THE MONOGAMISH MARRIAGE (Kate & Liam)
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| Pub. Date | Title | Duration | |
|---|---|---|---|
| 08 Mar 2022 | S1 Ep. 8: Dating Separately (Part 1) | 01:10:08 | |
Liam and Kate work through some challenging emotions in advance of Liam's first solo date with another woman. | |||
| 15 Mar 2022 | S1 Ep. 9: Dating Separately (Part 2) | 01:09:34 | |
In this episode, Kate & Liam discuss his date with Kaitlyn, and dealing with the aftershocks. | |||
| 15 Apr 2022 | S1 Ep. 10: Dating Separately (Part 3) | 00:57:13 | |
Kate & Liam find their way to a shared understanding after weeks of stress over Liam's desire to date separately. | |||
| 23 May 2022 | S1 Ep. 11: Lifestyle Vacations | 01:03:37 | |
This episode starts with face-off between Hedonism in Jamaica and Desire in Mexico, before discussing other possibilities for getting away with like-minded people. | |||
| 23 Sep 2022 | S2 Ep. 01: Group Vs. Solo Play | 01:12:02 | |
In this episode, the first of the second season, Kate & Liam recount their adventures since the end of Season One. In doing so, they notice a pattern: while Liam enjoys solo play, Kate is at her best in group situations. These differences lead to moments of both great pleasure and extreme discomfort, which they explore in the typically 'no holds barred' Monogamish Marriage style. | |||
| 03 Nov 2022 | S2 Ep. 02: Rachel Krantz Interview | 00:50:48 | |
Kate interviews Rachel Krantz, journalist and author of Open: An Uncensored Memoir of Love, Liberation, and Non-Monogamy. They discuss the gaslighting, coercion, and jealousy Rachel experienced in her first open relationship, and some of the uncomfortable parallels Kate noticed between Rachel’s story and her own. Get Rachel’s book Open wherever you buy books, and check out her podcast ‘Help Existing’ wherever you listen to podcasts. LINKS Support us on Patreon: https://patreon.com/Kate_and_Liam Rachel Krantz’s Instagram: https://instagram.com/rachelkrantz?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= Rachel’s ‘Help Existing’ Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/help-existing/id1623414700 Crete trip video: OUR SOCIAL MEDIA Joint Accounts: https://patreon.com/Kate_and_Liam https://Twitter.com/@Monogamish1 Kate’s Accounts: https://Twitter.com/@kmonogamish https://instagram.com/themonogamishmarriage https://onlyfans.com/katemonogamish Liam’s Accounts: https://Twitter.com/@landon_liam https://Instagram.com/liam_vs_time | |||
| 09 Dec 2022 | S2 Ep. 03: Our ONLY FANS Experiment | 01:06:27 | |
In this episode, Kate & Liam discuss in their usual frank way the ups and downs of their experience as Only Fans creators. | |||
| 20 Jan 2023 | S2 Ep. 04: Erections | 01:14:08 | |
In this episode, Liam tells the story of his erection struggles in group sex situations, and how he eventually conquered them. Let's just say that Kate is deeply worried. | |||
| 02 Mar 2023 | S2 Ep. 05: Coming Out To Our Families | 00:58:58 | |
In this episode, Kate & Liam explore a paradox: why do non-monogamous people go to such extreme lengths to keep their lifestyle a secret when it enriches their lives so much? | |||
| 05 Apr 2023 | S2 Ep. 06: Betrayal | 01:02:36 | |
This episode discusses the discovery by Kate of secret messages that Liam had been sending to another woman. A blow-up ensues, which sends Kate into research mode, where she discovers the EPIC communication model from author Kate Loree. Focusing on the Emotional, Physical, Intellectual and Compassionate dimensions of conflict, they work through this issue and reach a deeper level of mutual understanding. | |||
| 11 May 2023 | S2 Ep. 07: Fantasies | 00:59:52 | |
In this episode, Kate & Liam discuss their experiments with the idea of the 'Three Hour Sex Date' -- an idea they picked up from se & relationship coach Kim Anami. | |||
| 28 Jul 2023 | S2 Ep. 08: Boundaries - The Multiamory Interview | 00:50:14 | |
In this episode, Kate & Liam speak with Dedeker, Emily & Jase of the Multiamory Podcast. They share information about creating healthy boundaries and avoiding common relationship pitfalls. To find out more about them, go to their website,,, | |||
| 07 Sep 2023 | S3 Ep. 01: Lifestyle Travel Stories | 00:55:34 | |
Kate & Liam start this episode by describing their experiences at the various lifestyle vacations they took earlier this year, culminating in the launch of their very own travel brand. In the second half, they offer a full report on their first Sapio Tours trip, which was to Crete in June of 2023. Information on all future Sapio Tours trips can be found at https://SapioTours.com | |||
| 10 Oct 2023 | S3 Ep. 02: Online Dating (Part 1) | 01:10:41 | |
In response to Liam's continued interest in separate dating, Kate proposed that they both try to find people to go out with online. The plan was that they would post their profiles at the same time, and ideally go on dates with other people on the same evenings. Equality was the goal. It was a fine idea that brought about all kinds of unforeseen complications. | |||
| 13 Nov 2023 | S3 Ep. 03: Online Dating (Part 2) | 01:17:44 | |
Three months into their online dating experiment, Kate and Liam wrap up their long separate dating saga (spoiler, it doesn't end the way you might think!). | |||
| 19 Dec 2023 | S3 Ep. 04: Self-Compassion -- Inner Parts Work with Relationship Coach Catherine | 01:05:55 | |
Kate talks to non-monogamous relationship coach Catherine from Expansive Connection Coaching about inner parts work. She explains The Adult Chair approach to recognizing and having compassion for our inner child and adolescent, especially when faced with the triggers the lifestyle can bring. Want to dig deeper with Kate and Catherine? Consider joining us for our Women of the Lifestyle wellness retreat this April. Go to www.sapiotours.com for more information. Resources Mentioned Expansive Connection Coaching The Drama of the Gifted Child by Alice Miller The Adult Chair: A guide to Loving Yourself by Michelle Chalfant Book: The Adult Chair Podcast Life Without Ed by Jenni Schaefer Getting the Love You Want by Harvel Hendrix | |||
| 29 Jan 2024 | S3 Ep. 05: Orgies | 01:10:46 | |
In this episode, Kate & Liam talk about their recent orgy experiences...and consider the real possibility that they've gone a little overboard. | |||
| 20 Feb 2024 | S3 Ep. 06: Every Body's Welcome | 00:43:08 | |
Kate talks to coach Cara Turnquist about the challenges people with bigger bodies face to feel fully embraced in the Lifestyle. | |||
| 22 Mar 2024 | S3 Ep 07: Sex & Drugs | 01:23:39 | |
In this episode, Kate & Liam discuss the impact of intoxicants on the lifestyle, and in their own lives. | |||
| 30 Apr 2024 | S3 Ep. 08: Asking For What You Want | 00:53:21 | |
In this episode, Kate and Liam discuss the ups and downs of desiring -- and being desired -- in the Lifestyle. | |||
| 25 Jul 2024 | S3 Ep. 09: The Bareback Episode | 00:50:15 | |
In this episode, Kate and Liam question what often seems like the ultimate swinger taboo. | |||
| 16 Oct 2024 | S4 Ep. 01: European Adventures (Summer 2024) | 01:23:07 | |
In this episode, Kate and Liam discuss the highlights (and occasional lowlights) of their summer lifestyle travel adventures. | |||
| 13 Nov 2024 | S4 Ep. 02: Sacred Sexuality | 01:01:07 | |
In this episode, part of Kate's occasional series called "Bad Ass Women of the Lifestyle," she interviews Lauren Hayes, non-monogamous relationship coach and host of the podcast "The Examined Lives of Mormon | |||
| 05 Dec 2024 | S4 Ep. 03: Summer Sex Party | 01:05:52 | |
In this episode, Kate & Liam finally get around to discussing their backyard get-together from the summer of 2024! | |||
| 02 Jan 2025 | S4 Ep. 04: No Boys Allowed | 00:56:17 | |
In this episode, Kate talks about her night at a Women's Only Party. | |||
| 14 Feb 2025 | S4 Ep. 05: Sex & Personality | 01:09:03 | |
In this episode, Kate & Liam discuss where they fit in two different personality typing frameworks -- the Enneagram and the Erotic Blueprint. Find out more about both of these at https://www.enneagraminstitute.com/ and https://www.https://missjaiya.com/ Find all our Links: www.KateMonogamish.com | |||
| 20 Mar 2025 | S4 Ep. 06: Our ONLY FANS Experiment (Part 2) | 01:05:21 | |
In this episode, Kate & Liam tell the crazy story of their recent content creation weekend in Florida. Find all our Links: www.KateMonogamish.com | |||
| 08 Sep 2021 | S1 Ep. 1 Origins | 00:47:25 | |
In this, the first episode of The Monogamish Marriage Podcast, Kate & Liam tell the story of how they met, why they decided to be non-monogamous, and why they're starting a podcast. | |||
| 29 Sep 2021 | S1 Ep. 2: Hotwifing | 00:51:27 | |
In this episode, Liam & Kate discuss the subject of separate room play and Hotwifing, the practice of a woman dating other men with the enthusiastic support of her husband. This is not just a matter of casual interest to them, but an activity they have enjoyed personally. Below are links to individuals and articles mentioned in this podcast: | |||
| 19 Oct 2021 | S1 Ep. 3: Bisexuality | 00:57:12 | |
In this episode, both Kate & Liam share stories and insights from their individual bisexual journeys. Nothing is held back -- but then again, you knew that! | |||
| 04 Nov 2021 | S1 Ep. 4: Threesomes | 00:44:45 | |
In this episode, Kate & Liam discuss their early threesomes with her ex-boyfriend Derek. What could go wrong? | |||
| 26 Nov 2021 | S1 Ep. 5: Pornography | 00:58:42 | |
All those pictures and videos we put online -- are they pornography? Does it matter if the answer is yes? | |||
| 26 Dec 2021 | S1 Ep. 6: Jealousy | 00:54:36 | |
Is jealousy the biggest source of conflict in the lifestyle, or is it somehow a gift? Or both? In this episode of The Monogamish Marriage podcast, Kate & Liam cover all the angles and reach some unexpected conclusions. | |||
| 20 Jan 2022 | S1 Ep. 7: Body Image | 00:47:11 | |
In this special episode, Kate talks one-on-one with her girlfriend April about their lifelong struggles with self-acceptance. | |||