The Kink Perspective (The Kink Perspective)

On this episode, I delve into the nuanced world of dacryphilia, exploring its origins, diverse manifestations, and broader implications within the BDSM and kink communities. I navigate through the complexities of human sexuality, challenging misconceptions and promoting awareness and acceptance of diverse sexual preferences.

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#BDSM #Psychology #Tears

Does trauma cause BDSM desires? Is kink just a reenactment of old wounds? Or can it be something more, a form of healing, reclamation, or simply joy? I break down the difference between influence and origin, explore what it means when kink feels familiar, and offer a path forward grounded in choice, consent, and self-understanding. This is not about shame. It’s about clarity. Whether you're a survivor, a practitioner, or simply curious, this episode invites you to explore where your desires come from and what they mean to you now.

📚References (APA Style)

• Li, S. (2024). The psychology of kink: A cross-sectional survey investigating the association between adult attachment style and BDSM-related identity choice in China. Archives of Sexual Behavior. Advance online publication. https://doi.org/10.1007/s10508-024-02829-1
• Schuerwegen, A., Morrens, M., Wuyts, E., Huys, W., Goethals, K., & De Zeeuw-Jans, I. (2022). The psychology of kink: A survey study investigating stigma and psychological mechanisms in BDSM. European Psychiatry, 64(S1), S620. https://doi.org/10.1192/j.eurpsy.2022.1566
• Speciale, M., & Khambatta, D. (2020). Kinky & queer: Exploring the experiences of LGBTQ+ individuals who practice BDSM. Journal of LGBT Issues in Counseling, 14(4), 341–361. https://doi.org/10.1080/15538605.2020.1827476
• Sprott, R. A., Vivid, J., & Lev, E. M. (2020). The structure of kink identity: Four key themes within a world of complexity. Journal of Positive Sexuality, 6(1), 1–8. https://journalofpositivesexuality.org/wp-content/uploads/2020/12/Structure-of-kink-identity_key-themes-within-a-world-of-complexity-Vivid-Lev-Sprott.pdf

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#BDSM #Psychology #Trauma #Desire

On this episode, I challenge traditional beliefs about aftercare in the BDSM community by presenting alternative perspectives, including those who opt out of traditional post-scene support, individuals with remarkable emotional resilience who don't perceive a need for it, and those who question its universal necessity, celebrating diversity and urging respect for individual preferences in emotional support within BDSM dynamics.

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#BDSM #Psychology #Aftercare

On this episode, I explore the phenomenon of "ping-pong players" in relationships, particularly within the BDSM community. I discuss why some individuals engage in intermittent connection, focusing on fear of intimacy, need for validation, and lack of self-awareness. Hopefully, you will learn how to recognize these patterns and set boundaries to protect their emotional well-being and more...

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#BDSM #Psychology #Relationships

On this episode, I discuss the vanilla influx of people that have swarmed the scene over the last two decades. The effects it has had on newcomers into the community as they mask who they are with a stolen lexicon of terminology and creating issues in the local scene. Conversely, I also discuss the response by BDSM practitioners offering helpful suggestions that are shut down for trying to help with the pejorative of, "There is not true way," yet discarding the rules, competency and respect the rest of us adhere to, is exactly what keeps us safe and enjoying the lifestyle, and more.

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On this episode, I discuss disposable relationships and their profound impact on individuals and the BDSM community. I talk about what makes a relationship feel disposable, explore the traits and motivations of those who treat others as expendable, and examine the emotional and psychological damage caused by such dynamics. We’ll also cover strategies for healing and moving forward, offering insights into how to reclaim your self-worth and build healthier, more fulfilling relationships.

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#BDSM #Psychology #Relationships #Disposable

On this episode, I look beyond the shiny Veneer of open marriages and how happy they want everyone to believe they are. I look at all of the issues that people in an open marriage face, the mental health ramifications of them, financial strain, priorities, and more. I am not here to bash on what works for a small percentage of people, more so, to discuss the things that people do not consider or think about when entertaining this idea. Finally, the biggest question, what do you do when your needs are the only one that matters, and more.

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In this episode, I discuss the captivating world of BDSM, exploring the dynamic interplay between erotic toys and the richness of our minds. I examine the delicate balance between the tangible tools and the boundless potential of the psyche in creating fulfilling experiences. Central to this discussion was the concept that the core of eroticism is deeply rooted in the mind and imagination, underscoring its pivotal role in the BDSM lifestyle.

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#BDSM #MentalHealth #Psychology #Toys

Sovereignty On today’s episode, I discuss personal power and sovereignty, not as abstract ideas but as lived experiences that shape how we navigate identity, roles, and relationships. I explore the difference between positional power and personal power, how trauma impacts our ability to trust ourselves, and what it means to reclaim our sense of self in the context of kink dynamics and beyond. Whether you’re Dominant, submissive, Switch, or something else entirely, this conversation is about learning to live in alignment with who you are, without apology, without performance, and without giving that power away.

References

Freyd, J. J. (1996). Betrayal trauma: The logic of forgetting childhood abuse. Harvard University Press.

Herman, J. L. (1992). Trauma and recovery: The aftermath of violence—from domestic abuse to political terror. Basic Books.

Siegel, D. J. (2010). The mindful therapist: A clinician’s guide to mindsight and neural integration. W. W. Norton & Company.

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#BDSM #Psychology #PersonalPower #Sovereignty

On this episode, I explore the intricate dynamics of intermittent reinforcement in relationships, uncovering its profound influence on emotional well-being and connection. From dissecting its psychological underpinnings to offering practical strategies for navigating its effects, we journey through real-life examples to illuminate the complexities of human behavior.

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#BDSM #Psychology #Intermittent Reinforcement #Relationships

On this episode, I discuss what we should actually be on the lookout for in a healthy relationship. Those things that signify we have found a good person, how they help lay the foundation for a trusting relationship dynamic and so much more. We spend so much time focusing on the bad, we often miss the good.

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On this episode, I discuss the critical role of personal responsibility within kink dynamics. I explore why it's essential to take ownership of our actions and how failing to do so can lead to misunderstandings, conflicts, and hindered personal growth. Drawing from psychological insights, I examine the tendency to blame others and the impact this has on our relationships and self-awareness. Join me as I break down the importance of personal responsibility in creating healthier, more fulfilling kink experiences.

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#BDSM #Psychology #PersonalResponsibility

On this episode, I cover the trope that submission is a gift. Delve into what giving a gift actually means and reflections of what people may want out of a BDSM dynamic before they get involved and more...

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On this episode, clinical psychologist Elise Loprieno and I, dive into the intricate world of emotional dysregulation (ED) and its profound impact on relationships. We explore the definition and contributing factors of ED, emphasizing its challenging dynamics within relationships and the importance of empathy, communication, and setting boundaries. We also discuss how the integration of DBT and CBT therapies can offerdifferent solutions. Lastly, we explore how teaching CBT principles can enhance emotional management and address specific relationship challenges, providing practical insights for improved emotional well-being and more harmonious connections.

*Correction for some content said, the person's name mentioned should be Stephen Porges*

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elise@reflectionofthemind.com

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On this episode, I sit down with my returning guest, brooke_ish, to discuss the fascinating subject of Objectification in the context of the lifestyle itself. The range and overlap of the areas that Objectification has ties to, the emotional bounds that it can create, and how it plays out in different scene dynamics.

*There were a few technical difficulties, I do apologize for that.*

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On this episode, I discuss the influence of music on our lives, how it enhances the states of those who study or who are athletic and that cross over into the BDSM lifestyle scene. I posit that using music can have the ability to elevate our scenes and draw us in for a deeper connection, and more!

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#BDSM #Psychology #Music

On this episode, I had a chance to reflect on many of the things I have talked about, the few people I have had wonderful conversations with, and things I have learned by doing this podcast over this past year. I talk about some questions that I have been asked and what is coming up next. I want this to remain informative and fun. A place that those in the community benefit from and learn about new things they have never considered. It was a good time to reflect and tell you what is next and much more...

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On this episode, I discuss the psychological effects of engaging with explicit content on social media platforms. I examine the processes of desensitization and normalization, the emotional impacts, unconscious influences, and the effects on self-esteem and body image. I also discuss the importance of contextual understanding, fostering resilience, and maintaining healthy boundaries within our community. and more...

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#BDSM #Psychology #Explicit #Content

On this episode I discuss what Aftercare is, the benefits of Aftercare, the types there are and whether or not everyone wants or requires it.

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On this episode I chat with the one and only Honeybeeeee. We cover everything from her life and family to her personal pursuits and her unique take on BDSM. With plenty of laughter, insight, and real talk, Honeybeeeee opens up about her experiences and what the lifestyle means to her. It's a laid-back, genuine conversation that touches on the highs and lows of her journey. Relax, tune in, and enjoy the ride!

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#BDSM #Psychology #Life #BDSM #MidLife

On today’s episode, I discuss emotional vampires, those people who drain your energy, manipulate situations, and thrive on drama. In the BDSM lifestyle, where trust and deep connections matter, they can be especially damaging. We’ll break down how they operate, the tactics they use, and most importantly, how to protect yourself. And stick around until the end, I’ll be revealing my special, upcoming guest interview that you won’t want to miss.

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#BDSM #Psychology #EmotionalVampires

On this episode, I discuss what happens when you find out the person you are in a BDSM dynamic with, does not have the same political beliefs as you do. With such contentious times surrounding this topic, I discuss ways to navigate this issue. To not let it be the hill to die on, and work through those differences even from across the aisle and more...

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On this episode I talk about self-objectification, self-sexualization, victimhood and exhibitionism, and how these definitions are being intertwined and misused to provide a sword and shield effect. Thus, people can monetize themselves while retaining their status as a victim at the expense of those they want to be exploited by. It is a vicious cycle...

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On this episode, I talk about our core values and what we hold important. How the values that we grow up with change and are influenced through our environment. If those values change or do we question them? And what effects pop culture has on those values.

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In this episode, I go over what is a Fetish. What defines it, how healthy it is, when it becomes a problem, how it can be treated and what things cannot be fetishes.

On this episode, I discuss the subject of aftercare for Dominants. When we think about aftercare, what normally springs to mind is Dominants caring for, nurturing their submissives after a scene or play session. What about Dominants though? I discuss what we need to be on the look out for, some things we can do to conduct aftercare if you are a submissive for your Dominant and much more...

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On this episode, I delve into the intricate dynamics of online platforms, exploring the consequences of unchecked criticism of men within the BDSM community. Navigating through the complexities of emasculation, I unravel the far-reaching impact on mental well-being and relationships, advocating for a more nuanced understanding of masculinity.

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#BDSM #Psychology #Men #Masculinity

On this episode, I dive into the psychological dynamics of humiliation play. I talk about navigating this intense fetish with a focus on consent, boundaries, and emotional well-being. How this can impact us emotionally, and not just the s-type, but the D-types as well and more...

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On today's show, I discuss the often-overlooked struggle for emotional intimacy in BDSM relationships. Join me as I explore the concept of emotional neglect and its impact on our ability to feel wanted and connected. We'll dive into the triggers that can stir up feelings of inadequacy, the weight of past experiences that shape our emotional responses, and the essential practices of self-advocacy and open communication. Whether you're new to BDSM or have been navigating these dynamics for a while, this episode offers valuable insights and strategies to help you reclaim your space, assert your worth, and foster deeper emotional connections.

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#BDSM #Psychology #Emotions #Neglect

Distressing Content Discussion:

On this episode, I dive into the sensitive topic of a recent tragedy at a dungeon event in Atlanta. With empathy and compassion, we explore the importance of mental health awareness within the BDSM community, discuss strategies for suicide prevention, and highlight the power of supporting each other during times of crisis.

Resources for help:

Atlanta Resources:

1. Grady Health System: Behavioral Health Services

• Website: https://www.gradyhealth.org/behavioral-health/
• Phone: (404) 616-4949
• Details: Grady Health System offers comprehensive behavioral health services, including crisis intervention, counseling, and support groups.

1. Georgia Crisis and Access Line (GCAL)

• Website: https://www.georgiacollaborative.com/gcal/
• Phone: 1-800-715-4225
• Details: GCAL provides free and confidential crisis intervention and access to mental health resources for individuals in Georgia.

1. The Link Counseling Center

• Website: https://www.thelink.org/
• Phone: (404) 256-9797
• Details: The Link Counseling Center offers affordable counseling services and support groups for individuals, couples, and families in the Atlanta area.

Global Resources:

1. United Kingdom: Samaritans

• Website: https://www.samaritans.org/
• Details: Samaritans offers confidential emotional support for people experiencing feelings of distress or despair, 24/7.

1. Canada: Crisis Services Canada

• Website: https://www.crisisservicescanada.ca/en/
• Details: Crisis Services Canada provides free, confidential support and resources for individuals in crisis, including a national crisis hotline.

1. Australia: Lifeline

• Website: https://www.lifeline.org.au/
• Details: Lifeline offers 24/7 crisis support and suicide prevention services for individuals across Australia, including telephone and online chat support.

1. India: VISHRAM (Voluntary Health Services for Rehabilitation and Mental Health)

• Website: http://vishramrehab.com/
• Details: VISHRAM provides mental health support services, including counseling and rehabilitation programs, to individuals in India.

1. South Africa: South African Depression and Anxiety Group (SADAG)

• Website: https://www.sadag.org/
• Details: SADAG offers toll-free helplines, support groups, and educational resources for individuals living with mental health disorders in South Africa.

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#BDSM #Psychology #Community #Mental Health

On this episode, I wrap up 2023. Go over the growth of the show thanks to the community, how much people have begun to listen, and what this has meant to me. Thank you for being on this journey with me. Have a Merry Christmas and Happy New Year, I will see you all in 2024!

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#BDSM #Psychology #Spotify #SpotifyWrap

On this episode, I discuss the lifestyle and BDSM community resiliency to rejection. in every aspect of what we do, from negotiations, to meeting people, to discussing likes and dislikes, there is always the element of rejection. It is not personal nor a slight, and from that we learn to grow and evolve into our dynamics. We learn over time, that because these rejections on any level is not personal nor an attack, how we build up our confidence even when we are rejected and more...

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On this episode I discuss behavior of men and women in the lifestyle. Of those on social media that carry a double standard of behavior. While we need not to tolerate certain behavior and nor is all behavior excusable, we need to also question what behavioral influences lead to the responses and interactions we have with each other in the community.

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Are we losing the art of talking and debating with each other? Have people and their ideas become indistinguishable? On this episode, I discuss what is going on with civil discourse within the BDSM and Fetish community and how it is beginning to break down into nothing more than attacking one another.

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On this episode, I discuss the intriguing influence of nostalgia in BDSM relationships. I unravel the resonant memories of past BDSM partners and how they continue to shape our feelings towards our current dynamics. Exploring the valuable insights gained from previous experiences, we uncover how these lessons contribute to our present BDSM identities. Furthermore, I delve into the concept of "positive schemas" and how embracing nostalgic memories can enhance our connections with current BDSM partners and foster personal growth within the realm of BDSM.

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In this episode, I explore the psychological aspects of rebellion and rejection and their impact on personal relationships and the BDSM lifestyle. I discuss strategies for managing these complex emotions, emphasizing the importance of consent, trust, and boundaries and more...

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I have a book out, Tangled Desires: Exploring the Intersection of BDSM and Psychology. Can find it where you purchase most of your ebooks.

#BDSM #Psychology #Relationships #Rebellion #Rejection

On this episode, I continue the discussion on loss. What do we do and how our roles change if our partner has a terminal illness or passes away suddenly. These are not easy conversations to navigate, but I argue necessary ones. I talk about some of the things we encounter, how we cope with the process and preserving memories along the way, and so much more.

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On this episode, I look into the difference. The questions came from someone that wanted to know more. There are a lot of similarities between being a sadist and someone suffering from the disorder. One of the main caveats we all know, consent or violating it. I discuss the characteristics of the disorder as well as treatments and more.

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This is a story about John and Michelle, BDSM practitioners who found themselves through the lifestyle. The life they had, and in the end how the roles changed, because of love.

On this episode, I talk about how our emotional responses are formed, how they vary in difference between men and women, and how Dominants and submissives both respond to emotional vulnerability.

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On this episode, I discuss the dynamics of silence, projection, and emotional manipulation in relationships, uncovering their motivations and impact. By using silence and projection, manipulators assert control and distort reality. Breaking free requires understanding these tactics, establishing boundaries for healthier relationships and retaining one's value.

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On this episode, I explore the nuanced phenomenon of trauma dumping, distinguishing it from healthy venting and examining its impact on relationships. From real-life conversations to online platforms like FetLife, we uncover how trauma dumping strains connections. By identifying signs and implementing strategies to address trauma dumping, listeners can cultivate healthier communication habits.

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#BDSM #Psychology #Trauma #Dumping

On this episode, I sit down with @LunaLux and @Sovereign_Kane, both on Fetlife, and discuss their relationship. They are both Dominants, that share a masochist on one side, and a slave on the other, both the same person. We explore and discuss what challenges they have faced, their views on their relationship, preconceived notions and their takes on the future.

I do want to apologize for some of the audio, mainly on my side.

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On this episode, I had the opportunity to sit down with Brooke_ish and discuss the fetish of Lactation. This was an insight into a kink that is far more intimate, effort driven, and bonding, than I first realized. We discussed the process of induction, the commitment to maintaining this and so much more. This was such an enlightening conversation and glad I had the opportunity to learn more.

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On this episode, I sit down with SemenawaPrincess, and start the conversation from the other side of rope. From a bottom's perspective. We discuss her journey, emotions and relationships through her journey of rope and more...

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On this episode, I discuss the emotionally charged topic of cord cutting and letting go of an ex. I discuss the importance of understanding cord cutting, the unique challenges faced in BDSM relationships, the process of healing and growth, and the tools and strategies available for letting go and more...

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On this episode, I talk about the origins of Operant Conditioning, applications and understanding of it and what do after a dynamic ends and you are reeling with the effects of the modifications.

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On this episode, I discuss the weight of shame and guilt surrounding kinks and fetishes—where these feelings come from, how they impact us, and why they don’t belong to us in the first place. I break down the difference between shame and guilt, explore how they affect self-perception and relationships, and, most importantly, share practical steps to let go of them.

Desire isn’t a choice—it’s a discovery. And it’s time to stop apologizing for what turns us on.

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#BDSM #Psychology #Shame #Guilt

On this episode, I discuss people-pleasing behavior and how it shows up in the lifestyle. I break down what it really is, where it comes from, and why it’s often mistaken for consent. I talk about the difference between saying yes from a place of choice versus saying yes out of fear, and why that difference matters so much in kink. If you’ve ever found yourself agreeing to something just to keep the peace or avoid conflict, this one’s for you.

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#BDSM #Psychology #PeoplePleasing #Behavior #Fawning

On this episode I talk about this question that was posed last night online on social media. I want to thank Brooke for this really in-depth question. The question is  between Transcendence and Euphoria versus Connection to the scene and being grounded. Do we feel these things, are we in our own head space or do we just count the lashes as we go and more are discussed on this episode...

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On this episode, we embark on a deep exploration of jealousy within alternative relationships. Delving into the complexities of the lifestyle community, we unravel the psychology of jealousy, its nuanced expressions, and effective communication strategies. Drawing insights from real-life scenarios and therapeutic experiences, as we begin to understand this "green monster." I discuss some coping strategies and more along the way...

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#BDSM #Psychology #Jealousy

On this episode, I dive into the world of punishments in the BDSM lifestyle. I discuss and explore the purpose and use of punishments in a correct sense, discussing their role in discipline, behavior modification, emotional release, power dynamics, and erotic stimulation. Discover the importance of establishing a solid foundation, the various types of punishments, and the significance of consent and communication in fostering a healthy and fulfilling BDSM dynamic.

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On this episode, we explore the intriguing world of hypnosis, from its scientific foundations to its therapeutic applications. Venturing into the BDSM community, we uncover how hypnosis adds a unique dimension to power dynamics, creating intimate experiences. I discuss the potential dangers, ethical considerations, and real experiences, highlighting its therapeutic potential, and more...

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#BDSM #Psychology #Hypnosis

On this episode, I talk about what it feels like for new people entering the lifestyle. Breaking away from societal norms can feel daunting and scary, holding us back from embracing our true desires and identities. By challenging societal constructs, embracing self-acceptance, and finding strength in a supportive community, we can overcome these barriers, empowering ourselves to step into the unknown and embark on a transformative journey of self-discovery.

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On this episode, I sit down with Sadist and Rigger, Mr TinkerTrain. We discuss some history of rope bondage, dispel some myths, some of the psychological aspects of rope. Our conversation opens the door to the world of rope bondage and gives a bit more insight not just of his pleasure of rope, but some of the psychological components of it as well...

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On this episode, I dive into the controversial realm of financial domination, examining consensual power dynamics, the rise of scams, and the perils of addiction within the Findom community. I discuss the intricate interplay of desires and potential harm in this unconventional world of those who may fall prey to deceptive practices, and have their addictive personalities exploited, and more.

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#BDSM #Psychology #Findom #FinancialDomination

Why is vetting in relationships important? More so, why is it so important in a BDSM relationship? On this episode, I explore that.

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On this episode, I discuss the current relationship climate newer generations have found themselves in, the Disposable one. I talk about what led us here, my thoughts about how this may go in the future. I discuss the signs to look out for, to discover if you are involved in a disposable relationship. I discuss ways you avoid your relationship from becoming one, and so much more.

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On this episode, I explore the balance between our BDSM roles and our true self. We’ll discuss how getting too absorbed in our BDSM identities can impact our mental and emotional well-being, and provide practical tips for maintaining harmony. Whether you’re a Dominant, submissive, or switch, this episode offers insights to help you stay connected to your core self while enjoying your BDSM experiences.

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#BDSM #Psychology #Self #Identity

On this episode, I talk about the BDSM community on social media, and the blatant misandry that goes on in regards to Age Gap Relationships (AGR), calling all men pedophiles and predators and more. These tired old tropes are nothing but abhorrent and detrimental for men that are being collectively lumped together by people who are doing no more than seeking attention at the cost of men.

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On this episode, I discuss self-esteem and the lifestyle. What it is, how it is connected to the lifestyle, how it affects what we do and the community itself. How we should embrace our insecurities and learn find ways to grow from them, and much more...

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#BDSM #Psychology

On this episode, attention-seeking behavior takes the spotlight as I explore its diverse manifestations, from the pursuit of online validation to the challenges posed by boundary issues and dramatic displays. I dive into the psychological roots, examining causes like childhood experiences, personality disorders, and the intricate interplay between loneliness and seeking external affirmation.

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#BDSM #Psychology #MentalHealth

On this episode, I explore the emotional effects on Bulls within the cuckold lifestyle. Drawing insights from an email received, and many thereafter, I discuss the definition of Bulls, their role in the dynamics of cuckold relationships, the emotional experiences they may face, and the moral considerations surrounding their involvement, and more.

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On this episode, I discuss the topic of dark psychology and its exploitative use for manipulation within relationships. Examples of gaslighting, love bombing, and emotional blackmail were delved into, and the negative impact they can have on a partner's emotional and psychological well-being was discussed. The use of these tactics by governments and corporations, and the potential harm they can cause to society as a whole. Why it is crucial, in my belief, to not use these tactics in dynamics and more...

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On this episode, I talk about the seemingly growing trend of people exposing their kink, the lifestyle or themselves to unsuspecting, non-consenting people. How this trend shapes the behaviors and views of the general public towards those in the lifestyle community, and more.

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On this episode, I discuss the trend of some sort of substance use prior to play. Whether comes in the form of alcohol, prescribed medications or something more illicit, and how that removes consent and elevates our risk profiles. How the outcomes of this elevated risk may cause more harm in the long run as we discard safety for an altered experience.

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#BDSM #Psychology #SubstanceAbuse

On this episode, I explore the intricate dynamics of limits of self and growth. The crucial role in fostering self-awareness and psychological resilience. I discuss the exploration of emotional well-being, and the collective human connections within the lifestyle itself.

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#BDSM #Psychology #Limits #Self-Awareness

On this episode, I discuss the fundamental importance of authenticity in fostering genuine connections, particularly within intimate relationships and the kink lifestyle. I delve into the essence of authenticity, exploring its transformative power in nurturing trust, vulnerability, and emotional bonds. Drawing from psychological theories and insights, I examine how authenticity intertwines with autonomy to shape our sense of self and well-being. I navigate the complexities of challenges and boundaries, uncovering strategies for overcoming obstacles and fostering healthy, authentic connections, and more...

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#BDSM #Psychology #Authentic

On this episode, I conclude my discussion on BDSM and Religious ritual practices, and their connection to BDSM. How secularism and decline of religion have led many to a new "alter" to pray or worship at.

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On this episode, I talk about our sex drives, our sexual thoughts and things we find sexual. When these are good versus when they become intrusive in our lives, and so much more. I do apologize for last week, life got busy.

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On this episode I’m joined by Stormy and Raven, two incredible women from the Fetlife community who bring a refreshing dose of honesty and humor to our conversation. We dive into how their political views shape their experiences within the BDSM lifestyle and tackle misconceptions about women in kink.

Stormy and Raven keep it real, blending wit with straightforwardness in a way that makes this conversation both eye-opening and fun. They offer a unique take on the intersection of gender, politics, and BDSM, with plenty of laughs and real talk along the way. It’s a chat you won’t want to miss.

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#BDSM #Psychology #Women #BDSM #Politics

On this episode, I sit down with Corey and Cassandra to discuss the subject of parenting and BDSM. How they have broached the subject of their private life with their kids, their openness about certain subject matter, promoting positive vulnerability within their relationship and more. This conversation bridged that gap of how parents can healthily talk with their kids while respecting privacy and their own autonomy.

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#BDSM #Psychology #Parenting #Family

On this episode, I sit down with BoundAshLeigh, and continue the conversation from the other side of rope. From a bottom's perspective. We discuss her journey into the rope world, emotions, her marriage and journey, and her passion for her rope future and more...

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On this episode, I discuss foot fetishes, how it is defined. I challenge misconceptions and stigma surrounding foot fetishes, shedding light on their diverse nature and psychological impact. From uncovering the causes and origins of foot fetishes to navigating their influence on relationships and societal attitudes, I delve deep into the intricacies of this phenomenon.

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#BDSM #Psychology #Foot #Fetish

On this episode, I sat down with -Jupit3r- and Cheetahme for a fun and insightful conversation about their 24/7 dynamic. We laughed along the way as we explored how they navigate their relationship in the scene, approach each other, and balance their personal lives with community engagement. They share the joys, challenges, and surprises that come with a 24/7 dynamic, offering some great laughs and thoughtful moments, and so much more...

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@-Jupit3r- and @Cheetahme

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#BDSM #Psychology #24/7 #Dynamics #Relationships

On this episode, I venture into the subtle art of desire, exploring the nuanced realms of eroticism, the raw beauty of sex, and their mixture into the world of BDSM. I discuss how eroticism transcends the physical, teasing the senses and kindling connections. The difference between the sexual and the erotic. And the effect of these two on the lifestyle itself.

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On this episode, I explore the deep-rooted fear of being alone and its impact on our relationships. Delving into the psychological factors that drive us into unhealthy partnerships, I discuss the influences of societal expectations, past traumas, low self-esteem, and attachment styles. Through self-reflection, embracing solitude, and seeking support, I encourage you to break free from the fear of being alone, cultivate self-growth, and nurture healthy connections based on mutual respect and genuine compatibility.

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On today’s show, I’m diving into what happens when outside voices—sometimes even from within the BDSM community—start influencing our personal choices in kink. This episode unpacks how pressures and opinions can quietly shift our boundaries or make us doubt our preferences. I’ll talk about reclaiming agency, staying true to what genuinely fulfills us, and how to shut out the noise while prioritizing respect and consent. It’s all about finding freedom and authenticity in your own kink experience.

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#BDSM #Psychology #Kink #KinkShaming

On this episode, I look at the fascination with Water Sports. Why we do them, what attracts us to it and more.

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On this episode, I discuss the issues surrounding Diversity, Inclusion and Equity, or D.I.E. philosophy, in BDSM. What I see that these people who follow this mantra really want and demand. While dismissing meritocracy in the name of inclusivity and diversity and equity, because conformity is what they are after while suppressing types of speech. This is not inclusive, and goes against some of the fundamentals of what BDSM is about.

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On this episode, I discuss the interrogation scene and what is becoming a prevalent style of play, Waterboard. I go over the evolution of a typical interrogation scene and how that can be psychologically fulfilling, while weighing the heavier risks of waterboarding, that in my opinion, have no business being involved in the BDSM community. I discuss the origins of waterboarding, some of the effects if the scene goes wrong and more on this episode.

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On this episode, I discuss the complex emotion of jealousy within BDSM dynamics. Explore how jealousy impacts both Dominants and submissives, and discover strategies for managing these feelings effectively. From fostering open communication and setting boundaries to reinforcing trust, learn how to turn jealousy into an opportunity for deeper connection and growth.

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#BDSM #Psychology #Relationships #Jealousy

On this episode, I delve into the enduring impact of words within relationships, unraveling their potency through poignant narratives. I stress the significance of responsible communication, particularly during emotionally charged moments. Through personal insights, I invite reflection on how our choice of words shapes the narrative of our relationships, and how hurtful words can crumble relationships.

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On this episode, I discuss some interaction on social media(SM) over the weekend stemming from a lack of responsibility of enacting safety protocols and the responses we receive from the public on SM. When it comes to SM, we have a level of safety protocols we can choose to enable or discard while using it. We have to understand that not all of our public interactions will be fun in the world of the internet, but we can control what those look like. The choice is whether or not we choose to do so.

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#BDSM #Psychology #SocialMedia #Responsibility

On this episode, I talk about the signs that our relationship dynamics are beginning to fade. Those subtle tells that let us know that we are not evolving along the same path anymore. How to identify, talk about and resolve these issues before they lead to more problems. While we all hit those marks of time with our partner, keeping that romantic and emotional intimacy moving forward is crucial to keep a healthy balance for your dynamic. I discuss recognizing the signs of when we drift apart and so much more...

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On this episode, I dove into a global AMA session, addressing challenging questions from listeners worldwide. From exploring cultural influences on BDSM to navigating personal and professional boundaries, I tackled a wide range of topics, providing insights into the fascinating intersections of psychology and kink.

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#BDSM #Psychology #AMA

On this episode, I delve into the often-overlooked realm of vulnerability in masculinity. As men, we're conditioned to suppress our emotions and uphold a facade of strength, but what if vulnerability is the key to genuine connection and personal growth? Drawing from personal experiences, psychological insights, and the dynamics of the BDSM lifestyle, we challenge societal norms and offer practical guidance for embracing vulnerability as a source of strength.

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#BDSM #Psychology #Men #Vulnerability

On this episode, I dive deep into the subject of hyper-masculinity within the BDSM community. I explore the defining traits of hyper-masculinity and its impact on power dynamics, all while emphasizing the fundamental principles of consent, communication, and respect. I also shed light on the potential benefits of embracing hyper-masculinity, cautiously examining its ability to intensify power exchange dynamics and foster personal growth and empowerment.

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On today's show, I discuss role reversal in BDSM—why someone who’s in control all day might crave letting go during a scene, or why a naturally nurturing person might enjoy stepping into a Dominant role. We dive into how role reversal can be a powerful way to explore different sides of ourselves, find balance, and deepen our connections with partners. I’ll share some of the psychological benefits, bust a few myths, and talk about how to incorporate role reversal into your play safely and intentionally.

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#BDSM #Psychology #Role #Reversal

On this episode, I discuss the complex interplay between BDSM and sexual shame. We explore how societal norms can create barriers to embracing one’s sexuality, the impact of guilt and stigma, and the importance of open dialogue in the BDSM community. Through insights and observations, I highlight strategies to navigate these challenges and encourage listeners to foster a more accepting perspective towards their desires and identities. Join the conversation as we work to dismantle misconceptions and promote a healthier understanding of kink.

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#BDSM #Psychology #Shame #Sexuality-

On this episode I discuss into the complex dynamics of controlling relationships and the isolating tactics used by partners to undermine your autonomy. I explore how seemingly caring behaviors can mask deeper issues of control rooted in insecurity and past experiences. Learn to recognize the signs of coercive control and isolation, and understand the profound impact these behaviors can have on your mental and emotional well-being. I also discuss practical steps for addressing control, including setting boundaries, developing safety plans, and reaching out for support.

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#BDSM #Psychology #Isolation

On this episode, I talk about what I am seeing again all over BDSM social media. Being under the influence and getting involved in play. Comparing that level of impaired influence to our bodies natural neurological chemicals and how they react. It is a contentious subject, I choose the side of abstinence.

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In this episode, I will be discussing Mindfulness and Intimacy. How we can be sensual, and not just sexual.

On this episode, I discuss the intriguing world of sensation-seeking personalities in BDSM. Delving into the psyche of thrill-seekers, I explore their unique desires, the psychological intricacies of risk and responsibility, and the profound emotional aftermath they navigate. I look at and try to unravel the complex interplay between erotic desire, discovery and dismissal of emotional after effects as lines become blurred between fantasy and reality for these types.

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I have a book out, Tangled Desires: Exploring the Intersection of BDSM and Psychology. Can find it where you purchase most of your ebooks.

In this special Year-End Wrap-Up episode, I’m taking a moment to reflect on the incredible journey we've had in 2024. From reaching listeners in 105 countries to breaking into the top 10% of global podcasts, it's been a year of growth and meaningful connection. I’m so grateful for the community we’ve built together. Your support and engagement have made all the difference. We’ve explored intimate topics like BDSM and mindfulness, celebrated powerful conversations about kink and activism, and dug deep into the emotional layers of our lives. Join me as I look back on the highlights, share some behind-the-scenes stories (including a hilarious run-in with a squawking bird!), and set the stage for what’s to come in 2025. This episode is a heartfelt thank you to each of you for being part of The Kink Perspective, I couldn’t have done it without you!

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If you are looking for a therapist that is knowledgeable about the lifestyle, or just a therapist in general, please feel free to reach out through my website at www.enhanced-mind.com

I have a book out, Tangled Desires: Exploring the Intersection of BDSM and Psychology. Can find it where you purchase most of your ebooks. Print version out now!

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On today’s show, I discuss BDSM in the Middle East, where cultural, religious, and social factors shape how kink is explored. From leading a “dual life” to navigating privacy and trust in hidden communities, I dive into the unique challenges faced by practitioners in countries like Saudi Arabia, UAE, Egypt, and Israel. Despite significant risks, individuals are finding ways to connect, express themselves, and explore their desires.

Special thanks to those who contributed their insights from these regions. Your input was invaluable in bringing this episode to life.

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If you are looking for a therapist that is knowledgeable about the lifestyle, or just a therapist in general, please feel free to reach out through my website at www.enhanced-mind.com

I have a book out, Tangled Desires: Exploring the Intersection of BDSM and Psychology. Can find it where you purchase most of your ebooks. Print version out now!

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On today's show, I discuss the importance of men's mental health and the need to redefine positive traits of masculinity. I discuss the stigma surrounding men's mental health and the pressure to conform to traditional notions of masculinity, which can prevent men from seeking help. By promoting emotional intelligence and vulnerability, and by creating safe spaces for men to talk about their feelings and experiences, we can help improve men's mental health and more...

If you are looking for a therapist that is knowledgeable about the lifestyle, or just a therapist in general, please feel free to reach out through my website at www.enhanced-mind.com

I have a book out, Tangled Desires: Exploring the Intersection of BDSM and Psychology. Can find it where you purchase most of your ebooks.

On today’s show, I dive into the complex issue of emotional unavailability, a challenge that can affect both vanilla and lifestyle relationships. Discover how to recognize the signs of emotional unavailability, whether in yourself or a partner, and explore practical steps for improving emotional connection. From self-awareness and open communication to personal growth and resilience, this episode offers valuable insights for fostering deeper, more meaningful relationships.

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If you are looking for a therapist that is knowledgeable about the lifestyle, or just a therapist in general, please feel free to reach out through my website at www.enhanced-mind.com

I have a book out, Tangled Desires: Exploring the Intersection of BDSM and Psychology. Can find it where you purchase most of your ebooks. Print version out now!

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On this episode, I sit down again with the wonderfully intelligent and beautiful soul, Brooke_ish. Spurred by a question on her social media page about the motivators for Dominants and Total Power Exchange (TPE). This led to bigger questions around what TPE means and its evolution. How desire, sexuality, effort, love, spirituality all contribute and on what levels, and more on this episode...

If you are looking for a therapist that is knowledgeable about the lifestyle, or just a therapist in general, please feel free to reach out through my website at www.enhanced-mind.com

I have a book out, Tangled Desires: Exploring the Intersection of BDSM and Psychology. Can find it where you purchase most of your ebooks.

On this episode, I explore the fascinating topic of attachment styles in kink relationships. I go over the main attachment styles and how they can impact kink dynamics, and discuss the challenges and opportunities of exploring kink with different attachment styles. I discuss how to navigate attachment-related challenges in kink relationships, emphasizing the importance of communication, trust, effort and empathy, and more...

If you are looking for a therapist that is knowledgeable about the lifestyle, or just a therapist in general, please feel free to reach out through my website at www.enhanced-mind.com