Undomesticate (Evan Meyer)

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I'm back.

After a year of absolute devestation, I've returned to the Undomesticate podcast to give an update on what I've been up to and how I'm stepping into 2025 living in deeper alignment.

This homecoming episode explores the essence of Feral Wisdom - a path for those seeking to make an impact without sacrificing their soul to modern culture's demands.

I share my journey of reckoning and renewal, introducing the five core beliefs that now guide my work and life. We'll explore how to:

• Trust your innate wisdom over society's noise
• Design a life of radical alignment with your nature
• Move beyond surface-level success to find genuine fulfillment
• Create meaningful impact while honoring your authentic rhythms
• Transform from passive consumer to active creator

This episode is an invitation to completely reimagine your relationship with work, purpose, and meaning. 

I hope you'll join the movement.

Welcome to the Undomesticate Podcast!

Our first episode is with one of my best friends, Allan McGrath.

Allan has been leading men for nearly a decade - which is kind of wild because he is only in his early thirties.

Today, he is a mentor who guides men and women to embody the teachings of sacred intimacy.  He's dedicated himself to facilitating the evolution of men through embodied masculinity, finding a higher purpose and unlocking sexual power. He leads women through their journey of feminine embodiment, sexual yoga and the art of intimacy. He works with couples on deepening their connection through polarity and relational intimacy practices in his workshops, trainings & 1-1 coaching.

In this episode Allan and I chat about his recent 4-day vision quest, the importance of power statements, how he was initiated into men’s work, why meditation practice needs to be paired with embodiment work, how nature is our greatest teacher, processing the grief of disconnection from the natural world, and so much more.

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Nic is another brother I met in the men’s work world, and I instantly knew I we were going to be close friends from the moment we met.

Nic has a fascinating story. A guy who from the outside had it all - a career as an architect, married to a beautiful model, and by all accounts had found success. But after the dissolution of his marriage, wrestling with porn addiction, an unfulfilling career, and a lack of direction and purpose in his life, Nic went on a spiritual journey that led him all around the world - rediscovering who he was and what was important to him.

Today, he is a world-renowned teacher of relationship and intimacy - with a particular focus on mastering sexual energetics. His incredible succinct, deep, and well articulated reels on Instagram have amassed millions of views, and he travels the world teaching men and women how to deepen in intimacy and live more vibrant and fulfilling lives - now calling himself an architect of transformation.

In this episode we talk about the importance of rites of passage and initiations, The Native American tradition of sundancing, how we can help our parents heal their traumas, plant medicines, taking frog poison, taking 100% responsibility for our lives, how to find feminine nourishment beyond women, and so much more…

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Chris is another dear friend and business partner of mine.

Together we formed Thirteen Pines, a company dedicated to the conscious evolution of men. If you’re interested in what our company is up to and how we are bringing transformation to the world, listen to episode 1 and 2 with Allan Mcgrath and Nic Warner, the other two founders involved in Thirteen Pines.

Chris spent his 20’s as a competitive Crossfit athlete, Ironman competitor, gym owner, and serial entrepreneur, until a sudden brain injury while competing left him debilitated and stuck in bed recovering for months, where he had to reassess his entire life.

In this episode we dive into Chris’s journey of healing from his brain injury, how he went from an intense Type A personality to one of the chillest guys I know, how he got into somatic healing and running retreats doing inner child work, why we shouldn’t try to get rid of our childhood wounds, how to integrate deep healing experiences into your regular life, the two step process of radical transformation by taking sacred action and using affirmations, the importance of small wins and building momentum, preparing for fatherhood, and much, much more.

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I recently met Brandon while spending the summer in Austin, Texas, and had no idea what Brandon did - but knew he was a guy I wanted to sit down and talk to.

Brandon teaches the embodiment of the "Non-Dual Awakening" realization that has been referenced in every major religion and spiritual tradition over the last 10,000 years.  He founded Integrated Self Inquiry (ISI) as a process of revealing inner peace through radical truth-telling. His holistic approach to experiencing genuine freedom in all areas of life has been taught in workshops, retreats, and in his online courses all over the world over the past decade.

In this episode, Brandon shares about how he developed his unique method of transformation he calls Integrated Self Inquiry, how he saved a woman from committing suicide from across the world, why a more challenging a life is typically the easier path to take in life, how the teachings of Bashar have contributed to his personal evolution, how we create all of our own suffering, how one of his clients healed an autoimmune disease instantly through the power of self inquiry, and so much more.

Brandon's website: https://www.brandonbozarth.com/
Brandon's Instagram: https://instagram.com/brandon.bozarth

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Ken Blackman is a coach, speaker, educator, and author of the upcoming book, Powerful Woman, Confident Man: The New Art of Loving Passionately and Building a Resilient, Fulfilling Relationship. His life’s work is to guide couples through intimate human connection. Using truth, transparency, and compassion, he shows committed couples how to co-create a relationship that uniquely serves them.

In this episode we explore Ken’s journey living in a sex commune, how to have deep, lasting intimacy with your partner beyond sex, the universal reason why we all enter relationship, how to create a relationship that gets better and better over time, why women struggle to give men feedback and how shift this through sex, what it means to be attuned to your partner, the difference between expressing a need and acting entitled, how to co-create a relationship that is more powerful than you ever thought possible, and much more.

Ken's website: www.kenblackman.com
Ken's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kenblackmancoach/

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I’m really excited to share this interview with Adam Quiney because he has been one of the most important mentors, teachers, and people in my life in the last 5 years.

Adam was the founder of the first men’s group I ever joined, and he introduced me to John Wineland - who I spent the better part of five years studying masculine embodiment and sexual polarity with. I also spent two years studying with Adam himself in his program called The Forge - a leadership and coaching development program that I highly, highly recommend.

Adam taught me how to coach and lead powerfully. In a world saturated by wannabe coaches, Adam is the real deal. He is by far the most brilliant coach, and one of the most brilliant people, I’ve ever met and is the embodiment of self-expression, integrity, and he’s absolutely hilarious.

In this episode we explore:

- Adam’s journey from lawyer to transformational coach

- How to hold our more challenging emotions with reverence

- Why it’s important to live in partnership with your fear in order to create a bigger life

- How Adam is working with his fear around trusting life, why he’s traveling to Costa Rica every 6-8 weeks to drink ayahuasca

- The trouble with integration when it comes to plant medicine

- How to work with our judgements to attain true freedom

- How discovering the essence of who we are can help us in our personal evolution

and so much more...

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Josh Tyler is a former professional MMA fighter, amateur survivalist, Father, and owner of the boutique menswear brand Savage Gentleman.

I first discovered Josh through Instagram and was intrigued by how diverse his portfolio of interests were. It’s not every day that you meet a man who is modeling high-end, hand-crafted clothing while also breaking people’s faces for a living.

In this episode, Josh and I explore:

- How tribalism is in our DNA and how to build trust with other men in modern times

- Why it’s crucial that we only pursue that which we’re passionate about

- How the metrics society measures success by are poor indicators of personal fulfillment

- How domestication has led to the downfall of modern men

- How self-reliance builds self-confidence

- Josh’s journey from teacher to fighter to entrepreneur

- Why our creative power is the greatest gift we can give the world and so much more.

Josh's website: https://savagegentleman.com/

Josh's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joshtylermma

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Jag is a holistic therapist and coach who has supported thousands of people in healing from trauma, self-limiting beliefs, and relational pain through his direct, pragmatic, and no-bullshit approach to confronting what is holding us back.

I had been connecting with Jag over social media for a number of months before inviting him on the podcast, and always appreciated his straight to the point takes on masculinity, relationship, trauma, and life.

As soon as we hit record and started chatting, I could tell this podcast was going to be a long one, as Jag had a ton of unique insights to share.

In this episode we cover:

- The biological and psychological reason we fall into and get addicted to toxic relationship patterns

- Why Red Pill and the modern men’s movement is mostly nonsense

- How polarity has been inverted in modern society and why it’s destroying the family unit

- Why men want to feel respected before feeling loved in relationship - What monk mode or married is and why Jag is living that lifestyle

- Why neither of us spend time with men who chase women

- The societal and cultural impact of raising children without consistent Fathers

- How being shamed can be a powerful tool for transformation

And so much more...

Jaguar's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/purejaguar/

Jaguar's website: https://jaguarheart.co/

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Jonathan White is a certified instructor of Taoist internal arts under Michael Winn. He focuses specifically on helping men master their sexual energy so they can manifest their ideal life. Through his system of sexual kung-fu Jonathan has helped thousands of men improve improve their sex life, last longer in bed, experience multiple orgasms, and amplify their performance both inside and outside the bedroom.

In this episode, Jonathan and I explore a range of topics such as:

- How a psychedelic mushroom journey started Jonathan’s spiritual awakening and Taoist internal arts

- How a man’s sexual energy and his purpose in life are linkedWhy white knuckling our way through defeating our vices never works and what we can do instead

- Jonathan’s thoughts on the NoFap movement and how why it’s so important to practice semen retention

- Why having sex without ejaculating is one of the most powerful things you can do for your mental, spiritual, and physical health

- Jonathan’s experience with genital weightlifting and other fringe Taoist sexual practices and so much more…

RESOURCES:

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Jonathan's Instagram: ​https://www.instagram.com/johnathan.white.skf/​

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In this solo episode, I share about my recent experience at the Hoffman Process, a 10-day Vipassana meditation retreat, and the key lessons I learned after being targeted online by an internet troll.

If you're new here, you may want to check out some of my interview episodes before listening to this solo deep-dive.

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Daniel Vitalis is a Registered Maine Guide, writer, public speaker, interviewer, and lifestyle pioneer who’s especially interested in helping people reconnect with wildness, both inside and outside of themselves.

For ten years Daniel lectured around North America and abroad, offering workshops that helped others lead healthier, more nature-integrated lives. A successful entrepreneur, he founded the nutrition company Surthrival in 2008.

He was the host of the popular podcast Rewild Yourself, and most recently, The Wild Fed Podcast, as well as the show Wild Fed on the outdoor channel.

Headquartered in the Lakes Region of Maine, he lives with his beautiful wife Avani and their Plott Hound Ellie.

I first heard about Daniel back in 2016 while working on an eco-village project in Colombia. When I returned to Canada, I consumed the entire catalog of his ReWild Yourself podcast and it absolutely changed the way I looked everything in my life.

This show wouldn’t exist today if ReWild Yourself didn’t exist, and Daniel’s work has informed so much of the way I eat, move, and walk this Earth. I had no idea what to expect in this conversation with Daniel, I really just wanted to give him the stage to speak about whatever was most alive for him right now.

We ended up covering topics such as:

- Daniel’s prognosis for the future of humanity with the onset of AI, phone addiction, and the singularity

- Finding the balance in our lives between being safe and domesticated and wild, free, humans

- Why men have a messiah complex and what to do about it

- The importance of believing in a higher power in order to give our life meaning and keep us humble

- Daniel’s thoughts on the woke agenda, evil powers, environmentalism, and how we can relate to the natural environment to create a brighter future and so much more. I

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Daniel's website: www.danielvitalis.com

Wild-fed: https://www.wild-fed.com/

Daniel's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/danielvitalis

David Sutcliffe is a Somatic Practitioner, Certified in Core Energetics, trained at the Radical Aliveness Institute of Southern California and Institute of Core Energetics in New York City, and former actor best known for his role in the TV series "Gilmore Girls."

www.davidsutcliffe.com

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Kristian Bell is the author of "The Psychology of Slaying Dragons." He creates content on YouTube, leads men’s groups, and is a mentor for creatives and young people all over the world.

He lives in Durango, CO, where he pursues his passions for martial arts, philosophy, and building brotherhood.

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Traver is the the founder of the UNcivilized Men’s Movement and the author of two books - Today I Rise, and Man UNcivilized as well as a two-time TEDx speaker, men’s coach and podcaster.

Drawing upon an eclectic background ranging from professional bodyguard and Mixed Martial Arts to a Master’s Degree in Traditional Chinese Medicine and meditation, Traver counsels men, women, and couples on how to better understand men’s mental health and relationship difficulties.

With a passion for people and a unique lens through which to view the human experience, Traver is a highly sought after teacher in the fields of consciousness, relationship, and personal development.

In this episode we talk about:

• The importance of eldership and the perspective offered by people who have been around for awhile
• Why are most massive crisis can never be solved by our logical brains
• How a man’s relationships change when he knows why he’s on earth
• Why our finding our true purpose is typically a product of surrendering, listening, and following the unconventional threads
• Why living a life of true alignment is often a gruelling, painful, and difficult journey
• Why it’s important to focus on building resiliency in order to live a big life
• Why men need to push against something that’s real in order to feel alive

and so much more…

Uncivilized website: https://www.manuncivilized.com/

 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/https://www.instagram.com/traverboehm/

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Dr. Robert Glover is a relationship specialist, writer, coach, and public speaker with over 40 years of professional experience.

For the last 20 years, Dr. Glover has primarily worked with men, helping them build healthy relationships and live up to their full potential.

The author of the groundbreaking, No More Mr. Nice Guy and the best-selling Dating Essentials for Men, he is a prominent figure in the burgeoning worldwide men’s movement. Dr. Glover is married and lives in Puerto Vallarta, Mexico.

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Sharing a little bit around the last few years of my life and my personal descent to soul.

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