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07 Feb 2022Can I Be Satisfied if I NEVER Get Married?00:39:15

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Ep. 063 - Do you currently have a desire for love, romance, and marriage that's going unfulfilled? Sister, you're not alone. This is one of the hardest unfulfilled longings that single christian women face.

You PRAY for God to give you a man, but it's just not happening.

In today's episode, Bethany opens up about her own story of unfulfilled longings for marriage. She shares her crazy story of purchasing a wedding dress... only to have it collect dust for the next decade.

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14 Feb 2022Christian Men Answer Your Q's About Love, Romance, and Sex00:39:14

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Ep. 064 - We're bringing in the men to answer your questions. This is a special day and it calls for a special episode. Today we're hearing from Kristen, Zack, Bethany and Dav. They're bringing  us some married wisdom about all things love, romance, dating and sex. Whether you're single, dating, or married, this is an episode you will love .

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21 Feb 2022Trusting God after the Unexpected Death of our Baby Brother00:28:57

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Ep. 065 - The unexpected loss of our baby brother was grief like we'd never experienced before. We  were teen girls at the time and had never faced a tragedy this personal. There's nothing in the world that can truly prepare you to watch your brand new baby brother pass away right before your eyes. It was devastating and heartbreaking.

We had two choices: 1. We could run toward God - OR - 2. We could run away from him.

This is our story of learning to trust God when life throws you something unexpected and devastating. This is your invitation to learn to trust God with your own losses and sorrows. Join us as we learn about the goodness of God together.

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28 Feb 2022What my HONEYMOON taught me about TRUST in God00:38:39

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A honeymoon is supposed to be the happiest moments in a couples life... right? That was not the case for me (Kristen). Yes, there were amazing parts! Don't get me wrong. But, there were several days that taught me some HUGE lessons about trusting God.

If you desire to trust God in deeper ways, today's episode is for you.

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28 Feb 2022Please Pray for our Sister in Ukraine00:15:42

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I'm sure you are well aware of the situation in Ukraine. We have been on our knees the past few days for our sister (currently 38 weeks pregnant) and the rest of her friends/family in that country.

Here is a short update on how you can be praying for Ellissa and her husband Andrii.

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07 Mar 2022When a Breakup Leaves You Heartbroken00:38:41

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Ep. 067 - I thought I was going to marry this guy. How could I move on? How could I imagine a future without him? Worst of all... how could I ever date again? Breakups can be one of the most devastating moments in a woman's life. Breakups can leave one lonely, grieving and anxious about the future. I know, because I've been there many times. My breakup left me worry-ridden. I become overtaken with the sin of worry.

If you desire freedom from the sin of worry in your own life, I will show you how to get there. In today's episode, we're going to unpack what Scripture has to say about worry and how to walk in true freedom.

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14 Mar 2022God Are You Even Good?00:27:59

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Ep. 068 - Hard moments in life cause many of us to ask the question, "God, are you even good?" or "How could a good God let such evil happen?" Those are legit questions. They need answers.

In today's episode, Kristen and Bethany open up about the difficulty their families have been walking through. They never could have anticipated the War in Ukraine would impact them so personally. But, it has. Their sister fled the country at 38 weeks pregnant.

It's been scary. Hard. And heartbreaking.

Listen as they share what has kept them and their families anchored during these terrible times.

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21 Mar 2022Are Your Emotions CONTROLLING You?00:32:50

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Ep. 069 - The moment was perfect. Kristen was in the getaway car heading to her honeymoon. Life couldn't get any better. The emotions were joy-filled. She thought to herself, "Wow! God, you're so good." Little did she know the intense grief and heartbreak that was in her near future.

If you're wondering how to handle the highs and lows of your life in a biblical way, this episode is for you. Kristen opens up her story to offer hope to any woman who's wrestled with difficult feelings and hard emotions.

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28 Mar 2022Help! I'm Really Struggling to TRUST God00:30:20

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Ep. 070 - Let's jump back to the year 2014. This was the year that Girl Defined Ministries came into existence. Talk about a step of faith. We didn't know what in the world we were doing. We just knew that we needed to TRUST God and follow His leading. Is there something in your own life that you know you need to trust God with? Maybe it's taking a step of faith towards something. Or, maybe it's ending a bad relationship that should have ended a year ago.

In today's episode, we're going to unpack what it looks like to TRULY trust God even when its hard. Even when the future seems scary. Even when you're not sure what will happen.

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04 Apr 2022My Unexpected Path Toward Marriage00:26:34

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Ep. 071 - Imagine walking into a church and standing a few feet away from your future husband WITHOUT realizing it. This is Bethany's story. In 2010 she walked into a small church having NO idea she was about to meet her future husband. It would be years before God would bring them together.

During those years of her knowing David, but having no idea he was her future husband, Bethany struggled with her singleness. She struggled to trust God.

If you're in a season of waiting, this episode is for you. Join us as we uncover the purpose of each of our lives and unpack what it takes to truly thrive right where God has you.

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11 Apr 2022Bethany's Story of Miscarriage and Loss over the Past Year00:48:03

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Ep. 072 - It’s been a long year. I (Bethany) never imagined I’d be sharing a story like this one. I knew miscarriages could be a possibility, but I never imagined I would have three back-to-back-to-back. 

My faith has been challenged in new ways. My relationship with my sweet husband has grown and deepened because of these losses. 

I know God is good. I know He has a plan. I trust Him. 

I don’t know what the future holds. I don’t know why I’m having these miscarriages. I don’t know the answer. But, I'm researching. I'm seeing a great Dr. I'm taking all the steps forward to try and figure this out. 

Learn how to TRUST God with me. Learn how to believe that He is GOOD even in the midst of the hard.  Let's unpack what it looks like to find joy in the Lord in the midst of loss.

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18 Apr 2022When Guy DRAMA Gets Out of Control00:30:10

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Ep. 073 - Guy drama is a HUGE issue for many women. It can quite literally tear good friendships apart. Women who were once the best of friends end up going their separate ways... over a guy! Kristen and Bethany are no strangers to the drama of who-likes-who and the comparison that plagues many friendships.

In today's episode, they are going to unpack how to focus on and live for what truly matters. You don't have to let the good (or bad) going on in other peoples lives to ruin yours. You can thrive EVEN if your life isn't going the way that you wanted it to.

Let's dig into God's Word and figure out how to live fully for Christ, even when it's hard.

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25 Apr 2022Our Sister's Terrifying Escape From Ukraine and the Birth Of Her Baby with Ellissa Petrenko01:02:05

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Ep. 074 - It was a terrifying day for everyone in the country of Ukraine. The people of Ukraine woke up very early to radio stations and TV channels announcing that Russia had invaded their beloved homeland. Our sister woke up to sounds of bombing not far from her house. It was (and is) a literal nightmare.

We have the honor of hearing from our sister, Ellissa Petrenko, for her very first interview about that terrifying day (and the days that followed). Listen as she shares the five day journey of trying to escape the country, all while being nine months pregnant.

This is also a great reminder to continue praying for all the people of Ukraine. Pray first and foremost that they would come to know Jesus  in a personal way.

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02 May 2022Dear Single Sister, don't SETTLE for a guy who doesn't truly LOVE God00:42:58

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Ep. 075 - Don’t settle for a guy who isn’t interested in honoring God with his life.  No matter how cute or funny he is, it’s not worth it in the end. Settling is never worth it. 

Don’t lower the bar for a guy who’s cute and charming, but lacks godly character and a genuine love for God.⁣

⁣Don’t allow yourself to fall for a guy who makes you laugh, but cares only for himself. Don’t stay with a guy who says he loves you, but constantly pressures you to compromise. ⁣As satisfying as it might feel in the moment to be in a romantic relationship, the infatuation won’t last forever. ⁣

Wait for a man who will push you closer to Christ, rather than away.

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09 May 2022Why Premarital Counseling Should be a Must for Engaged Couples00:44:02

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Ep. 076 - Sadly, divorce seems to be the go-to option for many couples in our modern day. That's why we are passionate about equipping couples with the wisdom and tools needed to make it the distance. What if we told you that pre-marital counseling has the ability reduce your chances of divorce by about thirty percent. It's true! Simply by working through issues and preparing before marriage can set you up for success.

Today, we have therapist team Adam and Karissa King with us to share why premarital counseling is so crucial.

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16 May 2022How Do I Know If He's The One?00:36:33

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Ep. 077 - Have you ever wondered anything like this: “How will I know when I meet my future husband?” Or, “How will I know if he’s the one I should marry?” Or, “What signs should I look for to figure out who the one is?!”

These are popular questions. Chances are, you’ve probably asked some of them yourself. Trying to “figure out the ONE” is something we’ve asked ourselves over the years too.

However, instead of looking for a magic sign or an overwhelming feeling, we’ve discovered a better way to go about this. We’ve come up with several practical and helpful questions for discerning “the one.”

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23 May 2022How to Enjoy Sex as a Newlywed Couple01:05:09

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Ep. 078 - We are going there. We're having an open and honest conversation about sex as a newlywed couple. This has been a highly requested topic and we're excited to offer some practical, spiritual and insightful advice for this area of your marriage.

Today is extra special. We brought Francie Winslow from Heaven in Your Home to share her best advice on sex. We also brought Clint and Charity from Restored 2 More on the show as well. They shared such helpful and practical advice on this topic.

This is an episode you'll want to share with all of your married friends. It filled with  incredible biblical truth.

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30 May 2022Our Journey with Cancel Culture, Hate Videos, and Choosing Christ00:49:50

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Ep. 079 - We're sharing our journey of facing intense hate for our belief in Christ and unwavering stance on God's Word. It's been a CRAZY journey over the past eight years. We never could have anticipated the immense pushback we'd receive as a result for standing on biblical truth.

The worlds ideas and beliefs are constantly changing. God's Word never changes. His truth is constant. If you desire to stand up for truth (no matter the consequence) this episode is for you.


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06 Jun 2022Incredible Wisdom on Marriage & Motherhood with Susan Macias01:01:03

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Ep. 080 - Get ready for some mind-blowing wisdom on marriage and motherhood. We're hearing from Susan Macias on today's episode. She is a wife of thirty-seven years, mother of seven, and grandmother to ten. Her passion is to help you understand God's amazing design for marriage and motherhood. You asked your most pressing questions and she gave amazing answers.

This is Titus 2 in action. You don't want to miss this session between Kristen Clark and Susan Macias.

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13 Jun 2022“Freeze Your Eggs. Free Your Career.” The Alarming Trend of Putting Babies on Hold00:30:22

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Ep. 081 - The whole idea of freezing your eggs is becoming more appealing to women each year.  

Instead of being bound by her (God-designed) biological clock, women can delay having children until their 40s, without the worry of having to produce healthy eggs. The basic idea is that you freeze your strong eggs when you’re in your 20s, and then use them when you’re in your 40s.

Women, young and old, are loving this new freezing technology because it frees them up from having to “settle down” too early. They can pursue their career, delay marriage, be independent, and still have a chance to be a mom – on their own timeframe.

As Christian women, we have to view everything, including this egg freezing technology, through a Biblical worldview.

Let's take a deep dive in today's episode.

Girl Defined: God's Radical Design for Beauty, Femininity and Identity 

Sex, Purity and the Longings of a Girl's Heart: Discover the Beauty and Freedom of God-Defined Sexuality

Not Part of the Plan: Trusting God with the Twists and Turns of Your Story

Love Defined: Embracing God's Vision for Lasting Love and Satisfying Relationships

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20 Jun 2022Pride Month & The Christian Woman's Response00:48:46

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Ep. 082 - Rainbow flags have covered the nation and businesses have come out in full support of Pride Month. If you're a Christian woman, you're probably wondering how to love your neighbor without endorsing pride month. It's hard to know how to handle this "religious month long holiday" from a biblical foundation. 

The two of us are taking you on a deep dive of pride month. Let's unpack God's truth to gain a biblical response to this holiday. 

Girl Defined: God's Radical Design for Beauty, Femininity and Identity 

Sex, Purity and the Longings of a Girl's Heart: Discover the Beauty and Freedom of God-Defined Sexuality

Not Part of the Plan: Trusting God with the Twists and Turns of Your Story

Love Defined: Embracing God's Vision for Lasting Love and Satisfying Relationships

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27 Jun 2022Why Miss Universe "Inclusive Language" is so Damaging to Women00:37:43

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Ep. 083 - Miss Universe is the world's largest beauty pageant organization. You would think that they (above all other organizations) would be fighting for women and trying to protect them. Nope. Not the case. They actually released a post that suggests how to have more inclusive language when speaking about a woman and her period.

The post literally encourages people to remove the words "woman" and "female" from their vocabulary.

Is this healthy? Is this biblical?

Let's jump in and unpack this from a biblical worldview.

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Girl Defined: God's Radical Design for Beauty, Femininity and Identity 

Sex, Purity and the Longings of a Girl's Heart: Discover the Beauty and Freedom of God-Defined Sexuality

Not Part of the Plan: Trusting God with the Twists and Turns of Your Story

Love Defined: Embracing God's Vision for Lasting Love and Satisfying Relationships

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04 Jul 2022The Truth about Roe v. Wade, Abortion, and What This Means for Women with Kristan Hawkins00:46:13

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Ep. 084 - The overturning of Roe v. Wade has sent shock waves throughout all of America. Shock in a good way and shock in a bad way. Many Christians are rejoicing and praising God for the lives that will be saved as a result of this decision. Many other women are grieving what they view as a loss to their basic human rights.

Should we be celebrating? Should we be mourning?

And what in the world does the overturning of Roe v. Wade actually mean for women?

We brought an expert to help us truly understand how this monumental decision actually impacts women.

Personal Retreat Journal

Girl Defined: God's Radical Design for Beauty, Femininity and Identity 

Sex, Purity and the Longings of a Girl's Heart: Discover the Beauty and Freedom of God-Defined Sexuality

Not Part of the Plan: Trusting God with the Twists and Turns of Your Story

Love Defined: Embracing God's Vision for Lasting Love and Satisfying Relationships

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11 Jul 2022She Quit Victoria’s Secret Modeling to Live out Biblical Womanhood with Kylie Bisutti00:54:40

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Ep. 085 - At 19 years old, Kylie Bisutti became the number one googled person in entire world.

She had just won a worldwide Victoria’s Secret Modeling competition, beating out 10,000 women to ultimately land the opportunity to walk the runway in a Victoria’s Secret Fashion Show.

But, the glitz and glam wouldn’t last for long.

Behind the scenes, Kylie began experiencing the emptiness, darkness, and corruption of the elite modeling industry. As a Christian woman, she felt constantly pressured to compromise.

So, to the world’s shock, she made the incredibly courageous choice to walk away from everything. After leaving, she later posted a Tweet that simply said, “I quit being a VS model to be a Proverbs 31 wife.”

Let's hear from Kylie as she shares her story with us today.


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Girl Defined: God's Radical Design for Beauty, Femininity and Identity 

Sex, Purity and the Longings of a Girl's Heart: Discover the Beauty and Freedom of God-Defined Sexuality

Not Part of the Plan: Trusting God with the Twists and Turns of Your Story

Love Defined: Embracing God's Vision for Lasting Love and Satisfying Relationships

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18 Jul 2022Is Porn Wrong for the Christian Woman?00:29:41

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Ep. 086 - Lust isn't a guy problem. It's a human problem. That means that Christian women struggle with sexual sin as well. Yes, Christian women struggle with addiction to porn. You may find yourself viewing porn on a regular basis and wondering if it's okay. You may find yourself viewing porn and desperately wanting freedom.

Maybe you're not struggling at all, but you want a more biblical view of sex and your sexuality.

In today's episode, we're taking a deep dive into the dangers and harms of porn. We're also unpacking practical ways women can find lasting freedom. This episode is hope-filled and one every woman can benefit from listening to.

NEW Personal Retreat Journal

Sex, Purity and the Longings of a Girl's Heart: Discover the Beauty and Freedom of God-Defined Sexuality

Girl Defined: God's Radical Design for Beauty, Femininity and Identity 

Not Part of the Plan: Trusting God with the Twists and Turns of Your Story

Love Defined: Embracing God's Vision for Lasting Love and Satisfying Relationships

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25 Jul 2022Biological Male Gets Nominated for NCAA Woman of the Year00:42:07

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Ep. 087 - You read that right. A man has been nominated for the NCAA Woman of the Year award. This is a huge honor and one any biological woman would be honored to receive. But... no. There isn't room for real women any more. Men have entered the scene and they are taking over. They are literally erasing women before our eyes.

In today's show, we're discussing the sad story of Lia Thomas. A Biological man who recently transitioned into a "woman" and is now competing in women's sports. Many women (including his teammates) are outraged. And for good reason.

Let's unpack this from a biblical worldview.

NEW Personal Retreat Journal

Sex, Purity and the Longings of a Girl's Heart: Discover the Beauty and Freedom of God-Defined Sexuality

Girl Defined: God's Radical Design for Beauty, Femininity and Identity 

Not Part of the Plan: Trusting God with the Twists and Turns of Your Story

Love Defined: Embracing God's Vision for Lasting Love and Satisfying Relationships

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01 Aug 2022Is Modesty Still Relevant for Christian Women?00:36:43

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Ep. 088 - Modesty is one of those topics that most Christians won't touch with a 10ft pole. It's controversial. It's divisive. It's confusing. It's just hard to talk about.  We get it. That's why we haven't talked about it much over the past few years either. That all changes today though. We're jumping back in the deep and going there. We're having the hard conversation.

Don't worry. We're not giving a list of "rights and wrongs" or "do's and don'ts." We're going deeper. We're talking about the heart. We're talking about the gospel. We're talking about when clothes were invented.

Today's conversation is one you don't want to miss.

NEW Personal Retreat Journal

Sex, Purity and the Longings of a Girl's Heart: Discover the Beauty and Freedom of God-Defined Sexuality

Girl Defined: God's Radical Design for Beauty, Femininity and Identity 

Not Part of the Plan: Trusting God with the Twists and Turns of Your Story

Love Defined: Embracing God's Vision for Lasting Love and Satisfying Relationships

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15 Aug 2022Masturbation and the Christian Woman's Struggle to Find Freedom00:57:53

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Ep. 090 - This wildly popular episode is back for a much needed replay. If you’re a girl or woman who has struggled with any sort of lustful sin habit, you’re not alone. Millions of Christian women (single and married) are facing similar temptations every day. And by God’s grace, many of them are finding freedom and victory over their struggles! I (Kristen) am going to be very open and transparent in this post because I want you to know that Christ has the power to help us overcome our sin and to find lasting victory.

In today's episode, I'm going to share my story of struggle with masturbation and offer you the biblical truths that I believe can set any woman free.

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22 Aug 2022Drag Queens are a Complete Mockery of Women00:31:42

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Ep. 091 - What is the deal with Drag Queens? It's like they've tripled in numbers over the past few years and have taken front and center on the stage. Even parents are taking their young children to hear drag queens read children's books.... and watch them twerk. This is NOT okay. Drag Queens are an insult to women and a complete mockery of God's design for womanhood.

In today's episode, we're unpacking the many reasons why Christians should reject Drag Queens and take a bold stance against this movement.

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05 Sep 2022LGBTQ and Same-Sex Attraction with Dr. Rosaria Butterfield01:12:32

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Ep. 093 - This wildly popular episode is back for a much needed replay. Dr. Rosaria Butterfield was an English professor at Syracuse University, specializing in queer theory, lobbying for LGBTQ+ groups, was in a committed lesbian relationship and living the life she thought would bring her true happiness. Until the day she was confronted with the true gospel of Jesus Christ. In an effort to prove Christianity wrong, Dr. Rosaria read through the Bible seven times looking for flaws and issues with the Word. 

The opposite happened though. Through the love of other believers and the power of the Holy Spirit, Rosaria’s heart was changed. In today’s episode, you’ll hear Rosaria’s testimony and the truth of the gospel that set her free and changed her life forever.

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08 Aug 2022Bethany's Exciting Pregnancy Announcement & Personal Life Update00:26:39

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Ep. 089 - It's time for a VERY exciting announcement. Many of you have followed my life journey here on Girl Defined. I started out talking about singleness and how to thrive in that season of life. I then took you on my dating and engagement journey with my now husband Dav. Motherhood followed shortly after marriage and you were right there with me. Sadly, three miscarriages came after that.

Today, I get to share some amazing news with you. I am twenty weeks pregnant with my sweet baby GIRL! Jump into today's episode for all of the details.

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29 Aug 2022The Most Unexpected Path of Suffering and Choosing Joy in Christ with Nicole Jacobsmeyer00:44:30

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Ep 092 - Does life ever seem unfair to you? Do you ever wonder why certain people seem to get an extra dose of suffering? In today's conversation with Nicole, we're going to hear one of those stories of overwhelming suffering. Nicole opens up and shares about the raw and vulnerable moments in her life. The moments she wasn't sure she'd actually make it through. The moments she thought it just might be the end of what she could handle.

Let's listen as Nicole shares her story of hope in Christ in the midst of the pain.

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13 Sep 2022How Motherhood has Changed our Priorities in Ministry00:48:52

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Ep 094 - The two of us found ourselves without children for all of our thirties. That gave us plenty of time to focus on Girl Defined Ministries and all that running a non-profit entails. The past two years changed all of that though. We both became mothers and our lives suddenly looked very different. We wondered, "How can we balance both motherhood and running a ministry?"
 
 It's been a journey of figuring it out. Here's what we've learned so far and how we balance it during this season of motherhood.

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19 Sep 2022The Top 10 Questions to Ask in a Dating Relationship00:33:23

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Ep. 095 - Dating should always be done with intention and careful consideration. Dating should always work toward answering the question, "should we get married?" A successful dating relationship either moves forward toward marriage OR ends because you've discovered it's not the right thing.

What questions should you ask to help you figure out if he's "the one?"

Here's a list of the top ten questions to help you take your relationship to a deeper level.

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26 Sep 20228 Reasons I'm Not a Feminist00:30:51

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Ep. 096 - If you are familiar with our ministry you know that, we created GirlDefined Ministries to help girls “get BACK to God’s design.” As a whole, Christian girls are really struggling to understand what God’s design is for their lives and how to practically live that out.

In short, we don’t believe feminism is the answer to our womanhood questions.

Yes, feminism has done some good over the years, but by and large it has left women more confused and unfulfilled than ever before. Why? Because whenever you try to define the creature apart from the Creator, you end up with problems. Feminism is an entire belief system and worldview built by women in an attempt to redefine womanhood.

Let's jump in to today's episode and unpack 8 reason I'm not a feminist and why you shouldn't be either. 

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03 Oct 2022How Purity Culture & Sex Education Failed Us Miserably with Kristen Miele00:51:17

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Ep 097 - Purity culture gets a major bad rap amongst millennials who grew up in the church.  I get that. Purity culture had some major pitfalls and did a lot of damage. But, what about public health sex education? What about the sex ed class you took in school? It's time to give both purity culture and sex ed their fair evaluation.

In today's episode we are chatting with public health expert and founder of Sex Ed Reclaimed, Kristen Miele. She's been in the public health space for over 12 years and has some major concerns.

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10 Oct 2022Rethinking Birth Control, Family Planning, and When to Have Babies with Candice Watters (Part One)01:08:40

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Ep. 098 - Have safe sex. Don't get pregnant. And build your career. That's the mantra women have been told from the time they were teen girls. Birth control is the go-to prescription to assist in this process of raising career minded women who put family on the back burner.

This entire way of thinking needs to be tossed out and rebuilt.

That's where Candice Watters comes in. She brings a perspective to family planning that is sure to make you question everything you've though over the years. She takes you to Scripture and shows you why the world's way of doing things isn't best or God-honoring.

It's time to rethink birth control, family planning, and when to have babies.

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17 Oct 2022Rethinking Birth Control, Family Planning, and When to Have Babies with Dr. Gordon (Part Two)01:24:18

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Ep. 099 - The history of "the birth control pill" is something most women are not familiar with. Most women simply listen to their Dr. (without question) when they're told to get on the pill for one reason or other.  Oral contraception has become the go-to for preventing pregnancy with little understanding of the potential negative health impacts to the woman taking it.

We've brought on expert, Dr. Leah Gordon to talk all things birth control, oral contraception and the history of the pill. This conversation will make you squirm and blow your mind all at the same time.

Let's jump in and learn the truth about the birth control pill.

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23 Oct 2022Answering Your Assumptions About Us00:33:17

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Ep. 100 - Lets celebrate the 100th episode with an extra special conversation. We've covered some pretty intense topics over the lifespan of this podcast. Masturbation, feminism, birth control, drag queens, marriage, biblical womanhood and more. It's time to take a little break and have some fun.

In today's episode, we're answering your assumptions about us! Everything from "Bethany is the black sheep of the family" to "you two are leaving Girl Defined." Let's dive into what's true and what's not!

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31 Oct 2022How Do I Know If I Have the Gift of Singleness?00:41:38
07 Nov 20225 Things Christian Women Do Not Want00:28:35

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Feminism has been the loudest voice in culture for women. Feminism acts like ALL women want abortion, autonomy, careers, power over men and more. But is that really true for ALL women? No.

We took a poll on Instagram and you all submitted things you DO NOT WANT. Things like "hustle culture" and "being a boss babe." If you value femininity, motherhood, and chivalry, this episode is for you.

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14 Nov 2022Popular Advice Christian Women Give that's Actually Unbiblical00:28:55

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Ep. 103 - Christian women are notorious for giving "feel good" encouragement. It might not be true. It might not be biblical. But, it makes us feel good in the moment.

"You're enough."
"Your turn is next!"
"You'll get that baby soon."
"Marriage is in your future."
"Good things are coming your way."

These all sound nice and great and make me feel good... but are they true? Are they biblical?

In today's episode, we're unpacking why this "fluffy feel good" advice is more damaging than helpful.

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21 Nov 2022Answering Your Hush-Hush Questions About Sex00:28:09

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Ep. 104 - Christian women often feel extremely uncomfortable talking about sex. It seems there is an unspoken rule to keep everything super "hush-hush." This is ridiculous. Most women have big questions about sex and we (as Christians) should be the first to talk about this area of life. God designed sex. There should be no shame in trying to understand the ins-and-outs of His good design.

In today's episode, we're unpacking your biggest questions about sex & intimacy (all from a biblical worldview).

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28 Nov 2022Same-Sex Attraction and the Christian Woman with Ellen Dykas00:48:58

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Ep. 105 - Enjoy this incredible replay. Same sex attraction is a topic we've been wanting to cover for a long time. Many of you have DM'd us asking us to bring biblical truth and gospel centered hope to this conversation. We know this can be a very sensitive topic... that's why we've waited this long to bring the right person onto the show. Ellen Dykas has spent years loving and ministering to women who are wrestling with this struggle.

If you desire hope and freedom with your own same sex attraction, this episode is for you. Ellen Dykas spends the last portion of this episode answering your direct questions.

We pray this episode points you to Christ and shows you the hope that is found in Him.

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05 Dec 2022Is it Awkward Being a Virgin on Your Wedding Night?00:44:51

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Ep. 106 - Enjoy this replay. Almost every young Christian woman asks this question at some point in her life. Saving sex for marriage sounds great, but is it really great? OR is it mostly super awkward and weird? Is saving sex for marriage actually worth it? Does God really care that much?

In today's episode, Kristen and Bethany share their own stories of saving sex for marriage and answer this question from personal experience. They also share multiple resources that can be super helpful in mentally, emotionally and physical helping you prepare for your own honeymoon one day. Whether you're single, dating, engaged, or married, this is an episode every girl/woman won't want to miss.

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12 Dec 2022Marriage and Family Life After Adoption with Zack and Kristen Clark00:32:34

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Ep. 107 - It’s been over a year since Zack and Kristen brought their boys home from Ukraine and finalized the adoption. Life has been full, fun, and wild with lots of joys and some challenges. In this down-to-earth conversation, they share openly about how becoming an “instant family” has impacted their marriage, and what life looks like today as a family of four.

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19 Dec 2022Our Most Favorite Family Christmas Traditions with Kristen & Bethany00:21:58

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Ep. 108 - It's the most wonderful time of the year. This is the time where we get to celebrate the birth of our Lord and Savior. Where would any of us be without His amazing birth, life, sacrifice, and resurrection? This is why we celebrate big. Family. Traditions. Food. Gifts. All the things.

This episode is filled with fresh ideas to make this Christmas season special.

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16 Jan 2023What Homosexuality, Transgenderism, and Abortion Have in Common with Professor Nancy Pearcey00:57:29

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Ep. 110 - Enjoy this replay! It often feels like having an open and honest conversation about homosexuality, transgenderism, and/or abortion, is off limits. If the thoughts don't line up with the cultural norm, you better keep them to yourself. Despite the pressure to stay silent on these issues, we're not staying silent. There is too much at stake.

God's Word isn't silent on these topics and neither should we be.

In today's conversation, Professor Nancy Pearcey, brings her wisdom and expertise to the conversation. She unpacks what homosexuality, transgenderism, hookup culture and abortion all have in common. She shows us why our Designers intentional plan for our body matters. She tackles this tough topic with grace and love.

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09 Jan 2023Where Feminism Came From and its Radical Impact on Womanhood w/ Mary Kassian01:01:34

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Ep. 109 - As Christian women of this modern generation, we breathe the air and ideology of feminism without even realizing it. What's normal today (sexual autonomy, gender fluidity, cohabitating) wasn't normal a few decades ago. Our view of femininity and womanhood has been radically impacted by feminist thinking in more ways than we often realize. In today's episode, we're taking a deep dive into this topic with popular author and Bible teacher, Mary Kassian. 

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23 Jan 2023Former Drag Queen Ditches Mascara for Biblical Manhood w/ Blake Howard01:16:32

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Ep. 111 - Today we're talking to Blake Howard, a man who was once a drag queen and living his life as an openly gay man. He shares how his homosexual relationships and drag performances provided temporary happiness and purpose, but ultimately left him feeling more alone and empty than before.

Blake shares his journey of finding Jesus and ultimately leaving everything behind to pursue Biblical manhood instead. 

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30 Jan 2023Sex Questions Married Women are Too Afraid to Ask with Francie Winslow00:50:33

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Ep. 112 - Married women have tons of burning questions about intimacy and sex. "Where did my libido go the second I got married?" and "I've never had an orgasm. How can I overcome this?" and "How to know what's okay in bed and what's not?" The list goes on. Christian married women need help, direction and hope in this area. Google isn't cutting it. We need real advice from a real sex expert.

Join us today as we ask Francie Winslow many crucial questions about married sex.

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06 Feb 2023Christian Dating Done in a Radically Better Way w/ JP Pokluda00:47:24

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Ep.  113 - *Enjoy this replay! After ministering to singles for over a decade, JP Pokluda knows what it takes to date with success as a Christian. He’s seen the pitfalls and struggles firsthand and is here to offer you a radically better way to date. 

In today’s episode, JP brings powerful insight and wisdom directly to the Girl Defined Sisterhood! He covers everything from the pitfalls of modern dating, what to look for in a guy, how to know if you have the gift of singleness, how to ask your boyfriend if he struggles with porn, physical attraction, arranged marriages, and much more. 

Don’t miss this incredible conversation as JP helps you date intentionally and find love that lasts.

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13 Feb 2023Our Best and Worst Valentine's Days EVER (in Singleness and Marriage)00:27:48

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Ep. 114 - Let's be honest. Valentine's Day isn't always what it's cracked up to be. Regardless of what we see on the Hallmark Channel, rarely do things turn out that perfectly. In singleness, we often feel bummed because we don't have that special someone. Then in marriage, we often feel bummed because our special day isn't turning out to be as romantic as we'd imagined!

We can attest to feeling both of these ways. In today's episode, we're going to spill the beans and tell you about our worst and best Valentine's Days ever. Then, we're going to get honest about how we can all benefit from pursuing a more Christ-centered "Agape love" this Valentin'e Day and ditching the shallow version of "Hallmark Love."

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20 Feb 2023Sharing Jesus with Women in Strip Clubs w/ Rachelle Starr00:59:43

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Ep. 115 - Imagine walking into a strip club for the first time with one simple goal - to share the gospel with the women who work there. This is exactly what a woman named Rachelle Starr has been doing for years now. Her heart is burdened and broken for the thousands of women who find themselves (for one reason or another) stuck in a repetitive cycle of working in the sex industry.  You will be blown away by what God is doing through Rachelle's work as the gospel of Jesus pierces some of the darkest industries on our planet.

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27 Feb 2023Rejecting Legalism, Bill Gothard, and the Theology of Her Childhood w/ Jinger Duggar Vuolo01:07:53

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Ep. 116 - Growing up in a family with 19 kids and living most of her childhood on reality TV, Jinger Duggar Vuolo has a unique life to say the least. Millions of people loved watching the 19 Kids and Counting show, but often wondered why the Duggars had such strict rules about modesty, romantic relationships, and music. Most people had never heard of a man named Bill Gothard, but behind the scenes, his teachings were the driving force behind the Duggar's ultra-conservative lifestyle.   

As an adult now, Jinger has been on a journey of her own, questioning the rules and theology of her childhood. Rather than throwing out her faith altogether, she's seeking to disentangle the lies from the truth. Today, we get to chat with Jinger firsthand and ask her all about her new book, Becoming Free Indeed: My Story of Disentangling Faith From Fear.

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06 Mar 2023When You Can't Break Free from Sexual Sin00:28:49

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Ep. 117 - Have you been wrestling with a specific sexual sin and can't seem to break free? No matter how hard you pray or read your Bible, the sin persists? As a Christian woman, this can feel extremely discouraging. You might even begin to doubt if freedom is  possible. If that's you (or someone you know), then this episode is for you!

Although sin is strong...Jesus is stronger! Don't give up hope. Jesus wants freedom and victory for you. His power is made perfect in our weakness. By His grace, you can walk the path of freedom from sexual sin.

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13 Mar 2023Rebelling Against Mediocre Motherhood w/ Abbie Halberstadt (M is for Mama)01:03:03

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Ep. 118 - She has 10 kids and is only 40 years old! She homeschools, writes books, potty trains, hosts a podcast, and still goes on weekly date nights with her husband. Say whaaat?? Meet Abbie Halberstadt, the woman behind the popular Instagram account called "M is for Mama." She's a mom on a mission leading thousands of women in a rebellion against mediocre motherhood. And she wants us to join her!

Let's talk all things motherhood, raising kids, prioritizing marriage, getting in the Word, managing our homes, self care vs. soul care, and more! Whether you're a mom or not, you'll find this episode super encouraging.

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17 Mar 2023Bethany's Three Hour Home Birth with Baby Audrey00:53:58

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Ep. 119 - I had been planning a home birth since I found out I was pregnant with Audrey.  The birth tub was ready to go and I felt mentally and physically prepared. I woke up on December 22nd to the exciting realization that baby girl was COMING. My water was breaking and I knew that meant her arrival was going to happen one way or another.

The next twelve hours went nothing like I had planned. That's because absolutely nothing happened. My water broke... but that was it. No contractions. NO progress. Nothing. I was beginning to feel stressed out. Thankfully my midwife came over and we came up with a plan.

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27 Mar 2023From Fairytale Romance to Marriage Disaster with Dr. Glenn & Phyllis00:49:48

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Ep. 120 - They met at a summer camp in the Carolina mountains at age 15 and 16 in 1978, then married four years later. Little did they know how ill-prepared they were for marriage and the first five years were horrific, with continuous disconnection and pain.

It took MANY years of relational suffering for the Dr. Glenn & Phyllis to finally discover tools that worked for their marriage.

They share their wisdom, expertise and hope-filled story in today's episode.

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03 Apr 2023Getting Good at Cleaning, Organizing, and Managing Your Home w/ Deb VonBergen00:39:49

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Ep 121 - When it comes organizing and managing the home, most Christian women feel overwhelmed and underprepared for this daily task. As a result, we find ourselves constantly frustrated OR feeling indifferent to the piling dishes and never-ending laundry. Maybe what we all need is a little heart adjustment followed by a big dose of practical skills, tips, and training. 

As a self-made organizing guru, Deb VonBergen is here to help us all! Whether you're single, marriage, have kids or don't, this episode has something for every woman who desires to manage her space well. 

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10 Apr 2023Our Most Open Marriage Conversation Yet w/ Dav and Bethany00:50:16

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Ep. 122 - You've been here with us through our dating, to engagement, to marriage, to having babies and now to this. We've been pretty open about our marriage...but this is the MOST vulnerable we've ever been with you.

We're answering these questions: 

  • Does it bother Dav that you talk so openly about sex online? 
  • What did you think of your age gap at first VS now?
  • How do you resolve conflict and do you do it away from your kids? 
  • What do you and Bethany disagree on and how do you handle the difference of opinions? 

And more.

We're excited to share our lives with you and hopefully encourage you in the process.

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17 Apr 2023Why We're Not Declaring Our Personal Pronouns00:45:53

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Ep. 123 - Enjoy this replay. Gender pronouns are all the rage right now. Instagram has even updated their bio feature to include your pronouns as a feature of who you are. Youtube will kick you out if you do not refer to someone by their preferred pronouns. Commercials have resorted to actors verbally communicating their pronouns so that everyone knows who they are.

Guess what? We're not a fan of this movement. We think the issue of pronouns is a big one. We need something more helpful than pronouns. Let's unpack what God's Word has to say and see if we can find lasting answers to the question "Who am I?"

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24 Apr 2023OnlyFans and the Sexualization of College Girls00:32:55

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Ep 124 - The content subscription platform OnlyFans exploded in popularity during the pandemic. Many college aged girls found themselves home from school, out of work and desperate for money. This new London based platform promised easy money for sexy pics. Many young women decided to jump in and give it a go.

Sadly, OnlyFans takes most creators MUCH further than they ever imagined they'd go. Many promising to never post nudes found themselves needing to post x-rated content to make ends meet. Let's unpack the negative impact this has had on many modern women.

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01 May 2023Body Image Struggles and the Christian Woman00:28:18

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Ep. 125 - Growing up in a family with five sisters gave us tons of room for comparison. We're all different heights, weights, body types and just look different. We all had to work hard to appreciate and THANK God for our differences.

In today's episode, the two of us open up about our own insecurities and how we've handled body image issues as christian woman through the changing seasons of life. 

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08 May 2023Lust and Sexual Fantasy as a Married Woman00:26:43

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Ep 126 - Many married women find themselves having intercourse with their husband physically, but they're a million miles away in their minds. 

Sexual temptation doesn't disappear when you get married. The lustful heart that was there before marriage is the same lustful heart that goes into marriage. This isn't a comfortable or easy topic. Opening up about sinfully lusting and fantasizing about other men isn't easy.

Let's jump into this uncomfortable but needed conversation. 

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15 May 2023The Unrealistic Standard of Perfection on Women00:36:49

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Ep. 127 - Enjoy this replay. Finding purpose, worth, identity, and true joy are core desires of every woman. Sadly though, many of us are finding ourselves in a place that is void of the very things we long for. This is because we’re looking to ourselves and the world for answers about our purpose, worth, and identity as women rather than God’s Word.

We need to remind ourselves that God is our loving creator and has an amazing plan for our lives as females. Our deepest desires will only be realized when we fully surrender our lives to God and get back to His timeless design for our womanhood.

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22 May 2023Is Watching Porn Less Sinful Than Committing Adultery? w/ David Beal00:48:58

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Ep. 128 - A prominent conservative recently made some comments about porn that got everyone talking. Many started discussing whether viewing porn was an okay substitute for actually going out and cheating on (committing adultery) your spouse.

Do men  need sexual variety and therefore need porn as a way to handle their sexuality well?

Is porn an okay addition if you and your spouse have a committed relationship?

Should you be thankful your husband is viewing porn rather than sleeping around?

Let's unpack all of this and more with Bethany's husband, David Beal.

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29 May 2023Target Stores go ALL IN with the LGBTQ Revolution00:30:20

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Ep. 129 - Target stores nationwide have fully embraced the gender confusion mania with their new "Take Pride" apparel line. I walked into a store this week to check things out for myself. I saw female-style swimsuits which offered a "tuck option" along with an extra wide crotch for biological males. I saw graphic tees geared toward teen girls featuring large print that said, "Busy thinking about girls." But the worst products by far were the rainbow colored BABY bibs and onesies with text like "I am PROUD of you always." 

How should we respond to this? How should we navigate this Biblically? As shocking as Target's bold displays are...what if this is simply the natural next step for a society that has rejected God as the Creator? Let's unpack this together.



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05 Jun 2023The Female Obsession with Botox, Fillers, and Cosmetic Surgeries00:28:38

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Ep. 130 - Women have become obsessed with physical perfection. Filters on social media are no longer "enough." Millions upon millions of women have decided to alter their physical bodies to achieve a certain look.

Nose jobs. Lip fillers. Breast implants. Butt lift. Buccal fat removal. The list of procedures that women get done are endless.

It's time to take a step back and take a look at cosmetic procedures from a christian worldview.

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08 Jun 2023Girl Defined's Response to Shiny Happy People00:44:27

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A new documentary series covering all things IBLP and the Duggar family has many people talking. The two of us are weighing in to share our thoughts. 

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12 Jun 2023The Dangers of Secular Manifestation and Girl-Bossing w/ Tara Sun00:39:00

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Ep. 131 - There’s a lie masquerading as truth that’s running rampant in our culture. It goes something like this: you are powerful enough to control your circumstances and create the life you want through positive thinking, solid planning, and dreaming big enough.

But if you’ve ever tried to control your life or to strive your way to self-fulfillment, you’ve discovered what lies on the other side of this supposedly empowering message: frustration, exhaustion, and disappointment when things don’t go your way.

In today's episode, Tara Sun explores why the quest for control is overrated—not to mention downright dangerous—and reveals the surprising, life-giving alternative: radical surrender to God.

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19 Jun 2023Masturbation: A Conversation for Single & Married Women00:49:37

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Ep. 132 - Masturbation is a topic that Christian women typically do not discuss. Sadly, the silence surrounding this topic has only confirmed in women's minds that, "I must be then only woman in the world struggling with this!" That is not truth though. Kristen has also bravely shared her own story many times in the past to help you know that you're not alone and that freedom can be had.

Let's take a deep dive and unpack this conversation and all of the nuance it holds.

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26 Jun 2023Should a Woman Take Her Husband’s Last Name?00:29:09

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Ep. 133 -  While the Bible does not give a direct command on this subject, it does have a lot to say about marriage. Marriage is a covenant between one man and one woman forever before God. It is a picture of Christ and the church. A husband and wife become one flesh.

Does that mean a woman should take on the man's last name though?

Let's take a deep dive and figure this out  together.

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03 Jul 2023The Toxic War on Masculinity w/ Nancy Pearcey01:02:23

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Ep. 134 - Men are under attack in our society. They're viewed as a cancer to be eliminated. Feminine GOOD. Masculine BAD. Are men really as toxic and evil as we've been told? Are there any respectable men left? In today's conversation we talk with Professor Nancy Pearcey about the TRUE war on masculinity and the insightful research that has been hidden away.

Bottom line. There is hope. Good men exist. Listen to the conversation to find out why this is true.

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10 Jul 2023Is it Wrong to Not Want to Have Kids?00:28:27

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Ep. 135 - Can you imagine being honored and rewarded for LIMITING the amount of children you have? This is the reality in America. Get this, "Prince Harry told British Vogue in 2019 that he and Meghan Markle would have two children maximum. Harry said it was an environmental choice, which was recognized by charity Population Matters. The couple were awarded $695 to give to a charity of their choice for their "enlightened decision."

Is it really an enlightened choice to LIMIT having children? Let's find out.

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17 Jul 2023A Theology of Your Period and Why it Matters w/ Rachel Jones00:42:27

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Ep. 136 - One the most unique aspects of women all around the world is her uterus. This aspect of our anatomy sets us apart from men in a very clear way. We're reminded of this piece of our womanhood every single month when we're greeted by 5-7ish days of bleeding. Have you ever wondered why God created you with a period?

In today's episode we're taking a theological look and your period and unpacking why it matters to God.

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24 Jul 2023Why So Many Christian Women are Struggling to Makes Friends00:27:41

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Ep. 137 - Loneliness is a huge problem for thousands of christian women across the world. Have you ever felt left out, alone, forgotten or just excluded because of your beliefs? We live in a  world that is overly connected through the internet and under connect in real life. Christian women need in-person relationships and community to thrive in God's design. God made us to live with one another. Community is a part of God's good plan.

In today's episode, we help you practically figure out how to develop genuine friendships with other christian women.

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31 Jul 2023Why Barbie is a Boring Feminist and Ken Steals the Show w/ Dav & Bethany00:43:26

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Ep. 138 - Barbie has overtaken the world with her pink outfits, blonde hair, and handsome low commitment fragile blonde boyfriend. The trailers and teasers captivated the world causing the movie to explode opening weekend. The movie was definitely packed with surprises...and not good ones. The movie had a strong agenda and basically used barbie to get its message across. It was less about Barbie and more about very specific talking points.

In today's episode, Dav and Bethany unpack the movie and share their pros and cons.

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07 Aug 2023My Husband is Struggling with Porn and I Don’t Know What to Do! w/ Jonathan Daugherty00:54:45

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Ep. 139 - Porn is rampant and destroying peoples lives. It can be extremely uncomfortable to discuss the topic of porn. Many wives don't want to know if their husband is struggling. It feels too big and too hard to deal with. Today's conversation is filled with guidance and direction from a husband who once found himself enslaved with sexual addiction. His story of freedom in Christ will bring you hope to your own relationship.


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14 Aug 2023Why Womanhood is so Much More than an “Adult Female Human”00:50:34

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Ep 140 - What does it mean to be a woman? Some have answered this question with a simple "an adult human female." Is that sufficient though? You were created to be uniquely different from a man. Every fiber in your body speaks to that reality.  You were made female on purpose and for a great purpose. Your gender speaks to God's beautiful calling in your life. Let's dig into the Word and discover exactly what that is.

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21 Aug 2023Finding Freedom From Porn, Masturbation, and Erotica00:42:16

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Ep 141 - Sexual struggles are rampant amongst christian women. Sadly, women are often left to fend for themselves and figure it out with google. The shame and embarrassment of feeling like she is "the only one" is not helping either. Women need answers. They need help. They need freedom.

In today's episode, Kristen gets raw and real about her own past struggle with masturbation and shares the practical steps she used to find lasting freedom.

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28 Aug 2023Kristen Shares about Mom Life, Raising Boys, and Keeping God at the Center00:44:35

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Ep. 142 - Motherhood is a beautiful blessing and an incredible challenge all at the same time. Kristen opens up and shares about the past two years since adopting her boys from Ukraine.  She shares the practical things she does on a daily basis to disciple her boys in the Word and show them the love of Christ every single day.

Motherhood has its hard moments and having a deep relationship with Christ is the key to loving well during those moments.

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04 Sep 2023Rethinking Birth Control, Family Planning, and When to Have Babies with Candice Watters (Part One)01:08:40

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Ep. 143 - Enjoy this replay episode. It was so good we had to bring it back. Have safe sex. Don't get pregnant. And build your career. That's the mantra women have been told from the time they were teen girls. Birth control is the go-to prescription to assist in this process of raising career minded women who put family on the back burner.

This entire way of thinking needs to be tossed out and rebuilt.

That's where Candice Watters comes in. She brings a perspective to family planning that is sure to make you question everything you've though over the years. She takes you to Scripture and shows you why the world's way of doing things isn't best or God-honoring.

It's time to rethink birth control, family planning, and when to have babies.

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11 Sep 2023Rethinking Birth Control, Family Planning, and When to Have Babies with Dr. Gordon (Part Two)01:24:18

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Ep 144 - Enjoy part two of this replay series. The history of "the birth control pill" is something most women are not familiar with. Most women simply listen to their Dr. (without question) when they're told to get on the pill for one reason or other.  Oral contraception has become the go-to for preventing pregnancy with little understanding of the potential negative health impacts to the woman taking it.

We've brought on expert, Dr. Leah Gordon to talk all things birth control, oral contraception and the history of the pill. This conversation will make you squirm and blow your mind all at the same time.

Let's jump in and learn the truth about the birth control pill.

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18 Sep 2023Why Society Hates Strong Men And Why We Desperately Need Them w/ Owen Strachan00:29:54

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Ep 145 - Do evil men exist? Yes. Are all men toxic? No. We live in a society that actually hates strong men. "Toxic manhood" has become a buzzword that now encompasses all forms of male strength, leadership, and masculinity. The feminist movement promoted this mindset by declaring men as the primary source of women's oppression and unhappiness. And the battle rages today.  

But is this what we want? A society without any masculine and strong men? Dr. Owen Strachan doesn't think so.  In fact, he believes a society without strong men will become a society dominated by evil men. 

In today's conversation, we unpack how we, as modern Christian women, can use our influence to promote and encourage godly masculinity in the lives of the men around us. 

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25 Sep 2023Is it Awkward Being a Virgin on Your Wedding Night as a Christian Woman?00:44:51

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Ep. 146 - Enjoy this replay! Many Christian women wonder if being a virgin on their wedding night will be awkward. Saving sex for marriage sounds great, but is it really that great? OR is it mostly super awkward and weird? Is saving sex for marriage actually worth it? Does God really care that much?

In today's episode, Kristen and Bethany share their own stories of saving sex for marriage and dig into these questions from personal experience. They also share multiple resources that are helpful in mentally, emotionally, physical, and spiritually preparing you for your own honeymoon one day. Whether you're single, dating, engaged, or married, there's something for everyone in this conversation.

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02 Oct 2023Would You Invite an LGBTQ Person Out to Coffee? w/ Andrew T. Walker00:38:53

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When it comes to LGBTQ people and conversations, how often do you engage as a Christian? The truth is, most of us have NO IDEA how to engage in these crucial conversations in a way that's loving, thoughtful, Biblical, and truthful.

And so we don't.

Our guest today is here to HELP US. Andrew T. Walker is the author of the book, "God and the Transgender Debate: What Does the Bible Actually Say about Gender Identity?"

He's the type of Christian who actually invites LGBTQ people out to coffee because he genuinely CARES about them. And he's going to show us how to do the same. 

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09 Oct 2023We've Changed our Mind on Modesty00:32:04

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Ep. 148 - Modesty put Girl Defined on the map way back in the day when we first launched this ministry. Girls went crazy for our posts and videos on this topic. We ended up creating an ebook "Project Modesty" and hundreds of you bought it.  Fast forward a few years and all of our old modesty content has been removed (by us) and we've ghosted you on the topic.

We're breaking the silence and sharing the honest truth about how and why we've changed.

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16 Oct 2023Men and Women have Different Sex Drives and Hormones FOR A REASON w/ Dr. Patrick00:57:23

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Ep 149. - Do all men actually crave sex ALL of the time? Is a man UNHEALTHY if he doesn't want sex? Is it true that a woman's sex drive tanks after she gets married? The questions about sex and hormones are endless. That's why we brought on the "hormone whisperer" to help sort through all of the cultural stereotypes and assumptions about men and women.

In today's conversation, Dr Patrick Flynn is bringing mind blowing truths about men, women, sex and hormones. 

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23 Oct 2023When Kristen Almost Dumped Zack Because He Drank Beer00:30:22

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Ep. 150 - When Kristen heard that Zack drank a beer while they were dating her jaw hit the floor. She was a staunch "no alcohol" girl and thought Zack was too (only a staunch no guy). This brought up some intense conversations and forced both of them to take a deep dive on what the Bible actually says about this subject.

Let's discuss how we as Christian women should approach the topic of alcohol from a wise and balanced view point.

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30 Oct 2023The Dark Side of Surrogacy and Women Renting Out their Wombs w/ Ericka Andersen00:48:17

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Ep 151 - The surrogacy industry has boomed over the past decade. The rich and famous have started to rent out the wombs of other women in order to maintain their bodies and fast paced lifestyle. Why carry your own baby when another woman can do it for you? There are some serious concerns about this new way of bringing babies into the world. The dark side of "womb renting" isn't something many are willing to be honest about. But, women deserve to know the truth.

We brought on expert Ericka Andersen to share the truth about surrogacy.

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06 Nov 2023Should Christian Women Post Seductive Selfies?00:29:13

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Ep. 152 - The booty pics. The cleavage pics. The showcasing the feminine form pics. We've all seen them. We may have even posted them. Some of us have even attached a Bible verse as the caption. The seductive selfie has become a staple for many women's social media feeds. These pics get the likes. They get the attention. It's no wonder many women love to post them. 

Should we as Christian women post seductive selfies? 

Let's dive into this question on today's episode. 

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13 Nov 2023How Do I Know If He's The One I Should Marry?00:36:33

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Ep. 153 -  We hope you enjoy this replay. Have you ever wondered anything like this: “How will I know when I meet my future husband?” Or, “How will I know if he’s the one I should marry?” Or, “What signs should I look for to figure out who the one is?!”

These are popular questions. Chances are, you’ve probably asked some of them yourself. Trying to “figure out the ONE” is something we’ve asked ourselves over the years too.

However, instead of looking for a magic sign or an overwhelming feeling, we’ve discovered a better way to go about this. We’ve come up with several practical and helpful questions for discerning “the one.”

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20 Nov 2023What Single Women Can Do to HELP Marriage Happen w/ Candice Watters01:01:47
27 Nov 2023Why Are So Many Women Having An Identity Crisis?00:51:35

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Ep. 155 - Enjoy this replay. The word identity has become one of the biggest buzz words of our day. Our modern culture is passionate about spreading the message that our truest identity can be found within ourselves. We’re told that who we are has nothing to do with God, but everything to do with us. As we live in the midst of this popular narrative, we need to remind ourselves that our truest identity doesn’t come from within, but from within God’s design for us.

If we want to experience true freedom and confidence in who we are, we must look to our Creator to define us. He is a good and loving Father and has a beautiful design for our femininity. At the end of the day, our greatest joy and purpose doesn’t come from within, but from knowing who we are in Christ, and then living faithfully in that identity for God’s glory.

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04 Dec 2023Why Single Women Desperately Need Sexual Mentorship00:34:40

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Ep. 156 - We surveyed hundreds of single women for our book Sex, Purity and the Longings of a Girl's Heart. The answers were unanimous. Single women desperately need help, guidance and mentorship. They shared their struggles with porn, erotica, masturbation and said that they don't know who or where to turn for help.

Married Christian women should be the FIRST ones to reach out with Biblical hope and truth. Married Christian women need to proactively mentor single women in this area.

If we won't do it, the world will.

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11 Dec 2023Stop Telling Christian Women the Lie "You're Enough"00:28:55

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Ep. 157 - Enjoy this important replay. Christian women are notorious for giving "feel good" encouragement. It might not be true. It might not be biblical. But, it makes us feel good in the moment.

"You're enough."
"Your turn is next!"
"You'll get that baby soon."
"Marriage is in your future."
"Good things are coming your way."

These all sound nice and great and make me feel good... but are they true? Are they biblical?

In today's episode, we're unpacking why this "fluffy feel good" advice is more damaging than helpful.

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01 Jan 2024Standing Bold in God’s Design for Your Femininity00:38:29

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Ep. 158 - It's easy to be a fearless Christian woman around people who agree with you. But, what about those settings where people disagree? Are you willing  to stand up for God's design at work, school, and on social media? Are you truly willing to live an unashamed life of the gospel of Jesus?

It's time to link arms and live bold and courageous lives for Jesus. Let's unpack exactly what it takes to be a fearless woman of God.

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08 Jan 2024How to Discern a Guy's True Character00:44:23

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Ep. 159 - Marrying a man of godly character sounds great...but how can you know if he's ACTUALLY a godly man? 

You need answers to questions like,

“What kind of character does this guy have?”
“Where is his heart in regard to what God’s Word teaches?”
“Does he genuinely love the Lord, and is this evident in his actions?”
“Does he uphold God’s Word as the greatest authority in his life?”

In today's episode, Kristen and Bethany unpack what it takes to truly get to know a man so you can make a wise relationship decision. 

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15 Jan 2024Should Christian Women Read Colleen Hoover's Books?00:38:25

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Ep. 160 - Colleen Hoover has exploded onto the scene over the past few years. She is a multi New York Times bestseller and has even outsold the BIBLE. This author has captivated women across the world. Much of the controversy amongst Christian women has been around the erotic scenes in her books. Many say they're pornagraphic and downright sinful.

If you've heard of or have read Colleen Hoover's books, this episode is for you!

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