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	Pub. Date	Title	Duration
	11 Nov 2021	S3 9. Fertility (with Ruth Corden & Gill Aldridge)	00:41:11
In this very special episode, accredited sex therapist Cate Campbell and her son Diggory Waite invite not one – but two guests onto the show. They first speak to fertility counsellor Gill Aldridge about, the physical, mental and monetary cost of trying for a child, whether the ability to have a child is a human right and how men’s ‘fertile window’ isn’t always as big as widely thought. Then they speak to Ruth Corden about her journey with her partner in trying to grow their family, the effect that ‘trying’ can have on your personal wellbeing and about how her podcast, Finding the Funny, has allowed her to reclaim her sense of self. There’s no listener questions this week but make sure you keep sending in any sex or relationship questions you want answered by accredited therapist Cate who will be back answering your questions next episode! You can email them to podcasts@hattrick.com or by DMing us on Instagram - @realsexedpod You can find Gill Aldridge on https://www.carefertility.com/why-care/bios/clinic-bios/gill-aldridge/ & https://www.therelationshipcounsellors.com/gill-aldridge You can find Ruth Corden on instagram @ruth_corden and the podcast Finding the Funny wherever you get your podcasts You can find Cate’s blog, going into more detail on what was discussed in today’s episode, here: https://catecampbell.wordpress.com/ The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Reading List: Fertility, porn, imagination… it’s time for a new approach to sex education \| Eva Wiseman – https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2021/nov/07/fertility-porn-imagination-it-is-time-for-a-new-approach-to-sex-education?utm_term=618787835117ec64c10f1c395f55ad67&utm_campaign=GuardianTodayUK&utm_source=esp&utm_medium=Email&CMP=GTUK_email&fbclid=IwAR04lgPUgC7WElTeWc_6L5GGPMBHpcmQ2wnbRh44YP1A1UoAwKhZPsRVKgI Watching & listening List: The Hormone Diaries \| Hannah Witton – https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5jx6sSpis9g&list=PLg3ISyIIul8f1PYzVzjPu6dZLYPmaAGlE&ab_channel=HannahWitton Reasons for Infertility \| Demystifying Medicine – https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QLGrmYgow8I&ab_channel=DemystifyingMedicine Male infertility: The secret shame of having no sperm \| BBC News – https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZrqtpmZlgF8&ab_channel=BBCNews Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	17 Dec 2020	S2 4. 'The Talk' (with Hannah Witton)	00:38:26
In this episode, accredited sex therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory welcome author, podcaster and YouTuber Hannah Witton onto the show. They talk about how Hannah's disability has changed the way she approaches sex before Hannah tells the story of how she gathered her family into the bathroom to ensure her parents gave her 'The Talk'. For Cate's blog on this episode including links for more information on any of the issues raised, please go to: https://catecampbell.wordpress.com/2020/12/17/hannah-witton/ The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	16 Sep 2021	S3 1. Consent (with Dr. Betty Martin)	00:47:18
In the first episode of a new series, Diggory Waite and his accredited sex therapist mother Cate Campbell explore the ‘Wheel of Consent’ with its developer Dr. Betty Martin, who also outlines how we can implement the Wheel’s concepts into our everyday interactions as well as teaching us how we can apply the consensual practices with our partners by playing the 3-minute game and how with a simple solo exercise, we can wake up our hands to pleasure. Our mailbag will return in next week’s episode where we'll be discussing 'Pegging' with the wonderful Zachary Zane. Make sure you send in your sex or relationship questions to our accredited therapist Cate who will answer them on the pod! You can email them to podcasts@hattrick.com or by DMing us on Instagram - @realsexedpod You can find Dr Betty Martin and her book ‘The Art of Giving and Receiving’ at https://bettymartin.org/ You can also find accredited sex and relationship therapist Cate Campbell’s blog, going into more detail on what was discussed in today’s episode, here: https://catecampbell.wordpress.com/?p=367 The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Reading List: The Consent Checklist by Meg John Barker https://www.rewriting-the-rules.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/10/Consent-Checklist-1.pdf Beres, M.A. (2007) “Spontaneous” sexual consent: An analysis of sexual consent literature. Feminism & Psychology, 17;1, 93-108. Campbell, C. (2020) “Sexual Consent”. In: Contemporary Sex Therapy, Abingdon: Routledge, 145-151. Greenspan, R. (2017) Dancing with the dominant: learning consent with kink and bondage, University Wire Service, February 13th, 1. Hancock, J. (2021) Can We Talk About Consent? Frances Lincoln Children’s Books. Kornhaber, S. (2019) Cruising in the age of consent. The Atlantic, 324;1, 96-103. Watching & listening List: Betty Martin: The Wheel of Consent https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=auokDp_EA80 Betty Martin: How to Play the 3-Minute Game https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_KCzpNBNbVM The New Age of Consent (BBC, 2018): Jameela Jamil asks how we should navigate consent https://www.bbc.co.uk/sounds/play/b0bh4361 When "Yes" Means "No", the Truth about Consent \| Joyce Short https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=imr5ZiAY_ao&list=LL&index=2 What can Sexting teach us about Consent? \| Amy Adele Hasinoff https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LdDRv2f2dFc Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	06 Aug 2020	S1 4. The Ethical Slut (with Stuart Goldsmith)	00:29:26
In this episode, sex therapist Cate and son Diggory interview Stuart Goldsmith of the Comedian’s Comedian and Child Labour podcasts. He talks about breaking into a garage to look at mountains of porn at school, teaching consent to his children from an early age and why he'd recommend the book The Ethical Slut to everyone… Cate Campbell's blog giving further insights into issues raised in this ep can be found here: https://catecampbell.wordpress.com/2020/08/06/stuart-goldsmith/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	18 Nov 2021	S3 10. Polyamory (with Dr. Magdalena J Fosse)	00:40:50
In the final episode of series 3, sex therapist Cate Campbell and her son Diggory Waite invite sex therapist, clinical psychologist and author Dr. Magdalena J Fosse onto the podcast. Magdalena specialises in working with polyamorous and non-monogamous clients – clients who are romantically and sexually involved with multiple partners. Together they discuss jealousy in non-monogamous relationships, generational differences between younger and older polyamorous people and what to do if you think you may be polyamorous yourself. Cate also answers listener questions about vaginal prolapses and gay porn whilst Diggory experiments with exercising his pelvic floor muscles. If you’d like your question answered by Cate on the podcast, make sure to email them to podcasts@hattrick.com or by DMing us on Instagram - @realsexedpod You can find Dr Magdalena J Fosse via her website – https://www.drfosse.com/ You can buy Magdalena’s book on polyamory, titled ‘The Many Faces of Polyamory: Longing and Belonging in Concurrent Relationships’ via https://www.routledge.com/The-Many-Faces-of-Polyamory-Longing-and-Belonging-in-Concurrent-Relationships/Fosse/p/book/9781138504301 You can find Cate’s blog, going into more detail on what was discussed in today’s episode, here: https://catecampbell.wordpress.com/ The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Reading List: The Many Faces of Polyamory by Magdalena J Fosse, New York: Routledge, 2021 The Ethical Slut by Janet W. Hardy and Dossie Easton, third edition, Ten Speed Press, 2017 Watching& Listening List: The Book of Polyamory, BBC Radio 4: www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/m000gkw9 4 Types of Polyamory – https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=woh5tm61DHo&ab_channel=BoldlyGrow Support & Resources: Polyamory UK: www.polyamory.org.uk Polyamory Glossary – https://www.readyforpolyamory.com/polyamory-glossary Pelvic Floor Exercises / Kegel Exercises – https://www.healthline.com/health/kegel-exercises LD8som8s4Z7prF6X9SDu Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	11 Feb 2021	S2 10. Sexy TikToks (with Olga Koch)	00:38:12
In the final episode of Series 2, Diggory and his sex therapist mother Cate speak to Olga Koch about her sex education in Russia, the UK and the United States before Olga explains her proclivity toward dating teenagers, how she made a boyfriend out of cake and pegging. Cate Campbell's blog post on the episode can be found here: https://catecampbell.wordpress.com/?p=359 The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	03 Sep 2020	S1 8. Conscious Wanks & Feminist Sex (with Flo Perry)	00:27:53
In this episode, sex therapist Cate and son Diggory interview author of "How to Have Feminist Sex", Flo Perry. She talks about her therapist mother, taking control of your body image, her conception of feminist sex and how we should all be having conscious wanks.... Cate's blog can be found here: https://catecampbell.wordpress.com/2020/09/03/flo-perry/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	13 Aug 2020	S1 5. Sex Positive Parents (with Catherine Bohart)	00:29:41
Episode 5: Catherine Bohart – In this episode, Diggory’s sex therapist mother Cate joins him to interview comedian and podcaster Catherine Bohart about her sex education. Catherine and Diggory bond over their ‘sex positive’ parents who were all too happy to have the talk over and over again, as well as discovering your sexuality and the comforts that come from speaking to other couples about their relationship troubles. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	31 Dec 2020	New Year's Bonus	00:12:27
In the second of two holiday bonus episodes, Diggory and Jessica answer more sex and relationship conundrums put to them by their sex therapist mother, Cate. The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	10 Sep 2020	S1 9. Tiny Lesbians (with Sarah Keyworth)	00:30:25
9. Sarah Keyworth In this much anticipated sequel to the Catherine Bohart episode, sex therapist Cate and son Diggory interview comedian Sarah Keyworth. She talks about being a tiny lesbian, watching sex education videos with her mum, being in the closet at school and gives the other side of the coin on the L word.... Cate's blog can be found here: Blog URL: https://catecampbell.wordpress.com/2020/09/06/sarah-keyworth/ Useful links: College of Sexual & Relationship Therapists: https://www.cosrt.org.uk/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	07 Oct 2021	S3 4. Testosterone (with Dr Janine David)	00:35:06
In this episode, GP and Men’s Health Specialist Dr Janine David joins accredited sex therapist Cate Campbell and her son Diggory Waite to talk about testosterone. Janine tells Cate and Diggory the effect a low testosterone count can have on both men and women, the onus on healthcare professionals to uphold patient’s sexualities as key parts of their overall wellbeing and the potential link between testosterone and the Coronavirus pandemic. Cate and Diggory also answer more listener questions about breastfeeding and scheduled chats couples can have to discuss how the relationship is going. Make sure you send in your sex or relationship questions to our accredited therapist Cate who will answer them on the pod! You can email them to podcasts@hattrick.com or by DMing us on Instagram - @realsexedpod You can find Dr Janine David on Twitter - @drjaninedavid You can find Cate’s blog, going into more detail on what was discussed in today’s episode, here: https://catecampbell.wordpress.com/ The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	04 Nov 2021	S3 8. Erectile Difficulties (with Angus Barge from Mojo)	00:36:41
Sex therapist Cate Campbell and her son Diggory Waite invite Angus Barge onto the podcast to talk about his struggles with erectile difficulties. Angus tells the story about how it was opening up to his cousin on a long car journey that was the first step to dealing with his issue, what remedies were suggested online (from thrashing your penis with nettles to using PDE5 inhibitors like Viagra) and why he set up Mojo, an online resource to help men tackle ED. Later in the episode, Cate answers listener's questions like 'are more men are struggling to orgasm recently?' and how to stop crying after sex as well as finding time to have a dig at Coldplay. Make sure you send in your sex or relationship questions to our accredited therapist Cate who will answer them on the pod! You can email them to podcasts@hattrick.com or by DMing us on Instagram - @realsexedpod You can find out more about Angus Barge and Mojo on https://mojo.so/ You can find Cate’s blog, going into more detail on what was discussed in today’s episode, here: https://catecampbell.wordpress.com/ The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Reading List: The New Male Sexuality By Bernie Zilbergeld 5 natural ways to overcome erectile dysfunction - Harvard Health - https://www.health.harvard.edu/mens-health/5-natural-ways-to-overcome-erectile-dysfunction Watching List: Do YOU have Erectile Dysfunction ? \| Why it Happens and How to Fix it - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kZRYER3xyr8&ab_channel=JHPMedicalUK Support & Resources: https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/erection-problems-erectile-dysfunction/ The New Male Sexuality By Bernie Zilbergeld Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	26 Nov 2020	S2 1. Sex Dreams (with Poppy Jay & Rubina Pabani)	00:36:32
In the first episode of the second series, Diggory and his accredited sex therapist mother Cate chat to two podcasting superstars; Rubina and Poppy, hosts of the award-winning 'Brown Girls Do It Too' podcast, who talk about the heightened risks that come with speaking openly and honestly about sex as British-Asian women, as well as describing what goes on in their sex dreams and discussing the relative merits of polyamory. Cate Campbell's blog post on the episode can be found here: https://catecampbell.wordpress.com/2020/11/26/poppy-jay-and-rubina-pabani/ The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	16 Jul 2020	S1 1. Condoms (with Darren Harriott)	00:28:34
In the first episode of the series Diggory and his sex therapist mum Cate chat to comedian Darren Harriott in a frank, funny and often informative talk discussing his sex education - including historically disappointing download speeds for porn access, horrific lessons about STDs at school and humble brags about condom sizes. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	23 Sep 2021	S3 2. Pegging (with Zachary Zane)	00:39:13
In this rather explicit and in-depth episode (you've been warned!), accredited sex therapist Cate Campbell and her son Diggory invite sex educator Zachary Zane onto the podcast to do a deep dive on all things pegging. They discuss what’s in it for the pegger, whether pegging really has had a recent spike in popularity and rubbish the idea that pegging has any effect on sexuality. Make sure you send in your sex or relationship questions to our accredited therapist Cate who will answer them on the pod! You can email them to podcasts@hattrick.com or by DMing us on Instagram - @realsexedpod You can find Zachary Zane on Instagram and Twitter @ZacharyZane_ or www.zacharyzane.com You can find Cate’s blog, going into more detail on what was discussed in today’s episode, here: https://catecampbell.wordpress.com/ The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Reading List: A Pegging 101 from bvibe.com – https://www.bvibe.com/anal-play-101/pegging/ Pegging is the Newest Trend on TikTok – https://www.vice.com/en/article/qj4wnv/pegging-is-the-newest-tiktok-trend - Watching & listening List: How to Talk to Your Partner About Pegging - https://youtu.be/W3V-cpJ3fWQ An overview on Pegging - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1dKm2Xghz_g Great instructions on how to peg - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gNZP5rz-Jik ComeCurious on what it is like as a woman to peg a man - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eLZHu7F5iy4 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	21 Jan 2021	S2 7. TV Sex Scenes (with Ita O’Brien)	00:41:20
In this episode, Diggory and his sex therapist mother Cate speak with Intimacy Coordinator Ita O'Brien about her work choreographing the intimate scenes in some of our favourite TV shows, consent (both on and off set) and which of her practices we can apply to our own lives. Cate's blog with further thoughts on the episode can be found at https://catecampbell.wordpress.com/?p=340 The Real Sex Education is Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	14 Oct 2021	S3 5. Asexuality (with Alice Olivia Scarlett)	00:39:42
In this episode, accredited sex therapist Cate Campbell and her son Diggory speak to Alice Olivia Scarlett about Asexuality - the lack of or low interest in sexual activity with others. Alice talks about coming out as an asexual, ‘blue balls’ and the debate amongst some as to whether asexuals are part of the LGBTQ+ community. Also, in the listener’s questions section, Cate and Diggory debate whether it is ‘okay’ to break up with someone over sex and Cate explains how you can become a sex therapist. Make sure you send in your sex or relationship questions to our accredited therapist Cate who will answer them on the pod! You can email them to podcasts@hattrick.com or by DMing us on Instagram - @realsexedpod You can find Alice Olivia Scarlett on Instagram @aliceoliviascarlett and Twitter @themagickind or on her website https://aliceoliviascarlett.com/ You can find Cate’s blog, going into more detail on what was discussed in today’s episode, here: https://catecampbell.wordpress.com/ The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Reading List: Asexuality is the Queerest Thing \| Alice Olivia Scarlett - https://www.stonewall.org.uk/about-us/news/asexuality-queerest-thing 6 Ways to be an ally to asexual people - https://www.stonewall.org.uk/about-us/news/six-ways-be-ally-asexual-people Watching & listening List: 7 Things Asexual People Want You To Know - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i14YMpKS_CY&ab_channel=Psych2Go 5 Asexual People Explain What "Asexual" Means To Them - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lMhix4nr_0g&ab_channel=Tinder Asexuals need media representation \| Yasmin Benoit - https://www.ted.com/talks/yasmin_benoit_asexuals_need_media_representation Asexuality: my Story of Self-exploration \| Chantal Kelly \| TEDxYouth@LAS - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NTBLsaLMi5k&ab_channel=TEDxTalks I’m asexual, but my partner is not \| Ask Kai \| Xtra Magazine - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tOOO57KYMm0&ab_channel=XtraMagazine Support & Resources: Psycho Sexual Therapy Training courses - https://www.cosrt.org.uk/accredited-professional-courses/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	26 May 2022	S4 1. Big Tits (with Jackie Adedeji)	00:36:08
Can you orgasm from having your nipples played with? Is one boob often bigger than the other? Can you lactate just from hearing a baby cry? Join accredited sex and relationship therapist Cate Campbell and her son Diggory as they quiz Jackie Adedeji on all things boobs. They also find out what was it like for Jackie to hit puberty so early that she was treated like an adult when she was still a child, what her boobs have taught her about herself and what her vicar Father thinks of her campaigning about boobs. You can keep up to date with everything Jackie is up to on her Instagram: @ohmygoshitsjackie Make sure you're subscribed to the podcast wherever you're listening to it right now so you're the first to hear new episodes that drop every Thursday. To keep up to date with the podcast and any announcements, follow us on Instagram and Twitter - @realsexedpod Got a sex or relationship question you're dying to know the answer to? Send in a question to Cate, an accredited therapist, who will answer them on the pod! You can email them to podcasts@hattrick.com or by DMing us on Instagram or Twitter - @realsexedpod Not bored of boobs yet? You can find Cate’s blog, going into more detail on what was discussed in today’s episode, here: https://catecampbell.wordpress.com/ The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	02 Jun 2022	S4 2. Are you and your partner sexually compatible?	00:24:17
In this episode, accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell is quizzed by her son Diggory on all things sexual compatibility: What is sexual compatibility? How important is it that we're sexually compatible with our partner? Can we improve our sexual compatibility with our partner? Is sexual compatibility grounds for starting or ending a relationship? What star signs are sexually compatible? Then, Cate answers some of YOUR burning relationship conundrums which this week include questions around whether you're a 'real gay' if you don't practice anl sex and whether you can get pregnant from pre-cm. If you have a subject like sexual compatibility you'd like us to discuss or have a query about your own sex life you'd like answered, please do send them into us at podcasts@hattrick.com or by DMing us on Twitter or Instagram, we're @RealSexEdPod. And don't worry - we'll keep your anonymity safe if you'd rather your name not be on the show! Make sure you're subscribed to us wherever you're listening to this episode now to make sure you're the first to hear new episodes when they drop every week! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	09 Jun 2022	S4 3. Improving School Sex Ed (with Justin Hancock)	00:31:29
In this episode, Diggory and his sex therapist mother Cate discuss the new bill in the UK which will make it compulsory to input data that proves you’re over 18 before you can watch any pornography online. Is this a good thing? Enter sex educator and owner of bishuk.com, Justin Hancock who tells us whether we should be worried about the effect that porn is having on young people before outlining how we can improve sex education in schools, the importance of teaching people not just about sex but relationships and feelings as well in sex ed, what are some of the most common questions he gets from young people on his website and what Nigella Lawson can teach us about the relationship between consent and power… You can find today's guest, Justin Hancock, on Instagram - @bishsexed and his website is bishuk.com You can find Cate’s blog, going into more detail on what was discussed in today’s episode, here: https://catecampbell.wordpress.com/ Subscribe to wherever you’re listening to this podcast now so you’re first to listen next week when we’ll be back answering some of the sex and relationship questions you sent in to our accredited therapist Cate who will answer them on the pod! You can email ANY questions you have to podcasts@hattrick.com or by DMing us on Instagram - @realsexedpod so you can have your question answered on future episodes! The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	16 Jun 2022	S4 4. Are Daddy Issues Real?	00:22:37
In this episode, sex therapist Cate Campbell takes her son Diggory on a deep dive into all things Daddy Issues. They answer some of the key questions: - What are Daddy Issues? - Are they even real? - What is the link between Daddy Issues and sex? - What do they have to do with attachment theory? - Who can have Daddy Issues? We then open up our mailbag to answer two of your listener questions about labiaplasty and lasting longer in bed. You can send in YOUR sex or relationship questions to our accredited therapist Cate who will answer them on the pod! They can be personal to you or just a general query you have and don’t worry – we’ll keep you anonymous if you’d like! You can email them to podcasts@hattrick.com or by DMing us on Instagram - @realsexedpod The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	23 Jun 2022	S4 5. Cuckolding: When Hotwifing works...	00:29:08
In this episode, Cate and Diggory talk all things Cuckolding and interview Steve (not his real name) who partakes in a specific kind of cuckolding with his wife called 'Hotwifing'. They speak to Steve about: What Cuckolding and Hotwifing is Why he and his wife got into Hotwifing Steve's best tips for making sure you and your partner can avoid jealousy Bad experiences finding partners to join them His plans to create a dedicated Hotwifing website Want to know more about Cuckolding? You can find Cate’s blog, going into more detail on what was discussed in today’s episode, here: https://catecampbell.wordpress.com/ Next week, Cate will be back to answer all of your sex and relationships questions. If you have anything you'd like to ask, make sure you email them to podcasts@hattrick.com or DM them to us on Instagram - @realsexedpod - Why not give us a follow on on Instagram whilst you're there? This episode makes reference to sexual abuse. If you have been affected by anything raised in this episode, help can be found here: · Rape Crisis has a helpline, open from 12-14.30h and 19-21.30h: 0808 802 9999 · Rape Crisis Northern Ireland has a freephone helpline on Monday and Thursday from 18-20h: 0800 0246 911 · Rape Crisis Scotland has a free helpline from 18h-midnight 08088 010302 · Safeline 0808 800 5005 · Survivors Trust Free helpline: 08088 010818 · Women’s Support Project · EMDR - Find a therapist who's right for you. The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	30 Jun 2022	S4 6. How to Close the Orgasm Gap	00:36:07
In this episode, Cate and Diggory go on their first school trip to the cinema to watch the new film, 'Good Luck to You, Leo Grande' in which Emma Thompson plays a retired widow who hires a young sex worker to give her her first ever orgasm. This sparks some conversation that, be warned, contains some light spoilers for the film - but nothing that hasn't already been mentioned in the press reviews or interviews for the movie already - so if you want to see the film without knowing much about it, come back and listen to this episode after you've watched the film. Off the back of that, Cate and Diggory go on to talk about orgasms and the orgasm gap, in which they discuss: What the Orgasm Gap is? Is it easier for men to orgasm than women? Can everyone orgasm? Why is the gap widening? How can we close the Orgasm Gap? Then, Diggory puts questions to Cate sent in by you, our listeners! Is a couple in their 60s 'too old' to start having sex again? And how should someone with a hair fetish tell their girlfriend that they're feeling less desire for them now they've had a haircut? If you have a question that you'd like an accredited sex therapist to answer, about your own sex life or just something you're curious about in general, let us know! You can email your queries into us via email, podcasts@hattrick.com or on Twitter and Instagram, we're @RealSexEdPod and don't worry - if you don't want people knowing you've asked the question, we'll keep your anonymity safe! The article and research cited in this episode can be found here - https://www.theguardian.com/society/2022/jun/11/orgasm-gap-how-hollywood-and-science-neglected-female-pleasure?utm_term=62a43d78ee89c15e7482962247eaf59d&utm_campaign=GuardianTodayUK&utm_source=esp&utm_medium=Email&CMP=GTUK_email The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	07 Jul 2022	S4 7. Cyber Flashing: How Men Can Help (with Sophie Gallagher)	00:30:34
In this episode, Cate and Diggory speak to award-winning writer, editor and campaigner Sophie Gallagher to talk about the emergence and rapid rise of Cyber Flashing - the unsolicited and non-consensual sharing of explicit images. They discuss: How prevalent is Cyber Flashing? What sort of effect does it have on victims? Why is the law surrounding it inadequate? Why do perpetrators do this? Why has this been a problem that women have been tasked with solving? And they ultimately end the discussion asking how can men help? Which, Sophie goes into more detail in her book of the same name – How Can Men Help? You can buy Sophie’s book here: https://uk.bookshop.org/books/how-men-can-help-a-guide-to-allyship-accountability-and-improving-the-future/9781802792973?aid=10269 You can find Sophie on Twitter @SCFGallagher & Instagram @sophiecfgallagher This episode makes reference to sexual abuse. If you have been affected by anything raised in this episode, help can be found here: · Rape Crisis has a helpline, open from 12-14.30h and 19-21.30h: 0808 802 9999 · Rape Crisis Northern Ireland has a freephone helpline on Monday and Thursday from 18-20h: 0800 0246 911 · Rape Crisis Scotland has a free helpline from 18h-midnight 08088 010302 · Safeline 0808 800 5005 · Survivors Trust Free helpline: 08088 010818 · Women’s Support Project · EMDR - Find a therapist who's right for you. The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	14 Jul 2022	S4 8. What is the Dating Strategy for Straight Women We're Seeing Everywhere?	00:37:07
Hypergamy - the action of marrying or forming a sexual relationship with a person of a superior sociological or educational background - is popping up more and more recently. Coaches are creating Instagram and Tik Tok accounts to teach hundreds of thousands of people (mostly straight women) how to successfully date upwards and to date upwards and attract 'Alpha Males' & 'High Value Men'. Diggory and accredited sex therapist Cate Campbell discuss this phenomenon and ask Has it been around for longer than we think? Why do people (particularly young straight women) want to date 'upward'? What does coaching someone to date upwards look like? Is it ethical to couple up with someone for money and status rather than genuine connection? How long will this last for? Diggory also puts your sex questions and conundrums to Cate which in this episode revolve whether to have a baby in a sexless marriage and why one woman's boyfriend always apologises after sex... If you have any questions for our accredited therapist Cate who will answer them on the pod! You can email them to podcasts@hattrick.com or by DMing us on Instagram - @realsexedpod The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	21 Jul 2022	S4 9. How to Heal a Heartbreak (with Florence Bark)	00:34:47
In this episode, Cate and Diggory speak to host of the Fks Given and Love High podcasts Florence Bark about her own history with heartbreak. They discuss all aspects of breaking up, and answer questions like: Should you cut complete contact with your ex? What techniques can you use to help get back to feeling yourself again? When is it okay to move on and start seeing new people? You can find Florence Bark on Instagram here: @florencebark and listen to her podcasts: Love High and F**ks Given Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into us via: - Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 - Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com - DMing us on Instagram – we’re @realsexedpod And we'll do our best to answer them on the podcast. You can find Cate’s blog, going into more detail on what was discussed in today’s episode, here: https://catecampbell.wordpress.com/ The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	28 Jul 2022	S4 10. How to Have Festival Sex (Live at Latitude 2022)	00:49:16
Ever wanted to know how to have festival sex, put your sex knowledge to the test or have some of your burning questions answered by a sex and relationships therapist? Listen in as Cate and Diggory did their first ever live recording of the podcast that they performed at Latitude 2022. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: -Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 -Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com -DMing us on Instagram – we’re @realsexedpod Thank you very much to Kirsty, Flora and Rhiannon from Festival Republic for inviting us to perform at Latitude 2022 and thank you to everyone that came to see us there! If you'd like us to perform at your festival, event or back garden, do send get in touch via any of the links above! The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	08 Aug 2022	S4 11. (No) Sex in Japan (with Dr Alice Pacher)	00:38:16
Accredited sex therapist Cate Campbell and her son Diggory Waite are joined by Meiji University Professor Dr Alice Pacher to talk about her new book (No) Sex in Japan. They discuss why fewer and fewer people are getting into relationships and why those that are in relationships are having less sex within them. They also touch on Japan's rapidly falling birth rate, what that means for the future of the country and what we can learn from that in the West. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: -Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 -Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com -DMing us on Instagram – we’re @realsexedpod You can find Dr Alice Pacher's book, '(No) Sex in Japan' here - https://link.springer.com/book/10.1007/978-981-16-8464-7 You can find Cate’s blog, going into more detail on what was discussed in today’s episode, here: https://catecampbell.wordpress.com/ The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	15 Aug 2022	S4 12. Why We Opened Up Our Relationship (with Jack Barry)	00:40:51
Accredited sex therapist Cate Campbell and her son Diggory Waite are joined by comedian and actor Jack Barry to discuss his sex education, acting as his parents marriage councillor and why he and his partner opened up their relationship. For those of you at this year's Edinburgh Fringe Festival, you can hear more about Jack's story by seeing his show 'Don't Happy, Be Worry' at the Monkey Barrel, MB4 starting at 10:40pm from now until the 28th August 2022. Tickets can be purchased here - https://tickets.edfringe.com/whats-on/jack-barry-don-t-happy-be-worry And you can find Jack on Instagram here. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: -Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 -Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com -DMing us on Instagram – we’re @realsexedpod You can find Cate’s blog, going into more detail on what was discussed in today’s episode, here: https://catecampbell.wordpress.com/ The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	22 Aug 2022	S4 13. How to Lose Your Virginity	00:48:18
Losing your virginity. What does it actually mean? Is it important? What should you know before you do it? Can you get it back!? Diggory and Cate answer these questions as well as share stories of their first kisses, answer a listener's relationship conundrum about how to open up their relationship and discuss the problem with the stereotype that men are up for sex all the time. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: -Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 -Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com -DMing us on Instagram – we’re @realsexedpod The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	29 Aug 2022	S4 14. Bisexuality - do we need labels?	00:40:42
Cate and Diggory discuss what bisexuality is, whether it's on the rise and debate whether we need labels at all before answering listener's questions which include whether someone can go off their boyfriend because they're 'too nice' and when should someone tell potential partners about their anxiety and depression. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: -Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 -Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com -DMing us on Instagram – we’re @realsexedpod The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	05 Sep 2022	S4 15. The Reasons Why LGBTQ+ Couples Come to Therapy (with Silva Neves)	00:36:00
In this episode, Cate and Diggory speak to fellow sex and relationship therapist Silva Neves. They discuss: The reasons why LGBTQ+ have to be treated differently to heterosexual clients The importance of having a 'Pink' therapist Body Image Issues in the gay community You can find Silva Neves here: https://www.silvaneves.co.uk/ And you can purchase Silva Neves' book on Compulsive Sexual Behaviours here: https://www.routledge.com/Compulsive-Sexual-Behaviours-A-Psycho-Sexual-Treatment-Guide-for-Clinicians/Neves/p/book/9780367465483 Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into us via: - Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 - Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com - DMing us on Instagram – we’re @realsexedpod And we'll do our best to answer them on the podcast. You can find Cate’s blog, going into more detail on what was discussed in today’s episode, here: https://catecampbell.wordpress.com/ The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	12 Sep 2022	S4 16. Writing Your Rules for Casual Relationships	00:41:42
From 'Situationships' to 'Friends with Benefits', Cate and Diggory discuss why people have casual relationships and what are some best practices for them before answering questions sent in by listeners, including: I sleep much better when my partner doesn't share a bed with me. Is it okay for a couple to sleep in separate beds? My partner is always asking me for sex and the more more I say no, the moodier they get. Am I being unreasonable? Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into us via: - Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 - Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com - DMing us on Instagram – we’re @realsexedpod And we'll do our best to answer them on the podcast. Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to the podcast and leave us a review on iTunes, Spotify or wherever you're listening! The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	19 Sep 2022	S4 17. How to Approach Modern Dating (with Lalalaletmeexplain)	00:37:58
In this episode, Cate and Diggory speak to Lalalaletmeexplain about Modern Dating, discussing: The issues with Dating Apps What are situationships How porn is leading us to have deficit sex How to communicate what you want from your partner How celibacy can improve your sex life You can find Lalalaletmeexplain here: https://www.instagram.com/lalalaletmeexplain/ And you can purchase Lalalaletmeexplain's book, Block, Delete, Move On: It's Not You, It's Them here: https://linktr.ee/blockdeletemoveon Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into us via: - Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 - Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com - DMing us on Instagram – we’re @realsexedpod And we'll do our best to answer them on the podcast. You can find Cate’s blog, going into more detail on what was discussed in today’s episode, here: https://catecampbell.wordpress.com/ The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	26 Sep 2022	S4 18. Do you have spontaneous or responsive desire?	00:48:48
Sex therapist Cate and son Diggory ask whether lesbian bed death (the idea that lesbians' sex lives become non existent in long-term relationships) is really a myth, throwing up other questions like: Where did the idea of 'lesbian bed death' come from? How do lesbians sex lives compare to their counterparts in other relationship styles? What is responsive and spontaneous desire and which one do I have? Cate and Diggory also answer two listener questions about whether its okay to fantasise about having sex with other people whilst you're in a relationship and getting into creampie with your wife. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into us via: - Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 - Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com - DMing us on Instagram – we’re @realsexedpod And we'll do our best to answer them on the podcast. Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to the podcast and leave us a review on iTunes, Spotify or wherever you're listening! The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	03 Oct 2022	S4 19. Why Straight Men Have Sex with Men (with Dr Joe Kort)	00:24:20
In this episode, Cate and Diggory invite Dr Joe Kort to talk about the phenomenon of straight men who have sex with men. They discuss: Why some straight men have sex with men What defines someone's sexual orientation The difference between your sexual and erotic orientation Joe's 4 questions he asks clients to help them understand their sexual orientation You can find Dr Joe Kort here: https://joekort.com/ Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into us via: - Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 - Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com - DMing us on Instagram – we’re @realsexedpod And we'll do our best to answer them on the podcast. You can find Cate’s blog, going into more detail on what was discussed in today’s episode, here: https://catecampbell.wordpress.com/ The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	10 Oct 2022	S4 20. Why do we have Anal Sex?	00:44:17
Sex therapist Cate and son Diggory talk about anal sex, discussing the different types before answering questions like: Who has anal sex? Why do people have anal sex? How should we have anal sex to minimise risk and maximise pleasure? Things also get a little heated as Cate and Diggory clash over their answers to listener questions about how to find a healthier balance between casual sex and commitment when dating and whether one man, whose girlfriend of 9 years has invited him to watch her and her friend have sex for the first time, is justified in feeling like he should be able to have sex with the friend, too. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into us via: - Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 - Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com - DMing us on Instagram – we’re @realsexedpod And we'll do our best to answer them on the podcast. Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to the podcast and leave us a review on iTunes, Spotify or wherever you're listening! The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	21 Sep 2023	Is 'the ick' real?	00:38:49
Gone off a potential partner because of their weird laugh? Embarrassing phone case? The way they use their knife and fork? Sounds like you've gotten 'the ick'. In this episode, accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell answers questions like why we get the ick? Can the ick go away? And is the ick actually real? Want your sex or relationship question answered by our a real life professional therapist Cate? You can send them into: -Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 -Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com -DMing us on Instagram or Twitter – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening. You can find Cate’s blog, going into more detail on what was discussed in today’s episode, here: https://catecampbell.wordpress.com/ The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	28 Sep 2023	How similar are our lives to a certain TV Show?	00:39:40
Sex therapist Cate and son Diggory chat about what it's like to be compared to Otis and Jean Milburn from Netflix's Sex Education. We hear a bit more about what sex therapy entails before answering some questions from listeners about suspecting your partner may have compulsive intrusive thoughts and threesomes. Lastly, we pose the question, can Only Fans be empowering? Do let us know what you think! Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: -Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 -Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com -DMing us on Instagram, X or TikTok – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	05 Oct 2023	5 Reasons Why You SHOULD Sext and Take Nudes	00:30:18
In this episode, Diggory makes the case to his sex therapist mother Cate as to why you SHOULD sext and take nudes. Throughout they answer questions like: - What is sexting? - Which Emojs are best for sexting? - What are the risks with sexting? - What is revenge porn? - How can we stay safe and sext? - Is sexting cheating? - Could sexting potentially lead to a relationship? - Can you earn money sexting? Remember gang, Diggory is very much playing the devil on your shoulder in this episode - listen to Cate (the angel) and be careful. Have fun but make sure you're not putting yourself at any unnecessary risk! Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: - Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 - Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com - DMing us on Instagram – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	09 Oct 2023	"I have non-consensual fantasies. Am I normal?"	00:19:46
*TRIGGER WARNING* - Discussion of rape and sexual assault. If you've been affected by any issues brought up in this episode, please find links to support services below. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: -Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 -Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com -DMing us on Instagram/TikTok/X – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Support Links: · Rape Crisis has a helpline, open from 12-14.30h and 19-21.30h: 0808 802 9999 · Rape Crisis Northern Ireland has a freephone helpline on Monday and Thursday from 18-20h: 0800 0246 911 · Rape Crisis Scotland has a free helpline from 18h-midnight 08088 010302 · Safeline 0808 800 5005 · Survivors Trust Free helpline: 08088 010818 · Support for Survivors · We Are Survivors · Women’s Support Project · Black Women’s Rape Action has a helpline, open Monday – Friday, 13-16.30h: 020 7482 2496 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	12 Oct 2023	Can Cheating be Forgiven?	00:37:00
Cheating – it's often seen as an unforgivable act, the most egregious sin to commit in a relationship and the end for many couples. But can one forgive the unforgivable? Accredited relationships therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory discuss exactly what cheating is, why people do it and whether it truly has to be the end. Cate also outlines steps you can take in your relationship to prevent a situation where one feels that the other has been unfaithful. You'll also find answers to: What is micro-cheating? What is emotional cheating? What you should do if you've been cheated on? How can you repair your relationship after infidelity? Can cheating be forgiven? And please tell us whether you think having a house with an avatar of yourself and your ex in the Sims that you still play regularly is cheating! You can let us know what you think and send us your sex and relationship conundrums to -Our anonymous Google Form: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 -Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com -DMing us on Instagram/TikTok/X – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Wider Viewing: Rethinking infidelity ... a talk for anyone who has ever loved \| Esther Perel - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P2AUat93a8Q&ab_channel=TED Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	16 Oct 2023	"Sometimes I imagine my boyfriend is a girlfriend..."	00:19:28
In this episode, Cate and Diggory debate whether going all out on your kinks is good practice for your first time sleeping with someone before answering questions from listeners like from one woman who imagines their boyfriend is a girl when he goes down on her and a widow who is feeling guilty about yearning for intimacy after the passing of their wife. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: - Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 - Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com - DMing us on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	19 Oct 2023	How your Attachment Style is affecting your relationships	00:35:04
Today, Cate and Diggory discuss what attachments styles/behaviours are, how you can identify them in yourself and others and how your attachment behaviour could be affecting your relationships. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: - Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 - Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com - DMing us on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	23 Oct 2023	"My boyfriend won’t tell me he loves me"	00:24:06
In this episode, Diggory puts questions to Cate from some of the friends in his life concerning a boyfriend who won't "show some moxy" and tell his girlfriend he loves her and what to do when you find out your child is watching porn. They also go on a slight tangent and pose the question - is monogamy human nature? Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: -Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 -Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com -DMing us on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	26 Oct 2023	Why does Ghosting hurt so much?	00:35:27
This Halloween episode is for anyone who has, or has been, ghosted. In this episode, Cate and Diggory discuss the meaning and definition of Ghosting someone to end a relationship, what ghosting says about you if you do it or have it done to you, whether ghosting can be a test or if you can perform a test to see if you're being ghosted, why ghosting hurts so much and what to do instead if you're thinking about ghosting someone. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: -Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 -Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com -DMing us on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Tags: Ghosting gif Ghosting quotes Ghosting walls Ghosting for no reason Ghosting v ignoring Ghosting or busy Ghosting without blocking Ghosting is cruel When ghosting backfires Why ghosting hurts so much Will ghosting hurt him Are ghosting bad Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	30 Oct 2023	How to Kiss PROPERLY	00:23:08
Cate and Diggory have a go at WikiHow's step by step guide to kissing properly before answering some of your listener questions about masturbation and libido. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: -Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 -Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com -DMing us on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	02 Nov 2023	Is masturbating bad for you?	00:29:58
In this episode, Cate and Diggory answer the question – ‘is masturbating bad for you?’ and question whether NoFap November (the act of not masturbating throughout the month of November is necessary). They also talk about porn dependency, sometimes referred to as porn addiction, and why people become dependent on pornography and how, if you feel as though you’re dependent on porn, you can move on from that. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: -Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 -Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com -DMing us on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	06 Nov 2023	"Should I Sleep with My Ex?"	00:21:07
Cate and Diggory take a look at some of the sex and relationship questions they've received from listeners concerning a bellybutton kink, an inexperienced older boyfriend and a horny girl who just wants to have good sex - but should she go to her ex to get it? Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: -Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 -Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com -DMing us on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	09 Nov 2023	How to have Safer Sex	00:35:33
Cate and Diggory discuss how to have safer sex - from consent to contraception, safe words to STDs - before finishing talking about sex on your period. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: -Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 -Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com -DMing us on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Tags: Safe sex berkshire Safe sex is great sex Safe sex during pregnancy Safe sex period Safe sex without protection Safe sex days Safe sex time Safe sex after period Safe sex meaning Safe sex calculator Safe sex education Safe sex practices Safe sex ball Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	13 Nov 2023	Have I Outgrown my Friends?	00:22:37
Cate and Diggory field your listener questions surrounding whether you can sleep with your friends, what to do if you've outgrown your friends and how to manage a partner who refuses to go to the dentist... Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: -Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 -Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com -DMing us on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	16 Nov 2023	Why is Sex So Painful?	00:39:54
DISCLAIMER: Before embarking on any treatment options always best to check in with a medical advisor. In this episode, Sex therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite talk about some of the reasons why sex can be painful, the affect that can have on your relationships and what you can do about it. Going through a rogue's gallery of sex's greatest villains, they discuss Dyspareunia, Vaginismus, Vestibulodynia, Vulvodynia, Endometriosis, Fremosis, Balantis, Chronic pelvic pain, Inflamatory bowel syndrome, Anal fissures, Haemorrhoids and many more. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: - Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 - Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com - DMing us on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	20 Nov 2023	"My Husband's Texting an OnlyFans Model!"	00:28:34
It's another episode where Cate and Diggory answer the questions you sent into them! This week we have a question on cheating and one on lovebombing, with some listener thoughts thrown in as well. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? Or want to let us know your thoughts on what you've just heard? You can send them into: -Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 -Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com -DMing us on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	23 Nov 2023	Why do they make porn for pandas?	00:30:38
Cate tells Diggory all about the interesting phenomenon prompting zookeepers to dress as pandas and simulate sex before answering questions sent in by you about how to get over a breakup and whether there is a connection between emotional repression and sexual responsiveness... Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? Or want to tell us what your New Years Resolution is? You can send them into: -Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 -Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com -DMing us on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	27 Nov 2023	How to STOP Being a People Pleaser	00:25:15
Cate and Diggory answer more of your sex and relationship questions including how to stop being a people pleaser, how to get over the fear of sleeping with someone new after a toxic relationship and how to keep wifey on her toes... Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? Or want to tell us what your New Years Resolution is? You can send them into: - Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 - Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com - DMing us on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	30 Nov 2023	Can Premature Ejaculation be cured?	00:34:21
Sex therapist Cate Campbell discusses early ejaculation with her son and co-host Diggory Waite, answering some of the internet's most searched questions around the issue such as: What premature ejaculation means Will premature ejaculation go away How premature ejaculation be cured When premature ejaculation happens? Where to treat premature ejaculation Why premature ejaculation happens Who can treat premature ejaculation Premature ejaculation without erectile ‘dysfunction’ Premature ejaculation can get pregnant? Premature ejaculation is curable? Premature ejaculation near me - not sure what this one means, but people search for it! Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? Or want to tell us what your New Years Resolution is? You can send them into: - Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 - Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com - DMing us on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	04 Dec 2023	How to Deal with a Fuckboy (with Mary Beth Barone)	00:36:10
Comedian Mary Beth Barone takes Cate Campbell and Diggory Waite through how to identify, avoid and hold accountable fuckboys everywhere. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? Or want to tell us what your New Years Resolution is? You can send them into: - Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 - Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com - DMing us on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast You can find Mary Beth Barone here: https://www.instagram.com/marybethbarone/ or https://www.marybethbarone.com/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	11 Dec 2023	"Will I pee if I orgasm?"	00:29:14
Cate and Diggory answer listener questions including a rather complicated friendship, internalised homophobia, thinking about sex without masturbating, overcoming the fear of peeing during orgasm, and how to deal with a breakup. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? Or want to tell us what your New Years Resolution is? You can send them into: - Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 - Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com - DMing us on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. What episode should you listen to next? 'Why Straight Men have sex with men (with Dr Joe Kort)' features our conversations on some expressions of male sexuality 'The Reasons Why LGBTQ+ Couples Come to Therapy (with Silva Neves)' 'How to Kiss PROPERLY' also features conversations around how to masturbate 'Why do they make porn for pandas' and 'How to Heal a Heartbreak (with Florence Bark)' has more of our thoughts on breakups The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Support and Resources: UK helplines for LGBTQ+ people: https://www.queerfutures.co.uk/help/ USA helplines for LGBTQ+ people: https://www.stonybrook.edu/commcms/studentaffairs/lgbtq/resources/hotlines.php Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	18 Dec 2023	"Why am I so horny?"	00:19:48
Cate and Diggory take more of your questions including 'Why is my penis hurting?' 'How do I kiss a girl?' and 'Why am I so horny after buying a prostate piping toy?' Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: -Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 -Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com -DMing us on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	25 Dec 2023	What's the Average Penis Size?	00:29:20
In this Christmas Day Special, accredited sex therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory chat all things festive and sex before answering your questions: Why does a clitoris look like a turkey wishbone? Why do I have a huge dick with small balls? Why does my penis look stiff when flaccid? Can anyone improve the girth of their penis naturally? How many times can someone ejaculate in a 2 hour timespan? Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: -Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 -Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com -DMing us on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. Remember, all advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional. The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	01 Jan 2024	"I'm a 28 Year Old Virgin, is anything wrong?"	00:30:12
In this New Years Day Special, accredited sex therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory talk about sexy New Years Resolutions before answering the questions you sent into them, like: I'm a 28 year old virgin, is there something wrong? Can testicular pain be a psychosexual problem? I pooed during sex - help! Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: -Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 -Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com -DMing us on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional. The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	08 Jan 2024	"My Girlfriend is Friend Zoning Me!"	00:29:43
Accredited sex and relationship therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory answer your questions surrounding seeing your partner as a friend, getting aroused at inappropriate times, vaginismus and struggling to orgasm. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: - Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 - Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com - DMing us on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional. The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	15 Jan 2024	Does Age Really Matter?	00:34:56
In the first episode of series 6, sex and relationship therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite answer the questions you sent into them including whether a 19-year-old woman is 'shameful' for having a crush on a 58-year-old married male friend, how to help an older partner stay erect during sex and whether it's healthy to have your child see your naked body. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: -Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 -Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com -DMing us on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional. The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	22 Jan 2024	Delayed Ejaculation - Why does it take so long to cum?	00:34:33
In their most requested episode to date, accredited sex and relationship therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite explain what delayed ejaculation is and how one can improve it (should they want to!) They discuss the causes of delayed ejaculation, the affect it can have on individuals and their relationships before answering the internet's most commonly asked questions on the topic. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: - Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 - Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com - DMing us on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional. The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	25 Jan 2024	Can masturbation affect the way we have sex?	00:28:42
In this masturbation special, accredited sex and relationship therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite open up their mailbag to you, the listeners, to answer your questions - this week all surrounding the topic of masturbation. Listen to hear the answers to do I masturbate in a atypical way, do I masturbate too much and is masturbation a sin are all and so much more. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: - Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 - Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com - DMing us on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional. The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	29 Jan 2024	The 3 Reasons You're Attracted to Someone	00:38:10
In this episode, sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell takes son Diggory through Henry Dicks' theory of 'Couple Fit', outlining the 3 reasons you're attracted to someone: the 'Public/Social' attraction, 'Personal' attraction and the all-important 'Unconscious' attraction. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: -Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 -Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com -DMing us on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional. The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	01 Feb 2024	"Is THIS why I'm Gay?"	00:34:02
In this episode, sex therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite answer questions sent in by listeners including someone asking if a particular medical examination had made them gay, should parents take their sons to the urologist, how to get back into dating and feeling sexual and if one listener is becoming straight... Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: -Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 -Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com -DMing us on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional. The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	05 Feb 2024	Does Shame Make Us Monogamous?	00:35:07
In this episode, accredited sex therapist Cate Campbell takes son Diggory Waite through the 'Compass of Shame' outlining the 4 ways we show shame. They talk about the affects of shame on a personal level and in wider society, posing the question "does shame make us monogamous?" Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: - Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 - Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com - DMing us on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional. If you're thinking of or are self harming, helplines are available here: https://www.nhs.uk/mental-health/feelings-symptoms-behaviours/behaviours/self-harm/getting-help/ https://www.mind.org.uk/information-support/types-of-mental-health-problems/self-harm/useful-contacts/ https://helpguide.org/find-help.htm You can watch Esther Perel's brilliant TedTalk that we reference here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P2AUat93a8Q&t=7s&ab_channel=TED The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	08 Feb 2024	"I fancy someone who is asexual"	00:34:12
In this episode, accredited sex therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory answer the questions sent into them by you the listeners. After answering a couple of questions about fancying a friend who may be asexual, the discuss long distance relationships, breakups, improving your sexual performance and sex in video games. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: - Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 - Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com - DMing us on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional. The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	12 Feb 2024	5 Things Every Great Date Night Needs	00:33:17
In this Valentines Day Special, accredited sex therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite talk about what you need for a great date night, the history of Valentines Day and videogames... Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: - Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 - Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com - DMing us on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional. The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	15 Feb 2024	How Having ADHD Can Affect Your Sex Life	00:36:30
In this very special episode, accredited sex therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite discuss sex! They also answer some listener questions including: How does having ADHD affect your sex life? How do I stay aroused during sex? How do I enjoy vanilla sex? Should I have a vasectomy? Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: -Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 -Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com -DMing us on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional. A great ADHD and Mental Health resource: https://www.mind.org.uk/information-support/tips-for-everyday-living/adhd-and-mental-health/ The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	04 Feb 2021	S2 9. Crab Buckets (with Meg-John Barker)	00:41:49
In this episode, psychosexual and relationship therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory invite lecturer and writer Meg-John Barker onto the show to talk about the history of attitudes toward sex in the UK, what one learns after reading 60 sex advice books cover to cover and how we're all just a crab in a bucket on the beach... Cate Campbell's blog post on the episode can be found here: https://catecampbell.wordpress.com/?p=352 You can get Meg-John's new book Sexuality: A Graphic Guide by visiting their website: https://www.rewriting-the-rules.com/ The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	19 Feb 2024	Female Orgasms: How to Start Having Some	00:29:18
Accredited sex therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite try to solve the mystery around female orgasms, asking why one might be struggling to have them and how to rectify that. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: - Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 - Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com - DMing us on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional. The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	29 Feb 2024	Anal Sex: Fears, Preparations, Spontaneity and... Pregnancy?	00:25:41
In this episode, accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite take listener questions on all things anal sex addressing how to do it safely, how to prepare properly, whether you can do it spontaneously and if you can get... pregnant? Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: - Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 - Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com - DMing us on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional. The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	07 Mar 2024	Mommy Issues: The Ways to Better Understand My Boyfriend!	00:34:39
In this episode, accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory take a serious look at 'Mommy Issues' and answer other questions from their listeners including 'Should I use a tampon to stop c*m running down my leg?', 'Am I not bisexual?' and 'What should I do if my partner has genital herpes?' Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: - Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 - Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com - DMing us on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional. The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	14 Mar 2024	"How Do I Get Comfortable with Sex?"	00:35:25
In this episode, accredited sex and relationship therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite take listeners questions around how to get comfortable with sex, performance anxiety, response pressure and religious guilt. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: - Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 - Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com - DMing us on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional. The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	21 Mar 2024	Which simple sex positions are actually best for a small penis?	00:30:43
In this episode, accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell and her son Diggory Waite answer more listener questions like what are the 'optimal' sex positions for people with a small penis, how to destigmatise people with a small penis, how to navigate budding new relationships, all or nothing libidos, chastity cages, chastity belts and Robin Hood... Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: - Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 - Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com - DMing us on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional. The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	28 Mar 2024	The Pill: When is the best time for a break?	00:32:48
In this episode, accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite take listener questions on the contraceptive pill, ghosting, the reason you're turned on by master/slave kinks, how to get better at sex and whether it is okay to fantasise about your favourite characters in a sexy way??? Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: - Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 - Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com - DMing us on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional. The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	04 Apr 2024	IVF, Endometriosis and how to give feedback to partners politely...	00:37:06
In this episode, accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell and her son Diggory Waite catch up about Cate's holiday, shagging penguins and the mile-high club. Then, they answer your questions about IVF, endometriosis, what it means when you don't like someone, parents butting in on your sex life and how to give your partner polite feedback. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: -Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 -Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com -DMing us on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional. The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	11 Apr 2024	How to Process a Painful Breakup	00:28:08
In this breakups special, accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite answer your questions on breakups and processing them. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: - Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 - Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com - DMing us on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional. The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	25 Apr 2024	“How do my boyfriend and I get back to having more sex?”	00:28:58
TRIGGER WARNING FGM is discussed in this episode. You can find support below: NHS National FGM Support Clinics – https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/female-genital-mutilation-fgm/national-fgm-support-clinics/ The Dahlia Project – https://www.dahliaproject.org/access-our-services/ In this episode, Cate and Diggory answer more of your questions including if shift work can affect your sex life, how to find the clitoris and whether not being able to get an erection whilst giving a sperm donation means you've got a low sex drive. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: - Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 - Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com - Our DMs on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional. The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	02 May 2024	Should you give sexual feedback to someone you're ending it with?	00:33:09
*TRIGGER WARNING* - Discussion of rape and sexual assault. If you've been affected by any issues brought up in this episode, please find links to support services below. Accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite go through some follow-ups, sent in from listeners who've had their questions answered. These include questions around giving sexual feedback to partners you're ending it with, what to say to your parents if they're unhappy with you becoming sexually active at 16, why women "love big cocks but not too big" and which courses you can do to become a sex therapist/sexologist in the UK. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: - Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 - Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com - Our DMs on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod - Cate's Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/catecampbellrelationshiptalk (but please direct all hate to @diggorywaite on Instagram, TikTok or X) Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional. Resources: The College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists List of Professional Qualification Courses Sexual Assault Support Links: · Rape Crisis has a helpline, open from 12-14.30h and 19-21.30h: 0808 802 9999 · Rape Crisis Northern Ireland has a freephone helpline on Monday and Thursday from 18-20h: 0800 0246 911 · Rape Crisis Scotland has a free helpline from 18h-midnight 08088 010302 · Safeline 0808 800 5005 · Survivors Trust Free helpline: 08088 010818 · Support for Survivors · We Are Survivors · Women’s Support Project · Black Women’s Rape Action has a helpline, open Monday – Friday, 13-16.30h: 020 7482 2496 The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	09 May 2024	"How do I make a girl squirt?"	00:33:25
Accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell and her son Diggory Waite answer listener questions around squirting, not being able to orgasm from intercourse as a woman and why some straight men are attracted to trans-women with penises. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: - Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 - Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com - Our DMs on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional. Resources referenced: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8035091/ The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	16 May 2024	What can Dua Lipa teach us about dating?	00:34:41
Diggory Waite puts the lyrics of Dua Lipa's song 'Anything for Love' to his mother, accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell. Together, they discuss commitment issues, generational differences in dating and what you can do if you're struggling to find love. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: -Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 -Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com -Our DMs on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional. The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	23 May 2024	SHOCKING New Guidance on Sex Education in England	00:42:50
TRIGGER WARNING This podcast contains discussion about suicide and sexual assault. Accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite discuss new guidance from the UK Government for schools in England, advising teachers not to give sex education to children under 9 and to not teach students about gender identity. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: - Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 - Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com - Our DMs on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional. The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Resources: File on 4 - Sex education: Too much too young? - https://www.bbc.co.uk/sounds/play/m001lqnk The Genderbread Person - https://www.itspronouncedmetrosexual.com/2018/10/the-genderbread-person-v4/ Understanding the Complexities of Gender: Sam Killermann at TEDxUofIChicago - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NRcPXtqdKjE&t=523s&ab_channel=TEDxTalks Good Morning Britain & Restrictions on Gender and Identity Being Taught in Schools - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B6dAmlzAyeI&ab_channel=GoodMorningBritain Sexual Assault Support Links: · Rape Crisis has a helpline, open from 12-14.30h and 19-21.30h: 0808 802 9999 · Safeline 0808 800 5005 · Support for Survivors · Black Women’s Rape Action has a helpline, open Monday – Friday, 13-16.30h: 020 7482 2496 Suicide Support Links https://listeningplace.org.uk/ https://www.samaritans.org/ https://www.nhs.uk/mental-health/feelings-symptoms-behaviours/behaviours/help-for-suicidal-thoughts/ LGBTQ+ Support Links https://www.mind.org.uk/information-support/tips-for-everyday-living/lgbtqia-mental-health/useful-contacts/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	30 May 2024	Baby Voice: Why do we do it with our PARTNERS!?	00:33:07
Accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory talk all things baby voice - why do we do it to babies? Why do we do it with partners and why is it so cringey to witness? They also take questions from listeners about suggestions for books on different relationship types and how to deal with softer erections? Check out Ms Rachel's TikTok here - https://www.tiktok.com/@msrachelforlittles?lang=en Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: - Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 - Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com - Our DMs on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional. The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	06 Jun 2024	"Should I lose my virginity to a sex worker?"	00:29:48
Accredited sex therapist Cate Campbell and her son Diggory Waite take listeners questions including: Should I lose my virginity to a sex worker? Why does it hurt when I use my dildo? And how to control ejaculation, increase duration, and mind control? Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: - Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 - Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com - Our DMs on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional. The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	13 Jun 2024	Why are young people having less sex?	00:33:32
Accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell and her son Diggory Waite discuss reports that sexual content in top films has dropped since the 2000s, outline the context surrounding the world at the moment and attempt to answer why this, as a recent study claims, means young people are having less sex? Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: - Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 - Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com - Our DMs on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional. The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	23 Aug 2024	Should I help boyfriend explore his new bisexual side?	00:37:39
Accredited sex therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite answer listener questions including how to help one's boyfriend who wants to try having sex with men and how to remove power dynamics from sex... Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: -Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 -Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com -Our DMs on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional. The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	30 Aug 2024	How do I get a girlfriend?	00:26:23
Accredited sex and relationship therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite answer listener questions like how do I get a girlfriend not in clubs, pubs or bars, why one's clit might be sore and if it's okay to not be into casual sex... Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: -Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 -Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com -Our DMs on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional. The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	06 Sep 2024	Are we too old for sex?	00:30:58
Accredited sex and relationship therapist Cate Campbell, along with her son Diggory Waite, responds to a listener questioning whether he and his wife are 'too old' for sex, and to another listener seeking advice on how to masturbate without relying on pornographic videos, erotic literature, or audio content. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: -Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 -Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com -Our DMs on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional. The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	13 Sep 2024	Can long distance work?	00:28:24
Accredited sex and relationship therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite respond to listener questions including how to make long distance relationships work and why one might always pee when they play with their clitoris. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: -Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 -Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com -Our DMs on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional. The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	19 Sep 2024	What contraception should I be using?	00:29:01
Accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell and her son, Diggory Waite, chat about the groundbreaking work of William Masters and Virginia Johnson, the pioneers of human sexuality research. They discuss how their unconventional experiments—often involving themselves—shaped modern understanding of sexual behaviour. Then, Cate and Diggory answer listener questions, tackling topics like non-hormonal contraception options that minimise discomfort, and whether fluctuating "hard-soft" erections are something to worry about. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into: - Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 - Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com - Our DMs on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching. All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional. The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	30 Jul 2020	S1 3. Section 28 (with Paul Sinha)	00:32:13
In a funny, reflective and ultimately uplifting interview, Diggory and his sex therapist mum Cate invite Paul Sinha to talk about what his sex education was like in the 80s, the ‘mystery’ that was his sexuality and coming out to a traditional Bengali family. For further reading of issues raised during this show head to accredited sex therapist Cate Campbell's blog: https://catecampbell.wordpress.com/2020/07/30/paul-sinha-2/ Listeners who have been affected by any of the issues raised in this programme should contact the following organisations for help and support: Broken Rainbow (for LGBT+ victims of abuse) https://www.brokenrainbow.org.uk/ Freephone 0800 999 5428 Galop (for LGBT+ victims of abuse) http://www.galop.org.uk/ Freephone 0800 999 5428 National DV Helpline - Freephone 0808 2000 247 Stonewall Information Service (for LGBT+ people) https://www.stonewall.org.uk/help-advice/contact-stonewalls-information-service Freephone 0800 050 2020/ info@stonewall.org.uk Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	24 Dec 2020	Christmas Bonus	00:12:13
In the first of two holiday bonus episodes, sex therapist Cate puts a couple of sex and relationship queries from The Real Sex Education listenership to son Diggory and daughter Jessica. The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	28 Oct 2021	S3 7. FGM (with Dr Leyla Hussein)	00:40:16
Trigger Warning This episode includes frequent reference to and discussion of child sexual abuse and assault. If you believe you may find that triggering or distressing, do listen to a previous episode. For those affected by any of what is discussed in the episode, you can find support links toward the end of the show notes. In this epsiode, Diggory and sex therapist mother Cate invite Dr Leyla Hussein OBE onto the podcast to talk about ‘FGM’, otherwise known as Female Genital Mutilation. Leyla explains why FGM happens at all, the racist and sexist elements of societies’ handling of FGM and shares staggering statistics that prove FGM is a global issue that we should all pay more attention to. Cate and Diggory also open up their mailbag to read out some sex and relationship questions from listeners like how can one feel more emotionally connected to their partner and whether it’s unfaithful to masturbate after your partner has fallen asleep. Make sure you send in your sex or relationship questions to our accredited therapist Cate who will answer them on the pod! You can email them to podcasts@hattrick.com or by DMing us on Instagram - @realsexedpod You can find Leyla Hussein here on Instagram @leylahusseinuk \| Twitter @leylahussein \| Website https://www.leylahussein.co.uk/ You can find Cate’s blog, going into more detail on what was discussed in today’s episode, here: https://catecampbell.wordpress.com/ The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast You can donate to the Dahlia Project here: https://www.dahliaproject.org/how-to-support-us/ Support & Resources: NHS National FGM Support Clinics – https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/female-genital-mutilation-fgm/national-fgm-support-clinics/ The Dahlia Project – https://www.dahliaproject.org/access-our-services/ Reading List: FGM – The Facts Leaflet – https://assets.publishing.service.gov.uk/government/uploads/system/uploads/attachment_data/file/783684/FGM_The_Facts_A6_v4_web.pdf Cut: FGM in Britain Today: by Hibo Wardere, Simon and Schuster, 2016 Overcoming: My Fight Against FGM , by Ann-Marie Wilson, Monarch, 2021 “Female genital cutting”. In Contemporary Sex Therapy by Cate Campbell, Routledge, 2020 Watching & listening List: Naimah Hassan: Breaking the silence on FGM \| TED Talk – https://www.ted.com/talks/naimah_hassan_breaking_the_silence_on_fgm_jul_2020 How FGM changed my life \| Aissa Edon \| TEDxWarwick – YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iJ5fzUWpPp0&ab_channel=TEDxTalks Khadija Gbla: My mother’s strange definition of empowerment \| TED Talk – https://www.ted.com/talks/khadija_gbla_my_mother_s_strange_definition_of_empowerment FGM 'being performed on UK babies' - BBC News - YouTube – https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OOmh-phOLoc&ab_channel=BBCNews FGM Survivor: Leyla Hussein's Story - YouTube – https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UKT1MX-RnmU Who should I follow? @vivavulacasting on Instagram Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	07 Jan 2021	S2 5. Sexual Addiction & Compulsivity (with Dr Thaddeus Bichard)	00:37:23
In this episode, Diggory and Cate speak with Dr Thaddeus Birchard, founder of the Association for the Treatment of Sexual Addiction and Compulsivity, about treating sex addiction, the role pornography can play in expanding or distorting one's 'sexual template' and how, for many in the sector, the internet has made sex work safer and more profitable. Cate Campbell's blogpost with further thoughts on this episode can be found at https://catecampbell.wordpress.com/2020/12/22/thaddeus-birchard/ The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	03 Dec 2020	S2 2. Porn (with Tyger Drew Honey)	00:36:47
Diggory and his accredited sex therapist mother Cate chat to Outnumbered and Cuckoo star, Tyger Drew Honey. They talk about what is was like to be the child of parents in the porn industry, as well as coping with addiction and the impact porn has on our lives. Cate Campbell's blog post on the episode can be found here: https://catecampbell.wordpress.com/2020/12/03/tyger-drew-honey/ The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	21 Oct 2021	S3 6. Masculinity (with Nathaniel Cole)	00:42:36
In this episode, Diggory and his sex therapist mother Cate invite writer, researcher and workshop facilitator Nathaniel Cole. Together, they discuss issues like the currency of ‘nudes’ amongst adolescences, how most young men have seen pornography and know it isn’t ‘real’ sex, but how they’re still not sure what ‘real’ sex looks like and how boys and girls are different, need different approaches to their sex education, and how we as adults can treat them like the adults that they will soon become and help in giving them that education. Cate and Diggory also talk about their recent appearances on Channel 4’s Steph’s Packed Lunch in the UK and Today, Channel 9’s morning show in Australia as well as answering some of the sex and relationship questions submitted by listeners. Make sure you send in your sex or relationship questions to our accredited therapist Cate who will answer them on the pod! You can email them to podcasts@hattrick.com or by DMing us on Instagram - @realsexedpod You can find Nathaniel on Twitter and Instagram @nathanielacole or on his website nathanielcole.co.uk You can find Cate’s blog, going into more detail on what was discussed in today’s episode, here: https://catecampbell.wordpress.com/ The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Reading List: The Problem With the Term 'Toxic Masculinity' - The Atlantic - https://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2019/02/toxic-masculinity-history/583411/ This is what the life of an incel looks like (vice.com) - https://www.vice.com/en/article/7xqw3g/this-is-what-the-life-of-an-incel-looks-like Cox, K. (2014) Becoming James Bond: Daniel Craig, rebirth, and refashioning masculinity in Casino Royale, Journal of Gender Studies, 23;2, 184–196. Watching & listening List: Why we need to change the way young men think about consent \| Nathaniel Cole https://www.ted.com/talks/nathaniel_cole_why_we_need_to_change_the_way_young_men_think_about_consent/transcript Boys won’t be boys. Boys will be what we teach them to be. \| Ben Hurst \| TEDxLondonWomen https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3dp08bAUwi8&ab_channel=TEDxTalks Support & Resources: Advice for parents on speaking to their children openly about sex, consent and relationships - https://www.outspokeneducation.com/ THAT GUY is a new campaign from Police Scotland that aims to reduce rape, serious sexual assault and harassment by having frank conversations with men about male sexual entitlement - https://that-guy.co.uk/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
	17 Sep 2020	S1 10. Chemsex (with David Stuart)	00:36:20
In a very frank, honest and enlightening interview, Diggory and Cate speak with David Stuart about Chemsex - a drug-use epidemic specific to the gay community. Attributed to coining the term, David details what Chemsex is, delves into his own experience of partaking in Chemsex during the late 1990s and early 2000s and theorises as to why it's a phenomenon affecting gay men in particular. As well as speaking about Chemsex, David outlines what implementations he believes we should incorporate into our sex education, such as teaching people about the potentially life changing drugs PEP and PREP. The Real Sex Education is presented by Diggory Waite and Cate Campbell and produced by Andy Goddard, with special thanks this week to John Wakefield. Cate Campbell's blogpost with further thoughts on this episode can be found at https://catecampbell.wordpress.com/?p=274 David Stuart's own website can be found at https://www.davidstuart.org/ The following links are provided to direct listeners to support websites which deal with topics discussed during the show. The Eddystone Trust: https://www.eddystone.org.uk/chemsex-support Sex Health Wellbeing: https://s-x.scot/ We Are With You: https://www.wearewithyou.org.uk/help-and-advice/advice-you/chemsex-how-stay-safer/ PEP: https://www.tht.org.uk/hiv-and-sexual-health/pep-post-exposure-prophylaxis-hiv The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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