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S1Ep. 3 - S-Types come in all styles from “bratty” to “service” and these individuals have their own unique ways of expressing themselves through submission. But have you ever thought about what those expressions manifest as and the markers for identifying some common traits? This week we peel back the edges in discussing the mindsets, titles, tips, and more when naming the many, non-exhaustive list of "styles" submission can take.

Quotable: "I know I give off brat vibes but, trust me, I am no brat."

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S1Ep. 15 - In this live audience episode, we dive into the essential tips and guidelines for navigating kinky social gatherings, parties, and events with grace and confidence. From the art of introductions to understanding the unspoken rules of the kinky community, we cover everything you need to know to interact with insight with the do's and don'ts of BDSM mingling. Listen in to elevate your social skills and enjoy every party you attend!

Quotable: "Don't lead with your d*ck, don't lead with the sex."

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S1Ep. 18 - In this episode, we explore the spanking community with special guests, Eric & Sky from Spanko! podcast. They shed light on the nuances of consensual adult spanking and the myths that surround it. Join us as we discuss important communication habits, the intersectionality with BDSM, and how this practice can be a meaningful and consensual expression of intimacy for many. Whether you're curious about being the one under or being the one holding the paddle, this episode offers a respectful and informative look into the world of spankos.

Quotable: "She stole the keys right outta my pockets and pretended I had lost them somewhere!"

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Wanna hear more from Eric & Sky | Spanko! podcast

S1Ep. 20 - There are few things more important than good mental health, achieving the goals you desire when it comes to enjoying a kinky lifestyle.

In this episode our qualified mental health professional Anneke speaks about life coaching within kink, how it works and what it can achieve.

Anneke also leads our Wellness Hub and discusses some of the events she runs there every month.

S1Ep. 11 - We touched on cuckolding before but listen in as we get just a flavor of what's to come with BoundHubs. Self-described 'Hotwife', Talie Thotwife dishes on her brand of what teasing her cuck for her pleasure looks like. She shares what gets her charged about this kink, how it affects her partner, and teases us with the sultry extracurricular activities she will be getting up to while we get full access to the proof. Check out more from her at BoundFest!

Quotable: "Recording for him [my cuck] let's me keep in touch with him when I'm away while adding to his frustration."

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Come see Talie | ⁠⁠⁠BoundFest, July 12-14

S1Ep. 2 - Living in a 24/7 D/s relationship isn't for everyone. The lines between your roles as kinksters and the rest of your life get blurred. That's why it's important you understand the realities over the myths. Join us for a candid conversation with guest and collared submissive, Sxysmrf as we dive into 24/7 dynamics and the real work, emotional needs, challenges, and surprising rewards it can entail. ⁠What does a 24/7 lifestyle mean to you?

Quotable: "It's not a cult until there are 5 of em!"

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Catch Sxysmrf on FetLife at the Grand Fetish Affair in April teaching knifeplay!

S1Ep. 19 - Feminisation stands out as a common theme in kink, encompassing a broad range of activities. Some individuals enjoy the sensual aspects of feminine clothing, appreciating its textures and visual appeal. Others may pursue feminisation for humiliation, while for some, it is a vital expression of their identity. In this episode, we take a closer look at the world of feminisation and the various approaches people adopt within this area of kink.

S1Ep. 12 - This week we wanted to spotlight one of most curated of the BoundHubs as it focuses on wellness. We chat with alternative relationship coach Anneke Elmhirst (and coach & hypnotherapist d20domme). Anneke chats about the important connection of mental health as it relates to your sexual wellness via your kink journey, the benefit of being a kinky health professional, ways to seek support, and the impact identifying common issues early can provide and shares a special and personal story.

Quotable: "Kink is not an escape from mental health challenges, it may provide relief but it will resurface in unexpected ways."

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Attend Anneke & d20domme's Wellness Panel | ⁠⁠⁠⁠BoundFest, July 12-14

Listen in to find out about season 2 and what else is coming!

S1Ep. 5 - Pet Play is a popular and fully customizable subculture of BDSM and kink, involving taking on the properties of a particular pet, animal, or creature. Unlike some other kinks, this one is easy to approach for newcomers, inexpensive, and suitable for pick-up play or long term training. Pet players come in all shapes and sizes from the well known puppies, kitties, and ponies, to dragons, bunnies, and more! Let "fetch" you the basics of exploring this kink from terminology, roles, play suggestions, and training practices.

Quotable: "Once the blinders go on, you really, really feel removed."

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S1Ep. 14 - Wrapping up the BoundHubs spotlight this week we finally convinced Mistress Star to come and share about the classic Mistress/slave, Sissy, Cuck, and Chastity, and Feminisation Hubs. She will be leading two of these Hubs and shares what she loves about the more traditional style of Mistress/slave and the places it lets her dominance flow. If you've ever been curious about feminisation, or the fun exploration of sissification with chastity, it won't be hard to understand why Mistress Star really is skilled at what she does as she guides kinksters on their feminisation paths within the Hubs.

Quotable: "I'm just very greedy, I want all aspects of feminisation."

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Check out the Replay of Mistress Star's chastity games & mummification demo | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠BoundFest, July 12-14

S1Ep. 9 - Cuckolding is a sexual practice as old as time, but has only recently gained mainstream attention. We carefully uncover this consensual act between adults with Cuckoldress, Goddess Greta Vanderthrust. Listen as she shares her firsthand success stories and we get into the nitty gritty of all parties motivations, challenges, false expectations, and myths while balancing your self-worth. Come explore the truth about cuckolding as a kink and a lifestyle.

Quotable: "Sometimes I just like watching my partner [accidentally] cuck himself."

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Goddess tickle your fancy? | ⁠Pearlroomproductions.com

S1Ep. 7 - High protocol is often considered the most "formal" level of D/s play. Some even consider this secret set of rituals a big part of their interactions within their dynamics. This strict and formal enactment of roles for all parties depending on the event, location, present company, desired reaction, or more can dictate a lot without saying much. We will chat about understanding how to define structure discreetly and implement rituals to vary the intensity of activities whether for a scene, a party, or to practice "leveling up" your protocols.

Quotable: "High protocol is a form of subspace for me. My reality is changed."

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S2Ep. 10 - This week we introduce our latest venture, BoundHubs - a way to customize the kink you want, your way. We started with the lovely Ms. S. Listen in as we chat with the pro Domme that specializes in ABDL, age regression, and age play! She's already making a big impact with her in person 24/7 daycare. We'll talk about her journey into age play, some of the myths associated with age play, and more. Come let Ms. S give you a peek into her playspace, no sippy cup required.

Quotable: "It's emotionally fulfilling for me to create a space where people can come and feel welcome and safe."

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Do you need looking after? | ⁠⁠Ms. S's Playspace

S1Ep. 4 - Often we hear about D-types "vetting" their s-types, but it goes both way. Vetting is to thoroughly inspect and get to know a person. It’s an old school practice in BDSM that gets ignored too often in today’s meet-online-first world. We'll share what to consider before you start a dynamic, how to approach necessary topics early on, where to meet other kinksters, red flags, and more tips toward Dominant vetting. A huge part of having a functional D/s relationship is about building trust and this is the first step.

Quotable: "I only want to see a d*ck pic if it makes me laugh or moan."

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S1Ep. 6 - The internet may try to tell you otherwise, but kink is not exclusively a young person's playground, nor is blooming later into whatever your sexual desires may entail. But, what is it really like to get into kink later in life? Join us as we chat with guest kinkster, Bondage slave, who dipped their toe into their dark desires over the hill. We will discuss personal challenges and triumphs along his journey to self discovery where he learned, age really is just a number and not a limitation.

Quotable: "There's mental arousal and physical arousal, and I owe Mistress Star for helping me reach both."

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S1Ep. 16 - Curious about anal play? (Who isn't?). Head back to basics with us as this favorite fetish is explored. We'll talk about anal sex practices in depth, including some myths, the reason some people like it more than others, some useful recommendations, and the possible risks involved. And we'll answer all the anal sex questions and give tips for anal play for both newbies and seasoned pros. Anal play is just as valid and important to discuss and explore as any other form of sexual expression, so sit tight as we talk about all about butts!

Quotable: "It just feels like I need a poo!"

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S1Ep. 13 - This week we talk about a BoundHub with an area of kink that few experience but many crave. We chat with certified Hypnotherapist and 24/7 Femdom d20domme. She dives into the basics of how hypnotherapy, especially the erotic type, can bring you satisfaction, relief, boost in self-esteem, or even streamline service to someone in a D/s dynamic. Listen in as d20domme shares her opinion on the new wave of popular Hypnosis & ASMR content available on the web, tips for first time hypno fans, and what her mesmerizing Hub will provide.

Quotable: "Brainwashing sounds very hot, but it's not really real."

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Don't d20domme's Hypno demos | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠BoundFest, July 12-14

S1Ep. 8 - Guiding your own sexual health, relationships, desires and kinky ideology is something you may seek on a personal scale. Join us with relationship coach and behavior analyst, Anneke Elmhirst of All4Love. As a queer, polyamorous, kinkster her perspective is vast and inquisitive. We discuss the evolution of societal acceptances through sexual health awareness. Listen in as Anneke flexes her coaching skills and shares her viewpoint and tips on motives behind kinks, the importance of compassion in self awareness, adjusting belief systems, shedding shame, and confronting the uncomfortable within on the road to greater sexual health and healing.

Quotable: "Shame is universal. Every client I have helped, has had some level of shame around something that needed to be unpacked."

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Check out Anneke | All4LoveCoaching.com

S1Ep. 1 - Welcome to the BoundBDSM.net kinky companion podcast. In our first episode we introduce ourselves, chat about our website and lively kink-based Discord server. How this new type of virtual community breathing fresh air into the lives of the kink-curious and lifestylers?

Quotable: "She's a very scary and creative sadist!"

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S1Ep. 17 - In this episode, we dive into the unique challenges and rewards of long-distance BDSM dynamics. From building emotional connections to keeping the kink alive, we explore strategies for maintaining intimacy even when many miles apart. Whether you’re navigating time zones, juggling sexy toy tech, or finding creative ways to fulfill your desires, this episode offers practical tips and kinky advice to help you strengthen your BDSM bond and keep your roles thriving across the distance.

Quotable: "The verbal feedback after LD play is valuable."

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