The Kinky Conversations Podcast (Zachary Phillips)
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| 30 May 2022 | Welcome To The Kinky Conversations Podcast | 00:05:35 | |
Welcome to The Kinky Conversations Podcast, where consent is king, pleasure is queen, and exploration of sexual expression is the name of the game! Join your host, Zachary Phillips, as he interviews real people to find out what is really happening behind closed doors. Nothing is off limits! - Support The Kinky Conversations Podcast via Patreon | |||
| 11 Jun 2022 | Horror Movies & Chill with Lynn! | 01:25:54 | |
Lynn is a play space monitor for Edge House, a kink/edge play and education based fetish group. She talks about her experiences with group sex, risk aware play, the importance of prepping and vetting, as well as polyamory and open relationships. She shares some great advice for 1st timers and those wanting to go deeper into the scene. We also discuss the connection between mental health and sexual expression, including the use of BDSM as a way to channel extreme self destructive and risk taking behaviours into something far more positive (self harm is briefly discussed). This podcast ends with an amazing take away that applies to both sexuality, mental health and life in general, “you are not alone”. - Want to be a guest or a sponsor? Email me: zac@zachary-phillips.com or on Instagram kink_sex_positive_2 & nsfw_sexy_memes Support The Kinky Conversations Podcast via Patreon, or grab a copy of Kink, Volume 1 | |||
| 19 Jun 2022 | Friends With Benefits with Missy | 01:25:54 | |
Missy is a psychology student from the United States who’s planning to focus on sex therapy. She talks about her experiences with outdoor play, the link between sexual and mental health (trigger warning), the issues around online sexual expression, ‘non pain’ Masochism/degradation play, sub/dom drops, vulnerability, interrupting the mainstream narratives, the logistics of group play, and how to have a successful friends with benefits relationship. On this theme, I share my short story ‘friends with benefits’. - Want to be a guest or a sponsor? Email me: zac@zachary-phillips.com or on Instagram kink_sex_positive_2 & nsfw_sexy_memes Support The Kinky Conversations Podcast via Patreon, or grab a copy of Kink, Volume 1 | |||
| 19 Jul 2022 | How To Slide Into The DM's With Casey | 01:38:54 | |
Casey is a hair and make up artist from the United States who enjoys photography, baking, and travel. She shares the pitfalls most people fall into when entering the DM’s and provides guidance on how to take better ‘produce pictures’. We dissect her experience with an epic house party, digging into the practicalities of FFF threesomes, impact play, and wild outdoor group gatherings. We also discuss the LGBT+ rainbow mafia, the realities of bisexuality, switching, as well as how to pick up in the lesbian community. We end the talk with a handy take home list for people wanting to play: - Want to be a guest or a sponsor? Email me: zac@zachary-phillips.com or on Instagram kink_sex_positive_2 & nsfw_sexy_memes Support The Kinky Conversations Podcast via Patreon, or grab a copy of Kink, Volume 1 | |||
| 04 Jul 2022 | Exploring The 'What If's' With Loni | 02:09:00 | |
Loni joins us for a discussion on sapiosexuality, sex as art and embracing curiosity. We discuss the problem of becoming defined by labels, the ethics of consent, kinks all being a spectrum - rather than a binary category, being attracted to the process of the mind, and the relationship between sexual and mental health. She leads me through the Yoga Nidra practice of ‘Sankalpa’, with the goal of channelling the generated sensual energy into all aspects of life. We talk about age play, re-watching movies as adults and deriving new meanings, the positives and negatives of the interplay between the internet and kink, Netflix and chill, and how sapiosexuals have sex. - Want to be a guest or a sponsor? Email me: zac@zachary-phillips.com or on Instagram kink_sex_positive_2 & nsfw_sexy_memes Support The Kinky Conversations Podcast via Patreon, or grab a copy of Kink, Volume 1 | |||
| 24 Jun 2022 | Listen To Episodes Early & Access The Exclusive Discord Channel! | 00:12:40 | |
Thank you to everyone who is tuning in, the response has been out of this world! So many messages, comments, reviews and DM’s! In this episode I talk about the process of becoming a guest as well as some of the benefits you will get by becoming a Patreon supporter! - Support The Kinky Conversations Podcast via Patreon, or grab a copy of Kink, Volume 1 | |||
| 01 Aug 2022 | For Science! With Jay | 01:52:49 | |
Jay is a yogi from Kenya who enjoys poetry, true crime, and hot chillies! She shares her experiences with outdoor play, syncing with with social events, the love/hate relationship with risk and the discovery of impact play. We talk about self expression and exploration through sexuality, discuss the nature of kinks and how we are all kinky in our own way. She leads me through a slow breathing exercise designed to get you and your partner into sync, and we set her some experiments to try and report back on for her next appearance on the podcast: - Want to be a guest or a sponsor? Email me: zac@zachary-phillips.com or on Instagram kink_sex_positive_2 & nsfw_sexy_memes Support The Kinky Conversations Podcast via Patreon, or grab a copy of Kink, Volume 1 | |||
| 15 Aug 2022 | Hypno-Kink & 24/7 Dom Sub Relationships With Miss Caprea Nox | 01:57:59 | |
Miss Caprea Nox is a licensed hypnotist who is into cinema, art, and LARP. She discusses her experiences as a Fem Dom in a 24/7 Dom-Sub relationship, the goal of total power exchange, the Dom persona, private versus public play, and conflict resolution within their dynamic. We dive deep into her use of hypnosis within the context of BDSM - covering how, why, ethics, and after care. We also touch upon amnesia play, no touch orgasms, sub space, and RACK. Links mentioned - Want to be a guest or a sponsor? Email me: zac@zachary-phillips.com or on Instagram kink_sex_positive_2 & nsfw_sexy_memes Support The Kinky Conversations Podcast via Patreon, or grab a copy of Kink, Volume 1 | |||
| 18 Sep 2022 | Embracing The Serenity That Pain Can Bring With Eli | 01:45:07 | |
Eli is a 32 year old math tutor from USA who enjoys reading, baking, anime, and star gazing. We discuss the appeal novelty in BDSM, one night stands versus relationships, the need for respect online and real life, submission in an out of the bedroom & the pre-work needed to be successful, degradation kinks, the dance of domination & submission, signs of consent, and safe words. We also discuss the concept of sub-spaces, with the revelation that it may be a goal in and of itself (non-sexual). We also discuss the interplay between society, family, religion and culture with kink. Trigger warning - parts of this podcast may be confronting for some listeners. - - Want to be a guest or a sponsor? Email me: zac@zachary-phillips.com or on Instagram kink_sex_positive_2 & nsfw_sexy_memes Support The Kinky Conversations Podcast via Patreon, or grab a copy of Kink, Volume 1 | |||
| 04 Oct 2022 | Leaving My Husband & Coming Out As Gay With Esther | 01:55:00 | |
Esther is a 30 year old music teacher from Australia who enjoys psychology, sociology, self-sufficiency and neuroscience. We discuss her experiences growing up gay within a religious community, diving into the shame, self doubt, confusion, and feelings of loneliness that comes when you are fundamentally different from those around you. She shares her journey of coming out of the closet, and into a happy lesbian relationship, one that enables her to live her truth. We also discuss the connections between the pill and arousal, the impact of adults modelling appropriate behaviours, heartbeat fetishes, feeder kinks, and thinking yourself into orgasm. Links Mentioned: - Support The Kinky Conversations Podcast via Patreon, or grab a copy of Kink, Volume 1 | |||
| 18 Oct 2022 | Adventures of the Crumbed Sausage Lady With Kiki | 01:57:49 | |
Kiki is an executive assistant and mindset coach who is into travel, cuisine, wine, wonder, and living an unapologetic life. She shares her experiences of making love in a cave in off the Greek islands, on the beach, as well as in a crowded bus, tips for successful outdoor play, the pros & cons of long term lovers versus one night stands, bespoke picture play, nude beaches, as well as the exciting impact of a shared sexy secret. We also discuss mindset, meditation, the benefits of self-awareness and introspection, and gratitude practices; both in the bedroom as well as for life in general. Want to be a guest or a sponsor? Email me: zac@zachary-phillips.com or on Instagram kink_sex_positive_2 & nsfw_sexy_memes Support The Kinky Conversations Podcast via Patreon, or grab a copy of Kink, Volume 1 | |||
| 11 Aug 2022 | Dangerously Attractive Red Flags (Sultry Soundbite) | 00:04:03 | |
Sultry soundbites are 2-10 minute snippets where I talk sex, sensuality, and seduction. They are exclusive to Patreon supporters on the $5p/m tier. - Support The Kinky Conversations Podcast via Patreon, or grab a copy of Kink, Volume 1 | |||
| 01 Nov 2022 | Untamed Authentic Sexual Expression | 01:43:59 | |
Molly is a 30 year old from Canada who is into travel, hiking, meditation, 420, dog walks, and music. She shares her experiences working in an adult store, her recent foray into OnlyFans - sharing her unique approach to content creation, as well as her use of Reddit forums to attempt to get a third to play with. We discuss the value of communication, consent and the power of asking for what you want, both in the bedroom and beyond. Molly also highlights the importance of embracing our true authentic selves - in whatever form that takes. Want to be a guest or a sponsor? Email me: zac@zachary-phillips.com or on Instagram kink_sex_positive_2 & nsfw_sexy_memes Support The Kinky Conversations Podcast via Patreon, or grab a copy of Kink, Volume 1 | |||
| 15 Nov 2022 | The Goop Splat With Casey | 01:55:54 | |
Casey returns to discuss innovations in the DM game, the potential of Mongolian Throat Metal as a form of pleasure enhancement, ways to gamify bedroom play, using talk as foreplay, and the potential to create NFT’s out of unsolicited pictures. We also talk about the potential for porn to lead to false understanding of real sex, disingenuous online content curators, gay and bi acceptance, and bondage on a budget. Links: - Honey Play Box: Get 20% off storewide at honeyplaybox.com with coupon code ‘kinky’ Want to be a guest or a sponsor? Email me: zac@zachary-phillips.com or on Instagram kink_sex_positive_2 & nsfw_sexy_memes Support The Kinky Conversations Podcast via Patreon, or grab a copy of Kink, Volume 1 | |||
| 29 Nov 2022 | Satanic Engineering With Jenna | 01:40:44 | |
Jenna is a artist and writer who enjoys scuba diving, rock climbing, martial arts, adventure and anything to do with introspection. We dive into her kinky engineering skills, ‘fringe’ kinks, green versus red flags to watch for, and her new found identification as a sadomasochist. She also shares her proclivity for writing a poem about each lover, soon to be collated into a book ‘Anthology of a Slut’ stay tuned for its release! Links: - Want to be a guest or a sponsor? Email me: zac@zachary-phillips.com or on Instagram kink_sex_positive_2 & nsfw_sexy_memes Support The Kinky Conversations Podcast via Patreon, or grab a copy of Kink, Volume 1 Honey Play Box: Get 20% off storewide at honeyplaybox.com with coupon code ‘kinky’ | |||
| 13 Dec 2022 | Elegant Smut by the Ethical Slut with Quinn | 01:51:07 | |
Quinn is a 36 year old pilaties instructor who enjoys music, art, food and travel. We dive into ethical non-monogamy/polyamory, discussing how to effectively, ethically, and consensually open up a relationship, as well as how to deal with jealousy, fear, and other emotions that arise. Links Mentioned: You can find Quinn on Instagram: @quinnnspiration - Take the course, ‘An Introduction to Kink, BDSM, Polyamory, and Other Fun Things’ Support The Kinky Conversations Podcast via Patreon, or grab a copy of Kink, Volume 1 Honey Play Box: Get 20% off storewide at honeyplaybox.com with coupon code ‘kinky’ Want to be a guest or a sponsor? Email me: zac@zachary-phillips.com or on Instagram kink_sex_positive_2 & nsfw_sexy_memes | |||
| 27 Dec 2022 | Connecting To The Devine Through Intimacy With Opal | 01:40:44 | |
Opal is a 25 year old death care worker/end of life doula and medical assistant who enjoys flower therapy, entrepreneurship, sustainable living and qigong. She discusses tantra, the intersection between spirituality and sexuality, attaining multiple and no-touch orgasms, and conscious celibacy. We dive into the relationship between the feminine and masculine divine energies, the importance of learning how to turn yourself on, the potential to self-sabotage our sex lives, and the re-imagining of sex and life as art. We also discuss gender roles, sexual healing, the impact of cults, and the importance of self love in all respects. Links: Want to be a guest or a sponsor? Email me: zac@zachary-phillips.com or on Instagram kink_sex_positive_2 & nsfw_sexy_memes Support The Kinky Conversations Podcast via Patreon, or grab a copy of Kink, Volume 1 | |||
| 10 Jan 2023 | Changing Lives, One Spank At A Time - On Disability & Kink With Joshua And Mary | 01:50:59 | |
Joshua is a 41 year old professional dominant, who is into photography, martial arts and philosophy. Mary is 31 year old process manager, who enjoys singing, disability advocacy and all things Halloween. We talk about the intersection between kink/BDSM with disability, the ways play can be adapted and tweaked to best suit different abilities and needs, the issues around stigma and fetishizing disability, green and redflags. The total consent acronym discussed: Links mentioned Support The Kinky Conversations Podcast via Patreon, or grab a copy of Kink, Volume 1 | |||
| 24 Jan 2023 | All Tied Up With Jyn | 02:00:00 | |
Jyn is a trauma from therapist form USA who enjoys books, hikes, dancing, deep conversations, tarrot, astrology and ‘spooky shit’. We dive into the world of rope play/shibari, talking about its benefits and appeal, both sexually and non-sexually. We focus on its ability to heal past trauma’s and of course how fun that process can be. Jyn shares her experiences moving away from 30 years of a religious, monogamous, vanilla lifestyle, into the world of rope and kink. She highlights the lasting impact of shame and how we can move beyond it to embracing our totality. You can find Jyn at instagram.com/galaxy_rope The Art of Yoga - book - Want to be a guest or a sponsor? Email me: zac@zachary-phillips.com or on Instagram kink_sex_positive_2 & nsfw_sexy_memes Support The Kinky Conversations Podcast via Patreon, or grab a copy of Kink, Volume 1 | |||
| 06 Feb 2023 | Becoming A Fantasy With Nikki | 01:40:54 | |
Nikki is a 32 year old content creator from the United States, who is into fitness. We discuss modelling and photography, both the professional and personal sides, as well as the confidence needed for success. Nikki highlights how models can stay safe when finding potential photographers. These lessons can easily be applied to all aspects of vetting in the kink/BDSM fields. We also talk about finding success with Only Fans, the importance of communication, connection and emotional intelligence, daddy domination and the psychology of BDSM, and appropriate gym etiquette around flirting and approaching while lifting! I Want To See You - Poem You can find Nikki on Instagram: @nikki_a_xo Honey Play Box: Get 20% off storewide at honeyplaybox.com with coupon code ‘KINKY’ Want to be a guest or a sponsor? Email me: zac@zachary-phillips.com or on Instagram kink_sex_positive_2 & nsfw_sexy_memes Support The Kinky Conversations Podcast via Patreon, or grab a copy of Kink, Volume 1 | |||
| 22 Feb 2023 | Switching It Up With Stacia | 01:47:16 | |
Stacia is a 53-year-old communications director for the United States, who’s hobby embracing the ADHD tendency to chase the dopamine hit of finding new hobbies. We talk about destigmatising kink, BDSM, & HSV through open and honest discussions, healing anxious attachment through sex, connection, and internal self-work, sadomasochism, breath play, and how Stacia loves to ‘switch’ between top and bottom. We dive deep into how to be a good dom, sub, & switch, including the implementation of new & unique forms of punishment to distinctly dominate, she also discusses how she is ‘self-collared’ a mindset we could all benefit from adopting. The Sirens Call - Poem You can find Stacia on Instagram: @switchy_magic Honey Play Box: Get 20% off storewide at honeyplaybox.com with coupon code ‘KINKY’ Want to be a guest or a sponsor? Email me: zac@zachary-phillips.com or on Instagram kink_sex_positive_2 & nsfw_sexy_memes Support The Kinky Conversations Podcast via Patreon, or grab a copy of Kink, Volume 1 | |||
| 02 Dec 2022 | She Sold Love - Sultry Soundbite | 00:06:50 | |
A reading and discussion of the poem, | |||
| 06 Mar 2023 | Going Beyond The Bedroom With BDSM With M | 01:48:54 | |
M is a 30 year old marketing executive from Germany, who is into reading, writing and making music. We discuss the importance of open, honest, vulnerable connection, the interplay between kink and body image, as well as the unrealistic standards granted by society and religious upbringings. M dives into how she successfully started a relationship online, how to process conflict appropriately, the freedom of submission and the importance of asking for what you want and need, both sexually and non sexually. We finish with a discussion of collaring, degradation kinks, using words to establish arousal, and how true BDSM goes far beyond the bedroom. Erotic bedtime stories You can find M on Instagram: @written_from.the.heart Honey Play Box: Get 20% off storewide at honeyplaybox.com with coupon code ‘KINKY’ Want to be a guest or a sponsor? Email me: zac@zachary-phillips.com or on Instagram kink_sex_positive_2 & nsfw_sexy_memes Support The Kinky Conversations Podcast via Patreon, or grab a copy of Kink, Volume 1 | |||
| 01 Apr 2023 | Unlicensed Therapy At The Ready With Seven | 01:50:07 | |
Seven is a 20 year old model and graphic designer from the US, who is into skateboarding, surfing, music, and swing dancing. We discuss her journey from a conservative home-schooled family, into success on OnlyFans. She shares her approach of projecting her open, honest, vulnerably and real truth. We also get into some fun discussions auto-sexuality and finding therapy through sex work, sex toy safety, tentacle monster hentai, giraffe porn, cuddle puddles, short stories, and the concept of a submissive suffering for another person. Links Mentioned: You can find Seven on Instagram: @mynamesnot7 Take the course, ‘An Introduction to Kink, BDSM, Polyamory, and Other Fun Things’ Support The Kinky Conversations Podcast via Patreon, or grab a copy of Kink, Volume 1 Honey Play Box: Get 20% off storewide at honeyplaybox.com with coupon code ‘kinky’ Want to be a guest or a sponsor? Email me: zac@zachary-phillips.com or on Instagram kink_sex_positive_2 & nsfw_sexy_memes | |||
| 02 May 2023 | Community, Connection & Consent With Avery | 00:39:07 | |
Avery is a self-employed18 year old from the US, who is into art, poetry and cooking. We discuss her early entry into the BDSM scene and how she uses it to heal from past trauma; reclaiming her body and the ability to say ‘no’ both in the bedroom and in everyday life. She discusses her drive to be as welcoming and accepting of all members of the community as possible; kinky and the more vanilla alike. She also espouses the need to obtain consent and to the effective communication of limits and boundaries. Links Mentioned: You can find Avery on Instagram: @_avery_jefferson_ Take the course, ‘An Introduction to Kink, BDSM, Polyamory, and Other Fun Things’ Support The Kinky Conversations Podcast via Patreon, or grab a copy of Kink, Volume 1 Honey Play Box: Get 20% off storewide at honeyplaybox.com with coupon code ‘kinky’ Want to be a guest or a sponsor? Email me: zac@zachary-phillips.com or on Instagram kink_sex_positive_2 & nsfw_sexy_memes | |||
| 02 Jun 2023 | Digital Domination With Mistress Jasmine | 01:43:07 | |
Mistress Jasmine Corvina is a professional dominatrix and sex & relationship coach from the United States, who is into running, reading, MMA, dancing and charity. We dive deep into professional domination, discussing the ins and outs, the agreements, and the way she plays with her clients. We talk about chastity, degradation, financial domination, torture, objectification and digital domination; as well as the ethics of such play. We also touch upon what it would take for me to submit, which provided deep insights into my inner world. Links: - | |||
| 01 Jul 2023 | Blue Berry Inflation Kink With Ziva Fey | 01:32:07 | |
Ziva Fey is a 29 year old model from the United States who is into Pokémon, rollerblading, video games, Taekwondo, and cooking. We dive deep into the niche area of custom kinks, primarily the blue berry inflation scene from the original Willy Wonka movie. Ziva is on her way to claim the record for the most number of these scenes ever shot! We also talk about the principles of modelling, how to stay safe finding work, and the adult industry in general. Links: - | |||
| 13 Feb 2023 | Want Me To Arouse You? | 00:02:00 | |
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| 02 Aug 2023 | New Kink Unlocked With Jay | 01:48:07 | |
Jay returns to the podcast to report back on the homework set for her on her previous appearance on the podcast: We get into all that and more - including a new kink becoming unlocked! You can find Jay on Medium and on her website Take the course, ‘An Introduction to Kink, BDSM, Polyamory, and Other Fun Things’ | |||
| 23 Apr 2023 | Updates On The Podcast & New Instagram Handles To Follow | 00:06:50 | |
Just a quick update about the state of the podcast and to let you know that I have two new Instagram handles to follow (as the old one got pulled down): kink_sex_positive_2 & nsfw_sexy_memes Basically, I have had some personal issues relating to work that will result in me having less time available to record, edit and upload the podcast. This sucks, but is unavoidable. There are some more pre-recorded ones coming, and I will still be interviewing people, but on a less regular basis, until I have the capacity and time to commit to more. If you want to support the podcast (and give me the capacity to release more episodes), please consider signing up to the Patreon. | |||
| 01 Sep 2023 | Story Time With Kelly | 01:48:07 | |
On a whim, Kelly decided to jump onto the podcast to chat about all things all things voyeurism, connection, ego and fun. She shares a couple of raunchy and hilarious stories and we both had a great time chatting. You can follow her on instagram: @kelley_marie_smith/ Support The Kinky Conversations Podcast via Patreon, or grab a copy of Kink, Volume 1 and Kink, Volume 2, or purchase from Honey Play Box: Get 20% off storewide at honeyplaybox.com with coupon code ‘kinky’ Want to be a guest or a sponsor? Email me: zac@zachary-phillips.com or on Instagram kink_sex_positive_2 & nsfw_sexy_memes | |||