power of The Most Misunderstood Emotion: https://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/1982170735?tag=simonsayscom [Original air date: 9-15-21]. SHOW NOTES: Value of Anxiety | Dr. Wendy on why anxiety is a protective emotion that is really valuable [0:41] Identify Anxiety | Dr. Wendy explains how anxiety shows up and useful tips to calm down [4:30] Self-Reflection | How to productively reflect on your anxiety to rebalance with positivity [8:40] Connection to Smell | Dr. Wendy explains why smell is so effective conditioning memory [10:51] Foolish Reframing | Why calling failure a failure is healthier than pretending you don’t [17:10] ‘What If’ Playlist | Dr. Wendy explains how to turn worry into action with a positive effect [25:44] Social Stress| Being prepared for social situations and the danger loneliness is shocking [29:32] Get Moving | Dr. Wendy on power of movement with verbal information you can do now [34:45] 5 Points in Anxiety | 5 points to help emotionally regulate and get out of anxiety [36:24] Change Responses | Dr. Wendy explains why your brain is capable of change for better [39:42] Power Reminders | What you remind yourself matters and your brain can learn anything [41:44] Follow Dr. Wendy Suzuki: Website: https://www.wendysuzuki.com/ FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en LISTEN AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Lisa Bilyeu sits down with three extraordinary women—Sahara Rose, Ashley Stahl, and Emily Hayden—for a special round table on transformation, identity, and goal-setting. They share real, raw stories of overcoming life’s hardest challenges and actionable advice for setting—and keeping—goals that create lasting change. What’s the difference between those who set goals and quit by February and those who actually transform their lives? In this special edition of Women of Impact, Lisa Bilyeu is joined by Sahara Rose, Ashley Stahl, and Emily Hayden to uncover the truth about growth, change, and discipline. From shifting identities to dealing with judgment, these women share their stories of struggle, resilience, and success. If you’re tired of failing your goals year after year, this conversation will help you reset, stay motivated, and evolve into the person you were meant to be. SHOWNOTES [00:03:16] – Lisa sets up the conversation: Why New Year’s resolutions fail and how to transform. [00:05:09] – Emily Hayden on the power of discipline and knowing your “why.” [00:08:46] – How to forgive yourself and bounce back after setbacks. [00:09:36] – Ashley Stahl on finding clarity: “Clarity comes from engagement, not thought.” [00:14:39] – Sahara Rose: Why identity traps us and how to break free. [00:18:12] – Emily on leaving judgment behind after personal transformation. [00:23:30] – Sahara: Evolving your personal brand and embracing change authentically. [00:27:52] – Overcoming regrets and reframing past “mistakes” as lessons. [00:31:07] – Life is an experiment: How to take bold steps without fear of failure. [00:37:02] – Sahara’s advice: Trust your intuition and learn to listen to whispers. [00:46:00] – Building confidence: How small wins and momentum create lasting change. [00:52:14] – Final tips for keeping your goals alive beyond the New Year CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS OneSkin: Get 15% off with the code LISA at https://oneskin.co  Masterclass: MasterClass always has great offers during the holidays, sometimes up to as much as 50% off. Head over to https://masterclass.com/lisa for the current offer Found Banking: Sign up for Found for FREE today at https://found.com/lisa  FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en LISTEN AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to another amazing episode of Women of Impact! I’m Lisa Bilyeu and today we’re tackling how to deal with narcissists in all sorts of situations, from the workplace and professional settings, to family, friendships and romantic partners.  The amazing world renowned psychologist and narcissist expert Dr. Ramani is back and she’s got even more wisdom to share from her 20+ years of experience studying narcissists and working with narcissistic abuse survivors.  With sooo much love and compassion, Dr. Ramani is giving us the advice we need, but might not WANT to hear when it comes to THAT narcissist in our lives.  In Part 1, we’re going deep into: - Why you MUST DISENGAGE with the narcissist when they are playing the victim - How “soul distancing” can protect your well-being when the narcissist is gaslighting and invalidating you - The counter-intuitive way to take your power back & ending a narcissistic relationship  - Why you WANT to explain & defend yourself to the narcissist, but NEVER, EVER should - & SOOOO much more!!!  Let’s be real guys, we’ll all have to face a narcissist at some point or another, and this episode will arm you with the strategies you need to come out of each encounter without losing yourself.  Be sure to order your copy of Dr. Ramani's new book, “It’s Not You” here: https://a.co/d/7qYmF0f Follow Dr. Ramani: Website: https://doctor-ramani.com/  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DoctorRamani Order “It’s Not You”: https://a.co/d/7qYmF0f Follow Me Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu  Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement SPONSORS: If you purchase an item using these affiliate links, Impact Theory may receive a commission. Try Audible FREE for 30 days! Just visit https://audible.com/woi or text woi to 500-500. This episode is sponsored by Betterhelp. Give online therapy a try at https://betterhelp.com/women and get on your way to being your best self! Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa now to grow your business–no matter what stage you’re in. Get a free 30-day Alo Moves subscription by going to https://alomoves.com and use code WOI.  Right now, download NetSuite’s popular KPI Checklist, designed to give you consistently excellent performance - absolutely free, at https://NetSuite.com/WOMEN. Go to https://tryviome.com/LISA and use code LISA to get 20% off your first 3 months, and take control of your gut health today! Try AG1 and get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase by going to https://drinkAG1.com/lisa. ***CALLING ALL BADASSES!*** If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be!  *New episodes delivered ad-free, EXCLUSIVE access to hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, and so much more!* Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! *****Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP***** Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How often have you spent time with people you love only to feel frustrated and misunderstood? As humans we are all so complex in our network of feelings and emotions. Unfortunately, we’ve been raised thinking that negative emotions are bad and should be shunned. Many of us are barely holding it together, or are spiraling out of control because we don’t know how to handle the feelings that are leaving us totally overwhelmed. Lori Gottlieb, a psychotherapist and author joins me and breaks down why we don’t have to run away from those taboo feelings of envy and jealousy. She explains how to communicate better and hold space for your partner or children and allow them to just be heard. This episode is packed with so much you may have to listen a second time. SHOW NOTES: Unreliable Narrator | Why your perspective isn’t the full story, it’s a faulty narrative [0:19] Unknow Yourself | Lori helping people unknow the stories they keep repeating [1:32] Insight | Lori explains why insight without action is useless [3:58] Idiot Compassion | Lori breaks down what this is and why it doesn’t help [5:05] Relationship Filter | Lori’s questions for examining people around you [6:45] Change | Lori on why change is difficult because of uncertainty and loss [8:17] 5 Steps | 5 stages of change to making a permanent change in your life [9:08] Change Anxiety | Getting through unfamiliar territory & anxiety with change [12:39] Choosing to Suffer | Lori on why we don’t choose pain but we choose to suffer [14:06] Numb the Pain | Distracting yourself from pain feeling overwhelmed [15:34] Feeling Compass | Lori on using feelings as a compass to know what you want [17:13] Negative Feelings | Why the way you deal with negative feelings matters most [19:28] Setting Intention | Lori on setting yourself up for a better day with confidence [22:55] Transformation | Lori shares why tiny steps are so important in change [26:35] Future Loss | Lori explains how change collapses the future & holds us back [32:18] Unfinished Business | How cycles repeat when we don’t address past issues [35:30] Selection | Lori confirms why selection is so important for healthy relationship [39:48] Childhood Wounds | Lori on why you have to give up hope for better childhood [41:53] Vulnerability | When someone opens up and how to navigate what they need [45:05 ] Understand | Why people need to be understood and heard, ask what they need [47:21] CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS OneSkin: Get 15% off with the code LISA at https://oneskin.co  Masterclass: MasterClass always has great offers during the holidays, sometimes up to as much as 50% off. Head over to https://masterclass.com/lisa for the current offer Found Banking: Sign up for Found for FREE today at https://found.com/lisa  FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en LISTEN AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

SPONSORS: If you purchase an item using these affiliate links, Impact Theory may receive a commission. Try Audible FREE for 30 days! Just visit https://adbl.co/3TLkgrD or text woi to 500-500. Go to https://bit.ly/ZocDocLisa and download the Zocdoc app for FREE. Then find and book a top-rated doctor today. Post your job for free at https://bit.ly/LinkedinWOI. That’s https://bit.ly/LinkedinWOI to post your job for free. Terms and conditions apply. Give therapy a try, with BetterHelp! Visit https://bit.ly/BetterhelpWomen today to get 10% off your first month. Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact? Calling all Badasses!! If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be!  Women of EXTRA Impact Subscription Benefits: New episodes delivered ad-free Exclusive access to listen to Women of Impact round table discussions, weekly motivation, previously unreleased episodes, and more!  Subscriber-only access to an additional 4 podcasts with hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists, and updated weekly. Looking to boost your confidence? Check out the Get Confident playlist.  Want to repair and heal your relationships? Start with Love Lab.  Curious about your health? We’ve got you covered in Health Hub.  And of course, weekly boosts of mini-motivation from Lisa herself that'll have you strutting through life with your head held high on the Badass Boosts playlist  Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Do you struggle to say no when others demand or expect something from you? Do you fold under pressure, constantly apologize, and have a fear of disappointing others? On this episode of Women of Impact, Lisa Bilyeu is joined by therapist, content creator, and author Nedra Glover Tawwab to discuss such matters and more as they explore ways you can begin to set powerful and clear boundaries in your life while still maintaining healthy, loving relationships. They discuss how to acknowledge the boundaries you need to set, how to shift the language you use to put you in control of situations, how to handle conflicting boundaries within your relationships, why you need to take ownership over your choices, how to handle disrespect, the power of being clear, why you need to stop apologizing, how to maintain boundaries after setting them, and much more. Pre-Order Nedra’s book, ‘Set Boundaries, Find Peace’: amazon.com/dp/0593192095/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_6LXdGbMN7FMVF [Original air date: 1-27-21]. SHOW NOTES: Recognize | Nedra reveals why you need to recognize when you’re being manipulated. [5:51] Language | Nedra reveals why you need to develop the language you use. [8:23] Boundaries | Nedra reveals how to deal with conflicting boundaries in your relationships. [9:13] Fine Line | Nedra discusses why you need to set boundaries with others within yourself. [11:57] Choices | Nedra reveals how you can take ownership over the relationships in your life. [14:06] Empower | Nedra discusses the empowerment within recognizing you have the choice. [21:26] Lifestyle | Nedra reveals how you can build your lifestyle around empowering yourself. [23:42] Fear | Nedra reveals why you need to get over the fear of disappointing others. [30:03] Don’t Apologize | Nedra reveals how to avoid apologizing when you shouldn’t be. [33:20] Restate | Nedra shares how to keep boundaries in tact with your relationships. [38:20] Co-Dependency | Nedra shares how boundaries are healthy in your relationship. [41:26] FOLLOW NEDRA: Website: nedratawwab.com Instagram: instagram.com/nedratawwab Facebook: facebook.com/nedratawwab/ CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Shopify:  Sign up for a $1/month trial period at https://impacttheory.co/shopifyWOIseptpod  Factor Meals: Head to https://impacttheory.co/factorWOIsept24  and use code woi50 to get 50% off your first box plus 20% off your next month. Beam Minerals: Get every essential mineral your body needs with BEAM Minerals. Head to https://impacttheory.co/beamWOIseptpod and enter code “NYBBS” at checkout for 20% off your first order. FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en LISTEN AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It’s been said that more than 90% of people never achieve their goals. A big part of women and men failing their goals ties into fear of failing and being too scared to even dream of better. Lisa is experienced at handling multi-million dollar companies, leading teams, creating content that makes the world a better place, and becoming a bestselling author. In this Q&A, Lisa is sharing exactly how she prioritizes her goals and what you can do to create a toolbox that will help you stay the course and accomplish what you set out to achieve. [Original air date: 12-29-21]. SHOW NOTES: Goal Setting | Lisa on how motivation impacts achieving your goal [0:26] Transform Your Life | How to undertake a complete life transformation and prioritize [8:03] Steps to Your Goal | Lisa breaks down exact steps to achieving massive goals [14:53] Stick to Your Goal | How to stick with your game plan and if it’s time to change goals [20:26] Time Management | Lisa’s strategy for managing time and prioritizing all that she does [22:30] Setup for Success | Making sure that you’re able to get back up after failing a goal [35:03] Your Own Hero | Lisa reveals why not have family support doesn’t stop your goals [37:25] CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa OneSkin: Visit https://oneskin.co and use code LISA for 15% off to make your skin look, feel, and act younger with OneSkin!  Helix: Get 25% off and 2 FREE Dream Pillows with any CORE mattress purchase or get a FREE Bedding Bundle with any Luxe or Elite mattress at https://helixsleep.com/woi FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en LISTEN AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It’s Lisa Bilyeu with another episode of Women of Impact and today we’re talking about something that more than 90% of women have – and that’s massive regret on their deathbed! From not standing up for yourself, to never finding love, or allowing fear to hold you back, I want YOU to stop blaming yourself and stop wishing things could be different so you can get out of regret and live a more happy and fulfilling life!   And here with us to talk about overcoming regrets and living a well-lived life is the AMAZING and frikin’ INSPIRING Gladys McGarey. She’s a doctor that is widely considered the “mother of holistic medicine” and the now-103 year old is sharing her life-changing secrets for how to live with joy, happiness, and purpose at ANY age.  From growing up in India, to life as a doctor and mother of 6, to being served divorce papers after almost 50 years of marriage, Gladys has soooo many inspiring stories and actionable insights to help you listen to your inner voice so you can build your confidence and live life on your own frikin’ terms!  In this episode, we’re diving into: - How to stand up for yourself in life, so you can find your voice (hopefully earlier than Gladys did at 93!) - Why you should BE GLAD and forgive instead of holding onto pain - How you have to stop looking at the mess if you want to be happy - The unbelievable power of living life in love and letting go - How to honor yourself, your feelings, and your differences and LOVE YOUR DAMN SELF!!  Don’t let regrets be an excuse to NOT live a great life! YOU get to choose what you build your life on, so trust your intuition, and listen to Gladys and her 103 years of wisdom to reclaim your life NOW!   Follow Gladys McGarey: Website: https://gladysmcgarey.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/begladmd/ Order Your Copy of “The Well-Lived Life”: https://www.porchlightbooks.com/product/well-lived-life-a-102-year-old-doctors-six-secrets-to-health-and-happiness-at-every-age--mcgarey-gladys/isbn/9781668014493 Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu  Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement SPONSORS: If you purchase an item using these affiliate links, Impact Theory may receive a commission. Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa now to grow your business–no matter what stage you’re in. Visit http://betterhelp.com/WOMEN today to get 10% off your first month. Post your job for free at https://linkedIn.com/LISA.   Try AG1 and get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase by going to https://drinkAG1.com/lisa. Go to https://tryviome.com/LISA and use code LISA to get 20% off your first 3 months, and take control of your gut health today! ***CALLING ALL BADASSES!*** If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be!  *New episodes delivered ad-free, EXCLUSIVE access to hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, and so much more!* Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! *****Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP***** Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you currently on or considering a plant-based diet? Have you been convinced that animal protein and eating meat is detrimental and a danger to your health? You would be surprised to know these current narratives being spun around in the medical community are simply wrong and are, in fact, the real danger to your health. On this episode of Women of Impact, Lisa Bilyeu is joined by Dr. Gabrielle Lyon to discuss such matters and more as they explore how the trending narratives in the medical community are leading you astray, aren’t rooted in true medical data, and may be jeopardizing your health longterm. They discuss why red meat is something you should have in your diet, why most medical studies get healthy diets wrong, the pitfalls in a vegetarian diet, what optimal eating looks like, why protein is powerful for achieving great health, why your goal should be to optimize your health and body composition, the differences between plant and animal protein, and how you can start to eating healthier for longevity. [Original air date: 1-6-21]. SHOW NOTES: Intro | Lisa opens today’s episode about food shaming and welcomes Dr. Lyon. [0:54] Red Meat | Dr. Lyon reveals the one thing you can do to optimize your health. [4:13] What’s Factual | Dr. Lyon discusses why some groups refuse to listen to true data. [8:56] Vegetarian | Dr. Lyon reveals how she got sick from being a vegetarian. [14:01] Optimal | Dr. Lyon reveals the exact diet she recommends for optimal health. [16:30] Body Composition | Dr. Lyon reveals why you need enough muscle. [20:24] Plant vs Meat | Dr. Lyon reveals the key differences between protein types. [23:10] Younger | Dr. Lyon reveals why most vegetarians and vegans are young. [25:20] Longevity | Dr. Lyon reveals what she concluded from seeing people live unhealthily. [28:03] Obesity | Dr. Lyon reveals why we’ve been focusing on the wrong thing. [31:03] Feeling | Dr. Lyon reveals how to be in tune with your health and how you feel. [37:39] Success | Dr. Lyon reveals what success looks like to her on this journey to educate. [40:45] Connect | Dr. Lyon shares how you can connect with her to learn more. [42:12] FOLLOW DR. LYON: Website: drgabriellelyon.com Instagram: instagram.com/drgabriellelyon Facebook: facebook.com/doctorgabriellelyon Twitter: twitter.com/drgabriellelyon FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en LISTEN AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It’s Lisa Bilyeu and I’m soooo frikin’ excited to share this episode of Women of Impact with you today!! Today’s guest has been singing about “GIRL POWER” since the 90s, but secretly dealt with abuse in her toxic marriage for 10 YEARS. She tried to leave SO MANY TIMES but kept going back to him and the vicious cycle of abuse before she finally got her power to leave, once and for all!!  It’s the inspiring, cheat-print-wearing, the one and only “Scary Spice” of the Spice Girls, Mel B!!    She is getting so real and honest about how she finally escaped the abuse FOR GOOD and took back her power AND how now she’s helping spread the word and support the strong, amazing abuse survivors allllll around the world.  Mel is here to help us spot the warning signs and GET OUT of toxic relationships before it's too late.   We cover soooo much in this interview, including:    - Why the abuser is SO GOOD at hunting you down & controlling you  - How abuse slowly sneaks up on you and why IT’S NOT YOUR FAULT   - The 15 signs of what abuse looks like - Why it’s SO HARD to break the abuse cycle and how 1 promise Mel made actually helped her to leave FOR GOOD - The 2 words Mel has for ANYONE stuck in an abusive relationship - How shame and guilt will keep you trapped & hiding the toxic parts of your relationship - How to deal with the 2 questions you will be asked again and again after you stop hiding the abuse and leave  - Why you should ALWAYS listen to your gut intuition So homies, listen to Mel B and don’t let your shame, guilt, and denial keep you abused, used, and trapped in misery!!! It’s time to stand up and take your GIRL POWER back and never let someone take it from you again!!!  Follow Mel B: Website: https://www.womensaid.org.uk/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/officialmelb Get Your Copy of “Brutally Honest”: https://geni.us/brutallyhonestpb Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu  Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement SPONSORS: If you purchase an item using these affiliate links, Impact Theory may receive a commission. Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa now to grow your business–no matter what stage you’re in. Visit http://betterhelp.com/WOMEN today to get 10% off your first month. Post your job for free at https://linkedin.com/LISA  Sign up at https://lastbottlewines.com, use code LISA, and find out why Last Bottle is the most fun way to discover and buy amazing wine. Head over to https://cozyearth.com and use promo code LISA to save an exclusive 35% off.  Try AG1 and get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase by going to https://drinkAG1.com/lisa. Go to https://tryviome.com/LISA and use code LISA to get 20% off your first 3 months, and take control of your gut health today! ***CALLING ALL BADASSES!*** If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be!  *New episodes delivered ad-free, EXCLUSIVE access to hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, and so much more!* Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! *****Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP***** Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If you’re not sure what to look out for, or you think your partner’s behaviors are a bit questionable, then today’s episode is going to reveal all the red flags and warnings of toxic unhealthy relationships you’ll want to avoid as early as possible. [Original air date: 4-14-21]. SHOW NOTES: Identifying Flags | Know difference between toxic behavior and not being the right match [0:28] The Facade | Get past the representative to avoid a commitment to the wrong person [3:56] Narcissist Trap | When you’ve been disregarded 3 times staying is devaluing yourself [9:45] Lack Empathy | If your partner is not showing empathy it could signal a narcissistic trait [12:19] Unbalanced Effort | Acknowledge the gap, their intentions, and if the gap is reduced [14:54] Self Righteousness | Watch out for rigid people that thinks they’re right and knows better [19:48] Misaligned Values | Not aligned and lacking a mutual respect for the other perspective [20:55] Jumping Conclusions | Not attributing the absolute worst intention to behaviors [28:40] No Boundaries | A partner tries to set boundaries over your boundaries to stop you [30:58] Weaponized Insecurities | Using trusted information against a partner is broke trust [33:48] Broken Trust | Don’t live in fear of trusting others, trust in yourself [35:13] Matthew Hussey is a dating expert on ABC’s What To Text Him Back, columnist for Cosmopolitan Magazine and NY Times Bestselling author. He is a specialist in human attraction and relationship-coaching all over the world. Spirit is the owner and clinical director of her mental health group practice T2S Enterprises. She is also the host of Love Goals on the Oprah Winfrey Network. Dr. Ramani is a licensed clinical psychologist, best-selling author, professor, speaker and more. She is the go to expert on narcissism devoted to demystifying toxic narcissistic relationships. Evy Poumpouras is a former U.S. Secret Service Special Agent turned TV personality, host and multimedia journalist that authored the book, Becoming Bulletproof. Nedra Glover Tawwab is a therapist, content creator and author. Her book, Set Boundaries, Find Peace dives deep into healthy boundaries and how to say no. Tom Bilyeu is co-founder of Impact Theory along with his wife, Lisa Bilyeu. His mission is to pull people out of the matrix at scale through mindset FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en LISTEN AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you tired of feeling lost with no purpose? Most people wake up one day and realize they have no idea what they should do with their lives. But what would happen if you allow yourself to trust your gut and step into your true authentic self? On this episode of Women of Impact, Lisa Bilyeu is joined by Former National Spokesperson, #1 Best Selling Personal Finance Author and Speaker & Money Maven of the Steve Harvey Morning Show, Patrice Washington. They explore why “Follow your passion and the money will come” is BS and what to do instead to create wealth. Patrice shares why more stuff will never fill the void and what´s necessary to embrace purpose and fulfillment. Patrice shares how her career skyrocketed after she accepted herself. They discuss why it´s okay to piss other people off to be successful and much more.  Pre-order Patrice´s book “Redefine Wealth for Yourself, How to Stop Chasing Money and Finally Live Your Life's Purpose” https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08RSNZQ7M?ref_=pe_3052080_276849420  [Original air date: 3-10-21]. SHOW NOTES:  Why “Follow your passion and the money will come” is BS and what to do instead to create wealth. [1:22] Why you´re confused and feel like something is missing even when you read all the books. [3:58] How to build passion around the things you´re good at even when your natural gifts are unsexy. [6:34] The story about how Lisa first met Patrice and why Lisa was shocked when Patrice started to speak. [10:24] How Patrice threw away her suits, started to live into her authentic self, and why the reaction that followed made her cry. [13:40] Why you shouldn´t leave room for a plan B and go all-in when you make a real decision. [15:00] Why it´s okay to piss other people off to be successful. [16:20] How Patrice transformed from being insecure to badass self-esteem with the first pillar of her book. [17:47] The confident practices Patrice still does to this day. [21:00] What is Patrice´s first responsibility, and what does she prioritize in her life above everything else. [26:40] Why Patrice turned down interviews with huge platforms that would´ve brought in lots of sales. [29:00] The pillar of faith that helped Patrice through the most challenging times when her child died. [33:34] Why even when you feel miserable right now, you´re exactly on the right way. [43:18] How to know if it´s just a roadblock or if something isn´t for you. [45:26] Why you shouldn´t give up even when you feel like nothing is working. [49:00] Patrice shares how to connect with her. [52:27]   CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Caraway: Visit https://www.carawayhome.com/WOI or use code WOI at checkout and get 10% off you your next purchase OneSkin: Visit https://oneskin.co and use code LISA for 15% off to make your skin look, feel, and act younger with OneSkin! FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en LISTEN AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hey guys, Lisa here! If you didn’t already know, I am super frikin excited to share that I’m writing a book! To be the FIRST to get sneak peeks about my book and other exclusive content go to: http://lisabilyeu.com/ and be sure to sign up for my newsletter. Do you ever feel that fear holds you back? Do you want to get better at dealing with fear? On this episode of Women of Impact with Lisa Bilyeu, seven extraordinary women detail exactly how to learn to take risks, turn fear into an ally, and trust your intuition more. Listen as Liz Arch, Cynthia Pasquella-Garcia, Monica Berg, Amy Emmerich, Radhi Shetty, Marissa Orr and Amanda Bucci describe the ways that they have learned to face down, overcome and sometimes even befriend their fears. [ORIGINAL AIR DATE: 10-9-19]. SHOW NOTES: Liz Arch describes the two ways that you can deal with and experience fear [1:23] Liz explains how to regulate the nervous system to turn fear into an ally [3:16] Cynthia Pasquella-Garcia talks about tracing your fear back to the source [4:56] Monica Berg discusses the importance of listening to your intuition [7:15] Lisa and Monica discuss learning to deal with shame and trust your intuition [8:38] Amy Emmerich advocates focusing on excitement in the midst of fear [10:26] Radhi Shetty advocates writing down the craziest, worst things you fear [12:16] Marissa Orr discusses facing down fears of leaving a “normal” life [14:28] Amanda Bucci advocates self-awareness and taking risk [20:11] FOLLOW: FOLLOW LISA: https://bit.ly/2PjcS28 FOLLOW LIZ: https://bit.ly/2MpNW9k FOLLOW CYNTHIA: https://bit.ly/2Xf7aTJ FOLLOW MONICA: https://bit.ly/2OrEyVy FOLLOW AMY: https://bit.ly/2USyfuU FOLLOW RADHI: https://bit.ly/2AQybmF FOLLOW MARISSA: https://bit.ly/2LTWlTu FOLLOW AMANDA: https://bit.ly/33d1bB6 CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI  Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out.  Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi  Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS:  apple.co/womenofimpact FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

After suffering a series of devastating personal losses, Amy Morin was faced with a choice. She could have hope or she could wallow in self-pity. And as a psychotherapist, she worked with many people who faced the same choice. She noticed what separated those who are mentally strong, and now she dedicates herself to helping other people build their mental strength. On this episode of Women of Impact with Lisa Bilyeu, Amy Morin explains how to deal with guilt, self-doubt and self-blame, describes how complaining and venting actually damage us, and gives tons of detailed, concrete, constructive advice on building mental strength. SHOW NOTES: Amy explains how she dealt with her loved ones dying [3:46] Amy describes the difference between healthy grief and unhealthy self-pity [6:03] When you are sad in a healthy way you still have hope [7:23] Mentally strong people don’t give away their power [8:30] Just because you think something doesn’t make it true [10:20] Amy and Lisa discuss vulnerability and facing your fears [11:29] Amy discusses the difference between secrecy and privacy [13:57] Amy explains how to deal with self-doubt [15:10] Amy describes toxic self-blame and apologizing [17:13] Lisa and Amy discuss that guilt can be irrational just like any emotion [18:30] Amy discusses how to deal with things that you cannot control [20:35] “There’s this huge misconception that venting makes us feel better” [23:10] Amy explains why you should set boundaries instead of complaining [24:45] Amy advocates changing your own behavior instead of having angry confrontations [25:59] Don’t downplay your success [28:53] How to say thank you [30:24] It’s OK to be proud of the successes you’ve had [32:20] Amy advocates looking at people as opinion-holders, not competitors [33:15] Amy explains the difference between upwards and downwards comparison [34:50] Amy advocates setting aside a specific time to worry [37:48] Parents should not take responsibility for their kids’ emotions [40:13] Parents also should never lose sight of their own values [42:51] Amy shares her superpower [44:48] FOLLOW AMY: WEBSITE: https://bit.ly/2pubNgM INSTAGRAM: https://bit.ly/2CYvIre FACEBOOK: https://bit.ly/2KBbvMB TWITTER: https://bit.ly/35ex8tN FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en LISTEN AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

There are so many things that happen in life against our will. Traumatic experiences that were 100% out of your control still leave you feeling like you’re somehow to blame. The weight of that guilt and shame can bury your hopes, your dreams, and any chance you have for a better life, if you allow it. Bozoma Saint John is not just a highly respected, award winning, Hall of Famer Marketing Executive that has been at the head of marketing for big companies like Netflix, Uber and Apple. “Badass” Boz is a survivor that has overcome loss and trauma at multiple stages of life. She decided to share her story and her lessons in her book, The Urgent Life. This is the episode you’ll want to take a seat for. Woman to woman, no one wants to experience not even one of her losses, and yet she shares how she experienced, processed, and moved through it each time to become the most powerful version of herself standing, and this is apart from the most insanely successful career she’s had so far. Check out Bad Boz’s book, The Urgent Life: https://www.amazon.com/Urgent-Life-Story-Love-Survival/dp/0593300173 Follow Bozoma Saint John: Website: https://www.bozomasaintjohn.com/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/badassboz Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/badassboz/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SaintBoz Women of Impact Podcast is sponsored by Growthday Network: https://growthday.com/podcasts Check out my FREE 4-Part Confidence Workshop! - https://bit.ly/3fZcbO5 Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact? Calling all Badasses!! If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be!  Women of EXTRA Impact Subscription Benefits: New episodes delivered ad-free Exclusive access to listen to Women of Impact round table discussions, weekly motivation, previously unreleased episodes, and more!  Subscriber-only access to an additional 4 podcasts with hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists, and updated weekly. Looking to boost your confidence? Check out the Get Confident playlist.  Want to repair and heal your relationships? Start with Love Lab.  Curious about your health? We’ve got you covered in Health Hub.  And of course, weekly boosts of mini-motivation from Lisa herself that'll have you strutting through life with your head held high on the Badass Boosts playlist  Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Fan Favorite: This episode originally aired on April 7, 2021. What up, homies! It's your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome back to the Women of Impact podcast, where we delve into the deep and powerful conversations that can change your life. Today, I'm beyond excited to chat with the brilliant and inspiring love therapist, Jordan Green! If you've ever found yourself questioning your worth or wondering if you're enough, especially in the realms of relationships, you're in the right place. Jordan Green, a licensed therapist, life coach, and speaker with a heart dedicated to mental wellness and creating healthy, loving relationships, joins us to explore the natural human need for validation and how it impacts us all. We're diving deep into the nuances of seeking validation. It’s not just about needing approval—it's about understanding what makes us feel seen, heard, and valued. In today's episode, Jordan breaks down how we can balance validating ourselves while also embracing the validation that naturally comes from our relationships. We tackle the tough stuff like criticism, contempt, stonewalling, and defensiveness, showing you how to build a relationship that thrives. So grab your journal and pen, because Jordan is here to equip us with actionable steps to strengthen how we see ourselves and transform our relationships. It's packed with insights you can start applying today! SHOWNOTES 00:00 Introduction to Validation 00:12 Relationship Challenges and Validation 00:58 Needing to Be Seen and Valued 01:48 Welcome Jordan Green 02:44 Discovering Personal Strengths 03:31 Building Self-Esteem Before Relationships 03:57 Self-Affirmations and Love Letters 04:26 Courage and Self-Love 04:48 Balancing Self-Worth and Relationship Dynamics 05:35 Importance of Validation in Relationships 06:16 Understanding Need for Validation 06:59 Addressing Self-Esteem Issues 07:41 External vs. Internal Validation 08:18 Keeping Balance in Relationships 08:50 Interdependence in Relationships 09:37 Communication Styles and Relationship Predictions 13:18 Importance of Positive Interactions FOLLOW JORDAN GREEN: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thelovetherapist/ Website: https://jordanandrea.com CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI  Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out.  SKIMS: Check out the Fits Everybody Collection at https://www.skims.com/woi  #skimspartner  Kettle & Fire: Get 20% off at https://kettleandfire.com/lisa with code LISA Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi  Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa NPR Fresh Air: Tune into Fresh Air from NPR to hear some of the most insightful interviews anywhere—wherever you get your podcasts. LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS:  apple.co/womenofimpact ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Aileen Xu, creator of Lavendaire, describes herself as an “artist of life.” She helps people design their dream life and embody their best self. And she knows all about how difficult the process can be, given that she had to embrace her own creativity over the objections of a family that desperately wanted her to pursue a conventional life of middle-class success. On this episode of Women of Impact with Lisa Bilyeu, Aileen Xu explains how to find your passion if you haven’t discovered it, how to deal with other peoples’ criticisms and negativity, and how to rewrite the negative voices in your own head so that they become more compassionate and empowering. [ORIGINAL AIR DATE: 7-9-21]. SHOW NOTES: Aileen talks about parental expectations in an immigrant family [2:18] Aileen describes the tension between wanting to be creative and her family’s desires [5:50] You have to tell yourself you’re a pro before you become one [11:06] How to rewrite the voices in your head so that the self-criticism ends [12:38] People are mirrors and only projecting their own insecurities onto you [15:03] Follow your curiosity if you don’t know what your passion is yet [16:59] Aileen explains why she decided to not pursue singing and music [18:44] Done is better than perfect. [21:17] You are never too old to take the first step towards your ideal life [24:09] Aileen shares her superpower [25:28] Aileen talks about the lessons she learned from COVID-19 [25:59] FOLLOW AILEEN: WEBSITE: https://www.lavendaire.com INSTAGRAM: instagram.com/lavendaire FACEBOOK: facebook.com/Lavendaire/ TWITTER: twitter.com/lavendaire LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS:  apple.co/womenofimpact FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On Today's Episode: Are you struggling to balance your ambitious goals with your love life? Pursuing your goals without neglecting your partner can be challenging. That´s why in this episode of Relationship Theory, Lisa and Tom Bilyeu sit down and share how to pursue ambitious goals without neglecting each other. After watching this episode, you’ll know how to communicate being ambitious to your partner. You’ll learn how Tom makes sure Lisa doesn’t feel neglected while he’s chasing big goals. Lisa shares the fundamental question she asks herself that helps her not feeling neglected and much more. SHOW NOTES: How to communicate being ambitious to your partner. [1:01] This is how Tom makes sure Lisa doesn´t feel neglected while he´s chasing big goals. [2:02] The fundamental question Lisa asks herself to stop feeling neglected. [2:31] Why it´s okay to do something for your partner to make yourself feel good. [4:00] Warning signs that you´re in a dysfunctional relationship. [5:30] FOLLOW TOM: Instagram: http://bit.ly/2s9lU90 YouTube: http://bit.ly/2KWanAC Podcast: https://spoti.fi/2xEloFL FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://bit.ly/2TIsoKh YouTube: https://bit.ly/2IAbTcH Podcast: https://spoti.fi/2IEajGW0 Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact? Calling all Badasses!! If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be!  Women of EXTRA Impact Subscription Benefits: New episodes delivered ad-free Exclusive access to listen to Women of Impact round table discussions, weekly motivation, previously unreleased episodes, and more!  Subscriber-only access to an additional 4 podcasts with hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists, and updated weekly. Looking to boost your confidence? Check out the Get Confident playlist.  Want to repair and heal your relationships? Start with Love Lab.  Curious about your health? We’ve got you covered in Health Hub.  And of course, weekly boosts of mini-motivation from Lisa herself that'll have you strutting through life with your head held high on the Badass Boosts playlist  Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

As humans our desire to be liked and accepted by others is part of the human experience. We are social by nature, so caring what others think about us is something we all experience on some level, but it can feel like kryptonite when you care too much. When it starts affecting our self-esteem, our self-worth, our confidence and our ability to show up, it becomes a problem we need to deal with. In this episode, Lisa introduces the tactics and strategies she uses and reveals how to turn your kryptonite into a superpower that leaves you in charge with your empathy intact.  SHOW NOTES:  Beating Yourself Up | Lisa’s tip for catching yourself and asking ‘what’s the lesson?’ [2:18] Social Anxiety | Lisa shares tips socially awkward situations and having a plan [4:54] People Pleaser | Lisa reframes the problem & defines the main issue with people pleasing [9:56] Inner Critic | Lisa explains why caring isn’t a problem but listening to your gut is crucial [17:32] Caring for Others | Lisa reveals why boundaries and self-care are needed [25:21]  Check out our Sponsors Blinkist: Go to https://blinkist.com/woi Try it FREE for 7 days and save 25% off your new subscription. Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact? Calling all Badasses!! If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be!  Women of EXTRA Impact Subscription Benefits: New episodes delivered ad-free Exclusive access to listen to Women of Impact round table discussions, weekly motivation, previously unreleased episodes, and more!  Subscriber-only access to an additional 4 podcasts with hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists, and updated weekly. Looking to boost your confidence? Check out the Get Confident playlist.  Want to repair and heal your relationships? Start with Love Lab.  Curious about your health? We’ve got you covered in Health Hub.  And of course, weekly boosts of mini-motivation from Lisa herself that'll have you strutting through life with your head held high on the Badass Boosts playlist  Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week’s guest on Women of Impact with Lisa Bilyeu is Sophie Keller. Sophie Keller is a happiness and well being expert, the author of a collection of books on happiness and relationships, and also the founder of the Village Workspaces. She is also a spokesperson for a number of Fortune 500 companies. In this episode, she talks about how to maintain a relationship by being self aware and the secrets of long-term well being. [ORIGINAL AIR DATE: 3-27-19]. Check out Village Workspaces: https://www.villageworkspaces.com/ SHOW NOTES Why all of Sophie's books start with a quiz [02:19] The reason anger is a health problem [03:29] Why "the now" is all that matters [06:26] How to identify and change your internal thoughts [09:13] How Sophie used feng shui to bring harmony to her life [11:11] The importance of having an awesome workplace [12:46] Why making an impact doesn't have to be a huge endeavor [13:57] What types of people are you attracting? [16:10] How to create harmony within yourself [18:45] Why you'll never get a "perfect" partner [19:58] How to tell if your partner is right for you early on [21:29] Why you can't have any doubts about the person you're marrying [22:53] Should your partner come before your children? [25:01] How to work well with your partner [27:29] CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI  Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out.  Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi  Kettle & Fire: Get 20% off your first order at https://kettleandfire.com/lisa with code LISA FOLLOW SOPHIE WEBSITE: https://bit.ly/2OqEOSA TWITTER: https://bit.ly/2CENgsC ********************************************************************** Listening to Women of Impact on Amazon Music is about as easy as it gets. You can listen on the app, which is super freaking easy to navigate, or you can just ask my homie, Alexa. it's that simple. So if you're ready, my homie, to be a freaking badass, then listen and follow Women of Impact on Amazon Music.  ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Fan Favorite: This episode originally aired on February 3, 2021. Do you struggle with self doubt and a habit of putting yourself down right as you’re getting started on a new path? Do you tell yourself things like “I’m not good enough,” “I’ll never meet their expectations,” or “What’s the point of even trying?” It’s time to silence that negative inner voice for good and start walking on a path towards empowerment, encouragement, and letting your true self shine. On this episode of Women of Impact, Lisa Bilyeu answers your questions about how to overcome these negative inner voices and stomp out self rejection and doubt. She discusses how to own your true self, why you need to speak to yourself with encouraging language, how to not let others dictate your decisions, how to start valuing yourself, and how to set expectations that serve you in life. SHOW NOTES: Intro | Lisa opens today’s episode about overcoming self doubt and self rejection. [0:20] Being You | Lisa reveals how to block out your self doubt and own your true self. [1:09] Build Yourself Up | Lisa reveals the power of using encouraging language with yourself. [7:16] Keep Showing Up | Lisa shares how to stop others from dictating your decisions. [11:22] You’re Valuable | Lisa reveals the importance of building a foundation of valuing yourself. [19:15] Expectations | Lisa reveals how to have expectations that serve you in life. [26:36] LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS:  apple.co/womenofimpact FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

[Original air date: 11-18-17]. Today, we're discussing how to keep your relationship strong through the holiday season! FOLLOW LISA: Lisa’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Women of Impact Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/womenofimpact/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en FOLLOW TOM: Tom’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tombilyeu/ Impact Theory Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impacttheory/ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@tombilyeu?lang=en Tom’s Twitter: https://twitter.com/tombilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TomBilyeu SPONSORS: If you purchase an item using these affiliate links, Impact Theory may receive a commission. Try Audible FREE for 30 days! Just visit https://adbl.co/3TLkgrD or text woi to 500-500. Go to https://bit.ly/ZocDocLisa and download the Zocdoc app for FREE. Then find and book a top-rated doctor today. Post your job for free at https://bit.ly/LinkedinWOI. That’s https://bit.ly/LinkedinWOI to post your job for free. Terms and conditions apply. Give therapy a try, with BetterHelp! Visit https://bit.ly/BetterhelpWomen today to get 10% off your first month. ***Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact?*** Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP Calling all Badasses!! If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be!  *New episodes delivered ad-free *Exclusive access to listen to Women of Impact round table discussions, weekly motivation, previously unreleased episodes, and more!  *Subscriber-only access to an additional 4 podcasts with hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists, and updated weekly. *Looking to boost your confidence? Check out the Get Confident playlist.  *Want to repair and heal your relationships? Start with Love Lab.  *Curious about your health? We’ve got you covered in Health Hub.  *And of course, weekly boosts of mini-motivation from Lisa herself that'll have you strutting through life with your head held high on the Badass Boosts playlist  Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! *****Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP***** Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Fan Favorite: This episode originally aired on May 5, 2021. As humans our desire to be liked and accepted by others is part of the human experience. We are social by nature, so caring what others think about us is something we all experience on some level, but it can feel like kryptonite when you care too much. When it starts affecting our self-esteem, our self-worth, our confidence and our ability to show up, it becomes a problem we need to deal with. In this episode, Lisa introduces the tactics and strategies she uses and reveals how to turn your kryptonite into a superpower that leaves you in charge with your empathy intact. SHOW NOTES: Beating Yourself Up | Lisa’s tip for catching yourself and asking ‘what’s the lesson?’ [2:18] Social Anxiety | Lisa shares tips socially awkward situations and having a plan [4:54] People Pleaser | Lisa reframes the problem & defines the main issue with people pleasing [9:56] Inner Critic | Lisa explains why caring isn’t a problem but listening to your gut is crucial [17:32] Caring for Others | Lisa reveals why boundaries and self-care are needed [25:21] CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI  Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out.  Kettle & Fire: Get 20% off at https://kettleandfire.com/lisa with code LISA Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Netsuite: Download the CFO’s Guide to AI and Machine Learning at https://NetSuite.com/women ********************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS:  apple.co/womenofimpact ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You’ve probably heard “it’s not how you start, but how you finish” and as cliche as it has become, it is such a powerful statement. Just because life starts out rough and harsh doesn’t mean it remains that way. Vanessa Lachey is a wife, mother, actress, model, and so much more and yet having her mother leave at the age of nine has not held her back. She shares with Lisa the perspective she’s developed over the years that has lead to her success and the release of her first book, Life from Scratch. Vanessa wants everyone to know that “creating your own happy ending,” traditions and happiness is always possible and within reach. If a life of shame and darkness or a string of failures and mistakes make it difficult to see how, she urges you to simply start with a time when you were your happiest and recreate from there. [ORIGINAL AIR DATE: 12-1-21]. CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI  Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out.  Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi  Kettle & Fire: Get 20% off your first order at https://kettleandfire.com/lisa with code LISA To Purchase a Copy Vanessa’s book ‘Life From Scratch’: https://www.harpercollins.com/pages/lifefromscratch SHOW NOTES: New Tradition | Vanessa explains how she found her way to start a life from scratch [0:46] No Regrets | Why living a life with no regrets started with knowing what you want [5:18] Friend Traditions | Nurturing bonds with friends being intentional to stay connected [9:02] Romantic Traditions | Making sure you don’t let important moments pass by big or small [13:15] Saying No | How to say no to stress and anxiety to make room for what matters no guilt [16:21] Self Care | Vanessa on what self care is for her to feel refreshed and better for others [19:36] Communicating | How communication helped strengthen Vanessa’s family and marriage [23:41] Future Rehearsal | Reframing mistakes, reshape the future, be prepared for what’s next [26:32] ********************************************************************** Listening to Women of Impact on Amazon Music is about as easy as it gets. You can listen on the app, which is super freaking easy to navigate, or you can just ask my homie, Alexa. it's that simple. So if you're ready, my homie, to be a freaking badass, then listen and follow Women of Impact on Amazon Music.  ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Social media is famous for spite and drama, but it has also transformed people’s lives and allowed whole communities to be built around common interests. On this episode of Women of Impact, social media titans iJustine, Cassey Ho and Lisa Bilyeu discuss the opportunities and dangers of today’s internet. This elite panel tackles the foremost issues of the social media age, including body image, the difference between spite and constructive criticism, and how to tell when you are sharing too much online. [ORIGINAL AIR DATE: 8-7-19]. SHOW NOTES: The panel talks about how they dealt with their first negative comment [5:30] How do you know the difference between constructive criticism and spite? [9:06] The panel talks about how to know when you are sharing too much [11:24] The panel discusses how to deal with social media being fueled by drama [14:50] The panel describes the responsibility they feel they have [18:15] The panel talks about how social media has positively changed their lives [21:34] The panel discusses how much you can learn on the internet [25:13] Do you choose to use social media for good or for bad? [26:08] Cassey explains why the “Perfect Body” video was healing for her [27:43] The panel advocates using empathy and kindness [29:05] Each member of the panel defines the best and worst thing about social media [31:11] Cassey and iJustine share their superpower [32:45] FOLLOW CASSEY: Website: http://www.blogilates.com Instagram: http://bit.ly/2M3tM7u Facebook: http://bit.ly/2GOKbbE Twitter: http://bit.ly/2OIipEl Youtube: http://bit.ly/2yIKpww FOLLOW IJUSTINE: Website: http://www.ijustine.com Instagram: http://bit.ly/2YA5g4N Facebook: http://bit.ly/2OGNfwZ Twitter: http://bit.ly/2Kvsuin Youtube: http://bit.ly/2ZCDS2r CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS: Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI  Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out.  Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi  OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co  NetSuite: Download the CFO’s Guide to AI and Machine Learning at https://NetSuite.com/women LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS:  apple.co/womenofimpact FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome back to part 2 of this amazing episode of Women of Impact with my girl Rahdi Devlukia-Shetty with more practical tips to help you prepare for the moments when you get knocked down so that you can get back up one.more.time., better and stronger than before! In part 2, we’re getting into:  - How to respond and stand strong when everyone has an opinion - Releasing emotions & feeling proud - Listening to & trusting your body  - Tactics for not allowing negativity energy into your life - And so much more! You won’t want to miss the conclusion of this incredible episode!  And if you're loving Women of Impact, please take a moment to leave us a review or rate the show. Your feedback is incredibly valuable! Follow Radhi Shetty: Website: https://www.joyfullbook.com/  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@radhidevlu Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ Follow Me Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu  Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement SPONSORS: If you purchase an item using these affiliate links, Impact Theory may receive a commission. Try Audible FREE for 30 days! Just visit https://audible.com/woi or text woi to 500-500. ButcherBox is offering our listeners their choice of a weeknight meal essential— 3 lbs of chicken thighs, 2 lbs of ground beef, or 1 lb of premium steak tips — for free in every order for a whole year, plus, get $20 off your first order at https://butcherbox.com/WOI and use code WOI to choose your free offer and get $20 off. Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa now to grow your business–no matter what stage you’re in. Get affordable luxury with Quince! Go to https://Quince.com/lisa for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns.  Right now, download NetSuite’s popular KPI Checklist, designed to give you consistently excellent performance - absolutely free, at https://NetSuite.com/WOMEN. Post your job for free at https://LinkedIn.com/LISA.Terms and conditions apply. Go to https://tryviome.com/LISA and use code LISA to get 20% off your first 3 months, and take control of your gut health today! Try AG1 and get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase by going to https://drinkAG1.com/lisa. ***CALLING ALL BADASSES!*** If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be!  *New episodes delivered ad-free, EXCLUSIVE access to hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, and so much more!* Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! *****Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP***** Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Relationships can be really fun and exciting, and they can also get a bit messy, awkward and questionable. Even after investing years of your life. Pop quiz for the ladies still searching for the right relationship and for the ones questioning the relationship they’re in now, and you have to be totally honest. Have you chosen the wrong relationship because it beat the idea of being alone? At least you weren’t the single friend, or the one that walked away first. Can you think of someone you dated that clearly only happened because you lowered your standards enough? Has the thought of starting over and walking away from a relationship that obviously had no future kept you in an unhealthy, unhappy, and unfulfilling relationship way past the expiration date? If you answered yes to any of these questions and smirked thinking about your friend, sister, or cousin that would be a HELL YEAH to one or more of these questions, then you’re in for a treat. Today’s guest, Case Kenny, is one of the most influential voices of reason for millennials, an internet entrepreneur and the host of the podcast, New Mindset, Who Dis? Case is talking with Lisa and shares why being alone isn’t just 1000% better than settling for the wrong person, it’s freaking dangerous! Irrational fear of being alone and the stigma that comes with it jeopardizes you being your happiest most vibrant self. Check out Case Kenny’sBook: That’s Bold of You: https://www.amazon.com/Thats-Bold-You-Thrive-Vibrant-ebook/dp/B0BRHYQTZK?ref_=ast_author_dp   Follow Case Kenny: Website: https://newmindsetwhodis.com/   Twitter: https://twitter.com/thecasekenny  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thecasekenny/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/case.kenny/  Sponsors: Women of Impact Podcast is sponsored by Growthday Network: https://growthday.com/podcasts LinkedIn Jobs helps you find the qualified candidates you want to talk to, faster. Post your job for free at https://bit.ly/LinkedinWOI. Get FREE GROUND BEEF FOR LIFE plus $20 off your first box at https://bit.ly/ButcherBoxWOI. Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact? Calling all Badasses!! If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be!  Women of EXTRA Impact Subscription Benefits: New episodes delivered ad-free Exclusive access to listen to Women of Impact round table discussions, weekly motivation, previously unreleased episodes, and more!  Subscriber-only access to an additional 4 podcasts with hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists, and updated weekly. Looking to boost your confidence? Check out the Get Confident playlist.  Want to repair and heal your relationships? Start with Love Lab.  Curious about your health? We’ve got you covered in Health Hub.  And of course, weekly boosts of mini-motivation from Lisa herself that'll have you strutting through life with your head held high on the Badass Boosts playlist  Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

There is something both sobering and chilling about being manipulated, especially by someone close to you. The feeling of betrayal and pain can leave you untrusting of everyone after that, and the emotional aftermath can lead to years of therapy or unhealthy behaviors. If you’re a ‘Yes’ to any of these, this episode is a must for you: Have fallen for people’s fake concern at the expense of invalidating yourself Felt suffocated by the weight of someone’s constant complaining Started questioning your version of reality because you were being gaslit The Boundary Boss and one of our favorite homies on Women of Impact, Terri Cole, is back for another round and this time she’s unpacking everything you need to never be tricked by manipulative people again! They want to get their way no matter what at your expense, and it’s your job to recognize it and put an end to it with the right boundaries in place. Terri Cole is a licensed therapist and bestselling author who helps women like you break the cycle of living without boundaries. It doesn’t matter who you are or what your past is, everyone deserves and needs boundaries to create and maintain healthy relationships. If you’re walking on eggshells at home, it’s time to sit up straight and pay attention. Check out Terri’s new book, Boundary Boss: https://www.amazon.com/Boundary-Boss-Essential-Guide-Finally/dp/1683647688 Follow Terri Cole: Website: https://www.terricole.com/  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC-OC1zN27enpTA_eNWB7dKw  Podcast: https://www.terricole.com/podcast/  Twitter: https://twitter.com/terri_cole  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/terricole/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TerriColeLCSW/ Sponsors: Women of Impact Podcast is sponsored by Growthday Network: https://growthday.com/podcasts To get 15% off your next unique gift, go to https://bit.ly/UncommonGoodsWOI.  LinkedIn Jobs helps you find the qualified candidates you want to talk to, faster. Post your job for free at https://bit.ly/LinkedinWOI. Go to https://bit.ly/QuinceWOI for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact? Calling all Badasses!! If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be!  Women of EXTRA Impact Subscription Benefits: New episodes delivered ad-free Exclusive access to listen to Women of Impact round table discussions, weekly motivation, previously unreleased episodes, and more!  Subscriber-only access to an additional 4 podcasts with hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists, and updated weekly. Looking to boost your confidence? Check out the Get Confident playlist.  Want to repair and heal your relationships? Start with Love Lab.  Curious about your health? We’ve got you covered in Health Hub.  And of course, weekly boosts of mini-motivation from Lisa herself that'll have you strutting through life with your head held high on the Badass Boosts playlist  Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome back to part 2 of this POWERFUL episode of Women of Impact with the world’s #1 narcissist expert, Dr. Ramani! And guys, we just. keep. frikin’. digging DEEPER into the complex emotions and feelings that come up when you’re in a toxic relationship and how to heal from the abuse.  We cover… - How shame deeply affects your actions AND the narcissist’s actions  - How confusion & despair wear down your spirit and energy for life - The 3 Rs that keep you trapped in the toxic web - How to finally move on with the “recover from the lie” method  Don't miss out on the final part of this eye-opening conversation with Dr. Ramani.  And if you're loving Women of Impact, please take a moment to leave us a review or rate the show. Your feedback is incredibly valuable! Follow Dr. Ramani: Website: https://doctor-ramani.com/  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DoctorRamani Order “It’s Not You”: https://a.co/d/7qYmF0f Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu  Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement SPONSORS: If you purchase an item using these affiliate links, Impact Theory may receive a commission. Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa now to grow your business–no matter what stage you’re in. Sign up at https://lastbottlewines.com, use code LISA to save 10%, and find out why Last Bottle is the most fun way to discover and buy amazing wine.  This episode is sponsored by Betterhelp. Give online therapy a try at https://betterhelp.com/women and get on your way to being your best self! Get a free 30-day Alo Moves subscription by going to https://alomoves.com and use code WOI30. Go to https://tryviome.com/LISA and use code LISA to get 20% off your first 3 months, and take control of your gut health today! Try AG1 and get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase by going to https://drinkAG1.com/lisa. ***CALLING ALL BADASSES!*** If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be!  *New episodes delivered ad-free, EXCLUSIVE access to hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, and so much more!* Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! *****Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP***** Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We’ve heard it from every relationship advice column ever: communication is key. But what does that even mean? In this episode of Relationship Theory, Lisa and Tom Bilyeu sit down and share their secrets for effective communication. Now you have the chance to learn easily what they had to learn with great difficulty to make their relationship last for over 20 years. After you watch this episode, you'll know why communication is the secret to a long-lasting relationship and how to communicate in the right way. Furthermore, Lisa and Tom share how to use the right love language with your partner. SHOW NOTES: Why communication is the secret to a long-lasting relationship and how to communicate in the right way. [1:02] How to use the right love language with your partner. [2:24] The one word that Tom should never use because Lisa gets very upset. [2:59] FOLLOW TOM: Instagram: http://bit.ly/2s9lU90 YouTube: http://bit.ly/2KWanAC Podcast: https://spoti.fi/2xEloFL FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://bit.ly/2TIsoKh YouTube: https://bit.ly/2IAbTcH Podcast: https://spoti.fi/2IEajGW0 Check out our sponsors:  Athletic Greens: Go to https://athleticgreens.com/lisa and receive a FREE 1 year supply of Vitamin D AND 5 free travel packs with your first purchase! Best Fiends: Download Best Fiends FREE on the Apple App Store or Google Play. Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact? Calling all Badasses!! If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be!  Women of EXTRA Impact Subscription Benefits: New episodes delivered ad-free Exclusive access to listen to Women of Impact round table discussions, weekly motivation, previously unreleased episodes, and more!  Subscriber-only access to an additional 4 podcasts with hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists, and updated weekly. Looking to boost your confidence? Check out the Get Confident playlist.  Want to repair and heal your relationships? Start with Love Lab.  Curious about your health? We’ve got you covered in Health Hub.  And of course, weekly boosts of mini-motivation from Lisa herself that'll have you strutting through life with your head held high on the Badass Boosts playlist  Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It’s Lisa Bilyeu here with another incredible episode of Women of Impact and today we’re joined by the world’s #1 narcissist expert who is here to help you actually heal and move on from narcissistic abuse! As a licensed clinical psychologist and expert in narcissistic relationships, Dr. Ramani digs deep into the behaviors and patterns that narcissists use every single day to manipulate the hell out of you and keep you sucked into the relationship.  Most people don’t know this about her, but my girl Dr. Ramani has actually been a victim of narcissistic abuse many times throughout her own life. And in this episode she is sharing some of the lessons she learned from her own experiences and the knock-on effects those experiences still have on her to this day. In this episode, we’re diving into: - Societal myths about narcissists that diminish the seriousness of their abuse  - The best way to approach someone you think is in a relationship with a narcissist (and how to respond if YOU’RE the one approached!) - The self-blame spiral that has you thinking it’s YOUR fault & why you MUST escape it to take your power BACK from the narcissist! - AND SOOOO MUCH MORE!!  And that’s just in part 1 of this 2 part episode!  So if you’re ready to finally frikin’ MOVE ON from that toxic person in your life then grab a cuppa and listen close homie, because this episode does NOT disappoint!  Order your copy of Dr. Ramani's new book here: https://a.co/d/7qYmF0f Follow Dr. Ramani: Website: https://doctor-ramani.com/  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DoctorRamani Order “It’s Not You”: https://a.co/d/7qYmF0f Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu  Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement SPONSORS: If you purchase an item using these affiliate links, Impact Theory may receive a commission. Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa now to grow your business–no matter what stage you’re in. Sign up at https://lastbottlewines.com, use code LISA to save 10%, and find out why Last Bottle is the most fun way to discover and buy amazing wine.  This episode is sponsored by Betterhelp. Give online therapy a try at https://betterhelp.com/women and get on your way to being your best self! Get a free 30-day Alo Moves subscription by going to https://alomoves.com and use code WOI30. Go to https://tryviome.com/LISA and use code LISA to get 20% off your first 3 months, and take control of your gut health today! Try AG1 and get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase by going to https://drinkAG1.com/lisa. ***CALLING ALL BADASSES!*** If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be!  *New episodes delivered ad-free, EXCLUSIVE access to hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, and so much more!* Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! *****Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP***** Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What up homie! We’re wrapping up the second half of this power-packed two-part episode of Women of Impact, Stephan Speaks is back diving into those dating dilemmas and decoding the things men say that drive us mad and leave us feeling a little lost and confused af. Stephan is sharing the harsh truths about the realities of dating and what men actually mean when they say the darndest things. He's exposing secrets the men don’t want you to know so that you can avoid falling into 'thirst traps' and send those relationship imposters running. From being friend-zoned to a whole lesson in why some men can’t control the urge to sleep around, even with the woman of their dreams right in front of them… Stephan is spilling the tea and giving us the harsh reality of what men are telling us. You can be mad or you can take a man’s perspective and play the dating game a little than you did yesterday. Your journey to a healthier, happier love life is ready to happen! Follow Stephan Speaks: Website: https://www.stephanspeaks.com/  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MeetStephanSpeaks  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephanspeaks/  Follow Me Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  SPONSORS: If you purchase an item using these affiliate links, Impact Theory may receive a commission. Try Audible FREE for 30 days! Just visit https://adbl.co/3TLkgrD or text woi to 500-500. Go to https://bit.ly/ZocDocLisa and download the Zocdoc app for FREE. Then find and book a top-rated doctor today. Post your job for free at https://bit.ly/LinkedinWOI. That’s https://bit.ly/LinkedinWOI to post your job for free. Terms and conditions apply. Give therapy a try, with BetterHelp! Visit https://bit.ly/BetterhelpWomen today to get 10% off your first month. ***Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact?*** Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP Calling all Badasses!! If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be!  *New episodes delivered ad-free *Exclusive access to listen to Women of Impact round table discussions, weekly motivation, previously unreleased episodes, and more!  *Subscriber-only access to an additional 4 podcasts with hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists, and updated weekly. *Looking to boost your confidence? Check out the Get Confident playlist.  *Want to repair and heal your relationships? Start with Love Lab.  *Curious about your health? We’ve got you covered in Health Hub.  *And of course, weekly boosts of mini-motivation from Lisa herself that'll have you strutting through life with your head held high on the Badass Boosts playlist  Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! *****Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP***** Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Famed hypnotherapist, creator of Rapid Transformational Therapy, and all-around psychological superwoman Marisa Peer is one of the world’s leading experts on controlling your thoughts, your emotional state, and thus your life’s results. And right now, when people are physically isolated and spending so much time confronted with their own mental state, her message is more necessary than ever. On this episode of Women of Impact with Lisa Bilyeu, Marisa Peer discusses how her methods of controlling language and using powerful, positive words can help people make it through these unexpected times. She gives concrete examples of how to use self-talk effectively, discusses the importance of taking control of your thoughts, explains how to talk to children about the coronavirus pandemic, and even shares some surprising ways women can boost their immune system. [ORIGINAL AIR DATE: 4-22-20]. SHOW NOTES: Marisa Peer advocates looking for what’s good about quarantines and isolation [2:30] You need to give yourself a daily routine to make it through the coronavirus pandemic [5:15] Why words matter and how they are so powerful [6:57] You can only control your thoughts, which control your emotions and your beliefs [10:48] Marisa and Lisa discuss how you always have a choice about how you think [13:00] How do you deal with living with other people who have a negative mindset? [17:06] Marisa and Lisa talk about how to break out of procrastination [21:02] Nobody can reject you without your consent, and you can always make progress [26:12] Marisa explains how to talk to children about dangers and uncertainty [29:11] To be happy you need someone to love, something to do, and somewhere to go [33:13] The words you use will shape your reality [34:44] Marisa shares her superpower [36:34] FOLLOW MARISA: WEBSITE: https://marisapeer.com INSTAGRAM: https://bit.ly/33kLFmz FACEBOOK: https://bit.ly/2XK3IBe TWITTER: https://bit.ly/2pLuJYu ********************************************************************** CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Audible: Sign up for a free 30-day trial at https://audible.com/WOI  Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out.  Quince: Check out Quince: https://quince.com/woi  Kettle & Fire: Get 20% off your first order at https://kettleandfire.com/lisa with code LISA ********************************************************************** Listening to Women of Impact on Amazon Music is about as easy as it gets. You can listen on the app, which is super freaking easy to navigate, or you can just ask my homie, Alexa. it's that simple. So if you're ready, my homie, to be a freaking badass, then listen and follow Women of Impact on Amazon Music. ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What up homie! Let me tell you how excited I am to share the incredibly powerful two-part episode that exposes even more of the narcissistic tricks and emotionally abusive behavior so that you’ll never question if you’re crazy again! Dr. Ramani is no stranger to Women of Impact and she’s an absolute powerhouse when it comes to shining the light on narcissistic abuse and behaviors straight out of their playbook. Not only has Dr Ramani been here more times than I can count, she’s delivered levels of insight that has helped millions of people spot it and create their escape strategy to take back their power, every single time.  Today we’re unmasking the tricks narcissists use to stay in control, and arming all of the ladies watching with the knowledge to recognize B.S. manipulation and control tactics immediately. *How narcissists use threats, mockery and even the silent treatment to keep you under their control, *Why a typical narcissistic response to you setting boundaries is more manipulation and a fight for control (Girl! Not only is this exhausting, but it’s even more reason for you to get away), *Dr Ramani unpacks the unconscious process of narcissistic behavior that makes them unreasonable to stay and deal with.  *When toxic partners weaponize your shame to maintain control over you, Dr Ramani shares exactly how you should respond) *Dr Ramani reveals why self-reflection is absolutely critical in breaking free from narcissists, Whew! Ladies understanding narcissistic behaviors and being able to spot their manipulation tactics may actually save your sanity (or even better, save your life!). I want you to have a little more knowledge, and at least one more tool in your belt to become stronger and more badass. Follow Dr. Ramani: Website: http://doctor-ramani.com/  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/DoctorRamanDurvasula  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doctorramani/   Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/doctorramani  SPONSORS: If you purchase an item using these affiliate links, Impact Theory may receive a commission. Try Audible FREE for 30 days! Just visit https://adbl.co/3TLkgrD or text woi to 500-500. Go to https://bit.ly/ZocDocLisa and download the Zocdoc app for FREE. Then find and book a top-rated doctor today. Post your job for free at https://bit.ly/LinkedinWOI. That’s https://bit.ly/LinkedinWOI to post your job for free. Terms and conditions apply. Give therapy a try, with BetterHelp! Visit https://bit.ly/BetterhelpWomen today to get 10% off your first month. ***Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact?*** Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP Calling all Badasses!! If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be!  *New episodes delivered ad-free *Exclusive access to listen to Women of Impact round table discussions, weekly motivation, previously unreleased episodes, and more!  *Subscriber-only access to an additional 4 podcasts with hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists, and updated weekly. *Looking to boost your confidence? Check out the Get Confident playlist.  *Want to repair and heal your relationships? Start with Love Lab.  *Curious about your health? We’ve got you covered in Health Hub.  *And of course, weekly boosts of mini-motivation from Lisa herself that'll have you strutting through life with your head held high on the Badass Boosts playlist  Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! *****Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP***** Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It’s Lisa Bilyeu here with another DEEP, impactful episode of Women of Impact where we’re talking about preparing for death and how that helps you to live a life you love, WITHOUT regrets!! I know, death is a topic we ALL would like to avoid talking about because it can be sad and heartbreaking to think about. But literally we will ALL die, so let’s stop avoiding the inevitable and just talk about it so that we don’t end up dying with regrets!!!  Here to help us think about death as a way to make sure we LIVE our best lives is America’s #1 death doula, Alua Arthur.  Alua has held the hands of thousands of people as they finally face the pain and complexities of life in their death, and she’s learnt A LOT about the power of making the most out of the life that you get.  Death is something we ignore as a society and unfortunately the reality is that the fear and denial we have towards dying can actually lead to a lot of regret when our time does come.  In this powerful episode, we’re talking about:  - How to live more in the next 30 days than you have in the past 10 years - The 1 question Alua thinks you should ask yourself before you make a decision - How to live in the NOW & why doing so is such an important part of a peaceful death - Why we fear dying so much & steps we can take to overcome that fear - The power of using your fears around death & loss to add more fuel to your life RIGHT NOW - How to use the lens of your death to HELP you live life for yourself & not others - Why procrastination is actually death denial  - The tiny steps you need to take to live presently & die gracefully - Why getting older is actually a GIFT that gets you closer to living a happy life - What “get busy living” ACTUALLY means – and it’s not “hustle more”  Follow Alua Arthur: Website: https://goingwithgrace.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/going_with_grace/ Order your copy of “briefly perfectly human” here: https://www.aluaarthur.com/ Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu  Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement SPONSORS: If you purchase an item using these affiliate links, Impact Theory may receive a commission. Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa now to grow your business–no matter what stage you’re in. Go to https://zocdoc.com/lisa and download the free ZocDoc app right now and book a top rated doctor today based on thousands of verified patient reviews. Visit http://betterhelp.com/WOMEN today to get 10% off your first month. your first purchase by going to https://drinkAG1.com/lisa. Go to https://tryviome.com/LISA and use code LISA to get 20% off your first 3 months, and take control of your gut health today! PRE-ORDER YOUR COPY OF LISA'S BOOK "RADICAL CONFIDENCE" (NOW IN PAPERBACK & WITH A NEW CHAPTER!) & GET YOUR FREE BADASS BONUSES: www.radicalconfidence.com ***CALLING ALL BADASSES!*** If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be!  *New episodes delivered ad-free, EXCLUSIVE access to hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, and so much more!* *****Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP***** Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hello fears! Whether it’s spiders, open water or public speaking, everyone has something that frightens them, whether it’s rational or not. Keynote speaker Michelle Poler invented the “100 days without fear” challenge because she believes it’s important for everyone to face even their fears that seem trivial or easily avoidable. On this episode of Women of Impact with Lisa Bilyeu, Michelle Poler explains why she visited the concentration camps her grandparents endured, why comfort, not failure, is the enemy of success, and why this year you should make a New Year’s resolution to fail. [Original air date: 7/8/20]. SHOW NOTES: Why is it important to face even “trivial” fears like spiders and roller coasters? [2:05] Michelle explains why she believes she really only has seven core fears [4:35] Michelle says that her top three fears are pain, loneliness, and lack of control [7:15] Michelle explains how her relationship pushed her to become brave and independent [10:58] Michelle shares the story of visiting the concentration camps her grandparents endured [14:46] Why you should create a New Year’s resolution to fail [16:17] The enemy of success is not failure. The enemy is comfort. [19:12] Are the relationships in your life based on “me” or fear, or is the basis love? [20:54] Why are people so afraid of disappointing others? [23:51] Trying to check of society’s boxes leads to comfort, not happiness [27:07] Michelle and Lisa talk about why sometimes you really should listen to your fears [28:24] Michelle explains why she approaches fears with “x-ray vision” [32:12] Michelle started her journey because she wants to impact her future kids [33:55] Michelle describes the six stages of facing your fears [34:50] Michelle finally felt proud of herself once she finally pursued her own goals[39:00] Michelle wrote a letter to herself about gratitude and pride [40:43] Success is never guaranteed, so you are better off loving the journey [42:56] Michelle describes a surprising superpower [44:17] FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://bit.ly/2TIsoKh FOLLOW MICHELLE: BOOK: hellofearsbook.com WEBSITE: michellepoler.com INSTAGRAM: instagram.com/hellofears FACEBOOK: facebook.com/hellofears TWITTER: twitter.com/hellofears SPONSORS: If you purchase an item using these affiliate links, Impact Theory may receive a commission. Visit http://betterhelp.com/WOMEN today to get 10% off your first month. Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa now to grow your business–no matter what stage you’re in. Click the link below or head over to https://cozyearth.com and use promo code LISA to save an exclusive 35% off. Post your job for free at https://LinkedIn.com/LISA. your first purchase by going to https://drinkAG1.com/lisa. Go to https://tryviome.com/LISA and use code LISA to get 20% off your first 3 months, and take control of your gut health today! PRE-ORDER YOUR COPY OF LISA'S BOOK "RADICAL CONFIDENCE"  (NOW IN PAPERBACK & WITH A NEW CHAPTER!) & GET YOUR FREE BADASS BONUSES: https://bit.ly/radcon ***CALLING ALL BADASSES!*** If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be!  *New episodes delivered ad-free, EXCLUSIVE access to hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, and so much more!* Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! *****Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP***** Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

One thing nearly every single couple does is argue and have disagreements. Communication allows you both to heal and address the issues that cause the arguments, but what happens when those issues, however small, are not being addressed? Does being pissed off for a day or multiple times in a month, or a year lead to bigger problems? Is it normal to fall out of love with your partner or spouse? Being pissed is one thing, but being in a relationship with someone you no longer like or have love for is an entirely different thing. In this episode, the main things to know are: ● Do not ignore red flags ● Relationships take a lot of work from both partners ● Speak up about what you want Relationship Theory with Tom and Lisa Bilyeu encourages healthy, loving, life long relationships. Whether you are fresh out of your last relationship, on a break, taking time to heal from a breakup, or looking for ways to strengthen the romance and bond in your current relationship, Tom and Lisa are sharing their 20 years of experience. They’re taking questions and giving relationship advice that will enhance all of your relationships. SHOW NOTES: Prevention | Why Tom and Lisa has been able to avoid falling out of love with each other [0:41] Red Flags | Being annoyed with actions is not same as disliking someone, address it [1:54] Do the Work | Why would you want to stay in relationship with someone you don’t like [4:36] Separate Happily | Lisa on her parents divorcing and being happier apart than together [7:09] Value-Add | Why relationships require work but should give you more value than it takes [9:37] What You Want | Speaking up about what you want is so important and selfish desires [12:24] Download Now: The Most Important Questions You MUST Ask Your Partner here: https://bit.ly/3dWyB2d FREE 4-Part Confidence Workshop: https://bit.ly/3fZcbO5 Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact? Calling all Badasses!! If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be!  Women of EXTRA Impact Subscription Benefits: New episodes delivered ad-free Exclusive access to listen to Women of Impact round table discussions, weekly motivation, previously unreleased episodes, and more!  Subscriber-only access to an additional 4 podcasts with hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists, and updated weekly. Looking to boost your confidence? Check out the Get Confident playlist.  Want to repair and heal your relationships? Start with Love Lab.  Curious about your health? We’ve got you covered in Health Hub.  And of course, weekly boosts of mini-motivation from Lisa herself that'll have you strutting through life with your head held high on the Badass Boosts playlist  Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If you have ever felt lost and hopeless in your life, or full of regret, guilt, and shame around choices you have made, listen up homie because your past DOES NOT have to dictate your future and you can do anything you set your mind to!!   And on today’s episode of Women of Impact, I’m so honored to be joined by the show-stopping Gammy Norris!!  She’s the badass mom of Jada Pinkett Smith, host of Red Table Talk, and has been incredibly open and transparent about her past struggles with teen pregnancy, addiction, and abuse and how she evolved into the INCREDIBLE woman she is today.  Gammy is now 70 years old, has been clean for 30 YEARS, and is sharing her insights and struggles she’s had on her journey so you can change your life for the better, and FOR GOOD!  In this episode, we’re digging into: - How Gammy actually took back control of her life, piece by piece, and how you can too  - Why it’s so important to identify the LIES you are telling yourself that are leaving blinders up in your life  - How to forgive yourself for mistakes in the past & let go of the shame so you can use them to fuel your growth  - Why it’s so frikin’ important to not let the idea that you “can’t” STOP you from even trying   - How to keep yourself from spiraling into regrets so you can let go & actually CHANGE  Now guys, anyone CAN change, but you have to make DIFFERENT choices, change your habits, surround yourself with positive energy, and do the internal work to let go of the shame, guilt and regrets that you have and commit to showing up every day to be better NOW.  You can’t change the past, but you can move forward and make better choices and live a life that is FOR YOU!! Follow Gammy Norris: Website: https://gammybanfieldnorris.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gammynorris/ Podcast: https://gammybanfieldnorris.com/podcasts/ Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu  Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement SPONSORS: Head over to https://cozyearth.com and use promo code "Lisa" for an exclusive 35% off.  Go over right now and sign up for just one dollar a month with your trial period at https://Shopify.com/lisa You can save 15%  with the code [LISA] at oneskin.co.  Go to save 20% on your annual license, use the promo code WOMANOFIMPACT. Go to https://www.heytabu.com/discount/LISA15 use code LISA15 to save 15% off your order Get 5 free AG1 Travel Packs and a FREE 1 year supply of Vitamin D with your first purchase your first purchase by going to https://drinkAG1.com/lisa. Go to https://tryviome.com/LISA and use code LISA to get 20% off your first 3 months, and take control of your gut health today! ORDER YOUR COPY OF LISA'S BOOK "RADICAL CONFIDENCE"  (NOW IN PAPERBACK & WITH A NEW CHAPTER!) & GET YOUR FREE BADASS BONUSES: https://bit.ly/radcon ***CALLING ALL BADASSES!*** If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be!  *New episodes delivered ad-free, EXCLUSIVE access to hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, and so much more!* Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! *****Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP***** Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Do you and your partner or spouse struggle with a clash of values? Do you find yourself in frequent disagreements, arguments, or fights and are looking to tackle the root cause of them for good? On this episode of Relationship Theory, Lisa and Tom Bilyeu sit down to discuss such matters and more as they explore how you and your partner can overcome your disagreements and actually get to the bottom of what’s causing them. They discuss what to do when your values are different from your partners, how to properly handle disagreements, when and how to persuade your partner, and how to be open to your partner’s perspective. SHOW NOTES: Collision | Lisa and Tom discuss what to do when your values of your partner are different. [0:20] Values | Lisa and Tom discuss why you need to break down your most important values. [2:15] Compromise | Lisa and Tom discuss how to properly handle disagreements. [4:51] Convincing | Lisa and Tom discuss when it is and isn’t time to convince your partner. [7:03] Be Open | Tom and Lisa discuss why you have be open to your partner’s side. [9:40] QUOTES: “When there’s a collision of values, you have to get into a situation where each of you are assessing the importance to which that value means something to you and where the compromise lies.” [5:09] “…and that’s a big thing, it’s like, not thinking about it of winning an argument, or being right, or getting what I want…” [8:45] FOLLOW TOM: Instagram: http://bit.ly/2s9lU90 YouTube: http://bit.ly/2KWanAC Podcast: https://spoti.fi/2xEloFL FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://bit.ly/2TIsoKh YouTube: https://bit.ly/2IAbTcH Podcast: https://spoti.fi/2IEajGW0  Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact? Calling all Badasses!! If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be!  Women of EXTRA Impact Subscription Benefits: New episodes delivered ad-free Exclusive access to listen to Women of Impact round table discussions, weekly motivation, previously unreleased episodes, and more!  Subscriber-only access to an additional 4 podcasts with hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists, and updated weekly. Looking to boost your confidence? Check out the Get Confident playlist.  Want to repair and heal your relationships? Start with Love Lab.  Curious about your health? We’ve got you covered in Health Hub.  And of course, weekly boosts of mini-motivation from Lisa herself that'll have you strutting through life with your head held high on the Badass Boosts playlist  Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome back to part 2 of this FASCINATING episode of Women of Impact with the world’s leading brain expert Dr. Daniel Amen.   And if you thought we covered it all on brain health in part 1, we were justttttt getting started! Dr. Amen has EVEN MORE nuggets of wisdom to share with us so we can take better care of our brains and have healthier relationships as a result.  We keep diving into:  - Dr. Amen’s secrets for improving your brain health - what behaviors you should look for in a potential partner as signs of good brain health - what changes in men’s brains when they’re in love - how hormone changes throughout your life affect your brain - why you shouldn’t trust your thoughts  Trust me, you don't miss out on the final part of this eye-opening conversation with Dr. Amen! And if you're loving Women of Impact, please take a moment to leave us a review or rate the show. Your feedback is incredibly valuable! Follow Dr. Amen: Website: https://danielamenmd.com/ Clinics: https://www.amenclinics.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doc_amen/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCdHz-vi0JIugmscU_CkUxUQ Pre-Order “Raising Mentally Strong Kids”: https://danielamenmd.com/raising-mentally-strong-kids/ Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu  Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement SPONSORS: If you purchase an item using these affiliate links, Impact Theory may receive a commission. Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa now to grow your business–no matter what stage you’re in. Sign up at https://lastbottlewines.com, use code LISA to save 10%, and find out why Last Bottle is the most fun way to discover and buy amazing wine.  Get a free 30-day Alo Moves subscription by going to https://alomoves.com and use code WOI30. Go to https://butcherbox.com/woi and use code WOI to choose your free offer and get $20 off. This episode is sponsored by Betterhelp. Give online therapy a try at https://betterhelp.com/women and get on your way to being your best self! Head over to https://cozyearth.com and use promo code LISA to save an exclusive 35% off.  Try AG1 and get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase by going to https://drinkAG1.com/lisa. Go to https://tryviome.com/LISA and use code LISA to get 20% off your first 3 months, and take control of your gut health today! ***CALLING ALL BADASSES!*** If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be!  *New episodes delivered ad-free, EXCLUSIVE access to hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, and so much more!* Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! *****Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP***** Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome back to the second part of this supercharged convo featuring the neuroscience powerhouse, Tara Swart - who’s giving us powerful insights on how sex, stress, and attraction start in the mind and play out in radical ways affecting our love lives. Did you know that couples who stress together might actually stick together? We explored this and more in the first part of our conversation where Tara exposed the addictive love cycle, where heated arguments and toxic behaviors turn into passionate moments short lived.  We discovered that It turns out we’re not crazy after all, women release different hormones from men and we respond to life differently, and it makes relationships frikin hard to navigate! So, whether you’re taking notes on how to improve an existing romance, discovering reasons you should go, or just trying to not repeat the same sh*t in your next relationship, homie, I’ve got you covered. Tune in to this 1st part of this spicy conversation with Tara Swart for an enlightening, playful, yet profound discussion that could reshape how you’ve been approaching your love life. Your journey towards stronger, healthier, and more fulfilling relationships starts here!  Follow Tara Swart: Website: https://www.taraswart.com/  Twitter: https://twitter.com/TaraSwart  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drtaraswart/   Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheSourceDrTaraSwart/  SPONSORS: If you purchase an item using these affiliate links, Impact Theory may receive a commission. Try Audible FREE for 30 days! Just visit https://adbl.co/3TLkgrD or text woi to 500-500. Go to https://bit.ly/ZocDocLisa and download the Zocdoc app for FREE. Then find and book a top-rated doctor today. Post your job for free at https://bit.ly/LinkedinWOI. That’s https://bit.ly/LinkedinWOI to post your job for free. Terms and conditions apply. Give therapy a try, with BetterHelp! Visit https://bit.ly/BetterhelpWomen today to get 10% off your first month. ***Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact?*** Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP Calling all Badasses!! If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be!  *New episodes delivered ad-free *Exclusive access to listen to Women of Impact round table discussions, weekly motivation, previously unreleased episodes, and more!  *Subscriber-only access to an additional 4 podcasts with hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists, and updated weekly. *Looking to boost your confidence? Check out the Get Confident playlist.  *Want to repair and heal your relationships? Start with Love Lab.  *Curious about your health? We’ve got you covered in Health Hub.  *And of course, weekly boosts of mini-motivation from Lisa herself that'll have you strutting through life with your head held high on the Badass Boosts playlist  Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! *****Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP***** Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What up homies! Are you ready to give your inner foodie a boost of confidence and good cheer? Today I’m here with a dose of empowerment that will help you conquer the holidays and girls’ nights out with total confidence! Shawn Stevenson, author of Eat Smarter, is joining me for this spectacular episode, and we’re going to share powerful tips that make guilty eating and shameful cheat days can be a thing of the past! Learning how to love foods that love you back and how to be mindful about how different foods make you feel is an act of self love that leads to a much happier and healthier life.  We uncover the truth behind ultra-processed foods and the shocking number of ingredients that can be found in chicken (I’m talking 17 ingredients which includes chicken flavoring –say what now?!). But this is not focused on theory - Shawn has some delicious recipes like buffalo chicken tacos, salmon burgers, veggie burgers, and pancakes that will make healthy eating a joy. I’m looking forward to giving these a try with the family for a get-together. By the end of these powerful 30 minutes together, you’ll be ready to swap ‘stress’ eating for ‘happy’ eating and you’ll think about how labeling your foods and meals as bad, guilty, and cheaty is way worse than eating and enjoying your food –good vibes, happy times, and a healthy state of mind can make that ice cream taste even better! Don't forget to check out Shawn's book, Eat Smarter Cookbook, for even more insights and inspiration: https://www.amazon.com/Eat-Smarter-Family-Cookbook-Connection/dp/0316456462  Follow Shawn Stevenson:  Website: https://themodelhealthshow.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shawnmodel/  Twitter: https://twitter.com/ShawnModel  Follow Me Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  SPONSORS: If you purchase an item using these affiliate links, Impact Theory may receive a commission. Try Audible FREE for 30 days! Just visit https://adbl.co/3TLkgrD or text woi to 500-500. Go to https://bit.ly/ZocDocLisa and download the Zocdoc app for FREE. Then find and book a top-rated doctor today. Post your job for free at https://bit.ly/LinkedinWOI. That’s https://bit.ly/LinkedinWOI to post your job for free. Terms and conditions apply. Give therapy a try, with BetterHelp! Visit https://bit.ly/BetterhelpWomen today to get 10% off your first month. ***Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact?*** Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP Calling all Badasses!! If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be!  *New episodes delivered ad-free *Exclusive access to listen to Women of Impact round table discussions, weekly motivation, previously unreleased episodes, and more!  *Subscriber-only access to an additional 4 podcasts with hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists, and updated weekly. *Looking to boost your confidence? Check out the Get Confident playlist.  *Want to repair and heal your relationships? Start with Love Lab.  *Curious about your health? We’ve got you covered in Health Hub.  *And of course, weekly boosts of mini-motivation from Lisa herself that'll have you strutting through life with your head held high on the Badass Boosts playlist  Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! *****Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP***** Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On Today's Episode: Jealousy. How does it enter our minds, what feeds it, and is it perhaps just a reflection of our own insecurities? On this episode of Relationship Theory, Tom and Lisa Bilyeu sit down to discuss the harsh reality of confronting your own jealousy in a relationship and why it may actually be a matter of your own insecurities and not their behavior. They discuss the time when Tom and Lisa went together to Tom’s ex-girlfriend’s birthday party, how they dealt with it, where jealousy originates from, what feeds it, how it is an ugly look, and what to be aware of before jealousy spirals out of control. SHOW NOTES: Honesty | Lisa shares her experience when Tom took her to his ex-girlfriend’s birthday party. [0:21] Establishing Feelings | Tom shares his side of taking Lisa to his ex-girlfriend’s birthday party. [3:11] Jealousy | Tom and Lisa discuss how buried insecurities feed jealousy. [4:36] Choose Confidence | Lisa shares why insecurities are a turn off. [8:38] Harsh Reality | Tom and Lisa discusses why it’s not sexy to wallow in your insecurities. [11:23] FOLLOW TOM: Instagram: http://bit.ly/2s9lU90 YouTube: http://bit.ly/2KWanAC Podcast: https://spoti.fi/2xEloFL FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://bit.ly/2TIsoKh YouTube: https://bit.ly/2IAbTcH Podcast: https://spoti.fi/2IEajGW0 Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact? Calling all Badasses!! If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be!  Women of EXTRA Impact Subscription Benefits: New episodes delivered ad-free Exclusive access to listen to Women of Impact round table discussions, weekly motivation, previously unreleased episodes, and more!  Subscriber-only access to an additional 4 podcasts with hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists, and updated weekly. Looking to boost your confidence? Check out the Get Confident playlist.  Want to repair and heal your relationships? Start with Love Lab.  Curious about your health? We’ve got you covered in Health Hub.  And of course, weekly boosts of mini-motivation from Lisa herself that'll have you strutting through life with your head held high on the Badass Boosts playlist  Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Going through different stages of life and relationships is never easy. It’s easy to break down, fall apart or become numb and completely lose yourself along the way. Lisa Bilyeu has experience with navigating change and transitioning from a traditional supportive housewife to being the badass CEO and Co-founder of Impact Theory she now is. In this episode, Lisa and Tom reflect and share the lessons they’ve stumbled through along the way over the last 19 years of marriage to support Lisa’s awakening. Join them as they deep dive into how to get beyond the surface level arguments, discover the value of your frame of reference, and what it truly means to evolve together to be supportive. The trip is bumpy, a little messy, not as graceful as you may imagine or believe, but the way they are honest and committed to each other makes it successful and worthwhile every time. Check Out Relationship Theory for solid relationship advice at every stage: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCtHuUTWVRHUXVjmRrvS8WYg Follow Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCeir7Wbzzfg43c1eL7PSa3g Sponsors: Women of Impact Podcast is sponsored by Growthday Network: https://growthday.com/podcasts LinkedIn Jobs helps you find the qualified candidates you want to talk to, faster. Post your job for free at https://bit.ly/LinkedinWOI. Get FREE GROUND BEEF FOR LIFE plus $20 off your first box at https://bit.ly/ButcherBoxWOI. Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact? Calling all Badasses!! If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be!  Women of EXTRA Impact Subscription Benefits: New episodes delivered ad-free Exclusive access to listen to Women of Impact round table discussions, weekly motivation, previously unreleased episodes, and more!  Subscriber-only access to an additional 4 podcasts with hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists, and updated weekly. Looking to boost your confidence? Check out the Get Confident playlist.  Want to repair and heal your relationships? Start with Love Lab.  Curious about your health? We’ve got you covered in Health Hub.  And of course, weekly boosts of mini-motivation from Lisa herself that'll have you strutting through life with your head held high on the Badass Boosts playlist  Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Living with insecurity, a lack of confidence, and a constant need of approval from your partner or others is never a healthy way to build a long-lasting and stable relationship. On this episode of Relationship Theory, Lisa and Tom Bilyeu sit down to discuss such matters and more as they explore why it’s crucial that the only person you rely on for validation, approval, and self-confidence is yourself. They discuss why you shouldn’t rely on others for validation, reasons you might be relying on others in the first place, and why feeling safe with your partner is crucial. SHOW NOTES: Validation | Lisa and Tom discuss why you need to find your own self-validation. [0:29] Reasons | Tom shares theories to why you might seek validation from you partner. [3:17] Feeling Safe | Tom and Lisa discuss the importance of feeling safe with your partner. [6:09] Download Now: The Most Important Questions You MUST Ask Your Partner here: https://bit.ly/3dWyB2d FREE 4-Part Confidence Workshop: https://bit.ly/3fZcbO5 FOLLOW TOM: Instagram: http://bit.ly/2s9lU90 YouTube: http://bit.ly/2KWanAC Podcast: https://spoti.fi/2xEloFL FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://bit.ly/2TIsoKh YouTube: https://bit.ly/2IAbTcH Podcast: https://spoti.fi/2IEajGW0 Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact? Calling all Badasses!! If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be!  Women of EXTRA Impact Subscription Benefits: New episodes delivered ad-free Exclusive access to listen to Women of Impact round table discussions, weekly motivation, previously unreleased episodes, and more!  Subscriber-only access to an additional 4 podcasts with hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists, and updated weekly. Looking to boost your confidence? Check out the Get Confident playlist.  Want to repair and heal your relationships? Start with Love Lab.  Curious about your health? We’ve got you covered in Health Hub.  And of course, weekly boosts of mini-motivation from Lisa herself that'll have you strutting through life with your head held high on the Badass Boosts playlist  Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hey homies, it’s Lisa Bilyeu here with a HOT episode of Women of Impact featuring the ONE and ONLY Jada Pinkett Smith - and she’s sharing the MANY frikin’ HARD lessons she learned along her journey to help you GET BACK UP when life knocks you down.   From “The Entanglement”, to “The Slap”, to “The Eyeroll that MADE Him Do It”, Jada has taken hit after hit but she has more love, confidence, and self-acceptance than EVER before. And today we’re going deep to talk about the adversities she has faced and why she’s actually GRATEFUL for it! We’re talking about:  How relationships and love are a PRACTICE Why you MUST stop expecting society’s romanticized and idealistic beliefs to be true The difference between making a Sacred Sacrifice and self-betrayal  How having the courage to be disliked by others leads to self-love  Why you need to focus on making decisions where you can look in the mirror and feel frikin’ PROUD of yourself So, if you've ever accepted blame that wasn’t yours, sacrificed yourself for the “greater good”, or felt like the cards were stacked against you, Jada’s wisdom in this episode will speak to YOU, homie! Get Your Copy of “Worthy” here: https://www.amazon.com/Jada-Pinkett-Smith/dp/0063320681 Follow Jada Pinkett Smith: Website: https://ourworthyjourney.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jadapinkettsmith Get Your Copy of “Worthy”: https://www.amazon.com/Jada-Pinkett-Smith/dp/0063320681 Follow Me Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  SPONSORS: If you purchase an item using these affiliate links, Impact Theory may receive a commission. Try Audible FREE for 30 days! Just visit https://audible.com/woi or text woi to 500-500. This episode is sponsored by Betterhelp. Give online therapy a try at https://betterhelp.com/women and get on your way to being your best self! Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa now to grow your business–no matter what stage you’re in. ButcherBox is offering our listeners their choice of a weeknight meal essential— 3 lbs of chicken thighs, 2 lbs of ground beef, or 1 lb of premium steak tips — for free in every order for a whole year, plus, get $20 off your first order at https://butcherbox.com/WOI and use code WOI to choose your free offer and get $20 off. Get a free 30-day Alo Moves subscription by going to https://alomoves.com and use code WOI.  Go to https://Zocdoc.com/LISA and download the Zocdoc app for FREE to find and book a top-rated doctor today.  Right now, download NetSuite’s popular KPI Checklist, designed to give you consistently excellent performance - absolutely free, at https://NetSuite.com/WOMEN. Go to https://tryviome.com/LISA and use code LISA to get 20% off your first 3 months, and take control of your gut health today! Try AG1 and get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase by going to https://drinkAG1.com/lisa. ***CALLING ALL BADASSES!*** If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be!  *New episodes delivered ad-free, EXCLUSIVE access to hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, and so much more!* Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! *****Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP***** Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Do you find yourself living your life on others terms? Do you tend to let your friends, family, and even strangers influence your goals, dreams, and what you’re ultimately capable of? On this episode of Women of Impact, Lisa Bilyeu is joined by celebrity life coach, nutritional expert, and CEO Cynthia Garcia to discuss such matters and more as they explore the power of changing your perspective on your life, rewriting the stories you tell yourself, and how to live life on your own terms as your true authentic self. They discuss how to reframe your perspectives, why you need to look inward, how to get used to discomfort and change, why you need to understand and change the stories you tell yourself, the silver-lining of trauma and pain, how to stop focusing on what others think of you, why it’s okay to not always be happy, the power of curiosity, and much more.  SHOW NOTES: Intro | Lisa introduces and welcomes today’s guest, Cynthia Garcia. [2:20] Reframe | Cynthia reveals the power of reframing and controlling your perspectives. [5:00] Inside | Cynthia reveals why you have to look inward and refrain from ‘numbing out.’ [7:28] Release | Cynthia reveals why getting uncomfortable is required for change. [9:30] Change | Cynthia reveals what you need to be truly change the course of your life. [17:38] S.T.O.R.Y. | Cynthia reveals the power of understanding the stories you tell yourself. [20:15] Immerse | Cynthia reveals the power of immersing yourself in the world you desire. [30:17] Trauma | Cynthia reveals how the impactful events of your life form your narrative. [33:33] Aware | Cynthia reveals why you need to make an effort to be aware of your stories. [37:56] Naysayers | Cynthia reveals how to let go of what other people think of you. [42:31] Happiness | Cynthia reveals the truth about why it’s okay to not be always happy. [50:15] Stay Curious | Cynthia reveals why you should remain curious in life. [53:46] Check out our Sponsors Blinkist: Go to https://blinkist.com/woi Try it FREE for 7 days and save 25% off your new subscription. FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://bit.ly/2TIsoKh YouTube: https://bit.ly/2IAbTcH Podcast: https://spoti.fi/2IEajGW  FOLLOW CYNTHIA: Website: cynthiagarcia.com Website: transformationalnutrition.com Instagram: instagram.com/iamcynthiagarcia Facebook: facebook.com/iamcynthiagarcia Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact? Calling all Badasses!! If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be!  Women of EXTRA Impact Subscription Benefits: New episodes delivered ad-free Exclusive access to listen to Women of Impact round table discussions, weekly motivation, previously unreleased episodes, and more!  Subscriber-only access to an additional 4 podcasts with hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists, and updated weekly. Looking to boost your confidence? Check out the Get Confident playlist.  Want to repair and heal your relationships? Start with Love Lab.  Curious about your health? We’ve got you covered in Health Hub.  And of course, weekly boosts of mini-motivation from Lisa herself that'll have you strutting through life with your head held high on the Badass Boosts playlist  Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It’s Lisa Bilyeu here with another AMAAAAAZING episode of Women of Impact to help you stop wasting time with wrong guys (or gals) and break the cycle that has you stuck in the same broken patterns every single time! In today’s episode I’m joined again by dating & relationship expert (and my long-time homie), Matthew Hussey.  And today Matt is here to call out the bad relationship tips out there and instead give you a blueprint to ACTUALLY find love in your life and STOP doing the destructive things that are sending the WRONG message and keeping you in unhappy, and even toxic, relationships!  In this episode, we’re diving into: - The toxic dating advice out there that’s doing you more harm than good - How your fear of being alone is keeping you trapped in unhealthy relationships - Why what attracts a partner doesn’t always attract the RIGHT partner  - Why you constantly invite bad people into your life & how you can break out of the cycle - How your mind plays tricks on you when it comes to relationships & safety - How to distinguish between expectations in a partner that will make you happy & those that just feed your ego And that’s just in part 1 of this 2 part episode! So listen closely guys, this conversion with Matt is filled with SOOOOO many dating insights that you can use right away TODAY to make the small changes in your life that will actually make a big difference in your love life and help you find the right partner for you!  Follow Matthew Hussey: Website: https://matthewhussey.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/gettheguyteam Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CoachMatthewHussey/ Order “Love Life”: https://lovelifebook.com/ Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu  Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement SPONSORS: If you purchase an item using these affiliate links, Impact Theory may receive a commission. Visit http://betterhelp.com/WOMEN today to get 10% off your first month. Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa now to grow your business–no matter what stage you’re in. Click the link below or head over to https://cozyearth.com and use promo code LISA to save an exclusive 35% off. Post your job for free at https://LinkedIn.com/LISA. your first purchase by going to https://drinkAG1.com/lisa. Go to https://tryviome.com/LISA and use code LISA to get 20% off your first 3 months, and take control of your gut health today! PRE-ORDER YOUR COPY OF LISA'S BOOK "RADICAL CONFIDENCE"  (NOW IN PAPERBACK & WITH A NEW CHAPTER!) & GET YOUR FREE BADASS BONUSES: https://bit.ly/radcon ***CALLING ALL BADASSES!*** If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be!  *New episodes delivered ad-free, EXCLUSIVE access to hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, and so much more!* Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! *****Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP***** Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Becoming your own boss is exciting and empowering when you dream about it and see it romanticized on social media, but the reality of doing what it actually takes to be your boss is freaking scary. When you want to go out on your own, become your own boss, have the freedom to work where you want and when you want but you’re scared sh*tless don’t you dare quit! You are 100% capable of leading yourself, being your own boss, and being a successful entrepreneur. It’s not going to happen without fear, anxiety, nerves, and all the negative chatter in your head working overtime to convince you otherwise, and we've got the online marketing expert and multi million dollar entrepreneur and author of Two Weeks Notice, Amy Porterfield, here to break it down for you step by step. Amy went from corporate girl to million dollar success story that still struggled with doubts and belief that she was enough. In this episode Amy and Lisa are coming for all of your excuses. Behind your fear is a thought many of us have, ‘what will people think?’ The powerhouse question Amy is asking you to ask yourself here is this, ‘what are you willing to burn down and build back to create the life you absolutely want?’ It may be relationships, toxic dependencies, lack of boundaries, or a miserable nine to five you feel stuck at. How much is your happiness worth? What are you willing to do to build the life you dream of? Permission from others is not needed. Check out Amy’s book, Two Weeks Notice: https://amzn.to/3Z6aO1y Follow Amy : Website: https://www.amyporterfield.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@AmyPorterfield Twitter: https://twitter.com/amyporterfield Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amyporterfield/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AmyPorterfield/ Podcast: https://www.amyporterfield.com/amy-porterfield-podcast/ Women of Impact Podcast is sponsored by Growthday Network: https://growthday.com/podcasts Check out my FREE 4-Part Confidence Workshop! - https://bit.ly/3fZcbO5 Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact? Calling all Badasses!! If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be!  Women of EXTRA Impact Subscription Benefits: New episodes delivered ad-free Exclusive access to listen to Women of Impact round table discussions, weekly motivation, previously unreleased episodes, and more!  Subscriber-only access to an additional 4 podcasts with hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists, and updated weekly. Looking to boost your confidence? Check out the Get Confident playlist.  Want to repair and heal your relationships? Start with Love Lab.  Curious about your health? We’ve got you covered in Health Hub.  And of course, weekly boosts of mini-motivation from Lisa herself that'll have you strutting through life with your head held high on the Badass Boosts playlist  Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Let’s be honest. There’s a lot of BS we’ve been accepting as the “norm” that we really should be questioning. High stress levels? Of course stress sounds normal, who isn’t stressed and your stress levels are sky high. You’re running around doing everything and trying to be everything for everyone and you're checking social media in between.  Appetite out of control? Why wouldn’t it be? You don’t have time to prioritize sleep, so you’re also tired, and you get insane cravings for all the carbs, the sweet and salty things that betray you later. Is anyone stopping to think that maybe your hormones are the culprit? When was the last time you heard “hunger hormones” used together? Dr Amy Shah joined us for the first time to talk about why we’re so “Effing Tired” and how hormones, fasting, and circadian rhythms are different for women. This time Dr Amy is joining us to share about the hunger hormones making you so “Effing Hungry” that increases stress levels, increases overwhelm, and makes adulting in our relationships 10 times harder. A few ideas Dr Amy Shah shares that will blow your mind: What you eat changes and controls your mood Every 10% increase in processed food you eat leads to a 21% jump in depression Hunger hormones drive you to do the best and worst things for your body Dr. Amy Shah is a double-board certified medical doctor that specializes in food allergies, hormones and gut health for women. She’s passionate about women’s health and disseminating health information for women to have healthier, happier, fitter lives. Check out Amy Shah’s latest book, I’m So Effing Hungry: https://www.amazon.com/Im-So-Effing-Hungry-Crave/dp/0358716918  Women of Impact Podcast is sponsored by Growthday Network: https://growthday.com/podcasts Check out my FREE 4-Part Confidence Workshop! - https://bit.ly/3fZcbO5 Follow Dr. Amy Shah: Website: https://amymdwellness.com/  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dr.confidentialwithdr.amys7371/  Twitter: https://twitter.com/amyshahmd  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fastingmd/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/drconfidential/ Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact? Calling all Badasses!! If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be!  Women of EXTRA Impact Subscription Benefits: New episodes delivered ad-free Exclusive access to listen to Women of Impact round table discussions, weekly motivation, previously unreleased episodes, and more!  Subscriber-only access to an additional 4 podcasts with hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists, and updated weekly. Looking to boost your confidence? Check out the Get Confident playlist.  Want to repair and heal your relationships? Start with Love Lab.  Curious about your health? We’ve got you covered in Health Hub.  And of course, weekly boosts of mini-motivation from Lisa herself that'll have you strutting through life with your head held high on the Badass Boosts playlist  Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices