We're Going There with Bianca Olthoff (That Sounds Fun Network)

Have you found yourself asking God why certain things have happened? Are you walking through an unexpected situation? Do you wonder if you'll ever pursue your God-given dreams? Sometimes life throws us curve balls and we can end up in moments we don't foresee. It can be confusing but God can handle our frustration and difficult questions. In this podcast, Lisa Whittle joins me to talk about: Moments of questioning God's plan Dealing with unexpected problems Resting in God's peace during moments of uncertainty Not being limited by ourselves and other people's opinions Lisa is a writer, speaker and Bible teacher who has been in ministry for nearly 20 years. She's experienced a lot in life, in church and in relationships. Throughout this podcast, Lisa tells me about how she's dealt with failure and overcome disappointment, and how she invited God into all of those moments. She talks about finding peace in the midst of uncertainty and the beauty that can be found in waiting seasons. Lisa also reminds us about the importance of pursuing our God-given dreams and not worrying about other people's opinions. As you listen, I hope you feel empowered and you're reminded that if God is for you, no one can be against you. Be sure to tag us @biancaolthoff and @lisawhittle, we'd love to learn more about how this episode spoke to you! Love you,B RESOURCES/LINKS GUEST Lisa Whittle Book: God Knows: When Your Worries and Whys Need More Than Temporary Relief  ⋇ Grit Don’t Quit Book Club ⋇ Order Bianca’s new book GRIT DON’T QUIT ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify Google ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Happy summer, my podcast friends! This season is chock-full of amazing guests, solo episodes, and timely truths to keep us always going THERE. Let’s start this season with a touchy topic: our bodies. With the northern hemisphere donning sun dresses, sleeveless tops, and skimpy bathing suits, this is the PERFECT time to talk about issues plaguing our society. And for the men listening to this podcast, don’t act like you are exempt. If research is true, roughly 75% of men wrestle with body shame or body dysmorphia. So listen up, friends: It's high time we start talking about what we don’t like to talk about. Today on the show, I’m talking with Jess Connolly, writer, dreamer, barre instructor, and author of Breaking Free from Body Shame. Friends, I believe that we’ve all struggled with everything from: Body image Overeating Dieting Emotional eating Biblical view on eating My hope isn’t that we walk away with a false sense of magically being free from body shame, but that we at the very least, celebrate the beauty created by a Master Artist. If you want more information on Jess and how you can order her book: Breaking Free from Body Shame. You can do so now on amazon or check out the rest of her stuff at jessconnolly.com. I’m also giving away 3 copies of her book. Post on Facebook or Instagram and tag @jessaconnolly and @biancaolthoff to win. It means a lot to my guests and I to hear your feedback online. So tag, post, share, and spread the love. I’m so grateful for you and I can’t wait to see what this summer and this season of the podcast holds! 🖤 B --- This episode is sponsored by • OUAI - When you’re ready to undo some damage, hit the reset button with the OUAI Detox Shampoo. We’re Going There listeners get 15% off the entire purchase. Go to theouai.com and use the code GOINGTHERE. --- This episode is sponsored by • BetterHelp and We're Going There listeners get 10% off their first month at betterhelp.com/wgt Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Tuesday Truths: Dry + Empty Does your soul ever feel dry and parched? We need to draw from God’s living water - from Jesus’ life. Are you drawing from living water? Or, are you trying to live on your own? Draw near to God and receive of His living waters, and let your life flourish. 🖤 B Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hi friends! It’s our very last episode of season one of We’re Going There and I thought long and hard about HOW to end this season and what better way to talk about something that I NEVER publicly talk about: STEP-PARENTING. Now before you think you don’t relate to the topic, let me beg to differ. Though you may not be a stepparent, 50% of those listening probably have a stepparent. I have a very special guest joining me for this conversation. My favorite son and favorite footballer player, Parker Mason Olthoff. We will share several personal stories and we will hear: The effects of divorce on all families An honest perspective from a child of divorce Statistics on the emotional effects of divorce on children What healthy parenting can produce For the struggling stepparents, keep going. You never know how God can use you. For stepkids out there, go thank your stepparent for doing the best they could. For the bio parents who married the saint that took on your kids, show them some love. If this podcast was a gift to you, would you do a gift for me? Subscribe to this podcast, rate it, and share it with your friends. My hope is to continue to plant seeds of faith, hope, and love into ears around the world. Thanks for joining for my first season. I’m so grateful for you! 🖤 B Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever made a bad decision and regretted it? Are you wondering if there's a way to redeem your story? Do you want to use your experiences to advocate for change? Fox and Rob Richardson speak candidly and with grace about all of this in today's podcast. In this conversation, we talk about: • How difficult circumstances can lead to bad decisions • The realty for men and women who are incarcerated in the U.S. • Having resilient faith in hard times • The importance of prison ministry Fox and Rob's story is one wrapped in grace and full of redemption. They speak openly about mistakes that they made which led to both ending up in prison. Fox talks about how her faith got her through her sentence and how she fought for her husband's release. Rob details the reality of long-term incarceration and talks about the importance of supporting people who are serving a prison sentence. As you listen, I hope you remember that God's grace is sufficient and that in our weakness the Lord is made strong. Whether you're hoping to rebuild your life after incarceration or looking for ways to support people in prison, there's something for everyone in this podcast. We all make mistakes, and we are not defined by our past. There's a God that loves you and wants to turn your test into a testimony. You can tag us @BiancaOlthoff and @foxandrob, we'd love to learn more about how this episode spoke to you. Love you,  B RESOURCES/LINKS Book by Fox & Rob Richardson: Time, The Untold Story of the Love That Held Us Together When Incarceration Kept Us Apart Book by Gary Smalley: Making Love Last Forever WGT Email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org  Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you looking for ways to deal with your mental and emotional health? Have you ever considered going to therapy? Confronting inner struggles may sound overwhelming but it can change your life for the better. In this episode, I'm talking with actor turned author, Zachary Levi about Therapy and the positive impact it's had on his personal and professional life Why it's important to deal with generational cycles Breaking stigmas surrounding vulnerability Known for his leading roles in American Underdog and DC superhero movie Shazam, Zachary has gained mainstream popularity and has a huge following. During our conversation, Zachary shares his story in hopes that it will help others. We discuss the difficulty he had in his childhood and the impact of generational trauma. Something profound about Zachary's experience is the healing that took place when he went to therapy and got the help that he needed. Zachary also shares his journey of faith and how God met him where he was in his moment of need. As you listen, I hope you gain the courage and bravery of a superhero and remember that there's a God who loves you as you are. You can tag us @biancaolthoff and @zacharylevi on social media, we'd love to find out what you've learned from this episode.  Love you,  B Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You ready for some love, dating, and sex advice? This is your podcast! Pastor Mike Todd is an exuberant, vivacious, and dynamic leader who is shaping culture and impacting the Church. In this podcast we will talk about: - His calling and ability to shape culture - Dating - Relationship goals - Sex before marriage - Masturbation - And becoming the right mate before finding the right mate Pastor Mike’s wisdom is beyond his years. I cannot advocate for his book Relationship Goals enough. You can buy it on Amazon, Target, Barnes & Noble and everywhere that books are sold or downloaded. You can also watch his Relationship Goals Series on YouTube. Also, thank you for your amazing reviews. Let me remind you that if you write a review, take a picture of your review and email it to podcast@inthenameoflove.org you will receive a FREE seven-session Bible study through Ruth as well as the free PDF. Thank you for being part of this community. I love you and cannot wait to chat with you next week. 🖤 B Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hi friends! Welcome to We're Going There! We are going on a seven-day journey through Scripture to discuss The Holy Spirit.  We are gonna dive into this topic of the Holy Spirit because I firmly believe that we're in the brink of God doing something really cool and unique on the earth. I know I said it before and I even used, yes friends, the Bible. This is not a word I want to throw around and use lightly but as a teacher, as a preacher, as a communicator of God's word.  For me personally, the study of the Holy Spirit and receiving to get to this Spirit has radically changed my life.  We will build upon the understanding and concepts around The Spirit of God. My hope is that instead of living basic boring, vanilla beige khakis, spiritual lives, we can live with a sense of upgrade of our faith.  If this podcast blessed you, tag me @BiancaOlthoff to share with your friends and family what you are listening to and growing from. Love you! 🖤 B Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever doubted your gifts and abilities because you are a woman? Has it ever been difficult to rise to a leadership position in your career, as an entrepreneur or as a woman in ministry? Makayla and Valerie are young women with careers and businesses who also volunteer in ministry positions at The Father’s House OC. In this episode we touch on: Struggles using your gifts  Navigating overwhelm when serving  Rising up to your potential calling  I thought that being sensitive was a weakness that I had to repress. That, my friend, is a lie from the pit of hell. I want to encourage women to continue to use their gifts wherever God has placed them for their good and the benefit of the Kingdom of God. I will continue to share my story to help women go places that I never could.  Don’t be ashamed of how God fashioned you. Maybe you are not in a leadership role, but whatever you are doing, do it with excellence. Embrace your God given femininity and step into whatever season you are in with strength and confidence. Let us know how you are owning your femininity by tagging @BiancaOlthoff @Makayylay and @Valortega Until next time, friends!  Love,  B RESOURCES/LINKS  The 5AM Club: Own Your Morning. Elevate Your Life Girl, Listen Podcast with Mak & ValWGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org  Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Is there a burning desire in your heart to help the less fortunate? Are you ready to sponsor women and girls around the world? I had the privilege of partnering with Convoy of Hope and being part of an event in Puerto Rico to do just that.  We were able to open up the Word of God together and speak to the potential of young girls as individuals. The girls had space and margin to write about their dreams. I too was reminded of my BIG dream: • Empower young girls and women • Give back to local communities and churches • Resource the island to become a hub for the Caribbean Even though we have not hit the goal yet, we will keep moving towards it. It is our job to believe and it is God’s job to execute it. You can still sponsor a girl for only $25 a year or the amount that God puts in your heart by visiting: convoyofhope.org/bianca Remember, your dream might seem wildly impossible and you might be disappointed that you have not reached your goal, but know that our God is able and that He is the God of the impossible.  I am grateful for the generous donations of all of you who have already sponsored a girl. Share your stories of hope with us by tagging @BiancaOlthoff and @convoywomen  Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women Together Donate here ⋇ Order Bianca’s new book GRIT DON’T QUIT ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify Google ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Do you ever feel like you're going through the motions in your spiritual life?  Many of us crave a deeper connection with God, but where do we start? Today, I chat with John Mark Comer about the power of spiritual disciplines, the practices that can unlock real transformation in your faith. We discuss the following key points: Spiritual Formation: John Mark Comer defines spiritual formation as the process of becoming someone with a greater capacity to receive and give love in relationship with God and others. Spiritual Disciplines: Discussed as "means of grace" that allow us to surrender to God's transformative work. They are practices, not performances, used to offer our bodies to God. Fasting: Highlighted as a way to let go of control and identify the things that control us. Sabbath: Examined as a challenge to our busy culture, teaching the importance of rest and stillness. Comer shares his personal experience with Sabbath and its transformative power in his life. The Three Enemies of Peace: Identified by the desert fathers and mothers as the world, the flesh, and the devil. These enemies hinder our ability to experience true peace. Following Jesus: Acknowledged as not an easy path, but the way to true joy and peace. Sin and Happiness: The impact of sin on our capacity for happiness is discussed. Trusting in God's definition of goodness is highlighted as essential. John Mark also shares his experience growing up in a church that emphasized the importance of Sabbath and how it has shaped his family's life. Let us know how you are deepening your relationship with God by tagging us @biancaolthoff and @johnmarkcomer. XO, B RESOURCES/LINKS Guest John Mark Comer https://johnmarkcomer.com/  Quote Working fasting into my regular life has been one of the most transformative things I've ever done. Takeaways Spiritual disciplines are means of grace that allow us to offer our bodies to God and surrender to His transformative work. Fasting helps us let go of control and reveals the things that control us. Sabbath challenges our culture of busyness and teaches us the importance of rest and stillness. Both fasting and Sabbath are practices that can lead to spiritual transformation and a deeper relationship with God. Sabbath is a transformative practice that can bring emotional and relational healing and shape the rhythm of our lives. The three enemies of peace identified by the desert fathers and mothers are the world, the flesh, and the devil. Following Jesus is not easy, but it is the way to true joy and peace. Sin sabotages our capacity for happiness by appealing to our God-given desire for happiness through deceptive ideas. Trusting in God's definition of goodness and following His pathway to life leads to freedom and a deeper experience of love and joy ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! This episode is sponsored by AirDoctor Pro. Go to airdoctorpro.com and use promo code WGT you’ll receive UP TO $300 off air purifiers! Exclusive to podcast customers, you will also receive a free 3 year warranty on any unit, which is an additional $84 value! http://tinyurl.com/WGTAirDoctor  This episode is sponsored by Dwell! Go to dwellbible.com/wgt to receive your 25% discount today. http://dwellbible.com/wgt ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Friends, today I have a special teaching by one of my favorite people on the entire planet. Matt Olthoff is the guest on this episode and he really just breaks down in the most simplistic form: Who is the Holy Spirit? This week is giving me life. I hope and pray that you make this podcast part of every day this week. If this podcast has meant something to you, go ahead and let Matt know @MattOlthoff on Twitter, Instagram, and Facebook. Thanks for tuning in, friends. I can't wait for us to chat tomorrow.  Until then, let's go there! 🖤 B Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Is it time for you to take a leap of faith and experience new things this year? Are you ready to orient your life toward what God has been calling you to? I’m glad you’re here, friend, because I want you to know that this can be your best year yet!  To have a successful year, we need to do some soul searching and examine ourselves. This is what I want you to know that: New beginnings are possible  Self-evaluation is important Common excuses can sabotage our future Stepping out in faith is necessary I want to be your guide as you go through the process of self-evaluation and consider who you are, where you are, and what you have. Feelings of inadequacy and lack of control can creep into our lives and keep us from finishing well. Let me help you assess where we are right now and begin your quest toward your new beginning.  Tag me @BiancaOlthoff as you declare boldly what the new is for you.  Love you friends, B RESOURCES/LINKS TFHOC How to be Rich Series ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Order Bianca’s new book GRIT DON’T QUIT ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. Let’s start the New Year together! ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify Google ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! This episode is sponsored by AquaTru. Get 20% OFF any AquaTru purifier! Just go to AquaTru.com and use promo code WGT This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/GOINGTHERE and get on your way to being your best self. Sign up today to get 10% off your first month. ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” TAKEAWAYS With every rising of the sun and setting of the moon, God gives us a new beginning. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We are the salt of the earth. This declares who we are and what our purpose is. We are called to add Christ flavor to whatever environment we are placed in. We are to preserve a Christ like culture in a morally decaying world. And we can cause others to thirst after the God that we have inside of us.  Stay salty my friends! 🖤 B Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Do you need massive clarity on how to thrive? If you are ready for a framework that will help you to live authentically by unlocking your highest emotional need, this is the episode for you!  My guest today is best-selling author, speaker, and executive coach Mike Foster. He will help us understand the power of our primal questions. We go over: Shifting from the scramble to the primal truth How our highest emotional needs drive our behavior  How identifying our primal question can lead to personal growth and transformation Mike explains the seven primal questions and shares a simple yet powerful way to uncover your hidden programming, emotional needs, and supernatural gifts. He also shares the importance of understanding ourselves and others in order to build healthier relationships.  Share with us how you are embracing your primal power by tagging us @biancaolthoff and @mikefoster2000 XO, B RESOURCES/LINKS Quote We spend a lot of time cutting branches instead of dealing with the roots and really dealing with the core of who we are and really understanding that. Takeaways Understanding our primal question can lead to personal growth and transformation. Identifying our highest emotional need allows us to make better choices and live in our truth. Recognizing the primal questions of others can help us build healthier relationships. Living in the truth of our primal question empowers us to overcome challenges and pursue our purpose. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Order Bianca’s new book GRIT DON’T QUIT ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify Google ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hi Friends! We’ve all gone through hard seasons in life. And some of us have even been through a season wanting to fulfill a dream or get a promotion or the family that we’ve always wanted and then not being able to get what we want when it seems like we’re almost there. In today’s episode, my guest Jordan Lee Dooley will be sharing with us some practical steps on how to navigate painful setbacks and hardships. Jordan shares how difficult experiences, waiting seasons, and our greatest disappointments can bring clarity to what we really want in life. If you find yourself frustrated because you are not where you thought you should be in life, this episode is for you. Life is filled with unmet expectations, disrupted dreams, uncertainty, and in-between seasons. Lean in and listen to how Jordan’s experiences taught her to take a long pause, audit her life, and learn how to gain greater clarity about what she truly wanted, why she wanted it, and how to begin pursuing it. Friend, if you are in a season of in-betweens, not-quites, and unknowns you are not alone. You belong to this community and we’re here for you. Let Jordan know how this episode has impacted you by tagging us @BiancaOlthoff and @JordanLeeDooley Talk to you next week, friend! Love you, B LINKS / RESOURCES: Book - Embrace Your Almost: https://jordanleedooley.com/eya Safe Families for Children: https://safe-families.org/ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you walking through a difficult season of life? Do you ever feel like people are focused on what's wrong, instead of what's right? Have you been asking God to bless you with something? We see all of this in Jabez's story, and I'll be diving deep into scripture for today's podcast. In this episode, I talk about:  My birthday and reflecting on this last year Jabez's story and the lessons we can learn from him  God answering prayers in the midst of our pain  Preparing for God's blessings  Nestled into two verses of scripture, in 1 Chronicles 4:9-10, we meet a man by the name of Jabez. He was a man named after pain, but he wasn't defined by it. In this podcast, I want to tell you more about the prayer that Jabez prayed and what we can learn from it. The people around Jabez discounted him but God never did, in fact, we see that Jabez was a man of honor who prepared for what he prayed for.  As you listen, I hope you remember that God is for you and wants to see you win! When we pray, God hears us and goes before us. God is with you in the good and the bad. Jabez had a God-done-did-it testimony and I'm praying the same for you and for me in this next season. In the meantime, you can tag me @biancaolthoff, I'd love to learn about what God has done, is doing and will do for you!  Love you, B  RESOURCES/LINKS  Jabez was more honorable than his brothers. His mother had named him Jabez, saying, “I gave birth to him in pain.” Jabez cried out to the God of Israel, “Oh, that you would bless me and enlarge my territory! Let your hand be with me and keep me from harm so that I will be free from pain.” And God granted his request. 1 Chronicles 4:9-10 NIV  WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org  Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In today’s episode, I'm throwing an audible - instead of me interviewing a guest, I have a special guest interview me. My twin sister Jasmine Star! Jasmine is an entrepreneur and a business strategist. She’s also my business coach and overall best friend. We are going to be talking about: - Personal brand - Knowing who to attract - Getting clear about your message Jasmine is so much fun! Show her some love on social media @JasmineStar. You can leave comments or DM’s but share the love because this woman is incredibly kind, gracious and generous and I firmly believe that if you follow her your life will be enriched as well. This week we’re giving away two great resources. The first winner will receive a six week DVD bible study through the book of Galatians with my friend Jada Edward. It's brand new and it's phenomenal! And the second lucky winner will receive Alli Worthington's new book Standing Strong. Leave a great review on your favorite social media platform and tag @JasmineStar and @BiancaOlthoff to participate. I can't wait for next week's podcast. Thanks so much for leaving your kind reviews, and I will see you online! 🖤 B Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Do you feel overwhelmed and unsure of how to create a life that you love? Are you ready to take small steps to make it happen? My friend Stephanie May Wilson, a writer, speaker, and podcaster, and I talk about the unique challenges and pressures women face in their 20s and 30s, a time Stephanie calls the "everything era." This is a period marked by significant life decisions, societal expectations, and a whole lot of figuring it out. Stephanie shares her own experiences navigating this tricky terrain and offers some valuable takeaways: Embrace the Power of Choice: The 'everything era' is YOUR time to take the reins and create the life YOU want. It's about aligning your decisions with your values, even when those values don't always align with traditional expectations. Transition to the "I Get to Create It Now Era": Life throws curveballs. Embrace those detours as opportunities for personal growth and course correction. Each challenge is a chance to refine your vision and build the life you love. Don't Be Afraid of Disagreements: Navigating this phase can lead to conflicts with loved ones, especially when it comes to life choices. Use these disagreements as opportunities for open communication and mutual understanding. Listen in as Stephanie shares her personal journey of embracing the "I get to create it now era" and how a move to Spain opened up a whole new chapter of her life.  Follow us on social media at @biancaolthoff and @smaywilson. Stay connected with Stephanie through her adventures.   XO, B RESOURCES/LINKS Guest Stephanie May Wilson stephaniemaywilson.com Book: Create a Life You Love: How to Quiet Outside Voices So You Can Finally Hear Your Own Quote The 'everything era' is a time of uncertainty and pressure to figure out life. Takeaways The 'everything era' refers to the period in a woman's life, typically in her 20s and 30s, when she is making significant life decisions and facing societal pressures. It's important to define what success and happiness mean to you personally, rather than conforming to societal expectations. The transition from the 'everything era' to the 'I get to create it now era' is a defining moment for personal growth and decision-making. You have the power to decide how you want to live your life and make choices that align with your values and desires. When life doesn't go as expected, you have options: you can quit, keep moving forward, change tactics, or ask for help. Surround yourself with a supportive inner circle who can provide guidance and advice, but ultimately trust yourself to make the best decisions for your life. Creating a life you love may involve making intentional decisions that fit for a season but may not be permanent. Taking control of your own life and making decisions that align with your values and desires can lead to personal fulfillment and happiness. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! This episode is sponsored by Dwell! Go to dwellbible.com/wgt to receive your 25% discount today.  ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Youtube  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hi friends! Welcome to our final and last episode of our series on Understanding the Holy Spirit. If you have been here all week, I am so proud of you. Honestly, the stuff we're talking about is deep. There are so many Christians and so many people and so many churches that just won't even touch the topic. And I really believe when we apply these principles to our lives, we can literally grow leaps and bounds. I want to talk about the gifts that we have access to through the Spirit of God. I want to keep it simple and discuss these three categories: Motivational gifts Ministry gifts Manifestation gifts I want you to operate in the gifts of the Spirit. ask God to reveal his gifts to you. Friends, it has been my honor, my privilege, and my gift to be able to talk about a topic that a lot of people don't want to talk about. If this series has been a gift to you, share it with your friends and family and let me know when you post on social media by tagging me @BiancaOlthoff I love you friend! 🖤 B Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to another episode of We're Going There friends! This particular week we are doing something different. This entire week, we will be discussing the who, the how, the why and the when of the Holy Spirit. Today we will be building upon these key principles:  Unity  Prosperity  Equality  Supernaturally If this podcast blessed you, tag me @BiancaOlthoff and share with your friends and family what you are listening to and growing from. Love you! 🖤 B Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Family, we are GOING THERE today! Please know that this episode is a labor of love and a passion project. I am not against social media. I love social media! I love the power of people being so connected. There is good coming out of social media. But I want to ask you some personal questions: ·       Do you feel better or worse about your life after your scroll on social media? ·       Do you feel better or worse about your body after you scroll on social media? ·       Do you feel emotionally full or spiritually empty? THAT is what I want to discuss social media today! Let’s just pause and evaluate. How IS social media impacting us? The answer is determined by you. Social media can tear you down or lift you up. No matter how much time you are spending on social media everyday, make sure you leave making the apps better than we found them. But its going to begin when we evaluate HOW we interact, HOW we feel afterwards we’re on them, HOW much time we spend on them, and WHAT are we doing to create the experience we want online. Friends, I LOVE being able to have real and relevant conversations with those who are part of this community. It would mean the world to me if you subscribed to the show and shared this episode with your friends. I’ll see you online. Love you, friends. 🖤 B RESOURCES: --- This episode is sponsored by Simply Earth • Have fun making your home toxin free with Simply Earth’s Essential Oil Recipe Box! Plus, get a FREE 80 ml diffuser when you subscribe using our URL, simplyearth.com/WEREGOINGTHERE --- This episode is sponsored by ZocDoc • NOW is the time to prioritize your health. Go to Zocdoc.com/WGT and download the Zocdoc app to sign-up for FREE and book a top-rated doctor. --- This episode is sponsored by Thistle Farms • You can find out more at ThistleFarms.org - when you checkout, enjoy a special 15% discount by using the code GOINGTHERE so that they know B sent you! Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome back to another episode of We’re Going There! Pull up a chair, podcast friends. We are about to have a meal served to us! In today’s episode, best-selling author and pastor Louie Giglio shares practical ways to overcome the Enemy’s lies and instead find peace and security in any challenging circumstance or situation. By drawing from Psalm 23 as a framework, he offers biblical insight on how to: Cancel the lies that will wreck your life. Take empowering steps to live fully alive in Christ. Restore peace and rest in your life. Break free from the endless cycle of destructive thinking. This guy has a heart after God and a mind fighting for wisdom. If you want a copy of Pastor Louie's new book, “Don’t Give The Enemy A Seat At Your Table” I’ve got good news for you! As my love gift to you, I’m giving FIVE copies of the books for five lucky winners on Instagram and Facebook. Just tag @LouieGiglio and @biancaolthoff to be entered to win. I know our guests love knowing their words made an impact, so show them some love online. As always, if you love the show, we’d love to hear from you! You can leave a review or share this podcast with your friends. Until next week friends, I’m sending you mad love! 🖤 B RESOURCES: YouTube video: Don't Give the Enemy a Seat at Your Table - Louie Giglio --- This episode is sponsored by That Sounds Fun Podcast • Listen to Christian author and speaker Annie F. Downs on That Sounds Fun! --- This episode is sponsored by Christian Mingle • Discover why so many Christian singles find love at ChristianMingle.com/GOINGTHERE. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever felt like you don’t know who you are or what you are meant to do in life? Do you struggle with shame, guilt, or fear of rejection from others? If you answered yes to any of these questions, then you don’t want to miss this conversation with Real Talk Kim.  Kimberly Jones, a.k.a Real Talk Kim, is a preacher, podcaster, author, and speaker. Throughout our conversation she will share powerful words of encouragement and inspiration for those who feel lost and disconnected from themselves. You will walk away with practical handles on how to: Move forward, let go of shame, and seek approval from God rather than people Learn how to embrace new beginnings and transform your pain into purpose Discover transformation and how to walk in your purpose Healing from past loss and trauma can be a daunting task. We believe in the power of transformation through self-love and forgiveness. God uses our hot mess and turns it into our message. Embrace your new beginning and step into your calling! Share with us how you have been inspired, challenged, and empowered by tagging me @biancaolthoff and @realtalkkim  Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS Guest Real Talk Kim aka Kimberly Jones: realtalkkim.com Instagram: @realtalkkim  Book: You Gotta Get Up Quote Start in the middle of your mess. Just don't stay there putting a bandaid on your life. Get up, if you don't like your life, change it. Takeaways Learn how to turn your pain into purpose and live a fulfilling life Believe that God has a plan for you and that He is not finished with you yet Hear some real talk from a woman who has overcome loss, trauma, and addiction and is now a pastor, author, and speaker ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Order Bianca’s new book GRIT DON’T QUIT ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. Let’s start the New Year together! ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify Google ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you aware of diet culture infiltrating safe spaces like school or church? Everyone is on a journey of their own. I want to make sure that as we talk about the impact of diet culture in the church, that we do it from a place of love, kindness, grace, health, and healing. I believe that we can have meaningful conversations around the topic of weight by: Being receptive to the needs of others Extending grace and not shaming or judging others Considering everyone’s individual circumstances Friends, as you continue to walk with God, remember that He is compassionate and gracious. Ask Him to guide you as you grow in relationship with Him and learn to separate yourself from diet culture. Food is a gift from God!  Tag me @biancaolthoff and @leslieschilling and let us know how this conversation has transformed your mindset around food. Love, B RESOURCES/LINKS Guest Leslie Schilling: https://www.leslieschilling.com/  Book: Feed Yourself: Step Away from the Lies of Diet Culture and into Your Divine Design  IG: https://www.instagram.com/leslieschilling/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/NutritionLeslie  Quote Is it really biblical to be chasing a number on the scale? Takeaways Diet culture has infiltrated the church and made it an unsafe place for discussions about body image and health. The 'body as a temple' verse has been misused to shame and judge others based on their appearance. Fasting can be practiced in a healthy and holy way, but it is important to consider individual circumstances and avoid harmful behaviors. Alternative fasting options, such as abstaining from social media or comparison, can be just as meaningful and impactful. Self-discipline should be redefined as honoring hunger and taking care of our bodies, rather than pursuing a specific body size. Toxic detoxes should be avoided, and emotional eating should be addressed with the help of therapy or other forms of support. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Order Bianca’s new book GRIT DON’T QUIT ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. Let’s start the New Year together! ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify Google ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you ready to detox from toxic detoxes? Embracing food freedom begins by getting rid of practices that can be toxic to our bodies.  Our bodies are wise and intricate miracles. In order for us to function optimally, we need to be aware of diet culture by: Listening to our bodies Rebuilding a healthy relationship with food Owning our worth and having guilt-free progress Friend, you know yourself better than anyone else! Self-care is possible when you get in touch with your body outside of diet culture and trust it. Paying attention to your surroundings and the messages that you are listening to is key to taking your next steps toward food freedom. Let us know how you are owning your worth beyond a number on a scale by tagging us @biancaolthoff and @leslieschilling. Don’t miss tomorrow’s episode. It is the last day, Day 5 of The Weighting Game series! Love, B RESOURCES/LINKS Guest Leslie Schilling: https://www.leslieschilling.com/  Book: Feed Yourself: Step Away from the Lies of Diet Culture and into Your Divine Design  IG: https://www.instagram.com/leslieschilling/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/NutritionLeslie  Quote Trust in a very wise body. Takeaways Detoxing from toxic practices and diet culture is essential for embracing food freedom. Trusting our bodies' natural processes and listening to our internal cues is key to recalibrating our sense of health. Intuitive eating is a self-care framework that helps us make peace with food and make choices that align with our values. We owe no one a number on the scale and have the right to refuse unnecessary weight checks. Detoxing toxic practices involves renouncing diet culture and embracing our worth beyond societal body standards. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Order Bianca’s new book GRIT DON’T QUIT ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. Let’s start the New Year together! ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify Google ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hello Friends! Having a peaceful life is something many of us strive for and in a world full of distractions and chaos, it can be hard to learn how to find it. In today’s episode, I’m talking with writer and mixed-media artist, Morgan Harper Nichols. Throughout our conversation, you’ll hear about how Morgan embraces her artistic nature and how her work is bringing peace to people across the globe. Morgan speaks about her journey of expressing creativity in childhood and how it’s evolved into the different types of art that she’s released. We also discuss Morgan’s diagnosis of autism in adulthood and how it empowered her to articulate how she’d been feeling for so long. My heart and my hope is that you find peace today, what is something that brings you peace? I’d love for you to share it on social media, you can tag us @BiancaOlthoff and @MorganHarperNichols. I can’t wait to see what peace looks like for you. If this podcast inspired you in some way, pass it on to a friend, because sharing is caring! Love you, 🖤 B RESOURCES: Morgan Harper Nichols book: Peace Is A Practice - https://morganharpernichols.com/peaceisapractice Love Is Series videos and PDF - https://www.biancaolthoff.com/love Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” --- This episode is sponsored by Athletic Greens • Athletic Greens is going to give you a FREE 1 year supply of immune-supporting Vitamin D AND 5 FREE travel packs with your first purchase. Visit athleticgreens.com/WGT --- This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp • We're Going There listeners get 10% off their first month at betterhelp.com/wgt Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to Season 8 of We're Going There! Our theme this season is resilience, grit, and perseverance. We hope you enjoy every conversation and take away practical handles to help you get back up! RESOURCES/LINKS Order Bianca’s new book GRIT DON’T QUIT ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify Google ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Friends, have you ever found yourself thinking "I guess I haven't learned that yet"? We can make plans and set goals but sometimes life happens, and we find ourselves in a situation we didn't see coming. In today’s episode, I’m talking with writer and storyteller, Shauna Niequist. Throughout our conversation, you'll hear Shauna unpacked this very concept. She talks about the art of gathering around a table, moving her family to New York and mourning the identities that we outgrow. Shauna also shares her perspective on rediscovery and embracing new seasons of life. There is power in putting down the ideas of how others perceive us and simply living as who we are truly meant to be. Just like a lovingly home-cooked meal, Shauna has all the elements to truly satisfy your soul. We'd love to see you recreate the meal that Shauna shared in this episode! Don't forget to tag us @BiancaOlthoff and @sniequist. If this podcast inspired you in some way, pass it on to a friend, because sharing is caring! Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS: Shauna’s Book: I Guess I Haven't Learned That Yet: Discovering New Ways of Living When the Old Ways Stop Working Shauna’s Hearty Italian Stew Ingredients Onions Shallots Garlic Carrots Tomatoes Fennel Sausage White beans Spinach Lots of Parmesan Use a soup stock of your preference. Combine all ingredients. Add salt or Italian spices to taste. Sides Loaf of Sourdough Bread Green Salad Vinaigrette made with wine vinegar, apple cider vinegar or lemon juice Drinks Sparkling water Red wine Dessert Blackberries A couple of bars of dark chocolate broken up into pieces Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

My Friends! We’re Going There Podcast has hit 1 MILLION downloads and we are here to celebrate!🎉 I took a pause from my day and hopped on a quick call with my twin sister Jasmine Star to process and savor this moment. You know why? Because I wanted to create an Ebenezer moment. A moment that I can look back to and remember how good God has been in my life. But friends, this moment would not have been possible without YOU! I’m so grateful to all of the faithful listeners and for the not-so-faithful listeners too. Because everyone that’s clicked to listen to any of the episodes on any of the platforms has been a part of this milestone. THANK YOU!!! I had a BIG dream, but I got here by starting small. I took the small step of looking up what the beginner podcasting equipment was, and bought it. That step created a ripple effect as I continued to take step after step to launch this podcast. And today, I’m celebrating 1 Million downloads. Yay! If you have listened to 1 of the one million downloaded episodes, share with me what your #1 step is going to be as you pursue your dream. Post on your Stories what your #1 step is and tag me @BiancaOlthoff on it. Like my sister Jasmine said: You need to be ok with having the courage to put yourself out there and be publicly accountable and you need to be ok with being mediocre. You also need to be ok with God blessing what you’re doing to get to step #2.  I’ll be cheering you on from the sidelines! Love you friends! 🖤 B RESOURCES: What’s your #1 step? Tag me at http://instagram.com/biancaolthoff Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you dealt with the fallout of making a mistake? Do you wonder if God can provide true redemption? Can faith evolve over time? Ines Franklin talks about all of this in today's podcast. In this conversation, we talk about:  • Partnering with God when setting goals  • The true cost of making a bad decision  • Discovering personal convictions  • Redemption and evolving faith  Ines is a preacher, teacher, and author who I've known for a long time and her journey of faith is honest and full of grace. She tells me about the lessons she learned from divorce and the impact it had on her family. Ines also talks about her come-to-God moment and how she developed a love for the bible. We also talk about forgiveness and how God can change your life.  As you listen and learn about Ines, I hope you see that God's love is for everyone and that it's never too late to start over.  You are wonderfully and fearfully made, and God will meet you right where you are. You can tag us @biancaolthoff and @inesfranklin, we'd love to learn more about how this episode spoke to you.  Love you,  B RESOURCES/LINKS  Ines Franklin Book: Uncharted: Navigating Your Unique Journey of Faith  WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org  Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hey Family! Let’s talk about creativity! Whether you want to write a book, paint a mural, launch a business or even create a math algorithm, that is all centered around the creative process. On today’s episode, I’m talking with award-winning singer and songwriter, Jeremy Camp. I learned about four main stages to developing an idea. They are: preparation, incubation, illumination and lastly, verification. While things may not always work out in this exact linear order, you can use this as a roadmap for your creative journey. It offers a direction if not a destination. The most important thing to remember is that everyone’s creative process looks slightly different. Mine looks more like a zig-zag or a spiral than a straight line. Throughout our conversation, you’ll hear about Jeremy’s creative process and how he tends to break a lot of the creative rules. I would love to hear about your art and creativity. Will you do me a favor? Send me a visual clue that you are participating in this creative process. Take a picture of your art, song lyrics, poem or business plan and tag us @BiancaOlthoff and @JeremyCampOfficial. And, if you love the creativity that comes through the art of podcasting, don’t forget to leave a positive review for this show so that we can reach more ears around the world. Love you, 🖤 B RESOURCES: Jeremy Camp Movie: I Still Believe - https://www.amazon.com/I-Still-Believe-KJ-Apa/dp/B085ZKKGZ9 --- This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp • We're Going There listeners get 10% off their first month at betterhelp.com/wgt Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you part of a blended family? Do you know someone who is navigating step-parenting? Have you wondered how non-traditional families make it work? Well, it's something I know all too well and I'm sharing my own experiences in today's podcast. In this episode, I talk about: Navigating step-parenting The importance of learning from other families Establishing boundaries and roles at home The realities of being part of a blended family I was recently invited to the No Greater Joy Podcast hosted by my friends Peter and Heather Stow to discuss my experience with step-parenting. I'm grateful for the space they created for me to share my story and to increase the visibility of blended families in the church. Throughout the conversation, you'll learn more about how I adjusted to life as a S’Mom (aka Step-Mom). I talk about the lessons I learned and also the emotional impact of step-parenting. As you listen, I hope you gain a new perspective on blended families and how they are part of God's plan. When I married Matt, I also gained Parker and Ryen and they've been a beautiful addition to my life. It hasn't always been easy, but the Olthoff household is one full of love and God's grace. I went from being single to becoming a step-parent REAL quick and it changed my life forever. So, whether you're a step-parent or looking for ways to support a friend or family member who is part of a blended family, I hope this podcast encourages you. You can tag us @biancaolthoff, @peterstow and @heatherstow, we'd love to learn more about how this episode spoke to you. Love you,  B RESOURCES/LINKS No Greater Joy Podcast with Peter & Heather Stow Stow Ministries Ep 13: How To Step-Up In Step-Parenting With Parker Olthoff WGT Email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org  Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hi Family! Today We’re Going There! I want to share a conversation that I had with our church family and friends which is to love like Jesus in moments that are absolutely crazy. Friends, if we do not get LOVE right we're dead wrong in our Christianity. Next week is the last episode of season one and I have a very special guest. I cannot wait to share with you. I love you. I appreciate you. I'm so grateful for you. If this podcast has blessed you, if you like it, if you love it, will you subscribe and leave a positive review. Share and tag your friends on social media. 🖤 B Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever had a moment where instead of believing the best, you assume the worst? In today’s episode I share another bonus teaching on why every thought that comes to your mind matters. We can train our minds with the wrong things, or we can train our minds with the Truth. What goes into our minds will come out in our life. To change your mind and change your life, you need to rewrite and retrain your brain with the Truth of the Word of God. Meditate on the Word by: 1. Seeking out the Truth of God 2. Writing out the Truth of God 3. Declaring the Truth of God 4. Believing the Truth of God Be transformed by renewing your mind with the power of the Truth of God's Word. I hope this bonus episode has helped you in some way. You can tag me @biancaolthoff and let me know truth of the Word of God is helping you to demolish strongholds. Love you,  B RESOURCES/LINKS  The Father’s House Orange County What Were You Thinking // Changing Your Brain // Mind Games // Bianca Olthoff Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome back, friends! I'm so excited about this week and you know what, I know this podcast is not gonna be for everyone. If you are tuning in and listening to this, it's because you want to understand the power that you possess as a person and as a child of God. I believe that by us having these conversations and dialoguing, our lives can change. When we take next steps, even in our faith journey, we can go to depths that we never knew possible and we can experience things in our life that we might have felt impossible. Today I am discussing the three different baptisms that we see in the Bible. They are: Baptism of Salvation Baptism of Water Spiritual Baptism We are here on earth to change the world, to go to the ends of the world, or the end of our street, and tell people about Jesus. And if necessary, use words. I want us to step into position to be prepared to receive the gift that God has for us. How? By taking these three steps: Remove all barriers Request the Holy Spirit Receive Him by faith We are continuing on and I'm encouraging, you DON'T QUIT. You've come too far to quit. And if some of you are already getting baptized, take a picture of your baptism, post it on social media and tag me @BiancaOlthoff so that I can praise with you! If you haven't yet subscribed to the podcast, as always, you are invited to do so and if you like the podcast, leave a positive review. Love you all!  🖤 B RESOURCES: Get baptized at one of our Freedom Nights. Visit tfhoc.org to sign up! --- This episode is sponsored by Betabrand • Our listeners can get 30% off their Betabrand orders when you go to Betabrand.com/GOINGTHERE --- This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp • We're Going There listeners get 10% off their first month at betterhelp.com/wgt Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Friends, welcome to this special episode of We’re Going There! I love my dad and I want to honor him for Father’s Day. But I know that for some of you this holiday can be heartbreaking for different reasons. God is our Heavenly Father and you will always have a seat at His table. I hope that meeting some of the members of my crazy family has encouraged you! Thank you for sharing this podcast and leaving so many amazing reviews. Talk to you again in July. Love you! 🖤 B --- This episode is sponsored by Dwell • Go to dwellapp.io/weregoingthere to get 10% off a yearly subscription, or 33% off Dwell for life. --- This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp • We're Going There listeners get 10% off their first month at betterhelp.com/wgt Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Is there a past trauma affecting your life? Are you unsure how to respond to triggers that catch you off guard? You don’t have to go through this alone. Healing, redemption, and restoration are possible and Kobe Campbell will walk us through: - How to deal with uncomfortable emotions - Learning to identify the need behind our feelings - Developing an accurate view of who we are called to be Kobe teaches us to care about our mental and emotional health before we are in a crisis. When you are experiencing an emotion, it is indicating a need. Feelings are the check engine light of the soul. Pay attention to your feelings, they’re trying to tell you something. Healing from trauma is a process and we can lean on God and on professionals to help us through it.  Friend, you have the capacity to heal. Hold on to the good moments because healing can happen to you too! Tag me @BiancaOlthoff and @KobeCampbell_ and share with us how you are experiencing transformation! Love you friends, B RESOURCES/LINKS Pre-Order Bianca’s new book GRIT DON’T QUIT Redeem your FREE gifts when you preorder by filling out the form on this page.  ··········· GUEST Kobe Campbell Book: Why Am I Like This: How To Break Cycles, Heal From Trauma, And Restore Your Faith The Healing Circle Podcast Kobe’s Quotes Emotions are like the check engine light of the soul. We live in the stories we tell ourselves. You have to care about your mental and emotional health before you are in crisis. There's a difference between feeling a strong emotion that is uncomfortable and being triggered. Anger is an emotion that tells us that something sacred has been violated and that something needs to be protected.  An overlooked means of wounding someone is with words.  The words that people speak over us create the perception that we have of ourselves, and we live out of that perception. ··········· Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify Google ··········· Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ··········· Want to stay connected, join the community today. ··········· WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ··········· Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What if I told you that though life might feel like a dumpster bin fire right now, you can choose to remain and not quit. If you know me, I don't want to see anyone give up. In this season of We’re Going There, we will be exploring the theme of Resilience and how to develop the grit to press on. I want us to share practical tools and handles for you as we unpack together: What it means to be resilient What it means to be gritty What it looks like to persevere How you can care for yourself Life can get hard and I know that many of you out there are dealing with a lot of hurt and pain. I want you to remember that you are called to great things and you are stronger than you think. Choose to remain. Choose to love. Choose to have joy. Push off the feeling of quitting - GRIT DON’T QUIT! I’m excited for this new season, friends! Tag me @BiancaOlthoff and let me know how strong and gritty you really are! Love you friends, B RESOURCES/LINKS Pre-Order Bianca’s new book GRIT DON’T QUIT Redeem your FREE gifts when you preorder by filling out the form on this page. ••••• WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org••••• Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”••••• Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify Google••••• Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca.••••• Want to stay connected, join the community today! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feeling overwhelmed by the fast pace of life, constant pressures and never-ending to-do list? You're not alone.  I get to dive deep into the challenges of navigating today's fast-paced world with former lawyer turned pastor turned podcaster, Carey Nieuwhof. Listen and learn how to: Prioritize your relationships and protect your time Maximize your productivity through focused work Manage your energy for optimal performance Break free from the stress cycle Implement effective strategies for taking breaks that recharge you This episode is packed with actionable tips and insights to help you thrive in today's demanding environment. Show your appreciation to Carey by tagging him @careynieuwhof and me @biancaolthoff. Until next time, B RESOURCES/LINKS Guest Carey Nieuwhof https://careynieuwhof.com/  Book: At Your Best: How to Get Time, Energy, and Priorities Working in Your Favor  Book: Leading Change Without Losing It: Five Strategies That Can Revolutionize How You Lead Change When Facing Opposition Podcast: The Carey Nieuwhof Leadership Podcast Quote You know how to do a vacation. Well, but time off won't heal you because the problem is how you spend your time on. Takeaways Our relational circles have expanded due to technology, leading to overwhelm and burnout. Setting boundaries and prioritizing relationships are essential for managing the constant pressure of life. Managing energy and identifying peak productivity hours can help optimize productivity and prevent burnout. Creating a daily routine that includes self-care practices and intentional social interactions can contribute to overall well-being and balance. Prioritize your 'green zone' to optimize your time, energy, and efforts. Eliminate distractions and focus on deep work to produce your best work. Manage interruptions and develop a disciplined approach to work. Take extended breaks to rest and rejuvenate, allowing for personal growth and increased productivity. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! This episode is sponsored by Airdoctor. Head to airdoctorpro.com and use promo code WGT you’ll receive UP TO $300 off air purifiers! Exclusive to podcast customers, you will also receive a free 3 year warranty on any unit, which is an additional $84 value!  ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” ⋇ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Do you know where to meet people online? Have you created a dating profile? On a scale of 1 - 5 where does your dating profile score? If your answer is low, we’re here to help!  Has it been difficult for you to run into single people lately? Are you wondering where to go, what to do, or who to ask out? I want you to assess 2 things today: Your community - Where are you hanging out? Who are your friends? What are your hobbies?  Your sparkle - Are you going out of your comfort zone to intentionally let others know that you are single like a pringle and ready to mingle?  Dating is like a taxicab light; if the light is on - you’re signaling that you are ready to date! But before you go out on a quality date, you need to spruce up your profile. That is what Meagan Blanchette and I will be focusing on today. Listen in to learn more on how to create a dazzling dating profile. Tag me?@BiancaOlthoff?and let me know how your profile is shaping up.   Remember, dating is a season that we move through. The intention is to meet the person who you will hopefully spend the rest of your life with.  Love, B  RESOURCES/LINKS  Follow Meagan Blanchette’s Dating Journey -??@meaganherself, Meagan’s Website or Season of You Podcast  FREE Love Is Resource  TFHOC: How To Set Boundaries / Love Lines TFHOC: How To Date || Bianca Olthoff  How to Have Your Life Not Suck: Becoming Today Who You Want to Be Tomorrow WGT email:?podcast@inthenameoflove.org  Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email:?bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Do you feel stuck through obligation and not obedience? Are you looking for ways to be more creative? Does it sometimes feel like no one understands your perspective? DOE is a singer-songwriter with a pastor's heart and her unique voice is what makes her unforgettable. In this conversation, we talk about: • Growing up in ministry and pursuing God's calling • Obligation vs obedience • Trusting God's character and the desires He placed in your heart • Creativity in all its forms • Making the most of your time while being single DOE is known for her unique voice and beautiful melodies, but she's also accomplished outside of her career in music. She's got three degrees, worked as a youth pastor and even has an Uber license! DOE speaks about a season of transition and stepping out as a solo artist. After spending much of her life in ministry with her family, she wanted to explore new things. What I love about DOE's story is that she embraced her individuality and knew that her differences were the very things God could use for His glory. I hope that as you listen, you'll reflect on the things you really want to do and then have the courage to boldly pursue them. Because where God guides, He provides! You can tag us @biancaolthoff and @doejonesmusic, we'd love to learn about your God dream and the things that make you... YOU! Love you,  B RESOURCES/LINKS  Doe Jones Music Podcast music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hi friends! You know I love talking about healthy relationships. Don’t tune out just because you’re married. WHY? Because we ALL have friends who are single and ready to mingle. I’m going to safely wager they would LOVE it if you empathize and had knowledge around the struggles of dating and maybe even provide some tips on how to date and mate well. For those who are single, let’s go there and talk about online dating! Thanks to social distancing and a global pandemic, online dating has really been neutralized and naturalized over the last year. But now we are in the murky waters of meeting people digitally. On today’s episode, we get to chat with Dr. Christie Kederian. She is a nationally-renowned psychologist and Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, specializing in the psychology of relationships. You will hear more about: Do opposites attract? Is online dating important? What to be aware of while dating online Dating profile do’s and don'ts I’m so grateful for Dr. Christie’s time and if you want to show her some love, I know it would mean a lot to her. You can share this episode with your friends and tag @BiancaOlthoff and @TheDateDoctorChristie to show some love. Speaking of love, if you love this podcast, it would mean the world to me if you shared this show, wrote a review and subscribed to the show. It helps allow this podcast to go further, farther, and faster! Can’t wait to have you join us for next week's brand new episode! Thanks, friends! 🖤 B --- This episode is sponsored by • Framebridge - Go to Framebridge.com and use promo code GOINGTHERE to save an additional 15% off your first order. --- This episode is sponsored by • Nutrafol - Go to Nutrafol.com and promo code GOINGTHERE to save FIFTEEN DOLLARS OFF your first month’s subscription. Plus FREE shipping on EVERY order. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

BONUS EPISODE: Hi Friends! Yes, this is another bonus episode! In all honesty, this is one that I did not want to record. But, I know that my people would like to know a little more about who the person behind the mic is, so… THIS IS ME! Share this podcast with your friends and tag me @BiancaOlthoff - because sharing is caring! 🖤 B Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Friends, I love Thanksgiving! It's my favorite holiday. So today you have a chance to embrace gratitude and it is a way to get through this season with true JOY. But let's get real, who is responsible for your gratitude? It’s not your boss, your spouse, your kids, your pastor, or your friend. YOU are responsible for your gratitude. I’ve learned one definition of thankfulness that I love. It is: WANTING WHAT I HAVE. Thankful people want what they have. Let’s be content with what we have. Contentment is saying “I don't need it because I don't have it.” I have a loving Father who gets me every good thing that I need. I want you to join me and make this commitment this week and you can carry it through ‘till Christmas and onto the New Year: Every day make a list of at least six things for what you're grateful for Then two times during the day you share it with someone that you are thankful for I’m grateful for you, friends. You’ve made my list today and I’m sharing it with you. My hope and my prayer as we go into this holiday season is that you are content with what God has given you. Share this episode on social media and tag me @BiancaOlthoff. I can't wait to chat next week! Love you friends!  🖤 B RESOURCES: --- This episode is sponsored by Simply Earth • Have fun making your home toxin free with Simply Earth’s Essential Oil Recipe Box! Plus, get a FREE 80 ml diffuser when you subscribe using our URL, simplyearth.com/WEREGOINGTHERE --- This episode is sponsored by Thistle Farms • You can find out more at ThistleFarms.org - when you checkout, enjoy a special 15% discount by using the code GOINGTHERE so that they know B sent you! --- This episode is sponsored by Redeeming Love • For more information or to find tickets to a theater near you, visit: RedeemingLoveMovie.com Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to “We’re Going There,” the place where we can have honest conversations on real issues that are relevant today. Today we are going to talk to one of my favorite people on the globe about—drum roll please—ADULTING. Friends, I hope you love Bob as much as I do. You can buy his amazing books HERE and stalk him online at @BobGoff. And since sharing is caring, share this message with your friends, family, and frienemies and make sure and tag us so we can thank you. We’re Going There is a new podcast and it would mean the world to me if you subscribed to the show and wrote a review. As a gift of appreciation, I’d love to send you a 7-week video bible study and PDF guide through the book of Ruth as my gift to you. All you need to do is write a review, take a photo of your review, and email it podcast@inthenameoflove.org to be sent your FREE goodies. Join us next week as we have a great conversation with my Wanna-be-Mentor and Friend, Lysa Terkuerst. 🖤 B Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hi Friends! This is my very first podcast episode and I’m so honored you are tuning in. This whole season is packed with amazing people who aren’t just names, but actual friends or people I look up to. Okay y’all, this could be risky to start the show with the topic we are going to discuss, but I’m a risky kinda girl. Here’s the thing: I can’t have a show about wanting to be real and honest and not talk about one of my hardest struggles. And who better than to shoot it straight than Christine Caine?! If you don’t know Christine, she’s a petite Greek Aussie with blonde hair and a biblical bite. She may be small, but she is mighty. In addition to freeing slaves as the founder of A21, empowering women as the founder of Propel Women, and preaching the gospel around the world, she was also my boss. I worked at A21—a global anti-trafficking organization—for almost 7 years. The work was gloriously exhausting and devastatingly beautiful. But one conversation sticks out to me as one of the most profound of my life. THAT is what I’m going to talk about in this episode! Christine is a best-selling author, profound communicator and loyal mom and wife, but her greatest strength is she has died a thousands deaths and has allowed the Spirit of God to lead to the most interesting parts of the world. My hope is that she teaches us today how to do the same. Share this podcast with your friends and tag @ChristineCaine and @BiancaOlthoff because sharing is caring! I would LOVE it if you subscribed and wrote a review! As a token of my appreciation, I’d love to give you a 6-session video Bible study and guide for FREE! All you have to do is write a review, take a snapshot of the review and email it to podcast@inthenameoflove.org and you’ll be sent your FREE gift. We can’t wait to connect with you next week as we welcome Bob Goff! 🖤 B Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are there things in your life today that don’t align with your vision of tomorrow? What do you need to leave behind as you move forward into the future that God has for you?  It’s hard to let go of things. Trust me, I know. It is important to realize that in order for us to experience personal growth and find spiritual success, we need to have necessary endings in our lives.  Boundaries are necessary, and so are endings. That’s why today we will explore: The need to manage expectations and investments in our relationships The concept of pruning and setting boundaries The emotional epidemic of entitlement The dangers of enabling others If there is a relationship or a situation that is holding you back from reaching your best self, it’s time to let it go. Trust God and His plan for your life. If this series has made an impact in your life, share it with me by tagging me @biancaolthoff  I Love you, friend, B RESOURCES/LINKS Necessary Endings // When to Say Good Bye // Boundary Lines // Bianca Olthoff Quote If somebody says that they love you, but they reject your boundaries, they're not for you. Takeaways Endings are hard, but they are necessary for growth and spiritual success. Setting boundaries is an act of love and self-care. Evaluate your expectations and investments in relationships. Letting go of relationships and situations that no longer fit your future is essential for personal growth and fulfilling God's plan for your life. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Order Bianca’s new book GRIT DON’T QUIT ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! This episode is sponsored by NOTES® Candle. Make the switch and build a starter kit. Right now Notes is giving listeners 15% off AND free shipping when you buy a Notes starter kit using code GOINGTHERE at notescandle.com/GOINGTHERE ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify Google ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What does the American Dream look like? How does a family build a legacy? Is there a way to fulfill the desires God put in your heart? Bricia Lopez can speak to all of this as a chef, author and entrepreneur who is bringing a taste of Mexico to mainstream food culture. In this episode, I'm chatting with Bricia about: · Her family and their American Dream · Growing up in Mexico and immigrating to the U.S. · Helping to establish a family business and building a legacy · Bringing Mexican culture into the U.S. and attaining mainstream accolade As we celebrate Hispanic Heritage Month on the podcast, I'm exploring the concept and realities of the American Dream with Bricia. During our conversation, Bricia shares the story of her family and how they established a successful Oaxacan restaurant in Los Angeles. She speaks openly about the challenges they faced along the way as well as the huge success they've attained for their authenticity. Something that's special about Bricia's perspective is that she continues to build her family's legacy alongside her siblings. My heart and my hope is that as you listen, you'll learn about a new culture and that you'd give yourself permission to dream. Ideating is a free gift given to us and if God's put a desire in your heart, chances are you're the person to see it through to completion. Below you'll find one of Bricia's favorite recipes, so I'd love for you to recreate it and discover a tasty new Mexican dish. You can tag us @biancaolthoff and @bricialopez, we'd love to see what food and dreams you cook up after this episode. Love you,  B RESOURCES/LINKS  Oaxaca: Home Cooking from the Heart of Mexico  Salsa Borracha Recipe Ingredients · 1 pound tomatillos, husked and rinsed · 6 morita chiles (you may substitute with ¼ ounce chipotle chiles), destemmed · 2 cloves garlic, peeled · 2 tablespoons apple cider vinegar · 2 tablespoons mezcal · 2 bay leaves · Sea salt Instructions · Preheat your oven’s broiler to its highest setting · Place the tomatillos on a baking sheet with a rim, on your broiler’s highest rack, and broil for 20 minutes, mixing them around at the 10-minute mark to make sure all of the tomatillos are cooking evenly. The tomatillos should be lightly charred and change color to a light yellow. Set aside. · Meanwhile, in a comal or cast-iron skillet over medium heat, toast the dried chiles and garlic until slightly charred and fragrant. This should take about 30 seconds for the chiles and about 5 minutes for the garlic. · Bring about a cup of water to a boil. Pour the boiling water into a bowl, add the toasted chiles, let them sit for about 20 minutes or until they are soft and tender. Drain and set aside. · In a blender, combine the reserved tomatillos, chiles, and garlic with the apple cider vinegar, mezcal, 2 tablespoons of water, and the bay leaves. Blend until smooth. Taste for salt and serve. · This salsa will stay fresh in the refrigerator for a week. Pollo Enchipotlado or Chicken in a Creamy Chipotle Sauce Recipe Ingredients · 1 (2 pound) whole chicken, butchered into 8 pieces · Sea salt · Black peppercorns, freshly ground · 2 tablespoons Dijon mustard · 5 ¼ cups chopped tomatoes · ½ small white onion, chopped · 4 cloves garlic, peeled · 1 tablespoon olive oil · 1 tablespoon butter · 3 whole chipotles in adobo, plus 2 tablespoons... Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you having a rocky start to your year? Does it seem like you are starting out on a crazy train? How about we start this season with a positive attitude? Having a word to reflect on throughout the year has always been pivotal in my life and I hope it is helpful to you as well. We all have good intentions when we set resolutions. But let's be honest friends, even though we started out strong, less than half of us made it to the 6-month mark. Focusing on ONE word during the entire year can be very powerful. Not only will you be able to stay focused, but you will also have direction on who you want to be and what you want to step into. Pause, think, and create a list to hone into your word. And remember, don't just be interested in it, be committed to it. Set some time by yourself, with a friend, or your date to go through these steps. I can't wait for you to tag me at @BiancaOlthoff and share what your word for this year is. Love you friends! B RESOURCES/LINKS  Do You Need An Epiphany? // Enough // Matt Olthoff WGT Email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Friend, do you know what time it is? It’s time to talk about FASHION. Fashion is equal parts intrigue and mystery for me. It’s like beef tartare. I know I should like it and all of its fanciness, but at my core I’m afraid to look it at and even more afraid to try being daring and make a fool of myself in the process. Maybe you are a fabulous or maybe you feel fabuLESS. Today we are talking about what to FEEL in what we wear and how to find our own self confidence no matter what shape you are. God cares about the minutia of our lives and the desires of our hearts. Another person who cares is clothing stylist, Zoe Juarez. She has styled for companies like Nordstrom’s, Macy’s, and styled photoshoots for magazines, models, and multi-purpose consultations. Zoe has a unique style for her clothes, but she always has a heart to make people feel fabulous. She has graciously offered a FREE 1-hour Consultation for one lucky listener to walk through your wardrobe and help you style outfits or to help you create a personalized Pinterest board for inspiration. All you have to do is tag @zBelleJ and @biancaolthoff to win a FREE personalized styling consultation. Thank you for listening and I hope you subscribe and rate this show so we end up in the ears of people far and wide.  Love you guys and can't wait to chat next week! 🖤 B Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Did you know that food has the ability to elevate moods and foster connections? Are you ready to find healing and restoration in the kitchen? My friend and renowned chef, Aarti Sequeira, shares how she found her passion for cooking and how it can be a source of peace, connection, and healing. Find out how: Food can lift spirits and bring people together Cooking as a reflection of life Finding peace in the kitchen You know that it’s always a party when Aarti is around! She shares a recipe for Persian Spinach and Eggs and encourages listeners to cook and share your creations with us by tagging me @biancaolthoff and @aartipaartipics XO B RESOURCES/LINKS Guest Aarti Sequeira  Books Unwind: A Devotional Cookbook for the Harried & Hungry My Family Recipe Journal An American Kitchen with an Indian Soul Ep 42: Soul Food for Your Ears with Aarti Sequeira   Persian Spinach and Eggs Recipe Video Persian Spinach and Eggs (Nargesi) Ingredients: 1 red onion, finely chopped 1 pound of baby spinach (or regular spinach), washed and drained 1/2 teaspoon turmeric Salt and pepper, to taste 1 to 2 large eggs per person Instructions: Heat olive oil in a large pan over medium heat. Sauté the chopped onion until it turns light and translucent. Add the spinach to the pan and cook until wilted (about 10 minutes). You might need to add the spinach in two batches. Cook until excess water evaporates. Season with turmeric, salt, and pepper. Create small wells in the spinach using a spoon and crack the eggs into these wells. Cover the pan and cook for a few minutes until the eggs reach your desired doneness. Serve the Persian Spinach and Eggs on its own or with some bread (such as lavash, barbari, Turkish pide, or pita bread). Quote I'm constantly amazed, flabbergasted, humbled by the fact that, you know, the first thing that Jesus did for his disciples after he resurrected was to cook for them. Takeaways New beginnings can lead to unexpected and fulfilling paths. Mistakes in cooking can often lead to delicious surprises. Cooking can be a source of peace, connection, and healing. Food has the power to lift spirits and bring people together. The transformative way that cooking brings joy to our lives.  ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Order Bianca’s new book GRIT DON’T QUIT ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! This episode is sponsored by HomeChef. For a limited time, HomeChef is offering my listeners 18 Free Meals, plus Free Shipping on your first box, and Free Dessert for Life, at HomeChef.com/goingthere. Must be an active subscriber to receive free dessert. This episode is sponsored by Airdoctor. Head to airdoctorpro.com and use promo code WGT you’ll receive UP TO $300 off air purifiers!  ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify Google ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you turned your boundary line into a boundary wall? If you find yourself lonely because of unrealistic boundaries, today you can take a sledge hammer and Bring.The.Wall.Down.  I want us to have a real talk and address the issues of isolation and loneliness that many people experience. I want to emphasize: The importance of community and relationships The need for boundaries in friendships  The challenges that come with maintaining healthy relationships The different levels of friendships Friendship is not codependency In some cases we can find ourselves looking at our friends and thinking; “what the heck?” That’s because we don’t have a clear definition of what “friend" means and we’ve given access to the wrong people into our friendship circles. I want you to walk away knowing what friendship IS and IS NOT.  Remember that true friendship and fulfillment can be found in Jesus. Tag me @biancaolthoff and let me know what healthy lines you’ve drawn in your life. Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS Friends With Benefits // Relationship Boundaries // Bianca Olthoff TFHOC Miseducation of Love Series  Quote People should be loved biblically, valued equally, but treated differently. Takeaways The benefits of community and relationships help against loneliness and isolation Different levels of friendship: casual, close & core The importance of investing in healthy friendships ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Order Bianca’s new book GRIT DON’T QUIT ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! This episode is sponsored by NOTES® Candle. Make the switch and build a starter kit. Right now Notes is giving listeners 15% off AND free shipping when you buy a Notes starter kit using code GOINGTHERE at notescandle.com/GOINGTHERE ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify Google ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Friends, welcome to our anniversary week! In this episode of the podcast, I’m making my vows to you, podcast listener, and I intend on keeping them in the way I’ve kept my marital vows to Matthew Ray Olthoff. I promise to love and lead with full honesty I cherish our time together and commit to giving this episode all my love and affection For richer or poorer, I will create content that will instruct, guide, or inspire In sickness or health, I will record content that will make us love each other more or at least commit to loving each other even though we disagree Do you, podcast listener, take me, Bianca Juarez Olthoff as your podcast friend? If you agree, say “We’re Going There!” I now pronounce us podcast friends for life. 🖤 B --- This episode is sponsored by You On Purpose • Preorder the book from Amazon or wherever you get your books, then head to Barna.com/YouOnPurpose to claim your preorder bonuses. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hi friends! We are on a break from our regularly scheduled podcast but between now and when we start our next season, I wanted to pop in and spread some love. If you're new around the podcast, let me welcome you and let you know that I'm excited that you've joined us for our podcast party! It's in my honor to create content that equips and inspires you. I decided to go back to my roots. At my core, I’m a word nerd and Bible teacher so I'm sharing some teachings from the book of James that both Matt and I shared at The Father's House Orange County back in 2020. Yes, the year of the pandemic. You also get access to a Bible study guide for the series that will help you in your journey through the book of James, and it's absolutely FREE. Send an email podcast@inthenameoflove.org to get your PDF today. And if you enjoy the podcast, it would be amazing if you left a positive review and subscribed to the podcast so you don't miss one episode. I hope you enjoy the series and I can't wait for season five. If there was more in season four then there is a vibe in season five! Love you friends! 🖤 B RESOURCES: Email podcast@inthenameoflove.org to get your James Series Guide https://tfhoc.org/ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Well friends, welcome to season 4! I’m honored that you are in this space and place with me. Our guest today has spoken and written about fear many times. She's brave and bold and beautiful from the inside out. Sadie Robertson Huff is a reality TV star turned writer, podcaster and speaker. Sadie and I have some fun memories together that I can't wait for you to hear. We will also be sharing about: Overcoming fear and living with confidence Authentically celebrating every moment in life Dreaming big and living like it's on purpose Friends, I hope you enjoy Sadie’s wisdom! In this episode, I get to give away 10 copies of Sadie's devotional book Live on Purpose. All you have to do is post on social media where you're listening or what you learned in this podcast and tag @LegitSadieRob and @BiancaOlthoff to win your very own copy of this little gem. Thanks for joining in on another season of We're Going There! There are big things in store and it would mean the world to me if you share this podcast with your friends or leave a loving review of the show. This will help the show go faster and further. I can't wait to chat next week. Love you friends! Until next week! 🖤 B RESOURCES: Sadie Robertson Huff • Live on Purpose: 100 Devotions for Letting Go of Fear and Following God --- This episode is sponsored by Simply Earth • Have fun making your home toxin free with Simply Earth’s Essential Oil Recipe Box! Plus, get a FREE 80 ml diffuser when you subscribe using our URL, simplyearth.com/WEREGOINGTHERE --- This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp • We're Going There listeners get 10% off their first month at betterhelp.com/wgt --- This episode is sponsored by Thistle Farms • You can find out more at ThistleFarms.org - when you checkout, enjoy a special 15% discount by using the code GOINGTHERE so that they know B sent you! Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hi friends! I hope that you had a wonderful Christmas and a Happy New Year! As we head into 2022, we often look at ways we can improve our lives and health. On today’s show, I’m chatting with author, advocate, and self-made chef, Danielle Walker. Throughout our conversation, you’ll hear about Danielle’s journey with an autoimmune disease and how food helped her heal. She shares her incredible journey, how she found ways to enjoy food once more, and how she’s bringing joy to others with her recipes and personal experience. Friends, if you know me, you know that I love cooking and in an alternate reality I’d be a chef. So, I’d LOVE for you to try Danielle’s Red Curry Butternut Squash Soup recipe and then share it with us on social media! You can tag me @BiancaOlthoff and @DanielleWalker. I can’t wait to see and share your posts! Wishing you a happy and healthy 2022! And, don’t forget to share this podcast with your friends, family and anyone else you know who loves food and podcasts! Love you, friends! 🖤 B RESOURCES: Danielle’s book: Food Saved Me Danielle’s website: https://daniellewalker.com/ Danielle’s blog: Against All Grain Red Curry Butternut Squash Soup Recipe --- This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp • We're Going There listeners get 10% off their first month at betterhelp.com/wgt --- This episode is sponsored by Redeeming Love • For more information or to find tickets to a theater near you, visit: RedeemingLoveMovie.com Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hi friends! Are you ready to have some fun? Well it's’ about time we get serious about having fun! Y'all we just survived one of the most traumatic years of our generation in 2020 and I’m here to tell you that if you’re alive, it’s high time you have some fun! On today’s podcast, I’ve invited my good friend Annie F Downs from That Sounds Fun podcast to discuss: WHY fun feels far away HOW to make time and schedule fun HOW Sabbath can lead to healthy measures of fun So if you aren’t going to add FUN to your calendar, I don’t know what to tell you! But if you loved this episode, don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review so this podcast can be shared with more people. Also, it would mean the world to me to have you share this podcast with your friends and tag @annieFdowns and @biancaolthoff so more people can join the fun! You can find Annie’s book: THAT SOUNDS FUN at your local bookstore, Target, Amazon or wherever books are sold. Love you guys and we will chat next week! 🖤 B BetterHelp - Join the millions of people who are seeing what online therapy is really about and save 10% on your first month by going to betterhelp.com/wgt Resources: John Mark Comer books: The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry & Garden City Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hey friends! Today we are setting a place at the table for Dr. Karen Bergstrom. We’re learning about: - Growth - Healthy relationships - How to be connected to others - Avoiding isolation - Cultivating friendships Having a third party moderator, like Dr. Karen, who can listen and coach us through life's challenges is such a blessing! Follow the link to download the “Secret Sauce Card”. If you are thinking about or actively searching for a coach, I invite you to check out Dr. John Townsend’s program and everything they have to offer. Another program that Dr. Karen is involved with is Safe Families for Children. Check it out. This week we’re giving away to one lucky winner, Jamie Ivey’s new book You Be You. Share on social media what you are learning on this podcast and tag me @BiancaOlthoff. Can’t wait for next week’s episode! 🖤 B Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hi friends! Welcome back to CELEBRATION week! This week marks our ONE YEAR as a podcast and we are celebrating by posting several special episodes. Today marks the THIRD birthday of The Father’s House Orange County. We have so much to celebrate. What a JOURNEY it has been. From our living room with 15 people dreaming about a church to now being in a building, surviving a global pandemic and mandatory quarantine, to now welcoming new friends and faces to church is nothing short of a miracle. Listen in to learn how to recover from church hurt and hear why the Church matters. Don’t forget to celebrate with us at The Father’s House OC on Sunday at 9am or 11am PT. Love you friends! 🖤 B --- This episode is sponsored by Betabrand • Our listeners can get 30% off their Betabrand orders when you go to betabrand.com/GOINGTHERE. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Why don't we talk about alcoholism in the church? Is there a way to overcome the shame we feel from addiction? Is there really a chance for wholeness and recovery? Irene Rollins is a pastor-turned-author who is shedding light on these topics and breaking the stigma around the church and its relationship with addiction issues. In this episode, I'm chatting with Irene about:  • Dealing with alcoholism in the church  • Identifying addiction issues and active recovery  • Having a safe community to heal with  • Supporting people impacted by addiction  Irene is in recovery from an alcohol addiction and has been sober for a number of years. She talks openly about how unresolved trauma, insecurity and a hard season of life led to a dependence on alcohol. During our conversation, Irene shares her story and how her issues with alcohol impacted her personal and professional life.  This conversation is shared with the intention of creating a dialogue around how the church deals with addiction issues. As you listen, I hope you'll see that help is available to those who need it and that recovery is possible with the right resources and support. So, whether you're looking for healing or trying to better understand how you can support someone through addiction, this episode is for you. You can tag us @biancaolthoff and @irenerollins, we'd love to find out how this podcast spoke to you. Love you,  B RESOURCES/LINKS Irene Rollins Book - Reframe Your Shame: Experience Freedom from What Holds You Back Treatment / Therapy Programs:  The Meadows Texas Celebrate Recovery Alcoholics Anonymous Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you embracing the clean girl aesthetic? Is there an outfit that makes you feel your most confident? Do you have a self-care regiment? I'll be unpacking all of this today and explaining why taking care of yourself should be a priority. In this episode, I talk about: · The basics of self-care · Maintaining a personal standard · How taking care of yourself is biblical · Explaining vanity vs maintenance and knowing the difference The church doesn't always like to have conversations about beauty and personal care because it can come across as pursuing vanity. Well, I'm flipping that narrative in this podcast, I want to let you know that having basic self-care standards is not bad but actually biblical. Being presentable, smelling good, and showing up for yourself shows others that you want to be taken seriously and treated with respect.  As you listen, I hope you meet yourself with compassion and remember that it's okay to take care of yourself emotionally, mentally, physically, and spiritually. If you love a full-face of make-up and hair extensions, this podcast is for you. If you love the TikTok clean girl aesthetic, this podcast is for you. If you prefer no make-up and yoga pants, this podcast is for you.  I love a colorful co-ord and believe that the longer the lash, the better! I hope this podcast encourages you to embrace your individuality with style and grace, in every place. You can tag me @biancaolthoff, I'd love to learn more about your personal style.  Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS  To receive the Free Ruth Resource, email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you coping with rejection and failure in your life? What if they are actually blessings in disguise? I have the privilege to discuss this with my guest today, none other than Gospel artist, producer, worship leader, artist, and author Anthony Evans. Anthony shares his journey in music and writing, emphasizing the importance of seeking help and knowing one's worth. He also talks about:  Overcoming rejection The intersection of faith and therapy Stepping into opportunities outside of the church  Knowing when to say yes to new opportunities Trusting in God’s plan when you don’t understand it is difficult. But that’s exactly what Anthony has done and encourages us to do. You might not be able to see it right away, but your sacrifice will have a positive impact in other people’s lives. Don’t give up now. Friends, you have immense worth to God and to me. Let us know how you are valuing your life today by tagging me @BiancaOlthoff and @anthonyevansjr. Love, B RESOURCES/LINKS Guest Anthony Evans: anthony-evans.com Instagram: @anthonyevansjr  REVIVE - Hit single: Even If  Quote Once you have a solid view on what you're worth as a child of God, then you don't put yourself on sale. Takeaways Value yourself and see yourself the way God sees you. Seek therapy to complement your faith journey. Rejection can lead to unexpected opportunities and growth. Know your worth and don't compromise your values. Step outside of the church to make a broader impact. Listen to your inner peace when making decisions. Even in difficult times, continue to worship and trust God's plan. Art comes at a cost, but it can transform hearts and souls. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Order Bianca’s new book GRIT DON’T QUIT ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. Let’s start the New Year together! ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify Google ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever experienced church hurt? Is there an offense that has been causing you bitterness? If this is your case, I want you to know that I’m so sorry for the hurt that you have experienced.  My friend, Pastor Larry Brey, from Elevation Church, and I sat down to discuss the topic of church hurt and how to overcome it. Our goal is to parse out the realities of:  Dealing with and overcoming Church hurt Recognizing offenses and processing them early Practicing gratitude and focusing on personal growth  Church hurt is real. It could stem from a misunderstanding or something else. Please remember, the church didn’t hurt you, a person did. That’s why it is important to speak up and share your hurt. It is also equally important to listen and understand what others are saying and feeling.  Gratitude and offense journals are two practical ways to help you process this hurt. Tag me @BiancaOlthoff and @lbrey and let us know how this practice is making a difference in your life. Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS Guest Pastor Larry Brey TFHOC Sermon: First Things First IG:https://www.instagram.com/lbrey/?hl=en Quote Any seed that is planted in silence will grow a fruit of bitterness. Takeaways Burying the past hurts and not letting them define your identity. Use an offense journal to process and deal with offenses. Take responsibility for your own actions and apologize when necessary. Practice gratitude and focus on personal growth. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Order Bianca’s new book GRIT DON’T QUIT ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. Let’s start the New Year together! ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify Google ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ So grateful for our sponsors! This episode is sponsored by Airdoctor. Head to airdoctorpro.com and use promo code WGT you’ll receive UP TO $300 off air purifiers!  ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hi friend! If you've listened to this podcast before, then you know that I am passionate about healthy relationships. I'm always asking: How can we do relationships better? Today we're gonna be talking about: Getting singleness right Significance without a significant other What dating post-pandemic feels like We're going to have a conversation with New Yorker Kat Harris who is a photographer, writer and a podcaster who has lots to share about dating, love, sex and relationships AND Los Angeles native Kait Warman who is navigating singleness while being single as an entrepreneur, relationship coach, podcaster and writer. Show them some love by tagging them at @therefinedwoman (Kat) and Kait @kaitness! Don't forget to show some love by subscribing to this podcast and leaving a loving review. :) 🖤 B Resources: Thank You for Rejecting Me: Transform Pain Into Purpose and Learn to Fight for Yourself Sexless in the City: A Sometimes Sassy, Sometimes Painful, Always Honest Look at Dating, Desire, and Sex Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Do you struggle with how to plan a date? Do you know what to do, where to go or who’s going to pay? Today, we round up this Dating Bootcamp series by giving you practical handles that will help you be more prepared before you go out on a date.  The goal of this series has always been for my single friends to go out on a date. Initiating a hangout with someone you are interested in is a good place to start. Remember these things before you go out:  Set healthy boundaries in advance  The person who asks is the person who pays  Come prepared to have a conversation  Give hints not heaps?  Listen to the other person  Be mindful of the type of food you order  Have no form of physical intimacy  So, if you do the work, put your best foot forward, and take yourself seriously you can find a potential candidate and eventually end up in a real dating relationship. Who knows, you might end up finding your life partner in the process!  My hope is that this dating bootcamp helps you in some way. Tag @biancaolthoff and @meaganherself and let us know how your 30 day dating challenge is going.  Love,  B  RESOURCES/LINKS  Follow Meagan Blanchette’s Dating Journey on Instagram: @meaganherself, her website, or Season of You Podcast  How to Have Your Life Not Suck: Becoming Today Who You Want to Be Tomorrow FREE Love Is Resource  TFHOC: How To Set Boundaries / Love Lines WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Friends, when I think about the end of the year, I want to ensure that we’re setting ourselves up for a strong year to come. One of the practices I've developed in my life is finding a word or phrase for the year. Today I want to walk you through my process on how I find a word for the following year. There's nothing mystical or magical about this process, it's a guide to help you through not just daily or weekly activities, but to set an intention for the year. This one word will help center you when life gets crazy or you feel you’ve lost your way or your convictions. Three steps to follow are: Pause Think Create a List If you don't have a word for the year yet, I really encourage you to make time and really go through the process. When you get your word, I’d love to know what it is! You can tag me @BiancaOlthoff on your posts or you can share this podcast with your friends and family and do this activity together. As always, I’m honored to create content that I believe will shape and shift your life. If this show is something you like, will you consider rating and reviewing it so it can get into more ears around the 🌏? It would mean the world to me. Love you, friends! 🖤 B RESOURCES: Share - https://anchor.fm/weregoingtherewithbianca --- This episode is sponsored by Simply Earth • Have fun making your home toxin free with Simply Earth’s Essential Oil Recipe Box! Plus, get a FREE 80 ml diffuser when you subscribe using our URL, simplyearth.com/WEREGOINGTHERE  https://bit.ly/WGTRedeemingLove --- This episode is sponsored by ZocDoc • NOW is the time to prioritize your health. Go to Zocdoc.com/WGT and download the Zocdoc app to sign-up for FREE and book a top-rated doctor.  https://bit.ly/WGTZocDoc Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You're not going to hear from God unless you really, really want to. You've got to want to have a conversation with God more than anything else. If you search for him with all your heart and soul you will find him. It's guaranteed! 🖤 B Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Do you find it hard to make sense of the different views on sex in culture? Is it time for you to reevaluate your view of sex? Join me on today’s episode to have an open and honest conversation on… sex. Society keeps sending mixed signals on what sex is all about. I want us to discuss the topic of sexual boundaries but from a Biblical perspective. It's high time we redeem the narrative that the enemy has stolen from us! That is why we will explore:  God's original, good, and divine design for sex  Biblical view of sex vs. Cultural view Freedom from sexual shame  We all need practical handles on sexual boundaries in marriage and for singles. Because of that, I’m highlighting the importance of respect, communication, accountability, and non-sexual intimacy.  Sex was God's idea! He intended it for our good. Don’t let the enemy steal that from you. I want you to know that whatever has happened in your life, you can find forgiveness through Jesus and develop a personal intimate relationship with Him. If you found this topic helpful, let me know by tagging me @biancaolthoff  Love you friend, B RESOURCES/LINKS Boundaries in Sex // Boundary Lines // Bianca Olthoff Quote I don't want social media. I don't want pop culture. I don't want the ivory tower of academia to define what sex is. No. Sex was God's idea. Takeaways Sexual boundaries are for our benefit and not a burden. Open and honest conversations about sex are necessary in order to break free from shame and cultural narratives. In marriage, it is important to have regular communication about sexual expectations and desires. For singles, setting personal boundaries and seeking accountability are key to maintaining purity. Sex does not guarantee intimacy, and true intimacy is built on emotional and verbal communion. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Order Bianca’s new book GRIT DON’T QUIT ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! This episode is sponsored by NOTES® Candle. Make the switch and build a starter kit. Right now Notes is giving listeners 15% off AND free shipping when you buy a Notes starter kit using code GOINGTHERE at notescandle.com/GOINGTHERE ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify Google ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Why not join in for another BONUS episode, friend? This week we have a FREEZIE and a FUNZIE with actor Jimmy Gonzalez from Netflix's newest feature film, Blue Miracle. This feel-good film was a blast to watch and I can't wait for you to see it! This movie meant so much to me because my father would faithfully lead a group of people to Mexico every other week to partner with the local orphanage in Rosarito. Thanks to serving at an orphanage, I want to share with you some lessons I learned and want to pass on: Compassion matters Faith matters Miracles happen Blue Miracle is based on the incredible true story of Casa Hogar, the Mexican boy's home that entered the world's biggest fishing tournament to save their orphanage. The movie is available for you to view on Netflix now. I hope you enjoy this interview and get a chance to watch Blue Miracle after this podcast. If there are topics, people or podcast episodes that you must hear, go ahead and tag me in your personal social media posts, or you can drop an email to podcasts@inthenameoflove.org with your fabulous suggestions. As always, thank you for sharing this podcast and leaving so many amazing reviews. Love you and stay tuned for more bonus episodes in June! 🖤 B --- Register for TFHOC Freedom Nights --- This episode is sponsored by • BetterHelp and We're Going There listeners get 10% off their first month at betterhelp.com/wgt --- This episode is sponsored by • OUAI - When you’re ready to undo some damage, hit the reset button with the OUAI Detox Shampoo. We’re Going There listeners get 15% off the entire purchase. Go to theouai.com and use the code GOINGTHERE. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever felt lost or alone after a significant life change? Are you ready to find strength and resilience in the face of adversity? In this emotional conversation with my friend and co-host Lauren Bronson Petrous, I share how I’ve had to navigate a significant life change, my experience with divorce and the subsequent journey of self-discovery and healing.  I’ve experienced many challenges while making difficult decisions, but holding on to God's provision and support during tough times throughout the healing process has kept me going. Some of the topics that we will highlight are: Navigating significant life changes The journey of self-discovery and healing The role of faith and community in difficult times Lessons learned from aloneness and personal growth Distinguishing between secrecy and privacy Challenges and healing in the aftermath of divorce The importance of accountability and community support Experiencing God's provision and support Embracing wholeness after loss Friend, change is hard, especially when it is thrust upon you. I want to encourage you to embrace change and growth through life's toughest moments, using faith, community, and self-awareness as powerful tools for healing and personal development. If you are on a similar path to finding hope, let us know by tagging Lauren and I at @laurenbronsonpetrous & @biancaolthoff. XO, B RESOURCES/LINKS Co-host Lauren Bronson Petrous boundlessandco.com Takeaways Faith plays a crucial role in accepting life's changes. It's important to distinguish between secrecy and privacy. You cannot force someone to change; it takes two for a healthy relationship. Healing requires accountability and community support. God can be a provider and protector in times of need. Being alone can reveal deeper truths about oneself. Embracing wholeness is essential after experiencing loss. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Youtube  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hi friends! We are on a break from our regularly scheduled podcast but between now and when we start our next season, I wanted to pop in and spread some love. If you're new around the podcast, let me welcome you and let you know that I'm excited that you've joined us for our podcast party! It's in my honor to create content that equips and inspires you. I decided to go back to my roots. At my core, I’m a word nerd and Bible teacher so I'm sharing some teachings from the book of James that both Matt and I shared at The Father's House Orange County back in 2020. Yes, the year of the pandemic. You also get access to a Bible study guide for the series that will help you in your journey through the book of James, and it's absolutely FREE. Send an email podcast@inthenameoflove.org to get your PDF today. And if you enjoy the podcast, it would be amazing if you left a positive review and subscribed to the podcast so you don't miss one episode. I hope you enjoy the series and I can't wait for season five. If there was more in season four then there is a vibe in season five! Love you friends! 🖤 B RESOURCES: Email podcast@inthenameoflove.org to get your James Series Guide https://tfhoc.org/ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's time for the new! Yes, it's a new year and a new season for We're Going There. We all need a great do-over at some point in life.  Our guests come from different backgrounds giving their learnings and life lessons on how to start again. From Food Network star and chef Aarti Sequeira, to award winning gospel singer Anthony Evans Jr. From the straight up truth talking Real Talk Kim to the eye opening questions from counselor and coach Mike Foster. Share this podcast with your friends and let's get others to join in the community of We're Going There. Don't forget to let me know how this season's conversations impact you by tagging me @BiancaOlthoff  Love, B RESOURCES/LINKS TFHOC How to be Rich Series ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Order Bianca’s new book GRIT DON’T QUIT ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. Let’s start the New Year together! ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Spotify Apple YouTube ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Do you find it hard to establish boundaries? Are you sensitive about and do you struggle to have difficult conversations? Is there a part of your life that you're currently grieving? Lysa TerKeurst is an author and speaker who is tackling all these topics in her newest book. In this conversation, we cover: Defining boundaries and why we need them How boundaries can improve your relationships Tackling tough conversations and how it can provide clarity Grieving the relationships and seasons of life that come to an end Lysa's voice is one I trust and respect, especially when it comes to discussing spiritual and emotional well-being. She shares personal experiences and walks us through her process of re-establishing boundaries. Lysa gives insight into how boundaries are a biblical principle and how honoring our boundaries helps us honor others too. We also talk about acknowledging what didn't work out and grieving those things with little funerals. (Liiisten, this sounds weird but it's a game-changer!) If like me, you have a big heart and lots of feelings, I hope this episode helps you as much as it helped me. Whether you're navigating boundaries in your professional or personal life, there's something for everyone in this episode. Sometimes things don't turn out how we planned, and it's okay to grieve what you lost. Establishing boundaries as you heal can improve your relationships and help you to see all the good that's yet to come. You can tag us @BiancaOlthoff and @LysaTerKeurst, we'd love to learn more about how this episode spoke to you.  Love you,  B RESOURCES/LINKS  Check out Lysa’s new book: Good Boundaries and GoodbyesWGT Email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org This podcast is sponsored in part by Operation Christmas Child. Pack a shoebox! Learn more by clicking here. Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Tuesday Truths: Thankful For Troubles It’s easy to be thankful for the good things, but a life of rich joy comes when we are also thankful for the setbacks. Be thankful for your troubles, because they could become your biggest blessings. 🖤 B Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Friends, it has been an amazing year for We're Going There podcast. My dream was to finish one season and today I get to celebrate the ONE year of the podcast.  We have had so many wonderful conversations from adulting, forgiving, and step-parenting to makeovers, singleness and most recently a mini-series on the Holy Spirit. All of the topics have been with you in mind. I can't wait to see what the next year brings. Tune in to celebrate some fun memories with us! Don’t forget to celebrate with us online by tagging me @biancaOlthoff and letting me know what you're celebrating this month. Can't wait to talk again in November for Season 4. Love you friends! 🖤 B --- This episode is sponsored by You On Purpose • Preorder the book from Amazon or wherever you get your books, then head to Barna.com/YouOnPurpose to claim your preorder bonuses. --- This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp • We're Going There listeners get 10% off their first month at betterhelp.com/wgt Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Tuesday Truths: Gratitude Leads To Happiness The more grateful you are the happier you are. It takes effort on our part to choose to have an attitude of gratitude for the people in our lives. If you want to live a happy life and have healthy relationships, it starts with an attitude of gratitude. 🖤 B Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How do we understand and live out holiness in our daily lives? Do you believe it's possible to live a truly holy life in a world full of distractions? Author, poet, bible teacher, and hip-hop artist Jackie Hill Perry is on the show and together we explore: The true meaning of holiness The motivations that drive us to pursue a holy life The essential role of the Holy Spirit in the process of sanctification We candidly discuss the challenges and obstacles that often hinder our pursuit of holiness and the vital importance of understanding God's holiness in building a deeper trust in Him. Remember that holiness isn’t about perfection; it’s about surrendering to the One who is perfectly holy. May this conversation inspire you to seek God’s holiness in every aspect of your life. Let Jackie know how much you appreciate her wisdom by tagging her @jackiehillperry and me @biancaolthoff. XO, B RESOURCES/LINKS Guest Jackie Hill Perry https://jackiehillperry.com/  Books: https://www.amazon.com/stores/Jackie-Hill-Perry/author/B07HGTR8XC?ref=ap_rdr&isDramIntegrated=true&shoppingPortalEnabled=true Quote We don't want to be like God in terms of His holiness, we want to be like God in terms of His authority. Takeaways Holiness is a decision of our will and is based on our conduct, comportment, and character. The Holy Spirit plays a crucial role in sanctification by changing our hearts, giving us power over sin, and illuminating the Scriptures. Understanding God's holiness is essential in building trust in Him. The book on holiness by Jackie Hill Perry is recommended for all Christians, especially those who struggle with trusting God. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! This episode is sponsored by Dwell! Go to dwellbible.com/wgt to receive your 25% discount today. http://dwellbible.com/wgt  ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Youtube https://youtu.be/mVL6emS3mF4 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you dealing with a season of disappointment? Do you wonder if there's a way to overcome hardship? Looking for some hope and healing? Things don't always work out how we planned, but we can rest knowing that God is in control. In this podcast, Tim Timberlake joins me to talk about: How to deal with difficult seasons of life Overcoming hardship through healing Finding purpose and wisdom in our disappointment Hope for a positive future after facing a setback Tim is an author, pastor and speaker who is passionate about giving people hope after facing disappointment. He's walked through some tough seasons of life, from divorce at a young age to dealing with grief, but his outlook is one we can learn from. Tim shares the wisdom he's gained from overcoming difficult moments. Throughout this episode, Tim dives into the art of overcoming and reminds us that we can find rest when we give things to God. He also shares encouragement for anyone who is walking through a hard season of life. As you listen, remember that whatever you're facing, there's a God who knows you and sees you. Greater is ahead than what's behind. You've got this! You can tag us @biancaolthoff and @timtimberlake, we'd love to learn more about how this episode spoke to you. Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS GUEST Tim Timberlake Book - The Art of Overcoming: Letting God Turn Your Endings Into Beginnings ⋇ Order Bianca’s new book GRIT DON’T QUIT ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify Google ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you gripping the reins too tightly? Have you ever felt the need to control every aspect of your life, only to realize that control is just an illusion? Today I speak to Sharon Hodde Miller, Pastor, Speaker, Author, and PhD about the often-unacknowledged desire for control. Together, we explore the seductive nature of control, how it often creates illusions of security, and the hidden costs of clinging to it. Some takeaways from our conversation are: Control is an Illusion: We might think we have more control than we actually do, but true control is often fleeting. Exploring the limitations of our influence can be a liberating step. Surrender & Agency: Letting go of control doesn't mean giving up agency. It’s about finding the sweet spot between healthy boundaries and trust, recognizing that relinquishing control can lead to greater peace and flexibility. Cost of Control: Clinging to control can manifest in anxiety, stress, and unhealthy relationships. Sharon highlights the benefits of surrendering control and embracing the power of trust in fostering healthy connections. We also discuss the theological and cultural roots of our obsession with control. Sharon offers practical advice for exercising agency instead of constant control. She also challenges us to embrace the benefits of surrendering control in our personal lives and relationships. Let us know how you are letting go of control by tagging us at @sharonhmiller and me @biancaolthoff. XO, B RESOURCES/LINKS Guest Sharon Hodde Miller Book: The Cost of Control: Why We Crave It, the Anxiety It Gives Us, and the Real Power God Promises Quote The most free we ever were was not in the absence of boundaries, but because of them. Takeaways Control promises security and peace, but it ultimately betrays us, causing anxiety, complexity, and division. The desire for control has theological roots in the story of Adam and Eve and cultural roots in a society that constantly promises control. Letting go of control is important because it costs us more than it gains us. Instead of control, God gives us agency and influence to exercise within the boundaries He has set. Restoring boundaries, such as limiting phone usage, can help us exercise agency and let go of control. Surrendering control can strengthen relationships and build trust. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! This episode is sponsored by Dwell! Go to dwellbible.com/wgt to receive your 25% discount today.  This episode is sponsored by HomeChef. For a limited time, HomeChef is offering my listeners 18 Free Meals, plus Free Shipping on your first box, and Free Dessert for Life, at HomeChef.com/goingthere. Must be an active subscriber to receive free dessert. ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Youtube https://youtu.be/ngc1Ye9XbG4 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you in a season of discovering God’s plan for your life? Have you heard the term ‘living by my truth’ in mainstream media or on social media? Is the church struggling to clearly define God’s will? Jada Edwards is a straight-shooting, truth-telling, speaker, Bible teacher and author. She can speak to defining truth from a personal and biblical standpoint. In this conversation, we talk about: Defining truth in culture and on social media The danger of using the phrase ‘living my truth’ How to define truth as a Christian and understanding God’s will The importance of being led by the Holy Spirit Jada’s leadership and ministry have been a blessing to me and The Father’s House OC. She has her ear to the ground and communicates in an honest, direct and loving manner. Jada shares her thoughts on truth in culture and in the church. Throughout this podcast, Jada provides context and shares personal experiences in defining truth. As you listen, I hope you’ll begin to see what God’s truth is for your life. Jada is a friend and I trust that her thought leadership will encourage you to lean into what God wants for you. While it might not always be easy, there is peace and joy in fulfilling the call on your life friend! You can tag us @biancaolthoff and @jada_edwards on social media. We’d love to know how this conversation has impacted you. Love you,  BRESOURCES/LINKS  Books by Jada Edwards The Jada Edwards Podcast Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hi friends! As we reach the end of 2021, many of us have had to face something that we didn’t plan for. Things have gone a little bit different than you might have thought, and you've had, what I call, a change of plans. Facing things that we didn't plan for can be jarring and can even rattle our faith. Sometimes we wonder why things aren’t going as planned and even wonder where God is. When we don’t know what is going on, we must hold on to what we know to be true: Though your plan may have changed, your purpose hasn’t. God has a purpose for you. The reason Jesus came to earth was for you. I want you to plant this truth in your heart.  Let me know how your plans have changed and where you see God show up in this season. You can tag me @BiancaOlthoff on your posts and also share this podcast with your friends and family. If this show is something you like, leave a rating and review so it can get into more ears around the world. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year, friends! 🖤 B Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to 2021 Friends! I'm doing a bonus episode on How to get Your Word for the Year. I'm very excited to take you down the process of setting this as an intention for the year. To keep it easy, I've condensed this into 5 simple steps. Pause Think or Visualize Create a list of words Review and refine Ask yourself: Am I interested or am I committed? Remember, this is not a magical formula to get you the answers you want for the year. This is a calibrating anchor to come back to whenever you need a reminder of the intention that have you set for yourself this year. Friends, because of what's going on in the world, TFHOC has decided to open our church team conference to everyone this year. Register today for FREE for TFHOC's 2021 Team Conference. I hope you enjoyed this bonus episode and guess what friends... Season 2 of the podcast is coming soon!! I can't wait to share with you who's going to be there and who's going to pour into your life!! 🖤 B Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hello friends! Today’s conversation is around pop culture. Why do many Christians want to shy away from this topic? I want to jump in and have a conversation about it. Why? Well call me crazy, but I believe that everything including culture is covered by God's control and love otherwise known as this word sovereignty. The guest on today's show was by far one of my favorite stars from ABC's TV show The Bachelor. Madison Prewett shares how the ancient story of Esther is still relevant today and how some of those parallel lessons she’s adopted in her own life help her navigate her journey, such as: Decide who you want to be before you step into your Big Moments Claim your confidence so you can get out of the comparison game Break free from the labels others put on you As always, I love letting our guests know the impact that they're having. And so it would mean the world to me if you share the love. You can tag her @MadiPrew and @BiancaOlthoff and let us know what you're learning. Also share and leave a positive review on Spotify, Apple Podcast or whatever platform you listen to your podcast. We appreciate you. And can't wait to chat next week. Love you, friends. 🖤 B RESOURCES: Madison Prewett book - Made for This Moment: Standing Firm with Strength, Grace, and Courage --- This episode is sponsored by Simply Earth • Have fun making your home toxin free with Simply Earth’s Essential Oil Recipe Box! Plus, get a FREE 80 ml diffuser when you subscribe using our URL, simplyearth.com/WEREGOINGTHERE --- This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp • We're Going There listeners get 10% off their first month at betterhelp.com/wgt --- This episode is sponsored by Dwell • To get started with Dwell, go to dwellapp.io/weregoingthere to get 10% off a yearly subscription, or 33% off Dwell for life. Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ever feel like you're stuck in a season of life that just doesn't feel right? Wondering if God's promises still hold true?  Buckle up for an inspiring conversation with Priscilla Shirer, a powerhouse woman of faith who is a communicator, author, Bible teacher, and actress! Priscilla opens up about her journey to becoming the woman of God and influential communicator she is today. She shares the story of her early involvement in ministry and how God has been faithful throughout her life.  Priscilla shares words of encouragement and shares more on the following: Lessons learned through seasons of disappointment and loss Words of wisdom for those feeling discouraged or burnt out Finding joy and purpose in every season The Power of Ephesians 3:20 There is joy to be found in EVERY season of life. Share this episode with someone who needs a boost of encouragement! Tag @priscillashirer and me @biancaolthoff and let us know what season you are in right now?  Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS Guest Priscilla Shirer https://www.goingbeyond.com/ministry/biography/ Link to all of Priscilla’s Books: https://www.goingbeyond.com/product-category/books/  Quote I get to ask questions of God without questioning God. Takeaways Treasuring each season of life and finding joy in the present moment is important. Studying the Word of God is a lifelong pursuit that can be influenced by mentors and family. God's ability to exceed our expectations and do immeasurably more than we can ask or imagine is a source of hope and trust. Seasons of disappointment and loss can be opportunities for growth and a deeper understanding of God's plans. Having mentors and role models can provide guidance and inspiration in our own journeys. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! This episode is sponsored by Airdoctor. Head to airdoctorpro.com and use promo code WGT you’ll receive UP TO $300 off air purifiers! Exclusive to podcast customers, you will also receive a free 3 year warranty on any unit, which is an additional $84 value!  ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Youtube https://youtu.be/KRapsBnL_-Y  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hey family!! Welcome back to another episode of We’re Going There! Two years ago when we started The Father House OC, I knew I wanted a coach. I’ve never been a pastor or considered myself a leader. I just filled gaps and stepped into places that needed help. I knew of Pastor Craig Groeschel, listened to every podcast, read his books, and enjoyed how he led his life. I’m honored for the opportunity of being a guest on his podcast and having his guidance in this season. On today’s episode the tables turn and I am going to be interviewed by Pastor Craig Groeschel. We will unpack how to: Be confident even when you think you're not the right person for the job Be a reluctant leader Write your own story or someone else will Have conviction, know your weaknesses, and have inner faith and hope Friends, I’m grateful for you being on this journey with me and I hope you walked away with some practical points and leadership handles. As always, if this podcast was a gift to you, you can tag @CraigGroeschel and @BiancaOlthoff to share with your friends and family what you are listening to and growing from. Love you all! 🖤 B RESOURCES: Go to GlobalLeadership.org/Summit to get your tickets today! Use my exclusive promo code GLS21BJO for $90 off the regular rate! --- This episode is sponsored by Dwell • Go to dwellapp.io/weregoingthere to get 10% off a yearly subscription, or 33% off Dwell for life. --- This episode is sponsored by Christian Mingle • Discover why so many Christian singles find love at ChristianMingle.com/GOINGTHERE. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Does it seem like everywhere you go someone is asking you for your weight? Are you tired of obsessing over the number on your weight scale? Real talk - I’m tired too!  Let’s be honest friends, talking about weight issues is uncomfortable. That’s why Registered Dietitian and Nutrition Therapist is back with us for day 2 of The Weighting Game series. Today we discuss: The issues with the scale  Bodies are miracles, not math Weight-centric training and health The flaws of BMI and Body Fat Percentage Recognizing disordered eating and body grief Determining health and wholeness beyond numbers There are so many dangers in pursuing an unrealistic body image. We need to recognize that body diversity is important in our society and that there is no one-size-fits-all definition of health. Overall health and well-being start with healthy connections and relationships. Let’s make it a goal to prioritize holistic health and freedom from diet culture. You are not alone, friend. Tag me @biancaolthoff and @leslieschilling and share how you are finding food freedom in your life. Love, B RESOURCES/LINKS Guest Leslie Schilling: https://www.leslieschilling.com/  Book: Feed Yourself: Step Away from the Lies of Diet Culture and into Your Divine Design  IG: https://www.instagram.com/leslieschilling/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/NutritionLeslie  Quote We have to come to grips with the fact that you may never be in the body that this culture promised you. Takeaways Weight-centric training and the focus on the number on the scale can be harmful and perpetuate diet culture. Health is multifaceted and cannot be determined solely by weight or body size. Body diversity is important, and there is no one-size-fits-all definition of health. Connections and relationships play a significant role in overall health and well-being. BMI is not an accurate or reliable measure of health, and body fat percentage should be considered instead. Disordered eating can manifest in various ways and is not limited to extreme cases. Determining health and wholeness should involve regular nourishment, movement, good relationships, and self-care. The goal is to prioritize holistic health and freedom from the constraints of diet culture. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Order Bianca’s new book GRIT DON’T QUIT ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. Let’s start the New Year together! ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify Google ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

God wants you to trust Him one day at a time. Four things that you can do daily to trust God are: Worry about nothing Pray about everything Thank God for all things Think about the right things Make today the day that you start trusting God one day at a time. 🖤 B Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Friends, sometimes we need a voice to help us remember the power that money can have over us. Money is funny but we all have to deal with it. If we understand that money can be our friend and not our foe and if we learn how to steward it, we can use our finances not just for financial freedom - but to build the Kingdom of God as well. Today my special guest Rachel Cruze will discuss more about how to know ourselves and know our money. She will help us understand why it is important to identify which of the 4 money environments we grew up in and how that affects our view and use of our finances. The 4 money classrooms are: Anxious money classroom Unstable money classroom Unaware money classroom Secure money classroom Let’s be real - nobody likes to talk about money or money issues! I’m so grateful that we got to spend time and learned from Rachel today. You can find her book Know Yourself, Know Your Money anywhere fine books are sold. Thanks for listening in today! It would mean so much to me if you honored and thanked Rachel by tagging her @RachelCruze and @BiancaOlthoff. Two lucky winners will receive a copy of Rachel’s book Know Yourself, Know Your Money. Love you guys and we will chat next week! 🖤 B Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How can you view eating and food as a gift rather than a burden? What are some healthy behaviors that you can adopt outside of diet culture? Today's episode concludes a week-long exploration of dismantling diet culture and shifting the focus from weight loss to health.  All good things come to an end, but Leslie and I close out the series by giving you practical tips for health and wellbeing. We will be emphasizing the importance of: Fueling your body Reframing eating and food as a gift from God Putting health into a positive perspective Seeking help if you are struggling with disordered eating Our hope is that you walk away from this series feeling loved, valued, and grateful for the wonderful body that you live in. You don’t need to conform to certain body standards imposed by others. But hear me when I say that if you are in a place where you are stuck or struggling, please, please, please seek help. You don’t have to walk through this alone. Self-care is important and professional help is available. Love and embrace your body and yourself just the way you are! Thank you for joining us for this entire week of The Weighting Game series. And remember, you don’t have to allow diet culture and societal pressures to dictate how you view your body.  Share your food freedom journey with us by tagging me @biancaolthoff and @leslieschilling.  Love you friends, B RESOURCES/LINKS Guest Leslie Schilling: https://www.leslieschilling.com/  Book: Feed Yourself: Step Away from the Lies of Diet Culture and into Your Divine Design  IG: https://www.instagram.com/leslieschilling/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/NutritionLeslie  Quote If you've been driving around for a decade with your gas light on, I invite you to eat breakfast. Takeaways Reframe eating and food as a gift from God Overcome the fear of falling back into diet culture Focus on regular and adequate eating, hydration, movement, and self-care Seek help if struggling with disordered eating ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Order Bianca’s new book GRIT DON’T QUIT ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. Let’s start the New Year together! ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify Google ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you going through a personal crisis that has been made public? Have you faced scrutiny because of it? Going through challenges and painful experiences is difficult. But know this, friend: YOU ARE NOT ALONE.  Brandi Wilson is an author, coach, speaker, and my friend. We will listen to her personal journey of going through divorce and starting over. She discusses the challenges she faced as a pastor's wife and the public fallout of her marriage ending.  For someone going through a divorce, maintaining a sense of self and direction amidst the turmoil of the process can be shattering. That’s why it’s important to take time for healing and to prioritize personal growth after a divorce.  Finding hope and sense of restoration after the end of a significant relationship is possible. Healing will come and restoration is found in Jesus. Tag me @biancaolthoff and @lovebrandiwilson to share your experience. Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS Brandi Wilson  https://lovebrandiwilson.com/  Books - Better Than Ok: Finding Hope and Healing After Your Marriage Ends Quote A role in a title can be taken away, but no one can take God's call on your life but Him. Takeaways Divorce can be a challenging and painful experience, but it also offers an opportunity for personal growth and starting over. Supporting friends going through divorce requires empathy, patience, and allowing them to grieve and heal at their own pace. It is important to avoid speaking negatively about the ex-spouse in front of children and to create a safe and honest environment for them. Before starting to date again after divorce, it is crucial to take time to heal, seek therapy if needed, and focus on personal growth. God is with you in the midst of divorce and can bring healing, restoration, and a new beginning. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Order Bianca’s new book GRIT DON’T QUIT ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify Google ⋇ Listen & subscribe to The Best of You - https://tinyurl.com/TheBestOfYouPodcast ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever been hurt by someone gossiping about you? Are you guilty of talking about someone behind their back? Gossip is running rampant in today's world, both online and in person and we're going to tackle it in this episode. In this episode, I will:  Define gossip and different types of gossipers  Explain why we shouldn't gossip, from a biblical perspective  Why people may feel the need to gossip  How we can actively fight against gossip culture Gossip has become a part of everyday life, whether defined as a water cooler moment with colleagues in the office or chatting about someone else's business with friends. It can also be found online when scrolling through tabloids and social media. While it might seem innocent, it can be hurtful, lead to wild assumptions and cause division in relationships. I'll explain what gossip is and the damage it can cause. I’ll also cover what the Bible says about gossip as well as how gossip is showing up in the [capital C] Church. My heart and my hope is that as you listen, you'll reflect on this topic and have the courage to call out gossip when you see it in real time. Let's instead be generous with encouragement, it goes much further and will have a positive impact on someone's life. You can tag me @biancaolthoff, I'd love to know how this episode spoke to you!  Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS Keeping It G // Gossip + Guile // Issues We Don’t Talk About // Bianca Olthoff This podcast is sponsored in part by Operation Christmas Child. Pack a shoebox! Learn more by clicking here. WGT Email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever felt called to start something new, but fear held you back? Is it really possible to be successful without feeling 100% ready? In today’s episode we share with you the interview that I had the honor to be part of with Pastor Craig Groeschel. We discuss  The art of starting a business Recognizing the need for systems and structures Overcoming assumptions and embracing your unique leadership style Starting a new business or ministry comes with its challenges and surprises. I encourage you to put your faith into action and NEVER GIVE UP! Having the right people around you will shape your journey in a positive way.  Friend, you have a unique voice that has the power to create change, so take the courage to start something today! Let us know what you’re starting by tagging us at @craiggroeschel and @biancaolthoff. XO, B RESOURCES/LINKS Guest Craig Groeschel  Leadership Podcast https://www.life.church/leadershippodcast/  Quote Whenever the road gets tough, people are going to quit. Takeaways Have a strong conviction and belief in what you are meant to do. Surround yourself with people who compliment your weaknesses and push you to think differently. Have faith and a sense of hope that you will succeed. Don't let the lack of a team or resources hold you back from starting something. Embrace your unique voice and be true to yourself. Failure is a part of the journey, but resilience is key to success. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! AquaTru comes with a 30-day Money-Back Guarantee and even makes a great gift… My listeners receive 20% OFF any AquaTru purifier! Just go to AquaTru.com - that’s A-Q-U-A-T-R-U-dot com and enter code “WGT” at checkout.   ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Youtube  https://youtu.be/02c9Evq2yC8 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to season TWO of We’re Going There! Our conversation this week is with Pastor Ben Stuart from Passion City Church, D.C. on love, dating and relationships. In this episode we will discuss: Seasons of dating Ways to engage in healthy relationships Discover YOUR Viable Dating Score Is there a "soulmate" for you? I think you will love Pastor Ben as much as I do! For more on navigating life and love in the modern age, get Pastor Ben’s book: Single, Dating, Engaged, Married. I LOVE giving away free gifts for those that share this podcast on their social media! Share a screenshot or video when and where or what you are learning from the show and TWO lucky winners will get a copy of my book, How To Have Your Life Not Suck where a lot of today’s content came from. If you haven’t subscribed to the podcast, you can subscribe on Apple Podcast, Anchor, Google Podcast, Spotify, or your favorite podcast platform. While you’re there, it would be amazing if you wrote a glowing review of the show. Those reviews really help us get to new listeners. Speaking of new listeners, share this podcast with your friends, enemies, and frienemies. The more the merrier! Love you guys and we will chat next week! 🖤 B Better Help - Join the millions of people who are seeing what online therapy is really about and save 10% on your first month by going to betterhelp.com/wgt Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to the last episode of the season, friends! We are going to close this season with an amazing fashion makeover. That's right, we are taking you on a makeover and pageant journey with Shanae Horton, who won the fashion consultation giveaway offered by my guest Zoe Juarez from episode 15. Zoe and I will become Shanae's fashion fairies and reward her for all of her hard work and dedication. We can't wait to see her SPARKLE! Thank you so much for listening to Season 2 of We’re Going There, for sharing the podcast and leaving so many amazing reviews! We will be back in June for Season 3!  🖤 B Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever wondered if there’s a correct way to pray? Do you sometimes wish there was a cheat sheet for prayer? Are you waiting for God to answer a specific prayer? Chad Veach is the faith-filled, fun-loving pastor of ZOE Church LA who can speak to all thing’s prayer. In this conversation, we talk about: • Understanding what prayer is and why we should pray • The ways God answers prayer • How prayer changes us individually • Embracing the blessings in our lives Chad is a church leader, author and friend who has a refreshing perspective on prayer that’s been cultivated through personal experience. During this episode, Chad lays out the formula for how to pray and reminds us why we should. He also speaks about the ways in which God responds to our prayers. Something I loved about this conversation was how practical it was - Chad shares ways in which we can be intentional with prayer in our daily lives. My heart and my hope is that as you listen, you’ll remember that prayer is simply communication with God. Whether it’s through talking, journaling or walking, prayer changes us and makes us better. You can tag us @biancaolthoff and @chadveach, we'd love to see what prayer looks like in your life. Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS Chad Veach Book - Worried about Everything Because I Pray about Nothing: How to Live with Peace and Purpose Instead of Stress and Burnout Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to another episode of We’re Going There, the place where we can have honest conversations on real issues that are relevant today. I’ve been SO looking forward to introducing you to my BESTIE FOR THE RESTIE, the ever-fab, Lysa TerKeurst. Lysa has built her ministry by giving AWAY what God has given her. As the President of Proverbs 31 ministries, she hosts one of the best trainings for aspiring writers, teachers, and communicators called She Speaks. Today we are going to talk about the touchy topic of forgiveness. Now before you roll your eyes or think this isn’t for you, take heed lest ye fall my brother and sister! She has a unique way of telling her story in a way that makes you feel safe enough to tell yours. And if you feel like you don’t have the words, she gives you hers. My hope is that you love her as much as I do. This week I am giving away to 2 lucky winners an advance reader copy of Lysa’s new book. All you have to do is share this message with your friends, family, and frienemies and tag @LysaTerkeurst and @BiancaOlthoff on social media to be entered to win. And if you want to bypass the whole process you can preorder her amazing new book Forgiving What You Can’t Forget and you can also stalk her online @LysaTerkeurst. We’re Going There is a new podcast and it would mean the world to me if you subscribed to the show and wrote a review. As a gift of appreciation, I’d love to send you a 7-week video bible study and PDF guide through the book of Ruth as my gift to you. All you need to do is write a review, take a photo of your review, and email it podcast@inthenameoflove.org to be sent your FREE goodies. You don’t want to miss next week and if you’re free tomorrow I’m dropping a bonus episode on Forgiving My Abuser. 🖤 B Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever had a Christmas where things were not as they should've been? God's truth reminds us that no matter the size of our holiday mess, we're not alone.  Friends, whatever you do, don't sit in your loneliness. Ask God for the courage to remember that He is with you. And then talk to someone, it'll change everything for you. 🖤 B Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Friends, welcome to day four of Love Is, a six-day podcast special about love, dating and sex. We're REALLY going there in today's episode as I'll be giving you the sex talk... yes, really! This conversation is for grown folks, so listener discretion is advised. This topic is something I'm passionate about as far too often the church doesn't speak about it. Instead, we let culture and media define what sex is and how it should look, which often leads to hurt and can create all sorts of problems. When sex is fulfilled within the covenant of marriage, it's a beautiful and wonderful experience that honors God. If you're looking for some Bible to back it up, just read Song of Solomon aka Song of Songs. (Helloooo!) My heart and my hope is that as you listen to this session you'll begin to see sex from God's perspective. It doesn't have to be a difficult, awkward or taboo topic of conversation. If you've found this episode helpful, share it with your friends! Don’t forget to post it on social media and tag me @BiancaOlthoff. Love you, 🖤 B RESOURCES: Love Is Series videos and PDF - https://www.biancaolthoff.com/love Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What God gives to you, he wants to give through you. God is looking for people He can use. Will you be a cup or will you be a straw? If you're a cup, you just get filled up and that's it. But when you’re a straw God can channel His blessing through you to other people. When you're going through a tough time you still can say: God I don't have much but I'm willing to share. When you do this, God promises three things; first - you will grow spiritually, second -  He will use you to meet the needs of other people, and third - you'll bring Him glory. When you give away what you have, God will open the door of blessings in your life in ways you can’t imagine. 🖤 B Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices